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116

He only married her because he thought that meant he could get it anytime he wanted. Then he got mad at the sex doll because it malfunctioned and failed to fix his self inflicted problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 06:48 PM
8

The pink tax. We get swindled at every turn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 01:29 PM
47

Surrogacy is a hard no for me. Paying to borrow a woman’s body? He might as well have mentioned occasional use of prostitutes. That just leaves a bad taste in my mouth. The kid thing is a big red flag. He wants several but plans to push the hell out of one of them and doesn’t care about the rest? Like another commenter said, I think he has no qualms about being abusive, because in his mind that’s not abuse. The mom situation is weird, too. Something else is gonna pop up soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 06:57 AM
114

Girls are easy to manipulate. That’s their main goal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 02:23 AM
11

I hate the penis prod. If I’m in the mood you’ll know it, and if I’m not you better work for it. I don’t understand why they think it’s an automatic turnon for women? It feels like an insistent needy whine, but without sound. It’s so irritating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 03:48 AM
23

If I must, I scramble my egg in the pan with a silicone spatula. I cannot deal with people who have to use bowls and whisks (so annoying to clean!) for a plain egg because they lose it if they see white on their egg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 03:15 AM
60

finding that someone else ate something that I was saving for later or used the last of something without telling me. Do they also use your pricey brand name organic stuff (or alternative stuff when you’re on a special diet) and replace it with a dollar store version and say you’re overreacting because “it’s the same thing” except it’s somehow NOT the same thing when both versions are in the pantry but somehow they always go straight for your fancy one and leave the shitty one, so they can also …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 03:10 AM
101

I can relate. Men are often disgusting and the worst of them take pride in it and we should accept it because otherwise they’ll just grow boobs or the peen will fall off, or whatever they think will happen if they wipe their feet properly. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 02:59 AM
75

I wasn’t mad, but it always ended with them actually making me mad. 🙃 And so what if I was mad sometimes? Let me have my emotions, ffs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 02:51 AM
22

I think it’s MMA where a man tackles the other and basically humps him into the ground? Then the humper wins. Super hetero.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 08:22 PM
50

There was a woman commentator hired for a male sports team a while back and men LOST THEIR DAMN MINDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 08:17 PM
44

Like with rhythmic gymnastics, men get long pants that cover their entire legs and women are always having their butts visible. Appallingly, all too often not just women but children (always female), with their butts hanging out. Figure skating is another sport that icks me the way little girls are dressed. Wasn’t there a woman from a professional volleyball team fined for daring to wear shorts that covered her ass? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 08:14 PM
6

This is much needed. How many shows and movies I start watching and 10 minutes in…ugh. I can tell what type of man wrote it. 🤮 I think it would be nice to set a day when we can discuss a particular show/movie and how it upholds FDS standards, or tries to brainwash us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 05:34 PM
106

No, they just have an inflated sense of self and think women are basically children who need to be taught things. Yay misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 12:48 PM
45

I think it’s a boomer who not so secretly hates young people tooting his own horn, “We’re the only ones who work hard!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 12:44 PM
26

I guess they have to pick the millennial side or boomer side. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 12:42 PM
41

Idk even #3 is too much reluctance for me and it’s a red flag. He’s making time waiting for me to offer? Hell no. I would put that in the bad ending spot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 08:41 PM
108

I think it’s cute when it happens, but not sexually appealing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 12:57 PM
39

Women are always in demand because at any stage of life we benefit men, at any stage of their life. I’m sure she still looks great and hope no one tells her to “dress her age.” 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 12:55 PM
124

Fantastic post. 👏👏👏 For years I’ve been feeling like I’m taking crazy pills because all you’ve said makes sense, I see it everywhere and people (mostly men) are trying to gaslight us. All this nonsense about “what, you don’t enjoy being assaulted during sex?” or “men are better women than women” (cosplaying), or “what do you mean you want to get paid as much as a man who is half as qualified as you?” Are you kidding me!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 06:28 PM
17

At the of the day, if a women gets cheated on, it’s because a man is thinking with his dick, nothing more, nothing less. Exactly. Beyonce getting cheated on has nothing to do with Beyonce, and everything to do with her cheating partner. The only thing you could fault her for is staying with a man who cheated on her. I’m not a huge fan and don’t really follow celebrity gossip so I had no idea she was such a pickme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 07:40 PM
53

Considering the thorough way women are conditioned to trust that men are overall good and worthy, I think what happened instead of all those men flipping after marriage, is that a lot of those women missed a bunch of red flags. We know the mask drops but it usually happens after a few weeks or months. Only sociopaths make it last so long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 12:48 PM
28

And promoting pedophilia. Y’all remember that Cuties promo debacle? Apparently the movie was decent, IDK, I didn’t watch it because of the way it was advertised: Netflix showing shots of a bunch of 10 yr olds twerking half naked on stage. I forget what other screenshots they used, but it was similarly awful. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 12:28 PM
2

Yeah, it’s not necessarily malicious all the time. Sometimes they’re just toxic AF and need years of therapy, not a girlfriend. They will bring you down to their level. Get rid of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 04:00 PM
95

Maybe I’ve forgotten some subtleties, or maybe there aren’t any, but my issue with Jessica Jones is that she has the superpower that men idolize and respect, and she solves all her problems with her fists. I think they tried to do the whole “women aren’t all girly” thing but they overcorrected and, in my opinion, she’s straight up a man in a woman’s body. Edit: or the ultimate NLOG.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 08:48 PM
132

His gift to her was not actively k!ll!ng her after she saved all their asses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 05:50 PM
3

these are the same men who'll complain about immigrants invading their countries to rape "their" women and children. Any insult, accusation, or racist shit a NVM spews out, remember that it’s always ✨projection.✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 01:59 PM
25

she’s giving you way less grace then she’s giving men she’s known for a literally one night Peak pick-me behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 09:30 PM
86

I think it’s more likely they say they’re taking it but don’t because boohoo side effects, then they get a woman pregnant. They already don’t care about that as they don’t have to deal with the consequences of pregnancy, and pull a houdini when the baby arrives and it’s time for responsibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 12:27 PM
26

When LVM want to learn about a topic not because they want to understand your point of view, but because they want ammo to argue with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 12:49 PM
28

Men hate anything women like and are passionate about, if that thing doesn’t revolve around men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 12:46 PM
134

Like he just forgot that cheating is bad and he needs a gentle reminder, and a free pass. And when he cheats again, just lovingly remind him why it’s a naughty, naughty thing to do. Again. 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 03:25 PM
51

I was watching the netflix documentary on porn “hot girls wanted” and they said something like most new girls only make it about 3 months before essentially no one’s interested anymore, unless they jump to the more risky stuff. Sickening. And for what, a few thousand dollars that evaporates in drugs and club parties, while they live like crackheads?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 05:40 PM
13

All women are either current or potential property in the eyes of NVM. That’s why they punch women who say “no thanks” to a date with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 03:46 PM
53

No one listens to our pain unless we angrily react to the person hurting us. Then we get told we are overreacting. Endless levels of gaslighting. At every level of our lives: family, friends, bosses, media. No wonder so many women never see the (real) light. I’m glad to see more women getting angrier every day. We won’t get any real change until the majority of us put our foot down. Of course in many places of the world women are no better than animals and threatening them or even irreversibly h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 10:03 PM
298

Oh yeah, because calling misogynists “a misogynist” really shows them. He would’ve definitely gone home to rethink his hatred of women if she had gone that route. 🙄 It’s so patronizing. Who cares? Yes, deep down he is an “awful irredeemable woman-hater.” Misogynists never change so kick them where it hurts. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I’m loving some of the comments clapping back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 06:04 PM
13

If the main reason you want a man is to become a mom, you’re not missing out by being a single mom. Most men are either absolute trash dads, or bare minimum dads. It doesn’t matter if they say they “really want a kid/family” once the kid is there you’re most likely on your own. I think having a kid by yourself will prevent you being blinded by your need to beat the biological clock, and settling for a bad quality man. So many women (hi there!) have fallen for this. Personally, I think a man who …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 04:24 PM
13

He likes music and food. What a unique individual. Such a catch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 04:12 PM
8

Maybe boring is code for “did not put out on the first date while fawning over any mundane thing I said.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 02:17 PM
4

It’s not like you can use him for his body then leave at the drop of a hat when you’re bored and not have developed feelings, like men do to us. Women don’t work like that. We actually have empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 02:14 PM
11

Like, a man who is dumb enough to marry for looks can't exactly be Einstein reborn There it is. 🤣 Maybe all dude wants to talk about is nascar, fishing, strippers, or how he’s gonna ✨make it big one day✨ by doing absolutely nothing. You never know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 12:45 PM
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the fact that they hate women so vehemently should be cause enough for alarm. The only logical explanation why they don’t think it’s a big deal, is if it’s because most men already hate women. Nothing to see here, folks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 01:38 AM
99

What I’ve learned from this is: men put up with the worst behavior from a woman they think is super hot. So why should I, a pretty woman who’s also a decent person, settle for less than queen treatment? It’s not like I need them anyway. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 10:42 PM
7

Insinuating you should just suck it up forever because that was your (bad) decision. So I made 5 bad decisions in a row. Now I realize they were stupid decisions. I’m supposed to keep digging down? Get with a man and people act like you adopted a child and you’re stuck now. “But where’s he gonna go?!” He’s a Grown Ass Man! The fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 05:40 PM
162

Privileges? I guess it’s drugs? Idk what else frat boys would have to offer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 05:12 PM
51

Projection. Even in a shitty relationship men are still winning. Not having a woman in their life is worse for them than any relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 07:42 PM
47

My family and I have some allergies, so I’m doing a bit of research and learned that you have to be careful buying plants that are known to be good for the environment, cause it’s the females that are cleaning up your air, while the males produce and throw around a bunch of spores that aggravate your allergies. Why was I not surprised?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 05:39 PM
78

Unless it's your Dad or brother.✨ DON'T! ✨ Only if they’ve proven themselves to be decent people who have your back. A lot of immediate family members just exist alongside you and play the “but I’m FAMILY, blood is thicker than water, blah blah” card when they’re in need. Houseplants add more to your life than some family members.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 03:06 PM
157

If men could be surrogates, I don’t believe they would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 01:16 PM
145

He’s either breaking up with her when all the reddit advice to guilt her for sex fails, or she’s getting a shut-up-wedding-ring, and then what? A husband who resents her. She needs FDS to see all the signs and break up with him. You can’t force a man to do shit. If he wanted to, he would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 01:05 PM
21

I think there’s two different ways to enjoy a show like this. You either enjoy it because you feel some sort of kinship/connection to the characters, or you hate-watch. I can only hope the majority of people hate-watch this trainwreck. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 01:54 AM
35

It’s against all laws of nature seeing a bunch of beautiful women peacocking in front of a guy, and fighting over him? It’s so weird to me, I don’t get it. He’s so average-to-ugly looking, too! That just makes it more mind boggling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 01:46 AM
21

Like a real life Barney Stinson. What a sociopath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 06:04 PM
89

Lol they still think they’re the nice guy even after spewing a bunch of vitriol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 03:58 PM
65

I was thinking that he would expect her to pay with sex, but yeah, that too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 12:21 AM
20

Her career will take a lifetime hit for those 6-12 months and she’s only asking for him to help out financially with the postpartum months. This is what the queens mean when they say “you can’t go 50-50 on childbirth!” This is how ALL of these 50-50 scrotes think. Don’t procreate with them. Don’t even entertain them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 12:01 AM
11

Lean into it and the trash will take itself out cause they give up trying to manipulate you? That’s a pro move. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 07:15 PM
50

They can’t separate the fictional character from the real person. Like people who insult and antagonize actors who play the bad guy in shows and movies to the point the actor practically goes into hiding, cause they can’t even run errands without vitriol from total smooth brains. And not that it’s the only thing that matters but his wife is still beautiful, just so happens to not be a size 4. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 06:07 PM
8

I’ve seen mangy dogs with better hair distribution than prince William’s. Don’t these bastards have enough money to fix that? Jude’s hair loss over the years was so painful to watch. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 09:32 PM
6

I guess he’s reached the point he can’t even get women to stop and give him directions, so he’s decided he’s willing to “settle” for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 09:27 PM
4

I’m thinking about those dudes who are shiiiny on the top, so they chose to sport a long ponytail from the hair that grows out the sides and back. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 09:21 PM
13

It’s that delusion that men age gracefully and women don’t. So like any age related thing that happens naturally to men (dadbods from low metabolism, balding, “gray fox,” wrinkles, etc) is totally sexy. 🤨 I’m surprised they haven’t tried to sexify erectile dysfunction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 09:14 PM
30

Who is telling you that was a terrible thing to do? Squatters need to GTFO. Even if she was paying rent, if she’s not on the lease and you don’t want her there for whatever reason, she needs to go. You don’t need to explain yourself. The only people you’re responsible to house would be your own minor children. Everyone else can figure their shit out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 08:36 PM
83

I can imagine hearing his scrotery now; if it takes more than one try to get the sister pregnant, well, that’s a sacrifice he’s willing to make.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 08:02 PM
42

They list off all the ways he’s an objectively horrible human being except they wrap it up in a bare-minimum-expectations sandwich. “He’s a great guy! He’s employed, it’s just that he cheats on me and kicks puppies on the weekends, BUT he wipes his own ass. So really, he’s a great guy deep deep down.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 06:49 PM
19

Exactly. This is why he needs an assistant to microwave his frozen burrito.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 02:26 PM
39

Didn’t Tony Stark start off rich? I’m sure he never tried to “hire” an assistant with no pay. Dude’s mentally ill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 02:25 PM
53

And you wouldn’t “lose out” on the next Zuckerberg/Musk dudebro. You would just be the starter wife who built him up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 02:18 PM
68

Pickmes love sloppy seconds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 01:23 PM
13

It’s a nice little case study on what our haters are like. It’s almost sad. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 04:09 AM
3

Except they don’t want you to just wait, they also expect you to put in the work for him. That’s a no, then a hell no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 03:58 AM
15

And being unable to keep it together that you wake up everyone in the house and the neighbors at 2am cause you’re yelling obscenities and smashing the keyboard. 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 03:20 PM
6

Those all sound really fun. Except sewing which I might find tedious, but it’s such a handly skill that I’ve been considering it on and off, especially when I see the amazing things cosplayers and people who sew old-timey pieces make (like Bernadette Banner). 🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 03:17 PM
26

And FDS women are shamed for wanting a man who’s mentally stable! What did that vice article call us, ableist? Some of these men are totally unhinged and we don’t know how far they’ll go when things don’t go their way. We’re literally saving our lives by avoiding these trainwrecks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 01:31 PM
11

They’re seriously like vampires. Or some other type of parasite leaching our life force.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 03:28 AM
10

That’s so funny. I’d love to see it. I can just imagine men getting the nervous sweats when a woman is not showing emotions. My mom and I are too expressive. We can’t even control our exaggerated expressions. I’m trying to gain control of my face cause it’s gotten me in trouble sometimes, but my mom has given up. She doesn’t GAF if you can tell she doesn’t like you. 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 03:24 AM
19

By the looks of it she’s gonna be worse than lonely with that douche around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 03:44 AM
57

This is how Joe (from Netflix’s “You”) feels about the women he meets. It should be a parody how men see their dream girls and then get bored when they have her, but I don’t think the show is this self aware.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 02:02 PM
5

Yes, I don’t drink around strangers anymore. But of course there’s only so much we can do. I can’t help but think of that poor woman who was in a coma and raped by the nurse who was supposed to take care of her. They only found out about the rape when she gave birth. And he was sentenced to a few years. Horrendous. Same as mentally disabled children and adults being so much more likely to experience abuse and rape than the general population. You’re right, these vermin love to go for anyone who …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 06:33 PM
7

That’s cause they don’t want to admit it could be THEM. Gives them leeway to do nasty shit. Easy to shift the blame onto “others” and never look at their own questionable (at best) behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 05:04 PM
73

Nah, those women feel the contempt emanating from him and run the other way, as they should! But also, yes, I’m sure he’s shooting for no less than “solid 10s.”😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 02:26 PM
234

This is why you don’t “give an ugly man a chance.” They fucking HATE you and will make you pay for all the rejections he’s had from other women throughout his life. He may possibly treat you ok for a couple of weeks before the resentment he’s been tamping down breaks out. Misogyny is not treatable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 01:44 PM
47

Women are never believed. So idk what are all these scrotes going on about “false rape accusations are ruining lives.” Please. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 08:35 PM
158

It does not help anyone except the pimps. Decriminalizing “sex work” has been proven to increase illegal sex trafficking, because now the traffickers can easily hide in broad daylight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 08:24 PM
138

Yes. My friends and pets actually like me. 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 12:21 AM
183

“I want a doormat, ok? Thanks”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 12:19 AM
89

Men are 5 or 6 times more likely to leave their sick wife, than a woman leaving her sick husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 02:36 PM
10

Idk, Joaquin is giving me grandpa vibes in that pic. But yeah he’s not much older than me and I would look like his daughter next to him, too, and I’m not even rich. They should be ashamed to look that bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 01:51 PM
73

