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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 13 | Pickme women in the workplaceI wonder the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on a man who doesn't text to make sure you made it home?Trash. | /r/askFDS | 15/03/22 11:23 PM |
| 4 | Do you trust anyone at work to the point of friendship?I learned the lesson. But it’s getting me to get “paranoid” over everything and everyone. | /r/askFDS | 13/03/22 02:33 PM |
| 91 | Big yikesHe gave her less years to live, most likely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 05:24 PM |
| 5 | I was told by a female colleague that at first sight I’m totally unapproachableIm guessing you look like a VS model 😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Men on Reddit be like:OMG 😂😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 11:28 PM |
| 3 | My male manager hates the fact I don’t kiss his ass. What to do?Thanks. I hope I get some piece of mind. Lack of closure is the worst. You make in your mind all sorts os scenarios | /r/askFDS | 13/02/22 09:01 PM |
| 5 | My male manager hates the fact I don’t kiss his ass. What to do?They are. And I know im doing a good job. He is the only one who doesn’t knowledge it. I feel it’s to hurt me and make me quit. It won’t happen but makes me feel like s###. | /r/askFDS | 13/02/22 04:04 PM |
| 2 | My male manager hates the fact I don’t kiss his ass. What to do?I know I’m dumb by not playing the game. But my problem, unfortunately, is only with him. I’m on very good terms with everyone else. He has this despise for me I don’t know where it comes from. He has praised my work in a public presentation. But because the rest of the staff was present and he is very smart to not raise questions between the two of us. | /r/askFDS | 13/02/22 03:34 PM |
| 7 | My male manager hates the fact I don’t kiss his ass. What to do?It is important because I’m a resident at a hospital. Still need more 3 years to finish residency. My grade will be (not only) but also massively dependent on his good will. I don’t need him to like just not to hate me. This grade will define in a way part of my career. I wasn’t explicit above. | /r/askFDS | 13/02/22 12:29 PM |
| 10 | Age Gaps in the MediaAlexa is goals! Gorgeous style and personality | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Does the quality of men you attract affect your self esteem?Of course. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Men More Likely to Be Single, Living with Parents, Than Women (FDS CONFIRMED!)Sure. They need mommy and daddy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Am I supposed to assume every nice thing a guy does for me is to get in my pants? It feels wrongIm a woman. But the answer is yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 05:50 PM |
| 11 | How do you deal with being upset with your boyfriend?Thank you so much and yes I agree we don’t often say as much as we should!! | /r/askFDS | 03/01/22 12:56 AM |
| 16 | How do you deal with being upset with your boyfriend?Yes, I have high expectations for myself, others and life in general. Im capable of adjusting them but when it comes to your boyfriend/husband/whatever I truly believe we should have those high expectations. I feel sad or angry (mostly) when I evaluate a particular situation and think “I wouldn’t do this do you”. Then BAM I think and think about this for hours or days. Then I either speak up or don’t but I have had a couple of moments like this with him. I’m even questioning our engagement. Like… | /r/askFDS | 03/01/22 12:37 AM |
| 3 | Boyfriend’s family doesn’t like me, I’m afraid. What to do?Answering your doubts. No, they did not help to pay the house. Neither our parents actually. But yes, I agree with everything you said. I just hope I can solve things long term and remove myself from this toxicity. I still love my boyfriend though. Yet I recognize he is not what I wanted him to be, sadly. | /r/askFDS | 07/12/21 11:23 PM |
| 18 | Actions speak louder than words🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 10:03 PM |
| 5 | Would you date someone divorced/ have kids?No. Bare in mind I’m in my late twenties, never been married and have no kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 05:32 PM |
| 3 | A man disclosing his mental health/therapy habits early on is an absolute red flag🙌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 11:48 PM |
| 28 | The "Marriage is just a piece of paper" lie.I’m in the same conundrum as you 😂🙌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 10:28 AM |
| 9 | Whenever I fight with boyfriend I believe he will leave me the next day. How do I cope with this?The house in on both’s name. In case of a split it will be 50/50. We have a shared account and the costs of repairing’s and such is taken out of there. I have a single account (so does he) before we purchased the house. In case of a split it will be sold 50/50, | /r/askFDS | 13/11/21 11:42 PM |
| 7 | Whenever I fight with boyfriend I believe he will leave me the next day. How do I cope with this?We have never cohabitated. We bought the house as it was a good investment. Step by step we are making some changes and eventually buy some furniture. To be honest our issues started with the house. But at the same time, if it wasn’t about it I would have not seen them, which might be good. If the relationship ends I will survive. My problem are my automatic thoughts: tomorrow he will call it over. | /r/askFDS | 13/11/21 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Prime example that having money does not automatically make you a HVM! Beware of ‘godly men’ queens.🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Is Marriage a Bad Deal for Women?Absolutely this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 11:38 PM |
| 15 | Lovebombing or attentive pursuit?Some of the worst men I know are intellectuals. Maybe I’m traumatized lol Good for you to not share that information! Smart move. Its not his business. | /r/askFDS | 12/10/21 11:23 PM |
