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MOOD FOR LIFErad_daphne/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 05:37 PM
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RANTrad_daphne/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 09:51 PM
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5

Hahhaha 👏🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 09:14 AM
5

Same. No hotties at the gym. They are out at bars generally, looking for hot women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 09:09 AM
5

Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 09:02 AM
7

Assault revokes consent inherently. It's rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 05:17 AM
17

My vagina just sewed itself shut. I cannot fathom ever wanting to have sex with a man like this ever again. Just the total lack of everything that would make someone an adult, a man, and partner. 6 months from now she's going to be writing on r/ relationships about how he's raping her 4 weeks postpartum and how can she get him to understand its not very nice (finger wag)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 05:13 AM
9

Same. Scrape and walk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 05:06 AM
32

Yeah just casually excuse yourself to the restroom and get the fuck out. Can't believe she fell for that bullshit. And I thought I was gullible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 04:57 AM
0

Stupid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 04:47 AM
2

I make them pay and give them nothing. They can eat it. No one has dared say a word to me about it. Don't know why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 04:05 AM
4

Because the sub has been invaded with pickmes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 11:33 PM
3

You've got a long way to go. This is also a feminist sub where we don't coddle men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 11:32 PM
56

God now these morons are saying it's not rape because they haven't talked about him not raping her while passed out. Now we have to tell men they can't rape us while passed out explicitly or it's consensual? What do you even say to this rapist dumb bullshit. Men getting a free pass " well you didn't say I wasn't allowed to rape you passed out, in the attic with an umbrella...so..."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 10:54 PM
64

Also big red flag that she went to work after getting her Masters while he continued at school. I predict once he is set up he's going to leave her for another younger better prettier woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 06:17 PM
-9

Why are you here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 06:12 PM
8

Blocking is for your own peace of mind. He has no right to come back and say mean things to you, which they often do. Or argue you into doing what he wants, which they often do. You have no obligation to listen to him scream.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 05:55 PM
4

Tell him his "me time" will be fucking his hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 05:54 PM
15

What a pig. Good riddance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 05:51 PM
143

This is so sad. He's mad because he was never going to marry her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 05:50 PM
8

And on top of all this, it's at least terrible boundaries. Ewww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 03:39 PM
21

They do it on buses too. Don't let men sit next to you and always get the aisle seat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 03:09 PM
3

It's just so pathetic. If the woman knew and has sex with his she would have a right to be mad at her, but this woman did know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 03:02 PM
21

That woman is a clown. She needs to be mad at the pig.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 07:49 AM
44

"our life is back on track for once" You made all of this shit, dude, all of it. Stop fucking up and this stuff could never happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 07:44 AM
18

How on earth do they manage to scream about all this stuff not being real and then turn around and prove it all without realizing it? And then they think they are superior to women. Men dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 06:16 AM
22

Oh I don't tell them shit. I would laugh at them and mock them. I don't respect men who pull that bullshit. My number will always be none of your business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 05:29 AM
43

When I hit 30 men STILL thought I should be a virgin or some bullshit. Men are complete idiots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 05:23 AM
112

"what can I say to him to get him to respect my boundaries" That's not how any of this works. The man doesn't respect you, he'll never respect your boundaries. I can't believe she even honestly told him. Hope she dumps him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 03:29 AM
10

He's probably wanking off while he sends the messages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 12:50 AM
2

You were not wrong. If he wanted more he would never take you to an Arby's. Lord!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 12:44 AM
31

This is freaking hilarious. That guy must put out some real creep vibes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 12:42 AM
30

Yep only time I made the first move the guy was a dick and fucked with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 09:31 PM
12

I date one of these guys. Tried to recreate his abusive relationship pattern that he had with his mom with me. He liked to have big emotional blowups and then make up. He got real mad when I didn't play. I went to his country to visit him and that woman had wheedled her way into his mind and blocked out plans of staying together for a month far away from her by ourselves. She ruined the whole trip. Had to spend it with her being rude to me which he allowed and saying nasty things about me to him…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 05:52 PM
16

I've had very few male teachers and 50% of them were disgusting creeps only there to perv on girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 05:32 PM
16

No one here is going to tell you you are lying. We all know it's true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 05:27 PM
14

Meanwhile one-third of young men have broken dicks because they beat it to death with porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 05:12 PM
7

Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 05:02 PM
4

What the fuck? He sexually assaulted you at that party and you still have contact with him. You know what you need to do. Block him. You're lucky he hasn't raped you yet. Very lucky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 04:57 PM
9

"I'm allergic" yeah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 04:33 PM
63

I've actually had several men think I wanted to have their fucking kid. They were know nothing do nothing have nothing men. Then I was literally using them for a fuck. Lol. I was polite and didn't laugh in their faces but that took an extreme amount of self-restraint. I can't believe they think I would waste my reproductive energy having the spawn of some worthless piece of shit who has nothing to offer with no commitment. It took everything in me to not look them in the eye and say if I got pre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 04:32 PM
28

This is how you ghost
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 04:26 PM
12

I love having an IUD and knowing no man can ever rape and impregnate me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 04:22 PM
89

Couldn't even wait 30 minutes to start cussing you out. After all that I would probably respond with "small dick?" just to get a further rise out of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 08:12 AM
34

Nothing but men and pickmes screaming in the notes about how she should pay and raging at all the evil older women that tell the girl to run. Amazing. The very least a man can do is pay if he wants your time an sexual consideration. I'll never pay again. I wasted my time putting together a picnic in the park for a man once, my money, my planning, he didn't even care. Don't waste your time or money on a man until he has proven to deserve it. I also don't cook for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 08:09 AM
16

The penises can think whatever they want, doesn't mean it's going to happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 07:55 AM
39

You got to block the trash so it can't come back. Sometimes you also need to get a brand new number. Nothing like a fresh start!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 07:53 AM
11

Did you see the latest news? It's proven porn degrades their brains and reduces their reasoning to that of a child. Explains so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 07:38 AM
12

At least his outer ugly matches his inner ugly now so all women will be safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 07:37 AM
32

I'd like to know how many 300 lb women he hits on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 07:34 AM
48

The only acceptable response to "wyd" is "not you".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 06:50 AM
110

This guy will rape you if he gets the chance, and if you volunteer for sex he will never give you an orgasm or even adequate foreplay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 06:44 AM
14

Men are rapists. Don't take alcohol from them, even one who has pretended to be your friend for years. Their raping knows no bounds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 04:44 AM
13

Hilarious how dumb men are. Love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 04:41 AM
8

Pull away and make him work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 04:36 AM
6

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 04:27 AM
4

Yes. The fact we have to report out rapes to them is a civil rights violation of the highest magnitude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 11:27 PM
1

HVM?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 10:47 PM
34

I'm not even going to read past the mid way point of this disgusting male bullshit. Treating a woman like the only legitimate reason she wouldn't fuck you on the third date that's because she's a virgin? Fucking disgusting rapist pigs burn in hell. Hope his balls explode all over him. Edit: OP was mocking these cucks. Lol. They're losing their minds in the notes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 10:38 PM
25

You'll do well here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 10:33 PM
66

Don't ever get therapy from a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 10:10 PM
9

Nope. Cops don't put rapists in prison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 09:23 PM
48

Shero
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 05:58 PM
14

Men are insane trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 03:49 PM
23

Yes. Just leave. I would stop the date right there. Worthless dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 03:40 PM
22

Any day I would trade their prison rape rate (1 in 10) for my daily existence rape rate (1 in 3). Facts don't kiss their asses so they just make up their own. All these guys screaming have probably all raped women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 12:48 PM
16

These men who treat women like this are the rapists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 12:46 PM
6

Don't listen to her, she has the wrong end of the stick. She REALLY won't like me: I call males penis trash. 🤷☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 12:43 PM
5

He's just stringing you along. There is no deeper meaning. Don't fool yourself. He probably does have another woman and he's just breadcrumbing you until her can get you. Men don't care if you're "to good" for him. That's another cop out. When you're done block his because this guy will come back and waste your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 12:37 PM
28

Yeah when I reported one of my rapists the cops told me he seemed like a nice guy after he had a chat with him. I had a text where the guy admitted raping me. I had also turned in all the abusive emails the rapist was sending me for 9 months. Cop's verdict: nice guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 12:34 PM
18

All you're doing is letting him lie to you. Never tell a man what you want to hear, just believe what his actions tell you. This guy is a joke. Also he's an old man approaching 50% dead dick age (40+)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 05:03 AM
77

My fave is when a MAN thinks another man cool so he obviously can't be abusive. Men are morons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 04:52 AM
17

Idiots
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 09:34 PM
27

Imagine life like this. Forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 08:11 PM
27

Men are only friends with you because they want to fuck you, lack consent won't get in their way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 08:05 PM
63

Lots and lots of rapes because of this bullshit. The last thing women need is to be alone with men they don't know well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 06:21 PM
3

You should definitely report him to campus security as well, they are your first line of defense on campus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 06:17 PM
32

Men are whiny bitch babies who expect women to be their slaves and solve all their problems and do everything for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 10:59 PM
26

Pathetic guys suck. They use it to rape and abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 10:57 PM
35

I love you. That made me laugh so hard!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 10:49 PM
3

Oh I know. I'm already getting downvoted for saying it's not misogyny to criticize women for being handmaidens to the patriarchy. And I got yelled at here yesterday by somebody and called a misogynist for saying that making stupid decisions that put you at risk when you know better is stupid. They should go join the women who claim it's victim-blaming for women to learn self-defense. Fact is men rape because they want to. I started to do a lot more research on rapists after being raped. Also men…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 09:25 PM
32

These men don't consider us human beings or our sacrifices to be of any value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 04:52 PM
42

Wow. I feel like I went through the looking glass of female self-hate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 04:44 PM
67

This is hilarious. I can hear the desperate incel dick never getting any ever. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 04:25 PM
32

Men are so stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 04:20 PM
11

It's a fact rapists have more partners and higher sex drive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 03:30 PM
100

Unless the guys dick is jumping out of his pants when you kiss, he's a loss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 03:16 PM
9

I mean he's not even doing her the courtesy of eating her out and giving her massages to attempt to even sort of make up for it. What's the point?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 03:36 AM
1

I think there's a difference between trying to get someone to go home with you on the third date and not even attempting to take the person on a date at all, just immediately "a walk" or "your place for sex". Also the suggestion to go on a walk as a first date wasn't him trying to get sex, it was him not giving a shit about her at all and not putting any value on himself either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 01:31 AM
2