Men can be peeing blood and they wouldn’t want to see a doctor. It’s probably the porn. But if he’s in the bathroom why doesn’t he wash off instead of going through all that TP? I guess he doesn’t care since she’s paying for that, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 03:27 PM
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Ashley Madison's…provides a much-needed service for lots of folks. It would be so much more productive to say, “What might we adjust or address that might lessen the rates of folks feeling like this is something they have to do?” Wow. Yeah, I don’t need to read any more propaganda from a pickme, thanks. 🤢 So, that nonsense reminded me of the Lundy episode where he says people are all twisting themselves into knots about interpreting “the abuser’s feelings” when it’s not the feelings that are cau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 04:00 PM
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No hate but, I would like to change that further to “female child” or even simply “child.” “Underage women” is the term that patriarchy articles and news like to use when film producers rape children. “He had sex with an underage woman.” 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 01:32 PM
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His disdain for her is palpable. Along with his expectation that she must look nice for his coworkers otherwise it reflects badly on him? In his eyes, she’s just a very useful object. He got what he deserved. This guy is like the men who marry and have children with women they hate, just because the women make their lives so much better. Ungrateful and selfish parasites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 12:47 PM
68

Oddly this reminded me of a time some fool who didn’t know me asked if I had gained weight since high school. I’ve always been quite skinny and had actually lost weight at the time. So weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 12:42 AM
7

Typical “I’m not calling you a retard, I’m just saying everything you do is retarded.” 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 01:47 PM
4

That’s right! So he’s gotta be like 5’5” max 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 02:18 AM
9

Oh he’s 5’9”. Now I see why he’s so angry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 01:38 PM
18

Some people (you can guess who) say I’m being sexist when I make this comparison but, it’s not a coincidence that this is a female dominated field and this type of treatment is “expected”. Compared to a male dominated field like say, cops, and see what happens if you look at them wrong. We should push for charges of felony to those who assault people who are trying to LITERALLY KEEP YOU ALIVE and watch harassment drop so fucking fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 05:49 PM
21

Your “soft“ mania dude would be a Bipolar 2. People with Bipolar 1 can have full blown manic episodes that can land them in the hospital. As a sufferer of ADHD, I can tell you there’s no cycles, unlike with bipolar. For me it’s a constant struggle of: wanting to overspend (I want everything in 2’s, I don’t know why I feel I need a backup for everything), blurting things out, reminding myself to stay focused on a conversation, checking the stove at least twice before I leave, etc. It sounds a bit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 03:56 PM
50

Maybe they already tried growing a beard and holding up a fish but it didn’t work out for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 02:53 PM
23

I was gonna say, all these stories sound like manic episodes. Or just seriously immature men. Like I don’t see a big deal if it’s someone who just graduated high school and they have no kids, no job (or like they temp at McD’s), but grown ass men? Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 02:52 PM
55

Girl. The scrubs are LVM magnet. I can’t go anywhere wearing them without being hit on by bottom of the barrel men. “You’re so beautiful.“ Wow, really? I’m wearing baggy scrubs and you can’t even see my face. I guess they think a nurse is selfless enough to wipe their ass while also having the money pay his bills. 🤮 edit: also healthcare professionals are not supposed to date their patients! Huge no-no. They even have class lectures about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 02:37 PM
79

My problem with those men and cultures of the past is that those men wanted to fuck little boys, not other gross, old men. 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 09:53 PM
16

I think (hope) they just do it as publicity tactic. I wouldn’t expect this from a normal (non-famous) couple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 03:15 PM
49

Looking for a free-range pickme to tolerate my ethical non-monogamy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 10:57 PM
24

Never underestimate pickme stupidity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 10:55 PM
19

Same thing happened with my FWB when I was around 19-20 yrs old. I don’t understand how, I must’ve been brain damaged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 03:17 PM
8

I’m like the crab from Moana. “Shinyyyy” 🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 04:27 AM
52

There was a bit in one of my psych books, The involuntary nature of the disorder is stressed in an effort to alleviate the sexual partner’s perception that this occurrence is an act of willful withholding by the woman. This was regarding vaginismus so she is in physical pain but oh no, we have to reassure the man that she’s not “withholding” sex. As if it’s something owed to him in the first place. WTF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 03:13 PM
14

And say she blindsided him when she tells him to GTFO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 02:59 PM
59

Bet this golddigger convinced her of the “benefits” of living together vs her getting a roommate, “honey, we can see each other all the time and help each other with rent, it’ll be great” and now he’s acting like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 02:45 PM
171

They’ll do everything except what we tell them to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 01:39 PM
47

“Positive effect on wellbeing.” What about the wellbeing of the women getting raped? 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 08:39 PM
107

Accuses you of gold-digging when you laugh in his face and leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 08:30 PM
30

All I remember is he cheated on her and made it HER problem. She was taking care of literally everything with little to no help from him, including taking care of his cognitively disabled mother, so obviously she didn’t want sex. He just had to cheat, then he says something like, “you HAVE to forgive me” so everything can get back to normal, like it’s her issue to work through?! 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 01:56 PM
35

I fucking hate “I” statements. Yes, let me reframe your shitty behavior as “our” failure. 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 01:06 AM
10

What? Blocking someone is not having a “complete mental breakdown.” Omg what a tool. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 11:40 PM
49

So what would this clown say about the daughter deciding to suck dick in an alley for heroin in used needles? “Whatever makes you happy, sweetie!” As long as some dude gets his dick wet it’s a-ok. 🤮 You know he’s a broke-ass who wishes he was in this cheater’s also broke-ass shoes, telling this woman to not worry about the money (so hey, spend your money on this tool). Remember men always defend the depraved situation they wish to be in so that other men will do the same for them. The amount of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 02:07 PM
27

Omg look how unreasonable he’s making her sound. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 01:58 PM
12

Thank you for the one about the cat. Omg I was laughing so hard things started to hurt. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 05:51 PM
26

Oh, he’s one of those “it takes two to divorce! 😭” dudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 05:48 PM
29

I feel like somewhere around there is a pickme screeching, “What a great idea! I’ll buy your lightbulbs, too, cause I’m not a golddigger!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 02:30 PM
185

And therefore, in his eyes, deserving of whatever sick shit he’ll do to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 02:03 PM
5

Ah yes, I’ve heard single mothers referred to as “damaged goods” which really tells you everything you need to know about that person. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 09:11 PM
8

What a nightmare! Sometimes it feels like we’re living in (a really bad) Wonderland where everyone’s nuts. Regardless of race, men get away with waaaay too much, anywhere. Much more than any woman would. That’s what the patriarchy was made for! That’s why it’s so important to learn some serious FDS vetting strategies. I’m scared of dating any man, honestly. They can easily and all too willingly ruin our lives or even take our lives. 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 03:59 PM
107

Who is hated the most, teenage girls, single mothers, or childfree women? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 12:12 AM
18

Yes, that’s actually a red flag for me. I think it’s ok being on “speaking terms” with exes, as in, not parted in animosity, not bearing ill will towards them, so you can theoretically get that thing back from them you forgot when you left. But to me being *friends* with exes means that even with platonic intentions (which I don’t believe most men capable of) they’d be checking in with them every now and then, or inviting them to things, or using them as emotional support, and that’s a hard pass…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 06:07 PM
14

Aren’t all men in power pedos?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 01:44 PM
55

I don’t want to see what these dads call “clean.” It holds a different meaning for a man and a woman when they’re cleaning. But trust that men can see what clean really means, they’re just lazy. Glorified babysitters, indeed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 04:44 PM
77

My ex expressed interest in possibly being a SAHD one day. My eyes popped out of my head and I’m embarrassed to say I didn’t dump him right there. I used to have a regular, steady job at the time that he would turn his nose up at, and I would come home to piles of dirty dishes and more, while he “worked” from home. He admitted he gamed often during the day for “mental well-being”. He rarely had enough to pay the monthly bills. Be careful of any man who wants to be a SAHD because they’re very, ve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 04:37 PM
20

They will never know the burden of the mental load even if he is competent. I think this is hardwired into women through socialization. As soon as we’re with someone we feel more responsible to care for them, so even subconsciously we start thinking about their health appointments and their comfort. This is not so for men, so while they’re fully relaxing or at most thinking about the bills (just as we also are) they’re not fully thinking about us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 12:47 AM
138

Every time a woman compromises, she’s just doing what the man wants. No compromises in my own space, thanks. And I agree with you, being questioned on my lifestyle decisions, “when are you going to xyz?” fucking sends me. 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 12:39 AM
78

Reminds me of a guy in his 30s who made a post about how pissed off he was that the teens and early 20s women in da club where ignoring him, and dating guys their age. But look how much he can lift, guys, why aren’t the college girls impressed?!? 😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 12:42 AM
95

No no. Men say they’re in their PRIME in their 60s. Prime retirement age, if you ask me. Edit: Legit seen articles claiming they do peak in their 60s. Looking like a damn galapagos tortoise. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 12:33 AM
5

This is hilariously accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 10:33 PM
20

I find it interesting that men as a whole avoid marriage, even when they’re the only ones who benefit. Meanwhile, we’re the ones brainwashed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 07:38 PM
178

For women who don’t know what an orgasm feels like, if you think you may have had an orgasm, you didn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 05:08 PM
32

I’m conflicted because it seemed like they’re endorsing it but also they threw some subtle jabs in there, like panning to the toy collection when he’s comparing himself to an alpha wolf or whatever, and when they suddenly cut from her pained face when she’s asked about the other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 11:10 PM
11

And they also don’t want to be single because they’d give up the convenience of always having a vagina ready at home, and a sucker to cook for him and make his doctor appointments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 10:53 PM
13

I think the stepdaughterfucker you’re referring to is Elon Musk’s father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 10:38 PM
67

Trash bag found the landfill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 10:36 PM
10

Those demons are too good looking tbh. The quote was ::chef kiss::
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 10:34 PM
69

He obviously only views his wife as an appliance. That’s so sad. This is probably the type of man who would say to FDS women “you’ll die alone” but this is the other option? I’d rather be alone than spend my last years with a man who cares so little for me, thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 10:30 PM
123

But they’re always watching “stepsister porn” so that doesn’t really mean much does it? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 01:36 PM
35

Can’t she get a restraining order on him? Jeez
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 07:05 PM
47

I wish it were just “you can be pretty.” They also sexualize children by selling dress-up dolls with baby faces but drawn-on fishnets, corsets, etc. Like the racier Victoria’s Secret lingerie. And let’s not forget the stripper heels. 😡 I thought it was cute when I was younger and naive but now I see things clearly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 07:12 PM
50

Crazy that this is genuinely how “nice guys” think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 03:50 PM
22

“You’re one of the good ones.” 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 01:00 PM
362

I still have flashbacks of “I changed his diaper for you” ::expects praise:: You mean you changed our son’s diaper as a personal favor to me? Wow thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 06:01 PM
38

Lots of low value people out there, unfortunately. Every time I think I’m making new good female friends they spit out some trash like “women are too emotional” or “men are discriminated against” or “false rape accusations” or some weird BDSM shit and I have to bail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 06:06 PM
92

Sounds like some type of antisocial personality disorder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 05:32 PM
6

Yes, and LVM think they’re being victimized when a woman requests a female doctor or nurse, or because a woman needs to be in the room when a man intimately examines a female patient. Male nurses are practically guaranteed jobs over female nurses, and better pay than female nurses, and faster career advancement, but it’s the men who are victimized, ok? 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 09:39 PM
11

My toddler was scheduled with a male therapist a few times. I requested (and was ready to demand or leave with him if denied) to be present in those therapy sessions. No way in fucking hell will I ever leave my child alone for 30 minutes in a closed room with a man I don’t know. NVM can cry “sexism” all day till the cows come home (stbx included). Until men turn this shit around and start holding each other accountable, I’m not gonna give a shit about their feelings. Not gonna happen. It’s unbel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 09:21 PM
20

Negging in the first message and coffee date for the first date. No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 09:35 PM
11

She should send him a prostitute. Y’know, go all in. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 08:00 PM
36

Just like being rich doesn’t make someone HV, being poor doesn’t make someone LV. But having a minimum wage job while you continue your education, improve your marketable skills, volunteer at charities, or simply because you want to spend more quality time with family, etc. is one thing. Having a min wage job so you can play video games all day while you’re surrounded by plates with 3 day old pasta is something else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 06:54 PM
11

Ugh I can’t stand these guys. They’re gonna change the world with their get-rich-quick schemes…. one day. 🙄Conversations with these guys are so dull. They all think they’re like closet geniuses but they have a double digit IQ, and are lazy to boot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 06:41 PM
245

Men are hypocrites. They will cry out opposing abortion, then turn around and demand an abortion from women they got pregnant but don’t want children with (the mistress or whoever they suckered into a situationship). I know too many men like this. 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 04:11 AM
62

That’s the thing. I find it funny that pro-lifers are all like “Abortion is murder! But it’s ok to have an abortion if the woman was raped or if it’s incest. We’re not monsters after all.” So what, suddenly the fetus is not a life and it’s not murder? Like, pick a lane folks. That’s just another way you know what it really is. Misogyny. Slut shaming. Punishing women when they decide to have sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 01:58 AM
90

A man who has already put you in the "meh"-zone but keeps you around to fuck will not suddenly decide you are his dream girl after all. Never going to happen. Exactly. A lot of women will put in so much effort to convince him that she’s the one. Men are not the prize!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 02:29 PM
66

Right, it’s either a fully POC cast or the token POC who’s always a weirdo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 06:17 PM
76

I remember they even made parodies of these horrible teenage movies about a decade ago. Take off her glasses and ponytail and suddenly she’s hot!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 06:09 PM
20

Treating men like bumbling idiots or helpless children. So sexy, right? 🙄 How do these women maintain libidos for men like that? And you know he was badgering her for sex asap and complaining about his needs while she’s seriously injured.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 04:42 PM
32

I’ve never heard of most of these but Tracey Ullman's Visible Panty Lines Umm, what? Hotter Than My Daughter Excuse me?! There’s so much to unpack in that title. 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 03:59 PM
37

I really feel like he meant two as in ever, not 2 every time they have sex. Men are that far removed from reality. In that case, not cruel at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 06:31 PM
41

Some initial observations: She’s pretty. She’s certainly better looking than him. He’s got the most reflective noggin I’ve ever seen. What is that scraggly beard hiding? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 06:13 PM
40

Idk, if they can’t reproduce and baby-trap a woman, I call that a win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 06:06 PM
29

If they find a woman who settles for all the initial hot mess, what wouldn’t she put up with? They’re looking for victims who will never leave them, I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 06:04 PM
78

“Settle for me cause no one else will find you attractive” is what he was going for. You really missed out on that gem. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 06:01 PM
80

If only your index wasn’t longer than your middle finger. Sigh. 😔 True story though, there was something stupid like that going around, where men were saying if a woman’s ring finger was longer than their index or some shit that meant she was secretly a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 05:53 PM
90

Case in point, they use the phrase “suck my dick” as an insult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 07:38 PM
34

Oh wow I couldn’t even figure out what the purpose of that was, my initial thought was that he has a personality disorder. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 07:33 PM
11

Constant heartburn and getting winded (I mean, absolutely done for the day) after a flight of stairs. I don’t miss it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 02:37 AM
110

In the brosexual’s eyes, the bros are human beings and therefore deserve respect and consideration, while the women are simply objects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 07:59 PM
17

All I’m reading is, “I’m lazy, broke, and stupid.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 07:02 PM
28

A traditional bangmaid who also pays 50% of the bills while the man works a comparative or easier job. It’s wild.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 06:58 PM
31

Unable or unwilling to keep up? Lazy fuckers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 02:28 AM
52

Ma’am, that’s a scrote-repellent you’re carrying there. I wouldn’t be worried.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 02:25 AM
42

Even the characters he plays (Andy, Starscrote) are annoying to watch. Now I don’t think I could stomach watching another movie starring him. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 02:20 AM
43

Bless you. I’ve been so annoyed lately the majority of (female!) servers have been plopping the bill in front of me. Are they fucking serious?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 03:33 AM
43

I would like this framed for my living room.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 03:22 AM
49

You showered, combed your hair and put on deodorant and you expect a man to do more? Outrageous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 03:21 AM
83

That wasn’t your nose, that was a tick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 02:08 AM
14

Those stories you hear of women disclosing rape and some dude asking, “but did you like it?” That’s a rapist right there! Edit: I’m sorry, “disclosing” has a shame-y connotation but I really can’t think of a better word. 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 09:44 PM
48

That’s funny, I started to think my ex was lying when he said “so-and-so thinks you hate them,” when I thought the evening was perfectly friendly. But people who don’t know him also tell me “I thought you didn’t like me!” so maybe I’m just autistic or have resting bitch face, idk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 05:11 PM
16

The problem nowadays is if SAHM suddenly decides she wants a job, employers don’t look kindly on work history gaps. She would have to pad her resume with education, volunteering, associations, etc. and hope they’re impressed. Most people imagine SAHMs sitting on their ass all day for some reason. Either way, don’t be a trad wife. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 11:26 AM
9

makes out with his Playstation. I thought this was maybe a typo, then remembered that post from a scrote who put fake tits and a fleshlight in a subwoofer. Making out with his playstation may be quite literal. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 11:17 AM
12

It’s like the lazy, broke man’s playbook. I’m getting flashbacks. 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 11:13 AM
142

He then proceeds to debate with me about "couples needing to both work in order to live." This is a weak argument for lazy men. Truth! 🙌 That‘s shit I’ve only heard from broke, lazy men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 08:39 PM
15

No! No more projects! I feel like I have to bring back the phenomena of “women diagnosing themselves with some mental health issue”, when it’s everything in your body screaming at you to dump his ass. Remember “I have OCD” Gabby Petito? At best, this guy is a run-of-the-mill LVM. There are so many red flags in your post. Don’t do this to yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 07:40 PM
44

