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Wolf children. It's an anime movie and one of my favourite ones. It's about a very sweet single mother who tries to raise her two werewolf children in the countryside after her werewolf HVM dies lol. It's a surprisingly realistic movie and it evokes a lot of bittersweet emotions. It makes me cry every time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 09:04 AM
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Normalize? They just don't want to do the bare minimum, it's not like social norms forbid them or anything. They dictate what's normal and what isn't at any rate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 01:26 PM
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Ironically the female phenotype is the default. I think they know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 05:32 AM
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Evil shits filled with womb-envy. Nature didn't give them such power for a reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 05:31 AM
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No, sex robots will actually increase sex crimes and violence against women, much like child rape dolls given to pedophiles result in an increase of their crime rates. The catharsis theory has been proven to be nonsense already. This bullshit isn't "therapeutic" or "harmless fun". Pushing boundaries with a doll that is mean to imitate human beings, women and children to be specific, will only desensitize men and make them lust even more after real women and children, which they also categorize a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 05:30 AM
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I've accepted how crazy and disgusting men can be, but I still can't stomach women's spinelessness when dealing with them. I can't even feel any empathy for these tools anymore lol. Patriarchy has been fucking with our brains since day 1 of our lives? That's true and all, but for how long are we going to use it as an excuse? Just tell men like this to eat shit already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 05:19 AM
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How ironic of him to mention Spartans, the women used to send their 7 y/o sons to the military to become useful and obedient instead of coddling them forever. Seeing the men of today I'm starting to think that they had the right idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 10:55 AM
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Why do they assume we give a shit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 10:50 AM
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Because they control everything and that includes public opinion. They have greater influence over culture because they have more power. Hence why no one gives a shit about their victims or their crimes. This is also why they are so resistant to the idea of women gaining power, our interests greatly conflict.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 05:13 AM
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We are more targeted precisely because we have greater freedom. Restrictive laws and force no longer limits us as much as it used to, so fraud and manipulations replace them. If a woman is intelligent and lucky enough to be born in a first world country then her life is almost guaranteed to be significantly better than the lives of her predecessors. It's true that men's hatred is becoming more overt, and it's a testament to our progress. The only thing I worry about is that women won't act quick…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 05:08 AM
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Why do they show so much pride in the utter lack of effort? Is it some kind of coping mechanism? It's one thing to show no effort, and another to proclaim it's true love and ideal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 04:59 AM
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HVM aren't a different species, they're just men you don't know the innermost thoughts of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 04:49 AM
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I feel significantly worse for the generations before. At least these days how a woman's life turns out is the result of her own choices.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 04:48 AM
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There's nothing wrong with MBTI. The problem is with men using anything and everything as an excuse or justification to behave in unacceptable ways, be it a personality test or "love languages".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 07:34 AM
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Why are men so confused all the time? It's like they're going out of their way to complicate things for themselves. "Men like things, women like people. Why this new attitude?? >:(" You dumbass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 05:24 AM
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It might also be because of iron deficiency. Women have that more often than men. It made me very sleepy all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 05:15 AM
51

Same, it's why I'm planning to have a daughter but without a man involved. Unfortunately it feels like society actively tries to make such a thing very difficult or impossible for most women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 05:12 AM
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Exactly, frankly I'm very frustrated with this aversion women have to guns. Guns are a tool and the great equalizer, by all means women should be all over them. But no, why try to compensate for your lack of physical strength and find ways to defend yourself when you can just blame male violence on guns and avoid them like a coward forever? Lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 07:43 PM
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It depends on the usual factor, is there a man in the house or not?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 07:41 PM
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I think all women are inherently repulsed by this kind of emotional and pitiful display by men, but we've been bullied into ignoring our gut feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 07:33 PM
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Males whining is the most disgusting thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 07:28 PM
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Men aren't even remotely dense, although they sometimes pretend to be. This is one of their biggest lies, and even if it were true it's still a very undesirable trait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 02:31 PM
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Haha, If assuming I'm subhuman is the default state of men then they call all go fuck themselves. What's dating?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 11:40 PM
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They must prove their humanity to us, you mean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 08:12 PM
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I've come to understand that this a sign of mental weakness. Men hate the fact that themselves and their abilities are being judged and sized up by the critical female gaze, it makes them anxious. That's why so many of them have sexual performance anxiety and hate women for not being objects. Misogyny is their way of coping with this anxiety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 08:08 PM
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I know this scrote is terrified that every woman he gets in a relationship with will compare his nonexistent efforts to his brother's dedication to his wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 05:36 PM
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How this isn't the primary concern of most women with lvm I'll never understand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 09:09 AM
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I think this is a sign that your psyche is healing from all the misogynistic abuse and conditioning. You're returning to a state that is more natural to you, and no longer feel the need to adapt to what society demands of you. I think you should take pride in that and just do whatever you feel like doing. It's nothing to worry about. Reading a bit about compulsory heterosexuality might help you understand what's happening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 09:06 AM
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Yes, but this time against men, not women's healthy and natural behaviours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 09:02 AM
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Porn-sick, damaged goods. She should find another one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 09:01 AM
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Right? If a man is going to be a peace of shit and a burden to all those around him then he could at the very least be nice to look at. They won't pick a struggle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 08:54 AM
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You don't see women doing such things entirely unprovoked because women don't actually hate men, we aren't capable of hating men. Any aggression from women to men is reactive, and abuse statistics reflect that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 08:50 AM
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That makes sense, since their very existence is the result of a chromosomal disfigurement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 08:48 AM
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One of the gifts of the internet is being able to look in the deepest parts of the male psyche. It opened my eyes to how truly... different they are from us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 08:45 AM
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Yeah, I'd literally rather die than have my body produce one of these.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 08:43 AM
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In my opinion, a woman can never be sure about the true nature of a guy until he feels comfortable and that he has "secured" her. Vetting is a very good thing to do, and red flags almost always there, but you never truly know until you're vulnerable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 09:43 PM
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So you're saying that no decent-seeming and romantic men become lazy slobs that do no housework and tire out their wives after marriage and kids? Sure, overt violence and aggressive behaviour is easier to spot early on, but what about the lazy scrotes that just want a second mom they can fuck? Are they as easy to spot all the time? Forcing one's wife to do all the household labour and childcare is abuse, but it's not a very obvious kind of abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 07:34 PM
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All this is very true, but it's not something that can be achieved by conversation and explanation when it comes to women like that. The facts are obvious and everyone can see them, FDS isn't saying anything groundbreaking or unheard of. At best, we're spelling out things that everyone knows but doesn't really want to address and shed light on. There needs to be a fundamental change of heart/mindset in order for these women to act in their own interests. They are traumatized victims that almost …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 07:16 PM
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It looks like those women's intuition was warning them of what a creep this guy is "Are you serious with this "show empathy" bullshit?" Yikes. "I feel like I'm going to be called an incel" lmao, even he can tell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 06:06 PM
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Don't give too much stock to IQ tests, and besides you can always heal your wounds and get smarter by investing in yourself and gaining knowledge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 12:59 PM
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Yeah, it sure is better, but can a victim of systematic abuse and brainwashing make the better choice? Sometimes they don't make the good choice, but does that mean we shouldn't give a shit about them, or that they're evil? Fuck no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 12:54 PM
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At some point we'll have to learn to separate the desire to have children from marriage with men. The fact that marriage and children are considered to go necessarily together only makes sense from a male perspective, as they are honorary parents, in a sense. It can be that way, but it doesn't have to. What's necessary for children is money and support, and men barely provide the former, if that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 12:42 PM
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There's always flags, women spot them and get called crazy for doing so. Hard disagree. I do give all the shits about the women and their daughters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 12:39 PM
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I actually want this, non-ironically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 11:59 AM
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Um..a lot of these women were deceived by their men. They're not cruel and selfish for falling for a carefully crafted male facade while being gaslighted and called paranoid by society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 11:57 AM
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I've read that women these days agree to marriage with supposedly pro-equality men and then are greatly surprised to find out their men changed behaviour after they got married and pregnant. They can put a lot of effort and thinking in pretending they're someone they're not, until the woman is vulnerable. There's a reason abuse against women drastically increases during pregnancy, they've got them bound and captured. I don't believe shit men tell me these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 11:56 AM
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I've read somewhere that the longer women stay with men the more their IQ decreases. It looks like at the beginning of the relationship she had a different opinion because her scrote didn't have enough time to fuck with her mind yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 11:53 AM
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I don't argue with men, I'm not even honest with them about anything, much less my preferences. Honestly, I can't see why one would. I have to put in effort myself not to tune out when they talk, but that's also tiring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 08:10 AM
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They haven't been socialized to think shit. They're always the ones thinking of different ways to normalize their depravity and make it sound like a hobby instead of sick and damaging addiction that it is. Men who watch porn/pay for sex are the reason sex trafficking exists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 08:05 AM
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Not to mention that porn is too disgusting to look at. It's always men using and abusing women. Men who watch this every day are damaged goods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 08:01 AM
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"would you be in therapy for porn if it weren't for your gf?" "No" "So you're not addicted to porn then?" Male logic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 07:59 AM
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"any guy that talks to a female" What a worthless peace of trash, I don't need to read anymore. If this male is unhappy he deserves it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 07:45 AM
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Men want to be treated as if they have the value of women when that is just not true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 07:40 AM
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Sure, as long as he carries and births half the kid and spends hours in front of a mirror before every date trying to appeal to my sexual tastes. He better shave his balls and body too. While we're at it, he should also take care of all the chores himself, on top of working and earning more money than me, to compensate for how other men are like and general misogyny in society. Now that's 50/50.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 07:39 AM
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With how desperate some women are to keep their scrotes you'd think they're millionaires or something. This is just sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 07:30 AM
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"re-ownership" of a word? "Redefining" and "reclaiming" a method of oppression to make it "empowering"? I can tell you're new here, but you'd do well to get rid of such naive ideas. "Triggers" fuck's sake, lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 11:40 AM
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Most of them are too stupid to understand complex sciences of that sort, but they're not dumb enough not to understand women or the consequences of their actions. They lie about their intellect when it suits them, they pretend to be smart when it's convenient and brain-dead when it isn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 11:32 AM
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"bitches" Never say this again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 11:28 AM
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Is "radical" a bad word now? Most things posted on FDS are radical, simply because they prioritize women's safety over men's feelings. Prioritizing female benefit? Also radical, extremely radical at that. Society by default serves men's interests, so being radical is a very good thing for a woman to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 07:21 AM
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It's important to note that nobody actually thinks we're irrational and hateful. MRAs, regular men and pickmes are the most horribly insincere groups. They're the ones that make up exaggerated fake FDS posts and treat them like they're real because they real ones are too reasonable to actually condemn. They know, they're just using this language to make us shut up. They so terribly want anyone who calls out the truth to shut up. That's why they send extremely sociopathic messages and violent thr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 07:12 AM
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Why does he want to have access to you so bad? Someone who has fucked up this bad should be too ashamed to even mention it to anyone else, much less seek contact again. This pedophilic male has plans and bad intentions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 07:03 AM
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It sounds like you understood that "conversation" just fine. This is basically my opinion. The other commenter says that it's misogynistic and hurtful and is too quick to take offense at anything rather than try to understand. This aversion to analysing and labelling self-harming female behaviours is what keeps us stuck in shit. Furthermore, projection isn't necessarily defensive projection, it means to assume that another person/group experiences or perceives the world the same way you do. Wome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 12:46 AM
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If you refuse to address women's systematic self-sabotage then you won't "build up" anyone in here, including yourself. Female projection very much is a thing, and it harms women. It is when women assume men are anything like them, or that they experience equivalent abuse/grooming at the hands of patriarchy, which is a male construct that ultimately serves male interests. Men are fundamentally different to an incomprehensible degree for women. If reality is painful to you, that's your own proble…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 11:31 PM
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Hostile? Negativity? Rude and hurtful? It's criticism. You sure like to use these words liberally. I read your entire comment, you keep going on about grooming. I disagree, men and boys aren't being groomed, women and girls are being groomed. There's no grooming for men to resist. Everything is working as they intended, including women's assumption that men are victims too. "Stop choosing negativity. We are here to build each other up, not tear each other down." Such a thought-stopping statement…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 10:30 PM
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I have my way of escaping from this, and my terrible temper makes me a less favourite target. She's the one I feel bad for. I don't think she's going anywhere unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 09:25 PM
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Let's be honest, nothing happened to the scrotes during their childhoods. They're just nothing like us. "Our entire society groomed" Oh how horrible, that this terrible third party groomed and manipulated the poor and vulnerable male population, which most definitely had nothing to do with any of it and was simply the prey of a greater force beyond their control... Please. Stop the female projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 08:21 PM
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Honestly, I can relate to feeling the need to react when it comes to close family. Mostly because I can't stand being like my mother, just standing there while being insulted/having her sex be insulted in her own house and showing no reaction. It's disturbing to me. I react with hostility and malicious comments, because I can't believe a filthy scrote in my house would dare say such things. My mother keeps saying that "not putting up a fight" is easier, and I'd agree if it were temporary, but sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 08:15 PM
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Lol I mistook you for op, but I'm glad to hear that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 08:06 PM
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Something else, you seem to feel that the guy denying that he meant it, or calling you sensitive are consequences that should be avoided. It's as if you want advice on how to deal with their reaction. In truth, their reaction doesn't actually matter, their thoughts don't matter either. What they say after you call them out or don't laugh isn't actually a consequence, just them being...what they are. So stop fearing it and just walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 07:45 PM
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You think such a thing is worthy of a response? Grey rock and minimize all interactions. They're fishing for an emotional reaction because they're dead inside. Don't give a shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 07:31 PM
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Ghosting or breaking up over text is met with such extreme rage and hatred from men because it allows women to exit a relationship without facing physical danger. They want to punish/traumatize us for leaving them, I think it's quite possible that this is what happened to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 01:10 PM
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The problem I face isn't about getting over all that I know about male nature or what I've personally experienced. A cute face and a cheery demeanor can make me temporarily forget. Unfortunately every time there's something that instantly turns me off and reminds me of what I'm dealing with. Be it a single offhand comment about how terribly women age while we're in a group (where half the guys have started going bald and have forehead wrinkles, mind you), a racist remark, a sign of jealousy or d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 06:40 AM
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"Submissive" lmao, are men stupid? Women are only "submissive" when their husbands are rich and give them money. Not when they're leeches and losers like this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 06:09 AM
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Most of the time their mothers want to fuck them too. Those women are the same ones who despise their sons' girlfriends and wives. Something fucked up is going on here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 07:15 PM
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If such a man were my son I'd feel a personal responsibility towards society to redeem myself by undoing my error of shitting him out. I don't know how his mother isn't filled with shame and disgust. I will never face such a problem though, as I'm also only going to have a daughter. My womb and my desire to nurture aren't meant for males, and it's my fundamental human right to decide what I will produce with my body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 07:14 PM
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Understanding the differences between women and men means to understand that female children and male children just aren't the same. We turn out vastly different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 05:41 PM
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They say "behind every great man there is a woman" for a reason. Might as well start standing in front of them rather than behind since we can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 05:23 PM
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Men have long desired to deprive women of the ability to self-create. In some cultures of the past a woman being known even by her real name was considered a shameful thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 05:19 PM
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If refusing sex with men has negative consequences and punishments for a woman then it isn't consensual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 05:16 PM
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Their sons often prey on other women, and the mothers are women too. Therefore women are a species that's creating its own predators, no? Also, sons systematically enable and support a patriarchal system that actively harms their mothers. This is an unpopular opinion, but adult sons fully relying on their mothers for anything without seeking their own independence also harm their mothers, and take advantage of their nurturing side.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 04:54 PM
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I'll do you one better, human females are the only animal that knowingly births and nurtures their main predator. Maybe we are dumb as fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 03:45 PM
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Actually, women are far more rational and mild-mannered than men are and we have been their slaves for most of human history. Let's accept it, if we were a fraction as malicious and predatory as those cowards they would think twice before stepping all over us. Being physically stronger and bigger isn't enough for men's weak characters to feel confident in overwhelming us. Women's spinelessness and romanticized "kindness" are the reasons men are able to fuck us over constantly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 03:38 PM
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Women are inherently disgusted by men crying and male weakness for this exact reason, our intuition can always tell it's an insidious manipulation tactic. This is why men guilt the shit out of us for a perfectly natural reaction, they want to prey on our empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 03:32 PM
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If this happened recently tell her to get tested. Women should get tested if they suspect their husband has cheated just once, in this sort of situation her own health should be the first thing on her mind. If what you said is true then she definitely has gotten diseases from him. If she doesn't want to break up, then at least tell her not to have sex with him again because she'll catch something if she hasn't already. Unfortunately some deadly diseases aren't detectable very early. She probably…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 11:39 AM
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If being cheated on and actively endangered by her scrote hundreds of times hasn't changed her mind do you seriously think a Reddit thread will? She doesn't care about herself, she has no pride or self-respect. Friend or not this is her own problem to solve, not something you should burden yourself with or something you could even solve if you tried. Be a good friend if you want, hang out and have fun, give her some advice and support here and there. That's it, her problems are solvable and it's…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 10:31 AM
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In cases like these I can't help but notice nobody mention the pattern of male violence against women. The commenters are all about "warning sings" and how to avoid "emotionally abusive people". They say how freaky it is that psychos like that look like normal and ordinary people, with nothing distinguishing about them. They never ask or point out that these people are always men, or that their victims are always women, or children. They're all about solutions and advice, but nobody acknowledges…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 10:25 AM
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Ah, that's because marriage inherently benefits men to an immense degree, so there's no need for brainwashing to convince them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 04:07 PM
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I know this is FDS, but If the concept of dating men causes you mental anguish and stress then consider the option of not dating at all. There's no time limit or "wall", there's no need for you to hurry either. You can change your mind eventually. Freezing eggs is a thing too. Males are simply not worth losing your peace of mind. They never were.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 03:57 PM
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Men act like this when they are unlovable but are also useless. Men need us regardless of their financial situation, because they're inherently incomplete creatures. Women don't need men once they're financially independent and emotionally healed, they barely desire them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 03:47 PM
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You know, your idea about paying a competent woman doesn't sound that bad. I'm sure women would be better husbands to SAHMs than men are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 03:42 PM
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I'm very much against hook-ups or casual dating, so don't get that impression. That doesn't mean I am interested whatsoever in marriage. I don't know who's life story you're writing here, but it's definitely not mine. A story of a woman who lives a miserable married life after being promised that there'd be equality by her once-perfect boyfriend isn't my story either. I've said this before, but having children requires sperm and money, not necessarily men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 01:34 PM
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Are you asexual? I feel the need for a good fucking every day of my life. A loving, attractive man who can make me orgasm and give me immense pleasure would be something I'd consider paying for myself. Of course I wouldn't, and such a man is hard to find, but what I mean is that if sex is a chore for you that needs to be compensated for then might as well not do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 01:10 PM
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I like how interacting with men can only go two ways. He's using you but you're married, or he's using you. This is FDS, but my interest in dating slowly withers with every post I read. The notion of marriage is disgusting, but the alternative is shitty too? Nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 01:05 PM
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It's their only coping method, poor things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 01:03 PM
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Also do the chores around the house after work since men will for sure half-ass them. Who are we kidding? They won't do shit. The children will probably starve or eat unhealthy food while mom's working.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 12:58 PM
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"She is incredibly intelligent"...and I'm incredibly skeptical of this statement. Women who don't understand how men work aren't that intelligent, in my opinion. Men have all the freedom to do what they want. If stay-at-home dads aren't normalized it's not because of gender roles imposed on men, or a lack of freedom, or society's shaming (let's not forget who created gender norms). It's because they don't want to, and if they want to, then they don't want to do it properly. A lot of men would lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 12:55 PM
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That's because they're completely worthless and can't actually compensate for their lack of participation in reproduction. The implication that they'll have to contribute financially, as they can't contribute in other ways, makes them nervous, because they're too useless even for that. They hate women who won't do the bulk of the labour and want compensation for the skewed reproductive and parental responsibility. To give some perspective, a man who only works still doesn't contribute as much as…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 12:49 PM
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Don't let filth like that interact with you, block messages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 12:41 PM
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Make sure your daughters grow up to be financially and emotionally self-reliant. Allies are a good thing but if you depend on them you're done for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 08:13 PM
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I just don't give a damn and don't empathize with them on any level. It's actually quite easy and it comes naturally to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 08:08 PM
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Why? Doesn't that give value and attention to what they say? I look at men and hear their views, and I see nothing worthy of getting vindictive over. They're mostly trash, let's just leave it at that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 07:27 PM
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There's way too much focus on what men love and what men want in this society. Unfortunately, men aren't actually important, and what they want isn't important either. It's necessary for women to understand this and stop caring about how they're perceived by men. It really doesn't matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 05:35 PM
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I don't share this pity. It's not like most of them didn't come from a traditional nuclear family, where the mother was doing the bulk of the labour. In my experience most of them are as judgemental as they are spineless. They're filled with envy towards free women and the only thing they can cling to is their title of "wife and mother". They constantly complain about how unhelpful and useless their husbands are but they never reach some kind of breakthrough or conclusion. Cowards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 05:29 PM
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The only way in which women should help men is by calling the police, meaning other men, to help them. There's no reason a vulnerable man would ask a woman for help, or why we should risk our safety when they have a history of preying on our misplaced empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 06:49 AM
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This has nothing to do with opinion or morality, aggression and several deviant behaviours are partially caused by genetic factors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 12:21 AM
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Presicely why I've stopped giving a shit about pickmes, male-identified women, and especially cowardly women. I only care about myself and women who brave and strong enough to stand up for themselves and loudly fight for their interests. So many weak characters benefit from the efforts of powerful women and yet seek to preserve their imagine as traditional feminine ladies and never fight for themselves. I don't care if it's because of how they were raised, it's disgusting. By remaining silent th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 11:07 PM
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Also, we live in an age of technology and the great equalizer. We have 0 excuse to fail. The only thing that holds women back is how timid we are. FDS is not even remotely aggressive though. It's actually very reasonable and neutral. Your perspective must have been skewed by the extreme pick-meness all over Reddit. I've seen "aggressive" feminist forums. They were really fun, to say the least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 10:53 PM
6

