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Being a nurse myself , this makes me feel sick, then we wonder why men fantasize with medical professionals. 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ but I guarantee, there are nurses like this out there online. I work with one, these types have no shame. Then complain when men act “like pervs”. I’ve had my fair share of patients who are inappropriate and even had one follow me home on several occasions. This content is not ok! I would also report if I had tiktok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 06:42 PM
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My favourite one is “I know the men in your past may have been shit, but I can assure you there are still good men out there” Leaves woman with unborn child 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 05:23 PM
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I enjoy this sub, the only thing I don’t understand is why some members choose to go through Reddit users post/comment history? Then make an entire post on it?!?! What do you get out of it? I feel like this is one reason FDS gets a bad rep. Just mind your own business. Just my opinion though. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 06:08 PM
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I concur. I’m learning so much from this sub, so thankful we have easy access to this information 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 01:07 AM
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Ys! Dolly Parton is someone I look up to. She’s so sweet, poised, and lethal but kind when need be. 💕💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 01:06 AM
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I absolutely love this!! These are indeed the type of women I too would admire. So glad I asked this question, this was a beautiful response. Thank you 💗💗💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 01:03 AM
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Thank you ! I will look into her a little more! 🥰🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 01:02 AM
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Oh my goodness. This one made me smile , she seems like a lovely woman, educated and fun!!!! 🥰🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 01:00 AM
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As a nephrology nurse I’ve seen men manipulate the women they are with into “donating” a kidney. Yet the women ? Never , not once. On the other hand, they feel like a burden taking an organ from a healthy loved one, even if it means improving their own quality of life. These women always put their loved ones first, it’s heart breaking. 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 08:31 PM
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Was she, really? I always suspected something weird about her, as a nurse myself , her content always rubbed me the wrong way 💅🏼💅🏼 *edit **As A nurse who was actually a front line worker … STILL IS !!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 03:38 PM
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Same happened to me. I noticed he’d get notifications at all times of day, it wasn’t until one day he accidentally had his cars speakers read one of the texts that said “I love you too” that I questioned it. He said it was his dad, I didn’t believe him but the notification did read “ from “Pa” “ so I left it alone … notifications from “Pa” never stopped so it raised some suspicion . Well needless to say, next time “Pa” (dad) called, I made sure to remember the number. Called the number one night…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 05:14 AM
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This man has the audacity to say this while he’s bald with a pube beard?? Cmon now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 08:21 PM
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Doesn’t Barbara translate to “unbearable”?? 😵😵😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 03:09 AM
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I felt this. As Latina I would only get approached by white men so only dated white men. It wasn’t until one of my co workers told me the reason Latinos would not want to date me is because I’m too “oPiNiOnAtEd” and they don’t want to deal with that type of disrespecting drama. White men on the other hand would consider me “spicy” and “feisty” therefore feeding their fantasies. Gross. It was a real eye opener though. I just don’t want to date any man for a long time now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 02:58 AM
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I'm always making more money and the way I see it,he always spent more than I did. In the end, I am the one who returned all his expensive gifts (with my name on them of course) he kept all mine to remember me by 🤢. I don't have a negative relationship with money, so to me it doesn't really bother me too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 10:30 PM
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Yess!! I started de cluttering aswell. Perfecto time for the new moon!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 10:25 PM
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Oh my mistake, English is not my first language. Didn't see the "side note" 😅☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 01:25 AM
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I wasn't asking from a males perspective.. i was genuinely curious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 12:04 AM
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I get that aswell, dear. At work I am the "black sheep" because I don't interact with my co workers, yet that makes me SoCiAlLy awkward... but I'm the only one who's observant and can see through their BS. They are all the same, kind when it's convenient and snakes the rest of the time. Hypocrites. It's ok, I'm fine being labeled as the odd one out if it means I don't have to engage in their, bland, superficial conversations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 10:30 PM
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You'll get it, love. It's already yours!!!! ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 10:22 PM
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Oh you're doing a great service through your job 💕 I'm sure you must feel so fulfilled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 10:21 PM
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You're a catch, babe 🌷✨ men will try to bring us down for everything. I am so tired of their species
