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| 0 | Are Men Incentivizing Low Birth Rates?lol these guys keep stamping their feet about the biological need for sex (it's not) but screech when we point out our biological need for food and shelter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 09:31 PM |
| 135 | RED FLAGS: Signs a Man Should Be Cut OffGlaring : you tell a story (dumb of me, I know) where you say a guy disrespected you, and he sounds thoughtful, but then dismisses that it was disrespectful, and defends and excuses the man in the story that he's never even met. Ooh another one : he was "punishing it forwards". Whatever he hated about his ex, he'd take it out on me. She cooked with a ton of pots and pans and he hated washing dishes. So he never lifted a finger to wash my 1 pan and 2 plates. All the women who made 1 comment 1 tim… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 05:36 AM |
| 58 | PICKME's and women who beg men to exist in their life, take notes. THEY WILL TREAT YOU LIKE THIS WHEN YOU FAIL TO WORTHIP THEM. THIS IS YOUR FUTURE. DAILY REMINDER TO STOP ALL PICKME BEHAVIORS, MAKE THESE MEN WORK FOR IT, AND TAKE ZERO FUCKING BULLSHIT FROM THESE MEN. ZERO FUCKING BULLSHIT!!!!When you read what these nutjobs consider "disrespectful and a bitch" I always lol. It's like.. she didn't want to take it up the ass with no lube... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 05:08 AM |
| 61 | Men with bad diets are automatically LVA dad bod fat gut is just a warning that he's at risk of heart disease https://www.usatoday.com/story/life/allthemoms/2018/07/20/how-your-waist-size-affects-your-health/783178002/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 02:10 AM |
| 17 | Are there any HVM?Yay someone else in Queensland :D The amount of tradies, FIFO, "fishing camping boating 4WD" and general unwashed scraggly beards in my tinder stack is so sad. The rare decent looking male is "separated" not divorced and still dealing with ex-wife drama or crying about losing all his precious assets, because that's literally the worst thing that can happen to men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 12:25 AM |
| 20 | Men overestimate how hot, smart, sexy, tall they are, Lie about other things. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM THESE LYING ASS MEN!My brother was looking hella chubby in his last facadebook update. I asked him how much he weighed. I looked it up on a BMI calc and told him he was obese. He said "I'm not that fat" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Watch what they do, not what they say? He's not that into me. How do I move on?For now there's the sidebar https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/wiki/recommended_reading | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Watch what they do, not what they say? He's not that into me. How do I move on?How much time you got | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 01:26 PM |
| 26 | OLD profile of the week: pickmeishas - just because they will marry you, doesn’t mean they are a catch 👌🏻Thanks I caught an STD just by looking at him :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 01:24 PM |
| 60 | ROFLMAO SCIENCE CONFIRMS WHAT WE ALREADY ALL KNOW: Research paper says "Men rate themselves as more attractive than they really are"Well the 'average' body is overweight so.. yup :P | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 01:21 PM |
| 5 | Dating Report - W/E 1st Dec, 2019Send Richard up to Brisbane Just kidding I'm not suggesting human trafficking haha ;) .. unless? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 07:55 AM |
| 1 | When is it an appropriate time to tell a guy that you're also seeing another guy?All this info is in the sidebar https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/wiki/recommended_reading | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 03:08 AM |
| 24 | OLD profile red flags #1: "No Drama""I will interpret any emotion from you other than "cheerful" as "drama" because I have the emotional depth of a puddle". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 02:58 AM |
| 234 | r/AITA: Her Brother got a woman pregnant, then blocked her and refused to help pay for the abortion. His sister KICKED HIS DEADBEAT ASS THE FUCK OUT OF HER HOUSE for the audacity. Imagine if all women held their male relatives this accountable?🙌👑Imagine if men held each other accountable. lmfao never happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 02:55 AM |
| 10 | Post wall men be like....It's a massive cope spread by the manosphere to keep incels stagnant so they have a ready pool of ... angry men. Kinda like promising suicide bombers they'll have 72 virgins. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 02:21 AM |
| 19 | RPW is for mentally ill peopleIf only they knew what "emotions" besides horny and angry there are, they could almost write a believable story. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Men who double downWhile he was studying the blade, I was.. oh I dunno, working out exactly how I orgasm and learning that my g-spot does nothing. But no, go ahead, give your magic dick a try mate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 04:41 PM |
| 51 | On Dick size and whether it "matters" or not.....to women.Need that goldicocks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 04:38 PM |
| 16 | Patrice O’Neal, patron saint and martyr of the manosphere, went to jail for rape.Patron saint is a rapist..... and supreme gentleman leader is a murderer .... hmmmmmmm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 02:34 PM |
| 3 | "Even if we all became 8's, women would want 9's" Are you kidding me? Men aren't even 5's is the problem.Improvement and growth are part of maturity. Stagnation and complacency is for wussies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 02:03 PM |
| 6 | Cleveland Steamer Friday. One Night Only.There was no pressure from males. This is the worst-best choice I made.. for reasons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 01:20 PM |
| 10 | Cleveland Steamer Friday. One Night Only.We get a special kind of crazy comments :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 01:07 PM |
| 42 | Is LVM and video game overuse mutually exclusiveProbably why "being a well-rounded, productive member of society" seems like such an impossible ask. 8 hours of porn, 8 hours of gaming, 8 hours saying "ok boomer" on reddit, no time for anything meaningful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 01:00 PM |
| 4 | "Even if we all became 8's, women would want 9's" Are you kidding me? Men aren't even 5's is the problem.The deleted men https://i.imgur.com/9WNHiuA.jpg The HVM list is sticked at the moment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 12:57 PM |
| 39 | Is LVM and video game overuse mutually exclusivelol gaming isn't a hobby, it's fake dopamine, a waste of time and escapism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 12:22 PM |
| 14 | Cleveland Steamer Friday. One Night Only.Is today Friday? pls. stop being idiots. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 11:33 AM |
| 26 | Cleveland Steamer Friday. One Night Only.You haven't seen the utter filth we delete. Thanks for your unwanted advice tho! You wasted your 1 comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 11:03 AM |
| 18 | "Even if we all became 8's, women would want 9's" Are you kidding me? Men aren't even 5's is the problem.I think some men are such garbage and have zero decent male role models near them, that they think this list is impossible. And rather than try, they extrapolate to absurdity, and then cry about *that* o.O We're not asking for lasers, or "perfection", this list is quite a normal person. I feel so bad if they think it's unattainable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 08:13 AM |
| 11 | "Even if we all became 8's, women would want 9's" Are you kidding me? Men aren't even 5's is the problem.Boom I feel bad for the last guy, telling on himself like that. "Me and all my friends are trash" Oh a new one! "Bruh that list is longer than all my cvs receipts combined and I've been there a lot" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 08:00 AM |
| 8 | What does it mean if a guy has red AND green flags?He's an abuser. Run. Read "Why Does He Do That". PM me for a free pdf link. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 07:16 AM |
| 35 | FDS Break thruA dude fucked a pile of leaves the other day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 06:32 AM |
| 37 | "Even if we all became 8's, women would want 9's" Are you kidding me? Men aren't even 5's is the problem.The best comments in the HVM List :D Women : this seems reasonable, myself and all the women I know are like this. There are some things I could improve, sure. Deleted men : omg this list is insane ur asking for perfect jeez why dont you ask for lazers shooting out of his eyes what do you bring to the table ur standards are too high no-one is like this crywank waaah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 03:39 AM |
| 22 | Genius comes up with brilliant strategy to reduce rapes by making it legal.Let's solve all crimes by making them all legal! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Dear ModsPersonally I've only flaired Pickme for comments quite clearly displaying pride at catering to men, or encouraging others to forgive, excuse, and accept bs. If someone's made it clear they've read none of the sidebar, the rules, ideology and recommended reading, and ask a silly question regarding the best way to continue their pickme dance. I'm the biggest pickme of all, and I need to knock that shit off too. I'm well aware it's complex-ptsd, codependence and fawning. And cultural, societal, med… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 12:55 PM |
| 18 | It's not "failure" if you manage to escape.I like all the aspects of it.. All the people who believe they can't leave until they've "tried everything" and they're "not a quitter".. that mindset just keeps you stuck trying to solve something that can't be fixed. "They take their vows seriously", well, he vowed to love and cherish you, he broke the vows first. "They cant break up their family", you absolutely can when abuse is involved. The shame of admitting you 'failed', when really, it takes massive bravery to leave. The thought that yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on a dateYou have a date with Shia LeBeouf? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 09:17 AM |
| 28 | Really new to FDS and need your adviceor if I should keep trying to open him up? 😂 Yep, keep pondering, solving, puzzling, thinking about him and forever spinning your wheels. Date other men, and when this clown wants to stop fucking around, he can come at you correct. Consistent. Direct. Unambiguous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 09:11 AM |
| 26 | Lurkers, here is the secret amoral and toxic strategyThe bit where they BELIEVE a bunch of incels have the time and inclination to make thousand of accounts larping as women.... wow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 06:29 AM |
| 87 | Scrotes Fucking Mad.They blurst in here, bellend first, with their hateful, dumbshit, unwanted comments, getting some kind of thrill that they assaulted all the wimminz eyes. Surprise. It's 1 woman casually sipping green tea, deleting your screaming rant. No-one sees it. No-one cares. Women are delighted at how *pleasant* it is without men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 06:18 AM |
| 45 | Shooting yourself in the foot there, pal.Casually wants kids someday? Sign me the fuck up for that kind of apathy regarding my uterus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 06:13 AM |
| 57 | You’ll know him by his outrageous, misplaced confidence.Jeremy, 46 26 miles away Haha actually 53 I don't know how to change it. Looking for my soulmate to experience all life has to offer. 6'1 if that matters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 05:42 AM |
| 16 | In case nobody's seen this yet..."I'm so angry at this sub" <furiously hits refresh with his left hand, jerking his shrimp with his right> | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 05:37 AM |
| 24 | Is he good enough for YOU, sis?Hang out with women for a month. Once you interact with men again, the difference is startling. If a man isn't as polite to me as a woman is, he's gone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 05:31 AM |
| 7 | Should you date someone better than you?Well he likes you, so you must be hitting one of his emotional needs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 05:27 AM |
| 3 | Advice for recovering domestic violence victims?Other good books are The art of saying no When I say no I feel guilty Not Nice http://psychopathsandlove.com/how-to-never-get-involved-with-an-abuser-again/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 05:02 AM |
| 3 | Does it make any sense to ask the man why he picked you?https://blogs.psychcentral.com/relationships/2016/03/what-it-means-when-a-narcissist-says-i-love-you/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 04:59 AM |
| 3 | Moving for a guy.I'd only move with my husband. Dont move in if you can't afford to move out again. Always have at least $3k in a "fuck you" fund. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 04:54 AM |
| – | Should you date someone better than you?Are you sure you're objective about your own worth and that he's "better" ? Do you have a list of things you feel you should and can work on to improve yourself as a person? (probably low self esteem) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 04:23 AM |
| 7 | I shouldn't follow up, right?sunk cost :P | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 04:14 AM |
| 0 | WLW: how to go about dating women??It's a sub with strategies for dating men :o | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 02:57 AM |
| 20 | Really? Does this work?"making out until my lips tingle" Yeah alright, I can put a dab of peanut oil on my neck ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 02:54 AM |
| 27 | So We’re At War Now, I guess 🙄There is no war. They can't mimic being a healthy human being long enough to get past the first date. "Begin to recognize their strategies in the wild" Mate, there are like, 30,000 of us. Good luck ever meeting ONE. Enjoy the free hamster as you try to guess which one ;) For a bunch of 'supreme intellechtuals' you're sure shit at math. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 02:31 AM |
| 9 | Man thinks women are just as violent as men but too weak to commit harm and too stupid to use weapons. The whole thread is tiring. Don't date men who believe this kind of shit.It's just the kiddie pool for TRP males to scream in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 02:22 AM |
| 91 | They’re slowly starting to get it. r/MensLib discussion of porn.Women telling men porn is bad for 20 years. Men keep fapping because healthy and naturalle <sup>TM</sup> Men : hey, porn might be bad. MEN PERK THE FUCK UP AND LISTEN 🤦♀️ Edit False alarm. They're still defending their precious, and porn-induced erectile dysfunction is fake news. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 03:07 PM |
| 11 | Followed the rules but it didn’t matterYeeeeeah pussy juice doesn't cure depression, he's a manipulative shit. He guilt-tripped you into feeling bad for him. It never had promise, your gut was right all along. Take some time working on yourself more until you listen to your gut right away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 03:03 PM |
| 7 | Initial Conversations on OLDA very few powerful men are, the rest kinda cling to the coat-tails and take credit. (They don't say "not all men" about this however, just the time we point out criminal activity) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 02:52 PM |
| 39 | After dealing with an absolute man child for the past three years, I'm having trouble separating depression vs. laziness with my new partner. Please please advise!He's nothing but red flags. Don't date a fixer upper. He's a big boy and can go get therapy for himself. Your post is all "him him him excuses excuses excuses". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 02:29 PM |
| 11 | Initial Conversations on OLDI made the absolute bare minimum to get an okcupid profile started. I put "Fun, fit, flirty" in a box. That's it. Some crusty old geezer messages me "I loved your profile, it was a great read" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 02:25 PM |
| 47 | If he has a picture like this on his profile RUN SIS BLOCK HIMHe's playing dress up in his older brother's gear | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 02:05 PM |
| 30 | The characteristics of a High Value ManMen : Take that pussy off the pedestal! Also men : 50 forums dedicated to frothing, stalker-frenzy levels of obsession about pussy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 08:42 AM |
| 3 | Wondering how to balance being a receiver and putting in effort?Fair enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 05:09 AM |
| 12 | I think this is a HILARIOUS update. When I got the text I literally spit out my drink!!!! I guess the cold really does keep em crawling back.omg it's Ron https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Obburk_JYjc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 05:05 AM |
| 5 | I have faced my predator today.tis now a story of triumph :D I'll unlock it and delete all these messages in 2 mins | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 04:52 AM |
| 10 | Wondering how to balance being a receiver and putting in effort?Uuuh he was a HVM if he noticed his decent efforts weren't being reciprocated. You punched yourself in the tit by being low effort yourself. An unhealthy man will keep putting effort into someone who isn't reciprocating, he did the exact right thing. (Just like we should). "Match Effort" is for when he's being low effort, so we don't get sucked into bending over backwards for a manchild. Of course you wake up and reciprocate his decent efforts. If he sends 3 sentences as a text, send 2-3 sentenc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 04:27 AM |
| 5 | If your wife or girlfriend is working harder than you, you’re replaceable. You’re either actively adding to her life, or you’re dead weight.Wrong. The personal development shit is a token "Lift bro", it's 99% psychological abuse and emotional blackmail. You're done. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 04:11 AM |
| 12 | If your wife or girlfriend is working harder than you, you’re replaceable. You’re either actively adding to her life, or you’re dead weight.MGTOW get sent out of the dating pool. TRP gives the advice to control women. Men who actually want loving relationships need to read some real books, not PUA shite. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Tell me not to be dumb + text him!!!!!Read the sidebar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Are there any FDS friendly blogs you follow?Sidebar. Search bar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 02:42 AM |
| 10 | Trying to explain to males our standards aren't too high, single men really are trash, and we're not asking for "perfect".. and the bit where he tried to start a long term relationship with a LIE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 03:45 PM |
| 7 | Challenge! Get your shit together December!I see you're the bootcamp type :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 11:24 AM |
| 10 | Challenge! Get your shit together December!Good point! Take it easy if it's something you've never had in a routine before. There are heaps of cute infographics for just about any task. https://i.redd.it/3qu1jpj166n01.png | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 10:51 AM |
| 2 | Challenge! Get your shit together December!woo! good list :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 10:39 AM |
| 23 | Why Men Must GIVE in RelationshipsYes, read the sidebar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 09:40 AM |
| 10 | Challenge! Get your shit together December!I keep failing and having 2 coffees :( I'm not fit for civilized society! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 09:30 AM |
| 57 | Second date and he already asked for exclusivity?Every dude who mentions getting me off the apps immediately always had massive insecurity, jealousy and control issues. Low self-esteem because he couldn't imagine competing. Objectification and possessive issues at the thought of me ever being touched by another man. Huge red flags. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 09:21 AM |
| 54 | In today’s episode of #KickHimOut2020"man with no spine and no conflict resolution skills completely fucks up his life and alienates the one woman who will give a shit if he and his daughter get in a car accident and both go to hospital" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 08:26 AM |
| 1 | What to do if you find rare emotional connection with a "one night stand"?Read the sidebar https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/wiki/recommended_reading Let us know when you're not a massive pick-me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 06:46 AM |
| 37 | The rise of Hating Women's Rights is correlated with the rise of Low Value MenAnd the rise of LVM is correlated with the availability of high def and depraved porn.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 06:42 AM |
| 11 | Girl’s boyfriend says he gets aroused by making her cry. He also physically harms her during sex. Not a single woman from RPW is telling her she’s in an abusive relationship.It's the cult of TRP's feeder pool of abuse victims. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 06:27 AM |
| 13 | When it’s time to DTR how do you approach it?If you have to ask 🤷♀️ A dude should suggest changing Facebook status, introduce you as his girlfriend, tag you in photos and so on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 05:31 AM |
| 17 | Reminder: if nobody knows you’re together, you’re single, sis.ELI5 : he's sticking his dick in someone else's vag flora, then putting it in yours, changing your flora too far one way (yeast) or the other (BV) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 05:14 AM |
| 2 | What’s with men claiming all women are gay or bisexual?They are unable to compute that we'd rather be single than date them. Every time a woman is no longer having sex with her husband, she can't simply be turned off to the extent that she wants NO sex... oh no, she must be cheating! "There must be a reason OTHER THAN ME as to why you don't want to fuck me!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 02:18 AM |
| 20 | Pick me girl - you need to realise it’s not your job to fix his shitty mood.Reward him for being in a horrid mood. Brilliant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 01:58 AM |
| 13 | Some explain the late night “miss you” texts to meMidnight Fap and Nap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 01:55 AM |
| 10 | Stop reading mixed signals, start blockingExcellent post on why we probably do it. Stop over-analyzing, that just leads to making excuses, and then thinking you can fix him. Back right up. Drop him. https://np.reddit.com/r/CPTSD/comments/d99psn/for_the_fawning_or_codependent_types_know_that/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 01:53 AM |
| 30 | Single man complains about how difficult it is to meet women online and IRL. Daily reminder that you are the prize, you are pursued, valued and desirable while they wait for years for a response. Daily reminder to take zero shit from these men who are easily replaceable!I like how he externalizes his problems SO BADLY he blames GOD AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHH Also this is the exact whining my "woe is me" ex did. Girls wouldn't sit next to him on the bus. Boohoo. FOR GOOD REASON. HE WAS A LOWKEY PSYCHO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 01:50 AM |
| 1 | r/femaledatingstrategy megathread.why even verbalize it if people have the option to not take you seriously? It just makes you sound stupid to that person. If you have no leverage over someone you can't assert boundaries except by simply cutting them out of your life. Thanks, you just described every day life for a woman. I'm glad you understand. Nice edit. I don't consider that boundaries. That's just avoiding uncomfortable situations. When someone talks about asserting boundaries, to me that sounds like putting somebody in the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 01:43 AM |
| 20 | Boys will be boysAfter having solely feminine conversation over the past month (which has been delightful, I love you ladies), I have a new rule. If he's not as polite to me as the women have been, he can fuck off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 01:41 AM |
| 1 | r/femaledatingstrategy megathread.I think we're talking about different things. People need to enforce boundaries against being violated, pushed, guilt tripped, used, attacked, inserted/coerced (get out of my home, get out of my physical space). You're talking about not being taken seriously when imposing your will. You're doing the inserting and violating :( She was trying to get away from you and enforce her boundaries against you. If by "taken seriously" you mean "people obey you or agree with you" I'm very concerned about yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/19 01:33 AM |
| 24 | r/NoFap user discusses how pornography made his wife appear uglier to him and quitting brought back his sexual arousal and emotional connection to herThey've turned their brains to mush. Dunning-Kruger effect firmly going on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 03:08 PM |
| 16 | My panties just dropped 😍😍😍I'd rather make an appointment with a dentist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 01:47 PM |
| 4 | Oh look, yet another post mad that /r/TheRedPill is Long Quarantined, but /r/FemaleDatingStrategy Is Not. Shoutout to u/Spudmix for the accurate take down.Because women refusing to go on cheap dates, or accept mediocre sex, is a human rights violation for men 😂 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 01:36 PM |
| 149 | The Lord of the Rings EditionI too am feeling emotionally nourished by pleasant conversation with just women lately, and the only men I see are fictional. Life is very nice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 12:15 PM |
| 2 | Its often said that if a women shows disinterest/is unavailable the best tactic is to withdraw attention. Is that completely unattractive?If I'm disinterested in a guy, I would hope he stops contacting me. If he 'withdraws attention' as a tactic to make me chase, it won't work, I'm not anxious/pre-occupied. This might work on women with an anxious attachment style. It will just make a secure woman lose interest, aloof men are not exciting. They weed themselves out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 11:20 AM |
| 1 | FDS in actionUse the Field Report Flair button on the sidebar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 09:08 AM |
| 11 | "WYD" is canceled. It's less than low effort, it's a linguistic insult and a huge fucking waste of time. Any guy that hits you with the "WYD" is hot garbage and not ready for an adult relationship with a human woman.https://i.imgur.com/lPyCbVW.jpg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 08:31 AM |
| 1 | r/femaledatingstrategy megathread.You'd jump straight to violence because you dont know how to enforce a boundary? Alarming. Think of a boundary. eg "I won't tolerate being yelled at" Think of a way to enforce it. eg "I will walk away, hang up the call, or block people who verbally abuse me" Inform the person currently yelling. eg. "If you keep yelling, I will hang up the call" Hang up the call. It's about controlling yourself, keeping yourself safe, removing yourself from unwanted behaviour, or things you won't tolerate from pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 08:18 AM |
| 16 | Male becomes physically and mentally undesirable, thinks the cure is women messaging him on social mediaThat's not even what "sexist" means aaaargh. Just a ranty list of true things about men and bizarre imaginings about women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 07:02 AM |
| 15 | I’m so flipping done at this point !!!Batmano's butler | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 06:47 AM |
| 73 | "WYD" is canceled. It's less than low effort, it's a linguistic insult and a huge fucking waste of time. Any guy that hits you with the "WYD" is hot garbage and not ready for an adult relationship with a human woman.u up? haha ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 05:57 AM |
| 11 | Male becomes physically and mentally undesirable, thinks the cure is women messaging him on social mediaDid you read his reply on the thread? He certainly did a lot of deep thinking :o | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 05:35 AM |
| 61 | Male becomes physically and mentally undesirable, thinks the cure is women messaging him on social mediaAnd then 2 minutes later "I don't want your pity" "Stop leading me on" "Bitch whore cunt slut" ok mate. you got me. I do indeed exist to be your emotional support animal, validation, and then punching bag, as you cycle through every single unregulated emotion you possess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 05:19 AM |
| 3 | Men on OLD who don't read profilesExactly. "This is the amount of effort you put into someone you want to spend the rest of your life with? A blurry pic of your face and a diagonal shot of your crotch in a dirty mirror?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 02:19 AM |
| 12 | Men on OLD who don't read profilesOne fully admitted he swipes on every good looking woman, and "sorts it out later, because his time is important". So he's ok with wasting women's time, because he's more important. Got it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 02:17 AM |
| 8 | Green flags, red flags and warningsThese topics have been discussed plenty before. Use the search tool. Read the sidebar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 01:44 AM |
| 26 | The characteristics of a High Value ManEvery single bare minimum human behaviour : whAt dO yOu briNg tO tHe tAble | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 01:26 AM |
| 20 | Men on OLD who don't read profilesMy profile : I don't like outdoors stuff A match : Hello, I enjoy fishing, camping, hiking, 4WD Me : ... 👻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 05:53 PM |
| 4 | Decided to put it out there, let's see the excusesSo .. starting to think that every piece of shit male on reddit has some kind of borderline or histrionic/neurotic mother, who does indeed get angry over trivial shit. They just ignore all their mother's emotions. And then they apply it to every woman on the planet. And cry about being dumped by all these hysterical bitches. Yooo it's not sympathy. They're dismissing women's valid feelings, and they're too stupid to comprehend NAWALT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 05:48 PM |