He's probably afraid you're a lesbian, hence the obsessiveness around you getting a boyfriend. His conservative views support this possibility. Perhaps he's heard your opinions on men/dating and thinks you're not attracted to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 10:50 PM
17

Womb envy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 10:44 PM
55

"Rehabilitation" This has always been funny to me. Pedophilia isn't a mental illness, it is the sexual manifestation of a monstrous psyche. Pedophiles are inherently evil, that's why they enjoy the thought of raping children. We aren't clean slates that get tainted or are afflicted by mental illnesses, not always at least. Some human beings are born evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 10:43 PM
32

Yes, and this has nothing to do with vengeance or punishment. Pedophiles and their supporters are so self-centred they really think it's always about them and their inconsequential emotions. No, it's about removing a danger from civilized society, and about ensuring that demons won't reproduce and inflect humanity with their genes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 10:40 PM
15

You don't have to stand your ground though? Tell the moron to shut the fuck up and wash a dish. Does this loser even contribute to the household? If he's stupid tell him to be useful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 10:36 PM
94

The last one is very true, and will eventually become a problem for women. Women must necessarily learn to rely on force to preserve their rights, because men will rely on force to take them away. It's sad, but we can't pretend we live in a safe world if we want to be free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 10:34 PM
23

I hope he has fun in there. All men should be in an isolated environment only with other men if they hate women so much. There's a reason they're terrified of the concept.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 09:20 PM
21

Because they identify with the devil, that's why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 09:17 PM
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Because they have a desire to feel powerful and masculine. Grown women can see very well that they aren't these things, so they seek out younger girls that are more easily impressed. Similarly, men often want virgins, because women with sexual experience can tell they have tiny cocks that can barely get hard, or that they don't fuck well. A lot of pedophiles are truly pathetic, and with a deep fear of women that they express through hatred and defensiveness. Much of the oppression women face can…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 10:49 PM
6

Consent? For assault? Nothing questionable about it. If a suicidal person demanded to be killed would it make killing them ok? Fuck no. Some people are crazy as fuck, taking advantage of their mental vulnerability for the sake of sexual gratification is depraved. Slapping, strangling, or beating someone during sex because they "consented" doesn't make it any less of a crime. Let's not forget what's real and what's bullshit here. Liberal feminism has raped our brains and altered our perception of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 06:03 PM
2

They also aren't feminine whatsoever. The word "feminine" is used to describe a number of things in our society, but it's almost always correlated to elegance, beauty and kindness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 05:57 PM
21

Yes, much like the "post-nut clarity". These idiots think like women for 2 minutes and feel enlightened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 05:52 PM
13

Why are they this crazy and defective? There's something truly sick and it's in their DNA.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 05:50 PM
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Many women, in this subreddit and elsewhere, were or are like that. What's important is that you changed and know better now, some never learn and it's unacceptable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 01:18 PM
24

We need to stop blaming porn and start blaming men's general mental weakness. There's a reason they're prone to addiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 10:46 AM
9

You don't have to tolerate them. I don't even converse with filth like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 10:45 AM
58

I like men who are socially inept. They're easy to figure out and block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 10:43 AM
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The only thing I despise more than male leeches is women who help build up men at their own expense and constantly self-harm for the sake of scrotes. They usually think they're harmless saints while indirectly sabotaging the entirety of the female sex. I'm tired of pretending I'm not disgusted with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 10:41 AM
118

Porn, drugs and video games don't do shit, much like guns don't go off by themselves and commit murder sprees. It's all male weakness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 10:39 AM
42

Seriously, sperm impregnates women. What's in their ballsack is more so our business than it is theirs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 08:24 PM
23

Dumb creatures act like they spawn at 6 feet tall. Women shat out and took care of those hairy animals. If only their mothers had thought of them in the same way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 04:35 PM
13

This has occured to me before, but boy moms don't tell their unfortunate accidents to shut the fuck up often enough, and this is the result.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 01:50 PM
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I'd lose my shit and fly into a rage if a scrote pulled this on me. It's insane. Males inflicting violence on women are defective in the brain. Crazy bastards who casually commit violent assault like that are meant to be reported to the police and be publicly exposed for what they are before they have the chance to escalate. Never let filth convince you that their crimes are something that warrant conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 01:46 PM
28

We keep talking about male projection but our true enemy is female projection. Those fucks are nothing like us, so empathizing with them is utterly pointless and equivalent to self-harm in such an unequal society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 09:36 AM
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That's the problem, female projection. Men don't give a shit about things women care about. The only thing they care about is access to sex, even getting and spreading diseases is fine as long as they get sex. Women think men care about children and earth? LMFAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 09:33 AM
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Such a thing will never be normalized because the reason men refuse to do things is because women will do them at the end of the day. Men know that if they don't take birth control women will, because women want it more and they're the ones who suffer the consequences of pregnancy. Men also don't care as much about diseases but women care more, just another reason women will take it. Men don't do chores because they know women will do them even if they complain. Men don't take care of children b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 09:30 AM
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It sounds like she's damaging your mental health and your efforts to help her weren't successful. She will only change when she decides to change, make the difficult decision for your own sake and stop talking to her. Your mental health comes first. Surround yourself with people who are willing to change positively and have common sense. Also, when you feel pity, crush that feeling. It comes in the way of making rational decisions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 07:01 PM
8

It's true that their sexual urges are completely controllable, but the fact that they choose not to control them shows both their malicious nature and weakness of character. They fail to resist to something resistible. This should serve as a reason to mock and condemn them, rather than absolve them of wrongdoing. They're both evil and pathetic for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 06:49 PM
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You're getting into a whole different topic there. I never implied they were entirely separate issues. What I'm disturbed by is the fact that racism makes women more alarmed than extreme misogyny. This is something that seems to be very abnormal to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 04:31 PM
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Some are especially terrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 02:13 PM
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What is the point of his statement? Single men are very often predatory, and men are almost always predatory in situations that allow it, especially if alcohol and drunk women are involved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 02:13 PM
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Literally like a pack of street dogs. They even get more aggressive in groups just like them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 02:10 PM
12

Since "evolutionary psychology" and the like are mostly a mess of weak theories we can easily flip the script on men. It is natural for women to have the status and authority to enforce female sexual selection and reject subpar males and their genes. Coming in the way of this through establishing male supremacy only damages the species and the quality of our DNA. Men aren't all meant to have a chance at reproduction, which is proven by their minimal participation in reproduction and how easy it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 02:06 PM
7

"Impartial"? "Therapy"? Does it bullshit only sound stupid to me, or? Just tell her to get away from the abusive, energy-draining bastard and don't bother any more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 08:01 AM
10