Yes. This reminds me of people who used to say women didn't orgasm. "Can you prove it?' Sorry you don't got it sweetie, doesn't mean it doesn't exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 01:23 AM
6

Consider the real indifference is ignoring him completely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 05:19 PM
1

Ok waste your own time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 05:18 PM
14

I'm calling women who date cops dumb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 05:15 PM
8

Why are you even talking to this person? After 3 days not hearing from a man I just block him automatically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 04:50 PM
30

Broken dick. It will never happen in the future. He's breadcrumbing you. Decide now if you want a sexless relationship. By 40, 50% of men have ED.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 04:38 PM
18

Why even respond? Just block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 04:32 PM
62

He's sucked her dry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 04:29 PM
6

Why give this idiot a chance at all if his first date idea was "a walk". This will be a disaster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 03:11 PM
54

He tried to get some somewhere else and failed so he came back to you... and you took him back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 08:38 AM
38

No way he's as smooth as he thinks. His girlfriend is just another doormat most likely who puts up with poor treatment and no orgasms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 08:36 AM
74

It's because they know no one wants to actually fuck the cops literally. You have to be a dumb woman to date a cop when they have huge rape, abuse, and probably spousal murder rates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 08:29 AM
21

God they are all so pathetic. Can't even decide if this sub is full of EVIL or just dumb memes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 08:26 AM
9

"women refusing to listen to men is a cult"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 08:24 AM
5

All you did is just admit how triggered you are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 08:18 AM
10

He sounds pissy. I don't like him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 03:19 AM
8

Sweetie, he ain't never gonna pay half. That's a trick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 02:48 AM
3

Just send him a final text message that says you're not interested and block him. Honestly when things like that happen with people I just don't make eye contact with them and they always get the picture and stay away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 02:46 AM
6

Tells you he remembers and cares about nothing you say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 02:45 AM
30

I can always tell the women who aren't cumming in the sex they're having. They're the ones that fuck "for the closeness!" Lol You got to because that's all you're getting. How many years can you stave off the bitterness by lying to yourself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 12:02 AM
24

It's real. Men are worthless though. Only man who ever made me squirt had a huge dick with a sharp upcurve and made me squirt until everything was wet. The others got lies from porn, did it all wrong, then got mad at me and called me a liar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 11:44 PM
9

Bingo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 11:41 PM
13

Fuck yeah! Good job. "That wasn't me." Penis idiots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 11:40 PM
42

Is this why they hate feminists so much?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 11:39 PM
26

Savage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 11:39 PM
2

It's not a first date if you fuck him. It's a fuck buddy/one night stand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 09:16 PM
15

My opinion too. Copypasta.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 07:36 PM
80

That's a copypasta. He's playing you. Also it's you're not your. This is pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 07:32 PM
17

I just block them. I'm not interested in crocodile tears.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 05:04 PM
70

The proper response is "sure. You can fuck other girls... because I'm dumping you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 04:48 PM
2

One study said 1 in 7. I'm sure it's higher, don't know what definition of rape that study used.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 03:46 PM
26

Tires to fuck you while you're drunk, make passive aggresive statement about leaving it up to you, and mentions other women like your on a conveyor belt. High value No. He's not. He's manipulative. And a dick. Go with your anger fully next time and take out the trash. You didn't get angry because he was respecting you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 10:34 AM
1

They don't just desire it, they do it. Most men rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 10:26 AM
17

Don't waste your time with this clown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 09:43 PM
13

In their own words in surveys they say they would rape as long as they don't get punished. Don't let them pretend they're just ignorant. It's the same schtick they pull when it comes to abusive behavior, pretending they can't perform basick cooking or cleaning tasks, don't know how to act etc. Don't let them pretend. That's exactly how they are already getting away with everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 09:33 PM
21

Her bf is fucking his best friend, who is a woman, and everyone in the notes is saying she's "jealous" because this is crossing her boundaries. Jealous is just like bitter, another pick me battle cry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 08:55 PM
6

Ouch! LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 04:34 PM
2

They're rapists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 04:31 PM
17

Why not just walk out instead of wasting your time and humoring liars?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 03:42 PM
153

Should have gone out to a fancy bar for a drink looking all nice. Never know who you might meet. Or perhaps even better, when he arrives you've already met someone else and are chatting. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 05:58 AM
91

What kind of an ass would make the woman arrive and wait first, alone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 05:56 AM
81

46 minutes is ridiculous. I leave at 15. Good for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 05:53 AM
20

All your comments are laughing at the women you asked for help. Is this really how you were raised to act? Are you a troll or just have no respect?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 02:00 AM
21

You get the plan out of him before you even agree to the date. You never agree before and certainly don't meet him. If he had nothing planned when you show up tell him to plan something and call you again. Then leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 01:55 AM
9

Aren't these pigs always? One girl told me her boyfriend was "not abusive 90% of the time", oh well I guess that makes it ok then. 🙄 Imagine thinking 10% abuse is an acceptable number.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 08:52 PM
19

A man who has never given a woman an orgasm. So sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 07:42 PM
64

"He's got nothing to be sorry for. Having a fetish is completely normal." All of these people should be ashamed. Men treat women like shit and everyone tells her to lap it up and shut up. Happily to my grave alone if my only choice is one of these pigs. I thought it was bad what women were told to put up with when I was growing up but it has gotten worse and worse by the year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 07:27 PM
41

So he gets to use your body to get off and then give you nothing? I've met these pigs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 04:25 AM
44

Tell him it's none of his business and you know he's only asking to hurt you. Only a pig asks. No adult wants that answer so they don't ask and/or they know that's totally inappropriate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 01:33 AM
50

So he's over 40 and complaining that the only attention he gets from young women is from young women looking to be paid for it. Lol Bonus: a male mod (of course) didn't think the blatant misogyny was bad enough to delete the post. He waxed poetic with lots of hot air all for this man's misogyny. This is what subs mean when they have a "no sexism" rule. They'll excuse it but pretend they care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 06:32 PM
29

He put something in the soda. I just say thanks the first time, pretend to take a sip, then "forget" the drink somewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 01:23 PM
84

This is why when I reject them I block them. They can scream into the void, but not at me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 05:21 PM
8

You can't reason or argue a man into not being sexist or abusive. Don't give them an opportunity to lie and worm their way back in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 03:49 PM
12

Too bad you can't send her screencaps of him whining about still loving you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 11:21 AM
16

Next time just block him and let him wonder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 11:12 AM
55

I don't believe this at all. Unless they can produce messages from her to him saying she wanted to be strangled. Either way it doesn't matter. You cannot consent to rape, assault, strangulation or murder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 11:53 PM
9

That's a polite message after taking you out. If he wanted to see you again he would ask to see you again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 06:09 PM
8

Exactly. He's hoping one of them might be interested. Or he's already cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 04:44 PM
5

The fact he does this publicly where you can see it is just a total lack of respect. I think it's equivalent to checking out other women in front of you while the two of you are out together. Completely unacceptable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 04:41 PM
80

Yeah, don't be a sucker, ladies. Give what you get and don't pretend men are just clueless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 03:30 PM
8

Oh you got to pin those fuckers down. Legally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 08:26 AM
7

Men suck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 07:18 AM
14

Too bad. I would have devoured that guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 06:56 AM
2

They're all rapists anyway, just defending themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 03:35 AM
6

So little blood comes out in a couple of minutes that it's really just a slightly metallic taste. Don't let men whine their way out of eating your pussy. My best lovers would eat my pussy regardless. Real men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 03:33 AM
1

I can masturbate and lick my own finger clean, so can he. All of the noobs are nipping at my heels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 03:30 AM
47

"because I give great head" 🤢 Make him eat your pussy on your period. Just rinse and maybe put in a tampon. Tell him to pull up his big boy panties. I ain't here to service YOU while I'm bleeding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 01:39 AM
3

Oh my God I agree. Plus this PUSSES men off so bad! Lol That brings my number so low.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 09:44 PM
6

If you ever divorce you'll get nothing, not even child support. He might even be able to get spousal support from you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 07:28 PM
46

Here's another thing. Men actually lie about how they're going to fight really hard for custody and then they turn around and say she took the kids from me the courts gave her custody. Reality is he didn't even try because he didn't want to have to take care of them. Men lie about this stuff to save face and look like the victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 07:13 PM
2

What does "Daphne? Nice try" mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 05:19 PM
5

Get a guy who will cook and clean with you, make a routine of it, also if you cook he does dishes. Only date men with clean houses and cars who cook. Date men who take pride in their appearance. Then don't let them slide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 03:31 PM
11

That's 1,440 per day. Just imagine if they put this effort into actually being decent people?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 03:27 PM
6

I know how you feel. It's almost impossible for me to be friends with women who have a boyfriend because I can't stand hearing about how much shit they take and they never leave or listen to anyone. Get older female friends. They are more likely to be done with the bullshit. Also long-term single women, shows they won't let just any fuckboy in their life. Then vet them with stories from this sub and gauge their reactions. Good luck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 03:15 PM
11

I told a guy about my rape. It prompted him to tell me about his friend who was convicted of raping a 15 year old girl. It was a "false accusation" naturally by a "15 year old slut pretending to be innocent". Never tell men about your rape. Test them first by bringing up a news article or a "woman you know who was raped" to feel out how vile they might be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 02:59 PM
58

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 02:40 PM
121

When your man looks at other women openly in public in front of you he is telling you he has no respect for you, her or women in general. Dump him. I NEVER go out a second time with men like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 02:38 PM
56

This comment!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 02:36 PM
11

The silence is your answer. Block him and move on. Next time don't even tell the guy, just block him and let him wonder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 04:09 AM
22

Trick is find a guy good enough to fuck and hang with a little but not good enough for a relationship. I've had several over the years. They were all people I genuinely liked, and even cared for to an extent, but not romantically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 12:08 AM
17

It is radfem aligned. I would like to know what about not being a doormat you object to?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 05:46 PM
37

If a man doesn't make you come every time he sure as shit doesn't care about you and he certainly isn't nice or thoughtful. Nice and thoughtful is all her catering behavior she displayed toward him which went way too far and he's done shit all for her in return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 04:42 PM
18

Are you kidding? My eyes just got bigger and bigger reading your list of red flags. I was done at the first one porn addict, and then second one broken dick! No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 03:07 PM
15

And because polyamory (cheating) is a protected "sexuality" there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 02:15 PM
30

