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RED FLAG 🚨ShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 04:29 PM
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How-To High ValueShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:53 PM
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ShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 02:16 AM
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QUEEN SH*TShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 03:18 PM
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FDS MEMESShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 05:41 AM
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How-To High ValueShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 01:55 PM
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FDS MEMESShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 04:22 AM
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LIES MEN TELLShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 04:35 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFEShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 11:01 PM
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ShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 03:31 PM
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QUEEN SH*TShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:05 PM
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FDS MEMESShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 11:22 PM
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LEVEL UP BRO! ShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 01:30 AM
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FDS MEMESShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:51 AM
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RED FLAG 🚨ShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 10:46 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:49 AM
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SCROTES MADShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 06:39 AM
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REMINDER 👑ShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 08:22 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 12:10 AM
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FDS MEMESShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 06:10 PM
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#JustLVMThingsShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:28 PM
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#JustLVMThingsShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 06:26 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 02:00 AM
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STRATEGYShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 06:21 PM
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NAH, SISShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 01:41 PM
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NAH, SISShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 06:07 AM
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FDS MEMESShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 03:45 AM
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QUEEN SH*TShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 08:42 PM
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QUEEN SH*TShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 07:43 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 02:26 PM
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FIELD REPORT ShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 02:57 PM
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Story time ☕ShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 05:11 AM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:47 PM
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SCROTES MADShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 08:25 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 12:59 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 10:14 PM
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#JustLVMThingsShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 05:29 PM
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MINDSET SHIFTShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 08:38 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 05:16 PM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 08:42 PM
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BOOK REPORTShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 03:35 PM
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#KickHimOut2020ShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 01:11 AM
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#JustLVMThingsShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 08:04 PM
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QUEEN SH*TShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 06:05 PM
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QUICK TIPShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 06:26 AM
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RANTShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 01:26 AM
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#JustHVMThingsShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 08:05 PM
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FINE AF FRIDAYSShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 03:22 PM
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#JustLVMThingsShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:35 PM
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LIES MEN TELLShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 02:25 PM
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#JustLVMThingsShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 02:48 AM
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FDS MOVIES & TVShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 09:10 PM
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FDS MEMESShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 01:57 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 04:22 PM
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QUEEN SH*TShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 06:02 AM
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FDS MOVIES & TVShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 11:04 PM
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LIES MEN TELLShieldMaidenLagertha/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 12:56 PM
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His “sexual animal” is a Warthog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 11:44 PM
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Omfg. This is equally outrageous and interesting to me. I think there is a whole potential thesis paper here about men attempting to police women’s speech through pronunciation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 11:03 PM
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Oh nice they are targeting the newer members instead of going to the mods. 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 05:57 PM
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FUCK NO. Block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 05:53 PM
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Where do they find the confidence?! It’s astounding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 06:31 PM
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It was 10 times worse because he decided to do this in front of his parents when we had Sunday dinner together. 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 06:30 PM
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Oh you’d love him! 😉 Last I heard he scammed our local government for Covid loans for his “business”. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 05:07 AM
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GIRL….I’m Ukrainian and I had an Ex who took ONE semester of Russian tell me that I mispronounced my OWN LAST NAME!!!! 😳🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 03:48 AM
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Yes, men are not permitted to leave because they may all be needed for the defense. I have approximate 30 members of my family still in Ukraine. 2 of my younger female family members were able to escape to Poland through Hungary. My other female family members are so far choosing to stay (they’re in Western Ukraine). I receive heart breaking texts from my cousin every couple days and I can do nothing but pray and make my house ready for them in case they are able to eventually get visas. Everyth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 03:43 AM
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In related news, I just read this today and laughed. Bootstraps! 🤣🤦‍♀️ https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/kim-kardashian-work-backlash-interview-b2032448.html?amp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 09:05 PM
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Thanks for elaborating on your thoughts. For sure, that makes sense. I’m in agreement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 05:50 PM
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Yes, the Gravy Seals have gone noticeably silent when Zelensky announced the Foreign Legion was accepting volunteers. Kyle Rittenhouse also has not stepped up to help “defend property “. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 05:17 PM
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While addressing racism is essential, I think I do have a very good perspective on the ratio of acts bravery and honor to acts of injustice. The Ukrainian government took quick action coordinating with leaders of African countries to make sure discrimination issues at the border crossings were rectified. Racist dickheads are everywhere but I don’t think that makes the HV acts we are seeing any less remarkable or noteworthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 03:02 PM
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I agree. And it’s making me extra resentful seeing all the examples of bravery in Ukraine. 80% of US men can’t even separate their ass from the couch, let alone fight for something they believe in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 06:09 AM
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Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 01:52 AM
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Nooooooooooooooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 10:04 PM
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Lmao. Honestly I don’t know how they tolerate their own filth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 12:33 AM
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Omg. I too was an “he’s on the spectrum” explainer. 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 12:26 AM
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She should have told him she bought him a mansion and then give him some random keys that don’t work after dropping him off at a beautiful house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 07:10 AM
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It’s so vile. It reminds me of this woman I worked with that kept getting vaginal infections from her husband because he refused to wash his dick properly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 10:30 AM
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See how sly he was?! Ask for the pin on a mundane, quotidian $20 purchase and then he has it for whatever he wishes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 10:24 AM
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Uhhhhhh…you sure that was a “pimple” and not a herpes sore? Also just unalive me if my life ever entails my lover lancing pimples on my genitalia. What is wrong with people?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 10:09 AM
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I’d say: “Listen, Kitka, your ass is about to get drafted when this world war breaks out. You won’t even be home.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 02:28 AM
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I TOOK THEM ON PARK WALKS AND WAS ABRASIVE, CHEAP, AND UGLY!!! WHY CANT I FIND A GIRLFRIEND?!?! WHY NO VAGINA?!? 😫😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 06:52 AM
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Soooo…it would be a red flag for me. It’s worth noting that this is actually a VERY common thing that narcissists are known for doing. I used to participate pretty regularly in an infidelity support group after I caught my shittiest ex cheating and this was a tale women in the group told over and over. Narcs love recycling “special places” and using them with the subsequent partners. It’s a huge turn off and unacceptable to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 06:42 AM
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Definitely! Thank for chatting too. Group therapy! 😂💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 02:41 AM
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Yeah, I was shocked at her immaturity and drama in all the things she did. I honestly thought a parting of ways was coming but we’d be able to say: “I wish you the best life possible.” mean it, and be able to walk away with love. Nope! 🤣 I’m glad things worked out for your friend though. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 02:36 AM
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Thanks. It was like a 20 yr friendship! Yes, I actually started blocking and deleting friends as well as men who behave badly. Sometimes people do things that are so egregious and there’s just no way of coming back from that, sadly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 01:45 AM
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I’m not sure if I will ever reunite with this friend, honestly. She did some pretty malignant things at the end of our relationship. She’s one of those women that pretends to be all metaphysical “love & light” on the surface but it turns out she is pretty vindictive and malicious. I was already starting to question the viability of our friendship due to her inability to challenge her scrote husband on important issues but after she and I had an argument, she sent me the shittiesy most condescend…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 01:42 AM
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🤣👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 01:22 AM
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Is it even his role to manage you? If it is not, I would consider saying something like: “Professor Scrote, I really don’t appreciate being tone policed. I was asked to be a part of this board to provide frank and honest feedback. I was simply reiterating something that we spoke about at great length in our meeting. You’re not my employer and I don’t report to you. In this capacity of the advisory board, we function as equals. I find it really troubling that you would feel comfortable speaking t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 05:57 PM
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Right? I would totally fuck with him and see how he liked it. Obnoxiously and repetitively say shit like: “Bring me that fat peepee! Can I bury my face in your Éclair ?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 05:44 PM
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One of my oldest, closest friends married a LVM and he slowly made her insane. He, too, refused to get vaccinated and gaslit her about her wanting to get the vaccine to the point that she had a mental breakdown the day of her vaccination appointment and was hysterically crying. I had to eventually cut her off, we’re no longer friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 05:26 PM
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🤣👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 06:26 AM
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Okay, Coomer! 💁‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 11:14 PM
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Mommy issues… 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 11:14 PM
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Why get a sex doll when they can just use a rotten coconut, a chicken sandwich, or….ad nauseum of vile things men have actually admitted to fucking? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 11:12 PM
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Make sure he is fully blocked on socials. This one is going to circle back for a Hoover. I think that was a tactical conversation and that he definitely was expecting you to panic and sleep with him to keep him. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 04:35 PM
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Speaking as someone who once lived with a man without being married, don’t do it! If you do it you’ll end up being his maid and a means for cheaper living expenses. This is not beneficial to you. You’ll have twice as much work and irritation and receive nothing in return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 04:28 PM
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He sounds like he has the personality of a mildewed bath mat with a toenail clipping garnish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 06:23 AM
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https://www.tiktok.com/music/Stop-Giving-Men-Microphones-7056902877708831535?sender_device=mobile&sender_web_id=7062193920072517125&is_from_webapp=v2&is_copy_url=0
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 04:40 AM
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I know…I’m waiting for the second installment of The Dirty Jane Chronicles. Jane’s a dirty dog for going along with this abuse scheme too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 08:37 PM
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Oh, sure, there’s a few ways! Google reverse image search is one way. Most guys aren’t that photogenic, so if they manage to get a decent selfie, they will post it over and over again even if they’re trying to have a “secret” account. Another way I found his alts was by looking into some Fb groups for niche interests he had. He was posting in those with his alt accounts with a big pic of his stupid face, too. That’s how I found his primary alt he was using to hookup with women. Once you have tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 07:15 PM
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It’s sad but Uber is more reliable than a “friend”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 06:49 PM
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Absolutely never.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 06:48 PM
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Exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 06:35 PM
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10 years from now… 👨🏼: “She’s the one that got away!!!! Waaaaaaaah!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 06:30 PM
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He’s lying about the other spouses not being invited. When have you ever heard of a wedding where the spouses were not invited?! Ridiculous! This was a convenient opportunity for her husband and Jane to fuck. I just don’t understand why some women don’t love themselves more that the scrotes they married. This isn’t making sacrifices, it’s martyrdom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 05:47 PM
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“Aftercare” is a pornsick red flag term for me too. It’s rooted in BDSM culture. You shouldn’t have to call normal post coital intimacy by a special name like it’s some sort of abnormal fetish practice or extra request.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 05:07 AM
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She completely lost me at : “We’re applying for new jobs now for him”. Wtf, is he your man or your son?! Can’t he handle his own affairs?! How gross!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 07:56 PM
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I think we should normalize bluntly telling these guys to fuck off when they circle back around after ignoring a woman when she was in crisis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 09:51 PM
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Exactly. It’s so mean. This makes me so sad. Horses are so intelligent and gentle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 07:30 PM
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She’s already being kind of abusive to the horse. Lady must be so sad and confused about why she’s borderline being neglected. ☹️ This woman needs to wake the fuck up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 07:20 PM
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This is the way. 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 07:16 PM
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I was thinking this too. High risk for an accident to occur
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 07:03 PM
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I swear, the dumbest motherfuckers are so concerned about passing on their mentally stunted genes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 07:02 PM
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It’s one part to baby trap her. And the second part is ego and MaH LeGaCy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 07:00 PM
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So this guy I was getting to know exhibited the following: very antsy, borderline erratic behavior when we went out. Would constantly fidget at the dinner table and then want to suddenly leave even though nothing bad had happened. very high highs, very low lows. Party guy or in bed all day depression guy. he’d constantly contradict himself. Ex: “We’re a perfect match!” then “We’re just not compatible!”. Lather, rinse, repeat…. and all the things you mentioned as well Turns out he had a traumatic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 05:03 PM
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Yes, I had a friend who is more than 10 years older than me and we met at my first real job. She continued to treat me like I was 20 yrs old. She has older sister syndrome and insists on always being the center of attention. The final straw was when she was mad at me and wrote me a super insulting and patronizing snail mail letter in which she tried to school me on my behavior. 🙄 I’m now a business owner and a home owner and am no longer cool with being talked down to or treated like a NPC. Some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 04:44 PM
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Wtf is that? Some pickme site? Women defining themselves by their wedding dates? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 04:22 PM
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This. He’s deliberately trying to degrade her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 04:21 PM
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Look: Redneck A Handmaid’s Tale
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 04:21 AM
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Lol! I have it on my list to watch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 10:34 PM
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Yes, it’s a new level of weak and pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:46 PM
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So gross. It looks like the dive we used to go to in college after the club because it was the only thing open at 3am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:41 PM
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Seriously…I was over here trying to figure out that too. What crap restaurant has a tablet for self check out? Tacky!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:30 PM
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Seriously…I was over here trying to figure out that too. What crap restaurant has a tablet for self check out? Tacky!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:30 PM
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It’s an insemination glove. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 05:34 AM
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Omg! There’s this guy who had a crush on me in high school and we ended up reconnecting a few years ago and went out in several dates. He had a lot of HV traits but when we were making out he said to me “Pretend I’m your first!”. I nearly threw up in my mouth because it was clear he was still just obsessed with my 16 year old self and didn’t give a shit about who I am today. Such pedo vibes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 07:28 PM
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Yep. I knew this guy that admitted that he got married to his wife not because he loved her but because it “was time” for him to “settle down” and she was “acceptable”. He tried to date me and lied that he was in the process of a divorce. I did a little digging and realized he was a big liar with multiple fake social media accounts. As far as I know, this nearly 50 year old guy is still fucking any woman that will have his community dick while his wife runs his household and raises his 3 daughte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 07:08 PM
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I didn’t even make it that far. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 05:55 AM
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I couldn’t make it past the first 5 minutes. There’s just so much boring filler talk. They come off as being very smug and tediously lib fem. Don’t they realize how silly they sound when they admit they have not even investigated the forum but have already formed an opinion based on what they’ve heard? Who do they think is leading the negative talk about the forum? Hint: it’s the very individuals who stand to gain the most from your compliance to the status quo. People like these are just tools …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 03:46 AM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 03:10 AM
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And men wonder why they end up in dead bedrooms…🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 09:43 PM
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Exactly. This guy has zero interpersonal skills or emotional intelligence and it was a nightmare to break up with him. I was shocked at how he has aged. His back is actually stooped over like a cartoon grandpa. These guys don’t take care of themselves. Left to his own devices he ate spaghettios and drank Diet Coke. 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 05:14 PM
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This! I dated a guy with a similarly large age gap when I was younger and he was very emotionally immature. I saw him recently and he looks like a grandpa. If I stayed with him I’d be in my prime with a baldy that has moobs. I’m also not cool being someone’s free eldercare plan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 04:47 PM
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She’s a total badass. I first heard her story on a podcast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 12:06 AM
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Oh yes. It’s like a switch is flipped. My Narc ex became vicious after I found out he was cheating. The mask was off then. He was simultaneously so cowardly and malicious that it was disorienting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 04:24 PM
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There’s a convo started here: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/s9x5fe/the_movie_star_and_me_very_wellwritten_account_of/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 03:37 PM
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They are explicitly telling on themselves here. They view dating apps as Door Dash for pussy. There you have it, straight from the horse’s mouth! Do you want to be delivery pussy? Also, wtf is up with the gross pics of TV dinners and Febreeze?!? Nasty ass scrotes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 10:03 PM
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Someone should tip her off so she can increase his life insurance policy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 04:09 AM
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Or he’d keep moving the goalposts to even more depraved acts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 04:07 AM
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Right? Is there a deadline for this anal invasion? Wtf?! Honestly…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 04:05 AM
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Honestly? He’s never made her orgasm but they both thought it was good idea for the 2 of them to pledge an eternal commitment to each other? Wtf is wrong with people?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 04:03 AM
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It’s also another illustration of how so much daily labor is done for men by women. Imagine if you had a helper to free you from 2 hours or more of work everyday. All that time could be used to earn money, acquire assets, build a business, etc etc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 08:32 PM
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Welcome! 😂💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 05:26 PM
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I have secondhand embarrassment. Imagine marking yourself down at a discount…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 11:56 PM
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I bet Leonardo DiCaprio operates the same way. Sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 03:01 PM
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Why is this such a common scam with scrotes?! It’s so gross that so many do this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 07:54 PM
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Because, woman. Because, black. Because, American.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 07:52 PM
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It’s always cheating if a woman does it. If a man does it, it’s just him exploring his options! 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 07:50 PM
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I think it’s weird he didn’t already know her opinion on lab grown stones. If this ring was about pleasing her, he would have already known her stance. Him doubling down and refusing to exchange it just reaffirms that the ring wasn’t about her, it’s about what he thought was best by and what he wanted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 02:50 PM
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Gee don’t threaten us with a good time! These scrotes always shoot themselves in the foot. Once these women get a taste of freedom, they aren’t going back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 02:35 PM
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😂👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 04:33 PM
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I hope you both destroyed him with ridicule. Men like this need to be shamed! The only way this is going to change is if both men and women start laughing like Drew Afualo at them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 04:26 PM
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Yeah right, I doubt she gives a fuck about him if they go a month without speaking. She’s going to think he’s a weirdo if he makes a big production about “breaking up” with her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 02:00 AM
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Is he really getting in his feelings over $30 for his date’s Uber? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 12:11 AM
379

If he didn’t marry her after the first child, then he didn’t want her. I can’t wrap my head around women who pop out multiple kids for loser men who don’t even care enough to legitimize them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 12:01 AM
250