Your brother isn't a bad person? You just wrote an entire post the conclusion of which isn't only that he is a bad person, but a terrible husband as well. Is it because he's your brother that you're being so gentle? Maybe your sister-in-law is a doormat because she thinks the same way "my husband isn't a bad person, he just does bad things". This constant coddling of men is why women will always be beneath men in this society. Men don't change, not permanently anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 07:57 AM
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Let's stop using the phrase "at least" when referring to depraved shit men do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 07:49 AM
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I find it very disturbing that the extreme misogyny doesn't alarm many women, but racism does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 11:21 PM
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Yes, I know. This exactly what I find to be very disturbing, that women often don't recognize misogyny but they do recognize racism. Oppressed racial minorities don't experience the same problem from what I've seen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 08:15 PM
2

Yes, since women being considered subhuman isn't anywhere near as alarming to women as people of other races being considered subhuman. Yeah, I don't know how I feel about this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 08:00 PM
2

...The fact that it was the indirect connections to racism that made you realize and not the extreme misogyny that defines the tradwife lifestyle rubs me the wrong way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 07:58 PM
8

Video games in and of themselves aren't a bad thing, they can be a nice distraction from time to time. Entertainment just for the sake of entertainment. Unfortunately men often get addicted to gaming, and don't understand the concept of moderation when it comes to things they enjoy. Playing video games isn't an occasional thing for them, it becomes a lifestyle. This is why I unapologetically avoid men who consider themselves gamers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 05:05 PM
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Exactly. I am a heterosexual woman, therefore I'm far more concerned with what I like in men and my own preferences rather than the preferences of the objects of my desire. Society is in general very incompatible with female sexuality and extremely focused on the male gaze. We need to change that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 11:01 AM
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Autism makes life more difficult for people who have it, therefore the rest of us have a responsibility to raise awareness about autism, and show understanding and care towards autistic people. This doesn't change the fact that good mothers will always take measures to ensure that the lives of their children will be as easy as possible, and decreasing the chances of autism is a part of that. I've gone on subreddits of autistic and neurodivergent people, most of them are very unhappy about both t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 08:49 AM
8

Oh yes, of course different women will have different standards. However I'm not sure I agree when it comes to fat men. Chubby women have an advantage when it comes to survival, that's why females have a higher percentage of body fat in their bodies, while male obesity and excess fat are completely unnatural. Honestly, I'll never be convinced that a woman who says she likes fat men genuinely likes them and isn't virtue signalling for pick-me points, but at the end of the day they can like who th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 02:12 PM
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No, this isn't the trauma of a child angry that his parents separated, this is the indescribable rage of a grown male at the notion that a woman could escape his grasp through divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 02:06 PM
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Lack of tact in men is very unattractive. That guy must have thought he was on a date with his buddy, not a lady.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 01:56 PM
16

Even tradwives try to erase this shit from their brain when they hear it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 01:54 PM
14

They do have a monopoly on testosterone, which is a good thing, as they make stupid mistakes in their anger because of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 01:53 PM
13

The great equalizer is a gift from the heavens that we haven't even begun to realize just how valuable it is for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 01:52 PM
7

Unmarried women should be freely allowed guns, since they have no "protector" and are also more frequently preyed upon and harassed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 01:52 PM
14

Gun control for men. Almost every mass shooter has been male. And I mean an astounding 99%. The mentally unstable, irrational male sex surely shouldn't be allowed such deadly weapons, for the sake of our children and society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 01:50 PM
29

Nazis? You mean the ideology almost exclusively men subscribe to?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 01:49 PM
24

Hilarious. He can't even think of anything truly terrible women have "done" to men. Just bullshit exaggerations and lies. Pathetic little idiots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 01:43 PM
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You rank men on various matters for mate evaluation. Ranking them based on their looks/height is no big deal. It's not like we're objectifying them, the way men do to us, and it's not like we're dehumanising them, removing their rights and raping them because of that. The female gaze isn't the male gaze. Women ranking men and men ranking women will never be the same or have the same consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 01:40 PM
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That's what removing women's rights are for. Simple manipulation and grooming aren't enough to get women and girls to tolerate their ugly hairy selves. I swear if men put as much effort as women do into looking appealing they wouldn't need half of the insidious coercive tactics they use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 12:56 PM
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"Develop psychiatric problems" = Develop normally as an adult female without the damaging influence of grooming and male manipulation tactics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 06:15 AM
15

Are you sure about that? A lot of women voted for Trump and pray every day the handmaid's tale becomes a reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 06:14 AM
28

I wonder how they tolerate their ugly and fat husbands sleeping next to them and raping them. They probably laugh uncontrollably like that woman from a Reddit post in order to cope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 06:12 AM
11

I felt bad for them when I didn't know about how they think. Usually tradwives are pickmes that pride themselves in being stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 06:09 AM
15

The first thing I think of when I hear "MRA" is "crazy man". The first thing I think of when I hear "tradwife" is "stupid woman". Women like that pride themselves in sabotaging their own lives. They really allow the most unhinged and unreliable human category to hold all the power, not only in a relationship, but in their lives as well. All else aside, it is a stupid choice. At the very least most of them pay the price for their stupidity one way or another.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 06:08 AM
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They're useless for pedos though. That's what they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 05:58 AM
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The number keeps getting smaller because women keep getting smarter in younger ages. They're listing the age of their ideal prey and soon it will be only teenagers. As a matter of fact, if you look through their forums you'll see many of them say they want a teenage girl, or even younger, to groom to become an "ideal wife". What they're saying is that their desires are inherently incompatible with the nature of a mature female brain. They want to rape children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 05:55 AM
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25 is the age when the human brain fully matures, so women aren't as vulnerable to their manipulative bullshit by that point. Hence why they're supposedly "useless" even though, funnily enough, at the age of 25 women are the most fertile and capable of giving birth without suffering harm. MRAs are born useless, so I see no reason to care at all for what they say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 05:50 AM
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Men are going to treat us like shit regardless of what we do, might as well treat them the way they deserve. It's not like males aren't meant to be the objects of women's desire, female sexual selection is a powerful thing. I think women are holding themselves back too much when it comes to viewing men as what they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 05:45 AM
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Why do I see this word all the time when referring to men? They're not unaware, they're more aware of this stuff than we are. All this manipulation is by design.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 05:43 AM
11

"I'll lose interest if..." This scrote doesn't know his place. I wouldn't have even replied to that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 05:35 AM
5

We should really return the favour already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 10:31 PM
6

It's incredibly unfair that women are expected to shave when men are the ones looking extremely ugly with a lot of hair all over their bodies and face. There should definitely be much more attention placed on male body hair, rather than the comparatively little hair women have. The fact that they have the audacity to complain about "hairy feminists" while looking like chimpanzees under their clothes is unacceptable imo. It's gross as fuck and normalized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 08:08 PM
10

Yes, someone "respectable" enough to be his worst enemy must be a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 08:02 PM
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Most women are attracted to fit young men with symmetrical faces, increased stature and exaggerated secondary male sex characteristics. There's bound to be assholes among the most preferred and sought after males. Of course, ugly men are even worse, but few women are desperate enough to discover such a thing. My point is, sexual attraction is a very simple thing we unnecessarily overcomplicate. If you look at a man and feel the desire to touch him and fuck him, then you're attracted to him. If y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 07:54 PM
32

Begging someone to come is lame. Almost as lame as her not going because her bf can't come.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 07:40 PM
10

I never argued that priding themselves in this idea of being masculine wasn't something some of them were into. My father is one of those men. It's convenient for women, but ultimately it's just a way for them to stroke their own ego. It's a superficial thing. It doesn't come from a place of genuine understanding, compassion and responsibility, hence why it eventually diminishes in almost every instance, after years of marriage. I'll admit it is pleasant to be the recipient of such behaviour tho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:28 PM
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Mirroring is a good way to understand what humour means to men. Make equivalent jokes about boys, men and their genitals that would otherwise be horrific statements and watch their faces twist in horror and rage. Remember when one woman jokingly tweeted "I'm pregnant, about to find out if it's a girl or an abortion" and men absolutely lost their shit? Yeah, the original line was from a movie, and it was slightly different "is it a boy or an abortion?". Nobody gives a shit about such jokes when i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:10 PM
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Masculine energy was always kind of a myth imo. Them paying was the unfortunate consequence of ensuring women had 0 power and no way to make money. If you have a slave you've got to feed her out of your own pocket, and all that. They decided to use this necessary sacrifice to make themselves look like gentlemanly saints and providers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:03 PM
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They don't actually think that, but they want us to think that. It's a bad lie, but it's all they have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 09:58 AM
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They really think it is comparable to the length and girth of a penis. The "size" of the human vagina is dynamic, and no man ever genuinely complains when it comes down to it. Let the poor things cope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 09:57 AM
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They call it "girl inches" but it's actually guy inches...these bastards only ever lie to us and we believe them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 09:55 AM
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When exactly did I say that not everyone has emotions. Expressing emotions "intelligently" doesn't serve their interests. They are emotionally intelligent in the sense that they perfectly understand their own emotions and the emotions of others. Approaching others, namely women, with sincerity and maturity in regards to their emotions simply doesn't serve their interests. Their choice to be apathetic and dismissive is a calculated decision, so calling them emotionally unintelligent isn't accurat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 01:16 PM
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I don't believe in this myth. Men are extremely emotional and openly flaunt their emotions constantly. They want to center their emotions even further by pretending they're not allowed to show them. It's all a plot to get everyone to worry about how they feel instead of what they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 01:01 PM
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Sounds like a personal problem. "Understanding" men will provide no catharsis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 12:57 PM
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There's this notion that understanding men's intentions is necessary. It's not, a lot of them are mentally ill and beyond our understanding. This guy is a waste of time, that's all you need to know to block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 11:39 AM
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It's his business, the only thing you'd get is mental illness and trauma. It's men's businessess, and marriage ultimately serves their interests. Getting back at them through these two things is kind of impossible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 11:16 AM
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I'll be honest, but women who help men build something earn my scorn and disgust more than men themselves at this point. At least men care about themselves and their own interests and will never invest their our resources and energy into helping a woman and her business develop. Doing so inside marriage is bad enough since the man will be the one who will get all the credit and who owns everything at the end of the day, but unmarried? Call me harsh, but I have no sympathy for stupidity. Women ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 11:13 AM
13

Men aren't emotionally unintelligent though, they just don't give a fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 11:00 AM
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Why does it matter? At all? If a men leaves you emotionally dissatisfied and neglected then he's just not worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 10:59 AM
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Have you heard of the term "female projection"? You have a hard case of one. They're nothing like us, so empathizing with them to the point of assuming they miss out on what you would if you were in their shoes is pointless. Most men very much prefer having a stable access to mediocre sex at home, and occasionally performative sex at a brothel where they have to pay. Women's rights are getting in the way of their favourite lifestyle. Men aren't suffering sexually, that's another case of female p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 02:45 PM
14

Are men smart, or are their wives shouldering double the burden so that their husbands can pursue their career and dreams with nothing holding them back?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 02:29 PM
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Men, with few exceptions, are an extremely mentally fragile species and this becomes more obvious by the day. I don't know if it's because nature didn't intend for them to be more than a reproductive utility, but ultimately their decision to become leaders of society has resulted in nothing but exploitation and violence. They have no resilience. They're prone to addiction and easily submit to temptation and lesser urges. They have no concrete sense of self, hence why they're prone to forming the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 02:27 PM
11

Men and guilt? That's female projection. Men keep saying porn is empowering so that women will believe it and do nothing about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 02:13 PM
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Patriarchy didn't fail men and boys at all. Failing to educate males on the female reproductive system and producing spineless women all serve male benefit by neglecting women's pleasure. Men don't have to worry and stress themselves over whether they can pleasure their women, because the women are too dumb to demand pleasure and seek men that can do it better. Really, everything is working as intended, which is bad for us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 02:07 PM
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Something else I'm sick of is pretending this is a matter of nurture rather than one of nature. "a man that has had basic empathy, decency, and morality instilled in him during his formative years, would NOT go on to become an adult with an incest/pedo/zoophilia porn collection." Are you sure about that? Little girls are often abused, neglected and mistreated and other times loved and raised with responsibility and empathy. In either case, they don't grow up to become adults with incest/pedo/zoo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 07:46 PM
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I've given a lot of thought to this, and I simply can't sacrifice my desire for a daughter, but I don't have the selfishness to give birth to one in a world made for men either. The best idea I've come up with seems to be to adopt a girl from disadvantageous circumstances, like one that was born in a third world country for instance, and give her a better chance at life in a first world country. I'll get to have a daughter and give a little girl that already exists a chance at happiness and self…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 07:33 PM
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Women and men can't be friends. Even in situations where the attraction is one-sided, it's still not friendship because friendship is supposed to be entirely platonic. There's a reason women instinctually dislike their men's female friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 08:30 AM
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It's as if they want us to have had bad experiences or something. I've gotten similar messages but I've never personally had a major bad experience with men. As if observing them and how they mistreat other women isn't more than enough to draw conclusions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 08:25 AM
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Gladly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 09:10 PM
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Not anymore. I've recently decided to only care about myself and my mental and physical health have both vastly improved. I'm not risking getting autoimmune diseases worrying about others and insignificant matters anymore. Women would do well to be more selfish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 09:02 PM
30

What's all this talk about "fair" and "deceitful"? It's hilarious to watch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 08:58 PM
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I can see the way you're trying to censor yourself and prevent your hatred and rage from seeping into your words and I want you to know I feel exactly the same way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 08:56 PM
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If you view dating men as only having two extremes, one being marriage and the other being a forever-girlfriend then I guess. Other than that others might like doting and pleasant male company without wanting to include them as members of a family, meaning not wanting to marry them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 08:43 PM
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Men benefit more from marriage, hook-ups, and having a forever-girlfriend. Men always benefit more than women do in all these situations, because that's how the world they made for themselves works. The question we have to ask here is, what choice benefits women more than the other choices? If you want to find out what situation women benefit more than men from, you won't like the answer at all. It's female separatism. You can't beat men at their own game, unless you don't play. But this is fema…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 06:07 PM
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Unconditional love is something women's children get and men want to remain children forever. It's like their brains never fully mature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 05:58 PM
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Does anyone else feel a rush of power at the realization of how dependant and fundamentally weak the male psyche is? They really never outgrow the state of a fetus sucking away his mother's blood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 05:53 PM
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Enablers are definitely bad, but they're not "just as bad". Let's not forget who, or what, committed homicide here. If you remove the enabler, murder still happens, if you remove the murderer, it doesn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 10:17 PM
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I'm typically against marriage, but this situation sounds like they're basically "married" to their men in every way but legally...so they miss out on the protections and benefits marriage provides. Just plain dumb honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 10:13 PM
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Well, I sincerely admire you for having the willingness and the energy to spare to help another woman. It's no easy thing, and I couldn't bear the anger and disappointment of investing in someone just for them to never truly change their ways. Hopefully your efforts will be successful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 10:11 PM
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They look like regular men- oh wait
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 10:02 PM
18

