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STAY WOKEMuffinSongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 01:35 AM
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FIELD REPORT MuffinSongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 05:04 AM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSMuffinSongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 11:55 PM
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FDS SUCCESS!MuffinSongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 02:46 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEMuffinSongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 04:37 PM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSMuffinSongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 01:17 AM
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#KickHimOut2020MuffinSongs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:31 AM
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“OhhHo! If i CaN Get hEr, wHo elSe CaN i gEt?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 02:52 AM
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They don’t want any woman to approach them. They want a beautiful 22 year old virgin to approach them. The paradox is, if they are interested, they’ll already be perusing her. If they are approached by someone they are not attracted to, they might use her for sex. Might just make fun of her for being so desperate, “fat”, “ugly”, or whatever reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 10:48 PM
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My grandma spent 50 wonderful years with my grandpa. Despite being younger, he died 10 years sooner. She spent her last years watching their favorite soaps alone. Even if you do everything right, men probably won’t be there in the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 02:53 AM
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Eeeeewwww!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 01:20 AM
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One from 6 years ago and one that I had to cut off because he kept sending me di*k pics. They are blocked now. The others are all blocked, so I’ll never know. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 06:37 PM
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Lol he had to pretend like there wasn’t a word that they use for us! That’s just sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 12:25 PM
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But like, I don’t make them chase. I just make them show up with good intentions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 12:06 AM
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Wtf? Sounds like he’s ordering a “girlfriend” the same way one would order a sandwich. That’s so disgusting 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 10:59 PM
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Oh shit you reminded me that I gotta pay my phone BEFORE THE DUE DATE! BRB 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 03:29 PM
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Got that heating bill PAID!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 02:05 PM
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👆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 11:20 PM
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He had set it up while i was in the store. Hood up, jumper cables hooked up and ready to go. If I’m being honest it looked like a white van with a “Free Candy” sign on it. Super sus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 08:36 PM
15

