| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 275 | A man i've never spoken to in my life dealing with abuse "allegations" and losing custody of his daughter who is barely a month old decides now is the perfect time to talk to random women. Should pass this along to the mother in case he tries to get back with her? | RED FLAG 🚨 | yairina | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 02:26 AM |
| 265 | Scrote wants to "adopt" a 20 year old "adult daughter"....a homeless pregnant woman from Austria who lost her father at a young agr | MALE DEPRAVITY | yairina | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 04:42 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 111 | my bangmaid actually has a mind, a soul, and is a person! who knew?Exhibit 482838 that "friends" means nothing for men who want fwb. That and their friendships with other men are probably shallow too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 06:19 PM |
| 133 | Husband Hates Wife: CEO Edition. He refers to his wife publicly as a "sucker", she asked HIM out, they dated for 5 years before getting married. This is his anniversary post after 12 years of marriage."He's just j0kiNG you women are so sensitive" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 06:55 PM |
| 82 | Big yikesRemindme! Two years | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 06:41 AM |
| 1 | The ad I got on a video about domestic violence. On International Women’s Day!Half the time men who DO propose don't even want to be married to the women they're proposing to. You just need to be the women that's around when he's ready to "settle down" which is why we see so many posts pf married men pining for their exes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 12:46 AM |
| 75 | Pickme’s thrive off of The Bachelor (referring to the bottom tweet)"Sleeping with multiple people is the point of fantasy suites!" No, its the opportunity for time alone, to have privacy and discuss things off camera. You don't have to sleep with anyone. "You need to test sexual chemistry!!!" You can't tell through making out with someone? Most leads know their final pick before fantasy suites even happens, idc what the "norm" of the show is, their marriage isn't in TV land. If you (think you) want to marry someone then you don't sleep with two other people "ju… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 12:35 AM |
| 15 | What is the most messed up way you found out your partner was cheating on you?The girl who introduced us found him on tinder with pictures he posted on his Instagram like a month before | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 11:08 PM |
| 56 | Friends with Men?None of my close guy friends are straight and that's before they even came out of the closet. Its amazing how much more men who aren't even attracted to women respect us so much more :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 04:25 AM |
| 60 | TW: nasty as hell. I don’t even have words..This definitely seems like fan fiction. Unless its a different country with backwards laws, how does the husband solely own a house and she is just his tenant? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 06:36 AM |
| 54 | Is Leaving Early the New Coming Home Late for ZVM Who Buy S*x Workers?Same goes for buying/selling drugs. I discovered my ex hiding a stash or heroin. He admitted to selling for a GANG and I was so confused because he was never home later than expected (other than train delays- this was in NYC) and had no idea how he even found the time to squeeze in that level of dealing without me noticing he was gone for too long. He would never be home more than an hour after he got off, so 30 minutes of free time after factoring in commuting. That is unless he was lying about… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 02:32 AM |
| 3 | A man i've never spoken to in my life dealing with abuse "allegations" and losing custody of his daughter who is barely a month old decides now is the perfect time to talk to random women. Should pass this along to the mother in case he tries to get back with her?I reached out to her last night and she was luckily receptive. Turns out she was at the birthday he invited me to! 🙄 The cops are being very supportive (he's a drug addict, physically abusive, and cheated on her during her pregnancy, to no one's surprise), and told her they will arrest him if he tries to trespass again, as well as encouraging her that he doesn't have a chance to battle her for custody. Oh, and his mom is also nuts and only cares about seeing her granddaughter but not that her so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 12:13 AM |
| 1 | A man i've never spoken to in my life dealing with abuse "allegations" and losing custody of his daughter who is barely a month old decides now is the perfect time to talk to random women. Should pass this along to the mother in case he tries to get back with her?I'm not sure why he even invited me to his birthday, we went to school together a very long time ago but I was in middle school while he was in elementary school and a only vaguely remember his older siblings Update: I found her Facebook and the baby was born February 2nd. Absolute trashcan of a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 02:28 AM |
| 79 | Using your hobby to vet"Yeah dude of course I lift weights too. Is that the only form of exercise you do?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 07:47 PM |
| 7 | Scrote wants to "adopt" a 20 year old "adult daughter"....a homeless pregnant woman from Austria who lost her father at a young agrI initially saw this via tik tok and commenters mentioned there's been 6 murders in the town he's from, which are suspected to be victims of a serial killer. One of the suspects (neal falls) was luckily killed by his target in a different state, and there's no concrete link between him and the women from Chillicothe, but he's been known to travel a ton of different states. I hope Danny's comments at least put him on police's radar because this man certainly views women in a very dangerous way an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 01:03 AM |
| 21 | Apparently, to some pickmes, opening doors is a grand romantic gesture worthy of sex. And of course, someone calling this out gets downvotedI was dating this guy who kept running to open MY drivers side door even when i asked him to stop, never saw him again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 11:57 PM |
| 160 | Man Triggered By My Post History On This & Similar Subs, Uses Slurs Such As "Whores" & "Faggot," Justifies Male Violence Through Evolutionary Biology, Sees "Legit" Pornography As Acceptable Due To Lack Of Explicit Trafficking (Missing Underlying Problem Of Misogyny & Sexualization Of Women/Children)Does he realize most of the women he knows have been assaulted in one way or another? Why is r*pe only "strangers popping out of bushes at night with w knife" to men like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 03:54 AM |