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 10:18 PM
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I AM GORGEOUS AND SEXY ALL FOR MYSELF✨👑 I'll be using this from now on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 10:17 PM
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my excitement is contagious I love this !!!! 👑🌷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 10:07 PM
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My pleasure, babe✨🌷 I wish this sub had more posts like this, reminding women why we are so amazing. Less posts about how shitty men are, (we don't need to be reminded a dozen times a day) and more about being the best person of ourselves we can be. How to find a GOOD HVM , how to be a HVW (i know that's what FLUS is for, but this has more activity) Don't ever doubt yourself, you are amazing just the way you are. We are all hiring and learning. It's never too late, and girl you're still very you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 09:41 PM
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Yes!!! 👑👑👑I am so proud of you for not letting this bring you down!!! You are stronger than you know and a very inspiring woman to go through all of this and come out with a positive, firm mindset. Wishing you many blessings. You are healthy and whole✨💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 09:36 PM
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I'm not one to retell the old story but for short : We met OLD He has to take meds for his mental instability He has an problem with alcohol Mommy issues Isn't close to his family, has no friends Relocates for work every 3 years or so
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 06:28 PM
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Men will lie to you about how they feel if they think it benefits them • Men will marry you for the benefits of marriage, even if they don’t like you much. Then they’ll treat everything about you and your choices as justification for treating you like crap, cheating, and being abusive - and when you try to stand up for yourself, they’ll act like they were doing you a favor. And finally… • Men don’t see women as people who have the right to make their own decisions about their lives. Men will hav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 06:07 PM
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Reading this really out a knot in my throat .. I once stayed with a man who left me in a different country, once pulled my hair, constantly berated me, kicked me out of his home and blocked me numerous times.... Yet.... I stayed!! Why?!?!? This man was 5 years my senior and acted like a young adult. In his 30s!!! He blatantly told me i deserved so much more so much better, but i stayed... Wasted two years of my life in a relationship that got nowhere. I'm still growing, and learning, and if i go…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 10:47 PM
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Its been a while since I joined and i am eternally grateful for this sub. "IF HE WANTED TO , HE WOULD" is always running through my mind, and personally i have taken a break from dating and focusing all my time on ME myself and I. Much love to you ✨🌷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 04:37 PM
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Just curious, but how long after this did you reveal what happened to you ? It's been 20 years for me I got molested by my 4th grade teacher and unsure if i could do anything about it now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 09:25 PM
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Pickme1:: "it's NOT cheating!!! he's the married one not me!!" 🤢 Pickme2:: "I'm helping my bf get through school and live with me rent free while he figures out how to spend more time with his child"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 01:24 AM
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I saw this post yesterday. Someone called it "incel fiction" couldn't be more spot on 🤣🤣 What in god's name would possess him to type out that response as his "friend" and post it online as if anyone would believe it. Lol. He's clearly delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 01:25 PM
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I wish I could be a snooper, I knew my x passwords and never snooped because "I'm not that type of person" If you know your SO password and vetting them, should you snoop?? Or does this go against FDS? I'm curious to know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 02:13 PM
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dead 😂😂 This female, is a single mother, who's aware that her husband cheats on her, and she stays in the relationship because "he supports me and the kids" .... Biggest pickme... She could have him, girl congrats. Go take care of your new crusty, I was way too young and successful for that anyway. She did me a favour. Edit: nothing against single mothers 💞💞💞, as I am one as well, nothing against pick mes either, cause I was once there too... I'm saying if he chose to bring her over, a woman who…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 07:46 AM
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I told him I was a phlebotomist at first, I always go with that when getting to know a man. We dated long enough that he eventually figured out I was RN. I was the stupid one pre FDS taking care of this man like I was HIS nurse. SMH. I'll never get that time back but at least I know now to vet vet vet. Or I'll just stay alone with a ton of animals on a big ranch. No men, no problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 04:57 AM
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Can confirm. The man I was "dating" (whom I considered HV) went out with a few work buddies while I was out of town one weekend. Never mentioned it. He later confessed that he invited his secretary in his home late at night to meet his dog. All this while I was away for MY BROTHERS WEDDING!!! He then had the nerve to blame my hectic work schedule, citing he felt like I wasn't around because I work too much and have plans on my days off.... "I'll never date a nurse again" good riddance. 👋🏼👋🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 02:55 AM
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I really needed to read this today. I recently got out of a relationship with a man I deemed HV and the "lacked empathy" really hit me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 02:30 AM