“Hello, fellow kids!” 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 11:52 PM
35

I agree. I think this was a major motivator for my shittiest ex treating me terribly and trying to crush me and ruin my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 11:13 PM
28

It’s on Fated Mates. Early in season 3 I think. They’re mostly analyzing it from a relevance to the canon of romance but I thought that stat was interesting af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 09:10 PM
19

Lol! Right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 09:03 PM
127

I was just listening to a podcast that was doing a analysis of 50 Shades of Grey. They had a stat on how much sexually related ER visits increased after that book came out and it was astronomical, something like a 30% increase. It’s just legitimized violence against women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 09:02 PM
263

Can you imagine if women started insisting on brutally pegging men? “I need to ram your b-hole with this plastic phallus for my pleasure! Don’t kink shame me!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 07:40 PM
18

That’s wonderful! Congrats!🍾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 07:35 PM
78

I mean, I view blocking scrotes and shitty friends in the same way as any other nuisance. I have the option to skip commercials on tv or on podcasts, so I’m going to use it. Same thing with blocking people who I never want to hear from again. Blocking isn’t an indicator that they have made you emotional or upset, to me it’s just a firm closing of the door. I don’t want my phone going ping ping ping from Johnny McTriffling while I’m taking care of business and building an empire. I don’t want the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 08:55 PM
43

It’s shit like this that men do, and then they are all “shocked Pikachu face” when you don’t want to fuck him. No one wants sex with the guy who doesn’t have $20 for your Pad Thai. It’s repugnant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 05:17 AM
1

Yes they really are. I know they sound like a dumb gimmick but my teeth feel so much cleaner after using the electric one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 02:47 AM
2

Wow! That was a wild ride! I can’t wait til he has the shattering realization that the divorce will happen with or without his cooperation. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 02:45 AM
7

Exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 07:02 PM
51

Yep. He sure as hell isn’t kite surfing for 5 hours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 04:30 PM
42

Oh are they calling it “kite surfing” now? Ok… 🪁🍆💦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 04:23 PM
79

Exactly, he’s just looking for someone who is more easily manipulated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 12:09 AM
20

LMAO! Pathetic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 12:07 AM
7

This is some foreign romance scammer. I can tell by how he writes. No one real introduces themselves as “Am Paul”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 05:58 PM
7

Yeah it reeks of “I could still have him if I wanted him” vibes. If the ex girlfriend was healthy mentally, she would not be having private dinners at her ex boyfriend’s house. I’d block them all, they’re all crazy.
/r/askFDS12/01/22 04:59 PM
44

Sweet baby Jesus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 03:00 AM
21

I got an icky feeling from the ex gf saying all this extra info to OP. Seems suspect… But of course, he’s trash regardless. There’s no relationship to salvage here.
/r/askFDS12/01/22 02:53 AM
4

Right, it such an absurd story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 03:34 PM
8

Just one year to go from Newbie to Mod on FDS, huh? Okay, Kyle…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 03:15 PM
118

Exactly. “Oh, I’m so sorry you’re struggling financially! Is it your career that is the problem?” 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 02:48 AM
61

Yes, that is so gross he told her that she’s paying (and paying for the more expensive portion of the evening). Wtf!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 02:45 AM
3

Block and delete. Anyone, man or woman who does this is a child with a nasty controlling streak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 08:28 PM
448

He’s going there to cheat, period. I’d serve him with divorce papers before he left. At least when you’re divorced, you could force him to either have custody time (where you’ll get a break) or force him to pay to compensate for not taking them. Either way the court will be more just than the way he’s treating her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 05:37 PM
43

💥B O N K!💥 Go to Horny Jail. You, sir, are a creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 04:06 AM
19

Wow…you expected him to have some dignity, class, and honor. That’s what you expected. What a scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 04:02 AM
21

He’s actually a Coppola, so I don’t think he’ll ever be truly “broke”. Too many nepotistic opportunities to make more money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 03:57 AM
39

I came here to say this exact sentiment. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 03:54 AM
57

Omg. Proof that men will sexualize anything! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 01:33 AM
19

Definitely. After I recovered my senses, I called him everything but a child of god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 12:57 AM
3

It’s heartbreaking and just so…raw. But this is where we’re at in 2022. If I’m really honest, I can’t think of a single man I’ve dated who has given me verbal emotional support like what’s she’s describing. I totally get why a woman would pay for that. Most men are so cold, selfish, and detached.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 12:55 AM
238

Yes, I am a Cavillsexual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 12:47 AM
80

It really was! He rendered me completely speechless with his audacious stupidity. He was more than a decade older than me too! They just desperately scramble around in the fetid, wasting corners of their coomer brains for an answer to justify their weakness and then confidently hold up the response equivalent of a Rat King - tangled, directionless, corrupt, and half dead filth. But watching the karma bus pull up has been great! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 09:16 PM
260

When I caught him cheating… Him: “Well you got to do what you wanted to do for the past couple years (he’s referring to me working like a dog to start my business), so now it’s my turn to do what I want to! (Meaning cheat with a promiscuous gold digger) “ How is this even related?! Lol! I of course left him so he could go on to “enjoy” a relationship with a very dim and drunk woman who would be later locally infamous for fucking his neighbor in a bathroom at a party they attended and also for ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 09:06 PM
315

🐷: SeX dIsPeNsEr No WoRk No MoRe!!!!1!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 08:16 PM
2

I’ll have to look that up! I’m not familiar with the Tiger in Chinese zodiac.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 08:10 PM
3

Makes me want to reply: 2022 is not the year of the dog, so kindly fuck off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 05:55 PM
3

🤣👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 05:47 PM
42

I refuse to use it as an insult because it’s just become so harmful to older women. If you really think about it, it’s kind of co-opting and misappropriating a criticism of racism too, which is subtly devious and harmful in it’s own right and waters down the original intention. It’s a win win for the patriarchy though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 05:27 PM
9

Smart lady! 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 03:42 PM
16

This is what I recommend too. I had to get a protection order against a weird neighbor on my street and having email evidence that I told him to leave me alone and having doorbell camera footage of him lurking in front of my house was enough to convince the judge to issue a 3yr order. Tell your ex to leave you alone and keep records of any further contact after that in case you need to go to court.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 08:17 AM
27

Sometimes I wonder if these reciprocation boys just have extremely low testosterone and need to see a doctor because it’s not normal for a man to not want to impress his mate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 07:38 AM
183

The part RE: demonizing older women. Yes, I recently got into a huge argument online regarding the use of the word Karen. It’s being hijacked from its original (legitimate, racially critical) meaning to just be a blanket insult to any woman over 30 who has a criticism of anything. The patriarchy is trying to shut us up and cut us off from the source of feminine experience and knowledge by ridiculing our predecessors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 05:44 PM
97

I have this long time female friend that messages me before every major holiday “What are you doing for X holiday?” under the guise of being friendly or staying in touch I suppose, but it always kind of rubs me the wrong way -like there’s this underlying pitying tone. She’s married to a big loser and takes terrible care of herself, has verbally confessed to being jealous of me. So this contact is very weird and pointless. I get the vibes that she wants me to not have plans or bemoan my single st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/22 07:08 AM
29

I feel like there should be a specific legally agreed upon phrase you could say to someone where if they didn’t immediately leave you alone after you said it, it would be legal to mace them. Because obviously “stop” doesn’t work with these scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 09:21 PM
25

He’ll take her to Bob Evans once and buy her a shitty charm for her Pandora bracelet and that will be the end of it. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 07:59 PM
67

Look at his stupid little smile. He really thinks he did something special there by acknowledging her decades of slavery. Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 03:18 PM
117

Yessss…this is why men are scared. I have my own home and I’m growing my business, so there’s very little a man provide for me at this point. He’s going to have to be pretty special to disrupt the peace of my current life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 05:59 AM
113

Jealousy is one of the most destructive forces on earth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 06:50 PM
146

I swear he had to copypasta that sentence from some redpill propaganda manual. Someone is telling them to say this stupid shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 06:40 PM
170

Only straight hetero men cosplaying as women may represent feminism in these forums, not actual women with vulvas!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 04:30 PM
62

And then the hot guy rejects her and says: “uhhh…I was just hoping you’d submit this paperwork for me because I wanted to leave early Friday…” 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 01:18 AM
11

This guy is flirting with her to make work easier for him, so she’s more favorable disposed to help him. I’ve seen both sexes do this and it totally works. Men tend to do it more because they have less to lose. I worked with a guy who even did this with the 60yr old secretaries. It doesn’t mean he’s dtf…🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 01:16 AM
3

Nice! Will check it out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 10:50 PM
4

You’re welcome! Enjoy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 10:49 PM
7

🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 05:47 PM
46

I listen to a lot of various topic podcasts and follow a few female financial experts on IG. Here’s a few recs…. Her First 100k - female financial expert. She operates from a position of awareness about financial racism and addresses it often. Tons of free info on her site. She has a podcast called “Financial Feminist” too. https://instagram.com/herfirst100k?utm_medium=copy_link Delyanne - Brazilian POC financial expert. https://instagram.com/delyannethemoneycoach?utm_medium=copy_link Lady Landl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 05:30 PM
6

🤣👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 06:29 AM
182

I always refer to my anatomy as FeMaLe NiPpLeS. 🤣👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 11:29 PM
40

Omg. This has been the week of attempted messages from triggered men with small peepees because of all our recent Dick size discussions. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 07:00 PM
3

Lmao! 😂👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 05:20 PM
9

Is he going to prop up his sperm with dollar bills? 🤣👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 05:17 PM
4

I was just watching that! I’m not a regular 90 day watcher so it was interesting to see him break down the show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 04:43 PM
18

It’s going to be a shocker when they divorce and he’s hidden money everywhere and won’t disclose how much they even have. She won’t even be able to take half their checking account because I’m sure she doesn’t even know the account number, let alone the pin! She’s no more than a servant to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 03:29 AM
1

I often wonder if these accounts are even real women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 12:29 AM
3

“Sir! That dicking down was a C+ at best. Expect me to seek satisfaction elsewhere!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 12:29 AM
11

Just tap dance for approval harder!!! Have sex on your head while wearing a sexy clown suit, cooking him Beef Bourguinon and giving him an aromatherapy scalp massage! 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 11:13 PM
12

Oh my sweet summer child…she sure has some tough lessons to learn about men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 11:10 PM
37

https://www.businessinsider.com/study-older-fathers-have-less-attractive-children-2014-3?amp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 09:09 PM
42

There was a great article posted here a year or so ago talking about the unfortunate side effects of geriatric sperm including some things I never even considered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 09:07 PM
41

Same. It’s a huge turn off for me. My brother is completely addicted to video games and his life has suffered. Total squandered potential.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 08:23 PM
86

It’s so funny! Im in a support community for folks who are recovering/recovered from infidelity and that group hits all his “cult” criteria too. We call cheaters “fuckwits”, betrayed spouses “Chumps” (in a loving way), and adultery partners OWs, OMs, and OWives. It’s the same thing with certain music and hobby subcultures. It’s such a half baked, pseudoscientific assessment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 08:16 PM
30

It’s such a dumb post. You can make all that commenter’s same statements about any subculture. Take something as mundane and harmless as say Gothic culture…it fits all those so called “cult” criteria too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 08:05 PM
128

🤡 My geriatric sperm are perfect specimens of superior genes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:09 PM
29

On the back of his bicycle. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:08 PM
64

They are so dumb. Why don’t they understand the difference between not wanting to board a sinking ship and being a gold digger?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:05 PM
46

You probably spent the rest of the day crying about your “lack of options”. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:03 PM
207

Amen. Men are not the prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 06:49 PM
297

I’m also loling over the wanting kids “someday”. Sir, you are 44!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 06:40 PM
169

Cook me dinner and I’ll bang you and make you buy me a egg McMuffin.🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 06:35 PM
365

A lot of them are monkeys that cannot propel themselves forward in life without using women as branches that they swing from. They always have to have their next branch lined up ready to grab onto. I theoretically know they exist, but I don’t personally know any man that has ended a relationship without securing a new branch to hang from. My age gap scrote ex was the champion branch swinger. After a little research, I discovered nearly all his relationships had overlap, several of them involved …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 06:29 PM
31

Oh yuck! Pedo alert! It’s so disturbing. I don’t fault women for seeking whatever means they can to improve their lives, but these guys are such trash for having to buy a wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/21 08:30 PM
1

Ha ha! I totally had these thoughts this year. I really listen to people year round and get very thoughtful and beautiful gifts so it’s super annoying when you get some generic thing or something that gives off “regifted” vibes. It does make you feel like keeping the nice things you’ve bought for them. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/21 06:08 PM
75

Oh that wasn’t a vacation. That was a highly planned trip to go pick up the merchandise he purchased in advance. I know a guy who bought a bride in Vietnam, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/21 03:23 PM
867

58!!! Omfg! They really are delusional. They think the chick selling bagels should be delighted and over the moon that grandpa would be dtf. Pretty people know they are pretty. You don’t need to say something. And you definitely don’t need to try to lure an actual teenager onto your shitty boat. She has hot men trying to do the same thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 03:44 PM
14

Wow! I’m glad you found it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 01:07 AM
12

Whoah! Interesting! Your car or phone Bluetooth picked it up? Was it located in the wheel well?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 12:47 AM
2

Ooh! Great idea!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 09:46 PM
27

😂👏 🤡: “My cheating partner is cheating on ME!!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 09:42 PM
38

Yeah this situation was years ago, pre FDS, but when he let the bit slip about him thinking I didn’t go anywhere, I was already pretty much checked out of dating him because of other unrelated red flags. He was quite the habitual liar and such high drama. He engineered a conflict every time he visited me, it was so bizarre. I don’t know what he got out of being so adversarial with me. I’ve wondered if it was some sort of pickup artist technique, but I never even slept with him because he was too…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 09:39 PM
3

Sure! The guy’s Etsy shop is called “AlchemistStorage”. I bought one style for me and another style for my friend. I think he must laser or CNC cut them because they’re so lovely and intricate! Here they are: https://etsy.me/3g6GlwW https://etsy.me/3646pCf Oooh! Your truffle and other cuisine adventures sound divine!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 07:16 PM
3

💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 07:09 PM
22

Excellent point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:58 PM
99

I know, she had some pretty Queen moments over the years. I still talk to her. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:57 PM
41

Reread my comments. He was never in my car. The trackers are magnetic and the most common place to put them is on the exterior of the car, inside wheel wells.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:54 PM
22

If it weren’t for women, Christmas would consist of sitting on the couch and eating Doritos and pizza rolls while swigging on Mountain Dew. I remember one year I was so disappointed by my family’s gift exchange that I went in my room and cried. I had picked out all these super thoughtful presents and I received a bunch of random crap that I’d never use or choose in return. It just went to show that no one even really knew or understood me. I think that’s when my switch flipped and I decided to d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:10 PM
54

Ooof! Truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:00 PM
40

Yeah, it’s ridiculous we have to even consider this but it’s the reality out here. It’s always the biggest liars and cheats that need to know what you’re up to, too, because they assume you share their same shitty morals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 05:08 PM
84

I think he took it off my car and gave it back to his friend when he accidentally let too much slip to me in conversation. I went into a mechanic and they weren’t able to find anything at that point. He lived out of town and I think he retrieved it on one of his trips to see me. I think he wanted to know if I was dating other men. The devices are cheaper than anything from Apple and are readily available out here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 05:00 PM
227

I think a guy, let’s call him John, that wanted to date me did this to my car with just a regular tracker. It came up in conversation that John’s close friend did this to his wife when he suspected her of cheating. The story stuck in my head and later John made some smug comment about how I don’t really go anywhere. It was odd. I asked him how he could possibly know that and he made some evasive comment about my car not having many miles. It’s funny because I live in the city and walk a lot and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 04:34 PM
91

No shit! I know a woman whose husband is “disabled” and she slaves away all day supporting his ass while he and his down-low buddies drink beer and give each other handjobs in her jacuzzi. Of course he won’t leave because then he’d have to work again since he had no documented disability. Once one of these barnacles move in with you, it’s not simple to jettison them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 04:23 PM
113

It’s the perfect hobby for emotionally stunted manlets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 03:41 PM
70

It’s so bad! I can’t believe they’re still in business. I worked in a jewelry store during the height of Pandora’s popularity and it was miserable dealing with all the people who would come to our store assuming we must sell that crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 03:36 PM
347

I worked in a jewelry store during college and it was appalling what I saw. We sold really nice finished jewelry but we also sold components that you could design your own jewelry with and the these fuckers would come in on the 24th with no experience designing and try to get staff to spend three hours designing something for them so they could look like they were really thoughtful. My boss always had us close at like 3pm on that day and have a champagne party. It was so rewarding seeing those d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 03:32 PM
5

I haven’t bookmarked any fine jeweler’s pages yet. But if I find something nice I’ll try to post here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:25 AM
7

Omg…organization is going to be a big project at my house in the coming year. I’m kinda dreading the process because it’s so expensive to buy storage bins and shelves, but it needs to happen here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:24 AM
11

Oh yes! I love that you’re replacing your book copies with hardcovers! I have done that with a few titles this year too! I’m actually contemplating hiring a bookbinder to rebind a few of my favorite books that don’t come in hard cover.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:21 AM
4

Ooh yes! I love pearls too! They are a great budget luxury! $20 can buy you a beautiful, classic strand. I think I am going to buy a strand of baroque freshwater pearls to go with this Tudor reproduction pendant I bought for myself last year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:18 AM
7