Upwards of 11 years is totally acceptable, right? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 07:05 PM
-23

I call it ADD. I hate it. Edit: I wasn’t excusing the scrote, you fucking neurotypicals downvoting me. Of course the world revolves around you. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:50 AM
70

I’m imagining a tantric sex weirdo who shamed you for not being into poly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:34 AM
24

As soon as they get that girl she’s trash because she decided to date trash (i.e. him).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:23 AM
46

And use phrases like “she’s technically an adult!” 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:19 AM
97

Alternatively, “what are you talking about!?” 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 08:13 PM
70

I bet he didn’t have the whole place decorated with a Japanese aesthetic, either. Rather a crackhead’s barebones place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 06:19 PM
15

Sorry, I would not agree that he is charming, and he is ok-looking. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 04:21 PM
174

He is collecting people like they’re cards. Stands to reason he would prefer the ones in good condition. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 04:13 PM
2

Lol. Be my guest. I love to see a well-roasted scrote. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 10:59 PM
2

No, sorry. Our teacher is quite misogynistic and he likes me. Not about to set myself on fire to teach some useless scrote a lesson.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 07:44 PM
29

Because penis. Men help each other men all the time. They cover their asses, they make sure as a class they’re always on top, financially and socially. All for the degenaracy that gets their dick up and makes sure to fuck over women while they face no repercussions. Slightly off on a tangent, I had to sit through a presentation on the difficulties men face in the (overwhelmingly female dominated) field that I’m in. It was ridiculous. Dude was complaining how, boohoo, they’re so victimized, becau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 05:40 PM
54

Yeah, that hit close to home. They overreact to tiny things like that until they have you reprogrammed to act exactly how they want. All because we want to keep the peace, which is how women are raised to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 05:18 PM
22

Thank you for your work! We need more therapist like you, and less patriarch pawns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 04:48 PM
8

“you don’t deserve to be screamed at in your own home” You’re right, they’re supposed to help you examine the whys. Not a therapist, but I have to take “therapeutic communication” classes and you’re not supposed to tell anyone what to do or insert your opinion. I’m not sure about domestic violence, but I believe they’re obligated to intervene if you want to hurt yourself or someone else. What they should say is exploratory, something like, “do you think it’s appropriate for someone to speak to y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 04:34 PM
33

I didn’t think we could go more low effort than coffee dates, but here we are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 04:26 PM
26

Yeah, something can be beautiful and not sexual. Men don’t seem to make that distinction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 04:27 PM
16

Ewwww, and thank you for the new word. Did you all report him? Probably nothing would happen. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 04:22 PM
77

It’s such a neg-like tactic. The only men who ask this question are broke or cheap, and looking to exploit you by making you feel you aren’t doing enough to sit at “his” table. If anyone ever gets this in real life, remember men know what they’re doing. Don’t paragraph at them (but in this instance I feel this queen is reminding us rather than explaining to them).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 04:17 PM
4

How far back in time would he have gone to see a wrist? Lol. They devote so much time to objectifying women. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 01:07 AM
9

One once, bizarrely, got annoyed at my university's website being the first thing that pops up when you google my name. My first guess was he was hoping for porn. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 02:11 AM
90

Yep. Same with me. Once upon a time I was open to dating bald, fat, short, broke men. One guy was all those things (eww, I know) and he still thought he was better than me! Even while he admitted how out of his league I was. The audacity. They’re bitter, insecure, and an eyesore. I must’ve been suffering some brain damage. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 03:56 PM
87

Yeah, so don't often get the sexualization because I'm too busy crushing their spirits, I guess. These are the kind of problems I’d like to have. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 01:18 PM
7

Reminds me of the “all lives matter” clownery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 01:03 PM
7

Brainwashing. Movies and TV shows are made to brainwash 1st and entertain 2nd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 06:14 PM
12

The problem for me is that going into “instructor” mode requires me to stop paying attention to my pleasure so that takes me out of it. If I keep cutting myself off to reguide him I’m never gonna have an orgasm. It’s like interrupting the orgasm several times and for me that’s the whole night ruined. It’s not like when I’m by myself and I can just slightly readjust to my body without having to think too much about it. However, if they gave a damn it would be much easier. I like slow circles on m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 01:09 PM
13

“Ladies, the smarter you are, the more likely you are to be single.” They say that like it’s a bad thing. 😂 That author is almost self-aware. And nice little bit of casual misogyny by cnbc there. Good to know. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 10:16 PM
39

he just identifies a need of mine and fulfills it, because he pays attention and has empathy Ngl, I find this so sexy. That’s how low the bar is. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 04:41 PM
55

And when we find something for them to do the answer is “it’s too hard” or “I’ll do it later (never)”. Then you become a nag for reminding him 3 days later. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 04:37 PM
67

Yes, they do. That’s the main reason they target young women and girls, much more likely to be naive from lack of world experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 04:29 PM
36

Fried brain from BDSM porn, would be my first guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 04:24 PM
5

I agree. Yes, it’s very insidious. I don’t have a problem with the concept of being kind, I have a problem with the indoctrination of girls and women. 😕 Women don’t have to be told to be kind. We’re already too kind. Meanwhile boys and men are being told to be violent as if they need the push.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 10:58 PM
83

Wtf is wrong with people? I can’t imagine being that callous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 07:24 PM
33

There’s a stationary company I really like that’s obviously targeted toward women (particularly religious tradwives it seems). But very often I see quotes like, “Be Kind” and “be the reason someone smiles today” and such other phrases. I always bristle at those. I feel like someone’s telling me I should smile more. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 07:14 PM
35

Scrotes just love to ruin a woman’s life. There’s no shortage of childfree women they could go for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 01:51 AM
32

They’re delusional or trying to future-fake women with the idea of a family. Maybe they’re fishing for pickmes who want the challenge of convincing a man to have children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 01:47 AM
15

No. Semen is gross. They rarely wash properly so their dick and balls often smell BAD. My jaw starts hurting and cramping after a while. They rarely reciprocate and when they do they half ass it and complain their jaw hurts, like wtf? It’s not sexy at all, especially when they’re turned on by gagging cause they say it makes them feel big, rather than feeling concern 🚩🚩🚩 But most of all, I’m too good and I’ve realized most men definitely don’t deserve any blowjobs, least of all mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 06:21 PM
43

Walk dates, coffee dates, hiking dates... 💀 Or “I don’t like the vibe here, let’s go to my place instead.” So smooth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 12:26 PM
73

They always circle back to sex. Their lives revolve around it. But fear not, when men are perfectly happy with the constant sex they have with their smart, hot wife, they’ll complain that she doesn’t clean enough, or she doesn’t x/y/z enough, instead of thanking their lucky stars someone so completely out of their league is with them. LVM cannot be separated from their entitlement and audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 11:46 PM
22

This is why I hate addicts. They’ll set their lives on fire and they don’t care who burns with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 05:25 AM
7

Once upon a time I thought Texas might be a nice place to live. Now Texas and Alabama are places I wouldn’t even feel comfortable doing a layover while traveling. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 08:23 PM
28

Isn’t there a state that does this, or is trying to do this? It’s one of the southern ones in the USA. They plan to launch an investigation every time a woman has a miscarriage to make sure it was not an unlawful abortion and put her in jail if it was. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 04:18 PM
27

I think he would use the child support money for booze and neglect the child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 04:14 PM
33

Your poor friend sounds brainwashed and abused. 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 04:12 PM
27

“Well, we want to be safe.” Love how men never admit they’re wrong when they actually have no idea what’s going on. Trying to look like it was a deliberate decision, a calculated number. The audacity. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 01:00 PM
11

CoOl gIrL alert! 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 01:54 AM
34

The obsession with “alphas” makes sense in this context.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 01:48 AM
5

And block him on your way out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:15 PM
55

Lol. I can’t decide what’s worse, that she responded to a “booty call” or she just went over to fold his clothes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 07:03 PM
21

You end up with a pregnant 14 year old by waiting until they start having sex before teaching sex ed. Or avoiding the topic altogether by telling them to just not have sex till marriage. Either way 13 is very young for most unless they’re being groomed by an older teen or adult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 08:53 PM
51

At first I thought it was just a moral issue but then realized these are people who would leave their kids and yours alone with a pedophile like NBD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 08:42 PM
27

Lol. They know they have nothing to offer to be attractive to women, so they have to rape. 🙄They act like getting laid is like getting food on the table.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 12:13 PM
42

Because men are in charge of this society and it’s beneficial for them to make us believe that’s consent. When it’s not. The same way men will cover each other’s backs when they do deprived shit. They hope another man will cover for him when he inevitably rapes someone. “False accusations!” They will scream when they don’t even know the involved parties. It’s the same type who runs around saying “not all men!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 12:08 PM
40

I don’t think it’s obtuse. It’s malicious. Always remember “the bumbler.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 01:02 PM
50

He said he needs to be back in town because he promised some obscure dude he barely knew they would meet. Was he meeting a drug dealer or was he the dealer?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 12:57 PM
118

Of course they were introduced to choking/slapping by their girlfriends, certainly not by watching 3hrs a day of abuse porn. Right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 05:21 PM
69

I legit got called physically abusive by an ex after I slapped his phone out of his hand once, after he crossed a major boundary and he was ignoring my cOmMuniCatIoN attempts. Funny, I didn’t call him abusive when he randomly slapped me during sex a few months earlier. But according to reddit we’d both be wrong, so it evens out. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 05:14 PM
24

I find that when I sugarcoat my advice I’m just minimizing the serious nature of the consequences. If someone feels attacked by blunt advice that is only meant to be helpful, that is not my intention. However, I’m aware it’s easy to disregard good advice when you feel attacked by the delivery. It’s a thin line and being efficient at talking with people is something I’m constantly working on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 05:07 PM
61

It probably comes off a bit naive. Most men aren’t true friends to women. They fake entire personalities and pretend to be a nice guy to gain access to you, only to their benefit, and your detriment. They’ll turn on you when they decide you have something they want, and you would be giving them the world’s biggest bargaining chip with a shared child. Please don’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 10:57 PM
29

It worked for the guy in the porn video! Why not try in real life? 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 09:28 PM
136

I remember my one, one-night stand (I kinda knew him, but still) during my cool girl phase almost 10 years ago, and when I ask if he brought condoms he says, “don’t you trust me?” 🥺👉👈 “Motherfucker, NO! Go to the gas station.” Sex was awful. Shocker, I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 03:12 AM
69

They seem to have a lot of experience disappointing women. How is doing something wrong 1000 times any better? It’s not. It just means they’re further stuck in their horrible jackhammer porn routine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 03:02 AM
10

What an absolute shithead. I’m sorry. I know too many of those types. I believe the first parent to claim the kids in the tax year gets the tax credit, so if you do your taxes earlier than him next year you should get the money. Can you cancel the advance somehow?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 02:58 AM
48

I can’t imagine the trad wives enjoy having to deliver a pitch every time they want to spend a few bucks. That thought brings me back to being 15 years old asking my dad for a $20. Feeling that towards my husband? Ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 02:39 AM
78

Dead fish, sports, and drinking are not personality traits! Neither is a beard! 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 03:41 PM
57

Sometimes he daydreams about how romantic he is, but won’t actually do anything. This is the guy who tells you he “thought” about buying you flowers today, and goes on about all the fantastic honeymoon-like vacations he will take you on, but will never be assed to even plan, much less pay for. 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 04:19 PM
19

I think he means he makes just enough to pay his rent (I was gonna say mortgage but that might be too generous) and everything else goes on credit cards that are not quite maxed out yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 08:50 PM
57

The amount of things they can say to describe us that says they’re basically attracted to children “cute, tiny, hairless groins”, and when you point it out they’re all shocked and denying it. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 10:36 PM
25

nor why he was making less than her in the first place with his greater skill and time there And on top of this a high percentage of your male superiors hitting on you at work. I’ve quit two jobs from overstepping males who won’t take no for an answer (small company, no HR). But please, Steve, go on about how women hold all the cards and don’t need feminism. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:44 PM
22

I nearly wasted my time the other day wanting to explain to a man why 50/50 doesn’t work, but I caught myself when I realized a HVM would know because he‘s paying attention and he cares. A LVM doesn’t because he doesn’t want to know. I’ll try to save a pickme, but a LVM? Not my job to educate them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:39 PM
53

On one of the comments a woman said if she paid her meal, they’re just friends, if the guy pays, it’s a date. And Y’ALL, the butthurt comments insinuating that she’s a prostitute and basically, the worst person ever. Bunch of broke-ass men and pickmes can’t handle a woman who won’t waste her time. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:32 PM
161

He must have some serious psychological disorder to not realize that your partner of x years saying “you’re a placeholder” is deeply upsetting. Personally I think these guys are playing stupid so they never admit fault and they can always play the good-guy victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 01:03 PM
6

Savage. I love it. 👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 02:27 AM
146

Male “friends” are vultures, in my experience. Be careful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 02:17 AM
17

It’s so cute he thinks there’s a queue for him. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 08:00 PM
15

I’m guessing the pedophiles have a lot of money. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 02:24 AM
220

It’s funny how they never make a fuss about men not taking responsibility for their actions. They can disappear out of their children’s lives and avoid even paying child support, but I’ve yet to see a fraction of angry tweets by other men about it. It’s like they save all their anger to unleash on women. Like some kind of women-haters. If only we had a word for that. 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 02:20 AM
18

Also money. Bet your behind I’m not giving any sad-looking man at the street corner any money. I try to find and support women-owned companies when I can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 03:04 PM
21

I’d much rather eat mac & cheese. Every time I eat alfredo I feel it’s kind of tasteless? Which is weird, considering how unhealthy it is. I’d rather not eat it at all. Or olive oil and cracked pepper is a good alternative if alfredo is my only other option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 05:24 PM
15

Maybe the reason that Colombian girl disappeared.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 01:26 AM
34

I’ve been ignored, talked over, and dismissed so often, I hold myself back from helping someone or a group of people unless I am asked directly. They won’t appreciate it otherwise, and it’s honestly exhausting emotional labor I’m saving myself. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 05:26 PM
45

Probably one reason that the men interviewed in the article were contradicting themselves, is that the interviewer was a woman. I think they’d be a lot more honest about their deviance if they were confiding to another man. As it is they’re pretending to be a wounded puppy to this woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 01:45 PM
80

“Women live life on eAsY mOdE.” -some incel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 01:08 AM
179

They’re hoping to shame you into accepting literally nothing. All they have to offer is bad sex and STDs. Delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 12:26 AM
9

My LVP is the one they sell at the bowling alleys. You know the one, rotating under a heat lamp for who knows how many days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 04:46 PM
15

“But sex is a nEeD! You’re being controlling.” 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 12:28 PM
11

Ugh. I’m trying to get officially diagnosed with ADHD (or possibly ASD, the late diagnosis for women in their 30s sounds sooo familiar, I’ve learned to mask well). I’m severely behind in achievements compared to people my age. I was actually diagnosed with ADHD (fit criteria for both inattentive/hyperactive) anxiety and depression about a decade ago but I have no record of it so I’m SOL for meds. For financial issues I’m on a months long waitlist for a full neuro workup to have a nice little Dx …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 05:04 PM
8

“Women are privileged“ 🤡 Having easy access to [bad] sex is not a privilege.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 06:11 PM
29

Getting women to lower their defenses and trust all men indiscriminately is a higher chance for a LVM to get laid, even if they’re not a murderer or rapist. They don’t care about women’s safety, it’s all about the almighty trouser snake. Thanks to FDS, now when I hear a man out in the wild saying “not all men” I know they’re at best a LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 03:12 PM
46

*barking sounds* Relationship advice redditors: Well, maybe it’s a cat. I wouldn’t jump to conclusions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:28 PM
21

The midlife crisis of a man used to be buying a convertible. Now it’s dating a teenager.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 05:10 PM
21

All those commenters were the most anti-FDS people ever. Hurts my heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 02:24 PM
25

The part that got me was that most people defended the guy. 😩🤢 And they thought he deserved a text back? Someone that petty? SMH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 02:20 PM
7

Pardon if my reading comprehension is not that great, but it seems to me (based on 3rd pic, 1st paragraph) that if he has to work a few more years when he’s divorced to pay child support and to live comfortably, then he’s not REALLY financially stable enough for early retirement. So really, he’s expecting her income to subsidize his early retirement. He sounds selfish and delusional, honestly. 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 06:13 PM
54

There’s a pickme who did a youtube TED talk and says 40% of domestic abuse victims are men. Domestic abuse is bad but is nothing compared to domestic violence. I couldn’t stomach the whole video but I can’t imagine she clarified. 🤮 Also, yeah, from first hand experience what most men call “abuse” is just the girlfriend not toleraring absurd behavior from men, or the man pushing her until she snaps, then she‘s the verbally abusive one (when she should’ve just dumped his sorry ass on the spot).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 12:22 AM
85

Why did she choose flabby Hermes over the godlike Barbados Slim, tho? I don’t remember. Omg the wiki says Barbados has olympic medals in limbo and sex. 🤣 I love this show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 05:29 PM
9

LVM call other men simps when they see them not acting hateful towards a woman. It takes very little to set them off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 12:41 AM
26

There’s this new show on Netflix I may start hate-watching, and the main character travels into the future and her fiancé tells her she looks just the same because duh, she is, and she replies to him, “aNd YoU lOoK eVeN bEttEr [older], IdK hOw yOu gUyS dO tHaT.” 🙄 So now I know either a pickme or a scrote wrote this show. That was strike 2 btw. The first strike was everyone pushing her to marry this guy she very obviously doesn’t want to. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 02:24 AM
98

