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MALE DEPRAVITYrestlessGal/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 12:59 AM
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DISCUSSIONrestlessGal/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:04 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨restlessGal/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:01 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMErestlessGal/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:12 PM
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NAH, SISrestlessGal/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 09:43 PM
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FDS RESCUE MISSIONrestlessGal/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 07:52 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYrestlessGal/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:07 AM
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RED FLAG 🚨restlessGal/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:16 PM
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NAH, SISrestlessGal/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:50 AM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMErestlessGal/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 08:44 AM
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How-To High ValuerestlessGal/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:57 PM
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NAH, SISrestlessGal/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:57 PM
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MINDSET SHIFTrestlessGal/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:14 PM
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DISCUSSIONrestlessGal/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 12:12 PM
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NAH, SISrestlessGal/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:32 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESrestlessGal/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:49 PM
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NAH, SISrestlessGal/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 01:52 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYrestlessGal/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 11:20 AM
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STRATEGYrestlessGal/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 08:47 PM
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 REDDIT HATES WOMENrestlessGal/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:47 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYrestlessGal/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:28 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESrestlessGal/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:50 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYrestlessGal/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:03 PM
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NAH, SISrestlessGal/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 10:23 AM
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DISCUSSIONrestlessGal/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 12:10 PM
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NAH, SISrestlessGal/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 04:10 PM
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DISCUSSIONrestlessGal/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 10:06 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYrestlessGal/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 12:26 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYrestlessGal/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:19 AM
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5

I read this as “tech girls” and I was really confused
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 12:00 AM
5

This is bad too, if my boyfriend’s mom takes his side if he wrongs me they’re both trash. But I know for sure she would be really upset with him and maybe even cut ties
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 11:58 PM
7

So many girls that I know are in this situation. It’s extremely sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 01:20 PM
6

What a creepy fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 01:57 PM
2

Ehm it really depends… like I enjoy lingerie and find it beautiful, I definitely wouldn’t mind if my boyfriend gifted me that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 06:40 PM
11

I don’t think you can put a label on behavior like this. It depends on the quality of person in general. Good actions might have foul intentions if the person is yucky
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 01:02 PM
28

Leave them be, they’ll eventually see their mistakes and realize their fuckup. It’s unfortunate but it’s also life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 07:50 PM
3

Having a PhD in that is like having a PhD in how to avoid falling in a pothole. Useless and time consuming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 11:39 AM
1

What do you mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 10:14 AM
3

Seems like OP is a British girl who just recently converted to Islam
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 05:15 AM
5

Exactly, just because you expose yourself it doesn’t even mean you’re learning anything new! More often than not relationship hopping leads to repeating the same mistakes over and over again so it’s quite silly and not helpful at all. Not to say that it can create attachment and commitment issues
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 05:15 AM
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Read up on demisexuality. It’s sad that we have a label for what is theoretically the sane way of being and dating But I’m just like you, completely disconnected to how people date nowadays
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 11:12 PM
4

Thank you! Will keep that in mind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 09:53 PM
5

You’re right. But what is there to do in a situation when you can see a woman is making a clear mistake (like I’ve posted in the past with women in huge age gaps) if you told her how you see things but she insists everything is okay?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 09:42 PM
18

Exactly! And young people in general are a complete headache to deal with anyways
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 07:06 PM
36

With all due respect don’t act like you know all women. I know what I’ve seen around me. Yes some women have this mentality due to men telling them they’re not like other girls but some are also jealous. They’re not mutually exclusive Plus I can’t block classmates and people around me, I’m also talking about overhead conversations..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 07:01 PM
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I’m not putting her down for the sake of putting her down but I LITERALLY know this type of girl who is bitchy towards you when she sees you wear makeup but she secretly envies you. I’m not riling women against women but some women have no issue insulting others for male validation, I don’t think they deserve my respect if they do that you know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 06:21 PM
1

Wdym?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 06:14 PM
23

Oh yes! I used to think I need a hoe phase but God I’m si grateful I never did that. I don’t need to publicly display my sexuality to attract men or get attention. That is something that only my boyfriend should be interested in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 05:25 PM
21

Exactly, if anything people who fuck strangers like rabbits need a label so we know to stay away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 05:20 PM
17

Think I already did haha but thank you, need to thank my therapist as well 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 05:19 PM
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Yep, I wanted to refrain from using that term because like you said, it was and still should be the normal imo. Sex positivity fucked us up lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 05:09 PM
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People in general want what they cannot have and that includes those guys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 04:56 PM
1

That sub makes my skin crawl. Some age gaps are okay like 30-35 or something like that, but 10+ age gaps are hard to explain and even more so, it’s extremely important at what age they start. 30-35 is okay, 16-21 no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 04:55 PM
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Ah yes, tell me you’re trash at makeup and you’re jealous without telling me lol I know plenty of girls like this irl, nasty girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 04:53 PM
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I completely resonate with your experience, I’m also a virgin at 20 and sometimes I get the impression that I should be ashamed of it or something. Fuck no, nothing can convince me to lower my standards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 04:50 PM
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I recommend you don’t watch 90 Day Fiance then 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 03:28 PM
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She’s not even married. She’s playing a whole fantasy movie in her head
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 03:28 PM
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Definitely this. I remember when I used to feel empty when I didn’t have a crush. It’s not an okay mentality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 03:22 PM
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Rose had the glow up of a star but she also stuck to her boundaries and respected herself in the end. This girl seems to have none of that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 02:51 PM
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Rose had the glow up of a star but she also stuck to her boundaries and respected herself in the end. This girl seems to have none of that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 02:51 PM
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Rose had the glow up of a star but she also stuck to her boundaries and respected herself in the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 02:51 PM
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Yeah, just watch 90 Day Fiance to see plenty of situations like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 02:27 PM
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It’s them against the world until it becomes her against him… or vice versa
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 02:23 PM
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It’s them against the world until it becomes her against him…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 02:23 PM
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I love her, she has amazing videos on pickmes and dating gurus aka con artists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:44 PM
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They’re not all older man younger woman, but I’d say 90% of them are. Regardless that sub is… weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:41 PM
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Maybe women his age but he’s definitely single for a reason… well was
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:18 PM
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She seems so immature, even if she does level up it will be a while…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:17 PM
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Exactly. If you truly don't give a fuck about it why do you need to prove something to literal strangers?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:55 PM
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I agree. Me and my boyfriend would say similar stuff ngl but can you blame us? It’s riddled with red flags. And if you truly don’t care about other’s opinions why do you do cringy shit to make them uncomfortable? That’s so immature
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:45 PM
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For sure she got it from aliens when they abducted her not from a slimy disgusting hookup positive guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:37 PM
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Eh personally I couldn’t. It’s hard enough to handle my emotions and not fall into past toxic patterns with one partner, two I wouldn’t be able to handle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 10:26 AM
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We all know pickmes would kick their kids if that makes them look better in front of men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 10:17 AM
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Care to share?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 10:16 AM
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Poor women who think their worth is less because of this. I wish I could tell each one of them that their partner is a selfish scumbag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 09:56 AM
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Nailed it, she is indeed not in a relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 09:49 AM
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Yeah, those guys are absolutely disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 07:49 AM
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She’s not even married which I think speaks volumes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 07:48 AM
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Yes, that is also correct. Funnily I’ve seem unpopular opinions get downvoted and people were arguing with OP but isn’t the point of an unpopular opinion to disagree with it???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 07:47 AM
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Pickmes like this are dangerous because they fuel bad men’s idiotic fantasies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 07:46 AM
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Yep, recently converted to islam and she thinks it’s all puppies and rainbows
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 07:45 AM
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Exactly. You can’t love someone and be ok with sharing them and them sharing their love. I personally find it extremely hard to wrap my head around polyamory
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:16 AM
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Yeah… a man that loves you will never want another partner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:15 AM
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Comments: https://imgur.com/a/uAKLEbu
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:48 PM
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It’s a sub for unpopular opinions so those can actually mean the awardees are against her opinion but still… kinda odd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:47 PM
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Should have been more attentive to comments let me see if anyone praises her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:33 PM
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You’re right just didn’t want to be disrespectful to women who unfortunately are stuck in this religion but they also don’t enjoy being in a polyamorous marriage. This girl… God help her. She also mentioned threesomes in the comments 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:31 PM
1

