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Where exactly is this specific shaming scenario happening? I haven’t seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 07:04 PM
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Right, so much more empowering than just saying how other people should be ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 05:08 PM
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And for a lot of people that starts with STFU
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:13 AM
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A lot of people could benefit from not sharing everything tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 01:52 AM
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Yes it would be nice if everyone else behaved better but RPW is only about what the wife can actually control.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 11:21 PM
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Yeah well it’s for women who aren’t good at communicating and are inclined to nag. It’s not for super advanced people who have no issues communicating and have mastered the whole nuance. Some women think being real means just venting their criticisms all the time and that’s not good for marriage either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 11:20 PM
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How lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 10:51 PM
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STFU is communication. That is literally what men listen to rather than women’s repeated words. And for minor issues it just means don’t sweat the small stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 10:49 PM
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No I mean the cleaning thing. I’m not super uptight about it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 03:47 AM
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If anything I need an extra dose of this neurosis
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 06:57 PM
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tune is off by a single beat What do you mean by this? You mean a tune not conforming to a set rhythm?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 06:21 PM
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Reverse rape. (Jk jk )
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 05:52 PM
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How would that look on a practical basis
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 12:16 AM
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But they can’t possibly take the initiative to learn themselves? Who else do you expect to do this education?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 12:04 AM
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I didn’t blame anyone. You blamed moms. I can’t believe this convo that you’re criticizing me for blaming lol. Tell me are you just as mad at the dead beat men who let women become single mothers? And yeah the second paragraph is all just giving up your agency. Why do you feel entitled to your environment giving you a push or you won’t change? I certainly never got or expected that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 11:39 PM
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It’s literally blame There is no proof or reason to assume it’s moms fault. That’s just broadly blaming women. With no evidence. There is tons of advice online but defeatist black pillers won’t try.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 10:57 PM
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lol is this a joke a reply to a comment about how men always blame moms you think I am the one blaming? lmao. just because I say it’s isn’t AUTOMATICALLY someone else’s fault, or that you have power to change it regardless, you get offended. Perfect example of men giving up agency. It is no anecdote, it’s hundreds of them, and men whining about having no agency because of mommy. I think most of you are making all this up and you just decided in your head to be passive means being chivalrous and …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 08:31 PM
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Do you mean 60-80 years ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 03:49 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 03:30 PM
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What generation?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 04:03 AM
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lol yeah it’s women’s fault of course, top comment about why actually men have no agency and women made them do it. nice I have never met a mother who did this to her son. Every mom I know with sons because more red pilled and encouraged him to do well with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 02:34 AM
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Oh ok no true Scotsman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 12:39 AM
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Okay that’s a nice sentiment and I am sure it’s your story but I am just telling you about actual things that happen, your feelings don’t change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 12:38 AM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 08:26 PM
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Well you all define nice as just being a doormat and an asshole as just having confidence and boundaries. So maybe change that view.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 07:26 PM
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Well no one is talking about the neurotic men on here, never one in any of these cases would I ever have suggested it would be the type of man who is on PPD. Not that I believe what men say they want anyway, just what they do. And yea good luck finding that unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 07:15 PM
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oh okay so you deleted the whole personal story thing so I deleted my reply thanks a lot. I get that something happens to you personally but no one is talking about that. I was as surprised as you are when I encountered and heard stories about men with women who had a past in some kind of selling her body or even currently doing it. But I realized that a lot of it makes sense, men are always saying how average women now won’t stay fit and won’t dress feminine to please a man and won’t act submis…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 07:03 PM
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no they aren’t lol I don’t even like feminism. it’s so ironic that most of the women on this sub are way less feminist than most of reddit and many of them are happily married but you all think you’re talking to TwoXChromosomes or Huffington Post fans. I have never said a. word in my life about men not giving me orgasms I don’t know what you’re referring to by that honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 06:54 PM
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i mean you can keep making things up I dont care. I get that ur mad insane fat logic feminists dont represent women by a long margin. You probably just have never heard what women talk about privately among themselves and how much they freak out about how they caused something to happen to the point that it’s ludicrous. that’s just not something women admit on forums and stuff or to men because they know it’s weak. Other women all know abotu this though and the more feminine the woman the more s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 06:48 PM
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Men mostly just don’t want women like this if they act trashy and have a lot of class tells and tells that they were in that line of work. Lots of men will date and marry strippers or former strippers or e girls or whatever if they behave with decorum and are more feminine than most and work hard on their appearance, and keep the rest secret. I was as surprised as you all to find out many stories like this, I don’t care either way and I am not saying it happens every time. So chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 06:43 PM
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Look I get that you are new here and don’t understand what is going on but I am not new here and this is the exact thing that comes up every time, your’e just embarrassing yourself so stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 06:37 PM
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anyone with eyes knows how much women blame themselves for stupid stuff and men put it outwards, all that feminist ranting is them using all their effort to try to fight that tendency. the ladies do protest too much. no one every means feminists anyway when we are talking about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 06:36 PM
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god this is dumb no one said it was limited to one gender I am talking about how YOU ALL HERE DEFINE LOVE, every single time this topic comes up (and it comes up ad nauseam) everyone’s rebuttal is always “well no one loves unconditionally because you would leave so and so if they beat the crap out of you and said you were fugly” and my point is that love is not defined by staying committed to someone no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 06:33 PM
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I don’t think you are judging? I just said I think people have an outdated view on how porn works and how it’s affecting women, I think there is a huge saturation of the market right now given how many women are dabbling in cam girl stuff and e girl stuff, selling their time and nudes for a dollar, they don’t need a studio or special equipment, and so the majority are probably just trying it briefly and burning out, very few of them will ever become known by name even by a fake name. Yes we can …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 06:30 PM
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Women internalizing and men externalizing is also self evident to anyone with eyes but some people can’t accept that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 06:28 PM
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Yeah the rationalizing of male cheating and judging female cheating totally differently on TRP and here is really eye rolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 06:26 PM
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Lol yes men who have affairs never have sob stories about how their wives don’t understand them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 06:25 PM
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Well since you all define love as “tolerate all abuse and stay with them forever” then yeah. Sometimes you can love someone unconditionally and let them go or tell them a difficult truth because love is when you want what’s best for someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 06:24 PM
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Okay I thought it was clear from my comment that I am talking about women whose kids will never have the faintest idea she ever dabbled in porn or nudes or whatever. That is like my whole first paragraph, most of them are not becoming porn stars. I know they could still get a clearance just most of them are not going to make the effort, possibly due to potential embarrassment, usually women who are doing porn aren’t really into that line of work anyway, and yes if they are keeping it on the down…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 06:19 PM
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That is just really ignorant of hollywood lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 06:13 PM
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what else did you think it was?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 06:11 PM
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About the kids thing, yeah sure if they became a porn STAR, but realistically most women who dabble in this stuff do it for a little bit, don’t get that big, don’t get that famous, don’t use their real name. and then shut it down and are forgotten. The internet has really changed it from being this big deal done in Hollywood studios. People overestimate how much other people actually care. I seriously doubt that some cute young woman working in an office somewhere would have any consequences eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 06:06 PM
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uh where did I say anything like that? This thing where people interject their hobby horses into the conversation instead of responding to the actual words is ruining the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 05:06 PM
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Women’s fault no matter what huh. Even when men lie and string along. But any excuse for that men just can’t help it right? This narrative is getting old on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 02:27 PM
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okay so yeah something totally different from your first statement, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 11:09 PM
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Yeah, they do, you just assign a bunch of emotions and thoughts that they don’t have. Woman never look to be pumped and dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 10:04 PM
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Dread game makes me completely withdraw emotionally and put up a wall, get turned off, and just want to leave. I am too prideful to take to the bait on it. If you aren’t into me it’s a turn off. Oh also their try-hard studied cynicism they can never pull off. Love is cool, being the coldest hardest bitterest person isn’t, but some of them genuinely just are addicted to feedback from other TRPs and MRPs. I have had men use excessive negs on me and it really didn’t work and since something is wron…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 09:12 PM
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muh biological slavery
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 09:09 PM
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Male sexuality is about isolating and pressure, that’s just the biological reality. Men a lot of times tend to themselves claim that they are basically sex animals, even when nobody asked. Not as in “they like sex” but as in bragging about having an out of control sexuality that ruins their mental health and is based on superficial criteria. They brag about how it’s all a big psych out and how they can’t objectively value a woman unless she was hard to get, and only care about looks. Or even don…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 09:00 PM
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They do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 08:55 PM
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That is not true, women usually are hoping and working for change for many months or years they just do it in a way men don’t care about or listen to. Women do this with talking and begging and nagging and pleading for change. Men never listen to this and they think it’s just a big joke, they only notice when she finally leaves, even if she said she was going to lead for months if he did not change.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 08:51 PM
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You don’t seem to be downplaying it now!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 01:56 AM
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Alls fair in love and war. I don’t suffer from the delusion that I can change human nature to make romance fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 01:38 AM
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Shock me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 01:32 AM
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Which is fine. I mean if you find out someone blatantly openly does not like you as a person objectively but they still take advantage of something you give them, then yeah let that person go. For marriage though, the sickness and health, good times and bad vows are made for a reason. But it’s okay if the people you love in part appreciate what you have to offers, it’s really hard to distinguish that anyway. I just don’t know how a human being can truly measure if the love you not for your good …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 08:23 PM
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you want other human beings to love you in a God like, infinite way, way, just for your existence. Some humans might even really love you and come close to loving you this way, but you will not appreciate it, because you can never truly be certain they don’t also love you for your virtues/looks/what you provide/humor/etc. The only way to do a true test is with a control group. So you would need some identical twin who somehow becomes a disembodied spirit and just exists, doing nothing, looking l…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 08:04 PM
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🏆
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 08:04 PM
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No I have not claimed that. I care a lot about being attractive and desirable and charismatic. I guess I just have a different association with the word cool and it makes me think of 50 year old men getting motorcycles lol. I just haven’t heard anyone non ironically care about it in a while. Might just be my groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 06:47 PM
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No I don’t past high school tbh. I get people wanting to be popular and attractive to others but the word cool just seems like embarrassing for adults to care about. It seems mid life crisis-y. And I think it causes people issues too like for caring about it. What’s cool isn’t always attractive is what I’m saying like sometimes what’s trendy and cool is stupid and awkward so to me it’s just about following trends or fitting in and whatever and not being desirable. What’s cool sometimes makes peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 06:28 PM
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I’m not trying to be rude I just don’t get it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 06:16 PM
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I’m catholic. I know people think sin can be fun I just didn’t know people still care about being cool
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 05:40 PM
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How is sin cool
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 05:20 PM
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I’ve seen a variation on this story many many times on Reddit. I suspect not all of them are real.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 05:17 PM
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You parroted nonsense and no you dramatic moron I would have said “you’re still an idiot who does not want to get better and you have never tried thinking for yourself;f” ya’ll are so cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 06:15 PM
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Just say you’re an incel it takes fewer characters. We know.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 04:53 PM
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No I’m just telling you facts about human nature I don’t care that people who never interact with humans and hate everything don’t want to try. Obviously none of them are remotely objective observers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 04:53 PM
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Get banned? What? You can get banned from swiping apps for being too charming?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 04:52 PM
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It is literally true, people just don’t remember because it does not really work online and has to be in person and also incels are brainwashing everyone. No offense but I can’t believe human beings are unaware of charisma existing; maybe it’s just because I grew up as a performer but to me it’s just a fact of life, and everyone I knew who was also in the same area know how to turn it on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 02:01 AM
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They can cultivate an aura with a lot of work and effort, that will not ever be as easy and privileged as it is for a really hot guy, but can at least get them in the door and get opportunities. Nobody said it was fair, but it’s true. The problem is not that ugly men can’t cultivate an attitude to at least land him an okay gf or two. It’s that because of comparing themselves to pussy-slaying men, men who aren’t reasonably able to pull off that lifestyle just become really jealous and don’t want …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 01:56 AM
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I have talked about this before and about projecting charisma. Pretty much laughed out of the room by the black pillers. They don’t want good news. Also people don’t interact in person enough anymore and can’t even remember how vibe matters. Hey fuck all you morons. Lots of other people here said the same thing. Stop downvoting my whole post history.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 01:52 AM
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oh so you think female looks is only about the gym lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 10:29 PM
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please share this quote
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 02:53 AM
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Men always ask why women don’t just give clear rejections. We do, but anyway, this is why most learn to stop doing that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:53 PM
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because women are not men, measuring the fact that they get some male need met in their dating life while not getting their actual female needs met, is irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 04:52 PM
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ok so what does this have to do with anything I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 02:43 PM
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cats are great, the wall is a fake revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 02:21 PM
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You make a post about how women don’t have any pressure about looks you then proceed to judge women’s value 100% based on looks and mock them for it how are you missing the connection here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 02:20 PM
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me too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 02:19 PM
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Really, you think those are the pinnacle of female attractiveness?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 02:19 PM
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Wow I looked up that person and I thought she was a man at first.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 02:18 PM
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Okay well, this would matter if female appearance was solely measured by what men are willing and able to jack off to, but it is not. Women are affected mostly by the opinion of other women on appearance. But we are also affected by how men act towards us in normal, non-sexual situations. You all openly talk about how ‘post-nut clarity’ makes you disgusted by whichever woman you were just jerking it to. And the same men who get off on those subs will attack and criticize women for the same exact…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 02:13 PM
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Okay but what if he’s straight (most likely) and she’s pressuring him into the opposite sexuality? That’s beyond messed up. That’s a real chokehold identity strangulation abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 08:58 PM
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Incels and nihilism
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 03:10 PM
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Cry me a river
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 03:53 AM
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Thanks for the lecture sweetheart
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 03:52 AM
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Lol ethical dating
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 01:38 AM
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I don’t feel insulted you just insulted me and many others a bunch of times. Your whole shtick is just insulting people and saying you’re the only one who’s ever dated with pure intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 01:20 AM
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No. I’ve been here longer than you. This is a post that comes up all the time. People literally think you have to be committed before you meet someone. The OP is French and that’s part of the bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 01:20 AM
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I’m Catholic and no one is talking about sleeping around. Stop making things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 01:02 AM
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No it isn’t. No one in America thinks the default is monogamy unless otherwise stated. Every normal person knows that it’s don’t expect monogamy unless specifically discussed otherwise. Because that is what adults do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 12:59 AM
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This isn’t a debate it’s just you being smug and insulting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 12:58 AM
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Why are you even on PPD all you do is look down on people and act smug and don’t add anything to the debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 12:50 AM
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Do you know how to speak without being condescending? Ugh yeah. I also got asked for exclusivity quickly. as I have said repeatedly. You’re still wrong to try and force unspoken monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 12:49 AM
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Wtf are you talking about? I literally told you that I did it in less time than that. But you’re just being rude by calling everything people do “games” when in fact expecting all kinds of things without communicating it is the real game playing. People don’t owe someone commitment who hasn’t asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 12:33 AM
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Okay well I never did any of that stuff and no one was talking about it. It’s selfish and babyish to expect unspoken commitment from someone before even one date.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 12:27 AM
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Ok weird non sequitur
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 11:46 PM
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just to be clear. you think people who have not even gone on a date yet, should be monogamous to each other, before said first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 09:33 PM
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I don’t think that at all, it’s just positivity and not letting yourself be a loser, measuring against your own self that’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 09:32 PM
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I would like the flairs colors to change...we have red, purple, blue, and no pill, which is in gray. However, there has been a huge influx of black pillers lately, and I am pretty sure if you have no pill people assume it means black pill. I think maybe we should save the gray for black pillers and then have a different, unrelated color for “no pill.” Or even better we can add this new “white pill” that stands for optimism and winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 08:02 PM
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what happened to the sub
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 07:54 PM
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You’ll have to explain it to simple little me. What am I supposed to be crying about?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 07:53 PM
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I know, it is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 07:45 PM
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IDK wtf you’re on about or how it pertains
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 07:43 PM
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do you have anything intelligent to say that’s based even remotely in the reality of the conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 07:43 PM
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She’s just being a judgmental snob that she’s somehow superior but everyone else is getting “hurt” because she looks down on other people’s relationships so she assumes they’re all terrible and bad because they aren’t her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 04:48 PM
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It’s also stupid. I love my own company and always have but I’m human and need a human connection as well. What’s up with people shaming others for being human. I spent hours alone with projects and books it doesn’t make me some superior I-don’t-need-people superhuman. What a weird flex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 04:45 PM
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Why would anyone care about his sad empty view of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 04:45 PM
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Well if you are clearly not that kind of person who's after exclusiveness in a relationship then this doesn't apply to you. Or you are hesitant or not sure what you want, it'll be months or years of going back and forth with different people, then this will make it very difficult for you do too. You know that’s what I meant and you know what you said. I’ll stop discussing when I’m good and ready. Stop being so pretentious and get off your high horse for gods sake. You’re not better than everyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 04:20 PM
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Reread what you said directly to me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 04:14 PM
1

Ew. Reread what you said to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 04:06 PM
3

Okay well I don’t think that’s the topic. We’re talking about seeing a few people until you decide to commit to one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 04:02 PM
1

That is literally the exact same story I have w my husband and you made up a whole bunch of stuff about me lol. Who said anything about sleeping around?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 04:01 PM
1

And were you both exclusive from the first date? Or was it a childhood friend thing in which case no offense but you don’t understand the dating world. it sounds like you’re just being extremely judgmental of people who didn’t marry young like you aka most modern western people. None of this is “games” it’s literally getting to know people and moving towards commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 03:56 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 03:48 PM
1

I’m married. I didn’t date anyone else when I met my husband. But he asked me to be his gf and that’s when we became exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 03:46 PM
2

It’s just gatekeeping meddling nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 03:33 PM
3

Yes it is thank you. There are some acute conditions where it might be good to fix them before you date but “have to be perfectly whole happy and joyful on your own before you’re ready to date” is such gatekeeping nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 03:31 PM
2

I don’t get this. are you advocating someone making a covert contract of being exclusive with someone they are seeing even if you have not discussed it and don’t know if the other person is seeing others or not? How is that smart?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 03:30 PM
1

These people are nuts lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 03:29 PM
2

Can you explain how this applies?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 03:28 PM
5

It’s not sociopathy and this isn’t new. People often saw more than one person (not sex) while single until a proposal happened. Why is this sociopathy? Lots of people don’t do it but it’s not sociopathy to wait to give your commitment until it’s mutually agreed upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 03:27 PM
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Are you talking about having side people in the wings while you’re already in a monogamous relationship? I’m talking about before you’re committed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 03:25 PM
1

