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I think the clear difference here is feelings. I think you need to stick to your goals and plans, follow FDS, and if you find a man you think has HV traits and seems great, that's what matters. If he wants oral from you and you don't feel like it, then don't do it. And then you'll know he might be "great" but he's not a match for you. An important point I want to mention is men don't need oral to have an orgasm with a partner unlike a large number of women. On top of that, having an orgasm prior…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 03:42 PM
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"While I don’t think nudes are a great idea, we have to stop feeling embarrassed about this kind of stuff. That’s what gives the patriarchy their power." Sending nudes are always a terrible idea and even though we should not be ashamed of our naked bodies, they're not for everyone to see because not everyone is deserving. We are not bad/stupid for sending them. We have all been manipulated by males and told it was something they needed or something we had to do to prove we were "sexual enough". …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 02:12 AM
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Yes, absolutely completely agree with you. Obsessive food behavior is indicative of mental issues which will hurt you. I would also add to that list the males who are into keto. If he is the type of person who thinks that "cutting carbs" is the cure to every ailment a human can experience, block and delete and let him die of kidney failure alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 10:13 PM
29

If you're able to reach orgasm from masturbation, but not during any kind of sex, you're not the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 04:08 PM
146

To me, first dates are special and even more important than anniversary dates. He probably claims he makes "six figures" as they all do so she rightfully assumes $200-$300 for their first date is appropriate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 03:54 PM
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If he actually liked her enough, he would have taken her on the $50-70 date and paid for her half. That's the issue here. Men do things if they want to. If he was truly into her and not just for sex, this whole post wouldn't have even happened. If he is so unbelievably poor that $50-70 for a first date is out of the question for him, he'd be on Reddit asking for ways to make quick money. If he wanted to, he would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 03:44 PM
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"I don't like her enough to spend any money on her, she isn't worth it to me. How do I explain this to her so that she'll still spend the bare minimum amount of time with me before I try to have sex with her?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 03:36 PM
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If he actually wanted her, his income wouldn't have been a secret and she wouldn't have to worry about paying half of anything. He also would be looking into engagement rings at 15 months instead of making posts online looking to validate his hate for her. He just wants to dump her and come out of it the victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 12:09 AM
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It's light satire, for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 11:56 PM
6

I am an actual RN and I get very grossed out by the pickmes who make being nurses some kind of male fantasy come to life nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 02:19 AM
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Misogyny is the most widespread and the most tolerated form of bigotry and hatred on the planet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 10:44 PM
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Of course I immediately think if he wanted to, he would. Please tell me you're no longer speaking to this scrote. To be absolutely honest, I think he doesn't necessarily want these things. He probably would much prefer it if he made the money, but since he doesn't, he is hoping you're desperate enough for a boyfriend that you'll be okay with him living off of you. Obviously, he will use his free time to cheat. I can already see the beautiful million dollar home that you earned being featured in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 02:46 PM
744

The fact he did it at all is horrifying then for him to say "good riddance". Holy shit. Divorce this POS!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 02:24 PM
73

Same. It's so sad. I love the idea of sex, but haven't ever loved my reality of it. I've experienced SA and a boyfriend with PIED.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 01:56 AM
102

Good for you. Hopefully everyone stays safe. I'm not super surprised you met this kind of scrote on an app like that, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 11:52 PM
238

And, suspiciously, a few days after that tik tok became popular, a front page post on Reddit was about a guy saying he donated a kidney to his girlfriend who cheated. Uh huh, sure. And of course every scrote and pickme had a lovely time bashing women in the comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 06:13 PM
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She's only 20 years old and she's figuring out what she wants. Wanna bet that he pressured her to have sex in the first place? She probably always wanted to wait but scrote gotta scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 06:10 PM
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Women need to stop having conversations with crazy males. Block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 05:59 PM
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"They found the post" screams bullshit unless he knew she would frequent that sub and see it. I think it's just a wish fulfillment post. Not everyone is on Reddit and those who are aren't always on everyday or reading every front page post. The odds are extremely small that the person you're talking about is going to even notice you might be talking about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 05:48 PM
28

It's the trash on YouTube with their Birkin closets who have ruined it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 03:03 AM
300

Schedule dates for when you're on your period. That's my advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 12:27 AM
83

In my 20's, I attracted more NVM like pervy scrotes and users who go after young girls for sex. It really has gotten better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 06:30 PM
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Of course it's the ugly obese troll in a shitty car...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 07:49 PM
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This calculator was created by a scrote loser. The results are bullshit. Keep your standards. Never ever settle. My ideal man is 35-45. Physically active and makes health a priority (so no smoking and wearing sunscreen is a must). 6'4"+ because they are more attractive to me. Makes at least $120k a year and is more than happy spending a large portion of that on experiences with me. Child free. Cleans up after himself. Enjoys cooking and is good at it. Wants me, wants every inch of me, and expres…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 06:06 PM
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It's called the "Female Delusion Calculator". So I don't give a shit what it says.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 05:29 PM
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I'm so happy for you!!! This is exciting. Scary for you, but also really exciting. This is the best decision you could make for yourself. 💙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 04:29 PM
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I wouldn't be sending those kinds of pictures anyway. And I would never date someone who uses Instagram.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 12:28 AM
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The other male who seemed uncomfortable had the opportunity to help these girls and speak up. He didn't do that. Instead, he just laughed and made the creep feel like what he's saying is perfectly fine and acceptable. Males have the power to speak up. They have no reason to be afraid. He's not going to get raped or stalked or beaten. Literally nothing bad would have happened to him, but he did nothing. Because even though he seemed uncomfortable, he didn't really care. Yes, all men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 03:01 PM
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Males are physically stronger than women. We understand that. All we ask is they have the decency to not use that strength against us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 02:47 PM
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Whether it was on purpose to neg her and lower her self esteem or an accident doesn't matter. She really did dodge this scrote bullet and I'm happy for her. So what do we learn? I think it's best to never ever post a picture of yourself in swimwear or even post a picture of your body online. It doesn't make you "slutty" because that's not really a thing and you're not the problem, he is the problem. But we can't change him. We can only try to protect ourselves. Block every POS who requests body …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 03:59 AM
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"Spiritually married." I'm not reading any further.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 09:38 PM
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The subreddit about asking feminists is just a bunch of dudes. Consider this banning an honor. 🏆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 09:37 PM
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BuT wHaT aBoUt FaLsE aCcUsAtIoNs!!??!!??!??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 09:33 PM
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Just a couple weeks ago, a male wrote a front-page post about how he thinks he was raped because he and a woman both got drunk and he woke up naked with her. Nothing else included. The top comments told him he was raped. Reddit fucking loves to accuse women of rape when there is zero evidence. But when it's a woman getting drunk? ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 05:40 PM
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No idea. Herpes sores usually aren't just one lesion that can be popped. They're usually in clusters and they're little blisters, not pustules.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 02:03 AM
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Lol Good for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 12:39 AM
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Thank you for this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 10:20 PM
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Anytime that anything gets brought up about women whether it be PPD, rape, suicide, harassment, you name it, people say "wHaT aBoUt tHe MMMMEEEEENNNN??!!!??" and the entire conversation gets flipped on it's ass and we are, once again, talking about males who allegedly have no one to talk to about their problems. You're absolutely right about everything and you're not being ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 04:50 AM
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Gaslighter, 35, 6'4", 400 pounds. Canadian who loves the USA. My employees make minimum wage. I own 3+ homes and a Maserati. My only actual interest is having fancy things. I will use those fancy things to impress you then I will judge you for being impressed by them. I seem really interesting and funny just long enough to make you develop feelings. Don't ever look me up or Google me. Anything you find there is a lie and you're paranoid and crazy for believing any of it. You'll spend a good amou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 04:35 AM
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I would say most males know they found "the one" within an hour, maybe less. They care about looks and maybe the sound of her voice and that's it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 07:56 PM
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This abortion was the best choice for you and getting him out of your life is also the best thing for you. I know it's hurtful and sad, but it's also going to make life better for you going forward. 💙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 02:46 PM
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If he earned a good living and actually loved his wife, he would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 02:40 PM
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It depends on which relative and how recent. And what exactly makes him emotionally unstable? Does he just cry when he talks about them or is it so severe that he cannot go about his normal life? A man whose uncle died four months ago and the thought of him brings tears to his eyes is one thing. A man whose wife died a year ago and he's "getting back into the dating scene" is another. That's not a HVM. Not even close.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 02:43 AM
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I don't give a fuck that other subreddit users claim to not like us. The controversy brings women here. I love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 01:27 AM
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"just have genuine feelings, be honest about them, and be a real grownup".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 01:20 AM
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This girl.... She is probably a great person and really patient and tolerant. And here she is being used by a scrote. She deserves better. 💙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 11:50 PM
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Well, holy shit. I just spent about 10 minutes looking through that Judy site she posted. Found out the scrote I dated for two years was married when we met. He was divorced officially about 6 months after he and I met. I really had no idea. I have looked into him in the past trying to figure things out, but never found the marriage petitions and divorce petitions. Definitely a useful site.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 04:36 AM
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He should have cleaned the house himself then gone down on her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 02:22 AM
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I've sent links to this sub to a few people (including a gay male friend who I felt would benefit from the handbook). They laughed at a couple funny memes that were posted and that's about it. I think people have to find it and come to it at their own time. The right post has to hit them at the right time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 02:07 AM
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Clowns, idiots, and rapists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 03:22 AM
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Just fyi, tonsillectomies when performed on adults can be, and usually are, extremely painful to recover from. It's not just the pain in the throat, it's the pain in your tongue from them clamping it down out of the way, the jaw pain from them prying you open, the inability to eat, being in so much pain you can't sleep, and if you do fall asleep, you wake up because your head shifted and you couldn't breathe with all the swelling. Oh and if you get turbinate reductions at the same time, your nas…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 09:14 PM
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I want this so badly. I want to say their names and posts pictures and tell other women who to avoid!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 01:53 AM
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It's not and never will be empowering to give males what they want. Free the nipple or whatever is libfem bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 01:40 AM
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Victoria's Secret? Pandora? Shitty mall stores aren't worth bragging about, girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 12:41 AM
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Scrotes all of a sudden care about LGBT+ rights when they can use it to mirror they're illegal and gross behavoir. I'm not going into how ridiculous this wad is to think his pedophilia is the same as homosexuality. To add, I have never heard of a man who is going after 18 year olds who is also actually desirable to women. Even Leonardo DiCaprio is a joke to scrotes and pickmes because even he has overstayed his welcome to the young models he dates. Attractive, put together, and well adjusted men…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 12:35 AM
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I wish social media would just go away honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 12:24 AM
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I think this is funny, but I wouldn't recommend doing it. If you have been going on dates with several men and none of them gave you anything for Valentine's Day, drop all of them. Honestly, I think this post isn't really FDS material. Playing a prank like this doesn't seem like something a HVW would do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 03:58 AM
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Thank goodness he clarified he doesn't think he's racist because that is the real issue here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 02:30 AM
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I'm so sorry you had this experience. 💙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 02:29 AM
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Language learning. I want to get into the cello and the drums. I need a place to do that, though. Living in an apartment isn't exactly the best place for live music.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 02:27 AM
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FDS was on the front page maybe a year and a half ago. I saw a post about something, I forget what it was about, but I absolutely loved it. I commented something like "what the hell is this?! I love it!" It was on an old long gone account though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 01:39 PM
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Yes. I think the only possible exception is if you've literally just met and haven't been out on a date. He should still wish you a happy Valentine's day, but sending anything would not be appropriate just yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 01:35 AM
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Hopefully it's a made up story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 02:15 PM
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I haven't, but also not looking. I know this sub is for dating strategies so I don't make posts, but I love commenting. FDS has made my life a lot better. I learned that I needed to stop putting males at the top of my priorities. It's helped me not to feel so alone after years of being used by scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 02:11 PM
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I agree with you completely. That person who replied to you was just being rude for no reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 02:01 PM
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FDS has made it very clear that casual sex is not ok. It's not safe nor is it even worth it for women. And yes this post is libfem/sexpozzy sounding. No one should be shamed for their pickme and cool girl past, but we also cannot even remotely support continuing similar behaviors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 01:54 PM
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If a study was done linking casual sex to low self esteem, I'd believe it. And I am pretty sure most women on FDS would agree. At least every woman who has read the handbook and taken it seriously would agree. Casual sex is dangerous and never beneficial for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 01:45 PM
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I can't take this seriously. This is just too extreme. I think that had to be a troll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 01:36 PM
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Poor quality food has become the norm. Higher body fat can lead to hormonal issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 07:43 PM
282