In truth they don't misunderstand anything, they just use excuses and plausible deniability to get away with evil and calculating behaviour. He knew very well that she was nice to everyone and wasn't attracted him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 10:00 PM
8

If that's the way you feel then you should stop. If you ever feel like you're not being listened to/understood or than your efforts are in vain then it's objectively not worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 09:54 PM
5

Sometimes it is sincere but they just revert to their old ways right after. Sincerity isn't enough, the willingness to change is and that's their choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 09:53 PM
47

I'm skeptical of personality tests in general, this one included. I have to wonder if this common female personality type is influenced by culture/upbringing or if it is something women have a biological predisposition to. On the other hand, men are mostly of other personality types and they are even easier to radicalize/manipulate and are more prone to having extreme opinions and a tendency to idealize others(ex: Trump boys).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 09:42 PM
56

Pick-mes really are fanatics. Overzealous psychos. I wish someone would look into what's wrong with them on a psychological level because there's something there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 09:31 PM
49

Being of this age group makes it very difficult to identify with them and feel for them, but I understand how the circumstances around young girls shape their minds for their entire lives and make them vulnerable to abuse. The damage sometimes is so great that they never learn their lesson, they just get used again and again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:59 PM
94

Well, you can call me harsh but at least women with self-respect don't get deceived by them. If a woman willingly decides to date such a man then it's on her and I have no pity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:40 PM
11

I'm very happy to see another future mother by choice. I'm sure there'd be a lot more women interested in this life style if they were aware it is a legitimate choice. Even in this subreddit, a lot of women automatically assume that a woman rejecting the idea of having children with a man means that she's rejecting motherhood altogether, which is very disappointing. Men can be a member of a family, but their evolutionary purpose is to be a vehicle for sperm and a reproductive assistant, not nece…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:45 AM
14

We need to stop caring not because pissing men off is inevitable, but because we need to understand that they're the ones pissing themselves off with their unreasonable expectations and entitlement. Men's behavioural problems have nothing to do with us and how "nice" we are, they're just confused, hormonal and insane, case closed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:38 AM
27

It's because women are too apologetic and pathetic. If women as a group didn't give a single shit about men's childish tantrums they wouldn't have anything to say. We've made ourselves vulnerable and they view us as prey because of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:35 AM
28

All those scrotes should be grateful we're not laughing at them when we listen to their bullshit and instead give them a polite rejection they don't deserve. The reason they have such audacity is because we're too nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:33 AM
73

Imagine having to verbally request affection from your husband, now imagine having to buy it. Ridiculous and embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:29 AM
34

Solving all of men's problems, giving them intelligent advice and unconditional support makes women good tools in men's eyes, not good lovers and capable allies like women seem to think. Being reliable, pure and motherly lets them get comfortable, and disrespect you. They view such women like dogs. Many of the points you listed are basically this, men finding dog-like women and taking advantage of their dog-like qualities. The way I see it, it is in a woman's best interests to feign being unreli…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:24 AM
165

At least women know to stay away from them. This is much better than men pretending to be somewhat clean until they get married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:05 AM
2

That's not what I meant. You can call it "lack of fathers" If you want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 06:42 AM
13

Do children require a traditional nuclear family in order to develop normally or is this another case of "correlation doesn't equal causation"? In the society that we live in fathers that abandon their families belong in more marginalized, poor and crime-ridden communities, hence why they're more likely to abandon their offspring. Are single mothers themselves the reason why the children often develop issues, or are the exacerbated problems a woman in an already difficult situation faces as a si…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 11:31 PM
64

They do consciously acknowledge this, but not where women are around to hear it. The key to opening women's eyes is encouraging them to read what men post in their forums and spaces where they think women can't see or hear. The internet is a gift in this sense, meaning that it violently shatters every female delusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 06:56 PM
16

Being apologetic and "fair" with male lunatics is pointless. They call us evil and psychopathic for preserving our mental health and exercising bodily autonomy, for being human. At the same time they're the ones causing the vast majority of suffering and violence in the world. They're supporting global sex trafficking and slavery industries, raping children and women, murdering, starting wars for profit, or enabling all these crimes. Negotiation and conversation are all completely meaningless. E…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 06:20 PM
10

Why do you think about this from their perspective? Their inner world is worthless, the point is that they shouldn't feel comfortable enough around you to say those things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 06:11 PM
11

I don't know about you, but I'd take great offense to some filthy scrotes feeling comfortable enough to spew this bullshit in my presence, and I'd let them know too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 06:07 PM
178

Easy to answer, because women are desperately in love with an idea of men that doesn't actually exist, and men are smart enough to play the part until women are shackled by marriage and pregnancy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 06:02 PM
230

More specifically, I think that men intuitively understand that they're not a necessity to women in the same way women are a necessity to men. Being included in a woman's life means that a man has to add value to it in different ways, since he has no inherent value himself. This expectation enrages them, as they exist for women and can't live without them but are too prideful to put in effort to make themselves worthy enough for women's approval. They despise the fact that they're prisoners of t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 04:26 PM
2

It's like those dog rescue videos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 07:56 AM
20

Imo it isn't acceptable to have a random man you don't know wandering around your house, even if his leash is held by another woman...a pick-me at that. You can't have everything in life. You can't rent a place at a small price with other women and still have your potentially dangerous scrote attached to your hip at the same time. To add to that, I've cohabited with other women before and in my experience once you allow them to bring men over they will keep pushing the boundaries of what is perm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 07:49 AM
4

There's a HPV vaccine for males that reduces the chances of spreading it to sexual partners, meaning women. Of course it isn't even well-known because men never do it. It's interesting, we have so much leverage. We could refuse having sex with them altogether unless they're fully tested and vaccinated, but we don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 07:21 AM
8

When you have sex with someone, you're indirectly having sex with every other person that he had sex with, especially if it's a whorish scrote that never used a condom in his damn life. A woman can be the most sentimental of virgins that wants to only sleep with her prince charming after marriage and still get every disgusting disease under the sun because her husband had an "adventurous" past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 07:09 AM
3

Upon reading one of the first comments I tried to find out if condoms protect against HPV strains. What I found wasn't encouraging at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 07:05 AM
4

Arguments with men about testing and the validity of concerns about STDs shouldn't even exist. Women attempting to convince scrotes of anything shouldn't be a thing. He refuses once? He's a fucking memory, if that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 07:04 AM
2

I feel like this isn't actually as much of a legitimate excuse as we think. There are middle-aged women that think similarly and teenage girls who wouldn't tolerate such worthless human beings around them that don't serve their interests. I mean, sure, brain maturity plays a role, but how much? I don't feel sorry for people like her anymore. Actually, as a woman barely older than her, I'll admit I'm disgusted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 10:27 PM
19

She hasn't changed as much as she thinks she did if she does this random bullshit instead of just leaving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 06:39 PM
50

The fundamental reason behind men's lack of progress and mental stagnation is their biological weakness and tendency to get addicted. They get easily addicted to alcohol, drugs, gaming, power, porn, money, sexual success, hating others. They lack the self-control and the prefrontal cortex required to resist temptation in a world filled with it, and they lose themselves. They don't develop as people and exist as meaningless addicts with no empathy, values or substance of character. It's sad, but …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 06:33 PM
60

Not having children with a man ≠ not having children. Men are a vehicle for sperm...you can get sperm directly from sperm banks these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 02:20 PM
653

The fact that he won't stop whining about how much he hates himself so that the comments will go easy on him. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 09:57 AM
5

I can't help but see this is an attempt to frame a men's problem like a women's issue in order to gather female support, and to blame women. No, shaming men for being virgins is shaming them for being socially incompetent, unattractive and "unfuckable", so to speak. Virgin men are also often bitter and very aggressive, so that's another reason why they're being picked on. It has nothing to do with the objectification of women, OP doesn't successfully explain why he thinks that it does, and all o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 09:52 AM
30

The fact that he thought this was plausible enough situation to be believed by others shows just how delusional older men are about their attractiveness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 09:38 AM
27

The vagina doesn't change shape after sex or masturbation, but men can easily destroy their dicks with porn and the death grip and as a result become sexually useless. It makes you wonder how they have the audacity to spread such lies when they're the ones who are guilty of damaging themselves and their genitals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 09:34 AM
15

When men think they're the prize and hurt themselves in their confusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 09:28 AM
6

The only way to make marriage beneficial for a woman that doesn't need marriage to survive, but wants it, is to make men care enough to divide labour. Men know that If they don't do chores the chores will be done anyway, and they also know that if they neglect their children they will be taken care of by someone else (the mother) anyway. Even in the situation where women don't take care of chores/children, I don't imagine men will take up all the responsibilities of women as they're too used to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 07:34 PM
3

I already said that marriage is beneficial to women in certain situations, so I can only assume that you didn't read my comments properly. What I was questioning was the benefit of marriage for a financially secure woman in different circumstances in a first world country. Marital rape often involves the use of coercion, and it doesn't happen rarely at all. Also, our culture and financial dependency on men both enable marital rape. Sure, you can try hard to find an HVM, but as they're a minority…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 07:20 PM
3

You surely understand that discussing what benefits different women and what doesn't in regards to their relationship with men isn't illegal in a dating subreddit centered around female benefit? Such discussions might be uncomfortable for people who have a certain fairy tale in their minds but if you can't accept the reality of something you're going to have difficulties dealing with it if it must become a part of your life. "You get a divorce", that's easier said than done in many situations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 06:31 PM
17

You explain the positive aspects of marriage, but how do they exactly invalidate the negative ones? "How is this in any way an FDS stance to take? FDS is staunchly against being a forever-girlfriend. " I've asked this question in this forum before, meaning how to reconcile the understanding that marriage can be a handicap in a woman's life, with the idea that being a forever-girlfriend is an undesirable outcome. I received no satisfactory response, but what I asked is whether marriage is a good …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 03:34 PM
16

A rapist shaming you for defining rape...I've just stopped taking into serious consideration anything males say altogether. The jokes write themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 02:17 PM
24

The problem isn't only marriage, it's also that women aren't compensated at all for the extraordinary public service that is producing workers and citizens. Women literally create society and we get taken advantage of for it instead of the opposite. We suffer for it, while men, a population incapable of producing human beings benefits from the powers of our bodies and how they handicap us. It's insanely backwards. We should demand what we deserve for doing this, services and resources that will …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 01:22 PM
35

Marriage is the greatest obstacle to women's progress in today's world. It's the reason very little has changed in regards to women in politics and science.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 12:43 PM
19

Kind of irrelevant but saying "men" and "females" in the same sentence is weird as fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 10:24 AM
-1

Not every prostitute supports prostitution or is a liberal feminist. There are certain choices a woman makes in this world that result in her needing to leave work in order to take care of children, otherwise men would do the same, wouldn't they? This world isn't equal and husbands don't act like it is, just how many more examples do women need to stop being surprised when their "feminist" men do a 180 after marriage? Inexcusable naiveté should be treated more harshly. This tolerance towards fem…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 09:35 PM
-2

Yes. A woman is being financially dependent on a member/members of the male sex either way. Sure, a madonna is considered superior to a prostitute, but it's still one of men's favourite, and only, acceptable female roles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 09:27 PM
35

They're not even valuable for their reproductive capabilities if you think about it. You can easily store and freeze a massive amount of sperm in a facility to satisfy the entirety of the female species. It makes you wonder what men are even there for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 12:03 PM
9

No. Misogyny isn't based on a lack of knowledge or understanding, as some may think, but on the inherent nature of the individual. If someone is inherently evil and desires to be above others, that's the way they were from the day they were born and no amount of knowledge can change their nature. Unlike what people like to think, not all of us are innocent at birth and are later tainted by others. Human beings are more complicated than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 11:11 AM
10

This power men have gained for themselves above women has given them the ability to shift the natural dynamic. Men are supposed to dedicate their romantic energy to women and compete with each other and develop positively, all this in order to have a shot at reproduction. Women are supposed to form powerful bonds with each other, as only we can appreciate the emotional investment of other women and there's no drive for us to pursue men. We have the womb and we aren't possessed by sexual desire, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 11:07 AM
112

And yet women are more than eager to sacrifice their lives to save those of their sons...of males. This favour is never returned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 10:59 AM
30

Perhaps even your life. I wouldn't put it past this freak to keep the bodies of previous renters in his basement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 10:57 AM
75

It's also because men are more prone to poor self-control, crime, addiction and burning bridges.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 10:56 AM
1

"The notion that men require sex is especially detrimental to young boys". I'm speechless. This conversation is over and I shouldn't even have reduced myself to starting it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 10:52 PM
2

Comments like this remind me why women are still eating shit by the mouthful in this society. Occasionally I remain alone with my own thoughts and forget. You'd never see an equivalent comment coming from a man, for all their faults they're at the very least smart enough to prioritize themselves in the rare situation where they're the ones getting fucked. You're the one who brought up the nonexistent hatred of the male sex, interestingly enough. So eager to jump to their defence and protection, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 09:05 PM
1

Having the option to remain single seems a relief at this point rather than a last resort lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 07:31 PM
1

Truthfully I never understood the "sex work is sexually empowering" argument. Isn't refusing men sex instead of making it readily available the greatest expression of sexual freedom? Furthermore, having sex with specific men out of pure desire instead of a desperate need for money is far more powerful and an actual exercise of bodily autonomy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 07:02 PM
156

I call bullshit on that. If that was true then men wouldn't go out of their way to look disgusting, they'd put effort into looking beautiful like women do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 06:55 PM
0

Why's your focus on the impact it has on males, instead of little girls? Even in your first comment, why do you make no reference to little girls, who are the true victims here, but talk about the impact on males instead? And by the way, what you mentioned is simply older generations of males teaching the younger ones how to take advantage of their resources and thrive, it's the opposite of harmful. Trying to get men and pickmes to sympathize with our cause because it's "harmful" to "young impre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 11:08 AM
1