Phones bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 03:24 PM
2

What would love look like then? Courting / being courted by multiple people has been standard for a lot of time now historically.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 03:24 PM
2

Our grandparents did do this. They did it even more because they had to meet their multiple suitors publicly and not just text them nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 03:16 PM
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Do you understand what is being discussed? No one is a backup if it’s still not an exclusive couple. It’s just the SMP. This has happened for many generations I guess all of them were trashy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 03:16 PM
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Our grandparents juggled people too. You’re French right? In France nowadays I’m told as soon as you’re with someone you’re with them now, as a couple. But also don’t you all have affairs a lot? So maybe juggling is more honest at the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 03:14 PM
3

Whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 03:12 PM
2

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 03:09 PM
3

Whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 03:09 PM
5

are you for real?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 03:43 AM
5

whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 12:21 AM
4

A goody two shoes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 12:15 AM
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I don’t feel like writing a big essay on it but I’ll just say it’s not just being a Good Boi in a suit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 12:11 AM
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Yes I am familiar thanks. I can’t believe a man thinks that kind of content was written for women. Absolutely insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 08:38 PM
1

Good meaning good for me, compatible with me, good as in I like him and he’s cool to me. Men hear this as wanting a white knight but that’s their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 07:15 PM
1

Erotica has mainly been for women once they could read. Since porn was invented on videos it’s been for men and the literature for women remained. No one is talking about Sade ew. You’re delusional if you think his vile disgusting trash appeals to the average woman. Also I wasn’t commenting on the nature of the erotica. Who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:33 PM
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That is amazing Literature IS the ONLY erotica that exists and it’s for women. Why would you measure everything by if it’s similar to male porn vidya.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:06 PM
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What is this male solipsism that only videos count as erotica?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:54 PM
0

What does any of this have to do with erotica for women “not succeeding”?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:53 PM
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erotica for women has never succeeded Lol wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:51 PM
1

Hormones are a hell of a drug. Plus there is so much ambient porn all around. I mean you can’t look at a tv or the internet or a billboard or anything without seeing women acting suggestive. I guess they’re in a constant state of blue balls. Plus with the free SMP there’s a constant FOMO and need to keep up with the Joneses except it’s keep up with the Chads they think are always having all the hot sex. So all that just pushes men to act desperately.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:51 PM
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Most of those still involve a word for “human”. The animal ones aren’t great. But animals are still valued above humans more than “plates” or “pieces.” Even beard and scrote are human features although those are the worst ones. But plate is objectively worse than all of these. It’s an inanimate object that has nothing to do with it a living creature. I have never once heard a woman call a man an ATM I have only heard men say “women see us as wallets/ATMs” but women don’t say that IME.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:42 PM
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Yes they do, by men they love, in a certain context. they don’t JUST want to be sexually objectified.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 09:50 PM
1

oh my god dude Stop talking you’re making it worse for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 09:21 PM
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You’re just crazy okay? I did not “assume the worst,” I took the only possible interpretation of the data you gave me. That interpretation has not changed. You admitted to staring hoping to see a wardrobe malfunction. You can’t withhold information and expect people to magically know that. That said, you have not added any information here that makes it less weird. I would decidedly not want any male friend peeking, I am sure I could figure it out. You also have not mentioned if there were any o…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 07:49 PM
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I took your intent based on the info you gave me. ​ Not sure why you had to insult me for literally no reason. ​ Finally, how exactly does creeping on a bathing suit malfunction protect someone? ​ I am not saying you were not protective, but the info you are sharing here makes no sense and doesn’t support that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 07:20 PM
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Your trying to creep on her bathing suit malfunction is way worse than the other reasons you listed. Lol. I can’t believe you wrote that as your example of why it’s not so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:59 AM
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Do you mean something embarrasses your like in public? At least with that you can try to care less what people think.
/r/RedPillWives12/07/20 09:51 PM
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Yeah I never understood this fear of theirs. I would never want to give up an evening of my life for some guy I don’t even want to look at just for a steak. I’d probably just lose my appetite anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 05:40 PM
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Female sexuality isn’t male sexuality stop assuming it is. Also no one said anything about money except you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 05:38 PM
1

Liars lie more than non liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 03:33 AM
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I mean do you really believe this person just can’t stop attracting women desperate to sperm jack him? This all sounds made up. If he is doing as he says and keeps dating women who are getting to the point where they need to have kids quick if they ever want to, then he’s just acting like a complete dickwad just for the sake of being a dickwad. Finding women who hope to have children and wasting the last of their fertile years is trash tier. This is if I believe his stories, which I do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 12:21 AM
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Okay so he gets the validation and sex he wants, but he doesn’t find her attractive? Congratulations, you played yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 07:09 PM
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Yeah really big formal diagnoses and stuff. That can be good but also really seriously bad for people too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 09:08 PM
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It is true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 08:50 PM
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Pretty good take from you, I am impressed. who are you again ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 08:50 PM
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a guy who is bad at getting with women sexually or romantically is not going to want to appreciate their company, it would just be a reminder he can’t get the sexual part and he feels cucked for taking an interest in her in other ways. guys who are either good at getting women they want or who are used to women for a reasons like having sisters or female cousins or general experience with women usually don’t see it as a hit on his ego to talk to them about other stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 07:23 PM
1

Oh wow thanks I had no idea
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 05:09 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 02:38 AM
2

I don’t really know any more now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 02:30 AM
2

K.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 01:59 AM
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Men have a pursuit and conquering instinct in a way women don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 12:32 AM
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Men are not women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 11:57 PM
2

Yeah men never shut up about building society so I am pretty sure if they brought life into the world they wouldn’t shut up about that either
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 11:57 PM
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I honestly sometimes forget that most men on reddit have disgusting multireddits saved of every flavor of NSFW porn sub that exists and that that’s their main use for the site.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:10 PM
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most of the men here are self aware Chads No
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 09:34 PM
8

Please don’t tell your wife that Candy and Barbie liked that sex move so why can’t she?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 09:33 PM
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This. One guy told me a story about how one woman was the one who asked him out and initiated dates and commitment. He was blown away by her confidence and so flattered. He kept her around for 5 years, and then dumped her for a different woman he had to pursue. He has no idea what she’s doing now but he remembers how much she flattered him and built him up enough for the next woman. And this was his case FOR women asking out men. That’s why don’t trust men who say women should approach. It didn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 09:16 PM
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Cause it’s a big deal. But we don’t hear about it as much as we would from men, so I won’t let them downplay it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 09:13 PM
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Well I fully agree with that actually it’s not a public service because I’m not a collectivist but you came off like a collectivist in the post. For Muh Society people, reproduction is a public service. Anyway, it doesn’t change the real sacrifice involved. IDC how men dismiss it because if they were the ones who did it we’d never hear the end of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 06:50 PM
2

I feel the opposite; if you can chat off topic with someone about things you have in common, it can make a heated debate from earlier matter less.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 05:57 PM
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People on here who stay here like it because it has less censorship than most subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 05:56 PM
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What happens is places on Reddit or on places like Tumblr are rewarded with orange arrows and an attention for talking about trauma and abuse. But the reward is very specifically stronger if you formalize the abuse. “I was raised by narcissists and suffered covert abuse” and or other clinical terms gets more feedback than “my parents are a little self-focused.” So the way to get that attention reward is to use those clinical official set in stone statements. And then bam suddenly now you have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 05:49 PM
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and then they always talk about how everyone in the world is a dumb fundie and they are so brave for being a liberal agnostic like everyone else in their new city.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 04:20 PM
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no sane man Ok so no true Scotsman 10 men will come to defend her What? what public service do women offer Women risk their lives and wreck their bodies to bear men’s sons and daughters; some men show thanks for this by abusing and discarding their wives for the fact that their bodies aren’t as good. Current year hasn’t changed the huge commitment of pregnancy birth and raising children. What is a traditional female activity? Is that where you went your wife to LARP as a third world chef and mai…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 04:08 PM
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No I am American and I think you are misunderstanding my statements
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 06:57 PM
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Sorry the language barrier is too much
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 05:24 PM
4

Okay there’s whole communities of crunchy women living this way and you don’t know that because you didn’t look.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 05:15 PM
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You only looked for the men and now are confused you didn’t find the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 04:57 PM
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I guess if she’s the breadwinner
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 05:47 PM
2

Yeah absolutely and some people I bet are more prone to getting a rush out of power and getting away with things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 05:20 PM
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So get some 40 vol. bleach and stop complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 04:51 PM
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Sample size one? That one girl looked way better in her blonde pics for way more than hair color reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 04:47 PM
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Studies show men marry brunettes more. They may swipe on blondes more or approach them superficially without doing much about it. IME when I was platinum I got more superficial attention that didn’t go anywhere. Sometimes people notice blondes in a crowd for the same reason they notice big tits, they grab attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 04:45 PM
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That’s the whole thing, like a lot of guys they aren’t satisfied with someone on offer, they want the forbidden thing and some guys are just way more committed to it to the point of becoming elite. This is the same reason you have guys trolling girls on the bra fitting sub for their boobs in bras pics even though there are thousands of subs with consenting topless women. The Epstein types are probably high risk power intoxicated adrenaline junkies too. All that risk and stuff you’re saying is fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 04:42 PM
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It’s not a made up line at all. I get that you’re a special snowflake but people say it for a reason including me. It may not be exactly siblings but it is way more likely to be genuinely platonic as adults if you’re comparing to one on one friends that formed in adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 04:38 PM
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That is not the point though, the point is they grow up lacking sexual tension eventually because they feel more like siblings by that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 08:37 PM
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Okay well mine too but I’m not normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 07:45 PM
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It’s always people who are at the least risk of attracting gold diggers who are so worried about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 07:45 PM
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A good one? Yeah. Not all my problems but some of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 05:14 PM
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I’m not a materialist. There’s a simple human reaction to disloyalty that isn’t reducible to resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 05:07 PM
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I get this. For example I never liked cooking for one. I’m just more motivated to do it for someone I love as well as myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 05:06 PM
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Yeah I think it’s easier if you were childhood friends and grew up feeling like siblings.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 05:02 PM
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Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 04:55 PM
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Yes it is lol. Just because you don’t understand human nature or with acknowledge it doesn’t reduce things to this utilitarian level.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 04:55 PM
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Yeah I know that but these were not these rare cases, they were just biological twins with the same parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 10:08 PM
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That’s not about resources it’s just human nature
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 06:35 PM
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Those tests are not even that accurate and consistent. They’ve had twins get really different results and people take multiple tests and get different every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 06:32 PM
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I think it kind of supports my point. When I said husband or boyfriend I meant exclusively.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 06:14 PM
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It’s pointless because they use a ridiculous rating system they pretend is “more objective” as a way to rate obviously attractive women very low and inflate ratings for men. The ratings have no practical application or bearing on reality. Also most men care about face for marriage. It’s basically the opposite of your statement. Men care about body most for hookups but for a woman he presents in public face matters more. It’s not hard at all for women with pretty faces and imperfect bodies to get…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 05:58 PM
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They didn’t think about why am I here because they had religion and had already known what they felt was their places since youth. It wasn’t because they were shallow or something. People on Reddit spit on religion but don’t even understand how it satisfies a lot of the angst and misery they can’t solve in themselves. And yes people way overthink relationships and everything now. Being a neurotic nihilistic mess isn’t a good thing and doesn’t make you smarter or more virtuous. It also don’t help…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 05:27 PM
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Thunderstorms
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 04:30 AM
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Facing fears
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 04:27 AM
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I think that’s the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 04:23 AM
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Most men don’t listen to manorexics. Also you would have to be sober to make some semblance of sense
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 04:22 AM
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Also the “end goal” of marriage, family etc is sort of a status thing that is only appealing to those to whom its unobtainable. excuse me what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 08:38 PM
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Yeah there is truth to this. A lot of people start out super emotionally insecure and ashamed of that so then they use various tricks to act DGAF and super confident but the only way to do that is total stoic wall between yourself and everybody bc deep down they still GAF a lot and if they let that wall down for even a second they feel it again. Even if just for fun and love, it’s still hard for them to even enjoy their fun and reward. The real success is emotional security which is somewhere in…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 10:00 PM
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Yeah so....not 35... Do you know that the odds of ANY WOMAN OF CHILDBEARING AGE getting pregnant during her fertile period, assuming she has healthy reproductive system and so does the man, is only 20-40% to begin with? Max? Don’t talk about stuff you don’t get.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 09:09 PM
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No it isn’t dude, wtf. That is not how it works. /r/badwomensanatomy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 09:04 PM
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Thinking that putting yourself out there a bit more is “not being yourself” is your problem. I have RBF but if I wanted friends and romance I had to try to be a bit more approachable. Your self-sabotaging habits are not “who you are.”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 06:03 PM
1

35-45 That’s...not right. Menopause at 35 is an unusual circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 05:58 PM
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Women are more into sex during ovulation. It doesn’t mean they aren’t into it otherwise but it’s more so during ovulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 05:56 PM
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If I think about him at all for some reason, I assume he’s introverted. I've got a nasty case of rbf and my fashion and general representation are quite standoffish Have you considered not doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 05:49 PM
1

K lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 03:25 PM
2

Oh that sublime song suddenly makes sense. Good for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 03:25 PM
1

I wish
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 07:06 AM
1

Why does any of this concern you. Your parents got together and now you exist and that is cool to be alive. Why would the reason they met affect your self image? Not that meeting on deployment has anything to do with mail order brides.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 07:01 AM
1

Unlike men who have never been known to act rashly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 06:56 AM
2

Seems like projection but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 06:55 AM
1

https://www.thedodo.com/close-to-home/rabbit-couple-romeo-lilly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 06:39 AM
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It’s magical thinking. People have zoned out stares for all kinds of reasons. Men think they have the power to read a woman’s character from her photo. Y’all will think some anime eye small mouth girl is a virginal good girl because of her face.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 06:37 AM
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Not really no
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 06:25 AM
2

I see ask women hasn’t changed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 06:25 AM
2

What does your flair mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 06:07 AM
3

It’s good advice until it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 06:07 AM
2

What supplements are you taking?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 06:02 AM
1

I don’t even know how to respond if you genuinely mean this. How on earth do you think fathers and husbands have protected their families for all of history?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 05:37 PM
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I was talking about loyal husbands and fathers And you’re wrong. Strong families are better for society than some communistic notion of treating every random person just as you treat family.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 04:49 PM
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Not really. Women want protectors who will be gentle to her and not afraid to stand up to anyone who would harm her or their potential kids. Loyalty and protection is a better character trait than just being nice to everybody equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 04:17 PM
2

Well this is not even real right now so how would I n is what hypothetical you meant in your head and didn’t explain? People would still be scared to come forward because if they lose they’d still have people building a case against them. The legal system can be manipulated on all sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 04:16 PM
2

Okay well it would still be scary, the legal system can be manipulated on either side.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 04:14 PM
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The reason this isn’t a thing yet is the fear that people will be scared to come forward who were really raped bc they’ll be punished if they lose the case. It’s a tricky situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 08:52 PM
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I mean yeah I agree. I just think it’s interesting the goalposts for old get moved a lot if you disprove the narrative. Like normally it’s all 25+ is so old and hitting the wall and any woman who waits till 30 to meet the right guy is so screwed, but if you say you had a different experience they move the goalposts and raise the age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 03:13 PM
2

Arrested Development
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 05:22 PM
5

The Man Inside Me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 04:35 PM
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The concept of overcompensation definitely applies to other circumstances. Not sure how parallel other examples are to this particular thing. This is a huge disconnect in communication between men and women on these debate subs. Women almost always know that other women telling their friend she’s so perfect and so pretty and so high value and only deserves the very best, are saying this to build her up, because women grow up with all kinds of self images problems due to pressure about looks and …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 02:24 AM
2

One of the first things my husband and I discussed was how dumb we both think skydiving is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 12:42 AM
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All the comment said was an “older woman”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 11:46 PM
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What happened with me, I met my husband when I was 30, he’s a high level military officer, 6’+, we’re in love and have awesome chemistry, he’s hot, and we share values. I do not exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 11:26 PM
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What happened with me, I met my husband when I was 30, he’s a high level military officer, 6’+, we’re in love and have awesome chemistry, he’s hot, and we share values. I do not exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 11:24 PM
0

Can you clarify what good old days you refer to?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 11:19 PM
2

We’re not discussing believe it’s about analysis and complex thoughts, most of the people are great at those things and have some major coping need or emotional block that draws them to the field.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 03:17 PM
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Astrology is not accurate I agree. However most of the people deeply into advanced levels of it are not dumb. They are usually highly intelligent and analytical. Most of them are using it for coping reasons of one or another. Either to find an identity, deal with pain, feel special, to control others and put them down, or plain old boredom and talking about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 06:06 AM
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Insert 🅱️enis in bergina
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 04:57 AM
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That’s actually true though. Neurotics have an overdeveloped sense of responsibility for others’ behavior because they can’t accept the truth that they don’t control everything. I’m not a psychologist but I bet $1 if you asked 50 of them they’d agree with this and not with OPs theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 04:32 AM
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These recent threads about accountability and responsibility are vague complaints. I asked repeatedly for what an actual real life example of a woman being held accountable looks like and I got either no answer or basically describing FDS / girls who clean up their act and raise their standards (but none of the guys would ever support those things in real life.). The only honest reply I got that actually answers my question was that women should have Scarlet A’s on their foreheads.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 04:04 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Argumentum_ad_populum
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 04:00 AM
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For example, and this has happened multiple times that I have seen on reddit, a guy the other day was agonizing that he had to disclose to his dates on the FIRST date that he has little dating experience, otherwise it is “lying.”. This is a new phenomenon that no one of my generation felt like we had to do. Not sharing your whole life story is not lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 11:43 PM
1