They badger you for sex then do this. Like what’s the point, dude? 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:37 PM
159

It’s funny how most people think physical touch = sex. Always. When men say physical touch they mean sex 9/10 times, even when they don’t tolerate being touched at any other time. I’ve had some men recoil when I tried to caress them, or even hold their hand. When I say physical touch is my love language, I don’t mean with genitals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 04:54 PM
21

I would believe them if they left me the fuck alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 08:03 PM
5

Are people seriously paying top dollar for that VHS now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 06:39 PM
44

He didn’t tho. If someone finds your pic advertising used panties your ass will get fired so fast. They won’t care if you say it’s stolen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 06:35 PM
66

No because just like with everything, I have to do everything. So I gotta make some time to do the papers. I’ve just been tolerating him in the meantime. Also life is too comfy for him so no way will he want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 12:12 PM
11

Take him back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:38 AM
50

Yes. I guess “I want a divorce” won’t sink in until I shove papers in his face. Then he’ll say I blindsided him, that I’m tearing the family apart, why am I so selfish (hah!)... etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:36 AM
177

I see you’ve met my husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 02:05 AM
79

“Me? Feed my own children? Bah humbug!” Alternatively: “What do you mean he needs more food? I just bought a chicken breast two weeks ago!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 04:00 PM
19

How do you prove it even happened? And it didn’t. Didn’t she say it was implied that they would have sex, it wasn’t even stated out loud.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 12:22 PM
37

Everytime I’m like 😏(and that’s already rare) then I remember what they’re like and I’m like 😒 Whatever libido I had deflates like a balloon, noise and all. They do this to themselves tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 12:12 PM
22

Is scrotacity = scrote audacity? 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 12:06 PM
18

So are these a particular type of older women who’ve been out of the dating game for so long they no longer recognize what men are like? My mom has been in a 30 yr marriage to the first man she dated. She has NO IDEA what men are like, and likewise, in her mind men are well-meaning angels and women are man-stealing harpies, particularly the one woman who tried to steal her man nearly 30 yrs ago. 🙄 She tells me all the time, “you don’t know what women are like, even your best friends can’t be tru…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 11:41 PM
39

When I was much younger and dumber, I used to work for a psychologist who would be an expert witness in court, custody stuff mainly. I remember there was a parental alienation case where the young teenaged daughter claimed her dad was sexually abusing her. The psychologist declared she was lying because, based on her descriptions, her father didn’t “follow the pattern” of pedophile sexual abusers. He said this in private to me with a strange mixture of contempt and dismissal. Now, I’m not a psyc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 11:32 PM
25

Therapy is essentially: men not believing what the woman says, so they have to hear it from a third person for our concerns to be valid. Trust we’ve already done the emotional labor of going through countless articles written by therapists and psychologists so that we can say things the “right” way. So why would I want a man who doesn’t respect me enough to believe ME? Also, yes, he won’t change anyway. At best he’ll act slightly different and resent you for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 04:42 PM
3

I knew it was bad but couldn’t imagine it was that bad. That’s so tragic. ☹️ I’m also not totally surprised they want to keep us a certain way. Like we’ve been hearing for years how terrible the public education system is, and how the government would find a way fix it, if it did not benefit (read: profit) from the outcome of badly educated citizens. Call me cynical, but I don’t see how a society can ever change when those in charge will always put profit over basic human rights, and they’ve mad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 10:53 PM
9

Nursing school actually, but yes they even have an actual term for it, caregiver role strain. The books are careful to remain gender-neutral but I can’t imagine that dads who are absent even while they’re in the same room, will suddenly step up when their responsibilities and expectations increase to take care of their chronically ill children. Anecdotally, I’ve seen two men stepping up in a sea of LVM/NVM. I don’t know how people (mainly women) who are aware of this choose to roll the dice and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 12:29 PM
39

It’s funny you mention this. Just yesterday I was reviewing my pediatric notes and wondering why basically in 9/10 cases, males are more likely to be affected than females by developmental disorders, physical/congenital abnormalities, etc. There are so many disorders and allergies on the rise, too. The human species is heading off the cliff. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 09:57 PM
137

She got dragged cause the woman who gave her a damn kidney and said “hey maybe ease up on the booze” right after the transplant, and Selena basically told her and everyone else to f-off and mind their own business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 09:26 PM
20

Men like this exist, but magazines and articles will adamantly insist that most women actually prefer dad bods. Lol, no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 02:17 AM
3

Men who hate therapy tend to be cheap bastards. Maybe it’s an ego thing, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 02:09 AM
6

Umm, doesn’t that mean she’d lose her license? Or do some therapists not have a regulating body?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 02:07 AM
1

Sounds like something Brent Norwalk would say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 01:44 AM
8

When I live alone (only adult in the house anyway) I’d like one of those alarm systems that call out “front door...open” and whatnot. Maybe a shotgun in case there were any intruders, cause you know, cops are useless half the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:18 PM
14

But then how will you do your womanly duty of taking care of fully abled people who aren’t your children? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:14 PM
18

Idk, if they’re judging her for being single I’d wager they’ll judge her worse if she’s a lesbian.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:08 PM
55

Woooow. I wanted to read this because this is how men are. And it feels like the twilight zone when all you’ve been told in your life is to give men a chance, they’re good inside, etc. No, no, they’re fucked up. They are literally talking about these poor women like they’re reviewing furniture or cars! They don’t see humanity whatsoever. I didn’t read them all but there was one who tried to give her a “good time,“ I guess (actually probably just an ego thing), by trying to rub her clit. She wasn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 12:30 PM
50

I was thinking 🍤 🤏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:52 PM
6

Men probably came up with that saying to exonerate themseves. Just like “the executive bumbler.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:09 PM
15

lol. They just want a stepford wife. They need to just build their damn sex robots already and leave us alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 10:09 PM
9

Stop dating and focus on school for a high paying job. You need “fuck you!” money. It’s hard to focus on your needs when you have to make time for a loser boyfriend/husband and especially if you have children. I can honestly say none of my romantic relationships were worth it. AT ALL. Even the “good” boyfriends really just wasted my time, and looking back some of them went as far as discouraging me from pursuing higher education. They wanted me to spend most of my free time with them but also ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 09:57 PM
14

Y’all joke about the ”poor gold“ but even if you have money to burn, don’t give it to reddit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 09:40 PM
61

They’re happy cause they got away with it and they just got a few slaps for it. Even if they enjoy the slaps, they know it’s minor consequences. Women don’t overreact with extreme violence (i.e. murder) the way men do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 01:37 PM
4

The only reasonable explanation I can think of is that most men hate women. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 01:15 AM
9

Next thing you know she’ll enable him to chain a poor girl to their basement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 03:40 PM
8

Sunk cost fallacy? 🤷🏻‍♀️ Something like this happened to me. She’s spent so much time on getting him better and thinks he’s finally approaching decent human behavior she thinks she might as well stick it out (but no, she shouldn’t). This is why we don’t do projects, ladies! 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 03:36 PM
24

It’s always the ugly dudes calling women (who are definitely out of his league) ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 12:26 PM
70

I tried to comment on your post and realized I was on a different sub, but... My husband uses “you’re so negative” when I say I’m not in the mood for sex, or when I tell him I can’t go for a fun day out because I have a test to study for tomorrow. 🙃 No, he doesn’t get his way. He pikachu-faced me when I told him I wanted a divorce. Also, he said I’m treating him badly because I said no to sex, a few days after the divorce talk. ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:18 PM
129

Can a woman even baby-trap a man? Most men run away then bitch about child support (if they don’t find a way to get out of it). Men can certainly baby-trap a woman. Cause women typically give a shit about their offspring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:04 PM
28

Yeah that was so weird. Why was he always home? Maybe he was serially unemployed cause he refused jobs he thought were beneath him? Or did he work part time at the IHOP?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 04:31 PM
31

I love it. Somehow my youtube feed is full of Nate-hate and how much he rightly sucks and I’m here for it. It feels a little overdue like you said, finally people are waking up to this type of man that’s everywhere. 👏 Even my pickme watching it years ago for the first time hearing him spew some garbage like, “I wouldn’t even care if you were a stripper because at least you’d be doing it with a little iNtEgRiTy.” Like yeah ok dude, suuure.🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 04:08 PM
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When women in their late 20's/ early 30's have babies with these dudes I always wonder what the absolute fuck is going through their heads. Depression, low self-esteen, “clock ticking”, patriarchal brainwashing, traditional family upbringing...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 04:35 PM
9

I figure they glam up to record and hang out in sweatpants and messy bun the rest of the time at home. I would. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 05:22 PM
19

edit: Nvm I thought you meant the idiot cops that believed that nonsense, not the idiot cop who shot her. 😫 But of course the cops would pretend to believe him to protect their own. 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 05:09 PM
7

“Nice“ guys are the most bitter, petty, and outright meanest men I’ve ever met.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:10 PM
3

I don’t know if my favorite but this movie is definitely top 5 for me. Every time I saw it while flipping through channels I had to watch it. 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:58 PM
25

Idk that percentage still seems too high.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:45 PM
6

I imagine it’s like the Hoarders show, but smaller scale.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:22 PM
17

LVM: Liking ALL my gf’s pics is exhausting. Proceeds to hit Like on 5 million pics from instahoes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:15 PM
16

Now you’ve gone too far. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:25 AM
17

Oof. What a terrible man. It pains me that sometimes it takes several years for us to see the other shoe drop. Men don’t deserve us. I’m sorry for your loss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:45 AM
24

He probably has a job, doesn’t physically abuse her, “babysits” their son on occasion. You know, the bare minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:40 AM
28

Just because someone acclimated to their trauma does not mean it isn’t trauma. 👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 09:23 PM
122

Lol. Men age like milk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:24 PM
29

Insurance wants to save money and no one cares about our health. In the USA it’s every 3 yrs until you’re 65 yrs old. Crazy. Maybe it’s more often if you have fancy insurance. I get one at LEAST once a year cause I had HPV a couple years back and needed to pay for a colposcopy out of pocket (~$350).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:25 PM
27

Right. I don’t have the patience to be pushed, or the energy to be pushing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:41 PM
22

That’s funny, my LVM and I were watching a reality show last night, and the intro showed a woman who had been married young, to an older, divorced man. I said, “oh he abused her, that’s what happened.” And my husband shrugged it off. Later shows her family saying the man was controlling and would brainwash her. I said, “called it!” My husband said no, they never said he hit her. Cue me, explaining different types of abuse. My husband looked at me like I’m crazy, as he does. 🙃 Can’t wait to be si…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:18 PM
24

Gasp. Oh no, somewhere out there is scrote not getting the free emotional labor he’s entitled to. What will we do about this tragedy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:30 PM
14

The perfect person? Most of what you described is pretty low bar, minimal effort, even.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:17 PM
1

I love going on coffee dates with myself. Hit the drive thru (minimal human and germ contact, but mostly to avoid people) and sip my coffee, sitting in my car, and nodding along to the blasting FDS podcast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 01:52 AM
49

This was me. I didn’t want to get attached to someone then find out they were terrible in bed. I never had an orgasm with them, but I still stayed! 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 05:41 PM
3

“Sir, you owe me $5 for that pump of soap.” The only time they’ll wash their hands is if they’re using up a woman’s fancy products.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 05:27 PM
2

You’re a stronger woman than I. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 05:20 PM
3

I wholeheartedly agree with you, I was just musing on the why. I definitely know some people who overuse the “I had a rough childhood” excuse. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 05:08 PM
18

Well also the dark humor probably means he’ll make rape jokes when someone’s sexually abused/assaulted. Great to have around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:47 PM
48

Pay half the bills. 💸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:44 PM
21

I think that besides feeling like a personal insult to their life decisions, women in their 50s+ see a much younger woman having high expectations and having them met. It makes them angry when they realize they settled and missed out. I would be very angry at all the years lost catering to patriarchy and probably some scrote at home (I’m in my 30s and I’m still angry). Instead of dealing with their emotions properly they externalize that anger and throw shade. A lot of people have poor coping sk…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:39 PM
3

Omg I had an ex who would be like, “remember when I bought you X item and it cost X amount of money?” So annoying. One specifically was under $200 and I never heard the end of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 01:37 PM
7

Lol at the fake outrage. He’s probably fapping to girls younger than those in porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:23 PM
5

They don’t even have the decency to “like” a picture in their head, they have to click the button to let the poster know. And go even further and write nasty comments for her. Scrotes are so gross.🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:19 PM
14

😬 That’s a crappy situation. When I was younger and got sexually harassed I would just book it, but they were shit-paying jobs so it wasn’t a great loss. Men ruin everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:10 PM
19

old, fat, bald, short, gross guy. Have you told him this? Maybe you should just mean-girl him (unless you think he’ll turn violent). After all doesn’t look like HR gets involved unless there’s a witness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:28 PM
15

That’s funny. Every man I’ve dated mocked me for being a “princess” with my nice purchases, but they would always use my things, while neglecting the cheap shit they bought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:19 PM
3

Yes, I had forgotten the name. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:23 PM
36

But how are they gonna get their dicks wet when all the women are hiding?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 10:56 AM
69

Reminds me of the fun tactic to turn the company over to a woman when it’s on its death throes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 10:55 AM
18

It makes me think they’re really saying “your skin will make a beautiful lampshade.” 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:21 PM
28

Next in AITA: My sister and mom are both gaslighting me... Yeah that’s it. There’s no actual dispute in the title, they’re just there for validation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 05:28 PM
31

Men are professionals at believing their own bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 05:24 PM
8

I may have repressed it. 😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:06 PM
30

I remember a documentary saying that we didn’t find the smell of someone too genetically close to us appealing (in a sexual way). Nature trying to keep us from fucking cousins.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:51 AM
12

I’m so glad the new tag made it. 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:32 AM
48

He should’ve specified, like 3 bodyguards. Otherwise nopenopenope, walk faster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:30 AM
12

But can I keep my neon eyeshadow? 😔👉👈 Men hate it! 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 02:20 AM
20

I’d like to add another point I read in one of these posts... all these anti-abortion hypocrites will screech that life begins at conception (but obviously only in a woman’s body). If it’s in a lab via in-vitro fertilization suddenly it’s crickets from them. Funny how that works. 😑😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 02:12 AM
6

No point. They just want to see women cower in front of men. It’s a turn-on to the sick bastards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:08 PM
15

You’re right, they’re delusional! These dudes think survival of the fittest will work in their favor when they’re like on the bottom 10% and I think I’m being too generous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 02:45 PM
3

Yeah, Dicaprio is doing what most men wish they could do if they had his fame and money, he just doesn’t give a shit what people (accurately) think of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:59 AM
12

Nooo don’t tell me, I refuse to google it. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:45 AM
61

Oh noooo 😱 Edit: I’d like to point out this happened to JUDE LAW, but the average redditor (man) thinks he’ll reach peak desirability at 50. 😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:39 AM
87

Asking me to go 50/50 and do wifey shit, but he will give money to a another woman for being pretty and naked. As far as I’m concerned that’s my money going to her. Couldn’t be me, sis. Hell no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:40 PM
26

Oh is that little bear icon supposed to be a bear hug? I always thought it was crossing his arms disapprovingly. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:48 AM
6

edit: whoops, replied to wrong person. Why can’t I delete this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:47 AM
25

Not to mention the older guy probably comes with health issues, kids from a previous marriage (possible baby mama drama) & he’s going to die decades earlier than I do and probably has unviable sperm? Dying earlier than you would be the nicer alternative of dating a much older guy. Otherwise you’d be stuck nursing them when they’re sick and can’t wipe their own ass. I think this is one way they want to take advantage of considerably younger women. After all, women don’t leave sick men at the deva…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 08:21 PM
9

Where do you get your fashionable and practical clothes? I’m all about comfort but I want to branch out from my athleisure wear 😖(I know, shame on me) and can’t put a decent outfit together, that also won’t break the bank.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 06:41 PM
24

Being a gamer. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 08:37 PM
45

Or ask to open the relationship only to find a sahara of pussy while the hot girlfriend has the time of her life (I’m thinking of that polygamy podcast episode 😂)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 08:36 PM
38

If he wanted to, he would... jump and use that little ledge to pull himself up and climb to you. But he won’t. Oh well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:26 PM
4

Women are CLEARLY superior social creatures, while most men are not fit to function in society. They just punch everything in their way. Even the ones not diagnosed with antisocial personality disorder still show several signs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:38 AM
6

They’ve been led to believe (by other bald, short, fat men) that their bodies are desirable. Have you seen the “women prefer dad bods” article pandemic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:19 PM
9

Not that she’s not planning, she’s not allowed to have shoes so she can’t leave/escape. Also, she can’t go out with her friends (social support) or meet another man, she doesn’t have a job (financially dependent on her husband), etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:19 AM
21

“I pulled myself up by my bootstraps. Never got any handouts!” -Scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:02 AM
82

”We will always pick her. We will love and choose women like her, always. You will NEVER know what that feels like." Don’t threaten me with a good time. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:40 AM
32

Pencil dicks are so depressing. It’s like nothing’s there. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:33 PM
74

Right, they just expect women to go under the knife, no problem. Is there a dick extension surgery? Would they get it? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:30 PM
90

And they’re not even dating, this is the evaluation stage. 🤮 Somehow this was one of the least disturbing questions. What a catch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 09:25 PM
46