Completely agree. There’s no other way to put it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:25 PM
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The concept of love languages has the same flaws as the MBTI types. You cannot fit someone in a box and except them to abide solely to that label. Humans are complex and that is simply not the case Moreover, some people excuse their awful behavior and lack of communication and compromise on their love language “Oh I know you love to spend time together but my love language is words of affirmation!!!” Bullshit. When there’s a will there is a way to meet you halfway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:16 PM
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OP acknowledges its an unpopular opinion but come on, just the thought of my boyfriend wanting a second girlfriend makes me 😬😬😬 Edit: an assortment of comments from that thread to feast your eyes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:13 PM
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Especially when those clowns are 6 years your senior and are flakey
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 04:24 PM
1

I don’t know, I would definitely be feeling the age gap in person…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 02:25 PM
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Yep, who knows how old she was when they met
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:41 AM
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“Our sex drives are incompatible” Translation: “I’m too selfish and too sex craved to be a decent human being and a partner for you”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:36 AM
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I beg to differ, reflexes are not conditioned by physical form. I know people who are fit and have bad reflexes, I know people who have similar body types of mine and they have amazing reflexes. In this case the adrenaline rush did most of the work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:34 AM
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Yes. Especially very tall men who want very short girls. It’s weird, it’s creepy. It’s one thing if feelings develop organically and another when your requirement is height. I’m almost 6 feet and didn’t have many guys wanting to date me when I was younger so I was able to stand back and observe and also hear a lot of opinions. The amount of guys that were emasculated by taller girls and wanted very short ones was and still is hilarious. To me, even if it’s wasn’t creepy, it’s a sign of insecurit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:33 AM
19

I know that when I brought this up to my boyfriend he acted like it was no brained and said that he gets tested before and after a relationship anyways
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:30 AM
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Bills splitting and everything aside, it is extremely rude to invite additional guests to an outing and expect others to cover everything. This dude is showing his colors so blatantly and this girl doesn’t know what to do?…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:01 AM
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She didn’t get lucky, she got what she deserved. Radiate high quality energy and you’ll get the same back. Her husband is an absolute sweetheart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 10:57 AM
5

If you don’t have any dates for when the relationship progresses physically yes, it is a fantasy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 10:55 AM
6

You’re being very generous with that 35. I give it til she’s 25 and she’s no longer young (25 is young obviously but I’m talking his language)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 10:54 AM
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Yeah exactly, especially just 6 months into the relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 09:10 AM
5

It doesn’t sound good because it isn’t. Your opinion on kids can’t be “whatever “ cause it’s such an important topic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 09:03 AM
3

Good points. No one likes people like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 09:01 AM
4

Exactly, this is so yucky
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 09:00 AM
2

In this case yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 08:59 AM
5

Exactly. People forget that there’s little difference between a 17 yo and an 18 yo mentally but legally it’s a huge difference. The laws of consent are flawed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 12:12 AM
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Repeat after me, legal ≠ moral !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 12:00 AM
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mental issues and difficulty to commit, be intimate and trust
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 11:41 PM
6

They were together for 6 months before he ghosted her so I’m not sure if we can give him the benefit of the doubt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 11:29 PM
5

Yeah exactly. I was 16 4 years ago but God knows what a fool I used to be. We all were! She’s being preyed upon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:58 PM
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Good gracious they have no dignity…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:57 PM
7

More like daughter issues cause that’s what he’s looking for..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:45 PM
9

No worries, wish the mods changed the flair since I don’t think it represents me but I digress. I agree with you, small number of relationships isn’t an immediate red flag as a high number is. Best policy is of course to ask. Did he not have many relationships cause he was happy single and focusing on his stuff or is it because he is insufferable as a partner? Big difference
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:39 PM
10

Yeah… saddest thing is she initiated it and wanted to be together with him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:29 PM
9

Unfortunately apparently it’s legal in UK where she is from. The law is truly disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:28 PM
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That’s what I told her too. But this poor girl seems troubled, her post history is… concerning
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:27 PM
5

Ah yes, but guys like that I can smell from miles away. I guess what I meant is that I don’t judge a low number of relationships but from a high number of relationships I can certainly deduct certain things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:24 PM
5

Exactly. There are good LDRs and then LRDs that make everyone roll their eyes in their head
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:18 PM
8

I mean I literally don’t care since I’m strongly against hookups and people with high body counts 🤣 So I just don’t judge people on looks only on personality and don’t date anyone with whom I don’t even have an emotional connection with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:17 PM
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Even more concerning, she has a whole post about how she didn’t get groomed and saying that the term groomed gets used too much…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 08:32 PM
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I agree with you. I actually found out from her that she initiated the relationship which is even more concerning and that this isn’t the first time she’s had a relationship with a person over 18
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 08:30 PM
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No worries, I understood your point too. LDRs with no end-goal and no actual plans are just fantasies so that I agree with And for this girl… God I hope she blocks him and moves on to glow up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 08:20 PM
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Exactly. Back when me and my boyfriend were only dating he would take his laptop to work so he can text me on Discord (he couldn’t get it on his phone back then) and when he got it on his phone he was answering my texts before a movie started while he was with his bff at the cinema. When there’s will there’s a way. Girls need to learn that if a guy wants to, he WILL find time for you Edit: gonna put this additional information since this is the highest upvoted comment in the thread she initiated…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 08:19 PM
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Yes absolutely, never disagreed with you on that one She’s 16 now but God knows when they met…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 08:13 PM
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Well yes of course, LDRs with no endgame are just fantasies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 08:12 PM
9

I agree that lots of them start and die fast, but exceptions exist. I just wanted to mention that since I am in one myself. However, I am not defending this situation at all. I mean he ghosted her so it’s not even a relationship to begin with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 08:09 PM
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Some LDRs can be healthy but that implies that both parties are ok. In this case the guy is a weirdo and a disrespectful one. Like he ghosts her and expects to come back into her life just like that???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 08:02 PM
1

I used to be one of those girls and now I’m anti diets and pro body acceptance. Personally I cannot be a hypocrite and only apply this for women but each to their own
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 07:55 PM
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God that makes it so much worse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 07:00 PM
1

I personally don’t want to shit on anyone’s appearance since I’m struggling with my own and learning to love myself and my curves. A shitty person is shitty enough without picking on their physique
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 07:00 PM
24

Damn I’m sorry if you went through an experience like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 06:55 PM
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Exactly. Legal ≠ ethical. People confuse the two oh so often
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 06:54 PM
16

You and me both
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 06:54 PM
24

He deserves a standing ovation 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 06:53 PM
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Exactly. I’m not impressed by simply money. Honestly not even paying for my date impresses me unless he planned everything ahead, picked the spot, the time etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 05:26 PM
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I don’t agree with this. I don’t need anyone’s random money. If anything they’ll act more entitled because of it. I don’t have the energy, time or patience for those games
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 05:13 PM
2

How I wish everyone went to therapy… Imagine how this world would look like if that was the case
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 05:08 PM
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Check my comment in this thread to see another post of hers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 04:46 PM
20

And even if he does do anything, it’s not a good thing!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 04:37 PM
20

And as soon as possible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 04:35 PM
1

I’m glad you freed yourself from the shackles of sex liberation and male validation. You did well and I’m proud of you Hopefully this girl has a similar glow up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 04:32 PM
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I tend to try to not judge people on the number of relationships they’ve had, but in this case I think we have enough red flags without that to conclude that this relationship will end badly. Even if it ends up in marriage, that’s still a bad ending
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 04:31 PM
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And it’s been 6 months. No sane person makes this statement only 6 months into a relationship like wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 04:11 PM
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Exactly. Unfortunately low self esteem, lack of maturity and experience will do that to you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 04:01 PM
1