The internet and therapy culture have made a lot of people think they need to over share everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 11:37 PM
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That’s not what ad hominem means. Read the thread I’m not linking comments in the same thread for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 08:50 PM
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It is solipsism and it was explained elsewhere in this thread. I don’t really care that you want to censor comments you don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 08:29 PM
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I’m allowed to answer to parent comments and explain things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 08:25 PM
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...Lol male solipsism
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 08:07 PM
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Yes why women women think being vaginally penetrated is more intimate; a mystery.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 08:04 PM
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Not really no to your last line. Maybe in high school. The rest is true. Women often like quietly confident men as they get older. But being insecure and neurotic isn’t some virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 07:56 PM
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Because women are agreeable and don’t naturally have high self esteem and they need extreme advice to even internalize 10% of it. To be clear FDS is not something I think is ideal and I don’t follow it but I see why it exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 07:55 PM
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Wrong about what? I think false humility can be asshole attitude and confidence can be positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 07:49 PM
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Like I said some of them want to be sugar babies. What men don’t see is that a lot of advice for women has to be over the top, to even get a woman to have the confidence to follow 10% of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 07:46 PM
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Okay. My original comment was that self loathing insecure men falsely believe their insecurity is “humility” and that confident successful men are “arrogant/prideful”. It wasn’t about envy. But then I said that when those insecure men say they wish women would bang them instead or that they want to become an alpha, that can be envy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 07:39 PM
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Women want responsible husbands now, not pussy hound cads. A pussy hound cad will never take her out to dinner or whatever. It’s a screening. Yeah some FDS are just trying to be sugar babies but others want husbands I think. To be fair I don’t follow it much. But men are always mocking women who have kids with reckless cheating men...yet when women decide to vet for traits like providership and patience—all things necessary to a good home environment for getting pregnant and raising kids—men are…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 07:38 PM
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No you’re making tnta up I didn’t say that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 07:32 PM
2

Men are always TELLING ME they are jealous and wish she’d fuck him instead or they want to become chad to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 07:28 PM
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Okay so it’s just vague ranting “Hold accountable” has no actual meaning besides life is unfair and women suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 07:28 PM
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You don’t get it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 07:25 PM
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All hamstering
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 07:20 PM
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Not true at all but men think “not fucking me” is bad choices, so
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 07:20 PM
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I didn’t say that at ALL but now that you mention it it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 07:19 PM
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Okay so the practical actions you want come to women publicly excoriating themselves, verbally?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 07:19 PM
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Not true but anyway what are you on about with jealousy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 06:41 PM
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The women who do blame themselves would never share that publicly with random men though. They share it with other women and maybe their dad brother or cousin. Trust me they exist. And what if she isn’t a sharing type but internally decides to do better and then gets way more picky about men? Men hate that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 06:37 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 06:36 PM
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What does that LOOK LIKE IN PRACTICAL REALITY? Give one example scenario. I’m not asking a rhetorical question. Women getting heartbroken by chads and then hitting the wall single already seems like reality held them accountable, no? If you require some artifice of consequence contrived and added on to this, please describe it. Forced stays in convents? What do you actually mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 06:36 PM
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Men hate it when they do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 06:34 PM
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That is how women who had bad pickers vet for provider husband material men they want now. You don’t have to like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 06:34 PM
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Well some women are very dumb and think it will trigger protectiveness in the guy. And also everyone overshares too much nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 06:17 PM
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Obviously because men say sex can mean nothing to them but a real emotional connection is rare; and women can have lots of friendly emotional connections but claim that sex is only for something more meaningful (generalizing). It’s about which kind of connection is more scarce and therefore valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 06:14 PM
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Every single guy in the situation you described would be an NPC to the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 06:13 PM
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Well yeah going off about your ex on date 1 is just socially stupid, for starters.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 06:08 PM
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Wrong. FDS is for women with terrible self esteem and bad choices who are talking a big game to even get into the ballpark of choosing better; men don’t understand that’s what they are seeing. When women tell their gfs “honey you’re so stunning and perfect” men think it’s arrogance, women know it’s trying to build up her trash level self image.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 06:08 PM
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So FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 06:06 PM
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Men do not like it at all when women get more discerning about who they pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 05:57 PM
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Yah good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 05:52 PM
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This is FDS and men despise it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 05:51 PM
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This is literally FDS and men absolutely despise it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 05:51 PM
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my thing is true too, both true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 05:45 PM
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At least you’re honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 05:45 PM
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Those guys think lacking confidence and being unattractive = humility so therefore they are the good guy. They think chad being confident is arrogance so that makes him bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 05:32 PM
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What does being help accountable look like here?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 05:13 PM
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What exactly are you proposing she do here to “be held accountable”?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 05:12 PM
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Accountable to whom? What does being being accountable look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 05:05 PM
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Accountable and responsible for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 05:03 PM
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For starters it sounds like trying to use argument and persuasion to make a woman love you which is already not how human nature works. People usually tune out people that have silly understandings of how love works. Like thinking you can logic someone into dating you. Another thing is a lot of these asshole guys are actually nice to their women they’re just assholes to other men. A lot of guys seem to use asshole to mean any guy that is confident and popular, and not a neurotic mess. Also I do …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 04:59 PM
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I guess I am smoking being educated and well-read 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 02:15 AM
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Your loss
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 01:49 AM
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lol Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 09:19 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 08:26 PM
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Telling people to use reading comprehension is red pilling?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 06:51 PM
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attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 06:50 PM
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https://getyarn.io/yarn-clip/152887c8-170f-4954-bc6e-884c269d380a#_Chw5Kp44mS.copy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 06:50 PM
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Lol that annoys me too, short girls talking about only dating really tall guys and assuming everything thinks it’s super adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 05:26 PM
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I get bad at people for perceived tone online too, but technically there is no tone over text.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 05:24 PM
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People respond with hysteria to key words that jump out at them, they don’t read full sentences.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 04:51 PM
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Cause Dey dumb about makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 04:35 PM
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Lol. FR though I’m married.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 04:33 PM
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This is just supporting my theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 03:14 PM
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Why? I extended the commenter’s metaphor instead of just saying “you’re wrong:”. Read a book.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 03:13 PM
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It’s not that hard to understand an extended metaphor if you read the whole exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 03:11 PM
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What are you confused about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 03:11 PM
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okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 12:35 AM
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All’s fair in love and war kid
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 11:45 PM
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as I have clarified I mostly mean to address the men who repeat this stuff without knowing the truth because they have never even been married
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 11:40 PM
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Everybody hates lawyers until they need one. Lawyers who provide evidence for their points to me in debate are not lying, they can demonstrate sources to prove the law, so I trust that more than people’s feelings online.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 10:26 PM
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I did not know you were talking about race, I certainly agree with that I also believe you about poorer moms, I just don’t agree it is only them. Yes if an UMC mom were dealing with a lower class husband somehow she would likely railroad him, however UMC people are dealing with other UMC people who sometimes know how to play the game too. This also does not mean men don’t get railroaded because they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 10:07 PM
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It is all good, I fully agree with you and with men who state that the family courts are a circus and a nightmare and they do often leave men in a very bad place. This post is also annoying for me lol since it started some fights but you are right it is not only just fear and hurt but all kinds of emotions that people feel in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 10:06 PM
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UMC moms do lol they do not go softer on them as a broad statement. Who else is UMC? Men who are really good at playing the courts and the law and all that, they often know how to screw over their ex wives as good as they get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 10:02 PM
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Check out my other comments on this post for a basic idea
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 09:59 PM
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Yes divorce is a horror show I do not like it either it is often a horror show for every single person involved
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 09:58 PM
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You are incorrect that only criminal and lower class moms get railroaded
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 09:54 PM
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No not real life women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 09:54 PM
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Do you know that it is against sub rules to repeatedly insult commenters? It is also very embarrassing and stupid to go through someone’s post history. I am not ashamed of any of those things you quoted or I would not have posted them on a forum...duh Oh also LOL did you realize that ALL OF THOSE THINGS YOU QUOTED WERE FROM PURGE WEEK lol can’t stop laughing here. I am in a debate sub for debating lol, I guarantee you I have more social graces irl and actual places to use them :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 09:50 PM
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It is not innocuous. And no lol criminal and poor moms what a crock, no not at all, you have no idea. Absolutely made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 09:47 PM
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Yes I worked in the legal field for years and had experiences with divorce that do not reflect what you are saying here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 09:46 PM
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As I said it is hard to summarize my point in the limited title character limit, you need to stop with you personal attacks on me, i’m not going to flipping doxx myself for you in terms of “names”, random people not knowing something that experts know is not an insult it is a fact, you did not show anyone or me anything lol and I am right, and finally just googling some fallacies and psychological disorders does not make you correct. The title needed to be concise and get people to read my post,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 09:44 PM
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No I think they go for everyone, male or female. “family” court is hellish.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 09:40 PM
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Yes, in practice it is even more complicated, often even uglier, but less “always and never” than people claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 09:30 PM
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I did not say the issues men face are inaccurate, If you see my title I said making universal statements that this ‘always happens’ as do many men online, are not accurate, as you have pointed out here, sometimes women get screwed over too. I really don’t think anyone wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 09:26 PM
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I was born upper middle class, I don’t think dismissing anyone above working class as a “no true divorcee” is a good argument though. I don’t known why you have not heard about it, I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 09:25 PM
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I know women who got nothing in divorces too, it is complex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 09:25 PM
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In that case maybe you have a better handle on your emotions or helpful ways to express them than the men who are making such complaints.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 09:22 PM
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Okay so now I am rich and upper class so “no true scotsman” ok Lol you are just wrong about women not experienced bad divorces What I am saying is that factually I know more than a lot of these speculators
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 09:15 PM
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None of these accusations on my character are true, I hate divorce for the most part and I think the courts railroad everybody and men do get screwed over sometimes, I simply do not think there are these open and shut cases where the law cartoonishly says “f u man here is rich money forever for wife’ every single time like some people act
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 09:14 PM
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I do agree with all those comments, I just don’t agree that there is a universal statement like the one from my title And as someone with experience the court also railroads moms too. The whole thing is a mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 09:13 PM
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Not if we lived in an alternate universe where fire does not always burn, that is kind of my point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 09:03 PM
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Can you support your claim more? Asking genuinely. Men are constantly telling me on here they have no societal outlet for weak or fearful emotions, and often say they absolutely must express those feelings somehow, so I don’t see why it is not reasonable to ask if this is perhaps one way they express them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 09:03 PM
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I know legal people in multiple fields, friends and family, and I have had to be involved in more than one ugly divorce (not mine ) and courts do not just believe any old accusation or automatically favor certain people. I agree with you “family court” gets ugly. But a lot of what you are saying sounds like things feminist rant about online, that does not mean it is how things play out in court. I am willing to bet that I have more firsthand experience literally in the circus of family courts, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 08:59 PM
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I am mostly meaning men who are not even married let alone divorced
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 08:59 PM
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Sure yeah. I mean I also know people where the man had lots of money, the woman had none, they had children, and he did not even owe her child support let alone alimony. The point was only that cases are unique and complex and the title of my post is not really always an accurate trend, although it is certainly more accurate if one is a trad con only comparing things now to things hundreds of years ago, which is what some people are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 08:53 PM
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This is a good point, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 08:51 PM
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It is inaccurate, the statement that women will always get alimony and be set up for life to never work again. Sometimes women do not even get alimony or even child support who have children with the man. The fact that you are framing it in the context of men’s feelings kind of supports my point. I am happy to acknowledge people’s feelings here. Generally yes “family” (aka anti family) court can get quite ugly, for everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 08:50 PM
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These accusations aren’t true, my title is just reflective of trusting people who are experts more than random people, and trying to make a concise point in the reddit title character limit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 08:47 PM
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Also, that is bad and I am sorry all that happened to you. I do not doubt that it happens and I think it’s fine and good you share your story. I also do think the “family” court systems are messed up and screw up people’s lives often. I should clarify when I wrote this post I was thinking of the many men online who make these statements who do not have any firsthand experience with it. And the particular statement that all wives always get enough alimony to be rich for life. For better or worse,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 08:28 PM
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I am not talking about divorce lawyers, I am talking about people with law degrees who don’t necessarily practice law now, but who definitely know a lot more about this than laypeople.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 08:27 PM
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The specific individuals I have in mind do not even practice law as their main source of income, they have law degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 08:27 PM
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But I also said IANAL so I should be married soon right cause guys like that IANAL
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 08:26 PM
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No they do not, my friends, family, and debate acquaintances who are lawyers or way more informed about the law than internet people do not have any reasons to try to get me or anyone else as a client. Your argument is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 08:24 PM
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I am not discussing lawyers I planned on paying at any point, I mean people i’m acquainted with in debates and that I have viewed online, who are not trying to obtain clients.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 08:19 PM
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😢😱😸
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 08:19 PM
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Okay so you rephrased what I said but in a creepy asterix way Except I didn’t say they’d never get commitment? I said they won’t from men they have to chase down. The scenario I described happens ALL THE TIME it’s literally a meme among women there is always at some point a complaint about a man who dated her for years and wasn’t sure and then dumped her and married the next woman months later.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 05:36 PM
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No I didn’t read them on Reddit women are aware of this stuff and have been since before Reddit existed, for generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 05:35 PM
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Yes and I’ve been very involved in the pill communities for a long time so I’ve watched closely. Most average American women do not want to go down Sandberg’s path in life. But don’t let that get in the way of a raucous WAATGM circle jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 03:45 AM
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No it’s a reflection of a loud career woman and the few loud career women who read it and actually followed it and then a bunch of randos who saw it on a bestseller list and wanted to see what the fusses about. This doesn’t reflect the real culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 02:57 AM
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Do you think most women really care what Sandberg has to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 12:53 AM
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Neato
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 12:50 AM
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It happens all the time, men drag along a woman for years with a “let’s wait and see” because men do not have overwhelming biological pressure with marriage and childbearing. And men are willing to have sex with a woman who is just around, until the finds the one who sets him on fire. Women who take men out on dates and do all the chasing set themselves up for this and men think it’s somehow a win for the girl because it made him feel warm and fuzzy and flattered.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:43 PM
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Oh my god why do people think not revealing everything is lying? Just don’t talk, bite your tongue if you have to. Dating isn’t confession.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 05:28 PM
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I’ve asked lots of men about their thoughts on women who initiate the first date and stuff and push the relationship forward. Almost always the men are deeply flattered and remember her fondly, ever memorialized in his Reddit comments after he dated her for five years with no engagement and then left her for a woman he knew he wanted to marry after 6 months. But he totally got his self esteem improved from that nice girl who asked him out and virtue is it’s own reward! It’s nice that she gave hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 05:12 PM
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Ok have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 06:02 PM
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Okay I just don’t think you should be holding up your view as representative of western freedom. It’s really not a western principle at all. Is your wife hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 05:54 PM
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Oh okay so we fundamentally disagree on principles. I think you don’t negotiate with terrorists on principle. I agree everyone can arm themselves and should, I don’t believe in letting the psychos run society. That’s why we put killers in prison. We SHOULD and DO pressure killers not to kill, we don’t say “let’s do a hunger games once a year to appease their urges” because that would be garbage. So sure it’s the sane peoples “responsibility:” to admonish and punish if needed, not to appease. Eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 05:41 PM
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To add onto the convo. About how everyone needs to care about public well-being. Why do you not place any responsibility on these men who are apparently going to throw dangerous tantrums if they don’t get what they want, like toddlers? One form of emotional abuse is saying it’s fine to use and mistreat a group or individual because “they can handle it” iow people don’t think women are going to go nuts and shoot everyone so it’s fine to pass out their bodies for sex as a communist offering. So it…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 05:12 PM
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It still comes down to the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 03:00 PM
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In other words people dropped religion and don’t care about family and are now surprised pikachu they can’t find meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 02:00 PM
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Re your last point for all of history the way men teach men to channel their energy is to care way less about sex, not be more of a slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 04:35 AM
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You don’t understand that you’re doing the cheesy mafia threat that incels do about this? Lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 04:33 AM
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Lol doubling down on the threats.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 04:29 AM
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Whatever the practical reality is, it’s still against my principles to let “be careful cause my friends here are CRAZY” run my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 04:19 AM
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I’m American so I don’t believe in succumbing to mafioso-like threats against public well-being
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 04:07 AM
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Who’s we? Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 03:39 AM
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You’re so right. The replies will boil down to odd convoluted threats against “society.” “Have communistic and fair sex with us or else the economy gets it!” But no real rebuttal for people who aren’t collectivist or swayed by mafioso threats. If men feel sexlessness is a sickness and women aren’t humans but merely medicine, they can do what they’ve always done and have marriage and hookers. Men who insist their basic right is to live like a cad pussy hound with a bunch of young women on rotatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 03:35 AM
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My experience on this topic is the men who say they can’t show any emotions to women use a strawman where they say they can’t even cry over the loss of a childhood pet when in fact what they really mean is people won’t indulge their extended self wallowing defeatism for too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 04:31 PM
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Why are you not getting that I’m talking about JUST HEARING about a problem or a bad situation. I think it’s messed up you’re saying they person who WENT THROUGH THE BAD THING somehow has it easier than the person who heard the story. Because they are “weaker.” That’s just so messed up. Oh sure I went through hell but who cares about that cause I’m strong. But oh no I told someone about it who asked and they got a buzz kill from hearing my story so they fucked off and said I had no chance? But y…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 04:12 PM
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What do you not understand? You told me I was being harsh on people who are “weak of spirit.” Let me give you a better image. Someone gets run over by a car and their bone is sticking out and they are bleeding. They ask their spouse to call 911. The spouse refuses and says it’s too gross and starts blubbering, throw the phone away and just looks at their injured spouse sadly. I mean the emotional equivalent of that. And it would be ridiculous to say that the injured spouse is “harsh” for being h…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 03:55 PM
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Okay I mean I can’t help it if you didn’t read my comment. I’m not being hostile? Why would I not be upset that people can’t understand this? It’s a horrific thing to do to somebody and yet somehow I’m the bad guy as always. Because ya know being direct is clearly the worst thing ever. Sure someone else can completely throw someone in the trash with instant despair but I’m committing the crime of noticing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 03:50 PM
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Once again even though I’m (or whomever) the one with the real issue here you think the guy who had to hear about it bc he asked is the one who needs help. I’m not talking about some little child or kitten here. I’m talking about grown men and women who are highly accomplished intelligent people very confident in everything else just being total cowards and completely giving up on someone they love. I’m not being harsh, that kind of behavior is unloving and DANGEROUS as it also risks dragging me…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 03:49 PM
1

No I’m not. I love how I’m talking about someone treating me like absolute trash like “fuck you sunflower you’re completely utterly alone in the world and no one can help you, if I can’t even hear your story then there is no damn way you can heal” the second I reach out for help, not even trying to believe in me or hope or stay strong for one second, and you think I’m the harsh one? When they don’t even think I am worth taking 5 seconds of responsibility and time to just be there, heck not even …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 03:46 PM
1

Despair is terrible and harmful for the self and others. Please just think about the actions people take when they have truly indulged in giving up all hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 03:42 PM
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It’s not my position everyone who’s been here a whole knows there is a huge subset of guys who want to wallow in misery and self pity forever who complain they can’t show any emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 03:41 PM
1

I’m not here to prove it. People who have been here longer than me know I’m right. I bring it up bc I feel strongly about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 03:34 PM
1

I’ve just been online a lot and talked to countless men about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 03:34 PM
1

