So, I’ve been using Reddit since 2011 and I’ve seen a lot of deplorable things since then, but what I’ve noticed is an uptick in “incel” and “redpill” activity. Has anyone else noticed this?

sweatydeath · 2019-09-27T22:46:30+00:00

I was hanging out at r/datingoverthirty and it was full of men making excuses for disgusting male behavior. Basically the men kept telling me to just accept shitty male behavior (not texting, crappy communication, lies about relationship goals, lying for sex, ghosting after sex...etc) and the women were like “I hear you and I share your experiences.” Like, men think we’re just gonna accept shitty behavior. I don’t, but I think a lot of women still do. I want to empower them to reject low effort men.

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SunflowerBurst · 2019-09-28T00:08:07+00:00

Yeah. If it helps Reddit has a disproportionate population of maladjusted men. But incels are seeping into the site, it was good their sub was banned but on the downside now incels are stealth commenting everywhere.

ino_y · 2019-09-28T04:54:22+00:00

I've noticed a lot more "I'm dating a lazy manchild and I explain simple concept to him, but he just doesn't get it" and the comments/conclusions are that he's a selfish narcissist, but I don't think that's true.

I think a ton of women my age (40's - 50's) had shitty, strict, rigid childhoods with Depression Era Baby Boomers for parents, and decided they'd "make life better" for their sons, so they overindulged and coddled them. Smoothing things out, zero consequences for bad behaviour, excusing away their laziness because it gives Mummy something to do, not letting them learn, explore and fail.

So they have no internal incentive to learn, no care of the harm they're doing to others, and they only care when it affects them. Life sitting on your ass gaming is smooth and easy while frustrated bangmaid sticks around.

So telling a dude "don't do that, it hurts my feelings" and they don't give a shit until you break up with him, because then it's a problem for him. Because Mummy never enforced shit, she was always around, she would always love him unconditionally and forgive him without him ever being held accountable or apologizing.

If you don't have woman_zero telling you to stop being a lazy little dickhead, and you have the top man in power telling you life is good as a mysoginistic asshole, you're being socially and relationally crippled from both sides.

The perfect test of this - teach him something once. If he has no interest in doing it how you showed him, fuck him off.

If you tell him something is a problem for you, and he doesn't care, fuck him off.

Life with a manchild where you have to hold a gun to his head to get him to act right fucking sucks.

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