I’m 20 and 18 yos are children to me… well not exactly but still
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:57 PM
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Being a cheater would be like sprinkles on a pile of shit cause this is what this situation is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:45 PM
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Have a good day as well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:43 PM
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I don’t but let’s agree to disagree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:37 PM
33

Well, anything to bag that pretty young naive thing right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:36 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:35 PM
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Yep… you can check my comment in this thread for a link to her post from a month ago
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:30 PM
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They met at work which is arguably even worse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:29 PM
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“BUt sHe’s lEgal!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:25 PM
46

I unfortunately think she’s real…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:25 PM
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“And if you don’t want kids a trophy wife is also fine”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:19 PM
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Yeah lol, it’s lovely to have your partner tell you they want to be by your side forever but come on… they’ve been together for 5 almost 6 months. This is blatant love bombing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:08 PM
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And yes this is the same girl from this post For perspective, they’ve been together for LESS than half a year
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:02 PM
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Oh yeah. He hit on me by saying he is interested into my (at the time) best friend because he feels intimidated by me… like what??? Fortunately back then I was into my now boyfriend and wanted absolutely nothing to do with his creepy ass 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 01:34 PM
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Thankfully I never dated that douche but your ex sounds exactly like the guy I'm talking about. The "the Joker is my personality" type XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 01:22 PM
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Yikes what a weirdo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:09 AM
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I had a classmate tell me to don’t re-take an exam to get a higher grade because HE would look bad. When he said “you can ignore my advice if you wish” I responded “that was the plan from the start”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:08 AM
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We all had bad experiences in the past once we realized we have to put ourselves first. I’m proud of you for realizing your worth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:07 AM
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Stop asking why he does shit cause then once you find reasons you’ll turn them into excuses. He’s distant? Ah it’s because he didn’t have a good female figure in his life… poor him. No, stop that. He does weird shit? Put a strike down on a paper. When you get to 3 ask yourself, is this worth it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:05 AM
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My golden rule is if you broke up you had a reason to do so (except cases where the situation was out of your hand) therefore you shouldn’t go back In 99.9% of cases getting back with an ex is a terrible idea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:00 AM
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Haha you’re too nice, it’s a double edges sword, people see me as unfriendly and bitchy, but simply I cannot be bothered with small talk and trying to fit in. I have my two best friends and my boyfriend and that’s all I need But such a mentality came with time. I’m only 20 but at the same time I’ve been going to a psychologist for 2 years and working on loving my body and so on. So don’t worry, you’ll eventually get there too, we all have our own pace
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 08:52 AM
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Don’t think she’s putting other women down as much as she’s putting herself down, but I agree she is catering to men’s desires too and trying to impress. The married tweet is just sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 06:36 AM
2

Yeah that’s what I’m saying. It doesn’t sit well with me that he’s entertaining this and not helping her I’m sorry you went through that but I’m glad that garbage is out of your life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 06:34 AM
30

Do you also follow female lead on insta cause I just saw this today 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 08:42 PM
4

Best policy would be to be upfront. “Hey you said you aren’t up to date right now so I think it’s best if we kept it casual. If you want us to be friends I’m cool with that but I don’t think anything more is a good idea”. Ignoring would definitely do a lot of damage here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 06:41 PM
7

I wish he would recognize she isn’t in the best mental state and not entertain this exchange you know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 06:37 PM
-1

I’ve gotten so many comments like this… go to that subreddit and you’ll see how many women actually talk like this about age gap relationships
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:45 PM
40

Definitely not, I myself at least I’m a quite guarded, reserved and private person. Wrong me once badly and the chances of you redeeming yourself completely are almost null
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:24 PM
94

Lots of people nowadays think transactionally and have rid themselves of basic human traits. It’s quite sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:12 PM
386

She’s trying to seem kind yet the response she got is proof that you can’t be kind to everyone since not everyone deserves your respect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 04:46 PM
84

Imagine thanking someone for still being married… Girl the point of marriage is to be forever 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 01:00 PM
17

Yeah, it’s messed up and I know people like this irl and it gets messy super fast
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 12:55 PM
13

Self respect + not thinking that your worth comes from sex and pleasuring men sexually
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 12:54 PM
11

That as well yeah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 12:15 PM
230

I had a talk with a weirdo like this two years ago. Kept on going how he can’t have friends, all friendships are transactional to him, he can’t love yatta yatta Sent creeps down my spine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 12:08 PM
2

Cps doesn’t do shit for underage girls let alone legal age ones. The law is wicked that’s the issue
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 12:07 PM
32

I also have dark circles because I struggle with mental issues that keep me awake + my genetics so I wouldn’t count too much on that It’s more important if he takes care of himself. Does he shower daily, shave, groom himself, dress nicely etc?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 11:21 AM
11

I know girls like this tho. It’s sad. I wish they get help
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 11:19 AM
10

For sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 11:18 AM
11

Not that it makes it much better, age gap relationships are 99,99999% just a whole mess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 12:11 AM
21

An icon for children women like me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 12:01 AM
9

How can you love someone and do this to them? What is the logic behind people who have these “kinks” towards their long term partner??? I could never look at my boyfriend and say “oh yeah babe my pussy would get so wet if I beat you with a stick until I see bruises” legit wtf???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:59 PM
8

What the fuck is this Wattpad gibberish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:54 PM
1

Check the sub out, there are so many of them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:49 PM
3

I don’t disagree with you but lashing out isn’t the best way. You can be fierce and show you respect yourself and put up with 0 bullshit without pulling a knife out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:17 PM
1

You’d be surprised at how many superficial people that only care about the sex and looks exist. I don’t think it’s fe, check that sub and you’ll see many more similar posts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:18 PM
2

It’s not propaganda, it’s an echo chamber. There are heaps of posts like this. Girls like this exist. There are different cases on the sub, 30 with 50, 20 with 60, regardless of genders. Today I saw 15 with 17 so it’s not just crazy stuff. Hence why I’m inclined to believe it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 07:08 PM
3

Tech sisters 🤣 but I’m happy for you that you’ve found your thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:59 PM
1

Check that sub, trust me when I say there are girl like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:59 PM
1

I’m 20 and I hate it here. Thankfully I have a goddamn amazing partner and he’s keeping me sane 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:58 PM
0

Ehm not sure about that, the sub is filled to the brim with age gap content cause that’s the main purpose of the sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 03:43 PM
12

Ah you must’ve seen a random pic on imgur 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 03:42 PM
3

Same, I’m the IT tech of my family and I’m working on a Cybersecurity career so it’s safe to assume I’ll be able to protect myself quite well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 03:41 PM
1

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:56 PM
5

Shops that repair your phone and laptop download your private pics and send them to themselves, this shit doesn’t even surprise me. Not all workers in those shops of course but a fair amount
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:55 PM
1

Yeah, look at her. She gets gitty from flowers, do you think he needs to buy her expensive gifts?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:54 PM
1

Why meth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:54 PM
2

Technically you can see how they are as an ex by how they interact with their exes. But it’s not a foolproof technique
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:53 PM
3

Honestly men who prey on young girls just want a naive sex doll not a sugar baby. Most don’t even have the money to be a sugar daddy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:09 PM
45

Jesus Christ that girl is a dumpster fire. Isn’t it funny when we evolve as people and mature and we can see so clearly the people around us who stagnate and don’t make any progress whatsoever. I had the same with my ex best friend albeit on a much smaller scale and less messy, but I share your sentiment. Pickmes are no good, they drain your energy and sanity and you cannot save them if they don’t want to get help themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:34 PM
1

That is also something I heard. For some girls the fact that he doesn’t pick his stuff and leaves after rough sex is oh so romantic. The bar is so fucking low
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:17 PM
2

You’d be surprised by a lot of teenage girls then. I’m 20 and I can definitely see some of my peers write stuff like this and BRAG about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:09 PM
1

Lurk on that sub a bit and you’ll lose all hope that this is fake…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:05 PM
10

Cats?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 12:11 PM
1

I’m not sure, the sub is filled with similar content
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 12:11 PM
6