Well okay great so you didn’t read my comment and just replied about thoughts in your head. That’s fine. I hope you never have to experience what I’m talking about. Yes despair is wrong. How can you not see the consequences of despair. Just think about it for a minute. I’m not at all talking about what you mean. You pretty much insulted me like saying if someone I love has a rough time I’d kick them out? No I’m saying the opposites that I come to them with a tough time and they give up. But just…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 03:33 PM
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Falling into despair indefinitely is morally wrong and selfish. And why on earth would I want to be romantically partnered with a person who falls into true despair when they hear about a problem I really need help with. That is just a giant slap in the face and is like throwing me off a cliff of despair when I need help climbing up into happiness. When someone you love has a problem you say you’ll fix it together. You don’t say “oh my god cry cry you’re totally screwed, your problem is so terri…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 03:24 PM
1

I’m talking about reality not just theorizing like you are. You don’t even know what I’m referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 03:19 PM
1

Because you don’t even know what I’m talking about. I’ve spent months and years on chats and other fora with these people as well. I’m not debating this point or trying to prove to someone with way less time and experience here then me I’m just sharing a fact. The men who are saying they can’t ever show emotions almost always end up meaning a level of extended despairing wallowing and hopelessness.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 03:18 PM
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I’ve spent a lot of time reading and talking about it and I’m correct
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 03:19 AM
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Men online are talking about being despairing and wallowing interminably when they talk about this. I’ve been through this debate a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 05:05 PM
1

Um. No. It’s not. Why would you make this personal. This is what a lot of men mean when they say that they can’t express emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 05:24 AM
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Just the type of person who lives in hindsight and regret like a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 08:27 PM
3

Aw oh no how will you choose between phone chick and titties. Life is hard man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 08:24 PM
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Would you like it if he turned into a crying mess when you confided a personal problem and he said you’re totally screwed I don’t believe you can solve this there is no hope for you and it’s too scary to try? And kept up this pattern anytime you opened up? I don’t mean genuinely strong personal emotions or crying out of loss or deep things I mean a cowardly pathetic giving up and not believing in you at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 08:21 PM
2

100% Men can and should cry when they feel it. Why not. There is just one specific type of emotions and crying that I don’t tolerate in men or women. Namely defeatist hopelessness. If I tell a man some problem I have and he turns into a fragile mess he may as well say “wow you’re screwed no possible way to fix this and you certainly can’t count on me to support and believe in you.” Soldiers respect if their General cries over the loss of a fellow soldier or at the brave actions of another. They …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 08:03 PM
4

Men listen when you walk away
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 07:53 PM
5

I guess I am lucky my husband does all that stuff himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 07:52 PM
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Yeah that’s true damsel in distress is a thing bc it works a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 07:50 PM
6

Yes they unironically think this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 04:08 PM
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If you only want an exclusive relationship then insist upon that or dump. Men who are trying to sleep around will always shame you for that. Next them as assiduously as they next women who want marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 07:23 PM
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Well what they mean is your degree does not give them a boner. It does NOT mean that a highly successful guy or an upper class guy is going to marry a waitress. Education and success do matter to an extent for certain echelons. Even if she becomes a housewife a successful career focused guy will at least want her to have an education and know how to behave properly and with class. I have spoken to many career guys who brag about their gf’s and wive’s career achievements. It’s just not the thing …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 07:15 PM
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Yeah no it’s normal to feel uncomfortable your SO had to go to a place every day where you are not and knowing someone there is hitting on them. Even if your SO is totally stand up and would never cheat. The real answer would be to find solutions to this problem rather than trying to gaslight yourself pretending it’s crazy to notice it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:42 PM
0

What do you mean by acting on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 05:41 PM
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Mate guarding isn’t about what you “have to” do it’s a deep seated biological instinct that isn’t necessarily reflective of the mate’s attractiveness or behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 05:05 PM
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Not liking your coworker hitting on your SO is not “trust issues.” It’s completely sane. Mainstream views have basically gaslighted everyone that they’re nuts for mate guarding. So the OP couched all that as her own issue and played up her part in it so that Reddit would reassure her. If she is just said she didn’t like it even though she trusts her bf they’d have called her bad things. The problem is mainstream views on romance are delusional. It’s insane to pretend that there is no difference …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 04:10 PM
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Not at all! I can’t even fathom this. My great love just makes juvunile prior experiences seem just that; young and inexperienced and nothing compared to what I now know. This isn’t an ad for purposely dating more people than you want to for no reason, but no, as time has gone on and I am married now I feel it’s stronger than ever, it helps that I know myself more and can be my real self and get loved for that real self and not for insecure youthful posturing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 02:45 AM
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Okay that post is a bad example, the woman buried the lede by not bringing up the real issue which was her bf’s coworker coming onto him. Obviously she couched it in all that other mea culpa stuff because she really wants it to be no big deal and wants people to reassure her it is just her own issues from her past that are causing this fear and there is nothing to worry about. Who knows what is actually true, the OP made a post to get what she wants to hear. I am not saying your point is wrong, …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 02:42 AM
1

Poor French. Désolée.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 06:30 AM
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It’s socially awkward on steroids, it also involves self sabotage and other blocks
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 04:45 AM
2

indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 02:57 AM
2

It’s so great! Thank you! I missed dance stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 02:53 AM
1

They don’t deeply appreciate or have the perspective to truly do that. Which is fine because who wants to sit around freaking out every day but still. The point remains.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 02:14 AM
1

Do you really believe most first worlders are genuinely thankful on a deep level with true perspective for their clean water?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 01:56 AM
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If you believe the first paragraph is true then the second paragraph wouldn’t make a difference. You’d still attract these “men who ignore signals of disinterest” that you mention. Fortunately you are not correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 01:52 AM
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I agree with you but what I am going to change about your view is that they will never agree with you because they have a different idea of a high value man than what most women have. And it’s usually along the lines of “I am a high value man because I value cheap and free sex with no love and I would totally not fall for that trick so therefore playing hard to get does not work.”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 01:51 AM
1

Oh wow thanks for reminding me I need to do my taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 01:38 AM
2

Cause men like seeing the boner causing things? I mean I have an uncle who was super sick and then he got a hot nurse to take care of him and he felt better. My friend’s grandma was passed out in the hospital and then a hot young male doctor was taking care of her and she perked up fine. Everyone likes looking at hot people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 01:33 AM
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My husband put a barre in our basement workout room and I love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 01:30 AM
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Our culture sexualizes things so women think their normal friends are sexual friends, also men are more open about wanting to use women and female sexuality is being erased so women think the “aren’t attracted” to men because they don’t want to bang randoms all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 01:29 AM
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If they have adequate social skills they may have casual flings easily but may struggle to be taken seriously if they want something serious. If they do not have adequate social skills they may become mental cels. At least the mirror can comfort them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 01:27 AM
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How many of those girls actually made concrete plans and met up with you? What specific offensive things did you write in the bio?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 11:11 PM
2

Gotta love Lifetime
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 04:53 AM
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I love her and Lana and would like them to come to PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 04:52 AM
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This is a purely semantical argument based on what “for oneself” means. There’s no substance to it beyond that. Maybe being treated better or getting more attention in public helps someone feel better. They’re still doing it for themselves because they aren’t putting on clothes and makeup with the intent of pleasing a random guy. Or you could argue they are since technically they need to please him to get attention. It’s semantics basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 02:28 AM
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Ok well as someone who’s been on the other end and was reached out to, I don’t know if it helped. I just wasn’t that into the guy. He did some slightly stupid awkward stuff but that wasn’t the main reason. And after he finally begged for some reasons I sort of gave some suggestions that might help him going forward. But the need for closure can lead people to draw all kinds of conclusions that aren’t right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 02:23 AM
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Dude stop fishing for people to tell you that the girl you ghosted is torturing herself missing you. We don’t always beat ourselves up and my point about the highlights was that when we do so, it’s often a completely irrational reason that is not accurate. People do this all the time and think if they just had better hair or were one inch taller or told that one joke better the rejection would not have happened. So in this case, trying to figure out how they “fucked up” is futile and inaccurate.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 01:19 AM
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yes if you watch movies or talk to women as friends you would know women sometimes beat themselves up over something dumb like “it was the highlights i got wasn’t it, i knew I should have stayed brunette” and other times you never cross their mind again. It is situational.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 12:55 AM
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I feel like this happened to you recently and you want someone to tell you that the girl in question is obsessing over you. Nobody knows. Sometimes women do that sometimes they don’t. Men also stop pursuing women every day even when those women are interested. And it wasn’t anything the rejected party did so much as the other person wasn’t into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 11:18 PM
3

Have you ever been on a date before
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 11:08 PM
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What I found odd was that when the commenter said she was sad if she liked the guy and he stopped pursuing, you said “why would he stop pursuing if you liked him?” Do you think women never experience a man losing interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 11:08 PM
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Yes there is no rationality in love, where have you been? I am discussing the extremely early stages of courtship wherein you assess if you even click with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 10:34 PM
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It’s just as weird of you to assume the woman caused a man to lose interest. People lose interest all the time for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 09:11 PM
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Yeah I covered that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 02:02 AM
3

Yah. A pretty boy party boy they don’t think makes relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 12:17 AM
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Women will use a guy, especially a pretty boy who seems like a party boy, for fun sex, but not commit. Ofc the thirsty guys here will think that’s living the dream, but a lot of those men actually wish for more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 07:53 PM
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My husband had a friend like that. He lived near a big career focused city and he was easily attracting girls who saw him as a boy toy, which he would go for, but then he would lament he couldn’t find a real relationship. I think he was shooting himself in the foot for a LTR by going for these FWBs but he is a guy so he went for it. I think he needed to just move somewhere better with marriage minded women and act a little more sober.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 07:52 PM
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Men who become dads of daughters stop spouting this weird attempt at convincing women to let down their guards. I guess guys here are so thirsty they instinctively start trying to remove women’s guards. There is no negative at all to women being cautious of strange men except a random man might get his feels hurt and men in general are less likely to have access to random women, but there’s no negative in terms is safety. If you keep on your hobby horse it just indicates you care more about men …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 06:09 PM
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Yeah no. Let me know how you feel when you have teen daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 04:30 PM
1

Yeah that helps
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 11:32 PM
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Not by virtue of those activities per se, but if you get so into it you purposely choose not to have time for women or any kind of socializing practice that’s on you. For some reason guys in such communities tend to get super sucked in like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 10:27 PM
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The main point was that’s still better than rape and murder. You are really supporting my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 10:00 PM
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Mmkay tbat was a total non sequiter but yeah schools should cater more to boys. Still not sure what that says about the main point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 09:53 PM
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They mostly don’t care or are so involved in their own problems they can’t see past it. Or they are hamstering. It changes when they have their own daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 09:36 PM
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Lol you think a ridiculous comparison like that is what I meant? You’re dead wrong. But I won’t debate you if your only argument is that the stories are made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 08:40 PM
2

Men will still look when it’s worse but it’s different.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 08:35 PM
2

You don’t seem to understand male sexual nature
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 08:32 PM
2

Yeah that’s a nice head thought but does not reflect reality and is basically just external locus of control.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 08:22 PM
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There are countless stories on reddit of women who do all that and more and the guy still doesn’t even want to touch her and goes to jerkoff with his laptop in the shower. Women who are attractive and have high sex drives.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 08:02 PM
2

Men are usually better at straight stand up style joke performative humor. Women I think do better as comedic actresses in a role or more subtle social commentary.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 07:54 PM
2

You know that study just means everybody rates themselves as attractive, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 11:32 AM
1

Why, he says he was never faithful to her, he strung her along as a GF for 5 years, and has gone into a rage as he admits. Clearly this tragic even was the make or break wake up call for her and she realized it was break.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 07:17 AM
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He said 5 years
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 07:13 AM
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A lot of people have PPD specific accounts. Also who needs to have some balanced Reddit usage to prove they are normal, lol. That just proves you’re on reddit a lot which isn’t really sane.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 06:54 AM
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Less forking
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 06:52 AM
1

It’s so gross and unsexy, the phrase. It conjures up images of gross hippies hand wringing about the environment. I’d be fine with no one ever using it about people ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 05:55 AM
1

Yeah this is true
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 01:12 AM
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I don’t really know it just seems that most people on PPD feel like they are anomalies and in a lot of cases probably are, I mean people who sit around meta discussing all this relationship stuff are probably a bit different anyway. And yeah you’re right.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:21 AM
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You’re obviously an exceptional anomaly like everyone on this website.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:16 AM
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I am not talkign about whatever you want to argue here I am saying the type of strength a whole entire institution of a church gives someone to go their own way and not conform with the non religious mainstream, is not as easily reproduced just by some atheist getting really into nihilism in their room. Just because someone decides to be mad at god or stop believing doesn’t mean they don’t struggle with the same human need to fit in and peer pressure etc. It’s jsut easier to resist that when an …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:07 AM
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It’s a lot harder to genuinely do that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 12:01 AM
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Okay thats really cool and I am going to raise my kids out of the city, but as someone who did grow up in a major city your assessment of how they work is not accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 11:59 PM
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Yeah exactly. Basically without something bigger than yourself its really easy for any human to become kind of submissive to whomever is acting with more authority around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 10:52 PM
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Yeah I agree with all this. Some people here probably would debate your last paragraph although I agree with it. Having an outside higher power does liberate you a lot. For example as a woman it was easy for me to tell guys when I was single that I was only looking for marriage, it was my faith and I didn’t mind if I lost a guy who never wanted marriage anyway. But some girls want marriage but don’t have like a sturdy reason why (not saying they need one, but our culture kind of thinks it’s unco…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 10:21 PM
2

Yeah they do did you grow up in a major coastal city? Do you think people who live and work in those places can just stay in their church group and never encounter the world? Do you know in these places even other church people find too much devotion to be gauche? Let alone the secularists. And everyone would be much more accepting of a reddit SJW in the places I’m talking about than they would about an overtly pious person. I grew up around this and I don’t know why people who didn’t assume the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 09:45 PM
2

It depends on the church imo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 05:51 PM
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Being overtly religious (actually believe it) is a way to kill your social life and be a freak forever. Never mind some basic law stuff passed down. IDK why you can’t see that. It’s not conforming and fitting in to be a sincere practicing Christian, it’s being fringe. Just because there is holdover from the past wrt the law doesn’t mean people don’t think you have three heads if you actually believe in Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 05:49 PM
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Do all of you live in fundie towns? Why do you still think it’s truly the dominant culture to be religious? Have you been to a coastal metropolis? What you’re saying is so incredibly out of touch with mainstream secular culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 05:44 PM
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Okay the second part is something I’ve been trying to articulate for a while. Religion does provide that frame to be counter cultural and do you own thing no matter how unusual it seems to the mainstream. In that sense it can be very alpha and I’ve known men for whom it clearly increased that. And even within that frame people still have their own personal paths. Some people mostly just join the group at coffee after church. Others move to the jungle and missionary or whatever. There is a lot of…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 03:37 PM
1

No I am not seething I don’t have any emotions about it beyond telling him he is disgusting and gross because ass milk sounds disgusting :) :) :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 01:07 AM
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I think the conversion is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 05:57 AM
1

No lol you really need to work on your insults that’s so random
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 11:10 PM
1

Yeah I am because I dont have parties with weirdos
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 11:07 PM
1

I just like to argue okay I am Irish
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 10:29 PM
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What? He said his username had nothing to do with me. I said i never said that. Do ANY of you actually READ comments or do you just spout drivel and expect anyone to follow it? I just wanted to tell him his username is disgusting and that was the only reason I said it, because it is nasty, and for some reason he equated that nastiness with “sex” as though I think men wanting sex is nasty, whcih tells a LOT about what kind of sex he is into and it’s probably mixed with like food and bathroom stuf…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 10:22 PM
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What the hell does no homo have to do with what I’m talking about? Where did i say it has something to do with me? I’m not your babe assmilk. I figured it was something retarded by some dumb rapper. I just wanted to tell you that it sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 10:12 PM
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No dude, wanting whatever the fuck “ass milk” is is not normal, you’re just disgusting and you do it to get a rise out of women. When I say men I mean a certain type of man. Men are not disgusting for wanting sex, what you’re talking about is god knows what the fuck meant to make people gag.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 06:44 PM
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Also there is nothing wrong with the last one and her background check on the guy, I suggest all people male and female do this with people they meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:59 PM
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Men spamming copy pasted messages on OLD has absolutely nothing to do with the women he’s messaging and everything to do with the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:59 PM
1

I think I used decaf instant I wonder if that is why it did not work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:55 PM
4

You can be attracted to whomever but just don’t be surprised when people don’t take it seriously when you’re also fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:54 PM
0

So women woman on FDS is capable of self-deprecating humor like this post, being able to laugh at yourself is a good character quality, show me where reddit manosphere is able to not take themselves so damn seriously for even a second.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:49 PM
1

How do you make dalgona coffee? I whipped mine for a long time and literally nothing happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:47 PM
0

Link?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:41 PM
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I am sure plenty of them are able to, their problem wasn’t that, it was letting men who were never going to commit to any woman at all take up too much of their time, FDS seems like just making more time for guys with a future.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:41 PM
1

What the fuck is up with your username OP it’s so disgusting why do some men like to be disgusting like that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:35 PM
1

Thanks you too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:10 PM
2

Excerpt from the campaign speech written by partially illiterate Charlie Kelly on Its Always Sunny.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:09 PM
1

I’m not on Instagram. I’m responding to the myriad men here who struggle with this. The title of my post is a joke to get clicks so men who need to hear this actually read.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:08 PM
1

I’m not telling them IDGAF this isn’t FOR ME. I am married. It’s for the men here who are miserable about online dating and take crappy pictures and self sabotage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:09 AM
1

Yeah usually they swipe on the 5 other Christians on the site and match up pretty fast
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:08 AM
1

You should find Jesus, Christians get snatched up pretty quick on these.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:30 AM
1

Okay! Enjoy your life of telling others to stop sinning and let me know how it works out for you. There are a lot of celibate monks who went down your path and got canonized so you’re in good company.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 02:58 AM
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Men reading this: wait no not like that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:27 AM
2

No I don’t. It’s normal for women who hope to compete in a digital world and men should take a cue
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:27 AM
2

I don’t want them I want my husband. But they aren’t doing themselves favors. You don’t have to tell anyone you took 100 selfies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:15 AM
2

Oh ok. Well I guess you would rather lament the sins of modernity than be successful at dating. That is fine it’s your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:55 AM
1

It doesn’t seem that way to me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:53 AM
2