Joaquin Phoenix used to be my celebrity crush and then he dated a literal child. This was before his current forever girlfriend baby mama.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 12:41 AM
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I have been struggling with this recently too. I think to myself "why bother working out and eating healthy if it's all to look good for males who I can never trust and am afraid of anyway?" So I have been trying to switch things around and frame them differently. I eat healthy foods because junk food is low quality and I don't want that in my body all the time. It's not good enough for me. And I exercise so I can be stronger and that will give me an advantage if I ever need to fight. Also, I wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 05:15 PM
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I sort of agree with you, but I know from experience, it's hard to be logical about relationships. Before I found FDS, I honestly thought I was a bad girlfriend for not being 100% okay with living in a 5th wheel camper and eating fast food everyday. 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 05:07 PM
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Anytime a woman posts anything, scrotes have to chime in to say "This isn't funny. I'm not being misogynistic, it's just not funny factually speaking". And they have no idea how misogynistic they are being in that exact moment. I fucking hate them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 04:16 PM
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I absolutely agree with you. The pickmes are often not the girls males are after. That's why they act the way they do. Poor things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 10:43 PM
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Omg, this is exactly the kind of shit scrotes drool over. They LOVE fake shit to get mad over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 02:44 PM
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Jeff, John, Justin...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 02:30 PM
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Yeah, he's a pedo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 10:45 PM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 03:39 AM
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Reddit hates women... Still.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 07:36 PM
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I've noticed that HVM are married. And other appealing men are LV or worse. I'm not saying we shouldn't have hope, but it's pretty grim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 07:26 PM
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Aww it was sweet to give the flowers to your mom! I'm so proud of you and this is such a great story! This is exactly the kind of crap they pull. He thinks you're a golddigger for not having sex with him because to him that means you're not showing him you want him sexually (whatever) BUT even if you did have sex with him, he'd think you're a golddigger because he'd think you're "too easy" or some other crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 11:04 PM
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Your post is very timely. I've been thinking a lot about this issue lately. How everything is never his fault because he has self-diagnosed mental health issues. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 07:43 PM
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Exactly. They always say they "make six figures". No, they don't. Same thing with their height and weener size. Males make numbers not make sense. And they're delusional enough to believe their own fabrications.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 12:53 AM
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As others have mentioned, you should not have had sex so soon. Getting to know someone should be done while fully clothed. I'm sorry you have so many insecurities, but this is likely from you bonding because of the sex and him not feeling the same way. You may notice very subtle ways he has created distance. You said he hasn't changed, but I guarantee you he has and this is where the insecurities stem from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 09:38 PM
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I can't get myself to hate women, even the lost causes who perpetuate horrors like the one in the post. I hurt for her and I know she's been through something to get her to the point she's at. But I do absolutely hate her actions and complete denial of the problems she is causing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 02:38 PM
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Seriously. Like they need to get a friend or a dog. Have a good meal maybe. But no. Of course they want to stick their wees in a woman being paid to give her consent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 02:36 PM
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I'm a nurse. Nurses help people. Sex workers are not helping people. I feel bad for her too. She doesn't understand she is just being used by gross men who don't want actual help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 02:33 PM
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Yeah... He didn't really change at first, but overtime he did. I think things improved because I became more focused on my own needs and was more secure with myself. I knew I could live without him and I knew there were better/other options. I was much less of a pushover. I took him back because I believed the issues were my fault (they weren't) and I had changed enough over our 6 month break. He is the only man I've ever really been with and I wanted to keep it that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 07:28 PM
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Thank you for saying this. I went to therapy for stress-induced migraines due to work and anxiety. I had a male therapist who, after 24 sessions, told me I had been in therapy for a long time and it was time to end it despite him expressing his excitement for plans he was making for me during the previous visit. I was just starting to feel momentum building and feeling progress and bam. He literally encouraged me to make that session my last and even asked to end it early because he said I "seem…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 02:11 AM
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I had a male therapist for a year and things didn't go well, but I won't get into it here. Ultimately, I chose not to go back to therapy because of FDS. I might go back in the future, but FDS gave me a space to air my frustrations with my LVM and the other men who had used and abused me and gave me other women to relate to. So I realized I am actually doing well without it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 02:05 AM
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Sounds exactly like a mom being proud of her 14 year old boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 02:01 AM
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That website is barely usable, but from what I can tell, she sent a shit load of messages back to him to "humble him". Girl, block and delete. He doesn't have the capacity to care about you, your feelings, your work schedule, or your sick family members. If he did, the $4 request would have never happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 01:57 AM
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I don't think we are allowed to share, but if you Google the title of his post, you'll find it. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 12:33 AM
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"sorry for the late reply" no, you're not. "I've been really busy" no you haven't. Then proceeds to neg her and her sharp reply has him flipping out. Men constantly portray us as being the psycho crazies who overreact to everything, but this is another fine example of how it's them. Good for her. He is way too immature for any woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 12:24 AM
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OF COURSE they say to eat more protein. I swear males think eating vegetables is too feminine or something. And OF COURSE they think it's from depression. Depression from what? Watching porn? Treating women like shit and getting away with it? Not finding enough women who are willing to let them stick their pee pees in for nothing? Unless you're a male over 50, nothing about ED is remotely normal or healthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 11:57 PM
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He must be doing smthn wrong or smthn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 09:25 PM
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This happened to me. He demanded I leave him with the vacuum, pots, and pans my mother purchased for us and then, months later, he texted me to tell me he was upgrading and getting rid of all of them because they were "garbage".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 08:07 PM
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1,400 usd for two carts of stuff from Ikea isn't bad at all. He brought nothing except a bed to this woman's home and expects to use (and likely trash) her existing furniture. The fact she even thought she'd pay for half is out of this world. She should have paid for NONE of it as it's all stuff he should have had or had been completely willing to pay for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 08:02 PM
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Anyone male who uses the phrase "pique your/my interest" is looking for sexual stuff. And yeah he sounds disturbed and dangerous. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 07:11 PM
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Another example of how men are not and have never been "providers".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 07:06 PM
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If you think it might be a red flag, it is. Both of you are very young and I cannot blame him for saying he'd panic. However, if he said he'd marry you and have a baby by 30, then having a surprise baby a few years earlier should not be a disaster. Quite frankly, if he feels that strongly about avoiding pregnancy with you, he should get a vasectomy and relieve you of the worry. How dare he say he'd try to convince you to get an abortion. He needs to get the snip then if he's that concerned. Wors…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 03:54 AM
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I'll bet you a million dollars she isn't actually unattractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 12:08 AM
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Another example of how Reddit hates women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 01:32 PM
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Spelling plain the way he did is delightful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 01:31 PM
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No one on FDS is against women who are sex workers. We are definitely against the loser scrotes like the one who made that post benefiting from the women who are in that situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 01:30 PM
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And everyone on that show/in that movie made it out to be her fault because she didn't want to have sex at 4 am before work. Fuck this show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 02:50 AM
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I posted a reply to that. I barely ever comment in subs outside of FDS, but this one HAD me. First off, what he's doing is illegal. Second, it is cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 12:14 AM
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Bleh, this makes me feel so grossed out just reading it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 07:39 PM
5

Of course it was about a disgusting bj. And, also, there's a good chance this scrote is gay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 05:45 PM
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Your edit nails it on the head. Sex positivity and gaslighting women into thinking they are disfunctional for not liking or wanting sex all the time is so, so incredibly damaging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 10:57 PM
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If I could, I would be a lesbian.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 10:47 PM
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Twox is very libfems pro-hookup culture, pro-casual sex. But the women on there at least try to be decent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 10:46 PM
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To me, not blocking someone to show them you don't care actually means you do care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 10:44 PM
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Block and delete him. He'll lie about more than just his height. He has no confidence to boot. Also, read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 11:46 PM
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So this guy is a scrote POS who stalked and coerced his ex wife (really, she's a forever GF he finally got committed to once the GOT money was gone) and society idolizes him and bashes his former costar Amber Heard for allegedly hitting her abusive ex husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 07:49 PM
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Sadly, three years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 07:36 PM
92

Women don't want to be used anymore. So, no. Being basically a child and being pursued by adult males isn't a compliment. It means he can't have a real relationship with someone who has any amount of wisdom and experience. I was the young girl being pursued by old nasty scrotes. It's not cute. They aren't more mature or more put together. They're mentally unhealthy and perverted. They can't love the women they're with, they just use them up until they aren't new to them anymore. Then they try to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 07:35 PM
57

"My body, my choice - except I wouldn't be doing this if I could find a better paying job that I was good at that didn't do background checks".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 07:27 PM
3

Is it possible the woman in the picture didn't want any of this and some scrote psycho is using her image to create a fake account? That seems way more likely...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 05:59 PM
87

Ugh, this is heartbreaking. At least she has some form of income on her own. Hopefully she gets a lawyer and takes whatever she can from him in the divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 05:57 PM
17

I think telling women that snooping is just as bad as cheating is one of the biggest piles of abusive toxic shit the libfems have ever created.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 02:39 PM
34

I am never going to a male provider again. I had a horrible ENT and a horrible therapist. I love my primary and SHE actually seems to care about me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 03:04 AM
58

It's one thing to be attracted to and love someone who isn't considered attractive to many people. It's another thing to tell men they don't have to take care of themselves, or even be healthy, in order to land a girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 12:52 AM
21

