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| 19 | The real reason why dating market is full of 🤡 and why 50-50 is such a 🚩Whew, this post is a banger! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/22 09:49 AM |
| 19 | Self sabotage.Personally, I don’t think majority men deserve to even view me, let alone breathe the same air. I catch them looking and I WANT TO BLUR MYSELF to cut them off!!! YES, this is my vibe everyday. I wish men would stop perceiving me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/22 05:49 PM |
| 125 | Lazy/useless men & the 'Why should I? It's my time' mentality.He just wanted me to do the process, because he “was scared to do it”. I walked away. So he threw a chair at me. He didn't get fired until months later when he caused a screwup so big that the client insisted he go. What the actual fuck, that’s insane! How much harder can they make it for males to fail?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/22 09:15 AM |
| 8 | BE ALERT: Men on TikTok are fantasizing about ways to hurt women on imaginary dates.More like there’s usually 6/6 bullets and the game of chance is whether the gun even has a blank, and then if you happen to land on that blank. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/22 12:27 AM |
| 11 | "I am afraid if I let him pay for dinner & dates OR don't go 50/50 with him OR let him pay for me all the time OR fully provide for me - he will have full control over every aspect of my life because I am financially dependent on him."I was going to mention this as well. Groups have always relied pretty much 100% on women to survive, including providing. It’s time men start pulling their weight and then some. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 07:39 AM |
| 24 | Being anti-porn is not enoughWhew, such a poignant comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 10:35 PM |
| 153 | Woman finds out her boyfriend earns significantly more money than her, wants him to contribute more for their rent and take her on a nice date.It makes me feel objectified and like I’m being seen more as my job than just who I am Oh bitch, please. Utter fucking nonsense. Notice how he is co-opting language women use to discuss and contest actual issues that we face to try to make us pity him and feel that his complaint is valid. Well, it’s not and it will be a cold day in hell before this loser gets an ounce of sympathy out of me. He dislikes the woman that he’s dating and is mad that he may potentially have to spend more money to keep… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 09:47 PM |
| 18 | Let’s not fund research of a HIGHLY underdiagnosed and treated disease, but how it effects their male partners because sex is too painful 🤦🏼♀️How hateful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 05:23 PM |
| 71 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Exactly. I’m rolling my eyes so hard reading these WW’s uninformed hot takes, I’m scared my eyes are gonna get stuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 11:29 AM |
| 49 | “If Kim Kardashian cannot escape this, then what chance do normal women have?” - Trevor Noah Breaks Down The Uneasiness Surrounding Kanye West's BehaviorTotally agree with this assessment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 07:43 AM |
| 114 | Scrote high off confidence from “self-improvement” demands his female friend stop telling his hookups he’s sleeping around. Molly for president 2k24Saint Molly, enforcer of girl code! May we all have her resilience and choose the safety of women over the lifelong “””friendship””” of a loser scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 07:26 AM |
| 128 | Scrote high off confidence from “self-improvement” demands his female friend stop telling his hookups he’s sleeping around. Molly for president 2k24I’d bet money that’s not even what she said. I’m sure he’s twisting her words and just ran off with what he wanted to hear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 07:23 AM |
| 2 | Can we talk about how hard it is not to internalize the message that it’s a woman’s responsibility to “keep her man interested”?Even if it all kept a man perfectly faithful and well behaved, it wouldn’t be worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Can we talk about how hard it is not to internalize the message that it’s a woman’s responsibility to “keep her man interested”?Wow, that’s an excellent point! It never even occurred to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 06:40 PM |
| 16 | Big yikesImagine wasting your bone marrow on a male. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 10:58 PM |
| 10 | Big yikesNeeevveeerrrrr a man!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 10:53 PM |
| 29 | From the tinder subreddit. I have no words.I’m gonna be sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 08:51 PM |
| 30 | Sobering stats on the sex industry and trafficking.The city that I live in, you can straight up find these parlors on google maps, with reviews on the women and services all out in the open. Like half of these men were leaving reviews WITH THEIR REAL NAME! Anyone can stumble upon them, anyone can read them. In fact, I found them by total accident while looking for real massage therapists. Nothing is done about it, I’ve reported them multiple times. My local law enforcement knows about them. Nobody cares. To be honest, I died a little inside abou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 03:36 PM |
| 11 | Sobering stats on the sex industry and trafficking.Hard agree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 03:29 PM |
| 2 | What’s mine is mine and what’s yours is mine too!Love this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 03:10 AM |
| 55 | Makeup Give UpEvery time this topic comes up, I see quite a few women get triggered. Of course, the choice to wear make up is each individual woman’s decisions. However, as much as we may hate it, the personal IS political, and while it absolutely should not be a judge of character whether a woman wears make up or not, it IS a statement, and one that benefits women as a whole to try to disengage or minimize our engagement with. I mean, ladies it’s a multi-billion dollar industry (owned mostly by men) that fee… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 10:24 PM |