I’m not lol ya Dingus I’m trying to help men with OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:52 AM
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In the future please don’t hike up your shorts like you’re a 1940s cartoon femme fatale hiking up her skirt over her knee to stop traffic so that a cartoon male driver can go Awooga and have his eyes turn into hearts and pop out of his head.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:41 AM
1

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:40 AM
0

What
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:16 AM
3

Me?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:12 AM
3

Regular bowel movements are not the best example I’m pretty sure most of these guys you’re referencing are eating Cheetos and tendies so they probably are not that regular.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 11:56 PM
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If you take it from below your face pointing up to try to look taller even a hot guy will look like an elephant seal. Try holding camera above you and look up. Also, don’t have to do a big smile but have some kind of warmth in your eyes and don’t look scary. It’s also okay to take 100 photos and find the best one. That’s what all your insta thots do every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:47 PM
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Neutral doesn’t mean that PPD mods are going to make a census making sure there’s an equal number of each viewpoint here or censor posts that balance the equilibrium. It just means that there is no official stance and that the purpose is debate, not echo chambers or reinforcing a certain view.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 06:27 PM
1

I thought it needs antibiotics
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 10:52 PM
3

If it were me I’d get to the ER
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 10:24 PM
1

Did she go to ER?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 09:51 PM
2

He thinks following Belle Delphine counts
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 08:16 PM
1

My husband likes me this much and more but this isn’t my love language
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:55 PM
2

I don’t date men based on “hot or not” I base it on if I think he’s hot and I have my own tastes so who knows what other people think. If I didn’t date based on attraction you’d say I was garbage for going for beta comfort. I didn’t say ALL but that it’s not irrational that some people with a chip on their shoulder for years might become corrupted by power. I didn’t say all ugly men have that chip.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:31 AM
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Don’t tell me you’re suggesting women should only get pregnant by men who are financially secure and who marry them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 01:45 AM
1

👌
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:55 AM
1

Ok well I felt like I was upsetting you and I really didn’t want to
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:52 AM
1

Ok well have to agree to disagree then because I don’t think that noticing cohort behaviors for better or worse is inherently classist or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:39 AM
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Ok yeah people say blunt direct things on this sub that aren’t personal or emotional. You assumed I’ve never been poor or that I am looking down on poor people. I wrote my comment with some sense of cynical humor because the post was basically a low level diary entry that didn’t support AWALT or any point at all so I was merely pointing out that the whole story seems like a personal issue or experience of the OP and not some grand overarching conclusion. It didn’t contribute to the larger discus…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:20 AM
2

Alright bro glad you realized really obvious things
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:11 AM
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Okay well you’re really reading me completely wrong. I’m not taking anything hard at all and I don’t feel insulted. This is a debate sub and it’s an interesting discussion I thought. I don’t have any feelings about this. I don’t think “inoffensively classist” is a thing, classist implies offense. I just think for some reason you’re reading into what I said because you assume I judge people by class which I don’t. It seems kind of like calling someone racist because they said someone is black. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:05 AM
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I mean if you find this scandalizing Time to grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 11:35 PM
6

Holy shit people have different rules and boundaries for people they love and have sex with over random jerkoffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 11:29 PM
1

Why is it classist to state facts? UMC is upper middle class. Do you think it’s a compliment when I say they are vodka day drinking abortion havers?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 11:28 PM
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Lol you mean the true nature of non social retards? When I’m at home I can borrow my sisters clothes but when I break into people’s houses who don’t know me and steal their clothes I go to jail? Whaaaaat?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 11:23 PM
1

I’m saying the behavior OP described is more common in lower socioeconomic classes. OP doesn’t even seem to engage in this behavior so I’m not implying everyone is the same. If OP said that all these same women are emotionally repressed vodka day drinkers who all aborted their babies and went to play squash I would assume OP was UMC.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 11:19 PM
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Imagine allowing the person you’re consenting to sex with to do things but not letting literal jerkoff strangers to do it? Mind. Blown.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 11:17 PM
1

I am talking about phenomena of socioeconomic classes, you are the one saying classism and poor people are shitty, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 10:46 PM
1

I meant that the behavior he describes is more likely from the specific surroundings he’s in and not because of AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 09:56 PM
1

I don’t think OP is inferior for living in a trailer
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 09:52 PM
1

Why not both?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 09:49 PM
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Are you trying to tell me people do different things with sexual partners to whom they are attracted, than with random jerkoffs? Whaaaat?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 09:17 PM
1

Okay well show me where I implied it? I was just stating an observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 09:03 PM
1

How is it classist? Did I say he was bad for living in a trailer?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 08:58 PM
2

🤮 ewww no
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 08:44 PM
2

Thank God I’m American
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 08:43 PM
1

Les poissons
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 08:16 PM
2

Y E S don’t assume my A N C E S T R Y
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 08:15 PM
4

I’m assuming their dating apps allow them to filter for school shooters
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 08:15 PM
2

If you’re not a moneycel you’re selfishly hoarding other citizens’ condom money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 08:13 PM
1

I’ll be as much as I want to. Notice you are no one I’ve ever heard of.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 08:11 PM
2

I’m not FDS you brain dead retard. Who the hell are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 07:59 PM
1

deserve You are dumb. This statement reflects your justice and revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 06:12 PM
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I don’t see why you immediately throw out their theory. Of course hot guys can more afford to be kind because it won’t take away from their hotness or masculinity. And of course an ugly guy with a chip on his shoulder could get egotistical when given an inch. You can think wha you want about FDS but if you actually consider those theories they are not that farfetched. It’s the same for women, pretty women with good bodies who got praised their whole life probably think most human are really kind…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 06:11 PM
1

You did in so many words
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 06:01 PM
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Yeah lol women have been taking care of their skin for years and men think its gay to wear sunscreen and wash their buts but who ages better? Why do you think women = insta thots?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:24 PM
1

Yes I know the revenge fantasy male projected narrative thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:06 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:37 PM
18

That is a lot of words to say you live in a trailer
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:36 PM
11

Men here are the ones who are surprised pikachu that aging happens to people who don’t die, women have been applying face creams since high school, I don’t think it is exactly a surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:34 PM
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No u
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:28 PM
4

Except for porn, which is a documentary and Good For Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:26 PM
1

Lol so rational and objective. Mind reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:11 PM
1

Nah I think you are mad she isn’t being punished by forever single motherhood. He is an adult who made his choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:59 PM
1

I don’t relate to this or why a woman would want this but you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:43 PM
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You are confused about mansplaining and don’t know what it is. You see when you are a man pee is stored in the balls. So really there is no excuse to man spread if you just use the restroom first. SMH don’t know why this is so hard for men to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:29 PM
1

What’s ugly about your face?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:28 PM
2

You mad she got what she wanted?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:26 PM
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Yikes sweaty you just assumed the gender of all those people and didn’t even ask if they had a boy uterus
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:25 PM
1

Imagine believing in “orientations”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:51 AM
3

https://i.imgur.com/rro8fXY.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:59 AM
1

Awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:54 AM
1

Are you in the Navy or some sort of fisherman?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:53 AM
1

Y’all need Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:52 AM
1

Just think that she got $10 from countless others like you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:51 AM
2

If you build it they will come
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:50 AM
1

Ah ok
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:50 AM
1

Victoria who? Last name start with a B?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:39 AM
6

It’s against the law to lie on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:29 AM
2

Awesome Dystopian YA novel
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:28 AM
7

Because they put the emotional labor on you to take responsibility for their boners
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:53 AM
2

Bigger in the you know who
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:31 AM
3

Needs a little salami as a treat
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:31 AM
3

Humans are constitutionally inclined to seek bigger and better, this is how AMERICA and you should be GLAD.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:27 AM
1

Ok good
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:26 AM
1

What undesirable elements? There were never any incels here. Edits photographs
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:23 AM
2

Touché salesman
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:23 AM
2

It looks like you painted a vagina plant
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:08 AM
1

Ask him what he thinks about this meme....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:21 AM
1

No dont
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:20 AM
3

What? Taxes they'll be lower son.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:41 PM
1

I’m for ‘em
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:40 PM
1

Yas queen
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:02 PM
2

If you’ve seen any threads about this what would you do if you woke up as a woman most of them men say they’d play with their tits and then do sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:00 PM
3

Not the way men here talk about what they’d do if they were a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 07:54 PM
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Lol you haven’t even really got to the good stuff they write super cheesy field reports with hyper self awareness like they expect to go down in history and everyone will study their writings.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 07:31 PM
1

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 07:20 PM
1

Howie of the Take That
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 07:01 PM
1

No habla
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 06:59 PM
3

Get out of here if you don’t even watch it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 06:57 PM
1

So what DO you like?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 06:51 PM
2

You’re right men can’t usually afford to get bonded out that’s why they still be in jail. Unless they find a gun moll to help them out 🧠
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 06:49 PM
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Oh sorry I didn’t realize she was your I R L G I R L F R I E N D 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 06:48 PM
1

https://youtu.be/RPiTRhRzW9U
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 06:47 PM
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B E L L E D E L P H I N E doesn’t even look like B E L L E D E L P H I N E
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 06:44 PM
1

Pirate skulls and bones
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 06:36 PM
1

Everything’s different now
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 06:06 PM
2

They’re looking for a home, if you follow me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 06:02 PM
1

well seal u later
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 06:01 PM
3

😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 05:55 PM
2

Last time I checked pimps don’t have to be cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 05:52 PM
3

Thanks ! : ):)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:22 AM
4

Many Thanks ! !
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:22 AM
3

Thank you ! !
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:21 AM
6

Thanks ! !
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 01:48 AM
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Raising the stakes of a commitment does not mean it is a choice based on fear. By your logic only relationships held onto by a thread with no agreement of seriousness are authentic. Honestly to be sure, you should not have sex, never see each other in person, and also always be drunk just to be sure she loves you for you and not for your body, you company, and then she should be drunk so you can be sure she is genuinely in love with you and obsessed with you when she has lost all her faculties. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 01:45 AM
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Many thanks ! ! 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 01:29 AM
1

Should they not both then just donate all their assets to charity, since they belong “to the marriage”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 01:28 AM
1

Lol okSirn
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 01:28 AM
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Thank You ! !
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 01:28 AM
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I got married in the midst of this quarantine without a party or a honeymoon. We haven’t even told anyone irl besides our families yet because we don’t like tons of attention. I have no idea when we will be able to travel for a honeymoon. I wore a beach dress I bought off Amazon prime and did my hair and makeup. I wore my old chapel veil. He did get me a very nice ring (his choice, I did not insist on anything fancy) and proposed in the forest behind our house. We will also have our church weddi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 01:19 AM
1

What is PPF?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 12:54 AM
2

You’re wrong about ppd women tho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 10:16 PM
1

Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 07:57 PM
1

Well most people have kind of a stupid definition of unconditional love with this anyway, it doesn’t mean unconditional attachment, if someone is an abuser it isn’t loving to keep letting them be abusive and keep the victims around them. I never mean unconditional love to mean unconditional attachment and co-signing someone’s abuse or something. In that case love would be tough love and removing them from he situation. But not holding bitterness in your heart for them. And with loving your spous…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 03:15 AM
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I am religions so I think God loves us unconditionally, I don’t put that on other people. I do want to try to love my spouse as unconditionally as possible but it’s crazy to put that expectation on others towards you...those people are too idealist to have close relationships. There is a reason people of that personality type become nuns and monks. Of course I also think that loss of religion has made people seek out that type of motherly love for an infant in their partners but taht’s another t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 02:25 AM
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He wouldn’t count those people because they didn’t pass his weird test of being committed to him without him being committed to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 02:14 AM
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Yeah don’t let them poison you, def take a break from the sub for a bit. Just generall is good advice for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 02:13 AM
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Obviously because they want to and think it looks cool. Why else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 08:41 PM
8

Just say you are black pill instead of retyping this narrative ad nauseam.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 08:32 PM
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No I don’t like them either I agree that small cute ones are ok but the big obvious sleeves are unbecoming. But most men who ask this q are basically saying “it’s a turn off for me so why would women do this”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 08:28 PM
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I mean probs because they want to. Are you asking like why they don’t consider your sexual preference first?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 08:23 PM
7

It makes me appreciate mine even more tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 08:21 PM
2

Lol no one actually says MMP. We say RMP and it means LTRs leading to eventual marriage. I’ve been on here much longer than you have and in the pill sphere for years before that, and it’s stupid af to try to suggest I don’t know the concepts, you picked the wrong person to try that on. If you preemptively decided you’ll never marry then at best you have exclusive FWBs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 08:17 PM
2

What the heck are you talking about? Your last paragraph makes no sense. Yes if you have a series of lovers and you’ve already decided marriage is off the table for you you’re not really in the RMP you just have FWBs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 08:00 PM
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you can’t see the value so sharing it would be pearls before swine. I’m not going to sell marriage to a troll who already has his canned comebacks planned out. Why would I give you more information about my life when you’re clearly just planning to continue to shit all over me and my marriage? If you won’t marry you’re not truly in the RMP. No one cares if you have serial mistresses. No one is going to try and change your mind. Why do you think insulting people’s marriages is a good way to furth…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 07:56 PM
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Oh look I said I wasn’t going to sell you on marriage and you still projected your weird nonsense axe to grind at me. You have absolutely no idea what I think so don’t ever tell me what I “know” like some pathetic asshat. Marriage is infinitely valuable to my spouse and I and literally no one on earth cares if you drop out of the RMP.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 07:50 PM
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Um no I’m not going to play into your weird cynical soapbox hobby horse projections and sell you on marriage. Someone who truly cannot cope with human weakness and only wants pure God like love from others will be unable to bring themselves to have any kind of romantic relationship let alone marriage. The opposite of your theory. If they are serial monogamists they are more realistic than you insinuate. The genuine idealist cannot take that emotional risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 07:35 PM
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Bully for you. It’s so logical, people who are willing to get married are somehow less committed than people who don’t want it. Great advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 07:30 PM
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I added onto my comment. Idealists who can’t cope with human frailty stay single or become nuns or eternal bachelors or go to cat island. People who want marriage seriously go into it knowing you’re loving a human who makes mistakes. Sure some people don’t get what marriage is for and take it lightly but that isn’t because they expect God like pure love, they just are low FTO and don’t think.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 07:27 PM
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It’s literally the opposite but ok. The idealists are the ones who won’t marry because no human can always give perfect God-like love. The realists who realize you have to accept a flawed human are the ones getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 07:25 PM
0

Why do you conclude that people who want to settle down are doing so because they think their spouse will have pure unconditional eternal love?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 07:17 PM
1

Why would you conclude that (re your first sentence)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 07:14 PM
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Ladies read this and realize why if you want marriage you should drop men who aren’t sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 07:14 PM
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Yes everyone knows that in the modern SMP your second paragraph is true. And yet men are butthurt af when women decide to not be naive and to up front drop guys who aren’t marriage minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 07:12 PM
4

That seems very silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 07:11 PM
3

I am willing to bet that this guy thinks he loves a woman for her “being” when she has nice tits and ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 05:16 PM
2

Trust me when I say you’re talking to the wrong person about knowing the the English language. I can’t help it if you refuse to intuit colloquialisms and casual turns of phrase. Move along.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 04:56 PM
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Have you considered it is you who does not know what introspection is? And that you lack comprehension? Okay I don’t argue with trolls who don’t understand basic turns of phase. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 04:48 PM
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Ah yes and we all know fourteen year olds with no experience who have introspected everything about the universe! And we know sophomoric adults like this too. You can figure out a lot of things that are super awesome in theory. Reality is usually different. Most of the women here are more self conscious and self aware than lots of people. Sorry but it doesn’t make sense for someone to just totally defy their entire culture with no other institution backing them and just magically being an ostrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 12:38 AM
4

Ok okay so we are gatekeeping critique lol. So it didn’t count when women do it because they didn’t magically figure out the wisdom of ages just by navel gazing and in fact correctly were aware of the limits of their humanity. Which you call “blaming” which is in fact called growing up and understanding what you can do and what is out of your hands. And obviously introspection is always happening I’m saying if someone instrospects after having casual sex that she doesn’t like casual sex to you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 11:11 PM
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These comments are coming off like someone who knows nothing about women except their own biased projections based completely on feelings. Women are insanely self critiquing. Introspection doesn’t make you psychic and perfect at figuring out life when you’re young. No one does that. And frankly it seems like she did introspect but after the fact and that makes you mad too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 10:54 PM
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https://i.imgur.com/Kgj5O0N.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 04:40 AM
3

someone finally got it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 02:56 AM
2

Your wife’s new legal name is Taargus Taargus
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 02:56 AM
20

The guys who drive badly and get offended you don’t trust them are really insecure. I’m usually chill about it and I dated a guy who was all trying to praise me as not like the other girls because I didn’t flinch when he drove fast on hills. It was really gross. Another guy almost killed us in traffic multiple times and was so offended I said I would never get in a car with him again. I’m talking turning left on red into 4 lanes of speeding traffic kind of thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 08:28 PM
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Ok well men like this don’t care they think “omg I didn’t know that thing you said you hated was something you hated! I just thought they were sounds coming out of your mouth. I didn’t know you meant that thing you said was really serious. It didn’t occur to me to connect what you’re saying to my life or actions at all because I didn’t think it was real.” These are the guys who are blindsided by divorces too after being told a thousand times. He didn’t even get the message until she was gone. Th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 08:24 PM
1

Incels fetishize despair and self loathing. You can’t help them because they want to lose and wallow in pathetic loserdom. I have respect for any incel that decided not to be a defeatist and actually tries to date and be normal. But it’s rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 08:19 PM
1

It’s not insane when you realize they don’t say these things to be logical they say and do these things to degrade and “ruin” women in their minds and then criticize the women for participating bc they like attacking people over things they can’t change because it’s the lowest form of bullying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 08:15 PM
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Those guys only see hot women as women, but they can’t directly show their bitterness that they can’t get a hot woman because that would make them look like rejects and also it might wreck their chances with a hot woman. So they pick a bunch of women they didn’t want anyway and trash talk gossip about those instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:58 PM
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Anything where someone thinks their base animal impulses aren’t things to control and rise above but that they are all destructive needs. People literally don’t even know the concept of character flaws. If you need 2 hours of porn every day that’s a flaw not your needs as a man. As a man you should overcome those. Just like needing beer all day long is not a need it’s alcoholism. People being proud of slavery to animal needs is so regressive and stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:56 PM
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The irony being that that entire sub is a bunch of men saying where are all the good women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:54 PM
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Men who complain about nagging just use it as a shaming tactic because they don’t want to do stuff or listen. They present it as some moral issue so that women think oh it’s super serious I don’t nag. High quality men don’t need to be nagged tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:51 PM
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lol that’s because women work on all that stuff without being told and they have usually spent years assuming it was all their own fault when they land at FDS. Men have to be told to introspect and improve because they think they’re perfect the way they are for no reason. Women are told from day one that whatever they do they better not think anyone will love them the way they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:48 PM
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Lol yes that famous no that people always respect when women say.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:46 PM
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Many women including me have agreed that it sucks what we are tired of is the fact that just saying it sucks isn’t what they want they want pity sex. And many like me want incels to drop their loser attitude but they refuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:43 PM
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Yeah this is true. Lib fem lied to a lot of women but while trp is all woe is me we were lied to, everyone just craps all over women who also bought into the narrative. It’s actually hard to be a counter cultural revolutionary. It’s ridiculous men expect women raised in the modern west to have psychically known they should live like a 50s girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:32 PM
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Cheating men aren’t high value lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:30 PM
1