I think I value is about how he treats you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 01:48 PM
11

Okay the fact that he's 35 and you are 25, he's clearly just looking for sex. If he were looking for something serious he would be looking at someone his own age. Then you gave him sex on the third date. Also the seeing you once a week part, he was seeing other women too. All of this stinks. Try for someone closer to you age. Another 5 years this guy has a 50% chance of his dick not working because he's so old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 01:47 PM
4

Ahahha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 01:42 PM
37

A man who keeps making passes at you after you have turned him down is not a good person or a good friend. He's showing he doesn't care about what you want or consent. This is the kind of male "friend" who gets you drunk and rapes you one night when he realizes he can't badger or cajole you into sex. Men do this all the time. Be careful. Had one scream in my face randomly one night for daring to never fuck him in the 4 years we were friends. He made a public scene.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 04:26 AM
34

These guys aren't just entitled, they're stupid too. A dangerous combination.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 04:22 AM
4

I got into dancing and got a group of about 70 friends and acquaintances. Just find something active that you love. Could be a casual tennis group, a running group, hiking, wine tasting, even volunteering... Whatever floats your boat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 02:15 AM
7

They want sex. That's it. That's men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 02:12 AM
12

I've been feeling the same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 08:34 PM
3

If it's just for sex then just wait a few days and ask him if he'd like to do it again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 07:05 PM
13

When the trash takes itself out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 06:59 PM
2

You're not crazy. I don't think saying sometimes what's a good choice though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 05:05 PM
10

Be charming, fun, light, make your eyes sparkle, be a little circumspect, be interested, touch his arm once or twice to show physical interest, laugh pleasantly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 04:21 PM
5

I think it's nice on a first date/first kiss. Shows respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 04:01 PM
7

I agree with the other women here, keep up with your life and interests and don't let him walk all over you. Beyond that I don't know. 9 months is still pretty early in the relationship and I think that you should still be able to follow a lot of fds advice. Keep him on his toes and striving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 03:55 PM
12

I'm in a similar position re disability. I'm sort of in disability limbo, too much to work more than maybe 10 hours a week if that (it's been so bad for years I haven't worked at all, but treatment is helping) not disabled enough to get disability or with the right diagnosis. I mostly look normal but can only do so much in a day due to an old injury to my neck and back. If I do too much I can end up in bed for anywhere from 1 to 7 days, typically it's about 3. Previously when I worked that would…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 03:46 PM
7

Yeah I think he was just trying to manipulate you into bed. Men should not give you a weird ultimatum after 5 dates. And he certainly would not have if he was interested in you for more than just sex. I think you dodged a bullet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 03:22 PM
13

*20! Yikes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 09:31 AM
5

34!? More like 44! Also note the Peter Pan complex in the way that he dresses himself. Such a shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 09:26 AM
4

I've dated that guy too. Always dump an insecure loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 07:17 AM
0

No
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 12:17 AM
9

Wow how fun that would be
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 12:16 AM
22

Well I'm sure your shitty so-called best friend didn't enjoy the two minutes either. Ha. Jerk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 10:51 PM
63

So if I have this straight, he wouldn't give you orgasms but you also were not allowed to give yourself any either? Charming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 09:01 PM
23

"go with the flow" Gaslighting. I've had guys try that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 07:44 PM
43

I didn't buy it, but my dad tried to convince me of it everytime I stood up to him. How fucked is that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 07:41 PM
53

And I've noticed they always rate beautiful and attractive women really low regardless. It's just a wankfest mind-fuck from bitter, abusive men who can't get near a woman in real life to abuse her. Don't ever let a man get in your head. Don't give them opportunities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 05:38 PM
23

The joke is that we all know how long it takes a woman to leave a loser or an abuser. Usually they have years where they could have changed their behavior at any time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 05:07 PM
10

This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 02:25 PM
14

I have literally never taken a call when I was out with anybody, date, friends, family... And for 30 minutes! That is so amazingly rude and you are only 2 months in to this relationship? No. Next. Yikes. Jerk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 02:24 PM
38

The refreshing sound of the truth in the morning! I was always wondering what was wrong with other women but now I realize they're all just lying to make men feel better. (I don't need to orgasm I just like feeling close to you, size doesn't matter, how long you last doesn't matter, oh I just don't orgasm from oral) Why live your life like that when you could get what you want and need from a real man?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 02:15 PM
28

Every fucking time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 02:11 PM
36

Wow these men are pathetic. Not one bit of self-reflection in the notes, just whining about themselves. All of these men could have been better partners who actually cared about their woman, but no, that would be effort. These are low effort men. I can see why women leave them. Meanwhile the one woman in the notes: Ahhh shit, maybe I'm doing it wrong then...was in a relationship where I had absolutely no time for myself and spent all my free time with him eating lots of (junk) food. Since breaki…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 02:01 PM
7

I love men who play lots of soccer. Great stamina!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 06:10 AM
8

Amazing women would like to actually enjoy it when it's inside of us! Some of them are so small you can't even feel them. The least they could do if they have a dick that small is work to make up for it but they don't because they don't think about women's needs at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 06:08 AM
11

One of the guys I was with would play a double header soccer game every weekend after dancing all night with me and then fucking me for 3 hours. Fit matters and makes a big difference in sexual performance! Stamina.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 06:02 AM
9

Oh my God! Same with that dick size doesn't matter bullshit and "sex is about the closeness. I don't need to orgasm" lie! Hahahaha! I wish women would just be honest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 05:57 AM
17

My mom was still gorgeous at 40!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 03:45 AM
12

Oh I thought it was you. Sad for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 03:44 AM
3

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 12:56 AM
29

I didn't hit my stride until my late 20s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 12:55 AM
12

House work and rasing kids only takes 15 minutes a day when HE does it. Why does it take YOU so long? Hummm? Geez! -men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 12:52 AM
116

"some men can't come with condoms." Good. Then they'll know exactly how we feel when we have sex with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 09:58 PM
57

This is psychopathic murderer level shit. If you live with him I suggest moving out while he's at work one day without notice. Please be very very careful. Go find somewhere else to stay with friends or family. This dude is not going to react well when you try to leave him. I can't stress any of this enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 09:10 PM
15

It's just bad form. It's like men who check out other women when they're already on a date with a woman. You don't do it and you don't date somebody who does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 05:13 PM
13

Well I had a boyfriend who would eat me out for fun quite often so I went down on him for fun. I absolutely would not do this if I wasn't getting mine though. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 05:08 PM
17

One of the biggest factors in a successful marriage is financial stability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 05:05 PM
15

This is obviously fake anyway from some dude from one of those bitter subreddits when they like to shit on women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 04:45 PM
37

His bitterness was palpable. Just because she wants somebody who can afford to pay 30 bucks for a meal and is attracted to her sexually? How does she have so much nerve! Wait till he finds out we advocate for not sleeping with the man for at least two months! Where DO we get off?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 04:43 PM
11

Fake. r/thathappened
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 04:41 PM
26

Where is that saying that goes around in feminist circles about men just wanting a strong woman so they can tear her down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 04:30 PM
4

You split that right open
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 08:53 AM
2

This. Let him show you and judge his offer. You could suggest dinner back if you want. If it's only practice take the drinks date and just enjoy the interaction and attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 08:43 AM
79

They're just bitter that nobody wants their penis and we can literally leave the house and get dick thrown at us. 🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 08:37 AM
15

Ouch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 08:36 AM
7

I've had men pull that BS. It's and "accident".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 12:48 AM
8

TRP the red pill RPW red pill women PUA Pick up artist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 08:07 PM
25

The correct response is "you're right. relationships are about sacrifice and your sacrifice is not getting any until I feel secure" But anyway this guy was not serious at all he was lying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 08:03 PM
11

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 04:43 PM
87

I think you summed it up pretty well. I think I fairly believed in Prince Charming appearing one day to whisk me away I was taught by society that women don't deserve pleasure and if they happen to get it it's a nice accident but you are never allowed to ask and you are certainly not allowed to demand your fair share I also really thought that being nice would get me nice and return That only forcible rape counted, not all the other myriad ways men rape women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 02:38 PM
14

Decide you won't sleep with him the first night. You have every right to give yourself a few dates to feel this out. My best friends with benefits we talked at a coffee shop a few times a week for 6 months before I went out with him on a date. He was not physically very attractive but he was an absolutely amazing lover and we were friends and lovers for years. Don't force it if you don't like him. Take your time and be upfront. All my best lovers have been less attractive men who really liked me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 02:15 PM
19

I've had a few so this too. It's usually the commitment phobe types.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 02:07 PM
3

I'm working really hard to get my health back on track, lose weight, get my muscle and stamina back, work on my chronic pain, dressing nice, eating right for my health issues. Doing nice things for myself like I used to (sitting in the sun, having a nice glass of tea, taking a relaxing bath, yoga, going for walks) Next steps will be a lot harder, if they're even possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 06:11 AM
5

Honestly I'm a bitch so I would get aggressive. I would look them in the eye and do that thing where you nod your head at them quickly up and down, that rude aggressive thing men do to each other. Works like a charm every time. If they get in your way tell them to wait their turn in a shaming mom voice. Don't let them have shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 06:07 AM
2

Hahahha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 05:50 AM
118

Confidence. Yes. I always got tons of attention when I was on my game feeling amazing and confident.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 05:42 AM
8

And also that he has ZERO respect for you too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 11:42 PM
9

Idiots. Just dump the pig. He has no respect for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 11:36 PM
30

Or failing that, rape her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 11:30 PM
25

Oh shit nah I would be slapping used ones on the bathroom mirror, watch him go nuclear, and call the cops.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 11:21 PM
36

Yeah I would just dump this piece of shit. Fuck with me you're out the door.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 10:11 PM
6

Report him to the manager immediately. It is completely inappropriate for a gym employee to offer you assistance with squats. Play the recorded message for them as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 09:13 PM
3

Learn, forgive yourself and move on. Don't take it again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 06:59 PM
39

I just love how at the very end after this litany of horrible shit he does she said: I love you and I'm never going to leave you. So basically she will never hold him to anything and he's just going to keep treating her like this. Way to lay down the law, hun. She basically just said "I'm not serious about any of this so continue to walk all over me and have no respect for me. I'll still love you! Never worry, I'll stay." No self respect at all. No spine. He saw her coming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 05:14 PM
6

Good. I would keep her that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 03:05 PM
7