| 12 | Lovebombing or attentive pursuit?I would drop him. PhD types of men are narcissistic to the core, not to mention the productivity blog and book deal. Obviously based on your little interaction with him I see nothing wrong. My suspicion arises from what’s he does in general. Everyone (or almost) is on their best behavior at the beginning. One final question: does he know of your recent breakup? He might be opportunistically approaching you in a difficult moment. All I said is based on personal bias, of course, but I would either… | /r/askFDS | 12/10/21 11:03 PM |
| 13 | “My husband proposed to me with a box of pizza and a 20€ ring. I am marrying him because I love him, not for his money.”True. People will try to discourage you and imply you have “high standards”. My own mother does. No surprise she is an extreme pick me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 11:16 AM |
| 25 | Now that FDS is a way of life, how do you live your life not in constant disappointment of society?People tell me I’m paranoid and too cynical. I just can’t grasp the new reality right in front of my eyes! | /r/askFDS | 22/07/21 12:07 AM |
| 0 | Can single fathers be HVM?No | /r/askFDS | 15/07/21 10:38 PM |
| 12 | Beware the wolf in sheep's clothing.I have a superior who never ever mentions his girlfriend. She works in our field so everyone knows about their relationship. I’m even good acquaintances with her. She, on the other hand, speaks of him quite often. I’m not friends with him, but we are from the same team of work, so I see him quite often. He has always rubbed me off the wrong way despite them still being a couple. What’s the worse ? He has made some comments regarding having had several girlfriends in the past talking to another g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 04:45 PM |
| 22 | Vetting Men by their job positionDoctors. No need for further discussion. LVM all the way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 01:37 PM |
| 3 | One of the Benefits of Living Together... Splitting the RentThat makes two of us! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 08:19 PM |
| 7 | Pushed into buying a houseIt is a serious relationship. Both our parents have met. Yet I am feeling trapped and angry above all. I never lied about my needs and wants. He is trying to make me change my mind. | /r/askFDS | 10/07/21 11:33 PM |
| 10 | A guy recently called me “cold and hard to read” .. this was after he sent me two gross, unsolicited nudes that made me want to vomit. Block and delete!True ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 10:14 PM |
| 10 | Is anyone else here a virgin who is disgusted by slutty guys?Here here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Date a man who is proud of youTrue | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 10:46 PM |
| 24 | Be wary of guys who brag about being richCan confirm. Never dated one of my colleagues. Assholes all the way up to the top. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 11:52 AM |
| 7 | I Always Wanted to Date a Man I Could Look Up To. It Appears There Aren't Any.This | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Men Should Pay for WeddingsAbsolutely! They are the ones truly benefiting from it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 01:33 PM |
| 7 | Want kids but dread raising them?You and me are the same person! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Woke college educated women should date down men in terms of income and status.Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/21 06:37 PM |
| 6 | The women in my life keep telling me sex is not a big deal and that I should just do it because I'm 23 F and a virgin. But I don't want to allow men to have easy access to my body. How do I explain that casual sex is not empowering to me?I’m 27 and a virgin. I have no issue with that. Oh, and I have a boyfriend (still vetting him), but you see my point. | /r/askFDS | 01/05/21 12:10 PM |
| 7 | The fact that a sizeable amount of men marry because they get too old to chase young women is GROSS.Nothing I hate than a quote I heard in a movie but that sums it pretty well (“Girls for now, girls for later...”). Disgusting. And the worst is that some women out there actually feel worthy of marrying such guy. You are not special because he married you and not the others. You are the clown that believes he is suddenly a good guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 03:25 PM |
| 8 | All girls are princesses...Love that movie! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 03:15 PM |
| 4 | Forgive the shitpost, but this is a mood: When FDS describes what most men are really likeI would like to be her at 27 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 03:14 PM |
| 1 | my ex shattered my heart after i almost died in a car accidentHow old is he? | /r/askFDS | 21/04/21 09:56 PM |
| 4 | my ex shattered my heart after i almost died in a car accidentHe never liked you, much less love you. He was probably using for whatever reason. Sorry to be this blunt. I hope you get better at vetting men. Even a wonderful guy can show his true colors much later in the game. You have to be careful all the time. I was involved in a car accident last year and it was pretty traumatic to me. It was so bad I wish I died there for a couple of days. Wish you the best and take good time to rest. You deserve all the care, support and love. Best wishes | /r/askFDS | 21/04/21 07:23 PM |
| 9 | Weird Red Flags?😂🙌🏻that and the big Lebowski | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 09:19 PM |
| 11 | Weird Red Flags?That’s code for “I respect the looser main character” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 09:17 PM |
| 3 | Something my coworker said that git me thinking ( upset)I had AN till I was about 22, thought it never goes completely way. To me it was about control. Pure and simple. Nothing to do with appealing to anyone. It a serious disease despite people rarely understanding nor knowing what it it about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 09:16 PM |
| 9 | Weird Red Flags?We are into something. Usually they say “its the best show ever”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 09:11 PM |
| 3 | Why would your male mentor not correct you? I need your perspectiveHis previous resident was a woman. And she said wonders about him. It’s probably the second option :( | /r/askFDS | 19/04/21 03:48 PM |
| 28 | How do I bring up marriage with my bf?You don’t. He should do it at most in the next 1-2 years. | /r/askFDS | 15/04/21 11:03 PM |