Sugar gliders are so cute
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:23 PM
1

My kitten barks like a dog
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:23 PM
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Congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:22 PM
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OP why share your fetish here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:22 PM
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Oh ok well by all means if you say it’s not true
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:07 AM
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It’s a debate sub. Some people enjoy interesting ideas that are sparked here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 03:39 PM
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Yw
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 03:47 AM
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Well to me avoid means you try not to watch it, you’d prefer to never watch it again and always get laid when you want, but occasionally you are weak and then shamefully clear history or whatever. As opposed to the enthusiastic balls to the wall participants. So to me that’s what avoiding means, colloquially, if you meant it like literally abstain 100% of the time...then yeah there probably are men like that who are normal, out there, but by definition they won’t be normal if they posted about i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 03:37 AM
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False dichotomy. The men who obsessively renounce all porn and start a movement are by definition outliers and have to be a little crazy to start a counter culture revolution. The false dichotomy is that there are only these guys and then the porn addicted guys who grew up with free high speed infinite variety hardcore porn online during their formative years and think obsessive use of very cheesy extreme videos is normal. You’re not counting the large swaths of normie guys who occasionally part…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 03:23 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 03:03 AM
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All these studies about kids who went through x as a child are doomed to do y all have the fatal stupid flaw of treating the subjects as un self aware instinct driven animals with no higher consciousness just existing in vacuum. Children of divorce can react in all kinds of ways. A huge amount of them end up taking marriage far more seriously than your average person in the SMP. They don’t think divorce is an option so they spend a lot of time working on themselves and being very selective and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 02:26 AM
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The idea of it and the shame of it makes it way worse for them than if it was just the absence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 09:24 PM
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Lol yeah high school love was so deep, hahaha. Women avoid men who call them food or natural resources so maybe that’s the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 08:57 PM
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Yeah IKR? What modern mainstream 19 year old guy is pushing for marriage? They say this because they want the 19 year old woman to sleep with them when they are in their 30s and 40s. Or are mad she didn’t do it in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 08:55 PM
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Anyone who only wants to talk to you once a week like that isn’t really in a real romantic partnership
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 12:04 AM
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Everyone already knows people change that’s why there are vows like in sickness and in health and for better and worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 09:15 PM
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You’re missing my point though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 02:47 PM
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Huh? Counter argument for what? You not likings something? Do you think I have anything in common with a working class mama bear single mom? Lol. Go yell at them not me. You don’t know what ad hominem means A logical human instinct that doesn’t always perfectly work out in the modern world? You don’t say. Oh and no duh continuing to be a single mom is a lesser misery than being involved with a man who abuses her kids, duh. Male solipsism to think a random single mom is miserable without his dick…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 04:49 PM
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I keep forgetting people here can’t explain or understand things they don’t personally endorse as their own opinion. So you all assume that’s what I’m doing. Lol. It’s clear a lot of the hostility is a specific strategy employed by the “mama bear” types that’s logical to an extent, why they would think it’s a good idea. I didn’t say it’s good or that I love it or that it works. It’s human instinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 04:27 PM
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That’s a very obtuse flippant reading. I can explain it for you but I can’t understand it for you. Since you won’t consider my points in good faith you don’t deserve my brilliant insights anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 04:12 PM
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I thought we were having an advanced nuanced discussion on human psychology that went beyond obvious points. Here read https://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/frinj4/_/flxgb69/?context=1 What I find interesting is when I interpret why random woman react with shock to a specific phrase, you are hearing “I think men should feel a moral obligation to date single moms” and also that you interpret outrage or morality in any of my comments of which there is none.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 03:51 PM
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Why do you think I don’t know this is obviously what the men think, wow I gave you an advanced analysis way beyond this beginning point and you didn’t appreciate it at all. I should start charging for my insights.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 03:46 PM
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Oh ok that could be too I did not know there are moms who are doing duck face and ignoring their kid but that could be a thing too, like if they want to differentiate between other single parents who act trashy. I don’t know a lot of single never married parents irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 03:43 PM
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Don’t call them dumb for knowing how to avoid what they don’t want tho
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 03:34 PM
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Where on earth would I say people who don’t even want to date some lady at all should care about her kid as much as she does Okay so frankly since your argument is irrational (you say adults should see children as serious competitors in life and that it’s irrational to find this absurd) and you make no reasoning to support it I’m moving on, you’re welcome for my in depth insights.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 03:32 PM
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Yeah I said there are lots of good reasons not to date a single mom. I’m specifically talking about the psychology of a person who sees kids as competing for attention (in their own words) and again I reiterate that for the discussion this should be taken out of context of the single mom dating profile examples because women are having a knee jerk response to hearing an adult say a child is a competitor, irrespective of why he said it. Time money exes poor judgment looks etc sure good reasons no…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 03:32 PM
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You think it’s irrational to expect adults not to see children as equal competitors in the adult world? What’s irrational is thinking a tiny child with a child brain is in any way a competitor. Like Usain Bolt saying he’s very worried that the slow kid on a high school track team is going to threaten his records. How can you not see why people would find that insane. Let me make it clear I agree fully with her and I believe I am presenting the case for why she is completely rational and that adu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 01:05 PM
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How is it uncharitable?! Do you know how insane it sounds to most women (and lots of men especially fathers) that any adult unironically views a child as an equal and a competitor? Just because it’s simple doesn’t mean it’s dumb or bad. Simple is good. She makes an intelligent point. I’m just explicating what she clearly stated already.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 12:44 PM
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Yeah lots of ppl do it it’s still a very cynical interpretation
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 12:42 PM
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No just take it out of all context. Women are not thinking through “oh that would be unfair to the kid” here because women don’t even want that guy to date a woman with kids. Women hear the words out of a man’s mouth, in any context whatsoever, that “children are direct competition to me for the attention I need” and are appalled because it’s infantile to them. It’s just illogical and immature. It would be like hearing an adult say they hate pens and only want to use crayons. Or saying they hate…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 11:48 AM
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Cool non sequiter
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 11:39 AM
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Most people know when you think they are low value so why would there be a surprise that they act brusque and block you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 11:36 AM
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Ok I am not an FDSer but if it filtered out the men who think like this comment then it’s working for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 11:34 AM
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Of all the arguments I’ve seen that fds is low value this is the dumbest one. Why on earth would those women reveal their identities in that context? Do you know what kind of thing that would make them vulnerable to?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 11:33 AM
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She’s not responding to anything further than the sentence that a child is competing with an adult and the grown adult perceives a child as competition, in any way. Even if the other reasons are good, women usually find it appalling that men who hate single moms always list “competing with a child for attention” as one of their reasons. Most women feel more maternal as adults and cant even fathom seeing a young child as a direct competition in any context at all. Edit: partly because the nature …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 11:28 AM
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Actually men online constantly say the word competing about this. It’s not an accident.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 11:25 AM
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They aren’t looking for anything real so having a kid present in your life is just a block to Peter Pan no responsibility I’ll live forever shallow flings. Those types in fact would prefer if she abandoned them. They are looking to be babied so they see a child as competition for attention. They retroactively claim moral or bio reasons. Lots of men wanting marriage don’t want a single mom but they usually aren’t so angry at their audacity for even being in the dating market. They just swipe left…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 11:18 AM
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It very obviously is an instinct to protect their kids and tell potential weirdos don’t bother, I’ll make life hard for you. Not stupid, a rational strategy for dating as a single parent. It’s not the only way but I can see why people do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 11:12 AM
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Yes, obviously, they know people see them as low value and are preemptively protecting themselves from the negative reactions and also challenging or testing to filter out the many people who would look down on them. Ofc the single moms also do this protective thing for the sake of their kids. I mean you don’t have to date them but it’s not like that means you have the right to never have to burden your thumbs with the crushing task of swiping left. And really what else should a single parent do…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 10:13 AM
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I am not sure if you are male or female but women are so saturated with messages about appearance constantly that we don’t have to be told. Most women interpret FDS silence on appearance as it being a given, that you should look your best. Thinking their silence means that they don’t think appearance matters for women is a very weird take. Most women in modernity know to try and look cute and hot, they were not taught the other behavioral stuff, that does not mean that they think looks are less …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 03:44 AM
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Why do you think FDS thinks women don’t need to focus on their appearance?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 03:25 AM
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That doesn’t necessarily compute to what women want
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 10:07 PM
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Ok so you don’t agree with the original comment
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 10:06 PM
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There is no correlation as I said. Extreme outliers like a borderline retarded guy who’s 6’4” and bulky, or a genius level nerd with a genetic disorder and terrible asthma, are both inclined to overdevelop in one area and neglect the other. But the vast majority of people don’t fit a cartoon video game cliche where somehow intellect makes one less likely to be fit or look good and vice versa. There’s no logical reason to think this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 09:26 PM
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There is no correlation between intellect and “good genes” and getting in shape. Why would it take a smarter person more effort to get in shape than a dumb hot guy, their health being equal? Why would guys with “good genes” who are in shape have to work harder to learn by default? This is magical cartoon thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 09:17 PM
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That’s imaginary
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 09:14 PM
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Are you confused? The person thinks there’s some limit on character stats in real life humans and that if someone is maxed out on looks their is no room left for smarts. That’s imagination thinking reflective if how RPG and video game characters are built and has no bearing on reality. That is my contribution, getting people to stop thinking life is a video game or cheesy 80s high school movie. It’s very important info to help these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 09:08 PM
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The post makes a legitimate point, the point wasn’t Men too it was that basic uncultured-ness is actually not accurately measurable on gender lines and should be observed along other demographic lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 04:43 AM
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you can’t have both because one comes at the expense of the other Put down the video game character builder and enter the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 04:30 AM
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All so true. I’ll add that sometimes the guy is really nice to the woman he’s with but not as nice to other men. So that’s another source of confusion. Women know the same thing, that some women are bitches and rude to other women but submissive and affectionate to the man she’s with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 01:04 PM
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Ok so you made it up in your head and it has no bearing on reality. As long as you realize that. The reality has nothing to do with your stereotyping and feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 11:24 AM
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Lol aw that’s innocent But anyway just making sure you realize this is your feelings and not based on anything actual
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 09:12 PM
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they definitely aren’t having a lot of sex Is that a fact? What about this? they never do anything fun
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 09:07 PM
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Yeah I respect if you just don’t feel comfortable do whatever you feel right about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 05:01 AM
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Okay well that was kind of a straw man lol but ok It never occurred to me to worry about this kind of thing but if you are very worried about him being a “you owe me” kind of guy it makes less sense to just erase all chances to prove that he is not and just jump into something with him after going Dutch a lot (no i do not mean you in particular just in general)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 03:27 AM
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This isn’t really logical to me. So you think you might be dating the kind of guy who expects tit for tat and thinks a favor for you means a favor for him...but that’s fine with you as long as you’re in a relationship? And you purposely avoid finding out if he has this trait. It seems to me it would be best to let the guy pay to find out if hes really a bean counter guy who thinks money means you owe him, so you can end that right away and find someone who isn’t a score keeper, which is a terrib…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 10:48 PM
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Yes. This and highly successful confident guys do not feel insecure about a woman’s experience, it doesn’t change his view of himself bc he knows he has deserved high self esteem in his own right.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 08:05 PM
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There are plenty of married couples with a plain wife and hot husband. Lots of men marry plain wives they imagine will have a better temperament than a hot chicks and be less likely to cuck him. It is not at all a stretch for a women to think that could maybe happen to her especially if the guy repeatedly wants to see her. Yes she’s naive if he only wants sex when they hang out but that isn’t because of their looks discrepancy, it’s because of her not realizing what actions she needs to take to …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 06:02 PM
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Most women you’ve slept with and tried to trick
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 09:01 AM
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Ironic that the topic is women literally choosing not to sleep with fuccbois.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 08:50 AM
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Any girl who falls for this is brain dead
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 08:27 AM
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No it was kind of a joke about all the different shades of beige
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 11:53 PM
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Eggshell
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 11:47 PM
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Lol you think men on the street always save women from muggings Men have a way higher chance than women, all women know the reality of the risks we take, men who chip away at that are just trying to push their imperative. Patriarchal men are honest
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 10:36 PM
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I realized one day that I enjoy certain books, movies, and games with male protagonists who have the luxury to do things like wander around at night or just be out in the open and talk to people. It’s a sense of freedom women just don’t have. Edit: except I just reread and lol no our fear isn’t imaginary. Men have a chance against other men duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 06:23 PM
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I do declare I am most flattered but I may not have the time, it is nice to be acknowledge though!! 😺
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 05:08 PM
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May the God of our understanding bless you with many mild winters 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 05:07 PM
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cool
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 12:43 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 01:07 AM
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Was it good?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 12:22 AM
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Why would a girl try to attract males who smell bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 11:09 PM
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I guarantee you have no idea how many of these Naturals you talk about dye their hair
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 11:07 PM
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Obviously call to improvement you don’t need to get down on yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 11:04 PM
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Some people probably need their own blogs, I feel like so many replies hijack my comments to say whatever random thoughts they have about whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 11:03 PM
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Uh huh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 04:30 PM
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I am allergic to all metals except 14+ and higher gold and sterling silver, and things like platinum, but absolutely no steel, brass, nickel, etc. It is 100% a real thing and if I wear any of those cheaper metals I will get a gross crusty oozing infection, which happens with my pierced ears a few times as a kid until I made the switch. A really great way to pass on a loser guy is if he makes some comment that women are “making up metal allergies” in order to “get more expensive jewelry.” I have …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 03:33 PM
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It’s like you didn’t read my comment what are you on about
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 06:17 AM
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It’s like you didn’t read my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 06:17 AM
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Lol “like”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 02:34 AM
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Lol fight to tame? Stop reading pill stuff for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 12:57 AM
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I don’t know why I made the effort, it’s patently insane
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 12:49 AM
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You should be embarrassed to be insulting without even realizing it you know you’d treat him like shit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 12:48 AM
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Lol I observe ACTUAL MEN IN REAL LIFE you think this is made up? This is what all women know. Women treat their betas much better than men treat ugly women. Stop making things personal btw
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 12:02 AM
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Lol make solipsism
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 10:22 PM
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Lol sure buddy no one gets mad about that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 10:07 PM
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Ugh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 09:53 PM
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Some of the time yeah but they’ll choose a 6 who is alone and weak over a 9 who isn’t easy to get alone. Men also rape fat people and old people too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 08:32 PM
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Nah that’s a myth They prefer vulnerable alone women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 08:27 PM
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Most women do not want to be used impersonally for sex, that is what they object to, even if they are casually hooking up it should feel personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 08:18 PM
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By definition is they prefer Stacy they wouldn’t love Becky as much and irl men do not treat average safe women the way they treat hot chicks. That is human nature. I’d respect the men on this sub way more if they just owned the behavior rather than hamstering constantly about why they are without sin.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 08:17 PM
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Lol k. You don’t get women that’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 08:10 PM
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Oh look a man on PPD who doesn’t understand that a woman arguing here is arguing a point, not talking about her experience. None of this argument has to do with me. I’m not “salty” about anything I’m calling out the hypocrisy and the votes indicate a lot of people see it too. But you are not seeing that other guys here are arguing about far more than a fleeting crush or lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 08:08 PM
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Ok now this is just a note and bailey. No one else here is talking about harmless crushes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:56 PM
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Lol ok then you should be fine with a former Stacy tired of the cc
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:52 PM
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You know I’m not talking about myself right? Why can you guys not see the irony No one thought they would marry Bieber
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:52 PM
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It’s really not because you don’t have any say in a baby’s gender. We are talking about adult choices here and you’re being reductive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:41 PM
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Yeah she is being treated poorly because she’s settled for. A duh. Astonishing it’s so easy for you to grasp when the genders are reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:38 PM
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You wouldn’t settle for anyone because those leftovers don’t want you. The concept of a productive member of society makes me ill. You don’t know what my problem is. You obviously don’t understand humanity or human dignity, the problem is you think of women as some resource like coal, and are so solipsistic you don’t see why that’s bad. It’s just sad some guys get so confused like this. Very primitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:37 PM
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That’s fucking stupid and unrelated to the topic at all. If you genuinely think this applies to the choice of spouse then you should be fine with women riding the cc and then choosing billy beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:32 PM
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Are you high? I’m literally just going off what you said? You clearly do not understand human nature. No one is thrilled to be the one you can make do with even though another one inspires stronger passion. It’s pure selfishness that you can’t stomach this for yourself but expect Becky to be flattered. As always men here whine about poor treatment and then hamster why it’s totally different when they do the same shitty behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:30 PM
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That’s so insulting and damning with faint praise. Obviously you are not if you would prefer Stacy and only don’t choose her because you can’t. You expect women to be thrilled at the very setup you buck at.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:26 PM
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So the definition of settling
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:25 PM
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You can keep saying it but no woman wants guys who bitterly dehumanize them. If you think of humans as a natural resource or finite commodity that’s your poor character, repeating it won’t make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:22 PM
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Oh the joys of being settled for. Why should Becky take this as a compliment?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:17 PM
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used up leftovers Found your problem
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:14 PM
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It’s important to know that there aren’t really shy men who want to marry you but are too inhibited to say so. Women assume this because they are projecting their nature. Even a normally high inhibition man still has more initiative than women and will take action to secure her exclusivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 05:34 PM
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Lol yeah you think you are sneaky with calling “people like me” bad character? Yes a lot of people would fall apart mentally because those people are feeble minded and apparently did not get raised properly. Has no one SERIOUSLY ever told you to control yourself and not feel like every impulse has to be acted on? Lol @ female solipsism non sequiter nice straw grasping but there are millions of people male and female who live like this, and if they move past it they realize their fun toys are lux…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 11:52 PM
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😸
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 11:36 PM
1

