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| 893 | There are only double standards (vent) | Triptothebend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 01:32 PM |
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| 249 | There are only double standards (vent)Yup. Even if we level up to her impresqive achievements, we will never be free of the expectations put on every woman to be a mother and a nurturer at all costs and to our own detriment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 02:05 PM |
| 314 | Woman sees tornado and frantically moves her kids to safety. Husband questions her sanity, slights her for “scaring the kids,” and foolishly goes outside.It is really heartbreaking. She did everything right, and tried to stay calm for her kids. I'm so happy she had another woman (daughter or friend?) who actually comforted her. It reminds me of the time the apartment building I lived in with my ex-husband caught fire. I smelled something weird, and told him it smelled like burning building materials. He said I had to be wrong and to calm down. Then I looked out the windows and the appartment two stories under us had flames pouring out the window.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 10:40 AM |
| 22 | BDSM is falsely advertised as a way to heal traumaIn my country there was a poor girl that fell for this. A weird dude claimed to "beat the trauma out of her" with BDSM, she called him "master" and wore a collar. Now she is dead and he is an international fugitive for killing her in the jungle. Stay away, ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 11:27 AM |
| 13 | Destroy the concept that your teen years are supposed to be fun and once you hit 25, you’re old and it’s over. Some of us had to heal from trauma during our teen years and our 20s (30s, 40s, 50s and so on) and would like to begin a good life without constantly being told it’s too late.Same. So happy to see you here, good to know we are more people on the same Journey. Getting better every day, getting in tune with ourselves, getting out of Dodge in all kind of ways | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 07:44 AM |
| 16 | Anyone else notice this? How come men's convenience is put above womens health & comfort? If you're not making him wrap it then you're playing yourself.The shudder that made me do is beyond description. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 12:40 PM |
| 40 | Anyone else notice this? How come men's convenience is put above womens health & comfort? If you're not making him wrap it then you're playing yourself.And the only alternative to hormones is pushing a copper device up ourselves. Abstinence sucks (I think), but LVMs such more | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 07:25 AM |
| 11 | Queens-Please read this for your own education and safety. Also, found this on an incel thread: https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill. Some of it is NOT easy to stomach but better to know and be prepared than blissfully ignorant while these creatures multiply.Yup. As a milennial, you either were in or out of the internet, and there were no girls online. I still get ratteled by just how much shit I just accepted about women because I was told that was how all people tought about us. Not all. Just men. And dont get me started on the sick things I was offered money to do from the age of 9. But I wanted to be part of the brave new world. Should have read the novel earlier ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 12:00 AM |
| 21 | Queens-Please read this for your own education and safety. Also, found this on an incel thread: https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill. Some of it is NOT easy to stomach but better to know and be prepared than blissfully ignorant while these creatures multiply.No, but as a woman raised in the misogynistic online world it may speed up and amplify a lot of internalised misogyny in young girls. We need to equip all young people with critical thinking skills, but girls need it more to not be dragged under and drowned by the pathriarcal structures that still permeate our society on a global scale. My two cents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 05:51 PM |
| 88 | True statement, wrong conclusion. Why "be a hoe"? Why not "focus on yourself, love yourself, level up"?Because we are only ment to do a little rebelling and be available for fucking. Not actually get knowledge, ability and power to dismantle ethe misogynistic structures of the societies we live in. Hoes are the least threatening women for men, because they are the easiest to view as playthings and objects. IMHO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 10:56 AM |
| 22 | Man’s idea of clean is actually super messy. Avoid men who cannot take care of their living space, even when nobody else will see it. His home should be kept tidy regardless of whether a guest is coming over.💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 10:06 AM |
| 4 | Why do men ALWAYS settle down with the next girl after me?I'm in the same place as you, so I really can't say. I am going to give it time, have a hard look at my own needs that play into the people pleasing patterns I had with my ex husband. And above all, if and when I date again, demand respect, patience and a light touch from the men or man I choose to give my time. I long for a sort of young love courtship, like junior high. Holding hands, making out and approaching sex and exclusivity with caution and awe. But you need to find what is right for yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 03:15 PM |
| 45 | A HVM is gentle towards women. Not just someone who “can be” gentle every now and then, but someone who is gentle towards you and all women ALL THE TIME.This made me cry. I lived with a man for 10 YEARS that never stopped yelling. I have anxiety that gets triggered by yelling and sudden noises. He felt I needed to adapt to him, and I tried. SO HARD! Fuck, sometimes love and hope is poison. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 06:14 AM |
