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| 21 | Access to HVW is a privilege. Cut off contact the second it does not serve you - you do not have to tolerate anything subpar for even a second.Saving this for future reference :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/22 10:17 PM |
| 15 | Never EVER take or send nudes. This poor woman had then used against her 12 years ago and then spread around town recently by her neighbor who got access to her case. The post was made by the woman's husband.Wow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/22 04:57 AM |
| 10 | Vetting tip: watch out for LVM who try to get you to associate your positive moments/traits/accomplishments with negative connotationsI ended up just looking like shit and putting in low effort the next time I would see him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 07:33 AM |
| 29 | Vetting tip: watch out for LVM who try to get you to associate your positive moments/traits/accomplishments with negative connotationsIt was definitely awkward. He’s negged me a lot… I would ask him to stop and he had all kinds of excuses | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 11:55 PM |
| 90 | Vetting tip: watch out for LVM who try to get you to associate your positive moments/traits/accomplishments with negative connotationsI still remember how I wore winged eyeliner for the first time and my scrote ex noticed it, grabbed my shoulders… the way he was looking at me I thought he was about to compliment it and instead I got “I appreciate the effort but they’re uneven” I can’t get over the audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 10:08 PM |
| 2 | "It's hard to make a woman come"... as ifThank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 10:03 PM |
| 15 | "It's hard to make a woman come"... as ifI have a serious question. Is it common to actually have an orgasm from a man performing penetration alone? Because I don’t feel anything. The way that penis are shaped I don’t feel like it targets my g spot at all, but I know I have it because I can actually make myself orgasm. (Please remove my comment if it’s inappropriate, I’m just tired of my sex life lacking) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 01:33 AM |
| 22 | Have you ever witnessed/experiences a LVM turn to a HVM?Nope lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 11:53 PM |
| 87 | Man attempts to low-ball his date after getting horrendous advice from Reddit. Queen blocks and deletes in responseThat’s why we need to train them to drop it. Simply by blocking any guy who even brings it up or is looking for casual | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 10:10 PM |
| 5 | We are taught that a woman's love is natural, and a man's love is validating. Do not for a second live by this lie.Men who operate that way are draining and offer nothing in return. I don’t understand what the point of being with men like this is? It must be some sort of a saviour complex as well as masochism | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 09:39 PM |
| 47 | Man attempts to low-ball his date after getting horrendous advice from Reddit. Queen blocks and deletes in responseImagine when these incels become old farts they’ll be sitting there regretting that they were such cheap assholes in their youth . Mark my words they’ll be very regretful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 08:54 PM |
| 14 | Man attempts to low-ball his date after getting horrendous advice from Reddit. Queen blocks and deletes in responseDo women seriously expect that? I have never . I can’t even imagine it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 08:49 PM |
| 146 | Man attempts to low-ball his date after getting horrendous advice from Reddit. Queen blocks and deletes in responseI’ve never even had sex with them after an expensive date. I can’t believe they expect it at all. Having sex right away after meeting them is for hookup culture, not dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 08:48 PM |
| 77 | Man attempts to low-ball his date after getting horrendous advice from Reddit. Queen blocks and deletes in responseIt’s also this way because there’s SO MANY UGLY GUYS!!! Even the decent looking ones get snatched up first. And they can’t even make up for it by buying a fucking dinner?? Gimme a break. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 08:47 PM |
| 270 | Man attempts to low-ball his date after getting horrendous advice from Reddit. Queen blocks and deletes in responseI hate when they offer to cook dinner. They think it’s romantic but it’s gross on the first date. It’s creepy and reeks of sexual assault | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 08:45 PM |
| 79 | Man attempts to low-ball his date after getting horrendous advice from Reddit. Queen blocks and deletes in responseMen would rather die alone then spend some money on a date. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 08:43 PM |
| 39 | Beware of men who try to turn every discussion into an argumentI have an ex who would start accusing me of being angry just because of my unhappy micro expressions (as if his eye rolling and condescending glares were any better) and then after calling me angry, he would proceed to yell and wave his hands around like an ape. After the dust settled he would tell me that I get angry too quickly and should just admit to “having insecurities” and learn to open up and be vulnerable. This is the kind of trash out there ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 08:41 PM |
| 20 | I have a feeling there’s more to the story than what was said here. I also have a feeling the wife rarely ever gets an orgasm from her porn-sick husband. Why did you marry her if you thought she was too vanilla? Because you had a Madonna/whore complex and now you’re playing the victim in bed?Which is nothing but ugly close ups of their pickles usually | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 08:39 PM |
| 170 | Beware of men who try to turn every discussion into an argumentAlso the annoying types who call you “angry” anytime you stand your ground. Like wtf??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 10:30 AM |
| 8 | I have a feeling there’s more to the story than what was said here. I also have a feeling the wife rarely ever gets an orgasm from her porn-sick husband. Why did you marry her if you thought she was too vanilla? Because you had a Madonna/whore complex and now you’re playing the victim in bed?Same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 11:46 PM |
| 17 | 'Men age like fine wine' 'Women hit the wall'It’s so fun to watch them squirm now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 11:46 PM |
| 40 | A HVM will make you like your own personality MOREThat’s a good reminder | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 03:58 AM |
| 145 | 'Men age like fine wine' 'Women hit the wall'It’s not true at all. The majority of them are bald and chubby.. younger women had to settle for them because society pays women less. Luckily, this is slowly shifting. That’s why we’re seeing so many gross incels who complain about nobody wanting to sleep with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 03:06 AM |
| 2 | At the hospital overnight for a small procedure. This is where the bar is:This is something I struggled with my ex a lot. He would NEVER wash his hands after peeing (sometimes even after #2)…. Yet when I confronted him he said he didn’t have to because he doesn’t touch it?? Wtf?? And to make things worse he said that it’s only women who should wash their hands after the bathroom because we wipe??? The scrote would proceed to touch my face randomly (being playful), as well as force feed me his snacks because he’s so damn controlling with those same gross hands and I co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Why you should NEVER accept a 50/50 relationship: THIS. Imagine how life is if she just stay single and work on her business alone.I don’t understand what’s the point of dating a man who makes a lot more than you and still expects 50/50. You’re better off getting a roommate??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 10:14 PM |
| 11 | Positive for chlamydia- the audacityI’ve met many men who don’t think it’s a big deal because apparently all you need to do is “take some pills” to make it go away 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 10:13 PM |
| 266 | I have a feeling there’s more to the story than what was said here. I also have a feeling the wife rarely ever gets an orgasm from her porn-sick husband. Why did you marry her if you thought she was too vanilla? Because you had a Madonna/whore complex and now you’re playing the victim in bed?Why would anyone want his nudes? LMAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 10:11 PM |
| 101 | Man withholds a 12.5K bonus from his SAHM wife because she didnt share the 200$ she made on Etsy (the first time in 7 years she earned anything). Be careful not to marry miserly men who loathe you.I couldn’t bring myself to read it. I just think he’s a disgusting pig and I hope she leaves him soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 03:50 AM |
| 16 | Where do men go to find the audacity? What kind of good man is this? Is this the standard? Because if so, then sorry to this man. 33 and childish with his priorities out of order. What an embarrassment. Feel sorry for that baby.He sounds 12… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 08:03 PM |
| 25 | Jesus Christ, is she in the Pick-Me Olympics? Did not see 1 tiktok encouraging men 2 give their woman oral sex. Her feed is just pandering to male pleasure constantly. Women get enough pressure from porn fried society to give head. It’s men who need a reminder to eat a woman out and make her orgasm.She’s making $ of off being a pick me so I’m not surprised | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 05:55 AM |
| 103 | War on Women vs War on MenHe’s not Ukrainian. This is the LAST thing a Ukrainian would be worrying about right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 07:22 AM |
| 58 | Big yikesThe ultimate pick me 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 07:28 AM |
| 4 | Poor woman terrified of her own husband. 💔Breaks my heart.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 06:16 AM |
| 4 | Rejected by 300 "hot girls", NVM cries about having to settle for "average" girls to get laidI hope that slob never sees a woman again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 07:30 AM |
| 25 | He was fine with 50/50 until she told him the cost of having a childI don’t need to read all that to know he’s a worthless cheapskate that deserves to be alone forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 10:44 PM |
| 57 | On Pornhub blocking russian users. A strategic move and some history lessons.As a woman from Ukraine, I’m horrified and disgusted by how perverts are sexualizing this horrific conflict. THERE ARE NO WORDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 11:13 PM |
| 134 | I love it when scrotes just perfectly illustrate why we need FDS. This is the type of guy you will weed out with the "unreasonable" rules he mentionsIf pussy is so “average” to them then why are they so desperate for it??????? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 10:05 PM |
| 69 | Never EVER share financial information with a man. It starts with $20 now but can easily escalate to much more over the years. Come across the wrong one and they will absolutely destroy you financially.They’re not getting a penny from me. Dirty scrotes. They want EVERYTHING these days! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 09:52 PM |
| 107 | Fucking idiot 🤡I threw up reading this. I can’t. These ugly Scrotes are pathetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 07:31 PM |
| 60 | Confirmation of Female Dating Strategies + On Shy MenHim being shy usually means you’ll be the man in the relationship. You’ll always have to initiate sex, and do all the talking. I hate “shy” men. They’re not even shy. Just dumb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 02:19 AM |
| 7 | Red pilled Twitter caught encouraging men not to wear condoms and thinks STIs are part of a government conspiracy to keep birth rates down🤡First of all, these are literal uneducated cavemen idiots. PULLING OUT DOESNT WORK. Never will. I’m on birth control pills and I managed to get HPV from going raw. Men can’t even get tested for HPV, so the majority don’t know they have it. I’m not worried though. Incels like the ones in those comments are never going to get laid anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 01:52 AM |
| 54 | Can we talk about the difference befween Anna Delvey and The tinder swindler?I love Anna but I wouldn’t want to be her friend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 12:35 AM |
| 9 | Scrolling Reddit is downright depressing: women with no dignity or self-respectI’m not exposed to it because I’m not in dating subreddits. This is the only good one. If I read pick me horror stories all day, I would be insanely depressed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 07:55 PM |
| 233 | This. Is. Horrifying. Husband thinks it’s okay her sister was physically abused and went to the hospital by her boyfriend. Wife hasn’t mentioned leaving him in either post (that I’ve seen)Imagine marrying such a monster | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 02:16 AM |
| 135 | Incoming meltdown in 3 2 1....I would’ve called him a Karen and ignored . I loved the way you handled it btw! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 01:17 AM |
| 301 | I could not find ONE comment saying she’s in the right. He expects her to come over on the first date but gets offended when she mentions him paying for tea. A $2 item. 🥴Jesus Chris. Dying alone sounds like a privilege and a luxury at this point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 11:49 PM |
| 14 | Men want me to back down even when I am rightWow. It’s sad how relatable this is. Especially the yelling and tantrum throwing. (Which btw they even have the audacity to say that they’re not mad, and I’m the one mad instead). They’re super argumentative. Never back down. It’s ridiculous how fragile and sensitive their egos are. I’ve always felt like I have to be the one to back down. ALWAYS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 11:09 PM |
| 20 | being male in america hard, so hardWhat a pathetic crybaby | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 04:58 AM |
| 169 | Pickmeisha hall of fame 😂🤦🏻♀️How about we wipe his ass too? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 04:17 AM |
| 17 | Signs You've Been F*ckzonedThank you! Lool team Katherine 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 09:10 PM |
| 60 | Signs You've Been F*ckzonedA good post and a worthy reminder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 08:20 PM |