| 1 | This woman has clearly been manipulated by a LVM who convinced her that his porn habits are to be blamed on her.Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 09:22 PM |
| 3 | As of October 2020, 55% of men say they are satisfied with household labor division, compared with 38% of women. 74% of mothers say they do more to manage their children’s schedules and activities than their spouse or partner; only 3% say their husband does more of this.100% agree. To me they are dumb above all thinking they are super human. Nope, you are just a super slave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 09:13 AM |
| 36 | Guy says he idolizes Jordan Peterson, should I run?Yes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 06:37 PM |
| 3 | I was once asked if I “had money saved for my wedding” when I wasn’t even engagedThis is hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 01:47 AM |
| 7 | How to protect yourself when young? (18-24)I never date till I was 25. It was mostly a choice. Plus I had my education going on. For awhile I thought I was missing something. Now, I’m sure it was god’s protection and I’m not even religious! Young men are beyond immature. Old men are disgusting. Don’t give them your time. After getting your things together start dating men your age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 01:45 AM |
| 2 | Stop Believing Male Feminists/Relationship GurusThe absolute worst. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Women who have overcome/overcomming body image issues, how and any tips/guidance? (F20)I had atypical anorexia from 12 to 23 (sort of). I never went to a therapist nor anything. I wasn’t “sick enough” weight wise, mas mentally it was draining. What happened? I hit rock bottom. It was either going up or going down. I don’t recommend doing it on your own but you are the one who need the motivation to overcome your struggles. I’m 27 now and I can confidently say that for about 2 years I’m “normal”. Regarding food and body image. Good luck and stay focused. If I did it anybody can do … | /r/askFDS | 27/03/21 06:27 PM |
| 9 | Anyone else look young for their age / have a baby face? How has this affected how men view you?Not only young but “innocent” or whatever that means. It goes either away: they perceive me as this delicate thing therefore in my face treat me respectfully. Even gentle like. Or...they will try to tease/pick on me to see my reaction to these comments. I used to blush a lot which only made it worse. Somehow it stopped. What bothers me above all is that the same men treats women differently according to his perception of her. Sorry if this went off topic, but yes I’m 27 yet I usually am treated … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 12:09 AM |
| 7 | New member - What do you all think about the possibility of a LVM or men in general to change?No. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 01:23 AM |
| 3 | You’re single!I’m very ambivalent towards marriage as well. First off I hate the ceremony itself. Second, it is no guarantee the relationship will stay the same. I want him to show his commitment and fear of losing me for long as possible. Marriage sort of secures that. Not mention children. The biggest commitment of it all and the one Im most afraid of doing with the wrong person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Older guy doesn’t pay for our datesDump him immediately. | /r/askFDS | 16/03/21 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Single Men Over 40 Are BrokenThere is a guy at work, sociopathic for sure, who managed to get to a higher position at the age of only 37. As far as I know he dated one coworker in the past, who dumped him, and immediately after found himself another one also at work. He is nice overall and smart enough to not put a foot in the wrong place, mostly with women. His last girfriend is 3 years older and has a young child from a previous relationship. Last week it came up at work that “he wasnt yet a father” to which he replied “a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 05:11 PM |
| 2 | They accuse us of being female incels...I could only wish. The amount of unsolicited attention I get from guys is a relationship makes me paranoid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 04:57 PM |
| 31 | How is it that, in an age of supposed "dating equality," women still get the short straw?What a joke. Glad, its your ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 01:27 PM |
| 6 | Agree to disagree! The false narrative LVM tell themselves everyday!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 10:27 PM |
| 8 | REPOST: Marriage is a scam for women in the USThis pretty much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Why do Men lead you on by faking interests just to dump you after?This. | /r/askFDS | 26/12/20 02:53 AM |
| 24 | Can’t even imagine an HVM even in my fantasies.I have been there though I am very inexperienced. I had my first date at 25 so you go figure...however this happened with someone I knew for about 1year and a half before romantic feelings started to appear. A couple of weeks laster he ghosted me. Say he couldn’t date me because of his too demanding job. However this was someone who wanted to marry me and the whole shenanigan. For awhile I looked at couples and stopped believing in love. I was even relieved to be single. “At least not living a l… | /r/askFDS | 26/12/20 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Opening up about past disappointmentsI’m sorry to hear about what happened to you. That’s terrible. We have been in a relationship for about 8 months. He has been talking about getting serious and I believe his good intentions, just don’t know whether overshare or not... He will never ask directly I guess. I just don’t know if he wants me to bring it up. | /r/askFDS | 26/12/20 01:06 AM |
| 2 | My friend she wouldn’t mind being casually proposed to while doing dishes or taking out garbage - I hope I never get to this pointI have a coworker who picked the ring for her boyfriend to buy. When proposed she published a photo of them with him making a “stupid face” as if it wasn’t an important moment. She is 32 and has been with him for at least 10 years. No surprises here... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 05:15 PM |