Sounds creepy. Sounds like he thinks choking women during sex is sexy. And a lot of those guys will choke if they get angry at you. Choking is the number one sign that a man will murder you. I absolutely do think you should leave. And as a side note the fact that you didn't remember it until now and it's hazy is really really bad. You really shouldn't be dating. You're having trauma responses and dissociation. Please be very careful. The kind of men that will find you in this state are not good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 03:00 PM
29

if I were you I'd ask yourself does this really sound like the sort of person I would like to be friends with? Yhat I want in my life influencing me? Because no. She will only ever bring you down with her stories of her pathetic relationship and by telling you to expect less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 02:27 PM
6

He's mad at you so he's tormenting you. He's not a good person. Also it sounds like you spent a lot of time on the internet with other sick nasty fucks where he gets this crap. Also you just turned 18 and he's 21? He's too damn old. And frankly I also tried to get into relationships right after being raped, you shouldn't. You shouldn't it all. You're not in a fit state of mind to find a decent partner and all you will find is creeps. Pull back from dating and take some time for yourself. I didn'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 02:15 PM
7

The trashcan thing isn't normal though. Pretty much every house in ever been in has a trash can in the bathroom because you throw things away in the bathroom like kleenex and bottles and q-tips. But of course that's assuming the man engages in even the most basic hygiene...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 02:07 PM
3

That is really bizarre. But I think you could have given us more context. Honestly leaving out the context makes me think that it's not good and you did not want to write it down. If you want to find out what a man is you don't ask him direct questions, you reference a news article or some such thing. I did the guy who is sympathetic that I had been raped but then use that to bring up that his friend was "falsely accused" of raping a 15 year old, got convicted and went to prison. In other words …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 02:00 PM
16

Barf. You forgot both sides of sink full of dishes and dishes overloading onto the counter (-2) Mattress on the floor (-3) No trash can in the bathroom so you have to wrap your pad and wander around the house looking for somewhere to throw it away (-3) No toilet paper other than the last scrap you just used Having a hard time rating these because they're all completely reprehensible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 01:47 PM
19

Men really are terrible people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 05:48 AM
20

That's awful. She should have been able to sue that school for wrongful termination.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 05:30 AM
37

I knew a girl who swooned over a guy because the first thing he said to her wasn't "Nudes?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 04:32 AM
15

No. You're not. Any man that tells women they can't say no to something physical is a big red flag. I've dated a guy like this. He tried to rape me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 02:05 AM
45

Bet she sings a different tune these days. What a bad way to learn. I don't know why you'd ever put your nudes out there if you actually had a career that could be threatened by them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 01:54 AM
12

Rapist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 01:39 AM
9

Hahah he's right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 10:00 PM
4

It was bizarre. The guy clearly had mental problems. When he lunged at me with his fist up I just stared at him and didn't even blink because I knew he was full of shit. I saw the realization dawn on his face that it wouldn't work and all of a sudden here come the waterworks! He really thought he could manipulate me. I got the hell out of there fast!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 08:21 PM
6

These women just don't respect themselves or their time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 08:04 PM
12

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 07:54 PM
22

Agreed. Love yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 07:53 PM
4

My opinion is that he must have known what age you were roughly and purposely picked an age much younger than you are as the "wall" just to be nasty and try to manipulate you. I honestly don't know how you even sat through that dinner! I get that "I need to know my leg off to escape" feeling when I'm in those situations. Yikes! Also my instance of getting stuck on dates like this is zero and that's because I instituted a policy of meeting men out in person only and then talking with them for at …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 07:39 PM
7

I think that you know what you have to do you just don't want to do it. Eventually you will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 06:42 PM
17

He's controlling you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 06:15 PM
15

Yep he's absolutely controlling her. This is abusive control. Just because he does the sad boy act doesn't mean that it's not. That's actually his means of controlling. He also apparently uses this act to stop her from going out with friends and having fun and block her from doing things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 06:06 PM
9

Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 05:33 PM
29

Oh my God toe up. How did you end up in this relationship? He honestly sounds like a narc. Taking from you but not giving. Everything is about him including everything that's actually about you. I've had this sad boy type before. Why are you letting someone suck this much out of you? He needs to take care of his own shit and get therapy not put his shit on you. This is a completely unreasonable level of support and caretaking that he's expecting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 05:32 PM
4

I agree with everyone else in the notes. Work on yourself now, wait to date seriously. Date practice guys for now to hone skills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 04:48 PM
21

Do you love it? I bet that feels good!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 10:19 AM
22

Yeah I love when they post on their main account and I can look through their history. I found a dude the other day calling his girlfriend abusive and lo and behold according to his history he's an alcoholic drug abuser who goes on multi-week benders where he doesn't sleep. But she's the evil abuser who's a horrible mother! Sure, dude. And of course all the men were feeding him the attention that he wanted allowing him to indulge in that lie. He also had a weird obsession with uncircumcised peni…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 08:55 AM
18

They are basically just walking penises
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 08:36 AM
14

Yeah probably. They're pigs. Studies show that no matter how far men age they still think the most attractive woman is about 20. Where as women are generally attracted to men their own age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 08:33 AM
94

The truth is the women their age won't date them because they're fucked up messes. You should be curving these dudes. You're at the age where you can get young hot men whose dicks still work. Enjoy it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 08:06 AM
24

This guy is clearly a narc and he's also leaving out a lot of information about all the shit that he did to her. There are some major gaps here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 08:03 AM
36

Personally I would respond because I just wouldn't be able to pass up the opportunity. "Yeah I'm doing so much better now without all your abuse!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 07:07 AM
20

Chanting "Next sub to get banned"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 06:57 AM
45

Good for you! I'm sure you'll find someone better easily and he'll be watching like a sad puss from outside!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 06:49 AM
7

All of the advice is all about how to be extremely careful to not inflame his sensitive ego. I would tell him to stop giving his sexual energy to porn instead of to his partner right away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 06:47 AM
66

So basically this guy tricks a woman into having his baby and now he's decided she's a worthless piece of shit. He also decided to just stop working because he's a lazy piece of shit even though he only had enough money for himself? Very nice. And refers to her leaving work to have a baby as quitting and being lazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 06:03 AM
134

What a stupid pig! Keep rubbing his face in your improvement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 05:51 AM
39

What a dumbass. She gave it up for nothing. Don't fuck a dude unless you've decided he's just FWB quality, and keep him there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 01:18 AM
6

If he actually had a high IQ he might realize that treating people like shit only gets him treated like shit and is only going to give him a miserable little life. That if you want respect you have to treat people with respect, you can't treat them poorly and think they're going to be nice to you and your life is going to be happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 07:48 PM
7

It's easier to do nothing but goodnight kiss, handholding and maybe cuddle up on the couch to watch a movie several weeks into dating. If I go further I won't stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 07:26 PM
9

Very sad. Hope she leaves. If she doesn't he will rape her again. Statistically most women who are raped and raped again within the following 6 months. It's because most rapes are committed by boyfriends and partners and those men lie to the women and say "it was an accident. I won't do it again. I'm so sorry." Problem is he's a rapist so he does it again. Women don't leave until the 2nd rape generally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 07:25 PM
4

Say "yes I'll suck your dick" and then bite it off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 07:15 PM
23

I saw another guy on that sub yesterday complaining about his evil abusive girlfriend. I went through his post history turns out he's a drug and alcohol addict who goes on multi-week benders where he doesn't sleep because he is so high. Some guy in the notes was telling him to audio record the girlfriend when she tells him off because that would prove she is not a fit mother and he could use it in court to get custody. Also for some reason the guy was obsessed with other men's penises and whethe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 03:23 PM
1

Don't know. Just see it around on radfems social media from time to time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 01:51 AM
45

"The low-maintenance woman, the ideal woman, has no appetite. This is not to say that she refuses food, sex, romance, emotional effort; to refuse is petulant, which is ironically more demanding. The woman without appetite politely finishes what’s on her plate, and declines seconds. She is satisfied and satisfiable. A man’s appetite can be hearty, but a woman with an appetite is always voracious: her hunger always overreaches, because it is not supposed to exist. If she wants food, she is a glutt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 06:37 PM
10

I never would have driven to see him. Not for a first date or early in dating. Ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 04:49 PM
32

So you want to be just like every other woman throwing herself at him? Do you think that stands out to him? No. And if he's looking for a real relationship he's not going to choose any of those women anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 04:38 PM
37

I went on a first date with a guy and he told me I wasn't allowed to order dinner when we went out to dinner which he invited me to. So stupidly I order a $6 appetizer and a gin tonic. Total: $10 not including tip. He orders himself the lamb chop entree which was over $20. At the end of the date he tells me that I'm too expensive and to not expect to be taken out. I should have nexted him right there but I was at a low point. The guy went on to be a worthless loser slob who treated me poorly and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 04:33 PM
8

How is it using to make sure that you yourself is taken care of? Wouldn't he want? I think that you should let him pay until at least you have a healthy savings account built up. This sub advocates for women being smart and making sure they have a fall back and not putting all their eggs in one basket.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 04:14 PM
12

If you're always telling him what you want then how can he show you what he really is? Just sit back and see what he does. I do the same thing with letting the man talk on the first date. Whatever he says I just act nice and then they'll open up and show you a little piece of who they really are. That way you can next the losers quicker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 01:43 PM
14

You don't offer to pay and just let him do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 01:41 PM
24

If you aren't happy just leave. No need to cheat. Leaving an unhappy situation isn't immoral. Side note: I'm now wondering if this is a troll trying to make us look bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 01:19 PM
18

What if he leaves you? What would you have? Not much with only a part-time job? Do you have your own savings account? What if you had kids with him and then he left you? You would be in a terrible position. If he paid for everything you could build a nice savings account for yourself if anything ever goes wrong. As it is, if you don't have any savings, you're completely open to some very bad situations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 01:17 PM
2

The link doesn't work unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 08:09 PM
4

I agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 07:06 PM
27

One-in-seven adult men is a pedophile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 07:05 PM
4

So he's telling her he wants to beat her up and then saying it's a joke. Prince!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 03:46 PM
6

"stable" yeah, stabily on the couch drinking. Imagine the snooze fest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 02:04 PM
15

Damn it. It's already been removed. We need to step up our imgur game! Oh my God those fucking comments. "sounds like you have NPD. You can take care of it was in therapy." No you can't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 01:55 PM
3

Abuser moves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 01:33 PM
17

She fucking cleaned it up? Oh hell no! I would have taken that kid right out the front door and driven away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 01:29 PM
22