Their inability to think outside the box in a world full of opportunities we never had before never ceases to amaze me. I guess they're just stupid after all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 06:14 AM
-5

How about you stop shouldering responsibility that isn't yours and find friends that are smarter than you are instead of dumber? If her own experiences and knowledge haven't convinced her OF is a bad idea, while you know that's what it is, what could you possibly do to change her mind? Sure, send her an article or two, but don't lose sleep over it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 06:11 AM
18

Why do women seek valuable advice on such matters on a male-dominated site like Reddit? Is it not common knowledge that women and rationality are not easily found here? It's just a bunch of porn-sick degenerates no woman in her right mind would ask advice from irl, so why does this happen on the internet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 06:03 AM
1

Yeah...watch your drinks and don't have male friends...ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 07:35 PM
35

It's a good thing she at least knows she's dumb, maybe she'll refrain from such stupidity going forward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 06:31 PM
28

It's hilarious and absurd how it makes some people genuinely angry that men can be the object of women's lust and that women can experience physical attraction to specific male traits. Apparently we should only be the object of men's lust with no desires of our own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 07:21 AM
12

What could possibly be a greater issue than that of women's rights, and those of little girls? It's something that can't be overshadowed by anything else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 04:18 AM
68

I don't know about narcissism, but you can tell he's a delusional and manipulative moron if you just read the last screenshot. It's laughable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 04:13 AM
68

Just dry? I'd be regretting everything and trying to claw my way out. There can't be a more horrific nightmare than an ugly man raping me, and it could only ever be rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 07:50 PM
8

Normalize calling men weird and annoying to their face when they're acting like this. How cringy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 07:42 PM
16

They're hurting themselves with their entitlement. Well-deserved, I say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 07:39 PM
311

I don't understand the concept of giving a man you're not attracted to a chance to begin with. If sexual attraction doesn't exist, then what's the point and what do you stand to gain exactly? It's not like men are a necessity or anything. Attractive men are inherently desirable, unattractive men are simply not. It's that simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 07:37 PM
22

It's an attempt to rile you up and discredit you, since that's harder to do if you're calm and collected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 07:33 PM
19

That's like saying we were given a stomach to fill it with food all day and utilize no other parts of our body. However it is true that our unique ability to give birth, and as such hold absolute control over reproduction, is a tool that we should take more advantage of in order to elevate our position in society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 07:30 PM
7

The fact that they buy into this double dichotomy, either a traditional woman (private prostitute) or a prostitute, tells me that they're pickmes of the other kind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 07:14 PM
4

I believe mothers have much greater influence over the development of their daughters than that of their sons. If you raise a daughter with love and teach her self-respect, she will naturally pursue her own self-interest and will have no incentive to sabotage herself for validation. Pickmes are girls that have been failed by their mothers. They're actively self-harming, unlike entitled men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 01:06 PM
3

Did you know that women who go for sex-selective IVF chose daughters 75% of the time? Just a fun fact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 12:42 PM
3

Men really act like they spawn as grown 6ft tall adults... They forget who shat them out and chose to nurture them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 11:24 AM
5

Bring back sexual selection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 11:22 AM
4

Do you seriously think that abusive men were taught by their moms to be cruel and entitled, while magically the daughters of the same households are unexplainably better human beings more often than not? Understand how limited a mother's influence is in regards to the development of her son. I know of some truly horrible men and boys that were raised in decent and loving families, with mothers than are absolutely distraught over their sons' violent behaviours and addictions and keep asking "Why?…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 11:16 AM
25

Such an action requires a well-developed prefrontal cortex, so unfortunately it's often beyond their capabilities, to put it nicely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 11:01 AM
6

Men are also much more replaceable since they're easy to get and their participation in reproduction is very minimal and limited to sexual intercourse, so there's no reason to stick with older men at all. Personally when I will have a daughter I'll go out of my way to find a young 20-something man for that. There's just no reason not to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 10:59 AM
16

Lmfao, this nonsense isn't harmful to young boys so let's this bullshit out of the way, it is harmful to young girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 10:56 AM
11

One of the main issues I have with male appearance is their extreme body hair. A little hair is fine, but some of them look like apes instead of people and refuse to do anything about it. Once I was talking with a guy I kind of liked and suddenly he stretched his arms and I saw a disgustingly hairy armpit and I was...just no longer interested and I wanted to leave. I was mostly shocked by the fact that he showed absolutely no shame. Don't even get me started on beards and facial hair...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 09:23 AM
38

Also, let's normalize calling men crazy when they act disrespectfully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 09:16 AM
12

Why does she sound surprised? Of course he won't respect her if she acts like his mom instead of like a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 09:14 AM
22

I'm not sure I like the subtle implication that traditional marriage is any better than prostitution. Has the word "traditional" been romanticized so much we've forgotten what it actually means? You're private property, your husband's personal sex slave instead of a public prostitute. Women did right to pursue financial independence instead...the fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 09:10 AM
4

It does take at least one person to prevent a pregnancy, but that doesn't mean that someone has to suffer for it. Refusal to have sex with entitled males prevents pregnancy just fine. My point wasn't that you're incorrect, it was that this mindset, of "someone has to do it" relates to the hesitancy women have with abandoning subpar men and instead tolerating more than they should to keep the peace and maintain a harmful relationship. It's the same mindset that results in women taking care of all…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 10:59 AM
7

Good, don't risk your safety fighting another's battles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 08:41 AM
19

I think his girlfriend of all people knows what he's like. OP should just block his accounts and minimize contact with this loser. She shouldn't have entertained him to begin with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:58 AM
13

I think we need to learn how to cut our fucking losses here. A man who refuses to wear a condom should be wholly rejected, blocked and completely disregarded by women as a sexual partner. A loser that refuses to wear a condom can't condemn anyone to anything, and can't force any woman to deal with that bullshit. It's not true that someone HAS to take responsibility. Women don't have to do anything if men refuse to. What a dangerous mindset. It's always our choice to reject sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:49 AM
19

They're so unreliable that they'd lie about taking it. Just use condoms and avoid casual sex, it's not like we can't live without it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:43 AM
42

Men don't refuse to seek therapy because they're "too afraid to show vulnerability uwu coddle me more", but for the same reason they often live in filth, fap all day and prefer to starve and eat trash rather than cook for themselves. These men are too entitled to the labour of others to care for themselves. They're above that lesser female shit. We're their slaves and we're failing at our jobs, in their delusional minds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 03:10 PM
50

Just don't date depressed men. Dating isn't therapy, it isn't something that should be of equal opportunity. It is the personal choice of a woman to date anyone she wants, and she affects nobody else but herself by refusing to date men or any group of men. Only predators who view women as a resource believe otherwise, and use guilting tactics to gain access to them. Dating should be done between mentally stable adults. Women are burdened more than enough by their own problems to shoulder those o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 03:07 PM
3

A fit and healthy young man with higher-quality sperm would quickly solve this issue, grandpa.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 10:40 AM
9

Men's inner world has lost so much value in my eyes that it no longer bothers me to use this clever lie. Who cares what they think and who they respect, as long as the ugly creeps are off your back? You can laugh at their delusions later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 10:36 AM
100

Friends don't always tell each other everything. Perhaps you wouldn't think of all of them as HVM if you were married to them yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 10:32 AM
8

By 25, I expect a woman to not blame another woman barely older than herself for her shitty father's terrible parenting decisions. It isn't an absurd expectation, she's just the same kind of human being as her father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 08:52 PM
20

Women, and females in nature, only show nurturing behaviour to their offspring, if that, and almost exclusively if said offspring is healthy. Females, which are the default phenotypes of species, do not feel any inherent desire to nurture grown males, and often treat them with caution, tests, and hostility in order to filter out those unfit for reproduction. I can tell the entirety of her self-esteem hinges on the romanticization of womanhood and male nature, to the point where it's pitiful, but…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 08:48 PM
218

This is why wives can't bring themselves to fuck their men after years of marriage. Extremely unattractive and child-like behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 08:34 PM
9

This has little to do with her trauma and personal problems and more so to do with her tendency to blame others for her own misfortune. She's at an age where she should understand who's at fault for her problematic childhood and who isn't. She should know that her father is to blame for forcing a random naive woman to shoulder responsibility that wasn't hers, and for the aftermath. She chooses to lash out at said woman anyway, because it's easy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 03:45 PM
21

How are verbal promises equivalent to parental responsibility? Half-hearted words that someone is guilted into saying amount to nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 09:25 AM
23

Why aren't you blaming Tamara? Instead of growing out of her childish, misdirected anger she proved herself to be just like her father, a worthless idiot that blames others for her misery when they aren't at fault. She's 25, she doesn't have any more brain development to do, this is her true character.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 09:24 AM
24

The apple doesn't fall far from the tree it seems. The children got taught early to blame the woman for living her life instead of their father for failing them when he was responsible. The fact that they remained just as dumb when they grew up shows that entitlement always was a part of their character. The "promise" was a laughable attempt to transfer responsibility to the poor woman. That guy hoped he could guilt her into becoming a mother of children that weren't hers through half-hearted wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 09:18 AM
2

It doesn't have to be said is the point I'm making. We need to stop giving pointless explanations and instead start making demands and stating our desires.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 02:59 PM
5

Our "viewpoint" is literally that we are human. I don't understand why it requires explanations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 02:46 PM
6

Surely just reading men's opinions on random forums and subreddits is enough to lose all respect for them and their general stances on things. In my opinion, an opportunity to engage with males on such topics in a forum specifically meant for it is enabling this internalisation young women are prone to. No matter how I see it, it''s a pointless and counter-productive subreddit that should be abandoned, and let others, like FDS, take its place and actually encourage meaningful and intelligent con…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 12:03 PM
7

Let that be a teaching moment for her. Women too often project their humanity and the way they view the world on a very different kind of creature. Just because you would be grateful for help doesn't mean a man would spare a thought other than how much he'd like to fuck you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 09:55 AM
10

I fail to see the point of conversations of this kind with males. It seems like a waste of time, they can't keep up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 09:50 AM
11

I'm not so sure about that. Don't forget a woman shat this thing out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 11:19 AM
14

Men have a whole lot to compensate for, and virtually no value to provide the moment they're no longer necessary. It makes sense for them to despise a world that changes in favour of women and equality of opportunity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 11:12 AM
1160

Women gave birth, raised and nurtured males with their blood and milk just for them to spit at their face like this. This is the one thought that won't leave my mind. It keeps repeating itself in my head. We just keep producing and nurturing our oppressors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 11:06 AM
92

Men will do anything but be normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:38 AM
14

Go a step further and make it female energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:33 AM
15

The male is human and the female is just female, according to them. Ironically, biology proves the exact opposite is true. Men are the distorted and alternative version of women, not the opposite. We are the default humans, and we must start acting that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:32 AM
2

Good to know, to avoid further horrific abuse of this nature, I'll be using the "you're ugly as shit" excuse for not having sex with men going forward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:27 AM
51

I think they understand, but they apply psychological pressure through such bullshit "rules" to force women into having sex when they're not comfortable yet, just because they want it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:22 AM
38

It's simply a way of guilting women into sex, and making them want to "prove" they're into a guy by putting out. Also, this concept helps men who want sex, but don't want a relationship to avoid women who are interested in the latter, while blaming a woman's "lack of interest" instead of the man himself for being a superficial whore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:19 AM
6

Don't worry about him too much, a freak like that definitely has backup accounts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:14 AM
65

Is it interesting though? Men are often self-aware, and just as often their actions don't match their words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:11 AM
22

"perfect prey" We literally drop men like a bag of shit at the slightest sign of unpleasant behaviour. These morons have reached heights of stupidity and delusion previously unknown to humanity. They're blatantly defective once you come across them, and only good for laughing at and blocking with no explanation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:03 AM
219

Men can be unpredictable and change, especially after marriage and pregnancy. Any situation in which it is difficult for a woman to walk away isn't a good one, and stay-at-home moms will have a very hard time walking away if something happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:41 PM
79

Males better start popping out children at this rate...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:33 PM
12

"lower-stress manner" Is it just me or does this seem kind of weak and pathetic. If you can't handle dating then just don't date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:31 PM
31

I wish more women would come to that conclusion. Time spent talking with a man on such serious issues is time wasted that could have been spent talking with a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:28 PM
20

What reproductive rights? Men are a sterile population, they lack wombs and will eternally seethe with envy because of it. Men passing laws on women's reproductive rights are trying to gain control in something that has nothing to do with them. When men say "our reproductive rights" what they mean is women's reproductive rights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:27 PM
37

"Testerical" has a much better ring to it. Such extreme hormonal and violent reactions from the male sex makes one wonder if they're a mere fraction as logical and fit for leadership as they claim themselves to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:20 PM
74

It's because only women suffer its consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 07:30 PM
21

They are managing to normalize themselves and become a part of society that is accepted. Their demonic nature will be embraced. Their depraved sexual urges, that are the fault of their evil nature and desire to dominate and destroy those that are weaker, are being blamed on some abstract mental illness, while the child rapists and wannabe-child-rapists themselves are supposedly innocent sufferers. We'll soon see even more "compassionate understanding" targeted towards them by malicious and brain…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 06:34 PM
5

I don't see the need to adjust our perspective and mindset to match those of our society in this space. I'll shamelessly put on a facade irl, but this is FDS. These types are insane and defective in the brain to perceive a lack of interaction as something offensive, that's the most I'll say about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 08:26 AM
-2

When you can't assert your authority through your own value and instead make up baseless accusations and state your age, as if it means anything. Please, grow up already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 07:51 AM
-6

Jumping to your defence at the slightest criticism and assuming I'm referring to you personally reveals your insecurity on top of your naivete. The random accusation of internalised misogyny just makes you look ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 07:29 AM
-5

Lol how naive. This is might be how white women think of women of colour, or how women with internalised misogyny think of other women, but not how men think of women. That's female projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 06:35 AM
8

That's because the men who get enraged about women being cautious of rapists and rapists themselves are the same group of people. There's a reason predators in nature prefer to remain undetected and have their prey be oblivious to danger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 11:40 PM
9