Honestly there is a real niche for psycho manlets with large gun collections. They’ll do better than incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 11:03 PM
2

Why is wanting the main person who loves you to think you are special terrible? It’s worse to act like they are just totally replaceable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 11:01 PM
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actually a lot of them were my friend and they were nice and a lot more mature than people online I was actually mostly happy. I obviously prefer having more luxuries and so forth, but I know they are not “needs.” But nice ad hominem because you had no other argument. I genuinely feel bad for all of you, none of you must know simple pleasures in life, the freedom the self control and discipline affords, and not being a slave to your desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 10:56 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 10:42 PM
1

Well playing games with your so is a good bonding activity
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 10:41 PM
1

A hobby is not only something you produce. I make and create things all the time but things like reading and video games and running are also my hobbies. That definition is arbitrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 10:39 PM
2

This is fucking stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 10:39 PM
5

The men here define hobbies as things men do, when women do them they hamster myriad reasons why it doesn’t count. The one that took the cake was asking if any women “actually play musical instruments” but that it “doesn’t count if your dad encouraged you to get lessons”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 10:38 PM
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Really? You think I was never without a smartphone, tv, car, social contact? I have gone without al those things. Some for years. There was even a time in my life I did not have internet or a roof or electricity, but even I am saying a roof and electricity is more of a need. I have spent years without a vehicle, not owning a tv or subscribing to any services, being very isolated, almost no support network to speak of, are you people all really this ignorant? Lots of people live like that in Amer…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 10:26 PM
2

I survived without half those things for years. And without sex. What is your point? No one says a roof and electricity aren’t needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 10:19 PM
1

Quite!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 10:07 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 10:04 PM
1

I think he’s really talented and has so much creative energy, huge fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 10:03 PM
3

The classic MGTOW anthem
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 09:52 PM
1

I am certain you are misunderstanding it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 09:51 PM
1

Then everyone else is wrong and spoiled and I am right I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 09:51 PM
1

Do you really believe if the lack of anything in particular makes you feel bad or desire that thing, that feeling is a need? Have you heard of self discipline? The reason this bothers me is I wasn’t allowed to be this spoiled as a child and if I carried that attitude into my adult life no one would let me get away with it. (Appeal to authority is a fallacy and here it’s extra fallacious because you made up things that no one says)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 07:32 PM
2

That is not the most agreed upon definition. Fabricated appeal to authority. No one thinks your entitled “a need is whatever I want that if I can’t have I feel my life isn’t perfect and I deserve to never feel bad ever” view is reasonable. That’s shameful for anyone past age 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 07:15 PM
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Sex is a very important and strong desire yes. I object specifically to the above user who goes way past that and thinks anything that he wants is a need. By defining a need as “you feel bad if you don’t get it right when you want it” he’s calling wants needs and it’s entitled and poor character. For the record I never talk about emotional intimacy or sex or foreplay or chocolate and roses or any of that as a need. Because it isn’t. It’s all strong desires but it’s a privilege to have them. But …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 07:10 PM
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I don’t speak for all women but a lot of women only get to that point within an exclusive relationship. Women’s reactive sexuality, which also often requires trust, can be dormant when they are single until they get hit on, but a lot of women also need trust and commitment before they let themselves fully experience sexual desire, since to act on sexual desire with random people is high risk, so they can kind of ignore those feelings when single and then suddenly be high libido when actually wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 05:18 PM
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Ah yes those infamous “needs” the absence of which “decrease wellbeing.” God forbid your well being not be at capacity at all times. As usual defining wants as needs like an actual toddler.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 05:14 PM
1

Just be around, be charming, listen. That’s it really.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 07:11 AM
2

What is the constructive purpose of these questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 05:25 AM
37

Because of how often men insist on telling us unprompted thats all they want us for?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 05:23 AM
2

Yes, definitely have to be good at witty but safe small talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 08:09 PM
3

I’m allergic to all of it plus it smells terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 08:06 PM
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Yeah nice insult try but I never dated a heavy cologne wearer in my life ew. I’m talking guys on elevators and public places. Your conclusions are stupid. allergies are real. Women hate heavy cologne.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 07:30 PM
12

Social climbers and nouveau riche
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 07:29 PM
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What a stupid hill to die on. First of all you said they don’t exist because you haven’t seen one. Maybe you did and she just didn’t tell you because she knew the world is full of morons who think allergies are fake. Secondly even without allergies it’s a trope almost a meme that mens cologne is often nasty af and way overdone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 06:42 PM
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Educated and able to reference classics. Quality clothes with small or no brand labels and not trendy fashions. Not talking about how much things cost. Well-mannered usually, rudeness is used intentionally and they won’t usually be rude by accident. Awareness of media and culture from places and times besides ones own. Often trained in various skills and sports, tennis, riding, chess, instruments. Those are just some.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 06:41 PM
3

I like pumpkin spice but the syrup at Starbucks tastes like chemicals. I enjoy making my own though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 06:34 PM
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Hurr durr I’ve never seen a woman with allergies so they don’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 06:34 PM
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The Walmart cashier thing is a class tell. A lot of UMC men would choose a woman with no job or real career at all but who grew up UMC over a Walmart cashier. Sometimes no job is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 06:24 PM
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What is this arrested development where your only family is your family of origin?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 05:49 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/didl7n/women_do_you_even_have_any_hobbies_please_read/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 12:49 AM
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You wish
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 12:49 AM
2

Yeah no
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 12:05 AM
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Yes But go tell us why everything people say here “doesn’t count.” You already got a good start.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 11:46 PM
2

Reba told me not to trust my soul to no backwoods Southern lawyer
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 03:41 PM
1

Listen to the lyrics of these songs and note the topic https://www.rollingstone.com/music/music-lists/readers-poll-the-10-greatest-early-beatles-songs-11145/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 03:29 PM
2

How else should she react to your suggestion?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 03:24 PM
1

I’m not going to connect the dots for you. It’s very obvious what the point is from my comments. If you are that ignorant of history though I’m not giving you a lesson.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 03:07 PM
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Face palm
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 06:57 AM
1

They’re the most historically and influentially significant rock band in history
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 05:59 AM
1

The Beatles are just some rando male artists huh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 05:25 AM
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Hopefully less is after reading people’s replies and using google
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 04:46 AM
1

“Some male artists” lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 04:45 AM
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Dude you should be embarrassed to be that ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 03:28 AM
1

LOVE SONGS
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 03:28 AM
1

I didn’t mean age I meant single vs taken behavior. But since you mention it many people do lose interest in casual sex with age for myriad reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 08:27 PM
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Please explain what you mean using your words
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 08:22 PM
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I won’t engage with someone saying something as retarded as your comment since you clearly lack observational skills and logic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 07:28 PM
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Oh look another misinformed dumb comment
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 07:23 PM
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Women aren’t creative as a whole? How can someone argue with such a stupid and ridiculous view.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 06:44 PM
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Love is the most ubiquitous topic of songs. It’s just logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 06:44 PM
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Lol have you heard of the Beatles
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 06:40 PM
2

I already said several times that past SINGLE behavior doesn’t predict relationship behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 05:56 PM
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This is great. Lol all adults are just settling for delicious medium rare filets when they wish they could have the plain buttered pasta and chicken nuggets of their youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 05:27 PM
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I just said I don’t use that gross word no. But yes casual sex in the past, is not a socially aberrant dangerous habit in this day and age and yet drug use is. People can and do quit both though. But if I had to pick honestly casual sex as fast food cheeseburger is much more accurate a metaphor for MEN who more regularly get satisfaction from casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 05:25 PM
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What is? Everyone I’ve dated has had what people online who are afraid of life disgustingly call “baggage” which is what I call having lived life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 05:12 PM
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That’s very ignorant to assume lots of women find casual sex consistently enjoyable for its own sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 05:10 PM
1

Who says I have not?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 05:09 PM
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Cheating = past relationship behavior Addiction = off topic Someone who has occasional hookups when single and never cheated when spoken for = fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 05:00 PM
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New phone who dis
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 06:11 AM
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I drink your milkshake, I eat your cheeseburger
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 04:47 AM
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Yes I already explained I think it is a fallacy and poor analogy, I also do not think single behavior is a good indicator of relationship behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 04:15 AM
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I do not understand why it isn’t helpful, 3 people found it helpful. The comparison of casual sex for women to reliably delicious but unhealthy fast food is a bad analogy and that is what my comment proves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 04:10 AM
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I do not think casual sex for women is like cheeseburgers. McDonald’s cheeseburgers are reliable in that you always know what you’re getting, and you may not have a gourmet cheeseburger but you are guaranteed a McDonald’s cheeseburger and that is good in its own way. They are much more reliable in terms of satisfaction than casual sex is for women, since many women do not actually get satisfaction out of casual sex. If FDS is any indication, more women than many suspected were just doing casual …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 03:40 AM
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I actually agree with you I just think everyone needs to understand what lifting actually is and how it’s kind of orthogonal to the whole getting chicks thing but is not a magic bullet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 02:46 AM
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As long as you don’t do all kinds of weird drugs and use proper form there isn’t anything bad that can come from lifting, it’s just incorrect when people put religious faith in it, as trp is for not ugly or socially retarded but just average frustrated guys, then it is overall good advice for quality of life improvement and for channeling frustration.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 02:07 AM
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women assume No i never assumed but then many guys on here said you HAVE to have steroids to even BE in the SMP at all with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 01:50 AM
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Go lift was one of the things I always understood about TRP. Challenging physical exercise is really good for mental health and self confidence and has the side effect of improving one’s physical healthy and physique. Obviously it is great advice for awkward losers who have social problems. I just don’t agree with the roided up TRPs saying you have to do steroids to even have a chance with a girl or the delusion that beefy muscles can fix an unattractive face or lack of charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 01:48 AM
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So you think women have a hard time sleeping with the men they truly love romantically and prefer sex with men they don’t care about?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 07:09 PM
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How can anyone have a debate in the midst of parroting circle jerks? That’s why we have those rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 05:25 PM
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Eastuss you think you can read souls based on people’s resting faces. You don’t have any ground here. stop trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 04:26 PM
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That’s stupid AF literally retarded stop trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 04:09 PM
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Really you have magic x ray character reading powers that act in a fraction of a second. Why aren’t you working for the government
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 03:58 PM
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I don’t have any expectations why would you think women prefer the reality of pump and dump and men gatekeeping commitment. I’m saying y’all crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 02:06 AM
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What is love?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 01:53 AM
-1

I woke up in bizarro world
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 01:52 AM
-1

Hmmm men bad? No? Just a fact that men do not listen to women and may want a divorce himself but finds it easier to just totally check out. Women find it easier to divorce once they’re done not being heard. Neither way is better. You just projected a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 10:45 PM
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Women initiate divorces after years of begging men to work on the marriage and being ignored. How old are you? I guess up is down now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 10:36 PM
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She could WITH the temperament that enjoys office politics and strategy Lots of hot women never had to learn those skills and they don’t enjoy that process. Without those skills they are fresh meat basically for being ostracized and bad work environment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 07:46 PM
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Your mistake is assuming that being very good looking for women is always a direct path to success. Women are much more easily able to directly benefit from their good looks in jobs that emphasize and require looks. Working some regular job and being hot is never that simple no matter what fairy tales incels make up. They’d have to deal with jealousy and sabotage from jealous female coworkers or jealous men who can’t have them. They’d have to deal with the assumption pretty people are dumb. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 06:55 PM
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What Why is everything backwards My entire life everyone knew that generally women are at more risk of getting attached to a man bc of hormones and bio reasons and that men could have meaningless sex What is going on
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 06:44 PM
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Men have all these subcultures devoted to tricking women that they are high value and the SMP is such that women who want to wait for a good guy can be laughed at and shamed. Why is it a surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 05:51 PM
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Demi sexuality is a made up word for average female sexuality. The reason guys don’t care is because in this SMP women will have sex casually with men they don’t burn with lust for for various reasons. Or they do list but men don’t understand how that guy created desire by his attitudes. That doesn’t change the reality most women have to at least have a spark and a common connection even if that connection is forged in an evening. But again assuming every random hookup is based on her having som…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 05:45 PM
1

People get frustrated more at bullshit jobs/meaningless work and at bosses breathing down their necks. Not everyone has the capacity for self employment or more would try it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 08:52 PM
1

Ugly in English usually refers to Face. What you meant to say was you don’t like her tattoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 05:50 PM
1

No just eating and body disorder and mentally ill woman
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 05:26 PM
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hard work You don’t understand why humans don’t always like doing difficult drudgery things?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 06:57 AM
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I guess it’s Opposite Day because I’m going to ask if you have a peer reviewed source for your claim...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 06:55 AM
2

I’m pretty sure the only time I’ve ever used this phrase was in my own head to myself when I was procrastinating something I needed to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 09:45 PM
2

The question was not do women age it was what do you think about the term “used goods.” Most people did not answer this correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 09:11 PM
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You were supposed to decide to marry him before you ever met and psychically know that the men you had actually met and who asked you out were nothing compared to the guy you met in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 09:10 PM
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I object to women or men being called goods or any other kind of inanimate object. Or a finite commodity and being “used up.” I also think using baggage as an insult is stupid, and so is using insecure as an insult. Wishing for some baggage free clamshell safety seal package spouse or partner is a luxury for extremely sheltered people; though it’s also tragic. As someone who grew up with some difficult tumultuous experience nearly ALL of my closest friendships and relationships involved helping …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 09:05 PM
1

I just cooked pork chops in butter that I mixed with lots of fresh chopped garlic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 01:47 AM
1

It was just garlic butter I made.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 01:18 AM
1

TFW I’m the skank
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 09:51 PM
2

carefully wade in first Men’s response to this: a high value guy won’t wait for you!! Acting suspicious of men on the street is sexist!! Reeeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 09:34 PM
1

I’m pretty sure I got us high off garlic before.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 09:33 PM
1

Well they do have stronger or more heavy handed spices at Chipotle than taco bell Or maybe you got the e coli
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 07:19 PM
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I am on the other hand not at all surprised at the existence of snobbery. I have really particular tastes in baking and cooking which I was raised with and raised to do well, doesn’t mean I cant enjoy an occasional bean burrito. Even people who teach classical literature occasional read a silly YA book. You should try being less uptight.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 12:57 AM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 12:37 AM
1

Am I the only one who enjoys Taco Bell fine without getting sick?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 12:19 AM
1

Every effect has a cause. A creator. Something that made reality exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 04:41 PM
1

Again if there really is only one God who can save you and worshipping idols puts your soul at risk then all that makes perfect sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 04:33 PM
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Because people want to fight I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 03:46 AM
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How can you not see how absurd it is to believe that a reality exists with no cause lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 03:38 AM
2

”surprise motherfuckers” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 03:38 AM
1

Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 03:35 AM
1

You’re looking for the topic of free will.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 03:33 AM
2

the whole pathology of narcissism is that a human has a DELUSION that they are all powerful and grandiose and god like and perfect. God cannot be a narcissist because God actually is omnipotent and all those other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 03:30 AM
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IDK it’s mostly on trp bc irl guys don’t openly discuss vetting. But I’m sure it’s less common than on trp.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 06:01 PM
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Reading PPD when tired isn’t recommended. Misread this as needs more than one vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 06:44 AM
2

I think that was me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 06:37 AM
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What I’m saying is men have a much lower threshold for when they consider women to be a show off or contrarian than they do for men. But how would she make you laugh? Guys usually make women laugh by telling us jokes or acting silly. That doesn’t usually work in reverse though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 06:33 AM
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Do you know of anyone who can annoy you into loving them more? (Besides kittens)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 06:22 AM
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But a truly really cerebral book smart woman usually gets labeled a smartass by men for simply taking part in conversations and taking opposing stances. Which a genuine intellectual who likes spirited discussion tends to do. And sense of humor when men say it means she gets my humor not she’s telling thigh slappers trying to be a stand up comedienne.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 06:04 AM
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What they actually vet for: Looks MPDG - guys say they never want this but this is really the main way in which guys are interested in a girl’s mind. When I was a smart kid in school guys just saw me as competition and as someone to study with. When I was an MPDG around 19-21 and no one knew anything about my grades, guys would say I had an “interesting beautiful mind.” “Smart” and “funny” = smart enough to understand his pontification, enough sense of humor to laugh at his jokes. With Christian…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 01:29 AM
4

You realize this is a foreigner who likely doesn’t have the same marriage freedoms you think she does right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 11:37 PM
1

Cosmetics industry doesn’t make up chemistry Alpha Hydroxy Acid exists and acts as an acid whether a lotion advertises it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 10:39 PM
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Skincare products use chemistry and SCIENCE if you understand the ingredients you can get ones that are effective without worrying about hype and advertising.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 10:38 PM
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Enjoy your wrinkles
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 10:37 PM
1

Vigilant Citizen is your number one source for all SB Illuminati analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 10:37 PM
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Although oddly there are a ton of usernames with squid in them but I don’t think they’re the same person. Maybe Reddit suggester bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 10:36 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 09:53 PM
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Yes I did that all the time with being overtly religious it’s super effective. I also on a micro level had to say things that would shock the particular type of religious person I do not want and attract the ones I do. Worked fast and effectively. I am in favor of this type of discerning, much more than wasting your and someone else’s time pleasing someone you don’t even like. People really be afraid of alienating someone with their own self and views even though being fake and appealing to the …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 10:15 PM
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No it hasn’t it was created to make a space for men to be more comfortable buying lingerie for their wives and it currently regularly missizes people to fit into their limited range. And most of the bras are to look sexy rather than support. They got on the bralette train because of the market. But they are falling behind other brands now in the sense that the other brands are really marketing the appeal to women not men thing so VS stands out even more now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 09:21 PM
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👌
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 09:15 PM
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Also “sell me on women and marriage” has been done, many many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 09:07 PM
1

