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| 13 | Abortion starting to be banned in many states. No exceptions.Florida?! I didn’t know this. Rethinking one of my favorite yearly travel destinations… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/22 03:06 AM |
| 86 | Living With MenA-fucking-men! 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 03:08 AM |
| 459 | Man attempts to low-ball his date after getting horrendous advice from Reddit. Queen blocks and deletes in responseRefreshing to see a woman who knows her worth in one of these stories. 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 11:55 AM |
| 209 | This level of betrayal from the person supposed to love, cherish and hold you sacred.I hope so—but what if she never finds out and assumes there is something wrong with her? He’s slowly destroying her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 05:00 PM |
| 284 | This level of betrayal from the person supposed to love, cherish and hold you sacred.I hope she finds out and leaves him. I also thought about the potential of men using the male birth control pill this way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 03:50 PM |
| 9 | Do you believe in the idea of soulmate or soulmates?I gave birth to mine. 💗Daughters💗 As a romantic concept though, it’s limiting and nonsensical to believe in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 05:31 PM |
| 205 | “If Kim Kardashian cannot escape this, then what chance do normal women have?” - Trevor Noah Breaks Down The Uneasiness Surrounding Kanye West's BehaviorMen (and women) with this amount of perspective seem to be a rarity. Glad he’s using his platform to build awareness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 04:51 AM |
| 698 | Big yikesGeorge Lopez’s wife did this for him…and then later he divorced her. They will literally suck the life resources out of us if given the chance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 06:01 AM |
| 158 | TikTok “Feminist Woke” Man With Millions of Followers Exposed In Violating Informed Consent via Unprotected Sex & Cheating On His Partners Who He Mislead into Believing They Were ExclusiveI am not familiar with the guy, but my heart hurt for her when she started to tear up. So raw and visceral…most of us have known the betrayal of a man in some form or another. It’s so sad, so unfair and just fucking wrong. My daughter regularly asks me why there are so many bad men after she sees things like this (or any violence on the news etc). It’s beyond my comprehension. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 04:29 AM |
| 288 | Baldness is DadnessIf bald were sexy, they wouldn’t need an article to convince us. 😂 The article literally focuses on 1/one/uno/un!! bald male celebrity, Jason Statham. Who by the way, has two kids with his forever-girlfriend-turned-forever-fiancé (together over a decade and still not married after 6 years engagement). And he’s shorter than her! 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 09:07 PM |
| 62 | Shanna Moakler's Boyfriend Arrested for Domestic ViolenceGoes to show how even celebrities (albeit B list) could really benefit from FDS. She is a beautiful woman and needs to find her worth. As if Travis Barker weren’t bad enough. 🤦🏻♀️ I don’t watch Big Brother, but I did watch her reality show w/Barker on MTV like 15-20 years ago. She is a pageant girl (and still active in the organization). There’s a lot of toxic anti-woman bullshit to unpack there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 07:10 PM |
| 84 | Be careful posting elsewhereCommenters who have disagreed with me on posts have sought out my post history and commented to others to disregard whatever I had posted due to my posting in this sub. Some men simply cannot bear to be proven wrong, or even be willing to consider alternative points of view. An informed woman is DANGEROUS to their very existence. So they seek to bring us down however possible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 07:05 PM |
| 52 | Ali Wong’s “Don Wong” ShowHaving a successful career doesn’t make someone high value. Espousing and living healthy standards for herself and in her relationships is what would make her high value. If a man was saying much of what she does, we’d say to block & delete. Does she have some high value traits? Sure. Would she pass the test for relationship-worthiness if she were a man? No. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 04:38 AM |
| 30 | Ali Wong’s “Don Wong” ShowShe’s setting women back by contributing to making it seem commonplace and acceptable to perform and accept debasing sexual acts. If anything she should be held to a HIGHER standard because of her platform, not given a pass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 04:33 AM |
| 52 | Ali Wong’s “Don Wong” ShowI tried watching her stand up special that was out before I found FDS, but turned it off when she started talking about licking her husband’s asshole. Totally lacking in class. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 04:29 AM |
| 202 | Getting (discount?) Flowers delivered to you the day after Valentine's Day.My bet is she was disappointed yesterday with his lack of effort, so he tried to make up for it today. It’s also possible that it was supposed to come yesterday, but was late due to supply/shipping/staffing issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 04:22 AM |
| 19 | What Do You Ladies Think Of The Following Films? | My boyfriend dislikes all of them, but I do find it a bit of a cOiNcIdEnCe that all of them ~happen to have~ female leadsI can only speak to Cruella being absolutely fabulous. It’s one thing not to care for a film, but to rail against it with passion is another. I think you are right to question his reasoning for his disdain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 01:00 AM |
| 321 | I need someone to help me make sense of this...You want apology because the lady was being considerate? Because she had common sense?Kanye is narcissistic trash. An ignoramus not worth the air he breathes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 03:26 PM |
| 99 | No words…I hope the puppy training gets easier and this dog grows up big and strong (and loyal) and bites that fucker in the dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 04:19 AM |
| 44 | HIDING BEHIND SEX ADDICTION by Lundy BancroftThis is such valuable information. Oh, how I wish I had this information 20 years ago! Thank you Lundy for validating my suspicions on this entire topic! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 04:16 AM |
| 6 | Conman pretended to be a rich guy to scam women he met on OLD. Nope, just nope.Oh no—I don’t look down on anyone with a job. No shame in anyone with a job’s game! My own teenage daughter works as a waitress (she has 3 jobs and in school full time). But the audacity of some guy who clearly makes less than 70K only wanting to date women who make at least that much is unbelievable. He was no Henry Cavill! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 12:22 AM |
| 7 | Conman pretended to be a rich guy to scam women he met on OLD. Nope, just nope.I hear what you are saying. I have a friend who makes a very good living as an upscale server. But this guy worked at a hole-in-the-wall local establishment. He was totally looking to use me for sex and $. It’s better when they give their game away right up front rather than wasting more of my time. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 12:15 AM |
| 20 | Liz and Big Ed are a cautionary tale (90 day single life spoilers)I don’t know how any woman can go anywhere near him. shudders | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 05:59 PM |
| 46 | Conman pretended to be a rich guy to scam women he met on OLD. Nope, just nope.I had a guy ask if my salary was at least 70K in our first phone call. He turned out to be a waiter! I think he was looking for a sugar mama. I evaded the question and got off the phone ASAP. Blocked!🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Pickmes really need to shape up and get a clue 🤢👆This! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 03:00 PM |
| 113 | An Open Letter to Woman Considering AA.This is so powerful & visceral. Thank you for sharing. While I do not have any experience with AA, I’ve struggled with the concept of forgiveness in my life. It’s taken me decades to settle on the concept of acknowledging my own right not to forgive heinous crimes—I don’t dwell there though and am still able to cultivate peace and joy in my life. Righteous anger is healthy…it acknowledges wrongdoing and seeks restoration. It’s wrong to try and deny that of people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 12:25 PM |
