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NAH, SISchokeychokey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 08:17 PM
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LEVEL UPchokeychokey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 04:41 AM
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MOOD FOR LIFEchokeychokey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 02:43 PM
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NAH, SISchokeychokey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 08:15 PM
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LEVEL UPchokeychokey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 03:55 PM
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NAH, SISchokeychokey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 04:08 AM
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DUMP HIS ASSchokeychokey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 09:30 PM
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NAH, SISchokeychokey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 02:58 AM
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DUMP HIS ASSchokeychokey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 03:33 AM
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NAH, SISchokeychokey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 08:05 AM
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DUMP HIS ASSchokeychokey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 03:05 PM
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DUMP HIS ASSchokeychokey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 05:46 AM
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DUMP HIS ASSchokeychokey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 05:44 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYchokeychokey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 08:51 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESchokeychokey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:09 PM
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FDS SUCCESS!chokeychokey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 01:37 PM
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SCROTES MADchokeychokey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 08:21 AM
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DISCUSSIONchokeychokey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/19 04:50 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESchokeychokey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:06 PM
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NAH, SISchokeychokey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 08:13 PM
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DUMP HIS ASSchokeychokey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 06:00 AM
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NAH, SISchokeychokey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 08:43 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYchokeychokey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 06:30 PM
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SCROTES MADchokeychokey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 05:10 PM
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LIES MEN TELLchokeychokey/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 08:51 PM
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Exactly. I’m personally beyond writing her off, I’m just over it at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 04:32 PM
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I see what you’re saying but once again, she did that mainly to protect Tory who was the one with the gun and shot her. That situation could have definitely been worse than it was but how much are Black women going to take just so they can protect a Black man who hurt them ? As a Black woman, I see both sides. I would not want to see the aftermath of how it could have potentially went down. But, why did still lie weeks after it happened ? She took on all of the criticism and public statements ju…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 04:24 PM
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She was still protecting him until the very last minute even after they “broke up”. She only told everyone the truth once Tory turned on her. She was also seen at a strip club with another no value and serial cheating rapper, Future, a few weeks ago. Sigh. I’ve been hoping Meg would move onto better crowds of people but she just.. doesn’t. It’s really disappointing considering I’ve been rooting for her this whole time. I just don’t have anymore benefit of the doubt to give tbh. I may not know a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 04:09 PM
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When I was 18. Now I’m 20 and didn’t put up with the bullshit ever since my epiphany.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 08:55 PM
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This shit is so annoying it makes me roll my eyes. I see it ALL the time. Men are the ones who perpetuated and normalized overlooking their mental health. What societal power do women have to implement such an illogical concept? I’m also tired of the responsibility to change the narrative falling on women. Like, what are we supposed to do? They want double standards so bad. THEY created them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 07:07 PM
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Cannot wait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 06:46 PM
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Got me thinking. I agree sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:41 PM
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and he did her so wrong. It was honestly embarrassing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 04:50 AM
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CoMmUnIcAtE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 04:43 AM
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They really act like it’s Tumblr or something. Cringe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 04:17 AM
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no lies detected
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 11:56 PM
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Not going to destroy you with words. Instead, I’ll congratulate you on your newfound self awareness. Good for you. There’s nothing to even end with him. Like others have said, leave his ass on read. Block. Do whatever you have to do to make him history. You may feel guilty or even shame, but just know that those emotions are apart of your healing process. Positive emotions will surface as well. It’s worth it in the long run, trust me. This guy didn’t think twice about negging and using you. He d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 11:50 PM
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lmfao I’m gagging
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 06:46 AM
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That sub disgusts me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 06:21 AM