Oh yes, feminism is good for them until it starts protecting women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:40 AM
9

Unfortunately that’s not the best way to go about it. For all we know he might have copies and backups on the cloud
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:39 AM
1

Oh sister you’re overestimating their intelligence…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:38 AM
12

It’s legit the textbook red flag frenzy post that gets many upvotes on the relationship advice subs. I think OP is karma whoring but unfortunately similar situations happen irl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:37 AM
3

I don’t know but I feel bad for anyone who doubts themselves in a situation like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:33 AM
1

I’m also willing to stand up for myself if provoked. I’m almost 6 feet and I’m not afraid to throw some hands if necessary. When I was little I used to get in tons of physical altercations with other kids cause they were annoying me 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:28 AM
3

He’s not a friend since he didn’t say a goddamn thing about them to the boyfriend’s face. My friend would’ve teared him to shreds for pulling that shit and unfriended him immediately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:27 AM
2

No no, I get what you mean 🤣 I’m the type that when I’m mad she’s mad. Altho this is why I see a therapist, to react the best way possible in situations even if it doesn’t seem that way at first
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:21 AM
6

I share your sentiment but the best way to handle it personally I think is to gather evidence and talk to a lawyer to sue him for defamation or whatever you can. Pricks like these don’t care about what happens between them and a girl behind closed doors. But if their image gets tarnished publicly… oh that will hurt like a bitch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:12 AM
2

Well yeah, never said it wasn’t creepy. If anything, it’s highly disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 10:33 AM
6

Yeah exactly, plus if the sex is good I cum fairly quick. I don’t need 3 hours to call it quality sex. Most time is spent doing foreplay anyways
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 10:22 AM
11

Oh yes, I’ve seen people who said that. It’s quite sad. That whole sub promotes such stuff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 10:21 AM
7

Yeah 🤣 like my boyfriend says he could do it all night but damn my body needs a rest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 10:20 AM
5

Yep that too, either way it’s quite damaging and if someone suggests that to me or says they’re into it, alarm bells ring in my head
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 10:19 AM
6

Most posts on that sub that ask for advice also mention sex. I guess it’s easy to overshare when you’re young naive and lovestruck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 10:17 AM
10

When will we ever find our men that are like this? 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:54 AM
14

Going down doesn’t mean sucking the clit, can be some lousy tongue fucking too. Honestly, if the guy is doing such an amazing job, why even need 2 hours???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:53 AM
35

Ding ding exactly that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:39 AM
5

I’m the type that does sometimes initiate to show interest (think of it what you may, I’m fine if you disagree but this is a me thing), HOWEVER why the fuck would I waste my time to just ask people out for… asking them out? Granted i don’t believe in dating strangers and I only date friends I’ve known for a while and people that I know how they truly are, but this seems too much for nothing I hate it when men and women do it, you’re just making others uncomfortable to “boost your confidence”. Th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:20 AM
267

Oh I despise this sub. Most posts read as fake but regardless a big majority of them are “uh oh I’m an asshole” and no one calls them out because reddit is a cesspool of assholes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:17 AM
5

Thank you that’s very kind! If I do seem mature that’s only thanks to my therapist and close friends who have been an amazing support system. I’ve had my fair share trade of pickme days but who hasn’t? But as long as you realize you need to put yourself first, it doesn’t matter at what age you get there as long as you do I hope OP gets the help she needs but I unfortunately have a feeling that the people around her only enable this type of behavior
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:05 AM
7

I don’t advocate for sex work or using people for money. It’s an awful situation either way you look at it, she will get taken advantage of sooner or later. It’s sad that she won’t hear other people’s concern but there’s time still, it’s only been 5 months
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:02 AM
1

I’m sorry that happened to you but I’m happy you got out of that situation. If the post is true I hope she does the same. Gaslighting is seriously dangerous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 07:59 AM
9

No no she’s sooo mature for her age 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 07:57 AM
3

Oh I’ve seen 18 with 50/60 on that sub, they never fail to gross me out more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 07:57 AM
10

The subreddit advocates for age gaps so idk if it’s propaganda or a very unfortunate girl. Regardless, if this post is false it’s irrelevant, we both know relationships like this actually exist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 07:56 AM
1

Yep that’s exactly what I’m saying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 07:54 AM
3

I’d agree with you if this wasn’t posted on a subreddit dedicated to stuff like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 07:50 AM
7

There is an entire subreddit for age gap posts so idk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 07:44 AM
15

I would be so disappointed in myself for trusting someone like this. I refuse to believe this is his only “flaw”. If OP is being truthful I feel sorry for her. We’ve all been naive but no one deserves this shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:00 AM
19

Reminds me of Barney from How I Met Your Mother and I find it SO disgusting. It’s hard to believe such people exist, maybe this post isn’t true but for every wild fake Reddit story, 10 real situations similar to that exist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:55 AM
29

Someone else mentioned it could be reverse psychology. He says no so she’s more intrigued and when he finally “caves in” (suppose he wanted to do it from the beginning but lied) it doesn’t look like he’s a creep suggesting DD/LG but rather such a good boyfie who obeys his queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:53 AM
144

My clit would get bored and I love oral. Like good things come in moderation yknow? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:52 AM
74

If he owns the images there is a little step left til he owns her body too…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:51 AM
9

Yes, I agree, but still interesting to analyze. I enjoy psychology a lot so to me it’s intriguing be it intentional or not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:50 AM
89

I legit saw zero proof that it was happy. It’s the classic “he’s wonderful… when he doesn’t beat me”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:22 AM
32

My friend doesn’t have any male friends because he doesn’t get along with them and finds most of them disgusting and cringe so yeah, bros before hoes isn’t something in his vocabulary, my morals above all else is tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:21 AM
73

If he was a real friend, he would’ve told her immediately and fought the guy to take those down. I know my friend would do that. This friend? He’s weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:17 AM
23

This is actually smart… like completely disgusting don’t get me wrong but from a psychological point it’s wicked and chilling I’m sorry you had to go through that experience, I hope everything is much better now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:16 AM
65

Yeah it’s legit the bare minimum. It’s like saying “omg girl we had sex last night and he didn’t stick it in my ass instead!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:15 AM
61

Yes, this post might be fake but similar situations unfortunately exist. I personally know some really trash guys that had and continue to have relationships. I ended a friendship with a friend because her boyfriend wanted to kiss me and then she spun it on me as me manipulating him, so there are all sorts of people out in the world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:11 AM
191

Shame on her for not being the cool girlfriend ™️ am I right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:09 AM
27

Yes exactly, it’s easy to poke fun and label her as a pickme but she is in dire need of help
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:07 AM
405

Yep, altho I find the post hard to believe. It’s just perfect to blow up on the subreddit. Age gap, girl saying the relationship is perfect but isn’t, boyfriend is a dick and does the classic gaslighting and manipulation trick, girl asks if she’s the toxic one…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:06 AM
39

When she realizes a 40 yo being into a barely legal girl isn’t okay… wait isn’t that a p0rn category… 🤔🤔🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 12:11 AM
4

Ehm the whole sub has very similar posts so I’m not sure it’s fake
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 12:00 AM
67

No no, it’s 6 feet under it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 11:37 PM
185

I know lol, if anything he’s showcasing his “pretty young thing” 🥶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 11:35 PM
48

Unfortunately many girls in age gap relationships of her age don’t tell the parents because they know how they’ll react. That or she has a poor relationship with them… or they’re creepy too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 11:24 PM
16

We can only hope she will wake up right?…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 11:22 PM
9

I’m not so sure to be honest. If you visit the sub, you see heaps of similar posts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 11:12 PM
137

I have that age gap with my mom almost so 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 10:59 PM
34

All sorts of fucked up shit. Trust me, I gave up on the world a long time ago (and I’m only 20 lol). Main reason why I won’t have children
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 10:57 PM
34

I understand you and I’m proud of you for making such huge progress. You’ve come a long way This is why I almost don’t want to call her a pickme. One day she’ll regret this and having a hostile attitude towards her now won’t benefit her. There’s deeper things at play here for sure, I just feel bad for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 10:55 PM
27

