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The bar is not low, it’s nonexistent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 10:23 PM
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Now block and delete so he can’t contact you and have a friend communicate about returning any stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 03:55 PM
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That's a great idea! I'll ask around ☺️☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:48 PM
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Thank you ❤️ here's to rejecting association with no/Low value men and honouring the powerful and inspiring women in the world instead 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:48 PM
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Did you pick a new one together?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:46 PM
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I have no idea why he didn't ask, except for the fact that: - he harrassed me into dating him - after a couple of drinks, suggested we move to a shisha bar. Walked for 20 minutes before I realised he was leading me back to his house. - I tried to leave (I'm a partier, not a 'lay in bed after three drinks-er) - ended up having sex with him because I wanted to go home and he wasn't taking no for an answer - during sex he' accidently' jabbed my arsehole and then complained when I made him change hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:44 PM
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Yeah I'm just struggling to find one I like. Though I went to uni with a girl whose last name was 'Power' and I'm forever jealous of that haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:34 PM
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It's so great that you had that option! Sadly my LV dad was supported by NV people on his family side to treat my mum the way he did so I don't want to take my paternal grandma's maiden name either. Plus, it's literally the same but with one letter changed. Think like... Cow and How, I guess. My paternal grandpa was completely NV... Manic depressive who would take off for months at a time and leave my grandma struggling to manage banks asking for money. My grandma worked until she was 82 because…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:33 PM
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This makes me feel sick. The second person I had sex with, after getting out a LTR, started choking me during sex with no prior discussion about that at all. It was terrifying and a lesson in better vetting. Especially as, after it happened, several girlfriends revealed that they'd been in the same situations before. Go Harriet Harman. We need more MPs that want to stick up for women. Sadly, depraved tory ministers already blocked a domestic violence register. There's no way they'd agree to chan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:15 AM
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I hate having my father's name, as he's a LVM who cheated on my mum, bullied her into accepting child support that totaled less than 5% of his annual income for two kids, and never helped me grow into the woman I am today. I just don't know what I'd change my last name too. I'm too old to take my stepdads name, which is my mum's current surname. My mum's maiden name is kind of ridiculous. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:00 AM
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Preach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:21 PM
3

Get a good lawyer and sue for wages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:11 PM
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She's not just selling her body. She's also selling the baby's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:09 PM
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Congratulations on finding your freedom 🎉🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:03 PM
32

Don't forget where they repeat what you just said, back to you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:01 PM
27

"I was just joking"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:00 PM
14

Why are you getting so eMoTiOnAl are you on your period?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 08:59 PM
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Because they don't have loving families. If every couple using IVF adopted instead, there'd be a lot less pain in the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 09:11 AM
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This is so shitty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:27 PM
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I'm against, for the sheer reason that adoption exists. Every child who exists should be wanted and loved, and that includes those who for some reason or another have lost their parents. I don't understand why we, as a species, prefer to bring a new life into the world rather than protecting an existing one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:22 PM
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Queens straighten up each other's crowns. We love to see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:19 PM
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Told a man at work today his terminology was incorrect. You'd think I'd murdered his first born.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:14 PM
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They were scared a huge amount of Tory MPs would end up on the register after Mark 'the rapist' Froncios
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:42 PM
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A marriage counsellor told my mum that leaving her abusive husband would cause more trauma to my brother and I because she had already divorced my (low value - narcissistic, cheating, can't adult on his own, refused to pay proper child support (we got 1% of his annual wage)) dad. No, surprisingly, seeing our mum be mentally tortured by the same guy who held down my brother and forced cigarettes into his mouth, forced him to eat cardboard, and used to smack us regularly, did way more than a secon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:03 PM
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A new phone works. Don't want to taint such an investment with bad karma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:08 PM
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Wow, those poor kids. That father is abandoning them and is angry that guilting his ex into taking emotional custody of them isn't working. She needs to set boundaries and start charging for babysitting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 12:19 PM
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I'm living for this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 03:06 PM
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Working for your uni can set you up well for your career. I work at a uni (not mine) and I work amongst people who have basically gone from undergrad to manager because they knew the right people from attending and working. Plus unis will ALWAYS take their own alumni for full time roles over newbies, especially if they know and get on with the alumni in question. Best of luck for both new jobs 🙏🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 10:36 PM
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Okay this is so cute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 10:34 PM
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Seconding, thirding etc. Everyone who is saying block and delete. He doesn't accept boundaries and he called you a bitch. You grew up together so if he really wants to seek you out to apologise once he is sober again, he'll probably know how to do that. By then, you'll have had time to think about whether you would accept his apology or not. Addiction is a disease, but we're all independently responsible for managing our respective health issues. They are not, and never should be, an excuse for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 10:29 PM
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She's a teenage girl who thinks a boy likes her back, only to find out that she's been used for sexual activity. I can find sympathy for her, for that. We don't all grow up empowered to know our true worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 03:19 PM