Consider looking on Etsy for jewelry. I have been really impressed at some of the unique fine jewelry on there created by artists. I also found a guy that is creating high quality costume jewelry copies of Tudor era jewelry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:15 AM
28

I see nothing wrong with a little chemical assistance, lady! Appearance can be a tool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:11 AM
28

Ahhhhh! Massage has to be on my list for the future! I have been doing so much physical labor around my home that I need to compensate and recharge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:10 AM
18

Gotcha! Makes sense. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:09 AM
39

Oh, no, I didn’t intend for people to interpret this as needing to spend a lot of money. If you keep an eye out for buying Christmas presents year round, you can get really good deals on things. For example both the nail kit and the skincare kits were in the $30 range. I think it’s important to treat yourself to at least one material, fine, and sensual thing, even if it has a semi-practical application. One can do that for a pretty small amount of money spread out through a year if you plan well…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 12:48 AM
25

You know he’s definitely over 45 too. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 08:01 PM
14

🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 08:00 PM
18

🥁badum! tisssss!🥁 😂👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 08:00 PM
35

That’s a gloriously apt description. 😂👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 06:53 PM
2

I bought myself 3 books off my wishlist, this absolutely gorgeous plant propagation station from an artist in Poland, a subscription to Enchanted Living Magazine, a skincare kit from Biossance (they have some amazing deals right now), and a full starter kit for dip powder nails from Revel! Hurray! 😂👏 This year I was really on top of gift buying and started stashing stuff away for myself and friends pretty early.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 06:44 PM
203

Why can’t people have preferences? If a woman wants a 9” penis, so be it. Preferences are personal. Men are allowed to specify everything from bra size to waist size to hair length. Why are they so pressed about peen preferences?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 01:53 AM
39

Lmao! He looks like a drawn caricature of a coomer! 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 10:41 PM
19

Call it ScroteFeast!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 10:06 PM
127

I know, I’m just looking for one good man. I don’t need a fucking harem. What is wrong with them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 05:44 AM
3

I’d put it under his tongue for Charon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 04:35 AM
16

Once again proving the ✨Wisdom of the Snoop✨!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 03:00 AM
3

Agreed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 02:54 AM
25

Holy shit! Brian Laundrie vibes! He sounds like he could kill her. Imagine picking a fight over fucking booze. It’s just so unchivalrous and cheap to keep score like that. Very unsexy. And he’ll be shocked when he finds himself in a dead bedroom… 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 02:33 AM
1

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 02:19 AM
25

Omg I get that too!!! People say I seem like I’m from California or one time when I was taking a class in Chicago, some fellow students said “like, you fit in here in Chicago. I wouldn’t know you didn’t live here.” 🤣🤣🤣 wtf…I live in another Midwest city, I’m not some farm worker!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 01:27 AM
85

He sounds like a turd. It’s really not rare for a woman. I know many women who fit this description.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 01:21 AM
6

Why do we keep making front page for basic human rights related topics? 🤣 I swear, my most milquetoast post just made trending this week .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 03:12 AM
59

Yet they want a girl with a spray tan, $250 hair cut/color, gel nails, full face of makeup, gym body, etc etc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 02:45 AM
62

I felt really bad for the one guy! He was really tall, handsome, and had a great career! Sadly had a medical condition that resulted in a tiny penis. 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 02:01 AM
73

I worked for an endocrinologist for a while and I can confirm, giant dudes can have micro peens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 01:58 AM
78

Ha ha! You beat me to it! My comment was nearly identical
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 01:56 AM
78

Step One: Make out like horny teenagers. Step Two: Feel up the peen. Step Three: Crush the Patriarchy and World Domination!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 01:55 AM
64

We should have a contest. Whoever gets the most scrote messages on their original post wins a luxe beauty product prize and a rhinestone tiara that spells out “SCROTE BAITER”. 🤣👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 01:53 AM
24

LMAO! BRING IT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 01:51 AM
1

Exactly. It’s creepy af! I can’t imagine shopping for sex toys for my friends, it’s so porn sick. And I just think it’s super disrespectful to the friend. To me it doesn’t matter if the gift giver is atheist, Jewish, or Pastafarian, a gift is intended to honor the receiver. The brother knows the friend is serious about his Christian beliefs. That’s disrespect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 05:47 PM
25

That’s gross and seems pretty gay honestly, like he’s too invested in the method his friend uses to come. Switch things up- if your close friend bought you a realistic vibrating dildo, wouldn’t you be skeeved out? I would. It’s too personal and it’s inappropriate. Also can we just reflect on the fact he bought a sex toy for a RELIGIOUS friend for CHRISTMAS. That’s messed up…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 05:32 AM
30

Oh man, I know this woman married to one of these guys. He’s the biggest NVM. I don’t think he’s even working now. He’s insisting on using they/them pronouns because he’s just too complex to to be limited to one sex. 🙄He took the dumbest thirst trap selfies in makeup and paints his nails. It’s just such a ploy for attention and reeks of narcissism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 11:28 PM
20

It’s so nice. A neighbor had a holiday brunch and I met a few new people. One of the neighbors incredulously asked if I lived in a similar size house as the hosts and I enthusiastically replied “YES! It’s amazing to have all this for myself!” I refuse to be single shamed. My life is better than it has ever been!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 09:01 PM
15

Omg I was just complaining about how we keep hitting the front page. I know it’s useful in spreading the “gospel” but geez I really hate it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 08:53 PM
11

This is an actual post I read online today shortly after listening to this episode: “Him: The light bulb on the patio needs replacing but I need to buy light bulbs." Me: we have bulbs in the garage Him: They will fit? Me: Yes. Him: Oh. I thought they'd be special outdoor bulbs. Me: Nope. And this is why I do the handy work. Just look and figure it out. How hard is that? Also, he hasn't changed it yet. 🙄🤨 So - guess what! I am going to change not only the bulb but the entire light fixtures in bot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 01:52 AM
4

I just wonder who he thinks is going to manage his ill health and life in general if he leaves her?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 01:33 AM
4

Oh the rotten coconut story! 😫😫😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 12:28 AM
14

🤣🤣🤣 P E Y R O N I E ‘ S🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 01:22 AM
29

Yes she’s such a “try hard”. It’s so desperate and her eyes look so crazy. Who raised her?! Why is she doing this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 06:58 PM
43

Omg. She’s a mess! She posted one about how her husband got their 3 some partner pregnant. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 02:57 PM
163

I think it’s worth mentioning these women who spent their 20’s making “sexy” their whole personality are not doing well. She looks like she was fried to a crisp under a hotdog light and is mentally unhinged. There’s something so desperate and pathetic about 40 somethings using TikTok in this way and trying to do these dumb dance memes. Prancing around on a childrens’ app because your husband is fucking around on you? It’s not the flex you think it is, sis! And emulating porn sick behavior doesn’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 02:45 PM
29

hobbit music intensifies *
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 03:38 AM
55

I’m picturing hobbit feet now. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 12:26 AM
64

🙋🏼‍♀️ yeah I had a 17 year difference with my shittiest ex. In retrospect, I just feel so grateful and relieved that he betrayed me and I left him because I recently saw him and he’s really showing his age. I mean BADLY!!! He is starting to hunch over and has moobs! Obvious low testosterone issues! He really screwed up because the woman he cheated on me with (and married) is a terrible person who sleeps around on him and is useless around the house judging by the sad state of their property. He’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 08:32 PM
3

🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 04:16 PM
2

Yeah I think it’s in the Datura family, which includes a few things. Oh yeah it’s a huge plant, I have it outside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 04:14 PM
52

This is crazy. I had no idea Brugmansia was used like this. I grow it as an ornamental plant. It produces huge pendulous trumpet shaped flowers that are intensely fragrant at night. It is exceptionally beautiful in an unreal, otherworldly way but I’ve been warned it’s incredibly poisonous. Leave it to scrotes to turn it into a rape drug….
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 06:28 AM
142

What does he think he is, The Oracle of Incel? The Sphinx of Perpetual Virginity?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 06:11 AM
227

🤡: That gold digger is trying to steal my $10!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 06:10 AM
44

Eew. No, you were being interviewed to be his gf/baby incubator. So wrong!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 06:05 AM
19

I’m just old enough to have experienced the change that the popularization of porn has had on sex. Men are increasingly perfunctory, robotic, and unskilled in the bedroom. Foreplay is almost extinct. It was not always like this. I love that you spoke your mind to her. I’m cheering over here! 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 09:29 PM
126

It’s juvenile, unmasculine, and unattractive. Not husband material.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 09:25 PM
113

How embarrassing. I just want to know how these average guys get such massive egos! Like, teach me your ways! I feel like if I could just artificially inflate my ego to this degree, I could conquer the world!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 09:17 PM
8

Soooo defensive of a response. Nope. 🚫Blocka Blocka🚫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 08:39 PM
88

Wow! Unreal… I’m sorry you got pulled into this guy’s issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 10:08 PM
50

I’m so glad you’re free! What an albatross to live under! It’s so scary how badly a spouse could effect the trajectory of your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 08:15 PM
167

Oh geez…I wonder if he was considering transitioning to female? Or if he thought if he lowered his testosterone that would suppress homosexual feelings. 😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 08:13 PM
30

🤣👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 04:23 PM
472

🤡: Hurr! Hurr! Hurr! Rape is so FUNNY!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 04:13 PM
88

What a pickme ass post. So desperate for approval. Honestly I won’t even date a guy who shows an indication of interest in either of those things. I’m out the second he reveals it. I mean, wtf, who is actually like: “Kevin, now, you can only have 4 hours of porn a day instead of your customary 7.” Like he’s a toddler who’s overly enthusiastic about watching Frozen on repeat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 03:35 PM
4

Yes, I can’t be friends with people who are unable communicate civilly, respectfully, and calmly. I realized the letter was so disrespectful and rude and that there was nothing worth trying to save in a relationship where you don’t even have respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 08:38 PM
10

You’re right. It’s cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 06:07 PM
11

Same, girl. It’s bleak!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 06:06 PM
142

A man leaving the woman who helps him level up is such a common and well known phenomenon that there are names for it: “Barbara the Builder” or “Starter Wife”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 06:04 PM
13

I 💯 agree! I recently cut off a friend of 20 years because she lost her mind on me, too. She was absolutely livid that I missed her craft party. 🙄 She wrote me this crazy, unhinged snail mail letter and I started to write back to her to address all her crazy attacks, and then I just stopped. It dawned on me that it was just not worth it. She was not being rational or reacting in a reasonably proportionate way to what happened. I had already apologized like 3 times for missing the party but that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 05:35 PM
374

Normally I think it’s best to not tell men what they did wrong, but in this case I think it’s great you told him. We need to normalize telling men they lack ambition. If he’s otherwise a good guy maybe he will one day step up his game for someone else. But minimum wage is not going to cut it for a 40 year old man. There’s no way you’re going to have a decent life with him. You’d be carrying him financially and he’d start to resent you. If you tried to help him level up, he’d just get cocky and l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 03:29 PM
208

The “let’s shoot for” is getting on my nerves. This is a date, be a man, pick a time, and arrive promptly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 06:48 AM
23

I’m getting the vibe he’s momma’s boy. I’d be really suspicious about what conversations are going on behind your back. Did he coerce them into doing the labor for free so he could save his money? Did he misrepresent your projected participation and now they’re mad because he said you’d help? The trustafarian who owns the building next to my home is like this. Plays “mommy special boy” who needs help to get tons of free labor from his parents. I’d be tempted to clear the air when everyone is in …
/r/askFDS06/12/21 03:20 AM
2

👸🏼: “Cool!!! I LOVE cats! What I don’t love is dirty ballsacks, unemployed men, and disrespect.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 08:45 PM
29

Short King 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 07:46 PM
16

🎄🚫Merry Blockmas!🚫🎄 🤣👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 04:36 PM
29

She was just so M E A N! She hurt his penis’ feelings until it needed a hug from someone new!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 01:32 PM
41

Too bad you didn’t shout: “why are you crying, Kevin?!? You’re the one who cheated on me! Why so upset? Is life with your affair partner not all it’s cracked up to be?!?!” 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 01:29 PM
60

I also think some guys who are this bizarrely critical just haven’t come to terms with being gay. It’s like…she’s not unattractive, you just like peen. It’s ok, bro!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 03:37 AM
12

😱😱😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 03:21 AM
25

The audacity 🤣🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 01:16 AM
28

IF ONLY WE COULD GET CREDIT CARDS AND OWN PROPERTY!!! 😫😫😫 Oh wait…we can!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 01:08 AM
9

I KNOW ONE! 🤣🤣🤣 They both went to boot camp for the army and he was rejected, she got in and ended up being the breadwinner. He stayed home and tried to start a game miniature painting business. 🤣 They divorced and he received alimony from her for YEARS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 12:35 AM
12

Men cockblock themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 12:31 AM
14

He spent all his money drinking with his buddies. 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 12:18 AM
2

Omg! This reminds me of my ex! He had like 20 LLCs registered with our state but not one of them was legitimate money-making endeavor! Lmao!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 09:27 PM
72

I’d die if you responded to her post. 😂 “Well, Rebecca, you knew what you were getting into when the 2 of you started cheating together behind my back. I really don’t feel sorry for you.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 09:18 PM
171

Don’t take it personally. I think a lot of guys have false expectations of women because they spend too much time looking at photoshopped Kardashians and porn. Guess what, those women don’t even look like their photos?! He’s hypercritical of women’s appearances and needs therapy. He was probably traumatized that your eyes creased when you smiled because you’re not a mannequin. I’m so glad you blocked him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 09:10 PM
36

Just call me Queen Scrooge! 😂👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 08:28 PM
1

It’s produced by BBC but I just bought it on Amazon Prime because I love the PreRaphaelites so much. I figured even if it sucked I would still be entertained by the visuals. 😂 It’s pretty good!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 08:27 PM
340

Oh no, girl!!! 🕯🎄👻YOU’VE BEEN VISITED BY THE GHOST OF DISAPPOINTING PAST!!! 👻🎄🕯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 08:18 PM
2

The series Desperate Romantics is about the PRB and is pretty interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 04:58 AM
23

If you ever want to piss off a Russian scrote, tell him he’s making a mess of his life and that he should just go find a nice Austrian woman to figure things out for him because Russian men are incapable of ruling themselves well. 😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 04:56 AM
15

Juana of Castile was gaslit, called crazy, imprisoned, and had her throne stolen by her scrote father (Juana was to inherit the crown from her mother). The cliff notes are here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/queens-podcast/id1212155999?i=1000476496414
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 04:51 AM
234

These photos are birth control for me. My legs have snapped shut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:06 PM
2

Right? I never even heard him speak the other language. I guessing maybe he knows how to say hello and what time does the bus leave? And that’s the sum of his vast knowledge. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 01:38 PM
19

That wasn’t a proposal, that was a resignation and acknowledgment that he realized he could not do better so he settled and begrudgingly handed her a ring. Then they did a perfunctory ceremony. This guy is King Low Effort. There will be no learning to romance each other, that time has passed because you accepted a shittier bottom rung offer, so that’s where the bar for your relationship has been set and will stay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 01:18 PM
5

🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 01:09 PM
14

Yep. I’m fairly certain he had a personality disorder and probably also had a traumatic brain injury.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 01:02 PM
32

👸🏼 - Gail Dines 💩 - Nest Boy 🤡 - The writer that said “do the patriarchy to me” but admitted she never orgasmed with a man. 💪 - hmmm…? 🤔 💯 - “detty pigs” made me laugh so hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 12:41 PM
18

🏆Scrote of the Year🏆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 12:32 PM
6

It was so next level awful too because he was doing it in front of his parents when I was trapped at their house without a car. Uber wasn’t so prevalent then and if this situation happened again, I’d just leave without a word and embarrass him in front of his parents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 12:22 PM
3

I honestly don’t even fully know, I was so furious I think i partially blacked out. 🤣 I remember telling him: “you do know the “oppressor language” and my “mother tongue” are two different languages subject to different pronunciation rules, and mother tongue has couple extra letters in its alphabet? I cannot believe you would have the arrogance and audacity to correct on a culture I grew up in all my life when you have 2 college quarters of “knowledge”.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 12:19 PM
21

My ex didn’t realize a lot of cake frostings are made with shortening and was horrified! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 11:44 PM
116

The best example I have is when my shittiest ex argued with me on HOW MY LAST NAME IS PRONOUNCED! So, I have a very unusual ethnic last name that no one but members of my same ethnicity get correct. The ex had taken like 2 quarters of a language of the bordering country to my motherland (coincidentally OUR FUCKING OPPRESSORS THAT TRIED TO EXTERMINATE OUR LANGUAGE AND CULTURE!!!) and he thought that made him an expert in how my name was pronounced!!! To add to the horror and disrespect, he decide…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 11:30 PM
13

🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 08:13 PM
5

Yes, 🤡nEw ScHoOl!!🤡 = low effort and cheap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 05:47 PM
193

ITS ALL TRUE THOUGH!! They act like avoiding getting sexually used and avoiding men with untreated mental illness is a weird, subversive, or dangerous thing! They should change the name of the paper to The Daily Scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 03:01 PM
7

“I want to surprise you, so I need to get to the location first. So is it ok if I send you money for uber there and then I can either take you home or get you another Uber for the return trip?” See, it’s not that hard…. He’s an unchivalrous dumbass. I would have blocked at “I’m going to go new school”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 02:38 PM
4

Right, this sort of weak behavior is what killed my attraction for my ex. I guarantee that all these guys out there complaining about dead bedrooms are doing similar shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 02:10 PM
22