| 135 | A man i've never spoken to in my life dealing with abuse "allegations" and losing custody of his daughter who is barely a month old decides now is the perfect time to talk to random women. Should pass this along to the mother in case he tries to get back with her?He Types Like A Clown | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 03:17 AM |
| 31 | For the laughs, ladies! Now men are calling us "entitled" for wanting the bare minimum!He sounds repulsive. Imagine wanting to sleep with someone who doesn’t even think you’re worth courting. Yuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 08:48 PM |
| 5 | Scrote Takes Out His Girlfriend to McDonalds for Valentine's Day, "Rewards" Her A Year Later for Tolerating ItI better be getting that ps5 instead. The most I’ve spent on a man is $20 for bday cake | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 07:49 PM |
| 22 | Scrote Takes Out His Girlfriend to McDonalds for Valentine's Day, "Rewards" Her A Year Later for Tolerating ItYes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 04:37 AM |
| 69 | Scrote Takes Out His Girlfriend to McDonalds for Valentine's Day, "Rewards" Her A Year Later for Tolerating ItHe’s the ugliest thing I’ve ever seen WTF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 03:42 AM |
| 36 | Scrote Takes Out His Girlfriend to McDonalds for Valentine's Day, "Rewards" Her A Year Later for Tolerating ItThey do have the best fries 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 03:40 AM |
| 60 | Scrote Takes Out His Girlfriend to McDonalds for Valentine's Day, "Rewards" Her A Year Later for Tolerating ItScrotes have gotten so lazy and useless; that a good amount of them will do even less on v day. And justify it with “well it’s just a made up holiday!”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 03:39 AM |
| 96 | Man Deducted $1 From Fiancee's Valentine's Day Gift Every Time She YelledI’m so sick of pickme’s spoiling these ugly scrotes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 09:42 PM |
| 46 | The relationship subs have delivered on my expectations for Valentine's Scrotery but this one really hit me for some reason. I think its the massive cope at the end.Sickening to read | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 05:38 AM |
| 5 | An example of a LV Valentine's day gift. The bar is so low, that she's so excited about receiving this "gift" 🤮I think this a man making that post to troll women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 11:12 AM |
| 4 | They tell on themselves and don’t even realize it. Just say you can’t satisfy a woman and go. Low value and sexually useless. At least he’s making it known for women to avoid him.Well I’ve gotten it from getting oral and fingered.. but if my clitoris doesn’t get stimulated then I can’t come at all . Is this uncommon? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 01:44 AM |
| 10 | They tell on themselves and don’t even realize it. Just say you can’t satisfy a woman and go. Low value and sexually useless. At least he’s making it known for women to avoid him.Tbh, I’ve never orgasmed from intercourse alone. I’m starting to wonder if men are even capable of giving one by their penis alone, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 01:41 AM |
| 258 | Good LuckHe literally sounds like a diva. Who the fuck would deal with him?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 10:06 PM |
| 44 | Apparently, to some pickmes, opening doors is a grand romantic gesture worthy of sex. And of course, someone calling this out gets downvotedGross.. I’ll happily open my own damn door in that case. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 09:40 PM |
| 15 | Disgusting Vday GiftsOh okay, makes sense! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 08:26 PM |
| 57 | Disgusting Vday GiftsWhere are the ones that praise her private parts?? Or candles that promise her pleasure? Why is it all about him???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 07:43 PM |
| 5 | He’s crazy if he thinks Gen z/millennial woman are gonna put up with this😂💀I honestly think it’s just some lonely ugly troll trying to make the girls on that app feel insecure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 07:21 PM |
| 56 | Scrotes are really running out of excuses to shame women for their sexual livesOh absolutely! I always thought this way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 07:56 PM |
| 17 | Don’t date cops reason #2,387: female district court judge tries to rebut the statistic that cop families have 2-4x domestic violence rates. She literally is a judge and can’t grasp that her experience isn’t a statistic.Thank you for the informative response! Yes, I make sure to use contraception first. And I’m pro choice of course! But things happen.. and the way things are going in America I’m worried about the future of America, and even contraception methods. It doesn’t hurt to know these things. I’m a neurodivergent woman with a lot of issues, to put it bluntly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 07:37 PM |
| 33 | Don’t date cops reason #2,387: female district court judge tries to rebut the statistic that cop families have 2-4x domestic violence rates. She literally is a judge and can’t grasp that her experience isn’t a statistic.What about the women who don’t want the kids? I’ve always been child free and I often think about that. It’s waaaay too common to leave it to women to take care of. What if you accidentally had a kid, regretted it, and wanted him to have full custody of it but he didn’t want to? I think my question might be controversial but I think it’s simply because society expects too much from women. We’re always expected to take care of everyone and everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 06:57 PM |
| 48 | A man will date you for weeks, have you be exclusive with him JUST to have sex and leave as soon as he gets it. This scares the hell out of me about dating, I wonder how one can vet this kind of behavior.Couldn’t agree more lol. He didn’t even like giving oral but expects bjs. It’s the most baffling thing I’ve ever heard. I’m happy to say in my experience, most men do enjoy it. It’s the ones who think that they’re amazing in bed who are always the worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 10:02 PM |
| 79 | A man will date you for weeks, have you be exclusive with him JUST to have sex and leave as soon as he gets it. This scares the hell out of me about dating, I wonder how one can vet this kind of behavior.You should still vet, but it doesn’t always guarantee anything. I’ve spent months vetting a guy who acted high value only to have him dump me after we finally had sex. (I’ll admit, I was nervous and didn’t have much sexual experience , so I was pretty boring in bed but still)… it feels like men mostly care about how good you are in bed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 08:51 PM |
| 269 | Husband “face fucks” pregnant wife for 45 minutes, gets verbally abusive when she wants an orgasm too; OP thinks it’s her fault for “not communicating”I use to think it was a curse that I have a pregnancy phobia, now I think it’s a blessing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 10:02 PM |
| 365 | Husband “face fucks” pregnant wife for 45 minutes, gets verbally abusive when she wants an orgasm too; OP thinks it’s her fault for “not communicating”Men like that simply don’t deserve sex. There’s NOTHING else you can do but simply not give it to him. Can you imagine how sore her jaw was?? Wtf is the point of this!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 10:01 PM |
| 71 | A Baby Cannot Trap a Man. A Baby Cannot Trap a Man.I think these days it’s men who are doing the baby trapping. A lot of women (including myself) don’t want kids. And men are starting to take notice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 09:33 PM |
| 50 | Canadian Teen Killed by British Man She Flew to Meet After Falling for Him on Dating AppThey just look dull to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 09:31 PM |
| 116 | Just saw this posted at another community… 🤮Lol what? I actually became super narcissistic and picky when I lost weight. They couldn’t be more wrong 😂 (I have to clarify that I didn’t lose too much, but I did lose 15 lbs and even that was enough to give me a huge ego boost. I wasn’t obese or anything). I can’t imagine how accomplished and proud big women must feel. There’s no way they would settle for a scrote after putting in that much work! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 10:27 PM |
| 11 | You guysss 🤮🤮🥲 “Ugh- husband woke me up in middle of night for sex and it was gross”This ruined my breakfast | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 08:38 PM |
| 60 | "The Tinder Swindler" on Netflix is a parade of red flags 🚩🚩🚩It’s so dumb that I almost think it’s fake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 09:02 PM |
| 8 | Cooking together in a new relationship - wifey shit?Oh it’s pretty clear. I can’t cook anyway. The only thing I ever make is frozen stuff anyway. It’s a good way to vet men when I tell them I can’t cook and that I hate cooking anyway. So they don’t even expect me to learn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 07:36 PM |
| 351 | Cooking together in a new relationship - wifey shit?I don’t see an issue with it IF he’s doing it with you. If you’re the one doing most of the work then you’re not doing it together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 06:04 AM |
| 5 | The “Tinder Swindler” is just one long exercise in watching pickme’s not recognizing red flags. I can’t even feel bad for these women.I agree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 12:07 AM |
| 255 | Spotted this ad under "housing" on craigslist 😬This is why housing needs to be affordable. Nobody should have to be desperate enough to be taken advantage of like this… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 11:57 PM |
| 35 | TW: public harrasment of a young woman. Rejection is so hurtful to men that they seek revenge from women. And assisting them is not just men but whole families, pickmeishas, who raise these men and blame women.Savages | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 08:38 PM |
| 324 | 19 yr old kidnapped by boyfriend, captured on CCTV, he got 7.5 years in prison - she had life changing injuries and needs 24/7 care.He needs to be in prison FOR LIFE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 12:10 AM |
| 141 | Found on another sub. I was grossed out by how many people thought this was so cute and #couplegoals material 🤢Wife material? She’s his mommy! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 08:48 PM |
| 133 | Late Miss USA, having previously written a heartbreaking essay about turning 30, dies by suicide at 30 years old. Women being worthless at 30 is an idea perpetuated by the manosphere, yet they dare say FDS is toxic?This is sad and sends a bad message to women. She had so much going for her. I hope women stop believing in the aging bs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 02:51 AM |
| 87 | Don't let any entitled male tell you that you need to be desperate for male attention. This mess is Exhibit A for what they want women to believe about their chances of meeting a man. Don't lower your standards.He’s 52???? LOL . What a failure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 02:35 AM |
| 21 | Groom smashes bride’s face into cake & she rightfully is leaving himYes!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 04:43 AM |
| 947 | Groom smashes bride’s face into cake & she rightfully is leaving himGood for her. There’s no excuse to act like a psychopathic toddler and do this to your “wife to be”. It was meant to humiliate her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 08:54 PM |
| 19 | Liz and Big Ed are a cautionary tale (90 day single life spoilers)I use to be one of those women who believed ugly guys would make up for it by having hearts of gold, and boy was I wrong LOL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 10:27 PM |
| 44 | The bar is in hell.This is why I’ll never give any man money. I can’t imagine stooping so low. He has to have the heart of gold, and spoil me rotten if I was to ever consider helping a man out with $$. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 05:37 PM |
| 83 | The bar is in hell.Because they fall for stupid speculative crap and think they’re geniuses who’ll go to the moon | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 03:29 PM |
| 149 | The bar is in hell.Well we certainly aren’t looking for hobosexuals obsessed with cryptos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 03:10 PM |
| 13 | No second date, so he wants moneyI’d laugh and then block | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 11:24 PM |
| 44 | Woman goes on Judge Steve Harvey to “sue” fiancé of 15+ years for not marrying her.I can’t muster up sympathy for pick me’s anymore. They’re enabling scrotes at this point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 07:43 AM |
| 7 | Thoughts on G.L Lambert? Relationship expert (@8plus9 on twitter)His books are cringey and I regret getting it lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 09:15 PM |
| 130 | Pretend you can't cookCame here to say this LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 08:40 PM |
| 93 | Proof that the main beneficiary of casual sex & relationships is men!!!!I already do that. I just don’t sleep with them. If they’re going to treat me casual then that’s all they’re getting. A friend :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 12:45 AM |
| 109 | Negs her, calls her response a meltdown, asks reddit if he is wrong or if she is overreacting.I also LOVE how they fall back to “you’re so insecure” like wtf?? No. How about you’re the one who’s insecure for making such a pitiful joke you absolute clown?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 09:58 PM |
| 350 | Negs her, calls her response a meltdown, asks reddit if he is wrong or if she is overreacting.“You’re insecure unless you shut up and pretend my neckbeard jokes are funny!” I would’ve loved to roast his balding ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 09:48 PM |
| 149 | How are men so obsessed with sex and yet still SO BAD at it??Especially the ones who think they’re good at it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 12:08 AM |
| 39 | The unsustainable level of the human population on Earth is a direct result of enslaving the natural gatekeepers of reproduction: women.Hmm idk why they would do that :/ I’ve definitely seen posts like this on here before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 11:23 PM |
| 90 | The unsustainable level of the human population on Earth is a direct result of enslaving the natural gatekeepers of reproduction: women.This is so accurate. I’m glad someone finally said it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 11:17 PM |
| 201 | The unsustainable level of the human population on Earth is a direct result of enslaving the natural gatekeepers of reproduction: women.Exactly. Besides, the only reason men even want kids is not because they care about kids but because they think they have precious genes that are worth being passed down. It’s all about egotism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 11:14 PM |