This was a ridiculous read. "he's injured doesn't work doesn't clean drinks and smokes pot all day does nothing but play video games contributes nothing financially treats her like a servant but other than that one tiny thing it's great! Who the hell broke all of these women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 06:04 AM
6

You need to leave and be alone and heal yourself. You do not need to attach yourself to a new man that you're putting feelings on, feelings are projecting onto him. That's not how you start a new relationship. Certainly not how you start a healthy relationship. You're a victim of long-term abuse. This is precisely why I do not approve of girls dating at 13 and 14 years old. They get sucked into these long relationships with abusive men that completely cripple their ability to be independent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 05:10 AM
17

What a fucking pig. "She's cooking anyway therefore she should have to cook for me" Hope he dies from fast food poisoning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 04:58 AM
3

No. Not one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 04:46 AM
3

Just block him. Like the other commenter said, he didn't think you deserved an explanation so why does he deserve one?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 12:25 AM
13

My life is drama-free, my house is clean, my cat is happy without some man stomping around, I fuck myself and orgasm every time, I watch what I want when I want, I come and go when I want, and go to the gym and eat healthy on my own schedule, if I want to fuck some hottie I could go out tonight and find one... I'm not going to fuck that up for a LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 11:40 PM
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Women will actually stay with a man that I want to leave and I could take care of him if he gets sick. The dude is gone in 0.3. I'll never forget the story of one poor woman who got breast cancer, her husband dropped her off at her follow-up for her mastectomy and he fucking drove away and never came back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 11:22 PM
3

u/mazinamy yes I do have a link to the facial brush that I bought. Fancii 7 in 1 Waterproof Electric Facial & Body Cleansing Brush Exfoliating Kit with Handle and 6 Brush Heads https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01GSP1QIA/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apap_HxMhtts73EOqX I've had it for a year and no problems whatsoever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 10:52 PM
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I've had other women come screaming for me because I said that you should get to orgasm every time you have sex too, not just him. Or for saying if the guy won't go down on you, not only should you not go down on him, but you should dump him and go find a man who will eat your pussy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 10:34 PM
2

Ewwwwwwh I'm happy you're safe!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 02:41 PM
20

It's what happens when you let men whisper in your ear your whole life and put the value of dick even above your own dignity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 01:33 PM
1

You're welcome. I've had my fair share of friends I've had to sayonara over the years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 12:38 PM
10

Honestly you could date him for a time and to just enjoy yourself and let him build you up and take you out. Long-term I don't think it would work. Imagine having to watch your husband vote for Trump or something! Kill me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 12:37 PM
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Which is worse men talking about how they want to rape murder enslave an abuse women or women talking about how they're tired of being abused and raped encouraging each other not to take that shit anymore. Clearly it's the latter because it reduces low grade men's access to vagina.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 12:31 PM
10

You should track that pig down, reel him in and then slaughter him. He's probably got a beer gut by now, maybe he's even balding if you're really lucky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 12:26 PM
5

I would not want to hear what these men do to her all the time and watch her just be fine with it. She has a prisoner mentality. I wouldn't want that to taint my perspective, I also wouldn't want that to reflect on me if someone meets her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 12:21 PM
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I agree. Fuck this guy. Also do you know that that's how almost all women who are raped are raped again within the following six months? Because their boyfriend who rapes them tricks them into coming back and rapes them again. I will never accept an apology from a man again. Multiple men who have raped me and tried to rape me then tried to play sorry to get me back or try to pretend that they're good people inside and they just didn't really mean it. If they didn't mean it they wouldn't have don…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 12:14 PM
18

Same. What a fuckboy pig.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 12:06 PM
3

If he's only decent enough why would you waste your time attempting to train him to be a semi-decent lover? Anyway men don't totally forget about the woman having sexual needs just because he's ignorant. It's because he's a selfish sack of shit. And he knows you'll stay and take it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 03:47 AM
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We need to put it in his ass. Pig. Anyway he's basically raping her and she needs to get the fuck out of that prisonship. He's clearly abusing her or she wouldn't be scrambling mentally and emotionally so desperately and begging if it's okay for her to say he's not allowed to fuck her without a condom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 03:14 AM
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None of this shit is anything anyone is saying here. I like how this person obviously believes a man should get to demand sex from a woman i.e rape her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 09:37 PM
2

Why the hell would they treat you better when they got you with shit? Sad lost women. He will never treat you better than he does at the beginning, that's his time to show you what he has to offer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 09:33 PM
5

Social services should be primarily for women to help them get away from abusers and users and support their children and advance to a better safer position in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 09:25 PM
12

He can't even do the chill part because he probably can't get his dick up and sucks at oral! And the Netflix account is in his girlfriend's name!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 09:14 PM
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God forbid he successfully saddles himself to some poor woman in her early thirties and impregnates her! He's jobless, bankrupt, with no money, no home, and a teenage dependent. I would have shredded this fifty-year-old fuckboi hell if I were the wife. He probably can barely even get his dick up anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 09:04 PM
10

Massive COPE lol. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 08:54 PM
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Or maybe these poor women are just tired of being used and watching their shitbag husbands do nothing while they do all the childcare, house cleaning, cooking and work. He treats sex like another duty she has to perform. These pigs need to try eating pussy and cleaning the house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 06:48 PM
18

These guys also have a rape fetish which they will act out. They also the thing for forcing women to do things they don't want to do sexually, especially if they are painful or degrading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 06:45 PM
18

Definitely. They are just small dicked losers that will never give a woman an orgasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 06:44 PM
3

0h thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 02:30 PM
24

Queen! The bitter small dicked moids are already downvoting! 😂😂 Some guy who was trying to cope on one of these misogynist subs recently told me that a 3 inch dick is average. LMAO. Whatever you got to tell yourself dude! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 08:31 AM
3

N count?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 08:30 AM
15

Try dick size! Then they really really shit themselves! Lol I'm really only interested in 10 inches and they whine about how that doesn't exist or something. That's interesting since I've fucked so many of them. 😂😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 08:29 AM
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I hope you told him about his little micro dick first! Reminds me of guys like this. "She just said that because she wanted to hurt my feelings and we were breaking up" No, she said that because it's true and she's been holding it in and you finally crossed the line where she thinks you deserve to hear it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 08:24 AM
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I just had a realization. The reason liberals go around saying that prostitution is empowering to women it's because they think that we should give men sex immediately with no investment on his part whatsoever. Without him earning our trust, making us feel safe, proving the hell care about her sexual pleasure, proving that cares about our well-being or cares about us beyond sex. That's why they try to convince women they getting paid to prostitute themselves as some sort of great advancement in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 08:17 AM
13

You can do your own though. I have since 15. Also you can get a cheap mani pedi for 5 to $10 for feet and hands each at a beauty school if you have one locally. I haven't done this yet but I would like to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 12:07 AM
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Guarantee they hate themselves so they got to take you down. nothing triggers a shit male more than loving yourself and having confidence!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 11:57 PM
1

Queen shit indeed! Good work!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 08:19 PM
7

You have to start caring about and valuing yourself again. It takes time. For me personally doing yoga again, going for a walk everyday, putting on a pair of earrings, spending a little time coordinating my outfit, straightening my hair, using my electric facial brush three times a week so that I have nice clear exfoliated skin, exfoliating my body in the shower, putting on lotion when I get out, cleaning my house and car... Are all small things I do too feel good and keep my space clean and org…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 07:09 PM
6

Computer coding was based on knitting which women created
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 04:59 PM
2

You're welcome! Me too, sister! Me too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 04:59 PM
2

If you're looking for good sex you surely will not get it from some old man who wants to pay you like a prostitute. He is paying you for an experience which means you have to perform comfort and pleasure that you do not feel. That is going to harm your sexuality not improve it. Respect your body and expect your pleasure and you'll find a partner who does as well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 03:40 PM
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About the phone number, oh, still pathetic though. Months and this guy is still trying to be a succubus on your life! I used to be in the same position because I wasn't used to standing up for myself. I would panic and fight it too. You'll get past it as you get more comfortable having boundaries and standing up for yourself. Mine was the result of abuse + gaslighting as a child that made me doubt myself. Can you try getting a therapist and working on boundaries? On trusting yourself? It doesn't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 02:56 PM
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One of these losers told me women have no value and have never done anything. I said yeah besides grow, birth, breastfeed, raise, guide, and teach every single human being that has ever existed since the beginning of time. And that his mother is responsible for everything good in his life and everything he was taught as a child and everything that makes him a human being. That without her having taught him he wouldn't even know how to wipe his own ass. The guy self-destructed because he knew it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 02:49 PM
6

Men will literally never stop as long as you give them any sort of attention even negative. Because to them that means there's always a chance they might get their dick in there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 01:35 PM
6

So he somehow tracked down your new phone number? That is so beyond acceptable. You should not have unblocked him. I block and delete and nobody comes back from that. It's final. I respect my past self that had her legitimate reasons to make that choice so even if I forget those reasons I stick to it. No backsliding. Did you really just ask if it's unhealthy to block people who disrespect you at the first sign? That is literally the definition of a healthy person. That is the only way you will c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 01:31 PM
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My picks are confidence and posture. On the days I slump around I don't get much attention. When I'm feeling good and confident and I hold myself up straight I get tons of attention without changing anything else about my appearance. That's my biggest secret. Also long pretty hair with a slight wave! I touch it in public and see men watching. Lol. To each their own on their hairstyle, make sure it matches your clothing style. Mine style is a little more soft classic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 01:19 PM
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It's true. Hold your head up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 04:00 AM
9

Men don't want women to have anything including confidence. Get spiteful and make that into your confidence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 02:09 AM
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It's all bitter moid bullshit. Keep doing you and you'll have men falling all over you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 01:02 AM
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So important as we are so thoroughly gaslighted and groomed into dismissing everything. Once you dismiss it it's gone and you forget.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 12:51 AM
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"b%tch" means a woman who won't take men's shit and "psycho" means a woman who talks back and has demands for her time. When a man describes a woman as a b%tch or psycho it means that she doesn't fall for his bullshit. Thank you so much for sharing this experience with all of us. I really enjoyed reading it. Very inspiring!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 12:41 AM
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This is very important! Also what I do in the first month of dating is I immediately write down anything he says or does that concerns me, that I am apt to dismiss, and at the end of the first month of dating I review the total and decide whether to dump or not. Rinse and repeat. I should definitely adopt your strategy as well the next time I date. Superb strategy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 12:26 AM
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"no different" ??? The red pill and mgtow Etc? Where they talk about raping women and using them and throwing them away??? Not even close. All we're saying is pick a good man who will invest in you to make sure he's truly interested and not just looking for a place to put his dick for a little while. There is absolutely nothing selfish about not accepting subpar human beings into your life who will use, abuse, and dump you. There's nothing wrong with improving yourself so that you can get a bett…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 12:08 AM
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You don't have to end anything with your FWB even if you decide you can't sleep with him while dating. Just tell him you're dating someone and are taking a break for the time from your fun together. You want him to be there to go back to if it doesn't work out with new guy. Don't blow up your bridges. Anyway I would lie to the new guy because it's none of his business what you did before you were together. Just asking would show that he wants to know for nefarious reasons. Mature people don't as…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 11:49 PM
3