She’s also going to kill herself by creating a toxic gas after mixing all those cleaning products.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 02:04 PM
259

Bingo! He is worried that she will be perceived as “other” because she uses a special towel for her hair type. That man is trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 01:47 PM
226

It makes me crazy that if a woman is off her feet due to giving birth or a surgery, everyone scrambles to provide food and housekeeping for the man. When the roles are reversed, no one helps the woman. I remember being completely disgusted the first time I saw this play out. A friend of mine injured her back and her scrote husband did nothing for her. Instead she ended being mad at me for not running over there to nurse her. I was just so confused because she’s married, they live together, wtf i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 12:57 AM
84

Oh for sure, I agree, it’s socialized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 12:37 AM
13

CONGRATS! 🍾🎊🎈 This is going to be so good for you! You’re going to grow by leaps and bounds without that dead weight!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 12:14 AM
303

Women are more resilient and emotionally intelligent, period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 12:11 AM
17

It’s such bullshit because these guys probably still expect women to work full time and pay 50/50. You don’t get to have it both way, boys. If we’re bread winners, then we’re not going to play “haus frau” bang maid while you fart on the couch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 08:26 PM
46

Sociopaths enjoy “duper’s delight”. They get pleasure from fooling people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 06:46 AM
26

I have a rule: if I feel like an option, rather than a priority then I’m out. Did you feel courted, wooed, or impressed? This is the beginning of the relationship, it’s not going to improve. I think you absolutely did the right thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 08:05 PM
16

Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 06:03 PM
33

His Dick isn’t sick! 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 11:56 PM
127

Fake beard scraped together from pubic hair cuttings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 09:09 PM
9

He ain’t the smartest, but he’s….. Actually, he ain’t shit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 09:07 PM
214

I love it when middle aged men roll up to the scene like “GREETINGS! WHO DOTH DESIRE TO RIDE MY AGED UNDERSIZED PEEN?!”, like there’s going to be some magical pussy buffet just waiting to have a chance. But what actually happens is: 🦗🦗…🦗🦗…🦗🦗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 09:03 PM
28

Exactly. I came here to say that it’s triangulation, as well. To me it’s no different than him flirting with the waitress at a dinner date. He’s introducing a person into your relationship dynamic to be competition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 04:59 PM
16

“Detty Peegs” 🤣👏 I love it! Is your Mom, Caribbean or African?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 04:42 PM
47

His “Real Doll” or the girls in the Japanese Hentai porn he masturbates with don’t have tear ducts!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 02:12 PM
48

There’s a special place in hell for people who break vows and abandon a sick woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 08:57 PM
49

This is what always shocked me - the game playing. I don’t know how men can be so selfish, cruel, and mercenary. I could never do that to someone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 08:20 PM
20

Right, what a creep!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 08:06 PM
120

Yes. If they really like you they will wait as long as it takes. My longest relationship was with the man I waited the longest to have sex with. He didn’t work out for other reasons but he had no problem waiting for sex and was visibly grateful to even have to opportunity to possibly have sex with me. If a guy likes you, he will try his hardest to make you happy so you’ll consider sleeping with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 08:05 PM
67

The ex is probably something totally benign like a cocktail waitress. He’s full of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 07:47 PM
6

If it’s PURPLE, you need a doctor! 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 08:34 PM
61

Yep! A Wife-Appliance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 01:19 AM
42

What a fucked up, selfcentered man. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 01:18 AM
22

P R E A C H!!! 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 12:23 AM
78

ThE sPaRk WaS gOnE! 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 12:12 AM
10

Yeah, it’s oversharing, which at the very least is a red flag on its own but I agree that it’s more likely him laying the groundwork for a future manipulation technique.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 10:16 PM
278

I’d stop and get a coffee then pedal home on my own. He can get a preview of being single parent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 09:52 PM
43

I miss Fine AF Fridays.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 10:51 PM
46

Is it just me or are these TikTok filters getting weirder and weirder?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 10:41 PM
1

No doubt…so closeted!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 03:16 PM
3

If she was 18 I’d think ok, she’s young and clueless but she’s gotta be like 40 right? She needs a psychologist. I looked at some of her other videos and she just has this frenetic, desperate energy. Not healthy at all…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 03:10 PM
6

So, Words With Friends is actually a known hunting ground that cheaters use for finding affair partners, too. It’s up there with a middle aged man using snap chat or kik. It looks innocuous and innocent for a guy to be playing online Scrabble for hours, so his wife often doesn’t catch on. A friend of mine discovered several of her husband’s affairs were started in this app. And several folks in an infidelity forum reported the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 02:58 PM
59

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGHHHH! I’m just screaming into the void with pure horror.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 02:46 PM
415

That toilet! OMG! She needs to have some self respect and gtfo!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 07:33 AM
1

🤣👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 10:54 PM
3

Lol. Of course…classic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 10:31 PM
2

They sound like a pair of over the hill black out drunks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 04:19 PM
13

Should we place bets on if he was suspended for alcoholism or domestic violence?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 04:18 PM
9

Oh you beat me to this comment. 🤣👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 04:15 PM
6

You forgot to put an extra red flag after “police officer”. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 04:15 PM
8

🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 03:52 PM
95

Right?! Like, mate, your sexual attraction and $5 will get me a Starbucks. Their opinions are so meaningless!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 04:53 AM
46

Some of them won’t even wash their bortholes! 🍑🛀🧼🧽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 10:39 PM
32

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 03:23 PM
29

It was pretty funny when she stood there in her thong swim suit and was like: Ok heading to work! (I assume she’s doing promo work/booth babe stuff in Vegas). Then when he realized she was doing fine and moving on, he talked to his mommy and suddenly wanted to CoMmUnIcAtE and work things out!!! She was like: “Nah, bitch, I’m seeing a gym guy now!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 12:41 AM
19

Right?! Wtf…embarrassing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 09:08 PM
36

Also, the egg does not travel to the sperm!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 09:06 PM
32

Tell me you’re desperate without telling me. 🙄🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 09:04 PM
7

Ooh! Yes! Message her on Instagram
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 05:45 PM
3

Oh god! I forgot that was the scrote she married! What a shame!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 05:40 PM
88

I hope people responded and told him “maybe you’re just a gross creep?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 04:31 AM
98

Right? It’s not a power move, it quite literally stalking. What is wrong with these incels?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 04:29 AM
16

I think she does an excellent job of explaining the societal fuckery associated with how people treat single women. I’m glad you’re getting value from listening to it. I did too. Felt like: Ah ha! Someone finally gets it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 01:41 AM
64

Oh shit. Multilayered cringe and racism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 05:20 PM
63

What a sociopath! That’s disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 05:18 PM
20

Nasty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 05:14 PM
38

Amen. Don’t make it easy for inferior men to have access to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 05:13 PM
17

This!!! I was totally picturing him waiting on the trail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 03:15 PM
2

🤣👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 01:30 AM
96

Umm…does she even know that he’s not already married?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 11:08 PM
67

He should be threatened by Legolas. Legolas is fine. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 04:38 AM
74

He should be threatened. Those men were fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 04:37 AM
33

Me zooming in on the photo to get a good look at this clown: 🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 04:31 AM
31

This is a pretty solid theory. Young women are less likely to ask a lot of questions or press for commitment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 09:52 PM
16

Ugh!!! So manipulative!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 09:46 PM
27

Who do you think was the one who initially referenced Bacall and Bogart? I’m sure the 20 yr old gf pulled that reference out of thin air. What a groomer…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 09:39 PM
183

Oh that’s deliberate humiliation. This guy is a raging narcissist that gets off on humiliating his partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 09:23 PM
22

Viva la Revolución!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 06:50 PM
17

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 02:48 PM
3

🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 03:37 AM
40

I’d abandon my drink!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 01:57 AM
57

Right? I can’t even imagine dating a 20 year old man. Age gap relationships are absurd!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 01:55 AM
172

Right? I can’t even imagine dating a 20 year old man. Age gap relationships are absurd!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 01:55 AM
32

I was so shocked that I don’t think the significance of what he did totally dawned on me until the next day. I was pretty freaked out at the time. After I processed the event, my disgust started to grow and it was really hard to even be intimate with him. It was pre FDS so it was a little while and more scrotery before I left him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 12:04 AM
37

It really pisses me off that women’s hobbies are demeaned like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 11:24 PM
40

So gross, right? Juvenile!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 10:47 PM
73

When ex tried to physically hide behind me when we (mistakenly) thought our house was being broken into. 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 07:49 PM
21

Total sociopath
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 07:38 PM
19

I just think there needs to be more public shaming for this behavior. Regardless of their age, if the mom is still alive, I’m sending the pic. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 07:32 PM
18

FIND HIS MOM ON FACEBOOK. 😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 07:18 PM
22

Medical photos of diphalia have been my go to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 07:18 PM
26

🤡 i’Ve BeEn HaCkEd!!!1!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 07:17 PM
111

Yeah, that reads to me as: “Not picky! Totally open to getting my dick wet with whomever!” I agree, very off-putting. He’s not mature or ready for anything serious.
/r/askFDS01/11/21 08:34 PM
2

Lmao!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 06:33 PM
57

Agreed. It’s so demented.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 04:20 PM
46

Chanel #2 🤣💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 02:02 PM
3

Omg dying 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 01:42 AM
13

It’s just so embarrassing and juvenile. How could we ever take them around our friends?! What if you’re invited to a dinner party? They’ll just humiliate you and make you look unsophisticated by association.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 01:41 AM
31

Omg! I saw your post after I made mine. JINX! 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 07:47 PM
61

Yes! I also feel like people who are that picky and boring about their food will be terrible in bed. I think it indicates a lack of sensuality, inventiveness, and joy for life. I love Indian food so much and love trying different cuisines and cooking, too! I went on one date with a picky eater who would ONLY eat 2 things: pepperoni pizza and hamburgers. It was so disappointing and limiting. Ghosted him after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 07:46 PM
94

😂👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 10:44 PM
34

It’s probably a reference to self-fellating 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 09:46 PM
432

I know a guy that has “EVIL” tattooed on his penis. I think that counts…🤡🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 09:44 PM
63

I found Midsomar to be very satisfying. Especially the ending. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 08:46 PM
20

No, they don’t reform themselves at all. When I confronted him over his lies, my ex said some really terrible shit to try to hurt me and belittle me. Now logically there was no reason for him to say these things because it was already decided that we were parting ways due to him seeing someone behind my back, so why attempt to harm someone you supposedly don’t even want anymore. Healthy people just move on not try to dismantle and crush the other party. Likewise, whatever your ex is saying about…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 08:42 PM
51

Hey! I stayed with my parents for 6months in my 30’s and I’m definitely in a much better situation now. I left an emotionally (and possibly financially) abusive age gap relationship with a massive power imbalance and it was the best thing I ever did! I now own my own home and business and have everything I used to have and more, but it is scrote-free! In contrast, after I left, my ex married an alcoholic who has sex with his neighbors in bathrooms at neighborhood parties. No joke… Just focus on …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 08:23 PM
3

I feel like that whole scenario is a pretty good indicator of a personality disorder. You know he totally had “Duper’s Delight” over fucking her over on the bill. Very narcissistic actions…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 06:04 PM
5

“She’s a goldigger! She played me! What a bitch!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 05:53 PM
3

I think his reply hit the nail on the head. He feels in adequate because he IS inadequate and that is why he’s into BDSM. He has to make his partner lesser so his pp can get hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 03:05 PM
4

This stupid guy I knew was way into the Burning Man scene. He had just got back from one of their events and was gushing about how great it was. I thought maybe I was being prejudiced because I always thought BM (what an appropriate and unfortunate abbreviation) looked so gross and dorky, so I took a peak into one of their forums. First post was a vigorous and lengthy discussion about Giardia, rimming, and how a whole swath of attendees caught it at the last event. I noped out of there so fast!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 03:02 PM
2

Ancient parrot wine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 04:41 AM
1

I couldn’t stop laughing at “ancient parrot”. I had to go get a cough drop. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 04:40 AM
3

The Asian guy who’s voice got all high pitched…. 🤣👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 04:20 AM
1

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 04:17 AM
3

Wake up OP….you’re his servant, not his partner!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 03:49 AM
3

I had a male acquaintance ask me for my opinion on his engagement ring spat with his girlfriend. He’s an out of shape, pornsick, pockmarked, washed up mess in his 50’s. They had an age gap relationship and he was too stupid to realize that their bargain was to be: he provides and she receives while continuing to be cuter and younger than him. He really thought he could 50/50 a relationship with a woman 15+ years younger than him but the kicker came when they were shopping for engagement rings. H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 03:44 AM
2

I had a male acquaintance ask me for my opinion on his engagement ring spat with his girlfriend. He’s an out of shape, pornsick, pockmarked, washed up mess in his 50’s. They had an age gap relationship and he was too stupid to realize that their bargain was to be: he provides and she receives while continuing to be cuter and younger than him. He really thought he could 50/50 a relationship with a woman 15+ years younger than him but the kicker came when they were shopping for engagement rings. H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 03:44 AM
1

This elderly lady I used to work with became a victim of this. No matter what we said, she was convinced all these military men wanted to “court” her. She had married a LVM 20 years ago and he finally died and she thought this was now her time to sow her oats at 70 years old. It was pretty sad and delusional. She wasted years on a LVM and her life passed her by.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 02:04 AM
20

Which bedroom does the wife’s side piece sleep in? Oh he doesn’t live with them?! Oh okaaay…sure, you’re polygamous…sure…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 10:48 PM
19

I was hoping her dog was going to bite him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 09:51 PM
58

I wouldn’t advise this. My friend was sexually assaulted on a public bus when she pretended to not speak English. Her attacker assumed she would not be able to make a police report.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 09:48 PM
5

I hope she got his license plate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 09:46 PM
50

Ohhhh…here I was thinking he was producing porn or something. Nope, just consuming 4 hrs of it every other day. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 05:39 PM
1

Yeah I just can’t…😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 05:03 PM
101

I’ve seen this post a few times but the thing that really lingers with me is: it would be a cold day in hell before I bought a grown man a video game as a random surprise present. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 02:43 PM
64

They top out at 3% max
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 02:26 AM
126

This is exactly what’s happening. He’s devaluing her. Next up is the discard. I’d bet money he already has her replacement picked out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 01:58 AM
4

I had to change my phone number to get rid of one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 04:13 AM
7

What a sociopath!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 04:08 AM
6

At 10:28am no one wants to read that bs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 03:44 AM
26

Strongly agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 02:15 AM
3

Eeew! What a child!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 11:21 PM
57

This shit right here is why women ghost men. It’s not worth dealing with the tantrums.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 03:59 AM
41

It doesn’t even make sense in that context!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 03:53 AM
23

Don’t date men who can’t use magnanimous correctly in a sentence. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 03:52 AM
164

I think LVM do it deliberately. My ex was like this about flowers on Valentine’s Day. He knew I wanted them so he wouldn’t go get them unprompted. It’s some sort of shitty power game. I don’t get it, it’s mentally ill and sad, but a LOT of them do this. Also! Try to find out if your community has a plant swap because I got thousands of dollars worth of free plants this way for my yard and house. Just a tip…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 11:30 PM
5

She saves lives. No joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 02:54 PM
50

That’s what I couldn’t get over especially when they showed their photos side by side. I mean come on!!! He looks like her dad or grandad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 11:53 PM
8

🤣👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 10:55 PM
4

100%! 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 10:44 PM
26

🤣👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 10:32 PM
21

I remember thinking: “Oh he probably found someone more like him or his ex wife. “ I assumed he found someone really smart and science oriented who worked in his field and also maybe had a PhD. Nope not even close! They cheat with LVW because it makes them feel smart by comparison. Someone with barely 2 brain cells to rub together makes them feel godlike. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 06:11 PM
68

They always cheat down, too! The affair partner is always a hot mess. The woman my ex cheated on me with (and then married) is a fall down drunk. I found out from multiple people that they went to a party together and she ended up fucking their promiscuous neighbor in the bathroom at the party and someone opened the door on them mid-thrust. 🤣🤣🤣 It’s so gratifying to know they screwed up. 😂🙌 Also, I think maybe Chump Lady said this? Being The Other Woman is essentially sucking the cock of the Pat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 03:12 PM
162

🤡: I live in my van
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 03:12 AM
78

Yeah agreed. I don’t use OLD. But the strategy can be applied to any conversation. 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 07:02 PM
59

It sounds crazy, but honestly it might work. Lol! Yeah if he lives at home, his mom definitely has control over his cell usage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 06:27 PM
241

Ask his mom to tell him to delete them. 🤣💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 06:19 PM
4

Accurate 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 05:17 PM
3

🤣🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 05:07 PM
5

I love yours too! We should write a post about losers you will encounter in the goth scene. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 04:59 PM
58

Gary needs a trip to the woods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 04:57 PM
3

Ooooh! I received that one too! I had just met him and quickly sussed out that he was a huge loser. Had to block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 04:56 PM
31

Oh yes. They all think he’s a joke. Sadly, he owes one guy $8000 in back pay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 04:37 PM
44

Yeah I ran into one of his former employees and they gleefully told me this gem. We laughed long and hard. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 04:32 PM
69

Yes, last I heard that was his most recent project. 🤣 He’s a lot older than me and when he completed his PHd he was offered six figure salaries from several companies, fresh out of school. So this was crazy money at that time but he decided to make a bunch of failure companies instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 04:28 PM
115