| 92 | How to navigate questions about my family (when No Contact) while dating?Don’t say they are dead. Imagine finding out 2 years into a relationship with someone that they lied to you about something like that. I think vagueness is your best bet here. You can answer matter-of-fact questions e.g. my parents have been married 25 years, I have x number of siblings. State the facts without any flourish—then ask them about their family or whatever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 05:39 AM |
| 21 | Foolproof vetting strategy : tell him "a man did something to you"This post is gold! Saving this post. “Nuclear Option - Calm down” made me 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 05:01 AM |
| 156 | Have you found that men on OLD lie about wanting/looking for a relationship just to get laid?In other news, water is wet. 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 04:55 AM |
| 86 | Why do they keep romanticizing “toxic love” ?I think he’s got serious issues (get total narc/creep vibes from him) and she’s got unhealed trauma. I hope one day she finds her worth. She has 3 beautiful children and so much potential as an individual. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 04:50 AM |
| 44 | Apparently his wife is TA for kicking him out of his own houseShe probably wants to leave for a day each week, but can’t because 100% of childcare falls on her! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 03:16 AM |
| 56 | High School Boy Taught Himself to Sew Because His Prom Date Couldn't Afford Her Dream DressThey are “best friends” and I’m thinking he’s probably gay—as such this would not be a romantic overture. Which would make this even more meaningful when he doesn’t want sex! Either way, an absolutely wonderful gesture and job! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 01:29 AM |
| 53 | FDS teaches you to protect yourself from all this! Dating disasters from hell 🤢Wow. The insecurity and need for control over $17. What a repulsive scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 09:17 PM |
| 28 | Ask Polly: ‘I Hate Men.’This is one of the best written pieces I’ve seen. So much gold here! “The more you dare to define what you will and won’t accept, the happier and more successful you’ll be.“ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 02:49 PM |
| 53 | Why staying in a toxic relationship makes you NV (lower than LV) when you have childrenIt’s easy to judge women who stay in abusive relationships—but this does more harm than good. While I hope that the mother is able to summon the strength to leave someday—it’s incredibly difficult to combat the emotional & self esteem issues that arise from fear and control after years of abuse. Denigrating the mother does her no good. While her daughter is correct and I hope they all get away from the abuser, harshly judging the victim of abuse as outsiders is antithetical to helping the situat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 05:53 AM |
| 63 | Tonight’s ‘The Bachelorette’I watch it with my teen daughters and we evaluate each guy and their interactions. It’s a very valuable exercise from an educational perspective! You are spot on about the one with the kid—he really irks me. Blake is an attention-seeking creep. Virgin Mike comparing her to his mom was total yikes. Justin is cute but always looks so serious. I enjoyed his art. Team Greg over here (I liked Andrew too). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 04:25 AM |
| 7 | Typical OLD scrote wants his sex NOW and will cheat if he doesn't get it!If anything, I’m afraid after this he’ll just get better at hiding it from future victims. I love what you said, but it’s better not to tip them off. 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 09:13 PM |
| 34 | Cruella has to be the most FDS thing Disney has ever madeThe point is that she’s not actually a villain—but has been villainized unfairly...as historically so many women are. I went into it with an open mind and was rewarded with a fantastic experience & I’m all about spreading the joy + fun. But to each their own! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 07:13 AM |
| 29 | Cruella has to be the most FDS thing Disney has ever madeThat’s exactly what they did with this movie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 06:46 AM |
| 38 | Cruella has to be the most FDS thing Disney has ever madeI’m an animal lover/advocate. The movie has 2 adorable dog stars and no coat made from pelts...totally updated storyline. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 06:34 AM |
| 13 | Cruella has to be the most FDS thing Disney has ever madeSaw it Sunday with my girls—we loved it! Not only the pro fem message, but the fashion, the music & the acting! 😍 Very Devil Wears Prada vibes set in the 1960s and nod to Vivienne Westwood for fashion inspiration. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 06:31 AM |
| 27 | Thoughts on matchmaking services?Yeah, they have you talk on the phone and claim to do a background check—but I don’t know if it was anything beyond making sure his check/charge for the thousands of $ cleared! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 06:40 PM |
| 137 | Thoughts on matchmaking services?I was recruited into one so I didn’t have to pay —because they have a plethora of men and I’m attractive. The men they matched me with were all duds. Like either really short (that by itself I could get over but he was also no fun), too old, unattractive, alcoholic...I only went on a date with one because they tell you not to exchange pictures or look at social media beforehand. I’m convinced it’s because no women would date any of these guys if they saw them beforehand. Meanwhile, I found out t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Emotional abuse can be as destructive as physical abuse & everyone needs to know this.Excellent point! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 05:06 PM |
| 270 | Ew. Nope! You'll always sink to their level. They will never rise to yours if this is how your "relationship" is.Find a partner, not a project!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 01:46 AM |
| 36 | Remember to love yourself first and don’t let anyone dull your sparkle.It’s #3. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 03:36 AM |
| 8 | Can confirm that a) this works and b) the results are hilariousYes—this is the second video I’ve clicked today with utterly disgusting content surrounding it. I think I need to avoid TikTok links posted here. Unless there is a way to avoid seeing the other thumbnails? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 03:23 AM |
| 61 | Please comment to share your therapy stories! Particularly couples counseling (fails and wins)Tried marriage counseling as a last resort before ultimately leaving my extremely verbally abusive ex. At our first and only appointment where I broke down describing the abject pain of what I had been reduced to after years of his abuse and gaslighting, the female counselor said he was just a “hot tamale” and to let it go, and that her own husband was like that too. I was bewildered and crushed at her lack of compassion and lack of understanding of her own profession. Remember—even professional… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 08:21 PM |
| 3 | She speaks the truthIt’s often OTHER MEN who are body shaming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 11:15 PM |
| 72 | Instead of marriage, and romance. I kind of just want a sisterhood for life.FDS Golden Girls ☀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 05:44 AM |
| 2 | It’s ironic how charming their exteriors can be while being such harbingers of deceit and pain.Phenomenal comment! Thank you for taking the time to craft this response. Very illuminating! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 12:44 PM |
| 109 | A little louder for the ladies in the back.This applies to LVMs and to us...if they repeat any mistakes we have addressed with them, then they are making the decision to dismiss/disrespect us. This also applies to us because unless we learn from our past mistakes, we are essentially making the decision to repeat them...which is why second chances rarely pan out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 05:52 PM |
| 1 | If you regularly feel sad, confused or less ‘you’—it’s not love. Fall in love with YOU first, then find someone who amplifies you. 💗Thanks! 👸🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 06:51 AM |
| 1 | If you regularly feel sad, confused or less ‘you’—it’s not love. Fall in love with YOU first, then find someone who amplifies you. 💗You learned a valuable lesson. Now you know better and won’t accept less than you deserve. 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 06:51 AM |
