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Muh PENISradical__daphne/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 06:58 PM
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MESSAGE FROM MODERATORSradical__daphne/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 03:03 PM
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FDS HUMORradical__daphne/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 02:30 PM
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LEVEL UPradical__daphne/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 04:48 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFEradical__daphne/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 01:52 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYradical__daphne/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 01:20 AM
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LIES MEN TELLradical__daphne/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 07:22 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYradical__daphne/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 05:45 PM
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TRIGGER WARNINGradical__daphne/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 01:34 PM
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LEVEL UPradical__daphne/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 03:34 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYradical__daphne/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 08:18 PM
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🔥🔥FINE AF FRIDAYS🔥🔥radical__daphne/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 07:12 PM
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🔥🔥FINE AF FRIDAYS🔥🔥radical__daphne/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 07:09 PM
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MESSAGE FROM MODERATORSradical__daphne/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 08:57 PM
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MINDSET SHIFTradical__daphne/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 11:14 PM
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🔥🔥FINE AF FRIDAYS🔥🔥radical__daphne/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 01:16 AM
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MESSAGE FROM MODERATORSradical__daphne/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 04:15 PM
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🔥🔥FINE AF FRIDAYS🔥🔥radical__daphne/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 07:05 PM
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STAY WOKEradical__daphne/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 03:03 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYradical__daphne/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 05:36 PM
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🔥🔥FINE AF FRIDAYS🔥🔥radical__daphne/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 07:06 PM
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Hahha I love this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 03:50 PM
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He's the one asking for your time and consideration. He needs to pay. A man pays always. He's courting you. He's trying to get you. You are the one with tons to lose. You are the one taking risks. He's the one who has to prove himself to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 03:47 PM
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The boat thing was bait. He thought she would be all over him. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 03:43 PM
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Oh I meant dump him. Always have your own car/transportation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 03:41 PM
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This is a joke and a waste of your time. Texting isn't a relationship. Meeting in person once isn't a relationship. Living a thousand miles from each other isn't a relationship. Expecting you to just stay at his house is thoughtless. You aren't a dog he can just keep at his place. Plus he'll want sex. Infact that's probably all he wants. This is LOW EFFORT. Didn't even offer to pay for your flight the first time. "I like you so much that I'll do nothing for you but sling words and hope I get som…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 08:33 AM
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We can leave if his place is gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 08:28 AM
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Throw him back in the pond to mature. This isn't a match.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 05:12 AM
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What they're doing isn't even camping. Camping is sleeping in a tent on the ground and cooking all your food over the fire. They're real hot and bothered over something not too different from what you are doing. This is what you could tell them to piss them off. Or not... Probably best to ignore them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 03:21 PM
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She just got her self a nice wage and she's scrambling to give it away to some loser. He would get alimony if they got married and maybe even if they didn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 03:01 PM
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First of all coffee isn't a date and if you read the handbook you would know that. The first sign of disrespect was him proposing a coffee date. Way before the chest eyeing which could have been avoided.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 09:06 AM
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Have you read the handbook? No coffee dates Certainly no fast food dates No "walking around" No letting him pick you up (so now he knows where you live) so early on. Plus if you are alone in his car he can take you where ever he wants, rape you, k!ll you. What were you thinking? He took you to his house! You went in! You were surprised he just was trying to fuck you! That's where I stopped reading. Please read the handbook and be safe before some cheap creep from tinder rapes you in his shitty a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 09:05 AM
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He looks oddly proud of himself and she looks like a 1930s era dust bowl mother watching the topsoil blow away while her children starve. Apt. Apparently most of these guys get it from their porn and masturbation addiction so they should be ashamed since they literally scarred their dick because they can't control themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 04:37 PM
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I found this post and I read the comments. There must be a hundred people telling her she's the asshole. She's 6 months pregnant with no job and no money of her own, and I assume no car, and all she wants is to be driven around a little bit to get out. But she's the horrible asshole? She's the one creating his fucking child in her body with her bones and her blood, and she's the asshole? They were acting like she forced him to drive her around for her amusement at gunpoint. The absolutely hated …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 07:41 AM
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That's really sad her husband is such a loser that she has to work 10 hour days right up to giving birth. Does she think that might have something to do with having to have an emergency C-section? Also I got the impression this poor lady (the op) doesn't have a car. She's trapped. No job, no car, no money of course, an abusive husband who hates her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 03:56 AM
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6 inches used to be considered a normal dick. Now we need to accept 4 inches? Sorry, I can't feel your index finger sized dick in any way that's going to get me off. If you can't make me cum it's a total deal breaker. I'm not fucking you for charity. And I'm not a b!tch for not letting you use my body. Men seem to forget they have very little to offer and that being alone is way better than being a small-dicked loser's blow-up doll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 03:45 AM
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It makes me laugh every time. Minus dick size all they have to cry about is a bunch of women leaving their abusers and not accepting being used and short changed. "Women find self respect and we hate it" doesn't have the same appeal as an article.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 03:25 AM
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Dead eyes and the tiniest head on a man I've ever seen. Best looking poly abusive man I've ever seen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 10:38 PM
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He's so bitter about treating her that he can't even see the big picture. He probably expects her to pay and to benefit from her family money. Waste of time for this lady. I hope the people in the comments gas him up about taking a hard line on making her pay and she realizes how small and bitter he is and dumps him. Not paying for dates and not being pleased to do it is small dick energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 05:59 PM
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He's out of his depth. He needs to be dating a woman he can afford. Why is she swimming in the shallow end if she doesn't have to?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 05:51 PM
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I still get a kick out of this video every single time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 05:23 AM
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If you told a man to prove he's really mature and secure he should let a hotter younger taller buffer man with a bigger penis fuck his wife/girlfriend he would laugh in your face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 04:56 AM
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This really had me laughing... But in a very sad way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 04:53 AM
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I see this again and again now. It's like no one makes out anymore. People seem to go from date 2 kiss to full sex now. It's sad. Women keep ending up with men that are terrible in bed too. Make that boy work for it! He needs to pass all the steps and prove competence before sex is considered. It's like people have forgotten how to make out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 12:13 AM
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Size of dick + clit stimulation = orgasm Little dick + clit stimulation = getting sore and no orgasm Plus I don't find it hot to suck or fuck a dick that could be a child's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 12:08 AM
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This I expect to orgasm every time. Size matters very much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 12:05 AM
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Make out. Feel him up when you both are exploring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 12:01 AM
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The whole concept of date night was for the man to show his interest in the woman, his love for the woman, take her out, make her feel special, pay for everything, plan the night. It's supposed to be pay back for all the things she does for him all the time every day (small though it is in comparison). These pricks made it into more work for the woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 06:06 PM
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I guarantee men are going to use this for sex (rape). "But the coin says you have to fuck me, Jen."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 06:02 PM
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Yes. And some more points I thought of: I also think if he can't get off with his hand then he's probably a masturbation and porn addict who needs the extra pressure and stimulation just to orgasm. Which means he probably won't be able to orgasm during regular sex. I can orgasm just fine during regular sex and don't need assistance as long as I have a competent and present partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 06:00 PM
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Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 03:43 PM
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Would I date a gaslighter? No. Because that's what the examples you gave are. Ditch this ass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 03:37 PM
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Why do these men need a toy? They only need their hand to get off. I have a external vibrator because I need it to orgasm on my own. So I say no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 03:35 PM
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Yes they are. I've seen 3 attractive men this year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 01:20 AM
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I think that there is a part of them that is so selfish, so misogynistic and so competitive that they don't actually want their partner to enjoy sex with them. I have experienced this many times first hand with men getting angry at me enjoying and wanting sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 01:17 AM
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This is why "asexuality" is bullshit It's pushed on women. I can't recall even one male who "identified" as asexual. I had problems when I was young too. I'm sexual AF but was disgusted or just meh about guys I met. Because they were crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 01:10 AM
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We'll just get more followers. That's how most members found us. 😹💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 12:37 AM
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He's setting up to take the baby and give it to his mom or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 07:06 PM
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What about bath time? Play time? Nap time? Bedtime? I bet his wife is really happy breastfeeding and it's making him angry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 07:01 PM
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This guy is going to murder his wife and child. This is the worst one I have ever read. And that mother! Her and sonny boy need to just come out of the closet as a couple already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 07:00 PM
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I heard his little whine fest and he was clearly drunk when he gave it even though he claimed he had stopped drinking. He said respect was always the basis of their relationship and he talked about how much he cared about the kids. And yet he goes public for no reason to blame Jennifer Garner 1for his drinking problem, which is his own damn fault and choice, and I can't imagine how the kids feel right now. What a DICK! Plus he was already known to have a drinking problem when he was with Jennife…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 12:39 AM
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It's all about making different choices going forward! Good job!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 04:10 PM
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Harsh truth? Your friends are losers and you need new ones. You've outgrown them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 05:21 PM
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They also object to women speaking publicly amongst themselves about their standards and about men's tricks and abuses without being able to crash in and union bust, manipulate and gaslight us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 05:16 PM
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These are so cute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 09:02 PM
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She should have told him to promise he'll never lose his hair and his dick will always work like an 20 year old's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 04:40 PM
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I think the better question here is do you want to marry someone that you had to repeatedly ask, push and badger to marry you? Please post this to r/askFDS. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 02:17 PM
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This is ridiculous!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 02:05 PM
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Some loser got so angry at this post he made 22 identical comments crying about it. Just imagine if he put that sort of dedication into therapy or keeping his hands off his dick for long enough to develop a social life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 08:57 AM
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Please read the handbook in the about section. You've given way too much. This guy's a prick. So what he has insecurities? That means he gets to cheat on you? Guarantee if he's talking other women he's fucking other women. Why even go through this? Ditch this guy for your own sanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 06:46 AM
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They're just wild animals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:11 AM
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I'm throwing his trash out on the lawn with a free sign. He better notice in time to come and get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:37 AM
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Read the handbook in the about section and some of the recommended books too. Read FDS every day. Changing your mindset takes time and exposure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 10:06 PM
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Stop posting this type of post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 03:05 PM
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It's so ridiculous. Without it being a manipulation tactic men would never talk about their "love language". Especially before the first date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 08:17 AM
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Any man talking about his "love language" and his "depression" is a manipulator. You did the right thing. You deserve somebody who want bail on you last minute when you're visiting your sick parent! Scrote city.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 07:44 AM
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This cheap skate should be paying for everything when they all go to dinner. Loser. This lady is going to marry him and regret the hell out of it realizing her mother was right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 07:24 AM
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Went to the lake yesterday and even all the little boys and teen boys already had spare tires. What has happened??? When I was a kid there would be one like that in the whole class of kids or multiple classes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:02 PM
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You're right! Both of these guys have jaws for days. 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 07:54 PM
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Just a note: HSV-1 is oral herpes. Almost everybody has that virus. It's good that he told you though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 02:33 PM
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I would say work on building confidence and social skills. Listen to our lasted FDS podcast (Apple, Spotify, google, YouTube) because it has some great advice on how to meet people and socialize. Find some social activities. Practice flirting (podcast upcoming). Work on skills you love.
/r/askFDS02/07/21 04:58 AM
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Please post this to r/askFDS and then tag me so I can approve the post. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 01:55 AM
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Please post this to r/askFDS and then tag me so I can approve the post. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 01:50 AM
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Try r/pornfreewomen r/pornhateswomen Also post to r/askFDS and search that sub to for other posts. You aren't alone! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 01:39 AM
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Dump him and read the handbook in the about section.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 09:21 PM
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Please post this to r/askFDS. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 09:01 PM
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It's sick manipulation. Old pervs need to stay in their lane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 08:58 PM
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It's yours. He is not entitled to it back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 08:56 PM
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So what I get from this is men literally suck years of our lives from us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 06:02 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/o60ne2/level_up_for_your_daughters_sake_an_interesting/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share This one? Maybe?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 01:59 PM
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Spoiler, that girl doesn't love him. She probably sees him as a father figure. If he divorces his wife to get with her he's going to end up alone lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 01:32 PM
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Described my ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 01:17 PM
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This is the funniest thing I've read and quite a while! 🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 08:13 PM
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Thank you! He did not look like a soccer player.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 05:54 AM
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I would turn around and walk away. The level of disrespect necessary to show up to a date like that is off the charts. I'm not going to sit there and let him degrade me with his stank breath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 05:34 AM
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So it said "Aussie rules footy" which I thought meant football or soccer. But it means a type of football. Or maybe rugby?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 05:20 AM
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I wasn't sure. It said "Australian footy"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 05:15 AM
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That's what I thought. It said "Australian footy".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 05:14 AM
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Same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 01:52 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/lsp0ft/if_he_walks_faster_than_you_in_public_dump_him/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 02:37 AM
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She may be too selfless and put herself last, but a high value partner would see that and encourage her not to ignore her own needs and overextend herself. He would never just stand by and let her light herself on fire for him. He would never continue to take while she drowns. He would help her more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 09:07 PM
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Do you all remember the post about guys walking ahead of you and how that's a red flag. This here is another.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 09:00 PM
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Yay!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 06:17 PM
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Good on paper, on Netflix
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 04:31 PM
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This is such a great and informative comment! Would you mind making it a post?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 04:04 PM
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This question has been answered so I am going to remove it. In the future we have a sub for questions, r/askFDS. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 03:53 PM
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He was probably already seeing this girl when with you, or at least already had his sights on her. Or it could just be the next woman he met. Yes lvm do move on this quickly. They're not even looking for a real person they're looking for an object to place in the girlfriend box. These guys will use any woman for however much free labor they can get for as long as they can get it simply because they can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 03:31 PM
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This is just bullshit. He took you for a ride. Never let a man have girlfriend benefits without a relationship! I'm sorry. Men play women like this to publicly look like they can get a woman, to entice other women into dating them, to get the benefits of closeness, caring and a listening ear and sex too. Dump this guy. Actually since you aren't even in a relationship you could just block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 03:22 PM
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Crazy story. Fds would have saved her from this. He knew exactly how to play on her sympathies to get her to let things slide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 03:16 PM
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So the guy with five daughters is admitting he's a rapist and a predator?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 08:39 AM
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I guarantee it wasn't before he met you. That lady was low-key letting you know what was up. Ghost him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 07:00 AM
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Yeah it's a manipulation tactic. This tells you three things about him. Other women don't want him, he's manipulative, and he also has zero awareness of how he's coming off. 🚩🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 06:53 AM
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It's less than one percent. And interestingly the numbers are the same when it comes to domestic violence too. Apparently this scrote thinks that's "power to ruin men's lives".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 06:40 AM
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Watch out for scrotes whose daddy is a lawyer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 02:27 AM
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Bad ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 01:45 AM
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Save and channel the anger. I feel very affronted that they would dare to act that way with me. I use that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 01:45 AM
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It's important to cultivate the energy though. Like you are a wild animal and you will lunge for his artery and rip his neck open and bleed him to death. It works. I've actually never had a man hit me. I vary my strategies by their posturing and how they carry themselves. I might seem to be nice and then exit to the bathroom or "oh my friend is across the way I have to go." Or I might schmooze him for a little while and then feign I have to go to the bathroom and not come back. But if the man ge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 12:55 AM
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Like someone else in the comments said, it's about the look in their eyes and the way they carry themselves. I can't explain it beyond that. There's certain men you can tell they'll just beat someone, but there are other men who just want to talk big to get control or attention. The second group is most of these men. Also I only challenge them in public and I simply make sure I'm never alone with a man in private. Honestly my first line of defense would have been being nice. I would have smiled …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 12:34 AM
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Anger is useful and powerful. I've got up in many men's faces when they fucked with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 12:13 AM
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Fuck yeah! Most of the time these guys are just full of piss and hot air. I figure if someone's telling you how they're going to beat you up they're not doing it are they? If someone's going to beat you they're just going to beat you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 12:10 AM
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You bring up an interesting point, about women thinking it will make them safer. That's very typical of people who are in a position of being abused and threatened with assault. Of course in reality they've proven that porn makes men more likely to rape and using prostitution makes men more likely to rape. The sort of men who engage in those activities are more likely to rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 03:56 PM
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"women's sexual liberation takes place in a literal cage" Truer words were never spoken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 03:52 PM
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This is an absolutely wonderful post! Thank you so much for writing it. We always need a good reminder that we are in control. This is exactly what fds teaches! Edit: there is already a scrote crying in the comments 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 03:40 PM
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We don't advise wasting time on misogynists. Or trying to win arguments with them. The problem isn't logical, the problem is that they hate women. Don't waste your mental and emotional time on jerks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 03:25 PM
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Please post this to r/askFDS. And read the other responses to similar questions. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 03:23 PM
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Either way this guy is a dick. But yes he is negging you. Block and delete. Don't forget to read the handbook. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 03:22 PM
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Anyone ever does this to you turn around and walk away immediately and block their number. Essentially they're just looking at you and saying "I don't care about you and I don't even like you. I'm not going to listen to anything you have to say and I don't give a shit that I hurt you. You're barely human to me." The only response to that is just turning around and walking away like the person ceased to exist before your eyes and you forgot them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 08:07 AM
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I'm don't know you but I am so proud of you!! You are so strong! ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 01:16 AM
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Great info. I didn't know that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 10:45 PM
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Also check out our sub r/femalelevelupstrategy. Financial matters are discussed often there. You might also ask this question there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 07:46 PM
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This whole thing is a mess. Best to cut your losses, level up and find someone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 07:41 PM
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If you are unable to get thyroid medications from a doctor, and you suspect you have low thyroid, you might try taking iodine. Get your iodine tested if you can. It helps the thyroid function better. Lots of people have low iodine because it is at a very low level in our food due to synthetic fertilizer use and overuse of soil without letting it lie follow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 06:34 PM
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What I see come up on the sub as the answer is that LVM, especially if they are abusive, become like a drug. The women have to go through a detox period in order to break away. So the most effective strategies I've seen shared is to give them a copy of why does he do that? by Lundy Bancroft. There are several other fantastic books recommended in the handbook and wiki. They often also need therapy, they need to build their self-esteem, and they need to build a life outside of men, that they love!…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 06:29 PM
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Yes. Block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 05:49 PM
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This sounds almost exactly like some of the posts we get in the mod queue 🤣 They especially go in for the overuse of emojis. Women ≠ dumb child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 03:43 PM
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The gym triggers them because most of these scrotes go to the gym to stare at and bother women (even film them). Which they feel is there right as a man. Exactly why women need women only gyms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 03:40 PM
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The first part of my answer is that it's healthy to be afraid of men. Very healthy. The second part of my answer is it's not healthy to the point of being totally isolated for men and not dating. I think the way you get over anything is exposure. Stay in places where you are comfortable in public and try to meet men. Maybe it would help if it wasn't a direct dating situation? Like taking classes (language cooking photography etc), dance classes, joining a coed sports team, a tennis or running gr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 09:15 AM
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For the future, it doesn't delete it. It goes to the mod queue where we have to review it and approve it manually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 09:12 AM
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Please post this to r/askFDS. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 08:32 AM
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Good job!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 01:59 AM
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Absolutely not. With the wage gap he should make at least 25% more than I do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 01:44 AM