I find something really funny about this. So these are characters from The Legend of Korra and the male character here is such ass garbage that the female character left him and started dating their super smart, super hot girlfriend instead. He was two-timing them at one point. Absolute garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 12:09 PM
32

Would he even press charges for theft? I can just imagine the bumbling when the cops ask him to describe the stolen object.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 11:52 AM
10

As a sports hater, I could see how going to stadiums and doing the whole tailgate BBQ with friends thing could be a hobby. But the ones who just watch it on their TV... Is watching TV a hobby? Watching Youtube? 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 02:04 AM
149

Women: Actually, give me the beer back, and keep ‘em coming cause I’m not pregnant. 🍻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:58 AM
44

Having kids is not like test driving a car. I couldn’t have any conversation with people like that. 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 12:27 AM
4

I’d like to point out that children who are born with HIV or otherwise infected as babies (i.e. breastfeeding) need to be treated immediately or they won’t make it past early childhood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:29 PM
3

Never project onto a guy the good qualities that you wish he had, that you think he might have, or that he claims to have. 👏 Vet vet vet. 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:55 PM
56

You sound very young, which if you are I’m glad you’re here, because I learned this unfortunately too late to avoid this happening to me. This is very accurate in my personal experience and those of every woman I know (except one, but she has to have sex with a man she finds absolutely repulsive). Most men expect this, which is why most men are LVM or NVM. It’s rough out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 09:42 PM
38

This is both hilariously and depressingly accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 09:36 PM
2

Thank you! ❤️ They’re trying to wear me down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:59 PM
10

Yes I read it somewhere around here. This place is a goldmine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:40 PM
2

Yes big mama was the first to come to mind. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:39 PM
84

My ex would ask me why my libido was down and suggested I take something for it. Dude gained so much weight after we got in a relationship (they all do). At the end of our relationship he looked like his BMI was like 35-40. At the beginning he was at my max fuckability level of BMI 30. Which I now realize is way too high and has been adjusted. Sorrynotsorry, pussy ain’t charity. Edit: pornsick too, he would go limp after a few minutes cause he says he would overheat(!?) or when he didn’t it was …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:39 PM
77

I think he means he wants a maid while does the important manly stuff, like watch porn and play video games all day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:13 PM
101

But seriously tho, never see a male doctor, unless you can’t find a real doctor within 20 miles or whatever distance is reasonable to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 02:43 AM
51

Yes, please. The only gaslighting I would approve of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 02:38 AM
3

Unfortunately not shed yet. He’s in denial and I guess he thinks that if he pretends everything is fine that I’ll... forget about it? They’re all doing this. It’s so annoying. I guess it won’t be real until I serve him. Can you serve someone who lives with you or do I just hand him the papers?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 02:20 AM
5

“A million women have told me I’m wrong, but I have concluded that I’m right.” Lol what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 08:01 PM
4

Should women soothe fragile male egos that can’t comprehend that they could possibly be shit at pleasuring women? 🤣💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:59 PM
3

I thought every man believed that when a woman says, “Everything’s fine” she really means it’s absolutely not fine. I think “[my] man’s penis is just fine” is the same kind of “fine.” 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:52 PM
6

Seems like tiktok is mostly a dumpster fire. I saw a youtuber’s video on it (D’Angelo Wallace) and he highlighted the stupidly dangerous pranks that just so happened to target kids, and the time tiktok poorly handled a suicide. They left a live stream of someone killing themselves and they didn’t stop the feed for hours(?) even though it was being highly reported.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:42 PM
7

Oh I remember that stupid meme “our parents spanked us as kids as punishment, now we do it for fun during sex. Lulz” or whatever it says. I haaaated getting spanked as a kid, especially by my one of my grandfathers who did it for fun, not “punishment.” Any time a man slaps my ass I immediately see red. It’s so annoyingly common, all my partners always tried to give me a slap just passing near me but they learned quickly, I don’t fucking play.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:36 PM
23

Right? I’m done training men for other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:18 PM
13

I think you just need to add a dumptruck sized amount of anxiety about not being picked then 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:01 PM
7

Can someone explain this to me? Is she actually disappointed and trying to convince herself and everyone on the internet that she’s totally cool with being treated like shit? Kinda like how sexposi libfems post everywhere about how much they love and how fun one-night-stands are?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:52 PM
46

Mine won’t get up before noon to spend time with me and our baby (No, he’s not working the graveyard shift, he works a 9 to 5, M-F, and is up all night playing video games). He’s also disrespectful, selfish, picks stupid fights, criticizes everything, a liar, and of course can’t clean himself properly (his pillowcase used to be white and is now damn near orange). Yes, our bedroom does smell like ass. Apparently I blindsided him telling him I wanted a divorce (again!) because I was supposed to co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:56 AM
48

Scrote: Tell me what’s wrong Me: (Telling him what’s wrong) Scrote: But that can’t be it, tell me what’s wrong 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:56 PM
7

Thank you. Sometimes I just need another queen to reinforce my decision. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:39 PM
37

Oh no, I guess I missed it. I stopped watching telenovelas around the evil-twin era. 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:40 PM
87

A lot of them don’t believe in splitting assets or alimony in case of divorce. Unless of course it’s the woman who makes the big bucks. 🤑 But of course they still expect all the traditional wifey benefits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:56 PM
124

It took me 15 years to learn that I can’t have male friends. Also that I should not smile at any male bosses. I’m only smiling at women and family from now on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:50 PM
321

This reminds me of those movies where the dude dresses up as a woman and deceptively becomes “best friends“ with the woman he likes. Then the gig is up but she forgives him and they become lovers and live happily ever after. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:47 PM
41

My second thought watching this, “but where are the pRoTeCtOrS?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:24 PM
54

I wonder where he got that idea. Since they refuse to stop watching porn, at the very minimum, all porn should be preceded by an advisory “women don’t actually like any of what you’re about to see. The woman in is video is getting paid (I hope!) to pretend to enjoy this.” I also had an ex who thought I enjoyed the endless jackhammering and wanted to build up his energy to go longer. One time I counted 45 minutes. No amount of communication would work since he would forget in about 5 minutes. 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:14 PM
72

The endless jackhammering, for sure. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 12:56 PM
1

Building his self-esteem so he can cheat on you with other women. Like when we fall for the “give the ugly guy a chance” and now he thinks he can bag a supermodel. Where are the men with an appropriate level of self-esteem? Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:11 AM
7

Sounds like a form of child abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:46 AM
34

But also if something happens to you at the hands of a man, “you should’ve known.” 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:34 AM
9

Has that nasty place not been shut down? I don’t even want to go to find out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 12:27 AM
17

culturally-sanctioned sexual violence for male gratification I find this fact particularly troubling. Like we’re in the dark ages, and we’re supposed to sit there and take it? 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 11:43 AM
33

And if you don’t cut it off they’ll start bringing you lunches every day then kill you by shooting you 6 times when they find out you have a boyfriend. 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:25 PM
47

I approve of this. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:21 PM
92

Or even emotional labor. They’ll find a way to use you while adding nothing to your life. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:00 PM
91

He can still hate-fuck you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:29 PM
2

Didn’t even think that he would be manipulating her, but it’s not surprising. So sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:01 AM
7

Not only that they’re easy, they let men do anything to them, no standards or boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:59 AM
7

My face reading this trainwreck: ☺️😳🤬😐🙄 This woman’s face: 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:45 PM
13

claim it isn’t fair for women to choose men on the basis of the tingles Because they think women are a commodity that (not who, because we’re not people) should be fairly distributed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:13 PM
14

“Psst, psst, [police siren] you familiar with that sound?” Omg she’s so creative. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:05 PM
44

No no, we’re equals and we should go 50/50. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:07 PM
9

That’s so sad. Pickme moms are the worst. My mom is kind of a pickme but actually she’s hilarious, and I take after her. We just say shit and laugh all the time until we’re in tears and one of us pisses ourselves. Then my dad and husband come in wondering what’s wrong with us. We’re not bitter bastards, that’s what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 06:03 PM
3

I bought it on DVD several years ago and now I wonder why I ever liked it. What do I do with it now? Songs are catchy tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 08:15 PM
6

I heard a woman say (not on FDS, thank god) that Naveen was pretty much the only decent Disney prince. Umm, lady, what? Did we watch a different movie?! 😂 He learned to cut mushrooms. Why would Tiana let that go?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 08:13 PM
7

But she didn’t. He liked her as she was. Which is even weirder and unnecessary that she got that “makeover.” He was the one who dressed up as a “nice boy” before her. I think... granted I haven’t watched the movie in years so I may be off. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:56 PM
35

And then the men say "I didn't call you a bitch, I said you were being a bitch. It's different. Ugh, I’m having flashbacks. 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 01:53 AM
86

Redirecting the anger of often unstable, violent men? I wouldn’t either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 01:45 AM
15

The anger. Oh I can relate. I was supposed to just let things go. I don’t want to be angry and I’m not an angry person, but there I was, angry and nagging all the time. Then of course, exhausted from the anger. Congratulations on your freedom! 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 01:37 AM
10

I’m surprised he packed one at all. Most men would think the one they’re wearing is good enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 01:23 AM
25

So he discovered the value of not dumping your clothes on the floor is that the house looks nice. Nevermind the inconvenience on his wife. 🤯 The world just revolves around them, doesn’t it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 01:19 AM
4

Hepeating! That’s so fitting. 😂 I’ve been seeing so many of those posts lately. It’s so annoying. We come here to escape male opinions! And it feels kinda pickme-y to post those like, oh now it’s valid because it’s a man who said it? 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 11:04 PM
22

I looove the witchy aesthetic. If I lived on my own that would be it. Not into the actual lifestyle but I were to join any type of religion that would be it, at least it’s the only non-misogynistic one, to my knowledge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:13 PM
6

Basically why I come to FDS. Need my daily dose of reality to counter the constant patriarchial brainwashing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:37 PM
5

I was gonna just save the post but your idea is way better. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:35 PM
79

And you can’t do most of this if you’re married, as I’ve found out. But men still can. Note it’s always the women who has to “compromise.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:10 PM
1

That article paints red pillers as hopeless romantics. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:12 PM
1

Reading this makes me feel literal pain for this girl. I’ve dated a cheap man before but damn, this is just 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:55 PM
63

There has to be a pickme somewhere thinking “but I can change him.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:30 PM
41

Yes, I would be too embarrassed to admit out loud to anyone else of the horrible treatment I would put up with. If you don’t admit it, it’s not real. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:10 AM
748

I think it’s wild that men like your coworkers are perfectly happy to say that they don’t see women as people, to a woman’s face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 02:05 AM
25

If he didn’t, I’m sure it wouldn’t have burned down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 09:13 PM
37

Oh no, he wants you to be the new roomie. Bangmaid roomie. 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:15 PM
28

Someone told me policies like that and maternity leave will make companies not want to hire women. As if that’s not happening already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 12:50 PM
18

That’s the type of guy whose girlfriend goes into labor and he asks her if she can just hold it. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 12:46 PM
23

It's honestly scary how many lvm and nvm are teachers. It’s not surprising cause most men are LVM/NVM. So of course they’re everywhere. But we’re not allowed to say that because mIsAnDrY, as if they had any consequences for their horrible behavior. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 12:23 PM
9

We’re not even animals in their eyes. We’re inanimate objects, like tools they can use for their “needs.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 12:52 PM
15

Yes that’s one of my favorites. Her attention to detail always pleasantly surprises me. 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 08:08 PM
104

And their favorite “why clean the toilet if it’s going to get dirty again?” 💩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:46 PM
56

Help! I’m being attacked by a thesaurus!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:41 PM
30

I’ve learned to do this later than I would’ve liked. But now I save my precious energy, they don’t deserve it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:40 PM
80

Did you tell them you don’t mind switching so you both can use your native language instead? I’m sure you didn’t get any takers. 😂 As a non-native speaker, this has happened to me, too. Or like they’ll start mocking my accent when they can barely pronounce most words on the one language they do know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:38 PM
46

I love Jenny, her deadpan humor is hilarious. Highly recommend her videos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:31 PM
36

Even if he’s going to Harvard, we don’t date potential. I doubt she’s actually married, it sounds like they’re straight out of high school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:08 PM
10

Most women who get called Karen isn’t because they called the manager on the cashier who won’t take their 50 cent off, expired coupon. “Karen” is now for any woman standing their ground. Call me Karen, IDGAF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:25 PM
0

You could’ve kept the valid title and message without sharing a scrote’s thoughts on us. Men don’t post here, let’s not post for them, especially a man who thinks we should be “good girls.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:12 PM
17

Sure, most of the time. But the other 49% of the time, they’re just ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 04:40 PM
13

They defend men they don’t even know who do depraved shit because they see themselves in them! They think “that could be me one day” and cover each other’s backs. Men’s solidarity is glued together by their cum and women’s blood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:00 AM
33

What’s it say about men that ANIMALS such as dogs and cats are more concerned about keeping their butts clean, than a supposedly higher thinking male human?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:48 AM
5

My favorite bit is how *smug* they all look. Like they cured cancer. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:28 AM
17

That’s really creative! Not very pocket friendly though. Assuming you can find pants with pockets. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:50 AM
20

I would not trust a knife. It sounds good but knives are close combat, and you need a lot of force, speed, and agility to deal an incapacitating blow. Also you could easily be disarmed by a man and have your knife used against you. You need to use things that keep you at a distance like pepper spray or a long range taser (not the one you have to hold up to his skin, although that’s a better option than a knife or nothing).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:47 AM
49

That spanish bit reminded me of a family member who said about the neighborhood abused woman (back in another country) that secretly she liked being beaten because it got her “calientica” (hot and bothered). He thought since she dated abuser after abuser that she must like that treatment, rather than the reality that abused women have a target on their backs. It’s sickening how men rationalize depraved behavior from other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:59 AM
19

I’m sorry, that sucks. It’s so strange to find pickme behavior on an educated woman. Edit: woman who came to mind was the Ted talk lawyer who specifically represents men in custody cases. I couldn’t finish the video.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 08:52 PM
17

At the start of nursing school the teacher told the 4 men in the class “congratulatons, you guys have a guaranteed job when you graduate.“ He said that hospitals always prefer to hire male nurses who can do heavy lifting vs dime a dozen female nurses, regardless of their education. I think that’s only part of it, with a good dose of old fashioned misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:25 PM
91

Nah, sis. I would find a different therapist. I’m not taking life advice from a pickme. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:12 PM
139

He literally said it was because it was “too hard to set up” a meet up (read his message right after the all caps). It’s almost unbelievable. Sooo if a random girl off the street said “lets go” he would’ve. His excuse for not cheating is literally that he’s lazy, not that he cares and respects his girlfriend or even his own honor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:42 PM
10

The boy was probably assaulted by dad/uncle or found dad’s porn stash. I’m still shocked that men save porn on their harddrives. Like, why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 01:16 PM
16

I’m a compulsive oversharer, maybe it comes from always being naive and trusting, but with maturity I’ve had to acknowledge that what I say can be used against me. Sometimes I really wanna say something personal, or even a joke, to people in a classroom/zoom/group chat and I have to stop and say to myself first, “These people are not your friends!!!” and the urge passes. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 01:15 AM
9

Scrotey stress certainly ages you. But yeah, good genes work too. I’m 33 and when I talk about my kid I often get a concerned face and “you’re so young to have children.” Honey, how old do you think I am? 🤣 I know a lot of women in their 30s who don’t look it. Most of them have been single for some time. I can only imagine it’s helped them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:14 AM
17

Oh yeah. An ex had a huge latina fetish. I thought that was strange since most people can’t tell I’m Hispanic. He also hid his racism quite well for a long time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:02 AM
6

Oh right. I agree there. They’ll drop all the effort after a few lays or when she’s moved in without commitment to be a forever girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:20 PM
18

I agree with all this so hard. I wanna be single, but with great friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 05:53 PM
66

Since I tend(ed) to date chill white boys, I was once told I needed to find a nice hispanic man to “control me.” Hispanics are wildly and unapologetically sexist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:41 PM
29

I saw an “OMG I can’t believe she’s 30!!!” post yesterday. The pictures were of a beautiful woman, who obviously took care of her skin, knew how to put on flattering makeup, and had a nice dress on. Yes, she was beautiful, but I didn’t think she looked extraordinary in any way, and she certainly didn’t look like a teenager. It’s like people think women in their 30s immediately look frumpy or just “old” somehow. Couldn’t roll my eyes back far enough in my head when I saw that. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:24 PM
6

This is hilarious and I see where you’re going with this, but men don’t respond to logic. So I fear we’d do this in vain. Also, it’s a bit of mental effort to figure out whether a particular shitty ex was a -1 or -2 based on which shitty behavior, and I don’t feel like doing more emotional labor for shit men. Assuming this scale was an actual suggestion and not a protest proposal. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 12:33 PM
43

I guess that might be a difference between a -2 vs +2 man. The +2 man might put effort on a woman they consider attractive, where the -2 man certainly won’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 12:16 PM
4

I thought this was a reputable source, but I didn’t notice it’s from 1997! I also read psychology today, from 2012 as well as some other ones with questionable validity and the consensus was that the male CC was bigger, but now I just saw another, recent (2017) study, so I’m leaning more towards women having a larger CC, like you said. My brain hurts. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:53 PM
3

I’m finding articles refuting that the corpus callosum is bigger in women, and some say that it’s actually bigger in men. I don’t know if they’re taking proportions in consideration. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:11 PM
27

