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Porn addiction and narcissism go hand in hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/22 04:08 AM
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I would just say that's so cool!, cut him off by telling him about the plan I had to go with some friends of mine already. Letting him feel that I had already excluded him from my plans without telling him and that he was definitely not a priority to me. I'm good at messing up their narcissistic games cause I've studied them both through research and in the wild. They hate when you turn the tables on them, if they triangulate, do it right back. Project, same. I love to neg a scrote, knowing they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 06:56 AM
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That is how I always took it. Like men are dogs, they can have something most other men think it "The Best" and will still fuck the maid in her bed. Not cause of an lack on her part, but cause they just suck that bad. A big ol, it aint you sis, that boy is just fucked up in the head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 11:16 AM
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Totally agree with every point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 11:12 AM
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Right?! And I wanna know why none of these powerful, strong, women in control can perform and wear more than panties on stage. When was it decreed that it was not only acceptable, but expected for female singers to perform to huge, televised crowds while half naked? Its always the little hot pants and 5 pairs of hose look, for almost all of them. Maybe when the trend started it was risqué, and so whoever was performing was seen as strong and not easily controled by social standards or whatever. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 10:58 AM
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I have always thought the way you do. I still dated some losers, but at least the sex was good. The act of giving head doesnt bother me especially, but like you, I have always felt/known that most men feel they are getting one over on you and so I have given them very sparingly, n that was before porn made every dude feel he needed to cum in or rape your face. They all gave me head tho, everytime, cause its how I get off n what I like. If they arent into it, they are free to go their own way. Ju…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 09:22 AM
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He sounds good. He puts in effort and thought making you feel special, cared for and seen. But yeah, I'm on that bandwagon that his pumping your gas should be a given My very wise bestie's most sage dating advice is, "fuck a man that dont pump your gas.", and that should be always. Not because cant or are too good to pump gas, but that he should feel we are. She is right, too. It shows you how they feel about you and their ideal of being a man all in one gesture. No man of any worth is gonna sit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 08:47 AM
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Yup, I was gonna add that your ex, and I believe most/all porn addicts are narcissistic. So its not just one huge flaw you are dealing with, the two disorders are comorbid. They suck and have nothing to offer, but damn do they think they do! They are total delusional assholes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 07:20 AM
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I have read about their inability to see us as human many times too. The creepiest and saddest thing ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 02:37 AM
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I think its because most porn addicts are also narcissists. They seem to go hand in hand. Narcs are known for their dead eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 12:37 AM
12