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I was thinking that too but three years is a long time for her not to notice. If she had the audacity to lay in that pig sty then I wouldn’t be surprised if she tolerated his lack of hygiene too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 05:02 PM
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He has to stink. There’s no way she didn’t know his ass was nasty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 04:35 PM
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Arrogant assholes. Nerdy fuckboys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:50 PM
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It’s also the largest African American forum. Keep in mind that it’s a cultural safe space if you’re lurking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:02 PM
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Because they’ve been conditioned to think being choked is sexy and freaky. Even if they don’t like it, his excitement is enough to numb their discomfort. Sadly, been there done that. It’s disgusting, really.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 02:50 PM
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Of course he’s a web developer. Of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 02:48 PM
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Been saying this. The heinous shit she did just to keep him around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 02:44 PM
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And then the relationship gets drastically worse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 02:43 PM
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I’d throw up and leave after seeing that. She actually layed in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 02:41 PM
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so fucking loud
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:48 PM
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Embarrassing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:46 PM
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Whatever it is, it’s bullshit. He doesn’t want to put in the effort and is probably hoping you’d seek his validation by going there yourself. Block and delete
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:42 PM
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Did you want to kiss him? How are you feeling, sis?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:27 PM
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Maybe that’s the wrong one?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 04:16 PM
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I am quite annoyed about these bans. So fucked up. FDS could seriously be next. Other subs are plotting on our downfall
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 04:15 PM
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Because he is an opportunist and wasn’t serious about you in the first place. He needs to be blocked ASAP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:59 PM
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We’re on Wiki’s most controversial sub list. Make it make sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:32 AM
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Holy shit, you’re right. Didn’t even notice. I’m going to remove this post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 04:50 PM
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Holy shit you’re right. I think some of the commenters are confused too. Uhhh should I take this down?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 04:48 PM
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Link: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/hfwyh1/27m_my_husband_29m_ignores_me_to_the_extreme/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Comments suggest that OP should just talk to him about it and explain how she feels. Um, he’s shown her time and time again that he does not care about what she has to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 08:08 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/hf3x4x/college_roommate_got_engaged_gf_is_pissed/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Linked the post for you. If that’s not allowed here, then just know it’s on the Relationship_advice sub. Also yeah. His description of the roommate is very telling. He didn’t have to go into detail yet he did. He is never going to marry his gf and definitely doesn’t intend on doing so. He deleted his post too, figures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 12:26 AM
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Probably why he’s been holding out for so long. His girlfriend enables him to be close to her roommate. He’s been keeping a close eye on her love life and thought he had a chance. Now she’s engaged to a man who was certain about his commitment unlike OP. He’s embarrassed, insecure, and is taking out his disappointment on his girlfriend. He reduces her feelings down to simply losing a “competition” as if he didn’t already mention them discussing expectations within their relationship. It’s been 6…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 05:45 PM
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Take whatever time you need to heal and just do you. Your self awareness is lovely. The dating world will always be polluted. Luckily, you know how to navigate through it. Never settle. Even for men like Mr. Handsome. Invest your valuable time and energy on someone who makes you feel certain. Or, like you said, invest it in yourself for now. Now that’s some queen shit. I wish you peace and longevity. You’ve got this, queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 05:02 PM
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Lmao. They really now how to fetishize and give back handed compliments simultaneously. My inbox consisted of white men who made jokes about wanting mixed children and the typical “Have you ever been with a (insert race) guy before?”. So annoying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 06:18 AM
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Sis, you don’t have to be with him. Even pink flags can be dealbreakers. There will be more opportunities to encounter high value men. Clearly, you’re just not that into him. So, don’t force it. You know what to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 03:26 AM
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Many don’t even ask if you’re on birth control when they insist on unprotected sex. Hell, they don’t even ask about STD’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 03:06 AM
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Deadass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 01:10 AM