| 26 | Why do men constantly talk about their exes?"All my problems in life will be solved when I get a woman" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 02:49 PM |
| 40 | Why do men constantly talk about their exes?If they repeatedly mention they were cheated on, and never got therapy, bail immediately. The next-level controlling and jealousy will start the second you leave the date if you don't block them. Similarly, men who don't get therapy after decades of a sexless marriage are equally messed up. That specific thing really does a number on people. If someone's still looking backwards, they're not ready to look forwards. Next. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 02:20 PM |
| 100 | Sometimes a little cringe be good for you...Jesus christ i'm seven feet tall. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 01:49 PM |
| 2 | r/femaledatingstrategy megathread.I described a man to NOT aim for. Why would we want a mindless butler we can't respect and don't want to fuck? ew. The reason for half these suggestions is because we've gone too far in the other direction and been burned. We've done all the work, initiated all the texts, done the thinking and planning, and it's clearly gotten us nowhere, because lazy men sit back and take advantage. Some of us don't have the healthy, built-in skills from childhood to vet for decent men, so we have to check for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 10:13 AM |
| 2 | r/femaledatingstrategy megathread.Detrimentally selfless is a character flaw, rooted in childhood, where the child was shamed, punished or neglected for expressing needs. Either because the parent was selfish, lazy, narcissistic, absent, emotionally immature, depressed, addicted etc. The child has extreme anxiety around saying No to requests, has no boundaries (or doesn't even know they're allowed to have boundaries), and feels as if they must serve, perform and please in order to receive love. It's a coping mechanism that works… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 10:01 AM |
| 12 | The irrational confidence of Gina 😛Brooklyn Nine-Nine https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2467372/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 06:53 AM |
| 6 | Why do you think some women seem to be better at finding non-shitty boyfriends than others, Even when controlling for attractiveness? Is it mostly luck or some women are just better at vetting?No healthy dude under 60 should have a limp dick. Anyone born around 1980 or later is susceptible to porn addiction / ED from that. Viagra won't work, it's a mental rewiring and habituation to porn use and masturbation. Their dick gets hard just fine.. for their laptops. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 02:16 AM |
| 12 | Will it change the dynamic?9 times out of 10, the "I have a cold / fever / food poisoning / got called in to work" is a lie and he's flaking. It's never mid week, oh no, it's the day before or day of a date ;) Light caretaking is fine, soup when he's sick. But not full on housekeeping, grocery shopping, meal prepping while he's 'incapacitated'. Tell him to let you know when he feels better and let him set up the next date, but brace for the slow fade. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 01:57 AM |
| 25 | The charmless sociopaths I’ve met have missed this memo. Just use your “superior” sense of humor to cope with your shitty life duh.Can't recall any man I've dated actually making me laugh. Their humour is so shallow and kinda annoying. Dad 'jokes' are weak word play, taking one word literally, and derailing a conversation. Women have been making me piss myself laughing, with on-point observations and multiple layers, with nuance that men simply can't comprehend, so they don't find it funny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 01:47 AM |
| 4 | My ex is dating my best friend and crushing us both emotionally.You and your BFF need to watch this vid https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4H9jTQKmR3Q | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 12:28 PM |
| 26 | More than a third of UK women under the age of 40 have experienced unwanted slapping, choking, gagging or spitting during consensual sexMore than a third of men under 40 have porn induced erectile dysfunction.... CORRELATION OR CAUSATION! :P | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 10:52 AM |
| 46 | Gems of OLDToday I got a gym junkie with forearms bigger than my thighs and "Will choke you on the first date". There was an error when I tried to report him, so I simply threw my phone into a volcano. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 10:37 AM |
| 22 | Why Objectifying Women Makes Men Violenthttps://www.bustle.com/p/why-objectifying-women-makes-men-violent-32880 This is why being the perfect little mummy-wife with no needs of her own who caters to his every whim, makes you look more and more like a slave and an object. Well, that and the objectifying.. media/patriarchy/culture world. Enforce your boundaries. Don't tolerate disrespect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 08:54 AM |
| 18 | Disgusting excuse for a man rapes this poor woman, she’s trying to figure out how to “let him down easy”/u/ashwheee hope you're alright girl. That was all his fault. Dude's a monster. If you feel up to it, please get checked out by a doctor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 08:27 AM |
| 42 | Still can’t figure out why scrotes think only attractive men are the problem.Men : you dumb bitches keep picking abusers, you're the common denominator, it's your fault Also men : every woman rejects me, it's all their fault. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 05:48 AM |
| 23 | The characteristics of a High Value ManThank you for the male answer, all my guesses as to why people do this was not flattering. still gotta ban you :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 04:07 AM |
| 11 | Oh look, yet another post mad that /r/TheRedPill is Long Quarantined, but /r/FemaleDatingStrategy Is Not. Shoutout to u/Spudmix for the accurate take down.Every day I'm amazed they believe several thousand men are dedicated to larping as women for hours on end o.O Also not sure how we're "money grubbing" if we're eating food while being pleasant on a date, not literally reaching into his wallet for a fiver, or 'whores' if we're waiting 30 days or more to have sex ? Such logic. So rational. wow. I suppose it makes sense. If the only real women they interact with is mommy wiping their ass and loving them unconditionally, and Becky at the supermarket… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 02:54 AM |
| 10 | I’m DONE 😭The pick-me's pop in and out ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 01:57 AM |
| 52 | Imagine bragging about how you settled?!? I cannotHe has the dead stare of a man who's fantasizing about his xbox. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 01:36 AM |
| 45 | And yet 50% of the “people” who don’t give a fuck about male depression are MEN but all you see in the comments are women getting blamed for supporting each other and not also upholding the emotional needs of men (which is also a laughable lie)Women have support systems for their depression What, like our girl friends that we cultivate, our family, and you know, going to a professional who legally has to keep their trap shut? Men have the same opportunities, they choose to wallow, isolate and *gasp* blame women. You're perfectly free to make men's support groups, guys. Oh, you choose not to, because you're the ones shitting on each other for being depressed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 01:32 AM |
| 19 | I’m DONE 😭Just in case naive women still held out hope about the good nature of man... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 12:55 AM |
| 21 | Random guy in my DMs inquires about my plan to go to a concert tonight. Why do I get the sense he’s trying to insert himself in my plans? What does it matter if it’s date?He wants to know if you're alone. RIP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 11:39 PM |
| 6 | Is there any hope for me?Sadly there's no flair for being a cunt. Knock this off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 11:28 AM |
| 29 | The Chinese Government is trying to bully women into popping out babies for one of these 33 Million Male Incels caused by the one child policy. Chinese Women are saying “No Thanks”."The leftover men need to try harder" owned! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 11:15 AM |
| 25 | Two dates in and he asks for nudes, specifically my breasts. We never spoke again. 🙅🏼♀️pls | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 10:44 AM |
| 4 | Never be this woman. Level up. Realize he is one of thousands of almost identical men.lolol sounds like it was written by "the artist" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 05:27 AM |
| 1 | need dating advice plzzzz!!https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/wiki/recommended_reading | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 02:30 AM |
| 29 | Get a proper apology for his bullshitemotionally immature men don't have self-awareness. It's something that happened in childhood, so they can't grow out of it, and certainly not "with the love of a good woman". It needs therapy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 12:49 AM |
| 5 | Get a proper apology for his bullshitThanks mate donate or volunteer here https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_organizations_that_combat_human_trafficking | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 05:37 PM |
| 25 | How to take the control back in a relationship and be a bad b?https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/wiki/recommended_reading You can't control anyone but yourself. We don't promote having power over people. Learn how to build your personal power by saying No, thinking ahead, planning, and enforcing your boundaries. Also look into differentiation. (Authors - Gottman, Schnarch) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 05:16 PM |
| 34 | Get a proper apology for his bullshitBit of DARVO, bit of small emotional blackmail. Deny - I didn't do that, it wasn't me, you're overreacting anyways Attack - how could you accuse me? you're so mean! Reverse Victim and Offender - you've really hurt my feelings with these accusations! Blackmail / manipulation - they've done it so often they've conditioned you to expect a struggle, no apology and a guilt trip, so why bother pointing out their shitty behaviour, it'll turn into a whole thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 05:10 PM |
| 39 | Get a proper apology for his bullshitYeah part of emotional immaturity Their self-esteem rides on your compliance, approval, acceptance and success – they respond to complaints about their behaviour (or you asserting your boundaries) with extreme statements like “I must be the worst xyz ever!” in order to shut down communication. They don't want to hear it or think that they might be bad. They want you to back down and reassure them that they aren't the worst Mother/boyfriend ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 05:06 PM |
| 23 | Temporary? Dead Bedroom39 and his dick is broken? Porn sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Fucking pathetic. I ask for genuine advice over a gut feeling and you have the AUDACITY to message me shit like this. Nah lmaoThis bullshit right here from men, telling us to ignore our gut feelings, is exactly why they're not allowed to post their fucking comments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 02:30 PM |
| 28 | Come Watch some Scrotes fail to be able to articulate the value of a Boyfriend. Funny how when you take away their fear tactics and bullying and they have nothing.They were abusive all along. Genuinely decent men don't start abusing and hitting. If they were abusive from the start, we'd run. They have a mask of niceness, and then rip it off once they have us locked down, or they get tired of the effort. Read "Why Does He Do That" https://www.docdroid.net/py03/why-does-he-do-that.pdf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 01:37 PM |
| 49 | Get a proper apology for his bullshithttps://i.imgur.com/DNMKpyY.jpg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 01:23 PM |
| 300 | Get a proper apology for his bullshitemotionally immature or fragile ego extremely uncomfortable that you are 'having feelings' inability to own up to their mistakes 'induce pity without taking responsibility' is activated. It was super effective! Repeat. TLDR actual pissbaby. They never admit what they've done, or recognize how they've hurt you. Drop them off at the nearest fire station. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 01:09 PM |
| 8 | How conscious are men, really?I wouldn't mind if he was clever! He was not :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 12:14 PM |
| 78 | Communicating standards - light a 🔥 under his arsefuuuuck dont wanna lose my one match per month, pls don't go | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 09:31 AM |
| 35 | “I know what women want better than they do. They are all liars and hate nice old guys like me.” - ScrotusI just left swiped on everything in my stack and considered moving country, but I see this is a global problem... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 09:08 AM |
| 11 | How conscious are men, really?I got tired of pondering, why he didn't "get it" (get all of it, he had the interpersonal skills and knowledge of basic social mores of a 4 year old) and I had just read about over&underfunctioning. I realised I was overfunctioning the entire relationship while he just sat there. Never offered to get me a drink, never made me a cup of tea. So I stopped. I stopped offering him drinks when I went to get mine. I stopped asking him what activity he was in the mood for, what he wanted to watch on net… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 08:26 AM |
| 43 | When men ghost and come back without explanation, what should you do?So he's already done the withdrawal and "more affectionate". You know what that looks like in a year? The cycle of abuse. He thought the silent treatment was a decent tactic. Think about that. If he's not consistently good to you, he's no good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 08:22 AM |
| 13 | AMENgurl I wuz jus about to propose | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 08:19 AM |
| 27 | How to resistLook up how to enforce boundaries? Don't go on dates if you have no self-control. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 05:29 AM |
| 30 | How conscious are men, really?Ex boyfriend was shocked that active listening was a thing. He was spending the time I was speaking to think up clever things to say (usually retarded jokes like taking a word literally to derail the conversation, like a Dad joke but, irritating, not funny. I never knew he was making these jokes btw, I just thought he was stupid. He never noticed I wasn't laughing), ways he could interrupt, counter, fact-check me (on my preferences ??) and "win" the argument we were supposedly having. Very rarel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 04:16 AM |
| 9 | Setting boundaries without seeming attached or meanHow is having a normal memory freakish? Fuck this guy. Don't ever be made to feel ashamed of your .. normal.. talents. Dont make yourself small to accommodate a dickhead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 02:36 AM |
| 3 | Should I give it 2 weeks off?You're not ready to date. Don't come here if you want people to be "nice" and coddle you and tell you what you want to hear and shoot rainbows and cupcakes out our asses, that will be a disservice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/19 09:47 PM |
| 7 | Excellent... refuse to make your self small for a man, let him meet you at the topI'm average imo and get "ur inTimiDaTing" wtf, how crap are you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/19 09:38 PM |
| 19 | Am I being paranoid?What are you doing? Seriously. What's your own plan and timeline. You're winging it, getting drunk and going to your house, and trusting a stranger not to rape you, basically. No more drinking, no more going back to your place until the exact day you want to have sex. Get to know him better, in public, doing more recreational activities. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/19 09:26 AM |
| 26 | Why Do Men Ask "Where are you?" On Online DatingThere's a distance:hotness ratio The hotter he thinks you are, the further he'll drive. For a pretty woman he's not going to drive an hour, for a stunning woman, he will. Nefarious answer : they want to know the distance between his penis and your vagina. He wants to know you're in a static location so he can repeatedly bring your vagina and his penis together. My distance is visible on tinder, any man who asks where are you / how far away are you / where do you live, is just retarded. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/19 12:44 AM |
| 28 | Scrotes Mad at a campaign that “teaches men not to rape”. He should be grateful women are chalking it up to ignorance and not malice. Because if all of this is fully on purpose then a LOT more Males need to be in jail.and yet we treat men like they are rapists by default unless taught otherwise. I vagued out the rest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 04:07 PM |
| 25 | Bye Felipe 👋dot dot dot block | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 04:03 PM |
| 45 | OLD Men and Lies About HeightIt's not like they can catch up with their little legs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 04:01 PM |
| 19 | Overly graphic accounts of misfortune, or posts requesting such details, will be removed.From the shit we're deleting... they're active in the darker subs. They have no intention of cleaning them up. One sick man lurking in the chat channel was a mod of a rather rapey porn sub. They're mad about us discussing our human rights, no longer tolerating mistreatment and subservience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 01:16 PM |
| 8 | The majority of dating advice on reddit is garbage.Consider the source. Low-effort awkward dorks would love any (pretty) woman to ask them out, so they can remain lazy, insecure, socially inept and lacking in confidence. Unfortunately they hate themselves so much, they would instantly sneer at any woman insane / low standards enough to ask them out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 07:39 AM |
| 8 | The majority of dating advice on reddit is garbage.This sub is a fantastic revelation of what triggers men :D The posts "dont date a porn addict" "old men chasing young women are gross", "kick him out if he's selfish in bed" and "vet by whether he pays for dinner" made them flip the fuck out. Every one of those posts had 50% of the comments removed, because they were from rabid men. Their entitlement to those 4 topics is entrenched and insane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 07:32 AM |
| 3 | This man looks like he dived head first into The Wall at least 15 years ago but still has the misplaced confidence to talk like this online. What is it with men on OLD advertising red flags like it’s something to be proud of?Online Dating - tinder, okcupid, bumble, hinge etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 07:08 AM |
| 16 | Does your mother know that you cry about a man who doesn’t brush his teeth twice a day?Nope they need therapy and meds until they're dateable, not inflict themselves on unwilling women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 07:03 AM |
| 36 | Overly graphic accounts of misfortune, or posts requesting such details, will be removed.Not much, if the actual 100+ porn, childporn, rape, fantasy subs aren't being shut down, as if they'll give a shit about men larping as women to bait relationship subs. "Women are sharing their rape stories of their own free will, nothing we can do hurr hurr". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 02:39 AM |
| 6 | Overly graphic accounts of misfortune, or posts requesting such details, will be removed.There is, and a verified sub. We're discussing that at the moment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 02:37 AM |
| 23 | Overly graphic accounts of misfortune, or posts requesting such details, will be removed.Not your fault. You felt the need to share and that's ok. I'm sad it's not safe to share here :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 02:22 AM |
| 6 | Ladies, what's the worst date you've ever been on before FDS and after FDS?I'm so sorry that this happened to you. I'm glad you're alive and I hope you're ok now. Unfortunately, this sub is attracting the sickest men who would feel pleasure at this type of account, and we're no longer feeding them. I do wish you can find a safe place to share, feel validated and less alone, and it's sad that this sub is not safe :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 01:18 AM |
| 25 | If you’re broke you have no business looking to get in a relationship"Daydreaming about being able to afford a vacuum cleaner to get these dorito shards out of the single mattress on the floor with my boo" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 12:58 AM |
| 7 | Has Anyone’s Sexual Partners All Been Amazing? Or Even Mostly Good?Sex with men has been bad since 1995. Selfish, pornsick, lazy, unwilling to learn. The 2 best, we never even had PIV. Both were marriage minded and porn free. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 12:56 AM |
| 11 | MGTOW men: hypergamy is bad women need to stop dating up! Also MGTOW men: women dating average dudes with little to offer is bad, they need to have higher standards!No more sleeping with average guys! Noted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 12:37 AM |
| 93 | I think it says something about male nature when they get so upset and triggered by women wanting men to reciprocate effort into sexually pleasing them."if you meet a woman interested in having sex with you" HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH you guys are safe from dinner stealing orgasm expecting thots. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/19 05:47 PM |
| 6 | It isn't "people", it's men.Repeat offenders. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/19 06:10 AM |
| 2 | Looking for that memehttps://imgur.com/gallery/LyKAp | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/19 05:53 AM |
| 15 | I Think I'm Going to Start Going on Dates w/MyselfYou're worth self-care and compassion, these sound like great activities :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/19 05:34 AM |
| 20 | OLD men who whine about no dates don’t really want to date.They want free escorts like they're ordering chinese food. They don't want to "date". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/19 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Perils of one night standsI'm sorry that this happened, and it sucks that it's common. I'm pulling this post because it's unnecessarily baity, and male lurkers will have a field day fapping over our stories of misery on this topic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/19 04:48 AM |
| 17 | How to get what I want out of this LTR?Men who want to get married, do so. You've already pulled away but you went running back without a proposal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/19 04:40 AM |
| 97 | If a man says “Women are Responsible for Their Own Orgasm” or “You Need to Teach Me” instead of “I am Responsible For Learning How to Please You”, #KickHimOut2020. No more half ass last sexual effort. The Internet has an abundance of resources for them to learn the basics.“Women are Responsible for Their Own Orgasm” Oh jesus christ. you know where that's from? Married Man's Sex Life Primer. A fucking joke of a book written by a dude with no credentials, who got all his wisdom from like.. observing 3 women at work or some crap. The heading was "You're not responsible for her orgasm" and it was highlighted a few thousand times. The actual explanation has been ignored, because men are lazy shits who gleefully clapped like monkeys over the removal of responsibility t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/19 03:59 AM |
| 20 | Giving dating/love advice to menHuman Dating Advice applies to everyone. Have boundaries. Have standards. Expect to be treated with respect. If you're no longer having fun or being treated with respect, end it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/19 02:21 AM |
| – | I'm ok with being rude for a minute. I'm not ok with being dead.It's not about the drink -.- It's about the 15 opportunities on a bad date, where you could have been firm and ended it, but you were polite, and now you're in the trunk of his car. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/19 02:08 AM |
| 15 | Broke up with my boyfriend because of red flags, now I feel horrible. What should I do?With your life or the next hour? https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/wiki/recommended_reading | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 03:13 PM |
| 34 | I'm ok with being rude for a minute. I'm not ok with being dead.omg. so did your panties fall off ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 03:01 PM |
| 84 | I'm ok with being rude for a minute. I'm not ok with being dead.As soon as they stop being predators, sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 01:38 PM |
| 3 | There's a reason why girls can't post pictures like the one on the rightBirth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 12:11 PM |
| 9 | How did you find this sub?high value male.. reminds me to make a post on what one actually is :o People think it's just 'rich' but rich dudes can be sleazy assholes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 09:33 AM |
| 10 | How did you find this sub?Yeah that was some fanfiction lmao. He hit all the usual misunderstood outrageous triggers, then fancied himself clever and wise for his solutions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 09:26 AM |
| 3 | Are "Asexual Men" a thing?He could be aromantic, or have different emotional needs other than sex. He might be fulfilled with friendships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 05:31 AM |
| 36 | Should I leverage my virginity when dating or should I explore my sexuality and find the best match?What do you mean by leverage....... If you mean sell it to the highest bidder, no. Marrying into a dead bedroom because you're incompatible or he's terrible in bed, also no. A satisfying sex life, for the rest of your life, will sustain your loving relationship. Leveraging it might get you a weirdo who fetishizes virgins. Is that all you are? Is that your personality? "A Virgin" ? what happens when you're no longer "A Virgin"? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 02:59 AM |
| 44 | There's a reason why girls can't post pictures like the one on the rightBecause we have things going on other than "can I shove this up my butt?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Guy is disgusted to learn that he's dating a girl who's done porn, pretends he's morally above such degeneracy. Is "disgusted by the amount of views" her videos got. I wonder how many views this dude has contributed, himselfPlease dont crosspost directly to /r/relationships use np.reddit in the body of a post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 01:35 AM |
| 5 | Research events, places and restaurants you want to go to for the inevitable "where do you want to go?"Hardly planning. If I'm free on Sunday and I want to go to x place, may as well tell him. If he botches it, he's gone. If he plans it, I get to do what I wanted. I'm not vetting for a dude's mindreading skills. I wanna do stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 02:54 PM |
| 5 | Reminder that if you tell men you want to engage in kinky sex, they can murder you and convince the public you deserved to dieimagination doesn't do it for me, or for 99% of the population Not true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 08:45 AM |
| 50 | Went on two dates and he was generous, attentive, etc. Second week in and he low-key called me stupid. Talk about MAJOR red flag. When I ghosted he tried to play it off by gaslighting me about a conversation I could literally scroll up and read. Anyway, he belongs to the streets.punched himself in the nuts trying to get out of trouble lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 07:59 AM |
| 77 | Went on two dates and he was generous, attentive, etc. Second week in and he low-key called me stupid. Talk about MAJOR red flag. When I ghosted he tried to play it off by gaslighting me about a conversation I could literally scroll up and read. Anyway, he belongs to the streets."Yeah I dont want a confused old dude with memory issues either". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 07:56 AM |
| 18 | The Myth That Men Really Want to Please Women But Are Bad At Sex Because Women Don’t “Communicate Enough” 🙄A lot of men only know how to do 2 kinds of sex. Sealed-Off Sex (Selfish, masturbatory) This is all about reducing sexual tension, achieving the big O and feeling good about your sexual prowess. The name of the game is sensation, the more the better and performance, or the “God I am hot” quotient. Solace Sex (Needy, reassuring, validation) This occurs when we are not quite sure that our partner is really there for us, when we need lots of reassurance. If we are anxious about whether we can depen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 07:12 AM |
| 49 | Random thoughts about porn dick? NSFWBefore there was more research, limp dicks were thought to be a result of physical death grip, but it's actually pretty difficult to do nerve damage. It's a mental problem. A human woman in front of them isn't as mentally arousing and doesn't flood them with excitement the way habituated porn use of sitting in their crusty gaming chair and opening 247 tabs of high def horse fucking does. That's why viagra doesn't work, they're still not mentally aroused. They just decided to flip the blame onto … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 02:44 AM |
| 7 | What do y’all think of study abroadsAnother way to shame, minimize, control and limit you. God forbid you experience other cultures where men aren't narrow-minded assholes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 02:32 AM |
| 1 | I get that this is a joke, but is it not also sexual assault? This is disgusting to me and I’m sick of people joking their way out of trouble.Gonna pull this one for racial slurs, please edit it out completely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 04:17 PM |
| 4 | Thoughts on only counting men who've given you an orgasm toward your n-countor not nice ;~( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 04:02 PM |
| 17 | Can Someone Break Down The Psychology of a 26 year old woman who would date a man in his 50s? Because I’m thinking Scammer, severe emotional problems, or full blown Psycho.nah old man sperm can cause miscarriages https://www.sciencealert.com/it-s-not-just-women-faulty-sperm-can-contribute-to-repeated-miscarriages | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 02:27 PM |