| 45 | The “empowerment” propaganda has to stop.This is so true. It’s deeply upsetting, and honestly annoying. The spinelessness at times makes me sick, others hopeless. I can’t assimilate in that way, I won’t. I don’t care how the energy in the room will change or how people will look at me, I refuse to normalize the abuse of women or condone the depravity of scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 02:29 PM |
| 13 | Rejected by 300 "hot girls", NVM cries about having to settle for "average" girls to get laidTotally agree, it made me sick to read it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 08:23 PM |
| 87 | Love everything about this, people are finally waking up to itI’m one of those people who need to be alone more. It’s too much for me to even be around someone in my personal space.Every.Single. Day. I’m the exact same way, and I agree. Sounds like hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 11:12 AM |
| 2 | How dare rich and successful men not have harems of 16 year old virgins, like I would have If I had even 1/10th of there powerHow dare this fucking loser call MICHELLE OBAMA ugly, how utterly delusional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 10:12 AM |
| 55 | You know how you feel about a man within the first 5 seconds of meeting himUgh, cowardly men disgust me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 04:01 AM |
| 23 | This is why you never stay with a man who expresses interest in anal. What he really wants is to hurt and humiliate you.Same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 12:42 PM |
| 2 | What counts as toxic femininity in 2022I also play an instrument (and do other hands-on hobbies/work) and that’s why I don’t get manicures and keep my nails super short as well, but similarly love doing/getting my toes done! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 07:04 PM |
| 6 | Somehow this is worse than those room rentals on CraigslistHonestly, it's a way for men who realise that after a lifetime of being 'the smart boy' in high school (which often just means they were a white boy without athletic prowess, so the teachers automatically assigned them the label of 'smart'- because heavens forbid a white boy is not somehow special!) they are only capable of producing mediocre results in college, so their dreams of being hired by google/facebook/microsoft shatter. So they start trying to build their own thing, but they lack the b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 08:36 PM |
| 10 | Men Who Hate Women Show It When Women Are Most VulnerableAnd no people are not “exaggerating online for attention” about the pain. It’s one of the most painful surgeries. That really stood out to me as well. Like he is committed to not being there for her. It doesn’t matter how medically necessary help is, he doesn’t want to provide it. I even feel he might have went to visit his family with the express intention of leaving her to suffer alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 12:24 AM |
| 9 | Incel saying the quiet part out loud: we’re not people to them.Seriously, I could never give birth to a male. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 01:04 PM |
| 4 | On what men do with nudes of their exes, majority responds “they are mine to do what I want with.” This is the entitlement they feel towards our bodies. LADIES DO NOT SEND NUDES EVER do not even watermark as those can be removed with photoshopOh my g-d this sounds so horrible and callous, I cannot believe what an absolute piece of unsalvageable shit your ex is. I’m so sorry you went through that with him but I’m so, so glad you got away. May he never know a moments happiness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 05:55 PM |
| 2 | "All the good men are taken! They're all married by now!"I wish I could upvote this comment 20x, this exactly 100% FACTS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 03:33 PM |
| 124 | I’ve seen so many of these, the entitlement is real. No one wants to be your live in bang maid, especially not for FREE!! They’re hoping to take advantage of a woman in need, forget that women can room with eachother without the expectation of chores and sex. We don’t need men like thisAfter he got rejected...this man....went back into his car and brought out a wine bottle! Like wtf was that gonna prove...that he was fancy or something lol? Shit probably cost $4! He was hoping she was an alcoholic and that her addiction would cause her capitulate and go with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 06:17 PM |
| 2 | A very discouraging thread on Reddit about a woman's BF wanting her to starting wearing more slutty clothes because...Oh my goddess I looovveedd that sub! It made me laugh soo hard! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 05:44 PM |
| 4 | Promise rings are a fucking joke.What rights does a promise ring afford you? None, like an engagement ring. Engagements used to be formally announced, it USED to be a status. No more. A man can be engaged to 3 women and none of them can make medical decisions for him in a coma. Great point and one I will be advising to friends and family moving forward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 03:38 PM |
| 1 | How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part!Great point! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 06:16 PM |
| 99 | I don’t know what to say other than ewwwww!This literally made my stomach churn. I hate it here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 05:39 AM |
| 2 | Rihanna & Her Pregnancy AnnouncementHard agree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 07:53 PM |
| 5 | Late Miss USA, having previously written a heartbreaking essay about turning 30, dies by suicide at 30 years old. Women being worthless at 30 is an idea perpetuated by the manosphere, yet they dare say FDS is toxic?Maybe all her constant efforts at achievement were actually her running from something that finally caught up to her. Maybe there’s undisclosed trauma, childhood abuse in her background that had her struggling with feelings of worthlessness etc. I totally agree, I don’t think age was the biggest contributing factor, and I think she was running from heavily traumatic event, or maybe multiple events. May she Rest In Peace. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 06:55 PM |