| 22 | If you regularly feel sad, confused or less ‘you’—it’s not love. Fall in love with YOU first, then find someone who amplifies you. 💗Relish being yourself and build a life you love more and more. You’ve already met the love of your life—it’s you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 03:15 AM |
| 55 | Can abuse in a relationship ever stop?ABUSERS DON’T CHANGE. Period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 05:23 AM |
| 58 | You don’t want to be anyone’s space filler or time killer. Priority or bust!This reminded me of watching President Biden after his inauguration—all these people congratulating him and he’s just looking for Jill in the crowd. 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 08:53 PM |
| 21 | That's a HUGE no for meMy heart hurts for her. She has such a sweet smile. Wish she had self-worth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 12:36 AM |
| 65 | They may have bed frame ladders, but I'd bet they sleep on floor mattresses.As soon as I saw the specimens that perpetrated today’s deplorable display—I turned to my teen daughter and commented that they look like many of the guys I’ve seen on online dating apps. Shudders | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 05:03 AM |
| 305 | WTF does this kinda text mean? Seeing this guy about a month. He’s all in to me, then this?Do not even bother responding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 04:00 AM |
| 11 | You think this guy gets second dates?Abuse 101 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 01:34 AM |
| 27 | Y'all, they literally don't stop 😂 I've already posted here a couple days ago with a screenshot from their sub about the rings people are posting 🖕Only miserable, insecure people try to drag others down. He’s so hate-filled and desperate for attention he will disparage someone else’s joy. He is unworthy of any woman’s time or care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 05:03 PM |
| 15 | Wife gets cancer and husband abandons her at the hospitalIf they are even speaking to him by then... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 11:48 PM |
| 92 | Wife gets cancer and husband abandons her at the hospitalHe’s also destroying his kids with his selfishness. They will likely have lifelong issues due to this decision. Can you imagine someone choosing to willfully harm your mother?! To prevent you from being with her in her final days?! And the person doing this is your own fucking father?! Unbelievable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 05:40 PM |
| 168 | NVM thinks that girlfriend's PTSD is "selfish".They don’t actually think that. They just use it as an excuse to do whatever the hell they want and often because they get off on pushing women’s boundaries and hurting them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 09:04 AM |
| 108 | YIKES!!!!!!Oh-just look at the grown man who is salivating at the thought of being able to criticize a young girl who is 100x the person he will ever be and makes him feel threatened... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 08:37 AM |
| 85 | It’s the last day to use this flair! At the start of the year I NEVER thought I’d have the strength to do it, yet here I am single and thriving thanks to this sub. How many queens were able to KickHimOut2020?!Happy to say I got rid of a NVM masquerading as a HVM! 🥳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 10:37 PM |
| 43 | HVM on Christmas vs. LVM on ChristmasName on the deed—not the mortgage. 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 01:34 AM |
| 12 | What I learned from being an evil stepmomThis is such a perfectly articulated and important post on this topic! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 04:31 PM |
| 3 | Why do I fight for relationships I don’t wantCan’t upvote this comment enough! 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 06:06 AM |
| 14 | And if they treat you like this during sex, it surely isn’t limited to the bedroom.Wow. It’s unreal how deranged they can be. I’m glad you are not with him anymore. Hugs to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 02:08 AM |
| 12 | And if they treat you like this during sex, it surely isn’t limited to the bedroom.Exactly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 10:44 PM |
| 37 | Mic drop.This would be hilarious if it weren’t absolutely true so often!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 08:29 PM |
| 64 | If only there were a pill to cure delusions...So true!! And I’ve seen men write ridiculously pathetic shit right on their dating profiles like “Women aren’t looking for nice guys like me” or “too nice for most women” etc. This is such a red flag! 🚩 It does make it easier to weed them out though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 08:19 PM |
| 84 | It's annoying when I tell my doctor I'm not sexually active and she doesn't believe me.You need a new doctor! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 07:07 PM |
| 22 | In need of support 😥Virtual hugs. Be kind to yourself. Take the lesson and move on. If you are ever tempted to reminisce or reach out to him, keep a list of all the shitty things he said and did (I mean even down those micro-cuts) to remind yourself of what he truly is. You may need to read it many times, but you grieve and accept that the reality it he is not your guy. Stay away from his social media or any contact whatsoever. Block everywhere. No curious moments for you because they will only cause delays in heal… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 09:06 AM |
| 35 | Article from the horses mouth about emotionally unavailable men and the women who love them.👆Perfect break-down. It felt almost like I was reading the thoughts of someone like Patrick Bateman in American Psycho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 08:04 AM |
| 15 | So nice to see positive examples of fatherhood!!I follow HONY and when this story was posted the other day, I read it to my 16-year-old because I wanted to share the beauty of the love in this family and example of a true HVM. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 10:55 AM |
| 97 | Thank you to the queen who called me out on another sub! You’ve helped change my life.It warms my ❤️ to see this post! I’m so glad you are recognizing your worth. Welcome back to glorious you. 💐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 02:20 AM |
| 40 | Happy Holidays! 😜I personally wouldn’t stay with someone whose social media activities were something I felt warranted policing—but thought this was really funny! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 10:11 PM |
| 37 | Happy Holidays! 😜Agreed, but it sure made me lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Create your own story and happiness.❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 12:26 AM |
| 22 | And you can customize the skin color. 😉You have GOT to be kidding! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 01:08 AM |
| 252 | How can anyone post this and claim this as fact?They conveniently forget the part about men being the perpetrators of these crimes against other men. 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 01:46 PM |
| 22 | Our daily reminder that dating older men will get you absolutely nowhereOh sis, so many things to unpack here...but I hope she leaves him and his inferior old sperm in the dust! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 11:20 AM |
| 24 | The man who pioneered the movement to normalize hardcore porn: Literally the EPITOME of pornsick LVM🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 05:58 PM |
| 55 | Stay alert on what’s compromise or notThis is one of the most cogent and perfectly expressed responses I’ve ever seen on Reddit! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 03:05 AM |
| 36 | Did you guys watch Maleficent? *spoilers!*I personally loved this movie and it has several themes befitting of FDS sisters. When her wings are stolen by NVM Stephan, her cries were heart-shattering. It’s emblematic of exactly what FDS is trying to protect women from. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 11:48 PM |
| 7 | Thank you FDS! 💛I’m so glad you found us! I have daughters myself—and while I may not have had the benefit of this knowledge when I was growing up, I’m raising them with these principles. At 20, you have an amazing future ahead! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 08:59 PM |
| 64 | 🚫 No more unrequited love 🚫 You are worth so much more 👑Holding on to unrequited love is self-abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 04:39 PM |