No sex until after commitment. And that should wait around 3 months. Most men will give up before then, some don't. Some guys love bomb you for sex then dump you once they get what they want. So the 3 month rule weeds most of those out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 09:59 PM
15

If he wanted to, he would. If he wanted her as a GF, she'd be his GF. It's not about the job. It's not complicated. He DOES have the time for her and for the handful of other women he continues to talk to and likely have sex with while she isn't around. Doctors where I work are on call 24/7/365 and they have wives who are SAHM. They're still trash because most male doctors are. But THIS is what you get when he actually wants you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 09:56 PM
13

Omfg I hope the robots come sooner than later because I want scrotes to just keep to themselves and leave women alone. I don't even want a text!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 01:30 AM
91

Yeah. I had a situation with a scrote who was obsessed with tiny women, mostly Asian, with breast implants. He even had a blog about it. He showed it to me. At first, I knew it was messed up, but the pickme in me wanted to be accepting. I made myself think this was what he needed. Omfg no!! Dude was an abusive psychopath who wanted to control everything about me including what I ate. I haven't spoken to him in years, but I googled his name and he's been arrested twice for assault with a deadly w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 09:52 PM
1

I grew up watching it. I've seen each episode multiple times. I love it for the nostalgia, but it's themes are no longer relevant to my life and are no longer considered appropriate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 07:28 AM
16

The closest I got to polyamory was when I was 18 and couldn't decide which member of My Chemical Romance I liked more. Polyamory isn't a real thing. This poor woman is not loved by this man. It's not about love with these scrotes. He just wants to stick it in everyone he can while getting a maid and caregiver at home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 07:19 AM
33

Or if he does actually just want to cuddle, it's his weight on mine, bending my neck, putting pressure on my chest, making me sweaty and miserable and he fully expects me to be cute and fall asleep with this crap happening to me. No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 01:12 AM
104

That was a real live tornado at the beginning of the video and I'd been scared out my mind. Good on her for getting her children to safety. It's ok for him to keep his cool, but to question her, to question her choice to run and to be scared is not ok under any circumstance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 01:11 AM
19

I am cut from the same cloth as the Devil himself and looking for a minor inconvenience to set me off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 01:19 AM
56

Scrote used the word "telephonically". What? They can't even talk like real people anymore. And I am about 99% sure the call had NOTHING to do with law admissions or whatever and everything to do with him just wanting her to be on the phone with him while he ****ed himself. This is what they do!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 01:14 AM
183

I dog sat a very timid dog that used to be at a puppy mill. She only ever once cuddled up to me to keep warm, otherwise, she kept to herself. The scrote who a****lted me several times was once invited over while I was dog sitting. He got on the floor and played with her chew toy. She jumped up and started playing with him. She never played. Not with her owner, not with me, no one. But she was excited and bouncy with this dude who just walked into her house. So, no, I don't trust animals when it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 09:15 PM
65

If he wanted to, he would. If a man is interested in a woman, he will approach and pursue her. It's not complicated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 06:59 PM
32

They've been dating almost a year and she doesn't feel comfortable disclosing her actual job? I understand being less open about income. Like saying you make "about xxx" a year than giving the actual number. But after a while, you should be with someone you trust. If she's afraid he'll use her for her money, she needs to dump him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 04:53 PM
43

I don't think I could ever trust a man enough to get married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 12:50 AM
20

He could have died on his way home from "the club" and no one should care. That's how he's doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 02:30 AM
8

How is he doing? HOW IS HE DOING?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm so pissed right now that fucking question is gonna ruin my night!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 02:29 AM
22

Yes, you made the right choice. No, he won't change. But he might contact you months or even years down the road to tell you he's making a ton of money and how he takes his new GF on vacations, buys her presents, etc. It will be bullshit. If he wanted to do better, he would. He won't. They never do and it's not up to you to help him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 07:32 PM
16

This woman needs compassion and love from other women and from herself. She is having unprotected sex with a guy who has demonstrated he is not serious about her, but she doesn't recognize that and he obviously won't admit it since he's getting GF goods and services without doing any work to actually have a relationship. Sometimes I think to myself these women are out of their minds and ridiculous and then I realize I've been in her shoes. Sometimes, we just don't get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 03:59 AM
94

I'm not sure if this is a theme, but I would like to see actresses being paid appropriately compared to male workers and not forcing them to do nude scenes "for the art" because it's not for the sake of the movie at all and we know it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 03:52 AM
177

I remember a million years ago, Paris was interviewed saying that "only ugly girls give b j s". I remember thinking she was so mean and insulting, but I sort of get it now. Ugly isn't the right word and I definitely wouldn't use it. I would use insecure instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 02:09 PM
49

I'm so sorry that happened to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 08:04 PM
291

"I'm nlog, I'm super chill with getting drunk in public and bringing random dudes over to my home lol. I love getting railed. I'm super chill. Please write comments telling me how cool and chill I am and please give me attention. Thank you. Please, I need this. I'm really super chill."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 08:01 PM
129

I was in college around 20-22 at the time. I used to think men shouldn't have to pay for child support for a child they didn't want. I had been brainwashed by people online claiming their GF poked holes in condoms or lied about taking the pill. I used to believe that women were responsible for all these unwanted pregnancies and I felt bad for the males who had to pay for the children. I now realize that men are way more likely to tamper with contraceptives ("oh the condom fell off lol") and they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 01:25 AM
3

So she has beautiful hair and the one and only special thing she uses is a simple towel that doesn't take up too much space AND IT WAS STILL ANNOYING TO HIM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 04:39 PM
19

I was a fan of some Drag Race performers. Then, I heard some of them say that women can't be drag performers because it's appropriating drag culture.....drag culture which is built on dressing up as women, lipsynching to songs sung by women, mocking women, and making disgusting jokes about women including how we smell.... Yeah, they can bite me. Misogyny is the most tolerated form of hate on the planet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 11:19 PM
3

It's because her brain is fully formed now and she is realizing what a mistake this relationship was to begin with. It's not because he's got some wrinkles. It's because she finally realized that her husband should have never persued her. 10 years isn't a big deal when people are middle aged. But he's gross and clearly this was predatory. Grown men shouldn't be going after girls in high school. Now she is only in her mid-twenties and she is married with a kid to a man she isn't attracted to anym…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 11:03 PM
121

I think it's ok that you didn't ride with him. I think it's safer to bring your own car. However, he should have offered. But everything else is wrong. A "surprise" date is garbage because it means he didn't come up with anything special and didn't want to deal with your disappointment when he texts you the idea. He wanted to wait until the day-of because then you're more forced to go along with it. Women tend to be too polite and you were far less likely to bail last minute. The other thing is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 10:58 PM
37

If he told you he took home 80 and he actually takes home 60, then yes, he lied.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 01:33 AM
233

I am not saying OP is a troll or in the wrong. But I am genuinely confused as to why there is an issue with the net vs gross income thing. What salary did he originally say he made? What was on his paystub? For me, personally, when I deduct taxes and insurance, $20,000 is cut from my salary almost exactly. And I always tell people what my salary is before taxes and insurance. That's the normal thing to do. OP, if you have any doubts about him, yes breakup with him. Also, don't ever financially r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 12:32 AM
154

I'm really confused by OP's post. Did he lie about his income and add 20k to it or did he genuinely say he made X amount of dollars a year and, after taxes, it is about 20k less than that?? If anyone asks me what I make, I tell them the amount before taxes. That is the norm. Something is off about this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 12:14 AM
182

Yeah.... I was one in those trillion. Spent 18 months in a camper because I was being manipulated into thinking that wanting more was wrong and greedy. It would be a great thing to camp in, as it had a little bathroom and kitchen, but living in it full-time was a fucking scam.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 07:40 PM
160

He's allegedly a doctor, but doesn't know the physical issues caused by pregnancy that his wife (and NOT him) are going through. He's a piece of absolute fucking shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 12:40 AM
14

Creep. What a fucking creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 02:48 PM
44

I've done this for two men. Both of them I was absolutely crazy about and we had been dating for at least a month. Also, the act was reciprocated. I genuinely wanted to do this for them because the attraction was there and I felt safe. It didn't do anything for me and it certainly doesn't feel good for me, but it's what I wanted to do for them. I wouldn't say I enjoy it. There have been several scrotes I have dated who wanted me to do this for them, but I refused. It led to an argument and one e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 03:04 PM
32

FDS says: Put your health and career first and don't settle for men who don't treat you right. Trash interprets that as: FdS tElLs WoMeN tO cHaNgE tHeIr PeRsOnALitiiieeeeesssssss !!! ?!!!! Grasping as straws, Jezebel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 04:00 AM
6

Please don't be real. Please don't be real. Please don't be real. Please don't be real. Please don't be real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 12:27 AM
15

I don't understand this... I think this comment is supposed to be humourous? Like, "oh yeah he totally got scammed by this girl because they fell in love and got married."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 07:20 PM
220

"We don't think less of women, we just think more of men."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:06 AM
62

I think they messed the age up. No way is this dude only 22 with his career, four kids, and everything. No freaking way. And I wish she had realized the kind of person she was with before getting married and having kids. If she is the one going through the physical demands of pregnancy and labor, while working the horrific job that is nursing, he should absolutely be paying for her loans to make her life a little bit nicer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 03:30 AM
103

I had an out and proud gay coworker who told me he's been with numerous "straight" men including married fathers. He would meet them on those kinds of apps. Women hardly ever think to check on those to see if their husbands are cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 08:40 PM
150

Which would be a cute and fun thing to do... a couple months into dating when you're comfortable being at his place. I'm so happy you left this dude on read. My 22 year old pickme self would have also ran over to his place fully excited thinking this was such a cool thing to do. And I would have been used and hurt by the end of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:25 AM
9

I completely agree with your comment about their outfits and what kills me is that this kind of comment makes lib fems mad because yOuRe SeXuAliZiNg them but in reality, grown ups allowing them to dress in underpants to dance around are the ones doing that. I did cheer and dance in school. It's not "more comfortable" to dress like that. It's done intentionally to draw that kind of attention. And it still pisses me off to this day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:58 AM
344

A 16 year old isn't a "woman". She is going to deeply regret everything that is being done to her. She needs to report him and block him immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:47 AM
182

She isn't his therapist, addiction counselor, academic or financial advisor so why is she even bothering? He is a problem. We shouldn't be dating problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:46 AM
2

Male: Creates problems within a relationship. Woman: Reacts to problems. Male: "you're abusing me and now I have vague, self-diagnosed mental health issues so every woman I date from now on needs to ignore their own needs and only focus on mine because I will not be figuring out my issues and seeking treatment prior to getting back out into dating". That was the literal backstory to the post on Twitter 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 08:17 PM
13

I cannot understand how it is acceptable for students with no incomes likely under the age of 26 to be making huge commitments like marriage. He could have done something far simpler and given her a promise ring or another piece of jewelry in the meantime before they're more secure as grown individuals with careers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 07:47 PM
90