Oh! Before FDS, I dated Dr Hobo, too! Instead of using his microbiology degree from MIT, he created StArTuPs! 🤡 One of them involved shaking the patient to assess their fragile medical condition. What could possibly go wrong?! 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 04:10 PM
27

🤡: MuH LeGaCy!!!!1!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 03:28 PM
97

He’s rolling up on 50 years old and suddenly wants to get married. Uh huh….shocker!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 02:24 AM
45

This is small dick energy. He half assed and ruined a “proposal” to you because he was scared of being rejected in person. Now he’s pouting. You should dump him because this won’t get any better. He has zero empathy, respect for your boundaries, or conflict resolution skills. He’s too immature to marry. You were given a gift by being able to see his true self. Run!
/r/askFDS18/10/21 07:30 PM
9

Yuuuup! Been there, won’t do it again. I wish I could warn her…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 05:40 PM
106

That’s next after the walk date. You’ll be hungry so he’ll offer you improperly cooked pasta with ketchup on it. And a side of PeNiS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 03:03 PM
294

Lmao! I feel you. They are devious! I just can’t believe the Machiavellian bullshit men will do to save $50.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 01:30 PM
11

He IS! I had not seen him in maybe 5 years? And he’s now grey and thinning! He’s at least 50 and she’s about 30 I guess. 🤣🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 01:22 PM
13

Lol! I knew them through a music scene. I pretty much stopped going to all the events for that scene because so many of the people had such terrible character. But you’re right it’s appalling. Peepaw has a respectable career, investments, and real estate holdings, so it’s even more of a head scratcher that he’s such a Peter Pan in his personal life. Analyzing our couple of dates in hind sight, after learning FDS, though he has his career and financial life in order, he had many LV traits. He had…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 01:13 PM
143

I don’t think men need sex to feel emotionally attached. I think the opposite, in fact, if you have sex too soon with them they are unable to form attachment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 12:41 PM
1211

Oh ha ha! The old “there’s no available tables” so we’ll just have to walk around the park with coffee in paper cups game! 🤣 I’m so glad we all compare notes on these scammers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 11:22 AM
57

This is some Black Mirror shit! Now the victim has to worry about those videos being uploaded online. Disturbing! If you have the means to call for help and you don’t, then there should be charges filed on the bystanders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 02:26 AM
9

That’s some serial killer behavior. If he doesn’t already have a record for violence, I bet he escalates his assaults soon. Definitely file a police report!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 02:17 AM
67

Yeah it’s really messed up because basically, that means he’s been grooming her since she was 20 or so. And I’m sure her name is not on the deed of their home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 01:59 AM
34

🤣 I’ll update if I learn more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 01:56 AM
109

Exactly. Peepaw was well known for his commitment phobia. He famously dicked around this Queen I knew for 10 years. By the time he asked me out, it had been years so I had assumed he’d grown up a bit. Nope! He was hyperventilating and sweating after 4 casual dates with me. 🙄 And now he’s doing the same 10 year fuckery game plan with LBSW that he did with the original Queen. So pathetic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 12:12 AM
42

I’m so sick of these cake eating men! I’m glad you sent him on his way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 11:52 PM
3

That’s the vibe I was getting too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 11:43 PM
124

Thanks! It never really occurred to me how useful pickme interaction could be in situation where you’re getting acquainted with someone new until I experienced this. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 11:23 PM
40

I did too! I took a photo on my own fucking street on my way home at night and this guy freaked out and chased me down into my yard! Doing that “EXCUSE ME! EXCUSE ME!” shit! It was so fucked up! I was extra worried because it was in the middle of the Black Lives Matter protests (the cops are extra racist shitheads in my city) and the likelihood of me getting help from 911 in time wasn’t likely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 08:43 PM
55

What were the crimes?!? 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 08:37 PM
1

Sadly, age doesn’t come with maturity and age gap relationships are fraught with tons of problems. Pre-FDS, I dated a man 15 years older than me and he was by far the worst man I ever dated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 06:18 PM
573

The fucking entitlement in his voice as he yells at her through the door. 🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 05:22 PM
24

I’d love it if they tried it on me. I’d laugh hysterically and then put my clothes back on and leave mid-act.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 03:02 PM
48

Omg. You’re right. It is a street pimp thing! I could see someone writing a thesis on the origins of negging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 03:00 PM
7

I’m sorry you feel that way, but I’m not attacking you. This is just real talk. I’m being blunt because I think you need to examine the path you’re on. I think you need to do some work examining your values and boundaries, and reread the handbook. What does FDS say to do with LVM? Block and delete. If you have to interact with them in an academic setting, be cordial but nothing more. Option A is the equivalent of going full paragraph in text to a LVM. He doesn’t give a shit, and it’s not going t…
/r/askFDS16/10/21 03:34 AM
117

For sure. Most men are completely mercenary about pursuing their own self interest. 9 times out of 10 they choose the most financially advantageous match. You know, in other words, they are actually the gold diggers they accuse women of being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 10:25 PM
59

Low key tries to “devil’s advocate” that marriage is just a socially acceptable form of prostitution. Doesn’t do his equal share of the housework. Especially key on occasions where you’re getting ready for company, assumes it all your responsibility. Will play on his computer while you scrub toilets, vacuum, and prepare food. Thinks women should be able to and are obligated walk miles in stilettos. And if you refuse to, you’re a defective woman. Disrespects service workers- even hair stylists an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 05:55 PM
22

Your mistake isn’t that you were too friendly. Your mistake is that you’ve allowed your morality to become flexible. You realized letting them copy was the wrong thing to do but instead of stopping and cutting them off completely, you doubled down and did another unethical thing. You really need to stop and decide what kind of person you want to become, because all this cheating and associating with LVM is writing your future.
/r/askFDS15/10/21 03:28 PM
12

They only start off nice…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 01:36 AM
47

I’d be tempted to do a Google reverse image search on a couple of his photos. I knew a guy that had two very well developed FB profiles and is married with 3 kids
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 10:47 PM
19

20…oh no…not acceptable. He’s about to get schooled when everyone keeps dumping him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 03:00 PM
41

This. Adults who sleep together fuck. I bet he’s sleeping in her bed and not the couch! So sketchy and pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 02:42 PM
30

Sleepovers?!? How old is he?! I haven’t had a sleepover since I was in junior high school! He’s suspicious af! You made the right choice. He’s too enmeshed with these 2 women! Stay firm for when he inevitably comes crawling back to you. This is not healthy behavior for a grown man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 02:28 PM
5

She nearly died twice and this trash man can’t even be assed to marry her. The fact he didn’t get the vasectomy immediately after the first pregnancy tells you all you need to know about his character.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/21 03:22 PM
11

The sub is what you make it. Contribute the kind of content you want to see. It takes a long time to write a strategy post so not many people do it. I’ve had an idea for a post for a while and just have not had a large block of time to sit and write. But I think it’s also wrong for anyone to expect a stream of inspired, brilliant strategy content to materialize for free. Be the change you want to see instead of passively complaining and waiting for other people to do the work. I also don’t think…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 04:24 PM
17

Pass. He’s not interested in you as a person. A man saying he wants something casual means sex without obligations. Him contacting you out of the blue just as quarantine is lifted really underscores this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 03:33 PM
19

Exactly. She’s in the same boat as Ghislaine Maxwell. She’s contributing to other women’s oppression in exchange for a profit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 03:36 AM
26

😡SO VERY HAPPY!!!😡 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 02:27 AM
15

Diabolical Geriatric Scrote: “I have no idea why my ex wife won’t speak to me!!! It’s a mystery, wrapped in a riddle, covered with an enigma!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 02:09 AM
7

I hope he has an “accident” and she gets all his money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 02:07 AM
12

Eeeeeewwwww!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 07:12 PM
6

I’m putting down insect repellent and rat poison literally and figuratively 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 05:53 PM
3

How interesting! I had no idea! The book really is a portrait of a marriage to a narcissist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 05:52 PM
46

I can’t tolerate listening to her speak. She talks in circles and is just so pathetic. She needs to get an education.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 05:45 PM
138

She’s so dim. This episode doesn’t touch on half of the vile things that must go on. Her explaining the “dark side” starts at about 12 minute mark. Save yourself listening to her circular blathering and skip ahead. This whole video is click bait though, plenty of horrific things go on at fancier looking clubs. Also, she obviously hasn’t connected the dots that the 30-40 yr old woman she so deeply pitied at the bottom rung club is just a reflection of her future self and what she has to look forw…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 05:43 PM
60

He probably rented her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 12:42 PM
18

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 02:00 AM
131

I was trying to pin down what that haircut is and you nailed it. It’s The Rachel. 🤣💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 11:47 PM
17

Or “Jack off” 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 08:48 PM
17

I’m fond of saying “I can’t find anyone who can keep up with me!” and shrug. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 02:59 PM
11

Lmao!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 02:55 PM
9

😂👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 02:50 PM
20

She needs to talk to a lawyer and the FBI ASAP! She needs to strike quickly and without warning. It’s imperative she gets as much proof as possible so he will go to jail and won’t be around her daughter. I guarantee there’s CP on his devices. If she gives him time to cover his tracks, she’ll be negotiating custody with a predator!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 02:19 PM
37

Not only loud enough to hear and record it, but loud enough for the employer to recognize his voice. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 01:48 AM
15

Two dollah! 🤣👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 01:40 AM
50

No one reads Jezebel anymore. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 01:35 AM
83

This person needs psychological help. They are very sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 01:33 AM
8

I hate these guys that hang on to their wives like security blankets but want sling their dick all around town. Just go be single and stop wasting your wife’s life. Let her go find someone kind and good who won’t always be searching for something “better”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 04:55 PM
1

I get why you thought that from their convo. It could be easily misconstrued. It’s just a whole ‘nother layer of depravity that he’s bothering a chick that just wants to make fun costumes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:46 PM
4

Did you see that she had the audacity to cosplay as the candelabra from Beauty and the Beast?!?! THAT JEZEBEL!!!! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:43 PM
1

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:03 PM
2

Accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:39 PM
12

Oooooh….Lord Farquad…I’m getting tingles! How erotic! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:36 PM
41

“Can’t host because I live in my mom’s basement!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:22 PM
23

Or compulsive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:21 PM
85

Wtf. She’s a cosplayer. She just has a nice figure, her pics aren’t even explicit. What is wrong with men?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:06 PM
3

I think some men with hold whatever it is that they know you want most. My shittiest Ex did this. I found out from a neighbor that after my moving truck and I pulled away from the house we lived in together, he immediately greeted the other woman at our front door with a (shitty $10 grocery store) bouquet. He would always act put upon if I told him I wanted a bouquet for Valentine’s Day. It’s some sort of sick psychological game they play.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 12:51 AM
44

LOL! Advice from a pornographer! Because women in porn are known for their healthy boundaries and relationships! Wtf indeed…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 12:01 AM
95

I think my head exploded when I read the line where you said you had a second child with this man. I’m really concerned that you are just now “thinking” about getting divorced from him. This is not a dress rehearsal. “You get what anyone gets, you get a lifetime.” Time is precious, leave this mooch of a man and begin to really live! Talk to a lawyer ASAP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 11:54 PM
51

I had a similar experience a few years ago with a narcissistic man who deliberately flirted with a waitress to try to make me jealous. I decided a while back that if anything remotely similar ever happens, I’m going to excuse myself to the bathroom and order a Lyft, wait in the bathroom until the ride arrives, and then just walk past my date and into the Lyft without a word. These scrotes know exactly what they are doing. You’d be better off having your Lyft driver go through a food drive throug…
/r/askFDS03/10/21 02:11 AM
5

Girl!!! I got hit on with PINK EYE in a CVS while picking up my antibiotics. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 01:59 AM
15

Right?! There’s no excuse of “we met online and aren’t sure if we can make conversation, so we better make it a casual coffee date”. They are just always trying to see how little they can offer for the highest return! Gross!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 01:57 AM
61

The Adidas… chef’s kiss 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 01:41 AM
18

😂🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 02:57 PM
32

So weird and cheap sounding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 02:10 PM
44

What a story to tell your children! 😍😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 02:09 PM
66

🤡: “See! It still works!!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 04:11 AM
240

You know he angrily masturbates like that too 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 04:07 AM
9

Electra Complex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 04:03 AM
37

He REALLY looks like her father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 04:01 AM
63

She’s not stupid, she’s abused and gaslit. This is an enormous age difference and so it’s no wonder this happened. Not her fault!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 03:57 AM
59

This! There’s a couple men in my neighborhood who are totally pissed and jealous that I have better tools than them. The reason why is: I actually DO home renovation work instead of talking out of my ass and just sitting on the couch growing bloated. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 03:51 AM
82

You’re right, don’t really do this. I just fantasize about saying it. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 06:32 PM
568

👨: What’s your favorite podcast? 👩: Female Dating Strategy 👨: ………………………. 🤣🤣🤣 Edit: Don’t do this in real life. Don’t tip your hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 05:13 PM
37

It’s pretty sad but staying home and ordering a pizza is a better option than dating most men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 02:53 PM
17

This is what you get from generations of women getting married too young. Brainwashed, self harming serfs. She’s been so gaslit from youth that she can’t even see what the appropriate action is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 10:06 PM
70

I saw a tv show once where this Slavic woman ran a masterful game on one of these wife-buying scrotes. He imported her for a fee and she played nice doggy for the required time and then promptly divorced him taking a chunk of his resources and started a new life. He was gobsmacked she would leave him. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 04:22 PM
62

Yes! “Born Sexy Yesterday “
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 03:18 PM
152

I want her to be 5’1” and 50 pounds with G cups and a fat ass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 01:54 PM
129

I wish more women would start ghosting men the minute they get a gross comment like this. No asking him what he means, no cute emojis, no “lol”….just complete silence permanently. This is the only way we’re going to get things to change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 01:51 PM
14

Right?! Do indigenous practitioners even partake of it that frequently?! Folks I know who have partaken of it in a ritual context in Peru said it was extremely grueling, not a fun or superficial thing to undergo lightly or impulsively.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 03:53 PM
182

Ok, I’m glad I’m not the only one who was like: 140…whaaaat?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 02:12 PM
16

Holy shit that is terrifying! Sociopathic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 05:21 AM
52

She really buried the lede with that one. 🤣🤣🤣 1) What’s the statute of limitations on that? Can we still report him for animal abuse? 2) Does he know Nest Man or Slug Guy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 05:03 AM
79

That room looks dingy af. Maybe spend a couple stacks, Kevin?😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 04:32 AM
42

I’ll wait for my dream.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 04:25 AM
13

“She’s begging for my 3 inches!” 🤏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 06:01 PM
12

Then angels trumpeted and cotton candy and juju bees fell from the sky! 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 05:59 PM
10

This is not a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 05:55 PM
25

May forever gf pack her bags and may 25F bleed him dry. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 04:35 PM
8

Oh noooo…he’s definitely downloading illegal content.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 06:23 PM
4

You’re describing my ex best friend. Her husband basically worked her up into hysterics over getting vaccinated. She called me crying uncontrollably on the morning of her vaccination appointment because he made her doubt her decision. I told her to talk to her dr about the facts of getting vaccinated instead of listening to her conspiracy theorist husband with a fine art degree. Have your friend talk to a dr who will impress upon her the necessity of getting vaccinated. Tell her you’ll help her …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 05:11 PM
21

Yeah I hope she gets a forensic accountant involved too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 04:26 PM
8

Wtf is privacy dot com. I’m too afraid to Google it! 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 04:24 PM
20

Fuck yeah. I have never had sex without one, ever. You can’t trust men not to cheat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 06:22 PM
1

Yeah he exudes trash scrote vibes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 04:54 PM
32

Or it’s chronic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 04:36 PM
209

My first thought is she already has an STD and is using the condoms to prevent passing it to him. But I’m kind of jaded… 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 04:17 PM
10

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 04:07 PM
29

If he can’t even provide a dinner once a week, why would we waste our time with them? It means he doesn’t have his shit together or he’s a cheap ass. I hoped she dumped him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 04:04 PM
141

He sounds like a 65 year old serial killer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:28 PM
16

Too funny! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 09:47 PM
4

Vive la révolution! 🩳🔥✊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 12:38 PM
2

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 12:36 PM
51

So many men are super irresponsible too! I’m not trying to expose myself to whatever stupid choices they made. I know I’m being careful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 04:35 AM
240

Go on, Pickmeisha, snuggle his ball sweat rags til your heart’s content! Personally, I’d be setting a pair of his manties on fire each day til he had no underwear left and he’d have no one to ask where his underwear was because I’d already be moved out. The only sign I was ever there would be the divorce paperwork in his underwear drawer and the boxer ashes in the fireplace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 02:22 AM
16

Amen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 02:18 AM
259

I feel you. My friend was asking me if I was dating anyone right now and not even discounting the risk associated with pandemic dating, I just have not seen a single man I’m attracted to for more than a year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 02:16 AM
-2

Right? Who knows…could be scrotes, could be folks with poor reading comprehension. But I do think if one has everyone’s attention, and has the emotional bandwidth, a lot of good could be done by calling attention to specific cases that are not getting the attention. I’ve dealt with the murder of someone close to me so I know it’s an earth-shattering experience. But I think if gaby’s family was looking for a way to do something in her memory, trying to raise funding and equal time to all missing …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 04:17 AM
79

Yeah, isn’t that lovely for him? He gets to have 2 women desperately “pickme dance” for him for a full year!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:41 AM
61