Yep yep yep. And not any age gaps (like 40 45) they’re fucking 18 with 40 or 20 with 50 with CHILDREN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 10:53 PM
43

Anything of sort will warrant a ban on that sub unfortunately…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 10:35 PM
68

The whole DD/LG wish sits sooo wrong with me. Also check my comment is this thread for a chilling screenshot of OP’s comment. She is considering r4pe roleplay 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 10:34 PM
5

Me with my boyfriend 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 10:27 PM
28

Yeah, this is the danger of listening to an echo chamber (that sub). You won’t get reality checks, they just promote their skewed narrative
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 10:26 PM
58

Yeah… I don’t know wether I should call this girl a pickme, a victim of society or what. I’m just happy I’m not her and I hope she gets help to realize that this isn’t love
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 10:23 PM
11

The subreddit is about age gaps so I’m not sure it’s a man. It could be. But if it wasn’t I wouldn’t be surprised either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 10:02 PM
132

Would it surprise you tho if this was true? Girls are being groomed everyday and this subreddit is about AGR so it’s not the only post about this. Seen heaps of 20 yo girls with guys over 45 and I just— Edit: AGR means age gap relationship for those who don’t know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 09:59 PM
137

I hope so desperately altho the sub is about stuff like this. However check this monstrosity: https://imgur.com/a/cxLYIys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 09:50 PM
46

Let me check their profile to see if there’s anything suspicious. I’m inclined to believe this cause I KNOW there are poor girls like this out there Edit: I honestly can’t say if it’s a man or a very very unfortunate girl but I found this in the comments…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 09:47 PM
90

The bar is not in Hell, it’s under all circles of Hell and more Edit: I just found this and I am absolutely horrified Edit 2: I also respectfully ask people to refrain from calling OP a pickmeisha. I personally find the term quite derogatory and I only call women that if they’re hurting other women (eg: a woman putting another woman down so she attracts men). She is obviously going through stuff or has suffered some sort of emotional turmoil in order to achieve this level of mental gymnastics an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 09:44 PM
5

Yeah, even when I was a dumb pickme teenager, I never was interested in Tinder. I always thought it was weird. Matter of fact, I did go out with a guy, had no intention of dating him or whatever made that clear too but he said to go out as friends and I didn’t know how to say no back then (🤡) and it was … so weird. We sat on a bench to talk (we didn’t even go walking through a park, his plan was “idk what to do” and he also woke up late that day and was like shit we have to meet right when I alr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 06:15 PM
10

Yup, you can have your opinion about this sub but why even make a comment when what we ask or say has nothing to do with FDS principles?? Tinder being trash is an universally known fact ffs But not by idiots it seems
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 06:07 PM
16

I just got trashed in another sub for saying Tinder is garbage. They said “tell me you often visit femaledatingstrategy without telling me” and like… what? 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 03:40 PM
44

Hygiene is a hundred and one times more important than looks. I don’t give a fuck about your useless abs and biceps if you reek of pubes sweat and I can see the plaque on your teeth. A guy with nice clothes, a watch or another accessory, good cologne and smelling fresh and clean is so goddamn hot regardless of how he looks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 10:07 AM
4

My heart wrecks for them 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 04:28 PM
5

exactly, that point alone makes it hard for me to feel bad for her. Like it sucks and all but come on girl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 04:25 PM
4

Those poor kitties…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 03:39 PM
9

I could NEVER. I love my pets so much, no crusty man will make me choose him over them especially only after 4 months
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 03:37 PM
3

An idiot with no fashion sense or braincells
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 03:35 PM
6

My boyfriend’s post nut clarity is saying he’s getting emotional and he loves me. This “men” are fucking disgusting. Imagine exposing yourself to potential assault only to hear that your smile is annoying at the end. Hookups are NOT it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 03:26 PM
3

He’s a fucking idiot, not only did he watch too much porn but I don’t think he’s ever interacted with a woman before
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 03:16 PM
1

Exactly but it’s such an wild concept to his pea sized brain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 03:14 PM
2

And that means pretty much nothing in my books to be honest. Emotional and intellectual intelligence >>>>>>>> muscles or whatever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 03:13 PM
5

Very good point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 11:51 AM
7

Lol ikr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 11:41 AM
6

You’re such a man 😩 cause if they use “you’re such a woman” as an insult so can we 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 11:41 AM
6

But cargo shorts are fucking UGLY. Just had a talk with my boyfriend and he said that not even him wears them because he hates them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 11:39 AM
10

But they’re the stronger sex 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 11:31 AM
5

These comments were in this thread from the screenshot. I am enraged and completely disgusted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 11:21 AM
42

Well, Redditors like to be validated about their creepy behavior ain’t it 🤡 Edit: also gonna profit off your comment being the highest upvoted comment at the moment to leave this screenshot for you all to see and gag at
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 10:00 AM
24

I agree, either way it’s gross as fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 10:00 AM
18

That’s what I think too, but either way, male or female the post is pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 09:15 AM
52

Yeah, I don’t buy it either, but in the offhand that this is true… God give me patience cause you’ve given me enough suffering
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 09:02 AM
53

I’m smelling bullshit too, if this is indeed a woman she’s the whole circus. I hate all types of uninvited gazes, both from old men and men my age
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 09:01 AM
29

I don’t care how good someone looks, I care that their compliments and advances are done consensually. Creeps ogling me, regardless of age and looks are disgusting. They make me want to crawl out of my skin. Maybe the thing that makes it worse is that it all started when I was 13-14 idk…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 08:56 AM
9

You and I both…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 08:50 AM
33

And yes I had to draw that angry face cause I was absolutely baffled they got downvoted. But then again… it’s Reddit 🤡 Edit: Bonus screenshot for who wants to fry off some braincells today Edit 2: the reply legit made me gag Edit 3: found another pickme; my first comment is in reply the downvoted comment in the post, then one saying it’s disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 08:45 AM
1

True but again, some people don’t believe in marriage let alone in promise rings 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 01:48 PM
1

Maybe, altho that depends widely on the person. Some people believe in them some don’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 12:39 PM
2

My partner is highly supportive of my career aspirations and dreams and never ever gets mad when I cancel on him last minute to study. But I agree. My relationship is a bonus not a requirement. I’d be good single as well and my career will be my top priority always. And I agree with you with getting married before 25! It rarely ends up good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:18 PM
1

I’m only 20 and I want to finish my bachelor and Master’s before I get married + emigrate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:43 PM
1

What if you explicitly tell him you want to marry after 4 years? But he sees a future with you beforehand
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:40 PM
4

“She was clearly cheating! That’s why she refused the test!… the third time!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:38 PM
29

Exactly. I’ve struggled with body issues my whole life and seeing that men see body positivity as a bad thing just guts me. Guys like this damage the self esteem of literally everyone Edit: I edited my comment because the way I worded it initially sounded hostile and that’s not how I meant it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 09:55 AM
65

What a sad individual. Imagine picking on someone for just being kind because you cannot believe women are equal humans to you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 09:44 AM
17

Yes but very few. Most consider getting their wet willie more important than what the industry has done to women. But there are indeed men who share our opinion, I know one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 09:07 AM
2

Well I do agree with you unfortunately there seems to be this pressure that you need to get married really fast after the engagement, I only say this because I’ve noticed it around me and I don’t get it to be honest. Like you said, after getting engaged you should wait more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 05:49 AM
2

Yes, if you’re 30+ it can be a bit shorter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 05:47 AM
6

That’s great then. Saw a thread a while back about engagement rings and a lot of girls saying that if he doesn’t pop the question after one year that they’ll leave. Then again, we all have different mindsets even if we are in the same place right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:05 AM
-12

Shame most people on this subreddit consider that waiting more than a year before you get married is pickme behavior
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:44 PM
49

I’d say even more than a year
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:31 PM
8

For sure. This post might be fake but regardless it’s still true that many women are in similar situations
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:17 PM
48