| -3 | He says it’s a sign of disrespect towards him to not have lost the baby weight already- after giving birth to their 7th child. The audacity!Can’t you go to a doctor? 😞🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 01:07 PM |
| 10 | He says it’s a sign of disrespect towards him to not have lost the baby weight already- after giving birth to their 7th child. The audacity!It’s one of my biggest fears concerning pregnancy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 01:06 PM |
| 1 | How a real HVM prioritizes the woman in his lifeVery true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 08:12 PM |
| 2 | In what ways do you practice assertiveness? (STEM pursuers)I second the first 3 points. Don’t let them know much about your personal life, be aloof to work shenanigans and obviously don’t “fall in love”. Don’t ask me why but it gives you an aura of “I’m beyond all of this, anyway...” The downside: people are uneasy with you. (is it a downside?) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 11:46 AM |
| 2 | Engagement rings - do they tell a lot about how he values you?I wasn’t aware of it! Sorry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 02:00 PM |
| 10 | 56 y.o. Liam Cunningham refused to let GoT team make Davos crush on Missandei, played by 28 y.o. Nathalie EmmanuelI almost forgot It was him! The father in a little princess 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Alot of them are looking at you as their next prey. Be informedMy thought exactly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 10:32 PM |
| 2 | My brother just told me I will end up single with no spouse or children, ladies I need your encouragement!So what? I’m younger than you. Still have « much time » left. However, I have come to terms with the possibility of being alone forever. To put it simply: I dont care. Why? I have been hurt by many people (not men in particular), and it shatered me. I simply dont trust people. Do I have friends? I do. Do I have a bf? I do. Do I believe one day they won’t be here anymore? Absolutely. As much as I would love not to say this: you have to be hurt to be unbothered. But then it’s you turn to win :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 10:31 PM |
| 11 | How to go about dating as an avoidant type?I have the same problem. I’m deeply afraid of getting hurt, therefore I tend to be cold and avoidant. I wish I was a bit more vulnerable, however it has yet to serve me well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 11:33 PM |
| 23 | You're not high maintenance, you're high value.That’s always a compliment🥂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 07:22 PM |
| 12 | Spiritual or otherwise, we don't want patients!I’m a psychiatrist. Don’t date any men with psychiatric or even “just” psychological issues. Simple as that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 11:38 AM |
| 1 | I wish all of you ladies that feeling. 💪😎Absolutely. When you open your soul and your eyes, than can’t be undone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Based on a Facebook post of the paying half debate...Nope. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 04:36 PM |
| 17 | I wish all of you ladies that feeling. 💪😎I went through the same. You will reach a point when you feel nothing. I was left out the blue. Completely heartbroken. A couple of months later he blocked me everywhere, even LinkedIn (lol). I was weirded out since I never reached out to him. Then I was the one deleting my social media accounts. Not because of him, but also served a point indirectly. For awhile I was winning, thinking he wasn’t reaching out because he couldn’t anyway. But then I realized that this was just my vindictiveness. He… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 04:13 PM |
| 8 | This is just so gross! But what's worse is the number of women in the comment section saying they will do this!Humiliating to the core. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 06:59 PM |
| 4 | nothing says traditional more than rocking her box for 10+ years with no ring or kids or a marriage. Sure I'll commit after getting the milk for free for 10 years and then "Maybe" we can get married and start a family. Sooo tradition you people!This. If it took that long he did it either to shut her up, family pressure or”just because”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 05:05 PM |
| 2 | After so many toxic/one-sided relationships in the past, do you feel like a "bad girlfriend" when you finally are in a healthy relationship?Many times. But then I think of how little in my life I accomplished by being good. Love, family and work wise. Then I go back to being “bad”. The world is a harsh place and putting yourself first is the only way to find happiness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 05:00 PM |
| 4 | Another conundrum of men hardly ever being developed enough to be interesting AND of good character.I have the exact same opinion! Highly educated men are a red flag, specially if they are academically driven and didn’t go to college for a chance of a better life for himself and others. These men can be wonderful conversationalists at first, and more interesting than the average, but beware...you are in for a bad experience. Disagree with them regarding a topic? They will prove to you how “right” they are every single time. And I’m not talking about objective matters. Also, most if them are am… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 08:26 AM |
| 3 | All men know the difference between boyfriend and husband😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 04:44 PM |
| 7 | All men know the difference between boyfriend and husbandI don’t think she does, thats what bothers me. She is even sub specializing in his area of work, may be in hopes she will keep working on his team long term. And they are full grown adults, he is a hypocrite and she is an undercover pick me type, apparently. I like them both together , but she deserves much better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 04:42 PM |
| 17 | All men know the difference between boyfriend and husbandI can attest 😂🙌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 04:38 PM |