There’s a historical fashion group I’m in where the male members kept doing this on both female member’s photos and antique photos of now long dead women. It got quite nasty when they started saying the women in the antique photos were “real women” and “what a woman should look like”. So demented… The male mod in that group is really excellent about putting the ban hammer on those sort of creeps though, thankfully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:20 AM
3

This!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 08:05 PM
3

Yep! That’s the crux of the situation exactly. He’s “apologizing” because he’s been ostracized and need her to let him back in the social circle and normalize his pedophilia. I’m so glad OP isn’t budging!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 08:03 PM
-12

I know it’s a big ask and they are positively reeling in pain right now, but it would be so powerful, such an act of supreme love , and a tribute to their daughter if Gabby Pepito’s family could use the spotlight they are currently in to draw attention to POC missing persons now that Gabby has been found.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 06:29 PM
28

😫😫😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 06:18 PM
14

If he’s a terrible kisser, dump him. If he’s not concerned about your general comfort or is inattentive, dump him. Pay attention how he acts if you are wearing heels and walking or if it is raining out. What does he do? Does he offer his arm and an umbrella, or to go get the car? Or is he 20 ft ahead of you down the street. These are all signs he’s clueless and/or selfish which are terrible traits for a sexual partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 05:54 PM
6

Yep. It’s like they are never satisfied. No one will ever be enough because they have not healed themselves from whatever insecurity they harbor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 05:50 PM
3

For sure! The thwarted entitlement gets extremely ugly! They say “hell hath no fury like a woman scorned”…actually men are way worse!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 05:46 PM
5

Why waste time on him? Block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 01:47 PM
49

I would recommend picking a partner with some experience. Because honestly, I really wouldn’t want my first time to be with a guy that doesn’t know how to handle his equipment. Contrary to what a lot of men think, there is an art to sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 08:45 PM
3

That’s vile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:37 PM
267

Yup! And imagine…she let this guy move into her home, gave him a meaningful first sexual experience and he looked at her like she was a side dish at a buffet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:36 PM
55

Yes, big Quentin Tarantino vibes. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:33 PM
620

I had a pickme friend who dated a male virgin. She ended up being his first but when she found out he cheated on her, he told her: “I’m just not done sampling from the pussy snack bar of life! I want to try Black pussy, Chinese pussy, Latina pussy… “ I would advise women to never invest their feelings with an inexperienced, unattractive, or late bloomer man. They are always trying to compensate for their disappointing younger years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 03:48 PM
34

They seem really mismatched. He looks like a serial killer and she looks like a nice, fun lady.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 11:49 PM
70

Right?! Whats next!?! A laundry date, a paying bills date, or a dental cleaning date?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 11:48 PM
82

That’s what I’d do. If she has his log in credentials, I’d transfer $3000 and then use it to go get a divorce attorney. So many men just regard their wives as a resource they can tap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 10:29 PM
10

Yep he wanted a pickme dance off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 03:20 PM
6

Excellent!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 03:31 PM
2

Tell everyone! Every single person in your social circle needs to know about the disgusting thoughts in his brain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 03:29 PM
5

Sure, as soon as folks stop calling women cts and sts, we’ll stop using scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 03:24 PM
3

That’s really icky. I’d get really loud and say ( preferably in front of others) “WHY ARE YOU SO OBSESSED WITH MY SEX LIFE?!? THAT’S UNHEALTHY! YOU NEED TO STOP!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 08:05 PM
65

Honestly, I’ve never met a well adjusted man who was into “van life”. It’s so clear she was abused by the way she kept apologizing for stuff that isn’t even anything to be sorry for. You can tell he browbeat her for basically existing. Like OCD isn’t anything to apologize for, it’s just a condition. It’s not like she has OCD on purpose. SMH. Sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 09:13 PM
140

Oh nasty! What, you didn’t want to be his “nurse with a purse” and change his diapers in elder years and pay all his bills?! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 06:08 PM
83

Yeah it’s so grotesque. I would bet they had a fight due to being stuck in a tiny van with each other too long, she told him to fuck off and get out because it’s her van and he freaked out and killed her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 02:35 PM
150

Oh wow! Big spender! So like $5-10 at the good Japanese tea spot? In exchange for 2 hours of free psychological counseling by you that would be worth hundreds if he hired a professional. I’d be blunt and tell him “You need a psychologist not a friend.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 02:21 PM
583

Oh and the cherry on top of this horrific tragedy?! He drove home in the van that SHE owned!!! It’s not even his vehicle!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 05:30 AM
10

That guy was either wearing or jerking off in that bikini…or both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 12:51 AM
39

Vivid description! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 12:47 AM
19

This is the most demented and mentally sick thing I’ve seen all day. Clearly her parents are complicit in her self harm because they are so obsessed with being the “cool parents”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 12:44 AM
15

Omg…fucking Bradley!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 12:12 AM
54

Girl, she’s depressed BECAUSE she was dating a NVM. Things should improve from here on out. He should have been dumped the minute she read he was trying to find her replacement. No human should be used a placeholder. That’s awful, he’s awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 02:54 PM
17

I love doing this too! Whenever I travel I try to visit one in the area.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 06:57 PM
35

“I talked to my other loser friends and they think it’s crazy that you’re not accepting my loser behavior!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 02:02 AM
26

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 02:00 AM
39

1) See a doctor at urgent care or the ER immediately and document the injuries now 2) Contact your city’s domestic violence department in the city prosecutor’s office. You need to get the ball rolling on a “protection order”. Tell the folks in the prosecutor’s office that the police are not taking you seriously and that you fear for your life. Sadly this is common, they will be used to hearing this, and be well equipped to help you navigate the situation. They can give you advice for how to get …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 09:19 PM
66

YES. Go to Urgent Care immediately. It is vital that you do this now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 09:14 PM
31

🤣🤣🤣 It’s so fucked up. Literally every married woman I know is somehow unhappy in her relationship in a very serious and essential way. Even the ones who married men who have excellent careers and their shit together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 07:38 PM
49

🤡: it’s ok if he gives me HerpeGonaSyphilAids. My bill are getting paid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 07:28 PM
17

So true 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 04:51 PM
2

Oh shit. I have some new and horrible to Google. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 04:48 PM
4

It’s really well made. I enjoyed it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 06:10 PM
20

🤡: “Married and looking for a new hole to put it in for a few days!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 05:57 PM
34

If you want to see how it works out in real life, search “Jocasta” on the Just No MIL group. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 05:50 PM
10

Tell him you’re not his mommy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 05:20 PM
22

Omg. My scumbag ex wanted me to move into the 3rd floor apartment of our house and continue to take care of the garden while his affair partner moved into the main house. lol! I just left him and bought my own home and my gardens are gorgeous! His house looks like a dump now! 🤣 There’s just no end to the audacity of what men think they are entitled to! I feel like a lot live their lives in a constant state of childish FOMO. “I want a strawberry lollipop but I also want chocolate and lime and ora…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 05:25 PM
-11

That’s very encouraging behavior for sure, and I don’t mean to rain on your parade, but it’s worth mentioning “prix fixe” (fixed price) is a low cost way of dining. The menu is set for a lower cost than normal as a special promotion. I’m sure you had a very nice high quality meal, but…just keep in mind this is not grande scale wooing. Don’t allow yourself to be too impressed too quickly. I’d consider that baseline, acceptable dating behavior. But he’s definitely behaving in a thoughtful manner b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 05:07 PM
13

He’s so naively delusional. I once had a chat with a man who did porn. It sounds like a horrible job for the men too. Physically grueling and especially low paying for the men. He was one of the most sought after guys in his field and he was lucky to make $1000 a scene. And his body was constantly fucked up from having to contort his body and sustain awkward poses for extended lengths of time. You’d be better off getting a construction job. The guy who wrote that question must have been raised s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 04:37 PM
123

I think it’s because if they want any sex, they have to be open to all kinds of sex to increase their odds. Basically they must be sexual opportunists and take whatever they can get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 01:37 AM
32

Circling back to our Burning Man conversation… 🤣💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 01:26 AM
13

That’s so grotesque yet common. Men are the real gold diggers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:28 PM
10

Someone in Newburgh should print off a bunch of copies of his ad and let his neighbors know what he’s up to. Id want to know if I lived next to a sex predator
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:38 PM
19

Fifty Shades of Beige - a Low Value Sexual Odyssey in a Shitty Suburban Split Level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:26 PM
13

Exactly. He’s advertising for a prostitute. He should be charged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:23 PM
11

That’s what I was thinking. $900 is hardly a great deal and 1100 sq ft is smaller than one floor of my home. I can’t imagine being trapped in 1100sq ft with a predatory scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:20 PM
6

Same with the term “spinner”. Vile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 12:43 AM
7

Yep, for sure! It’s not high value to indiscriminately fuck strangers. Guys who do this are dangerous to the women they are in relationships with
/r/askFDS08/09/21 11:33 PM
14

No it’s super weird. He’s definitely fapping thinking about her. I’m sorry to say it, but I think Burning Man is a big red flag too. I realize people can responsibly enjoy festivals, but I think it’s very weird for a middle aged man to be very preoccupied with it. All the older men I know who were into it, were going primarily for sexual reasons.
/r/askFDS08/09/21 05:51 PM
13

LMAO!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 05:36 PM
11

I mean, I think it’s enough to bring to the police, if you’re so inclined...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 06:43 PM
11

Because he doesn’t have a car!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 06:41 PM
8

Exactly! It looks like you either spent a fortune at a European bakery or spent all December baking! So much easier this way! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 10:59 PM
11

Omg it was the BEST! So, I had 10 friends and we each made 2 different varieties so we ended up with 20 different types of cookies! So say I made lebkuchen and ginger snaps, I gave each participant 6 lebkuchen an 6 ginger snaps. I wish I could post a picture! It was so beautiful, magical, and old fashioned looking! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 09:55 PM
13

Yeah, I feel like he was goading her into a confrontation, she knew it, and did not give a fuck. She was gonna have her mac and cheese with or without his dusty ass. Her sort of unbothered is pretty much goals. Enjoy yourself and then call an Uber!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 09:11 PM
52

I’m starting to think about Christmas plans and gifts already. It really improves my life to start on these things early and cuts out on the typical frantic, last minute stress. I also make it a point to buy myself several Xmas gifts so if I’m not in a relationship when Xmas rolls around, I don’t feel deprived or left out. I try to buy stuff for myself early and wrap it right away so by the time Xmas arrives, I have completely forgot what it even is and it’s now a surprise! 🤣 I used to end up fe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 08:58 PM
11

That’s awesome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 08:42 PM
111

She was expecting his bullshit. She pulled out that credit card too quickly for her not to be wise to him. I hope it’s the last time she saw him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 11:50 PM
11

I swear there were posts on here about men fucking a ham sandwich and a rotten coconut. Their standards are so low, male attention is worthless and meaningless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 02:52 AM
7

Omg! 🤣🤣🤣 The audacity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 04:03 PM
6

Yes, I think it’s important to note too that the couple of women who have turned out to be malicious towards me have been long term Pickmeisha’s in multi-year abusive relationships with 1 guy. You can’t save people, they have to want to change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 04:02 PM
7

This. They just end up resenting you if you point out the flaws in their relationships. Put on your own air mask first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 03:46 AM
8

After 2 shitty situations with Pickmeisha friends, it’s now my policy to cut myself loose from people the minute they show these tendencies. I had to learn the hard way that they will not hesitate to stab you in back at the drop of a hat whether or not it provides them with any substantive benefit. Pickmeishas who are in deep, are dangerous. They will drag you down. Send her an anonymous message with a link to FDS and then cut her lose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 03:08 AM
1

🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 11:36 PM
4

I misread that as “he reeked of ass body spray” and thought: wtf is he doing in the bathroom that is causing it to spray?!?! 🤣🤦‍♀️ I need a nap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 08:33 PM
3

All her photos show her just beaming like she got some great prize, too. I’d be so embarrassed to post that my fiancé wasn’t pulling his weight. He’s probably masturbating all day while she’s working 3 jobs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 01:53 PM
62

5 Lasko fans tall! 🤣🤣🤣 That line wrecked me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 01:38 AM
27

“HeY bOsS bAbE!!!1!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 06:25 PM
25

Omg. I just had a flashback to the Shanann Watts documentary where she was posting all these happy family pics and selling mlm fitness supplements. 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:25 PM
13

Sad. She probably thought it was a lower grade diamond. 😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:17 PM
13

Yes, the difference between quartz and diamond is completely, visually obvious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 01:57 PM
45

Exactly. “Penny wise, pound foolish”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 01:54 PM
147

You know she’s gonna do it. If she’s on the internet trying to fix this man’s life, she in it for the long haul. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 01:39 PM
23

Wow! A school doing the right thing for once and not letting an amphetamine abuser become a doctor. Refreshing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 01:38 PM
110

You know this guy is not washing his dick or ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 01:34 PM
75

And bed bugs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 01:31 PM
64

T R I G G E R E D 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 01:29 PM
103

How did he even get to that point? Does he have a rich or influential family? His movies are so painfully lame. Did he really become this successful because Americans like dumb movies and mediocrity? I guess I’m just struggling to understand how any of his movies got made in the first place. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 01:20 PM
9

Same! I assumed they had fallen out of love but no...she was just a means to an end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 01:00 PM
35

I put the mom sticker on her because her fiancé is a giant useless baby
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:57 PM
62

Probably. I get it’s hard af out here and having kids makes it worse but not a word about what he’s doing to step it up. I think she’s just completely infatuated with him because her profile is nothing but pics of the 2 of them. How can she type out that post and not realize what’s going on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:56 PM
48

Yeah I wondered about that too. I guess they could be from previous marriages but probably not. I probably should have explained though I gave her the worlds best mom sticker because he’s a giant baby. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:54 PM
18

Shit. Accurate af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:16 AM
14

But he’s AsExUAl!! 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:15 AM
9

But!!! You could have been a nurse and a purse! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:19 AM
73

My mind goes to that TikTok of that sweet woman asking her bf or husband “tell me why you chose me out of all the women in this world” and he’s like “don’t flatter yourself!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:08 AM
37

I see, that’s kind of funny. In theory, yeah men should marry who they want because they’re the ones proposing but it seems like the reality is that men often just settle for who will say yes. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:06 AM
14

What do you mean? Like just sexually want?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 01:52 AM
77

It’s so sad for the women!I never want to end up in that situation. It’s terrifying!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 11:21 PM
186

It’s truly fucked up. I will never forget the moment it dawned on me that men routinely marry women who they don’t even love. This guy I met turned out to be a huge disgusting cheater, and before I blocked him on everything forever, I asked him a few questions about his marriage and why he was still married if he wanted to fuck around and pretend he was 20. He told me he married her because he thought he needed to settle down and have kids, and that if he could afford it he’d divorce her. Men ar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 11:14 PM
1055

🤡Text me if you want to be trained to serve me for life. But you take care of your own expenses 🤡 I’m crying laughing over here!!! 😭😂😭😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 10:13 PM
65

I wish more young women would get wise to how mercenary and selfish men are, especially in regards to finances. These guys aren’t in it for love. They’re in it because it hugely financially benefits them!! I mean, who wouldn’t love to cut their living expenses in half and have someone who also does all the cleaning and manages their social calendar? And yet have zero long term obligation to the person? It’s so sad and obvious. The one and only (pre FDS) time I moved in with a guy was when he pai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 07:10 PM
1

Lmao! Accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 06:50 PM
21

This guy has a lot of opinions for a guy that has a sad slip cover couch and a nailed up Walmart curtain. Why do these paltry excuses for men think they are in a position to give advice. Real men aren’t on TikTok raging against women who would never date them anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 06:15 PM
58

This. Lots of men will put in the time, say the right things (lovebomb), and do what it takes to land a wealthy woman then completely change after they have a hand in her finances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 06:05 PM
119

He is one droopy dog. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 04:29 PM
923

🤡That was the best sex of my life!🤡 Riiiiight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 04:02 PM
16

He’s an abusive drunk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:44 PM
9

He needs to talk to his doctor about his low testosterone. That ain’t right...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:29 PM
233

I bet she does more house work too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:23 PM
1

Right? Come to me with a plan or just don’t waste my time at all!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 09:43 PM
37

I’m willing to bet this has nothing to do with her appearance and rather is the expression of a Madonna/Whore complex. I seriously doubt she’s disfigured and obese.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 04:25 PM
33

Yet still, a dog. 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 03:29 PM
190

Especially when he specifically said: “I’ll be in touch”. Men this petty deserve to be alone forever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 01:31 AM
386

This is game. He’s trying to put you on the defensive to make you more compliant and see how desperate you are to go out with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 01:19 AM
35

That’s vile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 08:19 PM
36

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 07:48 PM
52

He needs to focus on leveling up from his nailed up Walmart curtain without a curtain rod. Looking around that sad room, there’s no way this guy has all the answers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 01:39 PM
57

Lmao. We need a page for The Best of FDS quotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 07:08 PM
93

Thank you. Bikini pics on OLD is some pickme ass shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 07:07 PM
16

They’re just hardworking youngsters bootstrapping their way to success! Your $5.99 for Börthörle pics is PaTrOnAgE 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 05:48 PM
10

This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 05:46 PM
50

lol. How they tell on themselves...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 05:43 PM
261

Is your boyfriend an uneducated simpleton? Elegance coach reveals you should dump him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 05:41 PM
14

It seems tacky and very young to me. Hold no appeal for me at all. High school stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 11:42 PM
91

My vote is for compulsive masturbator. He’s probably spraying cum everywhere 8 times a day and having to mop it up. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 08:55 PM
53