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Once a guy followed me back to my college campus at night just to ask me out on a date. So fucking scary. But of course, my naive ass said yes out of fear. I had a horrible habit of doing that as a freshman that I thankfully quickly grew out of. Ya’ll, he was drunk on the date and brought his grandma! He also cursed me out in front of her no reason. After I immediately left, he’d stalk and harass me even after I blocked him. I learned a VALUABLE lesson. The audacity these fools have. I’ve seen s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 03:34 PM
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Disgusting. They really want women to go through mental gymnastics in order to figure out why they’re being abused. Anyone truly concerned about her safety would advise her to get the hell out of there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 07:55 AM
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Reddit lovesss suggesting communication as if men are unaware of their own bullshit. Like, what the hell is there to talk about?? They know what they’re doing. If your partner is abusive and disrespectful, then a conversation won’t do a damn thing. Only gives more opportunities for manipulation and gaslighting. A post on that sub regarded a woman who was sexually assaulted by her boyfriend in her sleep. Basically a repeat of the same trauma she confided in him about previously. People actually s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 01:15 AM
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Well he sure won’t ask her to clean them again. If he does, she should do worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 12:18 PM
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Damn, she’s more committed to updating that board than he is to her. Couldn’t be me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 12:16 PM
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Swear to God they give the absolute worst advice. Sometimes I feel the need to comment just so she can see a sane perspective but those aren’t the responses they’re looking for. Also, is she not using condoms ? Unless you can feel scabby dick through condoms ? I don’t even want to imagine what that feels like. He’s not even embarrassed or ashamed of himself because she’s been tolerable for so long. He’s never going to change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 12:07 PM
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I’m sorry... I just have to laugh. Ifuckingmagine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 10:21 PM
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What a strange thing to post on your Tinder. Disrespectful and bold. He also wants a gold star for wiping his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 02:53 AM
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This is so true it hurts. What gets me is that Bey keeps her life very private as well. She hardly interacts with her fans and doesn’t really do interviews. So her sharing something like an affair is unexpected but falls into place. Like someone said below, Lemonade could have been a calculated album drop. Even Jay Z was able to profit from his own adultery through his album. My sister thinks that he never cheated in the first place and Bey’s just pandering to her fan bases. The fact that she’s …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 02:40 PM
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I agree that he is a low value. I just don’t understand why she would want to continue to be with someone like him considering her own legacy, status, and tax bracket. He is trash. The last thing I want is to call her anything less than a hvw, but FDS warns women about marriages like hers. She’s quite territorial over him because she knows he cheats. What’s the point of that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 05:10 PM
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I love Bey, but I cannot stand that she’s married to Jay Z. Ruins my image of her being a high value woman. Clearly she profited off of his adultery, but I think Lemonade would have hit better if she had left him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 04:48 PM
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Brilliant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 06:33 PM
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Ya’ll have a Twitter?? Instant follow. So many dusties with Twitter fingers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 06:29 PM
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I like watching their videos sometimes. I still side eye them tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 06:29 PM
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lmaoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 06:26 PM
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Thank you, queen !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 10:22 PM
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Sorry. A woman started a thread so other women would donate money to the begging ass men of Twitter. The first set of text is her asking the ladies to donate. The rest is an exchange between a Pick-Mesha giving money to a random man who dropped his Cashapp to receive it. I’m not sure why they are giving them money. For validation I guess? Because they really think they’re helping out a malnourished man? No clue. Myself and a couple ladies called out this disgraceful behavior and of course, those…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 09:12 PM
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If only I could post the whole thread. Those men received hundreds of dollars. Even a male nurse, claiming for be starving while working a 16 hour shift. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 08:39 PM
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Imagine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 04:24 PM
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Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 12:49 AM
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Just thinking about the normalization of “daddy” makes me cringe. Oh God I’m glad I don’t say that shit anymore. It’s really fucked if you think about it. Straight up abuse is not a kink. People need to stop with this “kink shaming” nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 11:05 PM
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I remember a professor at my college getting mad at me for replying no when he asked if I was dating anyone. Then he asked if I ever dated anyone before, I said no again and that I’d rather focus on my education. He lectured me about how men will bulldoze over me in relationships and said it’s annoying having to teach inexperienced women like me in bed. I don’t even know how our conversation got to that point. He was seriously offended and went on another inappropriate rant. They really don’t li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 10:57 PM
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Couldn’t even make the bed first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 10:15 PM
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His broke ass just doesn’t want to pay for anything. Low value, low effort, and low IQ. Looking for friends? Sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 10:12 PM