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"if you don't have an anaconda, my pussy don't want none, Bum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 08:58 PM
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"Unpopular Opinion: women need to shut up and have no boundaries" So fresh, so new. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 02:29 PM
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Title: "Unpopular opinion: big is beautiful"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 02:00 PM
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A few ladies have dome that and reported the guys LOST THEIR MINDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 01:08 PM
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I hate the oral can make up for it comments. No it fucking can't. You think a man would ever settle for that? It's so easy to get oral and a big dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 01:06 PM
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One of us needs to make a throwaway account and start talking about "I'm a length and girth girl. How about all you ladies in the comments?" Post to unpopular opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 01:04 PM
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Exactly this! You need hope to find good things. Being negative and off-putting is not going to attract you somebody who's positive mature and giving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 05:22 PM
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28 is too old to even speak to when you are 22.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:37 PM
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Fds is moving away from posting stories like this. Red pill and incel outrage posting has been eliminated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:32 PM
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Sometimes I just fantasize. You own the guy, what would you want from him what would you ask from him? What do you really need. There's basics like a man who can cook and keeps his space clean and has good hygiene treats you with respect. Beyond that there are qualities like, for me specifically, I would really like someone who would want to help me with my physical pain and would look up videos on how to do massage like for my neck pain back pain leg pain. I want someone who's like me socially.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:40 AM
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This made me laugh out loud!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:31 AM
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"Me me and also lets me get away with everything nicely (kind), intelligent (agrees with everything I think and say), and curious (about the things I'm interested in and have to say)." "Fuck me, suck me, cook for me, clean for me, listen to me, support me, build me. You? Who's that?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:30 AM
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The absolute desperation. Men have nothing but the audacity. SMH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:27 AM
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This looks absolutely fantastic. I don't have HBO so I'm going to try to download it off the internet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:24 AM
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Oh that's not what I meant. I meant stay really high on your toes for the first year at least. Let him know you're hard to get and you have other options and other interests. Leave whenever it is that he drops the ball or you're not happy or you're tired of the relationship. Long term I think you always have to keep that element in the relationship. Like we always talk about having your own life your own friends your own interests be busy go out and do things. Don't always be available. Don't cl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:16 AM
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I agree. The man should keep your attention. If your attention is wondering that's because he's not doing his job. If he's not careful I might just wander off... Have a short attention span (the first year?). Afterwards always be ready to walk if he screws up or you just aren't into it anymore (he's rude, low effort, cheats, the sex nosedives, etc)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 10:50 PM
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She is so stupid. This is exactly how you get played for years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 10:48 PM
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All of this is a hell no. He's too old to be chasing after women in their twenties. He's too old to be going after 18-year-olds. And a non-exclusive break with your boyfriend? So it's a fuck break for him? No no no. Check out the handbook, I think you'll find lots of interesting reading!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 10:08 PM
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Give it like one year. One year of effort. I guarantee you will be in a much better place. Life is very long and you have lots and lots and lots of time. An abundance of time. Let yourself grieve and feel whatever you need to feel. I still feel like that sometimes. I try to just tell myself to set it down and do something else or think about something else. Try following your passion and what makes you happy and makes you feel alive. No growth comes without pain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 10:06 PM
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Women are LIFE itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 10:03 PM
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This is an amazing idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 04:31 PM
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Could you repost without the screen caps of the men's negative, bitter comments? The title and the picture of the food are great. We're trying to be positive. Those men don't matter! Thank you. Tag me when you do and I'll approve it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 04:22 PM
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I love to see this! You have made fantastic progress!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 04:17 PM
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That's how they hate on outspoken women, especially if you have your chat and DMs turned off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 12:55 AM
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So he used her sexually and this other dude's laughing about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 12:55 AM
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Where is the rest of it? I'm going to go look.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 11:24 PM
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Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 10:44 PM
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Yay! She dumped him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 10:42 PM
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Imagine having sex with a man who gave you macaroni art 😂 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 10:38 PM
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You know who else makes macaroni art for the important woman in their life? Little 5-year-old boys in their kindergarten class doing mother's day projects. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 10:26 PM
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Please search the sub, and also r/askFDS and r/femalelevelupstrategy. This gets asked a lot. You can also post to r/askFDS. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 10:24 PM
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Please post this to r/askFDS. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 10:22 PM
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I've never felt more "empowered" than when I said no. Give yourself more time. And then more. Don't force sex ever, that will only make it worse. I think all you can really do at this point is accept that this is where you are right now and just accept that for a period of time, like another six months or year. Give yourself a "pass" for lack of a better word until that timeframe is up. Then add more time to it. That will make it feel less endless and hopefully allow you to be more understanding…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 10:01 PM
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Please post this to r/askFDS. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:46 PM
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Please post this to r/askFDS or r/femalelevelupstrategy. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:42 PM
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Please post questions to r/askFDS. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:36 PM
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Sad: this person is making me miserable and sucks. Anxious: he keeps putting my down and causing needless drama. I should dump him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 08:35 PM
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wHy wOn"T WoMeN aPpRoAcH uS?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 05:41 PM
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What a big improvement over the first guy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 05:22 PM
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Please post this to r/askFDS. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:59 PM
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This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:47 PM
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I endorse this rant on the stupidity that is "love languages"! Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:45 PM
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Men will take you out, pay for everything, compliment you, and do all this over and over and over again without you ever having to even touch them or kiss them or sleep with them. They do it just to be near a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 03:19 PM
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Oh my god I learned!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 04:18 PM
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I love how men set up a system where it's legal for their husbands to beat their wives, rape them, and abuse them and then they have the nerve to shout about not taking the law into your own hands when you kill the guy so you can live. One very little known fact is that when divorce was legalized the amount of men being murdered by their wives dropped drastically. But in all the years of activism the rate of men killing their wives and girlfriends has only dropped very slightly. Beating and abus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:43 PM
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One time my ex-boyfriend's parents invited him and I out to dinner and then at the end his mother wanted me to pay! I was a college student with no money and it was a nice restaurant. The worst part is I had repeatedly asked my boyfriend if I should bring money and was I going to be expected to pay and he kept assuring me of course not. So like a dummy I don't go to the bank and get extra cash to plan for it. It was rude and embarrassing. And surprise! His mom was a dick in almost every way. I w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:20 PM
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Good for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:18 PM
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Imagine him doing this to women on birthdays or Valentine's day! If he's not going to pay for a dinner at a nice restaurant for date 3 just imagine how far he'll fall once in a relationship!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:18 PM
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It was blunt. Lol! But it was needed. I used to be you. So now when I see someone else doing this I'm like oh hell no! When I started going down the same path is you it helped me a lot to remind myself repeatedly that his behavior was very nice and it's a good sign but he needs to do so much more and also be consistent. I had to actively try to be less romantic. It also helped me, and I don't know if this is something that you're dealing with, to realize that I have a right to test him and also …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:12 PM
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Ugh. No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:00 PM
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You caught feelings for him before the third date? No Also I can't believe he made you drive an hour to him and then he made you pay for your own food after inviting you out to make you think he was going to pay. And of course it was an expensive restaurant! How romantic of him! He's trash Next time don't jump the gun on how wonderful some guy is when you've only gone on two dates. Work on holding back more and remembering lessons like this. Men can go months or years and act like they're wonder…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 12:17 PM
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NOPE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:58 AM
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Oh my god can't this child feed himself or sleep in his car like a responsible adult? Looser I would have done exactly this and then I would have kicked anyone who told me I was cruel out of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:35 AM
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The clothing and the starvation really highlight the pickme qualities without even turning on the volume
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 05:42 AM
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...maybe. But this post was infested with pickmes acting like they were better than women who care about height.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 12:25 AM
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Yes. And for me personally, I've decided height is important. I don't really want to date someone under 5'10. Especially if I was looking for someone to start a family with. I'm not going to do my children like that! Just like I will only reproduce with an at least moderately attractive man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 06:13 PM
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How is this relevant to women having their own personal preferences for who they want to date and potentially marry and have children with?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:29 PM
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You are an fds newbie, not a mod. How would you know? We're allowed to have our preferences here. End of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:26 PM
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Wow you're so much better than every other woman! 👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:23 PM
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Just because someone doesn't want to date a guy who's 5'10 or shorter doesn't mean character isn't important to her. We can actually have multiple standards at once!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:22 PM
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"You're just as bad as men for not dating anyone who wants to date you with no preferences! How dare you be so shallow." I only date men I'm interested in fucking. Does that mean I'm shallow?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:20 PM
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Then you can date the shorties and have short children. 😂 I'm not sure why you think women have to be "nice" in dating by not being allowed to have preferences. We aren't equal opportunity community pussy. We are allowed to be as picky as we want when picking our one partner out of billions of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:17 PM
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Any guy that mentions his dick after only a few interactions is an LVM. He shouldn't even be talking about his dick until you are having sex, and then discussion should always be respectful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:06 PM
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These type of men want to put their dick in you regardless of whether you want it. They want you to have no power. The woman is asserting her power and her rights by saying no. This enrages them. They are saying: you are not allowed to be a human being. You are only allowed to exist in the way I chose to do what I want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:03 PM
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The truth is that LVM get off on doing this shit to women. No one is more passive aggressive than a LVM asked to do any housework or errands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 03:57 PM
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It is first thing in the morning and I'm already exhausted just from watching the first 15 seconds of that video. Kill me if I ever!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 03:54 PM
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This is exactly the correct response because it gives them nothing. They get nothing to feed off of. Not even your outrage. You're telling them that they matter so little in the world that you don't care at all. You're in charge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 03:52 PM
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Yeah that would probably be best. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 03:50 PM
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"crazy bitch! It was just a request."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 03:49 PM
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Here is the secret, he doesn't want kids and marriage. He said that to get vulnerable women and trick them. I think you probably see you from all of this yhat there is no point talking to these men like they are human and they respect you because they don't. Don't bother in the future. Block and delete. He made it very clear he didn't care one bit about you or your feelings. He is also fine with being manipulative as long as it means he can get what he wants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 03:46 PM
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Please block out people's user names next time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 03:37 PM
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Hahha true! Walk like you own it and you will. (But don't forget power structures like police and actions like rape)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 02:43 PM
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First paragraph is right on. The second paragraph is red pill gobbledygook! "the only thing working against him is if the woman can sense he's not a natural alpha". Haven't they heard the mid-range guys, not alpha or zeta, are the ones that actually get the ladies (lady apes that is anyway). These men's whole being seems to revolve around their dick and getting sex with a women. It's hilarious. Don't give it to them! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 02:40 PM
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This!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 05:21 AM
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Yeah! 23!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:55 AM
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I know. Me too! Finding this sub was a lifesaver.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:03 AM
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Yeah all of the rapes, stalking and sexual harassment have been fantastic! And the trash wages and job opportunities!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 03:54 AM
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Thanks for the answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 03:49 AM
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Can I ask what meds? I'm not aware of anything much beyond antidepressants unfortunately. I didn't get any treatment for 2 years. The delay was really bad for my mental health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 03:27 AM
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My guess is he's going through a 12-step program. Sick fuck. Of course he won't admit what he did to you in writing because you could take that to the cops. Not that the cops would do anything about it but he probably thinks they would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 02:53 AM
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Ding ding ding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 02:44 AM
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She told him to stop and that he was hurting her. That absolutely is real rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 02:23 AM
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"how DARE you not service me sexually for the 30$ I spent on you, you bitch!" Good on you for not even responding. Also, you "teased him" by accepting a date? Asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 01:58 AM
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Yeah. That's a good one. If a guy ever brings it up with me I'll turn it around on him using that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 01:49 AM
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Men really think they're amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 01:42 AM
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it's the term men came up with for what they used to call rape play, and what they still call it amongst themselves, I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 01:36 AM
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Who said that? Can you send me their way. We have a zero tolerance policy for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 01:34 AM
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Him: "hey baby, I want to rape you. That's sexy right?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 01:32 AM
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Men wouldn't think this was fun at all if it was their ass we were talking about. That fact shows reality for what it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 01:30 AM
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It takes a lot of manipulation for a woman to be okay with a man who wants to rape her and not see the writing on the wall. Society hates women so much. Who could imagine a man who wants to rape her actually raped her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 01:29 AM
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This and all the other abuse is why I'm anti dating for teen girls, especially for any girl under 15 or 16 years old. Too many men abuse and rape their first girlfriends. The worst stories of abuse I always hear are girls who got paired up at 13 or 14 with a guy, usually older, who abuses, rapes and grooms them for years. They never developed the ability to be independent and it makes it almost impossible for them to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:33 PM
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Lovely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:30 PM
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Don't talk to me at all. I don't want your "nice" comments about my body either. I don't need to know what gives you a pants tent, jerk. About the "you look lovely" comment. BTW I have never gotten nice compliments from men like these, only the nasty ones. Lol way to be fake. Why do they feel they can just bother us at all? Like we're just free to be bothered? Our time is not our own? It's presumptuous. Until men start telling random men they have nice hair and clothing I don't want to hear it. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:29 PM
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We do it all the time, we just don't usually announce it. This person just particularly annoyed me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 01:33 PM
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Don't forget the fit perfect body too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 06:09 AM
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Wait she has to do all this and also make all her own money to pay for all her own stuff? Lol What does he think he's offering here? A great opportunity to be a servant and work?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 06:07 AM
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Haha you named it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 12:58 AM
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Dear God!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 10:44 PM
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I had one friend who pretended to be so tough and independent and feminist. She settled for guy she had known for 3 months who never made her orgasm. Also told me it was my fault when men harassed and groped me. I don't think she had any other female friends and now I know why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 10:41 PM
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Lol "of what? Your lack of integrity?" Perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 10:39 PM
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18 month without a proposal. That completely supports our stance that a proposal needs to be made between 1 year and 1.5 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 10:22 PM
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I would have yeeted his ass by 1 month
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 10:21 PM
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Three-day ban. Read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 10:14 PM
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I love all the things he clearly left out of his story. I'm fully convinced he called her stupid. And clearly there is more since she said she's not interested in marrying someone who refuses to compromise and thinks his word is law. She is so smart for getting out now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 08:20 PM
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I'm glad to hear that. You can always consider this again in two more months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 08:08 PM
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Absolutely not. A gentleman just wouldn't do this. You've only been on four dates. Besides everything else, this is very dangerous. I once dated a guy for 3 weeks who was the friend of a friend and I got the assurance from her that he was great. I didn't realize he was a freak until we went on a trip together. He had major road rage issues and almost got us killed in my car. He refused to stop when I told him to and wouldn't allow me to drive. I was trapped for 10 hours. Then he dumped me when w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 07:34 PM
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Just a note. If anyone else has ever used the toy then yeah you need to use a condom on the toy even if it's been washed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 06:40 PM
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She needs to develop some fucking boundaries! "Could you use a condom?" No. It's "What do you think you're doing? We need to discuss this. It seems you don't use condoms and that's unacceptable. I am not going to have sex with you." And the lack of foreplay. No. You should stop him and say "I don't have sex without adequate foreplay and until I'm aroused and lubricated. If that's too difficult for you then you're not the partner for me. Don't you want to impress me our first time having sex? It'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 06:35 PM
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Haha good for you! Don't settle for words though, make sure that he follows up with actions!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 04:56 PM
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Barf! How does that old fart think he's in any position to be even more demanding? Get out of here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 04:54 PM
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Oh my GOD he's awful! Bullet dodged!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 03:00 PM
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He's too fucking old. He's just looking for the youngest pussy he can manage. Men looking for real relationships are looking in their own age range, usually within 2 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:29 PM
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This is very typical of this type of man and also wokebros (liberal men who pretend to be ultra woke but are still nasty misogynists). They turn things around on women especially using feminist language to try to get women to have casual sex, expose their bodies, take needless sexual risks... anything that sexually a man. Anything that serves a man. I've seen "not showing me your breasts / sending me nudes is anti-feminist because it means you're not comfortable with your body. Feminists are sup…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:28 PM
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My advice? Get angry. Get angry at the way he played you. Get angry at the fact that he did it in front of your coworkers. Get angry at the fact that he doesn't speak to you outside of work. Get angry at the fact that after he did all this he then played dumb and gave the most pathetic excuse ever "I don't remember". Unless he has brain damage, he remembers. What a lazy, spineless asshole! Get angry that he thinks you're stupid enough and have so little self-respect that you'll accept that bulls…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:24 PM
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Yes. We are pro getting getting the information you deserve about your partner or potential partner. We are also pro protecting yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:20 PM
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I know how you feel. I'm the only one who helps my mother too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:18 PM
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He got you. He just wanted to see that he could have you come running when he snaps his fingers. Men love to keep a group of ex-girlfriends and ex-flames on the hook to boost their ego whenever they feel like it. He's using you. He's manipulating you. This is why we say to block and delete immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:16 PM
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He knows what the girls want!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:10 PM
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Never let a man speak to you like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:02 PM
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Pigs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 01:57 PM
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He did this because he's resentful that she can't perform for him and do everything the way she used to. Another negative value man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 01:56 PM
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No one with taste buds eats at Applebee's. Also their calorie counts on their meals are absurd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 04:04 AM
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This is the only response! 💥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 12:39 AM
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To the trash!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 11:24 PM
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What the fuck?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 10:37 PM
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It is so amazingly rude and selfish to do this to somebody. They aren't your dog you can just call back whenever you want and walk back into their lives and mess it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 06:15 PM
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That comeback! I knew a guy who had a bunch of child abuse in his history and went to therapy for years, but instead of talking about the child abuse, all he did was whine about how women wouldn't fuck him for one hour every week for four years to, of course, a female therapist. That poor woman!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 12:24 AM
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Just thiking of my past... Men who have told me they can cook in the past: one guy who could only make scrambled eggs, and supposedly paella which I never experienced despite dating for two years. And another guy who made a hot bread roll sandwich. Men, that doesn't fucking count.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 12:22 AM
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Oh man, if she had FDS she would have left after 15 minutes. Probably 10, and blocked his number on the way out of wherever they were supposed to meet never to speak of him again. This is the sort of shit fds will save you from. Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 12:17 AM
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I should have read this when I already had to pee because I honestly almost peed myself laughing One minute wonders 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 12:13 AM
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I love this old stuff!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 12:12 AM
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You named it. The self-pity. Another example about this guy, he was in therapy for years but refused to actually work on anything. He used his therapy as a place to bitch about all the women who didn't want to fuck him. I can only imagine what the therapist thought of him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 10:51 PM
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Oh my god! What a twist. You are a hero for her and her kids!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 05:37 PM
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It doesn't matter if you agreed after he pushed you. On top of all of that, you were also drunk. It's rape for multiple reasons. I know what you're saying though. I struggled with the same issues after I was raped. My second rape was easier to understand as rape because he used direct physical force.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 04:54 PM
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He was. I dumped him eventually as a friend, wish I could say I did it sooner but I didn't, and when I did I sent him a list of reasons why. Later I checked his blog and he was pretending he had no idea why I stopped talking to him! Poor innocent baby. Boo hoo! This is why you don't bother telling a guy why you are dumping him. As a friend or boyfriend who has been abusive or manipulative, it literally makes no difference. I also thought he was safe because he was sort of a sad sack Eeyore spine…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 04:51 PM
1