I get it. I don't love the forever girlfriend posts about waiting for rings because I don't think I will ever trust a male enough to marry them. And if I find someone amazing and we don't get married, that doesn't mean he isn't the one or he doesn't love me enough. It'll just mean I'm looking out for myself because I'm my #1 for life and beyond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 05:21 PM
52

LVM are LVM regardless of how attractive they are. No one is saying otherwise. If you find him handsome, that is your preference. You have the right to have it. The point of this post is that women have been pushed by society to date men they don't find attractive because "looks don't matter" when the one looking is a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 05:07 PM
206

It is totally ok to not date men you don't find attractive. You are not shallow, you are not picky, you are not a bad person, and yes you are too pretty for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 05:01 PM
879

Seriously? She's been dating him a month and the sister is acting like he is the only man left as an option because she saw her smile a couple times. Omfg. Call her and tell her. She's being a pickme on her sister's behalf by stalling and saying how sad this is. Yeah, it's sad that men pull shit like this, but it isn't sad to dump them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 04:50 PM
91

If you don't feel completely comfortable with him and what he might be doing, break up with him. I know that is the tough answer, but that is the only answer. I have no clue if those apps show recent things or old things and it literally doesn't matter whether or not they do. The fact that he isn't putting in the effort needed to make you comfortable is saying everything you need to know. He can block those accounts that get suggested, he can clear his search history to prevent things like that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 04:44 PM
236

It was picures of text with a story. Woman saw man kissing his gf goodbye at airport. He landed and woman heard him speaking to his wife over the phone about their kids and picking up dog food.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 12:48 AM
30

Even if this story isn't true, there is definitely truth behind it. When men want open relationships or they want breaks to "see what else is out there", they are so shocked that their gf/wives end up with more, better options.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 02:36 PM
71

Please be joking please be joking please be joking...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 02:59 AM
4

Yes! Thank you for pointing that out!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 02:57 AM
30

This would be a cool room for an 8 year old to play games in...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 04:37 PM
104

He didn't ask her. It's not a real date. Why is this a question. And no one should be paying half their weekly income on a meal. Good grief.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:51 PM
24

I actually love body hair on men. I don't want him to smell bad or anything obviously. But people can be hairy and clean at the same time. I do agree that we are held to extreme standards while men get away with doing nothing. It's fucked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 05:56 PM
3

I remember on two occasions, I wasn't into the guy on the first date. He paid and at the end of the date, I insisted on paying my half because I felt bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 05:47 PM
38

Sydney, maybe use that attitude to actually help people instead of being a dumpster. You're worth more than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 05:45 PM
53

I really like that idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 05:43 PM
5

I hope that tumor eats away at him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 02:59 AM
86

If she was thin when they got married, but gained weight, what did he do to cause her to rely too much on food and/or lose interest in being active? Hmmm? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 12:41 AM
11

Incels can't get laid because women don't like them. FDS women reject dates because scrotes don't meet our healthy standards. It isn't the same. But I don't care if other people have issues with me or with this group. The people who have negative things to say about us and our standards are not people who have opinions I care about. The bulk of what we talk about is our experiences with being abused and harassed. If someone takes issue with that, they can go fuck themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 04:14 PM
7

I agree, but this is also how we find women who really need the help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 12:47 AM
241

"Not every woman is insecure" says the woman who has no self respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 03:27 AM
4

If I see a fat guy I don't think is attractive, that's it. I see him. He's a person. He's there. I just don't find him attractive. I don't think about him and I certainly don't want him to be hurt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 06:36 PM
2

Let us pray...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 06:36 PM
67

Can we report these kinds of unsolicited pics to the police?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 12:32 AM
8

As much as I understand your feelings on this, I worry saying things like this will add fuel to certain lurkers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 10:26 PM
187

I don't agree. He should want to get to know me which involves having conversations with me. Going bowling, walking around, or throwing things will pull focus from the conversation. Activity dates are distracting. On top of that, I really think men ask women on those kinds of dates because they're activities he enjoys and he just wants her to tag along before he tries to bang her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:37 AM
152

He doesn't really do anything for them since it's homeopathic bullshit that he sells.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:11 AM
94

This Alan dude dug himself into such a hole. Women are not responsible for your sad life, Alan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:11 AM
42

I think it goes without saying that, no, we don't want to hurt men or anyone else. And if a woman goes out and murders a man in the name of FDS, she deserves whatever jail time she has ahead of her. FDS women just want men to be genuinely good people and if they can't be, we want them to leave us alone. That's all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:03 AM
7

We don't want him either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 10:17 PM
21

Nah. The ex needs to have charges pressed against him and a restraining order.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 08:44 PM
162

The word "vibe" needs to be wiped from the planet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 04:19 PM
2

Women who have had hysterectomies can still have sex drives and enjoy sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 07:03 PM
56

Wife gets cancer. Husband cheats. Wife gets MS. Husband cheats. Wife dies. Husband remarried within a year. Husband jerks his penis to the point of irreversible damage. Wife remains celibate until widowed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 04:05 PM
23

The only thing men want us to bring to the table is youth and looks. Neither of which we have control over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 04:42 PM
31

Sometimes, sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 04:37 PM
21

He can't create boundaries because he has feelings for her too and is probably going to fuck her... This wife needs to pack the scrote's shit up now before he "accidentally got too tired and fell asleep on her sofa".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 10:40 PM
115

We are not obligated to date men with mental issues. I get that this situation can be awkward especially if the restaurant is busy, but grow the fuck up and man the fuck up as well and let the waiter know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 10:35 PM
23

A man-child. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 10:18 PM
526

We don't hate men, we just hate these ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 11:29 PM
112

Please tell me this isn't real. I don't want any woman out there living like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 06:06 PM
11

The last two men I was attracted to were older than me. I'm 33 now and one of the men was 14 years older and the other was 16 years older. (Nothing ever happened with them, I just found them attractive). I don't think I've ever found men who are younger than me attractive at all. I couldn't see myself going near a 28 year old. That sounds like a kid at this point in my life!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:24 PM
8

I admit, I've paid like $7 grand for laser. I don't actually regret it, but I obviously wouldn't have done it if I was as allowed to have body hair without being seen as gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 02:34 AM
69

This never happened. This is a scrote creating a scenario so that people can say nice fluffy anti-women things to him and he can go about his day thinking he isn't the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 02:30 AM
10

I used to have a porn habit. I picked it up when I was in my early twenties and was told it was super cool to watch it with guys. I haven't seen any in a while, not sure how long, but recently I've noticed I feel sexier, more confident, and just overall more put together. I think watching that stuff made me trashy. Without it, I actually feel like a better person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 10:28 PM
19

Yeah. Sadly, every other advice subs is pickmes and scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 04:47 AM
22

I don't like men who use emojis anyway. I hardly ever use them and it's just to be funny, like a random squid or something. I don't use it to actually flirt with anyone. Your standards aren't too strict at all. There's no such things. If you have a bad feeling about him, trust that feeling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 04:45 AM
101

"You know damn well your chances of meeting an HVM are up there with winning the lottery or becoming a rock star;" This isn't really true. HVM do exist. They are definitely more uncommon than HVW, though which makes it tougher. I think it's mostly about being a well-rounded person, doing things and going places. You can't be at home swiping through scrotes on an app. I think HVM are very, very rarely on those things. "you'll be deluged with LVM if you break up & try dating;" This reminds me of h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 01:01 AM
5

The first guy I went on a date with is 5'4", lied about his height on OLD, and then assaulted me several times on our "dates". Short men can just fuck off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 05:47 PM
87

Female abusers of grown male partners are extremely rare. It's not that I don't believe it happens, because I know it does, but I also know it doesn't happen nearly as often as reddit scrotes claim. Telling a man he needs to clean up after himself isn't abuse. Saying no to sex isn't abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 03:17 AM
6

According to comments, she is definitely a pickme cool girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 09:59 PM
12

She seems disheveled, honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 09:58 PM
11

Short men are not good looking in my opinion. However, I wouldn't mistreat them or be hurtful to them. I just wouldn't date them. Men don't really think like that, though. If they don't want to stick their weenies in it, it's garbage to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 09:58 PM
5

Bingo. Libfems are gonna say this man is a victim of the healthcare system so he can be free to hurt more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 12:37 AM
13

Male feminists basically don't exist. They just want women to do more like pay more and blow them more and they call it empowering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 12:27 AM
158

He can't give her an orgasm because he isn't good at sex. He wants her to have one because it's an ego boost for him. She turns down his efforts because she knows it won't work (because he isn't good). She says she'd rather cuddle because this is one of the few times he'll show affection like that. Girl, it's not because you don't care. It's because you have learned to expect little to nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 12:18 AM
4

This sounds like trolling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 12:13 AM
6

Yeah, still bail if he only has $500. Like, how does he pay his bills? The average person should have at least 3 months worth of expenses saved in case of emergency.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 05:45 PM
28

They're always "engineers".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 05:41 PM
10

Long story, but he found my college email address that I didn't even know was available to the public.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 07:33 PM
8

So what you actually do is refuse to be in the same building as the scrote and if your bf isn't 100% on board with that, drop him too. She is being Barbara the Builder to her boyfriend's scrote friend. She is pickme of the month, for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 07:16 PM
19

Sexual assault is sexual assault. Obviously a judge will sentence the two acts mentioned in the post differently, but being the kind of man who abuses women makes you a criminal and a sick piece of garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 01:56 AM
11

I'm childfree too and 50/50 is still bullshit for many reasons. He asked you out on the date, he should pay. If he wants the bigger tv, he should pay. When he makes the mess, he should clean it up. It's simple. It's more costly and more dangerous to be a woman than it is to be a man. He should never expect you to be 50/50 with him when the world treats him like he is 100% more of a human being than you are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 05:32 PM
12

I'm glad he died young and she was able to start over, raising her children mostly in private and in NYC which she loved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 09:42 PM
11

What barrel chested hell...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 09:33 PM
13

That's what I was thinking. Basically, all these gorgeous young women were just girls at one point being abused by the men who run Hollywood. This is all they know. This is what they think a relationship is supposed to be like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:26 AM
1

It's interesting because him texting you this is him admitting he raped you. I'm not sure, but if you were wanting to press charges, this might be something you can use. But I don't know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 12:08 AM
3

When I was assaulted, I thought at the time the only way to make it make sense in my mind was to force myself to be okay with it. I wasn't okay with it and over a decade later, I'm still not okay with it. But this is something we do. So I completely understand you're way of handling it and your thinking wasn't screwed up, he was and nothing you did afterward was your fault. 💙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 12:06 AM
9

The wife/owner of the company brought this up and it honestly sounds like deflection from the problem her husband caused. Yeah, no one should threaten children.... But the threats are nowhere to be found.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 09:27 PM
13

Things that never happened for five billion dollars...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 02:45 AM
10

If they met as teenagers, then I do agree they should have waited a long time. I think everyone should wait until they're at least 25. But that would be eight years ago for them...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:12 PM
5