I said. “Sorry. No thank you.” In a sweet voice because I’m not trying to get assaulted, then I had to have a conversation with my son about what would happen if mommy didn’t come home. He’s 12, so I can leave for 5 minutes to get him a Gatorade. Well… I should be able to anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 08:31 PM
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I hope his Minecraft dog dies too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 10:29 PM
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I have a long distance guy who would be sad to find out that I’m actually single and not really looking. I don’t think he’d be surprised, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 11:15 PM
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Decent guys give you the passcode without a thought and you don’t even have to ask for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 03:43 AM
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Omg I can see this. He lies about taking the pill, gets mad when his girlfriend gets pregnant, denies the baby and dumps the girlfriend for “cHeaTInG”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 11:31 PM
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Sounds like my dad 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:28 PM
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Lol my father can’t even spell my name. The bar is pretty low, but these fools still can’t reach it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 03:27 AM
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I tell them to answer first. Then I say “Yea, that’s not gonna work for me. Good luck! I hope you find what you are looking for!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 11:38 PM
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The men’s arguments were just dishonest. How are you gonna say to date men with “potential” so you can build him up or whatever in one sentence, then say your high standards are good and stop dating bums? Like… that’s the thing! We’re not dating bums anymore!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 06:52 PM
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I think it would be pretty easy to prove someone ghosted after sex. Like …. Girl: Hey, I had a good time last night. We should definitely do it again. Guy:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:42 AM
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Ask they think their father would ever go 50-50 with any woman. With them? With their mom? That’s going to be a no. And he can even tell them why. It’s actually hugely emasculating for a man to go 50/50. Men who go 50/50 are going to take more than your money and they will never allow you to meet their father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 06:39 PM
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Omg no! No no!! Somebody get the squirtgun!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 08:58 PM
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That’s the part where I noped out. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 02:32 AM
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🙋‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:23 PM
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It’s either gonna take 3 hours for him to quit trying to lose his virginity naturally and just look at the porn to cum, or she’s gonna be trying to juggle a recently dead worm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:18 PM
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Oh yea. I remember my first time. Did I want to have sex with a fat guy from Alabama that I barely knew? No way! Not at all! But the manipulation, the lies, the persistence. I cried before, during, and after, but I was so worried about his damn feelings. “Oh no! His peepee is gonna fall right off if he doesn’t have sex right tf now! He says he’ll get blue balls! I don’t know what that is, but he says it’s painful!” I was a sweet summer child. I’m so glad women are wising up. They can’t do this a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:29 PM
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What kind of puppy are you getting?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 01:32 PM
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I am also single, happy, and pay good people to clean my home. It’s wonderful! And honestly, whether I pay or not for the “meal,” (I do not, but if I do I’m not seeing him again) dating is expensive! I’m saving so much money by just not bothering with men :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 01:25 PM
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Give me the fuckin’ frowny and I’ll affix it myself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:39 PM
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You’re the best!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:00 AM
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Linky?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:56 AM
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What’s he gonna do? Hook up his Xbox to the tv while she labors? (Yea, we’ve seen that)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:16 AM
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Can we submit requests?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:54 PM
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“Where are the paper towels? Where is the cleaner” misses spots screams and curses the whole time “Are you just gonna sit there?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:10 PM
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One good thing that came out of the American South: the ungendered plural for a group of people. Y’all and all y’all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:42 AM
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The holidays/family gatherings: women toil over the stove for hours while the mens all watch sportsball and get drunk. We all sit down and eat together gushing over the food, then the women clean everything up while the men nap or watch more sportsball. There are exactly two war veterans in my family. Me and my grandfather. Is that gendered? Anyway, I noped out of that as an adult. Needless to say my ex MIL hates me. Cool. Cool. Not my problem anymore. No, I actually do not want to clean your ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 11:46 PM
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Well, it doesn’t hurt to tell the man what you are doing. “Hey, I’m going out with my bestie. I’ll catch up with you later!” Then just go do you for a while with your bestie. I think it’s reasonable to tell the man what you are doing, but I would stay away from giving him an exact timeframe. If he doesn’t text at all, that’s fine! If he checks in kindly hours later, that’s fine! Keep doing you for a bit longer. That’s when the magic happens. Ideally you will be busy going about your day in a HV …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 04:52 PM
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But, he only has them twice a month. It shouldn’t be that big of a deal /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 07:28 PM
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He ain’t driving a 1998 used Mazda. No. You are absolutely correct
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 05:52 AM
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How many men, I wonder, if they didn’t have a woman… wouldn’t have clean underwear? Or a shower? Eat a vegetable? Like, what the hell is really going on? I want a Man, baby! Not a man-baby :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 05:21 AM
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Omg! Disgusting! Like, should we walk around like “I bet this guy gets cucked.” No? No! That’s disgusting!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:12 AM
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Omg disgusting. If I have to hear cougar or milf one more time I’m gonna puke 🤮 I won’t hear it though. Because I don’t talk to porn addicts anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:10 AM
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HS teacher here. It’s amazing seeing a valedictorian speak. You can tell that they are of a different cloth. They are destined for greatness. This woman is amazing. And the cheers from the women in the stands speak for Texas. They speak for this country. They speak for all of us. Not those men signing papers giving our autonomy away. Brava, my sister!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:02 AM
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One time I was going on a road trip and *driving! This dude started saying all kinds of racist stuff and threatened to drive to the city I was traveling to to find me. Wtf? Why? Like… sorry I went on a road trip. I don’t even know you, man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:07 PM
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Literally told my son that it’s men who lash out about stupid small stuff. He believed me because he’s seen it. Men be screaming about a dinner or a light on. But somehow women are over emotional? Make it make sense…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:13 AM
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I read a bunch of stuff today from a sub about a dating app. They aren’t getting matches like they used to. Good. Hopefully many women are waking up and moving on from the meat market.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:55 AM
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Narcissists don’t feel pain. They feel injury. He thought you weren’t going to stand up for yourself, but he sees that you are. He’s going to try to Hoover you back up. Don’t let him. Follow the plan. I’m so sorry he found out the plan a little too early. Keep family and friends involved. Call a friend. Don’t be alone with him. Record, record, record. Then move on. My kids dad is a narcissist. Coparenting is difficult, but my baby is 12 now so he knows what’s up. Grey rock. Eventually he will mo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:49 AM
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I hate how mad he is. And how short. And how bald. And how ugly. I hate his anger worst of all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:34 AM
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Biggest pet peeve is slow drivers Manslation: I have road rage and control issues
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 12:26 PM
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I also did this. Super fun!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 12:14 PM
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I said “eww” out loud
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 04:01 PM
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Maybe you’re on to something here. All these dudes have been telling me my “picker is broken” when I get led on and lied to. Maybe that’s gonna have to be my excuse for why I’m single. “Oh, me? Sorry. Picker’s broken. If I like you you are probably a shit human being.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 03:49 PM
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Tell him I said “Hey.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 11:08 PM
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Being single is pretty cool... but finally getting yourself back after a divorce is the best! Congratulations! Wish we could make you a cake!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 09:36 PM
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That’s basic. I imagine that having children with HVM they automatically get that lesson. With LVM... it has to be intentional
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:35 PM
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For this Mother’s Day I made reservations at a local high class restaurant’s Mother’s Day brunch for me and my baby. I don’t know if his dad will bother planning anything or going shopping for a gift with him (we’re NOT together) but I still want to have an amazing time with my son. His dad has consistently proven that he cannot set the bar, so I do. Next weekend I will take my son to pick out something special for his father for Father’s Day. Gift giving is a skill and I want to teach him how t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:53 PM
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I’ve decided that they are lying about their age. There is NO WAY I am the same age as this grandpa (I’m late 30s). They lie to try to get with 20 year olds 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:42 AM
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I need to see a receipt on that. Like... I don’t exactly remember when Amazon became a thing, but I DO NOT believe it was 20 years ago. Like... how are you gonna try to shame someone with obvious lies?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:22 AM
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I don’t think I can live with a man again. Maybe that’s my trauma speaking, but I seriously doubt I will find someone who adds to my life. I’ve been thinking a lot about what it would take for me to remarry. Attraction Generosity The ability to see that something needs to be done and just do it. Financial security ... Literally I don’t know. I’ve spent 5 years looking for just those and it had been impossible. I don’t date or look now. My life is good and I am happy. I’m not motivated to put on …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:20 PM
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Idk if it is helpful, but my first thought is to contact the media if he is as powerful as you say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 12:30 AM
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Came here to post this. Yup 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 08:31 PM
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That moment when you’re in charge of cooking and groceries (ok, cleaning too) but “There’s nothing to eat 😢”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 12:57 AM
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Me want man cave! Me want new car! Me want biiig TV! Wahhhh mommy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 12:49 AM
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My kid’s dad just asked me what school he goes to... BRUH!!?! How tf are you not embarrassed??? It’s late APRIL!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:04 PM
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She was going to compliment his sweat pants?!?!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 02:00 AM
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Men literally ask me how I am able to do it all. Bro, I have alarms set on my phone/calendar so I don’t forget important stuff. That’s it. That’s the trick. Try it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:01 AM
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Like... please? I keep getting dumped because I have a child. Bro? You okay? I had a child the whole time tf? You can definitely end it earlier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 06:57 PM
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I think I know this guy...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:50 PM
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I’m at a lake house right now because my bestie made me after a break up. Besties are the best!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:45 AM
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Excellent points! This man has me miserable living far away from my family because of our child. I literally can not move to my support system. It’s... not great...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:06 AM
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They can’t handle it. They’ll be smoking weed and playing video games all day every day within a week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:57 AM
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I’m interested too. My son is very straight edge (lol I don’t know where he gets it) but I want to make sure he doesn’t fall into that trap. Sometimes sweet kids find porn by accident... and puberty can do weird things to the decision making process.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 08:41 PM
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Queens, that young woman probably just said hello to him and smiled. Now he thinks they have a thing. I think he’s delusional and using the co-worker to triangulate his wife. No bueno.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 06:33 PM
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Please do judge a man’s car. I don’t know why some like to call themselves out with bumper stickers, but I’m glad about it. Gotta say nope as soon as you see this 💩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:54 PM
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Nah. You have to be unbothered. Let them impress YOU. I don’t care who else is impressed. They are used to panties being thrown at them. A little bit of a cold breeze is refreshing for them. And if they can’t act right, straight to the bin. What good is money and power of they just use it against you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 09:37 PM
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I’ve heard this one before...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 01:37 AM
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If I’m horny I just get my hitachi. Like... 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 12:36 AM
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Yes cuz if she cheated you’re gonna deal with trust issues. If he cheated, well, he won’t tell you that but... I’m gonna say no to that mess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 01:08 AM
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I’m a single mom. I only ever dated one man with a child. I met the child WAY too quick and the poor baby was hugging me and sitting on my lap begging for attention. Such a sweet boy. I broke up with his dad within 2 months. He was selfish, uneducated, and unstable. In 99% of cases, moms don’t leave the dad for no reason. It’s usually a super bad reason and a fucked up situation to join. Couldn’t be me. I know from experience. I wasn’t like... oh! Your breath stinks! Next! It was a horrifying am…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 01:55 AM
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I literally don’t care what day it is. If a man wants to leave, baby there’s the door. Actually, the bar is higher than even that. If a man “needs to think/is confused/doesn’t know what he wants” Bruh. Door. I’m not asking you to leave. I’m telling you. Block block block goodbye and good riddance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 06:19 AM
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Time to sell. Get all of the down payment she paid plus half of the rest of the profits. That’s the deal I took when I left my kid’s dad. Anything less is flat out wrong. You bet your ass if she sold a home to move in and buy property with this selfish oaf she paid for the whole down payment like a sucker like I did. Don’t mix finances. Take what’s rightfully yours when it’s over. Honestly, taxes can be a bitch when you sell multiple homes in quick succession. This isn’t good at all for either p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 10:31 PM
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That absolutely blows my mind. I get dressed for ANYBODY that I know is coming to my home. Especially for someone who I want to show that I value them. I mean, I get dressed for the cleaning lady and maintenance ffs. How tf do you show up and he’s unwashed in his underwear? (I’m assuming about the underwear from past experiences)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:49 PM
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I’m at the age where young teachers look like babies. I’m like... nonono honey to grown ass adults. My age is ambiguous. I promise I’m older than I look. I’m NOT dating a 24 year old (again). Nope! It’s wild cuz the 24 year olds are the only ones who try!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 01:30 AM
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Like... a short, bald guy won’t get with a girl over size 8? Unbelievable!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 11:41 AM
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Lol look at me! Falling in love with a limp dick! Please help me! Annnnnnd /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 11:37 AM
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Or beer, probably tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 01:36 AM
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That’s not gonna be a thing for me if he spends more on video games in a month. No no baby. No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 01:31 AM
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If younger women are better, then go get one you old,bald, fat POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 11:54 PM
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Retail is hell as a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 12:28 AM
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I knooooowwww!!!! It’s so real. Like?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 11:18 PM
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I already have friends. I don’t need more friends. Cue this dude still trying to hit me up 2.5 years later. Bro! I said no! Byeeeee!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 11:01 PM
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Even if he gets paid weekly that’s... not good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 07:07 PM
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No! Run! He’s gonna use this information to make her life hell!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 09:07 PM
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It’s sad cuz the kids don’t know any better and they sometimes do it too. They are growing up in a misogynist society and just trying to fit in. I can’t tell you how many times I have to tell the kids to “Respect the women!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 04:12 AM
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It’s a teenaged fantasy “hot for teacher” thing I guess. Probably also something from porn. Personally, I don’t get it. It’s gross. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 02:40 AM
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HS math teacher here. I get sexualized out the gate. It’s actually really gross and inappropriate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 01:39 AM
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That’s one of my favorite YouTubers! He’s pretty funny. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 01:24 AM
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You keep talking about that wall that I already hit, Kevin, but which one of us is overweight and balding? The wall is a projection. 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 01:21 AM
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Also me. Also other women... so wtf? Men? Wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:38 AM
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Shut up and take my money!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:09 AM
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That’s my jam
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 10:36 PM
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Friend, that is gross. I am so sorry you went through that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 09:32 PM
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I teach 11th graders. I don’t care how tf big they are. They are children. Talk to them. Babies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 09:11 PM
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What if I had to stare at 200 large penises a week to feel satisfied? Like... bruh...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 09:09 PM
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I mean, I have an 11 year old. He looks eleven. His friends look eleven. The kids in his class look eleven. I’ve never seen an eleven year old that you wouldn’t at least ASK and MAKE SURE they are able to consent. This is disgusting. Even if you are a blind man, once you speak to them you would know without a shadow of a doubt they are a child. We’re talking about elementary aged kids ffs. Literally children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 08:47 PM
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Literally what I mean is “Can you afford yourself?” And “If I want to go on a trip am I going to have to pay for your ass or hear you whine about having to stay home?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:43 PM
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Yay. Pizza. Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:03 PM
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I only dated one man that was taller than me in heels. His family jewels were... disproportionate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 08:28 PM
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My ex of 12 years just had his mom buy me something and put on the tag that it was from him. Like... wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 11:04 PM
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These boys keep waving rings in my face like I want them. No, hon. I need to be able to leave AS SOON as things go south. AS SOON as the man stops respecting me. I fought for 12 years in a relationship that was horrible! A nightmare! I’ll never ever EVER do that again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 03:31 PM
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Nope!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 01:40 PM
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72Q mother fucker
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 08:58 PM
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My boo boo got me the Pandora bracelet I always wanted when he was 7.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 12:31 AM
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More gaslighting and nonsense. I’ll pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 12:21 AM
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I said no!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:08 AM
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Anytime I make myself a shit sandwich by messing up, I eat it. I don’t blame other people. Men can do that too. You did nothing wrong. He did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 12:00 AM
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“My wife already caught me cheating before.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 11:54 PM
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FOH, “Clint”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 11:51 PM
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Eew 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 12:22 AM
5

That’s how you get explosive diarrhea. How tf are men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 12:10 AM
11

Make sure to leave the serving spoon in!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 12:09 AM
12

One time... I went shopping with a dude and he freaked out. He made me leave the area because I reminded him of his mother? I think it was too “relationshippy” for him. I didn’t even say or do anything at all. I was just there. AND... he INVITED me. That guy has problems. He still tries to hit me up sometimes since he’s been single since we broke up. So yea... I don’t go shopping with anyone unless we are really really close. I know I’m supposed to block, but I leave him on read because I’m pett…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 09:52 PM
3

Oof
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 12:44 AM
41

What if we’re not a couple? I’d have my bestie’s baby. We don’t gotta get down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 10:40 PM
6

This. Actually, I think there’s a big difference between “Baby, this is what’s going on... I’m coming clean because I love you and I want to make it right” vs. “waahhhh I got caught! I’m a bad man! Please love me sob”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 10:35 PM
14

The guy who installed my internet gave me his number “Just in case. I don’t usually work on weekends, but you can call or text me any time.” At least he hasn’t texted me! He has my number from setting up my wireless 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 09:43 PM
39