| 11 | Why are women hated so much by men?THIS IS IT and you’ve explained it so eloquently! You know it’s innate because they all, as a class, are of the same mindset and thus built this entire system of mate-guarding. They all see it’s merit and see it as right/ideal and use their strength to prop it up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 06:10 PM |
| 6 | Nothing Good Happens After 10pmLove Arctic Monkeys, and I agree! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 09:53 PM |
| 23 | Documentary of Hobosexual and other elderly scrotes, they never stop...Not just still prowling for women but straight up abandoned the woman, like deadass ran off because he’d rather be homeless and continue to prowl than just chill and live for free and respect this woman. He had absolutely nothing! I was so shocked at his whining like the victim cause he wanted to continue to bum around like he had been literally his whole life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 10:28 PM |
| 3 | Eve doesn't date single fathers, or: cultural misogyny in a nutshell, or: the audacityWow, I bet you’re right and that’s depressing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 08:13 AM |
| 1 | If you needed another reason to avoid hiking with men. This older man was posting looking for a "female hiking partner," but at first seemed well-mannered and talked about mutual hobbies. Then this happened... I am assuming he's a predator luring women into the woods.yeeessss!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 06:20 PM |
| 29 | Studying for a psych test. Thought you would appreciate this tidbit- postpartum depression in men is related to feeling “replaced by baby” 😭😭😭This is so repulsive. The father is literally jealous of his own newborn baby. Sulking about, whining that the baby is getting all the attention from mommy and has replaced him as her most special child. These men are nauseatingly pathetic! Do they want their wives to forsake the newborn that literally depends on her for it’s survival to soothe and pamper your paper thin glass fragile ego? Get a grip, losers! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 02:18 PM |
| 4 | Men discuss heartache on Reddit’s relationship forum more than women, study finds… but we’re the ones who are missing out. Suuuure.ssaaaaaammee | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 05:25 PM |
| 2 | The absolute audacity of some of these men. Could you imagine telling your partner that you are taking a three month break from being a spouse and a parent?Do it sis, it sounds like an amazing opportunity and a chance for great growth! I don’t know your circumstances, but I’m hard pressed to think of a reason you would be on your deathbed and regret that month you worked in Rome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 02:52 PM |
| 6 | How do you like your eggs: A vetting strategyDo they think they will blow my mind with something so pedestrian so pedestrian Love it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 09:20 AM |
| 7 | REMINDER: BDSM is more than a kink. It’s indicative of a man who gets off from abusing women. This poor woman found gore p*rn on her bf’s laptop and the comments are saying it’s just a harmless kink and that she’s overreacting for thinking he’ll harm her. I weep for this generation.Wow, that’s terrifying about the serial killers. Forensic Psychology has alway seemed so valuable and interesting to me. Do you mind if I DM you a couple of questions about the field? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 09:13 AM |
| 103 | what happens to men's physical appearance when they have a guarantee that they will find a partnerReally it’s what the Manosphere at-large wants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 08:30 AM |
| 4 | Dating Strategies for Asian WomenGo off sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 04:37 PM |
| 12 | I’m so sick of hearing praise for the most basic behaviourWhen you’re right, you’re right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 04:48 PM |
| 8 | RIP to the iconic Joan Didion: On Self-Respect: Joan Didion 1961 Essay from the Pages of VogueLoved the essay, thanks for sharing and may Joan Rest In Peace | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 04:59 PM |
| 4 | Excerpt from The Second Sex by Simone de Beauvoir (translated)I agree, the original comment comes off as seriously tone deaf and I think you clarified why well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 11:06 PM |
| 16 | RIP to a great lady - bell hooks: Author and feminist dies aged 69NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Ugh, this is hard. Rest in Power to a truly great woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 03:09 PM |
| 35 | Great to see more young men speak out against porn !! 👌Hear, hear! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 10:51 PM |
| 14 | How do you handle interactions with men who have already made assumptions about who you are?I once remembered a guy literally puked on his plate beside me when a black heavyweight girl sat across him at a dinner table ummmm what the actual fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 05:07 AM |
| 8 | Sometimes I feel like all hope is lost.Excellent points, definitely going to remember these examples. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 08:27 AM |
| 87 | Men date you to level up. Don’t date men to level down.He won’t just take all the credit, he’ll claim she actively holds him back! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 07:22 PM |
| 8 | On subreddits outside of FDS women are coming to understand that being “independent” 50/50 women will only attract losersTo me it feels like living in champagne bubbles! I want to go to there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 03:03 AM |
| 56 | On subreddits outside of FDS women are coming to understand that being “independent” 50/50 women will only attract losersSame! He left a position he really liked for a better paying one and got serious about his side hustle so he could do even more for me. He literally paid for everything, even half of my rent and he would give me spending money when I went on trips. This is why I know that if a man wanted to he absolutely would and he wouldn’t think twice about it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 02:49 AM |