My ex thought phone sex operators were actually into it. He really believed that there were bored, sexy, young women just talking dirty to anonymous weirdos for kicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 09:34 PM
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The vacation hyper-sex scenerio happened to me, it was weird and had stuck in my mind, cause he was usually such a cold fish. We went on vacation and he would leave me alone. You made total sense of it for me, tho. Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 09:31 PM
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I think a lot of them are having no problems with feeling shame or guilt because they are concerned about the women. Most get off on the fact that the women are being abused and disrespected. They dont see women as human, so there is nothing for them to feel bad about in their minds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 09:20 PM
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Plus, they love to future fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 05:55 PM
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I agree with every point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 01:46 PM
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It is so freeing to be single. I have had too many good times ruined in the past, and too many bad times amplified by some dude's reaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 10:37 AM
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You dont owe these men shit. Just say no or Dont egen answer them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 06:57 AM
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I had a weirdo target me online, he wanted me to dominate him. He had a bunch of ideas about what he wanted me to make him do. Idk why I entertained the conversation at all, but I did find it informative. After listening to his gross desires of which I wanted no part of, I decide to mess with him to entertain myself n take back some control. I threw a few ideas out there, ways I would humiliate n dominate him. He paused n said he didnt know, that wasnt really his thing, hilarious considering he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 04:19 AM
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I agree with you totally. I find it sad enough now in my 40s, but at least I got to experience normal sex at one time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 03:50 AM
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Exactly!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 02:47 AM
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Right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 02:13 AM
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Its not much harder to do it by yourself, it's easier than having a LVM as the father. They are often just another child and their contribution comes with lots of hasels making whatever positive gain moot. This has been my experience. If you want a kid, have one. There is no reason to think you cant find a decent man to have kids with, but if you cant find a HVM you'll be better off with a doner than a LVM as a husband or co-parent. Just be informed of the realities of motherhood. It is hard wor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 12:19 PM
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I somehow fell for one just like my mother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 11:05 AM
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I think men are raised and socialized to be as narcissistic as possible. I'd even go as far as to say that the ones that aren't narcissistic are the minority.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 11:05 AM
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She probably planned, packed and paid for the vacation too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 10:36 AM
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Yes! They usually jump right into their gross offer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 05:51 PM
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I have encountered many masseuses. For some reason they think I'd want a "relaxing message" from some scrote I have never met.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 04:53 PM
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Beautiful post & Amen to all that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 06:05 AM
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You wrote that letter for you. Thats ok. Now leave him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 05:32 AM
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If he's HV he wont be throwing his exes under the bus or discussing them at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 09:08 PM
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Wow. So glad men arent all emotional n shit... Men seem to be both totally self-absorbed and totally unaware of themselves. Not only can they not see their own faults, they cant even recognize faults in other men. Its like if they admit another man could be wrong, it may open them up to inspection as well. Guess they think we cant see them, if they close their eyes real tight, like a toddler playing peekaboo. The amount of effort they put into their willful ignorance and self-delusion is insane.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 07:32 PM
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I agree!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 04:44 AM
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Yes, I have heard her story, and about the doctor that made what few advancements in female medicine were made doing most of his research and experiments upon poor black women without anesthesia. The world is truly a horrifying place. N with the weaponized rape of WWII, I was so disgusted to read the many stories of Asian women who were then used and coerced, when not flat out raped by the US soldiers that had come to "save" them. I had come to the same conclusion as you as to why it wasn't know…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 12:42 PM
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Women ruin their lives every day thinking they will be the special one that trips up that loser/player dude. It's not that you AREN'T special, it's just that it wont matter to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 05:59 AM
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I had a similar experience while studying WWII. I consider myself well educated and read, the American public school system notoriously teaches a ridiculous version of history. Much is skipped over, especially any modern wars or military/political situations. They start out hard with the "discovery" of the "New World", leaving out or down playing the genocide and religious persecution. The Revolution is big, we are told to remember The Alamo and a few other loses and insults, then at some point …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 02:11 PM
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Folks can change, if they want, need, or are forced to change. It pays to be cautious, if you are cautious and wrong, that's awesome. If you are too optimistic and trusting it can be awesomely horrible. It costs nothing to keep your guard up. Always continue to vet. It's not hard for an abuser/loser to lie for 6 months. Many lie about who they are for much longer than that, decades even. There are so many men that have several families secretely and simultaneously that are only caught after they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 12:42 PM
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Get away from him and any other person that tries to pull this kinda shit on you. You should never let that kind of behavior slide for the sake of the relationship, unless you want an abusive relationship with a man-child that doesn't respect you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 07:00 AM