When I’m drunk I just go to sleep. No texting involved!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 08:53 PM
24

I once taught a man to cook spaghetti. A grown ass man. #neveragain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 09:17 PM
60

I was like... do you mean... your girlfriend? Wouldn’t want to be called a simp on Reddit. Understandable /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 08:53 PM
20

I left my ring with my ex. He took our son with him when he pawned it. My poor baby...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 01:45 AM
2

Orrrr!!!! Or... or... I can leave your ass and just do less laundry. Men suck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 10:09 PM
6

“Baby, I know you are acting irrationally, but I am still willing to make it work with you.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 09:55 PM
1

Good job Emotionally available and mature Excited about me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:31 AM
9

I mean, I do, but don’t expect it. Respect it 💋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:59 AM
16

It’s like, yea yea yea whatever. They always come back. Get a fucking hobby, bro! And if you DO give them another chance, it’s the same old same old. But, you know that. So you won’t. 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:33 AM
6

He’s ugly. Maybe I should read all the comments, because I’m sure it’s already been said. If it has, Queen, I agree!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 12:59 AM
28

So... yea... it started before the birth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 12:04 AM
121

I had to mow the lawn when I was six months pregnant because “What? You think you get special treatment because you are pregnant?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 12:03 AM
133

I was shocked when it happened to me. I had no idea that man I spent years with would flip into a monster the minute I had his child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 11:41 PM
22

So much wrong here. I’m not a prize for a man. I’m slim and cute and I get disrespected by men of all types. It literally doesn’t matter. I see my heavy friends getting married to wonderful men. That literally doesn’t matter. That man is a shallow, sad husk of a human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 11:39 PM
15

I should start carding the dudes I date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 02:10 AM
19

I get carded at the movies and I’m pushing 40
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 02:08 AM
23

That was funny AF. I lol’d
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 01:41 AM
123

I invited a dude I was seeing for months over for dinner. Made a delicious meal from scratch. He invited me over for food a few days later. All he had was frozen Jimmy Dean sandwiches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 01:28 AM
7

Guys be like “Oh, I can’t date her. Boobs too small.” Then be like “Give me a chance, baby!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 01:20 AM
258

You dropped this 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 01:17 AM
15

That looks amazing! 🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 01:14 AM
14

My co-worker says “Give him a chance! He might be nice!” First of all, he’s not. I already know. Second of all, I’m not about to be disrespected by an ugly man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 05:11 PM
9

I’m getting the Xbox. FOR ME! And my son.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:11 AM
7

If he’s a jerk it’s better for the kid(s) anyway. Log that shit and build a case. Personal rant: My ex made sure he didn’t have my son on weekends to keep me from dating. But the week is “unfair!” And “he’s at school all day!” Bro, this was your idea. Trying to control me was more important than having quality time with your son. You made this shit sandwich, now eat it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:02 AM
28

I’m so lame. I kinda love the shorts 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:50 AM
23

I don’t care about you. I care about how you make me feel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:31 AM
26

I’m feeling attacked rn 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:17 PM
161

Yea girl, when my kids dad pulls this shit I just tell him to take a week off. You pick him up ON TIME or you don’t get him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:40 PM
2

Dammit! You’re brilliant!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:38 PM
4

I identified my next moves to level up. The very next step is a new job
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 11:46 PM
15

Mine is two words. One is a type of machine, one is a type of arthropod.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:03 PM
31

That’s a good idea! I did also buy crap online before I started texting clowns. I would have played XBOX, but I found out these freaking clowns were following me and messaging me there too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:50 PM
66

I’m about to slide into his DMs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:47 PM
9

Uhhh... I feel kind of attacked rn 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 02:03 AM
24

Ok. That’s it. I’m buying myself a fucking crown. You have inspired me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 01:57 AM
14

Ghosting expectations: I was just worried about your safety baby! It scares me when you don’t reply! Ghosting reality: I actually don’t give a single fuck about you or your feelings or I wouldn’t have disrespected you to the point that ghosting seemed like the best option for you. My ego hurts a bit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 01:49 AM
16

I wasn’t gonna drink tonight. Damn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 01:27 AM
3

Dat kitchen, tho :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 10:40 PM
12

A few things cause that. Mostly uppers. Speed, meth, extacy, coke... that kind of thing. Nothing legal that I know of
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:03 AM
12

This girl understands
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 12:54 AM
2

The fucking sweat fat on your cheek. Ladies! No! We don’t accept that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 12:03 AM
7

I told my bestie yesterday: I don’t care if it’s shallow: I’ll never be disrespected by an ugly dude again. Yaaaasss! Moving up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 11:51 PM
2

Omg! I think I just collaged the same guy 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 11:47 PM
16

This is the best day in a long time. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 11:43 PM
3

I love it, girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 11:41 PM
4

Okay. What app are y’all using for the collages. I got jokes I want to share
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 11:10 PM
16

“My friends come in all types from tan to super white.” Probably not the exact quote. Anyway... She’s not wrong about the quality of the men-folk. There is a serious societal problem going on. Ladies, I don’t want to be single. I’m happier single than kissing fucking toads looking for a decent human man. Are men ok?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 08:28 PM
63

How can you not be happy with a Saturday morning croissant and a coffee? Men are so fucking spoiled I swear to God.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 02:33 PM
29

Hahaha!!! He woulda showed up late strung out on god only knows what drugs! Hahahaha! No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 02:31 PM
7

Huh. I think I just broke up with him. Small world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 10:24 PM
3

So, he watches sports in first date clothes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 01:24 AM
7

Ok, and can I just say it sounds like he wants to just up and leave after the basketball game? Like, bruh. Don’t you have to get ready for a first date? This guy was literally about to show up in basketball shorts. No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:43 PM
28

If a man isn’t super excited to lock me down, then it’s a no from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:30 PM
17

I think I’ve only been dumped... twice. Ever in my life. That’s because when I’m not feeling it, I set the man free. Men should do the same. What is this placeholder bullshit? For real??!? Men, ffs, break up with the girl instead of wasting her damn time. In the end, time was all we ever had!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 10:49 PM
53

I’m about to kick that useless bar down the street!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 04:37 PM
92

If my 11 year old can manage making me feel special on my birthday, a grown ass man should be able to also.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 04:37 PM
23

No offense at all! I figured he used that term (first tour). We all got PTSD up in here (veterans). But yea, I’m not blind nor deaf, so I can’t speak about what employment or goals looks like for people with those afflictions. So I guess then, it comes down to what you are comfortable with. Edit: but know that you get what he is. You can’t fix him. You have to take him as he is today and don’t count on anything better or different in the future. That goes for any man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:56 AM
38

As a veteran myself, it kinda bothers me that you (probably he) describe it as a “first tour.” If there was only one, by definition it’s not the first. That aside, my rule is that I want to be able to live my life and a man has to be able to afford to come along. I have failed at keeping that boundary. It hasn’t ended well. I either have to pay for everything and he’s butt hurt about it, or I go and do my own thing and he’s butt hurt about it. That’s no bueno. If you pay for everything he WILL f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:19 AM
31

I literally just almost signed up for OLD again today. I’m probably not ready, but I was bored. Instead, I spent my time applying for higher paying jobs and tweaking my resume. Yes. I want real love. At this point, I know I’ll be okay either way. I’ll focus on leveling up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:04 AM
41

Nope. I can fuck whenever I want. I’m not an incel. I don’t fuck losers and I don’t have sex outside of (what I believe to be at the time, and I have been fooled) love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:01 AM
77

He’s so UGLY too! And she’s sooooo pretty! Why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:54 AM
53

Me neither, girl. Me neither. I got me and I got mine. I’m done kissing nasty frogs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:52 AM
58

What the FUCK??!? Who honestly agrees to this. Those ladies need help! I wanna have a talk with the mom!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:44 AM
31

How TF is he still going to try to neg after 8 months? I quit men. I just got a new kitten. That’s two cats, one dog, and one son (in no particular order). I’m good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:39 AM
18

I want a pickme man! Bet your ass I’d appreciate him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 11:14 PM
6

I’m super cute, smart, funny, and 38. And I have other good qualities too! I have no problems finding dates. Finding a good man is the main problem. Keep being amazing and don’t ever stop vetting. If they want an inexperienced 22 year old, well, they are a POS unless they are also an inexperienced 22 year old. But honestly, they are probably a POS too who isn’t ready to “settle down” and want to “sow their wild oats.” Girl, you are fine. The men... well... they need assistance, but not from us. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 10:35 PM
30

Next time I’m gonna lie my ass off about my dating past and instead of being a sex kitty like usual after committing I’m gonna make him go slooooooow. You gotta EARN the sex kitty version of me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 01:36 PM
33

That math seems... off... 😆 But regardless, this dude thinks she was supposed to fist fight him or something? WOW
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 10:17 PM
15

I got two. Initially it was that he was “So depressed” The next day it was that he was “Working for 48 hours straight and couldn’t take a break” (He lost his job to Covid.) So, like, if you could make your bullshit make sense, that would be great...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 10:03 PM
19

It wasn’t easy at all. But, why delay the inevitable? You don’t disrespect someone that you want in your life. You don’t disappear on a woman that you love. Love is trying to bring kindness and support into the other person’s life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:02 PM
10

I shoulda left earlier. That’s my only regret. I coulda done been moving on by now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 08:47 PM
69