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Where could I do this and would he ever find out? I went through something very similar, which got me off OLD for good, but I would hate to see this happen to another woman. One victim is enough, I can only imagine how many other poor women he's assaulted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 12:22 AM
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Thank you for the reminder 🎀💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 01:02 AM
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What exactly did you read about how overweight people experience the world? I'm curious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:48 PM
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I put blush on my nose too, to give me a "flushed" look. I get compliments on it all the time. Looks natural , as if you've been out in the sun
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:29 PM
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I wouldn't throw the gifts. I ended things with someone i was seeing and ill be keeping all the gifts. If you wanna throw it, Why not sell it then???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 09:44 PM
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Any songs in other languages you guys recommend??? I like kali uchis - solita And her ft in juanes - el ratico
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 09:13 PM
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Baby girl, you are not alone, I am with you!!! I've gained 20 lbs since meeting LVM and ended the relationship. I decided to work on self love and focus ON ME give MYSELF 100% today!!! I worked a 12 hr shift and still managed to out in a quick 40 minute workout, i ate healthy all day, got home cooked and cleaned and I'm in bed now after a refreshing shower. Tomorrow i have a mani/pedi appointment, booked a massage and im treating myself to lunch with my favourite book. Please please please, look…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 12:57 AM
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I've been watching her a lot lately. Her videos are short and concise, good content. Videos like that, on femininity, self love and FDS have helped me tremendously. I feel like I can finally focus on me this year and let go of all the unnecessary baggage from my past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 11:30 PM
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Tbis made my day. Yes. It is pure delusion 🙌🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:42 AM
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My 32 year old ex husband tried to make me feel bad by tellling me his co worker, 24, was always all over him.... pretty much "pounced on" him any chance she got. Old me would have been livid, new me told him I wanted nothing to do with his predatory self, blocked, deleted. I dont need to carry dead weight around anyway. Bye with your life. 👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 01:41 PM
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I did too, at 29 and 2 relationships later. I've been so happy single now. Not a single man can impress me, my standards are too high and now i look for ANY sign of a predatory behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 01:38 PM
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And yeah, it hit me eventually that his words were all perfect, they just didn't mean anything... This one hit the spot. I was in a situation like this aswell. It was hard to accept the whole "actions speak louder than words". The lousy thing is that I even asked him why he said such things, but never showed admiration, respect or appreciation towards me. He told me "I think I showed you enough"..... I left that day. Never gonna settle again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 12:50 PM
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This was actually on malelivingspace a few days ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 02:30 AM
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Happy birthday, beautiful. 💕💕💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 07:48 PM
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The more time i spend here the more i want to stay single. I noticed this with my last bf, first 2 months were great but after that his lack of effort to "court" me is what ultimately made me lose all interest in sex. This was even before FDS, now that I've raised my standards i find it hard to see myself sleeping with anyone anytime soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 01:28 AM
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I hate to admit that I was just like that just a few months ago. I made plans with someone I was dating only so he could tell me "today's not a good day, let's reschedule" while I was driving to his place. Sadly I stayed in that "relationship" for another few months. He has since tried to come back into my life but thanks to this sub I've learned to value myself more and never go back to something that doesn't serve me. Ive been single for months and couldn't be happier. Self love is where its a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 05:48 PM
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Thank you for taking the time to type this. I've been single for almost a year and only found FDS a few months ago. Like you, i need that intellectual stimulation to even consider being friendw with an individual. So far it looks like I'll be spending most of my time indulging in self love since it seems like men around me don't possess many good qualities to be considered HVM. So thankful for this sub for reminding me why I enjoy my solitude. I've never wasted time on a LVM, but dated a few, no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:00 PM
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Oh, now i want to know what you found aswell. Ill be spending the night with a potential HVM (met him 9 months ago) and i never looked through his phone. ... im curious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:58 PM
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This actually happened to me with a catfish i met OLD. I told them i was a nephrology nurse and they called every clinic snd hospital in the county until they found me. The catfish never showed up but they did send me flower arrangements and called me dozens of times a day to work. This is still going on and i am afraid of leaving that clinic to go to another in fear of the same thing happening. I now know not to use OLD again. Edit: spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 11:33 PM
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