Whether or not it is possible for a woman to fix a broken man is a bit of a irrelevant matter in general, imo. Even if it was possible what the fuck would we gain? Cold hard cash and decent working conditions? I doubt it. I show no respect to dangerous men by staying away from them, that's just called a self-preservation instinct, and it has everything to do with the self and nothing to do with them, much like the term implies. I frankly don't spare a thought on them other than that, much like I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 11:35 PM
14

It's almost as if a group of people that do the most sexually depraved and predatory shit imaginable desperately tries to push the message that condemning and judging such behaviours is bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 11:16 PM
2

Yes. Cry about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 11:14 PM
38

The reasons this happens is obvious, they empathize. They see themselves in him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 11:13 PM
14

No it isn't, it works just fine actually. Most women serve this entitlement, and have for most of civilization. As a matter of fact, sheer deranged audacity to women as a resource has worked exceptionally well for them for thousands of years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 11:12 PM
14

They comprehend it just fine. What makes you think they're being genuine and honest with their own selves when presenting such ridiculous demands? Trust me, there's no misunderstanding here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 11:08 PM
27

Who gives a shit? Why can't we daringly and completely unapologetically say that their personal benefit is not our problem? That the choice we make is solely for ourselves, period? Why do we need to justify ourselves through pointing out what they gain from actions that have nothing to do with them? We don't exist to consider how respectful our actions are towards them, especially when rejection is a lack of further interaction, not an interaction that can possibly be "mistaken" as disrespectful…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 11:05 PM
29

And even in the common situation where you're safe from them, other women often aren't...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 10:59 PM
30

Sounds like you need to take some measures in regards to your emotions in order to survive. Sympathising with the entirety of the female sex as a woman is very important, but you'll have to limit that in order to not fall into despair. Watch out for your personal mental and physical health first, everything else comes second.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 10:56 PM
57

Having a relationship of any kind with an mentally and emotionally unstable male is the equivalent of keeping a chimpanzee on steroids as a pet. It could lead to your horrific death at worst, and there's no gain or incentive for you to do that. Those fucks punch holes in walls at the slightest annoyance, and that's when they're "normal".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 10:54 PM
51

Women calling men too stupid or oblivious to see misogyny is simultaneously the most hilarious and ironic thing. They understand misogyny better than we do...they carefully constructed and maintained it themselves for thousands of years. They love that cancerous shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 10:49 PM
52

Our leaders are radicalised members of the male population. To answer your question, fucking never.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 10:47 PM
8

Except each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 01:57 PM
10

That's the intention behind the moronic "not all men" and "women do it too" deceitful phrases. It's a deflection and a distraction from the rotten part of society and the source of all these problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 01:56 PM
27

I can't wait for the day when we will refer to people as women and males, honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 01:48 PM
10

I wonder how a woman can remain in a relationship with a guy after seeing how pathetic and weak he is like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:53 PM
26

Even when they slutshame women, it is always because of their crippling inferiority complex and fear of being compared and cast aside for a superior male. It was never about women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:45 PM
7

I have a hard time feeling bad for her because she is creating these nonexistent problems herself and as a result sabotages herself. I know a traumatic childhood is in part responsible for this but...just tell him to eat shit and die if you don't feel like fucking jfc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:41 PM
11

Mirroring is the best way to find out their actual opinions on this matter. I bet all of these scrotes despise the idea of their female partners mentally cheating on them and fantasizing about taller men with bigger dicks and looking at more attractive men on social media. Quite unfortunate, it is in women's nature to enjoy looking at multiple men, after all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 10:12 PM
37

Men should never get leeway when it comes to pushing women's boundaries. Unless a guy is certain a woman is receptive to his touch, there's no excuse. I'm getting really tired of people forgiving men on the basis of autism or mental issues, both of which are their problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 10:05 PM
13

No one will like what I'm about to say but even clean and responsible men become lazy husbands after you're married and pregnant lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 12:17 PM
10

Exactly, he is the one being inconsiderate and selfishly burdening someone else, but everyone acts like the man is the victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 12:15 PM
8

How fucking pathetic. This loser is incapable of even speaking to a waiter, and yet shamelessly attempts to date and burden another person he just met with his, frankly, ridiculous problems. An adult should be able to deal with such things themselves, not even his own mother should have to do such things for him. He isn't the only one in the world with anxiety and mental health problems, so he shouldn't act like it, he should have more consideration for others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 12:11 PM
7

Not so long, I bet he's going to steal several years of her lifespan and add it to his own. This is the typical result of such marriages between pathetic women and man-children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 11:38 AM
3

A woman shouldn't obsess with the "safety" of her own child to such a degree...much less that of a grown man. She's even content with his incompetence and child-like behaviour. Just what kind of Freudian shit is going on here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 11:36 AM
84

He attacked women because he despised women specifically, especially young, attractive women. The fact that women are physically weaker emboldened him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 11:32 AM
70

He's been hateful of women being happy for a long time, taking a knife to a train station is a calculated and unnatural decision, much like seriously injuring the young woman specifically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 11:29 AM
9

And I assume these men will be the ones getting pregnant, giving birth and taking care of chores...right??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 06:36 AM
4

Men think that, wombless and reproductively worthless as they are, they're being born and raised by women to be meaningless parasites instead of useful productive members of society. You're male and simultaneously useful? Good, that was the fucking intention behind the mutation that resulted to the male sex, and why you were invested in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 06:31 AM
11

As a 20 y/o woman, men older than 27 are unattractive to me, and men over 35 look repulsive and disgusting, nothing about them is sexually attractive, not even in the rare case they take care of themselves and look decent. They're like dads or uncles. No 20 year old woman has rejected young and fit men her age to go after an old fuck. The only thing young women like about older men is their money, but even then deep down they deeply resent them for looking older and being disgusting. This is why…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 06:09 PM
1

It's called strangulation, not "chocking", and I would consider this a repeated attack and potentially an attempt on your life. So many normal-seeming men are actually psychopaths like the one you met. He assaulted you and he's a criminal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 04:38 PM
11

Imo there's no such thing as "vanilla". There's normal, intimate and healthy sex, and violent "sex" that only mentally unwell and predatory people engage in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 04:33 PM
4

I won't be making that mistake lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 04:30 PM
226

It seems like the root of the issue here is male narcissism. Males, even of young ages, expect to be treated as if they're a gift from God by women and girls around them, when that isn't even remotely true. They can't cope with reality and develop violent and antisocial behaviours and sexual urges.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 04:27 PM
44

He wants to hurt them. His wording is extremely hostile when you consider that he's talking about women who simply don't want to be harmed during sex. He basically admits he has violent sexual urges.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 11:08 AM
14

I think they understand the concept of politeness and when a woman is disinterested perfectly well, but simply look for an excuse to harass a woman while having plausible deniability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 11:06 AM
36

This is the result of redpillers convincing men that they're the prize. How to avoid normal women? Don't worry my guy, they're the ones avoiding you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 11:05 AM
1

Men are just men no matter how well-educated they are. If they mistake you for competition and act antagonistic and unpleasant then don't bother with them. The level of education in and of itself doesn't mean anything imo, their behaviour does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 11:25 AM
3

She probably does that pretty often.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 11:06 AM
5

She wants to fuck her son, we can tell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 11:04 AM
3

I don't understand why whether or not it's a choice of if an abuser experiences remorse are of any value to begin with. If a male destroys property when he experiences an emotion, he is inherently defective and not meant to be a partner. I've yet to meet a woman with a malfunctioning enough brain to act like this when angered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 10:25 AM
3

"Chicks pay Tuesday" Lol hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 08:30 PM
24

This woman loves men more than they love each other. Incredible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 08:00 PM
40

Didn't you know that dick-worshipping is a global religion with fanatics? Little girls are raised to think of men in the same way children are raised to think of God in religious households.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 07:56 PM
29

Men's eternal plight is that they are women's children no longer. Sorry scrotes, such nurturing behaviour is reserved for our babies, so better pay up or fuck off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 07:59 AM
13

Meh, it's not your problem to understand the irrationality of the male mind. I just stopped giving a shit altogether and life is much simpler and more enjoyable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 07:46 AM
7

They slow meaningful change because they were never truly "moderates". To tolerate or remain neutral in the face of oppression is to silently enable and support it, while escaping responsibility because many people are too naive and well-meaning to see through such things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 07:45 AM
31

Not true. Dismissal is also maliciously done, and serves the same ends as outright justification, it's just a more clever and insidious way of going about it. It even manages to fool some idiots into thinking that it is indeed a lack of understanding, even though the reality of women's oppression is more clear to men than it is to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 08:32 PM
65

How naive of you to think of deliberate and strategic dismissal and malice as a lack of understanding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 06:23 PM
37

Fucking studying, avoiding marriage, pursuing financial & professional success and political power. Serving no one whatsoever except for ourselves. Voting for our interests for once. Investing our attention and resources strictly to ourselves and other women/girls. Creating unions and groups like this one. Our choices aren't either sucking men's dicks or starting a bloody war.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 05:49 PM
32

OP supports compromising your pride and humanity to get along with men...a fucking dumpster fire truly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 05:40 PM
28

What you have inside your head and what idea of you you present to men don't have to be the same thing, you know? Fake an entire personality to take advantage of social and professional connections, no need to debate your humanity with males for that. Men do this all the time anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 04:22 PM
62

Being purposefully obtuse isn't a honest argument. I'm more than eager to listen to different perspectives from my female friends and other women, not men whose interests clash with ours and who reveal their terrifying belief that male criminality is, even if only partially, the fault of women and their responsibility. Women and men will never hold each others' hands and reach a wonderful agreement after debating whether women are human, or an acceptable sacrifice to placate male anger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 04:08 PM
65

Lol god help us all. I can't believe the naivete of women sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 04:02 PM
17

How does this woman fuck her husband after this? It looks like something you would do for your little kid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 03:59 PM
117

"He's a good guy" you said. This man literally blamed male violence on women, or implied it which is just as moronic and malicious. He supports an incel argument. One of the first rules of misogyny is to blame male crimes on women. This aggression comes from within their psyche, it was never about us and how hard we tried.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 03:57 PM
152

"Men need nurture" No they don't. Men aren't children no matter how much they want to convince us they are. They don't need nurture, they demand it in the way a billionaire demands money from the poor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 03:54 PM
65

Yep. Single motherhood by choice is the way. Male companionship isn't a bad thing to have on the side, but including them in the family isn't a good choice imo. To add to what you said, the leading cause of death of pregnant women is homicide by male partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 03:50 PM
22

"I understand what she's dealing" HAHAHA no you don't wombless dumbass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 03:47 PM
20

If sex truly is about power like Wilde said then perhaps you're simply saner than all of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 03:22 PM
50

Sexuality is the most honest manifestation of the human soul. If a human being is inherently evil, it will manifest itself through sadistic and pedophilic sexual urges. If a human being has a lot of self-hatred and shame, it will show through masochistic sexual urges.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 12:57 PM
156

You have to be respected first in order to respect yourself. Her parents and our society failed her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 12:54 PM
31

The concept that males are logical truly seems like a joke at this point. How do they call themselves that with no shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 12:51 PM
48

And they have one of the tiniest average dick sizes in the world. They're defective in a number of ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 12:11 PM
104

Males in Korea are generally insane. I hear about them doing stupid shit every other day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 09:19 AM
37

Men created porn because it appeals to them. They are the ones creating their own socialization and what they consume. The idea that they're being manipulated by a system beyond their control is female projection, and wishful thinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 09:05 AM
39

"I'm a male in my early 20s" A sentence I don't remember ever seeing before. "I'm a female in my early 20s", literally used more frequently than "I'm a woman".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 11:38 AM
3

They're used pretty interchangeably, but maybe you're right. Are you sure though that lvm don't take your time and energy, both of which are very important?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 06:32 AM
80

...If you stick with a man out of desperation instead of desire I can guarantee you will eventually wish you had stayed single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 02:45 AM
13

LVM, NVM and ZVM practically mean the same thing. Blurring the lines of what is acceptable by creating ridiculous terms like "medium-value male" won't do us any good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 02:40 AM
70

I just avoid men who are a little too into any kind of sport or video games. In my experience those kinds of men have a hard time separating entertainment from their daily lives and they are very irrational/have a mob mentality. I've literally encountered no exceptions when it comes to male sports fans, so looking for red flags in their behaviours seems pointless, and too tiring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 02:35 AM
33

There's no such thing as medium-value men. If you are desperate to keep a man because he meets some basic expectations and you're terrified of being single and never finding a better one then you're being a pick-me. Somewhat better than women who settle for abusive scrotes though, but they do it out of the same fears.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 02:26 AM
2

What the fuck? Just drop the peace of trash and get a better one. You think about it too much, your nasty scrote isn't that important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 10:53 PM
2

I prefer joking and deflecting. A dishonest question doesn't deserve an eloquent answer, in my opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 10:50 PM
75

Also normalize never calling decisions women make regarding their own lives and relationships "harsh". It's just another way to shame women for taking control of their lives and not tolerating lvm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 07:13 PM
8

As if they ever shed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 09:59 AM
34

As you should, increased stature is a male secondary sex characteristic, not a female one. They're not even remotely equivalent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 09:50 AM
132

Precisely, women have no responsibility to abide by men's distorted idea of fairness when it comes to who they allow in their vagina. The mere idea is insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 09:48 AM
54

And what's even the point of "giving a short man a chance" if you're not sexually attracted to him? A mediocre "friend" that wants to fuck you, at best? What part of "not sexually attractive" don't they understand. For a lot of women, there's simply nothing sexually attractive about short men. We can't help it, it's biology.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 09:45 AM
10

Because men are projecting. Women don't like being treated like shit by bad boys, but men deep down love being treated as they should be by "mean" women. Just another reversal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 06:34 AM
24

Every day I realize what women truly want is a woman in a man's body. Inherently competent, empathetic, loving, nurturing, intelligent and hard-working. These traits shouldn't by any means be sex-specific, but reality shows otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 06:29 AM
1

They react to embarrassment alright, with violence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 02:20 PM
15

The woman who told you that is dumb as fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 10:04 AM
66

Our friends are a reflection of who we are, and so are the behaviours of others we tolerate. Someone who has foolish and immature friends is foolish and immature himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 10:02 AM
79

Being confrontational like this is high risk and low reward. It's not like bastards like this learn their lesson by getting embarrassed, they're just more likely to punch you in the mouth. If you make a habit of acting in this manner, especially irl, you could come across a real psycho with no self-restraint. De-escalating situations and playing along until you get home is imo a better approach. Instant blocking is enough of a message anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 09:55 AM
1