| 6 | REMINDER: We cannot trust the police. These officers breached a cordon to take "funny" pictures of the bodies of Bibaa Henry and Nicole Smallman. These were then shared on WhatsApp to other officers. None of these officers had the integrity to openly report - this was reported via anonymous tip-off.Fucking revolting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 03:31 PM |
| 40 | Actions speak louder than wordsGirl do not go and meet up with that loser; talk about a complete waste of time. Block him and move on, there is no universe where you meeting with him accomplishes anything other than stroking his ego. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 04:26 AM |
| 9 | Grace Millane - Murdered by her Tinder date - This is why we vet ruthlesslySay that shit! Game changing statement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 01:57 PM |
| 16 | Break up songs by guys that make you laughIn defense of the song (fuck the scrote), it’s meant to be creepy and from the perspective of a stalker who is a bad guy in general. It was never meant to be romantic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 08:33 AM |
| 11 | This is all bad. This poor woman😩.I bet it's a picture book. I’m dead 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 12:18 PM |
| 11 | 🎄👻It’s that time of year for the annual Holiday Hoover from your scrote ex, again! Beware! Don’t get sucked in by their sentimental bullshit!👻🎄Omgoddess your DAUGHTER?! That’s totally inappropriate yet is wrong with these losers?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 12:06 PM |
| 60 | Quick test for misogyny while vetting: compliment a woman and watch for his reaction!What an insecure loser, glad he’s an ex! Cheers! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 04:19 AM |
| 3 | The bar is in Hades. When will we stop glorifying terrible men?Oh goddess, I just googled him. He’s not attractive and kind of painfully so for someone whose suppose to be any kind of celebrity/sex symbol. Is his face slanted? Like his facial features. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 05:04 PM |
| 8 | Queens Bringing the Bar Out of Hell (FDS Art by me)I love this and all the representation! When queens unite, there is nothing we cannot accomplish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 02:35 AM |
| 34 | Currently viral on social media, please do not be a man’s free ATM!! Libfem behaviour is NOT empowering to women, it literally only benefits the man while draining your bank account, health and energy.Lmfao @ hookah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 05:04 AM |
| 23 | The 30+ playboy life style isn’t what you think it is.This is sooooo true it’s not even funny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 03:07 AM |
| 6 | Alias Grace: a timely portrait of female powerlessnessLoved the show, and I’m hoping to get around to reading the book as well since I’ve heard to quite good itself. I thought the quilt/patchwork theme throughout was poignant and beautifully done and I found Grace’s situation and experiences dreadful. All of the men around her were vultures from beginning to end (except maybe Jeremiah and even he, I found iffy.) And I absolutely hated that she ended up marrying the scrote that testified against her, that relatiobship was sooo fucked! I strongly rec… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 08:39 AM |
| 7 | Society teaches women and girls to idealize men and romantic situations.I absolutely faked crushes. I even started dating more because I realized that was what I needed to do to be able to relate to other women and be accepted/invited into social groups. It’s insane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 07:37 PM |
| 6 | Society teaches women and girls to idealize men and romantic situations.I idealized men because they had power I didn't have, and I wanted access. This resonates with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 07:33 PM |
| 1 | All men are predators and misogynists until proven otherwise. Period.This is the way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 08:06 AM |
| 24 | All men are predators and misogynists until proven otherwise. Period.You’re just the flavor of the week— next week it’ll be some new girl who doesn’t realize what she’s stepped into, and have her head turned by all the attention. It’s crazy because I’m watching this happen in real-time right now at work. I’m literally watching the scrote engage the new target in the exact same way and with the exact same intensity with which he went after his last victim. It’s disgusting, the totality of his insincerity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 06:35 PM |
| 54 | She asked a guy out. Scrotes responded "good, you deserve it. Now you know what it's like to be a man." She responded with a list of the garbage women have to go through.Same, I had rewind and make sure I heard her right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 02:04 PM |
| 15 | literallyThat part!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 04:08 AM |
| 10 | Apologizing for or sympathizing with "cancelled" woman-abusers is big time Pick Me behaviour - From Vanity Fair: 'Dakota Johnson Calls Cancel Culture "Such a Downer"Madness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 05:30 PM |
| 2 | TRUTH! My music tastes have really changed and I can't listen to a lot of rap music now.Love this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 05:39 PM |
| 6 | TRUTH! My music tastes have really changed and I can't listen to a lot of rap music now.Like sooooo many, it’s insane how commonplace they were. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 05:38 PM |
| 28 | Why non- verbal communication (body language, eye contact, silence, etc) is often MORE important than verbal communication (ie, “just communicate”🤢)?Wow, that’s absolutely horrible. I cannot believe he acted like that he should be fucking ashamed! I’m so sorry for your loss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 07:59 PM |
| 3 | Another red flag from Chris Pratt’s captionSame!!! I was like ‘am I missing something??’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 07:27 AM |
