Big yikes

queeninprogress · 2022-03-12T14:13:58+00:00

I still remember the tiktok by the girl who donated a kidney to her boyfriend...and he cheated on her 😬

cinderella_rising · 2022-03-12T06:01:47+00:00

George Lopez’s wife did this for him…and then later he divorced her.

They will literally suck the life resources out of us if given the chance.

motioncaptureF · 2022-03-12T06:02:04+00:00

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shockingupdate · 2022-03-12T05:44:02+00:00

Donating a kidney to a loved one in need sounds like a good thing until you scroll down and see “beast circle” and realize a lot of aLpHaS are going to look at this. Their one brain cell will gasp to life, and they’ll decide it means they should be allowed to use any woman they marry, right down to their internal organs

aquietsword · 2022-03-12T06:12:03+00:00

Meanwhile men leave their wives when they get sick. Idk how empathy and love can be so different between men and women...

vagina_shutdown · 2022-03-12T06:42:37+00:00

Did he only propose just as soon as he needed a kidney? Coincidence.

Equal-Ear2312 · 2022-03-12T07:43:45+00:00

No. Not your kidney!!!!

We do not give away body parts for men!

nancylibra · 2022-03-12T20:31:39+00:00

As a nephrology nurse I’ve seen men manipulate the women they are with into “donating” a kidney. Yet the women ? Never , not once. On the other hand, they feel like a burden taking an organ from a healthy loved one, even if it means improving their own quality of life. These women always put their loved ones first, it’s heart breaking. 😞

SayNad · 2022-03-12T14:38:36+00:00

Where is his family btw? Why aren't the male members of his family donating? Why from his girlfriend? This dude is susssss....

c_a_t_lady · 2022-03-12T08:45:25+00:00

Yikes. Not a fair comparison.

I came across this post on Instagram a while ago, in the comments a few ladies were pointing out how that wasn't equal at all, and some men complained to those women about saying that. Basically about how good women make sacrifices when they love a man.

The_Cat_Empress · 2022-03-12T14:04:02+00:00

So a comment below got me thinking about the sexes that receive the transplant and I keep getting articles saying female organs are more likely to be rejected by male bodies.

The percentage goes up or down depending on the age of the donor and the organ in question but this kind of makes me laugh for some reason.

It's like nature is saying "Don't do it sis"

Plus there was another story where a man dumped his GF after she gave him her kidney, so like...don't...just don't.

Unless it's your Dad or brother.✨ DON'T! ✨

Sisi21cent · 2022-03-12T17:24:36+00:00

He gave her less years to live, most likely.

all_or_nothing_bet · 2022-03-12T19:34:44+00:00

Then he dumped her because she developed health problems and was deemed to be "damaged goods".

yairina · 2022-03-12T06:41:16+00:00

Remindme! Two years

saragc92 · 2022-03-12T14:36:52+00:00

And 2yrs later he will cheat on her with her sister!

SupremeDearLeader · 2022-03-12T18:00:01+00:00

Being harvested for our bodies, hmmmm where have I seen this one before ..

AshlandSouth · 2022-03-12T15:10:23+00:00

I wouldn't give a man something that couldn't be repoed.

Shot_Presence_8382 · 2022-03-12T19:36:32+00:00

The only people I'd be willing to donate a kidney to would be my two children. Never, ever a man.

preppykat3 · 2022-03-12T07:28:09+00:00

The ultimate pick me 🤡

Carneliancat · 2022-03-12T16:42:40+00:00

Not a good trade. At all.

itsirrelevant · 2022-03-12T07:41:43+00:00

I would hope someone that married me would be willing to do this for me. Yes the statistics regarding male vs. female reactions to health issues are... pretty shit, but it is an impressive thing to save someone's life.