These women are such a joke. A woman wants a normal or large size penis so she can feel it and enjoy herself. So another woman comes along and says 'obviously you just have a large floppy vagina' misogynistic bs. All right hun, enjoy your 4 and 5 inchers, I'll take the real dicks! 😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 02:57 PM
11

I reported and this is the truth. The police had a greater hand in my developing PTSD than the rape did. You really are reporting your rape to rapists. They often abuse and bully or stalk the victim while doing nothing to the perpetrator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 02:15 PM
18

Saying no even once makes it rape. Speaking from my experience of rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 02:13 PM
172

Yes. Cut him out. These guys only get worse and sometimes get dangerous. I was friends with guy for eight years and he always pined after me. Never pushy at all. Still it was a red flag and I ignored it. I was raped by somebody else that I was dating and while I was breaking down from the trauma over months I ended up having a few drinks with my "friend" and he took advantage of me. Don't trust men who run after you for years. Particularly if you have repeatedly told them you're not interested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 02:03 PM
53

Male LoGiC on display
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 08:17 AM
28

Considering he can't wipe his ass... I'm doubtful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 07:59 AM
61

I think you underestimate in pathology of the average straight man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 05:32 AM
35

I'm going to sidestep a bunch of the issues here and just ask why she's washing a grown man's underwear like he's a two year old child?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 05:32 AM
27

Wow. Comic gold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 05:07 AM
21

💥🥳👏👏👏 great work babe! Keep going! This is just the beginning! Anger is good. It saves us from all the shit we shouldn't take. P.S. don't ever reply. Block and delete his number. Keep that list to remind you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 05:04 AM
41

Go no makeup and meet men that way. They will still want you. Then you'll know he likes how you look.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 04:54 AM
27

Hahha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 04:51 AM
9

Yikes! I can't imagine one doing this, but to publicly advertise it on your Facebook page attached with your real name and face and everyone you know? Next level hell no!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 04:49 AM
6

I try to explain that to them and they just don't get it. It's like they have no conception of their body as their own regardless of any other factors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 04:43 AM
7

I know! I could have done it for anyone of my girl friends and they would have loved it and been totally flattered. What a waste! I could have had a girl picnic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 04:40 AM
16

I feel you. Once I made a romantic picnic in a really beautiful park right by the creek with all these really nice cheeses that I got at a fancy grocery store. I had fruit, wine and cured meats too. The guy didn't care at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 01:30 AM
16

Oh my god I love that as a date idea!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 01:06 AM
15

This guy is just trolling her. Don't feed the trolls! Just because a man speaks to you does it mean he deserves a response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 10:23 PM
85

"Do I get to own your body for the price of a cheap dinner?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 10:20 PM
64

Usually the woman's lying there because he badgered her into it. Because he's a rapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 10:16 PM
11

That's absolutely the way to treat guys like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 05:34 PM
11

😳😧
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 05:33 PM
58

Oh my god I've heard of so many horror stories where the woman will lure the other woman back to her home where her boyfriend or husband is waiting to surprise her. I've heard of rapes and attempted rapes happening that way. One person I knew had to pull a knife on the guy to escape! Another reason to be very weary of the pickmes because it's not uncommon for them to try to line up women for their boyfriend or husband to assault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 04:36 PM
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The cognitive dissonance where he calls her a "fuck buddy", which is a gross and degrading term that I wish had never been invented, but then says they're in a "relationship" and they talk every day. Which is it, buddy? She's giving him girlfriend benefits and he's getting ideas while giving her nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:39 PM
48

I agree. You shouldn't be in a shity relationship in your twenties, you shouldn't be sacrificing your future and your happiness and your health and your education for a guy when you're 22. That guy is not going to be around in 5 years. But you'll still be with yourself cleaning up your shity choices!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:35 PM
17

It's such a sham. With all the money and time we spend on clothing and makeup for a date and then we have to wade through these guys and most of them are idiots and trash... They should pay us to go on dates!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 02:03 PM
11

Upthread somebody said that he was a male PUA coach before he found pickmes. Spot on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 01:58 PM
28

Sadly this is one of the chief arguments I see come out of libfem and pickme's mouth about why they should pay half. "If he pays for the date then he thinks I owe him sex and he bought me!" And? So what? Hun, that don't mean shit. He can think and feel whatever he wants, it stops at your body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 01:56 PM
19

That makes sense with his rapist mentality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 01:52 PM
19

Rapist. Man pays and I still have the right to not be raped by him. Nasty scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 01:50 PM
45

Of course he got mad at her later because she "made" him act against the patriarchy. Men almost always turn around and get mad at you for doing right by you against sexism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 01:41 PM
33

This selfish worthless POS dumping her would be the best thing to ever happen to her. Sometimes you don't get what you want, but you get what you need. Reminder: if a guy doesn't make you cum he doesn't love you. He doesn't even like you. And he sure as shit doesn't respect you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 01:19 PM
27

From my experience they're always so shocked that a woman stood up to them they just stand there. And if they're the one to scream something insulting and nasty at you in public when you didn't do anything that anyone else saw they're just going to look like the freak. If you just stay cool they look like the asshole. That's all you gotta do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 04:34 AM
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I turn around and walk away while they're still talking while showing zero emotion. It lets them know exactly where we stand without any bullshit. Treat these guys like the scum they are. Another good thing to say to them is the anti-rape slogan "no means no" and then stare them down so they know you know what they are. They really hate that one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:54 AM
4

Stupid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 01:11 AM
27

That wasn't one of our official subs yeah it looks like it was immediately banned even though it's neither violence nor a ban evading sub. I guess reddit's new policy is women aren't allowed to speak at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 06:00 PM
2

Whick sub?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 05:20 PM
10

I just checked all of our side subs and none of them are banned or private
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 05:14 PM
29

Lvw raise lvm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 04:48 PM
26

Oh my God! Or even worse, when he comes to spend the night pull back your sheets and blankets to reveal menstrual blood stains all over your sheets. Then when he won't climb in the bed tell him he's stuck up! I'm just laughing so hard right now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 03:53 PM
52

Just bleed freely on the dining room chair cushions and then tell him you're not "stuck up" (that's what his mom said about farting at the dinner table according to a comment from OP) like him when he freaks out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 03:36 PM
42

Imagine your definition of "stuck-up" being not farting at the dinner table. 💩💩💩💩 Glad you're free!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 03:34 PM
7

What a clown. I'm sorry. Holy shit. She's really going to accept this????? This is absurd. Also what is men's obsession with rooting around in their own filth? From not washing themselves, their bath towels, their sheets, their clothes etc.? Wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 03:20 PM
48

Oh 🤢🤮 You need different men in your life. I have never dated or been friends with a man who would ever do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 02:51 PM
99

Ewwwwww! Farting openly while eating? So nasty and disrespectful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 02:41 PM
29

Make a list of all the shit he did to you and read it every single time you miss him or want him back. Also consider telling someone everything he did to you, like your mom or best friend. Personally, when I was in situations with men that were bad, I would hide this type of treatment from those close to me because their reaction would rip off the mask. It would make me see it for what it is and usually make me feel embarrassed, which helped me leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 02:13 PM
69

Oh my god and she's pregnant. Another 30 year old abuser getting with a very young woman and controlling her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 02:08 PM
13

Chris Rock is an idiot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 02:04 PM
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There are two types of lvm: the kind that doesn't want to hear about your rape because it doesn't get his pee-pee hard, and the kind that does want to hear about your rape because it gets his pee-pee hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 12:24 AM
19

I would say that he knows you're above him so he's negging you. He also feels insecure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 12:19 AM
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Being nice won't get us anywhere. Allowing men to speak here will just get us a sub like every other where they speak over us. And we're not making fun of pickmes, were pointing out how ridiculous, misguided, and yes, pathetic their actions are. We were all raised to be the same. Don't post this again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 12:07 AM
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No. Do not delete your accounts. We don't know what will happen yet. We might very well be just fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 07:58 PM
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That's why you should always get a look at his driver's license. One guy I knew was lying about his age and I snatched his driver's license right out of his hand when he was handing it over to be id'd. He was like 49 pretending he was 30. Freaks. Sorry he did that to you. ❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:12 PM
5

16 year old girls mostly already don't have enough standards because they don't have the awareness and education and life experience to have them. And society gaslights them out of all of their standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:10 PM
18

Pornfreerelationships is just private. It'll probably be back soon. If you know a mod you can message them and get approval and still see the sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:53 AM
19

I mean the ones that weren't banned are all private now. GC is gone, as are several others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:52 AM
37

r/pornfreerelationships got banned? Edit: It's just private. The subs left all went private.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:17 AM
5

Now that's a good idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:14 AM
20

Just wait until she has kids. RIP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:53 AM
8

Every one a bald, egg-headed schmo smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:49 AM
2

Yeah I think that's fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:12 PM
1

I think that's a fine amount of gaming in reference to the first guy you mentioned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:12 PM
5

I had the same thing happened with my brother. I have a permanent distaste of video game playing. It's just a massive time-suck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 03:58 PM
40

I wouldn't even date a guy who casually games because I want a man who has healthy hobbies that get him out of the house socializing and exercising.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 02:40 PM
90

These men know they are just interested in a forever girlfriend bangmaid to use for years or decades.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 02:39 PM
39

I just got to say, when you said he looked like someone's grandad my brain read it as someone's gonad and I died laughing! 😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 02:36 PM
5

I noticed this pretty young. They also never included information about how to explore your sexuality in a healthy way and find out what you really enjoy or any advice on how to orgasm and not just get used as a cum rag for loser men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 02:27 PM
58

The anger is good lesson and not letting yourself get used in the long run though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 02:19 PM
24

Hope she dumps him and finds a dude who is not a leech
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:20 AM
17

Laugh really hard and say "not with your tiny shrimp penis". Then laugh and say it was just a joke haha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 03:30 AM
11

Imagine continuing to date someone who doesn't even think you're worth showering for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 02:15 AM
9

Lvm are like that. My father once attacked my mother because she paid the bills which meant there was no money for him to go buy drugs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 05:01 PM
12

I'm so happy for you and so proud! Good job! Nothing in life will reward you like investing in yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:40 PM
22

I'm so sorry he did that to you. It's really horrifying men do these things. Truly evil. I'm glad you found fds and are doing better! I won't share the sub because that could be categorized as brigading and harassment by Reddit. Can't give the scrotes any fuel to ban this side.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:26 PM
2

I wish they'd put the comma in because I did not understand this when I first read it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 02:13 PM
17

How could this have happened? Pikachu face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 02:10 PM
5

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 01:39 PM
192

She was a beautiful queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 01:38 PM
3

Look up gray rock. It's where you don't feed anything that she says. Every time she brings it up stop making eye contact and say things like "oh" "huh" "yeah". Become disinterested and distant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 01:27 PM
4

Pull away from her until she gets her shit together. Sounds like it's messing with your mental health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 01:26 PM
30

Everything that supposed woman Gina, it's probably a male a larper, says is manipulated bullshit. Like the part where he says that women are responsible for 80% of spending. That's because we're responsible for all of the buying for households. We do everything. We get more degrees because we're smarter and also because we know we have to if we ever want to make anything more than minimum wage as a woman. A man can fail out of high school and still make more than a woman with a college education…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 12:21 PM
5

Yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 11:56 AM
9

Hopefully he just keeps being ridiculous and bitter so he can't get any woman and ruin her life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:32 AM
46

You know that section at the bottom of an article where they link other similar articles. There's two other articles about him disrespecting her. One where he kept interrupting her while she was making a baking video on Instagram and another where he made fun of her cooking. Sounds like fun times for her /s There was also a photo of her holding up a book that I assume she must have written called The Gift of Forgiveness. He saw her coming. If I wrote a book and gave it to her it would be called …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:23 AM
7

Aww poor men! How dare anyone talk about how horrible most of them are! How could they be so MEAAAN?! Also what I'm getting from this is he was shit in his relationship but somehow being told about it was abuse against him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 02:25 AM
17

I'm betting he did it and probably a lot more rapes than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 02:21 AM
7

The sounds just like what I would have loved to be doing from the ages of 18 to 22! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 01:49 AM
102

His desire to get a bangmaid motivated him short-term but now that he has her the facade has dropped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 04:43 PM
98

Nothing hotter than a man that can make things with his hands 💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 04:41 PM
2

This is so mean. I love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 02:07 PM
34

Yes. Even our boundaries feel like abuse to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 01:31 PM
48

I hate this. This is exactly why I don't like being friends with women who are in relationships. In my experience every one of them has been in a horrible relationship but they won't leave and yet they never stop telling you about how horrible he is. It's exhausting and at a certain point it almost becomes traumatic to see somebody that you love going through that for months or years and having to hear all the details when you've been traumatized in the same ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 01:27 PM
11

Do you have trauma? Especially childhood trauma with rejection from your parents? This might be a result of trauma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 01:24 PM
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This might be a better question for the female level up strategy sub but I'm going to post it here because I think it will be useful for a lot of women and also because we have a larger user base.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 01:22 PM
20

Make appointments with like five. Also specifically focus on finding a "trauma-informed" therapist who works with people who have trauma and PTSD. I found one that does EMDR and she has been a lifesaver, literally. Avoid any therapist that covertly blames you or who seems to get angry or upset in any way when you talk about what happened to you. Sad I even have to say this but it happens more often than not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 01:21 PM
29

What a lie. What these lvm really want is a lobotomized woman with no self-respect who will suck his dick, cook his meals, clean his clothes, and do everything for him like she's his slave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 07:49 PM
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it's a well-known fact that abusive men use therapy to hide their abusiveness and turn it around on the woman and make her look crazy, as well as honing their manipulation skills. Check out Lundy Bancroft's book Why does he do that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 07:39 PM
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This is great and I totally support your petty AF move and I love it. The next step is to dump this guy like the trash he is though. Find somebody new. Find somebody who hasn't already traumatized you that you don't need to "work through" trauma and hurt with. He ain't worth shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 06:46 PM
7

Anything that arms women against abusive men, men fight tooth-and-nail against.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 06:23 PM
1

Ouch. You fucking murdered her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 05:40 PM
28

I would add to this list a man that won't apologize to you when he hurts you. Some men have been taught that apologizing to a woman degrades him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 03:04 PM
4

I don't know. I do know that I'm 36 and wear glasses and yet when I was walking through the store smiling the other day a man walked in who was good-looking and tall and he stopped in his tracks when he saw me. I've also silenced an entire bar full of men who turned to look at me when I walked in dressed up. Also I have gotten every single man I've ever wanted. I've also had a lot of extremely attractive lovers, but some regular guys too. So I guess? I also flirt a lot, have tons of confidence a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 10:43 PM
23