My boyfriend of nine months went missing for three days last week. Popped back up like nothing even happened. He’s my ex boyfriend now. I’m not going to waste any more time on stoopid boys. Doesn’t matter how I feel or what I want. I can only deal with what I have. #trashday The real truth is he would have let it drag on and on being hot and cold... I’m not interested in those ridiculous games. Now I’m single. I’ll take some time to clear my headspace and move on. I don’t need a man and I don’t …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 08:44 PM
44

Dude! They want to be known as gods in the sack, but won’t give us the 20 minutes or whatever it takes to get there. I don’t get it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 12:03 PM
67

That’s what I was about to say!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 01:22 AM
46

I left a handsome tip. I always do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:41 PM
57

One time I was out with my kids dad. It was after we broke up and we were coordinating parenting. His stupid angry ass up and left before the food came. I stayed and finished my drink like a boss. They brought both meals to the table in to go boxes on the house. I didn’t have to pay for anything. Bet that doesn’t happen to ugly rude boys on dates. Fuck-em. Leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:36 PM
21

I did eharmony for 6 months. I had one date. He was okay, I guess. I decided not to see him again. I also canceled a date with a guy who I found out was super racist. He became unhinged and was driving around my neighborhood for a few weeks looking for me. He knew my general area, but not my address, thank God. Most of the guys were old and ugly. I tried the league or whatever it’s called for 3 months. Ugly dudes. Crappy platform. Expensive. No dates and honestly no conversations. I wouldn’t pay…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 09:54 PM
26

Here’s the strategy: when they pull away, I pull away ten times worse. If I never hear from them, it’s whatever! And if I do, they quickly learn that that crap doesn’t fly here. As far as timelines, they all work on different schedules. I’ve had three weeks and up to four months. No timeline that they actually work with is anything where I personally would be so invested that I would tolerate their BS. That’s why we hold back. Don’t get comfortable before 6 months to a year. Even still... be ind…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 05:24 AM
31

If that’s a pick up line it’s terrible. That dude needs a friend and therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 09:05 PM
10

For me it’s because men act weird when you’re the tallest mf’er in the room
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 04:27 AM
13

That actually happened. No lie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 04:05 AM
42

The pores on your legs are too big Honestly, if that’s your only criticism, I’m doing ok. Jerk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 09:15 PM
10

Nope!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 02:06 AM
27

Lol @ I’m gonna catch that som bitch And: be what you seek and you shall find Lmaoooo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:39 AM
6

What is up with guys mean mugging the camera in profile pics? Who is this profile aimed at? Are you... are you trying to fight me or date me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 04:14 PM
44

If anything, is single mommas put up with LESS crap. Been there, done that. We already know that we got this alone. If you can’t add anything to our lives, kindly go away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 07:50 PM
6

I have a nickel allergy, so I legitimately can’t wear cheap jewelry. Also... put some thought into it because I’m worth it. I don’t even want a huge diamond. I want an emerald because green is my favorite and I want something unique. :/ This ring would get a... 0/10 would not marry. Would ask the man what he was actually thinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 08:34 PM
11

Before I married my late husband he tried driving like a crazy person with me in the car once. Only once. I told him to pull over and let me out of the car. He figured out how to drive safely real quick. It never happened again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 06:03 PM
8

Thank you for your story. You are amazing. Keep being the best you that you can be! I’m proud of your growth!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:05 AM
13

I push the three part apology, but this depends on age. I can see that I hurt you by ___________ I am sorry. In the future I will __________
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 01:49 AM
52

My boy is 11. I hope he doesn’t lose his sweetness and charm. He gets bullied by other boys to keep the line. Boys don’t do this! Boys don’t do that! Girls are stupid! Then he comes home to me. He’s seen me cry. He’s seen the hurt men have caused. He doesn’t trust them at all. I want him to be a whole person. I want him to keep his empathy. I want him to come to me with problems instead of stupid boys. I teach HS. I know how bad they are from 14-18. I want him to be comfortable and confident to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 11:28 PM
212

“My bad” is NOT an apology
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 09:31 PM
66

I had one dude talking about marriage. Marriage! Then when I referred to him as my boyfriend he was like “Woah, woah woah... what??!? It’s not like that!” Bruh. Bye!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 05:09 AM
63

We don’t even know her BF’s name. He’s just AOC’s boyfriend. Imagine that. (I can google it, but that’s not the point)’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 03:15 AM
136

Ok but I hate that she has to use her relationship to men to prove her point. I wish men could find empathy outside of our relationships to our fathers and husbands. It would have been cooler if she would have gone there. Maybe men aren’t ready for that yet, but I sure AF am. Other than that, pure queen energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 03:02 AM
2

That’s not coming out of nowhere. I recommend therapy so you can discover where those insecurities come from and weather or not they serve you in your daily life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 01:51 AM
20

I appreciate you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 01:48 AM
6

What did you lose in marriage the first two times? For try #3 (if that even has to be a thing) remember that. Divorce is never easy. But, don’t stay in an unhappy marriage. It’s terrible. The worst. What you gain depends on IF you manage to choose a good man. That’s a big IF. Being single is awesome! I don’t lose anything and I gain love for myself. Two divorces doesn’t have to mean three marriages. Two divorces can be the catalyst to your best life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 01:47 AM
30

I’m not gonna say what he looks like because it’s not nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 01:37 AM
37

Been there. Sounds like it to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 01:24 AM
15

Don’t you dare do worse than my last ring. He was an asshole. Are you an asshole? Mostly kidding It was a nice ring though, not gonna lie. But the thing was that it wasn’t for me either. The ring was all a show. Look at me! I bought her this ring! I’m so awesome! I want something thoughtful. I want something for ME that shows he loves ME.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 01:15 AM
40

It’s so empowering when you switch from “I hope he likes me!” To “I don’t know if I like him.” It’s a game changer, for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 12:04 AM
9

He is an adult. I never “let” or “don’t let” my significant other do anything. He does what he wants and if I don’t like it, I dump him. Easy peasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:35 PM
11

Omg I love you. I’m not very good at the fashion lingo and you just helped me immeasurably! Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 05:30 PM
32

I like to think that dating women has a better outcome than dating men, but I don’t know. If you can use our advice in f/f relationships I encourage you to. I imagine that women are more kind, empathetic, and caring, but I could definitely be wrong. You are more than welcome here. I’m glad you are here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 07:02 AM
26

What the actual... ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 08:04 PM
18

🍻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:55 AM
15

Hook me up with your mango plug
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:49 AM
11

I go into every relationship assuming it’s going to be temporary. It helps with expectations and allows me to leave at will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:46 AM
17

Still killin’ it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:44 AM
194

Men freaking stare at 11 year old girls. Miss me with that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 05:45 PM
18

Ouch and burn! Yass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 04:33 AM
2

My car does that. I now have ideas
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 04:29 AM
4

Okay it was easy to find https://youtu.be/UmvOgW6iV2s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 09:45 PM
2

On it. Give me a sec
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 09:44 PM
5

I watched a TED talk on lol today. Y’all should check it out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 09:08 PM
9

Used to live in Florida. Can confirm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 09:04 PM
4

My ex is a narcissist. I don’t think he knows it, but many of them don’t. When it’s good, it’s damn good. When it’s bad, it’s hell. Love, you need therapy to glow up. It’s so annoying because it costs time and money. But, it’s amazing for breaking free. Block him. Keep him blocked. His kind of “love” is bullshit and unnatural. Love yourself and get well. I’m a former service member myself. Don’t let him call you crazy because of it. If you have residual trauma, you need to work on it. Not as an …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 08:54 PM
25

“OMG! I love your nails!” Me: always
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 08:04 PM
2

One time, I was rekindling a romance with an ex (don’t do that. It’s stupid). It was date 2 in my unfortunate lack of judgment. Anyway, we went to a reasonably priced taco joint and when we got up to order (counter service) he stayed back. Obviously he wasn’t paying, but it was awkward as hell. This was pre FDS. I made him come up and order with me. I paid for his fucking tacos too and I never saw him again. It was a bit of a power move on my part. Fuck that guy. The $15 dollars was worth it to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 07:13 PM
17

I used to know a guy who had this on a T-shirt. He was a good looking, successful man with a beautiful wife and children. He definitely looked like a shady troll after seeing him in it in public. Like, wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:10 AM
1

My hair costs $500 easily. I haven’t gone in a while because I live in red state USA. I can’t wait to go again when it’s safe because hair is an accessory you wear every day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 10:20 PM
14

It’s basically just me and my son and I love, love my life. Any attention I give to men has proven to be a loss. I’d so much rather hang out with my boy than some thirsty ass dude who doesn’t even see me as a human being. I’m happy alone. So, so happy. I keep looking for that white picket fence, but it’s not real. Happiness is a good job and time with my boy. Full stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 09:45 PM
7

That’s gotta be the key 🔑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 01:47 AM
30

We don’t need no explanation (to the tune of Pink Floyd)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 01:29 AM
11

I puked a little bit... in my mouth 🤢 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 01:26 AM
32

I’m pretty open about being kinda old. They don’t really mess with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 01:22 AM
1

I legit thought I was looking at boobs for a hot minute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 06:02 AM
24

I took one bouquet and fn tossed it at the yard during a fight with my ex. That’s a real statement piece for the neighbors to see. I do like flowers for many reasons. They can make men look good and in the right circumstances make them look like trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 11:00 PM
5

He gave me his passcode, but I fn forgot it because I thought I’d never need it. I kinda regret that now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 07:07 PM
8