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Of course, they love to be hurt over you way more than to actually love you or be with you. The idea of you wants nothing from them and so they love you most as the "one that got away". No one can live up to that shit, not ever "her"...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 01:21 AM
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I refused to watch that crap, but I still dealt with the aggravation of it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 02:26 AM
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It would be great if florists doubled the price on the 15th.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 08:56 AM
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I tried that. Bastard couldn't leave me alone to my book, he wanted me to watch him play his game. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 07:21 AM
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This makes me so sad. I have dated some broke, pathetic scrotes. They could still cook, write poems, and pick flowers tho. Not saying my exs were HV in any way, but, Damn... this is beyond nothing and she feels like an asshole for wanting more? I say just fuck that shit...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 07:10 AM
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I have been that dream girl. They can't/won't step up for her either. In fact, they hate her more. They hate her for not living the script they have in their minds and for ultimately disappointing their fantasy. Or they hate her just cause they want her. There is no winning that scenario and who would want to, there is no prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 07:03 AM
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Exactly!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 03:07 AM
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I have tried to address this issue with many of my friends in many different ways. Many of them refuse to even understand the concept, for any admission towards the truth is painful/shameful. The others get it, admit it, and it makes them sad and jaded. Most have adopted the "cool girl" persona in an attempt to block themselves from the pain of being used, unseen as an individual, and abused. I tried it myself for years, but was never really able to convince myself of its validity. So, when you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 10:32 AM
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Exactly. N why are kinks to be so respected and above reproach when absolutely nothing else is? They somehow have managed to hijack a legitimate sexual revolution and make women's desire for autonomy on par with men's desire to demand anal sex and blow jobs. Idk, cept I'm disgusted and have not one care bout sparing men's feelings. I will call them out n if they don't like it that's GOOD! It makes me feel good, n like I've said many times before, its my kink. I get off on shaming and hurting the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 10:08 AM
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I will judge, n I don't give a fuck. Judging them is my kink. Who are they to repress me!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 09:55 AM
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You are probably right, but it felt like she was checking to see if I was interested, which is fair enough considering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 07:53 AM
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I went to one with a friend who was going to interview. It was like a night club. All the men stared at me and some tried to approach me. One of these men had a heavy pimp vibe. I was the only woman with clothes on in the whole place as I was waiting for my friend and she had disaappeared into the back. I just sat at the bar and talked to the female bartender, clutching my jacket closed. One of the dancers tried to talk to me a little, it was weird, she kept coming by me. Thankfully it wasnt a b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 05:29 AM
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I'm guessing the down votes are because I and others have had men show up at our homes that we were in no way involved with and had no chance to vet. These men and their audacity are not our fault, they are stalkers, often they are strangers.Their presence on our door step was not from lack of vetting skills or boundaries on our part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 03:01 AM
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I broke one of my molars in half while with a covert narcissist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 05:59 PM
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Men are too lazy to pay bills, or buy food and toilet paper. That is why the women were given checkbooks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 05:15 PM
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True, but no one has to give these men our addresses. They find them on their own often enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 04:14 PM
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I don't answer the door. No one has a right to enter my home n I have no obligation to be nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 02:52 PM
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My covert narc ex's favorite play. Until I ignored him and he was forced to text me. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 11:28 AM
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Oh shit! I wrote a really mean response to a dude the other night that was hugging a cashier. Told him to keep his hands to himself. Men are so gross. It angers me to no end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 04:21 AM
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You are trying hard to gaslight yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 03:36 AM
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It makes you paranoid and crazy. You hate them and then hate yourself for letting them around you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 03:02 AM
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Some do, but uts because getti g you off is what gets them off. Still not bout the woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 08:24 AM
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I don't get coerced into blow jobs. So many of my friends have stories like yours. I dont know how blow jobs have become so commonplace but it needs to stop. On some of these relationship/dating subs folks talk like bjs are expected before the couple even know each other, or men are manipulating and forcing women to give them, like its not a big deal. Um, that's rape and the exact definition of sodomy. Some of my friends say the like/love giving bjs. They feel powerful or just dig it. Some have …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 08:16 AM
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I want to read it too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 07:03 AM
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I had a male obgyn. He would always hand me a box of tissues after examining me. There was something about it so creepy. It was like he was judging me, or like I was dirty. It made me feel I had just willingly been molested. He sucked all around really. Really condescending I once asked a question about what things at my job I could continue doing at my stage of pregnancy. He cut me off, and asked if I hadn't read all the literature I was given at our first appointment. I answered back just as c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 06:20 AM
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Yes, during the presidential race between Hillary and Obama my mother said we'll see now whether America is more racist or sexist. We know how racist America is, so it's quite bone chilling to think that women of all races are still hated more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 04:59 AM
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He thought he should get credit from you for just telling you about the nice stuff he did for her. He didnt care about her either. A HV person would never use or string another person along. They'd be too busy and too respectful of theirs and others time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 01:31 PM