| 5 | Introducing birth control for the PENIS. Discuss.Thanks crossed my legs hunched over crying, I hate it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Her levelheadedness is ice cold and admirable.Please repost with a link to np.reddit in the body of a text post. Relationship_advice has asked us to not cross post, the link shows up and they get brigaded / we get brigaded. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 12:02 PM |
| 31 | My boyfriend(22M) follows other girls on Instagram. Am I overreacting?Going to pretend you're not a troll for a second. He's a low value, disrespectful fuckboy. He doesn't respect you because you don't even respect yourself. 6 months is far too long to tolerate his bullshit. Drop him, and don't do this again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 11:46 AM |
| 137 | Are any other women here sick of attracting the nerdy, Reddit type of guy?Guys with poor social skills latch on to "blunt" types, because they're incapable of reading body language, facial expressions, cues, hearing tone, catching on to subtext and nuances, and they feel lost. They feel like they can finally comprehend a woman and she's "not playing silly games". They can finally connect. Those lack of social skills make them awkward and cringey to be around. And awful to communicate with. They can't catch a raised eyebrow or a frown. They don't "get it" and it's exas… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 10:28 AM |
| 1 | "Nice" is another word for doormattest 1 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 08:44 AM |
| 13 | Don't tell men how horrible other men are.I am a man and I have never acted in any of the ways you have described. So, not all men do these things. LMAO another one. FML. The illiteracy on Reddit is too damn high. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 08:20 AM |
| 29 | Introducing birth control for the PENIS. Discuss.Me : yeah sure, put me under general anaesthetic that made me vomit for 9 hours straight afterwards, cut 3x1 inch incisions in my abdomen, stick knitting needle sized gun/cauterize/clamp thingies in me and remove 2 inches of Fallopian tube, so for the next 3 days I'm blobbing out chunks of blood and uterine lining, hunched over and barely able to walk. Men : DONT FUCKING TOUCH MY FAMILY JEWELS, SO PRECIOUS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 08:07 AM |
| 8 | ALWAYS marry up ladies.Oh my god, yet another balancing act, and forcing women to make themselves small because men can't manage their own mental health. Or their income. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 07:12 AM |
| 49 | This Guy Made A "Wife Test" For His Girlfriend And It Didn't Turned Up As PlannedShe left cos she realised kissing a frog wasn't turning him into a prince. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 05:42 AM |
| 3 | Guys weaponising/withholding sexJoke's on them, I have responsive desire. If they're being dickheads, my loins are dead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 04:43 AM |
| 16 | Guys who comment on a woman’s appearanceThey think we exist for their gaze, and we should cater to their preferences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 03:16 AM |
| 18 | How Reddit's relationship advice sides with menThe repetitive (imo fake) stories, upvoted by bots, have the same 2 themes. Male OP, "gold digging" woman. -> she's a bad person, drop her. Woman OP, manchild male won't do xyz -> she's a bad person, forgive him, train him, burden is on you, "just communicate", men are like that, maybe he's tired, on and on with bullshit excuses. and the grossest of bait - Woman being abused but it's questionable, it makes women tell their stories, males jerk off to it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 03:12 AM |
| 6 | How do you unlearn seeing yourself through the eyes of men?oh my. so true. if i wouldn't ask someone for advice, i won't take criticism from them either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 03:02 AM |
| 2 | I get it’s a numbers game but I have 100+ matches and they’re all low value/low effort 😭whaaat :P I make 5 matches a week to keep my groaning disappointment to a minimum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 01:32 AM |
| 142 | Don't tell men how horrible other men are.This entire sub telling men how horrible men are. 1/3 blustering "not me! not all men" and not even fucking listening. ok maybe 5 men have listened. 1/3 outraged by dinner stealing thots, trying to get us quarantined (???) and in general being the exact nasty, oppressive, entitled pieces of garbage we're talking about. 1/3 gleefully fapping over stories. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 01:14 AM |
| 104 | Thoughts on only counting men who've given you an orgasm toward your n-countAw snap I’m practically a virgin. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 08:34 PM |
| 78 | Pick me logic through the roofStoP beiNg sO inSecUre | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 01:06 PM |
| 11 | Males tryna raid, brigade, and post their unwanted aaaachhtually on a woman-only sub, but Automod is a good boy.1 per minute. so... all of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 12:15 PM |
| 163 | Pick me logic through the roofWhy not just swipe tinder matches for him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 11:39 AM |
| 87 | It would be more impressive if he weren’t such a looker, but I’m honing my FDS craft.<jaunty game show music> YOU MIGHT JUST BE THAT LUCKY LADY! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 08:27 AM |
| 16 | Hi. I fell in love with a sad fuckboy. Please send help. Someone slap me back into reality.Sorry you're going through this. 2 unhealthy people can't have a healthy relationship. Clubbing, drinking, smoking, racing, and hoping fuckbois will give you something they're incapable of, are self-destructive. For now, you might like breathing exercises for the panic attacks and numb fingers. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_-C_VNM1Vd0 And most of the videos here https://www.youtube.com/user/FindingFreedomMedia/videos Starting with Complex Trauma (1-8) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6IxEwPMqB… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 07:58 AM |
| 8 | Spiraling down the rabbit hole of caring for a fuckboy.... not quite. Serial killers are terrible on the inside, but they can DO nice things. Doesn't make them nice. All the 'green flags' are things any old good or bad person could do. Doesn't make him decent on in the inside. All his red flags are character traits, he's rotten on the inside. Fluffy acts of service can't make up for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 06:09 AM |
| 32 | He is somebody’s son! Now fix his plate and wash his dirty clothes like mommy did. UghhhhThis is me :( We have strong internal boundaries, stick to a housekeeping routine, and enjoy self care and a pleasant living space. We also enjoy serving and .. unfortunately, cleaning up other's living spaces. Let me guess, rigid mother with housekeeping standards, but one parent who was distant and you felt like you had to earn their love by serving? I have to nip it straight in the bud. See a filthy house, leave the filthy house. Fixer-upper dudes now disgust me. Pick some other, milder, 'car… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 06:06 AM |
| 14 | Should you feel sparks on a first date?Depends if you're coming from a place of codependence, where your old sparks were unhealthy responses to the familiarity of being abused, used and having your boundaries violated, and needing to "pre-pay" your way into a relationship and earn love. If you're just meeting soggy dudes, give it as much as you can stand to get to know them. If you're meeting healthy dudes but can't recognize it, spend longer observing them in neutral activities to build trust. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 05:52 AM |
| 6 | The most freeing thing you’ll wearI have a really soft voice. I'm used to speaking indoors with no ambient noise. One time at the mall I saw a woman with impeccable make-up, hair, nails and jewellery. I raised my voice to be heard and get her attention and may have ended up screeching "I love your make-up!" to a startled stranger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 04:57 AM |
| 1 | So real question what do I do when I work with an ex and he tells another employee he wants to kill me? Management knows and they arent doing anything.More like a police question than a dating sub question. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 04:25 AM |
| 66 | Why are the least attractive guys the meanest and most red pillish?Because guys who can't get laid run to the internet to ask why. And end up in nefarious places. Learning shit that doesn't work. And then they get mad at you for not sticking to the NPC-feeemale script. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 04:15 AM |
| 44 | FactsSuck his limp sea cucumber. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 04:03 AM |
| 4 | Observation about dating sites. It’s basically all the same guy! Agree?hahah same, they ask me if I'm real, and then go ahead and eagerly swipe right on the fakest shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 03:53 AM |
| 12 | This is from a story a woman told about being in an abusive relationship. Remember that if you have to justify yourself by "not being like other girls" youre probably being manipulatedI squealed at "He would always say that I was making eyes at a man at the next table, or that I was checking someone out who walked past us". That's not insecurity, that's flat out jealousy and paranoia. TELLING you what you are, what you're doing, what you intend, being so deluded and pompous, misperceiving and assigning evil intent... is mental. RUN. You can't prove a negative. You can't cure what you think is insecurity, with more security. It's just putting your foot in a bear trap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 03:27 AM |
| 104 | FactsMy teen years, I thought I had a cool squad of guy friends. Twas actually 6 parasitic males fused to my body. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 03:04 AM |
| 12 | What are your thoughts on sexual compatibility?Check out /deadbedrooms for the higher-libido perspective. imo a lot of them have severely low self-esteem, and desperately need the validation of their spouse sexually desiring them, and they confuse it for love. Nothing else will do. Acts of kindness, non-sexual intimacy, words of admiration and affirmation, gifts, being pleasant and kind, none of it will do. Only sex will do. Imagine being the one required to prop up their entire world with your vagina. I also believe a lot of them have chemi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 02:42 AM |
| 12 | Sex on the first date... Never again!"Want to stay for one more drink (and fuck)" "I'm totally looking for a relationship (but mostly fuck)" The fuck is silent | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 02:15 AM |
| 3 | How to respond when a guy asks you to pick the date spot?Research events and locations you do want to go to, say "yes I'd love to go to museum/park/restaurant/cafe" and then it's up to him for logistics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 02:10 AM |
| 10 | I should have kept it broken off, but I didn't. Consequences are detailed.I had a nice time with you these past weeks ooof, don't lie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 02:07 AM |
| 14 | Observation about dating sites. It’s basically all the same guy! Agree?They'd keep using it, they match with bots, catfish and app staff, they literally can't tell the difference. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 01:58 AM |
| 9 | Observation about dating sites. It’s basically all the same guy! Agree?It's turned into an even lower effort swipe-fest, where they excuse their utter patheticness with the mantra "there's no point messaging her until she matches me". So a bunch of average dudes who could go to the front of a woman's deck with a decent message, are sitting in invisible oblivion, because they insist they know how it works. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 01:55 AM |
| 17 | Highly recommended reading, even if you haven't experienced physical or emotional abuse at the hands of a man. Here's a free PDF.I used his kindle account to buy it, read it, then dumped him :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 02:44 PM |
| 56 | Spiraling down the rabbit hole of caring for a fuckboySo his red flags are all character defects. His green flags are things a serial killer could do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 02:28 PM |
| 10 | Think I might be potentially getting a slow fade/ghost. Is this a good text to send?Was hoping she'd google it and realise things :o | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 01:39 PM |
| 3 | the porn addled male<jumps out a window> | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 01:09 PM |
| 22 | the porn addled malehaha ;) we were just talking about brain damaged porn addicts. Addiction-related hypofrontality is a decline in executive functioning, which manifests as: Impaired decision-making arising from direct interference with reasoning, logic, and the ability to weigh consequences. Drives, impulses, and craving are not inhibited because of direct compromise of brain-reasoning ability. The mind overvalues reward, fails to appreciate risk, and fails to activate systems that warn of impending danger. The m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 12:58 PM |
| 9 | Nearly 40 Year Old Man Doesn’t Understand Why His Wife Is So Upset About Their NonExistent Sex Life and Home Infested With Roaches. Asks Reddit if her “overreaction” is Proof She Has A Mental Illness. Seriously.About 1 million men wish we can't read right about now ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 11:25 AM |
| 117 | Think I might be potentially getting a slow fade/ghost. Is this a good text to send?High value doesn't mean money. It's decency, respect, kindness, thoughtfulness, consideration and consistent good treatment. This dude sounds like a narc in the discard phase. Was your ex a narc? Also never "invite" a man to lie or bullshit you by sending a text. He's made himself clear. Block him and find a decent man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 10:03 AM |
| 15 | DO NOT FEEL BAD FOR HIM"my job sucks, the place where I live sucks, my kids suck, my ex-wife sucks, my car sucks, my entire wardrobe sucks, my health sucks, this massive debt sucks, my whole family sucks and I haven't cut them off" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 09:25 AM |
| 32 | I decided to check out OLD again. I’m just gonna close my account again. Oh god help us all.Oh Mike, that singlet is from the 80's, which puts you in your 60's. and you tryna get into 20's. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 08:45 AM |
| 37 | DO NOT FEEL BAD FOR HIMI ask 3 questions, he asks none, byeee He complains about 3 major aspects of his life, his shit is not together, byeee. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 02:32 AM |
| 3 | Some general advicejust post pictures of me with my boyfriend/change my relationship status Has he done the same? Hopefully before you moved in together, right? If he has, sure. See what happens. But you're right, saying "no hookups" doesn't actually deter the fuckboys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 01:29 AM |
| 8 | Some general adviceThey all wanna smash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 12:23 AM |
| 7 | Should I wait for the spark?Was the previous spark with a narcissistic man? Deep love takes time to develop and seems kinda boring at the start. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 12:08 AM |
| 6 | Why the hell do they gas light ????Person A (abuser) tests Person B to see if they're susceptible to gaslighting, doubting themselves, being super agreeable, willing to change their mind easily, willing to hand over their power, with a small test. Person B grew up with normal parents who let them have a firm sense of Self, who never lied, tricked, interrogated or otherwise mindfucked them. Person B looks at A in confusion and says "No you're wrong, go away, you seem kind of absurd" (or they just sense it, and distance themselves,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/19 10:10 PM |
| 1 | I don’t understandRead the sidebar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/19 10:52 AM |
| 3 | A horrifying but very clear rehashing of "The power of your sexuality ends once you fuck him". Hold out, ladies. KNOW him first.https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/drypq5/moid_lurkers_you_better_shut_the_fuck_up_until/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/19 06:47 AM |
| 17 | What percentage of men would you estimate you are attracted to? What percentage do you think make suitable partners?Right. I dunno why they keep whining "loWeR uR StAnDards" My standards are pretty fucking low, and they can't manage that. #catboxedwine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/19 04:58 AM |
| 11 | What the actual f***I took it as a warning. Dudes want to rape, AND they don't want to admit that they're rapists. It's all fine and dandy to *coerce* and *ignore consent* if it's to the benefit, but they're not *rapists*. Every time the topic of consent and coercion comes up, rapists come out of the woodwork to scoff and dismiss "well that type of coercion should be allowed!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/19 03:38 AM |
| 15 | Ask for pics before meeting up with your online date. Men lie about their ages to prey on younger girls. Don't accidentally date an old scrote!!Is it the one where he has black hair and he's in a tux, and the rest he's rapidly greying hahahaha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/19 03:23 AM |
| 3 | Date them like you hate themhttps://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/drypq5/moid_lurkers_you_better_shut_the_fuck_up_until/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/19 03:14 AM |
| 43 | Think about the fact that Jordan Peterson and TheRedPill started entire movements telling men such basic ideas as “clean your room” and “girls like men who make efforts to be attractive” and you’ll start to see the absurdity of the dating pool from the perspective of women.Well, if you're isolated in a basement with only Unconditonal Love From Mommy who caters to your every whim and wipes your ass, and circle jerk poison incel/TRP... yeeeaaaah you're gonna be a bit skewed and useless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/19 02:18 AM |
| 3 | When to add each other on social media?What's in your instagram.. 1000 selfies or pics of your hobbies, interests, photos you've taken. Never give men free wank material. The world has enough, they can find it elsewhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/19 02:00 AM |
| 24 | Did anyone else once believe high value men preferred weak-willed, insecure, malleable women?Multiple supposed reports from TRP itself is from whiny little boys who HAVE the sweet submissive slave, but they're not thrilled. Even they don't like it. They're looking for something else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/19 01:58 AM |
| 5 | The fact that there are some popular subs where men participate in insulting the appearance of other women and get off to this shit shows the true nature of some menincels don't believe women are people. hmmmmm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/19 01:47 AM |
| 2 | The fact that there are some popular subs where men participate in insulting the appearance of other women and get off to this shit shows the true nature of some men... which one... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/19 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Do you any of you ladies suffer from low self-esteem and/or depression? I'm finding that I don't really have the urge to date because of my mental health issues and wondering what to do.Brainclone has not been verified. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 05:11 PM |
| 10 | Man begins to slowly decline after breaking up with his gf. News at 11.Everything's great except he needs an entire personality transplant with someone I actually like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 04:59 PM |
| 12 | Man begins to slowly decline after breaking up with his gf. News at 11.I'll allow it. Have at him ladies. Stop reporting him, I know he's a man. Use your words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 02:47 PM |
| 50 | Man begins to slowly decline after breaking up with his gf. News at 11.My mental health after breaking up with a narcissist is a vertical arrow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 11:00 AM |
| 69 | Hey guys - if you have to go down on her for an hour, you’re doing it wrongFeels good knowing there are 10x as many men listening for free. Hi guys, go get a copy of "She Comes First" and stop being rubbish in bed :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 08:04 AM |
| 27 | I am so tired of the monologues!It doesn't, they just unmatch when I dont ask them the 5th question that they just dead-end and whine that "women don't respond" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 04:05 AM |
| 40 | What do y'all think of coffee dates (for a first date)?For date zero, I quite like them. Safe, in daylight, around 11am, and he usually wants to extend and take me to lunch. Or I can decline and scoot. Dinner dates for the first proper date is better, as I lose my appetite being near someone I realise I have no interest in, or their laugh is really grating, or they're an interrupting asshole. I can't control my face and it's a waste of both our time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 03:05 AM |
| 18 | Clueless Dweeb Can’t Understand Why Women Don’t Want to Randomly See Pictures of His PenisI don't ALWAYS sexually harass people, or send penis pictures. brb building this man a float for a PARADE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 02:54 AM |
| 13 | Clueless Dweeb Can’t Understand Why Women Don’t Want to Randomly See Pictures of His PenisTRP was super effective! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 02:51 AM |
| 29 | TL;DR SCROTES MADthe woman who felt dating for food was socially acceptable were more likely to exhibit the “dark triad” of personality traits. That’s “psychopathy, Machiavellianism, and narcissism” AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA what the fuck Let's take murder off the list ladies.. exchanging your pleasant company for food is the WORST | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 01:20 AM |
| 30 | Imagine "Phasing out" items of clothing from you wardrobe because they're not what some dude prefersRPW is just "cater to your abuser" in real time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 01:16 AM |
| 30 | In my past relationships I tried to be the perfect "bob the builder" girlfriend and men never appreciated it.http://www.willmeekphd.com/overfunctioning-underfunctioning/ That's exactly how to exhaust yourself while becoming frustrated and losing respect for a loser, while he continues to bask in "doing nothing" because.. why the hell would he? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 01:15 AM |
| 10 | Creepy Man Covers His Van with Images of Teenage Girls. Cops claim they’re powerless to stop him.I swear that was an episode of Criminal Minds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 01:13 AM |
| 1 | How do you like to dress on dates?I got 5 dresses like this (floral, grey, rose etc) https://www.amazon.com/FENSACE-Womens-Sleeveless-Summer-17020-9/dp/B06XSRSXR1/ref=sr\_1\_2?crid=1HSYGTH43LH1V&dchild=1 Can dress it up with a belt, cute boots, knee high boots, little jacket, or down with wedge heels or summer sandals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 01:11 AM |
| 26 | Absolutely insane. (Copy and pasted for you to see)OMG, steps 1, 2 and 3 of GETTING MURDERED https://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/gender/the-eight-step-road-map-to-murder-that-might-save-women-s-lives-20190911-p52qfs.html | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 01:04 AM |
| 15 | Women don't let these men trick you into dumb shit like this. You are not obligated to get an iud for his pleasure.Softcock? sounds like perfect birth control to me! PIV does nothing for me, sign me up for dudes who can't keep it up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 01:01 AM |
| 8 | The 666 Rule: 6 Feet, 6 Inches, 6 Figuresand the manlet come out with "statistics" lol I've seen plenty of 6' + men on heaps of dating apps. Although I wonder if they're relying on height for personality or game. I'm going fishing in the 5'11 pool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 12:57 AM |
| 16 | After posting here, received a DM from a man trying to "help" me XDIf he shows no interest, don’t go after him. If he shows a little bit and you rrreeeeaaaalllyyy like him, he’s worth it. IF HE SHOWS SOME DICK CRUMBS, YOU CHASE THAT JOB GIRL lmfao this is EXACTLY why men are banned. stfu manlet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 12:51 AM |
| 14 | Demand accountabilityThey see my nice clean apartment and get some sick glint in their eyes. It's not admiration or approval. Exploitation and parasite-eyes. "How can I fuck this shit up" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 12:47 AM |
| 2 | There's two kinds of men (Please take note)Cats and boxed wine is their go to, if they're even capable of imagining objects that aren't in their line of sight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 12:45 AM |
| 6 | Nosy Male “Friend” wants to know AITA For Calling Out My Friend Who Has Been Heavily Browsing /r/femaledatingstrategy?hahaha sounds exactly like what my "friend" on the opposite side of the country would do. he's been stagnant, unemployed and living at home for a decade. He was LIVID when I dated a man with a house, job and car, in my town. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 12:42 AM |
| 28 | “It’s ok man, trust me, women will be lonely, depressed, and worthless after hitting the wall at 25. We have it better lives in the end hahaha”Their underlying mindset is "women are objects to be punished" so nah, we can detect that psycho vibe, doubly so from desperate old uggos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 12:35 AM |
| 30 | Men Shocked That Women Prefer Fit Men. Guess all that Dad Bod Propaganda isn’t working.🤷♀️Fat gut is a sign of apathy, lack of pride, no care for your health or longevity, no concern for your future, and the subtle message that you expect a woman to take care of you when you're done having fun for 60 years and lose your foot to gout from diabetes, or help you walk after your triple by-pass. Otterbod ftw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 12:32 AM |
| 50 | “It’s ok man, trust me, women will be lonely, depressed, and worthless after hitting the wall at 25. We have it better lives in the end hahaha”old man money hahah. i browsed the pics of a sugar daddy site. it was the exact same pool of men I'd swiped left on tinder. Piles of gold did not make them more attractive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 12:21 AM |
| 6 | Need some advice! Been played :/Revenge is not classy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 02:07 PM |
| 14 | Reasons why we aren’t gold diggers for looking for money and investment.my tendies :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 01:58 PM |
| 73 | Nope!We're here because a good time was not had mate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 12:30 PM |
| 22 | Never settle out of fear. Know your worth and choose what you want.And yet 2 options within their means for getting laid are single mothers and sex workers, and that's the notion that makes them froth and spittle the hardest. if they stopped being garbage human beings so that single mothers would take them that is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 12:27 PM |
| 33 | Nope!Rookie numbers :P | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 08:29 AM |
| 30 | FoR tHe LaSt TiMe: THIS IS NOT A FEMCEL SUB, it’s LITERALLY A DATING SUBI for one have <checks smudged biro on hand> had the sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 06:39 AM |
| 15 | Does this sub supports female red pill theory?No. Our suggested reading is “Why Does He Do That”, theirs is a cookbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 10:22 PM |
| 7 | Male inadvertently explains everything.I’m sorry :( you didn’t deserve any of that abuse and your whole family is awful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 10:13 PM |
| 5 | There be some truth in thatSex is their only reward? I value character, honesty, integrity, kindness and decency. That's what makes a man high value. Not how well he can hoe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Are males even worth it?relationship_advice has asked not to be crossposted. Please re-submit with the np.reddit link in the body | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 03:20 PM |
| 102 | Why is it that men jump to think we are much more interested in them than we are ?Attention starved. When the question is asked daily on AskReddit ( men + compliments ) it's just thousands of comments about how that one compliment back in 1982 has sustained them forever. Blinking at them in a neutral manner makes them start naming your future kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 02:11 PM |
| 12 | My first time posting here, so sorry if this post doesn't fit here. Quick story on it. I'm not a man, I'm a woman it's just my hair is short (so this incel decide to call me 2 things 1.a man or 2.a little boy). I'm in a fb group and this incel wanted me to slide into his dm's and I told him no.Ah, the old abuser tactic, insult you in private, keep the facade on in public, so you become the hysterical accuser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 12:53 PM |
| 28 | My first time posting here, so sorry if this post doesn't fit here. Quick story on it. I'm not a man, I'm a woman it's just my hair is short (so this incel decide to call me 2 things 1.a man or 2.a little boy). I'm in a fb group and this incel wanted me to slide into his dm's and I told him no.I also dont want to hear from Antoni | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 12:43 PM |
| 2 | Is him using coupons on a first date a bad sign?Quite a lot of times on JustNoMIL, the parents are funding certain things as a means of control. Did he actually buy those things or did his parents? What's his actual job now? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 11:48 AM |
| 3 | Something a little different - Teaching our young girls how to protect themselvesoh and watch these, hilarious. It's like reverse child predator. Older person pretends to be 13yo to see if their kids are dumb enough to go meet strangers. Spoilers, they are that dumb :( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6jMhMVEjEQg There's a few other ones. In that one, a dad tests one of his daughters, and in another one, his second daughter gets tricked by the exact same thing lol. I don't think they explained it well enough to the kids. Don't -add- anyone to social media you haven't met ir… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 11:25 AM |