| 24 | Why do men ALWAYS settle down with the next girl after me?You were the one who loved the most in your past relationships. It don't make you dumb, it just mean you dated assholes who did not appreciate YOU, just your service. You deserve better! Keep on going, girl, I bet you are a treasure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 05:55 AM |
| 2 | I got me a divorce kitty 😆 Man better treat me better and love me as much as this little guy does to get me to spend time with him 😁 Burmese/Siamese snuggle monkey 💕I will 😄 Thanks for brightening a dark winter morning, I can hear your naaaw through the screen 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 01:25 PM |
| 3 | I got me a divorce kitty 😆 Man better treat me better and love me as much as this little guy does to get me to spend time with him 😁 Burmese/Siamese snuggle monkey 💕A dapper rescue with a tux pattern and an apparently endless need for personal time with me 🐱 He is a little scared of the outside world still, but now he flops down on the floor the moment he sees me 😁 You are right, this is for me, everyone opposed can eat onions! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 10:10 PM |
| 6 | I got me a divorce kitty 😆 Man better treat me better and love me as much as this little guy does to get me to spend time with him 😁 Burmese/Siamese snuggle monkey 💕Thank you for posting, it's good to know I'm not alone in getting a divorce cat. My mother made me feel stupid and childish for getting my handsome boy, but I don't regret it for a moment. Your handsome one is just beautiful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 06:44 PM |
| 5 | Can we rant about how toxic this show is? (Women bonding over being treated badly by men and peak white supremacy?)Oh, god. I forgot about that. Yes, a cautionary tale to encourage vetting is right! He seemed to tic all the boxes, and as soon as they were engaged the skeletons raced out of the closet. Anger issues, ED, cruelty and just no basic decency all came to the surface. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 03:05 PM |
| 3 | Can we rant about how toxic this show is? (Women bonding over being treated badly by men and peak white supremacy?)I hated Trey from just watching it. If it had happened to me I do not know what I would have done, Charlotte were too kind to that piece of rubbish man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 06:25 AM |
| 10 | Can we rant about how toxic this show is? (Women bonding over being treated badly by men and peak white supremacy?)I seem to remember a cutout of a baby and Charlotte crying. And her ugly scrote telling her it was a gift to cheer her up? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 07:49 AM |
| 7 | Don't bother "communicating", actually. Just go.Or they say you are not being clear enough. I literally had to get into a fight with my ex husband before going to my grandmothers funeral. My mom is a real piece of work that hated my grandma with a passion. I expected hurtful comments, drunk behaviour and more. Needed someone to lay a plan with. He did not see the need for it even though he had seen my mom try to punch me in the face right in front of him, and witnessed me breaking down after many phone calls with her. And that was a couple of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 09:51 AM |
| 66 | It might be time for me to unsub from AITA. This one made me want to cry. My heart is broken for herI have no words. I want to scream in his face until his ears and eyes bleed, and then do worse. Holy God! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 04:13 PM |
| 7 | Have you ever noticed how single mothers are villainized in movies for setting boundaries concerning their kids with their ex-husbands?If they really are trying their best, their best is not good enough. Simple. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 04:06 PM |
| 14 | Truth and facts 😭Yet almost none of them work for that either. Like ironic humour is not humour guys. It's a masking technique for you being an utter asshole! And their "quirks" are just them being gross or selfish. Maybe looking for a bisexual guy is the way to go for us? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 03:40 PM |
| 63 | Truth and facts 😭Yet another reason to prefer gay porn. At least they groom themselves and abuse each other less | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 01:50 PM |
| 4 | As a woman whose never given birthMy ex-husband insisted on having children while often putting me down for getting 'soft and flabby' BEFORE I even was pregnant and while I weighed under 60 kg. I left him before reproducing, and I am forever grateful to myself for both of those things. The scrote had the nerve to mention while breaking up that he was so sorrowful ti never see me pregnant and saying he one day would accept 'all the nasty men'he thought I was going to fuck right after our divorce. What a piece of shit he truly was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 08:14 AM |
| 10 | As a woman whose never given birthI love science | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 08:10 AM |
| 15 | Why I Hate the Push toward Older MenColour me not surprised. Male depravity and selfishness never fuck up their lives, only the women they hurts lives. And why on earth should they care about that? 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 07:15 AM |
| 6 | How did we get here (song stuck in my head), the existential questions....If I ever have a daughter this is how I aspire to be. You have a golden mother! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 06:59 AM |