| 15 | All men know the difference between boyfriend and husbandThat was my point! :) It wasn’t about the accuracy of the report, it was about his own hypocrisy towards his long term girlfriend. I know them both beyond work and his reply bothered me, specially the tone of his voice, which implied its a huge difference. And it is...it only means he doesn’t see his partner in the light she is hoping to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 04:34 PM |
| 62 | All men know the difference between boyfriend and husbandI have never seen one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 11:53 AM |
| 2 | High Earning, Well-Educated and Well-Dressed Does Not a HVM MakeThis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 06:31 PM |
| 5 | High Earning, Well-Educated and Well-Dressed Does Not a HVM MakeMade that mistake once. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 06:25 PM |
| 4 | High Earning, Well-Educated and Well-Dressed Does Not a HVM MakeThis is classic! Pretty much all my team work colleagues are like that to their long time girlfriends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 05:16 PM |
| 3 | Don't fall for it ladies!Queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Terminal uniqueness and proud non-conformity are red flags😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Used or new, we will run you overI don’t get why. I was ghosted for a man who promised a life with me, after telling him this. I guess the wait wasn’t so worth it...anyway it’s a great away to make them go away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 07:16 PM |
| 5 | Used or new, we will run you overI’m 26yo but yes...exact same experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 10:47 AM |
| 15 | Having kids in your late twenties versus thirtiesSorry I wasn’t specific, but I won’t have a kid out of marriage. My issue is mostly age related. And thank you! I’m an idiot to think I’m getting older to have kids😞 The toll it will take on my body...it makes me scared s***less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 11:43 PM |
| 17 | My husband's dad just said that he felt bad for a family member that just had another daughter.I have a coworker exactly like this. He is a lamb to his wife, but ogles at young woman as much as he can during work. He would never do it in front of her. You can’t trust them. Ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 08:44 AM |
| 13 | What will you not do until engaged or married?Sex (I’m a non religious virgin) Definitely not moving in together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 06:12 PM |
| 1 | 48M Seeking 28-34F😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 12:24 PM |
| 5 | Don’t fall for pick-mes pressuring you. Misery loves company, so keep your standards high to avoid the drama.This. What’s the point in bringing misery to their lives before even being born? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 12:22 PM |
| 19 | Men are 7x more likely to leave their sick wives/girlfriends than women are to leave their sick boyfriends/husbands - confirmed by multiple studiesBecause they are selfish by nature. No need go much deeper than that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 07:33 PM |
| 8 | Why does it seem like men tend to settle down after their prime years?Yes, privileged upbringing and/or major intelectual know-it-alls better than anyone else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 12:21 PM |
| 1 | PSA to all the young Queens on here: a man wanting to have sex with you is not a compliment, nor does it mean he cares about you as a person!This, absolutely! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Which Movies Do you Consider a Red Flag if A Man Raves About it and Says it's his Favorite?Yes, yes, yes!! “Breaking bad is the best series of all time”. I’m not saying its a bad tv series, but they tend to identify themselves with the main character, who was a looser in the begging and somehow in their minds becomes “a real man” by the end if it. Stingy and pretentious men like this train of thought. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Which Movies Do you Consider a Red Flag if A Man Raves About it and Says it's his Favorite?You are into something. I can confirm😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 01:16 PM |
| 52 | Male coworkers negging youThese men should be left alone until they change their ways. If not...bye from the genetic pool. But I don’t even believe in them changing. Most are rotten. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 10:57 PM |
| 3 | Why are some men with respectable jobs such assholes? Wish those in their field new what assholes they werePsychiatrist here. I agree 100%. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 10:24 PM |
| 1 | A guy asking If I’m good at cooking?Yes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 10:17 PM |
| 17 | “Deep conversations about philosophy” my ass. Dusty LVMs love bragging about how deep they are in their profiles. They ain’t.Im going to solely add one: -You haven’t seen Breaking Bad? It’s the best tv series of all time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 10:10 PM |
| 9 | Men claim they want straightforwardness, no games, and honesty but subconsciously they don’t. Anyone have experience with this?They don’t know what they like. They can only sense it when experiencing it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 10:05 PM |
| 2 | What’s something that you did with good intention, too early for a man, and now look back in it with so much regret?Telling him I loved him too. And going out on cheap restaurant dates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 09:39 PM |
| 9 | Never Help a Man Do Anything - Deb Cooper. Controversial. What do you think?Sensitive men are worse than the rougher versions of themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 09:32 PM |
| 1 | The picture itself without the captioning actually makes me feel very sad. What is your take on women proposing to men?🤢🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Not mine, but what on earth?😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 08:43 PM |
| 3 | For sh*ts and giggles, what was his zodiac sign?Aries (Committed early on, gave a lot of positive signs, then one day decided to ghost me) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 11:21 PM |