Isn’t it testosterone that causes aggressive behavior? And neural pathways form when we use them so, I would think it’s men’s unwillingness to reflect on themselves or do emotional labor that causes a lack of connection. “If you don’t use it, you lose it” applies to the brain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:27 PM
43

This is glorious. But also, they’re still not having an orgasm. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:09 PM
18

I look forward to each of your podcasts like I’m waiting for Christmas, but better. I feel like FINALLY there’s a group of women who understand, cause sometimes I feel like I’m living in crazy town. It’s so much different to actually hear people talk than just read others’ comments. Y’all keep me sane and I just wanna say I really appreciate you ladies. 😘💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:57 PM
4

Or did his porn-fried brain expect you to blush like a schoolgirl but drop to your knees and unzip him in gratitude?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:56 PM
24

Some of these bastards aren’t even on the scale cause they look like they belong to a different species.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:51 PM
10

Not like them, with their noble intentions. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:47 PM
47

If anything, “sex slave” might be a more apt term considering how many women and children are trafficked into it. Even men who don’t frequent prostitutes think they and women who do porn are just making a killing with their “career choice.” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:40 AM
90

Male entitlement is a scary thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:31 AM
6

Yes but on Reddit it’s always just “communicate!” or if someone with a brain says to dump them they’ll get chastised with “omg everyone here always so quick to say dump them, relationships aren’t easy, go to therapy and cOmmUnIcAtE.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:35 PM
36

I would, and it’s not petty. It would be about the equivalent to HR if a coworker did this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:33 PM
6

I know from personal experience that the scrote may present himself to others as a sweet HVM, only revealing his toxic waste of a personality to people he lives with. So of course others nearby will react with shock and disbelief when you tell them what he’s really like. Thankfully most people seem to believe me. Usually older women. Pickme’s and men though, it’s infuriating and not worth your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 06:05 PM
12

That’s usually the same guy tho. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 05:44 PM
11

I actually prefer touch that’s not sexual. So my LVM used to say that can’t be my love language because I didn’t want sex (“with him” is silent). Although looking at the current state of men, my sex drive is in perpetual hibernation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 05:23 PM
24

Male logic prevails once again. 💩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 05:19 PM
84

It is known. But hell no, they will never admit that. Blaming the women all these years, just like they blame us for everything else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 09:59 PM
23

Maybe this is the real reason it hasn’t made it to market. They realized they were wasting their time cause men won’t take it, even if it was free from side effects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 11:56 AM
16

Omg I initially read that as “hotel.” I don’t know why because I know they sleep in a literal nest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:04 PM
5

He told her he truly loves her. Not only does he not love her, I don’t believe a person who is this far removed from humanity is capable of loving anyone or anything. So I’m sure the animals are also fair game to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 05:57 PM
80

The BS excuse/non-apology they gave, it sounded just like a man’s. Basically, sorry if you were mislead (not “we misled you”) by thinking that “paper bottle” meant we used an actual paper bottle.😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 05:47 PM
28

I’m going to reply to myself with a different story. I usually trust my partners. Until I didn’t, and for some reason, I was suddenly looking over my shoulder every time I heard his phone ding. I even went as far as going through his phone which I never feel like I have to. I felt like a crazy person. I told a friend and when she asked why I felt so anxious and like I couldn’t trust him, when I’m usually so chill, I said it’s probably because I’ve never liked someone this much. Nope, that wasn’t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 05:47 AM
39

You know it’s funny, my alarm went off the other day. I was working in a psychiatric unit for elder patients and during report I hear one of the nurses say a patient likes young girls and even calls him a “pedophile.” It was my first time there and after about a half hour and seeing most of the patients, one guy goes up to a nurse to ask her for something and just hearing his voice behind me, my head snaps to him IMMEDIATELY and I think “this is the guy.” It was so weird. I don’t even know how t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 05:36 AM
14

Lmao at chonky boy 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:28 PM
3

There’s also a kidsgettinghurt private account. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:21 PM
5

What else can you expect when incels are in charge?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:15 PM
18

That reminds me of a tiktok(?) video someone posted here a few weeks back, of an old ass scrote telling his nasty followers something like, “you want the Asian girls from Asia cause they’re submissive. Not the American ones cause they’re just not nice.” He was so 🤢🤮 I think he just wanted a mail order slave/wife. He made my skin crawl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:10 AM
40

I noticed you started off with “I don’t think all men are like this” and just wanted to let you know you don’t have to do that here. Men can’t come here to derail by yelling NoTaLLmEn at you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:47 AM
21

Yeah now it’s people fighting each other about dumb shit. I feel the original intentions were more noble, I guess? Like related to “taboo” relationships, fighting a racist society or family when they don’t approve of it. The first thing that popped in my head was the Bruce Lee movie and the struggles he and his white girlfriend went through. It sounds nice and all, but then I read he died on his mistress‘s bed, so umm, I think that just proves you shouldn’t waste your time fighting shit. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 09:39 PM
7

Yes. Sharing is caring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:32 AM
19

She thinks you’re hating on her and she’s playing the cool girl. It’s so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 06:53 PM
9

Mine is 2 out of 6. But those two weren’t consistent. 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:18 PM
16

Aren’t “happy ending masseuses” usually women trafficked into prostitution, usually from Asian countries? So he was spending their money to rape women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:51 PM
72

I try not to say “oh man” because it reinforces male-as-default phrases, but you make a fair point. I may go back to using it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:29 PM
10

I know, me too. But only if you’re the dumper, not the dumpee. Seriously I do not approve of this message. Don’t listen to me. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:26 PM
13

I kinda get what you mean about Russell in his prime, but I’m 33 now and I still don’t find 35 yr old Russell attractive. I’m not really surprised he looks the way he does now. And the guy is famous and probably still wealthy, so what are the hopes for Joe Schmoe looking good at 50? 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:17 PM
82

And if he infects her with HIV and she’s breastfeeding, baby’s gonna get it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 07:05 PM
63

Love your attention to detail (age gaps). 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 07:00 PM
26

I actually thought that was a pickme. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 06:32 PM
36

That’s the mating call of a pickme, if I ever heard one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 06:30 PM
8

I still can’t help but feel bad for her. You really have to hate yourself and “The Real World” you’re living in to set yourself on fire like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:49 PM
14

I find it so interesting that men will date and stay with someone they HATE. The pure contempt for a partner, I just can’t imagine it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 11:57 AM
24

I guess they don’t want to admit it so they use humor as a cope? I also found that I’m more distrustful of people and animals now. I’m still a naive fool but it’s like a gut reaction/feeling. Hard to describe. I think I also had PPD for at least a year after giving birth. Of course nobody takes you seriously unless you’re threatening harm. Thankfully I never felt that way. But it was either feeling emotionally blunted, or so much anxiety I got panic attacks and ended in the ER because I thought …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:02 AM
6

I had an abdominal surgery after and the doctor was palpating and said I healed properly. Wouldn’t he have noticed? My abs feel fine I’m just flabby when I bend over. I should still do some core workouts though. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:35 AM
8

Thank you. 😊 It’s alright, it’s just another annoying thing to deal with. Just like trying to find a doctor that not only cares but is good at diagnosing and treating. It’s hard to find the trifecta. I feel fine otherwise, I have good social support and my kid is a gem. I have been cycling through doctors for another problem and looking for a good primary care doctor. I found a HV one but he’s a specialist so I don’t think he could do all the stuff a primary does? Not really sure how that works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:25 AM
3

Yeah I’d like to read about this. I’ve been interested in self defense classes for some time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 10:02 PM
89

I’ve resigned myself that my back will never be the same. It’s been almost 3 years and I still have low back pain, even though I’ve been back to pre-pregnancy weight for over a year (I’m skinny). Same with my brain. The cognitive impairment is REAL. My vocabulary shrank significantly from about my second trimester and I still have such a hard time thinking of stupidly simple words. I’m constantly telling people to “hand me that thingy over there.” One time I tried to order a chicken lunch and fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 09:45 PM
52

If they are successful I would imagine the ROI would be pretty good, cause they can contribute to their local economy and the government can collect more taxes if these LVM actually get a decent paying job instead of jerking it to abuse porn all day. Or does the porn industry make more money as it is using women’s free “labor.” 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:16 PM
56

An ex surprised me with the whole slapping/choking thing and I told him it was an absolute no go. After we broke up he told a mutual friend I was too vanilla and boring in bed. But when I tried to be “rough” with him (he said he liked it rough!) he said he didn’t want me to do any of that. So then why am I the boring one? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:54 PM
20

All feminist men do is ask for sex on the first date and to go 50/50 on everything forever. Like, that’s their whole definition of being a feminist. If you’re lucky he will gladly (and badly) clean and cook, sometimes, cause he believes in equality. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:36 AM
23

It’s even in their vocabulary. Men claim they want a “low maintenance” woman. Except she has to look high maintenance. Ergo she puts all the effort to provide high maintenance to herself, but he only provides low/no maintenance to her. What a great deal!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:51 PM
23

Yes but, men are so disgusting I never want to have sex with them again, so the toy thing is a non-issue for me. Also, if a man gives more than half a shit about you and knows what he’s doing (e.g. you tell him what you like and he remembers and does it properly, unprompted every time instead of conveniently forgetting) then it’s not like you won’t have an orgasm with him at all. I assume if you like the guy, taking longer wouldn’t be a chore. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:12 PM
8

A guy complained about my breathing once.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 10:15 PM
9

He took the toy with him! I can’t. 😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 10:00 PM
302

Men are in an uproar cause a cartoon bunny doesn’t have human tits anymore. You can’t make this shit up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 09:37 PM
19

Girl, you know the man she chose who bailed on her and the child was the ugly, “nice” guy. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 09:11 PM
5

Porn expectations. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:43 AM
4

Because it’s mostly men in charge of politics. It benefits them to be lenient on rapists. Men can’t be oppressed by women, this is why misandry is not “real.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:38 AM
11

A liar is a liar. It’s obvious by his actions that he has decided for you which lies are a big deal, and which are not. Can you trust a man like that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:24 AM
30

I think they get their expectations from anime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:19 AM
282

I went down the rabbit hole and read the links too, and my question is, how are women still living (and even having sex) in women-hating states like Alabama and Georgia? I always knew Alabama was a shit show, but now Georgia wants to interrogate women who’ve had miscarriages to throw them in jail for murder. Like, what? 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:43 AM
13

Unless his words are, “I have an avoidant attachment style“ then RUN. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:51 PM
10

This has happened to me with partners but it’s also shitty when it’s a boss or superior and you really need the job, so you have to suck it up and apologize when even people around you saw what happened and agree with you. Psychos are everywhere. 🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:45 AM
5

Was he going for spiteful or power-play? 🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:22 AM
8

I thought that was code for “I’m useless on the weekends.” And he’s probably useless Monday through Friday, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:20 AM
12

It’s so annoying when people run around with their dogs off leash, especially large ones. They know their dog but we don’t. I would feel bad pepper spraying a dog that ran at my kid when it just wanted to say hi, but I would feel worse if it bites him. Keep your dogs on a leash or don’t complain when they get pepper sprayed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 01:36 AM
12

I find this hard, too. At what age/point do I look at a fully grown adult who’s acting up and expect them to stop blaming their parents (or anyone else) rather than feel sorry for them. And then there’s other mental health problems. Sometimes I feel like I’m victim blaming. 😕 Generally if they’re past their thirties or even forties I’m like, come on now... All I know is, I don’t have to put up with their shit unless I’m getting paid for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:40 PM
25

I had to google that. I’ve never been to Nobu, but the pricing reminded me of Smith and Wollensky or Ruth Chris. I’ve eaten at those but I can’t comfortably afford them now so I stick to the Cheesecake Factory. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:22 PM
41

What would be an upper middle class restaurant? Seriously, I have no idea.🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:06 PM
34

Hashtag notalldads?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:14 PM
10

This part killed me. 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:51 PM
81

Probably!? Did you miss the dad bod? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 08:26 PM
10

Absolutely devastated. He will probably not be able to move on from this. He will need therapy in the future (which he will not attend) and he now has developed commitment issues and it’s all because of you. I hope you’re proud of yourself, OP. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 08:20 PM
21

White dudes who complain they’re oppressed really cracks me up. They’re the real victims of patriarchy! 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 08:13 PM
19

Really? I don’t believe him. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 01:52 AM
20

Oh Lord that made me laugh. First of all, none of these dudes have the stamina. Second, you’re just not efficient if it takes you 2.5hrs to do something that should take you 5-15minutes (I mean make a woman orgasm, and let’s face it, this man has never done that). Third, sir, I have things to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 01:47 AM
13

Basically “miss, could you just take off your pants and spread your legs, pretty please? If you like I’ll let you buy yourself a burger first.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 01:36 AM
10

Same. It’s like my ego vs their ego, but me not getting punched in the face or stalked for who-knows-what type of end wins. So I smile (but not too big and no teeth) and say “sorry, I’m married.” It’s not like we’re going to teach any of them a lesson in humanity. 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 01:31 AM
36

Oi I’m married and SO jealous of single women. And I don’t mean “single” just so I can cycle through men (that’s what men think). I want to be single so I have time to do my own thing without being interrupted babysitting a grown man’s feelings and dealing with their unhygienic ass. And that’s most men. I want my clean things clean like I left them, damn it. 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:37 PM
5

Oh girl I got triggered and I didn’t even date with an age gap over 5 yrs. 😄 That’s a very good point. I find myself thinking some of my younger classmates are actually very mature for their age, and I want to warn them if it’s a man saying it, watch out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:55 AM
8

But also men age horribly since they refuse to care for themselves, so you never know. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:39 AM
12

I don’t know about this. What if you get sperm from the most annoying person on earth and your kid takes after him? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:03 AM
54

They don’t see women as equals but they want to be “friends” ...right. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 09:19 PM
7

Trust me, with all the pornsick LVMs around, you’re not missing much. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 01:37 AM
55

Yeah but haven’t you heard, reformed rakes make the best husbands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 08:31 PM
27

Birds of a feather flock together. This is why we have to dump men when we see them defend or ignore shitty behavior from their friends. Even when they claim they’re not really friends and he’s just a guy from their “friend group.” Obviously they don’t see anything wrong with it, so then what’s stopping them from doing it, too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 04:13 PM
27

But the only thing worse for a teen girl to date than a teen boy? Dating a man who’s 5+ years older than her. 9.9/10 chance that he’s only there to manipulate you. Stay awaaaay from older men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:45 PM
18

Or “Unlawful intercourse with a minor.” 😡🤬They just want to coddle rapists’ feelings. Makes me wonder if the writers are also rapists who refuse to acknowledge it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:33 AM
16

They love their malicious compliance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 05:03 PM
10

Sometimes I forget this and think “if I really phrase this the perfect way...” As if not understanding is the problem. Silly me wanting to be treated with basic respect. You’re right, why argue? If they don’t care by now, no amount of CoMMuNiCaTiOn from us will light a bulb in their brain like “oh wow, women ARE people.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:12 PM
21

Also I’d bet good money he wants a woman who’s “equal-ish” in finances but still expects to benefit from all the free emotional and household labor women are saddled with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:34 AM
9

Joey was the only decent man of the three. Chandler was toxic AF and Ross an outright sociopath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:16 PM
66

You know they’ll see this and read “99% of men are rapists” and get offended. Still a lot of them, tho. 🥲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:08 PM
140

Men see their BFF rape women and still think he’s a good guy. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:05 PM
20

Ugh I can’t believe I was ever like this. 😔🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 04:12 PM
19

I don’t know = I don’t care
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 11:10 PM
2

That’s the prettiest ring I’ve ever seen. 💕 Looks like a little crown for a queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 12:49 PM
28

Except he will continue to treat other women like that, only now he will feel anxiety knowing men are inevitably going to do that to his daughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 10:31 PM
139

Because women are evil and she lured him by exploiting his natural urges. He’s the real victim here. Seriously though, I just rewatched The Hunchback of Notre Dame and this reminded me of the whole Frollo/Esmeralda bit. Like the only reasonable explanation is that she’s a witch that put him under her spell, making him think sinful thoughts. Her only mistake was existing while being pretty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 03:41 PM
12

There’s also a third type, the gamer who pretends to be outdoorsy, cause he’s “not like other men.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 03:30 PM
142

A lot of men will always idealize other women. Until they have her and eventually start treating her like crap too because, oh look, she’s human. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 12:31 PM
6

Then you end up doing manipulative things (i.e. threatening to leave) just to have your needs met, because that’s the only way he’ll listen to your concerns since he can’t behave like an adult. And you hate yourself for stooping to his level. There’s no saving that relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 02:17 PM
173

I’ve seen many self proclaimed nice guys say something like, “you got what you deserve for the bad choices you made, you slut.” How nice of them, right? 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:51 PM
7

😱🤣 I need to see that movie. If I did see it, it was way too long ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 09:57 PM
11

You mean I’ll repel other NVM/LVMs from now on? Oh... no... how will I go on.... 🤣 I wish. They’re still hovering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 02:36 PM
19

I think those dudes who are applying too much force on you know exactly what they’re doing, and they’re enjoying it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 02:54 AM
24

Yeah I’m reading this nonsense like, this summer child doesn’t understand biology. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 02:48 AM
51

I guess if they don’t hate and actively disrespect women, they’re a simp. 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 02:40 AM
114

Female Empowerment Strategy 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 12:36 PM
33

Or my favorite question, “what’s your favorite color... Blue? Wow, mine too! It’s like fate or something, we were meant to be together.” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 08:08 PM
1

This is what men mean when they say their wives/girlfriends are emotionally abusing them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 02:06 AM
15