| 166 | Leave him in the dust...The fallacy of sunk costs, literally costs women their emotional, financial and physical wellbeing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 04:10 PM |
| 17 | Thanks for the inspiration 🥳Good for you! Onward and upward! 🎉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 06:34 AM |
| 8 | I found my boyfriend on Tinder 3 months ago Idk what to do :(He has shown you who he is. A liar and cheater. It may hurt temporarily, but the best thing for you in the long run is to let this one go! | /r/askFDS | 16/10/20 05:34 AM |
| 5 | Thoughts on men who hunt?Where I live, men who hunt are typically right-wing, conservative, redneck types...so not for me. I also can’t imagine liking someone who enjoys stalking/killing animals for sport. If a man needs to hunt to live in the US, then he’s not able to support himself in a manner that would make him suitable for a relationship. | /r/askFDS | 16/10/20 05:28 AM |
| 35 | I'm sure most of the LVM didn't understand the heavy sarcasm. WoMEn ArEn'T fUnNy. I absolutely adore her 😍.She was great! However, I didn’t appreciate the sex/choking reference—even in jest I don’t approve of normalizing violent sexual practices. Very funny woman though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 05:03 AM |
| 33 | Am I the only one who despises this absolute nutcase?!Wow does she have a gross/annoying way of presenting herself. She appears devoid of class and self respect. That said—the indicators of cheating she lists are pretty accurate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 02:44 AM |
| 26 | LVM Bitching About Paying $20 For A MealHe’s cheap He’s rude/condescending He’s all about control Good thing he showed his true colors so early. Bullet dodged! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 08:40 PM |
| 29 | Guy who didn't like cats can't stop rescuing them nowThis is so heartwarming.🥰 Brought tears to my eyes and satisfaction to my soul. 😻 Thanks for posting. The world needs more of this beautiful energy! 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 05:58 AM |
| 39 | TRP TACTICS: "Destroy Her Ego." Watch out for these 🚩s! 🗣️Wow. Imagine being so pathetic that you need to resort to these tactics to try and manipulate women. I’m glad you shared because the more women see this, the more we can be on guard for these tactics. The second a man tries any of this shit, they can see him for what he is and move on with their lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 02:20 AM |
| 112 | Aww he’s mad I didn’t respond to his coffee date invite 😢That he sent you at 1:12 am! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 02:34 PM |
| 23 | Our society.. nobody watched the full video on YouTube and saw that she was in a whole new relationship when the child was conceived. Everyone in the comments and the pickme judge roasted this woman for standing up for herself and her child against a cheater. Wow.It’s so annoying when facts threaten to interfere with our hatred of women. — Scrotes everywhere | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 01:38 PM |
| 3 | A defining principle of this sub:Mine too! If only I had known about FDS 20 years ago! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 11:24 PM |
| 7 | A defining principle of this sub:I am one of those children 🙋🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 09:21 PM |
| 54 | QUEEN ENERGY from HONYEspecially impressive considering she’s from Egypt—rampant misogyny and brainwashing. Ranks 136/145 countries for gender disparities. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 05:50 PM |
| 10 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Seeking approval (but only from you fellow queens). 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 05:00 AM |
| 11 | Who’s gonna tell them?...Wouldn’t deign to try. It would be like trying explain music to a deaf person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:59 PM |
| 30 | Don’t be easily impressedSo true! I’ve had men fly and drive hundreds of miles to meet me. At first I was flattered and believed it to be due to some special connection or interest/intentions for me...but I’ve come to believe they probably exhausted their closer options lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 05:26 PM |
| 25 | When a Pitbull Approaches a Man and His Young Daughter, The Father Jumps on the Hood of a Car and Lets His Daughter Fend For HerselfHer cries shook me to my core. I’m so disturbed by this. I wanted to save her myself. What a pathetic POS that father is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 03:35 AM |
| 38 | How I feel about this subAw! Wholesome feels. ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:35 PM |
| 3 | Real, fulfilling sex is about connection & mutuality...Thank you! 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 01:13 AM |
| 114 | This is what happens when pickmeishas become mothersI want to rescue those 2 girls (and the boy from learning this toxic message). This is child abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 03:40 PM |
| 94 | Start ostracising men who fail to be decent humans. That’s the only way to make the world safe for girls/women. Don’t excuse friends and family members either.Want to shout this from the rooftops! I’m so tired of women suffering and being blamed and being forced to take responsibility for male depravity! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 01:42 PM |
| 30 | Welcome to the other side, sis. This ex friend decided to badmouth me behind my back, because I have standards and started to talk about them. A while later she sent me this apology. Better late than never, I guess.If you do—remain guarded. I have had women apologize to me for mistreatment in the past and given another chance at friendship, only to have them repeat the same type of behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 02:14 PM |
| 67 | And to think, I used to consider merely having a bookshelf a green flag 🤦♀️So you’re saying there are men out there that read?! 😜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 09:44 AM |
| 10 | A HVM will never leave you wondering.Thanks for the gold, anonymous reddit user! 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 02:38 AM |
| 23 | LVM & NVM be like, "I wAs JuSt ChEcKiNg In tO sEe HoW yOu WeRe DoInG bEcAuSe I aM sUcH a GoOd gUy." then get salty when you don't accept their shitty outreach attempt because hE iS TrYiNg!This was the laugh I needed this morning! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 02:43 PM |
| 177 | Millionaire Youtuber Asks His Part-Time Model Girlfriend To Split The Check.Everything about him is gross in this. His superior, condescending attitude and lack of feelings screams insecurity and obviously he uses his money as power over her ands gets off on it. I hope she finds us! You don’t have to debase yourself again by staying with this scrote! He’s repulsive! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 11:42 PM |
| 5 | Another addition to Stitched Strategies - “Actions express Priorities”😳 OMG YOU DID IT!! I love this so much! 💕 I want one! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 03:57 AM |
| 20 | What is the Ultimate LVM name?Ian Have known 3 trash men with that name. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 10:23 PM |
| 38 | Epstein & Trump defender Alan Dershowitz says “Statutory rape is an outdated concept” 🤢so disgustingLower than scum. There’s a special place in hell for people who profit from defending and furthering the agenda of abuse and evil. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 05:58 AM |
| 17 | I Need HelpWow—this is really interesting! I’m going to try this when/if necessary in the future! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 02:23 AM |
| 83 | Empirical evidence that men are more often assholes than womenAnd just as I suspected, assholes only become worse with age! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 02:27 PM |
| 3 | No truer words...That would be PHENOMENAL! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 12:25 PM |
| 2 | No truer words...I showed this to my daughter last night & told her it should be a poster on her wall! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 12:19 PM |
| 6 | Let’s discuss PUA tactics, so we can guard ourselves against them!I really appreciate you sharing this. I’m disgusted by all of it, but especially by the using their traumas to manipulate them and the father/daughter dynamic. Absolutely sickening. How pathetic and cruel must they be to resort to this?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 06:05 PM |