🍆🤡MeMoRiEs🤡🍆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 02:20 PM
51

Yeah, I don’t think it was a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 02:08 PM
3

Yes, he was definitely trying to play the “dread game” with me, too. He was pissed I wasn’t sleeping with him and was trying to triangulate with me. Live and learn, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 01:49 PM
3

Yep! Same situation with this character! I’m not trying to be harsh but the waitress was really average and on the side of homely. I really regret not calling a Lyft and just leaving the table. I won’t hesitate to do that if it ever happens again with anyone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 01:42 PM
11

Yes! It was so shady.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 11:46 PM
29

This! I was on a date where the man started batting his eyes and acting flirty yet bashful towards the waitress. He turned out to be a huge liar, a narcissist, and married with 3 young daughters. Of course when I brought it up I was gaslit and told I was wildly jealous and making things up. I should have just called a Lyft and walked away the second it happened
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 11:44 PM
11

This made me gasp out loud. Stop recording and start packing your bags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 11:22 PM
93

✊🔥 SET HIS FAP CLOSET ON FIRE!🔥✊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 11:20 PM
12

Right...it’s just so depraved out here. The guy ended up being a married liar with 3 young daughters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 10:28 PM
11

I’m also really curious what the cops would have done if he did not admit it. 👮‍♀️: Did you record you clients? 👨: No. 👮‍♀️: Okay, bye!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 10:14 PM
23

Yes, there was a guy I went out on a couple dates with (who traveled to my city for business) that kept trying to get me to go to his hotel room. He was super specific about us going to his room not coming to my house and I started to get suspicious. I’m 99% sure he was trying to film me. .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 10:08 PM
64

🙌P R E A C H🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 07:09 PM
40

My exact thoughts. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 05:59 PM
18

Yeah it was a big messy deal in the US. He was grooming underage girls and iirc, Sydney was sexting him while she knew he was married. Like a typical Narc, he had a whole harem he was trying to fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 01:13 AM
11

I covet them all! 😭🥵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 12:25 AM
311

Everything in this photo is deflated and flaccid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 06:39 PM
116

That’s for plugging in his phone for marathon porn watching sessions! Don’t want to run out of battery power!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 06:38 PM
64

The lack of a duvet cover made me cringe too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 06:37 PM
108

Don’t forget the ubiquitous flat pillow, mascot of LVM worldwide. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 06:35 PM
32

BIG Armie Hammer vibes! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 06:31 PM
16

Holy shit! This need to be a movie. It’s simultaneously horrifying, hilarious, and kind of deep. 🤣🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 06:30 PM
31

No, not good for her! That’s the whole point. Have you even read the handbook? Did you stumble into the wrong group?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 06:26 PM
41

Yeah she’s totally beautiful. It makes me sad seeing women jump through hoops for base scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 06:17 PM
18

She’s beautiful but it was sad and vaguely horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 06:16 PM
15

💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 04:37 PM
79

Thistle & Spire Katherine Hamilton Catherine D’Lish (to die for glamorous robes) Playful Promises (sells a lot of fun brands) Rosamosario To name a few! ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 04:34 PM
285

Whatever, Sydney, your claim to fame is Anthony Weiner. Let that cringe sink in and and then go crawl off to obscurity...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:36 PM
115

I looked at her post history and her previous post was asking which lingerie she should wear on the first date. She posted a response: thx babes! It was a hit! 🤡 So I guess that explains why he felt it was ok to take her to a sex party for their second date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:31 PM
70

Comme ci le fuck, comme ça le fuck. Plus le fuck change, plus la meme chose. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:28 PM
132

Yes! It’s really bad and cringe! The photos she posted are basically porn that you’d expect to see on an OnlyFans page, not freely posted publicly. Graphic! 🤦‍♀️ So, sex parties used to be something married scrotes tried to pressure their wives of 15 years into, now it’s a second date?!?! 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 02:15 PM
36

Either a dude wrote this or she’s mentally ill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 02:06 PM
207

🤡THX BABES 🤡 🤣 The lingerie was so over the top, too! Cupless bras, ass hanging out, a million straps to look fetishy, etc... It’s in a FB lingerie group. I’ve learned about some amazing niche brands there but Jesus...the lib fem pickmeism in that group can be off the charts! I hope she reports back . It’s going to be stained mattresses in some creep’s basement not a 🤡VilLa🤡. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 02:02 PM
306

I used condoms throughout my entire 6yr relationship with my LV ex. Thank god I did, because I ended up discovering his infidelity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 07:55 PM
27

But first double check the life insurance policy! And then let it die! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 06:52 PM
41

🤡: “what should I do?!” Try to take out a big life insurance policy on him in case he dies from the tumor and start the divorce process. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 06:47 PM
73

If I were her, I’d wait to make sure that kid conceived with old swimmers doesn’t have any major medical or mental defects before trying to make another one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 09:05 PM
130

Because the men are clearly perfect and without flaw /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 10:47 PM
26

😳 wow...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 10:27 PM
170

The more I think about this the worse it gets. You know the husband will not be able to keep his mouth shut about banging Rose, so word will definitely get around the workplace that the OP is cool with her husband fucking random strange and is open to all sorts of depravity. Won’t the office holiday party be fun! Who knows which other coworkers he will feel permitted to fuck next! 5 years and you need to “spice up” your marriage? Wtf is wrong with people?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 03:47 PM
302

Right? How did good ol’ Rose hear about this job opportunity? That’s a real head scratcher!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 03:38 PM
65

Lol! If you don’t laugh, you’ll cry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 02:52 PM
17

Classy that she already planned to move out with basically no warning, but good she is leaving!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 01:48 PM
231

🤭 jush mumminica🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 01:41 PM
5

Yeah he’s a certified basic pest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 01:17 PM
4

😂👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 02:42 AM
4

I’m winding up to share some pickme tales soon, too. I had to cut out 3 pickme friends. I’ve come to the conclusion that you can’t remain friends with pickmes. They will choose a LVM over their sisters every single time. Tried to stay friends with these 3 women because I thought they needed support to leave their situations but instead they chose to stay with LVM and ended up doing hurtful things to me in the process. At my stage in life, I am going to just start cutting friends the minute they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 02:39 AM
7

Same. It’s very satisfying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 02:15 AM
32

Look at his gross sinewy bird legs! He doesn’t work out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 02:14 AM
22

Yeah, it feels like a buddy thing to do or maybe in a very established relationship. I don’t want a guy hiding behind an activity at a loud venue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:37 AM
33

I agree. I think activity dates are appealing only to men who are socially inept and cannot make decent conversation. It seems immature to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:33 AM
58

It’s a “no” from me, Dawg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 04:26 PM
87

Lmao. Olive Garden. This is what we’re dealing with out here, men who think Olive Garden is high maintenance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:30 PM
11

Riiiiiiiiight....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:26 PM
24

Yes! I second Financial Feminist - I love her website content and Instagram too. If you enjoy witchy or woo-woo things, The Witch Wave is excellent too. All her guests are women, people of color, or lgbtq. It’s really refreshing to just never hear any white, straight, males voices. She talks about art, music, and spirituality. It’s perfectly lovely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:03 PM
4

We need to normalize leaving mid-stroke. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 02:40 PM
89

Let them die mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 12:49 PM
23

I spat out my coffee at “pace of the poking” 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 03:59 PM
105

“No man is going to waste his time waiting for bad sex” They have sex with ham sandwiches and rotten coconuts, now all of the sudden they are post-nut connoisseurs?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:43 PM
21

Oh he’s love that! More control!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 11:57 PM
91

Honestly! Who the fuck would want to leave Brussels for the US?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 11:54 PM
9

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 11:50 PM
149

Yeah when I hit puberty, they couldn’t stop staring at my old soul!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 11:49 PM
29

The Classic: https://youtu.be/DTsdKycVZZ4
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 09:18 PM
2

Good! They can have each other and stew in their miserableness! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 10:42 AM
3

I’m glad you spoke up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 11:01 PM
1

This is great news, congrats. If you have to go back and get anything at your old place, bring a friend and have your phone out ready to record video. I left a lv ex who was never physically abusive but the last day I was there, he got super weird and and started chasing me around the house trying to force me to interact with him. I pulled out my phone and all that nonsense stopped really quickly. Be safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 11:00 PM
5

It’s prostitution! I’d report his ho-ing ass to the police. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 08:55 PM
20

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 The word is forever tainted!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 08:51 PM
39

Yeah, seriously, this sounds like a racket!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 02:18 AM
2

🤣 it’s etched into my memory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 01:12 AM
6

He looks like a stereotype! 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 01:08 AM
35

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 01:04 AM
53

After a woman died doing just that with a cop like last week, too. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 12:58 PM
99

The F I E L D™️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 12:57 PM
75

The bar is in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 08:24 PM
53

Embarrassing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 12:15 PM
75

This reminds me of a screenshot I saw of a post in a festival FB group where a guy thought he got Giardia from swimming in a lake, not the copious amounts of anal lingus he performed on strangers over the whole weekend. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 03:17 AM
133

🤡: STAY WOKE KINGS! 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 03:15 AM
192

👨‍⚕️: Yeah, you got what you deserve. Good job, pussy gummy boy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 03:13 AM
64

He’s a bout to cry because he can’t meet basic criteria. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:16 PM
45

Living in a van down by the river.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:15 PM
9

I have no idea why but I read your comment as “it warrants choking”. Which is also true. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 03:06 AM
16

Author Tracy Schorn calls it the Universal Bullshit Translator. Here’s a good example of it at work. 🤣 https://www.chumplady.com/2021/08/ubt-leaving-and-cleaving/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 05:58 PM
5

Okay, Jocasta... 🙄🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:12 AM
44

That’s glorious! 😂🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 08:20 PM
104

LINKEDIN! It’s always LinkedIn 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 08:15 PM
137

I’m kinda at an impasse. I don’t want to use OLD, I work from home, am busy as hell between growing my business, restoring my home, and just cleaning and doing yardwork, so it hard to find time and suitable places to meet men of quality. And now, with Covid ramping up again, I’m just not sure it’s even possible. I totally understand not having energy for vetting men. It’s so hard to just keep all the balls in the air for daily life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 04:15 PM
2

Yep! My experiences: 1) Recently divorced and still very emotionally damaged about it 2) Had a traumatic brain injury and sadly just could not keep up intellectually. Had a variety of physical problems too. 3) Alcoholic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 05:18 AM
3

🤣💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 03:45 AM
156

There’s something wrong with the guys that look interested in you but never approach. They know in their heart that there’s no point in approaching you, so they don’t. It could be something as simple as them being too soon out of a serious relationship, being broke, or something much worse. I guarantee there’s a very big reason they are not approaching you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 03:38 PM
125

Puppy pads would work, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 01:24 PM
7

It makes me so angry how entitled they are! Most of these cheaters have ideal lives...a beautiful wife and children, a great paying job, a big house...etc. But they always think they should have more! It’s infuriating!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 10:45 PM
3

Yep! My ex had a lot of “late work nights” and met the other woman at a “tech networking“ event. And when I finally figured out what was going on, he was supposedly at a industry convention he had to fly to. I have my doubts that he ever even left town. Trash. 🙄 Another traveling businessman I met who wanted to date me turned out to be a giant liar with a wife and three daughters. I would have a really hard time trusting a guy who travels for work at this point and would definitely snoop on his …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 10:39 PM
104

👸🏼: I noticed how thin and small you were after we finished.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:39 AM
60

I’m always suspicious because I’ve witnessed some devious shit in my days. My money is on one of the “friends “ texting the Ex gf that you two were out on a date together and she decided to see if he was still wrapped around her little finger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 03:14 AM
3

Omg. Wtf is wrong with these types?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 09:42 PM
56

Omg...just no. I opt out of the subscription to these sorts of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:37 PM
13

I know! 6 years...wtf? Why is she so obsessed with me? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:46 PM
37

Lol. Relatable! My ex’s current situation is so trifling that his affair partner/current wife is attempting to triangulate with me 6 years later over some trash I left in the house when I moved out and left him. I mean, they didn’t give me important mail, but 6 yrs later she wants to give me old business promotional materials? Okaaaay. These narcissists are so trifling and pathetic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 01:25 PM
7

Even his Twitter handle gets on my nerves. “Did Lil Duval make a big boom boom in his diaper?” 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 10:35 PM
33

Lol. Yep...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 12:44 PM
43

Yes. This why men look 20yrs older than their actual age. Like, McDonalds is not even real food...🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 12:38 PM
108

He’ll probably do this for decades. This is why it’s so important to vet men’s habits. He is doing irreparable damage to his body by eating junk and if you marry him, it becomes your problem. I view this no differently than dating a smoker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 11:57 AM
123

Mommy likes feeling needed! She squandered her life ignoring her own career and hobbies and so now she has nothing to do if her son leaves! She will be a hollow shell!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 11:53 AM
61

Oh yes. This situation just came to a head for me too. I close friend of mine married a verbally abusive LVM. I thought I could still be friends with her and just keep him out of my life. Nope! So now it looks like a 20 yr friendship is done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 03:59 AM
10

This is so wholesome and kinda breaks my heart. What happened to men?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 02:26 AM
38

Embarrassing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 02:22 AM
392

This is the way. We are the prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 06:08 AM
5

I’d reply: “I’ve never been married! How about you?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:49 AM
5

Yeah it’s funny/odd how one goes through phases of ending friendships. It’s really tough to know where to draw the line with friends who are good people but perhaps not exactly high value and living feminist ideals. I mean, no one is perfect so where is that threshold where the Pickmeisha traits overwhelm the good? I feel pretty at peace with both of my situations though. I did everything according to my ideals and at the end of the day, that’s all you can say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:17 AM
27

Yeah I was just going to post about this very subject but I think I’m still kind of processing everything. It looks like I’m ending 3 friendships. The worst ending is a 20 yr friendship that is ending because of her low value husband. If I’m honest with myself, this situation was probably years in the making and just now came to a head. He’s a verbally abusive antivaxer. And I just simply cannot stand being around him. It came to a head when he sent me a right wing YouTube video that was so abus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 01:43 PM
185

I hope Stacey doesn’t see this because she’s busy retaining a divorce attorney
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 12:12 PM
13

Oh gawd! Yes! That guy....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 10:27 PM
9

LMAO 🤣👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 10:26 PM
31

I make the motion that Roberto Cavalli be entered into the FDS cannon along with The Nest, The Field, and Pee Jar Boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 09:57 PM
16

Don’t you meen schpelleeng and grammur?! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 08:46 PM
56

I’m picturing those images of Roberto Cavalli that were posted recently. https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/om41br/if_youre_in_doubt_remember_all_those_lies_mens/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 08:40 PM
40

“OH GROSSSSSSS!!!” is what I said out loud when I read that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 08:38 PM
99

So double standard! Much Wow! 🐕🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 02:10 PM
99

You can rent an AsTeAm cleaner at Lowe’s. I rented it for 2 days and did all my carpets. It was GrAtE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 12:50 PM
6

Is Roberto Cavalli’s penis sprayer something you can put on your resume? 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 11:40 AM
10

Looks like a rotisserie chicken past it’s sell by date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 11:34 AM
946

Fuckin’ Jared.... 🤣 🤡: SeLf AsTeAm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 10:33 AM
419

Spiced sex, not spiced meat? Put the ghost chilis on his pee pee, problem solved!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 12:13 AM
2

Oh wow! And ugly, too! Such a catch!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 12:07 AM
13

Yes this happened to Aunty Pinky for feminist posts too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 10:44 PM
8

Genius idea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:22 AM
126

They sound like a bad stereotype
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:13 AM
351

I would have stopped them right there and said: “Are you telling the class that you are a rapist? Because what you’re describing is rape.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:12 AM
34

It’s a double wide! 🎪🎪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:27 AM
17

Right?!? I have a whole LIST of new restaurants I keep saved on my phone that I want to try. Why are they acting like this is a chore? It’s just called having a personality and interests.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 09:45 PM
13

Does Eezy wipe his börthole and fluff his Nest, too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 09:40 PM
58

I have a 70 yr old friend that says listen carefully to men because they will tell you exactly who they are in the first 5 minutes you talk to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 09:33 PM
26

Nah you got the gist of it. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 09:31 PM
33

Lol. Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 09:31 PM
194

Oh yes. I do this too. I think it’s healthy to remove annoying orbiters. Forgive the crude expression, but they need to “shit or get off the pot”. Ask yourself: Are we going to date? No? Ok, bye...delete. If their lives are too messed up to even ask you to dinner, then they need to excuse themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 09:29 PM
95

Why do women accept this?!? Sorry, if I got pregnant and the man wasn’t my husband and did not immediately propose, I’d be like: A B O R T! A B O R T !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 05:34 AM
59

Now that his body is breaking down and his face is falling, he wants to get married. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 05:27 AM
38

I think she hit her head, she’s repeating herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 03:18 PM
12

She is so pretty. They are very charming. Love it! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 03:11 PM
1

I felt better when I got proactive about my safety. Doorbell cameras are awesome. Carry mace, stash a couple cans around your home. If you’re being followed don’t go home, go to a public place and call the cops. I know it’s exhausting but you will feel better the more safety elements you have in place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 02:30 PM
8

Such a loser move...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 01:00 PM
17

My first impression is that he wants to spike your drink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 12:38 PM
159

Oh girl...I went through this with a neighbor. I don’t want to scare you but I did end up getting a protection order against him. My doorbell camera footage ended up being evidence in the case. Love that thing! Seriously, get one. Mine is Simplisafe and I also use their security system too. Very affordable. The others are right. Start taking notes of interactions with him. Reenforce your door strike plate, if you have double hung windows you can have dowels cut that you can put vertically inside…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 03:24 AM
21