| 27 | Bask in their desperation - boob shamingA lot of women with naturally large breasts complain of back pain, creeper attention, and wish for a reduction. I'm not jealous of "big fake boobs", the topic of boobs has only occurred to me twice this year lol. Maybe the LVM are getting secondary fap fodder at the thought of us vying for their attention... eww. "OMG I totally want to look like that so men stare at me teehee pillowfight" Sorry, got other things going on, like comfortably sleeping on my side and stomach. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 11:17 AM |
| 22 | Male inadvertently explains everything.The entire rabbit hole was absurd. A dude posted a comment here, as a male. He modmailed us asking for flair (intending to post more, how dare we filter out the vile comments from men and protect our readers!). We banned him. He modmailed again pretending to be female, evading the ban (lol violating Reddit TOS, good one mate), because he's so important, clearly all the rules don't apply. THAT account's history asked a question on MGTOW - "How do I prevent myself from becoming like the women you … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 10:01 AM |
| 22 | MeN dOn'T hAve a WaLl swEAty, oUr ferTility NevEr eNds. Studies show older men's sperm causes lower IQ, autism, and suicidal thoughts in their babies. Don't mate with old men sisters ;) Hit the sperm bank for young Chad's sperm :pThat's if his sperm doesn't cause a miscarriage Stealing your link about shoddy sperm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 07:25 AM |
| 57 | Male inadvertently explains everything.He was attempting to shit on women but accidentally revealed everything that's wrong with men today. Boys will be boys, and your dress was too short. Boom. Psychopaths. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 07:19 AM |
| 10 | Ever not super interested but go to the first date anyways cause they're offering to take you out somewhere nice? Waste of time or free night out/open to possibilities?You can still be nice. Isn't everyone looking for love, connection, affirmation, validation. There really are lonely old dudes who miss their dead wives and just want some feminine company for an evening. It's invigorating. What you do at the end of a pleasant evening is up to you. Don't go to "make a dude feel better" or out of pity, kindness or any kind of pressure. Go because you want to go and he's not giving you bad vibes. Don't sit there like a sullen cow getting free food tho :P | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 06:14 AM |
| 3 | Something a little different - Teaching our young girls how to protect themselvesimo required reading for all young women Why Does He Do That, and Come As You Are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 04:55 AM |
| 2 | Using dick picks against themSounds like a giant waste of time over small things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 04:27 AM |
| 3 | What does it mean if a guy is pretending to be almost 30 different women online?We're not psychologists and you're not getting flaired for this crap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 04:12 PM |
| 39 | “What a long winded way of saying you enjoy your girlfriend has low self-esteem”. This comment nailed it.every low effort man dreams of finding them. and taking advantage of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 08:35 AM |
| – | Why do males think we should respect their opinion, when their hairline looks that disrespectful?Hijacking this thread and running a competition :D Caption the photo and whoever makes me piss myself laughing gets gold. "Dinner stealing thots!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 08:31 AM |
| 32 | AdviceThere is no handling. If it's not what you want, and he's unwilling or incapable, you don't have to squish, smother, react differently or feel differently. You don't like it, don't tolerate it. This guy isn't the one for you. "Feeling shitty" is the exact reason to move on from a boy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 06:50 AM |
| 12 | Should a woman wait till marriage to lose her virginity or nah?Yep, exact age to be porn addicts for 20+ years. aint no fixing that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 03:34 AM |
| 23 | Should a woman wait till marriage to lose her virginity or nah?I think this is going to happen more and more because of the porn epidemic. Women's self-esteem is going to go through the floor if they don't know the effect porn has on his dick, libido and interest in partnered sex, and start thinking "she ugly" because "men are horndogs who always want sex". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 03:22 AM |
| 34 | Should a woman wait till marriage to lose her virginity or nah?Check out the nightmare fuel of /r/deadbedrooms to see how well "married as virgins" works out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 01:31 AM |
| 6 | They don’t deserve your precious beautiful body! Confirmed!They're basic abuser/narcissist/predator tactics. If you feel fucking slimy, gross and violated, it's one of the above. Incapacitate, isolate, escalate - rapist and redpill. Compliance test - they order you to do dumb shit and then either "reward" or "punish" you - aka coercion and emotional blackmail. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 01:17 AM |
| 7 | When he wants to make the first phone call during bedtime hours :S (he sent this @9pm). Stay savagesend him back a 1800 number :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 12:51 AM |
| 16 | Amazing.I give HIM the $100 so he can take me out to dinner? Sign me the fuck up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 12:50 AM |
| 4 | Men ask where I am early onGot 2 handsome men lined up for the weekend :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Young Men Perfectly Happy Being Useless Perpetual Childrenshould see the deleted comments in this one :D they were feisty last night | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 11:02 PM |
| 7 | Young Men Perfectly Happy Being Useless Perpetual Children"SinGle moMs r a sCoUrge" yep well, it's less work once you drop the dead weight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 10:51 PM |
| 7 | Men ask where I am early onsurely his other profile pic was better.... maybe it was past midnight, the bottom of my stack, and in a moment of lunacy I decided to give an uggo a shot. lesson learned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 10:47 PM |
| 14 | Men ask where I am early onYes.. so much. "hey how r u" "where r u??" GIVE ME THE GPS CO-ORDINATES TO YOUR VAGINA why did i even match with this guy. well, problem solved. after I wouldn't answer his hysterical, repetitive questions (this was over the space of 5 minutes), he unmatched me. https://i.imgur.com/5cgXTZR.jpg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 10:13 PM |
| 2 | 95% of moids are ugly/boring lookinghttps://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/duhwj4/fds_is_phasing_out_femcel_language/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 10:09 PM |
| 59 | Guys who literally just want to text you all the time with no plan to ever meet.Solitary confinement is torture for a reason. We're social creatures. People go a bit nuts and start questioning their existence when no-one is around to reflect, listen, acknowledge and validate them. He's checking that he's still real. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 02:06 PM |
| 3 | 95% of moids are ugly/boring lookingPlease repost without incel language. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 08:13 AM |
| 37 | WTF... There’s a sub on reddit where men fantasize about about past rapes and sexual assaults they commitedThe shit we've had to look through in men's post histories... think I'm getting PTSD from how vile and depraved they are. Also convinced that multiple "is this assault/rape/abuse, how should I feel" posts on relationship subs are just trolls baiting for women to say "this happened to me, and here are details for you to jerk off to". Don't post your rape story, it's fap fuel for sickos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 04:58 AM |
| 11 | i can't believe that i put up with this..."I'm normally a racist piece of shit, but you're one of the good ones :)" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 02:32 AM |
| 25 | How to avoid ending up with someone that fetishizes young women:He says dumb shit like "you need to lazer wax your entire body" and if you're already with one, from when you were a teen, and you're now 23 or so, and "the sex has declined rapidly" and he's completely disinterested and in the bathroom more, or off scouting fresh meat at college parties and other places he shouldn't be (because he's in his late 30's by now)... it's because you've aged out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 04:53 PM |
| 7 | 27 Signs of a Toxic RelationshipYou're winning! a hug and therapy. damn girl are you ok? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 01:29 PM |
| 6 | Pushed into oral sex.. and then the Internet traumatized me furtherWhat an awful answer! She's 100% wrong. Caving to coercion, to make it stop, to people please, out of guilt, to stop the badgering, to think that you'll just "get it over with, it will only be one time" is emotional blackmail and hardly your fault. Billions of people are victims of scams, blackmail, coercion, manipulation, parental abuse, and that's exactly what they are, victims of people using dirty tricks to force people to do something they don't want to. Just check out /justnomil, justnoso,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 11:11 AM |
| 2 | Pushed into oral sex.. and then the Internet traumatized me furtherI can't wait for the gallery of 100+ screenshots of men saying stupid shit, and you saying "No" and blocking them :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 11:02 AM |
| 2 | Look for kindnessPlease edit and change the www to np, they've asked us not to crosspost or link directly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 10:00 AM |
| 6 | An example of a low quality man.Which part's low quality, the bit where he's a complete liar? :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 08:30 AM |
| 26 | Gotta be 100% hetero ladies"I can't deal with any kind of competition, delete your apps before we even meet" and some "all bi people are cheaters" gong on! What a catch! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 05:08 AM |
| 13 | Does anyone here use dating apps? Experiences?They're the same men on all the apps. One especially depraved man admitted to using 15 apps. He was swiping tinder in front of me on a date. Wish I was making this up. In OKC you can immediately block anyone with an empty profile, shit pictures and the bare minimum of questions answered. Guys who are serious will have 3ish pics of their face and body, more than 10 questions answered to get a good %, and their bio filled out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 04:45 AM |
| 17 | Does anyone here use dating apps? Experiences?If you want a non-stop barrage of depravity, swipe right on 10 men in a row on Tinder. 3 won't message at all, they were just there for validation, beeps, collecting matches, cheating on wife, jerking off to pics etc. 1 will be crude or just stomp on his dick straight up with "WHERE ARE YOU" "COME OVER" etc. 3 will be absolutely pathetic at conversation, either dead ending all your questions, 1 word answers, no flow, bizarre misunderstandings, or just plain low IQ. 2 might actually be adequate f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 04:35 AM |
| 5 | Why don’t fuckboys leave you alone?Easier to hit up somewhere that has supplied before, than find a new supplier. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 03:26 AM |
| 5 | Don’t you just love how people like to think we’re larping men, 40+ loners or extremely unattractive?You got me, i'm a 40+ loner lmao I'll just console myself with this batch of men who superliked me because I made it to the top 10, again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 02:49 AM |
| 16 | Feeling guilt when you start holding men to your standards?This level of guilt and OCD sounds like a childhood thing. One of your parents failed and put their wants ahead of your basic childhood needs for love, acceptance and nurturing. They made you shrink yourself and have no needs, and made you feel guilty for asking. When you're suppressed like that, it manifests other ways. You're trying to "control" and be perfect to soothe an anxiety. It's a societal shaming (mostly from men) about being a gold-digger, and it's exactly the same message as a selfi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 02:37 AM |
| 70 | Reminder that hot and ugly dudes end up treating you the same wayAnd if you date way down, he starts thinking "that was easy, I can do better" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 03:58 PM |
| 25 | How to train WomenThey're basic abuser, narcissist, psychopath tactics, so yeah, probably. Slowly violating boundaries, emotional blackmail, coercion, operant conditioning, intermittent reinforcement, isolating, psychological abuse, wearing down self-esteem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 03:23 PM |
| 16 | Came across this gem today. My age-range setting is 23-27, not “aging like grade c dairy products”The only time this guy gets a round 2 is when women come back to roast him a second time. If he won't fix his own teeth, he sure won't shell out for his own offspring's munted choppers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 03:18 PM |
| 61 | Came across this gem today. My age-range setting is 23-27, not “aging like grade c dairy products”"burying the women he strangled with electrical cable" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 03:06 PM |
| 14 | WHY DO MOIDS THINK THIS WILL GET ATTENTION?! Does this work on anyone???Right up there with faux pathetic bullshit like "women never let me come in their mouths .... :( " | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 01:03 PM |
| 13 | When your partner says "I love you" but you never actually feel loved, and he never DOES anything loving.They're hypersensitive to abandonment and throw out some crumbs! and we think "omg he finally gets it". or omg he's so loving, this bag of skittles is amazing. When he's secure again, back to zero. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 10:46 AM |
| 29 | Came across this gem today. My age-range setting is 23-27, not “aging like grade c dairy products”The only body part of his that's been blown is his right pupil. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 08:51 AM |
| 109 | Woman (40+) gets more attention with age, notices that men her age & 50+ years old lie, present themselves as late 30s due to lack of attention from women. Daily reminder to take ZERO shit from men! Don't let them neg you about getting older!Imagine needing 50 years to peak lmfao. They used to say men peak at 30, then realised they were still underemployed and had no social skills, so they had to give themselves another 20 years to get their shit together? wow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 05:24 AM |
| 10 | This child wants haters to come here and troll our sub, queens... (didn’t hide his username on purpose lol)The amount of time, effort, and sustained concentration they've put into crossposting, stirring up hate, plotting raids (LOL), creating a discord, youtube channel and infiltrating our space - to no avail..... they could have done literally anything else and it would have been more productive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 04:21 AM |
| – | This child wants haters to come here and troll our sub, queens... (didn’t hide his username on purpose lol)Report anyone encouraging brigades/downvotes/making alts to spam here, to Admin https://www.reddit.com/report I like how we say "sick of cheap dates, low effort men, and selfish lovers" and their response is to couch tantrum, suggest things that will get them banned from Reddit, increase the slurs/death&rape threats instead of looking in the fucking mirror and behaving decently. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 04:14 AM |
| 14 | How do you friend zone someone nicely?Sadly it's a fine line between "you don't owe men shit" and "based on dozens of previous experiences, he's going to retaliate". Keep yourself as safe and untraceable as possible. No phone number, address or last name before the first meet. "No, thank you" is a full sentence. Get home. Block delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 03:25 AM |
| 21 | LMAO this MGTOW moid made a video about us on Youtube. THIS is the type of salty trash hating on on usreported for not linking eyebleach and /aww after this abomination :P | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 03:13 AM |
| 42 | Worlds tiniest box of tissuesYep https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/mar/11/young-men-porn-induced-erectile-dysfunction Viagra’s core market used to be older men in poor health, but according to a number of studies and surveys, between 14% and 35% of young men experience ED. “It’s crazy but true,” says Mary Sharpe of the Reward Foundation, an educational charity focusing on love, sex and the internet. “Until 2002, the incidence of men under 40 with ED was around 2-3%. Since 2008, when free-streaming, high-definiti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 02:52 AM |
| 2 | We're not their therapistsMake a regular title, and in the body post https://np.reddit.com/r/MurderedByWords/comments/dtzlzu/niceguytm_got_murdered_by_this_lad/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Dealing with Silent Treatment from boyfriend in a High Value way?The way he's doing it and over such petty bullshit (he created) is abuse https://www.healthline.com/health/silent-treatment https://www.abc.net.au/life/dealing-with-the-silent-treatment-in-relationships/10959724 I bet there are a ton of other red flags you're ignoring, or you're minimizing, or you don't want to tell us about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 01:50 AM |
| 14 | Sisters...i just got my first creepy incel "slide into my DMs"!!!!Hopefully he knows a guy with decent D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 01:45 AM |
| 41 | If this isn’t the goddamn truth 😂😭Women: can you stop with the slurs and death threats? The internet : nothing but slurs and death threats... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 01:43 AM |
| 25 | Guy trying to take me on date swimming, what is a good response?"I went out to dinner with a gentleman because honestly you're weaksauce" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 01:36 AM |
| 2 | Unrelated but...!Aaah samesies! Got these in a corner in my bathroom for first aid stuff, skin care, sunblocks, hair clips. https://www.officeworks.com.au/shop/officeworks/p/j-burrows-4-drawer-storage-cabinet-colour-ow4dcabcr | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 08:24 AM |
| 23 | Mentally ill, incel harasser. Please don’t respond to him! Just block. He’s very lonely and becomes fixated on women quickly. He’s been stalking me.And they call us psychos.... Screenshot, report to admin, block him https://www.reddit.com/report | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 07:28 AM |
| 34 | What do you do when you've been made uncomfortable at a barThey know they're intimidating. They know that staring sent the message "what are you gonna do about it". They know it's not worth the hassle of reporting or trying to get ANY kind of justice. They fucking hate being laughed at though. Just look at the outrage this sub is causing for the amount we mock subpar men. Let your fear and anger turn into laughter at how pathetic they are. Point and laugh. "oh my god, imagine being so unattractive, you have to grab women, because you can't flirt or get … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 06:24 AM |
| 16 | Another Example of Post Partum Abuse Escalation: Husband Won’t Stop Taking and Sharing Photos of Topless WifeGood links from the post https://www.globalhealthnow.org/2019-10/intimate-partner-violence-deters-breastfeeding https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/here-there-and-everywhere/201701/11-warning-signs-gaslighting This shit is seen on /justnoMIL all the time. Mother in law sees you as an incubator for her new baby and fucks up your breastfeeding by hovering, criticizing, taking baby, not giving it back, insisting on overnights, wanting to feed, bond and have alone time. It's creepy as fuck and i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 05:58 AM |
| 15 | The Oxytocin Myth"Honestly Connor when has your dick ever worked, just move" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 05:44 AM |
| 18 | Imagine telling your coworker that she has to compete with younger and sexier women. Your COWORKER. Because you got offended when she joked about her box being a hot commodity.Right, they rely on their height to carry them instead of having a personality or game. All these moids wishing they were taller. nah brah, you'd just be a tall loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 04:20 AM |
| 29 | Cheating husband surprises no one by cheating again, wife wants to know how to regain sex life... Daily reminder to take ZERO shit from men!I believe the intent was as a warning to women here. As you can see, many of us have also experienced this, and the forehead slapping, shame and blame of our own. I acknowledge the impact linking your post had on you and I'm sorry. I hope you come to a resolution that benefits you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 06:30 PM |
| 7 | Tell the man in your life that you don’t want to take hormonal birth control and that you want him to get a vasectomy or use condoms instead. Watch their hamster wheels spin.Take some responsibility instead of placing it all on them. Hear hear. Oh, you don't see how retarded you sound. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 02:55 PM |
| 38 | Cheating husband surprises no one by cheating again, wife wants to know how to regain sex life... Daily reminder to take ZERO shit from men!Fucking trauma bond. he's the villain then the hero. Don't fall for it ladies. https://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/10-steps-to-recovering-from-toxic-trauma-bond-0110175 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 02:36 PM |
| 15 | Fuckboy Bingo - he nailed itwith low mileage on that 40 year old vaj! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 02:11 PM |
| 31 | Fuckboy Bingo - he nailed itI wish I had the confidence, self-esteem and sheer obliviousness of Gary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 01:35 PM |
| 14 | BDSM is disgustingYou know what's a good way to work through your trauma? Therapy. With a real therapist. Not with a dude who likes rape. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 07:15 AM |
| 5 | 🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮"This BMI calc says ur obese" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 07:07 AM |
| 9 | Empaths beware!If people consider themselves to be very sensitive to other's emotions, it's actually hypervigilance caused by childhood trauma. Reported a lot on /r/CPTSD by both males and females. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 07:04 AM |
| 35 | My boyfriend calls me "bitchy" almost daily.I don't know if I'm being too sensitive like my dad says that I am THANKS DAD guess where she learned to tolerate this shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 05:54 AM |
| 25 | What Men Really Mean"I prioritize literally everything else before the dedication, effort, maturity and attention a loving relationship requires, but I'll put in 2% effort to get 100% of your effort". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 05:16 AM |
| 6 | When the monsters you’re marrying shows his true coloursYeah I was gonna say.. that snarl on his face, he hates her. She's dead a month after she gives birth to a boy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 04:11 AM |
| 14 | Men age like wine 🍷 women age like milk 🥛.Me digging for gold | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 05:59 PM |
| 22 | Men age like wine 🍷 women age like milk 🥛.He's got his stuff together alright.. in one of these | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 05:11 PM |
| 33 | BDSM is disgustingAlso, what the fuck is this new trend of getting away with murder by calling it rough sex??? https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/crime/man-kills-woman-sadomasochistic-sex-stabbing-neck-jail-jason-gaskell-laura-huteson-sheffield-a8486421.html https://metro.co.uk/2019/11/03/man-charged-woman-19-dies-rough-sex-party-11033741/ https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/millionaire-murdered-girlfriend-after-losing-13595610 Going full paranoid mode and texting a dude 14 times "I do not consent to rough s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 04:56 PM |
| 35 | When the monsters you’re marrying shows his true coloursWellp, she'll never do that again. GET MARRIED THAT IS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 04:32 PM |
| 40 | Within the Manosphere, what’s with all the septum ring hate?"You exist for my male gaze and I didn't approve of your piercings or tats" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 01:58 PM |
| 33 | Honestly, let’s not pretend like Red Pill strategies don’t work.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fD2briZ6fB0 So you take those men and offer them "the answers" and it turns into a clusterfuck of socially awkward boys attempting to get laid using manipulation, coercion, emotional blackmail and by having Power Over women, instead of Personal Power. Negging https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/dmppob/tactics_to_counter_common_rp_strategies/ Dread https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/drkyd9/series_tactics_to_counter_common_rp_s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 01:50 PM |
| 17 | PSA50/50 marry or murder you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 10:42 AM |
| 21 | How do you respond to breadcrumbing without blocking?The only person you can control is yourself. Do you even like him. Do you want his attention. Is he a decent person. Could you see yourself making a future with him. bzzzt the answer is no, punt breadcrumbers to the moon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 10:20 AM |
| 14 | Classmate [24M] drunkenly hit on me [25F] at a party. He said to take his number and text him later since he was drunk. What do I do?He can sober up and come correct. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 10:18 AM |
| 6 | Realizing if I stopped caring so much about other's opinions I would get hurt a lot less> It sucks to have men try to gaslight me or make me out to be a bitch. Thats their M.O. They can't raise themselves up so they have to tear you down. We're declining cheap dates and walking out on weak dick. And getting called sociopaths and psychopaths. lmfao. Stay strong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 04:38 AM |
| 10 | I fucking love this sub,it has made some moids stalk me online and they are the first ones who downvote my comments and threads32,000 women who werent going to fuck them anyway, nooooo, such hatred... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 03:08 AM |
| 21 | Why does it traumatize men so deeply when we don’t say 100% nice things about them?They're on the eternal search for NewMummy, and once we don't coddle and pander to them, they're enraged they wasted 5 minutes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 09:20 PM |
| 14 | Why does it traumatize men so deeply when we don’t say 100% nice things about them?soooo he's a misunderstood narcissist lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 09:09 PM |
| 7 | To be or not to be.... upfront? That is the question.Ask "Do you want sex?" What could go wrong :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 05:40 PM |
| 4 | British women are killing themselves over revenge porn - please never trust men completely even if they are your long term husbands,mots of these victims thought they are in love with those men,never share a nude no matter the pressureRight, do your best to protect yourself, and don't blame the victim. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 04:25 PM |
| 1 | [REQUEST] Help me find a creep?Incorrect sub for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Reminder of what we shouldn't doI sucked some other friends in and they feed me karma memes hahah. I left the name at the top because crediting the source is polite;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Reminder of what we shouldn't dosorry I got in first :O | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 11:21 AM |
| 28 | Reminder From RPW: If you're ever tempted to go the "traditional" relationship route because it seems quaint or sweet, remember that it involves sacrificing all of your self-worth, dignity and happinessMan: cheats RPW: bends over backwards treating him FDS: faceplam | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 11:10 AM |
| 19 | My experience as a Red Pill WomanAnd yet they hate it. They have a sick boner for the idea of a submissive slave, some revenge fantasy of telling a woman what to do and making her cater to your every whim. But in reality it's sickening and boring. You don't have love or respect for your Roomba do you. Many a dead bedroom with men being butlers for their wives. It's gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 09:56 AM |
| 17 | Why is it so hard to let the trash take itself out? What is it thats preventing me from being able to let him walk away when he undermines my dignity and doesn’t know how to say “I’m sorry”? Why is my need for him to TRULY apologize greater than my need to actually not tolerate shitty behavior?https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/the-dance-connection/201706/why-person-who-hurt-you-will-never-apologize Stop trying to get blood from a stone. It sucks, I know, ruminating on revenge fantasies feels good.. for a while. You're poisoning no-one but yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 09:42 AM |
| 11 | Following someone first on Instagram?Handsome man on insta. has tons of followers. being 1 of many girls timidly following him and hoping he picks you out of the crowd = being one of his "spinning plates" Beautiful woman on insta. Has a ton of followers. Chooses the best option out of all the men orbiting her. In theory. imo people with thousands of selfies on social media are vapid validation seekers who have no boundaries about who they let into their life, and give too much of themselves without being discerning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Empowering/informative books for women?"Come As You Are" Everything you need to know about your sexuality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 07:29 AM |
| 27 | My experience as a Red Pill WomanCheaters gonna cheat. He doesn't want to pick. He wants 2 (or more) women to do the pick-me dance. https://www.chumplady.com/2012/04/the-unified-theory-of-cake/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 07:22 AM |