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Spinsters were the ballers of their day. Had their own money, career, no use for a husband. So, of course that title became a slur. Let's continue not to care what they think and do our thang.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 01:24 PM
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This is also the way of the narcissist, which is just another flavor of NV/LV. I'm convinced men have been raised, socialized, and trained to be narcissistic from birth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 01:22 PM
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He was never good to that ex either. Thats why she dumped him. He now knows a relationship requires effort, so he's way less into that, especially if you throw some hurt feelings on top. Plus, he and his buds have found that if they tell a woman this line of bullshit she will often still give him the full girlfriend, maybe even wife treatment,without any extra effort on his part. They do it cause they are children n women let them get away with it. You cant love him enough to level up in tbat re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 01:07 PM
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I agree. I so wish there was an account of Jesus through Mary Magdalene's eyes. No doubt a woman would have a very different account and understanding of his word. There was an ancient text found that is claimed to be her testiment. Not much was left of it but in it Jesus proclaims her his best deciple and her take on his message. I think Jesus is totally misunderstood by the religion that bears his name, and misunderstood much of the time by his male disciples. They are always letting him down,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 10:08 AM
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Maybe men are aliens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 09:48 AM
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My dad was awesome. He always had my back and never tolerated any disrespect towards my mother. He was also a Marine and from a time/place where a man was expected to be tough and unafraid of a physical altercation. He never minced words or made a threat he wasnt all too happy to fufill. He was my main man and confidante, and my hero. An example, my dad liked to hunt, or honestly he liked to trade the dogs they used for hunting. He had tons of friends and his hunting buddies often stopped by to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 05:19 PM
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Add idiot to his problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 11:50 PM
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Im intimidating too. It has been a blessing. They should be intimidated!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 11:48 PM
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I feel exactly the same way. I have had to tighten my boundaries against a narc too. Im done having my time wasted and wont set myself up for disappointment any longer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 02:20 AM
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I would say that this is the most important advice I could give to any younger women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 10:14 PM
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Everything listed is the dream! I only felt sick when the prospect of a man was involved in it all. Its no doubt he'll do his best to fuck all that up for her. Men are delusional and scared. They know they can't compete with any of those other interests and goals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 04:51 AM
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Ive gotten flowers a few times. Once from a married preacher. I worked in the bar of a little Italian restaurant. He bought me jewelry too. I refused it and he hid it in my car. He was a regular for years. He seemed to have a pattern. He'd crush on a bartender/server. He'd pick a color and gemstone for her and try his best go. The first chic got red flowers and some small diamonds. I was the second. I got a bouquet of 2 dozen peach roses. It was huge and honestly embarrassing. He picked opals fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 06:34 AM
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Yup. I experienced Limerence in a big way only once My covert nex. I read everything I could find on narcissism, only to realize my nex was a male version of my mom. Probably why he felt so familiar. Its creepy and sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 02:38 PM
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Yup Covert narc is the only time I've experienced it. It was intense and crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 02:34 PM
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I have unfortunately experienced it too. Its validating to have their bullshit acknowledged, to know you weren't just being too sensitive, crazy, or whatever labels these assholes try to give us. Once you really see them, you see them everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 11:57 AM
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I lived that too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 09:01 AM
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I totally agree. Men are programmed to be narcissistic, IMO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 07:46 AM
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We know something is terribly wrong and we start searching everywhere, but its hard to put a finger on it. It takes us a minute to realize it is them. They are cowardly. Their abuse is covert and insideous. Most people that have been involved with a narcissist do not even realize they are being abused at first, they just think they are going crazy. I know you didnt say he was a narc, Ive just decided most men are systematically groomed to be narcissistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 07:18 AM
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That is classic narc. They love to disappoint. It is my covert narcissistic ex's favorite manipulation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 06:52 AM
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He's probably already been hurting and abusing her. That's why he was so comfortable doing it in front of others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 06:08 AM
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Right? This make no sense to me at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 03:10 AM
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Men are diagnosed with PTSD, while women are diagnosed BPD or Bi-Polar, often when exhibiting the same symptoms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 04:32 AM
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I have been in your shoes. He hit me several times while I was driving down the interstate. I took off my shoe and beat his face in (early 2000 chunky heels). He jumped out the car, took my keys, n left me stranded. Then called the cops n had me arrested. Was insane!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 10:13 PM
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My ex, a porn addict, loves to do those little videos where he puts his face in movie clips. Seeing this just made me feel really sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 05:49 AM
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Im not confused about which is the superior sex at all. Women run the world, we just dont get/take the recognition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 02:11 PM
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Only some men? Lol. Naw, all of them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 09:09 AM
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Trauma bonds suck. Just remember the bad when you begin to feel sad. Make a list. Edit: spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 11:05 AM