Seriously. This is shit you figure out when you’re 20 in your first apartment!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 03:11 PM
5

That makes sense! How shitty...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 02:40 PM
8

Yep, appetizers there are about $10 a piece (say they got 2 =$20), entrees are $20 max ($40). So $60 in food...they drank $100 in beer? 🤣 I mean he sound super boring so maybe she drank 2 pints ($7 each= $14, x2 if he drank= $28) but I doubt she stayed long enough to drink that much. 🤣🤣🤣 Max their bill was $88, plus $18tip? $106? I bet it was less though....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 02:37 PM
6

That’s a possibility...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 01:52 PM
13

This man in particular needs to be slut shamed. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 03:59 AM
9

We could only hope... 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 03:58 AM
8

Yep! Exactly! 😂 My ex cheated on me with her and she cheated on my ex so publicly that other neighbors walked in on her mid thrust with a neighbor. I hope the demise of your ex is equally glorious? 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 03:52 AM
15

This happened with my ex too. Last I heard my “replacement” fucked their neighbor and was responsible for a major fire in their basement. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 03:31 AM
52

FORTY FUCKING YEARS OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 02:55 AM
16

True, true...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 10:12 PM
24

Yeah poor choice of wording on his part. Though to be fair, she was so tiny and young looking at the time. She did seem like a child. But you’re right, words have power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 10:01 PM
7

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:58 PM
21

Honestly...this is the question. I looked it up, the food is not expensive. They must have drank quite a bit. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:57 PM
28

I looked it up. It looks pretty basic to me. I mean, don’t get me wrong, it’s not gross like I thought it would be but it’s basically just vegan bar food - french fries, cauliflower wings, Mac and cheese. I’d get lunch there but I wouldn’t be impressed if a date took me there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:55 PM
11

Lmao!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:50 PM
6

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:49 PM
11

That’s sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:48 PM
12

Amazing 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:46 PM
240

YEP! I have a lot of empathy for her. She’s had a lot of mental health battles and deserved better treatment over all. I think her voice is transcendent and she’s one of the loveliest and most ethereal vocalists of our time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:40 PM
18

🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:35 PM
97

I bet he had three pints, 2 appetizers, and a steak. 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 02:58 PM
129

Make some jokes about him getting a prolapsed b-hole from being in prison and I guarantee he won’t be laughing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 02:52 PM
205

I don’t know a lot about Kris Kristofferson, but this struck me as very high value behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 01:56 PM
31

I know, we naturally want to give them a shot. And they can’t even string together a conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 01:36 PM
109

I really don’t want to hear about how men have to develop good people skills to date women. Women have to pluck, dye, wax, bleach, expertly apply makeup, wear uncomfortable clothes and shoes, spend $200 on a haircut....etc etc So sorry men have to have an interesting personality and be charming and fun to talk to- which costs absolutely nothing. 🙄 Thanks for the award! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 01:25 PM
269

What sort of loser takes a woman to a place called the Beer Plant on a first date? It sounds like a place a bunch of smelly Bros watch football at.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 01:18 PM
181

Dont forget to add a line in there for disappointment and lost wages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 01:14 PM
4

The gross long finger nails and the picking fleas out of his face pubes made me want to vom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:31 AM
13

🤡: WhAtS nExT?!? WiLl ShE dEmAnD i WaSh My AsS?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:26 AM
54

THIS. He absolutely knew what he was doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:17 AM
28

Why are they so afraid of the sunscreen?!? 😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 02:32 AM
6

🙀🙀🙀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 02:20 AM
3

Lmao! I am here for it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 02:19 AM
3

🤣🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 02:17 AM
365

Be careful around her. Jealousy can quickly sour things and lead people to do some shitty things, it’s the most dangerous emotion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 02:11 AM
58

This is the kind of guy that would also miss the birth of his first child for a sportsball game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 03:13 AM
11

If he’s not doing it to neg, he’s doing it to try to steer you to a more “socially acceptable” career for a wife. Either way, he’s trash. Block/delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 03:51 PM
5

🤣💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 03:49 PM
13

🤡 “No one else will fuck me except her but since she won’t blow me upside down while wearing a rubber Richard Nixon mask and humming George Michael’s Careless Whispers, I am unfulfilled and will break up with her.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 01:19 PM
20

Yep! This is why we don’t live with men we’re not married to. Perfect example of how women are taken advantage of. And I bet they are 50/50 on bills but not housework...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 01:09 PM
2

Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 11:59 PM
1

Yeah vinyl, and only 159 ft. 🙄 I priced out comparable materials before he came out to measure and I came up with $3500. So labor is more than double materials? 🤔🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 11:58 PM
1

So funny! I left my ex and bought a new house. It became really obvious to me pretty quickly that I had been doing all the work from ideas to completion anyways...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 11:55 PM
17

He’ll be posting in dead bedrooms soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 11:48 PM
52

This is not a meet cute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 02:02 PM
11

🤡: i’Ve MoVeD oN!!! Okaaay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 01:50 PM
94

Yeah he’s going to have round 2 of chlamydia soon...what a dumbass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 10:39 PM
2

Get ready for his “Hoover”, I guarantee he will try to come and suck you back in when he realizes his attempt to manipulate you did not work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 09:13 PM
12

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 09:03 PM
17

Amen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 09:03 PM
254

The fact this happened to the same woman more than once is beyond horrifying. They should have to pay for her therapy and then some (in addition to being jailed)!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 07:42 PM
569

I hope she can press charges.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 06:43 PM
18

If he was a friend, he would have shown up and helped move fence panels and held the level for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 03:01 PM
137

I feel this. I have done 90% of the work on my house myself. I had a contractor come out for a fence quote and wanted $7700 to fence my urban lot. 🤨 looks like I’ll be doing this job myself too! 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 02:59 PM
203

It’s even funnier that men are getting triggered by what another man wrote. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 11:29 AM
12

Yeah no doubt, I wouldn’t feel comfortable getting drinks with a random man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 03:58 PM
39

Oh yeah, girl. I’ve gotten so many “self harm” automated messages, it doesn’t even phase me. It’s so pathetic! Weak! I’m pretty sure there’s a way to report it as harassment though, if you feel like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 03:46 PM
116

I think we should just start saying “I’m sorry you are broke”. No debate, no argument, just “I’m sorry you are broke.” Because really, that’s what this is about. If he had money he would not sweat $30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 03:22 PM
15

When he showed up without his wallet she should have said: “oh! Are we going back to your apartment to pick up your wallet or are we canceling our date?” The end! He is playing games with her and it’s cruel. He knew exactly what he was doing and he’s still toying with her by not reimbursing her. I’d get him to pay me back and then break up with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 09:21 AM
6

So you can’t run away! 👠🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 08:48 AM
135

I’d be too embarrassed to make this video. Just leave him already!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 07:08 PM
5

So embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 07:06 PM
57

Trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 06:45 PM
6

🤣🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 01:59 AM
22

Bidis...short, stubby, malformed, cheap, and smells oddly. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 01:55 AM
38

Not a pack of Virginia Slims? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 12:06 AM
6

I wondered if the caliber of restaurant she chose intimidated him. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 02:30 AM
11

Their stupid behavior is not a reflection on your value. Don’t let the scrotes get you down! ✊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 02:29 AM
1

Who wipes their genitals in the kitchen? Vile...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 03:29 AM
9

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 12:52 AM
9

Yeah! Where are the Harold and Maude relationships?! https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0067185/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:21 AM
24

It does have the feel of a propaganda post...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:09 AM
25

Good point...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:53 AM
195

This is some pornsick bullshit! Imagine thinking you own the rights to images of someone else’s nude body...so disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:40 AM
39

😂💕🙌 congrats!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:34 AM
22

So, you’re sitting there completely miserable and he won’t even try to help... Good for you for leaving! That is the perfect response.
/r/askFDS29/06/21 03:56 PM
31

That’s what I was thinking!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 01:45 PM
57

Men are so pathetic, greedy, and fickle! This “I’m In My PrImE!!1!” 🤡 shit has to stop. They need to come back to reality. You’re 55!!! If you become single, you’re not going to “date all the time”, you’re going to be molding on your cheap couch like expired produce while constantly being rejected on Tinder by women who are too young for you. Wake up, Kevin! You’re oat sowing days are well over, count yourself lucky your wife even gives a shit about you. Disgusting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 01:44 PM
2

Same!
/r/askFDS29/06/21 01:47 AM
34

Agreed, they should be ashamed. Life has a funny way of humbling people like this though...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 05:37 AM
26

I’m so grossed out that 5 college educated adults couldn’t, or rather chose not to connect the dots and realize this lady was not operating from the same place of privilege as they were. And not one of them could scrape together the empathy to buy a few of her meals or suggest some free or cheap excursions. That group is complete trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 05:34 AM
33

Holy shit. My heart hurts for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 05:29 AM
1

🤣👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 04:42 AM
1

He’s hot. Looks really Celtic. 💕 What him name iz?!? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 12:46 AM
79

“ALL RIGHT MEN LETS GATHER TOGETHER AND CONVERT THIS BOY INTO A MAN” Sorry but this sounds super gay. Like that creepy TikTok of those guys and the “Milkies “ audio track. 😩🤮 I genuinely think a lot of these incel guys are self loathing, closeted homosexuals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 12:30 AM
9

Incels need to just date each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 12:20 AM
6

🤡 HOW DARE!!!1!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 12:19 AM
22

Big Handmaid’s Tale vibes...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 12:17 AM
4

🤣🤣🤣💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 12:16 AM
9

Ooh! Good time to start projects to be ready for winter! I love knitting lace patterns. I made a beaded lace knitted cowl a while ago!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 12:15 AM
13

That sounds beautiful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 12:13 AM
27

Black Summer is sooo good! I just picked 4 huge baskets of cherries from my yard and then made cherry daiquiris 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 12:13 AM
18

Oh I need new brushes too! I was thinking about seeing if Crown had any deals...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 12:11 AM
4

I can’t even click on it. The aesthetics are so pathetic and hilarious, I can’t take it seriously. Does “V” have tiddies?! 🤣🤣🤣💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 12:10 AM
3

I would love a “safety” or “opsec” tag! SMART!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:57 PM
85

They should date men if they want to be chased and courted. That is feminine energy. They should start practicing their stretches and be ready to grab their ankles if they want to be the receiver in the relationship. I said what I said! 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:53 PM
36

They’re probably “pillow princesses” too! 🤣 Who is the woman in this relationship?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:50 PM
112

Omg...it’s the blind leading the blind with these fools. What is this scrote’s qualifications to teach “masculinity”?! 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:44 PM
1

😂🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 10:18 PM
4

She’s interesting, I like her, she’s funny as hell, and most of her advice is solid but she did just tout her french language skills and mispronounce 2 common French names in one video. So a little caution is advised there...😂🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 03:26 PM
18

Whomp whomp 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 11:02 PM
17

Polish guys are often really hot. ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 11:02 PM
16

Don’t be too hard on yourself. It often takes several attempts to fully free yourself from an abusive relationship, especially if you’re dealing with a narcissist. All you can do is reblock him, start the “no contact clock” over, and journal out all the shitty things he has done to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 10:20 PM
116

Look at all those old balding heads in his audience. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 01:13 PM
4

🤡: BuT mY lEgAcY!!1!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 01:01 PM
7

Why buy the whole pig, if all you want is a little sausage? 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 12:51 PM
4

Oh boy! Just think of how fun life would be having gross unwanted sex and constantly worrying about your appearance until you are eventually deemed unfuckable and discarded by an ancient scrote! What a wonderful life that would be!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 12:43 PM
36

For a guy who touts his “active” status, his chest is pretty concave...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 04:17 AM
39

Also related: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/mf48b5/if_your_partner_does_this_run_in_the_opposite/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 04:02 AM
77

That is so classless and LV. My mouth was hanging open reading this. I bet a lot of people are going to decline his “Big Brother house” birthday idea. That’s some teenage bullshit. He should be embarrassed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 01:32 AM
34

Agreed. So gross.... he’s giving narcissist vibes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 01:16 AM
47

🤣👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 01:14 AM
14

You’re not overreacting. This will end up with you hurt if you stay on this course. I’d cut him off now. He’s being dishonest, is seeing another woman, and probably has a drinking problem. That’s not HV.
/r/askFDS24/06/21 12:56 PM
4

Same! I’m 42 and no wrinkles! This guy’s skin has 3-D furrows around his eyes and forehead! And it’s dry and dusty looking! He was a vain guy too, I don’t get it....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 04:24 PM
3

Good! They need a dose of reality!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 03:40 PM
2

https://memedrop.io/meme/RyN1qZyZ563m
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 03:39 PM
7

Yes! I went out with a guy who I think was 44 or 45 when we went out. He did some boating as a hobby and he told me he never used face moisturizer or spf. All that reflecting sun on the water! I saw a recent pic of him online and it’s only been a year or 2 and his face skin looks like an old dry-rotted leather handbag! WTF! I even told him at the time that was huge mistake and he better correct that or he was going to have a much harder time getting dates. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 03:38 PM
5

That’s disgusting. Men have no respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 04:20 PM
6

Tinder is for sex. Reread the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 04:17 PM
2

Narcs love mirroring their target too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 04:45 AM
33

Wise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 03:46 AM
2

This is so good!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 04:56 PM
3

I mean the bigger issue is asking a flipper for advice. This is the wrong way to go about it. Flipping is originally a derogatory term used to describe someone who does the least to get the most profit. You’re trying to buy a historic house, you want someone who is sympathetic to and knowledgeable about these sorts of houses. A flipper is more likely to poach the listing from you and buy it behind your back and then tear out all the elements of character and paint everything grey. And predictabl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 03:56 PM
5

That was my first thought too. He is likely lying. A death is the ultimate excuse that can’t be questioned. Unless you’ve seen the obituaries, I’d remain skeptical. I know it sounds harsh but I think he could be using as a back up option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 02:05 PM
37

I hope he gets caught and has to register as a sex offender.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 03:10 AM
5

I think it was this one 😂 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/it-was-simple-the-betty-broderick-murders/id1513430448
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 02:48 AM
40

Yep. Never date an ugly man. Ask me how I know... 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 02:39 AM
19

I thought they did an amazing job on it too! I had listened to a podcast about the story but seeing it acted out is even more impactful. What she did was wrong but I totally understand why she did...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:43 PM
7

This is the dustiest thing I have ever heard of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 03:22 AM
107

Ok I’m glad I’m not the only one who was like “why is a man suggesting vodka lemonades?” 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:04 AM
10

It’s really nice that you offered that. I think that would make a very good impression. I’d recommend saying “Would you like me to send you an Uber or CashApp you fare money?”
/r/askFDS19/06/21 08:05 PM
8

G R O S S
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 07:11 PM
18

Let’s think about it another way too... say you wanted to treat a female friend of yours to a nice evening. You might ask her if she has dietary preferences or if there’s a particular restaurant she’s been dying to try. But when you were planning on taking her out, you probably were already brainstorming ideas of where you could go, so if she said “you pick!” You would do that. It’s very lazy of him to expect you to do the research. Given this weird behavior, I’d think he’d expect you to go 50/5…
/r/askFDS19/06/21 06:15 PM
11

That’s how I feel about it. They may or may not even be super conscious about what they’re doing but the end result is still the same: they get to see if you will scramble to accommodate them and they get to see where the bar is for your acceptable standard of date. Interesting isn’t it?
/r/askFDS19/06/21 06:09 PM
34

He doesn’t want to waste his time researching restaurants but thinks it’s ok for her to spend her time in this way. This is the kind of man that will use you as a personal assistant or social secretary.
/r/askFDS19/06/21 05:32 PM
14

These are all good points. You really want him to pick the restaurant because then you can see how well he esteems you. Does he take you to a shitty fast food place or does he choose a Michelin starred restaurant? Him forcing you to pick seems like a shit test to see if you’re a pickme. It’s kind of like how the standard advice when negotiating is to try to make your opponent put out the first number because it is often lower than what you would offer.
/r/askFDS19/06/21 05:30 PM
46

Oh gross. That is so unhealthy of them. You just know they were still having sex...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 03:43 PM
18

😂😂😂💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 10:39 PM
6

I like FAFF, thanks for doing this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 07:14 AM
6

Excellent post! Very thorough, clear, and accurate. This is such good advice and I wish I had read it years ago and not figured things out the hard way. I can think of one pre FDS relationship where I screwed up most of the above recommendations. 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 06:57 AM
17

I love the energy of these Russian TikTok ladies. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 06:40 AM
5

😂🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:22 PM
10

Oh yes, of course, he would like more free labor...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:58 PM
33

Omg...he’s looking for an incubator
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:41 PM
13

Right, sis?! This ain’t The Notebook, m’kay... Ryan Gosling he is not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 06:37 PM
35

“Oh! I’m sorry, I thought this was a * date *!” 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 02:51 AM
20

If I ever get married I’m getting one. I’ve been through hell to get my house, renovate it, and keep it. No scrote is going to take that from me! My last break was a really bad mess over the house, I’m not repeating that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 11:32 PM
19

Right?! Being dishonest to your spouse is being a jerk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 09:40 PM
10

It’s such a scam. I understand wanting kids, but it’s been completely normalized for women to get totally screwed in the arrangement. And they try to get women to have kids very young before they know better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 09:37 PM
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