| 330 | The unsustainable level of the human population on Earth is a direct result of enslaving the natural gatekeepers of reproduction: women.It’s absolutely not worth having kids. It’s become even worse for women in terms of what men expect. Now they want someone who pays the bills, AND does most of the work with the kid as well as keeping the house tidy. Fuck all that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 11:10 PM |
| 97 | Male attention is inherently low-value.I think the faulty myth that “women love assholes” has done the most damage imo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 11:05 PM |
| 73 | Indian men threatening that they won't get married as an opposition to the marital rape laws being heard in the high courts. I just have two things to say - interesting reaction and I hope these people are identified and made public so literally, no one ever marries themLOL. They really think anyone wants their rapey asses? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 10:24 PM |
| 284 | Male attention is inherently low-value.They truly think if they neg us and put us down that we’ll somehow become magically dependent on them. Why are they so stupid? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 10:21 PM |
| 5 | Did anyone else hear about this? idk if they’re trying to be the new edgelord couple, but if my man designs an engagement ring that hurts to take off, Imma have to pass on his assAnd this is 2022, folks. Are you as disappointed as I am? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 10:17 PM |
| 214 | Scrote abuses and manipulates wife into thinking she is ugly and blames herself for his cheating and abuse.Once again I wish people would build their confidence first before entering any dating scene. There’s no way anyone healthy would’ve stayed with someone who says “I can look past your appearance”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 09:46 PM |
| 57 | You might've seen the article on men creating AI girlfriends and verbally abusing them. I was curious after that news came out and decided to download Replika (where these incidents occured). This is the program that they were abusing.Oh I have that for when I get bored.. but knowing that it’s just an ai chat robot makes me feel like I’m wasting my time on it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 02:20 AM |
| 58 | Men Who Block For No Reason?I have ADHD and I don’t randomly block. They had to have done something to turn me off first. They’re ghosting you so forget about them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 10:44 PM |
| 91 | Scrote insults his girlfriend to his friends, then takes joy in telling her about itI bet he’s an ugly neckbeard. I hope she dumped him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 08:23 PM |
| 53 | A new low for LVM….Did I misread something? He was involved with another girl and decided to shoot his gf??? What? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 12:14 AM |
| 23 | Man pretends to be doctor, lawyer and council official to control his girlfriend. Story in the comments:This is a full fledged psychopath.. wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 09:26 PM |
| 221 | The Inverse Relationship Between Financial Maturity and Marriage DesirabilityI think it’s funny how much men don’t realize that they’re needier than us. I’ve always enjoyed time to myself in a separate room. A lot of men seem to be offended by this and want you to sit there like their lap dog all the time. I would never even dare entertaining the idea of providing for a man financially. Even if I’m rich. I’ve always been greedy with money. If anything, I expect to be spoiled even if I’m financially stable. I think a lot of it has to do from my Eastern European culture. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 09:21 PM |
| 15 | They always tell on themselves, sometimes sooner than othersNext! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 06:22 PM |
| 195 | She Needed FDS a Long Time AgoAnother big reason I’ll always be child free. I don’t see the appeal of popping out their spawn when they act like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 11:47 PM |
| 142 | Why vetting is SO important. I hope this woman gets a divorce and full custody asap.What a disgusting little scrote. Reading this made me sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 02:36 AM |
| 7 | Saw this elsewhere and yupTruth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 09:59 PM |
| 19 | Weaponised incompetence is a manipulation tactic. It is not a cute “quirk” that men do and it’s also not funny to actively KNOW that they do this and defend it. Pick me’s are just so delusional.They can’t even make their beds yet they run the world?? No wonder everything’s always falling apart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 08:12 PM |
| 48 | Pickme rewards her husband with a blowjob after he's been sexually absent and mainly being intimate IN HIS DREAMS 😔This is very low self esteem I hope she gets therapy :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 11:07 AM |
| 16 | A cautionary tale on why you shouldn't settle for less. Break up at the first sign.I would think she was an asshole IF she didn’t pay half of the bills (even more!!). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 11:07 PM |
| 48 | Let’s talk about choosing not to blockThey got it all backwards. “Losing” is letting someone waste your time with their unwanted presence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 11:04 PM |
| 9 | We have a fragile one.God forbid women have a comfort space. Apparently only men are allowed to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 10:33 PM |
| 29 | Why Casual Sex is a heck no! UK men admit they only disclose chronic STD’s to women they aren’t just using for sex.I thought it already was a criminal offense. I can’t even begin to fathom why it isn’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 08:03 PM |
| 61 | Why Casual Sex is a heck no! UK men admit they only disclose chronic STD’s to women they aren’t just using for sex.Always knew it. Why would a stranger be honest about anything when there’s only one thing on his mind?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 08:02 PM |
| 7 | What do you think of your partner having long weekends without you?I’m an introvert and I usually enjoy time to myself. I need to recharge. In fact I’m most likely to be the one away from him. Hope that’s ok lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 07:53 PM |
| 44 | We are living in a clown world 🤡Exactly!!! And also, poly men have a very hard time finding other women to bang anyway. Idk why they think they can lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 08:49 AM |
| 171 | We are living in a clown world 🤡If I ever did try polyamory it would be to find a better man and leave the one that suggested it lolol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 05:03 AM |
| 3 | Male entitlement knows no boundsThese fossil farts know that the world is changing and the power dynamic is shifting. That’s why they’re acting out so much. Their relevancy is slowly fading. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 09:00 PM |
| 39 | The audacity of menThis makes sense! I’m glad you found your self worth. I also use to seek validation through sex. It made me feel powerful tbh. But then I felt gross because it felt like I was rewarding low quality trash for no reason. I found other ways to feel validated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 08:54 PM |
| 209 | The audacity of menExactly. That’s why I have zero issues discarding guys who are just there to waste my time. They have nothing to offer. And I’ve had casual sex before. WTF do women get out of it???? A stranger gives zero shits about your pleasure. They literally use you as a sock. We don’t even come. I don’t understand why there’s women who pretend to be into the hook up culture. I feel like they’re after something else. Validation and attention, but they definitely don’t enjoy the sex imo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 08:43 PM |
| 7 | When your husband sets a timer for how long you spend together each dayThis is scary | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 08:20 PM |
| 58 | I’m just going to leave this here: “Mick Jagger, 78, is finally settling down with 35-year-old ‘gal pal.’”I’m sick of pretending like I don’t find the women in this scenario gross as well. Nobody’s forcing her to be with that dried up old raisin but the more this happens the more men expect it. It doesn’t help us when so many pick me’s have no issues providing men with things they don’t deserve. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 07:14 PM |
| 22 | Foolproof vetting strategy : tell him "a man did something to you"Wtf! That’s beyond a red flag | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 07:28 AM |
| 97 | “Ask her out, but you dont need to pay”Well now we know why incels never get laid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Bodyshaming and -negging: It has nothing to do with what you look like, but you NEED to leave at the first sign of it.Agreed! And it’s often so overlooked too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 01:56 AM |
| 79 | Stupid rant about Kim & KanyeAnyone who defends Kanye is insane. He deserves to be alone forever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 09:06 PM |
| 15 | The absolute audacity of some of these men. Could you imagine telling your partner that you are taking a three month break from being a spouse and a parent?She needs to take a break from him forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 10:19 PM |
| 39 | Bodyshaming and -negging: It has nothing to do with what you look like, but you NEED to leave at the first sign of it.And this applies to any sort of body shaming. I’ve noticed that society has become obsessed with “thick” so now skinny people are thrown under the bus. I’ve had men tell me to “eat a burger” even though I’m not overly skinny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 06:07 PM |
| 31 | No one seems to be asking where he got this STD?? And she gets frequent UTIs because of him 🤢🤮A guy once told me that he admires women because the majority of them would stay if their man became disabled to take care of him and wipe his ass all the time. Then he proceeded to admit that most men wouldn’t stay if the roles were reversed. I felt sick to my stomach. I DONT want to be nurturing. And I certainly wouldn’t stay. After hearing him say that I’m more convinced than ever that women need to start looking out for their interests MORE aggressively than men do. Or we’ll continue to get … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 06:02 PM |
| 11 | Only a scrote takes it personallyAgreed. Most rape cases are actually where the victim has known someone closely, not strangers. It doesn’t matter if you meet him in person or online, they can be a creep either way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 10:49 PM |
| 5 | Only a scrote takes it personallyThat’s so creepy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 10:47 PM |
| 10 | Do any of you NOT want to get married one day?Oh lol. I wouldn’t even clean up after him in marriage 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 09:51 PM |
| 10 | Do any of you NOT want to get married one day?I get confused on here cuz on one hand I read comments and posts like “he’s been with her for 10 years without marriage!” But I also see a lot of comments that are against marriage. So it’s hard for me to even pick a stance.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 09:05 PM |
| 8 | Book Report: The Art of Seduction by Robert GreeneI couldn’t care less if it is manipulation. Women need to use whatever tools they have at their disposal for survival. Men have been getting away with things far too long because they’re willing to play dirty with us. Why aren’t we allowed to? Regardless, it’s an amazing book. And it’s on the FDS reading list. I don’t see why anyone would have an issue with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 06:40 PM |
| 63 | The idea that men peak in their 30s is a male fantasyI’ve never heard that myth LOL! Every guy I’ve ever known has felt like shit hitting 30. (And for good reasons) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 08:02 PM |
| 21 | More men than ever single? GOOD! Women are finally getting standars and the men are screeching and seethingThat’s what my mom did. She didn’t want to stay in Ukraine, and my dad was an alcoholic so she decided to marry an older American. She was already educated like most women in Ukraine and Russia, all she had to do was further her education here and that’s it. She planned to leave him but he turned out high value. (Which is VERY rare). Her friend did the same but hers turned out low value, so she got a job, and left his ass after getting citizenship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 07:01 PM |
| 18 | Book Report: The Art of Seduction by Robert GreeneThis book is my Bible. From the moment I read it, I couldn’t understand why any man would. Most of the examples were women. And it sounded very feminine. Except maybe “the rake” who uses sweet words. Either way, this book was my first guide on how not to be a needy pick me. It empowered me greatly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 02:59 AM |
| 83 | Men can't admit they can't pleasure women and that's why we replace themThey’re basically roasting themselves 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 08:52 PM |
| 9 | As funny as this sounds it's really hard to find men who actually like sexOh yes I forgot to mention he got very offended that I didn’t want to swallow it. As if it’s some god’s given gift. Disgusting creatures. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 10:17 PM |
| 15 | As funny as this sounds it's really hard to find men who actually like sexExactly!! I think the most shocking thing about this situation is the audacity to lie and say his past gfs hated oral. I don’t believe it for a second. He even framed it in a way that made me look weird for enjoying it, and made it sound like most women don’t like it. I couldn’t believe my ears lol. I’ve never even met a guy who was turned off by giving oral. He also added it’s because he “doesn’t like the taste”. As if we like the taste of theirs. He’s also the type to brag about how good he is… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 06:31 PM |
| 48 | As funny as this sounds it's really hard to find men who actually like sexBefore the modern age they would get off to the thought of the woman NOT enjoying it, which made her “pure” and “holy”. Now they’ve changed their minds and want the woman to enjoy it at all costs and be super enthusiastic, making them feel like some sort of sex gods. I’ve also had a guy complain that he stopped feeling attracted because I made him feel unattractive since I wasn’t showing enough enthusiasm. Despite him getting bjs, he said he hated giving oral back because he doesn’t like the tas… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 08:29 PM |