I’m not gonna leave this up long because I don’t think there are many people with this particular problem right now and I don’t want to show my cards if he finds it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 06:41 PM
89

Honestly, I’m trying to figure it out. Like, we actually want to love men. We’re just trying to help each other find the right ones. We share bad experiences we have had with men to warn others. We share good experiences with men so others know it’s possible. I can’t necessarily think of anything hateful we have shared. Definitely no violence, threats of violence or whatever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:36 AM
12

Guess I need a Twitter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:45 AM
7

Annnnd... blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:38 AM
84

We met up at a bar for drinks. Once I met him I found out he “only has an hour.” Okay... well... I took longer than that getting ready, champ. We ordered one drink each and he was so awkward. Conversation was difficult with him. Basically, it was just him sitting there making corny jokes. We finished our drinks and he walked me to my car. He stared grabbing my boobs and trying to make out. Like, I don’t even know this guy at ALL. I cut him off and made him stop. Then, he started begging for sex.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 11:57 AM
17

Interesting idea for research purposes. I’m sure she’d get a million matches regardless, though. Men don’t read bios. They just look at the pics and swipe right. Back when I was single my bio was kinda trollish and I did alright. I once had one face pic and a pic of macaroni and cheese and I still got matches. And dates!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 11:40 PM
45

So I guess the clue was trying to stop me from going out by making me watch our son.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 01:04 AM
3

That reminds me that I gotta watch that thing on Hulu. Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 05:52 AM
9

I recommend a hitachi magic wand. It plugs in so never runs out of batteries
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 02:26 AM
26

As long as he’s cool with his own room he can still come. You gotta let him know that you are a queen. If he’s a good man he’ll respect that. Standards and boundaries start from day 1. I found my guy online (Bumble) He had only been online for like a month. It is a trash heap, but sometimes you find the needle in the haystack. Took years for me to find one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 12:24 AM
34

Tell me it’s not an overnight thing. (Too soon for FDS. He’s gotta earn that) Actually I think it’s good if friends are involved. The girls are an asset for telling it like it is, so they will be important. Listen to them unless they are pickmes. Just do you and have fun! I like that it’s a group thing. Try to go slow. What do you mean though, by “lowered your standards?” Are you not necessarily attracted to him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 12:12 AM
75

What’s the background story? To me words are whatever. I wait to evaluate the actions. If his actions match his words you’re doing alright.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 11:57 PM
16

She should just kick him out. Then, he can see just how bad the dating scene is for mediocre men. WHEN he comes crawling back (they always do) she should block him. She’ll be doing way better by then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 04:01 PM
46

I physically just said “Eewww.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:49 AM
12

Boi, I’ve matched and been ignored by NFL players. Women aren’t worried about your fake ass profile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 08:34 PM
5

Ok so I say... ask him if he knows “profile girl’s name” Tell him you are old buds and she sent you screenshots because she cares. Show him the screenshots And just watch what happens. We already know how this ends. He does need to be held accountable. He asked you to marry him! What a loser!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 04:22 AM
2

I do not wear makeup to work. I work with high schoolers so it’s better that way. If I’m going out with my boyfriend or the girls I wear makeup. Other than that, not at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 09:49 PM
15

I mean... that’s a lotta money for a one client therapist. But yea... it’s not real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 09:38 PM
3

Ohhh HELL no!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 03:43 PM
6

Like, I can probably get past that for someone who is kind and caring. Unfortunately, being kind and caring requires self awareness. Joseph clearly lacks that. LEFT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 03:11 PM
44

I went to fill my tires today at the gas station. Afterwards I went inside to get some snacks. This old dude stopped me and asked me if I managed to fill my tires okay. I was like... ya. Then he went on to explain to me how to properly fill tires and how tires work!?! Like, bro. It’s not rocket science (inside). Outside I was like “oh okay I get it.” I wasn’t mean at all. Then he got all mad afterwards and said “I was just trying to help!” My dude, I didn’t ask for your help. I’m not obligated t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 08:44 PM
2

You know that man grunts when he gets out of a chair. How tf is he gonna chase after a toddler? Pass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 04:05 PM
37

Exactly. I have seen some plus sized queens that make me say DAMN! I wish I looked like her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 02:50 AM
40

Bro you shouldn’t even be trying to wear clothes from 20 years ago. You look crazy. No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 02:47 AM
236

Oh noooo! All that AND a “we’re just friends by the way” Nonono take it back! Take the money back! He can’t love her! He doesn’t even respect himself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 02:45 AM
12

I use a vacuum for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 12:41 AM
9

Sounds like a manipulation tactic to me. “Hey babe, check out all of these noods I’m getting!” The subtext is I CAN cheat and you ARE replaceable. Be careful is all I’m saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 03:43 AM
35

I think it’s a tell Wanting girls to pay for dates and being an incel Who’d have thought?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 10:47 PM
39

He showed up that dirty to a BIRTH??!? He needs Jesus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 10:15 PM
29

Not that I’ve never paid. Every time I HAVE paid he turned out to be an incel. Skip that BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 10:11 PM
106

Oh! I left my purse at home! *Grabs purse *leaves I’m joking For real. I wouldn’t do that. What I do on a first date is the reach (reach for your purse expecting he offers to pay) I can pay for my own meal. I can absolutely pay for his too. If he lets me pay I’m out. Date one was my mistake. Date two isn’t a thing. Even if venues change, he’s lucky to be spending time with you and should act as such. It’s not like he has 300 people on tinder super liking him. He just doesn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 10:05 PM
116

Ok... he’s free... free to come up with an actual date or go play his xbox. Sounds like he needs Xbox time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 09:55 PM
7

Do you think he could be a catfish?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 03:49 PM
7

Yea... I was definitely picturing a 22 year old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 03:48 PM
21

Those mental gymnastics are astounding!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 12:20 AM
221

Why exactly are they growing up in fatherless homes? I want to hear this. Is it because they have the freedom to choose weather to or not to participate in fatherhood? Is it because “nasty” women end up having to get restraining orders from abusive men? I want to hear what this pickme has to say. It’s important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 05:58 PM
10

“Don’t you have a football game to watch?” 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 02:38 PM
22

To be fair, sometimes they don’t start acting like trash bags until kids are in the picture. It’s a real thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 01:45 PM
7

I think if it’s the right man and you feel comfortable being both friends and lovers long term it can be a wonderful thing. Building a family with someone you trust and love is amazing. I’ve done that. I think marriage with the wrong man is a fn nightmare. Building a life with an asshole who demands “RESPECT BECAUSE I AM A MAN!” Is bullshit. And sometimes you don’t see the monster until they think they have you hooked enough so that you won’t leave. Idk if you can tell, but I’ve done that too. N…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 11:01 PM
16

“It’s not racist because I did it and I’m not racist.” No, baby. It’s racist and maybe you need some time to think about it and reflect on yourself, your thoughts, and your actions. Sigh. Block. Delete. Women and men. They are the type of people who need to have these conversations, but they can’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 05:52 PM
44

We don’t gotta be “nice” anymore. That was a lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 12:28 AM
17

My grandma was making babies well into her 40’s back in the 60s too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 05:38 PM
31

To some men pretty women are like pets, I think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 02:08 PM
21

Not blaming you. Not at all. Just spinning off of your first sentence I think that if we act too much like pickmeishas they assume we will just forgive them if they are caught. Like, we just LoOovE them so much we’re willing to put up with a disloyal disease vector.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 02:40 PM
15

People are going to do what they are going to do. Men HAVE to stop trying to control us. Go on the trip. Take the class. Glow up and better yourself. I accept that if a man wants to cheat he can and then gtfo of my life. Men have to learn to live with that confidence. There’s no need to control anybody. Like, just let it go. If your girl cheats she wasn’t the one. If your man cheats he ain’t it. Bye, okay? People can’t live in fear like that. I’ve never dated a cheater. Maybe that’s why I’m not …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 03:32 AM
10

You can’t blame yourself. You are a human. You were going through a very difficult time. I want to give you the forgiveness that you can’t give yourself. Be strong and love yourself even when you feel like a failure. It’s okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 03:13 AM
18

I can tell from just reading this that he’s ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 09:34 PM
8

Uhhh... is that an engagement photo? No, sir. I don’t think I will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 09:23 PM
10

I felt that. I’ve said it before, but I’ve been engaged 5 times. But here I am... loving me. By myself. Taking care of myself. I have ultimate freedom right now. Nobody tells me what to do or where to go or how to feel. When other people flake out... I got me. I take care of it. I’m good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 04:00 AM
34

I’ve seen this! I’ve seen moms in their fifties cleaning up for “boys” in their thirties. Full story: it was my ex who I have a kid with. Go me. She was so happy after a husband and three sons to have another woman around to clean up their bullshit. Obviously I failed at that. She didn’t just make her misery. She made mine and any other woman who came close to her sons misery too. She failed to teach her sons basic adult responsibility. She taught them that it’s the woman’s job. Now they are all…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 03:02 AM
37

Or those assholes use the kids to control their ex and keep tabs on them. Motherfuckers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 02:55 AM
1

For cheating? God help us all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 04:07 AM
60

HoW Can yoU bE TirED frOM GrOCerY ShoPpInG fOR 60 HOurs a WEEk oN TOp oF FuLl TiME pArenTiNg 3 kiDs?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 02:46 AM
30

What did he expect? Fapping isn’t a fucking compliment. It’s gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 02:39 AM
10

No need to hurt him physically. The divorce court will do more than enough damage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 02:37 AM
43

