Today I finally left my nvm bf :) after lurking FDS for so long i decided to put myself first and that my self worth is higher than i thought.

long story short, we had a plan to visit my family (i moved to his state after we began dating so i don't see my family often.) It was very important to me because my dad is slowly passing due to a worsening condition. My ex decided that he would tell me today, a DAY before we were supposed to drive out, that he isn't going because we need a "break". his reasons for this were that our sex life isnt "compatible" (meaning he doesn't respect i have a low sex drive), and that i can't respect his love language of "touch" (spoiler: he thinks the only way to touch someone is sexually 🤡). He also said he didn't think he was okay with my stance on not birthing children even though i'm open to adoption (this is due to infertility issues and the fact that my family has TERRIBLE genes i wouldn't want to pass on).

I put my foot down and said either we go or i fly by myself and buy a last minute ticket. If i had to go alone, i would not be coming back to him. He gave me a shitty excuse of "but i need a break" "my mental health". so i said goodbye and dropped his things off. I know i should have left sooner - but i now feel as if a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. Thank you fds 🥰