Don't ever let someone convince you being a chump is mature. Just saw an evil pickme earlier today on fds who was telling women that they're not mature if they don't submit to their boyfriend or husband raping them whenever he wants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 10:04 PM
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I've fucked every kind of guy in every kind of way and I like big thick 10 inch dicks with hard erections that last and fuck me multiple times. I could maybe except 8 or 9 in. That's as low as I go. I figured out how to pick out all the men with giant dicks so about a third of the men I've been with have been 8 to 11 in. 💅😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 10:01 PM
6

Right?! Okay pickme, go ahead and take the 4s and 5s. Lol! I'll be raking in the tens! 💅💦💥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 09:59 PM
2

It's hilarious how you got back at him. That's so me. Petty AF!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 09:57 PM
10

Pickme banned for 3 days for standard shaming. Here women are allowed to like and want what they like and truly want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 09:54 PM
5

Love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 09:47 PM
20

Agreed. Another one of my boyfriends would take me out all the time just to regular little restaurants but we would get all dressed up and he would give me his arm when we walked down the street, open all the doors and pull out my chair, maybe see a romantic move, compliment me and flirt. We would have these really nice date nights. It was so much fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 08:58 PM
45

Always call their manipulative bluffs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 07:31 PM
33

Who look here's a man telling us that we're not mature if we don't want to be used as fuck objects my men who treat us like shit. Edit: oh shit! It's a woman. 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 Imagine telling other women it's "mature" to essentially endure rape. No one would ever say this shit to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 07:27 PM
36

This is exactly why I love refusing men. Pricks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 06:52 PM
15

Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:05 PM
26

Meanwhile look at her compared to him! He's clearly getting the better deal already even if she does nothing for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 03:51 PM
90

That's a good point. my favorite date memory is when this man that I really liked and had spent quite a lot of time talking to and getting to know, asked me on a date and took me to a expensive fancy restaurant for a $200 meal. And he was the perfect gentleman the entire time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 03:42 PM
23

This is a very good way to get raped smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 03:34 PM
2

This simply is not true. The IUD is technically the safest birth control and it's also one of the most effective and the longest lasting and least expensive. Almost all of the problems with perforation or migration are due to practitioner error. You need to have somebody who's educated and done 1000 + insertions to insert an IUD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 02:42 PM
4

Also you have to abstain for more than a week because research has now shown that sperm can live inside the female reproductive tract for up to 10 days. So that's 10 days prior plus the day you ovulate and the few days after that your egg is still good. and if you don't want to have sex on your period you get like a week and 3 days where you can have sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 09:52 AM
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That's cool but I think logic dictates that that wasn't what I was talking about in my comment. Sorry I didn't mention virgins. Can't mention everybody. I was talking about adults in their twenties and thirties who have sexual experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 09:23 AM
6

Imagine if feeling needles in your dick was a side effect for any medicine? It would never make it out of trials. On the upside it's also extremely expensive, over $200 for 12 uses, and far less effective than other methods of birth control! A months worth of sex could cost you three to four hundred dollars.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 08:28 AM
6

From what I've heard it's due to the size. In other countries they make in cells smaller iuds that are better for women who haven't had children. Of course we don't have them in the US.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 08:25 AM
15

So you have a what, 9% chance of getting pregnant each month? That's crazy ineffective. As an example, with an IUD you have a 1% or less chance of getting pregnant out of a full year of sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 08:22 AM
19

Stuff like this is why I don't share things with man anymore that have anything to do with women's issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 08:18 AM
1

I've had a copper IUD for about 15 years. 0 problems and my periods are just as light and pain-free as they've always been. Almost all of the increase in menstrual flow and cramps goes away by the first year for almost all women on the IUD, that's statistically speaking. I researched it before I got the IUD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 08:16 AM
2

This is actually incorrect. Most are very reversible. Some aren't though and that's why I don't agree with it being used as some sort of general birth control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 08:13 AM
33

And they go around accusing the woman of faking birth control use to purposely get pregnant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 07:52 AM
79

I'm at the point now there's no way I'm going to have sex with a man unless he gives me an orgasm beforehand. I want to see that he can give me one with his hands and his mouth first and then I might consider, on another occasion, having sex with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 07:50 AM
41

From my experience if a guy doesn't make you come the first time he's never going to. He doesn't care. My motto is "if I'm not cumming, I'm not coming back".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 07:48 AM
15

And he still won't bother to make her orgasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 07:46 AM
5

What a prince! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 10:51 AM
19

Any man who actually likes you won't make moves like that immediately. They'll take more time. Anyone who would ditch you for not kissing on the second date doesn't respect your bodily autonomy or you. Good riddance. And these aren't even men you know, they're random people from the internet. It's not like this is someone you've known as an acquaintance for a year, maybe were interested in and had lots of conversations with. It's a stranger. You're normal. Don't let loser men on the internet who…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 10:26 AM
38

There are very few men out there who know how to make love. But there are a few. I've been with a few. But you won't find any of them when having a hookup. You crave sex because you're human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 09:17 AM
19

PREACH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 09:07 AM
64

This is hilarious. She's a fucking Queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 09:06 AM
176

This is precisely how you speak to men and the first or second time they do this shit you leave them. That's the secret to not ending up with some asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 09:13 AM
42

I have to say this but not taking no for an answer the first time and sexually assaulting a woman against her will is always 100% a big glaring red flag. Actually sexually assaulting a woman is already abuse so it's past a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 10:23 PM
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*TRIGGER WARNING* This is very, very disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 05:46 PM
5

Sexual oppression is our most basic oppression. I think it's the one we have to fight the hardest to assert our dignity and humanity as women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 05:13 PM
2

You let men just use your body to finish? But you're not a "meal little girl". Way to be weak as fuck while insulting other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 07:08 AM
12

Also women are more likely to get pregnant if they orgasm. Also if they're relaxed and are having a good time before, during and after sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 06:15 AM
16

I always come first so I'll just stop sex after I orgasm. He can finish with his hand like he deserves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 06:14 AM
13

Your house is going to be amazing. May It be your sanctuary where you never have to take any crap!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 05:09 AM
1

Me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 05:07 AM
5

👏👏👏👏👏💥💥💥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 05:03 AM
18

It's a ploy reel in the young girls in their 20s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 04:17 AM
9

Porn and The Audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 04:12 AM
4

She went alllll-in! 👏👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 12:08 AM
2

They always tell him themselves with their double standards. Turnabout is fair play and it's really important with men like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 05:35 PM
63

Yeah, why have kids at 26. You could probably wait 10 years if you wanted. You'll never regret investing in yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 02:45 AM
14

Lvm piece of shit. It might change her life again if she ends up having to use a colostomy bag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 10:38 AM
15

Right? It was just so good for him to unburden himself and put it all on her! He had to find a young woman to put up with this bs. Imagine the years she will waste living with his potential cheating hanging over her head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 08:45 AM
19

So he has a harem of pickmes that cover for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 08:26 AM
3

Good for you with the copies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 07:37 AM
20

"Oh a woman knows one thing! Let me sexualize it so I can pretend I don't feel inferior and intimidated."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:50 AM
1

If you make the link a non-participation link we can post this for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 10:10 PM
12

He didn't want to date you or he would have contacted you. You wasted your own time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 10:09 PM
9

A pickme and lvm photo op.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 07:52 PM
23

You might even be able to consider this love bombing with all the compliments. Don't get caught up in how his compliments make you feel rather than this person's character, seriousness, investment etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 07:50 PM
1

Banned
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 07:41 PM
68

Sounds like your chosing future potential over actual skills/money/job. This is a mistake. I think he knows you're out of his league that's why he's flattering you so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 07:38 PM
11

No
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 07:35 PM
1

Yeah I ended up just removing the post because that's not appropriate. It's not appropriate to ask your partner every hour to hour-and-a-half when they leave the house when they're coming home. and then that part where she called him three times in a row? What the fuck is she doing? She's treating him like a toddler. And he was nice to call her back and text her back, he let her know where he was and what was going on. I'm kind of wondering if maybe she's resentful because he's not helping with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 04:31 PM
0

She didn't "stay out all night". He stayed out till midnight. I think she's kind of ridiculous and could have given him one night to be with his friends for a little while without harassing him once every single hour. If a man did this to me I would dump him. He still sounds like a dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 04:11 PM
0

This sounds like he put something from another language into an internet translator and pressed the English button and this is what came out. I feel like I just read the "English" directions on some cheap thing I got from China.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 03:23 PM
7

Men's number one response to being outed as a rapist is to attack the victim and bury her. They like to get all their friends in on it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 03:19 PM
4

And I've got a troll to put under the bridge! I might even have a dragon egg somewhere here in this bag...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 03:14 PM
9

Whatever a man willingly cops to just know it's ten times worse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 03:12 PM
8

Non-participation. Means that you use a link to take people to the post but it doesn't allow people to vote or comment preventing the sub from being accused of brigading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 03:05 PM
5

So he tells her who he is and she's just going to walk right into it anyway? Also if he's freely admitting to all of this, which clearly is full of lies and half-truths, and he doesn't even have a charge on the records than what is his game? Why would he out himself? It's troubling he's pretending like him and his wife started this so-called fight equally, he's also implying it was just that one time, and that he's a good guy because he claims he turned himself in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 02:58 PM
2

I do it for the satisfaction 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 02:56 PM
6

Yeah this will probably be one of those times that teach her not to go to men's houses for a date early on. I remember when I used to actually think that men meant what they said LOL! Notice how she had to say she was tired to get him to stop touching her while they were dancing. I just know the poor woman wanted to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 02:42 PM
12

And this is exactly why we wait to weed these jerks out. He's not going to get it on the next date either and then he's going to ditch her over the summer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 02:37 PM
10

"risotto is hard to make so she should have to allow me to put my dick in her body"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 02:25 PM
22

It's her subtle way of signaling to all the no value man that she's up for anal as long as they pretend to like her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 10:24 AM
14

That's what I thought too. It looks like an anus 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 10:23 AM
6

She just tattooed herself with a desperate lvm bullseye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 10:15 AM
11

Banned
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 10:13 AM
57

She should do it back to him. Spoiler: he'll lose his shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 10:11 AM
37

No. The problem is that he's looking at other women in front of her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 10:10 AM
3

The point is it would make him all insecure and pathetic and then he would throw a mantrum and show is hypocritical ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 07:33 AM
7

So glad you're free. You should throw an anniversary party with a cake!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 06:24 AM
2

👏👏👏 You should never have to tell an adult to pick up his underwear, not leave his shoes where someone can trip over them, not leave food all over the counter etc. I would tell the man not to do this by throwing his shit on the front lawn with a sign that says FREE and telling him to GTFO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 06:23 AM
11

To be fair the clit doesn't actually feature in any of those videos...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 10:21 PM
26

I've said it a thousand times but I would let him "accidentally" find my stash of giant dick porn with lots of oral sex on the females and real orgasms, and men that can fuck forever. Oops! 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 09:33 PM
3

You could always ask him about how he feels about children and if he would date someone who had children. If he says no and he doesn't want to do that then don't date that person. But you could keep the fact that you have a child to yourself until you feel comfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 08:44 PM
3

This might take some time for you to figure out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 08:22 PM
6

you're clearly just not that into him anymore. You didn't say anything about how you feel about him, only how he feels about you. You just described him as basically nice and not a cheater. That absolutely is not expecting one person to be "everything to you". I think you should do more introspection and less denial in the comments. I say this with love. Take some time to explore what you really truly want and be honest with yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 05:05 PM
4

Clearly there are things in this relationship that just aren't working for you and aren't fulfilling you. Good enough doesn't mean good enough for you, or good enough to settle down with. You shouldn't be thinking of your long-term relationships terms of whether you're grateful enough to give your life to somebody. Your life is for you. You don't have to settle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 04:11 PM
22

If they had any respect for you they wouldn't be trying to date you when they have no job. A man trying to date a woman when he has no job is absolutely a red flag. They clearly don't have respect for you or for themselves. And they probably never intend to take you out on dates or spend any money on you. Also how do you even know it's true? Maybe they didn't have a job before covid either. Nope. Pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 04:07 PM
16

Age and experience helps. Not caring what people think helps. Realizing everybody makes mistakes when talking to people and nobody really cares and everybody else has already done the same thing a hundred times just like you. Building confidence, skills, hobbies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 04:03 PM
36

This absolutely was a lot one of his violent, woman-hating kinks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 03:56 PM
5

Wise up ladies. Be honest with yourselves so that you can leave situations like this and find better ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 03:54 PM
1

Cherokee princess great-great-grandmother!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 11:44 PM
12

I think I have to amend my previous statement for single mothers. I would probably spend more time vetting them before I would ever tell the man I had children, particularly if I had daughters. Unfortunately, like one in seven men is a pedophile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 04:18 PM
43

Totally unacceptable. This is something you should disclose after maybe four to five dates. Actually, I really think it should be sooner because if the woman doesn't want to invest time in you because you already have a child she should be allowed to make that decision. So I'm going to change my comment. I think you should tell the person on the first or second date. It's manipulative to wait until they've made an initial investment and spent time on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 02:54 PM
28

But buut... She's straight! How else will she play the victim on the internet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 07:12 AM
24

Imagine being this delicate when you're a heterosexual woman. How embarrassing for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 07:10 AM
39

Apparently the market is saturated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 07:06 AM
8

I'm pretty sure this dude's "biggest date fail" is his asshole behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 04:57 AM
7

They clearly just don't want to get laid. It's the only conclusion I have come up with since they constantly stab themselves in the foot like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 01:56 PM
6

Texting is not worth it. This entire conversation could have been taking care of her 5-minute call. There is no reason to be texting someone every fucking hour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 01:54 PM
11

Oh I think he got into at least the 300 level range. He's solidly intermediate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 07:09 AM
59

It's pretty amazing considering the Bible tells men to keep their damn dick out of their hand, their eyes in their own head and that their dick is for their wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 07:07 AM
17

That's a lot of words for "I'm a piece of shit". He's also telling you he's not the one with the problem, it's you. You need more grace. the only thing worse than an lvm is an lvm with a religion to use against you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 07:05 AM
2

Imagine getting cheated on by Kevin Hart. He looks like an ugly, little boy. Instead of getting cheated on by a man, you got cheated on by half a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 07:02 AM
37

I really think so. I've experienced this from LV men just for getting excited about my life or a skill, not even directly saying I love myself. I once had a guy get angry with me and say something nasty just because I had a whole group of men laughing about some ridiculous crazy person that came into my job and made the most hilarious scene that involved cops and security staff, drugs, and hiding in bushes then getting tackled. Poor baby got insecure! This wasn't even a guy I was dating just som…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 06:57 AM
69

This might be the quickest way to fend off an LVM, express minor self-love. Poof 🏃‍♂️💨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 06:48 AM
46

Ironically it's kind of true. Lvm don't look for a woman who loves herself because she won't even talk to him. Imagine telling somebody that nobody loves them because they love themselves. Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 06:46 AM
52

Gee I missed all this! And in my twenties no less! The biggest problem with doing this, besides the fact you're not a goddamn slave and you're wasting your time, energy and youth, is that even if he doesn't like you he's going to keep you around because you cook, clean and wipe his butt for him. That's what men always do. He's never going to give her a ring because she's just a house servant to him. She's not his dream girl, she's just his free maid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 06:05 AM
22

Ignore him or tell him no. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 03:15 AM
11

I do this too and it's a struggle not to every time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 07:05 PM
1

Probably. That's what predators always do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 02:41 PM
25

These losers really find these young women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 02:24 AM
26

I swear men do nothing if not lie shamelessly and perv and parasite on women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 01:14 AM
22

See, those guys know they are crap! 😂👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 07:06 PM
42

Absolutely. There are a lot of predatory men out there and a lot of bad stereotypes. I always got fully dressed up when I went out and it deflected a lot of the losers. When I dressed down and got harassed by creeps a lot more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 05:21 PM
41

I've been with men that I was extremely initially attracted to and I've also been with men that I wasn't initially attracted to. Both can be good if the sex is good, the relationship is good and you have fun together. But when all is said and done I would never get into a relationship again with someone I didn't find initially attractive after experiencing full sexual attraction. You really have to be attracted to the person physically/sexually and also personality-wise for attraction to be main…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 05:18 PM
11

9 months relationship and 3 months out isn't really a rebound.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 05:13 PM
7

No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 05:11 PM
9

And when his kid turns out autistic because of his age he'll blame her. Also I bet he wants to inseminate her the non artificial way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 10:42 PM
190

And her husband took loser scrote's side! She'll be divorced within 5 years. His loyalty is with some random man over her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 09:13 AM
20

fairy tales for men I screamed 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 08:57 AM
19

It's always a mistake to let a low value man crawl back. He will only fake it for a little while. He had his opportunity to show her what he was and that's what he did in the first round. He showed her what he was, how much he valued her and what she meant to him. And it was abuse. When a man shows you what he is, believe him the first time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 08:45 AM
18

It's not surprising considering all these companies promoting these women are owned by men. Men choose the narrative, give or take the random pickme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 08:36 AM
7

She wrote a whole book about being an idiot? That's going to hurt. Dignity, ladies, dignity. It will keep you far warmer at night then one of these men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 08:35 AM
31

She'll probably breed with him within two to five years. And then within give or take another five years she will realize she played herself for a chump and finally divorce him to be a single mother. He probably won't pay child support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 08:25 AM
12

Yep. If he were smart he wouldn't pull this shit and think it would work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 08:23 AM
61

If he is this dumb it's child abuse to be in a relationship with him and be having sex with him. I would tell him no more sex because I don't want to be charged as a sex offender.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 08:23 AM
11