Gross! I say match him. Take pics of his dating profile. Get incriminating evidence. Become Facebook friends. Message his wife. Boy! You don’t get to fuck her life up in secret. He is trash and she deserves to know! You reap what you sow and all that. He is straight up garbage on purpose. No, sir. This isn’t a thing anymore. Garbage men are canceled
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 02:08 AM
8

I wouldn’t feel bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 02:00 AM
4

Yea... me too, buddy. The difference is that’s it’s believable for me. Wear sunblock!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 06:27 PM
40

WHY WONT WOMEN FUCK ME? GET A BRAIN, HOOERS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 03:31 AM
7

I think you can catch up in a phone call in these trying times. Or not at all. Leave the garbage in the trash, ya know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 12:08 AM
21

Thank you ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 11:58 PM
54

He’s usually great. I like him ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 11:56 PM
14

I either blocked them OR told them in no uncertain terms to never EVER contact me again. I had one thirsty dude only message me from way back in 2018 and that was it. Never even met the guy. He’s blocked now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 11:53 PM
7

I tell it like it is. I’m looking for a relationship with the right person. I haven’t found him yet even though some men have tried. I’ve been single for a while because I don’t put up with crap. The right man will step up and be the man you want. The wrong man will call you “high maintenance” or “too picky” or whatever and move tf on. Bye, boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 11:15 PM
13

You have to treat men like they don’t really matter. Because they don’t. You have to be a full person and not accept any crap from anyone. How? Because you know that you are amazing alone and you only let people in who add value to your life. You have to vet them. You have to throw away the garbage. Don’t let garbage tell your beautiful self that you aren’t enough. You are. They are garbage. Don’t worry about having a man commit. The ones that want to automatically will and the ones that don’t g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 01:21 AM
12

Sounds like he needs therapy tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 04:24 PM
7

Wtf is this train wreck? Why did you bring this bullshit here? Honey, no. Wrong sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 04:17 PM
33

There’s something about narcissistic men that draws us to them. They know how to be everything we need in the beginning. That’s how they get us hooked. I think the main key to avoid them is time. We don’t need to rush anything. If they are a real HVM they will respect that. The mask falls off with time. Personally, I always have one foot out in my relationships. I set clear boundaries and enforce them as necessary. That’s something narcs don’t like. Then, the trash takes itself out. They want ad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 09:32 PM
43

I let a m*n borrow my car and he got a DWI. Don’t do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 11:36 PM
3

When he’s grown I’m not gonna wash his undergarments
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 01:35 AM
17

I’ve pretended to be a dude on online games just for the respect factor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 08:51 PM
20

Dirty Hanes give me flashbacks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 08:32 PM
26

I think my ex changed 5 diapers in his whole ass life! Dad of the year!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 08:32 PM
61

Repeat after me: I will never wash another mans underwear as long as I live!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 08:29 PM
6

OMG me tooooo! That’s how domestic violence happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 07:12 PM
44

We single moms are single for a reason. These trash ass men proved they were trash in the best of times. Now that it’s the worst of times... well surprise, surprise... still fucking garbage. I’m lucky that my boy is old enough to be left home alone for a little while. I’m sorry you are going through this. You are doing the best that you can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 03:25 PM
14

Looks like FDS expectations are historically practiced. I’m all for it! Thought about sending it to my navy brothers, but they are married and already get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 04:27 AM
37

Feeling that hard rn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 04:05 AM
1

That’s what I said. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 06:00 PM
15

I’d respond. But, I’m bored and feeling mean for fun. You did the right thing by not responding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 01:54 AM
15

Oh! I used to work closely with guys in his situation. Usually it still works just fine. Yea, sex would be different, but most likely wouldn’t be impossible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 12:10 PM
23

Yea... so... I dated two guys who were in the closet at the time. They both ALWAYS would bring up not being gay. Heck, I didn’t bring it up because if I thought they were gay I wouldn’t take dating them seriously. Well... they ended up coming out of the closet later. I was a beard. Lame. In conclusion... if he keeps insisting he’s not gay without prompting... he might be gay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 05:28 AM
23

I don’t even remember his name anymore....Danny, Dave? Idk. I feel like it began with a D. Bye fool. I’m not even mad. I feel nothing at all for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 09:44 PM
34

I do way less laundry and cleaning since I tossed my kid’s dad out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 06:38 PM
228

Follow up: I didn’t reply to his weak ass text. I did NOT follow their advice. He texted me one other time a MONTH later “Hey” I haven’t heard from him since. The trash took itself out. What would my life look like if I kept chasing that weak ass bitch of a man like they advised me to? I’m good. Their advice is just wrong on so many levels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 05:00 PM
316

I dated a loser back in June (short and ugly. Drove a Camry. Totally uninteresting) who told me he was “BaD AT TexTinG” About a week before my birthday I stopped texting him first. I didn’t hear from the man for three weeks. He missed my birthday. He missed my vacation (didn’t ask how it was or anything) So, I went over to DOT to complain and lay down some knowledge about how I need a man who already knows how relationships work and how to not be trash. Girl. I got downvoted to hell. “You didn’t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 04:36 PM
16

Then it sounds like if he can’t wait, he ain’t it for you. Crisis averted!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 05:11 PM
14

Hmm... good question. If you are pretty sure that it might be a yes in the future, you can feel free to say yes, and then change your mind at any time. I mean, if you eventually decide it’s a “No” you’re going to probably want to leave the relationship anyway so a broken engagement isn’t a big deal unless you really start planning, paying for things, and moving in together. I know my answer is NOT good, but it’s functional. It’s strategic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 04:58 PM
135

Oh. That was a long time ago. I’m doing ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 12:30 PM
2

Ouch! That sounds awful. Hopefully it doesn’t come to that. You’re alright!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 04:02 PM
2

Ok. If we’re being real. I can be real. I know a place that is scalping TP and hand sanitizer. I don’t report them juuuuust in case. I don’t want to pay 19.99 for a 4 pack of single ply... but a girl has to do what a girl has to do. What am I gonna do? Ask my bf for his extra TP? Hard no!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 02:24 AM
6

Washcloths and showers here we come. Thanks hoarders!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 11:54 PM
12

Y’all! I have 8 rolls left. Why tf is everyone hoarding tp?The stores are staying open!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 11:48 PM
25

Almost No woman who has a child with a man just up and leaves for no reason. Single dads, in general, were insufferable assholes to their wives/partners at one time in their past. For a sustained amount of time. They were consistent enough at being an asshole that the woman had to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 01:40 PM
129

No! Hard no. You are not his mommy. Don’t act like it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 06:21 PM
8

Kick him out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 02:56 AM
9

Shame!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 02:13 AM
2

F
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 01:42 AM
104

Her dad sounds like trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 02:45 AM
47

I will absolutely reach for my purse. Slowly. If I’m not stopped and I end up paying for anything... there is no second date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 02:44 AM
9

I’d proceed with caution. I’ve had losers get mad at me and dump me when they felt vulnerable. Actions speak louder than words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 07:17 PM
46

I see the problem as him being uncomfortable with being vulnerable around you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 06:24 PM
7

My cat never sulks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 12:32 AM
11

I wouldn’t say I did a good job. When you’re juggling dudes it’s so easy to forget what you said to who. But, well, if they like you they put up with BS, for sure. And like, when you’re talking to a bunch of dudes... if one ghosts you... you don’t even notice! Then when they text you 6mos later... you literally have no idea who they even are! And you can be like “Who tf is this?” It’s a power move, for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 12:41 AM
25

When I was multi-dating, I’m still pretty sure I kept it to one a week. I’m a single momma with a full time job. I’m also a natural introvert, so I find dating exhausting. I was texting and talking to many boys at a time, though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 10:36 PM
3

Yass! I’m in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 09:32 PM
7

🙈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 01:40 PM
89

Yea! Grow the fuck up and stop making women do your domestic labor! Nobody likes doing it, but it has to get done. If you live there, it’s your responsibility too! Fucking spoiled babies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 11:00 PM
13

It means NEXT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:32 AM
7

Eewwww!!! I didn’t notice that! Gross!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 07:39 PM
9

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 07:07 PM
66

Judging by that sad hairy arm, that cheap-ass T-shirt, and that dirty room... no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 07:05 PM
3

fEEliNgs ArE gaY!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 09:31 PM
10

I don’t understand bro culture. It hurts men and women. No one benefits from this social structure, but, for some reason, men police each other to maintain the system. It’s bizarre
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 08:09 PM
38

Just... move away. You’ll save more money with affordable housing and child support
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 08:01 PM
25

I don’t chase boys. Boys chase me. Bye fool. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 12:23 AM
41

Happened to me too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 04:38 PM
16

Hahahaha! No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 08:06 PM
48

Or “I will f@ck you because I know it will be easy, laugh about it to my friends, then ghost you.” That one is pretty common.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 08:05 PM
2

Nope
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 06:01 PM
166

“WhY DOnT i geT ANy MatCHeS?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 04:01 AM
34

There are about 2 pretty hot guys at my job. I don’t shit where I eat, so they can look, but don’t touch. Hot guys are actually pretty rare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:52 AM
36

I tried it. Super expensive and they are all ugly. Same guys, different app. If you’d still swipe left on tinder, then I don’t see the point of spending extra money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:46 AM
12

I only ever get approached when I’m with my boyfriend. It’s wild. When I’m single I get nothing. When I’m smiling with another man, they’re all “Hey baby” when he steps away to the restroom or something. Men are crazy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 02:38 AM
31