Because women are free therapists and the love of a good woman will fix them. 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 09:11 PM
2

What would be her logic behind that? Cause experience for men means absolutely nothing since all they do is jackhammer porn moves, and they’re rarely interested in learning how to please a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 10:01 PM
24

Didn’t you get the memo? It’s only a kink if it benefits men. If it benefits women it’s mIsAnDrY! 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 11:16 PM
63

You’re too kind. 😂 They look like the spitters at Rock Bottom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 03:57 AM
58

Ugh, I know! The unacceptable behavior I allowed from men. Even the nice ones just wasted my time. I cringe. I want my years back. 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 03:49 AM
16

He’s a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 02:00 AM
35

Liars and manipulators tend to overexplain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:47 PM
161

My neighbor said always, always put them on child support. Doesn’t matter what it’s like between parents or if you think he’s honest. She told me what a sucker she was, and someone else she knew. If your ex wins the lottery or sells a property, your child will never see money that’s rightfully theirs. Men will always hide it because they never think the money is for their kids, that it’s always for their “bitch exwife.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 02:23 PM
286

And they will tell the new wife/gf a sob story of how the baby mama never allowed him to see their kids and poisoned them against him. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 02:13 PM
31

I was trying to explain to my mom, a mask-hater, that I actually hope the masks are here to stay cause I like the privacy. Still, two men have hit on me when I was wearing my mask and scrubs. Boggles my mind. Maybe the scrubs made them think I make good money and will also wipe their ass for them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 02:09 PM
68

That’s why they yell NOTALLMEN on reflex. They don’t want to look in the mirror.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 04:25 PM
33

The whole damn orchard is rotten and infested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 04:22 PM
2

And that’s how you know you’re living in a patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:31 AM
7

🗿
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:24 AM
31

Or he’ll tell you he likes to be treated sometimes, too. Because he’s a “feminist” and wants us to be “equals.” I’ll never date a man who says he wants a 50/50 relationship again. A man who believes he’s doing 50% of the work is actually closer to 30%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 11:33 PM
22

Neither one would surprise me, TBH. I’ve unplugged an LVX’s PC for keeping me up at 2am and disregarding my complaints. He was 28 at the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 08:55 PM
136

Imagine the relationship has deteriorated so much you have to put a lock on the console. Like a mom to a 13 yr old. Girls, just pack up and leave, he won’t even notice for a couple days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 05:55 PM
44

Apparently because they slapped human tits on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 05:49 PM
158

No, don’t fuck that man. We need a better fitting word for FDS. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 05:05 AM
12

This should be on a plaque.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 02:28 AM
23

Just because single is the worst thing that can happen to a man. It’s just projection. Also when women complain about being single it’s because we can’t find a decent man. But to a man any woman will do, because most women are already too good for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 02:08 AM
7

Oh yeah. An ex said “men like to treated, too”. So I paid his meals sometimes to make him feel special. Bought him some gaming stuff too. 🙄 I was just a forever girlfriend. He also implied he wanted to he a SAHD down the line. Oh hell no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 11:29 AM
6

I think there’s a difference between someone asking you what your past relationships were like and you giving a fairly vague “all my exes treated me really well” etc, vs someone going on and on about a specific ex, either “she was a bitch” or “he cheated on me” or even a wistful “I really miss going on hikes with my ex, so-and-so.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 02:43 AM
24

Who says this won’t be a forever engagement? ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 01:54 AM
20

Who’s he fooling? He’d try that with someone he considers a “catch” as well. They’ll try to keep the bar as low as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 01:51 AM
108

I feel like the ultimate goal with this whole male performance is to pit black and white women against each other so that we forget that men are the problem. Gotta keep the pickme factory going, y’know. Also TIL race-play is a thing. 😬😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 08:32 PM
19

And for the whole world to see! 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 07:56 PM
3

Number 7 is 🤢🤮 “Supply the genes for my children on the sly” The fuck? Hilarious that they think their genes are even worth passing, that women not only want their genes but want to trick other men into raising them. These redpill fucks seriously think all women are animals. 🤮😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 07:50 PM
80

Him: “oh wow so cold today, how bout we go to my place instead?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 07:22 PM
58

That sounded like he wasn’t even planning to buy you coffee. He wasn’t inviting, he was just going to exist in the same place as you. Then downgraded to a walk as if coffee wasn’t already setting the bar on the floor. 😆😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 07:14 PM
3

I was not ready for this. And neither was he.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 01:32 PM
5

I’m ashamed I still like one of his songs. I may as well delete it, it just sends me back to remind me what a cool-girl-pickme I was in high school. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 01:27 PM
75

At best he’ll pretend like he’s trying to help you orgasm, but fail. Cause he’ll get tired, uncomfortable, or “forget” the thing you told him to do literally 40 seconds ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 01:12 PM
23

Girl I’m mad about it’s been years and we STILL don’t have functional pockets in most commonly found outfits. And why, so men can have a clearer view of my ass? Thanks. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 05:40 AM
88

Guarantee you he has a few strains of HPV at least. Edit: I said HPV specifically because, to my knowledge, there is no test to detect HPV in men even though they can carry it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 05:26 AM
11

To me that means, “I’m a useless piece of shit, I know it, and I will not work on improving myself.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 03:23 AM
20

Aka: I let dirty dishes pile up for days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 03:16 AM
15

Start charging. You’re not the community mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 03:13 AM
68

They basically tell you, you’re not communicating the right way when really, he just doesn’t give a damn about what you have to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 03:04 AM
14

Because when men have children it’s still the mother who does 90% of the childcare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 02:09 AM
43

The most hypocritical thing about “sex positivity” is the negative backlash that women get from the same people who demand the sex-positive attitude. For example, claiming that nudes shouldn’t be a big deal, but the woman who shared her body will be mocked and ostracized by the same men who asked for said nudes. Like you said, the madonna-whore complex. It’s a lose-lose situation for us, so why do it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 02:00 AM
33

He also lists on the OLD profile: ”Want kids... someday.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 02:14 PM
113

Yeah, growing with a man is how you become the “starter wife.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 08:39 PM
138

FR, boy needs to get off tinder or he’s gonna miss his school bus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 07:34 PM
15

Yes, from 2007. It’s called Chowder. I think it ran on Nickelodeon. It’s kind of a stupid show but I loved it back then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 02:15 AM
17

💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 02:03 AM
17

Wow I didn’t even think about cameras! Yeah you can’t be too careful. I wonder if the girl was even bi or just tHe CoOlEsT cOoL giRl. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 01:43 AM
26

Sometimes the writing is on the wall, sometimes it’s on a hoodie. Girl, RUN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 02:35 PM
26

It’s so damaging that they think the people in porn are “just actors” when a lot of those women are victims of sex trafficking, are being coerced, etc. Why is this not common knowledge?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 02:33 PM
18

His homies, too. That movie was painful to watch. I don’t know why that sadistic trash is recommended as a classic, must-watch. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 02:13 PM
17

One of my professors said that football season is when most domestic violence occurs. All the men joining together raises their testosterone and off they go doing you know what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 02:10 PM
12

I never realized that but it’s actually a good tip for the future. Look at who they look up to, that’s who they wish they could be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 02:05 PM
181

What a bait-and-switch! Did they tell you he was only gonna watch, or maybe even put “just the tip in?” 😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 12:52 PM
14

There was another man a week or so ago claiming that 🤓 “actually” vaginal orgasms were necessary for conception. Where do they come up with this? And with such self-assertion! 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 02:00 AM
21

Is there a greek letter synonymous with “dumbass”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 01:57 AM
40

All hoarders have untreated mental health issues. And here at FDS we know how men feel about going to therapists. Nope!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 03:57 PM
4

And we’re supposed to settle for such fickle creatures. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 07:43 PM
49

They better hope they don’t get cancer cause there’s a 1 in 5 chance their penis-haver will walk away and she will “die alone” anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 02:39 AM
20

Oh no! That makes me so sad. What could she possibly get out of that relationship? He’s a slob, disrespectful, a cheater... What’s left to make a tiktok of, him physically abusing her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 10:26 PM
2

These psychopaths should be sued, at minimum. I’m so angry for her. 🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 07:21 PM
3

“She was beautiful, but didn’t know it.” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 07:11 PM
19

Also they’re projecting. There’s nothing worse to a straight man than being called gay (excepy being called a girl), so they think calling a woman lesbian is an insult to us. I wish I was only attracted to women. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 01:55 PM
6

Victim blaming is a good sign of a shitty person. And denying your experience? Why is this person a counselor? 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 01:00 PM
6

I would be worried if I had to reject a man in a secluded place like that. You know how some men handle rejection. Obviously this wouldn’t be your choice, but still.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 07:49 PM
10

Yes, making sure you’re enforcing your boundaries is the best way to make sure the good people fall in line or scrubs walk out of your life. And it’s not like we’re asking unreasonable things. Treat me with respect. That’s basically it, but you’d think you were asking people to cut off a limb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 06:17 PM
39

I feel you. It just sounds so exhausting constantly vetting the man you’re with cause they can turn on you, but there’s really no other choice but being single. The single life is starting to sound really good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 05:26 PM
73

He could still have an account even if you didn’t meet him online. 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 03:57 PM
2

J. Lo - Ain’t Your Mama
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 03:52 PM
37

That would’ve been a taste of what life would be with him. Can you imagine scrounging around for scraps with your partner on the weekends? 😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 07:03 AM
21

Not if you block them first!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 06:58 AM
52

“He hurt her repeatedly and then expected her to help him work out why.” That is CRAZY. Who thinks like this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 06:44 AM
98

I would bet good money if she had taken him back, he wouldn’t give her an ounce of respect. He would think she’s a doormat. He’s only kicking himself and loves and respects her now cause she had the self respect to not put up with his nonsense and moved on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 06:31 AM
8

This is so wholesome. I love it. 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 04:49 AM
24

Yes, for the recipient. But seriously, any man who asks for nudes is a LVM. Alternatively I can’t imagine why a woman would want to send nudes unbidden, so someone else will have to chime in there. It’s naive for sure. I’ve sent nudes when I was like 19 and he certainly didn’t treat me any better. Didn’t even buy me lunch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 07:36 PM
13

Most dogs are better company than most men, for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:29 PM
2

I don’t feel as strongly about what happened, rather I was more upset about the things that “friends” were saying about me, that I wanted to have sex with him (even though I didn’t?) because I put myself in that situation. I thought I had just gone out with friends for some drinks, but oh no, I’m a hussy I guess. 😐 It made me feel shitty for a long time. It’s a low self-esteem issue for sure that kept me putting up with his crap, and crap from other men. There was another instance in a party whe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:24 PM
39

They can’t control cats. Cats are independent and give affection when they feel like it, not when the owner wants it. Cats are like FDS women and dogs are pickmeishas, which is why most men prefer dogs. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:53 PM
43

The shit I’m supposed to put up with when I’m a nurse, according to the school faculty. I don’t think so! It’s made me wonder if nurses are supposed to suck up all kinds of verbal and physical abuse because it’s a female-dominated field? I guarantee you if it was a male-dominated field they would not tell you that being abused is “just part of the job.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:40 PM
99

And isn’t that the whole point of their tirade? Bunch of creeps. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:33 PM
63

I would completely disregard their statement and send back “*you’re” then block them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:30 PM
4

Wait what? When I said “you” I meant a general you. I was actually talking about myself because I’ve had that situation and it was spinned around by some peers to make it look like my fault. And I’m just realizing that I wasn’t in the wrong but I feel like I’m not quite there yet. Sorry, I think our wires were crossed, I wasn’t passing judgment on you or anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 04:52 AM
3

Why do they believe that? Just cause they can’t stick their dick in any woman of their choosing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 02:50 AM
28

I think that old man smell is the crap diet they’ve had for years building up and finally being released through their pores because their body can’t contain it anymore. Truly I think such a diet ruins organs like the liver and kidneys, these are your cleaning and filtering organs, so the toxins just get released through sweat glands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 02:40 AM
3

What would you call a situation where you’re very drunk but a man you’ve had sex with on-and-off before is trying to have sex with you and you don’t want to, and you tell him you’re not having sex with him, but he’s still pushing, so to prevent that you give him a handjob so he leaves you alone to sleep?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 02:26 AM
15

They draw them everywhere, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 01:31 AM
78

I skimmed the article and the author sounds whiny and bitter about being single. She even said she and her friends we not single by choice. Lady, enjoy it! It’s trash out there. That poor woman needs a self esteem boost. I was looking for the reason women are single, according to her, but didn’t really see it. I know why though. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 06:54 PM
111

Unfortunately a lot of very smart women make terribly stupid decisions when it comes to men. So doesn’t that make him the smart one, then? It’s a great time to be a man. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 05:43 PM
59

He means shallow (and likely ugly) LVM like him would be all over you. Bullets dodged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 01:07 PM
6

This is what always happens to me. In every relationship. They let themselves go, or they act like a child half the time, etc. The sex is fine, and can be great if I take charge which is also some kind of exhausting because for some reason (their porn fried brain) they can’t remember what I like, but I digress. I don’t feel sexual attraction to someone I’m not physically attracted to, or when I do, they act like a teenager which, unlike men, grown women are typically not attracted to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 04:43 PM
9

But what exactly do they mean by domestic abuse? Cause as we know, men think that saying no to sex with them is abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 04:09 PM
7

I used to enjoy watching anime around my teens but at a certain point in my life I just couldn’t unsee the sexism and pedophilia. So I would think he’s either immature and/or a sexist pedophile. Neither things I want in a partner, or even a friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 03:45 PM
8

“I tried the other day to tell her I wanted her via text while she was having a nap and that didn’t go well.” Peak romance. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 02:21 PM
9

A man will spend real money on a fake girlfriend he can only look at, while demanding that his real girlfriend with a real vagina pay 50%+ of everything. Nevermind buying something for her (don’t get me started on housework). 😂🤯 Yeah, I don’t think I’ll ever settle by paying for anything ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 01:50 PM
61

Leave it to men to still cheat in an open relationship 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 11:59 AM
19

👑 you dropped this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 02:37 AM
8

These must be the “benefits” part of FWB I keep hearing about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 02:31 AM
14

He makes ponytails wrong? Y’all remember that video from years ago where a dad did his girl’s ponytail with a vacuum? And everyone thought it was so funny and creative and I’m here thinking “is this guy retarded?” Maybe it’s that kind of wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 02:19 AM
39

Legends say women can have orgasms from PIV sex without touching the clit at all, but that hasn’t been my experience. Or the experience of any real life women who’ve shared sex talks with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 02:00 AM
16

Some men just live for the drama.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 01:46 AM
17

FDS motto stands. If he wanted to, he would. Well, that may not be the motto but it’s definitely top 5.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 01:40 AM
24

I hope she’s not in a place where recording someone without their knowledge is illegal/does not hold up in court. Unbelievable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 02:21 AM
11

Ma’am, I respectfully disagree. They regard a dog higher than a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 10:40 PM
3

Oh I’m sorry. That’s the most money I’ve ever seen to break a lease, damn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 05:23 PM
4

Girl you’ll be in the hospital by then! But seriously, is it worth it? 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 05:15 PM
110

I’ve never heard “mental well being” be a synonym for “dick”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 04:11 PM
16

SO MYSTERIOUS but he is just getting this INSANE CONNECTION 🤣 I’ve heard this too. It must be straight out of the LVM handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 02:06 AM
13

Expensive but cluelessly stupid: a scale for my birthday. No one in my life has ever even implied I need to lose weight. And I don’t. Not clueless but stupid-cheap: a box full of candy sticks (~$3). At least this wasn’t a special occasion gift, but he did make a big deal out of how thoughtful it was of him. Two different guys, btw.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 01:59 AM
17

I think when they say pussy they mean the entire woman. Because a woman is just a receptacle to them. But also I get your point about mediocre. Just like when you reject them and they go from calling you “gorgeous” to “well, you’re ugly anyway.” 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 07:10 PM
24

I remember when I blocked my NVM FWB (lol what friends? what benefits?) and he found another route to contact me in order to write me paragraphs long message about how I made him feel like a bad person. Bastard, you ARE a bad person. He claimed to have re-worked his whole life now because of what I said. Like, good for you, dude. Blocked. Remember to block the scrubs on all the social medias if you know them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:04 AM
21

The most attractive man is still uglier than the average woman. You know this got me thinking, I’ve seen very attractive men, but never in real life. It’s always TV and magazines. So they may not actually be attractive at all in real life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 02:00 AM
67

You can tell he uses one of those 11-in-1 facewash/bodywash/shampoo/carwash/dishsoap/dog shampoo/carpet cleanser/etc. abominations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 01:52 AM
6

I’m seriously thinking of no internet when my son gets older. Parental controls might not be enough. He might watch porn at a friend’s house but at least won’t spend 10 hrs a day watching porn in our house. Worrying about this trash on top of pedophiles who would probably start messaging him on instagram or whatever the new thing is in a couple of years. I’m not having any more children. I can’t imagine subjecting more people to the wreck this world has become.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 01:38 AM
19

On the first chart, were men asked outright what age range they found attractive, or given actual pictures to rate with no age disclosed? Cause people generally have no clue what someone’s age is by looking at them. Although, even if all those old fucks said 20 they’re still creeps. I’m just interested in how these studies are performed. Don’t mind me. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 11:03 PM
5

With so many women being pickmes, I wonder if any of them accidentally end up with HVM. Or are HVM repelled by them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 02:05 AM
7