Don't date an idiot, ladies. Clearly he's an idiot. He had to have bought this out of the produce section not the area with flowers. That was his first clue. The price was his second clue. Also just some $2 flowers for an anniversary? At the very least there should be dinner, flowers and champagne. He should shower you with affection and appreciation for having sex with him. Minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 08:21 AM
63

For me I found when I was ashamed to tell friends or family how is be being treated cosmic helped me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 07:05 AM
51

Fucking power move! 👌 I should have done that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 03:33 AM
43

It's my opinion that fathers should never be considered equal parents to mothers under the law because they aren't. He didn't grow it inside of him, he didn't birth it, he didn't breastfeed it, and he probably didn't even take care of it. A good portion of fathers don't even care enough about their children to make sure they get healthy food.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 03:30 AM
20

It really does. It's sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 11:01 PM
38

Also watching porn during sex, and then letting him repeat the acts on you. Yikes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 10:55 PM
7

No
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 10:52 PM
30

He needs to get a restraining order against her or threatened her with a telephonic harassment charge. He can just call the cops and report it as long as he keeps the messages from her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 10:47 PM
121

Look at how much that dude is getting off on her going crazy attacking the girl and defending him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 07:00 PM
91

I've heard so many women say that philosophy scrotes are the worst kind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 06:56 PM
12

Some women just get off on this shit. They hate other women or they want to have drama with their man, or their man is a cheater and they know it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 04:14 PM
4

What a pig!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 03:58 PM
36

Yeah this means sex. He's trying to get sex without even one date. There will never be a date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 03:42 PM
39

The key part being secretly when he's at work. Men like this only ever go after young women so they can have a toy. Violence is a risk here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 03:40 PM
5

Hahaha! Self destruct scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 09:57 AM
5

All said and done, don't have a child with an asshole. Don't give your kid a random asshole for a father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 08:01 AM
8

Mommy is a damn handmaiden. We can see why he turned out the way he did!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 07:25 AM
3

Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 06:06 AM
24

I'm sure they will be miserable together 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 01:38 AM
1

Probably because he told her the same lie and she bought it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 07:56 PM
2

Pure drivel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 05:36 PM
3

Oh I had the locations backward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 06:39 AM
5

This is what happens when you leave an abusive shitbag who sucked your life in like a black hole. This is what happens when you leave a 6-year relationship that you started at 20 years old. You're going to have to start all over again. You get to start all over again. The future is wide open. Maybe make a positive playlist and hype yourself up? Make a list of things you would like to do now. Find some fun stuff to do. Make some friends. It's going to suck for a while and then it'll get a lot bet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 06:38 AM
11

The part where he says he's just there helping a friend, he's just looking for a one-night stand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 06:10 AM
8

Every one of these guys looks super young and effeminate. Barf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 06:02 AM
10

Believing men feels like a trap after this happens repeatedly...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 05:58 AM
20

I really hate to say this but having two phones as what guys do when they're cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 05:56 AM
7

This is exactly why you shouldn't date a man unless he makes you come every time. It's the very least he can do. 90% of men don't care because they know they can still get sex and a relationship without satisfying the woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 05:52 AM
32

Let's see how quickly things change when it's the woman fantasizing and masturbating and paying for other men's bodies to be used in sick fantasies and her man has to watch quietly by swallow his tongue. Would that happen?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 01:17 AM
15

Seriously. Don't answer, see if he improves his request with specifics. Frankly, I wouldn't even consider dating that guy because if he can't even set up a meeting then what the fuck are we going to do together dating? I'm assuming it'll be me doing everything. No thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 09:21 PM
14

Add in a few pictures of wedding dresses and rings and he'll be running for the hills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 07:04 PM
17

This good man who isn't actually interested in being with you and doesn't take you out? Cool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:10 PM
11

They forgot have sex you don't want / "maintenance sex"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:08 PM
20

This is hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 05:39 PM
20

Sounds like you're not ready to leave him and you're just wasting people's time who gave you advice by arguing with them in the notes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 05:35 PM
1

This is what I did for years and it was great. So fun. Got me what I wanted without getting trapped by an LVN that I would have to take care of prematurely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 04:43 PM
88

I would absolutely consider that a date. But I would not go to a man's house like that until we were in a committed relationship and I potentially wanted to be intimate. Otherwise he's just trying to get laid 98% of the time. I also had a man do this for me and then he tried to rape me. Learn from my mistake, ladies. I only got away because I was on my period and he thought that was disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 04:31 PM
67

Tip: Don't ever say yes to indefinite plans. Time and place, 3 days in advance, reminder text day before or morning of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 04:29 PM
35

Idiots gonna idiot 🤷‍♀️ She begged and begged for a better story from him then the truth. If he had stuck to his guns and said no you really just smell, she probably would have just continued like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 08:09 AM
22

"We stand together with all men in sexualizing and abusing women"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 07:01 AM
81

She would have stayed if he hadn't cracked and told the truth. I bet that she would have swallowed anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:14 AM
11

At least she dumped this fucker but she put up with it for a year? How stupid you got to be?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:09 AM
65

Nothing feels better than self-respect. Nothing feels better than dignity. Mothing feels better than saying no. Nothing feels better than walking away at the very first sign of disrespect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 03:52 AM
28

Another man who can't write. What a shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 12:28 AM
21

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 11:52 PM
3

Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 11:48 PM
14

Would have saved me SO much pain if I had listened!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 10:57 PM
25

My father was similar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 02:56 PM
2

So she's fucking him and paying for meals 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 03:57 AM
2

https://dustyoldthing.com/suffragette-marriage-advice-1911/ I googled it and I found three sources that said basket-maker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 01:26 AM
25

That just translates as I'd like to fuck you with as little effort as possible, please just invite me over to your house so I can get to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 12:58 AM
25

This guy writes like he has three brain cells that barely rub together. I would never have continued speaking to him. I wouldn't have responded to the first text. It was just general, no commitment, no plan, no effort. He's a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 12:57 AM
3

Obviously we shouldn't co-op the name from BLM. But we still can create a movement to fight the murder of women. You're saying we shouldn't focus on that at all and instead focus on other violence against women because it would take away from BLM. I'm pretty sure that women should be allowed to fight against our murders any time and all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 12:53 AM
13

You know it's sad, but I don't want to refer to myself as a feminist anymore either. I don't want to get confused with the pro sex work, pro porn, pro BDSM, "getting naked is a powerful political statement" bullshit. Mostly what I see libfmes doing is promoting the sexual exploitation of women, telling women not to advise women in abusive relationships to leave because victim blaming, I even see them screaming about how we shouldn't learn self-defense because that's victim-blaming. It's been tot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 12:50 AM
3

I've fucked around, danced on men, drank (never got drunk or passed out in public though), kicked gropers in the balls... I don't consider that "wild". I always kept myself together and kept things quiet. Sounds like you're ashamed of your sexuality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 08:55 PM
108

Yes, this community is wonderful! I did some reflection a while ago and realized that I wasn't wrong even once about a guy. And that the only thing I regretted wasn't mistakenly dumping them over something that was NBD, but not dumping them sooner. I identified the original red flags that should have caused me to dump them. Made me much more self-confident in my decision making.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 04:45 PM
336

We call that "future faking". If I don't hear from a guy for two or three days I just block him. Done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 03:56 PM
128

Yeah... he's bringing other women back to his place and fucking them there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 03:54 PM
11

That's a good move. I would always just kick him right in the balls and then I just get the fuck out of there so by the time they got up off the ground I was gone. One guy after he groped me, I kicked him twice in the balls and snatched his glasses right off his fucking face. He couldn't see anything! 🤣🤣🤣 Another guy put me in a headlock and said some nasty shit to me. So when I get out of the headlock I got down, locked my shoulder and just rammed him right in the hips below its center of gravi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 12:59 AM
10

"Sure. Just let me go to the bathroom first." Never comes back. "Oh wait, I see my friend! Bye." Runs away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 12:33 AM
10

That's a lot of growth! Truly. Good work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 07:27 AM
10

Because men benefit from this behavior by women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 01:11 AM
6

The least he could do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 07:17 PM
23

I outed one of my rapists on Tumblr with the screencap where he admitted that I said no and he didn't stop. A Tumblr blog with a large reach picked it up with his name and made it huge. Pretty sure the screen cap is still on the internet if you Google he full name. 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 05:18 PM
19

If you're posting a public document and you don't make any claims as to what's in the document beyond exactly what the arrest and conviction was for, I suppose it is. It's not like he could sue you in small claims court for defamation as long as you stick to the facts in the documents. You could try getting a free consult with a lawyer to ask. What would be really great is if women could come together and make a national collective and you could search men's names.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 05:06 PM
21

You could buy the internet rights to the internet address with his name and then post screenshots of the conviction/documents if he's convicted. It's pretty cheap to buy .coms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 04:31 PM
11

Vomit And he's FAT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 03:23 AM
9

Nice how they ban people who advise women to leave abusive relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 03:18 AM
5

"proper behavior"? Fuck off LVM misogynist!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 09:42 PM
1

Thanks for the downvote for telling you the truth. Enjoy your manlet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 06:19 AM
0

If he wasn't insecure he wouldn't be lying on his license and to you about his height.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 01:36 AM
8

Okay, he's not just unaware that he's like 5'4. He's lying, therefore he's insecure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 09:30 PM
24

Poor men are really out here pushing their angle. Don't bite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 06:56 AM
11

Apparently this guy doesn't want to get laid ever. The man courting the woman is showing what he has to offer. This guy has nothing to offer but the audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 05:58 AM
50

Men do that all the time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 01:25 AM
6

Well I hope she dumps him because this shit is a big red flag. I can't believe she combined all her money with his and they're not even married. This is the stupidest thing I've ever heard of. And combining savings? Hell no!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 01:17 AM
5

The truth will be found in if she turns around on him another time and tells him to "shut the fuck up." He'll flip.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 01:50 AM
22

"all guys do it" He really tried that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 01:39 AM
4

This mentality get women murdered. It's twisted socialization to make women more abusable. It benefits abusive men who will never change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 01:26 AM
7

It was beyond comfort! He was tearing up my genitals and nipples with his stubble. It literally felt like fucking a piece of sandpaper. So bad. Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 12:34 AM
8

There was a guy I literally stopped sleeping with, even though he was amazing in bed, because he'd let the stubble grow out of his chest and crotch and it would scratch me raw like sandpaper. I asked him repeatedly to either let his hair grow out or shave the days I came over. Be refused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 12:26 AM
9

Good for you. I swear you could tell a man like that 10 times, 50 times, he'll still pretend like he doesn't know what happened when you get sick and leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 12:12 AM
4

You're right. I forgot about how popular that is with LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 08:38 PM
38

You test a guy like this by not having sex with him every single time he wants it to see if he throws a fit. ditch guys who demand blow jobs while you're on your. Or sex when you're having medical issues make you not want to have sex. That will filter out some of them. Some of the time you just simply won't know and you will have to be ready to leave and have money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 05:02 PM
26

Blowies? This is so fucking disgusting. What is with all the infantilization of sexual acts these days. He's going to rape her if he hasn't already. Him pushing for sex when she's made it clear she doesn't want to and trying to manipulate her emotions is already attempted rape. That is because if he succeeds in pushing and manipulating her into sex, it is rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 04:59 PM
33

It makes it extra dangerous for bisexual women. Men and women alike hear that and will try to rape you/lure you into a situation where their boyfriend can rape you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 04:49 PM
3

Emotional abuser and asshole who wants you to either swallow it quietly or fuck off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 04:48 PM
8

And the audacity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 01:49 PM
14

She kept dating him? And married him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 01:47 PM
9

That wasn't covert manipulation that was over manipulation. He just had to tell her about itt. He wanted her to know who wears the pants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 01:46 PM
1

So she wasn't cooking the meat and carb meals that he wants to eat for him like a servant so he took her food away. Also, lazy? I've gotten blue apron, you still have to cook the meal yourself. It's just the ingredients and instructions they send.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 01:43 PM
18

You're boyfriend didn't believe you? He needs to be an ex. A man who doesn't believe you and have your back when you're under a physical threat isn't someone you should ever stay with. It shows that he doesn't believe you and doesn't care about you and he's kind of stupid. His behavior put you at risk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 06:13 AM
3

Wow. I had to read that line three times, that she still let him come around even with video evidence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 05:53 AM
11

Men are fine with this behavior until it's turned on them. Good for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 01:50 AM
14

I just can't imagine why a young woman would spend her time as a 24 year old dating a man who's in his mid-thirties. There are so many hot young men to have fun with and date. You'll have plenty of time to date men in their thirties when you're also in your thirties.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 01:45 AM
3

This. Turnabout is always the best move with scrotes, it's the only way they they vaguely learn anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 01:43 AM
9

Yeah the ratings would all be really low
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 01:42 AM
15

So basically the usual "whatever a man does, it's his right/alright!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 01:39 AM
12

Women in your 20s stop dating men that are in their 30s. They're all predators, creeps and abusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 01:38 AM
3

This was so inspiring! Good for you OP, and thank you for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 09:15 PM
14

Next 4 years? Lol! She's a forever girlfriend. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 09:14 PM
7

Can I ask what are the ways in which it has changed the way you evaluate men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 04:28 PM
13

She's never going to find a man who actually loves her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 05:27 AM
9

I've heard of that. It's a great program.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 07:49 PM
28

Well they hit that one on the head. Except men don't harass women like this because they think it's going to get them pussy, men harass women like this because it's abusive and degrading and they hate women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 03:25 PM
65

Men like this need to be put on a registry. There needs to be a publicly available registry of male domestic abusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 03:19 PM
13

They want her to do everything including brining home the bacon. That's the key here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 03:11 PM
10

Because they're fucking us with the price and low effectiveness rate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 12:47 AM
2

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 12:44 AM
10

Just a little vaginal burning every time you have sex 😍👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 12:43 AM
5

No average use of condoms is about the same. "Perfect use" isn't actually an attainable usage statistics because of condom breakage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 12:23 AM
22

Let me fix it. "If a guy refuses to wear a condom you should yeet him out the door."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 12:22 AM
8

86% effective over 7 months? Lol they didn't even measure it for a whole year which would cause the number to go down. That is so not effective enough. And 250$ for 12 uses? Wow. Might help with sperm induced yeast infections though by maintaining vaginal pH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 12:20 AM
58

A fuckless fuckboy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 05:34 PM
29

The part that gives it away for me is that he translates empowerment to "woman dominance". These dudes literally think that not being able to rape us and use us as house servants would be the woman being dominant. Also the fact that it's so lacking and short on detail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 03:15 PM
15

As soon as you said you would have dinner with a husband and wife neighbor I knew what was going to happen. People just don't do that. These people aren't your friends. That woman is not your friend. Don't go to any more dinners with them and block her number when you move. Don't eat or drink anything else they give you as a precaution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 03:08 PM
35

I once went to Goodwill looking for a second hand baseball bat. After I found one I walked around the store a bit holding on to it. Scared the hell out of a guy in the store. The fear in his eyes was so nice for a change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 03:04 PM
28

Liv Tyler as a 5? Lol. This guy is probably 5'4 with no job and a 4 inch dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 02:58 PM
45

This is written by a incel male
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 02:49 PM
3

Yeah she doesn't need to cape for men like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 02:28 AM
8

And tiny dick 🕵️‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 02:25 AM
5

I've seen it around more recently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 02:19 AM
112

"I don't work and I live off my wife. You want to help me cheat on her while she's at work?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 02:14 AM
100

Rapist. Men like this will rape you. Good job blocking him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 02:10 AM
7

He doesn't want you to go anywhere without him because he's afraid you might get attention from another man who will be better than him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 09:23 PM
21

6 kids? He really had a trap... I mean plan for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 09:19 PM
20

Dump
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 09:17 PM
255

Imagine making a video showing how much of a chump you are and then putting it on the internet for laughs without realizing you're the joke. Very sad. You just know she cooks and cleans for him everyday like a servant and has "maintenance sex" where she doesn't orgasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 09:10 PM
22

Well they get a immense amount of legal, social and male power for doing very little, so it makes sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 06:29 PM
36

So this guy is a cop. We should all take a moment to remember that these are the men were told to report our rapes to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 06:17 PM
19

We need to know what's making you unsure now. There must be a reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 05:13 PM
45

Saying I love you so early is really big red flag of a very mentally unstable person or a manipulator. Always run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 04:55 AM
14

Can't believe she bre0d with this guy. He's going to get access to her kid and abuse it. He's also going to continue to control her through the kid, courts and custody.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 01:12 AM
26

If these dudes could say what they felt... they would be saying exactly what they already said. That's all they got. You're a pussy and a nag to them and that's all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 03:52 PM
64

Now is not the right time to tell her because he's not done with her yet. He's still using her for sex, cleaning and cooking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 03:32 PM
2

He's not really serious about you at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 04:49 AM
43

Low value as fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 04:30 AM
151

Sounds like all his exes were just so abusive for not letting him rape them! Poor man! He must have suffered so much. s/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 03:41 PM
6

This is true and justice against those women who all triangulated against you to make themselves feel better about their shity decisions. They wanted to make you feel bad. You got the last laugh. Sad for them but that's what you get when you lay down on the ground for a man to walk on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 03:16 PM
23

no you did not overreact. Calling you sweetheart is creepy enough but the fact that he couldn't even type out a proper sentence is pathetic. You weren't even important enough to reread what he wrote before he sent it. It's lazy. He should have used your name, but he made you generic instead. He was not serious about you at all. They he tried to manipulate you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 02:46 PM
59