This is sharp. I love this and it's true. I absolutely consider grown men who fetishize 18 year old to be predators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 03:44 AM
1

💜 Totally makes me think of Once Upon a Time which is one of my fav shows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 07:45 PM
10

I don't know if fds is against it. I don't remember that from the handbook. But personally, I think it's a bad idea and I think many fds ladies agree. I'm not out there looking at all, but if I were back to dating, I wouldn't bother with OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 06:12 PM
3

Deadbeat. He's a NVM. Get rid of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 06:24 AM
4

Many places now take Google pay or something like that if your wallet is really gone or there is something wrong with your card. So, yeah. No excuses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 06:22 AM
10

I'm looking at the comment you replied to and cannot find one single hint of "brown men are animals". So I have zero clue what you're talking about. I also read the other comments above yours. Still, no mention of the things you're claiming are racist. So either the person edited or deleted that comment or you're trolling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 06:22 PM
15

Few of us left our L/Z/N M's quick enough, but as long as you leave, you did the right thing. Well done 💙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 05:29 PM
14

They suggested cOmUnIcAtInG if he watches illegal stuff online?????? Are they fucking joking???!!!! You call the police!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 05:24 PM
271

I used to love it too. My least favorite part is when Miranda gets cheated on because she's a badass lawyer who works hard and her husband feels entitled to more frequent sex involving her losing sleep. She makes the right choice to leave him and is talked into taking him back by her pickme friends. Big and Steve were the worst of the main partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 05:22 PM
16

Yes. I think men who are into petite women are creepy. I think any man who has a strong preference for any female body type is creepy. It's all about sexualizing us and reducing us to certain features.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 02:03 PM
3

She's helping him clean up his cheating. Omg, girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 01:18 AM
28

Yes and that is why I hope she gets some fat alimony.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 10:49 PM
8

The 35 year old woman doesn't even want him as anything more than a friend 😂 He's so fucking dumb. I hope he divorces his wife so she can be free of him. Then he'll get the humiliation of a lifetime when this friend of his rejects him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 10:48 PM
5

Sometimes I think these kinds of stories are so crazy and awful that they have to be fake. Someone who is as apathetic and disturbed as this scrote seems to be wouldn't even think to ask online strangers if he did the wrong thing. But, honestly, who knows. Whether or not it's true, I'm still happy women are able to see this as an example of the 50/50 lie and learn from it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 04:31 PM
10

And this is why 50/50 is horrible bullshit. It's not about how much he makes. It's about whether or not he loves her enough to make sure she isn't excluded from the trip he invited her on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 04:14 PM
42

For me, in my opinion, the things that matter are showing respect for others and showing respect for ourselves. It's vague, but I really think it says enough about a person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 03:50 AM
9

That's what I've been doing! I just ordered a bunch of real techniques brushes on Amazon. I used to use them like a decade ago and was feeling nostalgic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 03:35 AM
74

Yes, scrotes get mad at us when we seem to not end up harshly punished for crimes even when the crime is defense. There's something called a "p#$$y pass" that scrotes cry about and use as fuel for their hatred of us, but they purposefully forget about the male cops and male judges who allegedly give women these so-called pass. After all, men still have the power over this too. But scrotes don't see it that way. To them, it's our fault we got hit, it's our fault we fought back, and it's our fault…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 03:33 AM
7

No, it doesn't. I recall one makeout scene then they wake up with underwear/tank top on. There is one scene involving special effects wounds.... Not sure if that would bother you but figured I'd mention it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 03:48 AM
7

I just watched the movie and I loved it. It was the first thriller/romcom I've seen !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 04:57 AM
208

My opinion is that if he is up for hugging you and flirting, then he isn't too shy. He likes the attention you give him and it's great that you two get along and you've enjoyed working with him. You've definitely done the right thing by not bothering to pursue him. It would be a waste of your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 07:44 PM
8

There is zero evidence or even rumors that Freddie Mercury did anything like that. I have no idea why this person is bringing him up other than the fact he had AIDs and never lost his rights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 04:01 PM
1

I'll call him J. He wasn't a real boyfriend. He just strung me along for two years. I confronted J about his Facebook posts with pictures of him and another girl. He denied everything. I believed him. I was very young and very dumb. Anyway. We agreed to work on things, but he never replied to my text after that day. I chose to delete his number and I assumed he was gone for good. About 6 months later, he randomly sends me an email which he had never done before so I wasn't expecting it. By this …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 11:27 PM
11

Well said!! I love this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 04:56 AM
62

If he isn't using a fucking chainsaw on me, it's lame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 04:50 PM
27

I really enjoy female level up strategy. It's FDS, but not dating. It's doesn't get as much attention or as many posts, but I wish it did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 04:47 PM
9

So very true. I feel like I wasted a year of my life and probably $1,500 on a therapist who preferred it when I didn't talk and mostly just wanted me to do breathing exercises. Fuck that guy. And he had an actual master's degree. Something I've learned is that the mental health career path tends to attract people with their own set of mental health issues. It's all about control and projection. It's so much easier for them to tell others what to do with their problems and lives than to face thei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:06 PM
16

He is telling her all the bad things "other people" are saying as a way to manipulate her into thinking he's a good guy for staying with her. She needs to run. Keep the ring, sell it, and run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:43 PM
40

Thousands, probably. All the money on gas, the miles on my car, the food I bought. All that because they were always too tired, too busy, too stressed blah blah blah to take me on an actual date. I always had to help them. Not to mention all the thoughtful presents for their birthdays or holidays they were happy to take, but never willing to return the kindness. I'm grateful I never got married, never bought a house, never made any big purchases, and never had children with any of them. So fucki…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 07:01 PM
6

I'm 32. I would have never gone on the internet looking for a boyfriend. I would have never done online dating. That would have prevented everything. I would have waited to go to college until I knew what I wanted to study. I'm from the generation of students who were essentially forced into going to get bachelor degrees by parents and high schools. I graduated $30k in debt with no job opportunities in sight. It wasn't until I was 25 that I decided nursing would be right for me. Had I waited unt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 06:55 PM
33

Yes, yes, yes. If he actually liked you, which he absolutely can figure out whether or not he likes you through OLD and messages, he would put the effort into taking you out on a nice date and making you feel special.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 12:36 AM
41

Scrotes MUST immediately point out that women sometimes lie in profiles too as if it somehow negates all the things they've lied about or exaggerated. Because God forbid a woman gripes about men for a second.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:46 PM
15

Men just don't want to be with someone who needs help, who isn't bubbly and happy 24/7, who is tired and sick, who isn't horny 24/7. To them, their dying wives are a "huge turn off". But they expect to be pampered and coddled when they have a cold or headache.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:44 PM
7

"I pray on vulnerable young women, but it's ok as long as they say they're 18+".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:39 PM
89

If she genuinely cared, she be filing for divorce unless he shuts the whole thing down. Look away, everyone. She's just virtue signaling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:36 PM
74

I used to be one of those young girls. The first man to ever ask me out was a teacher at the college I went to. I was 21. He was 51. I didn't go. I will never, ever, envy a girl in that situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 11:58 PM
12

What's interesting is that these are straight men who literally do not care about gay men or their health issues. They only care about their peepees and hurting women. This all falls into the second category.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:44 PM
13

Men who have sex with men or who want to have sex with men are no longer attractive to me. I don't care if that pisses anyone off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:39 PM
21

No, the higher number has nothing to do with them getting tested more. It has to do with them being more likely to have anal sex which causes tearing which then puts them at much higher risk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:38 PM
54

Thank God my phone was muted the first round of the video. Good for her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:00 AM
21

When a relationship ends, we go through the grief cycle. We go through that grief cycle for all kinds of things, not just deaths. You might feel things out of order or you go back and forth. Everyone has a slightly different experience. Everyday that passes, you'll gain more peace with your decision. The reason you left for good will become more solidified and you won't question yourself as much. Imagine being able to fall asleep without worrying about how he reacted to what you said, or what he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:59 PM
14

"I found it greatly comforting to be able to express myself sexually and explore these topics in my own safe environment" So she didn't feel confident until she got approval from creeps online. I feel so bad for her and all the other women, including myself, who have been abused by this world into thinking we must find male validation in order to be beautiful and sexual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:20 PM
2

I agree. Everytime I browse the front page of this site, I see subs that are devoted to showing animals dying, being harmed, etc. Men/boys enjoy this stuff. It's not "just biology" because, if it were, they'd be outside hunting animals for food. Instead, they're on their phones jerking it to an alligator getting eating by a python.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:43 AM
309

So he is mad at her because she has expensive taste, but he is only with her because she makes a lot of money. Fucking typical scrote bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:24 AM
13

I found my LVM's old reddit account. He told reddit that he had broken up with me because I didn't support his keto diet. But in reality, we weren't broken up at the time and I actually was very supportive of his keto diet, but I just didn't want to follow it myself. He posted so many exaggerated stories of me the whole thing was just ridiculous. He created an entire story in his head and told it to internet strangers in order to paint me as the bad guy and to feel better about his own terrible …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:30 AM
10

OP is just talking about her experiences with dating tall vs short men. She's angry because she has been treated poorly by men in the past. I think it's good that she express a preference she has. Men constantly judge us based on physical traits. They call it biology. But when we say we prefer tall men, we are told that's unfair. Personally, I was assualted by a short guy when I was dating him. Those events caused me to feel the way I do about short guys. I think OP and other women can relate. A…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 02:59 PM
19

The shortest guy I dated was 5'4" and he was the one who assaulted me. Honestly, short guys are like a trigger for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 02:39 PM
16

What a complete sociopathic idiot. He thinks the woman he is with owes him physical affection (meaning sex) even when she doesn't want to do it. That is literally what he is saying. I'm honestly grateful that reddit exists so we all can see this shit and see men for what they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:09 PM
44

I wish fathers were more involved in actual childcare because it should be both parent's responsibility to get their son vaccinated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 04:43 PM
58

Anything that shows a woman's naked body parts. I used to tell myself "it's just boobs, get over it." But now I know it's a scrote writer, scrote director, scrote producer who made this young actress get naked and simulate sex or rape for their viewing pleasure. It's never about the plot and there is never a good reason for it. It's porn. It's just porn disguised as a regular tv show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:41 PM
12

If this is real, I feel sorry for her. I hope she is ok. I also really hope she leaves that industry immediately before her life gets worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:30 PM
8

Yes, but they use it as an ad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:23 PM
5

Her being better than him doesn't make her his "protector". It just means she's better than him. I fucking hate whoever created this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:22 AM
65

"I asked this chick to go for a cheap, no effort meetup so I can see her body in person and try to stick my dick in it. She said she wanted me to take her on a "real date" which will cost me more money and more effort than I want to put into her. How can I manipulate this so I come across like a good guy in a world full of gold-diggers?!?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 08:47 PM
10

I like this post because scrotes have all kinds of disturbing and unrealistic preferences about every square inch of a woman's body, but women are shamed and manipulated into thinking we aren't allowed to have any preferences or that whatever ones we do have are wrong. Personally, I don't really care about penises. I've had actual sex with one person during a committed relationship and so my experience is limited. However, the best orgasms I've ever had came from using vibrators on my clitoris.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 07:27 PM
9