| 8 | Anyone use FDS concepts on workplace relationships?Being a healthy person means you apply it everywhere. You have strong boundaries for every situation. You feel comfortable saying no, no matter what. You're good at deciding who's worthy of your assistance. You don't freely give your time, labour, expertise, money, love, affection and adoration to any old toxic scrub just so they'll like you. You're aware of disrespect and don't tolerate it. Anywhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 06:50 AM |
| 10 | Following someone first on Instagram?Women have orbiters, men have plates. Do you want to be his plate? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 06:42 AM |
| 10 | "My (21 F) boyfriend (28 M) doesn’t like to wear deodorant or brush his teeth regularly. Advice?"I love how the flair lines up perfectly with the title. Advice? DUMP HIS ASS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 06:41 AM |
| 21 | British women are killing themselves over revenge porn - please never trust men completely even if they are your long term husbands,mots of these victims thought they are in love with those men,never share a nude no matter the pressureWell, teaching men not to rape, teaching men to respect women, blindly trusting men *clearly isn't working* so we have to protect ourselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 06:11 AM |
| 4 | Being too sexual too soon when datingYou’re not here for his entertainment. You’re not a 1800 sex chat worker. You’re not a free cam girl. You’re not free naughty wank material by telling him all your fantasies tee hee. You’re not free nudes. Dude can google that shit. Knock off the free masturbation material. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 03:44 AM |
| 20 | UPDATE (I am so sick of this shit - a guy I knew from youth club when I was 15 has randomly popped up to ‘chat’ five years later) HE REPLIED LMAOGive me instant gratificaaaaaation waaaaah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 01:50 AM |
| 4 | Book Review: Growing Up AgainPerfect example of a Defective https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H1E39N-vmXE When he breaks down at the end repeating "How is she dead", he's completely incapable of putting 2+2 together that "shaking the shit out of her and bashing her head against the wall" has the consequences of her.. you know.. fucking dying. Zero guilt, shame, remorse, contrition or a conscience. Complete denial. Terrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 12:13 PM |
| 5 | Do you want closure or do you want to see if he came up with enough lies to get you to settle?No requesting DM's. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 08:25 AM |
| 28 | A toxic dialogue between a man and a womanI'm having a steak with that word salad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 06:40 PM |
| 66 | Series: Tactics to Counter Common RP StrategiesGreat! Dread always pissed me off, I was waiting for this :D I was.. sadly.. sucked into the popcorn of MRP for quite a while.. trying to diagnose exactly what's wrong with those men. A lot of emotionally and socially stunted, confused, angry, lazy guys who blamed "the lies society told them" (the lies they greedily devoured because the fairy tales enabled their laziness) for all their failures with women and their life. Their rigid thought processes need a flow chart to solve problems. MRP "sol… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 06:16 PM |
| 23 | How did you ladies deal with shame looking back at past relationships?A lot of eyerolling, therapy, journaling, youtube seminars and talks on codependence and narcissism, self help books, talking with women, fluffy pillows, wine, and a cat. I haven't been shipped my complimentary cat tho guys, when do I get that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 04:42 PM |
| 6 | Basic life skills BS - the quizThat's a lot of work to be lazy and gross lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 03:56 PM |
| 5 | Basic life skills BS - the quizand if you make the mistake of taking it off to wash it, the whole pillow is yellow and the stamp is faded but it says 'Replace in 1990' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 03:50 PM |
| 105 | He should be coming to you.10pm: "You should come over" "I should ;)" <turns notifications off, pulls down sleep mask and gets 8 hours> | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 03:46 PM |
| 10 | Basic life skills BS - the quizomg the oily dandruff pillow my face just broke out in horror | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 03:37 PM |
| 5 | Basic life skills BS - the quizOr there is a bin but it has over 100 fully yellow q-tips. His ears were a wax factory. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 02:39 PM |
| 6 | Is this a sign of an abusive,violent manThen he's gone, no questions, no discussions. You're the final judge for your safety. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 02:30 PM |
| 16 | AskReddit: how do guys feel abour girls making the first moveJust give the poor guy a chance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 02:13 PM |
| 6 | Is this a sign of an abusive,violent manPersonally I have an insane flinch reaction to having my throat touched so I woulda been out of there. Was he checking for if you tolerated it? What's your opinion on it? Do you think he violated a normal boundary to have? Do you want to be strangled? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 02:09 PM |
| 11 | Basic life skills BS - the quizno soap or hand towels in the bathroom or kitchen garbage in the footwell of his car (yeah I should have just bailed on the first date) which included a doorstop, rubber band, sand, gas receipt and a tiny spanner. They all remained there for 2 years. black mold on the ceiling from a water damaged roof (I want 5 pts for this because I almost died) doesn't own a vacuum, dustpan or mop never washed couch & cushion covers, or curtains clear your own space on the dining table if you want to eat there… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 01:53 PM |
| 21 | Did my ex ‘neg’ me?Nah that's straight up verbal abuse. Abuse only works if he sprinkles in the kindness. Otherwise they're a straight up asshole and we'd never even start. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 01:21 PM |
| 23 | Reminder ladies: #replacedontchaseI love peeling the plastic off a new one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 01:19 PM |
| 12 | Women have the leverage, moids have the hatred. Date real men, and disregard the rhetoric of Reddit moids.The average guy at the mall isn't frothing with insane rage and telling me to eat shit.. Agreed on the porn addiction, but they're not screaming at me because of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 12:38 PM |
| 50 | Women have the leverage, moids have the hatred. Date real men, and disregard the rhetoric of Reddit moids.Yeeeeah Reddit is not representative of real life. The amount of vitriol we get in modmail is insane. I frequently go outside to remind myself that mentally healthy men are in the majority. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 11:45 AM |
| 11 | Is this a sign of an abusive,violent manHad you ever had any conversation about strangling, whatsoever? Did he ask, or just go right ahead with this oddball move? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 11:40 AM |
| 72 | Stop being impressed by mediocre shit.He said "Hey" with a capital H, time to put an onion ring on that man's finger | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 04:35 AM |
| 6 | Have you guys seen this yet? r/Toxic-Femininity is planning a “raid” here on November 20, lol.Prohibited behavior In addition to not submitting unwelcome content, the following behaviors are prohibited on Reddit Asking for votes or engaging in vote manipulation Creating multiple accounts to evade punishment or avoid restrictions (such as, alt accounts because they're banned here already) Every asshat who said they were in... just asked for a Reddit ban, really. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Heads UpThank you. Do they even have a goal, besides punitive trolling and glee for one second? Automod will delete all their comments. No-one will see them. I'm going to watch a movie and press delete a lot. Their grand scheme will inconvenience like.. 2 women. And get them Reddit banned for vote manipulation and brigading. They're basically throwing a rock against a brick wall and hitting themselves in the nuts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 03:57 AM |
| 25 | Female Dating Strategy for women who don't want kidsThey want the kid to pop out as a 6 year old so they can play catch. 2 years of sleep deprivation and diapers? no ty. whining on deadbedrooms about how their wife won't fuck them 2 weeks after giving birth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 03:21 AM |
| 26 | To the moid lurkers. If women expecting more feels like an affront to you, it's because you're low effort and need to do better. That's not our fault 😂🤣Me: freshly showered, shaved, pretty dress, pedicure, cute shoes Him: cargo shorts, velcro sandals, yellow toenails, stubbly face Also him: ghosted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 03:04 AM |
| 3 | How do you talk to your man/men about porn?"You have 30 days to book and attend a CSAT for porn addiction or I'm out" Men have to want to go. Addicts can't cold turkey. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Heads UpCheers:) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 11:36 AM |
| 11 | Keep your standards right where they are ladiesEither : There's something wrong with me and I'm attracted to women with legit mental health issues, and I keep sticking my dick in crazy, or There's something wrong with me and I'm so emotionally stunted I can't handle any emotion from you that isn't neutral or happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 07:32 AM |
| 42 | Grown Ass Man, 37, harasses 20 year old musician neighbor for a date. She turns him down, so naturally, he wants to know if it’s okay to call the cops on her when she practices now.He honestly thinks 2 months "investment" of fake compliments and inserting himself into her life earned him the poon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 07:29 AM |
| 8 | Stay away from emotionally unavailable menDoormats, butlers and simpering people pleasers are gross. They use invisible bargains, or covert contracts, as transactions. They give to get, but expect you to mind read. eg. "I was nice, you didn't give me sex? Bitch" A confident, assertive man is ok with stating his needs and doesn't need to play games. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 06:48 AM |
| 16 | Another porn sick, limp dick husband/u/green_egg_and_sam girl... I know it's normal, and healthy Its not. It's really not. Look at what it's doing to him. Look at what it's done to your sex life. Look at what it's done to your relationship, your happiness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 05:54 AM |
| 93 | Proposal for a sticky: a non negotiable list of dealbreakers in husbands, fans, dates, boyfriends, etcLiar, cheat, porn addict, never owns his mistakes or bad choices. The bar is so fucking low | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 05:52 AM |
| 954 | This. After he cheated on me & ruined our 15 year marriage. I am happy! Happy I got away from you."I liked you better before I abused and destroyed you" no shit? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 05:51 AM |
| 14 | Texting with man every day prior to first dateIf it feels tedious, he's not a good communicator. Something about the way he's either dumping or taking is draining you. Pleasant conversations are reciprocal, nourishing and validating, where you both feel like you can speak freely and will be heard. He won't be good LTR material. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 04:07 AM |
| 6 | The fate of "redpilled women" who follow red-pilled ideology. "He used me. Fucked me, and left me for another girl who's hotter and more educated and more accomplished. Feeling crazy".fuuuuck how many asktrp bullshit posts start with "found a HB8, took her virginity, she's nice and submissive, cooks and cleans, but I'm still spinning plates, I'm unsure about upgrading her to LTR" <proceeds to write about how he's got a fucking magnifying glass on her to nitpick something retarded so he can dump her because having a slave is not satisfying> You get everything you claim you want and you're not happy. Thanks for ruining a good woman, you're the problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 03:46 AM |
| 40 | "How does a girl go from chasing me to moving on after 2 months??" She levels up, that's how. Notice how he didn't give a fuck about her until after she went No Contact and moved on. He ADMITS he only wants her when she's not available. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!!!I made some mistakes by cheating on her twice. Holy fuck the minimization How does a girl go from being madly in love and so scared I would dump her to being able to move on in 2 months? Oh I dunno, she realized you were a piece of shit? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 02:53 AM |
| 15 | Help shedding the guilt of moving on?Are you sure it's guilt? What do you have to feel guilty about. Perhaps someone in your past has trained you to feel BAD when you don't put their wants over your needs. You might be confusing it for anxiety, fear of being alone, fear of retaliation, if you drop this one guy, no matter how bad and how poorly he treats you. Being alone is better than being with someone who doesn't make you feel good. If you think this might be the case, look into things like distress tolerance, self-soothing, emot… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 02:38 AM |
| 22 | My date: Goldie Hawn & Kate Hudson are MONSTERS! Oddest negging and "the wall" nonsense.I don't think he was lol There are a bunch of socially awkward dorks who really talk like this. Red-Pill strategy was meant to imitate successful chads, they ended up mimicing socially stunted asshats. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 02:03 AM |
| 31 | It's not always relationship baggageI was going to start at the beginning via book reviews. Growing Up Again: Parenting Ourselves, Parenting Our Children - I love this one, it shows what abuse, neglect, overindulgence, conditional care, supportive and assertive care looks like, and how it affects you. Adult Children of Emotionally Immature parents - great to show what emotional immaturity looks like so you can spot it in men and realise they just can't be fixed. Complex PTSD - childhood abuse, neglect and abandonment has been reco… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 05:42 PM |
| 9 | It's not always relationship baggagehaha savage :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 04:42 PM |
| 6 | Question: who should text who after a first date?Thanking him if you enjoyed yourself is polite no matter what. He can reach out again or not after that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 04:39 PM |
| 8 | Recently saw a reddit post along the lines of “what’s a small thing a guy can do to let a woman know he’s interested”...We probably already know he's interested. He's asking the wrong questions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Watch as Cardi B correctly explains that since moids only date women based on their looks, women should only date moids for moneyAlright people. She has an interesting message, but the way she went about it was.. not what we're promoting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 10:48 AM |
| – | It's not always relationship baggageA lot of our (and his) issues could be from childhood traumas. Emotional neglect, abuse, abandonment. I'll be getting into those over the next few weeks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 08:04 AM |
| 17 | Yeah this is pretty much exactly how males think... yes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 07:24 AM |
| 39 | Yeah this is pretty much exactly how males thinkThat's like.. every third post on deadbedrooms 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 06:13 AM |
| 26 | Why Do Men Refuse to Be Responsible For Their Own Fertility and Then Act Like Its a Personal Affront If A Woman Gets Pregnant? Birth Control is 100%. You KNOW the risks."she seems completely convinced that she wants to keep the baby," Solution? Give the fucking kid away! Jesus christ. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 06:10 AM |
| 11 | How is your experience with courtship/dating with men outside the US?Don't think redpill has made it to Australia. The divorced and never married men in the dating pool here have a different set of.. undesirable qualities. Mostly, never doing self help. Don't know which is worse :P No therapy or red-pill as self-help urgh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 04:39 AM |
| 40 | Men Would Literally Stroke Out If They Were Picked Apart Physically As Much As WomenOh my gaaaawd my ex was told by a woman, on one date, she didn't like body hair ONE TIME and I got to deal with that shit daily, reassuring that insecure crybaby non-stop for 2 years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 04:36 AM |
| 6 | Do NOT date...Yep, ex in IT who "didn't use much porn" had a dedicated server full of porn, and was binging for 12 hours on weekends instead of doing housework. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 04:05 AM |
| 5 | Do NOT date...Good from afar, but far from good :P | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 04:03 AM |
| 3 | One reason never to get married... Gross man ejaculates into wife’s smoothie every dayWe're linking to non-participation forms of posts to prevent brigading and pissing off that sub / that OP. The sub removes posts and the OP doesn't get advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 03:53 AM |
| 18 | Why FDS is NOT about 'goldigging'Precisely. In multiple other subs it's the exact same story. Women stuck in an abusive relationship with a man of poor character, who decided once he "got the girl" it was time to have his little regression to childhood while new mummy wipes his ass. The reply to the first person who says "Leave" ? "Can't, I'm broke, and he earns minimum wage". He's spending her money, her time, her years, and she's getting nowhere, and nothing except haggard. They're stuck because they believed the lies - get t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 02:45 AM |
| 15 | Internet safety - protect yourselves ladiesSure thing! stay safe :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 04:37 PM |
| 16 | Where can FDS members debate the haters ?I've just had the misfortune of reading the frothing outrage to the "dont get coerced into sex" concepts. Instead of going "hmm, maybe I've done some of these in the past, that's no good", they immediately started nitpicking, scoffing, twisting and defending why they should be allowed to keep using coercive tactics to ignore a woman saying No to sex. They're incapable of listening, comprehending and pondering. Their first instinct is to deny, defend, blame-shift and minimize. There will be no de… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 03:41 AM |
| 15 | Chris Hansen's To Catch a Predator: Ordinary men can turn to soliciting sex from minors when they hit the wallbut what would the consequences be to HER if i fucked one? Exactly! I watched a 3 hour documentary on this depravity (do not recommend) and they busted a pedo. He immediately started blubbering and wailing that "he wasn't built for jail" You self-absorbed piece of shit, a 14 year old girl isn't built for penetration | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 03:33 AM |
| 71 | Too Good Not To Share 😂Men: blah blah blah all our bullshit is because biological imperative, men need to protect and provide Also men: takes some weird pride in never going to the gym, unable to protect, has a couch tantrum about the notion of providing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 03:10 AM |
| 19 | There’s very little that’s great about most men on their own and they know it, which is why they have to use fear tactics to get women to comply. If you ask them to justify themselves and why a woman would want to be with them, most of them couldn’t.BecAuSe i'M sUch a NicE GuY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 03:06 AM |
| 10 | Never let him "talk you into" sex.Oh my gosh :( they’re so insidious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 10:27 PM |
| 15 | We made plans for Saturday night, haven’t spoken since Tuesday. Do I need to text him to confirm?Every time a dude goes silent the day before a date, they were just thinking up an absurd lie to flake with. Go ahead and make fresh plans, not with a whiny alcoholic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 06:10 PM |
| 3 | How do you get over your mistakes?Good to hear :) onwards and upwards! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 05:05 PM |
| 10 | Just had a Tinder date, he asked me to go to his place. I said hell no.Well done! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 04:37 PM |
| 12 | Advice. I want to look my best.There is no wall ;) Look up celebs similar to your body shape and copy their style. I like dark purple / eggplant clothing and a few piece of gold for night time dates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 04:36 PM |
| 18 | GOLDDIGGING WHORE = Responsible Woman Who Selects Partners Who Can Actually Afford to Care For Their Offspring.How are they so offended at the notion of giving money. It's literally the only way half of them are going to lose their virginity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Genuine Emotional and Physical Connectionoh ok, the sidebar has more info, i believe if you're on the app, go to the main page of the sub, and up the top is 3 dots ... and "Community Info" :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 02:31 PM |
| 32 | Real talk... how the heck do you date?Ditch the apps. Join social groups and hang out with fun friends. Observe men for at least a month and slowly upgrade them from stranger to acquaintance. Building trust takes time. Finding out if someone has integrity and has good character can't be done over dinner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 01:37 PM |
| 22 | How do you get over your mistakes?The rumination phase is normal. Desire for revenge. Laying awake at night seething, going "AND ANOTHER THING!!" Anger at all the injustices that led to this. Grief over the time wasted. Self-recriminations. I think we've all thought "how could I be so stupid". Predators are really good at what they do. People trained to have no boundaries, to put other people first, to be considerate and kind.. we stand no chance. We give them the benefit of the doubt and they take our forgiveness for free, unea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Thank you for your wisdom. I am sorry.The narc smirk! omg my Dad did the exact same one, and I was like wellp thanks dad, now i know why I'm predator bait, you fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 01:01 PM |
| 182 | Never let him "talk you into" sex.Edit: because retards need to defend their rape tactics This list is from this site https://outofthefog.website/top-100-trait-blog/sexual-coercion The "withdrawal of financial support" has ACTUALLY been suggested as a coercion tactic on /r/deadbedrooms from breadwinner men to force their SAHM wives to fuck them again. AKA Financial Abuse. Obviously it's coercion if you've said No, or shown zero interest in sex, and then he randomly buys you gifts, or tells you "but you're so beautiful baby" as a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Thank you for your wisdom. I am sorry.I said "hey, you're Mister Right" in this book. He looked *so fucking pleased*. I said "nah, Mister Always Right, a type of abuser, I need some time to think" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 12:38 PM |
| 2 | Thank you for your wisdom. I am sorry.I used his credit card and kindle account to buy "Why Does He Do That" which was his downfall lmfao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 12:35 PM |
| 15 | Wow you're really selling it to me Dan. I suggest a gym membership and grammar lessonsThe re-branding of fat guts here has made me heave. What the fuck ladies. Beer bellies contribute to heart disease. Do you wanna look after a fatty in your 50's because he continued to let himself go while you kept yourself in shape? Help him get out of his scooter? Changes the bandages on his stump when he loses his foot to diabetes? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 10:56 AM |
| 3 | How do you encourage your man step things up?Apparently men like competition. I'm not a fan of mind games to inspire jealousy. "Other activities" such as going out with girlfriends and to whatever you want to do, so he'll want to compete to get your time and have the enthusiasm back to himself. "I'm off to the museum, it's going to be so fun!" and soon he'll want to be the one taking you out for fun. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 09:22 AM |
| 20 | Has anyone else just received a message from an incel complaining about being banned?Report them to the Admin for Threats. Block them. Take a screencap and mock the shit out of them post the crap we have to deal with on /r/FDSSuperFans/ Misogynistic 'movements' - let's rape and murder women FDS - let's just ignore and refuse to date men we don't want to Incels - we're going to rape you 👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 09:08 AM |
| 36 | When men say "let's see where this goes"...Could be a decent, healthy guy doing the same thing we're (hopefully) doing - getting to know you, building trust, determining if you're of good character and add value to his life. Could be he's decided he doesn't want to invest in you as marriage potential so he's cooled off. Could be a line, he actually means "friends for my benefit". Keep an eye on him. Does he actually want to do friendship building activities and get to know you as a person, or has he benched you for when he's lonely and b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 06:31 AM |
| 5 | My place... or theirs?Ask him to get a nice hotel room and a whole romantic evening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 03:32 AM |
| 9 | How do you encourage your man step things up?A ton of men have the mindset of "got the girl" and "time to relax and enjoy my hard work". Never let them think they got the girl. Complacency = lazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 03:25 AM |
| 33 | Genuine Emotional and Physical ConnectionI assumed it was unspoken - we're all here because we KNOW we're compassionate, kind, nurturing, nourishing, mature and capable. We've been used by men who are the complete opposite, and we need dating strategies to weed them out faster, instead of getting sucked into 6+ month timesinks, only to realise.. oops, found another one. Our caring nature and willingness to forgive is what makes us great partners, and easy prey. We need advice on spotting red flags, and standing up for ourselves. Findin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 03:23 AM |
| 8 | Emotionally immature guys?Yes, it's severe, to the stage where I think men in the dating pool are all on the spectrum. I'm about to make a post on the signs of emotional immaturity and what to look for. I bet so many men are going to get dumped right after lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 03:16 AM |
| 10 | What are some things you wished you knew as a teenager?You're the main character in your life. You're not the supporting character in some disappointing dude's life. Don't hand your power over to a man and trust him to have your best interests at heart. They do not. You are the final judge and most trustworthy person to decide what's right for you. You have the final say in everything regarding YOUR life. You have the right to say No. If someone makes you feel guilty, it's a Hell No. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 03:13 AM |
| 3 | I have been in love with this guy and at his whim for 18 months and I finally levelled up last week and told him to take it or leave it and he’s been pining for me since. But sis, I’m done.Start remembering and categorizing what he's doing. If he does "inconsiderate" or "late", you explain "hey, I don't like it when you're inconsiderate" -> "damn I wish I didn't fuck up" (this is NOT an apology), he does it again, boot him. Is he retarded? you dont want that Is he severely forgetful? you dont want that Does he know what the fuck he's doing and being a lazy cunt, seeing how long he can get away with making you eat shit sandwiches? you dont want that. Bye boy. Google "an apology has… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 03:07 AM |
| 7 | Women who post in r/datingoverforty for advice, should post here instead"I'd love a woman forever if she asked me out and carried the entire relationship and wiped my ass" 😍 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 03:00 AM |
| 5 | The lies men tell women about 'the wall': Phoebe Cates in her 50's, Julie Andrew's in her 80's and Marlon Brando (the ultimate Chad) in his 80's.I saw a 4 hour documentary on Nightmare on Elm street (worth it) which basically says Johnny Depp owing his career to one of the producer's (?) daughters saying she liked his look, as opposed to the overly brawny type. So that got him started. He owes his career to a girl looool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 02:56 AM |
| 2 | The lies men tell women about 'the wall': Phoebe Cates in her 50's, Julie Andrew's in her 80's and Marlon Brando (the ultimate Chad) in his 80's.It takes them until 55 to earn a dollar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 02:52 AM |
| 4 | Boyfriend Says He Won’t Marry Girlfriend Because She Takes Pictures Sometimes 🙄It's coercive control, and actually starting to be made illegal hon. RUN https://www.learning-mind.com/coercive-control-manipulation/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 02:50 AM |
| 9 | I have been in love with this guy and at his whim for 18 months and I finally levelled up last week and told him to take it or leave it and he’s been pining for me since. But sis, I’m done.Wow. Way to have compassion. Don't be a jerk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 05:44 PM |
| 4 | [Meta] Thread comment counts/misc sub questions.https://reddit.statuspage.io/ Investigating - There's a clog in the pipes. Your images, comments, and votes will take a bit longer to process. https://i.imgur.com/vuo9k4w.png | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 05:37 PM |
| 6 | How do you fend off dating fatigue?A kind of related study showed that the effects of being rejected (for sex, by your partner) lasted 72 hours. I don't do anything dating related from Monday-Wednesday. Good time to recharge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 05:06 PM |