I don’t block my ex. That way, when he does text (and he does) I can tell him “Oh no, honey. You MUST have the wrong number 🖕👋”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 12:34 AM
27

Right? Uhh... earth to husband... actually sports are very expensive. How tf does he think he’s going to pay for multiple children to participate in multiple sports? That’s not even a realistic worry for a man that can barely afford diapers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 04:27 PM
1

But also, you have to let them fail. There has to be a certain peace in that. Like, you aren’t a HVM and you are proving that by your inaction. And nope TF away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 05:19 AM
1

So like, I got my nails done. They look amazing. When he complimented them, I told him it was for V-Day. Then he was like, what should we do? I definitely have ideas and suggestions. I’m still leaving it up to him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 05:17 AM
17

Wtf? No. No honey. I want to break up with him for her. He’s trash! Put him in the bin, babe!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 03:53 AM
45

Nobody asked his crusty old ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 07:43 PM
23

That’s amazing!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 04:27 PM
21

He looks like an unsigned free agent to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 03:10 PM
20

Go .... F.... yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 03:08 AM
40

The real answer: GFY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 01:10 AM
5

This is a male fantasy disguised as reality. This did not happen at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 01:08 AM
2

Well, I have wine and one cat. I’m doing pretty good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 11:17 PM
9

I once taught a man to cook spaghetti. I learned a valuable lesson shortly after. Do not stay with men who can’t even adult enough to feed themselves. Wtf was wrong with me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 09:20 PM
2

My guy just asked me out tonight after being up all night on Friday. Dating is hard on the body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 12:23 AM
7

Well... I’m gonna fuck myself regardless tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 10:19 PM
3

Honestly, I don’t remember the movie, just the good times
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 08:34 PM
3

Last year I went with my son to see a movie! I definitely love this idea!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 08:30 PM
9

On my 30th birthday my ex did NOTHING for me. Said “I didn’t think it was a big deal” After I threw him a big surprise party for all his friends and family for his 30th a few years prior. Complacent and Lazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 07:37 PM
2

That sounds amazing! In my two month relationship I have realized that my bf has expensive tastes. I probably won’t indulge that for him this year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 07:32 PM
9

Always a disappointment with men. I imagine all those “happily married” women have some more honest stories to tell. I for one, will never wash another man’s underwear again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 07:29 PM
9

Me too! He’s amazing, really. We have the best times!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 07:26 PM
11

Hell yea! Upgrade! I Love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 07:25 PM
16

I’ve never had a good Valentine’s Day. Just disappointment. Wayyyy back in HS, when I was a poor little pickmeisha, I bought a guy flowers, and he gave them away. I’ve taken my son out for the last four years and we have had a great time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 07:24 PM
4

Treat yo’self! I like it! When I got me, I’m never disappointed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 07:20 PM
3

That is a perfect and individualized gift! I love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 06:37 PM
7

Yass! Small gift ideas. What are you thinking?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 06:21 PM
21

I’ll start... I’m in a new relationship (about two months). I haven’t been in one in four years, excluding short term fbois. My bad. I didn’t know! I guess I’m going to let him lead. I feel like that’s gotta be the way. My expectations are kinda high right now and I don’t want to be let down. What is my role? What do? I have so much anxiety around this holiday There’s a lot to unpack from my long- term ex, the father of my child, never getting me gifts. He used gift giving opportunities as tools…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 06:18 PM
36

I was like... no. There is so much wrong here. Don’t mention the nails... don’t mention the nails...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 05:58 PM
6

Groooooossss!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 08:41 PM
13

You’ll know it when you see it. The one I’m thinking about in particular... the color was just... wrong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 08:20 PM
11

Quality I do not accept: Too skinny, Picky Eaters, Too fat, Old looking, Bald/balding, Dirty, Stinky, Lack of self care/grooming, Stupid, Bad shoes, Wide hips, Weird dicks, I’m sure there’s more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 08:18 PM
66

Why should I apologize? I don’t feel sorry. You’re just being too sensitive, as always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 03:10 PM
1

Ouch!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 09:02 PM
10

No hard feelings. My ex manchild was ugly af too. Been there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 06:21 AM
57

I totally agree. I have less responsibility without having to baby an angry manchild
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 04:56 PM
19

Happened to me last week. Apparently we stopped texting in early 2018 This fool thought I wanted to talk to a dude I never met and haven’t texted in almost two years!!? I was with a bestie at the time. We had a good laugh roasting his dusty ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 04:43 PM
2

Oh hell no!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 11:15 PM
25

🤢 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 01:45 AM
105

I have never taken birth control. I have never gotten an STD or gotten pregnant by accident. Condoms. 20 years of condom usage. Don’t worry about bratty boys whining. They can step up or step out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 08:18 PM
32

The audacity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 02:28 AM
20

We are queens in the sack and we don’t put up with no bullshit from men. #whatwall
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 01:01 AM
17

Oh hell no!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 11:31 PM
35

Gotta say no. If he cheats he was never HV in the first place. He was just good at faking it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 11:21 PM
14

One time I told a guy “Oxytocin is a hell of a drug.” And... he didn’t know what oxytocin is and accused me of being a druggie. (What a moron) Anyway, that could be what’s happening here. He could just be stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 08:46 PM
9

That’s a good rule
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 06:57 PM
11

That was unnecessarily graphic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 06:17 PM
28

Met my boyfriend on bumble. F-bois on tinder think that because you are on tinder you are less than human. They treat you like garbage, then say “But we met on Tinder!” To excuse it. Do not recommend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 10:51 PM
25

Oh yes. Because I really want to date another broke dude. You got me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 08:21 PM
76

When I left my ex he thought he’d be drowning in pussy. Spoiler Alert: he’s not. White hair, fat, angry, and short. He really thought he was a prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 08:16 PM
2

Lol I only date younger men! Old, bald, fat guys aren’t my thing. I’m definitely not insecure about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 03:01 PM
7

Meet first, at least. That’s my advice. I don’t trust people not to go crazy if I don’t know them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 01:37 AM
3

I’ve only ever claimed two dudes on social media. One narcissistic asshole I was with for 12 years and is the father of my child (he’s super blocked) The other I dated for 3 months. I guess, if I added every motherfucker I entertained I might look bad, but I don’t. Only when I think it’s real, and obviously I’ve been wrong before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 01:23 AM
5

Okay. Let’s unpack this. I think it would be sweet and kind if he claimed me on his social media. I would like it and I would reciprocate. Why? I don’t know if I have a why. I’m also a bit older than he is. So, I understand that we have different experiences online
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 01:12 AM
2

That seems overbearing. Have you met him yet? I didn’t add my bf until we went exclusive We added each other together and in person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 01:04 AM
5

Okay. I mean, I can do that. That makes sense because once he asks me to marry him he’s gotta be allll in anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 12:55 AM
2

Just the status. We are both presenting as single
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 12:53 AM
1

In retrospect, I definitely should have mentioned it the first time. Setting boundaries is super easy. I’m still working on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 02:59 AM
3

In my case, strike one I didn’t say anything. It was kind of minor and I didn’t mind. Strike two I mentioned it and he apologized and promised to make it up to me. I didn’t ask for an apology, but he did. (For reference, most guys I have entertained didn’t apologize ever, for anything, but instead justified their actions. That’s an immediate nope.) Strike 3, well, I guess if it comes to that he’s got to go. Hopefully there is no strike 3 because I like him a lot. But I ain’t no doormat and I ain…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 02:55 AM
1

But your closure is strong AF. High five!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 04:23 AM
6

Honestly I would have noped him by message 5
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 04:19 AM
0

Want
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 12:53 AM
12

I’m not crying! You’re crying!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 11:31 PM
20

That outfit is raggedy and doesn’t fit. F that guy with another F-boi’s dick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 11:26 PM
24

Honestly, I’d probably ghost him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 10:38 PM
27

Who? F them. You do you and be awesome for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 10:34 PM
66

Honey! Wake up! You are the prize! Dusties are a dime a dozen. There are a LOT of LVM to nope. Keep noping them until you find the one. Love has no timeline. You’ll find your person when it happens. You HAVE to love yourself, respect yourself and be ready for when you find your HVM. You don’t want to be yoked up with a loser and miss him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 10:29 PM
47

“Ultimately, I’m looking for a LTR, but I’m very picky. Right now I want to meet people and see what works.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 02:49 AM
21

Well then GD, I’m still at one 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 01:34 AM
36

Cool. So I’m at one again. Practically virginal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 10:46 PM
66

I bet that puppy treats the tiger like the queen that she is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 10:50 PM
2

My chest hurts reading that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 05:06 AM
7

As one should
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 12:25 AM
20

I just consider the that to be the trash taking itself out. One more mortherfucker that I don’t even have to nope. Goodbye I’m an amazing human being and if you aren’t all in, you’re out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 04:48 AM
19

Underrated post of the day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 06:57 PM
26

RUN GIRL! Yasss!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 02:38 AM
106

Sounds like he actually doesn’t give a fuck about her feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 02:33 AM
29

That’s just gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 02:41 AM
75

What a fucking toad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 12:09 AM
17

Keep noping the idiots. It’s the FDS way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 04:59 AM
68

Yup. That’s exactly what it’s like. The wall is a lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 04:51 AM
35

You say: I get that a lot! I’m sorry, but I meet so many people through work. Which one are you again? Just kidding, you queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 11:11 PM
8

Yes. Porn sick limp dicked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 09:09 PM
3

Looove this! Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 03:53 PM
27

Honey, you screen enough people out with your face and body
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 01:02 AM
9