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Good!! Not that Ron deserves to be married to the Minister for Magic 😂 he did Lavender dirty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 02:56 PM
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I thought she ended up as an auror?? I've even seen the Cursed Child and literally could not tell you what the plot was 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 02:55 PM
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There are so many NV fathers in the world. Without them, therapists wouldn't be nearly as necessary. I'm in therapy because my own Narcissistic father consistently made me feel bad about my achievements, even where I was the first person in my family to achieve things EG complete sixth form, graduate uni, overcome disability. They need to start giving people empathy and intelligence tests before letting them breed because the damage of stupid, neglectful and emotionally abusive parents has so ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:39 PM
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God I hate the Ron/Hermione pairing. She could've done so much better. She also should end up as Minister For Magic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:15 PM
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You're handling this like the absolute queen that you are. Good job keeping your crown on, girl ❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 10:22 PM
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Yes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 04:21 PM
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Empowerment is important because its about creating the conditions for people to be able to progress themselves. It means that the subject has the choice and ability to do what they want, instead of these choices being made for them, or situations happening to them. Don't let misogynists and pro-porn 'feminists' put you off the word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 02:11 AM
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I think the post is using empowered as satire here in response to ppl saying this shit is empowering. It is not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 01:48 AM
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Tbf in the UK uptake is pretty good. I haven't seen any men not get it when offered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 01:26 AM
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'girls should support each other, not put them down' That'd be 'us down', surely? Unless you are a guy who created a reddit account pretending to be a girl for weird fetish reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 01:22 AM
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The fact that we do not teach girls how to say 'no' to sex is a failing of society. We teach girls about the logistics of sex, but not that sex should be pleasurable, and how to know what you like, and how to place boundaries around sexual relationships/sex acts. My ex called himself a feminist. That didn't stop him from begging me for anal, trying to stick a finger up my arse, or rubbing my arsehole during sex without consent. Ironically, he ended up asking me to peg him. I regret pushing my bo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 01:00 AM
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I always interpreted 'empowered' as 'given the tools and/or confidence to move forward or achieve'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 12:57 AM
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I know people who have waited a decade to get to where you're at now. You're doing so well, chick ❤️❤️ You don't need that chaos in your life. You deserve someone who knows they want you in their lives and treats you like a queen because of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 12:52 AM
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Congratulations! You are no wya being unfair. It is never, ever unfair to end a relationship that you don't want to be in. The unfairness comes with how that break up is dealt with, which in my experience, is often poorly from the man's side. As we have seen here, he tried to guilt you into staying. 🚩🚩 It really sounds like he wants you to stay because he is able to manipulate your kind nature. You are clearly a very caring individual. Now it's time for you to learn how to care for yourself the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 12:22 AM
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The fact that he is equating getting sex as equal to having power (and therefore access to equality) is ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:53 PM
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Congratulations! Your new life is beginning. How are you celebrating?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 10:09 AM
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I'm going to quote Biden: Build Back Better. Know you learnt valuable lessons from this experience and use your experience to help other women before they end up in the same situation. Take time to do the things you enjoy, and only the things you enjoy, for as long as you feel is appropriate. Relish in doing things you couldn't have done with the scrote. He might've ended the relationship, but you hold the power of knowing you'll never accept him back or allow yourself to be treated like that ag…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:24 AM
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Complain to Pals (Patient Liason Service).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:18 AM
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I watched the first few minutes and it was her trying to justify this decision to herself. Poor girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:42 AM
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I'm in South London too! Would be great to have a FDS London meetup ☺️☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:35 AM
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Wishing he would die so I could be free 😩 girl just go Edit: way more research needs to be done into low-level abusive relationships and Stockholm syndrome, as well as emotional labour and guilt as mechanisms of abuse. My ex treated me so poorly. He refused to spend money, he treated me as a therapist, he refused to leave the house. He said my pain was 'convenient' when I had no desire to have sex with him. He would emotionally manipulate me into sex. I honestly believed that not having sex hurt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:04 AM
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Little Mix live shows are literally feminist conventions. You will leave feeling so powerful. I have seen them twice now and have VIP for their next tour. I'm 28. Dua Lipa has some fantastic ones as well: New Rules, boys will be boys (it's critical of the phrase), Don't Start Now (about not giving LVM second chances).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 12:47 AM
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Eughhh thanks, why has tiktok started doing that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 01:08 AM
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We love to see it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:35 AM
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Wow, your post made me realise that the last time I was in Spain was when I was 18,which was a decade ago. Thanks for the tip. I'm European so have never put much thought into what to wear in another European country. But usually holiday in Turkey where you do need to be more conservative, anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:20 AM
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This is incredible, thanks for sharing! Solo travel might be my only option now that I'm single and my friends are in LTR. This would be a good start.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:12 PM
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I'm your son to my own dad. He never had full custody thank god, but he earnt 130k/year of which he gave my mum 4k in child support for my brother and I. He stopped paying it the day I turned 16. I still see my dad but I detest how he chose to treat my mum and gaslight her anger. Since I was 21 I've been to his house once. I'm 28 next week. Good luck to your son in college, and I'm glad to hear your son always has you to fight his corner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 10:07 PM
