QueenEnergy4Life Archive

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54	Dealing with being purposefully celibate Get you a new vibrator and some new fantasies! Explore sexual fantasy you haven’t allowed yourself to consider before. I’m also going through my second divorce and last night I had my first ever dream in my life – and I’m also 48 – that I was kissing a woman. I liked it. I’ve never ever ever been sexually interested in women. But here we are. If you keep following FDS principles and leveling up, new people will come into your life and bring all kinds of new adventure and ideas and fun. It’s not …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/04/22 01:15 PM
7	All those men that you've made a first move on in the past never wanted you. Your comment about not acting like a charity is gold! I have two often acted like a nonprofit for lazy broke men. And they treat me like a charity. They’ll take what I give but don’t appreciate it!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/04/22 01:04 PM
15	Chronicles of the Modern Day “Gold Digger”: It’s more than just the money I’m 48 and my net worth is over 1 million. You better believe I watch out for these gold diggers!! I am married and I insisted on a prenup and he pays for half of everything even though I make a lot more. I don’t care. I worked too fucking hard and escaped too many LVM to get to this point in my life and I’m not about to let a man get my assets. I pour money into my savings every two weeks and it makes me happy. Before my second marriage I dated an accountant who made over 80,000. He was so stin…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/04/22 10:48 AM
9	Recently posted to Will's Official FB. Thoughts on a man who does what he did then apologizes publicy about his actions? Making a sincere apology and not blaming others for mistakes is high value behavior. I’m glad to see this apology. I was surprised to see FDS queens defending a man “protecting his woman” through violence.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/03/22 12:01 AM
8	Can we talk about how aggressively men get off on cheating, getting caught, and NOT getting broken up with immediately? Their egos are astronomical at this point. I see your point but I feel like you are minimizing rape by saying “he caught a rape case”. It would be more accurate to say “he raped a woman”. I read everything about that case and the way the victim was slut shamed is horrible. She worked at his hotel, she was starstruck, he violently raped her, and she ended up being seen as the bad person in the situation.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/03/22 04:39 PM
8	Trigger warning for violence against young girl. Little girls can’t even walk home, nor exist : without being sexualized and preyed upon by evil males. I don’t think people like this deserve a psych evaluation because his crime is inexcusable. Praying for baby girl’s recovery. Poems by Sumaya 🖤 This is what Lundy Bancroft teaches us! Men are not violent because they are mentally ill (most of the time)!! They are violent because it gets them what they want! Control of the money, control of the family, control of sex. Making women and children scared of you gets you what you want when you are an abusive man.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/22 11:31 AM
16	Made a mistake and fell backwards. Devastated and need help with feeling grounded back into the real world. “If he wanted to, he would.” has never hurt so bad. Just keep repeating to yourself “never again never again” and “I love and forgive myself, I love and forgive myself.” Even if you don’t believe it right now, keep saying it as a mantra. Take these lessons learned and make the rest of your long life better! I know you know it, but he doesn’t love and value you. Every minute you spend thinking about him is a minute not focused on leveling up and being ready for the HVM that will come your way one day.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/22 07:42 PM
60	Why I DON’T EXPLAIN. On boundaries, disappointment, and self-shielding: You don’t have to explain to an emotionally abusive man why he isn’t allowed to hurt you anymore. When I blocked and deleted my abusive ex it drove him absolutely crazy. I found some of his long begging emails in my spam folder and of course didn’t respond. In a weak moment I unblocked him to send him something I knew would piss him off. He immediately texted me back that he wished I would unblock him because he has all the stuff he wants to say to me blah blah. I immediately re-blocked him. He started leaving letters on my porch. But I never again wavered. Y’all I was so fucking proud of my…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/22 12:01 PM
25	this is why I will never settle for less until I meet someone who loves me and respects our relationship like this I agree with this. Generally people who feel the need to publicly post stuff like this are trying to convince themself of something. Like why do you need to tell the world how you feel about your wife? I think it’s odd.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/22 01:13 PM
3	Big yikes So if I ever need a kidney all I have to do is give a ring to a man?? Does it work in reverse?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/22 06:43 PM
11	Don't cry, beg or show emotion or over communicate. State what you want then leave when it's not met. Men enjoy the begging, crying and emotional outbursts because they know this means you're wrapped around their finger and will stay. It is a massive ego boost for them to have that power over you Yes 1000%	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/22 06:34 PM
70	The “empowerment” propaganda has to stop. It is literally empowering abuse. I know a young man who exposed himself to his sister and it was probably inspired by this incest porn. It’s incredibly damaging.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/03/22 12:01 PM
6	A simple trick to combat negging... I agree with you here. Sometimes you have to fight back! A NVM former politician I work for tried to fire me because he was threatened by me and I went into HR with guns fucking blazing. I was pointing at peoples folders and questioning what was in them and turning the blame right back on this asshole. It worked. They ended up giving me an office and big bonuses because they knew I was gonna sue if I left. They tried to make me quit but I instead (not overtly) dared them to fire me because I wou…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/03/22 11:59 AM
34	SW is glorified on TikTok for impressionable teens and it’s disgusting. Her whole page is flexing the money she earns and how ‘fun’ her job is. Her mum even hypes her up. Also even strippers know that it’s not empowering - they’re so quick to clarify that they aren’t ‘escorts’. What happens in Dubai?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/03/22 11:53 AM
5	Met a creep and now motivated to not repeat. How do you motivate yourself to glow up when you've had nothing but bad experiences with men? This is beautiful. I love how you are taking such good care of yourself and treasuring yourself. Brava!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/03/22 03:02 AM
28	Anyone else want to get married less the more you see married men leering at you or other women in the company of their partners? You are on fire and I am here for it. This has 100% been my experience. I somewhat regret getting married a second time even though I did it very differently from my first: have a prenup, have a will leaving everything to my family, we split the work and pay for everything equally, etc. He is still getting more out of it than I am. If I divorce him I will never ever marry again. Why would I? I’m happy and rich on my own.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/22 09:19 PM
22	Anyone else want to get married less the more you see married men leering at you or other women in the company of their partners? When I man ignores your “no” it is dangerous. One of the great things I learned from “the gift of fear” - a must read for every woman.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/22 09:14 PM
9	Love everything about this, people are finally waking up to it The primary reason for the nuclear family was to ensure male property goes to “rightful” male heirs. In a society with looser sex, you couldn’t be sure if a child was actually yours. Hence, “your” property might go to someone else’s child. So demanding that a woman live only with one man and preferably be a virgin before marrying ensures that line of succession/property.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/22 07:21 PM
50	Do y’all realize how many ways women are shamed for NOT DYING? There is no wall. At 48 I’m happier, healthier, fitter and prettier than ever before. More peaceful than ever. THERE IS NO WALL.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/22 01:50 PM
1	This is one of the most horrific stories I have ever seen on Reddit. Thank god she is getting out. How is there not protections for young women like this. Women’s shelters are basically an underground railroad. Unfortunately, I would be surprised if this woman actually leaves. She is so young and vulnerable and dependent on him. Tragic.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/22 01:56 AM