A part of me just wants to roll my eyes, but most of me feels bad for them. I can't imagine what life might have thrown at them for them to be in the place they are right now. I hope they can get out. At the very least, I hope they can become more aware of the damage this is causing them and the other women they are trying to manipulate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:50 PM
41

Some dude asking to take you on a walk as a date is NOT the same as going on a walk with your boyfriend. Fucking idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 02:44 AM
157

That's my issue with the dad bod thing. Men don't accept overweight women, but fully demand that we love their smelly, sweaty, unwashed flabs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:27 AM
5

Reminds me of everything I've ever been told after a situationship ends. "I had all your birthday presents waiting for you." But he spent my birthday with another girl in Europe. "I was looking into houses for us." But he's married to someone else and just using me for dirty texts. "I thought we could have something special." After he strung me along for two years. Men want credit for thoughts and plans as if they are as valuable as actions. It's pure manipulation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:00 AM
3

I can't remember seeing any dating advice other than ways to avoid men... I don't think any of us are waiting for a king. I think most of us are just trying to get away from the scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:39 AM
56

Someone I know was a "happy accident" baby because his parents thought there was no way she could get pregnant at 40. He was a perfectly healthy baby and there were no complications, unsurprisingly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:35 PM
30

There are senior citizen groups/clubs that he could have easily joined. The human companionship thing is bullshit. It's an attempt to make herself feel better. And he was only able to get it up 5% of the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 06:01 PM
3

I think it is worth it. It is loud and bulky compared to newer types, but it feels amazing. I also recommend Lelo toys. They have a dildo called Ella that was life-changing for me 😂 and a rabbit-style toy that is wonderful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:17 AM
4

I've been thin and fit and also obese. I know what it was like for me. I know people treated me horribly as an obese woman. We can't really ever win. I'd rather be healthier and stronger and have people treat me better even if it means I'm more likely to be creeped on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:38 PM
2

The women who actually do feel this way break my heart. I feel for them. I try not to hate them for perpetuating the problem because it's not really their fault. Maybe one day they'll understand and when that day comes, I know we will support them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:29 PM
17

All the times I knew something was wrong and when I asked, I would get some kind of abusive response like "you're paranoid/annoying/clingy/crazy/ridiculous, etc". I would end up apologizing to them despite the fact that they were hurting me. It caused a horrible cycle of abuse to happen. And none of it is my fault. It's not my fault that men have abused me. I'm learning from it and next time, I won't believe them when they lie. It'll be a hot block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:09 PM
30

If alcohol causes you to make bad choices, then you need to work on quitting it. The only time I ever drink is when I'm home, phone is off, and I just have a couple glasses of wine. That's it. You need to stop drinking socially if it results in you feeling like you can't say no to some dude. Casual sex is never worth it. I don't think your urge is hormones. I think it's an emotional reaction. You just want the connection with another person, but it isn't going to go how you want it to. You know …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 01:59 PM
7

Whenever I would browse the front page and see numerous posts from a sub where men are the ones expected to respond, I would never think to get in there and say "well as a woman..." I don't know why men are so compelled to voice their opinions about our lives. Fuck off, scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:14 AM
5

I wouldn't recommend a dog for security for lots of reasons. What you might want is a solid security system. New locks and an alarm that will go off if the door is messed with. There are door mat alarms and door stoppers with alarms that sound.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:59 AM
4

If he lived there and was so confused that he could not remember his own floor and his own apartment, then, no, it's not okay and you're not safe. I get that mistakes happen. I come home early in the morning after work, I'm tired, I'm looking at my phone because I'm still getting texts from management, and I stop at the door before mine. But I immediately realize it's not mine the second I look at it. I don't touch the door knob. I just keep walking. That can happen. There is no excuse for what …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:46 AM
5

I think a poll like this needs to be made for flaired users because it's pretty obvious male lurkers and pickme's are in here with the ability to vote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 01:37 PM
92

I don't like how they basically blame the woman for not knowing or not understanding? It's the men who are lying and manipulating them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 01:47 PM
154

More proof that if he likes you, he will pay for your damn food.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:34 AM
3

I try to respect them because I've been there too. I will never stop feeling sorry for them. I try not to be rude or hurtful because that wouldn't be very HV of me, would it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:15 PM
18

The ever-growing nightmare that is men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 06:19 AM
10

Knowing he has a problem at 17 and asking for help is 100% more than any other grown man ever does. I will give him that. Perhaps there's hope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 04:10 AM
29

I'm very wary about everything I see online. I'm always immediately assuming something is bs or there's more to the story. I wouldn't be surprised if this was a post made with the intent of getting some kind of gratification out of making commenters angry at some made up woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 10:17 AM
3

Is his mom disabled or ill and he has her staying with him to help her? No. It's never that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 04:07 AM
4

There's some cute little ones on etsy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 06:47 AM
25

Little pink flags? Short responses to texts. They're not red flags because he at least replied, right? Sometimes I don't feel like writing much either if I'm tired or busy. But these are still pink flags. He should be interested enough to respond enough. Taking me to fast food places or other low-effort, cheap "dates". They're not red flags because at least he took me out, right? Maybe he's just trying to save money, right? Wrong. He'd spend the money for the girl he actually likes. I prefer eat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 04:20 AM
46

Me too!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 02:33 PM
3

This poor girl. She's embarrassing herself by putting up with his bullshit. They're all clowns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:13 AM
16

Same. I've been working harder on my career and friendships after finding this "dating" subreddit 🤗 FDS made me fully come around and realize what I already knew in the back of my mind which is that men are simply not worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:37 AM
8

I think FDS is the right place to post this kind of question or problem. It's a perfect example of how men treat their girlfriends or wives. They gaslight us into thinking we were the problem the whole time when we weren't. How he treated you is an example of how he treats women in general. You really don't know how he treats his current gf. All you see are social media posts which are always exaggerated versions of the real world and mostly just bullshit. Posting the things he's posting is anot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:32 AM
19

I feel like men round up about their height and income so much that 6 feet and 6- figures is meaningless. He probably makes closer to $75k and it's much less after taxes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 09:16 AM
26

And their bodies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 09:13 AM
12

Money, no debt, no kids, and being single doesn't make you HV. He is very much a LVM since he's so concerned about women using him. The way they treat us is the most important factor in determining whether or not they're HV. Why don't they fucking get that???!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 09:10 AM
25

I have worked in healthcare for a decade. I have heaps of these kinds of stories. One story that sticks with me is a husband in his late thirties nearly lost his wife of 10+ years (they had three little boys) from anaphylaxis. He told me "while I was calling 911, I just kept thinking I can't do this alone. I don't want to be alone." He never said anything about her. It was all about what he wanted, when he wanted it, and who can give it to him. I hated that guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:25 AM
45

These men are sociopaths.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 10:29 AM
54

I fell for that once and it turns out he had a facebook full of pictures of him and another girl. It's possible a man doesn't have social media accounts, but it's unlikely. Especially if he uses dating apps. If he is using dating apps, what stops him from using Facebook or Instagram?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 10:24 AM
31

I wish I could name my abusers and the males who assaulted me, but I am pretty sure if they found out it was me, I'd be in way more trouble. I don't have any proof all these years later and it would just be considered slander.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 02:52 AM
3

If he's doing this, it's called coersion. He should clean without making it a presentation or performance. Grow up, clean up, and shut up, scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 01:40 PM
1

I'm definitely a heterosexual woman for no explicable reason. 🤣 I have never had a positive or decent male influence in my life. I've dated a bit and have had one serious relationship. They were all NVM. Being coerced, assaulted, and used then ignored and called crazy was normal to me for years. I don't think I'll bother with dating again. Sadly, my biology forces me to be physically attracted to masculine features. I've never been attracted to women. The good news is that with FDS, I've determi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 01:19 PM
13

All I know first hand is how I had a pitty growing up and his best friends were the two girl cats who'd cuddle him and follow him everywhere. The most dangerous thing about him was his tail that would knock things over when he wagged. I have a wonderful personal example of a pitty. I have zero wonderful personal examples of a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 08:13 AM
58

"I have mental health issues that make me difficult to be around and a self-proclaimed dark sense of humor that really just means that I make jokes about killing people but anyway she didn't look exactly like her profile picture made me think she looked so everything is her fault and here is a 15-page essay about how I'm %100 over it."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 08:06 AM
18

Imagine the massive shift that could take place in society if women could just openly admit to the fact that they don't really want "that d!ck", they want affection and intimacy. It needs to start being okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 02:33 AM
45

Yes, that and a clean place to live that smells nice with flowers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 07:28 AM
29

I agree. I don't like the posts I see all the time of screenshots from other subs or dm's that are about fds. I understand we can't bury our heads in the sand and pretend like it's not happening, but posting the disgusting things written about us isn't exactly creating a positive space for women...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 03:12 AM
214

"Maybe he's depressed. Have you tried talking to him?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 10:37 PM
9

Not wanting to use someone else makes you a nice person. Women are usually like this. We want to be polite and make everyone else happy. Men use women all the time for our bodies and our attention. They also use us for our money too. 50/50 is a myth. Women are always doing more including spending more money. How many of us on here have horror stories about doing 50/50 rent/mortgage with a male only to wind up doing ALL of the household chores and childcare? Men should be asking you out. Not the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 09:34 PM
2

I sometimes read posts that are on popular or all and end up scrolling through comments only to find something about us. They says all kinds of things about us. I've read that we have said men can't be r@9ed (this is not true) and how we are just a bunch of femcels (we can easily get laid, but we just want respect). I never reply to them or really read much of what they say. I firmly believe that the truth is out there for women to find. If a woman sees those comments and gets curious, she will …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 09:03 PM
31

This whole post has me singing. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 01:57 PM
31

The post was written by a male. 5,000%. If this had been a real story written by a woman, it would have read something more like this: "I recently got in better shape, got a promotion, and started to feel more confident and happy. I realized that my husband has never been helpful enough or very kind to me and I believe I deserve better now." Only males have Starter Wives. Women don't pull that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:56 PM
25

And go to urgent care for a bruise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 12:26 AM
29

Makes my stomach sick. I dated someone who had a slave fetish, but not this far. Holy shit. He is fucking psychotic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 08:12 AM
66

If my partner had women friends who were part of a group, I'd be fine with it. Like a group of friends who play games or sports together. If he's spending one on one time with a woman, then no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:07 AM
47

The idea of going through physical hell to bring another human being into this earth makes no sense to me. There are enough humans. There is too much suffering on this planet. Why add to it? I just don't relate to people who are hellbent on having kids. What women go through to have them is insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 11:46 PM
11

Why is she teaching a grown man anything in the first place??? What is this?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 11:27 PM
77

You are not being extreme by wanting out. Yes, please get a divorce or an annulment. Get out as soon as you can. You'll be ok. His treatment of you will never change. I promise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 04:28 AM
92