| 11 | Is your boyfriend part of the secret Nude Trading Club?Holy shit. These are literal cucks idk what else to say 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 08:10 PM |
| 16 | He didn’t really ask, but I’ll answer (scrotes, pay attention!)That’s so awkward and creepy. I’m sorry you had to deal with that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 08:03 PM |
| 12 | Man tries to challenge my standards when I say walks are not datesDude doesn’t even know the difference between “your” and “you’re”. And his arguments are dumb and pointless. I can’t believe anyone would ever offer a walking date. A coffee date is the most lowest form of investment and he can’t even offer that? I would insta block the moment he said “walk”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 09:28 PM |
| 18 | Perfect example of men having issues with your pets being a red flag! And this queen response!!!They don’t dare put up with women who don’t like their pets. I’ve had a guy straight up rage at me just because I was afraid of his dog. I told him I had two dogs bite me in my childhood, so I needed time to warm up to someone’s dog and that I still enjoyed dogs but was mostly a cat person, and he started ranting about how I hate animals. Like wtf? I tried to correct him and he got even more arrogant. Granted he was 5’5 (shortest guy I’ve ever given a chance).. so I guess that would explain some… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 06:36 PM |
| 18 | Guy dumps his GF over not enthusiastically having oral and not doing anal, and gets hailed as an upstanding guy for doing this in the commentsAnal?? Yeah I’d be more than happy to be dumped by a guy who likes anal, lol. He should stick to men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 09:08 PM |
| 45 | Everyone in this supposed feminist sub is telling her to propose herselfThat’s so sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 04:39 AM |
| 26 | 'When rape is inevitable, enjoy it’: Karnataka (India) Congress MLA in AssemblyBarbarians. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 07:15 PM |
| 38 | Holiday Tip: His Family is his problem. NOT YOURSBuying gifts for his family is actually a thing? What the heck?? Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 01:58 AM |
| 12 | It saddens me that TikTok has a negative reputation on FDS.Agreed. I follow fitness and dieting pages, as well as ADHD motivation. Aside from everyone re using the same 3 tiresome songs all the time, I haven’t run into too many issues. There’s low value garbage on every social media. Just focus on the things you’re interested in, and block/discard the rest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 11:02 PM |
| 83 | This is the prime example of rich =/= high value..That’s true. I’ve been with generous broke guys who treated me like a Princess, and I’ve also been with more wealthier types who are beyond stingy. Biggest turn off ever! 🤮 idk how anyone can be with them. What’s the point?? To watch them rub their crap in your face while they treat you like shit? Nty | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 06:34 PM |
| 136 | This is the prime example of rich =/= high value..Why is she with this cheap lowlife?? If a man is “rich” but acts like a cheapass towards you then he’s broke in my book. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 05:59 PM |
| 31 | Don't expect support and approval in your level up journeyThey can facepalm all they want, they know they’re in the wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 10:35 AM |
| 21 | Comments on another sub about a man who confessed to murdering his PREGNANT girlfriend on FB Live and is about to kill his ex-wife too. He accused them of making false accusations to take his kids away. It is SCARY how many comments are so quick to believe this murderer and victim blame.I can’t believe any woman would be anti abortion in this day and age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 07:47 AM |
| 29 | Comments on another sub about a man who confessed to murdering his PREGNANT girlfriend on FB Live and is about to kill his ex-wife too. He accused them of making false accusations to take his kids away. It is SCARY how many comments are so quick to believe this murderer and victim blame.WTF is wrong with them?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 07:34 AM |
| 35 | If he’s late he might be avoiding to pay!Reading these comments is making me feel that I’ve been lucky to even get coffee out of these scrotes. And I shouldn’t be feeling this way over the bare minimum lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 08:21 PM |
| 67 | Is it just me or do men not know how to talk to women anymore? It seems like every conversation involves some sort of pick up artist technique instead of being genuineI’d just assume he’s insane and leave lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 05:01 AM |
| 54 | I gave my ex a list of things I'm allergic to, he told his mother it's my favourite food. I ended up practically dying on the way to the hospital. He thought I'm lying and just being a picky eater.I don’t have any allergies, but I do have disdain for melted cheese and can’t tolerate it at all. Which confuses people since I can eat brie and other types of cheese. I also HATE the thought of someone’s dirty hands touching my food. And I would have this guy who never washes his hands after taking a piss, feed me his food (to try it). I gulped it down cuz I felt mean if I refused it. But all I could think about is how gross this is. Why are we conditioned to be such doormats? Especially dealin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 07:53 PM |
| 104 | I gave my ex a list of things I'm allergic to, he told his mother it's my favourite food. I ended up practically dying on the way to the hospital. He thought I'm lying and just being a picky eater.Also those same types of slimeballs tend to be controlling as well. You’re not the boss of him, but he certainly thinks he’s the boss of you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 07:43 PM |
| 45 | Evidently it’s necessary to confirm upfront if their listed location is where they actually live 🚩I HATE when they do this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Older does not mean wiser and they always use the "she's such an old soul" bsI’ve never seen a point unless he has money and is generous with it. Otherwise I REALLY don’t see the point. Like what do they get out of it?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 08:26 PM |
| 61 | Ugly men have been engaging with this trend and the comments are even worse... yeah, I'm content being single the rest of my lifeThese losers are friendzoning themselves? HAHAHAHAHAHA good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 08:06 PM |
| 41 | I came across this exercise from FDS recommended book "the power of pu*sy" and it had me a bit stumped! Would love to hear you ladies' opinions, if you'd wish to share! *WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM MEN?*The bare fucking minimum seems like a lot to ask these days but aside from that, Someone who’s not a cheap ass. They don’t have to be rich or anything, but enjoys paying for dates and gifts. (Idk why men get freaked out over this it’s not asking for much) Someone who’s kind & patient. Compatible personality Cares about my pleasure in bed Doesn’t have some insecure ego where he gets a thrill out of debating/arguing with me on everything Looks decent Proper hygiene This is literally all I’m asking… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 07:38 PM |
| 56 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 40 -Scrote Decode: John Cena & His Insane 75 Page Girlfriend ContractAnother generic man who thinks he’s the sh*t ... typical | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 10:42 AM |
| 77 | This is likely the darkest 'joke' in the entire sitcom and this guy is laughing about it happening in real life. Beware the man who laughs when women are in danger rather than report it to the police 🚩🚩🚩Incels truly do hate women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 09:06 PM |
| 338 | On subreddits outside of FDS women are coming to understand that being “independent” 50/50 women will only attract losersI’m from Eastern Europe and I was SHOCKED to find out that the 50/50 on dates thing is damn near normal in America. Isn’t paying for dinner the LEAST that a man can do? Wtf lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 08:18 PM |
| 12 | Men telling on themselves on OLD, exhibit AAnother nasty obese scrote who can’t even wipe his own ass lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 03:47 AM |
| 94 | This is the kinda shit we women have to put up with on OLDSo he’s ugly with nothing to offer but a very, VEERRRRYYY annoying personality? Got it! Next | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 06:11 PM |
| 44 | Emotional terrorists will put your life, health, AND beauty on the line.Can’t stop thinking about the amount of heartaches I would have been spared from if I found this forum in hs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 10:15 PM |
| 59 | Heads up: block and delete practice sessionNobody even likes Elon musk except for the most utter incel losers lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 09:24 PM |
| 12 | Can you share your thoughts about “Why men love bitches” by Sherry Argov? I personally don’t understand why it gets recommended so much, half the book is about modeling yourself to male expectations.I love it because it teaches you how to give men a dose of their own medicine. I also read the art of seduction a lot. Men think women who read these are evil and I couldn’t care less. As with anything, you cherry pick the advice that you like and discard the rest. I can see why a lot of people would be turned off by having to “act dumb” and you don’t have to follow that. But this tactic can be used to manipulate men in certain circumstances. I don’t understand why anyone would take ALL the advi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 07:36 PM |
| 6 | Would *YOU* be angry? If not, stop making excuses for men!!!Exactly!!! Someone finally said it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 10:09 AM |
| 8 | What is the meaning of this?Absolute disgusting cringe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 12:39 AM |
| 10 | Browsing Through Tinder (FDS Art by Me)Accurate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 11:04 PM |
| 112 | Would *YOU* be angry? If not, stop making excuses for men!!!Who tf is pissed over that?? If you’re an outdoorsy person you know that we have to pee outside ALL THE TIME. Not to mention men do it everywhere, not just trails. I had a weird guy I was seeing go pee at night near a TUNNEL. I thought it was gross but didn’t say anything. And he has the literal audacity to be mad over that?? I’m also sick of making excuses for women WHO MAKE EXCUSES FOR MEN AND SAY SHIT LIKE “understandably so”. They’re part of the problem. We ALL have to hold men responsible f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Would you date someone divorced/ have kids?I’m strictly child free, so no. Maybe when I’m older and they aren’t around him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 08:02 PM |
| 113 | Roe will likely be overturned.I’m for it. But I’m worried about sexual assault going up. In Texas women can’t even get an abortion if this happens.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 12:30 AM |
| 15 | Thought I met someone I really liked, but recently he's ignoring me. Last night, I mourned my loss. I deleted his number so I wouldn't be tempted to reach out to him. Then I came to this sub to remind myself that I made the right choice. Thank you all for being my rock 💓♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 09:26 PM |
| 22 | Pickmeisha spottedEric is a lonely incel, so he’s giving trashy advice so that other men can be just as lonely and miserable as he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 08:14 PM |
| 24 | This made me feel dirty, I'm glad I broke up with himLmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 07:33 PM |
| 42 | Some guy slid into my insta DMs, but all his "flirting" consisted of weird negs and backhanded compliments on my photos. Frustrated, I went to check my timeline and saw this post. Paris Hilton is such an icon, loves it!What’s wrong with being greedy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 05:54 PM |
| 21 | An increasing number of women are paying alimony to LVM husbandsThis is horrifying. I don’t think a woman who has more money than her partner should marry them. Why should she?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 05:52 PM |
| 11 | Sitting in a Starbucks and hearing the following conversation between two womenWhat is the point of having this “man” then? What is the goddamn point? I can’t even.... is it like a pet or something? I doubt it because those are actually useful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 12:35 AM |
| 21 | "Let's see where things go..."I remember once during my pickme days, I waited for a guy to ask me to be his gf officially for literally years....talk about pathetic. He was my friend and we both ended up having some feelings for each other. But he had the audacity to dangle the carrot around for years, and I was dumb enough to let him. One time he even said “I don’t love you but I like you”. Only a pickmeisha would stick around after that. If he’s confessed that he “likes” you and still unsure about calling himself your bf y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 12:26 AM |
| 216 | My HVM was actually just a golddiggerWTF did I just read?! I would be so angry at him omg... the literal audacity.... house... rules?? Is he insane? I’m seriously asking.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 11:39 PM |
| 11 | Ladies please share your experiences with gamer guysYES!!! We’d kick so much scrote butt! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 09:59 PM |
| 11 | SighNo, what’s rude is him thinking he can have sex with a stinky, disgusting breathe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 09:50 PM |
| 15 | What is the general rule or idea of gift giving during the holidays, birthday, or anniversaries?Never out gift them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 09:46 PM |
| 16 | For the men who complain about dead bedrooms, how does it feel to be the architect of you own misery?They don’t tell you the part where they don’t want to put in the effort to actually satisfy their women. Or take care of their hygiene, or do the bare minimum for their looks. Or even how the real reason that we don’t want to fuck them, is because they treat us poorly. Which is the BIGGEST turn off of all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 09:39 PM |