Ok that could be good too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 04:42 AM
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I am the same way I get stuck on things I like and just rewatch them and something has to be really good for me to be open to it so I am interested as well. What have you already watched on Netflix tho
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 03:32 AM
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Remember when the incels got obsessed with reporting Thots to the irs? I thought that was so odd, like I guess because they think women don’t have thoughts they would assume they were all too retarded to pay taxes or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 03:15 AM
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No I think it would be him playing regular rob schnieder and bizarre version of himself maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 03:09 AM
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This is not a language barrier. Thinking your desires and wants are needs is just being spoiled.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 03:35 AM
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No wonder you are all so miserable I am glad I was raised to know the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 03:10 AM
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Nocturnal emissions could just as easily show that there is NO need for sex because the male body will naturally relieve itself. I am not saying that but I am pointing out that the evidence doesn’t inherently prove anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 02:35 AM
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the moment a desire becomes a burden it becomes a need This is like not being spoiled 101 A want is called a want because it feels like a need but it isn’t. If it didn’t feel like a need it would just be nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 02:33 AM
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I dont watch reality tv, care about celebs, or have an insta. I have lived in America for most of my life but also lived in other countries and it was far easier with fresher food and more natural built in walking in my day to stay fit without any conscious thought or extra effort on my part, yes there is no excuse but most people don’t care about that, my point is surely you can see that there is a difference between staying fit just by merely existing, going to work and the shops, and living y…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 12:31 AM
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So yes as I said the culture. As well as needing to walk miles to get places and other factors. No one thinks people are coming to save us it’s just ridiculous to pretend circumstances don’t exist. Like it’s way easier to be Christian here and not in parts of the Middle East. It’s really frustrating to talk to people going through a motivational phase who think literally stating any realities means you’re a victim or something. It’s a fact that living in many parts of America you won’t naturally…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 07:10 PM
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Saying facts isn’t blame. It’s a fact that living typically in Paris will make people stay slim much more easily than in an American small town with no sidewalks. In the latter you have to actively go against culture and make way more effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 06:35 PM
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Why would their affair partners? Those guys sleep with married women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 06:22 PM
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Think about it, they are less of an investment or commitment than buying new furniture, they are soft and comfy, you can get any pattern or color you like, and the more you have the less likely you’ll have to get off the couch when you need one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 06:18 PM
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Life Petting cute puppies and kittens
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 06:12 PM
3

Starting Rob Schneider And Rob Schneider
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 05:57 PM
1

I loved OOT as a kid. I might end up taking up games again just to play more Zelda.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 05:48 PM
1

And cheese is so good, so unfair. Do you ever just take one of those pills?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 05:45 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 11:47 PM
2

Wel that sucks and won’t trigger my hypochondria
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 11:21 PM
1

Do you have a summary?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 10:36 PM
1

Always been interested in the relationships of the sexes and in anthropology. Combine with boredom and some free time and arguing can be fun. There’s also more freedom of speech here than other fora. Actually that reminds me I only started paying attention to this sub when it was a Purge and there were automod announcements everywhere and I thought that was funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 08:19 PM
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The human body is more finicky than a low libido wife on sex night “Oh I have to have the exact right balance of water and salt and frankly if you go too much or too little in either direction we’re shutting this whole thing down” like geez fine ok I’ll have some Gatorade.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 08:02 PM
1

Yeah it is and they would and grunt work is part of the support.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 03:16 PM
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Well the thing is I never bring this up except in response to men saying women have never done anything for humanity and it is in that context that they dismiss it. And frankly if I said that ordinary, non famous non genius non scientist inventor men had done nothing for the world, they’d be perfectly entitled to say that they loved and supported families and that is worth a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 01:42 PM
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That means I’m almost down to y’all’s level
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 11:53 AM
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No one hurt me but the dumbness of arguments on this sub did hurt my intelligence and made me dumber.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 11:50 AM
1

I think it just happened yesterday in the news
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 11:43 AM
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K so when women forgo giving birth it’s shirking the responsibility of keeping humanity alive but when women ever mention this ever we are “just bragging about a worthless biological function.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 11:39 AM
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It’s so evil when judges just ask children to choose one parent like that idk what is wrong with the system that some moron thought that was a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 11:31 AM
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It’s almost as though playing the field is a metaphor in which all the players, you and the “other team” aka women are all humans, whereas spinning plates refers to a circus trick done on inanimate objects. It’s surely a mystery why people bristle more at being compared to a plate rather than a player.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 11:16 AM
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My Grandma would be disgusted by you and nobody asked you. You are the only one who suggested anything about YOU having sex with an 80 year old lol. Why’s it on your mind. Nursing homes are full of stds Old people date each other Get over it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 12:16 AM
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I know that you think this because your mind is like “oh I don’t find 80 year olds hot therefore they don’t date” but there are actually quite a lot of them who do so because of course sadly there are a lot of widows and widowers, and at a certain age they KNOW they are old and no one is in any position to judge the other one for being wrinkly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 11:15 PM
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They disprove your sweeping statement My comments are also for normal people who understand the purpose of anecdotes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 10:24 PM
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In my extended family yes, but my family are generally people who enjoy life every single day and do not give up on it because they cannot date 20 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 10:14 PM
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I have, occasionally the girls who developed early and became popular because they looked more womanly or manly when the others still looked like awkward children. And they kind of peaked socially in high school and physically a little earlier than others. It isn’t the norm though but a lot of times the kings of the school end up just being people who peaked early.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 10:05 PM
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You’re incorrect, I know 90+ year olds still going on dates and having suitors, (though I have avoided specifically thinking about their sexual options)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 10:04 PM
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The bubbliness and openness men talk about with young women is the same naïveté and dumbness that gets them manipulated easily, men don’t want to admit this is attractive to them because it makes getting laid easier and pumping and dumping easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 09:56 PM
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There are a few people who peak in high school but I consider those to be the anomalies, and they usually hit the wall sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 09:36 PM
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Oh good more stats
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:18 PM
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I agree it is funny that, generally speaking men here do not approve much of women being slutty during their hot years, but whenever someone does that “if you were the other gender” thought experiment quite a number of the men say they would basically become prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 01:56 AM
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It really seemed like to the OP but if not, well, girls in all girls spaces and anorexics definitely think they are fat when they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 01:50 AM
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My point is the assumption that anyone asking the question is doing it because she’s questioning her personal weight. And not asking an abstract question on a debate sub for that purpose. Perhaps OP is but the title alone doesn’t indicate it. It’s just curious how often men on this sub say things like “if you have to ask it’s bad” when women ask a q. For example I’ve asked men here to define what they mean by a “pleasant woman” because I would like to understand their POV more for the purposes o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 09:31 PM
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Oh look it’s this PPD trope that people can’t have detached discussions about ideas and literally everything must be a personal concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 07:12 PM
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Are you talking about yourself or are they telling you this about other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 03:56 AM
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They say they are in love with men in whom they have no interest sexually?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 03:54 AM
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My actual real life experiences have taught me that people can overcome their biology with great will. Going online and reading people say it’s impossible I notice that what they “can’t help” always conveniently overlaps with something they already want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 03:47 AM
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Stereotypes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 03:02 AM
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Well it isn’t for starters
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 02:56 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 11:01 PM
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Yeah she should at least look outside of particular parishes and def not listen to the crazies
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 10:50 PM
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*most men Well that’s why you still vet But still it’s like would a guy rather be with a woman who eats junk and never works out because she doesn’t believe in exercise and thinks staying slim is misogyny? Or a woman who likes dessert and sometimes gets lazy about working out but knows that’s not good and constantly tries to do better even if it’s just once a week? And always intends to improve and makes small steps? It’s a world of difference just like to women a guy who watches porn but feels …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 10:27 PM
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The views expressed here are more insane
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 09:55 PM
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Ok but when you say what they want aligns with what she wants, that means among other things sharing a religion. And if he’s truly Christian he’ll want to cut back on or abstain from those things, not a primitive body feel good want but a higher belief discipline want. And that’s how they share values. Just like Christian men will want a woman who doesn’t believe in divorce. It doesn’t mean such women never divorce or think about it but that they do think it’s wrong to do frivolously so they’ll …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 09:54 PM
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Oh ok so women now have the male imperative
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 09:45 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 08:07 PM
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Yeah totally uh huh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 06:08 PM
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I said feelings not “female nature” but ok I was talking about private groups without an audience. Women’s spaces online get reacted to crazily by men too. Those magazines say stuff like 100 sex things to get him to love you and reasons you’re too fat and if you don’t do this one thing he’ll never stay. You didn’t actually read them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 06:07 PM
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Quite clearly women who say this mean that they want a guy who is still significantly taller than they are even in heels. The entire point is that she doesn’t want it be equal to or greater than him in height with regular heels on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 06:26 AM
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It doesn’t do so for women either, we don’t have to stop being thin and hot and agreeable to be attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 05:45 AM
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I looked at the photos and she looks like a lesbian or trans so that probably explains a lot of it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 05:33 AM
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What you are talking about is men going from passive to aggressive, when assertive is what is preferred and more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 04:49 AM
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Yeah lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 03:48 AM
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Yes we live in a society in which an individual man begging a strange woman for help is often up to no good and dangerous and women avoid out of common prudence. This is because men are dangerous not because women are mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 03:47 AM
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If men want to talk about their feelings in groups why don’t they? Do you understand that when women commiserate about their feels it’s only among their own sex and the occasional gay man?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 03:44 AM
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Funny I think the topic has become “no matter what I say red alpha king will get angeryyyyy”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 02:33 AM
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I don’t even think it’s a bad trait in moderation
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 01:52 AM
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Well you’re saying that I should remind my son of spooky statistics like an annoying nagging sky is falling histrionic. Which is anathema to everything I believe because frankly even if the odds were 75% I’d teach my son not to be a defeatist loser and to decide he would be part of the 25% No I don’t believe tons of casual sex would make my son happy in the long run. I don’t think cocaine makes people happy in the long run even though it makes them feel good. I would want my son to be confident …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 01:50 AM
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I don’t care I just commented that men more than women are happy to sit around doing nothing and men told me I was being a meany woman and I explained I am just quoting their own admissions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 01:41 AM
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I’m a catholic woman why would I teach my son to fuck bitches No, it won’t teach them to be incels it would teach them to be husbands which for most men is their best chance of regular sex compared to their odds of picking up new women every weekend. So basically moms should teach trp? And throw around weird doom stats at their sons? That’s not logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 01:38 AM
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Women would you marry a doctor? Yes? Well what if he was a weird criminal psycho?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 01:37 AM
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I’m allergic to most cats but I can have Siberian cats. Which I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 01:11 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/starterpacks/comments/etwun5/weekend_isolation_starterpack/ Like I have said men brag about sitting around doing nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 01:10 AM
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Ew I wouldn’t say stuff like that to my kids that’s annoying and weird. I’d teach them fitness and diet and regular checkups like a normal person. Historically it’s been a bigger deal for a woman to be a spinster than a man to be a bachelor. Are you saying that you’re in favor of the kind of strong pressure and shaming women experience about behavior for attracting a husband? The problem is if moms give sons advice on how to find a mate they will be giving him how to be a good husband advice and…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 01:03 AM
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You don’t understand how that paragraph relates? What don’t you get? Statistics are for people to read on the news they are not how family shows love.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 12:50 AM
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Yeah so the best way to help my son would be to encourage him to have confidence and be fit and be a successful person. Not throw him some statistics to imply I think he’s a loser. I believe that there are men are surprised to learn they won’t be granted a wife unit by default but I don’t believe that’s society’s fault. It just seems like entitlement and self absorption. Women take for granted from girlhood that they’ll have to physically and emotionally bend into a pretzel every single day to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 12:38 AM
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Everyone knows this. Everyone with eyes knows there is no guarantee you’ll find a mate. Why do you think women obsess over this and have books about it and freak out to their girlfriends and moms about it. It would just be abusive frankly to constantly emphasize to your kid that they could die alone. If they aren’t an idiot they’ll figure it out but if they’re a kid they’ll take it as their parent just personally not having any faith in them and thinking they aren’t lovable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 12:29 AM
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None of that happened. Why can’t you accept the fact that mostly women spearheaded the breast cancer awareness movement and they did so because it was personal to them and they didn’t feel society itself was concerned? They did not pass the buck like you are. Why does it bother you when we say men are equal to women and can do the same? Congrats you singlehandedly are about to get me to seriously use the term emotional labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 12:01 AM
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If women did this men would change their chant from “we were told we would be loved and it was a lie” to “we were discouraged and told we would never find love and it ruined our chances”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 11:57 PM
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Who thinks this garbage
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 11:54 PM
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I actually don’t experience any of that in my mind but I do experience bafflement why you can’t comprehend the point we are making even if you do not agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 11:53 PM
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Ok just telling someone they know something is true isn’t really good evangelism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 11:47 PM
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Society / women Why do you act like these are interchangeable
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 11:09 PM
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Men don’t care as much about boob and vagina and uterus problems divorced from individual women they love. I mean they half the time don’t believe any ailment you experience if you’re female. Ok so first you crap on me for not caring enough and then when I say I do care and take it seriously you dismiss it as only because it was close to me. So you just want to be rude. I do deny it because using what aboutism and not actually taking action is basically whining. That’s not anyone being anti men’…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 10:36 PM
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What are you on about I love to cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 09:29 PM
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My life has been affected by both prostate cancer and breast cancer. I care. You’re being deliberately obtuse about the point everyone is making in order to grind your axe. You have the power to fight for awareness. Women don’t expect men to care about our issues that’s exactly why they start to advocate for them. Because they can’t count on men caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 09:20 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 07:37 PM
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Her description is the most accurate one here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 06:44 PM
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Not even remotely what I said. I think women have advocated for research because they felt it mattered more to them than it did to men. If you feel that way about prostate cancer then you may also really support. I bet a lot of women would follow as well as men. Are you implying that unless I personally become an activist for prostate cancer right now that I don’t care?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 05:17 PM
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Yeah and who do you think pushed for pink cleets. You think the football players came up with that? Who is promoting it enough that it becomes good publicity to do that? Women. If men want to devote a lot of time to prostate awareness they can, I would fully support that even though every single male I know already knows to watch for such issues. If you want to devote your life to advocacy for more research you can. That would be great.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 06:36 AM
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Being a genuine night owl is kind of like going through life with a minor disability that everyone can tell you you’re a piece of garbage for having it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 05:44 AM
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You know all the breast cancer awareness stuff is promoted by mainly women, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 05:41 AM
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I think it is too and also just ignorance. I mean not that they need to know or anything, but it really is just ignorance. It’s just a fact though. Caked on makeup done “no makeup” style will be invisible to them, but if you wear literally zero makeup except for Ruby Woo then it’s like “oh wow she’s wearing heavy makeup.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 12:48 AM
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Yeah I agree but there are degrees of violence for men, no? like hormone and temperament nuances. Plus like always I prefer to know my weaknesses and try to do my best to counterbalance them and I want to be with someone like that, I don’t need a man who never has any weaknesses or pretends, just one who at least believes in trying to have self discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 12:45 AM
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Well I like no makeup makeup. Without it I would have probably not gotten that into makeup because I don’t want a bold look every day, and I was frankly intimidated and put off by the bold looks on /r/Makeupaddiction In fact the popularity of cut crease and other very sharp angular precise looks were imo not feminine and directly trending from the Drag Queen community. Like I maybe am just jealous because I do not have that steady of a hand and my makeup looks more soft but I just thought it was…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 12:41 AM
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Well yeah I don’t like secret creeps either, they scare me too, just am more scared of guys who are flippant about sharing this than a guy who admits it but still thinks it’s a thing to work on and is self aware. Which after talking to the OP about it more I think he’s not as flippant as I first thought. I am also a really private person and I find it rude to even over share way less controversial stuff so this is party my own temperament.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 12:19 AM
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For yours or his?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 11:56 PM
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Ok I want to be clear I’m not judging you and I think it’s good you got help. I just think compared to my own level of self repression it appears more flippant. I am intensely private.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 11:24 PM
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It’s not the emotions it’s the way men are so comfortable flippantly sharing their violent urges that is unnerving. And then think “but I bounced the baby” just compensated for it. Like I’m not even judging I just get very wary about guys who share this stuff like it’s nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 10:40 PM
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Idk like some guys on here follow their boners and get confused and think that’s love and friendship. Like one guy had an existential crisis about how he didn’t feel like society allowed him to tell the drive through girl “you’re too cute to be working here” and he was saying how that would have made her day lolol but societal self repression made him clam up He had a wife at home and there was no comment about refraining from horrible cheesy lines to strange women because he’s married and it is…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 10:00 PM
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They’re obsessed with passing on their genetics because they don’t have the security we do with knowing a baby we have is really our baby. I mean it’s also a lot of men are into themselves and want a clone but it’s also largely since they have to depend so much on the women to go along with it so it’s a bigger deal to them as it’s less secure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 09:48 PM
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Well actually he’s the best man she ever had, so.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 09:28 PM
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For a married guy you have a lot of feelings about not being able to hang out with a woman who isn’t your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 09:17 PM
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Uh you know even women who are regular as clockwork, which isn’t most, still can predict the exact time of day, right? And that it isn’t a good idea to just wear a tampon before it starts? I feel like you’re not open to understanding this so whatever. Cool yeah we get it you’d be a better woman than everyone woman who exists. Go be trans then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 09:11 PM
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Yeah lol I’ll believe men who say periods and birth are nbd bc “men don’t glorify their bodily functions” as soon as men stop acting like their farts are the funniest things on the planet and their balls are the most delicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 09:09 PM
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Oh I see. Ok. Well if you feel like they’re acting that way because you remember for them I can see why that’s annoying. I doubt it was personal though. It’s still nice that you helped. Think of it like if you did an hour long workout and have 15 more reps to go and you’re super exhausted and forgot if you’re on 9 or 10. It’s just easier to be inaccurate when you’re more struggling physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 08:53 PM
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I’d wager they were more just surprised a man was paying attention to it at all. Maybe it was just a polite thing they probably knew it was close but were surprise you got it right. It’s really weird you keep eye rolling about it it like why use this as a way to insult women it’s just rude. Like I said it’s traumatic for a lot of us and we would rather forget it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 08:18 PM
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I think it can work just in terms of giving a guy permission to act confident and to keep trying with girls even when the first on rejects you. A lot of these guys identified fully as passive and anxious. So it’s not as easy to all on their own act with more confidence but it is easier when you have a group online to check in with and tell you it’s not embarrassing to get rejected and how to come off as more confident. Of course sometimes they help guys get over rejection by blaming women for ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 07:39 PM
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I think it depends who’s saying the phrase and the context. They could mean your literal example of a specific rejection. But people also say incels act entitled to sex because of the things they write online which all start with the premise that not having sex is causing them to be psycho.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 07:09 PM
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Oh no I think it’s nice that you pay attention and help out I just don’t see why it needs to to be used to insult someone. No sane woman wants to think about it when it’s not happening. I know women who joke about the surprise but they’re kind of kidding. They don’t mean literally that they forgot they mean it is so lame that they go into denial the rest of the month a little. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 07:04 PM
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Ppl have them young too now largely because of not having a solid understanding of being a human person with dignity regardless of skills personality or success or how interesting you are or your hobbies or whatever frippery people now use to define who they are ontologically
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 08:09 AM
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