Dating a Old man (?

Liz_Lemondrop · 2019-10-28T14:33:35+00:00

Focus on yourself and your confidence, not some old dude who will treat you like an object and disregard you if you age out or bore him. You're worth more than money.

AverageToHot · 2019-10-28T14:22:42+00:00

Nope. Date someone your age who has a proper job – 23-26 years old. Their job should preferably be in finance or technology. You don’t have to date older men to find a man who has money to pay on dates.

Liz_Lemondrop · 2019-10-28T14:33:53+00:00

First of all, stop waxing your private area. Just keep it nicely trimmed with an electric trimmer. There's plenty of men who don't give a shit or even prefer some hair, and a well trimmed bush will always run circles around a waxed but herpy looking vagina.

Hygiene is far more important, make sure you wash often and smell good. Go to the dentist regularly and get nice haircuts every 6 weeks.

Also, get out of your comfort zone and into places where you have to socialize with people of both sexes, a lot.

ino_y · 2019-10-28T14:37:50+00:00

Are you actually aiming for happiness and a healthy relationship, or some dates?

Men who have to spend money to get a date, rather than enjoying the dates they naturally get... usually have something rather major missing. Eg looks, social skills, or a conscience. or time. (some successful men don't have time to date and build a relationship, they're happy with a superficial evening, but anyway)

If you just want cool dates, have at it. Look up celebs with a similar body shape to you and copy their style.

rad_daphne · 2019-10-28T15:40:59+00:00

If you're looking for good sex you surely will not get it from some old man who wants to pay you like a prostitute. He is paying you for an experience which means you have to perform comfort and pleasure that you do not feel. That is going to harm your sexuality not improve it. Respect your body and expect your pleasure and you'll find a partner who does as well!

AngeliqueDemone · 2019-10-28T16:03:46+00:00

Don't meet men off "sugar baby" apps. Men of quality don't troll for dates on those sites and they don't seriously refer to themselves as sugar daddies.

s_slayer · 2019-10-28T19:31:48+00:00

You’re older men’s favorite age. Word of advice? Don’t waste your youth on them. The sex isn’t good and they are using you for your innocence because older women are too wise. I really regret having dated much older men when I was younger. It was definitely ALL about sex and power with them. You need to work on feeling better about yourself. You sound insecure, and men will take advantage of that fully. Have fun with your life and don’t overrate dating - it’s really not that great. You’ll have a much better time when you’re older and in control of things. Meanwhile, you are at risk of giving up your youth and vitality to creepy old men. No amount of money is worth that. Don’t date men just because they have money. Date them because you feel good around them and have a connection.

Title	Dating a Old man (?
Author	mimijv98
Upvotes	0
Comments	20
Date	October 28, 2019 2:16 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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