With a sex drive. A 50 y/o baldy fat male with a sex drive shudder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 09:50 AM
2

Can't say I'd be interested in a man who's been ran through himself tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 09:47 AM
6

Men constantly say they age "like fine wine" but then you take a step outside and see they start to visibly expire by 25 and look like bald rats, by 30 lots of them have tits already. Expectations vs reality I guess, if only men aged well then we'd at least have some eye candy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 09:45 AM
6

It is women's nature to prefer men with exaggerated secondary sex characteristics, which involve a taller height. I can't see the hatred targeted towards women's height preferences as anything else but misogyny and an irrational fear of female sexuality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 09:31 AM
10

Hetero-normative? What does this have to do with anything??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 09:27 AM
0

Did you at least get some cash out of it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 09:03 AM
2

Men's definition of being abused is not being able to own and take advantage of a woman as they would a slave and not being able to dump their emotional problems on women as if they're their therapists. Men are shamelessly bullshitting us about being abused without an ounce of remorse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 09:00 AM
5

It's not as much within your control as you think. Males of young ages are easily influenced and their friends and culture often shape their personalities/beliefs. Also porn is basically everywhere, inescapable and ruins the male brain. I know mothers who have raised their sons properly with responsibility and morals and they still turned out to be aggressive losers with behavioural problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 07:34 PM
37

Testosterone is at it again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 07:28 PM
13

It's not only about sexual skill, but every aspect of male worth. They constantly compare each other and create strict hierarchies, that's why they are obsessed with the word "alpha". If a woman has previous sexual experience she may know that there are men out there who are better, taller, more handsome and well-groomed, more generous and well-paid. That's also why a lot of men don't want their wives going out and socializing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 05:24 PM
79

It's because they instinctually know they're replaceable and a woman having previous experiences to compare to cripples them with insecurity, fear and anxiety. This is the real reason they want dumb little girls that know nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 09:46 AM
19

There's no incentive to include men in the creation of a family, except a financial one. Having a child as a couple is barely sustainable, do you think it is a coincidence that single mothers can't live comfortable lives? That they're shamed and hated so much and that wages aren't enough to survive and raise kids with? Please, if they wanted to fix birth rates, it would be easy, but men would be optional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 01:44 PM
5

Never underestimate men's ability to understand they have a problem and yet do absolutely nothing about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 01:40 PM
27

Are they even male anymore. What's wrong with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 01:36 PM
7

Let's be honest, only women don't understand how it happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 01:06 PM
32

Sexual attraction, even if one-sided has no place in what we call friendship. "Platonic" literally means there's no sexual element in the relationship. Men are almost always sexually attracted to their female friends, and given half a chance they'd have sex with them. This is no friendship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:36 PM
5

I always ask the same question, how are little girls treated that they end up questioning themselves constantly when they grow up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:30 PM
14

I don't think there's hidden gold in these apps, I doubt decent men will go looking for long-term partners on dating apps with the reputation they have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:29 PM
20

Literally almost every woman/man couple I've encountered is like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:27 PM
12

Can't rescue that, she's more messed up in the head than a frickin cult member.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:26 PM
9

Lol, I can't decide who I am more disappointed in, modern women or men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:23 PM
6

This is why single moms are hated so much, even if they're involuntarily single. The fact that they exist reminds other women that such a lifestyle is potentially viable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:13 AM
3

The first cause of death of pregnant woman is homicide by a male partner, not childbirth. Women in this subreddit keep stressing how important it is to vet before you get married and pregnant, but the truth is that they often only show their true colours once the woman is married and vulnerable, and like this lady, trapped. A young couple agreeing to share responsibilities equally and then after marriage the guy doesn't do a thing in the house while the woman literally loses years of her lifespa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:10 AM
13

I wonder how they would have reacted if the post was written by a guy devastated that his girlfriend called his dick "tiny" after sex as a "compliment".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 06:38 AM
48

The womb creates human life, so it makes sense for it to be celebrated in comparison to male genitals that are mostly an insemination tool. Does this guy have womb envy or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 01:28 AM
1

They were the demon all along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 09:18 PM
2

I don't know, something about being diplomatic with them on a matter that they shouldn't even speak about rubs me the wrong way. It's because they're getting their way and attain some power in the situation because of their complaining. They should be shamed and criticized for complaining, not negotiated with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 09:16 PM
2

Why "adjust" one's mindset and silently suffer when getting rid of a problematic relationship is objectively far more beneficial? It makes no sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 09:13 PM
1

But I was talking about input regarding whether or not to abort, their opinions shouldn't even exist on this topic, much less matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 09:04 PM
11

Why do they get to have input? Their input is their consent to sex, matters of the womb have nothing to do with males and their opinions on them are unnecessary and unwanted. We're being way too lenient, that's why they've gotten so audacious and think they're something similar to mothers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 08:33 PM
5

Silence wombless person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 08:29 PM
30

Of course we can swear off men, either just some of them or all of them. How silly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 08:28 PM
53

The projection in the post is simply ridiculous. Women don't hate men, in fact, women barely care for men if no conditioning occurs. Women never married men because they liked them, but because of social pressure, and most importantly, money. Now that we can make money on our own we reveal the way we always felt about most males, indifference at best, mild disgust at worst. Nothing as passionate as hatred, although they wish we cared enough to hate them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 07:55 PM
2

Exactly, they are the ones in power providing themselves with the products they want, they aren't being brainwashed by some third party. They're also the ones that have created their own socialization.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 06:58 AM
7

Instead of warning other women she tries to send her own damn friends to a man she knows for a fact is a misogynistic creep? Why does she act likes he's a toddler with behavioural problems that she's adopted instead of a dangerous grown male that openly hates her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 07:24 PM
2

...Give me a break. Power and encouragement give them the ability to act the way they actually want to, it doesn't create desires and behaviours that wouldn't be there otherwise. Violent porn speaks to their soul, that's why they watch it. They're not being manipulated or anything lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 05:00 PM
8

I wonder if male chimpanzees get socialized a certain way too, that would explain their absurd violence and aggression that their female counterparts could never hope to match. But then again, most species are this way also...Let's not kid ourselves and create complex explanations when the answer is very simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:52 PM
17

So the word "misandrist" is invalid and meaningless, nothing but the pathetic reaction of a mentally unstable group with a victim mentality, just like we all knew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:49 PM
8

You're talking as if mass murder is a matter of power or political authority, it's a matter of one's nature, and it's no coincidence that the vast majority of mass shooters are males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:47 PM
3

LMFAO, I want to know who thought being religious would make a man HVM that would warrant such a post saying it's not true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 12:21 AM
6

That's just survival of the fittest. Men that aren't competent enough to provide and be good husbands and fathers simply don't live long enough or get the opportunity to become such things, just like nature intended.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 12:18 AM
4

What the hell? This is sick and repulsive. How isn't he ashamed to say such weird things. That's not a man, that's an underdeveloped creature with a dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 12:15 AM
2

The FBI should track this bastard down and pre-emptively lock him up. A demon in human skin that will no doubt cause incomprehensible harm to women one day, if he hasn't already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 05:18 PM
3

How the fuck does it look like that?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:04 PM
12

A lot of naive people have forgotten the origins of marriage, as a contract between men, for the ownership of women. It hasn't changed as much as we think, and it has and had nothing to do with love, as a matter of fact it often kills love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 10:05 AM
113

Ghosting them is beyond their control, that's why they hate it, they want the opportunity to negotiate after a women rejects them. How filthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 10:01 AM
10

Older men are bald, fat and repulsive-looking. Even the ones that are rich aren't desirable by younger women, they're actually deeply resented by them, only their money is desirable. Men have been putting immense effort to stop women from having financial power because they know this, if women have money they will no longer bother with old bastards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 07:40 AM
30

Because their mothers and other women let them get away with it, it's that simple. Male behaviour is always controlled by women's tolerance. As long as they have access to food, housing, and sex, they won't ever change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 07:37 AM
81

They're also filtering out the less naive and mature women through obvious lies. Literal scammers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 09:54 AM
7

And then they accuse women of having murderous envy for other women's looks. I swear every single male insult is projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 09:50 AM
28

I suspect this is the way we used to operate before agriculture, when men started an alliance and forcefully distributed us among them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 08:39 AM
90

This is the consequence of women being too kind to remind older men of how ugly they look. Similarly, men thinking they're even remotely funny is the consequence of women fake-laughing at their cringy attempts at humour. We need to be more honest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 08:36 AM
70

I've noticed that they do view each other as depraved and predatory in a way, especially if they are like that themselves. Hence the unreasonably hostile reactions at the notion that gay men could be hitting on them, or find them attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 08:34 AM
38

They keep talking about what they want, as if nature hadn't decided it doesn't matter when she made them numerous and cheap. They've been lied to to the degree that they think they're the prize, that they're women, in a way. How sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 08:32 AM
12

It's not a discomfort, and most certainly not something that should ever get compared to pregnancy and the damage it leaves on women's mental and physical health. Men complaining about not getting sex are whiny and pathetic filth, and a sign that they're not fit to be partners or fathers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 08:29 AM
3

Their inability to feign being normal is a blessing in disguise. Irl you can fucking feel there's something fundamentally dysfunctional with these "redpill" freaks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 09:29 AM
35

Posts like this make me wonder how women who don't want marriage but enjoy male company should operate. Marriage might be too much of a risk for me, but a man not being willing to propose within a year or two of a relationship means that he probably isn't truly interested in long-term investment. Marriage to me seems to be simultaneously an expression of a man's desire to commit, and a disadvantageous situation that statistically doesn't work out in my favour. Marriage with a good man might be a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 08:42 AM
10

You can tell he is looking for confirmation that male presence is very important and that separation or betrayal from them can break a woman forever. He probably hopes an ex feels this way. They have abandonment issues lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 08:35 AM
11

I just say I don't care. I'm not here to solve fictitious problems men cause to themselves, I'm only interested in how women can escape male oppression and in maximizing female benefit in a male supremacist society. Anyone who reacts negatively to this has their mind made up already and is a waste of time and effort to argue with. I couldn't care less about their opinion, much less trying to change it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 09:42 PM
29

"A date can be anything you want it to be" I don't know what it is in recent years with destroying the meanings of words beyond recognition. Violence and strangulation isn't abuse, it's kink, fbw can still be considered friendship, a date can be eating McDonald's while in a filthy car. None of these things are true, and they never were. What the hell is going on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 09:04 PM
9

The fact that they think they're even worthy of being looked at is hilarious to me. Manwhores are a STD-infested lost cause. I'll pass on the cervical cancer, thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 09:53 AM
1

Society, media, hormones, porn, and most importantly other males they socialize with shape their views and attitudes more than anything else. You want a good son? Do you best and pray, it's not like other mothers raise their sons on harmful teachings that would justify how so many of them turn out. You have little control here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 08:46 PM
3

Username doesn't check out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 08:37 PM
2

There's no need for any kind of mutual understanding between women and men. The only allies women need are other women. Speaking with a man on such topics is time wasted that could have been spent talking with a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 08:36 PM
2

In other words, if a male is decent-looking enough he's more likely to be a whore because he can? Interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 08:34 PM
18

Sounds to me like men with more traditionally attractive traits have more opportunities to indulge in their hedonism than men with fatter, wider faces, as well as the confidence to do so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 08:32 PM
1

It shouldn't happen. Pathetic, weak males shouldn't have the privilege of dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 08:28 PM
218

Mirroring their behaviour is the best way to find out how they really feel about these "jokes".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 08:26 PM
27

This moron thinks his miserable attempt at humour can be used as an excuse to disrespect his girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 08:24 PM
4

What a crazy bastard. Does he have any idea how laughable he is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 10:18 AM
5

Lmfao, their mommies didn't prepare them well for this world it seems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 10:25 AM
15

They can't change their height, but we can't change what we're attracted to. Sorry scrotes, but as you like to say, it's our biology.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 10:23 AM
3

Because they know who does the picking and who is the most desired, no matter how much they posture by pretending to be the prize, they know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 10:22 AM
20

And women get called Karens....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 10:12 AM
28

With all due respect, I seriously doubt the tendency to violently assault others and destroy public and private property with fists is something that is socialized out of women. I'd argue that it is something that simply isn't inherent to us. Take a look at chimpanzees and other great apes and figure out which sex behaves similarly to human men. Male aggression is the most serious problem of society that goes completely unaddressed as a sex-specific issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 10:11 AM
18

I will never understand this, male rage is the most repulsive shit I've ever seen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 10:05 AM
9

What woman goes on a date out of pity? This may be a work of fiction, but if he came that early that's on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 10:02 AM
50

Women were never inherently submissive either, they were financially dependent and therefore weak. They had to appease their man because they had no other alternatives in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 09:58 AM
30

How laughable. Men asking for more submissive women is an admission of weakness and fear. We did well not to tolerate weakness before, such a pity they're trying to shame us for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 09:56 AM
29

Who cares what they want? Just laugh at them. Only a stupid woman would "submit" to a man because he paid for the date and is traditional. The reason women used to submit wasn't because they were touched by men's traditional values and worth as providers, it was because they were financially dependent and had to bite their tongue. Men giving money is compensation for the risks women take, not a reason to worship them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 09:55 AM
25

You might be right, but the fact that this was a possibility in his head is hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 01:52 PM
84

That attempt to reassure shows just how out of touch he is with reality. That guy has no idea how ridiculous and crazy he seems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 12:28 PM
114

Only men would praise a guy for literally running away from a planned meeting and telling a woman he wanted to fuck her daughter. This whole situation is very disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 12:26 PM
11

What they were saying is that women's preferences don't matter, they sure are in for a rude awakening. Much like incel forums have proven, times have changed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 09:12 AM
187

That's why I could never take them seriously. All those supposedly shocking "redpill" and "blackpill" revelations are exaggerated common knowledge that has always been obvious to everyone. Of course women would pick the man with the most resources to survive in a world where it's difficult to gain her own. Of course they would go for the younger, more handsome men with healthier sperm. Of course women would experience sexual attraction towards multiple people, just like men do. It goes as far as…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 07:36 AM
8

I'm not American, I'm European, and "dating" is by definition not a relationship but a period of mutual assessment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 12:08 PM
10

This guy doesn't understand the concept of dating, it is perfectly normal to date multiple people at the same time. "Dating" is not a relationship. Also, somehow he manages to talk so much while saying little about himself, and says conflicting things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 10:06 AM
24