| 33 | Red Flags!I need to read up on this so I can be better prepared! Never knew this was a thing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 02:48 AM |
| 16 | Timing is everything. Whether or not you are religious—this is gold! 😂Sounds like a major bullet dodged for her. Hope she can see it & heals! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 02:45 PM |
| 49 | Mormons brought a man over to my house, he showed me his dick pic without warning after they left to their car.As a former Mormon and current license-holding teacher, I respectfully disagree—Mormonism is quite literally the definition of a cult (and so are most religions). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 07:35 AM |
| 63 | Exactly! It's not about being more "selective"; I'm literally sorting through trash!Oh I don’t necessarily mean dating...I mean in every facet of life. Some of them may be coworkers (and most already married). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 03:56 AM |
| 160 | Exactly! It's not about being more "selective"; I'm literally sorting through trash!That first pic is more representative of the 5 decent guys we meet in a year! 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 03:34 AM |
| 10 | Rejected (because you're someone they could love) @Susan WinterTHANK YOU for posting this! This has been true for me with two past partners. Thankfully, I eventually recognized that there was nothing I could do to achieve the outcome I wanted, so I had to end each relationship. It’s really rough when it’s great for months building up to something, only for them to be too weak to face their fears. So from now on, it’s only fully-actualized and emotionally available men for me. It means the pool is a lot smaller, but so is the potential for wasted time & pain… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 03:13 PM |
| 96 | I sent my husband to jailFile a PFA. Don’t engage in any further communication. Make any arrangements you need to in order to get away & safe. Communicate only through attorneys/mediators. Do not allow yourself to be sucked back into his drama. Research trauma bonding and abuse. Know it will be a difficult roller coaster but 💯 worth it. I’m proud of you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 02:55 PM |
| 3 | Can anyone shed some light on what this guy’s method here?This is exactly what I was thinking! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 06:16 PM |
| 18 | Unbelievable. This is only his third message to me.My thoughts exactly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 03:27 PM |
| 26 | Unbelievable. This is only his third message to me.We are not in Australia. We are in the US and it’s definitely not okay—which he knows and is evidenced by his lame emoji afterwards...like insulting someone then saying only joking afterwards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 03:17 PM |
| 59 | Unbelievable. This is only his third message to me.I don’t care if he was trying to be funny, you don’t call a woman a “cunt” or use that word in getting-to-know-you conversation. So irked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 02:59 PM |
| 7 | Dickmisha of the yearThat’s true. It’s a tough position to be in—but in the end—I’d take the risk if it meant there were a chance I could help her. I know it’s more complicated in this situation, but knowing something damaging and doing nothing about the injustice makes you at least somewhat complicit. Maybe I have an overblown sense of justice/morality. 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 02:13 PM |
| 8 | Dickmisha of the yearI hope she does. When I was married to an abusive cheater, I ended up figuring it out myself. It may have helped save me some time/heartache/additional years of investment if I had known earlier. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 02:02 PM |
| 16 | I just came to the realization that maybe I fall for LVM because all the men in my family (dad, brother, most of my uncles) are LVM 🤯It’s elementary, my dear Watson...🧐 It all starts at the beginning... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 03:58 AM |
| 56 | Don't learn the hard way, ladies. 🤦🏻♀️Been there, done that. Got the t-shirt. Burned it after FDS. I can’t believe I was actually excited when I figured out the diagnoses of the last two. 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 02:07 AM |
| 56 | DO NOT put up with a porn sick, lying man. Told her he was looking at cars and did not know she had her makeup mirror there - when she asked him to show her he’d quickly flip to a picture of a car. Look closely at the mirror.His beard alone makes him undateable! Also I don’t really buy this because the pictures reflected are just girls in bikinis...and I imagine pornsick scrotes looking at nudes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 07:31 PM |
| 61 | r/FDS works.I hope you pick yourself up, block this loser and never compromise your standards again. Don’t give this guy the satisfaction of falling to pieces over this. You live and learn and keep leveling up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 08:20 PM |
| 47 | This may be the most honest profile I’ve seen...I think his cats probably have the right idea. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 12:25 AM |
| 90 | This queen is onto something hereEven casual fare from the Gap is a step up from many of the men I see online. 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 12:17 AM |
| 16 | Don’t give a man your real phone numberSo true! I just had a weirdo message me from over a year ago (before I started using google voice). This dude was creepy after 2 conversations and I had to block him. Lo and behold—he just messaged me from another number! I told him he had a wrong number and had to block him again! YIKES 😳 Never even met the guy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 10:42 PM |
| 116 | Seen in a Fb group for ALDI. Imagine being such a pickme you have to passive aggressively make signs in your home to show your man won’t commit to you.That’s 5 years of her life wasted...time to cut your losses! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 04:56 PM |
| 79 | LVM can’t dress himself for his own wedding 🤦🏽♀️All kinds of yikes. This girl looks beautiful & waaay younger than him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 04:26 PM |
| 56 | Glad the trash threw itself outAll that education and he still can’t proofread. 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 05:54 AM |
| 6 | Who would swipe right on this disgusting creep?!The only explanation: porn. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 04:14 AM |
| 6 | Anyone else down to read Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft and do a virtual bookclub discussion each week to process the content/discuss? Details here!!!I’m comfortable doing zoom... and you can’t fake being a female on zoom! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 08:11 PM |
| 131 | This is some big Pick Me energy...Block, forget him & learn from the experience. Don’t send nudes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 03:48 PM |
| 32 | Especially men that weren’t worth your time or love...This is about growth in light of leaving behind people not good for you...which is actually a positive thing in the end. As far as what if’s—99% of scary imaginings never happen. Don’t let fear consume you and rob you of precious time. Check out cognitive behavioral therapy for help with managing this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 06:51 AM |
| 58 | Especially men that weren’t worth your time or love...It’s certainly true for me in my nearly 4+ decades of life experience... Those that are true, good and worthwhile will only become more beautiful and beloved (e.g. my children). Those that aren’t meant for you will eventually fade into the past and you will be able to see their flaws with more clarity, learn from your mistakes and gravitate towards those whose light radiates along with yours, rather than dim it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 06:47 AM |
| 3 | Divorced ladies and name changesI messaged you. 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 05:44 AM |
| 11 | Divorced ladies and name changesI’m changing mine to an entirely different name, but haven’t decided yet. I don’t want my maiden name (abusive family) and hate my married name which it took me 7 years to change to in the first place. Lol I have a list of cool sounding names and I’m playing around with them until one sticks out as the best. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 04:20 AM |
| 5 | And these guys wonder why they are single? 🤔On point. 💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 04:12 AM |