Or they tell you that you study too much. Boy, if I don’t study “too much” someone’s gonna die one day. Go back to your video games. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 01:10 PM
25

Maybe date your single, handsome new friend instead of wasting time trying to school a scrote? Cause you know you’ll just end up raising him. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 08:13 PM
21

Because men know they’re usually the ones to start shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 07:17 PM
23

Her: I looked through your phone I found texts and nude pics from your side chick. Him: gasp You looked through my phone! The lack of trust! The absolute BETRAYAL! I’m disgusted with your behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:54 PM
8

Fiance, 7 years, living together. Do I really need to keep reading to know where this is going? Yes. Because I love reading trainwrecks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:48 PM
23

Translation: He’s not opposed to the abuse and objectification of women, he’s just worried about not getting it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:44 PM
49

Really though that makes sense, but also making it harder just gives you a couple extra minutes to do what, exactly? Scream and hope someone runs by? I don’t take night classes anymore, if I miss the morning classes I’ll just wait till next semester. I’m terrified.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:26 PM
1

Isn’t he a piece of shit. Putting charges on her so third parties think it’s a mutually abusive relationship. Not that it ever is, there’s only been like two women who’ve chopped some bits off their cheating husband’s but by and large men are killing women left and right for simply existing. I hope he doesn’t try to baby trap her if he feels she’s close to leaving him. I can’t imagine she’s actually told a therapist everything cause what kind of psycho would see someone being abused and think “t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:11 PM
8

If he had one, but he doesn’t have a resume, because he’s not interested in finding a job. He’s living with his parents in between forever girlfriends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 03:13 AM
4

Men really have more audacity than they know what to do with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 02:53 AM
5

I have this problem. I just had an idea. Keep a “no” in my mind. When someone asks me, “Could you...” I’m going to say no. I don’t care what it is. I have a bad habit of saying “yes” before I’ve even processed the information cause I’m such a damn people pleaser. 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 02:26 AM
49

Depends who’s got more money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 02:19 AM
17

Imagine “expert at candy crush“ being your most promising attribute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 02:16 AM
3

I went to a party once where someone took out a pot balloon they could all suck out smoke from, all the potheads got all giddy like someone told a toddler they could have ice cream for breakfast. I got so much secondhand embarrassment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 02:06 AM
3

Wow, she’s in deep. You’re a good friend. I wouldn’t know what to do in your situation cause I would want to keep helping a friend, but it also seems like she doesn’t appreciate you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 01:50 AM
15

Not insecure, just not tolerating disrespect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 12:11 AM
35

That’s a psychological thing, too. If you’re the one asking him then you’re the interested party, and he’s got the upper hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 11:58 PM
9

It’s not like he just forgot the liner. He went back to throw something in the bin, saw it was empty, and decided, “fuck it, the bitch can do it.” Even if this is a skit, I know people who do this IRL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:18 PM
20

Pandora is pretty but it’s not even that fancy. It’s not like high class or anything. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:38 AM
6

Good lord, men are so fucking dramatic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 02:12 AM
7

He’s annoying but not violent. I’m just really worried cause my son is really young and he can be neglectful. I still do what I want and if he doesn’t like it, he knows where the door is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 07:41 PM
10

I know it’s so stupid. It may be our baby but it’s my pregnancy. Especially now after taking an obstetrics course and learning about all the possible pregnancy complications and the mother’s life in danger, while the man just sits there, assuming he’s still sticking around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 09:11 AM
41

I hear you. I’m married and have to compromise on the dumbest things. I can’t even move furniture around without getting crap for it. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 08:40 AM
86

Not having to share a bed, all up in your space, putting up with snoring (or him complaining about you snoring), and leaving that weird manstink all over your bedroom. You know the one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 08:36 AM
31

I think generally they want someone who’s gonna look at them all googley eyed for his wise life experience. Except this guy doesn’t have any and wants a “bitchy hottie” for whatever reason. I think he’s trying to relive a particular experience of giving it to “bitchy” high school girls who never gave him a chance in his time. Like revenge sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 01:41 AM
151

1 in 5 women will be abandoned when they’re the cancer patient. In contrast, only about 1 out of 35 men will be abandoned by their partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 07:58 PM
107

I give him 4 months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 07:47 PM
11

I know a man who started dating a new woman when his wife was dying of cancer in the hospital. That was several years ago and his adult kids still hate him and his new wife. Who could’ve seen that coming? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 07:43 PM
36

I know a man who started dating a new woman when his wife was dying of cancer in the hospital. That was several years ago and his adult kids still hate him and his new wife. Who could’ve seen that coming? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 07:43 PM
43

Those “not all men” assholes are the ones silently watching as their so-called friends grope strange women and even their own friends and girlfriends. But they don’t want to rock the boat so they can keep their shit rapist friend around. It’s happened to me and countless other women. Male “friends”, my ass. 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 05:15 PM
10

For me, paranoia is more like overthinking. It seems to be a more conscious back and forth and I feel like I see it coming. Whether intuition is more like a sudden “pinch” that pulls me back and that feels like it came out of nowhere. And boy have I always regretted not listening to that feeling and brushing it away with some ”rational” explanation. edit: also, paranoia is very often actually not, and a very valid feeling set off by your intuition and self preservation. NEVER brush off your feel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 03:07 PM
18

They’ve deemed it pointless because the alternative hurts. When I was much younger I didn’t want to get married because I wanted to be free. If the relationship went sour I wanted to dip at the drop of a hat without consequences. Literally no real commitment. No problem to have to work through as a couple. Just me, gone. And it didn’t occur to my 🤡 butt that the reason he had not asked me to marry him was the same reason I didn’t want to marry anyone before. If you’re not married, there is no co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 03:14 AM
4

Leave this drinking game for the scrotes. I want to live! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 02:26 AM
12

All these people claiming to like pain? I don’t think so. Aren’t pain killers the number one drug being sold, legally and illegally? 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 04:10 PM
6

Here’s a couple of them. The one I saw was a different model with pink hair. Their lingerie differs on the model. I guess it’s not something you know until you buy them cause they’re wearing regular clothes on top, you can just see the tights. https://www.google.com/amp/s/7news.com.au/lifestyle/dolls-wearing-suspenders-and-lingerie-pulled-from-major-supermarket-c-1282742.amp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 02:06 PM
9

Same. All the same. The incessant clic clacking, keyboard smashing followed by yelling, and getting mad at me when I told him to stop at 2am cause I couldn’t sleep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 03:58 AM
16

men love to play limbo when it comes to lowering the bar. 😂😭💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 03:51 AM
34

People generally don’t treat free stuff the same as something they spend hard money on. I guess it translates to women, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 01:29 AM
29

My neighbor’s little girl, who’s about 5 years old, just showed me her plushie doll. At first glance I thought it was really cute, until I realized the doll had a drawn-on corset, panties, and fishnet tights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 12:08 AM
9

That is unfortunate. It’s so alienating to people who are recovering. Sober people get negged and drinks pushed on them constantly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 08:34 PM
12

Also why can’t we have drinks with male coworkers? Cause this society doesn’t give a shit about protecting women from rape, or even prosecuting rapists. I don’t see it changing anytime soon, so we have to try to protect ourselves. Just because it shouldn’t happen doesn’t mean it won’t. It sucks, it’s not our fault, and somehow it still falls into our hands. I was so pissed about this I actually wrote an angry essay for a class a few weeks ago about how society is failing women. It totally got aw…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 08:18 PM
11

You should see what they say to women gamers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:06 PM
11

What are professional drinks? Sounds like an oxymoron.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:51 PM
21

While decreasing your own! Underrated comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:56 PM
94

Where is the line drawn for NVM cause that’s what I’d say he is. Negative value, even.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:38 PM
46

My jaded ass is thinking this is a decoy group chat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:36 AM
59

Is that better or worse than a bunk bed? Asking for a friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:13 AM
34

Like tall guys with a tatertot in their pants figure that it’ll feel bigger to a smaller woman? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:10 AM
68

That makes sense. If there’s ever a question of “Why do guys ____?” The most likely answer would probably be, “It’s some weird sex thing.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:02 AM
105

I’ve always found it strange that really tall guys often go for the short girls. Is it a pedo thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:16 AM
17

I dated someone for years and when we broke up he said, “I could’ve easily cheated on you so many times but I want you to know that I didn’t.” Gee, thanks, I guess? 🤨😂 He wasn’t abusive like your ex, he actually treated me really well, but there was no commitment. Also he put his friends above me (took a scrote’s word over mine). 🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:39 AM
4

Yes, I think most of us are queens in training here. 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:33 AM
16

After A MONTH. What an achievement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 10:07 PM
18

He told you he was out of your league, and that you should be grateful he doesn’t lie to you about the porn usage. I’m sorry but the way he talks to you doesn’t sound HV at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 10:01 PM
18

Even if they find it they don’t know what to do with it. I can’t begin to tell you how many 30 yr old men I’ve had to train, even though they claim to have had sex with plenty of (unfortunate) women. And they still complained that they can’t thrust and play with it at the same time, like, I thought men were good at multitasking?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 12:46 PM
9

That’s so funny I just commented that you’re lucky if a NVM changes his underwear. They can’t pass level 1 hygiene.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:51 AM
16

Girl, you’re miles ahead, NVM don’t even have the decency to look pretty. You’d be lucky if they change their underwear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:44 AM
16

That’s mild. Emotionally repressed men punch walls, abuse women and children, or shoot up schools.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:24 AM
3

The nurse is supposed to be the patient’s advocate, so wth is going on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 05:49 AM
8

Like when you get your car’s oil changed every 3 months. Regardless of how much sex with a partner they have, these guys feel the need to fap basically on schedule, be it daily, weekly, or whatever. I’ve been told it “keeps the mind clear.” Which is BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 05:21 AM
30

I had to take a human trafficking lecture (it was horrifying) and was shocked at the amount of trafficked women and children forced into prostitution. The US is against legalizing prostitution because it allows the abusers to hide in plain sight. I completely agree. Source: https://2001-2009.state.gov/r/pa/ei/rls/38790.htm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 04:48 AM
98

I hope you at least got a nice Christmas gift for your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 11:53 PM
6

Are these the same idiots yelling “wHaT aBoUt tOxIC fEmiNiNiTy” whenever toxic masculinity is mentioned?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 02:01 PM
3

Underrated comment. Also, if they do procreate they make shitty parents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 01:55 PM
16

What’s that saying about arguing with idiots? They will drag you to their level and beat you with experience? I wouldn’t say he beat her but he damn well wasted her time and probably killed a couple of braincells.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 04:43 PM
24

Everything is definitely not alright. But it’s fine, I got plans. Thanks for asking. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 01:42 PM
54

Yes. I’ve been told by ex’s my hormones are probably low and I need enhancers to raise my low libido. But is it, though? I’ve told them to get rid of their gut or stop consistently acting like a toddler (different ex’s) and see how the problem is fixed, but why would they when it’s easier to sit there and blame the woman so he doesn’t have to improve himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 01:36 PM
18

This randomly reminded me of a video by the Cinema Therapy guys (who seem like HVM). They were dissecting how Aragon was the perfect man: honorable, respected women, wasn’t afraid to cry in public and could still kick ass in the same scene, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 07:59 AM
9

It seems like this is just what happens when pickmes become mothers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 07:37 AM
40

My husband still complains about the bad sleep he had... when I was in labor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 07:14 AM
10

It’S NoT tHe SaMe, MeN aRe ViSuAl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 06:46 AM
3

Incels never fail to deliver.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 06:41 AM
9

Oh your poor kid. Your MIL is absolute trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 06:35 AM
3

4 months? I’m sorry but you don’t know this person, and you’re both probably still running in the honeymoon phase. He might be the nicest guy in the world but I wouldn’t risk going abroad for weeks, away from my friends and family with a man I barely know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 02:16 AM
13

I dated someone who thought it was great that I was also a gamer because that meant I understood. Umm, that wasn’t it. MF-er just neglected his girlfriend and didn’t cook, clean, was high all day while he gamed, and was verbally abusive. But it was totally the games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 11:03 PM
15

He probably hit her with some good old emotional manipulation like, “if you really loved me you would...” I feel so bad for her. But even that didn’t surprise me THAT much coming from men. However, the psycho hiding under her bed for 6 hrs. WTF? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 10:13 PM
24

I’m a gamer and even I regret dating gamers. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 09:42 PM
45

This is about putting the other in a woman’s position, because there’s nothing in this world more embarrassing to men than being a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 08:23 PM
33

A lot of them want to hit us WHILE they have sex with us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 08:21 PM
86

I’d like to know how they came to believe this. Movies? Idk. They have no good looks (neither face nor body), no personality, no money, but they think they’re the catch. Why? 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 03:34 PM
66

People tell me all the time that I’m too young for this or that. Usually, that I’m too young to be married and have a kid. They usually guess early 20s. They’re off by 10 years. LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 01:49 AM
3

At least it was a worthwhile ban. It’s unfortunate that abusive behavior is so damn normalized most people don’t even see it. I hope she wakes up. I pointed out the red flags but my post is buried, and several top posts don’t even mention it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 09:21 PM
7

Oh I thought he had cheated on you. Well, that’s a whole lotta no in that situation. She’s a pickme in love with a psycho. I feel bad for her but worse for the kids. That line he gave you, what does that mean, he wouldn’t hit you as hard? 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 06:43 PM
120

Aaaand there it is. 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 06:24 PM
8

My son really only likes the cow. 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 05:48 PM
17

First girl he met after me, married with kids within 3 months. Wait, that doesn’t add up. 🧐 You should send those messages to the wives. I would want to know who I was really with. Let’s stick up for each other, no? They might not want to believe you though, if they’re so in love. 🤮 Men suck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 05:39 PM
82

These are the same people who say to all the women “this sub is too quick to say ‘dump him’ when all you need to do is communicate“ while there are like 10 red flags in the post. And then I remember that reddit is mostly male, so these are most likely men telling women to suck it up, or brainwashed women who think this toxic behavior is acceptable. I’m going to unsubscribe from that sub. I can’t take the normalization of victim blaming anymore. And he’s probably cheating cause his wife is “not p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 05:27 PM
67

I hope he’s being genuine. But so far, I like him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 05:16 PM
8

I wouldn’t think about it as having his children. You either want children or you don’t, independent of a man. But if you do choose to have biological children because you really really want to, at least try to vet the guy really well cause you don’t want to be attached to a man who’s going to make you and your kid’s life hell out of spite if you break up. Or better yet, sperm bank. Also, I know a lot of men out there that have been raising other men’s kids for years cause they really like the m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 05:11 PM
25

They just hate women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:52 PM
245

Is this the same guy that ballooned, ”I don’t know how to explain to you that you should care about other people”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:44 PM
17

Damn, that twist though. She should write movie scripts cause I did not see it coming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:33 PM
56

Ouch. I’m sorry. And that’s another thing, why are we out here trying to “prove” ourselves for men like we’re the ones getting a deal? 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 03:54 PM
108

I’m so glad I found FDS. ☺️ Men (and some women) out there really making you feel like a crazy person for not wanting to tolerate even “just” verbal abuse. Or wanting more than bare minimum decency.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 02:38 PM
19

Everyone’s concentrating on the fact that he pees on the floor, rather than him accusing her of the mess 😐, then calling her controlling and immature for daring to hold him accountable for his mess. For trying to, anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 02:28 PM
296

It’s funny she mentioned how men love 3rd wave feminism. I always thought they hated it but actually the men I know who love it realize it benefits them. “We’re equals! Pay for your own dinner (or “treat” me), drive over to my house to sex me, pay half the rent (but do 80-100% housework).” etc. While their broke ass worries about gold-diggers. It’s ridiculous the point where we’re being brainwashed and taken advantage of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 01:45 PM
52

Like in Revenge of the Nerds when one of the nerds commits rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 08:03 AM
47

It’s that whole incompetent dad joke that commercials also love portraying. I don’t think it’s funny. I do think it’s funny that scrotes think it’s an attack on manhood by women, like it isn’t men who script it. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 02:58 AM
1

Why did I google that? Great. Yet another way go give men a pass on their sexual responsibilities. I don’t recommend anyone read the article by that pickmeisha, Catherine. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 02:21 AM
1

Yeah, when I found out I had HPV and had a cancer scare, my vagina dried up. And I still need a second confirmation follow up. And for what? Every time I think about it, it doesn’t feel like the trade was worth it especially for all the LVM in my life. I really don’t think I want to have sex ever again, to my husband’s chagrin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 02:01 AM
5

But isn’t slander false statements about the person? He wrote those himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 11:13 PM
12

“Don’t reinforce bad behavior with positive treatment.” Exactly. Girls, don’t date or have sex with these assholes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 09:03 PM
2

Serious question. How do you know for sure he doesn’t watch porn? I’ve become too cynical (or woke?) to believe any man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 06:31 AM
7

A couple weeks after I started dating my ex, he gave me a small slap on the face, or would grab me by the neck when we had sex. I was like wtf, so he didn’t do it again. Wasted half a decade of my life, and after dumping me he told a mutual friend I was too vanilla in bed. I can’t believe I was such a CoOL, sex-positive pickme. I thought he was great because he was attentive and a feminist, but I’ve just realized the parts of feminist he likes is that his girlfriend can sex him while paying for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 06:06 AM
8

Lol, what? His commitment (to being single) is hilarious. The things men will do.... Thanks for sharing. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 03:56 AM
9

Oh Lord, this still haunts me. It’s been almost 10 years and I still can’t let it go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 03:49 AM
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