It's actually the only reason they like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 09:36 AM
10

The only thing that sucks here is this guy's borderline rapey tendency to push against his partner's boundaries. Selfish fuck should get ghosted. "Emasculation" is by far the most ridiculous term I've ever encountered, like know your place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 09:34 AM
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And they're not even suffering the way women did. They're not getting raped and forced to submit and abandon their ambitions to serve anybody. They can't even be forcefully impregnated. The fact that their perfectly normal and privileged existence gets compared to the way women were treated is a testament to their manipulative ability to victimise themselves in the eyes of others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 09:04 AM
56

We don't care if they eat. I wonder if they'll ever understand that. We aren't their mothers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 08:48 AM
13

Men really don't know they're men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 09:14 AM
25

She thinks he doesn't actually hurt her because it's only during sex. Little does she know his frustration builds up until he can finally take his pent up aggression out on her during sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 05:05 PM
55

I saw a video where a teen boy slapped his gf's face in public, hard, but because she smiled and awkwardly laughed all the comments were saying it's ok because it is "consensual" and that it isn't violence. Keep in mind, this wasn't in a sexual setting. It was never about kinks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 05:00 PM
43

The fact that if you say this in any other space on the internet women will be the first to bash you for "kink-shaming". 😐 Men like the one in the post don't even need to defend themselves anymore, women do it for them before they can get a word in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 04:57 PM
395

Which is why it's important to run tf away the moment a man reveals the slightest interest in violence during sex. I bet he wrapped his hand around her throat during their first time, at the very least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 04:54 PM
43

I am almost certain this woman has been mentally destroyed during her childhood and teen years for her mind to operate in such a way. This psychotic fuck told her he wanted to murder her while raping her and she's worried about not shaming him and supporting him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 04:51 PM
75

I assume for the same reason they think FDS has nothing to do with dating strategies. Because most of them lack empathy and emotional intelligence they have a hard time viewing things from a perspective other than their own. Also, general lack of exposure to the female gaze.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 05:40 AM
9

Also, married women also have shorter lifespans. Does anyone notice a pattern here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:20 PM
83

I've even read studies that show women who have sons live fewer years than women who have daughters and develop more illnesses, so it's quite plausible. Edit for source: https://sciencenordic.com/denmark-videnskabdk-womens-health/mothers-to-all-boys-have-shorter-life-expectancy-and-more-illness/1444340
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 07:15 AM
6

Basically a non-sociopathic grown man who hasn't failed in life in any meaningful way and looks decent. High standards my ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 06:01 AM
140

This idiot got rejected because of his unnecessary attitude. They aren't even smart enough to put up a civil front in order to make a good impression. It's a blessing in disguise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:38 AM
246

The vast majority of the time a spouse or partner willingly donates an organ to the other it is the woman donating to the man. The majority of living organ donors are women. Men generally prefer leaving, and most of them would never imagine sacrificing a part of themselves for another person, not even for their wives. I'm having a hard time feeling bad for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:25 AM
92

Dating younger men is the only thing that makes sense because of how hard they hit they wall. Poor things become half-bald and grow breasts and a pregnant belly by the age of 40. If a man decreases my lifespan he might as well be nice to look at.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:19 AM
42

We need to ask them to reveal their secret fantasies to us or something so that we can run the fuck away if they're like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:12 AM
97

I really want to see the reaction of men if women collectively start saying they have violent sexual fantasies where they want to tie men up in bed and do all these horrible things to them and enjoy their pain and tears. Consensually, of course. I wonder if that would be as readily accepted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:10 AM
27

She definitely is. Otherwise she wouldn't have settled for this loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:22 PM
38

This guy would much rather eat literal shit that describe a woman as strategic, assertive and intelligent, even if the "annoying" proof is right in front of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:20 PM
5

This woman succeeds in ways he finds inconceivable and he keeps stressing how it works out even if "she has no idea what she's doing" and how irritating it is to him. He does everything in his power to discredit her abilities even though it's obvious she's a competent individual capable of taking initiative and calculated risks in a way he never will. Just a jealous little loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:18 PM
37

They won't stop miserably complaining about "the risks". As If all the surgeries available to women don't have a million combined risks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:58 AM
7

So true it hurt my pride.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 12:09 AM
18

I do think that it is some sort of natural deterioration. I've observed the same thing happening to older men around me. In the same way nature didn't see a reason to preserve their physical health after the peak of their sperm quality, maybe even their mental health degenerates in the same way. Females in nature have to raise and take care of children, and even their children's children, which is why nature has made us more durable, and why we live longer. They just go crazy easier and their in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 12:04 AM
5

They realize it. That's why they're so angry and afraid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 08:42 AM
6

Comments like this is one are why female-centric spaces are so important. Sex is viewed as harmless fun only because men and their perspective dominate. Sex with a random person could permanently alter a woman's life, while for a man it's just another fuck. What incentive do we have to risk so much? There's really none.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 08:40 AM
23

I guess not submitting means they'll die alone and sexless. I'm not sure they understand who has leverage here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 06:55 AM
72

They aren't delusional. They are deceitful. They know we don't want them, and that FDS makes them even less desirable, this is precisely why they invest so much time, energy and effort to destroy it. Never take anything these men say at face value, in truth, they are disturbingly self-aware.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 06:49 PM
8

It depends on the individual to understand such things, or rather, to have the willingness to pursue knowledge and understanding regarding systematic cultural misogyny and how to navigate dating men. Exposing your sisters to the concept is a good first step, but trying to teach them when they show no interest could unfortunately push them away. It's sad, but if their pride and ego have been "beaten" out of them then it might take years for your sisters to regain them, and as such have the incent…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 06:44 PM
117

They generally have a hard time understanding the female perspective, or maybe they deny it because the realisation that we'd much rather be alone is painful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 05:13 PM
90

Once again, if looks and physical attraction weren't important in choosing a partner we'd all be lesbians. Ugly men are mean as fuck and even more abusive than others because of their insecurities anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 05:10 PM
35

The concept that raping women is a need and a necessity needs to be eradicated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 10:34 PM
5

If he gave you the impression that he will mistreat the cats then he definitely is a terrible human being without the shadow of a doubt. Pets and children should never pay the price for conflict between adults.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 04:44 PM
3

Traditional women are funny. They think that by rejecting their humanity and fully embracing their "femininity" they will get a man that actually loves them and cherishes them....morons. The only thing they'll get is a porn addict that expects them to work in house and outside all day and serve them while eyeing 16 year olds on the internet and irl. You can get this even by being a liberal "feminist", in the end both groups end up with the same kind of misery because they actually have the same …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 04:46 PM
26

Who cares? I don't get why men's supposed forgetfulness is so easily forgiven and accepted as an excuse. He neglected his romantic partner, that's enough for a woman with needs to seek affection elsewhere. Quizzing them is a waste of time, guys like that don't reflect or change, or even experience shame, and even if they did it wouldn't be your problem at that point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 07:39 AM
42

So many words wasted on a man that doesn't even care. Blocking him and pretending he never existed is much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 07:32 AM
1

Men pride themselves on preferring "tits or ass" even though neither of these things are necessary for them to enjoy a sexual experience but women are called shallow demons for simply wanting to experience pleasure in sexual intercourse. Men really live life on easy mode.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 05:32 PM
3

Women and girls need to be encouraged to ruthlessly seek financial power and authority, as only these things will grant them a speck of respect and control in this world, both of which women sorely need. Modern feminism is a strategically constructed distraction of female focus at best. We're having the wool pulled over our eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:10 PM
29

Sperm is cheap, men are easy, and there's a seemingly infinite number of them around. What did they expect?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 02:43 PM
62

They can fuck each other. They demand women to have sex with people they aren't attracted to but refuse to do the same themselves? It's their problem anyway, not ours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 02:40 PM
59

The most silly thing about this argument is that an ugly man is desirable to begin with. I would date a female friend if sexual attraction wasn't a crucial component, as they're actually nice, far more loyal and pleasant to be around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 09:19 PM
73

Telling him that his dick is small and that she's seen way bigger is the only appropriate response here. Might as well take this opportunity to give him a lesson.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 02:20 PM
8

Looks like she's in for a tiny surprise once they get married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:36 PM
3

Personality is revealed through appearance despite what people say. Having a decent sense of fashion, knowing how to dress properly and maintaining good hygiene are necessary things for an adult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 09:00 PM
130

And spending more time on the internet, which is filled to the brim with extreme overt misogyny on every platform.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 11:31 PM
7

Behind the hatred of women lies no rationality and logic, if there was they wouldn't so insistently try to convince us otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 07:30 PM
3

"I would murder these children's mother" "I would care so much for the children" Enough said, these...people are completely insane. It's the kind of person you pray every day to never encounter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 07:26 PM
29

Make sure you don't get randomly sentimental or whatever and have sex with that public dildo of a husband. He probably has every single STD that exists in the area and would love to give it to you for additional revenge. Get tested anyway. He's most likely been cheating for a much longer time than you know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:29 PM
9

I don't even have to try to not be nice to them. Men simply don't inspire any feelings of niceness in me. I'm completely indifferent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:18 PM
44

Yes. They know they can't attract women to have sex with them, so they use a different sexual strategy, aggression and the breaking down of standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:07 PM
21

Beggars can't be choosers, and males are nature's beggars when it comes to sex and relationships. A man asking "what do you bring to the table" doesn't matter, because he has nothing of value to begin with. Sperm is cheap, that's just how it is. Ignore such questions coming from men, it's just posturing and male anxiety that manifests itself through aggression.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:06 PM
22

Literally just laugh at the moron and ghost him. What's so hard about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 07:06 PM
71

It makes me aggressive and very angry. I never feel greater rage than when a man tries to coerce or deceive his way where I've decided he simply doesn't belong. This intense feeling saved me from getting raped in my early teens by my first boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:33 PM
3

They want us to be grateful if we get a man that doesn't beat the shit out of us every day. They forget that we live good lives on our own, so we need a positive incentive to add a man in them. Even if a guy is a joy to be around he's more like a fun girlfriend if your brain doesn't perceive him as an attractive male. So what's the point of creating a romantic relationship then? There's none. It makes no sense why you would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:19 PM
2

"People" are very eager to destroy women's self esteem and standards because their priority isn't to sustain meaningful relationships of mutual respect and shared satisfaction. It is to provide the product, women and their vaginas, to men. We're cattle with rights in their eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:14 PM
1

Women simply have sex with guys that are hot enough to get us wet. We can't control attraction, really we can't help it. It's not our fault, it's just our biology. Being nice is good and all, but it doesn't get me wet. Sucks but it is what it is and they need to get over it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:08 PM
17

They know it alright, they just want us to be sex slaves and broodmares with no choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:04 PM
15

Any attempt at controlling female sexuality and choice is motivated by misogyny and male entitlement. It doesn't matter where it comes from, or if it frames itself as "liberal and progressive", it's the same thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:02 PM
16

Apparently women exercising bodily autonomy and taking care of their vulnerable health is a hate crime. Men regularly bully and abuse homosexual men to suicide, but that goes unchallenged and unmentioned by society. It has never been more obvious. This world is hellbent on destroying women even if we mind our own business and harm no one. They go to extreme lengths to slander us with lies and fabricated evidence to achieve this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 11:59 AM
3

Yes, the system is made to enable their depravity. There can be no equality under patriarchy. There needs to be a radical change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:54 PM
29

There's no such equivalent. This man planned and attempted a reproductive crime towards a woman. His intention and ultimate goal was to forcefully impregnate her. A man could never possibly experience something as terrible as this being done to him. The physical damage inflicted is the only thing you can compare, and it isn't the main point here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:57 PM
90

Oh, they'll double down and defend him with fury and passion greater than that of the women who defend their basic human rights. Put nothing past them. They have no shame, they enjoy reading stuff like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:49 PM
11

Literally all of them are ruined. As a gen z I'm not even interested in men anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:40 AM
19

They put in deliberate planning and effort to construct a false reality and force women to maintain the facade by playing along. They really just can't accept facts and the role nature gave them , that's why they almost psychotically insist they're the logical and rational sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:29 AM
8

Can't even pretend I'm mad or concerned about this because their chances of success are completely nonexistent lol. Beggars can't be choosers, and in the dating game men are the beggars.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 03:59 PM
59

Notice how they spread and infect any space women participate in, even the ones they're supposed to dominate. Coexistence is literally impossible. The same thing happened with the subreddit for female teenagers that was made because girls' voices were being drowned out on the teenagers subreddit. Guess what, they accepted males and now they're half male, if not more, and are having the same problem. Men are just mad as hell they can't ruin this place too. They don't want to "participate", just i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:55 AM
2

You should avoid drug and alcohol addicts, especially men. Fuck political correctness and guilt, protect yourself and keep yourself around people who are doing well in life so that you can do even better. They're working on their drug issue? Good for them, it has nothing to do with you though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 10:32 PM
5

I wish it reflected on their reputation as drivers. More women would be wary of entering guys' cars and dying in stupid accidents. It happens often.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 10:18 PM
10

Some mothers get beaten and even raped by their autistic sons...no one likes to talk about this and they definitely don't have to suffer this horrific torture just because they gave birth to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 05:13 PM
8

And even if it did, the hard truth is that it isn't your responsibility to suffer because of it. Women are allowed to pursue their own happiness without being charity and emotional stress relief dolls for the men, and even women, around them. I'd argue that the latter is an anomaly men have fought hard to normalize and encourage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 05:10 PM
2

Read the comments section on a spotted hyena video just to see how true this is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:31 PM
5

It's like they project their masculinity on everything because they have no concrete sense of self and individuality. So strange.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:29 PM
7

People are more like cats than dogs, their respect and friendship needs to be earned and sustained, and they don't live to please blindly. Makes sense that misanthropic/misogynistic men often despise cats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:28 PM
58

Imagine if women invested all that energy and capability in themselves and their own goals instead of serving men and enabling their hedonism. We would have progressed so much further in science and social issues as a society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:23 PM
11

Meanwhile some of my 20 y/o male peers already have massive deep wrinkles (the kind I've never seen in women) in the middle of their foreheads and guys a few years older than that have already started losing their hair and getting fat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:19 PM
10

Good thing ignoring them hurts them even more lol. It confirms their suspicion that they aren't all that important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:48 PM
65

Men have a hard enough time with cognitive abilities as is, additional steroids on top of testosterone just makes it worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:46 PM
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