They avoid upper middle class white women in the US? I'm safe 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 05:55 AM
9

Thank you for calling it abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 11:09 PM
7

It's obvious she wrote this for attention. He is gross and probably has dick issues (other people mentioned his disability and loss of sex drive.) Anyway. She is desperate. Desperate to not be alone. Desperate to be sexual. Desperate for attention. It's sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 10:31 AM
6

Jesus, this comment is sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 11:09 PM
37

I've noticed older women who look "bad" are almost always sad, depressed, broke because their money is also his money, run down from full-time jobs plus housework, raising teenagers, etc. The older men who look like shit maybe work full-time and that's it. Their wives do everything for them while they drink beer and eat garbage. They have no fucking excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 11:03 PM
5

I've only had sex with one person and I wondered why it hurt for years and years. Turns out, I wasn't aroused. This wad thought that sticking his naked obese gut around the corner of the living room, taking my clothes off, and drooling on my face was enough to get me in the mood. It definitely wasn't. My body was not up for sex, but he stuck it in anyway. He thought he must have a big dick and that's why it hurt. Dumb shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 02:33 AM
3

"how do we gobble his meat?" The fuck? 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 04:03 AM
37

Rape isn't about sex, it's about violence and control. It's not sex. What dipshit MALE fucking wrote that shit post?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 04:00 AM
12

Jesus fucking christ. I cannot explain how much I fucking hate these people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 03:58 AM
6

AND she just had a baby with Legolas. I'm 32. I make more money than I ever did and my skin looks better than it ever has. That's just the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 02:15 AM
29

Interesting that "she" felt the need to get on reddit and talk about the relationship issues other people have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 01:40 AM
2

The fact that a male artist felt compelled to portray a woman living like this is what bugs me. We all know males are far, far worse. And he would fucking know. Him choosing a woman with cats is just cliché as shit too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 12:26 AM
34

To a freaking T. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:29 AM
76

Thank you for this. Makes me chuckle. I found out my LVM was cheating via snooping and he humiliated me in a public facebook post afterward. Only recently have I even been able to forgive myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:28 AM
77

Your health is the priority at all times in my opinion. Can you start seeing a therapist? Maybe reading a book about coping with Crohn's is a good start. HVM will love you despite any of the shit that's outside of your control. It's all about how you handle it. 💙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 01:57 AM
14

Imagine feeling like your friends are just as important as your wife and child. He's disgusting. I wouldn't want to be his baby in a burning building full of his drinking buds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 10:10 AM
55

Exactly. This literal animal went and destroyed inanimate objects he doesn't understand. He didn't attack the female. Human men can't even do better than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 11:50 PM
22

First date I ever went on was with a guy who said he was 5'6", but was eye level with me and I'm 5'3.5".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 01:56 AM
50

My LVM left a previous gf after she got thyroid cancer. He said she got "boring and depressed". Well no shit. He also once told me that he'd leave me if I ever became disabled or had a terrible disease because "life is too short". The fact I put up with any of this is so disappointing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 12:43 PM
28

If female privilege exists, it's exclusively for younger, prettier women and given to them by men who want to screw them or women who fear them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 05:49 AM
9

My coworker told me her husband finished inside her after they agreed he wouldn't because he really wanted a kid. That's how they conceived their first child. She had to be pregnant while in nursing school. She didn't find out until after her son was born. I told her how fucked up that is, but she loves her son so she doesn't care... At least that's what she says now. So this is actually not uncommon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 03:57 PM
5

This is so accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 06:41 AM
72

😄🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:38 PM
1

Who fucking cares? I don't even look at other advice subreddits. They can lurk here and go back and post whatever they want. We don't need to be reading it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 10:52 AM
4

The whole hourglass shape thing is such bullshit. I remember reading articles about women's shapes and they called the most common one (scoring about 40% of all women) the "boy shape". They called the most common female figure BOY shape.... I swear this is done to get more women freaking out, buying diet pills and diet teas, buying waist trainers, spanx, and other shape wear. The other thing I remember is watching one of those history channel documentaries and they were talking about a study don…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 10:40 AM
2

This is so deeply disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 06:52 PM
9

If you're going for a minimum wage job, they don't give two shits about employment gaps. Have decent hygiene and be willing to work weekends. That's pretty much it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 06:46 PM
18

It's probably best to not mention your current job on an application if your current job is something illegal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 06:44 PM
34

That's what I was thinking when I read this. FDS cannot turn anyone gay, but it certainly has taught me a lot about men and how much I could never trust them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 11:52 AM
20

I used to love that show. The older I got, and the worse the show got, the more I realised it's just a bunch of LVM perverts writing about naked women and r*pe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 09:26 PM
46

This just creeps me out. Women don't really want to be like this. They feel pressured to be like this. This is the kind of mantra they'll repeat to themselves when they've met a man they like, but he doesn't really have any interest in her. So she forces herself to play "cool". There is no way of having safe sex with someone who isn't committed to you. Degrading ourselves and risking our physical and mental health should not be part of "being sexual".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:14 AM
2

Speak to a doctor. Once you've been treated, there is no reason to tell anyone about this. You won't infect anyone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:55 AM
15

THEY ALWAYS MAKE "SIX FIGURES". ALWAYS. $58,000 before taxes isn't six figures, Daniel. And you can get to know someone through messaging them and talking on the phone. If he still just wants coffee after that, he isn't interested enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 05:43 AM
1

I'd argue his father didn't take any time teaching him either. It's NOT women's fault men turn out the way they do. I edited this comment because I failed to proof read before initially posting it. Women are NOT to blame for men's issues. Period!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:19 AM
15

I think she is just that sick of it. I don't blame her, but yeah, ideally she wouldn't have replied.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:17 AM
38

His picture is the second post and he appears to be balding and has a double chin. 😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:39 AM
26

I see her as the winner here. The poor ex wife is a divorced single mom with a worthless ex husband who doesn't want to support her. I hope she's doing ok too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 05:14 AM
5

Psychopath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:42 AM
16

I don't think I've ever received a message from anyone. At least I have never looked. I wouldn't bother replying. No way we can talk sense into someone who is like this. This is personality disorder level stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:32 AM
7

I really want to see the sources as well. What kills me is that 10 years ago, I was getting a degree in media studies (horrible decision) and my capstone project was a paper on the negative effects of porn. I should be the one on here providing you with the links to things. But this is years gone and I deleted everything after graduation because I regretted majoring in something that couldn't land me a job. I used my university's online resources for articles. I wouldn't have access to that now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:38 AM
2

Part of me wishes I was back out there dating just so I can use FDS on these scrotes. A low-effort date is an immediate no and block. If we do go out on something proper and then, at the end, he expects me to pay for my meal, I gladly will then block him on my drive home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:31 AM
5

WOMEN DO NOT GO OUT ON DATES WITH GUYS THEY ARE NOT INTERESTED IN JUST FOR THE FREE FOOD. If a man actually likes a woman, he will put in the effort and the money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:22 AM
16

I don't like looking at men in porn at all. Especially any bj scenes. I hate them. And I definitely hate when they show them finishing. It's disgusting. Only two men in my life were lucky enough to get such a thing from me. I genuinely liked them and wanted that for them. But some dude I don't know on the internet? No. No way. I don't want to see that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:07 AM
17

I don't want a big wedding because I am terribly shy and cannot stand the idea of attention being on me for any kind of day. That being said, I would never consider dating someone with this anti-woman mindset. This isn't about saving money (because who fucking spends $30k on a wedding?!) This is about not loving the woman you're with and not thinking she's special enough. He wouldn't want any wedding with this woman he is possibly going to "marry" one day because he doesn't love her enough to gi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 03:46 PM
11

I think we all know that if OP's ex felt like she was the one, he wouldn't have been talking to this ex girlfriend of his. Scrotes string women along, lying and cheating as they go. You did the right thing, OP. Good for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 07:29 AM
5

After finding FDS, I can't be bothered to look at other relationship or dating subs. They're below me, quite frankly. It's a bunch of idiots trying to bring people down to their level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 09:04 AM
15

This is made up bullshit. It was probably written by a scrote trying to justify using drugs or trying to get women to believe men can improve after marriage. It's garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 08:58 AM
6

You are stuck in a coffee spot or on the beach just as much as you're stuck in a restaurant. I'd argue you'd be more stuck on a beach having to walk your ass back to the car all sandy and what not. He just doesn't want to put money into it. That's all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 09:40 AM
6

She wants words of encouragement that just support what she is thinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 07:01 PM
13

Clearly he's cherry picking. Things like "go to war and die" is said in jest and he knows it, but he wants to be a drama queen and victim. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 06:36 PM
9

When I clicked on it, I thought the comments I saw saying "this is actually really cute" were from this sub and I was so confused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:34 PM
148

"he didn't forget my birthday, he just forgot it was that day" .... I think.... I think.....I think that means he forgot her birthday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 12:31 PM
7

This is so embarrassing. She supported him financially and he "supported her emotionally"..... Those aren't the same things. He should support her emotionally by default. That is bare fucking minimum effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 10:13 AM
14

It's always a tesla. He's always an "engineer" or in "tech". He always makes a vague "six-figures". It's always bullshit. The second you expect him to pull his own weight, put his money where his mouth is, all of a sudden you're the goldigging prostitute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 09:41 AM
5

Yes, a lot of people have personality disorders or other mental illnesses and it's not their fault they have then. It's very sad. But, it's NOT our jobs to love them and help them. Would you ever see a man doing this for his girlfriend? No. It's always women putting up with men who have illnesses and disorders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:57 AM
6

It's hard, I know. Two years is a long time and no one would blame you for hesitating and not wanting to end the relationship. However, he is hurting you. What he is doing is abusive. He's telling you that you need to change for him and spending time looking at other women then telling you he isn't. So he is also lying to your face. It won't end with you changing for him. He will find other things about you to target. This is who he is. You're not the problem. Your safety comes first. Do you liv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:18 AM
1

Not surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 03:50 AM
3

Men and women are not the same and sadly are not equals in virtually any society. It is not our responsibility to try to change that by spending more money or agreeing to have more sex we don't genuinely want in order to masculinize ourselves and, therefore, be more appealing to men. He should be asking you out, he should be planning the date, he should be paying. You're the prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 03:41 AM
7

I think this is great. Our brains make us remember our positive feelings more. This is helpful sometimes, but when you're trying to move on from someone, it just makes it harder. This is why I highly recommend keeping your old texts. Keep proof of everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:28 AM
159

The fact that they claim they are so hurt by this word is hilarious. Scrotes are men who are shit. If women calling shit men a name hurts your feelings, it's because you're shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:21 AM
79

"he was in an unhappy marriage and it was all the wife's fault since he lost his youth and all his fun and so he just couldn't help his poor peepee. She's not too young she's just too pregnant!!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:23 AM
66