| 8 | Another red flag from Chris Pratt’s captionReading this made me extremely uncomfortable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 01:25 AM |
| 28 | Porn users will always be NVMI haven’t read the link at all, so this could be a different situation, but it is not uncommon for porn addicted heterosexual men to begin to become attracted, sexually, to men and specifically penises. I’ve seen them talking about it and asking for help on other forums, as well as a few articles on the phenomenon. If he is addressing that particular phenomenon, I can see why. I do think it’s reasonable for a person to be panicked about such a drastic change to their sexuality that isn’t organic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 02:24 AM |
| 20 | This is what men think of women they hook up with. It is not in our best interests as women to sleep with men casually.This is a great way to put it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 07:02 AM |
| 3 | Checklist: Does he love you? Love has emotional and behavioural components - it’s not just a feeling.Thanks for sharing! I really appreciate the chart and the discussions that have been happening in this thread, it’s very eye opening to me about my non-romantic relationships and myself. This is a game changer for me and an underrated thread. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 03:00 PM |
| 3 | If someone tells you that men are picky show them this!That’s my takeaway as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 08:38 AM |
| 17 | THANK GOD: Sarah Everard's murderer given a full life sentence and will die in jail. This filth will never be loose on the streets again.Seriously! My heart sank into my stomach when I saw the “resist arrest” suggestion, because that will surely get a identifiably WOC injured or killed. I don’t want any woman thinking she’s doing something to make herself safer to end up in an even worse situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 01:26 AM |
| 44 | Excuse me?He gonna start wearing a diaper and become a reddit supermod next? NOOOOOOOOOOOOO 😂😂😂 I actually lost it at this comment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 10:57 AM |
| 8 | I did this in high school 🤡 and guess what? It did not turn out well. Never doing it again. If he wanted to, he would.Have truer words ever been said? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 07:49 AM |
| 40 | “Men always complain about being friend zoned, but do they know how much it hurts to be fuck zoned? As if our friendship only had value to him because of possible sex?”if they were stuck in the wilderness and had to hunt or something, you’d do whatever you have to do to fulfil that need. So why aren’t they going to extraordinary lengths to get from us what they so desperately “need”?! Good point! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 11:00 AM |
| 17 | Men really out here thinking having a wife is being "romance scammed" in a thread about a "girl" on bumble potentially robbing a guy.OMG this is so sad it’s gone all the way around and become hilarious. This man is so completely broken that he thinks a deeply committed and happy relationship is a bad thing. I mean the woman didn’t even divorce his brother! He can’t even say that she’s exhibiting signs of unfaithfulness or poor character! He truly believes just the act of treating a woman well is gullible behavior. He hates women! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 08:06 PM |
| 51 | How do you avoid turning into a LVW when you’re at a point where you want to start a family?I believe this is the only real answer. You have to decide what you value more, understand and accept the consequences. Then when the moment comes you won’t be trying to decide on the spot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 07:58 PM |
| 18 | I don’t really have words for this one.Unfortunately I know quite a bit about it as well, and the things I learned absolutely terrified me. Everything you’re saying is true, porn addiction is very, very serious and a huge problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 02:05 PM |
| 2 | Some scrotes actually think like this--can you even imagine the privilege to complain about this???It absolutely is, and it’s delusional! Why would ANYONE do that?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 08:20 AM |
| 103 | Sex work is always coercion, there is never true consent.Realizing that consent cannot be purchased—that money is a coercive force—was a life-changing moment for me. So many practices immediately became reprehensible to me. That is when I think I truly began to see the Goliath the patriarchy is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 08:45 AM |
| 70 | Woman put "In loving memory of John Doe, son, husband, father and adulterer." On dead husbands headstone 🪦 after he died shortly before planning to abandon her for the co-worker he cheated with and got pregnant!!Maybe I’m a bleeding-heart, but I love it when people get their flowers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 08:41 AM |
| 11 | Dear Nanobot Scientists: Please don’t help lazy Sperm reach our valuable eggs. Signed, Women.This is pathetic and disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 04:07 AM |
| 3 | This insta account is great to see the entitlement that LVM have. (She’s 28 and only matches with old men for science)I think they’ve always been this way, the Internet is just exposing them more but I do believe porn is making it worse and ingraining the misogyny more. He went brain dead a long time ago, very likely from all the porn. You can tell by how he talks about women like categories that all he does all day is JO. He probably can’t even get it up anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 05:15 PM |
| 4 | Let’s create a megathread: What is one of the best pieces of advice you’ve learned from this sub that has blown your mind or had the greatest impact on your life?In a society where there is parity among the sexes and everyone sees one another as fully human, why would we be trying to purchase the use of each other’s bodies? Does that not require a certain amount of objectification, which would not likely exist in a truly fairytale-perfect utopian society? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 05:05 PM |