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Don’t forget when they have the audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 03:53 PM
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They want to catch a unicorn so bad. Chasing literal fantasies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 03:19 PM
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You’d get downvoted into oblivion just for saying it’s gross too. They’d rather find humor in sick things than address their real issues. We live in a society
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 08:43 AM
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Go awf sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 09:21 PM
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Maybe you need a new boyfriend if he’s not putting in enough effort. Also, work on yourself sis. He isn’t going to stand up to his dad for you. He won’t even do it for himself. Be realistic about what’s in your control and how secure you actually feel in your relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 07:47 PM
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It annoys me when men ask for selfies or other pics you intentionally haven’t posted on OLD. Unless you’re my soon to be husband or husband, no stranger needs pictures of me in their camera roll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 01:19 PM
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Thank you. Sounds reasonable to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 11:18 AM
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4 months is still early and you’re already unimpressed. Sounds like he’s doing the usual things boyfriends are supposed to do but nothing more. With that said, do you even want to continue being with him? Do you love him? Is this enough for you? Trust your gut. Remember, you don’t have to entertain him. Usually if you feel insecurity in a relationship it’s for a reason. Also, ladies, what is the usual timeline guys should say they love you? Saying it too early is a red flag but not saying it soo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 12:38 AM
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Then the kid eventually asks why daddy didn’t marry mommy and shit gets more awkward
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 11:00 PM
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It doesn’t matter what he’s done for you or the plans he’s suggesting (not making and sticking to) for the future. He is literally building his life without you. 4 years and your relationship hasn’t gone anywhere. But he was able to pay off his debt, build his career, and now he’s looking for a new place to live? Shouldn’t you be apart of those milestones and life decisions? You should be progressing together. I’d be surprised if he actually stays with you after he fulfills his goals. Not trying…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 07:45 PM
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And you’ve enjoyed 4 years of that? Do you really want to settle down with someone you’re basically having an online relationship with for the rest of your life? You’re not even engaged or living together. Lucky you. He is not serious about you so stop making excuses for him. Choose your self respect and leave. FDS is the place to grow and learn. We are not going to reason with you about this and justify your unhealthy relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 07:23 PM
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Then profited off his infidelity. Should have left in the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 07:15 PM
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Love Bey but her being so protective over her lying and cheating husband is not cute at all. If he’s gonna cheat, he will. Why keep him on a leash? Let him into the streets where he belongs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 07:07 PM
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And then have society defend and justify it like it’s law or something. But fatherless households are sooooo much worse right. What’s really the difference when it comes to childcare? Usually all falls on the mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 07:01 PM
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Yeah. You can pay debt while maintaining a relationship. If he was seriously committed, there would be a balance. Plus, 4 whole years of a stagnant relationship? Dump him now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 06:20 PM
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Men rather resent their mothers and women than address their own daddy issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 04:36 PM
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Interesting how they moan and groan about fatherless households but have an issue with child support and child care in general. Father not in the picture? It’s the mom’s fault. He just wasn’t ready and her pregnancy ruined his life. Mom wants to upgrade her dating life? Nooo, the mom shouldn’t dump her maternal baggage on some rent-a-father. She should raise her “mistake” alone even though that gives way for a potential father figure. God forbid her son turns out to be homosexual or can’t snake …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 02:38 PM
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Not worth promoting FDS in the comments of other subs. They hate us. Direct messaging is much more effective because it eliminates the opportunity for dumbasses to spread that propaganda. I hope OP makes it here. It’s scary and really annoying how women who clearly need FDS are being discouraged by misinformed assholes. Seriously bizarre how the women in this sub are considered femcels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 04:08 PM
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Very well said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 09:56 AM
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Never really wanted kids
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 09:53 AM
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Had a sex worker try to convince me that porn and sex work are mostly ethical now. The narratives she wanted to combat are the ones you’ve just mentioned. Many get into that business with dangerous misinformation and then it’s perpetuated once internalized. It’s scary how much shit like this is normalized. Young women are creating OnlyFan accounts before submitting job applications to make extra cash. One guy I used to mess with suggested I make an account. Apparently that’s a compliment nowaday…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 09:14 AM
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You don’t have to entertain him just because he treats you well. That’s how they are supposed to treat you. Don’t settle. Vet harder sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 02:12 PM
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Chair but make it electric
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 11:31 AM