Despite it maybe being fake, there are numerous cases of guys asking for paternity tests immediately after the baby is born. Fake or not it’s still a red flag to be questioned like that in an alleged “ltr”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:53 PM
11

They can be done before too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:48 PM
-3

I don’t see things that way. And that’s fine cause we think differently but to me, I am able to read characters easily (after 2 years of therapy and self work at least) and I trust myself that I will be able to gauge if a guy is genuinely interested or stringing me along. I was able to see it in the past, I saw it in my friends relationships too. But that’s me and it’s fine to not feel the same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:10 PM
2

I did and I also mentioned it’s not everyone that it will work on. I am definitely not wasting more time with this, I wasted more time hoping someone would ask me out than doing it myself and getting my answers. I’m a control freak, planning a date is very easy for me and way better than letting a guy do it. And the results is that I’m with a HVM guy rn instead of hoping a loser crush I have would finally invite me out And I do acknowledge people experience rejection differently that’s why I str…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:08 PM
5

Yet again proof that education and intellect have nothing to do with emotional intelligence. If he was that bothered by you not wanting to come visit him he could’ve expressed in many different ways, but no, he chose to be immature and petty about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 08:17 PM
35

This isn’t a good vetting technique. You cannot assume someone’s values and morals based off movies. I like some of those in the list because I can acknowledge their bad sides and I certainly not against women and pro violence. I think that if anything, you can have a discussion on why he likes them and then base off your judgement off of that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:37 PM
4

Yeah exactly, it’s my business what I do and with whom. I think I’m mature enough at 20 to not make decisions that will put me in danger. Sure they’re all not the best decisions cause I’m young but I’m not stupid either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:46 PM
3

Great advice! I hope those aren’t easy to break into
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:11 PM
12

For sure. She is a weird pickme since she says all men cheat and sometimes you have to need to close your eyes and she told me that it’s completely normal to snoop in my partner’s phone and also “test” his loyalty Like nah sis, if I need to test my boyfriend’s loyalty then I don’t trust him and I don’t have the energy for that type of bs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:10 PM
18

My boyfriend is from another country and my mother would disown me (partially joking) if she found out. She wants me to date locally but the majority if guys around here have the emotional intelligence of a rotten pickle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:04 PM
40

Imagine having children with a loser like this… God I feel so sorry for her, I hope she gets out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:29 AM
2

They’re less than dirt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:09 AM
59

My mother keeps making jokes like “when are you going to get married to move away and bother your husband instead of me” or “find a husband altho I don’t know who would put up with all of your requirements (read high standards” Little does she know I have a boyfriend that not only does he not berate me, he also doesn’t body shame me 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:03 AM
48

She’s absolutely gorgeous and I don’t mean it in an insulting way, but it could’ve been a filter. Smooth skin isn’t the only beautiful skin tho, all skins are pretty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:00 AM
26

It seems that once you took yourself seriously, he also started taking himself and you as well seriously. Hope things turn out good but rarely people genuinely change
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:18 AM
24

Deadbedrooms aren’t ever natural (or at least in 99.9% of the cases) and have other issues behind them. I wrote a whole post about sexual incompatibility and how it’s a hoax. If your husband loses interest in having sex with you in time and it isn’t because of stress, meds or you both decided to have it less, then it’s shady as fuck 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:15 AM
2

Yess it’s some pickme mentality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:04 PM
6

I hate Reddit 99.9% of the time to be fair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:44 PM
17

No cause then her nudes would be consensually online and what’s the fun in giving women power? 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:07 PM
30

Yep, 🇷🇴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:06 PM
12

Yes 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:55 PM
26

Exactly why I’m against hookups. When they go well they’re acceptable I guess, when they go wrong they’re traumatic and devastating. No amount of “good” sex with a stranger will make me put up with that risk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:53 PM
58

The fact that she felt like she had to keep going and she didn’t just leave really saddens me. The whole “sex positivity” bullshit movement ruined us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:51 PM
18

They understand consent, they just don’t care about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:50 PM
34

If I’m not getting good energy back I’m not putting any energy in so I agree with your dad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:36 PM
18

Yes, think he did it last year too but I’m not sure Also we might be from the same country 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:19 PM
16

No, their brains are too small to generate basic logical conclusions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:02 PM
24

Obviously, to them leaked nudes are free advertising, isn’t that fucked up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:01 PM
23

Oh they do they just don’t give a shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:01 PM
55

That’s the baffling thing. I never hear about a guy’s nudes getting leaked and it affecting his career. But for women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 12:39 PM
84

Nor respect for others
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 12:09 PM
93

!!! Exactly. Their crusty old musty junk gets shared around more often than those fake messages about bloody Mary. They do it for free so of course it’s convenient for money 🙄 Disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:37 AM
16

Simple, because most people are miserable and they want to share the misery. Plus that society things you’re accomplished if you’re married and have a family, completely disregarding that sometimes it’s better to be single, not have kids etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:31 AM
42

That is completely valid, you can never know where they’ll end up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:27 AM
14

Same energy as “I am a blunt person, I always speak my mind”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:08 AM
157

Added the last picture to showcase the disgusting actions of some sick people and to inform you to be careful where you get your phone repaired! Stay safe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:08 AM
2

I looove this! You should be your first priority and never let people in your life that constantly drag your energy down
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 09:05 PM
3

Um this is wrong on so many levels. Why is the bar literally under Hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 07:17 PM
12

Yes, that I can agree with, asking for a gift back is shitty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:23 PM
7

Yeah, that is also true. Don’t think there is a black and white solution and every case should be treated accordingly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 04:59 PM
12

That is a good option that I haven’t thought about, the charity one I mean. I personally wouldn’t keep the money either for the same reasons
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 04:56 PM
8

I can understand that too, a gift is a gift, it cannot be taken back. I am still torn about an engagement ring atm, I don’t have a strong opinion whether I would give it back if asked or say no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 04:54 PM
-3

Eh I would personally give the rings back regardless if the break up was good or not only cause I believe in bad omens and a piece of jewelry like that would have really bad connotations to me Edit: you know we all have different opinions and I’m not enforcing my beliefs on anyone, I was just presenting another point of view
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 04:50 PM
4

Yikes. My boyfriend’s reaction when I ask pickme questions like that is “I don’t care about what others think or want because I know I can trust you”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 04:49 PM
20

No, I’m certain it was that he didn’t see anything wrong with that dude’s actions and didn’t get the subtleties that he was making moves and catcalling my ex best friend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 09:34 AM
6

What is that even supposed to mean? She can’t take a nap otherwise? She slept besides him and he had no idea?? I’m confused
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:17 AM
2

Women’s bodies are generally more commercialized because 1.society tries to sell the bullshit that men are visual creatures 2.women are just objects 3.what else is a woman good for
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:16 AM
11

This is literally one of my biggest fears. I would have such massive trust issues if I thought with certainty that my partner is a great one only to find out they’ve been cheating and lying the whole time…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:15 AM
18

He’s turning himself into a victim because he’s a coward
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:14 AM
93

It is a known fact that the higher your position is, the more likely it is that you’re immoral and willing to do anything to advance. In today’s society it is almost impossible to be good kink moral and also get appreciated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:13 AM
64

That surprises literally no one. My ex best friend went on a date with a guy and she got catcalled by a dude. After they were at a safe distance she asked him what he thought about it, and he said he didn’t even notice it. She told me she was really put off by that and felt bad that it wasn’t anything bad but she was turned off by it But by all means imo it is something bad. I don’t want my man to fight catcallers but to not even notice it… nah man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:12 AM
12

For sure there is unhealthy spamming but that goes for anyone and anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:03 PM
2

Extremely stupid when I’ve learned more about how I like to rub my clit than any person could ever teach me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:33 PM
4

This has to be a troll? Yes? Right???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:28 PM
30

Different strokes for different folks. I was referring to my dating phase with my boyfriend too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:18 PM
2

Since when is sexuality explored carelessly? If they mean sexual orientation then that’s discovered through introspection, if they mean sexual preferences then that’s through masturbation There is literally nothing logical about “owning” your sexuality or whatever through random sex lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:06 PM
70

