"Nice" is another word for doormat

totitiganiisuntgunoi · 2019-11-18T18:21:51+00:00

My personal preference is something like the personality version of "speak softly but carry a big stick." In general I like my personality to be feminine and kind. But that does not mean that I am malleable or a pushover. In life and relationships I don't just expect but demand to be respected and to take what is rightfully mine:

At work I expect competitive pay for the value I provide and recognition of my work.
I expect basic respect from everyone, period. Any person who cannot do that gets cut out.
In relationships I expect the man to pay for all dates and the majority of shared expenses. But I am NOT looking for a man who thinks that his responsibility to provide somehow makes him my superior. I expect any partner to be a high value man who sees me as an equal and we make decisions together as partners.

ino_y · 2019-11-20T08:44:27+00:00

test 1

soxychamp · 2019-11-20T11:04:34+00:00

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rad_daphne · 2019-11-18T17:42:29+00:00

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Title	"Nice" is another word for doormat
Author	rad_daphne
Upvotes	122
Comments	14
Date	November 18, 2019 5:37 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/dy6fa9/nice_is_another_word_for_doormat/
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