Men are fucking pigs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 11:43 PM
1

But at the gym you can do more than just a walk or jog workout. There's the elliptical, weight machines, free weights, possibly a pool, yoga classes, Pilates, Zumba. And when you do the same workout long-term your body becomes more efficient at it and burns fewer calories. At $500 for a treadmill you can get almost a year and a half of a $30 a month gym membership.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 08:46 PM
3

I can't believe she was still with him even after he cheated on her. No cheaters allowed. A fuck him publicly and or emotionally and then throw his shit out on the street.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 08:18 PM
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Just one thing. Men don't forget to bring condoms, they purposefully don't bring them so they can have sex without condoms. They are hoping to push you into unprotected sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 08:02 PM
3

Don't put yourself in situations where you're alone with them. Don't go to their house. Stop it before it progresses. You don't have to tell them anything. Their only job is to accept it with respect and dignity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 08:00 PM
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At best guys who do this are mentally unhealthy and have poor boundaries. At worse they are abusers who will potentially beat or rape or murder you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 07:56 PM
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That's exactly how you do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 07:50 PM
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Because they don't have any souls. They've sacrificed them on the altar of angry entitled "masculinity". Also because it works for them sexually, they're going to get off either way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 07:48 PM
5

So we're not even allowed to wait till the 3rd date anymore? This is just ridiculous. Why would you take the risk to fuck a man you don't even know, who won't give you pleasure, might rape you and will probably give you an STD since he sticks his dick wherever he can?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 07:44 PM
5

Don't forget gym costs and possibly a personal trainer. Time and products to keep your skin clear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 07:42 PM
3

You won't meet new people without making space. I've done this several times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 07:38 PM
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That's all they're ever going to get
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 07:35 PM
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That ridiculous level of privilege and it's still not good enough for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 07:33 PM
11

Empowermenteftd And he still won't give her an orgasm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 07:21 PM
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Don't fuck a man who doesn't make me cum! Only fuck the guy who worships you and your pussy like a goddess. It's what she deserves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 07:18 PM
12

I would say find a different job. Take some classes if you have to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 07:00 PM
5

They demand that level of honesty quail lying to us because it gives them the upper hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 06:58 PM
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Yet we tell women not to have sex with a guy for six weeks or more to prove that he's really interested. We are literally not fucking them. Meanwhile she's shouting proudly about how she's going to get used sexually and pay and pay 50 bucks for the privilege too! Moron.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 06:54 PM
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I can see why she doesn't want to have sex with him. He's a piece of shit. I can already tell what kind of lover he is, not one that gives anything to her. That's why she's not interested. Then he insults her and cries foul when she insults him back. His was really a joke, but her's was mean! Sure. Nothing like insulting someone for not submitting sexually on command. If he made it worth her while and wasn't such a dirty piece of shit she'd probably want to fuck him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 06:38 PM
1

I can't believe how mentally unhealthy she sounds. At some point you got to look at what you're doing and realize it's not healthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 06:34 PM
4

Science. If an STD is skin transferred and condoms only cover the dick put 2 and 2 together. Are you really this stupid. Unlike you I've read actual research on this that puts the level at about 60% protection. Plus if two rub their genitals together at all in any way they have already exposed themselves. Basically I'm older and smarter than you and wiser and I research things instead of just talking out of my ass like you. 🤷 Edit: dear God you're 14! Educate yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 08:46 AM
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Despite what the other commenter here in the comments said, no it's not okay for him to go around telling people you're a heartless bitch. But you can't do anything about it. Just hold your head high and keep your shit together. For the future if a man tells you he loves you three weeks in he's not stable. Also you clearly aren't stable for telling him you loved him back 3 weeks in. Especially since you didn't. You also don't know what you want because you told him the truth and he dumped you an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 07:09 AM
1

Personally I would have blocked and deleted right after this happened. Why do you need someone like that coming back into your life? Because they always do. Men are idiots and will throw anything out and see what sticks. Don't be what it sticks to. At two months your chance for this has passed but you could have always responded "who is this?" Then every detail he adds say "I don't remember who this is. Sorry."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 07:01 AM
3

This. I dated a guy who would only see me during the week. Guess what he was doing on the weekend? I found him out at clubs looking for other women one night by chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 06:55 AM
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So she's in some weird situationship with some man who clearly is just not that into her and he was like jobless and introverted and has a bunch of issues? Fucking amazing. She's chasing him and he's clearly messing with her head and I think just using her as someone to talk to about his issues. You can't be this available to a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 06:47 AM
4

She makes half a million dollars a year and she doesn't deserve someone in a similar position? This woman's brother is a misogynistic pig.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 06:38 AM
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Condoms do very little to prevent you from getting skin transfer STDs, i.e. herpes and HPV. Pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 01:51 AM
4

Thanks! It takes vision and a lot of getting fucked over to see through all of this shit! ha! But really, everything is hidden from women so they will be more vulnerable to these pigs. Pretend it's the 50s and you don't fuck anybody and they have to take you out and prove themselves to you before you hug them and hold them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 12:45 AM
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He's pissed off he hasn't gotten to put his dick in you yet for the minimal amount of effort he's employed. "How dare you!" Tell him to fuck himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 12:36 AM
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Yes. Thank you. I like you! I've seen your comments around. I can't believe women are wasting their time on these men! 4 months? 4 fucking months? Before he even decided he wanted to lock her down. And then he dumps her! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 12:30 AM
5

Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 12:28 AM
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"I made her date me for four months before I asked her to be my girlfriend but at some point she fucked somebody else even though we weren't exclusive and I hadn't made any commitment to her. How dare she!" Basically he's bitter he hadn't been able to get anyone to climb on his pathetic dick for a year but she has sex. Anyway if a guy hasn't asked you to be his girlfriend after one, to maximum, two months of dating drop him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 12:02 AM
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Yeah that's bullshit. If you don't know what's happening and when and get a confirmation there's nothing else to say to him. He's not an idiot. If he wanted to see you he'd be communicating and telling you when and where and checking in to make sure that you know everything is still on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 11:47 PM
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I agree. He is too damn old. He's almost from an entirely different decade. If he were normal he would be dating someone his own age. What I think is, clearly he is not ready for marriage and children so he's dating people closer much younger and also closer to his sexual ideal which teenage girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 11:45 PM
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So if you're a tiny little baby child who knows nothing why are you here trying to tell people things? You better shape up or you're going to end up fucking your hand to porn for the rest of your life and getting progressively more bitter because no one will fuck you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 07:14 PM
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This is a dude who is a member of the pussypass sub and made a post asking men how being "falsely accused" of rape hurt men. IE this dude's probably a fucking rapist. I love how on Reddit you can really see who's trying to dick your head by looking at their previous posts and comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 07:10 PM
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He'll probably leave her before that 9 years is up. What do you want to bet she gets maybe two more before he finds someone younger who he proposes to within six months and pays for everything for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 06:58 PM
3

Agreed. He's clearly just hoping she'll dump him first. Or working up to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 04:44 PM
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This blog isn't about how to find a guy who's a student. It's about how to find a man who is in his career and has a good career, money and he can pay for dates because he has disposable income. It's about weeding out low-value or stingy men and men who aren't actually interested in you. If you make it cost for him to pursue you by withholding sex and having him pay for dates if he's just a fuckboy he'll lose interest very quickly. It's about filtering out the feckless losers and men who are jus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 03:47 PM
1

Your mistake was allowing him to use you as a therapist. You aren't a therapist. Never go for a man like that. Don't get involved with mentally ill men. I think that you should stop dating and go get therapy so you don't do this again. Go work on yourself first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 02:46 PM
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Oh my God! That line in particular. Every single one of these gaslighted emotionally used and abused women say the same thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 02:43 PM
8

I'm mentioning this because I haven't seen anyone else do it, but I'm going to recommend that you get manicure, pedicure, facial, or getting your hair styled for the day for fun. If you can't afford any of those things find a beauty school nearby where you can. Some of those services cost as little as 5$ or $10. This will give you a confidence boost and change how you carry yourself which will attract more people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 02:41 PM
3

Dress walk and hold yourself with amazing confident energy. That will get you more looks than anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 02:13 PM
8

Yes! Being confident is a major factor in attracting attention. Good posture, walking with an air that you're amazing, having a variety of hobbies, interests and friends. And I don't mean solo hobbies, I mean active social hobbies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 02:09 PM
20

Yeah I'll roll the dice with any woman because they're not going to molest or rape me and it's a fact that they're generally better doctors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 01:54 PM
17

there's a reason they are on the internet. Otherwise they would be out in real life having friends healthy hobbies having relationships and getting laid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 01:45 PM
9

If he's interested he'll come to you. Otherwise he's not interested or he's weak and insecure. You do not want a weak and insecure man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 01:43 PM
65

He's so amazing but sometimes he puts me down and degrades me and sometimes he raises his hand like he's going to hit me. He talks about how he wants to get me pregnant so I'll stop working. But really he's has peach!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 01:41 PM
7

I highly recommend, if a man has sex with you and doesn't give you an orgasm 2 then turn around and fuck him till you come and then tell me to get the hell out of your house. If he whines tell him now he knows what he did to you and call him a fuckboy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 01:13 PM
3

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/cnbo83/a_pleading_cry_for_advice/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share you are literally a 19 year old male who doesn't belong here and your post history is all over this sub. In the post I linked above he's stringing along the girlfriend he broke up with so he can keep having sex with her. He knows he doesn't want to get back with her but he wants to keep having sex with her so when she gave him an ultimatum he told her he'd have to think about…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 01:10 PM
1

Oh ok. Yeah. Good call. What a pig. Let him give his diseases to other people not you. Lol good job!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 06:06 AM
2