| 29 | He follows a bunch of IG models, most of which are local (acceptable behavior?)Shitty behaviour, minimizing, gaslighting, being untrustworty with your secrets, no empathy, won't take responsibility, and places the burden back on you so his 'problem' (you being sad) is resolved. Girl, drop him at "shitty behaviour", no discussion necessary. You're young and hot. Raise your standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 05:01 PM |
| 31 | Men are really out here thinking we “have it easy” and “don’t need a dating strategy” because we have dusty cumskulls willing to pounce and bounceEjac and evac Blow and go Screw ya and booyah Hit it and quit it Cum on your face and leave your place Disappoint and leave your joint Jerk off on your titty and flee the city Unimpress and jizz on your dress Try to go raw and get kicked out the door Have an existential crisis as he realises his search for poon has been meaningless all along, he's an underachiever and underemployed, afraid he'll never live up to his father's expectations, never make his mother or any other woman proud, his overw… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 04:50 PM |
| 31 | Don't be thirsty for verbal validation. Don't be like RedPillWomen. The only real compliment a man can give you is his resources. Married Stacy gives based advice."You know I'd do anything for you right?" <puts his boots up on the coffee table and cracks a beer> | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 12:51 PM |
| 54 | He just doesn’t get it.Not your job to make him get it. He's there to suck attention from you and be inappropriate while he jerks off under the desk, not learn how to be a decent human. I would have blocked him after "damn you are a fine piece" :P | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 12:00 PM |
| 5 | Thank you for your wisdom. I am sorry.He was the 3rd child of 4. When he was 2 years old his mom was heavily pregnant with his younger sister, so she stopped giving him physical attention. She was also busy and emotionally neglected him. He had to share a lot of things with his siblings. He grew into a skinny, socially awkward ginger with poor social skills and was a virgin until 19 or so. She overemphasised scholastic achievement in the household and let the golden child eldest son win illogical arguments without correction. His da… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 11:53 AM |
| 4 | How do you feel about incel subreddits using this subreddit to validate women are deceiving and only care about money?"HavE yoU tRied nOt beInG so crItiCal?? He'S afRaiD to mEss uP" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 10:56 AM |
| 27 | I met a HVM, but he has completely opposite political beliefs than me. Is this do-able?urgh sounds dreamy. Being able to accept that you have differing views, and that you have the RIGHT to have differing views, is a sign of emotional maturity and quite rare. I usually get mocked, dismissed, told I'm wrong and that he's right, for the most retarded things, like icecream flavour. If you don't start pushing your beliefs on each other and maintain respect, it will be fine. For me, respect is more important than agreement, or being a clone of me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 07:14 AM |
| 94 | Don’t ever accept threesomes. Ever.Men : hoes these days aint loyal Also men : following 5,000 women on snapchat, instagram, facebook. subscribed to pornhub. paying camgirls. ducking off to the bathroom while you're waiting in bed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 07:05 AM |
| 9 | So what's wrong with hypergamy?I agree, 80% of people are just living their lives. When you're isolated in a basement and not interacting with regular people, just marinating in a circle jerk that started with one faulty premise, you can come to some batshit conclusions. Only the top 20 get laid, I'm not on the top 20, I'll never get laid, it's out of my control and hopeless, nothing I can do about it, the burden is on women to be less shallow, blah blah endless hateful posts that women are shallow, I hate women, I'm an ugly … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 06:43 AM |
| 43 | So what's wrong with hypergamy?The problem with hypergamy is.. the entire premise is invalid. The OKCupid "study" which sprouted the false 80/20 "rule" was.. so laughable, yet they extrapolated the shit out it and claim it's the truth. It's a tiny sample of dating app users. The "data" is 'who swipes who', not who actually GETS who. Sure, all the women are swiping right on the top 20%, are they actually dating and fucking these men? no. All the men message the shit out of 20 year olds. Do they actually have a chance with thes… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 04:50 AM |
| 6 | This is usually how it goes. She probably doesn’t even have a clueDudes on that sub have multiple talks, but it's always "you're making me feel sad and unloved, pls fuck me" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 04:18 AM |
| 7 | These are the men who only chase after the "purest" and "chastiest" women. Did it ever occur to some men that the types of girls who remain sexually pure throughout their lives are simply not that into sex??? Men only chase after women who are clearly asexual then act surprised when there's no sex..I've been on deadbedrooms for many years, and the facepalm is real. They did this to themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 04:14 AM |
| 3 | Women don't like me wahhhhhh"Here's a roadmap on how to treat women with respect, kindness and generosity, to earn her love, devotion, compassion and nourishment" "HEY GUYS, LETS NOT DO THAT" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 04:13 AM |
| 9 | Did You Have To Ask Your Husband First Before Posting This, Luv? 🙄 (RPWomen FDS Response Thread)"How dare you reject me, I wanted to (keep my delusion that I could) reject you!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 03:51 AM |
| 2 | Why am I so worried about my crazy fuckboy ex’s health?They don't care for advice from silly women. My Dad's been obese for decades. Keeps moaning about various ailments. I tell him how to fix it. He says "his doctor says his blood pressure is fine" so he refuses to change. I think some men have brain damage and are unable to make long term decisions. As soon as his doctor told him his blood pressure was fucked and he was pre-diabetic, he made some mild changes. Still refused to believe he was mortal. Shrug. Not my problem. He just liked whining and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 03:46 AM |
| 3 | What’s your skin routine?I have dry, dehydrated, sensitive skin, and I live in a humid area. hydrating cleanser and moisturizer. it pulls moisture from the air into my face. if you're in a dry area it might pull moisture from your skin. spf50 for sensitive skin vitamin c serum to brighten, fade age spots, and plump lines retinol A twice a week for skin turnover and plump lines My skin has gone from dull, tan and some age spots, to more porcelain and glowing, over the past few months. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 03:35 AM |
| 4 | Pay attention to how a man treats servers at a restaurant.If you're in a place with good waitstaff (as you should be) simply turn and face the person scanning the room to see who needs assistance. Non-verbally inviting them over is much more socially sophisticated than snapping and ordering them over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 03:24 AM |
| 11 | How do you feel about incel subreddits using this subreddit to validate women are deceiving and only care about money?Whatever they need to confirm their delusions. I also believe there are bots or dedicated trolls on the main relationship subs with fake posts, pushing the narrative that women are gold-diggers, which gets a ton of "drop her, she needs to get a job" comments. When the troll posts about "my husband won't do housework", about half are apologetic, and suggest the woman needs to solve the problem, as "perhaps he doesn't know HOOOOW to do housework". She obviously can't just divorce him so the most s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 03:21 AM |
| 10 | How can I get over a bum-ass guy?Start pondering why you gave your love, time, effort, affection and nourishment to this loser who can't reciprocate. Why do you believe you're not worth that same effort. All that time could have been spent improving yourself, and you would have been 100x more grateful. The self-help would have stuck, instead of being poured into the bottomless pit that is an emotionally stunted guy. Put all your love and energy towards YOU. Until you no longer see "fixer-upper guy" as exciting, but disgusting a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 03:13 AM |
| 16 | RPW Pickmes be like:"I actually like beer guts dad bods" hurk | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 03:08 AM |
| 34 | Females should not be 100% responsible for Birth Control.No condom, no sex. Looks like dude chose "abstaining" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 03:06 AM |
| 13 | OH EM GEE We’re Being EXPOSED!!Better than renting a van I guess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 02:59 AM |
| 4 | Thank you for your wisdom. I am sorry.I was actually warning her to keep an eye on the next woman he sucks in to his sociopathic bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 01:38 PM |
| 48 | TRP tactic “Compliance Test” is just coercion and emotional blackmail.🖕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 01:18 PM |
| 19 | TRP tactic “Compliance Test” is just coercion and emotional blackmail.Stay safe, have fun! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 12:55 PM |
| 17 | Us: Brag about not letting a dude fuck us over Them: Brag about happily watching a woman get fucked overHis mother was the first to send him on his own way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 12:30 PM |
| 15 | “FDS is the most toxic space on reddit, even worse than redpill subs.”"I'm so saaaad that you've had experiences with my fellow man, who are pieces of shit. I won't do anything about it or admonish/prevent shitty behaviour when I see it, just whine about the unfair impact on me" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 08:06 AM |
| 12 | What are your sex tips?Figure out how you orgasm. Tell him "this is how I orgasm" If he starts fucking around with some other nonsense, walk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 03:41 AM |
| 19 | OK but just want to know"First woman I've talked to in months, better shoot my shot" Please stop shooting your shot on women at work... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 03:26 AM |
| 43 | “FDS is the most toxic space on reddit, even worse than redpill subs.”A minute later : They're learning how to protect themselves! Fuck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 03:21 AM |
| 11 | Thank you for your wisdom. I am sorry.Yep, I emailed his Mum with a bullet point list of how she fucked up raising him, and why her 40 year old son is a chronic bachelor with a personality disorder and multiple other sicknesses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 03:10 AM |
| 17 | Men’s sickened, shocked reactions to this sub are EXACTLY women’s reactions to TRPThe one asking "how to punish his plate" was just... I'm done for the day. what the actual fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 05:34 PM |
| 5 | Am I being irrational?"The Gift of Fear" is a helpful book. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 03:07 PM |
| 12 | (Physical) escalation timeline?If you want to slow it down and get to know him, go on more recreational instead of romantic dates. So rock climbing, hiking, walk in the park, the zoo, museums. Something where you can work as a team or learn something together. An escape room or a haunted house. Candlelit dinners just before bedtime leads to expectations. Do not go to, or let him in your house, until the day you want to have sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Dating a Old man (?Are you actually aiming for happiness and a healthy relationship, or some dates? Men who have to spend money to get a date, rather than enjoying the dates they naturally get... usually have something rather major missing. Eg looks, social skills, or a conscience. or time. (some successful men don't have time to date and build a relationship, they're happy with a superficial evening, but anyway) If you just want cool dates, have at it. Look up celebs with a similar body shape to you and copy thei… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 02:37 PM |
| 26 | The Truth About FDS Women: We aren’t similar to incels, nor are we "ugly" or mentally deranged. We are your everyday women.no wonder the men with ill intent are pissed I'm not sure it's those types. The ones who are actually out dating and scamming probably aren't on Reddit :P It's ok they'll feel the repercussions in the real world soon enough. The ones who had a rock-solid belief that they deserved, and would get, a beautiful woman, merely by existing and "just being themselves" is being mocked and challenged. They hate being laughed at almost as much as they hate putting in effort to better themselves, and god fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 12:54 PM |
| 61 | The Truth About FDS Women: We aren’t similar to incels, nor are we "ugly" or mentally deranged. We are your everyday women.Most of the comments start with "my ex bf did this, a guy I dated did that, so many guys are lousy in bed", and the supportive comments are "yeah same! that happened to me too! my ex was like that too! or I've dated 5 different guys like that, what's up" How did they conclude we're incels It's a sharp contrast to the weird way they talk.. in generalities with circle jerk stereotypes, bizarre misconceptions and hypotheticals, and just a frothing hatred of... women they've never met.. or touched..… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 12:33 PM |
| 5 | Am I being irrational?.. he thinks you're an empty headed twit who does what the last man tells you to, and you can't think for yourself, that's his excuse for stalker levels of intrusion? He honestly doesn't believe you're allowed/capable of blocking him and deciding for yourself... This gets better and better. Your 'disrespect' meter was right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 12:12 PM |
| 30 | Am I being irrational?He doesn't like YOU, he likes how you make him feel. Normal people, when they get blocked/ghosted/no reply, they take the hint and slink off. Oh no, you were such a good source of gushy compliments and didn't smack his nose with a rolled-up newspaper when he fucked up, he kept pushing and pushing and weaseled his way back in. The part where he persisted for 2.5 months is hella creepy. In this case, it's not a testament to how desirable you are, but how insane he is. Also how desperate he is. Cha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 11:19 AM |
| 13 | “Women are gold diggers”She's standing up for herself?? Put her back down! WhAt a soCioPatH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 07:33 AM |
| 13 | Men don’t like tasting their own medicine because it kills theminstead of working on making yourself more attractive to her exactly. pretty typical "negging" strategy, to knock her down a peg, so she'd scramble for his approval. Watching it fail so horrifically irl was .. not unexpected. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 02:32 AM |
| 11 | Cry some more, moidThey keep mocking our "cats and boxed wine" guys, if we're picking CATS over your company it's an insult to you, no? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 02:24 AM |
| 9 | Don’t be Roberta the Builder lmao, invest in YOURSELF.And yet their favourite delusion/phrase is "She won't date me in her prime, I won't date her in mine" with so many entitlements and fantasies in that one sentence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 02:20 AM |
| 2 | When are you done working on yourself and you are ready for healthy relationships? (Self-esteem issues)Look into Attachment styles as well http://the-love-compass.com/2014/02/22/understanding-the-needs-of-the-anxiouspreoccupied-attachment-style/ Hang out with healthy women, as your normal meter is broken. See what a normal, nourishing, reciprocal relationship looks like. They're pretty bland. But safe and secure. They make you feel good. http://psychopathsandlove.com/how-to-never-get-involved-with-an-abuser-again/ When you're instantly disgusted by love-bombing, not enamoured, and when the furthe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 02:16 AM |
| 20 | Found this sub through people mocking it. Fell in love with itSeeing as TRP inspired MURDER, you're really not comprehending. FDS inspired me to get a manicure and block some phone numbers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 02:11 AM |
| 2 | FDS works, my mother has been doing it my entire life.People who sit by the phone eagerly awaiting your call and having no life are pathetic, too available, and boring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 02:09 AM |
| 10 | Help dealing with male coworkerPolitely grey rock him. Be boring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Asking for a friend...really!She has to reach her own breaking point. That "line in the sand" is in her head, and only she knows it. If it's something like "as long as he doesn't beat me!" she'll be stuck forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 02:03 AM |
| 4 | Is there good Youtube channels related to the FDS mindset?Not quite the dating part, but if you're a chronic people pleaser and keep getting tricked by losers, here's how it started. You need to come to terms with that and heal before going back into the dating pool, or you'll keep "finding bad guys". https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yesXC_ibRKE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 01:49 AM |
| 12 | Why is it so HORRIBLE to like attractive, dominant men?"Tonight on Babe hunters" Hi, I'm Glenjamin. I make wigs for porcelain dolls out of my pubic hair, and my budget is $2. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 01:45 AM |
| 20 | This is literally the reason I stress being less available, mysterious, and not nice 24/7Sad we've been socialized to be sweet, demure, polite, kind, accommodating and subservient. As soon as we act "normal" with healthy assertiveness, confidence, boundaries, and behave like we know our rights, our worth, and we can say No, we get called vain, demanding, aggressive and arrogant.. by other women. and then incels call us sociopaths. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 01:42 AM |
| 23 | Look at the pick-me’s and low value menWellp, if the pickme's take some scrubs out of the dating pool.. yippee. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/19 05:53 PM |
| 5 | Love bombing, what are your thoughts?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tFMWGf65Rj8 from "it's always sunny" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/19 03:07 PM |
| 19 | Daily reminder THAT men have a harder time dating than women. They get fewer matches, fewer responses, and fewer dates. Never let a moid make you feel like they're irreplaceable. They're a penny a dozenI want my penny back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/19 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Amazing first date, attracted to him and want to go further.I've had HPV and the resultant cancer and hot wire up my cooter, given to me by a lying piece of shit. I'm going to look. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/19 08:46 AM |
| 7 | The Dom reviews “The Mystery Method”. Women, be aware of these strategies so that you know what is happening so you don’t lose time or self-respect.The narrator is hilarious, I recommend watching it :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/19 03:15 AM |
| 6 | Help I can’t stop thinking about this guyAh, ye olde "not ready to date". He likes the idea of a girlfriend, but is too chickenshit to actually leave the house. Has issues in his head, like "if she met me, she won't like me", so he's keeping it safe by stringing you along. he gets the benefits of the chit chat, you boost his confidence with your time and attention and emotional support, he thinks he's "still got it" and "could progress this to a relationship if he really wanted to". If a dude starts being a pen pal, and all you're doin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/19 02:44 AM |
| 7 | Amazing first date, attracted to him and want to go further.Your sexual health is your priority and responsibility. Don't ever trust a man to have your interests in mind. Take care of yourself as soon as possible, and definitely before getting in the bedroom with this guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/19 02:18 AM |
| 8 | Female Dating Strategy: Dos and Don't of social mediaI don't believe in using any of the social medias that give you a dopamine hit or "likes" or constantly ping your phone, or shit that you can browse endlessly. Seen too many dead bedrooms where one person is checked out and getting more of a rush from facebook, pinterest, snap streaks, even candy crush, and their partner is actually feeling lonely while laying next to them. Dont date a gamer, the 8 hours of gaming they're doing.. is compensating for something. They're depressed and need that muc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/19 02:15 AM |
| 7 | What should happen next?He's looking for fast sex with a girl with lower standards, and he simply can't be bothered investing in you anymore. Two dates made him tired lmao. Cut him loose. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/19 02:03 AM |
| 6 | What should happen next?Yep they have the same cowardly pattern. Silence the day before, or weakass texting. Then the day of, or an hour before, the lies come out. "omg I'm soooo sorry I had food poisoning, can we reschedule". I start making fresh plans at the weakass stage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/19 02:01 AM |
| 40 | Another Reminder To Stop Trying To Save Men From Themselves. They’ll hate you for it.Man's investment: zero Woman: LeT mE be YouR thErapIst | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/19 01:54 AM |
| 5 | Amazing first date, attracted to him and want to go further.Ask him how long ago he slept with her. Men usually dont know they have HPV unless warts show up. Inspect his junk and buttcheeks under bright lights. HPV is the one that gives you cervical cancer, in which case you'll be on your back with your legs in the air, getting your cervix scraped with a hot wire, so he should be willing to be in the same position for your safety. HPV does eventually clear out of a person with a healthy immune system over several months. If he misspoke and meant HSV (her… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/19 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Guy I was dating finally started to be honestAt least he said it now. Plenty of doormat men on deadbedrooms who dont have the balls to speak up like this who have been sexless for 20+years... in their marriage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/19 01:42 AM |
| 9 | “I want to be alone”hhnnng asking the hive to mindread your bf and then give you advice is my pet peeve. How long have you been together, have you made any changes lately (moving in together is a big one, so is job loss, death in family etc) and has he ever acted like this before. Where do you live and what's the weather like, has the sun started going down earlier, has he been indoors more. How's his affect, demeanour etc, has he stopped showering. What's his diet and exercise like, is he stressed about anything c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/19 03:17 PM |
| 14 | How to respond to this situation in a high value way?5 weeks away then marriage? nah I could go ahead and explain and excuse and guess (maybe he's avoidant attachment, maybe you're a side piece, maybe you're his beard, maybe he's got a whole 2nd family in Alaska, maybe he's in the CIA) but in the end who gives a shit. You're not impressed, this isn't the consistent treatment you're looking for, he's not making you feel loved and secure, he's already doing the cycle of unsettling treatment and you've allowed him back so he thinks it's ok. If it's n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/19 02:58 PM |
| 7 | Subtly approaching men in clubs/bars?Do you want one who doesn't notice flirty body language? The second hand cringe from dating an oblivious clod is god-awful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/19 02:24 PM |
| 30 | How to respond to this situation in a high value way?It's over, he's started phase 2. Phase 1: best behaviour, trying to impress you, court you, woo you. 6 months is about how long a disordered person can keep a mask on, so if his behaviour stops being great here, he's going to phase 2 as one of two things. He's an abuser, and p1 was lovebombing to get you hooked, in which case p3 will be the cycle of abuse where you're convinced you can get 'the good guy you know he is' back. Or he got complacent because of you. You're too available, didn't deman… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/19 02:21 PM |
| 25 | Pickme-itisI'm going to bake him a shepherd's pie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/19 02:04 PM |
| 15 | How long should you date before he should be asking you to marry him?Disordered people can only keep the "good guy" mask on for about 6 months. If his treatment of you declines AT ALL and isn't consistently respectful, loving, considerate, thoughtful and kind, drop him. No questions, excuses or discussions. If you've built trust and observed that he is consistently good to you and others, has integrity, work ethic, ambition, your goals and values align, and he is civic minded, make it clear that "marriage is very important to you". If he doesn't propose within th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/19 04:40 AM |
| 6 | Whether I’m an “alpha widow” or an idiot... I really, REALLY need help getting over this dude.Read some books such as "The Human Magnet Syndrome", "Complex PTSD" (the codependent fawn section), "Attached" and "Sex and the Narcissist" until you have the realisation of what happened, why you were attracted to him, how unhealthy it was, and how it's going to happen again unless you heal, grow and change. When you look back on what happened and feel disgust, then you're ready to date again and find a healthy, stable partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/19 04:33 AM |
| 17 | Ladies, don’t tell men about how bad your ex treated you.Exactly what you're talking about https://www.reddit.com/r/JustNoSO/comments/dn07g6/bf_didnt_care_i_kept_saying_no_during_sex/ "Hey I've been abused before" "Fucking great. I can rape you too". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/19 04:24 AM |
| 2 | When should I expect to meet his female friends?Does he hang out with them? Is he texting them in favor of spending time with you - is it detrimental to your relationship? Are they women he wants to fuck? Did he seem to care that you're upset? Is this the same bf from your post about his dog from 8 months ago? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/19 02:35 AM |
| 7 | How to make a guy regret a breakup. FDS strategy at work. Taking ZERO SHIT from men works. She's gone, has a new boyfriend and he still misses her and regrets the breakup."She asked me to stop stalking. I kept stalking". Lock your shit down after a break-up ladies, obsessed stalkers are motivated and scary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/19 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Purchases that were worth it, and worth buying again.Ah interesting. I’ll stick with rubber doorstops and sharp fingernails though :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/19 02:06 AM |
| 20 | Well I did it. Delete, blocked, moving onGlad you got out, not sure getting back in is wise, especially not through bumble, where the premise is to the lazy man's advantage. Hang with girl friends for nourishment and companionship and resume your life and hobbies while you get your head right. Take the time to figure out exactly what you want a man for, instead of feeling like you need one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 04:49 PM |
| 6 | Purchases that were worth it, and worth buying again.I wish. Australia. No guns but decent justice system. I'm willing to take a beating and the skin off his face for evidence if it will put one behind bars. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 04:03 PM |
| 7 | Why are men so deeply, innately threatened by us?I had the misfortune of reading an incel rant "scientifically" mansplaining why he should be assigned a 14 year old girl. When the touch receptors beneath our skin are stimulated, it can help reduce cortisol levels and blood pressure General signs and symptoms of too much cortisol include: weight gain, mostly around the midsection and upper back. weight gain and rounding of the face, acne, thinning skin, easy bruising, flushed face, slowed healing, muscle weakness, severe fatigue, irritability, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 03:51 PM |
| 16 | Why are men so deeply, innately threatened by us?Womb envy https://medium.com/applied-intersectionality/blargh-fbfd39098f42 All they contribute to the creation of human life is a dribble of jizz. dey mad. Most of them are coming to the sad realization that the only vagina they'll ever be in was their mother's. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 01:28 PM |
| 3 | Purchases that were worth it, and worth buying again.True! My hairdresser is a gem and an afternoon at the salon is a delight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 09:33 AM |
| 17 | Some PMs just in the last 24 hours because I posted on FDS about deleting my OLD profiles. Male lurkers, THIS is the shit we put up with.They can't even make it past a few sentences on the dating app. They ask no questions, repeatedly dead-end anything I ask, and completely fail at any kind of interesting back and forth. Not gonna stare at you on a date if this is your best. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 06:33 AM |
| 3 | What the fuck is wrong with people?"I'm busy" - too busy to date then, bye. "I'm stressed" - you have poor coping skills for stress, not my problem, bye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 03:43 AM |
| 10 | Saw the post about dating green flags, so I wrote down some red ones that we‘ve mentioned on this subPlaces blame externally, never owns up to his mistakes, never apologises when he's clearly in the wrong Blames you for anything that happened to you, immediately takes the side of the man in the story, and makes excuses for him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 03:40 AM |
| 8 | SAY IT AGAIN FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK 👏🏽Applies to dudes as well. Chooses not to treat you better? Chooses not to be more sympathetic, make time for you, show respect to you, be more considerate to you in thoughts, words and deeds? They're not making mistakes. They're making choices. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 03:31 AM |