Eh it depends. I’m a hectic texter, I love to double text to let my friends know I think about them or to just say what I want to say. I love it when people send me random stuff they’ve found or were thinking about or telling me stuff from their life so I can hype them up. To me people who text slowly and unenthusiastically are a huge turn off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:03 PM
1

Associating rejection with failure is in itself an issue that I discussed a little bit. I used to struggle with this too, when my boyfriend was tired and he rejected me I took it as him not being attracted to me because we’re taught men want sex all the time right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:49 PM
2

Yes, it can be both cause of external factors and internal factors. For instance rn I’m extremely stressed with my uni exams so no way in Hell I’m horny and willing to fuck daily. Sex drives fluctuate and we shouldn’t enforce this idea that they’re a constant because people will be pressured to overperfom when they don’t feel like it just because that’s what their sex drive should be like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:31 AM
49

I want to reiterate, do NOT keep people in your life that bring you no happiness or anything good/productive!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 09:06 AM
1

For sure, it’s not even a kink then it’s a whole other problem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 08:25 AM
38

Yeah that is also true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:34 AM
1

I am an anxious planner, if I don’t see an end goal in something I just don’t engage in it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 11:48 PM
80

On the offhand they were all consensual, people who practice casual sex have bigger issues than being single (which isn’t an issue but to them it is)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 11:46 PM
3

Exactly! It most likely was the case that their marriages were lacking in more areas than just sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 09:30 PM
4

This proves my point, trash people will deal with their sexual preferences in trash ways by pressuring you into them. Trash people will also have weird and dangerous "kinks". I am sorry you had to go through that tho, I hope you are doing much better now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 07:33 PM
5

I know what you mean, I used to think the same when I was like 18. After two years of a lot of introspection and therapy sessions every two weeks for personal growth I realized that kinks themselves aren't the dealbreaker, but rather the assumptions that I need to perform them. Back when I was less confident and my now boyfriend was just a friend I asked him what he would do if he was into anal (he hates it but I mentioned this one cause it's so glorified for no reason) but his girlfriend wasn't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:59 PM
1

Is it the kink itself or the fact that they are a requirement for the other party?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:43 PM
16

Exactly. Tbh it doesn’t even take much for most women to get turned on by their partners if the foreplay starts outside the bedroom and doesn’t consist of whipping their dicks in our faces
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 05:02 PM
6

I feel so sorry you felt less than worthy of love because your partner is shit. I wish I could plaster the message of this post on my forehead and help everyone in this world who have been affected by similar bullshit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 04:26 PM
3

Done!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 04:25 PM
30

100% correct. I honestly couldn’t give a fuck if my partner had a micro or monster dick, if he listens to me and what I like then for sure sex is gonna be fun and emotionally intimate and fulfilling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:50 PM
12

Precisely. It's a lazy way of chickening out of a relationship and refusing to put effort where effort is due
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:26 PM
18

Great point! You've explained it in a very concise way but that's the whole shtick. The sexual aspect of a relationship isn't an element itself, but rather an indicator. If it's ok with you I will add a quotation of your comment at the bottom because it's very nicely said
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:25 PM
9

Picked and dumped
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 07:42 AM
3

Yes they do altho my boyfriend is more laid back and doesn’t care to find labels about every type of behavior he exerts. My guy best friend is like me 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 07:40 AM
58

Jesus Christ this is a new low. Why does she even care? Does it affect her in any way??? Wtf She just wants brownie points from stupid people like her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 12:33 AM
8

Yes ma’am will do it tomorrow when I’m not dead tired 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:39 PM
27

YES! I’m thinking about making a whole post about why sexual incompatibility is a hoax and is just pressuring people into sleeping to early and that when people are “sexually” incompatible other things come at play actually
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:35 PM
9

He only beats me twice a week! He’s a wonderful man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:02 PM
24

Wanted to add that I feel sorry for anyone in this thread who feels bad because they fell in the trap of “sex positivity”. However, your past doesn’t define you, it taught you something, focus on that and don’t drag yourself down with regret, otherwise you won’t reach your full potential The past is in the past, the future is bright and limitless!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 10:51 PM
17

I agree with what your mother said even tho I don’t want children 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:19 PM
11

Don’t worry about me, there is no reason in this world that will make me lower my bar. Single and cannot find anyone? Oh well life is fun and good on my own too! But sending the same energy back to you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:03 PM
12

Yep, I agree. It’s sad that it’s not a “default” yet being pro hookups doesn’t have a term because you guessed it… it’s unfortunately mainstream Isn’t it sad that I feel excluded and odd (Altho I’m not obviously) because I’m against this sexual liberation hoax?…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:46 PM
10

Ahh I didn’t want to mean it that way. I’m not saying you’re wrong for not wanting to hop into bed with strangers, au contraire, you’re normal and how most people should be, but I guess that the “norm” now is to be the opposite so we had to invent a term for it You see, the reason I identify myself as demi isn’t to say that emotional connection above sex is odd or abnormal, but instead in order to feel like I’m not crazy 😅 For context, when I was younger the idea of casual sex and “sexual” liber…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:34 PM
-6

Have you looked into demisexuality? You might be a fellow demi -^ Edit: see my comment below for an explanation on why I asked this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:15 PM
22

Tbh it’s a bit of both. People with similar mindsets to this pro hookup mindset generally have a harder time to develop emotions because they have their priorities all fucked up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:16 PM
56

Emotional connection >>> sex. If my partner cares for me and he is a mature and stable person there is no doubt in my mind that the sex will be good too. So far it has worked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:14 PM
4

What you do is you get an annulment if possible and get the hell away from him. Girl what the fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:12 PM
72

Well yeah, how else is OF supposed to earn its 💰???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:56 PM
4

My question is, WHY stay??? Why didn’t she run like the first second this happened
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:05 PM
21

Yeah exactly. I honestly don’t see myself ever having children and I made that decision before I was in my first relationship. I wouldn’t be a good parent and that’s okay. I’m glad things worked out well for you tho and I agree that we’re sometimes reduce to just incubators
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:11 PM
83

Funnily, when I want to get sterilized at 18 I was rejected. Yet if I wanted a breast implant surgery at 18 I would’ve maybe even be asked to go for bigger implants 🤔 I understand they’re different things but they’re both surgeries that permanently alter your body. Even if you can reverse tubal ligation or take the implants out, there is still an impact left. Why is it assumed that I am too immature and young for one but perfectly competent for the other
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 02:53 PM
67

Yep, plastic surgery should be recognized for what it is and we need to make people understand that it’s better to love yourself than change things because by changing you’ll never stop feeling like you need to do mor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:11 PM
252

Tbh plastic surgeons deeply lack morals. He is one of the few who don’t. Most plastic surgeons and clinics prey on insecurities and societal beauty standards to gain money. Absolutely sickening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:29 PM
3

Ahhh I’m gonna get dating subs recommended to me 😭 the horror
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:28 PM
1

I’m all for women supporting women but I refuse to hype any woman up who deliberately hurts another just to get male validation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:49 AM
25

Where can I see it 👀 just out of curiosity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:34 PM
16

What? Ew Jesus Christ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:13 PM
1

I really hope so
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:26 PM
4

But what about the original plot about puppies and the coat? :(((
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:39 AM
15

If he likes his friends pictures that’s fine. If he deliberately follows random stranger women only for their thirst trap pictures and liking them religiously then it is NOT fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:33 AM
44

Damn that guy sounds sad as fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:25 AM
44

Closure is a societal hoax and you cannot convince me otherwise. Most times when we say we want closure to “process our feelings” it just means that subconsciously we want to repair things. Healing is done best on your own, you don’t need anyone’s input nor approval to begin healing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:09 AM
3

Before I found out I was demi I installed Tinder for fun with my friend and made a joke account. Soon after I changed it to a personal profile since I was looking for validation and I was curious who would pick me solely based on my looks (dumb af). Not long after I matched with a guy who looked good and we talked a bit. We found out we have the same birthdays and after 2 days of talking or so he asked if I’d like to go out. I told him I’m not looking for a relationship and then he was like “I d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:24 AM
13