And then she fucks him! 😃😃😃😃 She's living the dream!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 03:02 AM
30

WOW SO CUTE!!!¡¡! He gets dinosaur gummy snacks like a second grader! And yells at her when they aren't in his lunch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 02:53 AM
12

That's MaNiPuLaTiOn!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 12:57 AM
18

In other words he was too lazy and too stupid to go to university and now he is stupid and poor and living in his mom's house?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 12:56 AM
14

YoU'rE pUtTiNg yOuRsElF oN a pEdEsTaL 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 12:55 AM
54

Always call their bluff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 12:13 AM
15

Except that men made porn from their own imaginations and desires. Men were bad before born. They were rapists before porn. They were anally raping women before porn. They just seem to be even more depraved now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 07:01 PM
8

Only went to women. Would never considered a man. Point was they were still awful due to misogyny (lack of sympathy for and understanding of rape victims)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 05:28 PM
6

Are we really expected to accept $200 engagement rings? Aim higher.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 05:10 PM
56

Obviously they have no idea what it's like to be a woman and be raped. You wouldn't believe how fucking horrible some of the female therapists I saw were. Misogyny doesn't give a fuck about your mental health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 05:36 AM
43

Just block him. This guy is just hanging around the buffet of your youth getting a free meal. He's almost 40 for Christ's sake! Just ghost him. You don't owe niceties to someone who is using you and has made it clear you aren't important to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 10:11 PM
19

He's trash. Dump him. Giving you the cold shoulder when you do something in a different way that he doesn't like is something a child does not an adult who loves and respects you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 10:02 PM
9

If a guy gave me a fake diamond as an engagement ring I'd look right at him and say so your is your love fake too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 09:47 PM
42

Wow he really saw her coming. Now she's trapped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 09:07 PM
38

Imagine spending your twenties being abused by an old man and then thinking there's nothing wrong with you mentally. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 05:26 PM
7

Anyway this guy is a rapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 10:41 AM
9

This is why you block the assholes so they can't get in their last dig.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 10:40 AM
7

What a dismissive prick! "Anyway I'm going to bed now. Fuck off."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 10:15 AM
7

You should test him by doing the same thing but with hot guys to see how "cool" he is with that. Anyway the short answer is never let someone fool with your self-esteem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 09:59 AM
13

Always take opportunities like this. Really shows you how weak the man is. Lvm dodged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 08:38 AM
6

Real shit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 11:42 PM
50

Doesn't matter what this guy is like now, he's got 55 grand in credit card debt. Why would you tie yourself to someone like that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 07:06 PM
3

Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 04:59 PM
31

This. All those subs are run by men who hate women and maybe a few pickmes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 04:20 PM
37

It's amazing how many fantasies these guys make up about this sub. Shows how pissy they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 04:17 PM
8

He wishes he had that much hair!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 04:15 PM
91

That hair style really makes this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 04:14 PM
36

So much lip service to the false narrative men have created to avoid any accountability for their disgusting porn use. Smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 04:13 PM
30

Who the fuck cares if he apologizes? Does she really want to be this dude's mommy for the rest of her fucking life just because he says sorry. Women grow a fucking backbone challenge! This woman is an idiot. Apparently the relationship is over but she's still going to be his friend and she's going to help train him how to be an adult! She's so good! Such a mom! Wow! Don't do this ladies. If you want to mom something get a cat, or a dog, or 3 damaged shelter dogs to heal. Get 20 houseplants. Find…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 07:11 AM
50

In the comments: cOmmUnIcAtE! He did communicate. He told her she's a worthless chump who he gave a shut up ring to and he is willing to do this to keep the free labor and sex coming. Everything that needs to be communicated has been. She's going to stay. She's not even considering leaving him over this. She's going to be on breakingmom in 5 years with two kids under 3 years old and a worthless bum who treats her like shit. He will be on deadbedrooms whining about his sex slave not letting him r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 04:45 AM
11

Hahaha yeah... Totally. I was thinking of a teen virgin of early 20s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 11:11 PM
25

It's sad. Sometimes they're sincerely saying "I don't want you to feel comfortable." But more often it's usually because they're trying to trick you into letting your guard down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 11:04 PM
39

I just saw that. She's working two jobs, and studying, he's 10 years older than her and has pretty much just told her she's a fuck toy house servant. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 09:04 PM
14

What did the comments say? Were they telling her to pay?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 08:56 PM
72

There is a whole lot of difference between saying she doesn't have to have sex if she doesn't want to and actually never pressuring her. This would actually make me more suspicious of him, not less. Also, who the fuck do you think you are to give me permission to say no. No shit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 08:53 PM
132

Hahaha Also think about the reality, which is the number of dogs that have been abused by men to the point that they're terrified of men and won't let men anywhere near them. Even a dog isn't so sweet, loving and undemanding that a man won't beat it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 05:23 PM
72

This is abusive. he's making no room for her to have any say, any expectations, any respect. He's silencing all of her needs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 05:21 PM
17

Don't worry. 99% of these dudes are already bitter incels who scream about women just being a hole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 05:15 PM
12

There is no man is so vulnerable or disaffected that he won't turn on a woman to rape, abuse and beat her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 03:49 PM
5

That's a good way to filter out the douchebags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 03:13 PM
10

Ouch!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 03:12 PM
19

Absolute 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 03:04 PM
33

That cuts out a good portion of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 08:41 AM
20

I would just tell him no thanks and leave. Fuck that! When people are rude to you it's ok to be "rude" back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 08:26 AM
6

That manslation made me laugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 07:04 AM
10

And he's 5'6 and doesn't workout. What a prize! This guy can't even write a sentence and yet he thinks he's qualified to pass on his genetic material. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 06:32 AM
9

What a shameless pig!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 05:11 AM
11

I think men are partially responsible for that narrative. In my case it increases cramps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 05:09 AM
36

Of course he later raped her. That's always how like this turn out. Very sad. We all seem to learn by being raped because of all the brainwashing that trained us to ignore our own boundaries and humanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 05:07 AM
20

What a way to find out he doesn't even see you as a human being
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 05:05 AM
16

I guess they call it seduction but what they mean is rape. Sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 10:46 PM
16

Once you're alone somewhere with a dude he's going to try to push himself on you whether you want it or not, most likely. LVM bullshit all the way. Still just don't put yourself in that situation. It's not worth it. There's nothing so awful as feeling like you have to have sex with a dude because you're trapped somewhere, especially if you don't have enough money to get your own hotel room or fly/drive home. And even if the guy is just your friend and he knows that he's still going to try to get…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 10:45 PM
47

Anyway you can have secret and hidden apps so that doesn't really need much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 10:09 PM
24

Yeah I doubt this relationship is absolutely fantastic except for this 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 07:53 PM
14

Men probably own all of these magazines
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 07:47 PM
10

Finally. I suspected this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 04:14 PM
1

That's a really good point. And also a very good question. It's kind of just internet speak that you learn after being on the internet and seeing it. Maybe there is a guide somebody's written up if you Google it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 03:21 PM
4

Also the multiple question marks and exclamation marks at the end of the sentence are an indicator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 02:45 PM
4

He probably realized this might be his only chance to get at a hot woman again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 01:56 AM
8

This is the truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 11:09 PM
3

We all know this guy would never stay with a woman who hit him and cheated on him. These pigs don't think we're human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 09:30 PM
26

Most men *should" feel insecure about their bodies. They need to go exercise and dress better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 09:27 PM
42

"studies show men 40-50 years old are fucking more 20 y/o women than men in their 20s? Lol! Please link me. 🤡😃😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 09:24 PM
23

Oh my God, so many men don't even have hair after 30 anymore. They need to eat a fucking vegetable and go for a walk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 08:38 PM
3

This is bullshit. No. When is he going to be standing around fixing a car in a speedo for me? Women aren't sexy toys. Fuck off!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 08:37 PM
3

Yeah moving units might help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 04:07 PM
4

This is probably not possible, but could you move to a different apartment? Personally I would move if I could. Or stay with some different friends and family members for awhile?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 03:09 PM
14

This is a very good example of why you shouldn't be kind to abusers and give them multiple chances. Always reserve your kindness and generosity for good people who deserve it. For bad people your kindness is a way to manipulate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 03:03 PM
10

A high-value woman would make sure that she's using adequate birth control to not get pregnant. She would also get an abortion if she got pregnant accidentally with some rando/bf. A high-value woman isn't just going to have a baby for the hell of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 02:56 PM
49

This is something a six-year-old would do. Was he mentally challenged?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 02:31 PM
36

If you get together with a guy who already has a kid you'll just be mom number two. That's how it works out most of the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 06:20 AM
6

Have you blocked him? Changed your number? Changed your social media? I once held on too long to an account and kept dealing with an abuser. It was not worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 04:31 AM
16

Thank god! That guy sounds like an ass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 03:36 AM
21

All they think when they think of women is bOoBiEs!!!!😃😃😃 Anything beyond that is too much for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 02:13 AM
2

glad you are trusting yourself more. Wow. You need to get out of this. He lies to you and he's fine with it. You shouldn't be with someone who's a pothead when you don't want to be with someone who is a pothead. You can't make people stop things that they want to do. It will only build resentment. It's better to vet people until you find one who meets your standards, not accept one and then try to bend him to fit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 11:22 PM
52

I know. I couldn't keep my mouth from just hanging open in shock while reading those comments. So hostile to a woman for asking for something more than pretty much just having a ring tossed at her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 11:07 PM
33

Absolutely. It certainly does not say I truly love you and want to spend the rest of my life with you and you are special to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 11:05 PM
3

Go with what you feel. There is nothing worse than talking yourself out of your feelings, it's like gaslighting yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 11:04 PM
43

Also it turns out that the friends of the brother who were harassing her or 20 and 21 year old men. Not even 18. I can't believe they let this continue on past the point that they got a special lock for their daughter's room because they were afraid one of these guys would rape her. This is too late.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 10:57 PM
6

Yeah, no. He was full awake. That's not a real thing, jerking off while asleep. He needs to keep that shit to himself. Also you aren't an automatic sex dispenser that has to service a man in the middle of the night whole you're sleeping. Those people saying that hate women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 09:50 PM
145

Wow. All he did was hand her a box and say here's your engagement ring. And she's getting reamed in the comments for expecting more than that. Someone just told her she's coming off as "super entitled and high maintenance". This guy didn't even actually ask her to marry him or even get on one knee, just tossed her a box.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 09:45 PM
43

If he was a good father he would have done this way before it got to this point. In other words, the first time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 05:55 PM
11

So how long did they allow his adult male friends to sexually harass a 14 year old girl, their own daughter, before they did something about it? Clearly there's a lot of permissiveness in this household for sexism and abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 05:54 PM
126

Men will literally ask you what you want and then ignore your answer because they don't want to do it and all they care about is themselves and their needs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 05:41 PM
42

Sorry but there are a lot of mommies that need to stop pampering their baby Nigel. There are too many girls who've been attacked on the playground and sisters who've been molested and hit and abused by their brothers and mommy just makes excuses. Then there are situations where mommy lets son get away with not cleaning or cleaning badly while the daughter has to do everything / do everything perfectly. Pickmes raising son's is bad for other women. Still the result of patriarchy but still shitty …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 05:37 PM
7

A man I was dating decided he got to anally rape me, I reported, the police got two recorded confessions from him. They didn't charge him. They abused me instead. So probably not. Reporting rape to the police is reporting rape to rapists anyway. 40% of those men beat their wives/girlfriends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 02:24 PM
3

Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 02:22 PM
5

Just block. If he's hurting you he doesn't deserve anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 03:48 AM
21

This is rape. Giving in to nagging isn't consent. He will only get worse. Please leave him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 03:42 AM
8

Those subs are infested with those men. They get off on gaslighting women and manipulating them into accepting abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 03:38 AM
38

The part I don't think is real is that all her friends have gotten married at 25/26 y/o. That would be really unusual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 03:28 AM
8

They will only harass you and argue
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 09:01 PM
9

Right?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 08:59 PM
2

I would probably send him a text laughing at him. Then block. I'm really done being nice to abusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 07:34 PM
2

I'm praying for the same karma for one person in particular. 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 07:34 PM
4

Know what would be really fun is to then fake a pregnancy and tell him you're keeping it and he better get ready to pay child support for the next 18 years. Really rile him up and let him sweat it for a couple weeks. And then call him up and tell him that if he's willing to pay for the whole thing you'll get an abortion. Get him to send you six hundred bucks and then block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 07:32 PM
16

Oh my God I remember something like that happening to me once. I was actually sincere. Didn't think he was so cute after that, just stupid with a small dick and a small ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 07:25 PM
2

You're almost free! Don't buy his snake oil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 07:22 PM
18

Here's a really big idea... Now stay with me here... It's a hard concept. the guy could, I don't know, rub the woman's clitoris until she orgasms during sex. "WoMeN DoN't nEeD tO oRgAsM" Isn't it funny how no one ever says this about men? 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 Anyway, if he's not making me cum every single time, I'm not coming back. I don't consent to sex where I don't orgasm and the pleasure isn't mutual. It's another kind of sexual abuse. Using people sexually is abuse. They lead the woman on making her think…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 07:13 PM
12

Detecting... Small dick...energy. Access denied.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 07:05 PM
4

My first insertion hurt like a bitch too. Later on I learned if you start taking anti-inflammatories like Aleve 24-hours before and up to 24 hours after, and ask for a topical lidocaine gel on your cervix, you feel nothing. Of course not one of the multiple different medical professionals that I saw while jumping through hoops to get my IUD ever told me this. My intense pain wasn't important or even a blip on the radar. So for anyone thinking about IUD make sure to take Aleve and ask for a numbi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 07:03 PM
3

Yeah I have a copper IUD and it's the best!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 06:58 PM
6

My favorite part is when you go back to the doctor and tell them that it totally destroyed your sex drive, and for me made it impossible to orgasm (total loss of sensation), and they just tell you you're wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 06:57 PM
11

They probably just don't want to deal with the fact that they have never actually been respected by a man and that they have submitted to abuse and humiliation and rape by men who hate them because they were manipulated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 06:48 PM
12

I've seen them say that not getting sex on demand is the same as rape. So not being able to rape a woman whenever they want is jUsT As bAd as raping.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 06:47 PM
9

Same. Man who respects you isn't going to call you a slut, slap you or spit your face. Can't believe that needs to be said but here we are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 06:44 PM
14

They just want to pretend to rape children! That makes it ok 👌. s/ Same for the rape kink sickos. I've read too many stories where Mr. Rape Kink eventually actually rapes the woman that he's been pretending to rape and getting off on. Or the guy who slaps a woman during sex and eventually slaps her out side of sex and the girlfriends like 😧. Women are being trained and manipulated to think it's really different then they're shocked when this clearly abusive man is actually abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 06:42 PM
20

This. "Your dick is so small I can't even feel it and you can't even last 2 minutes. Wait! You don't find that sexy???? 🤔"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 06:36 PM
8

Lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 06:23 PM
29

This killed me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 05:26 PM
28

"she sounds hideous!" "Well, she's a man so 🤷‍♀️"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 05:20 PM
67

Not one single person in that thread said to support the woman who was just raped and has triplets that are 3 years old. Only support for him or "who knows which one is telling the truth so don't pick sides." One guy called them both "monsters" either way, so sending a nude to another guy makes you a monster exactly the same as raping your wife brutally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 05:18 PM
57

I see a lot of men on here who rape their wives talking about how they need "physical intimacy". They use women's language disingenuously to manipulate women and get what they want through tapping into women's empathy and female programming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 04:58 PM
36

There's no point even engaging with these men. Just take the drink, say thanks and then set it down somewhere like it's poison and forget it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 04:36 PM
34

👏👏👏👏😃 congrats hun!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 04:33 PM
196

I remember feeling the same way, like I had to pick one. It's ridiculous. And then there's men, always saying that physical touch is their love language. 🤮 That must be why they're so bad at it, selfish and short change foreplay for 2 minutes of lackluster PIV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 04:32 PM
31

He's let other women hit him in the head with a bat so how do we know this time it wasn't consensual?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 03:59 PM
28

We should start a GoFundMe in her defense. This is clearly a false accusation! He probably asked her to hit him in the head with a baseball bat and then claimed assault after because he was ashamed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 03:58 PM
34

Closed mouths don't get fed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 03:20 PM
52

I also liked how he had to work in commentary on her body which was obviously just him bragging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 11:20 PM
8

👀👀👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 11:19 PM
32

You should have seen them trying to hijack mother's day all over the internet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 11:16 PM
23

This picture really has me snickering
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 11:14 PM
3

Think of their promising futures! These evil man sluts are just trying to ruin these fun young women's lives because they didn't get the sex they wanted!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 10:53 PM
43

Right. We tell them all the time and things don't change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 04:45 PM
105

Rapists I've also given blowjobs I didn't want to to men who were trying to vaginally rape me, and I've had vaginal sex I didn't want to have to avoid anal rape. It's all rape. Men raping women is ubiquitous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 04:43 PM
10

Vile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 02:43 PM
10

For all the obsessive vidya bros
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 04:19 AM
63

But BDSM is "safe, sane and consensual" and stays in the bedroom! "He's not pressuring men but I can feel the tension and it's there underneath. Imagine being this much of a clown in your late 20s for a man you've only dated one year. Also they're already fighting regularly? Wtf? How the fuck is she going to look other people in the eye while wearing a collar as an almost 30 year old woman?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 04:15 AM
132

It has nothing to do with whether you trust the man. Men are liars and they get these photos not just to jerk off to, but so that they have power over the woman and they can manipulate and blackmail her if she tries to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 03:36 AM
34