| 17 | Ladies please share your experiences with gamer guysWell said! And we don’t live like utter slobs 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 09:34 PM |
| 39 | Ladies please share your experiences with gamer guysI’m getting worried reading these as a girl who plays video games sometimes lol... I hope you guys don’t think that the female version is as bad as some of the guys. I have a decent collection of video games, and consoles.. and prefer that over men LOL. But as far as gamer guys go the “hardcore” ones are a gross mess to say the least. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 09:08 PM |
| 18 | Currently viral on social media, please do not be a man’s free ATM!! Libfem behaviour is NOT empowering to women, it literally only benefits the man while draining your bank account, health and energy.I wouldn’t mind doing that alone 😂 just not for some scrote to see | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 07:34 AM |
| 101 | Currently viral on social media, please do not be a man’s free ATM!! Libfem behaviour is NOT empowering to women, it literally only benefits the man while draining your bank account, health and energy.How is that a feminine urge???? That’s never been a feminine urge ffs. Why are they treating their men like spoiled little princesses?? This is so fucking gross... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 01:02 AM |
| 102 | He’s perfect but needs the government to give him a wife 💀This sounds like a troll or a severely deranged incel. Sickening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 08:48 PM |
| 4 | Young woman lives in a frat house with 6 young men and cleans up after themToo painful to watch...I couldn’t | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 08:41 AM |
| 14 | What are the most ridiculous pick-me opinions you had before reaching the age of reason?Deal! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 08:31 AM |
| 211 | What are the most ridiculous pick-me opinions you had before reaching the age of reason?Ugly/fat guys have good personalities and will treat you better 😂🤣😂🤣 You’ll be lonely with 500 cats if you don’t settle for trash A shitty man’s company is better than being alone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 01:07 AM |
| 11 | I think she's serious 😂Why do men want to be women so bad yet retain all the privileges of being men?? Foh! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 10:58 PM |
| 57 | Can’t wait to see the male commenters of DM collectively lose their tiny minds.Exactly my reaction!! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 04:46 PM |
| 43 | Negging her when she was SICK + embarrassing her in front of friends. At least* commenters got it rightThis is why you should vet thoroughly before introducing the scrote to family or friends. If they’re slimey enough, they can turn your friends against you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 09:41 PM |
| 25 | Negging her when she was SICK + embarrassing her in front of friends. At least* commenters got it rightGOLD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 09:39 PM |
| 51 | My husband told me to choose between him and my businessI can’t believe there’s people out there who expect you to throw away your own passions for them. Imagine if the roles are reversed. We get called needy and clingy when we act like this, and in no way in hell would a man EVER give up their passion or career, for a woman just cuz she’s lonely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 09:47 PM |
| 117 | Brilliant Strategy for Getting Men to Pay on DatesI’ve found that what works best is simply expecting it anyway. Don’t even look at the bill. Don’t take out your wallet. If he asks to split then run away and block lmao. (Nah in all seriousness if he asks to split regardless, then just pay FOR YOUR OWN MEAL, not half, and never speak to him again) 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 08:48 PM |
| 20 | Imagine celebrating men for doing the bare minimum!The future is looking bleak | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 07:45 PM |
| 26 | Don’t be a live in maid for a guy and his roommatesThey should only be cooked for on special occasions anyway. Even a hot dog is spoiling him. I can’t believe there’s men that still expect any of us to cook for them in almost 2022. Lol. Ridiculous. Maybe if they pay all the bills and the only working ones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 12:08 AM |
| 13 | This is it. I've found the neg to end all negs.He sounds REALLY stupid. It’s hard to believe grown men would act like this, but I’m also not surprised. Next some desperate scrote will bring up nostrils! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 05:39 PM |
| 44 | “What we not finna do is waste our damn time!” YES 👏🏻I love this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 07:26 AM |
| 66 | Successful novelist wife writes a book on her lunch hour. Husband is mad.Why the hell do women put up with this crap?? Are they that afraid of loneliness that they’d settle for these awful lazy scrotes? Come on! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 02:30 AM |
| 185 | Successful novelist wife writes a book on her lunch hour. Husband is mad.Wtf what “deal” is he talking about? She doesn’t owe him anything. He should be beyond grateful that she busted her ass off to pay for their child’s college. I would’ve saved that money and made him pay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 12:55 AM |
| 27 | Matching men's energyI love doing that. It’s so fun. Most low value scrotes will leave on their own if you do that 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 07:36 PM |
| 71 | I’ve reached a point in my life where I advise my child free friends not to procreate with men. Exhibit a:So glad I’m child free. These stories just keep confirming it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 12:01 AM |
| 16 | Importance of political beliefs?I use to be more open minded but these days I can’t imagine being with a trump supporter . And I definitely can’t be with someone pro life. Abortion is my biggest dealbreaker. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 07:34 PM |
| 101 | I will let you guys tear into this one 🤣 keep in mind that the screenshots are NOT from a dating app so that makes it even worse. This app is solely for writing letters to people in different countries and making friendsThis guy REALLY doesn’t wanna get a gf lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 09:19 AM |
| 19 | His bride looks mortified. I can't imagine what she felt at that moment.So gross and childish. Imagine if women acted like this. A male ego definitely can’t handle it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 04:19 AM |
| 20 | Men rarely think they are the problemI agree. Too many of them think that they’re never at fault and we’re always the “crazy” ones. They’ll even constantly accuse us of gaslighting them, while refusing to acknowledge any bad behaviour they might have. Sick of this crap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 02:11 AM |
| 9 | FDS is NOT categorically against OLD.100% . I’m glad someone said it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 01:00 AM |
| 40 | FDS is NOT categorically against OLD.Thank you! I was so confused about this that most of the time I’m too afraid to even bring up OLD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 12:59 AM |
| 28 | Saw this on r/confessions... This is why I don't do FWBI just threw up reading this... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 06:23 AM |
| 125 | The Rapper Da Baby kicked out his baby mama and his newborn child, and when she didn't leave he called cops on her and reported her. He allegedly wanted to invite another woman to his condo and he wanted her out after she cooked, cleaned for him, slept with him.No wonder he calls himself “da baby”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 10:07 PM |
| 20 | Today I actually realised that "if he wanted to, he would"I’m glad that women are starting to realize this. I have also fallen victim to the “oh it’s lame to get gifts and flowers”... and I’ve been nothing but miserable since. Men who don’t bother with that stuff clearly couldn’t care less if you’re with them or not. And it’s not like we’re asking for constant gifts and flowers either. The bare minimum is at least birthdays and holidays. I also don’t get why we’re expected to gift things that cost as much as their gifts, somethings even greater. We sti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 12:28 AM |
| 21 | "Do you want to hang out sometime?"I’m only “hanging out” with friends. Any guy who uses that is automatically going into the friendzone or getting blocked . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 11:41 PM |
| 79 | Anyone had a scrote try this on them?Scrote’s pop psychology is the most desperate and laughable thing I’ve ever seen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 09:28 PM |
| 6 | curious why men send dick picsI think a lot of them love being degraded and humiliated. Ive seen so many hideous ones that I can’t help but make fun of them and then block! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 09:15 PM |
| 20 | The comment section is a dumpster fire. How dare she to have standards! Some of them are “I see her future buying dog and cat food”, “the higher they fly, lower they fall”, “phd doesn’t buy you class obviously”, etc.Oh no I’m so offended! Anything but buying cat and dog food instead of taking care of some low value scrote who offers me nothing but misery and disappointment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 09:06 PM |
| 9 | Came up on my FB feed. Because there's nothing funnier than hitting women, right?Let’s see how much “fun” that nasty scrote has in prison. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 03:30 AM |
| 22 | Tired of polyamorous folks being judgemental towards monogamy, I need helpI agree with this! I can’t imagine having to share someone I really like with another woman. And I think most men are too possessive to either tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 02:31 AM |
| 27 | ✨Truth✨Wow.. that sounds beautiful. I wish more men were like that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 01:48 AM |
| 13 | Reminder: Being The "Cool Girl" who isn't "materialistic" will get you nothing.I couldn’t agree more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 01:47 AM |
| 39 | ✨Truth✨Can anyone here actually orgasm from penetration alone?? I’ve never had that happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 11:54 PM |
| 28 | Reminder: Being The "Cool Girl" who isn't "materialistic" will get you nothing.Ugh yeah it’s sad. The only thing I get them is some cake on their bday, lol. If they want something a little more expensive, they’re going to have to shower me with gifts first. Never spoil a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 11:34 PM |
| 137 | Tired of polyamorous folks being judgemental towards monogamy, I need helpI barely have the energy dealing with one partner, let along multiple. It seems like poly is only for sex addicts, people with too much time on their hands, extremely needy people who aren’t satisfied with one person. (I’ve also noticed a lot of them tend to look gross both the guy and girl lol .. you’d think they’d be good looking 🤣) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 10:58 PM |
| 16 | "Oh yeah, you want a man who brushes his teeth? I dated a guy who brushed his teeth and he kicked puppies for breakfast!"The worst thing I can imagine is having to kiss that 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 10:49 PM |
| 16 | "Oh yeah, you want a man who brushes his teeth? I dated a guy who brushed his teeth and he kicked puppies for breakfast!"I have ADHD, I hate brushing my teeth and showering, and I STILL do it. Yet I’ve dated guys who couldn’t do the bare minimum despite being neurotypical. NONE of these are excuses!!! It’s the AUDACITY and disrespect. Can you imagine being ok with being smelly and gross around someone?? What does that signal to you??? A guy who is attracted to you wouldn’t dare be ok with being stinky and gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 10:48 PM |
| 81 | Reminder: Being The "Cool Girl" who isn't "materialistic" will get you nothing.I’m so happy I’m not alone in this. Cheap men have always been a nasty turn off to me. I still can’t wrap my head around that there are women out there who work hard, just to buy their scrotes fancy 1k sneakers or some other bs. It blows my mind!! I’ve been with cheapos and they’re truly vile. Not just with money. Even their personality is horrible. Those same cheap men will expect you to do nice things for them, while they buy you a discounted sandwich once in awhile. Most cheap men actually ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 10:45 PM |
| 29 | Husband suggests she stop buying formula rather than get a job and cancel his $80+ a month subscriptions.I can’t believe anyone dates these “men”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 03:58 AM |
| 67 | What HV behavior looks likeLove this ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 08:19 AM |
| 51 | More of a Reason Why Blocking & Deleting is So ImportantIt’s always a red flag to me when guys overuse emojis. It’s annoying, childish, and they always end up being immature and weird. (Weird pet peeve of mine lol) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 07:45 AM |
| 6 | A collection of recent bios I’ve seen on OLD, and their translationsLOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 07:31 AM |
| 37 | Fawning like "How are you single?"/"You sound too good to be true!"/"Are you real?"It’s always sounded like a neg to me tbh. It’s also offensive because why should you always be in a relationship anyway?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 09:10 PM |
| 50 | A collection of recent bios I’ve seen on OLD, and their translationsWhy don’t the majority of them know how to take a decent picture ffs?? I see so many bad angles, and serious boring dull faces. Don’t they know how ugly they look? Smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 09:00 PM |
| 14 | Another reason why we should never date men who don’t clean and proactively manage their health: this woman’s husband has poorly managed IBS and she’s getting shamed for being disgusted (“IN SICKNESS OR IN HEALTH!”) because he makes her clean up his literal shit.If she feels relief while away from him that’s the biggest sign she shouldn’t be with him in the first place. Your partner should be your safe haven, not someone you dread seeing everyday. As someone who has ADHD and taking care of myself isn’t easy, I can’t imagine being stuck taking care of another adult especially a s/o everyday. Sounds like a complete nightmare.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 06:51 PM |