| 10 | This insta account is great to see the entitlement that LVM have. (She’s 28 and only matches with old men for science)Oh okay, see the problem is that you see women as human beings, where as this sad excuse for even a scrote sees women as a variety of long sleeve shirts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 01:04 PM |
| 25 | Don't trust men's words, trust their actions.Most men have weak constitution.Even if they want to keep you,they just can’t.Like even they want to succeed in life,they can’t neither.Its not in them.i accept that and move on. Ugh, this is so true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 11:06 PM |
| 16 | So we all know that men can’t stop talking about themselves, so I wanted to ask you ladies..That’s terrifying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 09:58 AM |
| 5 | Sad but not brokenInspired by your strength of character and resolve, sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 07:19 PM |
| 10 | Sad but not brokenThat’s my takeaway as well. As I was reading it I couldn’t help but feel OP is still looking at this man through rose-colored glasses cause nothing about the situation makes me feel like he was likely to be HV | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 06:00 PM |
| 54 | Andddd it’s confirmed. 🙄 my heart goes out to Anna💞My thoughts exactly, there’s no freaking way she didn’t call them. I wonder if she wanted to force John’s hand on announcing it too or if they planned the stunt together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 05:02 PM |
| 24 | The amount of hypocrisy I've seen from men is just staggering.the xy, a genetic mistake that women are paying the price for. An egregious mistake; may the continued shrinking of the Y-chromosome be nature’s eventual rectification. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 02:32 PM |
| 7 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 27 - Dr. Gail Dines Returns to Take on Porn Culture + Culture Reframed Virtual Conference!I’m also curious about this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 01:59 PM |
| 10 | He asked to borrow moneyI’m not sure how great this advice is, but since he’s a private instructor and you already paid for 6 months, it’s an idea. Don’t respond to the text. Delete it and pretend you never got it. At the next session, make up some money problems and mention them. Do this as early as possible in the session, before he has time to mention his text and/or ask you for money again. Hell, maybe even ask HIM to borrow money! If he does mention his text to you, tell him you never got it but as you mentioned e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 06:51 PM |
| 45 | He asked to borrow moneyFemale EVERYTHING only, tbh FOREVER!! I never go to a male anything if I can avoid it. If I can’t I do extensive research on a person/place to hopefully get the least negative experience possible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 06:36 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Check-inIf you’re confused about his feelings for you, he’s not that into you/it’s a no. It shouldn’t be this complicated. I understand you have compelling circumstances to hem and haw, but it’s all meant to cast a confusing veil. If he’s interested he will make it obvious, if he wanted to he would. ETA: my advice, don’t put any energy into the situation at all. Consider him only as he presents himself to you, and put your eggs in other baskets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 06:26 PM |
| 17 | Weekly FDS Check-inyeessss, it’s freaking DISGUSTING!! I’ve been talking (well, complaining) about that cover since I first saw it! Like wtf is this shit I can’t believe someone approved that crap. I haven’t thought well of Drake for years but I agree this cover somehow really marks a new low for him. And in the context of the whole texting a 14-year old starlet about “boy advice” 😒 and constantly dating young women and girls who are too young for him, it makes the cover extra creepy. I hadn’t even noticed the rac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 04:29 PM |
| 106 | This is some of the vitriol that our podcast hosts recieve. Be very careful when talking about FDS. These men live and walk among us.Fucking nazi bitches ??????? You can tell all these fairytales about patriarchal oppression and some anecdotal cases of female inventors Wait, do they think that women inventors aren’t real? Like we don’t invent things??? A simple google search disproves this. Also I think it’s interesting that the male associates patriarchal oppression and the existence of female inventors. Because he knows. I was going to go through this and point out inconsistencies and nonsense—not even point by point! But e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 10:44 AM |
| 35 | When he says he needs at least ten years to think if I’m “the one” for him. 😂🤡Imagine wasting 1 year of your life with an indecisive baby loser, let alone 10. He’s delusional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 02:39 PM |
| 1 | UK scrotes are angry. I highly urge everyone on this sub to go watch Reggie Yates' documentary on the explosion of the redpill movement in the UK on YouTube called 'Anti feminist movement, men at war' *****TW Sensitive/upsetting topics are discussed in this documentaryThis is the hard, cold reality about males. They are simply unsuitable for leadership, they will be the death of us all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 08:02 AM |
| 12 | [deleted by user]Great advice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 01:47 PM |
| 5 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 25 - Age Gaps & Old Man Peen + Old Scrote Hits NVM BingoThe captions took me out 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 11:52 PM |
| 46 | Just saw this post on FB… biggest load of male sympathy horseshit I’ve seen in a minute 😂 men have no inherent value, yet they receive the most societal benefit for doing the bare minimum. OkayyyyyIt’s sooo pathetic! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 12:05 AM |
| 4 | Someone I've known since middle school just got proposed to with a Ring Pop.Probably a VIP ticket or package. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 06:52 PM |