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I have been through this a couple times. The last one was from high school too, 30 years ago! We are not real to them. You are a character, a fantasy. It is not flattering, especially when it comes from someone you barely know and realize he has a huge relationship with you in his mind. Social media has made this kinda thing worse, it gives them free stalking and a way to make contact passively. Most cant keep that up tho, soon they are in your PMS professing all kinds of crazy shit. Edit: wordi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 11:04 AM
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I've never married, had my kids in my late 30's. Have my own place, do my own thing. I noticed long ago how it scares lots of people, both sexes, especially before I had children. The first getting-to-know-you questions a woman gets are married? kids? When you answer nope to these inquiries folks don't know how to act. They can't decide if you are acceptable and how to categorize you. Some folks never realized they had the choice to be that free and they resent you. Others are inspired. I have m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 04:33 AM
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My dad, when discussing/bashing the scrotes I used to date, always said, "your momma aint messing with no sick son-of-a-bitch or no broke motherfucker". He meant it as a compliment and he was right! He was also a Marine, so his wisdom was always nicely seasoned with profanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 04:01 AM
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I tell them if we need lube they haven't done their job. Its laziness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 06:41 AM
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My advice has always been to use a condom. Pregnancy isn't the worst thing that can happen. Lots of folks are proud of their accidental children, no one is ever proud of their herpes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 04:49 AM
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It's a tactic to derail your argument.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:49 AM
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Same advice my mother and grandmother have given me. Best advice I've ever taken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 10:46 AM
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I don't understand why she's only almost ready to cancel. Wtf?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 09:02 AM
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I worked in a restaurant in a small town in my early 30's. Got to know the regulars very well. I had a fella in his 80's decide he had a crush on me too. Would seriously ask me to go out riding and to dinner. I was home with my boyfriend one afternoon and there was a knock on the door. It was the old dude come to pay court! My boyfriend(25) answered the door, it was so surreal. We laughed about it for years after, but it was actually pretty creepy. I like to think some sort of dementia had fogge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 08:12 AM
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I have had a "I cum first rule" for 30 years!. In fact it used to be I cum 3x. Lol A fella once said I was asking a lot all incredulously. I said that first, he was not entitled to sleeping with me at all, it was a privilege and that one statement alone let me know his sex would be trash. Why would I want to sleep with anyone who is selfish enough to think that my pleasure is a burden in bed or anywhete else? In fact, making me cum better be one of the things that makes sex good for him. If he i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 09:15 PM
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I agree. If they don't care enough about me to spend a min tops texting me every so often, why would I even want them? It is a total reflection of their feelings for you, if doing something that small for you infuriates them. You happiness and comfort shouldn't make them feel put out. How will they react to all the other much bigger and aggravating stresses of life? Will they shake your babies for crying? Maybe beat you for getting cancer? Maybe burn the house down if the plumbing has a leak? We…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 08:37 PM
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I'm feeling you too, Sis! Be proud of yourself, toot your horn loud. It gives other women the confidence to do the same, and knowing your worth gives you the strength to refuse to be treated as less or settling for anything not up to your standards. If someone else doesn't like it, that's their problem, not yours. We teach other folks how to treat us by how we treat ourselves. If you carry yourself with positive and purposeful energy it will be recognized and returned to you by others. For every…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 08:08 PM
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I had an old classmate from highschool msg me on Facebook saying she worked with this guy we went to school with and that she just thought we'd be great together. He's not particularly attractive, though he's presentable, so I flat out asked her why she would think we'd be any kind of match. She goes into how we have a similar sense of humor and he's such a great guy, and that he would be great "for my kids". He had a decent job and was a nice guy. I was already dubious, but the remark about my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 07:24 PM
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Yeah, n shows the level.of interest he has in OP from the start. If he were interested in dating her, he would have been there to pick up her friend early, excited about seeing her for even the drop off and to just say "Hi". He has shown from the git he has no class or manners and no real interest in doing anything for anyone but himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 06:14 PM
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He needed that, you weren't mean, you just asked a question. Dude probably has no clue how to go about any type of business and was embarrassed or worse knew but was hoping you didn't so he could sell you his dream in hopes of impressing you(or whatever audience) or at least distracting you from his struggles/failures. He's the kinda guy who is seeking a forever girlfriend and wants to live 50/50 (money only tho, chores are all yours!) and excuses his lack of present success with a fictional gol…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 06:10 PM
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Let's stop being unnecessarily nice. Don't fake a boyfriend, say hell no and tell the bare-faced, real reasons why it is an unthinkable, even insulting idea of a match for you or any HVW. Who cares if that upsets the Pickme or the scrote. Maybe she'll think to raise her own standards and he will understand his undesirability and rise to the challenge. Call them both out. At some point being polite is being part of the problem, or at least letting all the LV-People hide their heads in the sand an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 05:38 PM
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Ya kno, I have thought hard on the question of if it is better/less bad than actually physically cheating for a man to use pictures of other women and I just dont think it is. Obviously, both suck and the man doing these things sucks, but idk somehow the pictures are just skeevier to me. My reasoning may be stupid, but I could see (have done it myself in the past, unfortunately) someone drinking a lil too much and getting caught up in the moment of a sexual fling, not that I find that acceptable…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 06:36 AM
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It's cheating to me. N yes, if every man does that, I'll hold out for the rare exception, should it exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 03:00 PM
1