| 28 | Woman translates the real meanings behind men’s dating demands. Just a reminder that men defined ‘femininity’ as submission, passivity, performance & endless forgiveness because it serves abusive men & makes us easier to exploit.These lowlife scrotes are stuck in the 1950’s yet they don’t even have anything to offer. At least men back then paid all the bills and took care of their women. But these incels want all the benefits of a 1950’s housewives, without contributing a penny in return, or even having proper manners and respect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 06:13 PM |
| 13 | Help. I just got banned from other subreddits if you participate in this one. My comment was not offensive at all nor was I applying FDS strategies. I call bullshit but I guess I'll make a throwaway.That’s why I don’t even bother with those shitty subreddits. If they ban you for just being in here then they don’t deserve members. I’m not ashamed of being in here and I won’t hide it. If they want to ban me for it, their loss. So far I haven’t had people bringing it up anyway..I’m sure I will though in the future. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 06:42 AM |
| 56 | Gathered from the redpill sub, which is filled with posts like this. These men are literally advocating for sexual assault and somehow people still have the nerve to say FDS is the same, when it teaches us how to stay away precisely from men like this and vet for the sake of our own safety.LOL they can rot alone forever. Nobody’s going to cook for them in 2021. These nasty lazy scrotes have severe mommy issues I don’t even want to bother reading the rest of their screenshots. They’ll never get anywhere in the real world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 01:56 AM |
| 7 | In most cases, it is a bad, bad idea to buy a house, especially your childhood home, with a bf, not a husband 🚩10 years together, no ring 🚩he makes > $100k, she $60k, but planning to split mortgage 50/50 🚩house is barely affordable even with their combined income. Ways this can go south in 3…2…150/50 isn’t fair unless both of the incomes are the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 07:31 PM |
| 59 | "Good friend" sent me a dick pic "accidentally". He has a great partner too. Let this be a lesson to me for trying to play it cOoL instead of going nuclear at the first message.I’d send it to his gf, roast his little package, then block. Done & done lol. He sounds repulsive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 07:11 PM |
| 72 | I think being intimidating is a good thing.It’s better than the man being intimidating which is NEVER a good sign. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 10:49 PM |
| 123 | Remember to give low-income males a chance, ladies! Don't be classist! /sI don’t understand what these women get out of dating these disappointments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 02:17 AM |
| 26 | How I met my HVM husbandThank you for the deck analogy. Very inspiring and hopeful! I’ve been blocking guys left and right like crazy wondering if I should lower my standards, and this reminded me otherwise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 11:47 PM |
| 471 | Funniest/smallest/strangest Seinfeld-like red flag 🚩 you personally had with an ex?Being extremely cheap. He offered half of a sandwich he got on SALE for a meal. Like wtf?? Cheap men are the biggest turn off in the world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 07:14 PM |
| 122 | Part 2 of the sh*t scrotes say about women vs. how THEY look, inspired by a previous postIt’s always the ugliest men talking shit to women lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 07:05 PM |
| 34 | To dress up for dates or show up as you are?For me, it depends where he’s taking me. If it’s a fancy place I’ll put in more effort. If it’s a casual place I’ll be casual and comfortable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 04:28 AM |
| 60 | “Women catch feelings easier than men”This has always been false. I’ve always had guys become interested way too fast. Guys are also severe love bombers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 09:33 PM |
| 59 | Cancelled a date today 😌 My first unmatch block delete!!What a boring dullard. You dodged a bullet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 08:49 PM |
| 138 | Stop having sex with men who can’t master vanilla.Have you ever been with a man who hates giving head but expects it from you? Those are the lowest scum imaginable. Luckily I’ve only met two such types. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 07:02 PM |
| 25 | As an essential worker, I’ve honestly met more male ‘Karens’ in my life than the stereotypical lady ‘Karen’I’m more than happy to call men like that “Karen’s”. If they have a problem with it, then they’re being a karen :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 06:47 PM |
| 222 | Stop having sex with men who can’t master vanilla.I would never date a man who’s into anal. Biggest turn off I can think off. I just tell them to get a bf instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 06:42 PM |
| 17 | Bikini waxing?I just shave. I get the occasional razor bump, but nothing that’s a big deal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 10:34 AM |
| 248 | What do you wish someone had told you about men when you were 14?Don’t make guys a priority. Always prioritize yourself first. Men are selfish by nature and it’s time we learned from that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 09:38 PM |
| 69 | What do you wish someone had told you about men when you were 14?100% this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 09:36 PM |
| 169 | Could you imagine the outrage if women routinely turned down sex with their partners to watch porn and masturbate? How did that become something we have to accept from men?Some of us already do prefer to use our vibrator because the majority of men are so crappy in bed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 12:24 AM |
| 182 | The "you have to trust me" argument when it comes to having acess to your s/o phoneHope he rots in prison for the rest of his worthless life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 10:52 PM |
| 13 | Let's talk about picky eaters.Yes! God help us 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 07:16 AM |
| 36 | Let's talk about picky eaters.Exactly. He was also pretty well hung too I hate to admit lol. It just shows that even having big junk doesn’t mean anything if you don’t know how to use it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 05:28 AM |
| 41 | Preserving our spirit. Another reason to block/delete!I had a guy msg me on fb recently, from a dating app I met two years ago. He threatened to rape me because I didn’t want to give him another chance. He literally had the audacity to msg me on fb as if nothing happened saying “hey! How’s it been??” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 02:09 AM |
| 16 | PSA: Halloween is almost here for many of us.Glad to be staying home lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 02:06 AM |
| 158 | Men think we are crazy, ugly psychos for having physical standards. Never change your standards and these “short kings” can go cry themselves to sleep. (The last guy seems hopeful though.)We’re the ones dodging bullets... short little bullets 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 02:02 AM |
| 144 | Let's talk about picky eaters.I’ve been with a dude who loved all kinds of food and considered himself to have great taste (and a god in bed apparently) but refused to give oral. (Of course he expected to receive it all the time). What a disappointment! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 07:53 PM |
| 10 | Lessons learned. Replying only feeds the fire. Can you spot the manipulations?He sounds like a little kid lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 12:07 AM |
| 28 | What kind of tattoos are LVM red flags to you?I’ve yet to meet a guy who has many tattooes and is also successful in life. So I tend to avoid anyone who has too many tattoos in general, doesn’t matter what they are. I don’t mind a small discreet one here and there though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 09:03 PM |
| 23 | Your reminder that polyamory is a complete scam for women. This woman is trying to convince herself that she’s okay with hearing her husband have sex with another woman.This is just pathetic and repulsive. I couldn’t bring myself to read it. Is this what women settle for out of desperation and loneliness? Jfc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 10:51 PM |
| 9 | Beware of neggingSame. Or I’ll just roast them and then block. I got to say something mean first lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 10:25 PM |
| 15 | Beware of neggingUgh I HATE the Snapchat thing! I hear that a lot. If we can talk freely on this app then there’s no need for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 10:24 PM |
| 97 | Women: Don't accept a single neg. Check out the dating advice men give each other.Wow I never thought about that! That makes sense. There’s so many of these PUA trash types making bank off of these desperate people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 02:56 AM |
| 70 | Women: Don't accept a single neg. Check out the dating advice men give each other.They’re looking for very damaged women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 02:24 AM |
| 278 | Women: Don't accept a single neg. Check out the dating advice men give each other.No touching and no compliments? Lmfao. I’d just think he’s some awkward loser with zero dating experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 02:22 AM |
| 22 | Woman posts this pro-male post on a popular subreddit. Despite this, the comments are full of misogyny regardless. This is why being a pick me doesn't work!True. And maybe they wouldn’t need to be treated like dogs if they behaved like humans more often. Just my two cents! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 12:21 AM |
| 15 | Woman posts this pro-male post on a popular subreddit. Despite this, the comments are full of misogyny regardless. This is why being a pick me doesn't work!Ohhhh ok! Makes sense 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 12:11 AM |
| 91 | Woman posts this pro-male post on a popular subreddit. Despite this, the comments are full of misogyny regardless. This is why being a pick me doesn't work!Wth is she even talking about? I’ve never heard anyone talk like that. She’s full of crap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 12:07 AM |
| 8 | How to slam down a guy expecting wife benefits at girlfriend levelI just say no (cuz it’s true except frozen stuff) and ask them if they can cook. Only had a few guys get pissy over that 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 11:24 PM |
| 67 | This is what you get if you act „low maintance”. You are worth less than a good PC setupI make it a point that I’m high maintenance. I’ve always thought of it as a compliment. You shouldn’t be conditioning men to give you the bare minimum, that’s just sad! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 11:17 PM |
| 8 | The farce that “men age like fine wine”They said choi was in his 50’s!!! I was drooling all over that man. He looks in his 30’s 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 06:47 PM |
| 78 | I wouldn't touch that guy with a ten foot stick after he pulled this kind of shit. He agrees to pay first date if she pays for the next, she ends up being footed with a bill 4x what he paid.Even the times that I did do the whole 50/50 thing I never “split” the bill. That’s ridiculous. It’s a fact that men order more food. I simply paid for myself and that was it. Either way, this is a prime example why you shouldn’t even offer to pay for the bill. If he doesn’t want to pay he’s trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 05:55 PM |
| 3 | Banned for one comment for “incel/redpill content” on a popular relationship subreddit. Ladies, only use your current account for FDS and nothing else. Scrotes can die mad!At least you cared enough to give actual good advice ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 08:42 AM |
| 22 | Banned for one comment for “incel/redpill content” on a popular relationship subreddit. Ladies, only use your current account for FDS and nothing else. Scrotes can die mad!I just stay away from places like that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 11:34 PM |
| 98 | Be careful out there ladies: Comments under a tic tok about most dangerous people you’ve met- man kills wife, justifies it claiming infidelity. Men need to hold one another accountable, not justify violence and in this case murder.All these failed “men” deserve to be castrated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 04:43 PM |
| 14 | I need help out of this headspace.Be grateful that this happened before your marriage and saved you a ton of heartache. Imagine being married to a cheater 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 12:22 AM |
| 3 | Oh goody, yet another way men are entirely too happy to deceive you.They’re so dumb lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 12:05 AM |
| 39 | Pornsick scrote can't be asked a normal question without turning it sexual...this was our first conversation 😒 Have I discovered a new vetting question??Insta block for me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 09:27 PM |
| 6 | How do you get exes to leave you alone for good?By radically ignoring them. Eventually they do get bored and go away. I have an ex who reaches out to me every couple of years and I couldn’t care less. Just ignore them and they’ll eventually get bored and vanish. If it’s a serious stalker, then get a restraining order. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 08:45 PM |
| 161 | Brian Laundrie’s remains found…Coward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 07:09 AM |
| 28 | What do you think of men who do live feedings for pets like large snakes, snapping turtles, etc?I wouldn’t want to date someone who has a snake or even a lizard as a pet. I just don’t find it very appealing. Especially snakes and spiders. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 02:33 AM |
| 17 | PSA: For the love of God, STOP faking your orgasms ladies!Honestly the only way I can orgasm is if they provide oral before sex... and I’ve had guys who had the audacity to expect bjs but said they didn’t like giving oral. The literal freaking audacity... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 09:35 PM |
| 36 | I can’t help but feel there’s some propaganda going on to influence women away from education/ financial success… in favour of being a dedicated wife to a less intelligent, low earning partner. Here’s the evidence & my response:I’ll take 40 cats over a useless scrote who’s threatened by my intelligence any day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 07:53 PM |
| 5 | Aww, the famous emotional support. No looks, no wealth, basically 0 requirements.Who’s he trying to fool? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 09:53 PM |