| 49 | "Men age like fine wine" Sean Penn, 59, and Leila George, 28 just got married. There are no words.He is an alcoholic. His skin doesn’t lie🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 03:00 PM |
| 2 | She literally mothered and fathered him... this cant be real 💀Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 02:33 PM |
| 17 | High Value Men and what it means to be one100% this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 03:57 PM |
| 6 | Please explain this male behavior. When men are negative about a woman having typical feminine interests.Same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 10:31 PM |
| 3 | Why one of my standards is a guy who had a happy childhood with still-married parentsI second this. But men don’t deal with emotional trauma the same way we do. Most don’t even recognize it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Rich Man-child Impregnates Beautiful Harvard Grad, Calls off Engagement, Marries Princess whose Father has Epstein ConnectionI stand by this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 12:43 PM |
| 25 | If they want to impress you they will 👏This made my day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Is it a red flag if a man in his late twenties doesn’t speak to his mom ?Ahah 🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 11:15 PM |
| 0 | Is it a red flag if a man in his late twenties doesn’t speak to his mom ?Yes. Run. Unless she is a witch and you have other witness sources, it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 02:35 PM |
| 3 | Elizabeth Bennet, from Pride and Prejudice: an example of queen energyI never liked him either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 03:40 PM |
| 6 | Guys who treated me the worst were ugly guysI agree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 09:30 AM |
| 3 | A friend suggested FWB. Cut him off?Sure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Women of ppd, what do you assume of a socially introverted male?Same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/20 12:06 AM |
| 1 | How many partners have you had?0 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/20 12:01 AM |
| 3 | First dateNo words for this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 11:46 PM |
| 3 | If a man is this stingy, I don’t see the point in staying with him.I love this phrasing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 07:37 PM |
| 16 | The Awakening: Women Hold More Power Than They Think and Can Use It to Get Everything They Deserve.You could rule the entire world if I were to choose! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 12:16 PM |
| 3 | Am I overreacting? [rant]If he has no plans to close the distance and hasn’t flown to see you when you went twice, he wants you on hold. He isn’t serious nor treating you right. However, he doesn’t break up because he enjoys your attention. Not to mention having you doing all the work for him. If he has some character (which most men don’t), he would let you go and not waste your time and affection. I know it hurts, but consider letting him go as fast as possible. Plus, you are at college, have plenty of time to fall in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 03:19 AM |
| 3 | Am I overreacting? [rant]Sure! The reason I don’t believe in LDR is because of these guy. I mean, I didn’t believe in theory but after this experience, I’m completely against them We were in a relationship for not even 2 months, but one huge red flag I missed was the fact that he insisted for me to try long distance. He showed me (or tried) that he was crazy in love with me and unfortunately we met at the wrong time (such a novel...). He accepted a job abroad before we were dating, I always knew he was leaving (dumb), b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 02:40 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I will never be in a fulfilling relationship because of my mental illnessPM me if you want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 02:17 AM |
| 10 | Am I overreacting? [rant]No, you are not. I had a brief relationship (lasted one and a half months) with a guy who told me “I don’t get why you use suncreen everyday, I find it weird” or “that jacket looks like he could be your grandma’s”. No, dummie you are just a simpleton who doesn’t get fashion. That day he became my ex. Not solely because of these, we had other issues, but these simple comment show his true colors. He enjoyed putting me down. Dumb men do these on your face (the classic negging). This one was smarte… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Men subtly joking you do little workWhat distresses me the most is the possibility that men (HV, LV, wtv) may all behave the same way, if you allow it. That means they treat you accordingly with how much they want to invest in you. Not according to his character. Also, the fact it can and may very well change within a couple of years, decades, leaves me to a single conclusion: they are not worthy investing in. Building a life with. Unless your dream of having a family, always having in mind you have an extra guest that could alway… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 12:31 PM |
| 22 | Men subtly joking you do little workWith my parents I answer them back. No issue at all. But with him I have been quieter than I usually am, since it’s all very recent and I didn’t want to upset his royal majesty for “just” one or two remarks. But today he failed on me I guess. I wont tolerate it anymore and will think it through regarding the relationship. There is also a reason why I don’t get visibly upset: I like to watch them speak freely, without fearing repercussions. That way I can better see through them. Thank you again … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 11:38 PM |
| 37 | Men subtly joking you do little workThank you for you words! The first time he said it, i didn’t took ir the wrong way. Even my own parents sometimes joke that I could make more if I stopped being “a princess”. I work 40h/week and like I said I’m happy overall. Plus, I don’t need the extra money to make an average living and I enjoy a stress free life. I never pass on the idea of being a workaholic. It’s not as if I portrayed myself differently in the beginning. Today after the comparison (it was over the phone), I just went quiet… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 11:22 PM |