| 6 | Watch his body language: Psychopaths tend to exhibit reduced head movement during forensic interviews. The study provides evidence of a “robust” relationship between the antisocial elements of psychopathy and stationary head positions, such as staring.Wow, fantastic comment and fantastic argument! Also, although I’m sure it wasn’t your intention, thanks for the book recommendations! Very compelling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 10:59 AM |
| 28 | LVM doesn't want women to be happyHe really said the quiet part out loud there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Red flag I recently picked up and wanted to shareWell said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 08:15 AM |
| 5 | This is enough internet for me today I’m done. Porn addicted scrotes are out here getting used items mailed to them from cam girls and giving themselves yeast infections and lord knows what other diseases. (warning extremely nsfw language)This is fucking hilarious, because that is the part of the story where I audibly said “is this story even true?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 08:01 AM |
| 13 | Stop saying porn ruined men. It's a lieI’ve seen that Roman commercial too, my mouth literally dropped. A very young and attractive man cooing to other young men about how their ED Is totally normal and manageable and that women can still find satisfaction and intimacy with men with ED. The man was so young, it was insane! Men at that age should be at their most virile, not hiding and coping with ED. It’s just so surreal how it’s gotten so bad there is literally a market for treating it, but no body wants to address the underlying pr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 05:41 PM |
| 22 | God the pickmes are REALLY TRYING to hand out p*ssy to their LVM friendsNOT THE CONSUMPTION! 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 04:53 PM |
| 16 | Violent Sexual Lingo…Totally agree, women are not a consideration at all. It is music by men, for men and becomes popular because men find it relatable or aspirational. A woman hearing it and feeling any type of way about it was never even a thought. It’s locker room talk in a melody. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 10:55 PM |
| 22 | Violent Sexual Lingo…stomp on his left ball, sis Righteous 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 10:51 PM |
| 14 | This need to be sharedUugghh what a disgusting loser, how fucking dare he! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 04:18 PM |
| 33 | What is FDS’s thoughts on this? Joshua Jackson responds to wife Jodie Turner-Smith saying their relationship started off with a one-night-stand: 'Technically it was a three-night stand'It’s blows my freaking mind! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Futurama: A Cautionary Tale About an LVMSaammee! I’m a huge, HUGE Futurama fan and reading these perspectives on the show has been so enjoyable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Literally Was Just Talking Abt this To My BFFIt definitely conjures a jarring image. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 04:56 PM |
| 4 | have you ever done something sexual you didn’t enjoy? too bad! you now owe it to all future partners /sWhat the actual fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 04:21 PM |
| 5 | Gets particularly spicy when you have screenshots or other material to prove what he did✨he held the phone in my face and had sex with me while he told me how much he wanted to fuck my friend. How absolutely fucking horrible, revolting and traumatic. I’m so, so, so unbelievably sorry that happened to you but I’m so happy for you for breaking free of him. He’s a worthless POS and that’s all he’ll ever be, freaking loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 03:09 AM |
| 51 | Cry me a river.Wow, that was a freaking reach. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 04:51 PM |
| 3 | Is the perception of being nice or kind really so different for men and women?I couldn’t believe my eyes when I read that crap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 12:02 PM |
| 13 | The guy is 55!!! 🤢My thoughts exactly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 02:41 AM |
| 1 | This popped up in my memories. This is HV.I’ve def noticed this too and it’s sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 01:27 AM |
| 7 | Leave the Door Openso she can find him rolling around in weed and chip crumbs waiting for her door dash sex service. I cackled Yeah, I totally agree he’s garbage. But I’m not expecting much from a guy WHO LITERALLY HAS A SONG TITLED “YOUNG GIRLS” WHERE HE SINGS ABOUT, YOU GUESSED IT, HIS DESIRE AND TACTICS FOR GROOMING YOUNG GIRLS. Sorry for the all caps, but I cannot believe he released such a disgusting song and no one has said A N Y T H I N G about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 01:05 AM |
| 66 | Nearly spit out my coffee reading this 😂🙋🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 02:46 PM |
| 5 | 166,619 Queens and counting.. 🤍✨Real Hot Queen Shit! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 03:04 AM |
| 7 | If a man sits down next to you on the bus or train, and he's too close and he starts touching you, what do you do? - Aka how Dr Gail Dines finally put into words what I've been feeling.Love this, great energy sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 05:38 PM |
| 3 | The people who defend Onlyfans.They went on and on about the fake OF credit card scams for so long 🙄. Who cares?! Men are NOT the victims here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 04:24 PM |
| 2 | YepI just finished Dietland, a lot of gems in that show. Plus I just love the whole idea of Jennifer! I think I’m gonna read the book. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 05:07 PM |
| 8 | Lib Feminism is a coping mechanism that doesn't actually change anything for women worldwide.Absolutely phenomenal comment! And when WOC try to bring these things up in feminist spaces, they get shouted down or told they are being divisive. I’ve seen it happen several times, and it’s so incredibly disappointing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 09:00 PM |
| 12 | So guys do expect you to be a live in maid just because they earn more than you do. Nevermind the fact that if he lived alone he would still have to do them.It’s def only to his savings | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 05:27 PM |