| 26 | Trafficking disguised as dating or job offersIn my comment in this thread a guy gave me a business card to a fake website! Even thats not good enough unfortunately | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 06:32 AM |
| 45 | Trafficking disguised as dating or job offersI was stopped by a man in the street in new york who told me he needed gogo dancers/flow artists for an event his "company" was putting on, and name dropped a few large EDM music producers. It instantly raised red flags because how could he tell my talent from just looking at me? I had a hula hoop which a lot of people bring to those events, but I even told him I just picked it up from the post office and hadn't even had a chance to use it yet. He still wanted me to come and gave me a business c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 06:23 AM |
| 83 | Spotted this ad under "housing" on craigslist 😬I would love to chat with his ex wife for coffee for the story behind why she left him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 12:52 AM |
| 7 | I asked my boyfriend what he would do if I decided to keep the baby - was his answer a red flag?Thank you for stating this more eloquently than I could | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:13 AM |
| 34 | Scrote abuses and manipulates wife into thinking she is ugly and blames herself for his cheating and abuse.I wonder if they're in a different country with more "traditional" views? The parents thing threw me off too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 11:34 PM |
| 19 | Work is only okay when I (the man) benefit from seeing woman naked and abused. I’m sorry what???? Sex work is abusive towards women.Sex workers: cool, friends of mine, strong people Sex trade industry: awful, evil, shouldn't exist How can you (as in him) be anti-work but not realize sex work is still selling our bodies for labor that other people profit from? Even if someone is "safe" on onlyfans, the company still takes a cut. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 10:58 AM |
| 2 | The male version of “ABCDEFU” is literally domestic violence and people are celebrating it.Im imaging he got dumped and saw a video of the woman lipsyncing the song and now he has a personal vendetta against it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 06:18 AM |
| 19 | I’m just going to leave this here: “Mick Jagger, 78, is finally settling down with 35-year-old ‘gal pal.’”That's so embarrassing for her :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 09:29 AM |
| 142 | Man who used woman for sex is mad that she used him for sex. There is no such thing as casual sex. They will always want to keep it casual but do not like it when you treat them the same wayIf he wanted her respect he shouldn't have given it up so easily /j | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 02:20 AM |
| 36 | Ex-boyfriend won't stop texting me 2+ years after breakupDo you both have iphones? Are your read receipts on? I wonder if he's seeing "read" or even delivered and that's encouraging him to keep reaching out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 07:36 AM |
| 12 | Are there red flags in this conversation? Are there signs of a potential LVM here or is this a candidate for HVM?Huge turnoff that he's dipping his toes into so many different industries (doubtful he's even going that far), instead of focusing on one. A jack of all trades is a master of none. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 10:21 AM |
| 5 | Are there red flags in this conversation? Are there signs of a potential LVM here or is this a candidate for HVM?Is this convo between him and your friend or another woman? Id be more curious to read how he talks to other women (serial copy paster?) because you can always read her side of the convo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 10:19 AM |
| 190 | A "compliment" that men need to stop using"I dont normally like nose piercings but it looks good on you" from a handful of men on dating apps that weren't happy when I responded "I know". Edit: i got my first message from a pissed off man who coincidentally is on the tinder sub, i finally made it 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 02:11 AM |
| 31 | Pay Attention To Where His Eyes LandNot that I accept friend/follow requests from stranger men, but when I receive the requests, I always go through their friends/following list to see the ratio of men to women, and have noticed a pattern: the more mutual friends we have (high school, work, etc), the more its mixed. If i have 0 mutual friends with they guy, they are following so many women. But if our mutual friends are only women- then their friends are ONLY women! And then I look closer at their profile, they're never in our sam… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 08:52 AM |
| 15 | 2.5 Year together and he doesn’t know what she likes. How is that even possible?One Christmas my ex told me he got me these Nikes styled after the Balenciaga shock shoes that were popular a few years back, but ordered it to his friends house so I wouldn't see, but they got "stolen". I didn't buy it 🤡but let it pass because that friend did live in a bad area. Nevermind the fact that at at point we were together for 3 years, those shoes are not my style, I'm not a sneaker head to begin with....and even if my present DID get stolen, its just too bad and he didn't try to replac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 08:11 AM |
| 13 | What theme would you like to see displayed more in movies?A guy friend who respects his woman friend and her relationship and doesn't spend the whole movie waiting for her to realize she was in love with him all along. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 08:24 AM |
| 3 | Beware of men who claim they’re a “homebody” and love “staying in”.My ex was a homebody. Turned out he was also a heroin addict. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 07:52 AM |
| 5 | The "cool girl" monologue from Gone Girl has stuck with me long after I watched the movie. Even though Amy Dunne is crazy, her madness touches on the trope I know we've all heard praised or even tried to aspire to.Ive been a waitress and work at a nursing home and nursing home is WAY harder. What a prick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Epiphany: FDS ruined my relationship for the betterI feel this. I found the sub a few days before we broke up, and I am so thankful I did. It really helped plant the seed to not want to take him back this time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 10:29 AM |
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