This is what society does to women. We are supposed to be the crazy ones and they will say what they need to say in order to perpetuate that. We are bad people if we question him. We are bad people if we don't trust him. We are bad people if we go looking for proof. We are still bad people even when we catch him lying and cheating. They'll say if we are suspicious of him, we should just ask, cOmMuNiCaTe, and see what he says. Do they think he won't lie? Do they think he won't gaslight us? Fuck t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:18 AM
35

Stop. Anytime someone under the age of 28 is married, I get weirded out. So much personal growth and brain development happens in our 20's. I can't imagine having settled down back then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:35 AM
15

I've learned this sub is about any kind of thing as long as women are doing it because they really want to. I know this sub talks a lot about waiting 90 days before sex, but I also read plenty of comments saying go ahead and do it if you're safe and you don't expect anything from it. We just can't degrade ourselves anymore for males. They aren't worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:29 AM
15

Virtually all male celebrities date women significantly younger than them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:21 AM
6

I don't think it's unhealthy. I think it's completely normal and it will start to fade off with more time and experiences passing. So I would say let yourself have your thoughts and feelings. Don't beat yourself up over it. You had positive moments with him and that's great. Personally, I always like to have very special "me time". When the mood strikes, I prefer being completely alone at home, I play relaxing music, light candles, and just get into it. I mostly just think of myself and my body …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 05:41 PM
3

And when I said no and clearly stated the things I wasn't okay with, but he did it anyway. I didn't put up a fight because my fear of being an overreacting bitch outweighed my own self respect. I had been taught my whole life that women are too dramatic and emotional and they need to just "relax". "He already did it. It can't be taken back. May as well be cool about it. Don't start a fight. He said he doesn't like chubby girls anyway so I'm lucky to even be here. Guys don't really like girls lik…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 03:13 PM
4

Abusive piece of shit if this is at all real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 02:40 PM
6

Go on to any subreddit dominated by men and read through their lists of requirements. Dress accordingly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 10:59 AM
59

Oh, and if you say "pregnant women" or "girls on their period" you better believe the language police is there to correct you with "men can get pregnant toooooo boys can have periods toooooo". Just look at twitter. Women own nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 10:44 AM
8

Definitely change your locks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 11:46 AM
9

She has "cancer" and needs an "operation". Uh huh. Sure. Make believe little story from a scrote no real woman wants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 11:36 AM
68

I'm betting closer to 45.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 11:18 AM
141

Except women aren't the more picky ones. Men care way more about women's physical appearance and attributes than women care about men's. This whole sub talks about how women have been manipulated into having low standards for fuck's sake. We weren't picky, but we are getting there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:25 AM
5

It's because they can't be actual people with actual accomplishments. They idolize, obsess over, and purchase merchandise related to characters they wish they could be like instead of actually doing anything they have done like build muscle or finish college. It's passive entertainment. We all do it, but nerds virtually live there and their brains are sludge because of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 11:10 AM
8

Pickme 5,000.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 10:54 AM
13

Men hate women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 10:54 AM
54

The "pussy pass" thing always confused me. Like who do you think gave her the pass? Be mad at him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 10:17 AM
19

Yes, it's not that we don't care about actual male victims, it's that men try to downplay the issue of male on female violence or distract from it and we are fucking sick of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 06:37 AM
51

Totally agree. Men always like to pit small chested girls with bigger ones. So the writing in this just screams scrote fantasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:29 AM
8

I'm just thinking maybe the syphilis spread to her brain. Bless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:25 AM
41

Spontaneous and adventurous? Nothing adventurous about me driving over to your place to sit on your futon for 10 minutes before being asked to give you a blow job, Derek. Fuck off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:12 AM
-3

I know this situation is different, but imagine being pursued by a scrote who doesn't tell you he's married, or says he's separated, or that his wife is awful, or his wife "understands", he then love bombs you, lies about everything, then you get fucking sued for it. I'm sure some mistresses are horrible, but sometimes they're just women who need help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:31 AM
73

Men are not asked to be breadwinners. Women are asked to pay half the bills and do virtually all of the housework and childcare. Fight me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 06:12 AM
19

Yeah but then it's an errand 🤷‍♀️ I'm fine with either way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 05:58 AM
33

"Therapy is the privilege of the rich. Us normal people just have to live with our sorry ass selves." Omfg just sign up through your insurance or medicaid. It's free through medicaid. Or use an app like 7 cups. There are options out there for every budget. This dude is just making excuses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 03:01 AM
22

"Men think they own me? Men think they can get whatever they want out of me? I'll show them!!!! I'll spread my legs and show my p*ssy off because it's MINE and I can do what I want with it! I'm so fucking powerful!!" Oh, yeah girl you sure proved them wrong...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 04:16 AM
6

I was attracted to them because I genuinely didn't think I could have any better. Any time I'd question their intentions, I'd be called crazy and clingy. It's a fucked up mental thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 12:16 AM
15

They were either negging me into thinking I wasn't good enough and I actually felt lucky to be with them or they were future faking and making me think amazing things were about to happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 11:43 PM
114

That's actually really sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 10:16 PM
29

It literally doesn't happen and if women say it does, they're lying just to try to perpetuate the golddigger-girl stereotype. "My friend from college used to go out with guys just to get free alcohol and food, but I would never omg!" That kind of bullshit. It's all pickme bullshit. No woman would put any kind of effort into sitting around with some dude she has no interest in just to eat some food unless she was basically going hungry and had no money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 04:21 AM
43

I really just think it's basic manners for him to pay for the date if he's the one who asked for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 04:16 AM
5

And no dick could ever. They fucking wish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 10:09 PM
113

"I'm Drew. Figured I'd give this a try. I like music, having fun, having a good time, and eating good food." (Literally the most basic default list of almost-interests). They have three pictures all including friends or their car. They're here for friends/something casual/hang out/see what happens. They live 400 miles from you. Then they send you a message asking you what you like to do for fun despite your interests and hobbies being clearly listed in your profile. I'll never do online dating e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 10:57 PM
30

Literally one of the biggest go-to's from sexist pieces of shit is to make any form of a pro-woman/anti-misogyny comment into a racist one. I'm assuming it's because women and minorities are protected groups in the USA so, therefore in their minds, anything that is said about women needs to also include the other groups otherwise it's racist. "So if you're saying that if most rapes are committed by men against women and we should protect women, you're also saying most crimes are committed by bla…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 10:05 PM
2

"😋" No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 09:47 PM
8

He's not apologizing and he's blaming you for "bailing" when there was nothing to bail from..... I wouldn't bother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 09:44 PM
3

Good to know lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 09:30 PM
31

"I don't date overweight girls, but I'll take you out to be polite". Looking back, I'm like what the fuck do you think is happening here, Jeff? You asked for my number. You asked me out. If I'm too fat for you, what are you doing? It's not like I had been asking you and you were like "oh, ok I'll treat you to a movie just this once." This scrote was scrawny and short with a big bald patch. I was 21, 5'4" and 150 pounds with G cups. I cannot fucking believe I put up with that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 08:57 AM
15

That last one "must give me hugs and kisses everyday" Awwww. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 08:00 AM
25

Same. 32 and childfree by choice for many reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 02:16 AM
67

I won't care unless a plant sub bans me. Then I'll flip. My succulents are really important to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 04:40 AM
16

I'm legit you should be to Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 10:44 PM
9

You've got two piles of garbage. One has rat piss on it and the other doesn't. Which pile do you want to eat from? Neither. The answer is neither. This guy you're being nostalgic about is still garbage. Be grateful for whatever fun you had. Be more grateful it's over so you can carry on with life. It's a good thing he's not your friend. It would be a hundred times harder for you to move on if he kept you close.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 01:39 AM
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🤣 Like when I read the title I thought well I don't want them dead, but yeah, I do hate most of them for what they do to us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 01:20 AM
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Yes, I read someone describe it as an incel subreddit which is funny since I can get fucked without a problem but I don't want to get fucked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 01:15 AM
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I love the mods on here. I have yet to see a comment that really goes against the sub. 💙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 03:27 AM
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I think most hobbies are good to have and make you more "valuable". I'm not sure if I can think of a particular hobby that would make you more HV. I really believe anything that makes you happier and more fulfilled will add value to your life. For me, I just started on a small balcony garden, I collect and read vintage books, I've been learning French for a few years, and I've had a passion for ballet since I was seven. There are other things I do in my free time, but these are my major focuses …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 02:00 AM
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Oh my goodness. The comments from that post. All I'll say is that I'm proud to be part of FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:33 AM
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When I was in nursing school, a student brought up how some psych nurses are the worst to be around. It started a brief conversation about mental health professionals being drawn to their job because they themselves have mental health issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:59 PM
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Progressive men are only "progressive" when it comes to wanting to legalize prostitution and drugs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:53 PM
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Omfg. So YOU rejected him and then he sends you this bullshit???!!!? I fucking hate him. He sent all this to try to make himself feel better about getting rejected and of course he was hoping he could neg you into getting humped on for 30 seconds. Ugh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 03:15 AM
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I really don't know. I might be a work thing, it might not. I don't like the fact that he didn't call you to apologize and reschedule. Huge red flag. Don't reply to him. Wait to see if he puts in the effort to actually plan something else that also includes making up for this. That will be his second and final chance to take you out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:54 PM
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It all depends on how much effort he is putting in to courting you. Is he texting and calling enough? Is he planning the dates? Is he making them special? Is he paying for them since he's the one who asked you? There's a big difference between taking you on a fishing trip you thoroughly enjoy vs inviting you along on the fishing trip his cousins planned out where you have to bring all your own gear, find your own place to sleep, and he ends up spending the entire time talking to them and you're …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:34 PM
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To answer your question, no. A married man cannot be HV if he's flirting with other women. You have a crush on a guy at work. That's all this is. And he's married which makes it even more of a bummer and a waste of your time. It doesn't seem like he did anything other than be polite to you. Him "jumping" in his chair, looking you "up and down", and treating you with more courtesy than your male counterparts is your perception of what happened. Maybe you were only seeing what you wanted to see. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:03 AM
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She's probably talking about dating profiles too while he's talking about his neighbor's daughter's Instagram.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 09:11 PM
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I wish FDS existed when I was first starting to date in my early twenties. I literally allowed 3 guys I dated during this time to waste two whole years of my life. I look back and as much as I hate them, I am also very angry that I didn't have the self-esteem to delete and block them after the first sign of problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 05:08 PM
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He is repulsive. I'm sorry you were sent that message.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 05:03 PM
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Exactly! I would not be surprised if this guy, whoever he is, is grossed out by stretch marks and cellulite on women. But he thinks fat guys need even more validation and praise than they already get in other aspects of their lives. Cellulite is now considered a secondary sex characteristic of women. Our lumps and bumps are literally part of a female body. Virtually every woman has cellulite including those who are thin and athletic. Men, even the fat ones, don't really have it. So I have no clu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 10:41 PM
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This was my favorite episode of the whole show. They know that women have it the hardest on social media and life in general. The girls that males find the most attractive literally don't exist. How can we possibly live up to that standard?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 05:25 PM
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