| 47 | Case Study: The fortysomething year old "PICK ME". I'll even give a you a TLDR: I had sex with a man on the first date even though I was not attracted to him or even felt a connection. He feels the same way, but asked to have sex with me again.If he’s not sure about you this early then run for the hills. No guy who truly likes you would ever even dare risk saying such a thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 06:17 PM |
| 138 | a day in the life of a woman who doesn’t use a separate account for FDSFilthy incel men. Always projecting. Also I am not using a throwaway. If they have a problem with the subreddits I’m in then I’ll gladly confront them back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 05:39 PM |
| 29 | The good old “what’s your type” questionWhat a loser. You dodged a bullet! I’m so happy when they out themselves early on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 01:05 AM |
| 38 | It’s so heartbreaking to see how women always have to be on high alert in public spacesAlways carry either a knife, pepper spray, or a taser. This is awful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 08:46 PM |
| 6 | They hate her cause she attempted to flip the script.He doesn’t realize that the reason he keeps getting ghosted is because nobody wants his shitty coffee dates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 09:32 AM |
| 151 | This is why you don’t tell men you enjoy cooking 🤦♀️That’s why I make it clear that I can’t cook and I HATE cooking which is actually very accurate lol. And somehow I’ve been managing to attract guys who say they’ll cook for me instead 🤭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 11:22 PM |
| 18 | Woman’s date goes berserk over “National Dog Mom Day”God I’d roast him so hard.. especially as someone who’s child free. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 07:14 PM |
| 4 | Using the carrot and stick approach to neg and emotionally abuse. 🚩🚩🚩One day they’ll learn too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 06:50 PM |
| 101 | Using the carrot and stick approach to neg and emotionally abuse. 🚩🚩🚩They’re so stupid. They‘re so stupid that they don’t realize that we can use this against them too. Short men suck in bed 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 08:45 AM |
| 27 | Saw the vetting through first date questions post and wanted to share a tiktok on reasoning why he might not like cats!Yeah and I’m an introvert. What’s the problem? Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 04:37 AM |
| 100 | Saw the vetting through first date questions post and wanted to share a tiktok on reasoning why he might not like cats!Awww the last part warmed my heart ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 04:35 AM |
| 45 | Once upon a time I dated a scrote to get over an HVMI think your story is inspiring. And I’ve noticed how average to bad looking men devalue good looking women all the time. Funny, I didn’t see this before getting together with a scrote who looked crappy, and during a fight said I was “kind of average”. Despite years of better looking men telling me I’m pretty and /or beautiful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 01:29 AM |
| 282 | Are we starting to see the slow decline of hookup culture? Sisters are waking up…uh oh scrotes 🤭We don’t get as much out of it as men do. Most of the time I can’t even orgasm from penetration alone. Casual hookup type guys don’t even care about your pleasure. Why should he? You’re casual to him. It’s the committed man that will put in the work. I dabbled in it in my early 20’s, but now I can’t be bothered. What a waste of time and make up 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 08:18 PM |
| 3 | Who do you think is a High Value Woman TV female character?Gabrielle Solis, Katherine Pierce (vampire diaries), and Villanelle from Killing Eve. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 08:33 AM |
| 106 | A story of LVM and a forever girlfriend: woman in Russia begged her boyfriend to marry her for 35 years and he does… after he temporarily loses her as a free maid.Wait until you hear about the nonexistent domestic violence laws in Russia.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 09:37 AM |
| 6 | Finally left my fiance thanks to this subVerbal abusers are the sneakiest most vile creatures who eat away at your self esteem over time.. glad you left. Congrats!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 07:44 AM |
| 4 | FDS is BACK!Loving these changes <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 09:41 AM |
| 623 | The nerve to be jealous that he didn't get the 'peak hot' version of her, what a shame for the poor woman.Why do women put up with this shit? Jfc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 11:34 PM |
| 8 | Men are hypocrites who seethe when a woman is honest and says she wants to marry a rich man but then they will go out and long to date (and sleep with) the most beautiful women out there.Exactly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 07:26 PM |
| 24 | Men are hypocrites who seethe when a woman is honest and says she wants to marry a rich man but then they will go out and long to date (and sleep with) the most beautiful women out there.Lol I’ve never cared about being called a “gold digger” or superficial. I can’t believe women still fall for that BS. Men will date for superficial reasons and women out of their league looks wise. So what’s stopping us for going after guys who actually spoil us? Nothing. Absolutely nothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 07:26 PM |
| 4 | Ladies how do you plan to KeEp A mAn? Wrong answers onlyHmmm... i’d say by making him scrub my toilet of course 😌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 06:34 PM |
| 6 | Get a female therapist, not a male oneFemales can’t be incels sweetie, sorry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 06:14 PM |
| 103 | The breakup level up cliche is totally true!Glad to see you thriving sis 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 01:29 AM |
| 392 | New reddit challenge: try to find a thread on dick size where women with a preference for larger dicks aren't downvoted/ignored and women with a specific preference for smaller penises aren't upvoted. And they think we're the ones coping......Not saying people can't prefer smaller but hmm....Of course. Men are allowed to have preferences on breasts, weight, hair color... but we aren’t allowed to have any. We’re called shallow and superficial for wanting a specific dick size or height. What a wonderful world we live in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 12:57 AM |
| 78 | They always come back for a temp checkIf I got $5 for every time a man crawled back I’d be rich. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 07:16 PM |
| 22 | If they want to scrutinize your relationships, then scrutinize theirs😂Love this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 04:23 AM |
| 24 | I saw this and couldn't stop laughing and had to share it with you all.Remember how they’d make fun of girls who stuffed their bras?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Scrote chases woman down an alley hollering and saying “come here” aggressively. Proceeds to call the woman racist for being scared, along with “dumb bitch” a few times.He’s the one acting like a “dumb bitch”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 03:50 AM |
| 14 | Never go camping alone with a man. This woman could have died. (Reposted because pictures are broken)I’ve heard of some women buying their bf’s ps5’s, expensive shoes, and all kinds of bs. It’s rare but it’s absolutely repulsive to me. Since when are they pampered little princesses? Most of then end up cheating on them anyway! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 06:38 PM |
| 6 | Remember the ex you wanted to marry? Let’s all laugh togetherA long distance one which makes it even worse lolol He looked slightly below average, but thought he made up for it with his personality which was pretty shitty too! Loved to psycho analyze it makes him feel superior Stubbornly argumentative Expected me to visit him to his state Did not want to move for me SUPER cheap. Cheapest man I’ve ever met Likes overly thin girls. I got extremely insecure when I gained a little bit of weight (it wasn’t even that much!) Years of knowing him and he told me h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 06:36 PM |
| 14 | Never go camping alone with a man. This woman could have died. (Reposted because pictures are broken)On top of all this she paid $600 for this horrible trip!! Yet another reason we don’t spend big amounts of $ on men! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 06:25 PM |
| 167 | If he wants an*l sex from you, chances are that he has the potential to be, or is, abusiveI just tell them to go find a bf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 11:49 PM |
| 23 | She stuck around to fix him so he wouldn't become a statistic. Then, she became a statistic herselfUgh look at them praising her for being someone’s doormat. Unbelievable. That guy clearly doesn’t even love her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 10:17 PM |
| 22 | Slept with him in a car on the first date after a movie & coffee. Then moved in with him a week later. Thoughts?Laughable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 09:03 PM |
| 18 | The lack of attractive men out there is so dishearteningCouldn’t agree more. These days they barely do the bare minimum of trimming their beards and using deodorants. I’ve noticed it got worse after the pandemic lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 08:59 PM |
| 25 | OH MY GOD????I think these incel trash cans got use to being alone. No way in hell do any of them have options, yet they try to act like they do. Scrote’s in denial 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 04:23 PM |
| 363 | I’d show you the comment I was responding to, but he deleted it. Called out a misogynist and he wrote an essay in response.He’s “cool as a cucumber” and not triggered at all then proceeds to write an entire essay full of rage and incel ramblings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 05:28 PM |
| 32 | No... just no.. we met at a tire shop and "bonded" over coffee loving but I didn't think he would actually commit to asking on a coffee hopping or whatever this is.Yes. I don’t automatically think that if they offer a coffee date that they’re cheap. It hasn’t always been the case. I use to prefer coffee dates myself because I didn’t want to invest in a guy on a first date too much (clothes and makeup wise also wanted the option to get out of there quickly if need be). So a good amount of them think coffee dates are ok cuz many women seem to be ok with them too. I have found out that a good portion of them don’t mind if you decline coffee and end up offerin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 06:29 AM |
| 59 | No... just no.. we met at a tire shop and "bonded" over coffee loving but I didn't think he would actually commit to asking on a coffee hopping or whatever this is.Some will say something similar like “well maybe you should make me some sometime!” 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 04:49 AM |
| 79 | No... just no.. we met at a tire shop and "bonded" over coffee loving but I didn't think he would actually commit to asking on a coffee hopping or whatever this is.I tell them “I don’t like going out for coffee I have good coffee at home.” And if they don’t offer lunch/dinner then BYE! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 04:19 AM |
| 40 | Ladies - NEVER let anyone control your income and spending. Financial abuse is still abuse.He’s an old man who doesn’t even want to work yet he thinks he can have access to her money?? WTF is going on!! The only benefit of even dating older men is them providing for the woman. This is bs! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Moved into my dream apartment, a two-week vacation next week!Inspiring♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 08:56 PM |
| 8 | LVM: I build. I’m a pRotEctOr 🤣 FDS….I can’t believe they’re still demanding to be cooked for . WTF!!! Women have jobs these days. The literal audacity of these smelly scrotes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 08:09 PM |
| 44 | When people ask me why I suddenly only date younger guysLove seeing this. I just wish they made more 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 06:54 PM |
| 17 | What part of leave me alone do LVM not get?I don’t think they know what “incel” means lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 06:36 PM |
| 195 | Sis needs helpI can’t see someone like that staying with him for too long. That young girl will be out of there in no time. She’s the one that has her youth to enjoy not that scrote 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 06:25 PM |
| 7 | Queens, we have angered reddit again...😂 The comments are really nice.Even if we were, we’d still be looking better than them lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 06:19 PM |
| 107 | When are women ready to admit LTR don't mean shit? It's not soft marriage.That loser has obviously never been with a single girl in his life . It sounds like he gets rejected anytime he tries, and lives in a fantasy world where he’s some pimp lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 02:17 AM |
| 10 | I think all women should have height requirements actually. 😌Imagine being so desperate for male attention that you literally make a post about how you don’t care if he’s a midget or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 08:03 PM |
| 46 | Sick of short males crying "discrimination"I use to defend short men until I realized most of them were giant assholes lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 06:13 PM |
| 30 | Why it Never Works When Forever Gf Finally Gets the RingI can’t believe this is the bs women will put themselves through all cuz they’re afraid of being alone. Smh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 05:50 PM |
| 3 | it’s the lack of self awareness that offends me at this pointThis just turns me off even more 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 10:32 PM |
| 7 | it’s the lack of self awareness that offends me at this pointOh yeah nothing sexier than a guy begging for pics with a frowney face lmao /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 10:31 PM |
| 13 | Needing advice and supportGhost him and get a restraining order ASAP!!! This man will ruin your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 08:03 PM |
| 117 | Golddigging husband wants hardworking wife to buy him a new PC (so he can undoubtedly waste time playing video games). All the comments were praising him but god forbid if a woman does the same. Men just love to project.I rather buy the gaming pc for myself. He can watch me play | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 08:27 PM |