What is going on here? Does he know? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 05:50 AM
3

Yeah I think if you're not meeting his friends then he's not really dating you. He's either embarrassed of you or he's dating multiple women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 04:59 AM
19

1 year you should know where he stands or whether he wants to marry you or not. 1.5 for a proposal. Two years max. Then cut and run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 04:16 AM
5

I'm A Luxury, Few Can Afford. All Over Print/Fullprint. Unisex Sweatshirt. 80's, 90's, Vaporwave Style. Iconic. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07KYT6LKR/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_NZ4SDbTWWRD65
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 12:02 AM
5

Find some new single friends and start some new hobbies that are social (dance lessons, join a co-ed sports team, cooking classes, a volunteer group, a hiking group...)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 11:44 PM
13

Probably because it's based solely on looks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 11:40 PM
1

I would laugh in this guy's face!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 11:39 PM
19

And maybe he even caused stillbirth from the stress of being cheated on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 11:33 PM
9

I feel like manhood is dead and they're all just fuckboys now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 11:18 PM
19

I like the part where he tells women they have to go on a second date with him because they can't possibly know him from just from one date. All I hear is "I'm so awful women won't even go on a second date with me because I put out so many red flags"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 11:09 PM
1

Yeah you can't paint the guy too perfect. It's obviously a lie. If a man said that to me I immediately would be thinking "sure dude! I know she dumped your ass! Wonder why."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 11:01 PM
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I would never tell a guy anything more than we just weren't a good match/had different values/goals. Anything else is too much information.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 10:59 PM
7

You're always a whre slt bich if you do and you're a whre slt btch if you don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 05:44 PM
1

You said "trans men" who are women who are trans, i.e. bio females. I'm going to block you now I don't have time to play with your fantasy words. Bio males who identify as women don't belong in a female subreddit. Bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 05:41 PM
2

I guess they can if they want to but I'm not sure why they would want to? If they don't identify as female?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 05:28 PM
8

What does respect have to do with pretending they're actually female?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 05:07 PM
18

First mistake: never ever ever ever agree to go to a man's house on the first date. That's when you know he's not serious and he only wants sex. If a man cancels plans (party etc) on you and doesn't have an actual backup plan that was probably his plan all along. Always suggest dinner instead. If he pushes say you don't go to the homes of men you don't know well. If he still pushes or gets mad, you have your answer about his goals and character. You also now know he is not safe to be around. He'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 04:44 PM
14

They only apologize to try to get you back so they can put their dick in you again. If they had enough empathy to actually feel sorry they wouldn't have done it in the first place. I've had men who raped me apologize. I never believed it and I certainly never got back with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 04:36 PM
2

Yes! And "nice"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 01:52 PM
28

And no boundaries. If you have no boundaries people will not respect you and someone with good boundaries will see that you have bad or no boundaries and won't want to be involved with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 12:58 PM
28

Right? Dudes like this don't deserve to be turned down politely because they're clearly not polite people. The "what no kiss?" at the end was what a rapist would say. Rapists don't deserve consideration.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 12:55 PM
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How do these pathetic idiots think any woman needs a meal so badly they have to pretend to be interested in some dude? I guess "integrity" would mean that you would sleep with him for the price of a meal as though he bought you? He's acting like he owns you! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 12:54 PM
7

I bought a electric facial brush off of Amazon, it was a $30 one. It has improved my skin tremendously post texturally and preventing breakouts. It's also just made my skin look healthier, fresher. I use it three times a week to exfoliate and cleanse, it comes with a separate head to massage face cream into my skin which allows my skin absorb more of it easing dryness. Just make sure you wash the brushes with soap every time you use them, rinse them and rubbing alcohol and allow them to air-dry …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 12:30 PM
1

You shouldn't have slept with him so quickly. I would want to see that he would keep coming all that way to see you for a month at least before I would consider having sex with him. Prove he's actually interested in you and not just the sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 12:04 PM
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I love all of this so much but I'm not really into putting effort into morons. I would probably just laugh in their face, maybe say something about small dick energy and then walk away like they ceased to exist. Or maybe say nothing and just turn around and walk away. Men will literally run after you frantically if you just try to walk away it makes them so insecure and angry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 11:34 AM
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We use moid because they use foid, and talk of the "pink pill" as a spoof and counter to their bs. Trans women aren't women. How would you feel if a black man was calling himself a black woman and saying he was oppressed as a black woman? Because they've been doing it. I'm not asking you this question because I want you to respond to me specifically. I'm asking so that you'll stop and truly question yourself about how that would make you feel since you say you're a womanist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 10:59 AM
2

What movie? That sounds like an interesting tactic. Edit: I saw you mentioned in title below. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 10:42 AM
9

Well you can tell he doesn't have a job or a girlfriend! Imagine if the pathetic boob put all the time and effort he puts into abusing women into improving himself so that a woman might actually want to be with him instead. He coupd actually be happy and have a partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 11:56 PM
14

It's projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 11:52 PM
9

This is great!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 11:46 PM
2

You might want to try the app carb manager. It helps you track everything and it's easy to use once you get used to it. I'm finding it extremely helpful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 11:23 PM
13

Same. Big red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 08:29 PM
15

Don't make a poor guy come an hour train ride to see you in order to jump in. He's going to want to be somewhere to cry or whatever he wants to do. I would break up over Skype.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 08:00 PM
2

When they cancel last minute it means that he probably put feelers out for a bunch of women and someone he likes better than you responded back after he already made plans with you. So he cancels his date with you to go out with her. He clearly has mental issues. Any guy who comes on that strong that quickly either has weird relationship / mental issues or is love bombing you because he's an abuser. No one with good boundaries gets serious that quickly without knowing someone at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 07:52 PM
7

Good for you! For the weight loss I recommend a low-carb diet more than anything else. I've pretty much cut out bread, cut out sugar and alcohol. I'm just dropping weight while hardly doing anything else beyond a 30-minute walk each day or some stationary bike / treadmill at the gym. Elliptical is also good and burns calories faster. I'm eating 1500 calories, so not starving myself at all. Just being reasonable and healthy with what I eat. It's more of a long-term lifestyle change than anything.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 04:35 PM
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I would just start occasionally being busy with friends or a hobby or tell him you need a night to rest. Just be a little less available. Maybe encourage him to spend some time with friends or doing a hobby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 04:31 PM
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Me too. She's obviously desperate for a man. I was not surprised when she got to her laundry list of things men have done to her particularly using her financially. there's a big difference between being nice and being a doormat. She's being a doormat. I probably wouldn't have even had sex with him yet at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 04:27 PM
9

Yep. Every time. If a man ever tells you he's been "falsely accused" of rape you better fucking run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 04:24 PM
5

Yes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 03:12 PM
20

Lord! All of the idiots in the notes are telling her to work really hard to regain his trust and it might take years. I think that's exactly what he wants he's making something out of nothing so that he can get her to jump through hoops. She admitted early in the relationship that he didn't actually care for any of his exes. Big red flag. And I guess she thought that was supposed to mean that she was special! Oldest trick in the book. Now he's got her scrambling to work really hard for him. Mist…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 02:41 PM
10

Don't do that. Can you get money from a friend or family member?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 02:30 PM
9

Yeah telling men any information like that just means it'll be thrown back at you once he's angry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 02:27 PM
13

Oh hunny, no! You need help from friends and family and maybe a domestic violence helpline to get out. I would worry he's so calm. He might be planning something. If I were you I would hide all of this and pretend everything is okay until you can go to a friend's house maybe tomorrow or another day. And then have friends come with you to help you get your things while he's at work or school. You have some huge reasons to leave!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 02:24 PM
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Take this escape right now. Thank god you only just moved in together and you can go with less hassle. Literally go, he's going to freak out though. Right now he just thinks you're calling his bluff. Just wait till you start moving your things out! Be prepared for a lot of whining and begging and possibly some explosive anger. Be safe. A woman with self-respect doesn't put up with a misogynist. If they say things against feminism, victim blame women, talk about "false rape accusations", or even …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 02:19 PM
11

Oh my God this is totally the right answer! And every detail he gives just say that you "don't remember, who is this? What?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 07:42 AM
11

It's also a good idea to get a new phone number every five years or so. That way they can't come back when they get a new number but you still have your old one. Exes belong in the past! I just had one come back via email dammit, there was no blocking way back when we dated 13 years ago! I shredded him for how abusive he was. All he did was narcissistically and manipulatively whine back at me about how pathetic he is. No actual remorse. At least I got the satisfaction of doing a dramatic reading…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 07:40 AM
21

It honestly sounds like a message that he just blanket sent out to a bunch of women he's dated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 07:33 AM
21

You should be careful because condoms don't really protect very well against skin transfer STDs like herpes and warts. All the more reason to wait and be picky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 07:31 AM
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I was coming here to say this. It also usually means "polyamory" and probably that he's going to surprise try to stick his dick in your ass out of nowhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 07:27 AM
7

That's ridiculous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 07:23 AM
14

Hahaha this is all he's got? Lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 07:07 AM
23

And remember, that's worse than rape!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 07:05 AM
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Okay your first mistake is responding ever at all to a man immediately asking for sex. That behavior tells them you are open to persuasion. They will proceed to badger you. They are basically just little rapists, imagine if you were with them in person or, god forbid, alone with them in their home! If I'm speaking to a man and he throws that out I just block him without a word. Throw him away like the trash she is. He's basically just digitally poking his dick around until he can find an open ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 06:57 AM
8

Not if he wants anything with her lol. With that attitude he can suck his own dick also.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 01:59 AM
20

This site would short circuit and catch on fire!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 01:58 AM
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And then you have kids and the pigs scream about how your vagina must be big enough to drive a Mack truck through it. They'll try anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 01:41 AM
12

We all know this dude has never ever ever ever gotten his dick in a vagina 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 01:40 AM
23

This dude is literally just trying to talk his way into your pants. You should just cut him off and block him. Reminds me of the "age is just a number" guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 01:38 AM
4

And you can disagree, but you're wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 12:06 AM
9

"I just want to eat your pussy" lol nice try. That guy will push the woman into sex after giving her pussy 3 licks like a lollipop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 10:51 PM
8

See: "my ex was such a bitch / crazy / gold digger / abuser!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 10:48 PM
17

You just know the dude that screenshotted it posted it with his secondary account.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 10:46 PM
17