| 8 | It’s the “active in” communities for me 🤣 (blocked this rumplescroatskin immediately after my response)We need to make a dictionary! I have just realized how much of my insult vocabulary is demeaning to women. I need more of this to shed the internalized misogyny | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 06:55 AM |
| 5 | Banned on a Supposedly Feminist Subreddit for Giving Informative Information About VaginismusMe too! I have the app, but I need to get out of reddit for good | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 06:50 AM |
| 26 | how abso effing disgusting is this? bad enough that a scrote would do this, let alone WOMEN blaming the victim!!! I'm beside myself! thankfully there are others who are just as outraged as I am.Very good point. It highlights how they use language to minimize the violence against women. I'm sure this is BDSM related in so many ways | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 02:38 PM |
| 10 | how abso effing disgusting is this? bad enough that a scrote would do this, let alone WOMEN blaming the victim!!! I'm beside myself! thankfully there are others who are just as outraged as I am.Good! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 02:37 PM |
| 23 | how abso effing disgusting is this? bad enough that a scrote would do this, let alone WOMEN blaming the victim!!! I'm beside myself! thankfully there are others who are just as outraged as I am.I'm sorry, WHAT?! So for her too assume he is a decent person that is not out to ACTIVELY HARM her is a stretch, but for him to assume that she is 1) a porn star 2) likes pain 3) wants to be semi-killed while having sex and 4) that he has the right to play out his own pornsick fantasy on ANYONE is to be expected? And for them to assume his fucked up assumption is somehow her responsibility to correct and rectify is just the sprinkles on this shit sundae!!! Makes me want to choke both him and the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 02:36 PM |
| 1 | A solid checklist ✅An admirable attitude I will adopt myself. Keep up the good work,sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 10:14 AM |
| 1 | A solid checklist ✅At least there are a lot of people who understand. My normal friends mean well, but they suggest the dumbest shit sometimes. "Have you communicated properly" is bad all around, not just with scrotes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 08:48 AM |
| 1 | A solid checklist ✅Huh, did not know I needed that! Thank you so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 06:56 AM |
| 4 | A solid checklist ✅I know. I just can't do the final cut yet. And the problematic one comes in a pair with a lovely one. It's like a cake where one layer is sprinkled with catshit. Makes the cake all bad, but it still feels like a waste to throw it out. Working on it, sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 06:31 PM |
| 5 | A solid checklist ✅What do you do when most of you immediate family don't make the list? This must have a ton of stuff to do with the risk of falling for a LVM/NVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 03:43 PM |
| 6 | "Women expect men to be mind-readers" is a lieWow, what a bellend. Good riddance to them both! Now it is just me and my cat, and he is the most considerate guy I know after my dad. I'm happy, and hope you are too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 10:27 AM |
| 2 | "Women expect men to be mind-readers" is a lieThey care to remember that shit pop psychology, but not our likes and dislikes. Self serving isn't even the half of it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 08:30 AM |
| 18 | "Women expect men to be mind-readers" is a lieThis makes me angry FOR you, that is how stupid it is!!! My ex could not remember my birthday after ten years. Year nine he forgot his mother's birthday and got angry at ME for not telling him. They don't care. Really | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 08:27 AM |
| 58 | 🤮Wow. Wokeness is a filthy lie! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 10:33 AM |
| 29 | Stole this from the Tinder sub, this woman is my hero for todayYou speak the truth, more women just need to hear it. I want it to be taught at schools, as digital sex ed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 02:09 PM |
| 41 | Stole this from the Tinder sub, this woman is my hero for todayDo you find it more accurate to say that that is what women on tinder get rather than what they are there for? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 12:32 PM |
| 4 | This comic changed my lifePreach, sister! You just did the same for me! I thought I had a wandering eye for a year now, even if I never did anything about it it made me wonder what was wrong with ME. Always what was wrong with me, never him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 06:52 PM |
| 9 | We are not far from this time. I’m just saying, men have been trying to gaslight her forever.You know Freud did not write out all his theories about this because his monetary supporters were rich men who abused their families? It is som deeply ingrained not only in society, but in the ideas that try to explain society. We need a feminine psychology just like we need a feminine medical field. We are gaslit to the core of our existence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 05:44 AM |
| -3 | Communication is keyWow. No selfcontrol, no ability to adapt. Stay online. Stay in you rooms, boys. You suck so much. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/10/20 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, if he’s interested, you’ll know. I also love that she didn’t compromise her standards.That was so much more adorable than I dared to hope <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 04:57 AM |
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