| 33 | 🤡 and pickmeisha 👹looking for another 👹 to join their circus 🎪I see far too many of these. How many fucked up relationships where the man convinces the woman that this is a good idea are there anyway?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 05:29 PM |
| 6 | Much of Cinderella's Criticism is a "Hidden Disdain for Femininity"In a world where I was force-fed misogynistic religious and cultural messages, I chose Cinderella as my example of how best to deal with my abuse and oppression. It is true power to retain your kindness and optimism in the face of cruelty and trauma. This exploration of Cinderella’s themes is spot-on. Just check my username. 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 05:20 AM |
| 9 | What does this even mean? I can't figure out how either "I saw The Avengers in a theater" or "I like watching Friends" makes a woman less "girly," intellectual, or attractive.I have a genius IQ, am ultra feminine and adore FRIENDS 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 04:48 AM |
| 30 | Hope they get picked!I do hate this about Bumble BUT, I was previously on match.com and that app lets ANYONE message you, whether you have liked one another or not. So as a result, I had hundreds of messages from men entirely outside my parameters (many of which were inappropriate). We are talking men 15 years older and younger and many of them didn’t even live in the same state! Don’t even get me started on their lack of communication abilities. At least with Bumble you both have to match first and I’ve found the m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 09:32 PM |
| 30 | Tinder LingoYou can now add fluency in scrote to your languages 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 04:30 AM |
| 22 | Tinder LingoThis is 💯% accurate! 😂 Seriously well written! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 04:19 AM |
| 11 | Just had to get that little dig in before I unmatched. He was a teacher 🤦♀️It was so satisfying 😜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:29 AM |
| 44 | Just had to get that little dig in before I unmatched. He was a teacher 🤦♀️I unmatched so I got the last word.😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:28 AM |
| 26 | Just had to get that little dig in before I unmatched. He was a teacher 🤦♀️Good. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:27 AM |
| 182 | To all of us who read "Why Does He Do That?"I can’t upvote this enough! It took me 20 YEARS, but I leveled up and left my abuser! A childhood of abuse set me up to take it, but I finally recognized my worth...and that I needed to set an example for my daughters. It hasn’t always been easy, but they are thriving and proud of me. We talk female dating strategy all the time and they will not accept mistreatment by men. Bonus:I’m still early 40s and the hottest I’ve been in my life! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 10:50 PM |
| 91 | Polgár was Women's World Champion from 1996 to 1999. On the FIDE rating list of July 1984, at the age of 15, she became the top-ranked female player in the world. In 1991 she became the third woman to be awarded the title of Grandmaster by FIDE. In chess, she is a master, in life she is a queen!Girls rule! ✊ Men are such sore losers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 09:39 PM |
| 19 | His Bucket list includes making it to japan and his other picture is him sticking his tongue out. The fact hes dressed as the joker already shows the clown nature. I downloaded and deleted after 5 minYou know, this is a valid point...if he likes a character enough to want to emulate them—it’s a red flag when they are violent/disturbed... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 08:14 PM |
| 120 | Pathetic m*le cries when girlfriend refuses to have sex with him because he hadn't showered in MONTHS and offered to 'use more febreeze'🤢🤮 I showered when I was IN LABOR because I can’t go a single day without a shower! No way would I be kissing, cuddling or going anywhere near someone like this dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 07:57 PM |
| 15 | Remember how everyone was feeling all bad for Mark from ‘Love Is Blind’ because he got rejected by Jessica? Turns out he’s a cheating scrote!I always thought he was probably just afraid to lose his 15 seconds of fame & just pretending to be that into her for the purposes of remaining on the show. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 07:37 PM |
| 7 | His Bucket list includes making it to japan and his other picture is him sticking his tongue out. The fact hes dressed as the joker already shows the clown nature. I downloaded and deleted after 5 minHe’s so gross I’m almost ashamed to say I agree with him about Parks & Rec because I don’t want to associate with him. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Please keep your clothes on, Christian. We’re begging you...No, PA. So this is a very odd & out of place profile. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 01:55 PM |
| 5 | Imaginary sky daddy apparently endorses sloppy three minute jackhammering.Yes! I’m anti-religion for a variety of reasons, but namely oppression of women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Imaginary sky daddy apparently endorses sloppy three minute jackhammering.Imaginary sky daddy! I’m dying! 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 08:35 PM |
| 24 | Advice/thoughts on the 90 days before sex rule?I was thinking of something along the lines of “Sex is a very big deal to me. I want to be sure we are a match across the other aspects of our personalities and lives so I can feel comfortable proceeding on that front.” I’m a very affectionate/sexual person so this really is of great importance to me. (copied from my comment above). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 04:40 PM |
| 17 | Advice/thoughts on the 90 days before sex rule?I was thinking of something along the lines of “Sex is a very big deal to me. I want to be sure we are a match across the other aspects of our personalities and lives so I can feel comfortable proceeding on that front.” I’m a very affectionate/sexual person so this really is of great importance to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 04:38 PM |
| 14 | Advice/thoughts on the 90 days before sex rule?Sure, in theory sounds sensible—How do you apply this in reality? Do you tell men you are seeing that it’s going to be a 90-day wait? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 04:24 PM |
| 2 | I’m gonna nah sis myself for a second.I’m so glad you are following up with this! Years ago I got these terrible migraines with stroke symptoms & had to go to the hospital a number of times. It wasn’t until a year later that this awesome 80-something feminist doctor looked at my chart and suggested I get off birth control because this is a side effect. She couldn’t believe none of the other doctors and health professionals I’d seen has even mentioned it. In retrospect neither can I. My life & health changed overnight! Hormonal birth… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 02:32 AM |
| 3 | I’m gonna nah sis myself for a second.In case this applies to you—birth control pills can cause complex migraines with stroke symptoms. If you are on hormonal birth control, this is far more likely to happen again and for an actual stroke. Getting off the pill saved my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 01:55 PM |
| 126 | If she cheated on him, I'm sure he'd be just as understanding. I mean, no one's, invincible right? (/s) My patience is thinner than a contact lens right now.Men will treat you how they feel about THEMSELVES. If they are secure and healthy and good, they are not going to cheat, because of INTEGRITY. A man who knows he’s trash is looking to fill the void in his ego. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 01:31 PM |
| 15 | Love is....I like a lot of this...the loyalty/ devotion/ commitment...but no man better “reprimand” me in private or otherwise! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 02:36 PM |
| 41 | Update from my last post.You go girl! We stand in solidarity with you! Good riddance! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 03:33 AM |
| 10 | A PickMe ANTHEMFrozen is actually full of redeeming messages! Anna’s not a pickme for wanting/believing in love—she was a traumatized victim who simply didn’t know better. I thought it was especially refreshing to ultimately see prince Hans recognized as a narcissistic fraud. Sisterly Love is shown to be what is truly important and saves the day. The underlying message is to own your powers/uniqueness and don’t let others dictate your worth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 07:27 AM |