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Love this lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 11:18 AM
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So happy you both are safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 11:14 AM
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My mom used to give me that useless "advice" too. She even allowed a much older strange man follow me around Walmart begging for my number one day. It was like she was flattered. FDS has supplied me with a lifetime worth of lessons and talks my mother failed to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 10:19 PM
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Just so they can hit you with a “clapback” like “still smashed tho”. So annoying seeing that shit on Twitter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 09:03 PM
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God don’t like ugly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 03:51 PM
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When you start leaving up, shit just isn’t the same. I am so thankful for that. Dropped my shitty “friends” as soon as I realized my worth again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 07:16 PM
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Block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 02:21 PM
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This is why I don’t associate myself with LVM at all. Nonetheless, tell them my personal life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 02:19 PM
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Don’t settle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 10:40 PM
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Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 10:27 PM
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Yes. Don’t do too much. He should be regularly checking in and starting conversations anyways if you’re investing the appropriate amount of interest. He has to work to maintain your attention. Don’t overthink anything. Texting first can be the wrong power move for some, just make sure you’re vetting the right kind of guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 06:31 PM
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My little sister keeps leaving the house for dick appointments and my parents let her. It’s so ridiculous it makes me want to scream. Any guy who finds it acceptable for you to risk your health and safety for sex during a pandemic does not respect or give a fuck about you. She’s head over heels for him even though he already expressed not wanting a relationship. No matter how many lectures and reality checks I give her, she won’t listen. I understand that experience is the best teacher, but she …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 07:15 AM
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One of my hs math teachers was caught having sex with a student and literally fled the state leaving all his shit behind in the classroom. Of course my shady ass private school covered it up and the story never saw the light of day. He was teaching my little sister at the time too. Sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 07:06 AM
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Anyone who has an issue with the principles of FDS is none of my concern. Reddit honestly makes me roll my eyes 10x a day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 06:00 AM
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hobosexual lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 10:30 PM
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What helps me is scrolling through this sub and comparing the LVM behavior to those I was previously involved with. Eventually, the thought of reminiscing anything positive regarding them makes me sick to my stomach. Don’t beat yourself up. You did make a queen move and now you can start your healing process. Just don’t look back. Move forward and remember your worth. Think of your experiences as lessons and learn from them so you’re never in such a compromising position again. Good job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 09:06 PM
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I’m going to give it a try. Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 02:47 AM
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Honestly. If I know that I’m right and the facts can be sourced, I’m not going to argue for their validation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 11:33 PM
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Fr. I always look forward to reading her comments and replies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 11:30 PM
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Hahahhaha and they defend porn usage as if it doesn’t literally kill their dicks. Sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 11:10 PM
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Yup!! Advice encouraging abused and manipulated women to seek couples therapy and marriage counseling are bullshit too. If the relationship is THAT toxic, why would you want to fix it??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 11:08 PM
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Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 10:50 PM
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Are they 15?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 10:48 PM
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It boils my blood when people encourage abusers and LVM to reach out to the people they hurt with an apology. Wtf. Leave them tf alone ! Their apology means absolute shit. I am so glad my mom taught me that forgiveness isn’t obligatory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 10:43 PM
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I wouldn’t even keep repeating the same question at that point. I’d stop replying entirely. That is LVM behavior and it would really turn me tf off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 09:20 PM
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I only watch amateur solo male porn for those exact same reasons too. Watching men pleasure themselves without porn use or degrading sexual practices does hit the spot. You’re right tho, it’s still porn and can be unhealthy regardless. I’m currently not having sex and have zero sexual interest in literally anyone else so I can relate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 08:47 PM
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Jesus Christ I hate that sub. They give the worst advice. Never in favor of a woman’s pleasure or valid needs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 07:48 PM
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That guy is so annoying. Him and Drake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 08:42 PM
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Men who complain about child support and single motherhood are seriously low value. Its so telling of who they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 05:49 PM
19