Several ex-boyfriends and my narcissistic mother took my reading a book as the greatest of insults. Luckily books are a great escape from bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 06:49 PM
19

I agree, and It WAS called Sex and the City. It was purposely engaged in their romantic lives. They never talked about their families, childhoods, or even their jobs really. I was in my very early twenties when it began and it was awesome to see women portrayed as sexual beings of their own and not just as an extension of a man's desires. Of course, the characters seem kinda cliche, narcissistic, and pick-me now, for we have been enlightened and media has expanded their portrayals of women a lit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:43 PM
13

You had a relationship with a good ol American narcissistic man, my friend. I'm glad and proud you got out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 03:42 AM
13

Very true statement. Who cares if other men or women find his behavior acceptable, they aren't the ones dating him. We have a right to set our own standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:00 PM
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Maybe your friends put up with stuff you won't and that's a good thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:00 AM
65

Yeah, I do not care. I have no responsibility to like someone else's bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 05:49 AM
12

I worked with a waiter like this, he was the only male server at this place. He would not yield the right away no matter what, you could have a tower of swaying dishes, still he would refuse to yield an inch forcing you to maneuver around him. Such an arrogant prick. He caught me one day with my hands too full for a stand off. I went around him, while letting him know he was a prick and why. I waited. Here he came with his hands piled high, I stepped out into his path as deliberately as possible…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:50 PM
7

A friend of mine recently died from much the same thing only drunken grief.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 03:34 PM
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I agree. Not to make light of suicide, but I imagine there's a good percentage of male suicides that are kinda raging in the moment/accidental. Like being mad and ramming their head into the wall instead of their fist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:00 PM
4

Tom clearly needs to be excused from reproducing. Can we get him neutered...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 12:43 PM
5

Imagine if you "leaked" those messages to his colleagues. He's pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:02 AM
3

You are not alone. It's become a ridiculous situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:34 AM
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