Fucking pathetic. Also tacky taste in everything. Trash. Good luck ever getting a decent man to pay attention to you when you have a fucking stripper pole in your living room, sell your body to perverts nightly and have those tacky blue claws.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 03:33 AM
78

If he's not even initiating conversation I would just stop contacting him and let it die. Or send him a text then block. You're being way too nice and accommodating to someone who's clearly not interested anymore. As far as I'm concerned since he hasn't called you since Thursday and he doesn't initiate, I would say it's already over
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 03:30 AM
5

I would have laughed so hard in his face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:45 PM
12

I thought you were joking. It's very sad that you were serious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:32 PM
11

What a gross, lazy, fat, slob looking man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:27 PM
30

Testicle That's great
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:52 AM
3

I'm sure it both. This was someone else's report, I didn't look it up because it's too depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:36 AM
7

I mean look at the year of bullshit she's put herself through, and the damage she's done to herself, because she doesn't want to accept the truth of him. Stop wasting your own time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 05:53 AM
16

It's already locked. Apparently if you look up the post on removeddit the commons have been heavily moderated to remove anyting calling women's stories of being raped, rape, women saying that women shouldn't have to put up with any of this, that sex should always be non-violent pain-free and reciprocal etc., all removed. Even comments saying that women shouldn't have to do anything sexually that they don't want to have been removed. My guess is "askwomen" is moderated by mostly men. Top comment …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 03:25 AM
3

Upward mobility? Is this a joke? A lot of women get only like twenty bucks for sucking some dude's dick. I get a career when you could get twenty bucks for sucking some dude's dick!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 11:47 PM
4

Fantastic point. They're just having gift regret. That happens a lot with men, they're fickle and they change their minds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 11:44 PM
49

"alright then let's break up. Get your shit and go."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 11:36 PM
23

The essence of men is picking and choosing. These LVM all want to have their cake and eat it too. It shows that they know exactly what they are doing but they think it's fine to do to their partner because they are men. Also men who are bad in bed get offended when women actually have a sexuality for themselves and their pleasure and that is not just receptive sex doll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 03:40 PM
53

He was already violating you the first time and he knew it. You can't speak to men like this. He's not a dog. He knows exactly what he's doing. Next time tell him to get his fucking hands off of you and then leave. Seriously, just turn around and walk away. Even if he makes a scene or he is still talking or he comes after you just keep walking. I also don't make out with dudes on the first date because all it usually does is let an asshole in the door. If the date is good I might give the guy a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 03:25 PM
28

They're all just panicking and begging for a different answer than the one that they know is correct. That's why they come to reddit and thousands of strangers for an opinion. And unfortunately there are a lot of pickmes and bad men on the internet here to given those alternate answers (just communicate, it's natural, you're overreacting, YTA)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 03:17 PM
57

Seriously with any guy with a porn collection, just make your own porn collection full of big, hot dudes with giant dicks and let him find it. This is one of the biggest double standards and male lies. When he freaks dump him for his hypocrisy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 03:15 PM
17

Gross little manlet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 02:07 AM
0

Someone on here once said that putting in an IUD is a "surgery" and that there's cutting. There are a few people on here with no fucking clue what they're talking about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 08:30 PM
21

Men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 07:31 PM
33

Wow. I'm not even surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 07:30 PM
65

So? Normal to pretty looking women? These ugly fucks really think they got something there. A incel already downvoted this. Lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 07:19 PM
56

Tell him that your sexual fetish is that you orgasm every time you have sex. Watch them scream, cry and run away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 03:27 PM
141

Here is the real tea, if he didn't know it was important to her he wouldn't have destroyed it. Consider also that if she had done something like this to him he probably would have beaten her up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 02:11 PM
8

They absolutely could if they tried. They don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 01:42 PM
90

Imagine how brain damage you have to be to want to be with a man who has cheated on his girlfriends with you and lied to you about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 06:19 AM
119

She was 17 and he was 21. Predatory older men are evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 06:18 AM
101

Wait. I thought false accusations were worse than any other crime ever? Guess that was fake outrage to fuck women over. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 01:30 AM
13

So he's raped every woman he's ever been with every single time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 05:42 PM
68

They probably got asked to answer a question twice in a 30-minute period and counted the entire 30-minute period while they were playing video games as helping the kid with homework.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 02:26 PM
8

Yeah he's a Chad with a huge cock! Lol! That's why he's so bitter about not getting fucked he has to go on the internet to abuse random women. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 03:45 AM
3

He's a gold digger, trying to get a woman's house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 05:32 AM
26

Men are so fucking passive aggressive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 05:07 AM
8

Not impressed. Get back to me when he gives me a back rub and multiple orgasms every day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 03:25 AM
2

Good boundaries deter users and abusers because they will fail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 11:52 PM
74

And then they wonder why they are fat, balding and have a broken dick by 27.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 06:21 PM
9

I'm a freaking DDD! I need my sports bra! I knew a woman with bigger breasts and when she would work her waitress job she wore a bustier, otherwise her back would murder her. I too was a fan of going braless back when I was a B cup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 02:59 PM
12

Those men are all abusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 02:39 PM
14

Yeah washing your hands afterwards is not going to help!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 07:34 AM
23

Yeah it'll be real fun when he uses the photos you sent him to blackmail you! 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 07:28 AM
14

I really have to ask how washing your hands after you've already had a full contact with another human being's body is going to save you? I also isn't the 🍑 for vagina and not ass?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 07:28 AM
58

Don't get too excited. I looked into one guy's history and it's still full of violence, sexism and some really disgusting and disturbing racism as well. I stopped looking at that one because I just can't .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 07:15 AM
3

Just ignore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 06:52 AM
14

Embarrassing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 05:45 AM
64

Lol just let him know you want something serious. Next up: how to deal with being ghosted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 05:31 AM
18

Yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 04:09 AM
16

You can just wash the sheets, but you have to throw the man out. He's permanently ruined.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 02:22 AM
46

Yeah and eventually he'll devalue you and you'll be "just like those other girls."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 01:12 AM
9

A queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 01:00 AM
6

This really does help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 10:14 PM
2

He was practicing on her. They get off on this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 08:47 PM
9

Most men are worthless in bed and too selfish to ever learn. And teaching a man is a waste of your fucking time. He'll only ever be so good if he was that bad when you started out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 05:14 PM
3

Either lack of motivation (sex etc) or knowing the woman will see through it and act (call him out, dump him)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 03:52 PM
6

They will realize that you have had breast implants if you ever get intimate. As for the rest men are idiots and their idea of natural beauty is a completely done up woman with a bunch of work who just isn't wearing purple eyeshadow. If anything, going on about "natural beauty" indicates he reads incel/manosphere/ misogynistic information and watches a lot of porn. Red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 02:25 PM
5

Could be a number of things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 02:01 PM
14

That just gave me the funniest image of someone puppeteering a penis with strings to get it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 01:38 PM
9

But isn't everything about MEEEEEEE?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 01:37 PM
22

I doubt any of these young women realize that it takes at least 20 minutes of good foreplay for a woman to get aroused enough to have sex. I had to actually research it when I was younger because I was having serious problems due to PCOS. If a guy is giving you less than that, he's fucking you over. 20 minutes is the minimum. I was with one guy who give me an hour of attention before trying to get his dick anywhere near my vagina. That's the difference between shit sex and fantastic sex that wil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 01:32 PM
9

I have that too because I have PCOS. Hormone imbalance. You absolutely should get the chance of a hormone imbalance checked out if you have never gotten wet. It's also never happened for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 01:29 PM
13

Men HATE being called on their shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 03:47 AM
69

I never would have notified him, just changed the password. Fuckfaces don't get nice treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 02:33 AM
10

☠️☠️☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 12:25 AM
46

And MaNiPuLaTiOn too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 12:24 AM
44

His pleasure, consent and orgasm aren't optional, yours don't even exist. #equality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 11:13 PM
58

Or "oh I get off from the closeness" or "it's not a tit-for-tat situation. I don't keep score." 😐 A guy actually told me it's "not tit for tat" and "stop keeping score" when I asked to orgasm also from the sex that we had. I didn't fuck his again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 11:09 PM
13

Sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 11:06 PM
11

"I've had diarrhea all day 😉 🔥"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 07:45 PM
18

Rapists all got their theories about how the rapes they commit don't count
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 05:01 PM
3

Big man going after a little girl! He's definitely an abuser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 10:55 AM
11

Her thinking "I better lock him down now!" Ridiculous. She bought her future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 10:08 AM
11

"his kids"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 09:37 AM
5

Bro Choice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 08:46 AM
92

Men are just psychopathic manipulators. They watch porn at crazy levels and attack and degrade any woman who doesn't smile and tell them it's wonderful. Then they turn around and use naked pictures against women to ruin their lives. Then after all this abuse, tell women to just accept it because it's NBD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 03:06 PM
53

He just wanted to see how long she'd sit by the phone waiting for him. When 6 rolled around he wouldn't of called because he would have pushed it off to seven or eight and he would have probably pushed it off a little more later on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 03:00 PM
28

"how do I save this?" Why would you want to? I and clearly he's extremely misogynistic and she's not very good at identifying things. Saying he doesn't hate women because he's pro-choice is so sad. Such a low bar. I doubt he's actually pro-choice and he's more pro his choice to push the woman to do whatever he wants, whether it's baby or abortion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 02:49 PM
40

He only paid for your first few dates. That's beyond basic. I would expect him to pay for everything during dating. And most after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 02:40 PM
35

"get out of my house" is the only response
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 05:28 AM
72

"Ladies, if he doesn't give you the best dick of your life before 9 a.m. every Saturday, don't husband him."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 05:22 AM
1

I found it an added it into the post. It's a whole book so you have to go to the correct essay and read the essay which is a few pages. A 1 day old account and this is the only thing you've done with it. I'm guessing you're a troll. You're going to have a lot of fun reading that book and getting pissed. 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 09:37 PM
65

You having needs was what was unacceptable to him. Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 02:35 PM
67

Time, attention and consideration. That's too hard for LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 02:32 PM
2

Wow. You know there's no time like the present to remove that out of your life and be free of the idiocy. Only internet dwelling incel MRA types could ever say dumb shit like that.q
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 01:56 PM
2

Where did this lady come from? No time like the present to look for a new therapist who's not ridiculous! And I know what I'm talking about, I've been through it. It sucks but it's worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 01:58 AM
1

Ouch! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 10:03 PM
1

RIP!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 10:02 PM
15

I'm sorry to tell you this but he's a porn addict. That's why he can't get hard. He's chosen porn over you and even over his penis. It's porn induced erectile dysfunction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 10:01 PM
13

Exactly. I'm going to sit back and let him show me his feathers, perform his dance, bring me his gifts and show me the nest he made, and if I don't like it I walk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 07:22 PM
10

When Darwin said it back in the 1800's men got pissed. Shit doesn't change!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 07:21 PM
16

Men are fucking evil and these libfem pickmes facilitate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 07:07 PM
3

Strangely this link goes nowhere but to a blank page
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 07:02 PM
7

Therapist sounds pretty dumb. Wow! You should have extremely expensive invasive abdominal surgery that can trigger autoimmune disease, seriously it can look it up, cuz the tiny snip is bad for the man? You can end up with bladder damage urinary incontinence loss of sensation to your genitalia or ability to orgasm from any surgery in that region.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 06:42 PM
4

If he's not hiding things then he generally won't have locks on things and he'll willingly hand you his phone/computer if you ask to look something up on the internet. Some people just look through his phone at night while he's sleeping.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 06:33 PM
13

It's also stupid because constantly looking at silicone and photoshop enhanced women with stage makeup on absolutely conditions them to expect that in real life. Men don't even know what a woman's body actually looks like now. They believe thigh gaps are real, that woman's breasts should look like silicone porno bubble breasts, that the tiny little bit of fat we carry under the navel is actually us being fat when it's a natural female characteristic and so many more. These guys think airbrushed …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 05:43 PM
12

Don't just take what he says at face value. Men lie about their porn use like crazy. They lie about what they like, what they watch, how frequently they watch it, how often they masturbate to it... Fds recommends looking through his phone, search history and computer if you can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 05:35 PM
23

I would let him find a list of videos of porn with big beefy men with giant penises. Let him explode and blow up the relationship. Double standard believing, porn using men are trash and should be burned by their own sexist double standards. Also masturbation is only acceptable occasionally once a person is in a relationship. He should be saving his sexual energy for you and bringing his best to you in the bedroom. Period. I dated a man who didn't masterbate and didn't watch porn and he could fu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 05:25 PM
10

He has messy hair with a bad haircut, a receding hairline, and he's wearing a brown shirt the color of poop. He has the sallow complexion of someone who drinks too much and spends his days inside at a computer and he clearly doesn't work out. This guy definitely isn't high value. "Women want to chase the man". Noped out right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 05:17 PM
22

Dating with chronic illness can be very difficult. Particularly in your twenties if you're dealing with physical limitations. The people that you date likely have never dealt with any kind of long-term disability or limitation and they simply don't understand it. They usually get angry. I dated a guy who was pretty abusive toward me about my physical limitations, he was also abusive in other ways. I have permanent damage to my neck and it means that I have to rest and take breaks and take naps b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 05:15 PM
22

That stuff reallyadee spit out my drink. If you fuck a guy on the first date that's just called a one night stand. And it's gonna suck probably 95% of the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 03:10 PM
122

She got it partly right. Men are smart enough... to know that gender equality does not benefit them. It takes away a lot of their privileges and cuts down on their access to vagina by giving women options other than staying married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 10:47 AM
4

Lol unironically!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 10:42 AM
2

I love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 01:46 AM
12

you know they don't even show normal kissing on TV anymore. The man just attacks a woman and slams her into the wall and shoves his tongue in her mouth and like gropes her. Then bam! Dick time! 🤢🤮 Interestingly that's exactly what a lot of rapes look like.
/r/askFDS30/04/20 01:40 AM
5

Same! I might like to have sex too but after adequate snuggling, foreplay and connection.. I don't want to be sexually attacked and essentially raped while unaroused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 01:37 AM
9

Oh my God she literally just changed her hair color and is making kiss face with her lips. How stupid are these men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 01:31 AM
4

He might choke on his dinosaur shaped chicken nuggets that she hand feeds him for dinner. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 01:29 AM
3

When the hell is she going to do that taking care of the kids, the house and doing everything without him helping?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 01:29 AM
15

"How was your day sweetie?" "Ughh" "I'm so glad to hear that! My day was great. Coworker Judy told me about her family etcetera etc. End of the day I picked up the kids and went home and made you dinner. Our little girl did such-and-such funny thing! Lol" "Ughh" "I wish you were there! You would have loved it, it was so cute. What do you want to do tomorrow?" "Ugughg" "How about we take the kids to the zoo? I hear they have some new baby tigers!" "Ughh" "You're such a wonderful, supportive husba…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 01:27 AM
41

SAFE is code for not cheating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 01:17 AM
31

What she means is she likes having him at home because she knows he's not cheating on her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 01:13 AM
9

By "SAFE" she means not cheating on her and she's super grateful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 01:10 AM
10

This might be not be popular but I would stick with him as long as it's good and you get what you want and need and there's no weird stuff happening. But yeah it sounds like there's a problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 01:02 AM
2

You should rewrite your original post because the implication when addressing rape was that if you go to a man's house at 2 a.m. he gets to rape you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 12:54 AM
6

I agree completely. But your original post makes the implication that if you go to a man's house at 2 a.m. it's consent automatically. You should rewrite it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 12:50 AM
7

I agree with you completely. Don't go to a man's house thinking you can avoid sex when he's calling you over at 2 a.m. because he is very likely to try rape you, and even succeed at it. But I'm sorry I've got to say your original post sounds like you're implying that if you go to a man's house at 2 a.m. it's not rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 12:49 AM
9

Never go to a man's house at night. Don't be a chump. But it doesn't equal consent if you do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 12:43 AM
8

Just because she goes to his place and he thinks he's going to get some doesn't mean he gets to rape her. It doesn't imply consent. Only consent to sex equals consent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 12:42 AM
7

Or maybe she just liked the guy and wanted to snuggle? Only consent to sex is consent, not going to a man's house at 2 am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 12:40 AM
18

Yes. "Come over to snuggle" "I'm cold/lonely". Going there isn't consent. Only consent is consent!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 12:39 AM
41

Even if she went to his house at 2am doesn't mean he gets to force her. It's still rape. Naivete on the part of a woman, or thinking she can get something she wants different from what he wants, does it mean he gets to rape her. His intentions don't mean jack shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 12:38 AM
1

I read it today and it was great. It's only a few pages. The link is to the entire book full of essays which all look good. It's on my list!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 11:42 PM
26

And HEAVY vetting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 11:05 PM
16

Unfortunately was information compiled from a large number of studies. If you would like you can read the essay I found a free link and it's in the original text post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 10:30 PM
87

Smart girl! You were ahead for your age!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 10:27 PM
19

Says it all and wraps it up with a nice bow! Jerks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 09:36 PM
16

I have 2. Anyway someone found a link to a free PDF and I added it to the text post if anyone is interested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 09:35 PM
24

There's actually more information in the full essay where the men were given six different circumstances and the men didn't want to allow women to have abortion unless the pregnancy was the result of rape by another man, it would physically harm or kill the woman, or the child was deformed. All other circumstances such as unplanned pregnancy, an unwanted child, and no money to raise a child the man didn't want an abortion. And apparently information was gathered from multiple different research …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 09:33 PM
13

Thanks! Never mind. It wouldn't let me download the PDF. Oh well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 08:28 PM
9

It really is! I wish I had been able to find the entire essay because I remember reading it somewhere and it was great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 08:13 PM
77