UnhappyMedia · 2022-03-12T22:28:32+00:00

Yeah no the only situation in which I’d give a man my kidney (other than my dad) is if there’s a kidney pre-nup. You cheat on or dump me, that thing will be kindly placed back into my body. And if it’s not returned in mint condition, you will be fined 😂

JulyParade · 2022-03-13T05:24:49+00:00

I have a chronic illness which requires lots of doctor appointments and procedures. No one I've ever dated has offered to be there for me, to drive me, or even asked how it went until after I reminded them it happened at all. This really makes me wonder if he would do the same for her. There are far too many couples where she's there for him, and her mother, sister or friends are there for her. I NEVER see husbands in the waiting room. Plenty of wives though.

IndianDesiQueen · 2022-03-12T18:25:15+00:00

Give a man an inch and he will take a mile. I repeat this to myself anytime I feel like I do something above and beyond and am unsure if he would do the same for me.

Spoiler: They will not do the same for you and will just take it from you.

Noemie_Mathilde · 2022-03-13T02:25:10+00:00

There was a post on FDS about a husband who got fit and healthy (to increase success rate) and gave his wife a kidney.

A husband of 20+ years (who has earned your trust and respect) is very different to a guy who just proposed. How long had they known each other for? Did he propose pre-or post diagnosis? This whole thing could be fake anyway.

thewetdog_ · 2022-03-12T22:08:20+00:00

Wouldnt even give him bone marrow ngl

tootzone · 2022-03-12T13:38:01+00:00

Donating organs has been made out to be this altruistic amazing thing that people ought to do. But in reality, if you didn't need two kidneys, you wouldn't have two kidneys. There are usually lifelong lifestyle restrictions that follow and more often than not medical issues. So this woman will spend the rest of her life barely able to live because of some guy.

2022-03-12T15:44:49+00:00

My marriage of 28 years just ended because he cheated. I lost my financial security which was bad enough but I’d be really pissed if I’d been dumb enough to give him a body part.

spinsterchachkies · 2022-03-13T05:21:52+00:00

Nope

jijitsu-princess · 2022-03-13T17:51:00+00:00

George Lopez divorced his wife after she gave him a kidney. He cheated on her with two prostitutes.

Nope

avyjorraelan · 2022-03-12T06:30:08+00:00

Ugh, saw a girl on tiktok telling she donated an organ to her then boyfriend. He cheated on her after that. The audacity.

aloevera989 · 2022-03-12T17:49:11+00:00

Notice how they compare a kidney (something life or death) to the ring he gave her. This insinuates they’re of equal value to each person. They really think we’re desperate for their commitment and devotion. As desperate as a human is when in need of a vital organ. How is this an equal exchange?

This is the programming that we’ve endured. But we’re waking up one by one and calling their bluff. That’s like how an older kid tries to trick a younger kid into an unfair trade. They literally see us as brainless emotional fools. “I’ll give you a ring if you’ll give me your kidney” head asses.

QueenEnergy4Life · 2022-03-12T18:43:59+00:00

So if I ever need a kidney all I have to do is give a ring to a man?? Does it work in reverse?

WingAdventurous4011 · 2022-03-12T19:44:25+00:00

A ring he can place on another gold diggers finger. It’s very unhealthy that women would give up their health for a man. Women need to understand that men can replace them.

Dr_MedNic · 2022-03-13T05:32:23+00:00

Biggest fucking yikes.

daydreamingintrovert · 2022-03-13T07:00:30+00:00

If he leaves and divorces her or cheats on her, she should claim her kidney back...

Electronic_Rush_9444 · 2022-03-13T11:27:18+00:00

Watch — he’ll end up cheating.

abbydavis102 · 2022-03-13T09:11:23+00:00

Lmao even the nurse is like “oof” 🤣

FI-REfox · 2022-03-12T17:27:30+00:00

I'm bracing for downvotes here, and I don't know these particular people, but if the man I trusted and loved enough to make a vow to spend my entire life with was going to die, I would give him one of my kidneys if it meant he would live.

Title	Big yikes
Author	muludnepgnicnad
Upvotes	369
Comments	88
Date	March 12, 2022 5:34 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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