| 32 | He’s never going to change for you- The mentality of the LVMBookmarking this post because it’s 💯% spot on! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 02:10 PM |
| 34 | Let the beast and the rose rot in hellI was so proud of her too! 🙌 I mean a rat-infested dirt floor was still a preferable alternative to Ed! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 06:31 AM |
| 58 | 13 year old girl beheaded by father in Iranian honor killing.This makes me rage inside. That beautiful girl with so much potential...fucking disgusting. He should be put to death. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 03:23 AM |
| 12 | This is amazing. There’s so much gold on TikTok if you look.🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 03:20 AM |
| 38 | Let the beast and the rose rot in hellHe also imprisoned Belle and was a total control freak with anger issues. FDS sheds a whole new light on fairytales! 😉 He did have a castle though. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 03:11 AM |
| 63 | Let the beast and the rose rot in hellExcept that the beast was actually a prince and ain’t nothing about Ed princely, 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 03:04 AM |
| 12 | Stop doing hubby shit for men who aren't even boyfriendsThank you! 😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 10:38 PM |
| 3 | I found my divine masculine incarnateThat’s wonderful!❤️🌈 Now, do tell—where did you meet him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 10:36 PM |
| 50 | Stop doing hubby shit for men who aren't even boyfriendsCan’t upvote enough! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 10:34 PM |
| 95 | 4chan scrote creates a rating scale for women... of beautiful women who someone are not up to this man's standards...And Blake Freaking Lively as a 5?! 🙄 This is such a front—-If any of these women deigned to interact with him in real life, he’d probably be pissing himself and unable to form coherent sentences. GTFOutta here, scrote! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 02:27 PM |
| 70 | 6+ years with a man and no ring?This is EXACTLY what I was hoping! “Day 1 of the BEST of my life!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 12:25 AM |
| 8 | How is this gem still single?Or dinner! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 06:50 PM |
| 36 | Do most women LIKE being oppressed? I’m pretty sure 73K of us FDS users are proof enough that women are sick of that bullshit.This is nothing more than mental gymnastics to try justifying their abhorrent behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 04:21 PM |
| 91 | How is this gem still single?Quick recap: Apathetic Objectifying/Misogynistic A gambler Has unhealthy eating habits Can’t type worth a damn I laughed so much when I came across this profile I wanted to share the laughs. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 04:03 PM |
| 23 | How is this gem still single?This particular guy’s picture was of a gym rat, but I’m sure that’s generally true! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 03:50 PM |
| 56 | How is this gem still single?Oh but they are “whatever” I mean he’s negging all women right in his profile. Served with a side of grammatical errors, objectification & idiocy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Maturity red flag?Actually, scanning for red flags prior to meeting is extremely necessary and perhaps you can reframe it, so you won’t feel negatively about needing to protect yourself. It definitely sucks that we can’t take others at their word (especially men), but kudos to you for doing your due diligence. Be gentle with yourself, but remember these tools are to protect you and your heart. Any trauma from your past only makes it that much more important. 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Maturity red flag?Hey—I like old Disney movies (and the new ones even more)! I don’t think liking these things is a red flag—if enjoyed in moderation. But video games can frequently be an addiction, so I’d try and get a gauge on just how big a role they play in his life. To your other point about him being versed in psychology catch-phrases surrounding narcissism—tread carefully here. There are men who are using these words to become a wolf in sheep’s clothing and mask the fact that they are the narcissist by usi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 02:52 PM |
| 28 | Ask a man what makes a good wife and watch him describe a slave.Wish I could super like this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 04:19 AM |
| 2 | The importance of having a roasterI think you mean roster. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 11:52 AM |
| 17 | Has anyone received hatemail from commenting or posting in this sub?I get incels trying to start chats with me. Their collective post history reads like a training manual for serial killers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 03:06 AM |
| 42 | I need you ladies to hype me up in preparation of breaking up with LVMRipping the band-aid off now will lead to quicker healing and leveling-up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 03:15 AM |
| 7 | Looking for book recommendationsAttached by Amir Levine and Rachel S. F. Heller | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 08:42 AM |
| 202 | This Mother & Son Combo made my jaw drop. PickMe Mothers raise Low Value Sons.Unbelievable. Faking death to avoid child support? Should be punished with jail time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 02:27 AM |
| 15 | TruthAgreed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 09:35 PM |
| 44 | How to not be a stupid bitch and keep crawling back to a guyIt sounds like you have anxious attachment style and his is avoidant (and abusive even). This dynamic is unhealthy for you. Check out the book Attached. It’s very eye-opening. My advice is get a counselor & work on your self esteem. You know you need to end this to give yourself a chance at genuine happiness. Edited to add—please don’t refer to yourself as a bitch or stupid. The most important voice that shapes your self esteem is the one in your own mind. Be gentle with yourself. You are worthy… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 07:15 PM |
| 16 | My friend matched with this LVM that wanted to meet her during the pandemic. “I’ll just keep it moving.” Yes, please do!If you swipe right on men, chances are some are going to be morons. Even with careful profile scrutiny before swiping, many of the opening messages I get indicate high levels of moronism. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 03:13 PM |
| 14 | My boyfriend thinks he’s not good enough?Check out attachment theory—sounds like his attachment style is anxious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 04:17 AM |
| 5 | This is his idea of an opening line?No that is photofeeler. You can upload your pictures & have them rated—you can choose the parameters for who you want to do the rating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 05:03 PM |
| 7 | This is his idea of an opening line?Tinder. Signed up the day before Covid 19 stuff started...Then with quarantine I thought maybe this would mean getting to know one another through actual conversation... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 04:36 PM |
| 93 | This is his idea of an opening line?So I had a good laugh that his name is Chad...and have to admit I kind of wish I could have told him the truth that I’m actually 43 Pic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Out of pure curiosity, how would you describe your own looks?😘 I’m sure you will! I don’t drink & I take plenty of vitamins. 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 08:10 PM |
| 12 | More kneejerk defenses of porn and threats we’re all going to die alone unless we accept it. “Nice Guys” don’t make overt threats, they wrap it up in some concern trolling.*tenets not tenants 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 02:17 PM |
| 10 | I am finally moving out - but my mom thinks I should stay in an emotionally abusive relationshipWow. I’m sorry your family is so clueless and unsupportive. It’s honestly no wonder you would up in an abusive relationship. At this point, you’ll have to use your strength to deflect/ignore their comments. If they don’t understand after you have tried explaining, then you need to stop having those conversations with them. Abuse is abuse—it’s always a choice and it’s never acceptable. Get yourself a good therapist. EMDR has helped me tremendously (you’ll probably need to find a trauma therapist … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 03:24 PM |