| 63 | Here's your reminder to drop any guy who does not take your feelings or your sexual satisfaction seriouslyLet me guess, he claims doing any of the things you’ve requested of him sexually are either too awkward or inconvenient for him, take him out of the mood or makes the moment less enjoyable for him? 🙄 Read: he’s doesn’t it like it when you’re also enjoying sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 04:41 PM |
| 29 | I’m reading “Life and Death” by Andrea Dworkin. She’s telling it like it is!we should classify misogyny as a personality disorder. Totally agree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Trading her self-respect for a Lego setThat explains why he wanted it so bad 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 03:07 PM |
| 8 | Saw this on Reddit a while ago and I was speechless. All the comments were saying they’d get a punch from their husbands for money…I’m sure these scrotes would have no intention of sharing that billion with their battered wife either. They wouldn’t even part with a penny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 02:50 PM |
| 6 | Trading her self-respect for a Lego setI don’t understand, where is his chin? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 11:02 AM |
| 3 | Date with a LVM starter pack 😂😩🥴Yikes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 08:23 AM |
| 15 | If you weren’t convinced of how far men will go just watch this. This is why it’s advised to follow most if not all of the FDS rulesThis is genuinely sociopathic behavior. This is all I could think about while watching the video, like this is a genuine sociopath! It was like watching a slug crawl out of human skin. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 05:54 PM |
| 42 | I love her so much!!!!I went from a disgusted frown to a deep grin like that meme of the little girl in front of the burning house. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 05:32 PM |
| 13 | A question?That part | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 04:27 PM |
| 3 | Message to Male LurkersY’all are funny as all fucking hell! 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 08:11 AM |
| 7 | Women repost this as a joke but in reality it’s pathetic and trueHe gave you FOOD POISONING multiple times?! Reprehensibly unacceptable! I’m so upset for you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 06:33 PM |
| 6 | The term “gold digger” is men projecting their own scavenging ways onto womenLove this energy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 06:03 AM |
| 17 | What is it with guys these days?I only recently found out that mental health facilities aren’t segregated by sex and my blood has been boiling ever since. It’s just completely unacceptable! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 03:51 AM |
| 10 | In MemoriamThis is absolutely heartbreaking, RIP to one of, if not the, Greatest of All Time. She inspired me so much, her light can NEVER be dimmed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 03:37 AM |
| 3 | I know my comment is about to rain down hate upon me (fb screenshot).not sure if you’re aware, not all names are edited out in this screenshot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 11:24 AM |
| 2 | I—????????????Oh god, I fucking CACKLED! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:53 PM |
| 21 | The Ultimate Dating Strategy is Knowing You Do Not NEED to Date Anyone, EverCompletely agree, and it’s something I really miss about all the fallen rad fem subreddits. A woman centered and woman focused space with no regard for men’s feelings, needs or desires. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 07:38 AM |
| 51 | "Where can you lead me? Not up."The cognitive dissonance must be giving him whiplash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 03:14 PM |
| 1 | How Old Were You When You Learned the Bad Men Weren't an Extreme Minority?A man doesn’t have to rape or murder a woman to be evil to her. What of the men who pass a woman up for a promotion or job on the basis of her sex? The men who threaten women, even if they don’t intend to follow up on it (instilling the same amount of terror in a woman because how is she suppose to know a fake threat from the real thing), the men who defend other men’s “right” to mistreat women, all of the males that have written books debating the humanity of women? The men who actively try to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 02:13 PM |
| 2 | How Old Were You When You Learned the Bad Men Weren't an Extreme Minority?This is exactly what I was going to say. If someone literally attempting to manipulate/control/abuse/use/etc. you from the very instance they lay eyes on you isn’t evil or cruel, than what the actual fuck is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:59 PM |
| 8 | When you send your best friend the FDS Handbook & 1 week later she dumps LVM and texts you thisThey’re so contemptibly inadequate, it’s disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Break up after 5 years bc of no proposal?I absolutely agree, and tried to emphasize that with the quotations and parentheses comments. I think it’s important to pair the language that men use (ex: “getting with someone better”, “mature for your age”, etc.) with the actuality of what it means (following the ex. above: “finding literally any other woman/a woman he can more easily manipulate/ a woman whose attention and time he can more easily dominate/a woman who more closely resembles or indulges in his fetish/etc.”, “grooming a young o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 07:52 PM |
| 16 | Break up after 5 years bc of no proposal?Agreed! Men can seem perfectly decent and still use you and waste your time. They may even genuinely like you and/ or your company, but that still doesn’t mean they want to marry you. You are a placeholder that they can use until they meet or finish developing what they think they need to obtain the women they “actually” want (and that’s not to say he will be better for or to that woman, just that he thinks he now has what it takes to trick or manipulate her/them as well); they don’t feel even r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 10:14 AM |
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