Yeah, he just felt too bad to dump her. Sure. He's such a nice guy for wasting years of her life and marrying her even though he knew he didn't care for her. Water plants. Anyway we all know he married her so h could have a house cleaning, cooking, laundry doing servant woman he can put his dick in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 10:34 PM
24

Yeah asking a woman out for a drink is basically just a booty call. Pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 10:28 PM
2

Wow!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 10:26 PM
3

What a cope to pretend like a woman wanting a man to show that he's serious about her by taking her out to dinner is treating a man like he's a "walking cash bag". Pathetic. 20 years from now this guy's will be life will be exactly the same as it is now, holding his dick in his hand begging for anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 08:00 PM
9

It's the only way a man will have any respect for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 05:13 PM
36

Women having even basic standards is apparently abusive to males lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 05:12 PM
24

I just post about expecting good oral, orgasming every time we have sex, him having a good size dick, no premature ejaculation... and these scrubs lose their minds! Way to out yourself, bros. 😂 I have found nothing that triggers men more than saying you won't accept rape and you expect foreplay, oral and orgasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 02:51 PM
17

She fucked herself for a low value man who used her as a stepping stone. Very sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 02:42 PM
9

Yep. Always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 02:31 PM
15

A guy literally took me out for dinner and then told me not to order dinner or spend money because he didn't have much. So I ended up getting a gin tonic rather than a cocktail which this restaurant was known for and a hors d'oeuvre. He ordered the Lamb chop entree for himself! So basically he told me to my face that he wasn't going to pay for dinner for me because he didn't have money for that then he bought himself dinner. And then after the date he made a bitter comment about how "expensive" …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 02:30 PM
29

You are basically just telling the guy he can use you for sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 01:37 PM
42

This must have caused some brigading because I woke up to a bunch of abusive messages that have been deleted already. Lol Thanks mods, you're doing great work! I read some of the comments on that thread and his men are also pathetic. They're crying about "how is this sub allowed to exist?" And how it's so much worse than subs were men talk about raping, torturing, enslaving, murdering women, sowing their vaginas shut so they can't have sex, cutting off their clitorises, blinding them and using t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 01:21 PM
1

6 in is literally normal. she said his was five maybe which makes me think it was even less and she couldn't even feel it in her once she got aroused. "Just get the dildo out so you can be satisfied" that is terrible dating advice. How about cut the guy loose so he can find somebody who is satisfied with his extremely small penis instead of just pretending it's okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 05:37 AM
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Hun, it is not shallow. I'm the same way when I get aroused, if he has a tiny dick I cannot feel it inside of me and I will never orgasm at that point. Do you think a man would keep dating a woman he didn't have any orgasms with at all? Ever? Not a chance. There are other nice and sweet guys, that's not saying much about him that you couldn't find elsewhere with a little effort. You deserve good sex. Society shames women for wanting good sex and calls them shallow so that men don't have to put i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 05:31 AM
2

Good for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 05:16 AM
13

That's basically just a booty call at that point. And not even an honest one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 05:14 AM
10

There was a guy I went out with once and the first time I went to his place we went to his room to watch a movie and it wreaked of days worth or maybe weeks of stale semen. I still want to barf thinking of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 05:13 AM
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if I choose to ever date a moid again I'm going to make him eat my pussy till I cum and give him nothing the first time were together. Plus it would prove that he can eat pussy well and he enjoys eating pussy. If not, I'm throwing him out with the trash immediately because there is nowhere to go from there that's any good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 05:10 AM
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And yet the world is full of men who fuck women over constantly and never give them orgasms but always get theirs. I had a pathetic little moid out himself one time by getting pissed when I said if the man didn't make you orgasm it shouldn't count against your number of people you slept with. It was hilarious, all us women laughed at him and mocked him. It was great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 05:05 AM
13

Men have gotten triggered and are downvoting this post 😂 They hate being exposed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 03:54 PM
14

Wow those responses. Apparently women saying that men aren't allowed to rape us is entitlement on women's part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 12:35 PM
2

She literally does not care about you at all. He doesn't even want to speak to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 12:20 PM
6

They lie about being "polyamorous" anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 04:03 AM
2

I don't want to be mean but.... Sounds awful. Why would you want to live with somebody like that? I wanted to die reading this. He just leaves trash around and doesn't care???? Sounds like he should live in a barn with the other animals. Sorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 03:12 AM
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If you're truly an empowered feminist you will just pretend away all misogyny, sexism and rape! If you don't like reality just pretend it doesn't exist! I stopped having more than one drink when I went out long ago for the same reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 11:31 PM
5

This is perfect. Thank you for replying and telling me what you did. It really highlights how women are manipulated to never have any standards or speak of it at all. I never see examples like this talked about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 11:27 PM
9

So let me start with my usual strategy. I meet a guy out at an event, he shows interest and we talk for usually one to two hours. This weeds out the weirdos, idiots, and losers pretty well. Well this guy was real cute and he was the friend of an acquaintance and he was just dashing through to say hi to his buddy. I saw him we talked for a moment and decided to meet for pizza later. He spent the whole date hardly paying any attention to me, chatting to whoever walked by that he knew, and this was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 11:24 PM
3

Absolutely. Good for you. When you saw his mess did you immediately say something? What did you say?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 11:00 PM
18

It's pretty hilarious how bad they play themselves. It would literally take less time and be so much less emotionally taxing to simply be a better person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 10:55 PM
23

If you just give everything to some moid he won't have any respect for you at all because he knows he's fucking you over and playing you. Therefore he has no respect for you when you fall for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 10:52 PM
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I love it when they say that women taking self-defense classes is victim-blaming women who get raped. Doing anything to protect yourself somehow hurts and abuses other women. End result: women shamed into keeping themselves unsafe, ignorant, weak,and exposed just as men want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 10:46 PM
2

No I'm saying that even if a guy doesn't have any money and isn't in the best shape he will still always have a big dick. It's not going anywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 08:05 PM
16

asexual in 5 years It's hilarious how casually they admit they're terrible in bed! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 02:32 PM
8

go with the flow It sounds like he's just looking for sex and he's not going to commit and you gave him a way to do that. Dump.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 02:22 PM
19

I agree with this. Don't settle sexually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 02:20 PM
4

Yeah I wasting my time telling a guy who was trying to force me into sex that that would be rape. He told me I was crazy and had mental problems. Don't ever give them a chance to respond if you do tell them anything because they're only going to fuck with you emotionally and attack you. Or they're going to whine and cry and make promises and try to get you back. Then treat you the same. Just skip to the end where you block him without any of the crazy making bullshit. You have to recognize value…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/19 10:45 PM
2

I also dated a guy like this. The sex was great and he always loved going down on me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/19 10:35 PM
5

For me this would be done. I could never love a man who couldn't or wouldn't satisfy me sexually. That's my first most basic requirement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/19 10:12 PM
13

Always block them and then move on, that way they can never come back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/19 10:03 PM
1

Right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/19 09:57 PM
31

All of this. The only men who were ever serious about me didn't ever try to have sex with me for 7 dates or more. One was 2.5 months. They were also the best in bed by far BECAUSE THEY CARED ABOUT ME.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/19 08:27 PM
15

Exactly. Quiet confidence. If he is a braggart it's small and worthless 98%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 06:22 PM
8

Calm confidence, confident in their masculinity, the way they carry themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 06:21 PM
1

Shocker!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 05:57 PM
1

Where in the fuck are they getting this the vagina is 7 cm long? That's 2.7 in. That's not even close to correct. I don't know what quoting the unaroused size of a vagina has anything to do with dick size? The correct measurement is 2 to 4 inches long when unaroused. Unaroused lenght has nothing to do with sex other than illustrating to men how much foreplay they need to put in before trying to get their dick in. Bottom line is men are just pissed at women having standards for dick size so they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 05:55 PM
1

Eww. Find a dude who will eat your pussy like it's the only meal he's ever had. Keep that one as your FWB.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 05:48 PM
7

Small dick is such a disappointment. Nobody wants to suck a tiny dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 05:45 PM
6

I mean it's so obvious. Why else would they be so fucking bitter? Even an ugly man that doesn't have a lot of money who isn't that fit with a big dick, he still got a big dick. 🤷 There is no MRA or incel with a big dick. 99%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 05:44 PM
19

I always used to pull the make out with them and get them turned on and then grab their dick to see what it size it is. I measured my hand so I knew how long my hand was wrist to tip of middle finger and that way I could judge their size. Also you can totally tell by how a man carries himself. Cross reference by race, height, and security in his masculinity. I'm pretty accurate after all these years and really started to class out on dick size once I figured it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 05:33 PM
1

I would ransack his email, Tinder account and text messages for evidence first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 08:25 AM
15

I love how hard these women work to come up with convoluted excuses for why he's on a dating app. Simplest answer is usually the correct one. He's cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 08:24 AM
7

Holy hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 07:43 AM
9

Yikes. Good time to get out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 01:38 AM
7

Dump
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 11:53 PM
20

Those guys sounds unusually pathetic. I went on a blind date with this dude once and he was so horrible, racist, sexist, classist piece of shit that I had to walk out on the date. When I told him he lunged at me like he was going to beat me. When I didn't flinch or react at all I saw the realization in his eyes that he couldn't scare me so instead he started crying. Wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 10:22 PM
3

Sometimes I just give him a look and walk away if I'm done with that person. I might give them a look and then excuse myself to the bathroom. I simply just don't accept it. I shouldn't even have to say anything to the person they should know what's expected of them and how to treat people. I make it clear that what they're saying is unacceptable with my facial expressions and body language and let them figure it out. If they don't change I dump them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 10:49 AM
8

You're not getting it. You're just getting defensive. The guy is low effort. That means he's going to be low effort at sex too. That dude will never give you an orgasm. And he's lying about lasting longer. I've fucked dozens of men and not one that lasted 2 minutes ever redeemed himself sexually. Never. The point of getting a FWB is to get a guy who's actually good in bed and get him to fuck you regularly without drama. Part of that too is getting him to take you out first. You should always get…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 10:31 AM
3

I would have had to fight the urge to kick that little piece of shit in the nuts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 10:19 AM
3

Hun, I would have left the house and taken myself out to lunch after 20 minutes! And I wouldn't have texted him. I would have let him come home and find that I'm not there waiting for him so he can just think about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 10:17 AM
3

I would only mention the three men that I've been with long term and that I actually cared about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 10:09 AM
0

I think if a guy meets you in a bar or you're working in a bar they're going to think they can use you for sex. I would not date anyone from the bar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 09:40 AM
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