| 5 | All Rapists Claim to be “falsely accused”. All of Them. Only 2% of Rape Claims have evidence that they MAY Be False. Therefore 98% of men claiming they were “falsely accused” are Full of Shit!I just started watching Hansen vs Predator lmao they're all sitting there in the 13 year old girl's HOUSE claiming they're so innocent. Just there to chill. The lies they rotate through are hilarious. "So I'm free to go?" so relieved "Sir you're under arrest" lmfao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 03:26 AM |
| 34 | Tactics to Counter Common RP StrategiesAnything implying you're fake or 'enhanced' - "Nope, completely real. I'd make amazing babies..." and then kinda drift off the end of the sentence while eyeing him up and down and making an "oof" wince. Lean back in your chair and vague out sadly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 03:18 AM |
| 2 | Songs that remind you to not take shit from guys?Any time a lonely divorced dude or a cub with zero social skills wants to call me "just to chat" or "to hear my voice" or "wants some pics" I'm not here for your entertainment blasts in my head. U + Ur Hand, by Pink Also that's how they type so it's fitting. First two questions on a dating app -> How r u, where r u BYE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 02:58 AM |
| 16 | Every time you think about downplaying your accomplishments.... DON'TThat's like every 5th profile here. I'm def superficial :P 3/10's looking for free prostitutes. mmm broke and ugly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 02:53 AM |
| 12 | This guy texted me out of the blue. I stopped seeing him after he aggressively tried to get me to have sex without condoms. It's so obvious when men are lonely/horny and contacting every girl they dated in the past 6 year. Sorry, moid. You'll have to find someone else to grope at a Halloween party.Imagine needing to apologize to everyone you've dated :o aaaalmost self aware. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 07:35 AM |
| 37 | Imagine living life on such easy mode...Their biggest fear is we might laugh. It triggers their fragile ego, that's why they've been lashing out all week. My god, I WISH that the worst thing that has happened to me in my life was someone laughing at me. privileged fucks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 05:41 AM |
| 16 | I truly do not understand why men ask for sex over and over and over againBecause you're the only one entertaining their nonsense. If a dude has zero other matches, he'll pull that lever until you block him or give him treats. The outcome is completely up to you, he's not going to control himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 05:39 AM |
| 11 | He loves to give me life advice everytime I say no to dating him. After I sent that he got angry with me saying he wasnt doing that. Glad I caught this early"Don't use it against me, it's not fair" don't have rights, boundaries, free will and autonomy, that's not to my benefit :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 04:38 AM |
| 12 | Moid wrote me a long, angry message lolThe last vagina he was in was his mother's. wait not that way. or maybe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 04:37 AM |
| 33 | This guy texted me out of the blue. I stopped seeing him after he aggressively tried to get me to have sex without condoms. It's so obvious when men are lonely/horny and contacting every girl they dated in the past 6 year. Sorry, moid. You'll have to find someone else to grope at a Halloween party.So weak. Fauxpology. He's not sorry for what he did, he's not taking responsibility. No acknowledgement of how he terrified or degraded you. Distancing, vagueness, includes you, and minimizing language. "how everything" went down between "us". "I'm sorry about <flaps hand> stuff". He regrets the consequences - being denied access to you. He has no remorse for what a piece of shit he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 04:32 AM |
| 5 | [18F] Just had my first grown up date, not sure what to think.Yeah I understand the "not wanting to cause a scene".. but that's exactly what you might need to do, call for help if you can't fight someone off. What's worse, embarrassment or the morgue.. Dudes are thirsty and will do and say whatever they think you want to hear, don't feed them too much info. Observe for longer. I personally don't believe in dating apps or dating strangers anymore. It's too risky, too easy for predators to keep up the facade for an hour, and you can't get to know them. Make … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 12:51 AM |
| 37 | The hypocrisy of redditMore like incels: women are just dogs, you can train them Reddit Admins: ok we're going to quarantine you incels: women should be assigned to men when they turn 14 Reddit Admins: ok we're going to ban you incels: WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH Reddit Admins: ok lol you can come back, I can see by your tears you learned your lesson:) Women: we're kinda sick of these tactics irl incels: WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 12:44 AM |
| 11 | [18F] Just had my first grown up date, not sure what to think.So many mistakes hon, but I'm glad you made it out safely. If a dude LIES at all, he's untrustworthy and not worth a minute more of your time. Feel free to eye him up and down, say "I don't date liars", and leave. He'll know what he lied about. Same goes for age, weight, catfish/better looking pics and marital status. Zero tolerance for complete lies about who he is. If you feel uncomfortable about anything, you don't have to sit there and tolerate it, or be polite. That's how you quietly and po… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 12:38 AM |
| 23 | You are the only person you're guaranteed to have for lifeAlways, always keep a $3k fuck-you fund. Over and over on relationship and justnoso, women are stuck in abject misery, knocked up by poorly chosen trash, and trapped. 100 women tell her to leave. Her reply: can't, finances. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/19 04:09 PM |
| 9 | Don't put up with a guy who watches pornSuggest he gets plastic surgery on his genitals so he looks less "used". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/19 02:18 AM |
| 13 | Next Time You Even THINK of Feeling Bad for Turning A Man Down For Sex, Remember Men Don’t Feel Obligated to Give You Shelter in A Snowstorm Or Care if You Crash And Die On Your Way Home so SCREW THEIR FEELINGS!That's exactly it. Rapists define it so they can delude themselves they're not rapists. "well it wasn't violent so I didn't rape" "She complied after an hour of badgering and I had to put on some sad faces, so it was all good". "After I reminded her who pays the bills around here, she put out, so it's ok". If a dude makes you feel BAD, that's emotional blackmail, and a hard No. Don't comply. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/19 08:12 AM |
| 11 | Pussy Is The Only Thing Alt Right Men Think Should Be Socialist, Even Though It’s the ONE thing the state can’t directly give them. 🙄Straight from the deluded horse's mouth. https://i.imgur.com/Vrk2pQY.jpg Pretty women, by merely existing near him, he interprets it as active rejection, and it hurts his fee fees. Once you place blame externally, he feels fully justified in punishing them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/19 07:17 AM |
| 28 | Next Time You Even THINK of Feeling Bad for Turning A Man Down For Sex, Remember Men Don’t Feel Obligated to Give You Shelter in A Snowstorm Or Care if You Crash And Die On Your Way Home so SCREW THEIR FEELINGS!https://outofthefog.website/top-100-trait-blog/sexual-coercion Anyone who can't get consent by actually being attractive, is a piece of shit. If they need to coerce, incapacitate, blackmail, manipulate or "convince" you to comply, or to avoid something worse happening, they're a piece of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/19 06:55 AM |
| 4 | Sleep isn’t always the most important thingYou're totally in the right to be pissed off. Mad at him because he's a useless manbaby who wants to sleep through conflict, while he brings nothing to your life. He is not matching your effort. Mad at yourself for having such low standards for good treatment. For training him to treat you this way. For cementing the belief in his head that you will never leave, that you will keep trying and doing all the emotional labor and legwork to keep this relationshit afloat. please do not suggest we just… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/19 06:46 AM |
| 11 | Evidence #865654667 that this sub is definitely on the right track 🙌💯The "seduction" tactics are the rapists textbook. Incapacitate - get her drunk Isolate - get her home Escalate - keep pushing and coercing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/19 05:00 AM |
| 4 | Watch out queens, if you don’t respond to a guy then you turn into a fat pumpkin. #TheRealCinderellaStoryThe only thing he has going for him is his dedication to picking, picking and picking at that pimple until he got the pus he was looking for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/19 03:37 AM |
| 6 | Another woman discovers the typical male response to revealing her sexual past. Her reward for her honesty? He doesn't want to marry her anymore.men can’t handle that you were not placed on this earth just for them and had a life before them god forbid included sex and feelings for others. I played warcraft with a dude off and on for the past 10 years. He's on the complete other side of the country. Over that time he's never had a job, lives at home with his mom and brother, his car frequently dies, and he's overweight. This is from age 30-40. He got SO MAD when I had the audacity to date a man in my town, who was slim, had a house, car … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/19 02:35 AM |
| 1 | The baggageThey think "new wife will fix all my problems" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/19 02:30 AM |
| 9 | Make him wait for sexThat's the point. You want to get rid of TRP losers. They are not high quality men. They're incels, losers, basement dwellers and entitled hate-mongers who do not strive for an equitable, loving, healthy, reciprocal relationship. They need those tactics to even get a date, and then start abusing and manipulating to keep her. FDS strategies are the opposite, to whittle down the too-many dates, weed out the assholes, and sustain a long-term, mutually beneficial, loving relationship, with a man of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/19 03:33 AM |
| 12 | ladies stay woke with these 'feminist' men on datesUrgh that smothering PDA within minutes. You can smell the desperation of their touch-starved, friendless, dateless asses as they try to get their grope in because it will be another 2+ months of isolation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/19 03:24 AM |
| 3 | Moid hits wall, posts vile misogyny on his OLD profile. More in comments.<frantically hits "View Less"> | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/19 03:09 AM |
| 14 | How do I meet him?How do you have a crush on a person you don't know? Get to know people in real life for at least a month, then decide if they're worth your time, attention and obsession. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/19 12:50 AM |
| 9 | Tips on filtering men based on dick size?Just ask, they fucking love talking about their weens. They can get their hopes up all they like. I asked some dude, he replied "A firm 7 inches!", I replied that was a shame, I have a short vaj. He quickly backpeddled that it was not 7 inches. If they're average, say "sounds good", no need to be mean, they're deluded and insecure enough from seeing monster cocks in porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/19 12:29 AM |
| 6 | Tips on filtering men based on dick size?Oh my god, worst braggart I ever met had a dick the size of my thumb. He acted like when we returned to his home town, they'd throw him a parade. No-one knew him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/19 12:23 AM |
| 0 | Mother Nature Knows BestQuick question, does having the neckbeard make them act like that, or are they rotten on the inside and then grow it to match? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/19 12:20 AM |
| 40 | “Crazy” GirlfriendEx's previous girlfriend was an alcoholic. By the end, I was also considering getting shitfaced to deal with him, or escape him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/19 12:17 AM |
| 10 | What y'all think of this?He said that it didn’t mean anything to him "great, simply stop looking and drooling over pictures of other women, because I've explained that it bothers me:)" Checkmate, dickhead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/19 09:24 AM |
| 26 | Just dying to eat frozen pizza with this winnernah, he's sitting there marinating in misery, bitterly mumbling into his xbox headset that "bitches don't respond", not noticing that 14 months have gone by. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/19 09:18 AM |
| 23 | Do women really need dating strategy advice? 🤔that only unattractive MEN need dating advice and strategies. like trp... loool Their advice is how to GET women. Ours is how to GET RID of shit men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/19 05:29 AM |
| 5 | I find this so cringey, what's your guys opinion. It sounds like he enjoys making this stuff way more than she does receiving it so its not really a proper gift..urgh NiceGuys who want to give, and get pissy when you don't swoon over (she nailed it) shit she didn't ask for. and then perch like a vulture for accolades. Covert Contract City. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/19 05:22 AM |
| 5 | Boy wants to date me. He’s clingy, co-dependent, and not over his ex. Why do I feel bad for swerving him?All these seminars on complex trauma and codependency explain a lot yeah. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yesXC_ibRKE You want to fix the broken boy so you have a purpose in life, you don't believe you can be loved simply by existing, you need to earn it etc. Healthy boy is boring and won't "need" you, and being needed is what makes you think you're being loved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/19 05:18 AM |
| 13 | What do you do to keep yourself beautiful?My mom told I shouldn't have to worry about my skin until I'm older NOPE. I'm 41. Someone just thought I looked mid 20's. Someone else asked my skincare routine. The only answer I had was "go back in time and wear sunblock and a hat for 30 years". Then again, I'm in Australia, I'd get cancer if I didn't. We still get decent UV in winter to not become vitamin D deficient. Just got an amazing new hat because my older short brimmed hat has led to small age spots along my jawline. Also don't have ki… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/19 05:08 AM |
| 9 | How to handle this??If they ask if you're seeing other guys, they just revealed they're insecure losers who can't handle competition, or they're possessive, misogynistic losers who feel "sick" at the thought of "other men getting you grubby". Therefore they lost the privilege of your politeness. "I'm busy" or have plans, and they keep digging, once again, they can't take "no" graciously, and you don't owe them an explanation. Once you start justifying yourself, you've set up the dynamic where they think you will an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/19 05:04 AM |
| 18 | ...what.portable lol So he can be this guy and inflict his depravity on the unwilling public | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/19 04:38 AM |
| 19 | The Patriarchy’s Entire goal is to force us to fuck Uglies for Basic survival.every romcom where the ugly nerd gets the girl keeps giving these dudes hope that they can find the beautiful girl of their dreams on the train :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/19 05:02 PM |
| 14 | Help my friend!Her dumbassery is not your responsibility. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/19 04:44 PM |
| 12 | Am I getting played?Yes, huge red flags. Being inconsistent with his treatment of you until you're isolated is alarming. A decent guy would be proud to claim you and show you off in public, and act the same - affectionate and caring - as behind closed doors. "doesn't like being intimate" is bullshit code for "embarrassed to be seen/associated with you, and doesn't actually care for you, about you, or whether this hurts your feelings". He could at least hold your hand, but he's pleased you fell for this weak excuse.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/19 04:43 PM |
| 23 | The Patriarchy’s Entire goal is to force us to fuck Uglies for Basic survival.If all else were equal, women would choose someone their own age or younger most of the time. Hell yeah, if we're going to "grow old" together, I want someone who can still move a couch without popping a hernia. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/19 04:26 PM |
| 63 | Why should we even bother dating men?One guy freely admitted he still sucks his thumb, and masturbates 4x per night to get to sleep. He's in his 50's. He was nodding and whispering "mm I could use you".. to clean his spare bathroom, because it was moudly, as his 3 teenaged sons never cleaned it. Then he blew up my phone with texts from 6am-10am the next morning, wondering if "herpes" was a dealbreaker. Oh mate, we're long past caring about the herp. holy shit it's delightfully clean and quiet here in my apartment, alone:) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/19 01:40 PM |
| 9 | Drama sub banned all of r/Teenagers and it turns out they're all middle aged "hebephiles."It's occurring on the /raisedby subs where children realise their parents are abusive, and predators offer "help" like hello little child, come live with me. sick fucks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/19 01:35 PM |
| 4 | Attraction and high quality menI dated someone similar to what you're describing. Sadly he was also... not very intelligent so that was the bigger turn off. It wasn't fair to him. My libido was completely turned off. zero chemistry. I lay in bed next to him, not thinking about sex at all and could practically feel his simmering resentment at the lack of sex. I dropped him. Will not ever date someone I have no physical feelings for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/19 09:20 AM |
| 2 | Moid starts seeing other women after snooping/reading her journal and finding out GF dreamed about going out with another man.The only times I get directed to RPW, it just IS woman being abused and asking how she can walk on eggshells better. wtf is that sub even for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/19 09:08 AM |
| 5 | My (17) first timeA dude's erection is rarely about you, especially a soft one. If he's also 17, he's probably been looking at porn and jerking off in identical circumstances, without a woman around, for several years now. This isn't to excuse him, this is his problem to deal with, if he even wants to. If it's simply performance anxiety, that's also his problem. It's in your best interests to learn about your own pleasure, don't rely on a dude for anything, they really don't have your interests in mind during sex… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/19 04:20 AM |
| 5 | Another woman learns that initiating dates/initiating contact sets a dynamic where you're ALWAYS initiating.Been seeing/talking to a guy for 3-4 weeks now. We chatted on the app for about a week before I suggested meeting, which he agreed to right away. Second date was also initiated by me, but when I asked he responded "I'd love to!" so some obvious enthusiasm there. Date 3 was something we agreed to do during date 2 and was a longer, day into late night thing... So now here we are several days after date 3, still talking and getting good responsiveness from him, but is it too much to ask that I'd li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/19 04:11 AM |
| 26 | FDS Advanced move: This lady who's rebound took her on extravagant dates and showered her with affection without discussing exclusivity with her. She never assumed exclusivity and kept it moving.Women after a "bad" relationship : ends up in hospital, a shelter and therapy. Men after a "bad" relationship : Muh monies :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/19 04:07 AM |
| 8 | Moid starts seeing other women after snooping/reading her journal and finding out GF dreamed about going out with another man.I was going to ask "who wants to break the bad news that she's with a textbook abuser and she's a textbook victim" but then I saw it was RPW and I can't be assed breaking into that cult to rescue her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/19 03:58 AM |
| 2 | making the first moveBefore you go back into the dating pool, spend a year working on yourself to find out exactly why you get used. It took me way too long to realise I was the problem. I had no boundaries, I naively expected men to be "nice" to me without ever speaking up about my expectations or annoyances. I never had consequences for their shitty behaviour. I ignored red flags and let them push and push. Research things like Boundaries and how to say no, Assertiveness, codependency, what does emotional blackmai… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/19 03:46 AM |
| 18 | I know you’re staring at that phone, sis, trynna come back with something snappy to make him come around. Put it down!!I asked a dude his marital status, he said "separated". I asked if that meant he was still married, He said "no". Sick of having to dig for answers like a fucking archaeologist, I resumed cleaning my fridge and throwing out expired condiments. Lo and behold, he woke the fuck up and sent a 3 sentence answer explaining that he was never married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/19 03:27 AM |
| 9 | Moids who are perpetually cheating on their GFs / WivesIf you project an air of “you’re the only one for me” to him, it will backfire dramatically as it always does. This is exactly when they start thinking "Let's see what dumb shit I can get away with, she'll never leave me". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/19 03:17 AM |
| 16 | He won’t set and stick to a plan!hnnnnng chronic procrastinators and piss-poor planners are the worst. He's doing the "if I do this task badly enough, because I simply don't have the life skills to complete a fucking task, she'll get fed up and take care of it for me" bullshit. You will have been tearing your hair out within a week. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/19 06:26 AM |
| 26 | Men truly are fucking vileRight now I’m totally terrified by the thought of having my family leave me. That right there. He only has regret because he's afraid of consequences. Zero remorse. Not one fucking word about how she feels, how deeply he betrayed her, how ugly and unwanted and sick he just made her feel. "She's guilt tripping me!" as if feeling guilty is the wrong thing to do and she's mean. His plea for help is about how to get her back under control and back to "normal". How to sweep this all under the rug. No… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/19 04:33 AM |
| 19 | Researchers Trying to Add “Consent Modules” To Sex Robots To Keep Them From Becoming Practice Rape DollsThe fact that someone had the thought "yeah, men are gonna rape and beat objects that resemble women" ... christ. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/19 04:07 AM |
| 5 | Finally getting my shit together...maybe [LONG]You were a plate. Sounds like RP behaviour. As skeevy as it is, learn their tactics. They do the bare minimum, won't commit, push for sex meets only, induce jealousy, only say ILY after extracting sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/19 04:05 AM |
| 16 | Giving your number to men on apps?congrats on option b :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/19 05:21 PM |
| 31 | Giving your number to men on apps?It makes zero difference in the typing department. But they can push for pics easier, assault your eyes with a dickpic, and you can't report them to the app. So nah, stay on app. "For my safety, I only give my number after a successful first date. Thanks for understanding:)" a) forces them to stay matched = you can report them if they turn predatory. b) they throw a fit = spotted the asshole before leaving the house c) you can keep tracking them on the radius on the app to see if they're showing… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/19 05:08 PM |
| 4 | Trying to "level up"I got braces when I was 38. Keep an eye on your calories if you're still lifting, because the hassle of picking food out after meals made me less inclined to eat, so I lost 2lb a month over the 8 months they were on. I guess I had also been in the habit of not smiling, and I have quite the bitchy resting face, so get used to smiling a lot more, it really changes people's demeanour instantly. (I think they go from "why is this bitch so sour" to "oh thank god, she's not going to murder me") :P Con… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/19 04:09 AM |
| 61 | What are some examples of coded language to look out for when dating men? Translations?Looking for fun = sex. I'll fill this out later = I'm a lazy, low effort motherfucker, putting the least work I can into anything. This is how I intend to start, catch a woman with low standards, and proceed. Not looking for ONS = pretending to be a gentleman looool I'll totally do a ONS while I find a woman to fall for my bullshit. "JUST" anything. Just here to see what 'the fuss' is about, Just looking = lazy, low effort and insecure. Not willing to put myself truly out there and get real reje… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/19 03:50 AM |
| 4 | Men are so prideful. This guy who used to hit on me constantly pretended he didnt know me because he thought I reported him to HRAh the old "well if I don't get to compliment women in the workplace, I'll simply remove my magnificent presence from them completely" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/19 03:18 AM |
| 8 | Moid finds out about GF's sexual past, abortion. Her reward for her honesty? GETTING DUMPED! Typical male response. She dodged a bullet."I wrestle with how much I'm against abortion, because on one hand, I want to control women, and on the other, I don't want to admit I'm an asshole". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/19 03:15 AM |
| 6 | When they show you who they are, believe them the first time.That's fine, you're allowed to have different experiences and opinions :) You're very lucky to have met a non-terrible man. A lot of us have been trained since birth, by shitty, selfish parents, to ignore red flags and think that abuse, disrespect, and lack of love is "normal", and we're sick of finding shitty men. We need strategies to compensate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/19 03:12 AM |
| 15 | Pedos on Tinder? This is a picture of a child hence the blurred face, but what do you ladies think of men who post suspect pictures with children that CLEARLY are not there’s. He only had this and one other pic of himself. This is sus to me. Maybe I’m paranoid idk. Single moms weigh in also.Nah, men are just lazy as fuck. They get ONE good pic of themselves and use it for the next decade. Always a pic someone else took. Hence the 2 billion men holding fish. Women be using selfie sticks, laptop cams outdoors, tripods, timers, girlfriends and a "wine, cheese and profile pic selection" night to take stunning, high quality, recent, representative pics. Men take a blurry pic of their rumpled boxers and cheeto stained bedsheets. Then have the audacity to tell us "more pics?" Swiping thro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/19 08:05 AM |
| 17 | MEN HITTING THE WALL: I have a full head of hair, and just had my first few days of hair loss. Advice?That's exactly the kind of living conditions I expected from a deluded guy who thinks he's "keeping his shit together" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/19 03:30 AM |
| 5 | I'm starting to become the fuckboy version of a girl and I'm feeling conflicted about itHaving power after feeling powerless can feel good.. but it's not the right kind of good. Increase your Personal power, instead of having Power Over others. Learn to healthily set boundaries and be assertive, not aggressive, constructive, not destructive. Learn self-protection and compassion. Some good, short books are "Not Nice", "The Art of Saying No" and both "Boundaries" (Adelyn Birch, Henry Cloud) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/19 04:22 AM |
| 8 | People can only meet you as deeply as they’ve met themselves.Story of my life. Endless dudes with blank eyes who can't answer simple questions. I thought I was the odd one until I found a group of people who could actually listen, reflect, acknowledge, comprehend and share similar thoughts and explain their motivations as completely as I could. It's a group of women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/19 04:14 AM |
| 1 | I want to talk to my crush but he’s an acquaintanceHow on earth do you like him a lot, there's nothing to know. He's not giving you anything. He doesn't want to get to know YOU. Are you sure you're not anxious/obsessed and you're having feels because he's avoidant? http://the-love-compass.com/2014/02/22/understanding-the-needs-of-the-anxiouspreoccupied-attachment-style/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/19 04:10 AM |
| 9 | Ex who dumped me came back saying he loves me.He's the type who only works to avoid consequences. He didn't give a shit when you were hurting. He only changed when he was hurting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/19 03:56 AM |
| 6 | If a man sets a date and still hasn’t texted you to confirm the day of, is it ok to text him?and left a voice mail saying he was coming down with something Flake manoeuvre to see how much he can string you along, see how stupid and gullible you are, see how much sympathy for his excuses you have, see how long he can bench you for, and informing you that he just doesn't give a shit about putting pants on and getting out of bed for you. See also : work just called, I got food poisoning, my ex-wife started some drama, the kids blah blah. You hear any of those phrases, you fucking ditch him… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/19 05:38 AM |
| 10 | How do you know what age range to date?Browse justnoSO and either of the relationship subs for the kinds of dumpster fire stories that start with "me 23, he 30+" a) no-one his age will put up with his intolerable, immature bullshit b) he's dating that far down because he's emotionally stunted c) she's tricked into thinking he's worldly and mature just because he's managed to accumulate house/job/car but he's actually a juvenile Keep your life goals written down and etched in stone. Don't quit school, job, or move house for a dude in … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/19 12:45 AM |
| 8 | Tinder, The Graduate University of DatingI call this experiment "my past 7 months" lmao. 50 guys. 50 guys like this so far. I have 3 matches right now, heeeere we go! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/19 12:19 AM |