| 25 | Guy Shows A Provider Mentality. Some Women are Like "Yes, DO It!" Other Comments Show a PickMe Deprived Mentality - Ladies, Learn to Embrace Being SpoiledGod those women are pathetic. It’s obvious that they’ve been brainwashed by society to accept breadcrumbs and feel ashamed of being spoiled. It’s so sad... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 08:20 PM |
| 24 | More and more of us are catching on!I’ve never cared about their “morning beautiful” messages. It’s always seemed creepy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 07:38 PM |
| 36 | Not sure why men can't have conversations without getting triggered into wannabe Sasuke Uchiha but wowI can tell he doesn’t have any friends lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 01:19 AM |
| 89 | Online dating as a childfree woman can be an abusive and traumatic experienceI’m very firmly child-free and I’ll absolutely tear men like that apart. No I don’t want kids and you asking me those questions make me want them even less! I really don’t get the appeal of grandkids especially lmao. Why would I want to be stuck wiping someone’s ass for years? It just baffles me that some men can’t accept that a good amount of women these days don’t see the point in children. Besides, it seems like the guys have gotten lazier anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 11:35 PM |
| 63 | What are our thoughts on this culture of rushing into marriageToo soon sis. I need to vet him properly. Society forgets that marriage is a huge commitment for women too, not just men. It should be a PRIVILEGE to marry us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 11:23 PM |
| 195 | Men really out here thinking having a wife is being "romance scammed" in a thread about a "girl" on bumble potentially robbing a guy.He sounds extremely jealous of him actually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 05:51 PM |
| 200 | Make sure he’s complete because if you build a man, they will leave.I’m starting to think these are just men pretending to be women online lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 01:34 AM |
| 337 | The entitlement to your partners body it’s probably why they don’t want to be intimate with you anymore. The total lack of awareness. 😪I dated someone who claimed that a girl got an orgasm just from giving him a bj 😂😂😂 imagine being so sad that you actually believe that!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 04:03 AM |
| 116 | The entitlement to your partners body it’s probably why they don’t want to be intimate with you anymore. The total lack of awareness. 😪Not to mention vibrators can actually make you orgasm lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 04:00 AM |
| 19 | How about noI feel physically ill just reading that tweet... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 10:10 PM |
| 16 | I'm a psychotherapist. This was the first message he sent me. He wants to use me for emotional labour from the very beginning. The ignorance level in his messages is too much to handle. Shameless.I hate when they overuse emojis... so annoying. These are grown ass men ffs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 05:53 PM |
| 21 | The Body Keeps the Score and how trauma influences the people you choose to dateWoo woo? That book?? Lol! It’s the most well researched credible book I’ve ever read on trauma. And it makes a lot of sense too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 08:00 PM |
| 11 | Hahaha what. #hobosexualGross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 07:15 PM |
| 66 | A “real woman” and he isn’t joking 🥴Poor scrote teleported here from the 1800’s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 05:28 AM |
| 57 | CHILDFREE WOMEN BEWARE: if a man tells you he is childfree, make sure he is ACTUALLY child free and not a deadbeatIt’s basically like having two children. Him and his kid 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 08:44 PM |
| 214 | CHILDFREE WOMEN BEWARE: if a man tells you he is childfree, make sure he is ACTUALLY child free and not a deadbeatI’m strictly child free and the moment I see his offspring I’m gone like the wind. I don’t care how long I’ve known him for. I don’t see how they’d be able to trick me into saying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 07:03 PM |
| 17 | If you don’t cook for your man... 🤡 😂Well said! Especially in this day and age where the majority of women have to work too. I can’t believe anyone would expect for women to do the cooking and cleaning. The literal audacity and delusion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 06:49 PM |
| 49 | Be careful out there with these hobosexualsWith this crazy economy there’s a lot of those out there right now. A lot of men seeking 50/50 rent arrangements too. Especially the guys in their 20’s and 30’s. Be careful and don’t get taken advantage of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 06:35 PM |
| 79 | Oh shit here’s another one😆 Scrotes big mad about this sub and my activity on it. See my last 2 posts in this sub for more context.Lol they’re using things that they hear being said to them all the time. That’s cute! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 09:54 PM |
| 9 | What couples counseling looks like with a NVMThat guy is so gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 08:26 PM |
| 105 | I keep having to delete posts I make on other subs because creeps look through comment history and find out I'm on FDS.I’m proud of this sub. They can bring it up all they want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 10:23 PM |
| 18 | NEVER admit insecurityYep. I’ve noticed. This doesn’t just apply to men. Careful what you reveal to and with whom. People will often attack those things when they’re upset with you or if they’re simply malicious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 06:05 PM |
| 110 | Why are so many men obsessed with teenage girls?I think they’re just pedophiles honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 10:15 PM |
| 2 | The effect of the pandemic on OLDYou’re already doing the right thing by making sure they’re vaxxed first and foremost. If they are vaxxed then going on a date shouldn’t be an issue. I remember even before the vaccines you could still wear a mask and go to a restaurant and it was fine. They really don’t have any excuses. If he refuses then he’s simply cheap/broke and you don’t want that anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 06:56 PM |
| 184 | Men Telling on ThemselvesNothing is more of a turn off than a man who leeches off of a woman financially. I can’t see myself marry if I’m richer than the guy I’m marrying. It’s just not worth it. What do we even get out of it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 04:50 PM |
| 193 | Why you shouldn’t pay for dinnerI came to America from Ukraine and going 50/50 on dinner was NEVER ingrained in my head. I simply do not understand it. And it’s a big no-no in my culture as well. If he can’t invest a little in courting you then he’s not going to be a very caring bf in general. Even if he’s broke he’ll find decent ways to court you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 02:32 AM |
| 9 | Have you taken your husband’s surname? Or, will you take your future-husband’s name?Only if I like how it sounds | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 02:08 AM |
| 19 | Men and therapyI’m shocked by how many men think they don’t need therapy tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 04:35 PM |
| 54 | I know it's usually frowned upon, but I want to try vetting/dating/finding HV people (friends and potential romantic partners) using apps and OLD. Any advice for creating an FDS approved profile? How do I portray that I'm HV and attract healthy individuals?I don’t like going out so I don’t know where else to even meet potential men other than OLD. I’ve become really ruthless on it though! I have zero issues sticking to my standards and if anything OLD has taught me how to reject with ease and be more picky. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 06:56 PM |
| 17 | Signs that he is a gold digger: an ever-evolving master list to which contributions are valuedI don’t understand men who think they’re entitled to our money. If I ever make it big they’re not seeing a penny from me. I rather hide it and act like I’m being gifted by rich men. Nothing turns me off more than a man who thinks he deserves to be spoiled like wtf!! We are NOT equal in society. We still get paid less than men. If we make it it’s a big deal and we deserve men who will spoil us regardless, and not leech off of us to say the least. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 07:50 PM |
| 123 | What was your moment of clarity?It’s actually very convenient and good how they’ll show their true colors early on so that we don’t end up stuck with an asshole that we find out about years from now. I bet he would’ve expected you to take care of him when he’s sick though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 07:13 PM |
| 121 | What was your moment of clarity?I can relate with that. Sunk cost fallacy is the worst and easiest trap to get into. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 07:11 PM |
| 11 | Can we talk about Leonardo DiCaprio?Agreed. I did like him in there I’ll admit.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 07:01 PM |
| 73 | Can we talk about Leonardo DiCaprio?Omg you’re right!! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 09:03 AM |
| 18 | Looks are so importantI think a lot of us were LOL. But we lived and we learned! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 06:26 AM |
| 33 | Looks are so importantI’ve become immune (and even take it as compliments) anytime I’m called a gold digger or shallow now. If he doesn’t either have looks, kind personality, or money, or all 3 he’s not worth anyone’s time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 05:54 AM |
| 1110 | Can we talk about Leonardo DiCaprio?I don’t get how anyone finds him appealing. He looks like an old baby it’s so weird.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 05:10 AM |
| 161 | Looks are so importantI’ve always dated guys slightly below my league because I thought I’d get treated like a queen LMFAO. Let me tell ya, that isn’t the case with these dudes. A lot of them have over inflated egos in other areas. They may think they’re average looking but they think they’re super smart with great personalities. Some of them even start thinking that they can “do better” once they scored a hottie. Don’t fall into this trap. If he looks like crap then he better be rich and generous. Or have an amazing… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 01:18 AM |
| 76 | Looks are so importantThey’re so freaking lazy. So many of them don’t even bother to shower. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Leveling up this weekThank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 04:24 AM |
| 25 | Quick unmatch after one early text. I’m finally learning to not waste time by trusting my gut.Yep. I’ve blocked guys who seemed decent at first many times. I’ve learned not to get excited or hopeful anymore. Most will show their true colors really quick! They’ve gotten quite lazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 02:02 AM |
| 44 | If, according to MRAs, women are useless after 25 🙄. Then why would any woman ever sign up for the 18+ year commitment of raising children with them?The only reason men aren’t absolutely worthless after 25 is cuz they have money (granted that aren’t some cheap waste of space) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 11:12 PM |
| 34 | Leveling up this weekGet back into my fitness routine (I’ve kind of fallen off track) Reading helpful books Focusing on my college class Meditation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 06:42 PM |
| 22 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?My super embarrassing pick me story 🤡 I got attached to someone long distance. From day one things were rocky. We started out as friends but he soon confessed his feelings for me saying that he “liked” me. I realized I liked him back. Things went downhill from there. I have a personality disorder and I’m prone to getting attached to the point of major depression (this is why I have to be really careful who I fall for)... For 3+ years of this long distance thing he has had on and off feelings for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 06:09 PM |
| 8 | When men withhold feelings/emotions: do they have them or do they just not care?A hard thing to accept but true :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 05:33 PM |
| 20 | I cannot believe a woman said this in response to "men fantasize about women as sex objects, women about mutual love and care"Ummm okay. But most men can’t even satisfy us in bed. So that goes both ways | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 11:52 PM |
| 10 | 40yo women seem to be giving up on dating, 40yo men are getting extra desperate to convince them to change their minds. Can any 40+ FDSers confirm this observation?The real issue is older men thinking they’re entitled to younger women. This leaves the women in their 40’s and 50’s with limited options. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 02:46 AM |
| 24 | Is this guy a waste of time?It honestly sounds like he’s wasting your time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 11:17 PM |
| 57 | Reminder.They always think they’re entitled to more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 10:39 PM |
| 1 | In MemoriamRIP :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 10:16 PM |
| -9 | Got banned from r/datingoverthirty due to inviting women to FDS via PMIs it even allowed to dm people to redirect them to other subreddits? I’d imagine that’s some sort of a violation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 09:45 PM |
| 9 | Can't help but to share after being on twitter😂😂They should be buying US those things wtf! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 09:43 PM |
| 3 | On receiving oral sexMaybe you just have to really enjoy it? I personally love getting it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 09:30 PM |
| 6 | There are men out there proposing like this. Yet, Pickmeisha over there still claims to love her onion ring and ‘wouldn’t want it any other way’, because TrUe lOvE. Quick reminder that if a man truly loves you, he will put effort in such a special moment.Where’d all the men like this go?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 08:41 AM |
| 2 | I think she discovered FDS.. better late than never 👑Glad she got rid of his cheap ass 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 07:47 AM |
| 5 | ✔️You’re an absolute inspiration. I’m 24 and feel like I’m running out of time to pursue a good career and passions | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 07:46 AM |
| 7 | 'I'ma Choose Me': Sanaa Lathan Is Investing In Herself Rather Than MarriageQueen 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 07:21 AM |
| 2 | In MemoriamRIP queen :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 10:52 PM |
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