| 3 | Do women really mean, “You and me forever,” or is it a ploy?I’m a woman and I have heard it before as well. Guess what? It was a ploy carefully designed by a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/20 11:24 PM |
| 17 | NO CONTACT but dont forget to BLOCKI went through something similar, though it only lasted a month and a half. Bare in mind this LVM pursued me for more than a year. Like yours great writer, great talker. Academically ambitious, humble family roots. On paper seemed quite good. Unfortunately we shared a passion for movies and cinema that got me thinking he was “the one”. Never gave me a gift, but would collect things for him. Tried to rush me into the possibility of moving in with him, so he could save up some money most likely. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 10:13 PM |
| 13 | Is the anticipated “more intricately woven band” also made of scrote hair?I can only assume its a joke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 10:01 PM |
| 3 | Is it okay to date a broke man with genuine ambition?I was shocked because he was also quite gentlemanly and seemingly good guy, solid group of friends, all in solid relationships. I was dumb and naive, his hardship in life made him look like even a “better” man, than a posh high society sort of guy. He was bitter and wanted to take advantage of me. Since he couldn’t, left. But bare in mind that many successful guys leave behind the women who stayed by their side all the way to the top. Even if you both “get there” there is no guarantee that he wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 08:13 PM |
| 14 | Is it okay to date a broke man with genuine ambition?No. Never treated me right despite promising me a solid future. Would buy a collection of DVDs for his future home cinema room, but never offered me even some flowers. Zero gifts, never payed for the dates (50/50) all because he was from a poor family and currently broke.Since I wanted to take things slowly after only one and a half months of promising me the world, suddenly ghosted me. Then one day said he couldn’t have a relationship while pursuing his career. Fun fact: he was the one pursuing… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 07:42 PM |
| 3 | What range of price is acceptable for gifts on bdays?On one hand I could buy something nice like what he has gifted me before when were in a relationship. But I don’t want to spoil him...so thank you, it was a specific answer given he is a car lover. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Am I [29F] over-analyzing a former, older (married?) [42M] work colleagues texts?Even if he does speak about her it can be a red flag. I had a coworker also slightly older (32M) and I was 24F at the time who would “jokingly” say that men should only get married at 40 and that his wife bosses him around, poor him...Plus don’t forget the father narrative. Showed me his baby son and complained about how his life changed so much and that the only person he truly loves is his baby 😂 As in your case, he never crossed explicit boundaries and was always very helpful, nice and people… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 01:09 PM |
| 3 | So much projection...A low key model. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 06:26 PM |
| 3 | He Never Gave me FlowersEven I after reading all of these wish I could send you some delicate flowers. You didn’t loose anyone. He is no Man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 09:33 PM |
| 10 | A reminder that actions speak louder than words no matter what his excuse is.I see so many of these photos, its pathetic. You can clearly see in their eyes they don’t want to take them, much less posting them on social media. Usually it’s the girlfriend who posts them all the time, while he never does. It’s always a red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 11:44 AM |
| 6 | Anyone else have a pickmeisha for a mother, and therefore learned no female dating/life skills at all?That’s heartbreaking and an emotional exploitation of the worst kind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 04:19 PM |
| 6 | Anyone else have a pickmeisha for a mother, and therefore learned no female dating/life skills at all?I’m a physician and let me tell you, my female colleagues are some of the dumbest women I have ever met (I mean no disrespect). Dumb in a common sense/street wise kind of thought. They do everything for everyone, including their man. Some are very religious, other promiscuous as well and in pick-me situationships. All in the name of good old feminism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else have a pickmeisha for a mother, and therefore learned no female dating/life skills at all?I hope she is just dumb. We have a difficult relationship and I honestly thought she wanted me to be hurt (just like she was before). In a way she helped me decide towards breaking up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else have a pickmeisha for a mother, and therefore learned no female dating/life skills at all?My first bf and I dated for one month. It was ridiculous and even I back then thought that it was doomed from the start and had a certain suspicion regarding him. Why? Because I met him at a transacional fase in his life. He found a job in another country (2h flight) and moved shortly after asking me to be his girlfriend. I feared he was putting me as a backup plan. Regardless we broke up almost after he moved away. My own damn mother thought it was such a nice situation: that my first sort of r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 02:43 PM |
| 3 | Do you think couples who post all the time together on social media are the most unhappiest?I never posted anything and it didn’t work regardless. And worse: I was happy through the vast majority of time. So 😂🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 05:45 PM |
| 18 | Did you ever experience true love?Never from a man. Only from my grandma. (I was told I was loved by men, but it was never true) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 03:22 PM |
