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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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15	Let's play a Game! Television and movies very, very rarely show healthy relationships. If one shows up in a show you know one of them is either going to die or get cancer by the end of the season. Bad relationships create drama and drama is interesting.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/08/21 02:51 PM
2	finally broke up with my NVM bf Anyone who uses Love Languages to manipulate is a giant douche. it's a great book with a great message that is very easily manipulated by narcissists. It's very sad. :( You're supposed to use it to understand yourself better and recognize love that's offered to you by others. Not hold it over someone else's head or judge their love as not good enough.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/07/21 06:15 PM
1	The Five Love Languages and Books of this Nature I actually liked The Five Love Languages. I found it helpful to understand myself better and to see the love that was being offered in my relationships. However, that book is used as a weapon in relationships way too often. Women use it just as often as men as a way to manipulate their partners and I hate it. "My Love Language is Gifts, so if you don't buy me stuff all the time you don't love me." and then they ignore the service that's being done for them or the time that's offered because it's…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/07/21 06:09 PM
5	Is the perception of being nice or kind really so different for men and women? The issue with those studies that say “men are wired this way and women are wired that way” is that there are also studies that have proven that we wire our own brains. What we expose ourselves to and what learning is given to us creates our neural pathways. Are men a certain way because it’s how they are “wired?” Or is it conditioning? Are they more competitive because they are men or because they were pushed to compete? Are they better at spacial training because of that pesky Y chromosome or …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/07/21 04:08 PM
19	Even a 35 yo man has these same meltdowns but they're the logical sex!!! This is why my husband chooses not to watch live sports very often. He hates the way it makes him feel. He says it's not good to feel so much negative emotion over something that doesn't matter at all. He's right. It's ridiculous.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/20 06:24 PM
2	Half of you don't seem to understand what it means to be a Queen, or, The Qualities of Queendom Apparently, she put up with a cheater for years, so she might not be your best example.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/20 10:58 PM

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