Brains and beauty? Men can’t handle us!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 04:14 AM
13

Mine will be STEM also. I can’t wait for the fragile-ego males to neg me about this and the high income that will follow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 03:50 AM
6

Basically, I have no problems sharing except for privacy concerns. It’s a little soon right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 10:46 PM
31

Just be wrong and be sorry, boys! It’s not hard! I can’t staaaaand mansplaining. I’m going back to school for my masters next year. I shudder to think it may get worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 08:28 PM
41

He’s so dumb, honestly, that I don’t think he knows he’s dumb. You know how some people use big words totally wrong? This fool. One time I tried to talk politics with him and he was literally mixing up current events and trying his hardest to sound informed. I was like “wtf are you even saying?” Like bro, just say you don’t know. Admit defeat. Move on. It’s not that hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 08:25 PM
1

This wisdom took me forward in time at least 1000 years. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 04:31 AM
22

They have a creepy ass smile and only look at your parts. Not the whole. I can spot that shit a mile away. They push boundaries, disrespect boundaries, can’t orgasm, and get soft. Ladies, just stop at the creepy smile. No need to go any further.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 04:26 PM
45

I’m allergic too. Get a fn hypoallergenic condom. Damn, fella! SKYN. You should have them in the ready if you’re trying to smash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 04:15 PM
11

I understand your situation and my heart goes out to you. We got this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 03:21 AM
6

Same. This. I look way better than I did in my 20s. My ten year challenge puts men to shame. Fixed my teeth, my hair, I work out, got a degree, and left a miserable old, crusty douchebag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 08:59 PM
15

They’re all “But what about men, huh?” It’s crazy how they made the problem about themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 04:55 PM
51

Given the option of hairy poon and no poon, they go with hairy poon every time. It’s if they complain later that you have to cut them the F off. This ain’t a porno
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 10:53 PM
8

Yasss!! Thank you, girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 10:48 PM
1

So far I’ve murdered two boys with words this week. I think I’m getting a new hobby!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 06:59 PM
3

Oh, nonononono!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 06:55 PM
5

Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 10:16 AM
17

I’m literally the best he’ll ever do! I’m pretty, fit, smart, and I make money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 05:10 PM
34

Throw the whole man out. I hear you. You are correct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 05:04 PM
14

My bestie told me not to even look for an apology. I want an apology!!! 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 04:51 PM
13

We’ve been knowing each other for two years. Last time we hung out I was definitely a pick-Meisha. He picked somebody else, again. Then after it was all over he texted me yesterday. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 04:45 PM
17

That’s kind of victim blamey. I understand your point, but I still didn’t invite assault. I have the right so say no at any time. I can even say yes, then change my mind and say no in the middle of something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 08:23 AM
21

I asked him “Why would you do that!?!?” Then, I deescalated the situation. When he asked me if I wanted to come over again, I simply told him that I was uncomfortable. He started blowing up my phone, then the insults started. You know. Typical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 01:48 AM
16

I’ve definitely met more sexual assaulters, liars, cheaters, and thieves than actual good guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 09:46 PM
51

They tell you nobody will ever want you. That is a lie! A damn lie! Maybe no man will love me the way I want to be loved, but he don’t either. I’m not a clown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 01:10 AM
5

That’s real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 12:02 AM
9

There’s no such thing as male privilege!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 01:51 PM
8

He told me that my son was going to grow up to be a “beta cuck asshole” because I’m a single mom. Bro, don’t insult my child . That’s disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 10:06 PM
23

I felt that. I definitely picked up dirty underwear and cooked fucking vegetables for an ungrateful asshole for years. He could only last 2 minutes in bed and it was like “I’m sorry! I’m sorry! I’m sorry! It’s your fault it’s so short. You’re too hot!” Hold up. I need a god damn shower.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 05:45 PM
7

Wtf? Next!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 05:09 PM
10

Thank you. You win Sunday
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 04:26 PM
10

“And be sexually harassed all night?” That’s real AF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 02:28 AM
8

What an Ass! That was definitely not a joke. Boy, bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 01:47 AM
7

Right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 11:16 PM
2

It’s against the rules on Bumble.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 09:26 PM
31

“I already have friends. Bye.” I’m not that nice anymore, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 07:58 PM
14

I just want to know if I’m doing something to invite this. I hear you that some assholes do it juuuust in case. So gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 07:54 PM
18

I was definitely not that nice. But, I don’t like him that much anyway. Dude has a daughter so I was like... “What if a man your daughter never met asked her to his house? Should she say yes?” He was like “Ooooh! I didn’t mean like that.” I mean, what else did you mean, bro? And why would the guy asking your daughter mean it “like that?” What’s “like that?” It sounds like you know, as a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 07:51 PM
9

Tried it. Do not recommend. He “Missed me so much!” And has been “Thinking about me since he broke up with me.” Also he “Hasn’t really dated much.” But, last verse, the same as the first. His commitment issues and mommy issues were not resolved so I was ditched again. I won’t even talk to him unless he has months of intensive therapy. With receipts Also: he got fatter and balder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 07:32 PM
3

Gross!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 07:26 PM
18

I’m feeling pretty GD good about being single right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 09:39 PM
1

I have a sparkly pair of Diane VonFerstenberg’s that I love!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 05:33 PM
7

Also me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 02:08 PM
14

I am soooo much happier as a single lady! I know that any BS that I have to deal with is my own. I never have to clean up after a manchild or beg a manchild for help. I don’t have to be disappointed every time I need emotional support. If I’m sick or need help I rely on my bestie’s. I’m living the feminist utopia. All I want is another kid, but if that happens great! If not, great!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 07:54 PM
15

That’s just factual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 10:09 PM
25

I’m gonna be the one that tells you that’s not true. You have to believe it yourself, but you are valuable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 11:16 PM
26

I usually say “Are you... are you negging me?” Then they know the jig is up and they can’t try that crap with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 12:52 AM
9

I also need this advice. I hate crushes and wish to eliminate them from happening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 09:53 PM
1

I think I also dated him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/19 01:24 PM
10

I always wear a floppy hat and spf 100+ At 37, the difference between women who do and do not is striking!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 05:38 AM
3

“I have all of these plans, X, Y, And Z. I’m the kind of girl that likes to make plans in advance. What did you have in mind?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 05:27 AM
8

Tbh, when people dated on a smaller scale throughout human history, we would already know at least a bit about the person from our social circles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 03:11 PM
14

Attractive Successful Honest Charismatic Humble Kind Let me know if you meet him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 01:51 PM
8

Oh no no! When I used to ask guys out I was either totally rejected (that’s fine) or they tried to use me for easy sex (not fine). They’re like “Well, shoot! I don’t even have to try! She said she likes me so she’ll put up with a ton of BS and her boundaries don’t even matter! Yay me!!” That’s a hard no from me from now on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 01:00 PM
10

I remember just keeping my head down and walking on eggshells until I could leave. My heart goes out to you. Promise not to change your mind, ok? Promise to leave no matter what
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 12:59 AM
6

Uhhh... I definitely do not put a full body shot. This is because I filter out guys who ask for one. If they feel the need to find out if I’m heavy, (I’m not) then it’s a no from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/19 09:19 PM
22

I always tell them I’m a virgin. For some reason, they never believe me. Could be my son... idk... They don’t like that answer, but to be fair... there is no correct answer to that number. It’s not really their business anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 11:21 PM
5

I don’t agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 12:18 AM
34

Better they slow fade before sex, than after. Honestly, just sleep with them if and when you feel comfortable. If they’re going to lose interest, you can’t stop that. It doesn’t matter what you do. You don’t want to keep the f-bois and if you do actually find the right guy, he will let you take the lead because he will value you and care about your feelings. At least he better. If not, he’s the wrong fn guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/19 11:14 PM
3

People who love you will love you regardless. If your friends don’t love you regardless, then I don’t know what to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/19 01:09 AM
3

Tbh I bet nobody is wondering about his penis size, so there’s really no need to share that information, truthful or not. Maybe in a joking way, every time he does it laugh and say “Honey, no one cares”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/19 09:11 PM
14

It’s more reactionary than equivalent. Also we don’t talk about wanting to rape or kill anyone. Big difference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/19 05:45 PM
11

You must be new here. Pretty sure men call me and other women awful things all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/19 05:43 PM
22

I just kinda want to clear up one thing for the haters. I said I can have sex with the hot drummer. I don’t because I hold him to the same standard as anyone else. I don’t want dick. I want to build my life with a caring and equal partner. For me, if that’s not happening, it’s all a waste of time. Ladies, though, if you wanna sex up your hot drummer or hot pizza guy, or whatever, do it! Sex is awesome!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/19 05:41 PM
38

I have more boys on backup than girls you have ever met.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/19 02:15 AM
5

That’s the main thing. Looking out for #1
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/19 01:42 AM
20

“Just sex” or FWB doesn’t care what you do or who you are. Do you smell good and are you hot? You don’t need a personality or a good job for that. Men say the same shit. I’m not sorry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 11:17 PM
8

Girl. He’s soooo hot!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 11:15 PM
6

Over there I get more negative feedback than positive feedback, but more upvotes, than downvotes. I think overall my ladies agree with me, they just aren’t as vocal. And it’s hard to be vocal with so many angry male voices around
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 11:14 PM
22

Honestly, usually guys lie about their height by at least 2” no matter what. How’s that going to work when 5’8” me shows up? (I’m not) awwwkward!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 10:06 PM
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