| 3 | What sort of career/profession is a HVM likely to have?Second what you said about physicians. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 05:23 PM |
| 21 | What sort of career/profession is a HVM likely to have?Beware of physicians, nurses, even vets!Remember many narcissists disguise as altruistic people. I learned my lesson. Dated a vet once, never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 01:25 PM |
| 2 | The moment you show interest in return, they don’t want you. What’s the psychology behind this? I’m so done.This right here. Only “love” them when they are sorted in life. Never before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 09:54 PM |
| 67 | Study: 70% of men agree it's acceptable to lie to women and say you're in love with them to have sex with her. 80% of men think they shouldn't have to use any birth control. And 90% of these men said abortion was wrong.This. If you vet them, you hold the power. Im still a virgin and intend to stay that away until I have the commitment I deserve. I’m not religious, had a health issue from my teens to almost mid twenties which prevented me from having a social life. That explains most of it. The rest is explained by the fact that I want to hold the power. Is he worthy or not? Time will tell. It’s not about putting anything on a pedestal. It’s merely an emotional transaction, that will save you from a lot of hear… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 11:01 PM |
| 3 | If he reaches out after months, do not think of this as meaningfulYour last sentence hit me. I’m in the same place in my life. Dating what it seems to be a HVM, but can’t let go of my first love. I hate him and still remember him at the same time. It’s awful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 11:56 AM |
| 35 | Only LVM don't care about a woman's accomplishmentsI’m quite feminine myself, but I have always gotten weird vibes from her. Not sure if she believes in everything she talks about. And if she has a marketing degree...may be she is just using it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 05:30 PM |
| 30 | This is so true, men know what they want regardless of the time they’ve known you for. Don’t let him waste your time.It may sound cynical but it’s my opinion as well. Also, that’s why so many settle on their 30’s and marry in a heartbeat sometimes. The pragmatic ones, which usually are the ones with a solid career and stable life, which could lure many women in. They don’t go with the flow, they have steps in life and marrying and having a family is one of them. Pretty enough? Nice enough? Right time? There you go. Husband and wife. You might have been the “the love of his life” or “the one that got away” but … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 05:34 PM |
| 42 | Reminder: men get stressed out when their wives make more than 40% of household incomeI could always keep my own all to myself and let him assume the households bills. Dream come true. Both satisfied. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 10:46 AM |
| 9 | Christian men freak me outI get what you mean. But at least the Christians might be ashamed. Or pretend to be at least (hypocrisy aside). Atheists act like know-it-alls and if you disagree with them: your are either too dumb to “get it” or brainwashed by society ancient rules. They get under my skin the most. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 08:18 PM |
| 22 | Christian men freak me outAtheists are worse in my opinion. Far worse. They intelectualize everything with the sole purpose of exploiting you, not realizing it because of “science” and “history” and “data”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 10:36 AM |
| 24 | Don’t tell the men you know about FDSThat’s obvious 😇 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 05:23 PM |
| 27 | Highly intelligent women - are you with, or only date, other highly intelligent men?I prefer down to earth, “unpolished” guys. I don’t mean rude or with poor manners, but simple men. Treat you much better than intellectuals and are less neurotic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 04:15 PM |
| 31 | Highly intelligent women - are you with, or only date, other highly intelligent men?Don’t leave him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 02:21 PM |
| 1 | What an awesome husbandAdorable! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 10:59 AM |
| 2 | Since we're all (hopefully!) staying indoors, what kinds of things should a feminine woman post on her social media?Im sorry I can’t give you anymore advice regarding this topic. Also, I’m 26, older than you for sure, but far from a granny. It depends on what you are going for and your views. But too me being feminine includes not being tacky. And posting on social media goes towards that direction. Unless you are using it as a source of income or business related, which doesn’t seem so. I’m not trying to insult you or your choices, you do you ;) But you asked for an opinion. On what to post. I just wouldn’t. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/20 12:01 AM |
| 6 | Since we're all (hopefully!) staying indoors, what kinds of things should a feminine woman post on her social media?I wouldn’t post anything. At all. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/20 12:40 PM |
| 3 | When your entire life up until now has been nun mode. How to explain that to a man?I was you one year ago. I’m currently 26yo and dating a good guy so far. Anyway, I haven’t even kissed anyone till I was 25. I didn’t lack self esteem , was conventionally attractive, but quite shy. I felt a deep shame and inadequacy till that time, and when you read about that being ridiculous, it is. It’s just a mental block. You will only realize it doesn’t mean much. Just a mild form of affection. Plus, like you I always felt that a relationship was something meant to be serious (leading to … | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/20 11:47 PM |
| 3 | This has got to be a joke. Who in their right mind is waiting 18 damn years for a ring....I know I’m not 🙅🏾♀️🤣Talk about low standards😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 10:38 PM |
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