| 9 | What's your Meyers Briggs?ENFJ—the Protagonist | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 02:11 PM |
| 81 | This came through on r/AskFDS and was just TOO good not to repost. He thinks he’s in the “top 20% of males” and wonders what “we have to offer him” that he can’t get from younger women. 😐 Yes he’s serious. 😐 Check the comments for the OP.He has the kind of face/physique that should be marked NSFW & blurred out, so that we can individually decide if our stomachs are strong enough to look. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 05:44 PM |
| 9 | "Wife should be seen not heard" someone save this poor womanTombstone is the perfect name for him and exact description of what he is to women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 10:39 PM |
| 54 | Never explain, never regret: Don't let them guilt you into oversharing, sis.Like Brene Brown says: “Not everyone deserves to hear your story.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 10:08 PM |
| 19 | "Wife should be seen not heard" someone save this poor womanAnd she’s so judgmental & sanctimonious as she defends her husband’s obvious success at brainwashing and controlling her. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 07:49 PM |
| 9 | Out of pure curiosity, how would you describe your own looks?At 43, I’m proud to say I’m a bombshell. I’ve taken excellent care of myself (and I’ve had kids). What makes this remarkable to me is that I spent over 20 years in relationships with 2 abusive men who made me feel worthless. Looking back, I was always beautiful, but only now do I really believe it. I’m so glad it didn’t take me another 20 years to get out. ❤️pic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 04:57 AM |
| 2 | Why you should spy: Verify before you trust — and never trust fullyThank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 09:11 PM |
| 8 | Why you should spy: Verify before you trust — and never trust fullyI agree, but I’d like to be able to easily check even without having any reason for suspicion—better safe than sorry right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 06:22 PM |
| 43 | Why you should spy: Verify before you trust — and never trust fullyI need some technology lessons about how to do this... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 05:43 PM |
| 25 | Parents and their gender favourismIn the US, mothers overwhelmingly want girls. The majority of sex-selected embryos at clinics in in the US are girls. But most places in the rest of the world, culturally boys are favored. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 08:33 PM |
| 22 | Devil wears PradaYou are right. But Meryl Streep was iconic! And the fashion! 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 12:14 AM |
| 45 | Had to end things with another man today. So, I'm still single and that's OK!“...Nothing is lonelier than being in a room with someone who makes you feel invisible.” FUCKING AMEN! 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 04:47 AM |
| 5 | Don't put up with men who become monsters (or even more monstrous) when watching sports!Truth. More women are beaten on the evening of the Super Bowl than any other night of the year. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 05:52 AM |
| 15 | So over these ‘nice guys’...🙄I don’t know why you didn’t block him on Jan 11! What an imbecile he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 05:46 AM |
| 10 | Don’t let the Narcissists & Fuckbois break your goodness.I concur that it’s not his best look. I’ll tell him to shave & get a haircut before we get married. 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 04:54 AM |
| 32 | Don’t let the Narcissists & Fuckbois break your goodness.Yes! He said it—but back off because I’m pretty sure he’s actually my soul mate! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Songs by ladies to get me through this?One Too Many - Fletcher (my current fave) Hands Clean - Alanis We are never ever ever getting back together -T. Swift Somebody That I Used To Know - Gotye or Glee version Irreplaceable- Beyoncé Fuck You - Lily Allen Since You Been Gone - Kelly Clarkson No Scrubs - TLC Don’t Speak - No Doubt Not Like The Movies - Katy Perry Knowing Me, Knowing You - ABBA | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 09:20 PM |
| 38 | High Status Myth vs. High Value MenI’ve had 3 LVMs with high status jobs. Doctor, lawyer & financial advisor. My last ex made over 300K a year and was the single most disturbed, controlling and abusive man I have ever had the misfortune of knowing. To him money=power and power was more important than love, integrity or any relationship. Other people (women especially) are something to be used for his own ends. There is no amount of money on earth worth being with someone who abuses you. I used to tell him I’d rather be with a Wal… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 09:54 PM |
| 37 | What to say when you get a low effort dateI was in this situation a couple of weeks ago (being asked to drinks when I’m used to being asked to dinner) & I came here to ask how I should respond—I said “I prefer going to dinner so we can better get to know one another.” If you say this, he will either step up or not... My suitor apologized for not offering that to begin with. He asked me where and I had him select a few choices for me and I chose my favorite. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 03:11 AM |
| 18 | Do you find the men in your area attractive?What’s with all the beards?! 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 09:04 PM |
| 8 | Male becomes physically and mentally undesirable, thinks the cure is women messaging him on social media👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 11:19 AM |
| 56 | When on a date with this dude,he bragged about being a personal trainer the whole time and thinks I'd respond to "sup". Boy byeWell no wonder he was upset...after his poetic opening of “sup” he then spent 13 minutes crafting an even more brilliant and creative formal “wassup” which clearly ordinarily has women falling on their knees to him. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 11:12 AM |
| 10 | Don't let age feel like you are low value because you're not!! It's a gaslighting technique from the manosphere to encourage women to settle for low value men! 30 is still super young for women!And she’s actually 44! Such a timeless beauty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 02:15 AM |
| 2 | What strategies and techniques helped you lose feelings for a man?This is absolutely invaluable. Thank you for taking the time to type it out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 08:56 PM |
| 20 | I’m so sick of beardsYes! My date last night asked me if it was okay if he wore Jordans & t shirt to a nice restaurant 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 03:08 PM |
| 6 | I’m so sick of beardsI cannot agree more! Beards are a total turn-off! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 02:59 PM |
| 3 | How do I respond to an offer of coffee or drinks?“I prefer meeting for dinner so we have a better chance to get to know one another.” And it worked! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 06:54 PM |
| 6 | How do I respond to an offer of coffee or drinks?Yes—inquiring minds want to know about the selection! I thought Okc had a rep for being for cheaters so I’m curious! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 02:55 AM |
| 34 | How do I respond to an offer of coffee or drinks?Update: I said I prefer dinner and he apologized for not offering dinner in the first place. 👍 We have a date set for Thursday. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 02:51 AM |
| 9 | How do I respond to an offer of coffee or drinks?I’ve been on about 20 dates in the two months I’ve been online dating and they’ve all been dinner. I’m so effervescent that I make the time fun even when they are duds! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 02:10 AM |
| 7 | How do I respond to an offer of coffee or drinks?Me too! I lol at that emoji every time! 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 01:58 AM |
| 11 | How do I respond to an offer of coffee or drinks?Thanks! I’ve been on Bumble a couple of months and all my dates have been for dinner. I’m not loving the women message first aspect of Bumble though and have considered trying a different platform. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 11:33 PM |
| 7 | A way to combat fuck boys sliding in your DMsYes, I would like to know! This is great! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 04:05 PM |
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