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This is my manager. He is now dreadfully unqualified for the job, leaving me to carry the weight whilst he gets paid a good extra 50% of my salary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 01:08 AM
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Oh my god when will men stop this. This isn't as bad as the insults, but it's still unwelcome messaging, emotional labour, etc. Guys: stop this. We are not your therapists. We know how bad this shit gets, because we are on the receiving end. We don't know you mansplaining it to us, apologising to us, bearing all your guilt about being a dick of a man to us. Just read, do better, and stop asking for congratulating when you manage to treat us like fucking humans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 12:36 AM
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Report this to the police non emergency line. We're in a pandemic. That's assault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 12:32 AM
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100%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:00 PM
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This was a couple years ago and him leaving would've been kinder. I actually asked him if I should go back to my mums before having the surgery as I knew looking after me would stress him out, and he begged me not to. Then did an awful job helping me, didn't pay more rent to help me whilst I had no income, and put his mental health above my physical health. I'm just bitter so I still think about the injustice of it 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 03:24 PM
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Fuckkk yes. His mum was bankrupt as a kid which gave him a complex about spending money 🙄 my stupid arse paid for everything, he saved, and when we split he left with 12k and I had nothing. He didn't even cover some extra rent when I couldn't work because of surgery - I had to take it out my personal savings, depleting them. Meanwhile, he got promoted to the role I'd just left at work, and proceeded to bitch about it DAILY. I loved that job and having to leave it because of disability was heartb…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:22 AM
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I got beeped at today (by the car behind me) for giving way when it wasn't my right of way. Imagine being that fucking impatient and angry at life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:06 AM
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Congrats on the beautifully arranged flowers and having the self respect needed to lose that guy ❤️ I was also in a LTR with someone who hated to spend money. He was worse than just flowers. He never wanted to go cinema, he never wanted to go out to eat, he never really wanted to even leave the house. It killed my own passion for life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:04 AM
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WOWZA fucking hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 11:45 PM
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My nursery report literally read "chunkycasper will be a good mother one day as she is very considerate of others." Who the fuck thinks that's an appropriate thing to say about a three/four year old? We are literally primed for motherhood and servitude our whole lives, by so many different stakeholders in so many ways. Age 13, my dad told me my eyes would make a man happy one day 🤢 I've never been interested in having kids but I still get the 'when you're a mum/you'll change your mind' statement…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:52 PM
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for the record, there's no confirmation... That the parlours were anything but 100% legit massage parlours. Even if they weren't '100% legit massage parlours', this man picked to kill 7 women because he felt like he could and should. Even if they were sex workers, that is no reason why they should be victims of this man. We don't have to agree with sex work to acknowledge that sex workers, who are often (but not always) victims of poverty, trafficking, or other circumstances, deserve protection …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:40 PM
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Congrats ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 06:19 PM
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Pay attention to your gut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:01 AM
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These guys are * Jean Ralphio voice * thee Wwwwooo0000oooorrrsssTttttt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 01:57 AM
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Carry heat spray. Nothing illegal about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 10:20 PM
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I lived with a guy for 6 years. He completely changed in that time. When we broke up (he 'needed space' , worried he was wasting his youth, so I said go take your space then), he took everything he could. 12k in joint savings. The contents of the flat. He couldn't move his stuff out for a while so I put it into a cupboard in the block hallway, outside the flat. He came by one day and moved his stuff back into the house. He refused to pay his remaining half of the lease. 6 months later (maybe les…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:22 AM
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That is cynical. But, he had two prior indecent exposure things? WTF Met.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:03 AM
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Apparently Sarah Everard's killer has been rushed to hospital with head injuries following his arrest though, so maybe there's a good egg in the met who've done us a small, small favour in return for the horror caused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:19 AM
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FYI for anyone planning on attending a reclaim the night walk:they're allowing men to attend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:54 PM
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I wrote 'I hope their mother's are ashamed' and then deleted it because it's not far to attribute man's power and hated to their mothers. Still. How much better would the world be if these types of men had been aborted?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 08:37 AM
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More men policing women's bodies. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 08:25 AM
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Idk why I put up with him for nine years. He also always expected me to feed him off my fork if he wanted to try my good and stuff 🤢 definitely has a mother complex. After we broke up, he was in another relationship within 6 months (I saw him on a date by where I worked... Which is nowhere near where he lived then have heard about it from people who insist on talking about him to me), so he definitely can't face being alone and uncared for lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 02:32 AM
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My ex used to talk in baby voice a lot and definitely tried to have me mother him. Yet it was my fault that I was never in the mood for sex 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 01:12 AM
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Great vid. Would love to see her do the white man's 'devil's advocate' thing, where they deliberately argue the other side for no reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 03:13 AM
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Eugh flashbacks to young me, trying anything to make sex I'd been coerced into by my ex feel good and suggesting he talk dirty to me. His talking dirty was just insults. And then he didn't stop when I told him too and kept complaining when I didn't want to have sex with him. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:31 AM
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