As a person in a LDR this makes my skin crawl 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:18 AM
18

Lately I’ve been adopting the mindset of “if this makes me stress I don’t need it in my life” towards new people. I’m having a hard time investing energy into people who don’t benefit me in any way and I’m finally done with pleasing everyone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:40 AM
2

Simple: social status. We value most relationships between humans and achievements as a “couple”. Quite weird imo because this makes most people think they need a relationship. However remember, even if more people go to weddings or baby showers or whatever, it only looks like more people care because in reality few do. It’s just societal pressure to show up to those events. That’s why big weddings are a hoax and personally I’m going to have only close people at mine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 09:39 AM
10

I personally don’t think such services nor online apps will give you good results. Generally people that are of a healthy mindset don’t go to those places because they’re fine being single and if a relationship happens it happens. People who desperately need a relationship are most times the ones that should stay single
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:40 AM
2

Whenever I discuss posts from Reddit with my friends I always tell them that we need the other side too. The reality is that it’s easy to manipulate the story so you look good because we’re all biased and don’t want to look like jerks. The truth always lies in the middle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:15 AM
1

Yeah but I’m just giving you a heads up that it’s a pretty wrong generalization
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 06:06 AM
1

Ah ok! Didn’t know about it, my bad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 10:08 PM
1

I wouldn’t generalize since I know many ok gamers including myself (I hope) 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 03:04 AM
3

Exactly, there is no such thing as hitting someone with a car safely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 03:28 PM
5

Basically saying “babe money is so important to me that I’d even do this horrible traumatizing thing for it! No worries tho I would make sure you don’t die”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 03:18 PM
3

Run just her. He mentioned he’d do it if she wasn’t pregnant. Alas it doesn’t impress me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 03:17 PM
3

Isn’t it sad the things we would do for money? We’re all humans and equal (theoretically) until a dirty little banknote gets fluttered in front of our eyes. So sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 02:58 PM
5

Yikes I don’t want to ever be wifey material then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 02:56 PM
7

Yep, wonder how he would’ve reacted if he was the target of this hypothetical dilemma
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 02:29 PM
6

Yeah, funny that the video came from a subreddit about laughter but her laugh just annoyed me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 02:27 PM
26

What are morals am I right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 01:58 PM
35

What irked me the most is that a lot of users were saying how she’s wifey material and goals and like… what? A billion dollars is a lot of money but I wouldn’t trade that for consensual domestic abuse 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 01:54 PM
5

Yeah, maybe it plays into the “cool girlfriend” trope where jealousy is seen as a huge flaw. In reality it’s normal. Expressing it through anger and accusing your partner of cheating or whatever isn’t normal Out of curiosity, how do you deal with your husband’s RJ? My boyfriend has asked me in the past to tell me what the best approach is but besides reassurance I couldn’t think of anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 01:24 PM
2

Let me reiterate, LDRs based on emotional connection and true feelings are valid*. I agree, if all you do is game together then it’s superficial. Me and SO have been close friends for almost 4 years and only recently we decided to be in a relationship (although we’ve been unofficially exclusive for about a year). It can happen but again, only based on lots of hours of talking and discussing not just 3 rounds of League or whatever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 01:22 PM
2

I understand where you’re coming from but LDRs are valid even before you meet. I don’t want to gatekeep LDRs especially since I am in one myself. However, we can totally talk about neglect to the point of which her boyfriend is nothing more than an acquaintance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 01:09 PM
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Yep, jealousy is normal but within reasonable limits. Obviously in OP’s case it is within that, but personally I struggle with retroactive jealousy and I know for a fact that my type of jealousy isn’t normal. With that being said, I agree that it is an emotion like the others and should be treated accordingly. Instead of denying it or trying to reject it, accept it, embrace it and understand why you feel it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 01:08 PM
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Porn has fucked with the general mindset and made us believe that big = good. No ma’am, I was trust, loyalty and emotional connection. The dick can be whatever. If he cares for me and my pleasure he’ll make me reach the end no matter how small or big he is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 12:50 PM
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Fear of loneliness? Poor upbringing? Low self esteem? Can be so many things influencing someone to be like this. Either way I hope one day she ends up in therapy and realizes the person she needs to love the most is herself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:04 AM
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He’s cheating her of her precious time 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:00 AM
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Yep. Besides I honestly don’t see how women enjoy anal. TMI but when I take big fat dumps I just want it to be over with and hate my life during it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 10:43 AM
25

Not only that but it’s particularly difficult to communicate properly and it’s definitely not a deal for everyone. Speaking from experience since I’m in a LDR myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 09:34 AM
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Same, I respect myself too much for this bs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 09:13 AM
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!!! Great advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:22 AM
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Exactly, he sounds like he doesn’t even like her let alone love her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:22 AM
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Call me kink shaming slut shaming whatever but anal in my opinion is disgusting. It makes me trembles to think about doing it and something goes wrong and suddenly I need to wear diapers at 20. Like someone else said, the butthole is not meant for sex. Same goes for the mouth when it comes to inserting long things into it, like the idea of deepthroating terrifies me 🥶 It’s so fucking infuriating that he violated her consent like that and injured her with no remorse. I would punch this guy if I e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:54 AM
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We have a saying in my country “God give the stupid his mind after the matter” (really rough translation it’s 3 AM rn and I’m tired). I’m glad he realized the issue altho he is not taking full responsibility. But it’s not enough to just acknowledge it. Once you do enough damage to a friendship or relationship it cannot be repaired
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 11:41 PM
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Exactly this. When my parents gave birth to me they were well off financially. Later in life shit happened and we struggled. Yet my dad never made me worry about money, always spoiled the fuck out of me and worked hiss ass off to take care of me and my mom. We are missing information here Altho I 100% agree to never have kids if you’re not financially ready. With that being said, life is unpredictable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:29 PM
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I cannot believe there have been no signs prior to this. OP being blind to them that I can believe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:18 PM
5

Yes but sex work is empowering and liberating 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:46 PM
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Exactly this. When the whole chaos with #notallmen started I innocently asked my boyfriend what he thinks about it and he plainly said “it’s dumb”. He’s the type of walk his girl friends home or to a bus station at night to get them safe and doesn’t feel offended when women take precautions in general around him or his friends. Now what had this “movement” taught us? That you’ll get offended by things that describe you 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 11:24 AM
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The fact that many girls go on OF to earn a lot of money (which happens for a select few and at what cost?) but ignore the fact that they expose themselves to so many dangers just shows how fucked up our priorities and morals as a society are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 11:21 AM
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What a sad world that we consider people who don’t drink alcohol as bad. Where did we go wrong lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:45 AM
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I had a talk with my guy best friend and we are both baffled by this concept. What is empowering about it when most sex work is focused on appearing young and “barely legal” and ultimately sex positivity puts you in great risk to get raped, hurt, harassed, stalked etc. It’s all a hoax. There is nothing empowering. It’s easy money because it caters to a huge audience of lonely boys that cannot talk to women to save their lives. I’m sorry but I cannot put a woman that has graduated college first i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:37 AM
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Powerful women threathen their fragile presence 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:33 AM
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PickUp artists are fucking disgusting. They’re like a plague, spreading dubious and creepy techniques to “court” (read harass) women just to sleep with them. Disgusting. One video that I found quite interesting on this topic is this one. I recommend it to anyone who has 40 minutes to spare
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:24 AM
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AMEN to that! Me and my boyfriend sometimes joke that he is gay because he washes his ass to make fun of guys that legit think that way … and then it hits me, that some people are actually like that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:21 AM
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Empowering my ass. It’s damaging as fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 11:06 PM
2

Ew I’m so disgusted that I used to watch his content a couple of years ago 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:59 PM
9

Discussed this with my boyfriend and we both arrived at the conclusion that this is stupid media trying to normalize cheating. It’s gross. Celebrating “last day of freedom” makes no sense cause you were already in a relationship right?... idiotic shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 06:16 PM
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