UnhappyMedia Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	How are you leveling up? After one horrible dating experience after another, I’ve decided to remove myself completely from men and pretend they don’t exist, which is perfect timing for me because it’s March and I can start my hobbies again! Tilling soil, planting seeds, preparing plants to raise monarch butterflies for the summer, exploring new flowers to grow, and working on my houseplant collection. I’ve also started focusing more on reading and spending down time doing things other than swiping on tragic dating apps.…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/03/22 04:23 PM
18	Big yikes Yeah no the only situation in which I’d give a man my kidney (other than my dad) is if there’s a kidney pre-nup. You cheat on or dump me, that thing will be kindly placed back into my body. And if it’s not returned in mint condition, you will be fined 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/22 10:28 PM
9	My HV boyfriend turned in to a LV fiancée. I need help on how to leave. Also, you mentioned not knowing what to say to him..I was fearful of my ex fiancé because he had anger problems, so I wrote him a long letter explaining that we are no longer engaged, with my engagement ring placed on top. I did this while he was at work and headed to my parents for the night. Of course he called me when he got home and read it, but it was a LOT easier to say what I needed to on paper and then deal with the aftermath of his emotions, packing, logistics etc when I returned. EDIT:…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/03/22 08:49 PM
12	My HV boyfriend turned in to a LV fiancée. I need help on how to leave. I ended my engagement with my fiancé a few months into it. You can’t avoid the emotional turmoil of breaking up, but always remember, you’re not going to to die and your life will move on and you’ll flourish again. Send me a message if you want to chat	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/03/22 08:22 PM
16	Does anyone else find most men on OLD unattractive? I’ve deleted apps out of the sheer frustration that I always get a streak of fat, goatee-sporting, car selfie-ing, fish-holding, cargo-pants wearing D O R K S. ENOUGH ALREADY!!!!!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/02/21 03:54 AM
32	This almost makes me want to redownload dating apps to do the same! Are there other dating apps where I can pose as a Conservative to lure in some slack jawed yokels? Def in the mood to report some	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/01/21 09:20 PM
26	Men always say "we are abused too" bullshit, they are never as abused as much as women are. Watson and Crick are some ugly mother fuckers	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/01/21 01:31 AM
2	No more falling in love blindly, follow your intuition blindly. To an awesome and healthy 2021 🥂 Can’t stress how important this is.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/01/21 06:58 PM
8	Point the judgment in the right direction please.... LOUDER	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/12/20 08:27 PM
2	This comment thread reminded me why reddit is a terrible place for advice. This woman got cheated on and some of the comments are advising her to go to counseling before considering divorce. FDS would never.🙄 I understand the suggestion for counseling if you’re having problems communicating and asking for what you want. But I will NEVER understand why family and friends suggest counseling when something catastrophic happens. The fuck are you being counseled on? Speaking from experience 😑	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/12/20 08:25 PM
5	You are worthy of love and so much more!💕 Needed this today	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/12/20 08:13 PM
18	Dating is supposed to be fun ✂️✂️✂️ cut off everyone who makes you uncomfortable the first time ✂️✂️✂️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/12/20 07:14 PM
3	X post from r/whitepeopletwitter This happened in my family. Great grandmother’s husband died and she inherited and ran his trucking company by herself.. so, traditionally, her dead husband’s brother stepped in to marry her and tried to take over her company. He was an abusive POS and mysteriously disappeared.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/11/20 06:17 AM
7	Men sending you porn I just blocked a guy who sent me a dick pic after I told him I was not interested in seeing his dick whatsoever after the FIRST time he sent me a dick pic. I told him he’s fucking weird and degrading. He LITERALLY RESPONDED WITH: “why” ......???!? ...BLOCKED.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/11/20 05:49 AM
1	LVM pushes woman to the brink of insanity on thanksgiving so she throws the WHOLE turkey out of the balcony and has a breakdown. Totally missed that part, which makes it even worse Jesus Christ	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/11/20 04:40 AM
1	LVM pushes woman to the brink of insanity on thanksgiving so she throws the WHOLE turkey out of the balcony and has a breakdown. I would have sliced a few pieces off for me and my kid, THEN threw it off the balcony 😅	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/11/20 10:37 PM
63	Men like me more when I unexpectedly drop them like a hot potato. Whyyy?? It has nothing to do with you and everything to do with their own damaged ego. “I can’t believe she doesn’t want ME anymore. I bet I can get her back to prove to myself I’m worth something.” It’s a game to make themselves feel better. Kinda sad honestly	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/11/20 10:27 PM
7	Can you imagine how much development men would be forced to undergo if all women collectively raised their standards??? What a beautiful fantasy... omg reading this made me cringe because I remember it too!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/03/20 09:54 PM
23	Can you imagine how much development men would be forced to undergo if all women collectively raised their standards??? What a beautiful fantasy... couldn't agree with this more. As soon as I left a bad relationship I didn't need therapy anymore, got a promotion a few months later, and gained so much autonomy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/03/20 09:53 PM
3	Don’t be fooled by confused men Thanks, I’m trying to remember that. I went on a date last night with someone new and used some tactics I’ve learned in this sub (I’m very new). Our date was awesome, he paid for it all. he asked for a second one, and I said “sure, where are you taking me for dinner?” So, hopefully the second one is good too!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/02/20 03:07 AM
25	Don’t be fooled by confused men My life UPDATE: this post is sound advice. I just had a “where the hell is this going” convo with the dude who’s been confusing the shit out of me for weeks. Turns out he’s just not that into me. :(	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/02/20 06:09 PM
64	Thank you fairy godmother 😌 This is too real it hurts	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/01/20 11:44 PM
5	Guy gets a drunken hook up pregnant, and instead of worrying about the child, he’s worried about his social prospects. And he thinks he can still be high value? 😂 Dodged a gigantic bullet. Good for you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/01/20 10:03 PM
8	Too soon for him to invest and commit, but not too soon for him to try to have sex with you? 🤔 Funny how that works HINGE! Lol! We’ve been casually dating since Halloween (hence the going at a snail’s pace) but the HVM qualities are definitely there. If it’s raining and he picks me up, he’ll walk to my front door and walk me to the car with his umbrella, opens the door for me every time. Always asks me “what do you need? Are you hungry?” And will bring me food even if he himself isn’t even eating. So we’ll see where this all ends up haha	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/01/20 02:59 PM
53	Too soon for him to invest and commit, but not too soon for him to try to have sex with you? 🤔 Funny how that works I’m seeing a guy who wants to go at a snail’s pace, but he’s never once pressured me into sex. I was the one who initiated anything sexual bc let’s face it, I wanted some and he’s fuckin hot. And then strangest thing happened. He went down on me, basically got the full treatment, and when I went to reciprocate after I was done, he was like “nope, it’s all about you tonight.” NEVER happened to me in my life...now we’re banging but that’s what made me think he’s not such a bad dude.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/01/20 12:02 AM
8	Pursuing men makes you an opportunity, not a love interest. I’m literally in the “give a shy guy a chance trap” situation now. UGH 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬....he hasn’t ghosted me yet, but best believe I’m still accepting dates from other dudes and won’t be surprised if he disappears.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/01/20 09:04 PM
5	Make yourself first I struggle with this. But it’s encouraging to see it in front of me to remind me :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/01/20 09:24 PM