The disturbing part is where you said you would be giving up your dreams. That alone is reason enough to let him go. Marriage and children with him does not sound like a fulfilling life.
She's just 19 years old. That man was 27. I wish I could feel hope that things are going to change. George Floyd's murder made racists show fake concern for a few months and then it was business as usual. I don't think all the missing/murdered women will put a stop to the misogyny.
They get put on a pedestal because most of the books, movies and TV shows were written by them saying how great they are. If you've been exposed to that propaganda since you were a child it makes sense to think they are great because that message has been shoved down your throat.
I've seen it. I pointed out the anti-blackness of the post. She wanted to stay wrong and argue so I blocked her so I will never see her ignorance again.
I'm sorry you have had to endure so much. You didn't deserve it. Do you think that maybe you should take a break from dating? Spending time with trusted friends or starting a new hobby might be something you should consider. You sound like a smart woman with a lot of accomplishments. Good companionship is nice, but do you have the skills to protect yourself? What I mean is can you spot a toxic man and then dump him. To quote Crissle West "Penis is abundant and of low value". Please prioritize yo…
Commenting on Asian women being murdered by a white man isn't the same as a non-Black person discussing issues in the Black community. I thought your remarks were anti-black because you called a woman mammy and the way your post was worded made black men sound awful because they are black not because they are men.
I don't like this post. Black women start conversations all the time about issues in our community. Black women don't need non-Black women speaking for us.
The title of this post is really awful and comes across as anti-black. I've been mistreated by black, white, Asian and Latino men. I think men suck in general. I really think it wasn't necessary to call most black men LVM.