Unfortunately like it says in the quoted material, once they were over 25 most men had no interest at all learning about birth control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 08:12 PM
236

It's all about control. A lot of them are very pro abortion when they want to force a woman into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 07:46 PM
42

It's part of an entire book of essays he wrote called refusing to be a man. It looks super interesting. Did a little googling but couldn't find a copy of the book. Or even the entire essay unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 07:45 PM
20

See the quote "because it's wrong" in the posted excerpt as the men's explanation. This is a short summary of an entire essay in a collection of essays based off of research by John Stoltenberg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 07:43 PM
16

Never said not to even kiss or touch their arm hold their hand. I'm starting to wonder if young people even know anymore that you can do other things before having sex with someone and you don't just have to go right to sex.
/r/askFDS29/04/20 06:00 PM
21

These type of men do actually expect women to mop floors enthusiastically. Actually most men seem to think that we have some sort of biological predisposition to enjoy cleaning for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 03:20 PM
43

If you already had sex with them in that one or two weeks that's probably why. When you're interested in someone you wait longer to get to know them.
/r/askFDS29/04/20 08:17 AM
2

This guy posted an fds post about women wanting to orgasm during sex too to some sub for a bunch of dudes to make fun of the women. https://www.reddit.com/r/DeuxRAMA/comments/g6jyjv/gussy_not_even_once/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/askFDS29/04/20 08:13 AM
25

If he actually wanted someone "his speed" he'd go after someone his own age. He's almost 30. And also this clearly shows he's not actually serious about you. He also sounds like creep who wants to use you sexually and is now feeling bad about it because of your inexperience. He also clearly has a lot of sexual hang-ups.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 06:32 AM
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According to a couple of different vets/vet techs who have spoken about it here on Reddit, apparently a high portion of men that have large breed female dogs rape them. They take them to the vet when they tear their vaginas up too badly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 05:57 AM
4

LMAO
/r/askFDS29/04/20 03:33 AM
21

But that's not their fault! Their slave got uppity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 02:47 AM
50

He probably poked holes in the condom to trap her so he could have a slave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 02:42 AM
51

So she's home all day awake with the kids and then works all night. When did she sleep? Meanwhile he sits at work doing nothing and he can't clean when he gets home. He positions actually feeding his children and cleaning a little around the house as doing something for her that he shouldn't have to do? Wow. And her job is so easy she only has to shop for 16 hours a night which she loves! 🤔 So what she has to give up petty inconsequential things like sleeping and having time to unwind! How can I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 02:40 AM
4

Hot mess of hot messes. Why? You need to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 02:28 AM
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Wait I thought you were a nurse telling people how to properly wash their vulva and vagina? Not so much now, huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 01:17 AM
14

Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 01:16 AM
-10

The inner labia don't need soap and that will only cause you to get soap near the vaginal opening and possibly lead to yeast infection. I'm honestly not sure why you are even talking about the asshole. Cearly that needs soap. No one said that it didn't. Not one person. You seem to think you have a stronger argument if you include the asshole and implie people said not to use soap on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 12:33 AM
9

Same. He is definitely not romancing her with a nice dinner or dancing or a massage and then kissing her and caressing her until she's aroused. If the guy doesn't bring it, we aren't here for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 12:32 AM
3

You have to love yourself and get angry and be offended. Be absolutely fucking done. Also know that masturbating to a fantasy of you being with him will be 100 times better than being with some nasty piece of shit like him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 12:27 AM
8

Porn is hate beyond anything women have ever done to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 12:26 AM
11

Porn test dummies That makes me sick but that's exactly how it feels. That's how they make you feel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 12:23 AM
13

It's really just "Wahhh! These women have standards that don't include me getting to fuck them because I offer nothing. Discrimination!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 12:22 AM
5

It's anti LVM!!! 😲😦😯😦😩😫😵😱😥😢😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 12:20 AM
6

As if he's ever interacted with a wet pussy in his fucking life! Screaming! 🤪😂🤣😄🤔😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 12:18 AM
3

Just wash the outer labia, not the inner labia. She doesn't know what she's talking about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 12:09 AM
2

You're a nurse but you just told women to wash inside of their vaginas with water? That's not a thing. We don't need to wash inside of our vagina with anything. Sometimes after my period I'll use my fingers with water to just to get the extra bits of blood out. That's it. The only place on the outside of your vulva that requires any soap is your outer labia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 12:02 AM
66

Your boyfriends were pulling some shit. They were either talking trash about you to their friends which made them think that they could speak to you like that or maybe they were blaming you for not being able to hang out. I even had a boyfriend one time who told me his friends said nasty things about me, but to this day I don't know if it's even true because it didn't really make any sense at the time. I think it was a lie to fuck with my head. A lot of men are abusive, manipulative scum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 11:28 PM
13

Awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 11:26 PM
53

One of the things I found most helpful is to just allow myself to be insulted and afronted by things, and offended. It doesn't mean you have to get upset, but it means you're not going to take it anymore. Also walk away. It feels great! If a man insults you get up and just walk away. Don't say anything. Don't have any other reaction. Don't get upset. Just walk away. If he tries to talk to you just keep walking. Get cold once someone offends you. It's amazing. Learn to say no and to be done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 11:23 PM
26

He has communicated and she said no. Any further attempts at "communication" are called manipulation and any "sex" that results from manipulation is rape. That therapist is an accomplice to rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 11:19 PM
30

Oh my god! I have had men tell me that I don't like sex because I don't like to essentially be raped by them with no foreplay or pleasure for me, painful, and too rough of course. Fucking assholes. Just imagine if society decided that male sexuality was painful anal rape. That's what this mentality is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 11:04 PM
115

🤮🤮🤮 This little boy needs to go back to his mommy. I don't think she finished mothering him. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 10:47 PM
2

At the very best this dude is trying to make himself feel better for being a violent abuser. But this one's clearly just trying to get back in her pants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 06:44 PM
5

I had one guy who repeatedly tried to force me into sex who then apologized to me because it made him feel like a bad person. I looked him straight in the eye and I said you tried to rape me and you should feel like a bad person because you are. Then I walked away cold as hell. There is no better feeling then aggressively loving yourself and taking zero shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 06:40 PM
1

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 06:35 PM
3

Ehh. I would just send him a text and say I'm done and block. There's no need to be friends with someone you've been trapped with for 5 years that you don't even like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 06:31 PM
1

Run
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 06:25 PM
9

He tattled to group chat. Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 06:23 PM
4

This was so bad my blood pressure went high and my vision went wobbly. This guy is "great" but he's resentful of taking care of her and does so little cooking he doesn't know how to use a knife? 😬😬😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 06:22 PM
29

"guess you should have emptied your pockets then" and walk away. This is exactly why you don't serve a guy, he will only treat you like shit for it. He does his own laundry and cleans up his own messes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 06:11 PM
4

There is an option to have lovers and a rotation, as long as you're getting what you want and need. Good sex, good dates, respect. You still don't chase. He takes you out, treats you. If you do this be picky as hell! It's very hard to find a good lover. There actually is a section about this in the handbook. But the sub is about dating for relationship and commitment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 06:07 PM
4

I desire service. Bring it or get out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 05:00 PM
5

Yes I think there's times two be standoffish and times to ask for things. And times to demand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 04:56 PM
28

Probably only because he did absolutely nothing. The standard now is if a man does pretty much anything at all he is a god who is living the equality dream with his wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 03:29 PM
18

The only actually fun part about makeup ofc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 03:23 PM
26

I bet men would say the same thing about women's performance in the bedroom if they were copying porn verses actually naturally being themselves and going with what they enjoy. "You're so natural in the bedroom when you shove your ass out and moan 'Daddy give it to me!'"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 03:20 PM
49

It's amazing how so many women will fight each other right to the bottom of hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 03:12 PM
18

Nice manslation 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 07:27 AM
26

Ding ding ding!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 07:24 AM
20

This right here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 07:17 AM
25

Thank you! If a guy isn't bringing his sexual energy solely to me, and satisfying me every time too, I'm out. I'm not a side piece to porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 06:58 AM
8

I think your confusion is your sign. If you wanted to be with this person then you would be sure about it. Especially the part where he reminds you of your ex. That's a bad sign.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 06:26 AM
2

Or he's hoping to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 06:12 AM
1

I had one supervisor I swear never did any actual work. And she was gone all the time. But she wouldn't allow people time off for anything. I remember the time I got strep throat and couldn't come into work because it was contagious. I was so happy that finally actually got more than two fucking days off when I was really sick to recover for the first time ever. I've done things like go to work so sick I could barely get out of bed by just juicing up on massive amounts of caffeine and cold pills…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 06:11 AM
4

Don't worry, she's just having a pickme fit because she sees men are crap and she doesn't like it. So she's attacking women instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 05:46 AM
3

Yeah we don't really have a choice and it's hard to get jobs here, the pay is trash, and if you walk out on a job good luck getting another one. Your boss doesn't give a fuck about your "personal life". Oh and a lot bosses and supervisors here get off on giving you time off to fulfill family obligations and then revoking it last minute. I had a supervisor who got angry at me for daring to go to the doctor after injuring my neck in a car accident. I ended up actually having to withdraw from schoo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 05:30 AM
9

Oh he is leaving so many things out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 05:06 AM
6

"this is my body that I get to grope and hurt it whenever I want"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 12:41 AM
6

You are so right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 12:29 AM
12

yeah nobody gives a shit that she's feeling molested by him and eventually she's not going to want to be with him or be touched by him at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 12:28 AM
11

"to play with" 😬😬😬😬 Good Lord, she's not a fucking toy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 12:27 AM
15

Colon cancer here we come!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 12:24 AM
48

Meanwhile these dudes all have hemorrhoids from only eating meat because vegetables are gay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 11:50 PM
26

This manlet has STANDARDS! 😂😭🤣👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:38 PM
1

The rape victim mentioned she wasn't going to report and people started attacking her, downvoting her and one person told her it was her fault if her rapist rapes someone else. A Person who claimed to be a SANE nurse no less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 04:18 PM
26

Oh look, a sexy partially naked photo to go with a serious article about abuse of women in relationships! Thanks men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 04:15 AM
8

I love you for the rest of my life. Here is a $300 ring with a synthetic diamond that's meant to last you 40 years! Hope she leaves his ass. clearly he allowed her to believe it was a diamond and didn't tell her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 03:38 AM
19

That's horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 03:00 AM
4

Just report it when you see it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 02:13 AM
6

Sorry. ❤️ I have a similar experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 11:34 PM
62

Oh my God he's a piece of shit. He's manipulating you. If you're confused by how somebody is treating you that's your sign that you're being manipulated. You shouldn't be going back and forth between feeling horrible and feeling good in any relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 03:52 PM
66

In reference to friend number one, men play that game where they always turn down the woman when she initiates because they want control. It's a control move. He's trying to control the sex. Sex happens 100% on his terms. Never play that game. Always dump men like this immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 03:46 PM
52

Yes I saw a post like that, not sure if it was yours. I also saw a woman get attacked and downvoted yesterday for writing a post about finding men from good families with good histories to date. As always if you see shity comments report them so that we can take care of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 03:39 PM
77

When you see these comments report them so that we can deal with these people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 03:37 PM
35

If you see people doing that report them so that we can deal with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 03:37 PM
7

Saying that you don't even deserve good mutual sex is pretty much as bad as it gets. Women have been taught to compromise at the most elemental level of our humanity. He's using her to masturbate with. That's it. She's just a hole to put his dick in and move it around for 2 minutes until he ejaculates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 03:27 PM
8

The police don't inform victims of this. I do still live in the same place and I still look out the window at every car and every person even though it's been years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 07:15 AM
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Apparently the real bravery is coming to a female only sub and stating that you're not going to report your rape to a bunch of abusive male police officers. Then getting screamed at blamed and abused by a bunch of women who supposedly are here to support women only one week after you've been raped. OP has handled it so gracefully. I'm really ashamed at some of the women on this sub right now. Only women who have not reported a rape would badger a victim to report and abuse her and blame her for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 06:53 AM
19

One of the things I find no one talks about, which disturbs me greatly, is that when you report to the police eventually they contact your rapist. They tell your rapist that you reported him for rape. And your rapist likely knows where you live. That is a horror and a terror that is beyond words. I've lived for years looking out my windows at every car and every person thinking it's my rapist come to get revenge. No one should have to live like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 06:48 AM
7

If you truly are a SANE examiner then you are completely inappropriately pressuring and blaming rape victims at a time in their lives when what they need is someone to actually listen to them and allow them to do what they want to do and need to do. Not someone to force them and badger them into reporting to the police. You're taking their choice away just like their rapist did. Reporting to the police is little more than reporting to rapists. They will not hesitate for one moment to crush you a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 06:44 AM
28

This is completely unacceptable. You do not tell a rape victim that she's responsible for her rapist raping more people. Reporting doesn't do almost anything other than fuck the victim over more. This person has been banned for 2 days. If anyone else would like to join her voice your shity opinions now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 06:37 AM
56

This right here. I got severely sick for 3 weeks with a stomach infection that totally incapacitated me. My boyfriend made it about a week before accusing me of lying for attention and losing his shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 03:03 AM
-8

Great post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 02:57 AM
203

So daddy is molesting her and mommy knows about it. Stellar parents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 02:36 AM
10

Kwikset with smartkey security. Also you can rekey it in about 1 minute with different keys that you have, say if you were to kick somebody out. Now I'm not a lock pick so I can't say how much these resist picking but I do know that most perps go through the front door and do it by kicking in the door because most people don't have secure locks/door jambs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 02:27 AM
14

Always make a list. After multiple shity relationships I instituted the list and I would check it one month after our first date and re-evaluate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 10:38 PM
10

No and I was lucky while I lived there. It was a good lesson though on how to check out a place before you move in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 09:25 PM
47

Just keep going. What I used to do was let myself have my stupid feelings. Then once I was done I would pull out my list of all the shit he did and read it to myself and then I remind myself I'm better off now. It worked really well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 08:33 PM
34

I lived in one place and it turned out the only thing you needed to get through the front door was a credit card. Unless the deadbolt is locked but my roommate had lost the key and never bothered giving me a copy. Side note: don't live with people like that, they put everyone at risk. The garage could be opened by shaking the handle. These are things to check before considering moving into a new place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 08:27 PM
17

Like shooting fish in a barrel!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 08:19 PM
70

I don't think people realize how much their security can be compromised by a bad lock that's poorly installed. I just redid all of my locks after I caught some man on camera attempting to break into my house. I got one of the safest locks that resists picking, large metal plates that the bolts go into and are attached to the door jamb with 3 inch screws. Previously I just had a camera doorbell that was motion activated but that was enough for the guy to see the blue light go on from the camera r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 08:16 PM
16

Take care of yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 07:38 PM
19

Okay I will post it now then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 07:37 PM
76

I'm really sorry that man attacked you. ❤️❤️ I would just like to suggest posting this on a throwaway account before you share it here. What do you think? If you're okay with using this account I will post it as is. Let me know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 07:27 PM
13

If he's a jerk you don't have to explain anything to him if you don't want to, just block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 05:56 PM
4

"guy sees fiance as potential gold digger" my comment is in reference to the title of this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 04:03 PM
20

How princely of him. You have to go through the abortion and the fear and the pain and also pay for half of it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 03:55 PM
15

He's the one who fucked up and ejaculated inside of her so why shouldn't he pay?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 03:49 PM
9

"I do this all the time and my wife is ok with it." And then a few comments later: "NAMALT!!!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 03:37 PM
54

The cops are the same men doing this shit to their wives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 03:36 PM
42

There's a reason the most common date rape drug is alcohol. And that doesn't just go one way. Men use it as an excuse to rape all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 03:34 PM
20

How is she a gold digger if her family is rich?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 03:30 PM
76

For the better! 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 03:29 PM
56

A 35 year old man who wears video game t-shirts and has bad hygiene? 🤣 Yeah no way he's getting with an adult woman his own age!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 03:27 PM
14

Old pervert who pervs on girls who just turned 18 doesn't grow up and it's reflected in his style.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 03:18 PM
10

Queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 04:52 AM
34

Good for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 04:48 AM
65

When your man don't love you for shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 04:36 AM
34

Because I got tired of them raping me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 02:41 AM
115

That's literally just what women's bellies look like after they've completed puberty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 02:31 AM
2

I didn't get that part either. Maybe the person he impregnated was under 18?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 10:59 PM
30

UnHeAlThY UlTiMaTuM! I screamed. I saw one woman who had been with this dude for years, it turned out that he didn't actually want to be with her he was just using her as a bangmaid. She said that's it, I'm leaving since you aren't serious about me. Some dude called that an unhealthy ultimatum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 10:58 PM
43

The only times I ever fucked up were when I went back on my first inclination and thought twice. I can honestly say I never walked out too early, it was always later than it should have been and I could trace it back to the first time that I wanted to leave but didn't since I didn't want to "overreact".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 10:54 PM
16

You know he's trying to play you or you wouldn't be here asking everybody. None of this is normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 10:46 PM
24

Definitely love bombing. You got to run. You basically made it a "challenge" for him and now he's just throwing money at you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 10:31 PM
87

why the fuck is she still dating this guy and also still making excuses for him. This is the craziest fucking thing I've ever heard as far as absolute blatant lying and then sticking to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 09:15 PM
9

"full-time single dad"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 06:04 PM
60

He's using this detail to self-promote? 🤦‍♀️ Nope! You should put this detail in the OP because I think it's key.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:33 PM
82

So he won't see you when he has his daughter but he has his daughter all the time? Also he's definitely an immature man baby abuser misogynist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:30 PM
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