| 4 | How do you respectfully reject a man who’s asked to hang out with you several times?via meme or interpretive dance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/19 12:12 AM |
| 1 | That great guy I texted about? I just deleted him from my life.“too much going on” (his words), then say “but I make a great friend”, "I don't want to put effort into you, just my dick". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/19 12:06 AM |
| 12 | In reality..Guys be like: "hope she let me smash tonight" Girls be like: "I hope he won't turn out to be a serial killer" (I think that's amazing how some guys can create a world full of delusions and live in it so easily)Literally just made a post about women's pain during sex, and dick size has been mentioned... idiots.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/19 03:35 AM |
| 6 | Today's savage of the day: This OP that successfully applied one of the golden principles of Successful dating as a woman. NEVER commit to a moid who didn't commit to you. NEVER be exclusive with a moid who isn't exclusive with you.Had to do this after ONE date urgh. Guys, if you have nothing better to do than text and call and check up on a woman non stop that's exactly why we don't want you. Get a job. get a hobby. get therapy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/19 03:34 AM |
| 8 | Guy didn’t make time for me so I’m seeing someone else this weekendLook Ma and Pa and all my bros! I got this woman, look at her, she’s high value, all those years I was alone and you wondered if something was wrong with me oooof no wonder I felt weird the first time my ex introduced me to his family by hugging me tight and saying "I found someone". I emailed his Mum with a long list of exactly why I was dumping him... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/19 03:30 AM |
| 6 | Ghosted but still looks at insta and snap stories ?Because he thinks he has more of a connection and relationship with you than he really does. He possibly imagines you're making this content just for him and you and he are the only 2 people in the world having direct conversation. He gets a little hit of dopamine when he gets a notification from you. It's not as "special" in a group chat. This is how you get stalkers. Stop throwing yourself out there for validation, be more discerning about who you add and who you let into your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/19 02:27 PM |
| 6 | Domestic abuse: killers follow 'eight-stage pattern', study saysLove-bombing, relationship fast-forwarding, stalking/spying/surveilling and coercive control are massive red flags ladies. https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/lifetime-connections/201804/love-bombing-narcissists-secret-weapon https://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/fast-forwarding-when-someone-speeds-you-through-dating/ https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/reports/news/a31487/what-is-coercive-control/ https://rightsofwomen.org.uk/get-information/violence-against-women-and-international-law/coercive-cont… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/19 04:20 PM |
| 13 | Ladies, Why Are You Depriving These Men??!!Because my vagina just packed a suitcase and fucked off to the Sahara.. hoooly shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/19 06:53 AM |
| 4 | Oh Wow Look More Men Mad At Women For Existing. Apparently Misogyny is justified for such horrific crimes as "Mothers who throw their kids things away without asking"To be fair, "absent father, domineering mother" creates serial killers. http://web.lemoyne.edu/~Freemams/index_files/psych_serial.htm https://www.ranker.com/list/serial-killers-who-hated-their-moms/erin-wisti Let's gloss over the "absent father" part eh! Stop being deadbeats guys. Misogynists - realise you're wrong and misguided, get therapy to get your head right, stop circle jerking and marinating in hate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/19 03:38 AM |
| 3 | Should I break up?He wants to "talk more" but also wants to "forget it and move on". He's a shit communicator and wants you as a companion for gaming. Drop him. You'll have many more break-ups, and his feelings are not your responsibility. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/19 03:19 AM |
| 14 | Went on a first date that lasted hours, met up the next morning too and he was very into me. Next day said we don’t mesh??So he says ya I regretted it as soon as I said it, I was hoping you’d forget, I just wanted to drop you off. He fucked up, at least he owned it. He says that’s fine I can make it up to him by making him dinner this week. I say sure yes fun. YOU can make it up to HIM??? bzzt Any time a dude fucks up and says "you can make it up to me" ... I mean, he owned it, he's capable of that. But laugh at that shit and tell him HE can make it up to you by cooking you dinner. He went from borderline clingy be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/19 09:12 AM |
| 7 | Today's Savage of the day: this OP's GF that proves it's possible to find love again as a single parent.Misogynistic delusions : women are sperm-jacking Chads to make babies and live the high life on welfare (lol as if). Anger is because they didn't get to have a go first. Women probably don't want to make another kid with incel. "You didn't know I existed, I'm undateable, but you didn't wait for me, how dare you". Reality according to actual stories from justnoso and relationship subs : men claim they want kids. The bit where there are dirty diapers, sleep deprivation and her vaj is closed for a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/19 03:50 AM |
| 12 | How do you deal with your emotions after being harassed?I laugh. I'm in a perpetual state of amusement by how ridiculous and backwards they are with their "strategies" and inability to plan long term. If they really think it's going to work, that we're honestly going to drop panties on the spot, they're so stupid and deluded. Laugh. If that's not what they're doing, if they're so hateful that they want to hurt us and make us cry, how pathetic. Laugh. Bonus because it pisses them off :D Then they get to walk around with rage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/19 03:29 AM |
| 20 | What do you wish you knew when you were younger?Listen to your gut. Don't mistake anxiety or fear for excitement, chemistry or thrills. If someone starts to "convince" you and you feel fear, anxiety, obligation or guilt, it's a hard No. You're the only one who can judge you. You have the final say in all your decisions and life choices. You're the only person on the planet with your best interests in mind. Don't hand your power over to anyone who says "trust me". Don't quit your job, quit college, or move across country for a dude who isn't y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/19 02:17 AM |
| 7 | What would you gals do?I would like to vote him off the island :P | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/19 02:10 AM |
| 5 | I feel like I’m doing all the work in my relationship.Yeah I fell for the "woe is me I'm so inexperienced" bullshit. They'll ride that gravy train foreeeeeeever. If inspiring pity is his dating tactic, it's pathetic. You just signed up to be his new Mummy. He loves things the way they are and he has no intention of growing up. Being such a good example will NOT motivate them, they'll just suckle your teat till you're dry. Find a man who's emotionally mature, life experienced, and relationship material AS IS. If you keep falling for "fixer-upper" ty… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/19 01:58 AM |
| 6 | Your take on this, ladies?I'm too cheap for therapy and too lazy to look for real solution. To the internet for a few pithy one liners as a quick fix! I can undo decades of interpersonal retardation with one post! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/19 01:53 AM |
| 10 | What would you gals do?If he's free on Wednesday and wants to see you, he'll make it happen. You feel the need to double text, do you think he's either stupid, forgetful, or not into you? All 3 make him worth dropping. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/19 01:46 AM |
| 14 | R/Redpillwomen...The subreddit of doormats essentially?It might work on a tiiiiiny percentage of trustworthy men with integrity who won't take advantage of you. The majority fuck up their vetting and just get an abuser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/19 03:43 PM |
| 7 | Needed to hear this after a breakupI don't think the broken ones can pull empathy and consideration out of their ass overnight. They either learn to keep the mask on a bit longer, put a tiny bit more effort in to trap her faster, or she's activating his fear of consequences harder than you were. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/19 12:03 PM |
| 7 | Switzerland women have much higher self esteem than american women(obvious in the unapologetic way they speak)LOL savage.. rating the men 3/10 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/19 03:56 AM |
| 9 | Today's Savage of the day is this girl from OP's post. I love the idea of having a boyfriend and "backups" waiting in line.I'm not sure I want stalker material as a backup. Dude's obsessed and aint right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/19 08:37 AM |
| 41 | All Men Are Aware That Men Terrorize Women Disproportionately But They Don’t Care. They Hate Anything That Might Lessen Their Ability To Sexually Exploit Us, So They Pretend “There’s Just As Many Bad Women Out There” No Matter How Demonstrably False That IsSeveral billion women during #metoo : yeah, if you could stop raping and murdering us, that would be great. Men : omg I'm so afraid of being reported to HR | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/19 08:30 AM |
| 13 | Need advice on clingy/infatuated man??Nooo so many red flags. He's not a healthy person. If he admits to being a mama's boy he's probably emotionally immature and has glommed on to you as his new mummy-wife. Healthy people build a relationship slowly. He's fast-forwarding past actually getting to know you, as if he already knows you. As if he has 'dream girlfriend' template and he's overlaid it onto you. You could be anyone. If he's built a fantasy of his future and you know, life happens, how's he going to react when reality doesn'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/19 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Power struggle: how do I get back in powerYou lost me at snap. Look up the difference between wanting power Over someone and having Personal power. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/19 01:01 AM |
| 0 | Hey guys I’m new to the sub and so far love it and how friendly it is so I have some dating advice...Oh come on :( don't turn into them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/19 02:14 AM |
| 5 | Male dating strategies suggest being elusive of how many partners men have slept with - does this apply to women also?If he asks your actual number, he's an insecure loser, drop him. If it's a long conversation about how you've both maintained long-term relationships and how they ended, what you learned, have you grieved afterwards, sure, proceed with caution. I usually try to work out of a guy is a serial short-term relationships / gets dumped kinda guy, or "married the love of his life, had a healthy relationship and she died 2 years ago" kind of unicorn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/19 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Hey guys I’m new to the sub and so far love it and how friendly it is so I have some dating advice...The dates mean nothing to him, you keep coming home to him. Take them out of the equation for manipulating him into committing, as he doesn't fear losing you. unless you're dating in order to find someone better, in which case it's kinda trashy to use this fairly nice yet non-committal dude's house as a landing pad. Return home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/19 01:58 AM |
| 13 | Please help me understand what gaslighting is. I may be currently be experiencing it.Rule #1 If someone is making you feel like shit, you don't need to diagnose what or why, or delve into their traumas and fix them. Simply GTFO and protect yourself. Figure it out from a safe distance if you really must. But that doesn't seem like gaslighting, more like "character defect" (Books - In Sheep's Clothing and Character Defect) Character defects can't be fixed by you, get out. Gaslighting can only be done with a straight face by a very disordered person, where they have a feeling, that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/19 04:09 PM |
| 15 | Would like to warn people that mgtows are lurking and reposting what you say. This is not the first repost I’ve seen so be wary of themGotta keep coming back to cherry pick and twist bullshit to pat themselves on the back for making the right decision. Change addiction from pussy (which they failed at attaining) to feeling smug and superior. Sour grapes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/19 02:25 PM |
| 3 | When is the right time to sleep with him?I gave up tinder and OLD, it's the same pool of broken, divorced men who either had poor social skills their entire life and are undateable, or damaged from whatever happened in their relationship, and zero men go to therapy or do self-reflection afterwards. They just stick their dick back in crazy and complain to me about it. Higher quality men are probably busy out doing real things, not sitting home furiously right swiping. I have no strategy for what to do with 1-on-1 matching services. perh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/19 02:54 AM |
| 14 | Standard shaming is the NORM for men. Never let them make you feel shitty for having standards, ladies.I dunno, that list seemed like a pretty basic standard. Anyone who baulks at that must be a real shitter. If you match those qualities, you have regular self worth and are obviously entitled to your equal. He's nowhere near that so it looks like trying to get to the moon, powered by his farts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/19 02:29 AM |
| 6 | When is the right time to sleep with him?Dont date strangers. Join meetups and social groups, meet men through work, friends and family, and observe them for a month. Upgrade them to acquaintance, casual friend, good friend. Pick from your pool of good friends. You should know someone for 3 months before going on one date, or upgrading them to 'romantic interest'. It's not about "making them wait", it's about getting to know their character in a wide variety of situations and interactions with others. Building trust takes time. Jumping… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/19 02:22 AM |
| 36 | SCROTES MAD: Woman with boyfriend gets offered $600 just to have coffee with an admirerWould you not at least mention it to your husband or get it cleared by him? My gf mentioned it as a hypothetical and I said as long as she tells me and nothing happens I'm cool with it she even offered to give me a cut from it "I have decided that what you do in your spare time is prostitution, (to shame you for making money from chumps), but you belong to me, so I will have the final say over your activities, and I will pimp you out" I think everyone identifies with OP's bf lol. "oh shit, her t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/19 05:36 AM |
| 20 | Everything wrong about today’s males!!He says this as if we've been dating high-quality men this whole time and fucked it up. uh no, I was wasting time with losers. All that's in the dating market is more losers. We're single because the men are losers... also what fertility window? I'm child-free at 41 and look fucking great :D lol @ the delusions.. if he's been unsuccessful in his 20's, he won't magically flourish into a smooth, charming, handsome man the second he hits 30. He'll just be an older, fatter, socially awkward loser. J… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/19 03:43 AM |
| 7 | So what do you all think about the saying "men age like wine; women age like milk"?I like how they re-brand things in their favor lol. fat gut / beer belly / skinny fat -> dad bod nah still gross and a sign of a higher risk of heart disease. sun-damaged and irresponsible -> weathered, rugged, manly mmm gonna be delightful when you get your ears, nose, lips and cheeks chopped off after melanomas. love handles -> sorry bruh, speed bump on the way to a blowjob. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/19 06:38 AM |
| 17 | Today's savage of the day: This chick who wasn't exclusive with OP, who never thought to become exclusive with her. She didn't give a single fuck about OP "walking away because she has 10 dudes just like me, and is flirting with all of them"."I have a girl, went out with her a few times, flirting here and there" translation: she barely knew he existed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/19 04:58 AM |
| 25 | THE RED PILL IS BEING SHUT DOWN!! THIS IS NOT A DRILL!!!hahahahhah about a year ago when they got quarantined, they were going on about moving to their secret treehouse. but it's not ready yet. good thing "men are the only ones who get shit done" lolol male self improvement is intently evil Let's gloss over all the misogynistic hate they spew, how they encourage men to 'train women like dogs', and to have Power Over women through psychological and emotional manipulation shall we.. As opposed to women's subs encouraging Personal Power and 'how to just… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/19 03:25 AM |
| 5 | Was he being manipulative or am I being a dick?Fuck that he's a missing stair. http://pervocracy.blogspot.com/2012/06/missing-stair.html Tell everybody. "not wanting to bring drama" is covering for him and enabling it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/19 02:13 AM |
| 3 | So what do you all think about the saying "men age like wine; women age like milk"?What wall. Get the fuck outta here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/19 02:05 AM |
| 6 | So what do you all think about the saying "men age like wine; women age like milk"?The struggle to find an emotionally mature, non-porn addict is real. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/19 02:01 AM |
| 6 | Male Depravity and me being a suckerIf a dude's capable of being decent, he should do that in the first place. Being an abusive knob and then promising to change is a terrible strategy and thus a big fat lie. Ditch the OLD and apps, meet and observe men irl for at least a month. Meeting strangers and being rushed into false intimacy isn't a good way to build a healthy relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/19 01:58 AM |
| 23 | So what do you all think about the saying "men age like wine; women age like milk"?I had tinder set to 45-55 and the difference in faces was... astonishing. That or 65 year olds had their age set lower to creep on the 20's. Protip guys, she's going to figure it out when you pull out your senior citizen's discount card, you cheap fucks. imo the majority of women take care of themselves very well and look good for their age. men do not, and either look their age or worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/19 05:22 PM |
| 26 | Look at the pure hatred that over 342 men have towards women. 🙄 do you see us saying this kind of choleric bs?If they have such contempt and hatred for us, and feel such joy at these clever "zings", why are they obsessed with getting in our knickers? Please, hurry up and "Go your own way"! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/19 03:30 AM |
| 10 | Opinion wanted: thoughts on dating multiple people and what if you feel like that’s just not you?It's because you have no desire to talk to anyone else that this strategy is for you. http://the-love-compass.com/2014/02/22/understanding-the-needs-of-the-anxiouspreoccupied-attachment-style/ If you find yourself putting the "winner" on a pedestal, romanticising and daydreaming about your future together, eagerly awaiting his texts, and dude hasn't done shit to earn your devotion and loyalty, you need to keep talking to other people to keep yourself grounded and objective. If that's not what yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/19 02:01 AM |
| 11 | I found my fiancé’s “Bitchionary”; a catalogue of the women he has slept with, rating them on such metrics as “pussy”, “sanity” and “cooking” and keeping extensive records on their personal details, interactions and the lies he had told them.oh man. my ex left his laptop connected to his dedicated porn server on a day he knew I was going to his place. I texted him at work to ask him to explain. He said "Just delete it". lol wtf I was watching a 3 hour documentary on paedophiles (do not recommend) and in one section they've catfished and found a pedo talking to 12 year olds. They track him down at his house lol and ask him what he thinks they should do with all the evidence. He says "Delete it". hmmmmm These dudes panic so hard when … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/19 01:52 AM |
| 2 | This Generation of MenI'm considering it :P PIV does nothing for me and I don't feel bonded or whatever after sex. especially not bad, pointless, orgasmless sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/19 11:36 AM |
| 50 | Holy shit. Crossposted from NiceguysOh my lord. He better have muscles and a pick-up truck because that boy is a waste of time. Don't entertain dumb men for more than a minute. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/19 07:14 AM |
| 12 | Hello, I (16F ) would like some advice from experienced women+ how should I improve my SMV and looksSpend the next 4 years concentrating on your education, women friends, possibly finding a mentor in life, and your self-care / adulting routines. This includes learning how to cook simple, nutritious foods, daily hygiene and grooming, weekly laundry, a good sleep routine, keeping your living space neat and clean, and maintaining a productive hobby. Also volunteer work, a part-time job, and keeping an eye on your finances. Forget boys, they add nothing to your life right now that you can't get yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/19 01:55 AM |
| 1 | REPOST: I’ve noticed an uptick in “incel” and “redpill” activity across Reddit. Has anyone else noticed this?It really is. Overindulgence is a form of child abuse by neglect, infantilisation and stunting. It needs counselling to fix. They can’t just choose to have motivation and curiosity that was stifled since birth. For this type of guy, just leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/19 01:15 AM |
| 73 | PSA: Condoms. Always.Stealthing (removing the condom and finishing raw) is sexual assault. You did not consent to sex without a condom. Any time he reaches down and fiddles with it, double check it. He wants to do doggy? reach between and double check it. As he's pulling out, double check it. And don't flush it :P | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/19 03:27 PM |
| 8 | REPOST: I’ve noticed an uptick in “incel” and “redpill” activity across Reddit. Has anyone else noticed this?I've noticed a lot more "I'm dating a lazy manchild and I explain simple concept to him (overwhelmingly - finding her clit and the dirty clothes hamper, lol), but he just doesn't get it" and the comments/conclusions are that he's a selfish narcissist, but I don't think that's true. I think a ton of women my age (40's - 50's) had shitty, strict, rigid childhoods with Depression Era Baby Boomers for parents, and decided they'd "make life better" for their sons, so they overindulged and coddled the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/19 06:27 AM |
| 2 | So, I’ve been using Reddit since 2011 and I’ve seen a lot of deplorable things since then, but what I’ve noticed is an uptick in “incel” and “redpill” activity. Has anyone else noticed this?This sub was linked to seduction and purplepilldebate so maybe OP copped shit / got embarassed, dunno | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/19 06:11 AM |
| 2 | So, I’ve been using Reddit since 2011 and I’ve seen a lot of deplorable things since then, but what I’ve noticed is an uptick in “incel” and “redpill” activity. Has anyone else noticed this?I've noticed a lot more "I'm dating a lazy manchild and I explain simple concept to him, but he just doesn't get it" and the comments/conclusions are that he's a selfish narcissist, but I don't think that's true. I think a ton of women my age (40's - 50's) had shitty, strict, rigid childhoods with Depression Era Baby Boomers for parents, and decided they'd "make life better" for their sons, so they overindulged and coddled them. Smoothing things out, zero consequences for bad behaviour, excusing… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/19 04:54 AM |
| 22 | Men are getting riled upThey should be grateful. We're giving them the solution and the key to happy relationships! Telling you exactly how to get dates instead of right swiping on Tinder in your crusty undies for months on end! Treat us with respect, like we're human beings, holy shit guys. If you're mad about that it's because your dating strategy is about treating us like sub-human garbage perhaps? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/19 02:38 AM |
| 4 | So, I’ve been using Reddit since 2011 and I’ve seen a lot of deplorable things since then, but what I’ve noticed is an uptick in “incel” and “redpill” activity. Has anyone else noticed this?I got told to "lower my standards" by a raging neckbeard... that's code for "so he can get a date" hahah. Politeness sucks. I wanted to reply that my standards are pretty low, any lower I'd be in a dead bedroom because I'm dating unfuckables. But he would have come back with another retarded reply I'm sure. How about they raise themselves up so they're dateable? Madness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/19 02:29 AM |
| 4 | RP men resorting to supplier induced demand tactics in the dating realm. Does this actually work for some [high-quality] women?Right? hahhah "I am able to" uh no you're not, she dumped your ass. 18 months dry spell lmfao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/19 02:23 AM |
| 3 | RP men resorting to supplier induced demand tactics in the dating realm. Does this actually work for some [high-quality] women?I've seen it a lot here in Australia too sadly, mostly "man holding fish". And they whip out the lame excuse "it's the only good photo of me". Not realising they just admitted that they suck at selfies and have no friends.. the tour guide they paid for a day of fun took the picture for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/19 02:22 AM |
| 13 | This Generation of Menhttps://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/mar/11/young-men-porn-induced-erectile-dysfunction https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/tech-support/201407/what-porn-can-do-intimacy It's an epidemic :( Repeated use gives them dopamine hits the way being with a real human doesn't. It changes their brain, they have less empathy - they don't give a shit about women's pleasure. It's the same kind of passive entertainment as gaming and social media scrolling. If a dude's gaming for 8 hours, he's pro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/19 02:12 AM |
| 7 | How to stop worrying and get my confident self back!In summary: His dick doesn't work He's been texting you less He's admitted to being unstable and incapable of being alone by getting women to move in after 2 months, but played this off by making you think you're special by NOT moving you in (what a rollercoaster) He's wishy-washy and a bad planner He declined to see you because "cold", but schedules dinner with friends, and graciously allows you to be his nightcap His car doesn't work He's on other dating apps He's brushing you off You're texti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/19 01:58 AM |
| 16 | This Generation of MenPorn Induced Erectile Dysfunction "but according to a number of studies and surveys, between 14% and 35% of young men experience ED. Until 2002, the incidence of men under 40 with ED was around 2-3%. Since 2008, when free-streaming, high-definition porn became so readily available, it has steadily risen." I'm 40. Dialup / internet porn came out in the 90's, just as my cohort hit puberty. Anyone without a steady girlfriend (aka anyone with poor social skills and who is likely to be "never married… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/19 01:42 AM |
| 9 | "I was a shitty BF and she just LEFT and moved on! I wasn't even abusive!" KUDOS to his ex for having standards and taking ZERO shit.I want to know her side of the story. She was probably posting on relationship advice for a year, looking for how to get her lazy gamer boyfriend to do any housework, get a job, have a shower, give a shit about her pleasure in bed. Doing all the obsessing, problem solving, researching, giving him suggestions, time and patience. Dealing with being called a nag, his defensive tantrums, being strung along with "I'll try" and "I need more time". She was probably at the end of her rope, and dude's li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/19 02:23 AM |
| 31 | When they show you who they are, believe them the first time.Don't upgrade men from "stranger" to "boyfriend" so fast. Take 3 months to get to know anyone, from stranger -> acquaintance -> casual friend -> friend -> boyfriend. It takes a long time, a lot of different circumstances and activities to see someone's true character. Are they trustworthy, do they have integrity, do they make good decisions, are they capable of long term planning. Are they thoughtful, considerate, wise, kind, have good work ethic and are civic minded. Are they reliable, hold the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/19 01:26 AM |
| 5 | OP want there for his GF when her dad died. She dumps him and moves out with another man. Kudos to her for taking zero shit!!!https://www.removeddit.com/r/BreakUps/comments/d5qjjp/is_this_a_rebound/ More like "a story in which a woman doesn't even know OP exists" what is going on here lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/19 09:20 AM |
| 2 | Guys take. Texting behaviour. What is normal?He's gone from giving attention to taking attention. He's using you as another social media platform - a blog. Posting pics to your wall for Likes. You're meant to give him enthusiastic pats on the head. "How you doing" is "entertain me, tell me something interesting", implying he has lost interest, and needs something from you to regain his interest. If he's still a rescuer, if he only gets thrills and validation from being useful and saving a woman, and has done no work beyond recognizing it a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/19 01:10 AM |
| 4 | OP is "not ready for commitment" with GF. She started sexy convos with another man and now he's "feeling disrespected" and "upset". Good for her. He wasted 1 yr of her time and she's on her way out.https://www.removeddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/d51ub6/found_sketchy_conversations_on_ltrs_phone/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/19 01:57 AM |
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