Hopefully nobody on this sub is entertaining men with porn addictions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 05:36 PM
48

Cringe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 04:11 PM
9

Maybe this is just his own ugly ass life experience. Do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 04:09 PM
18

What a low value asshole. Good for you, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 09:30 PM
6

lmao
/r/seduction18/03/20 10:27 PM
10

Block
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 03:19 PM
14

“Did me win fight or not” Lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 01:46 PM
6

He’s in the army if I remember correctly. First red flag to me. Gladly our interaction was less than 10 messages. Stopped giving out my number since then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 02:00 PM
51

Once you start making excuses for him, you’re already screwed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 03:41 PM
112

Anyone who can stomach mistreating you for their own pleasure is sick PERIOD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 03:39 PM
57

Right lmao I unmatched him LAST year and his goofy ass still texted me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 03:02 PM
9

One loved pointing out our 20 year age difference after we had sex. Sick. Don’t do it, OP. Something is not right with this. I’m 19.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 10:14 PM
2

Let me guess, she’s a gold digger because she doesn’t want to wear a piece of junk on her finger for the rest of her married life. Fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 10:06 PM
8

Good for you! I’m still learning. It’s something I will hone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:13 PM
35

Don’t care about their opinion because it will not benefit you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 02:56 PM
35

That comment section made me roll my eyes so hard. I think they are intentionally misinterpreting shit at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 10:54 PM
6

Valid! Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 10:47 PM
28

Can you tell during casual interactions? Well, besides during shitty sex and pathetic attempts at dirty talk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 02:31 PM
5

Lmao. Brilliant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 12:15 AM
11

So tacky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 08:47 PM
37

No. Anyone who has racial fetishes are objectifying and hyper-sexualizing you. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 05:05 PM
22

Yup. And they’d only accept the proposal because they were given an opportunity they could potentially benefit from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 04:37 PM
49

I used to be so against the notion of men only proposing but I understood why it’s necessary ever since I joined this sub. Thank God. I used to ask out the boys I liked in HS... no wonder that shit never worked out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:53 PM
9

My parents in a nutshell. Their marriage is broken and they know it. It’s just familiar to them. I will do everything in my power to not end up that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 11:25 PM
3

Sounds lovely!! Glad you had a great time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 11:23 PM
12

Thanks for this reminder, sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 09:50 PM
19

I work at a real estate agency and all of these married men cheat and entertain other women. They talk about it in the office like normal casual conversations. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 08:10 PM
32

Dick is low value and abundant. You’ve got this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 09:45 PM
4

What the hell is that subreddit? Jesus Christ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 09:12 PM
1

There’s not a certain type. They either want to fuck you or they don’t. You have to stop assuming and start communicating. Going on dates and throwing out bait for sex is creepy and clearly ineffective.
/r/seduction11/02/20 09:07 PM
1

If you are looking for sex then only pursue people on the same page as you. The number of dates does not determine when someone will sleep with you. You need transparency and effective communication. Being upfront about what you’re looking for will save you so much time and disappointment. You probably are coming off too strong and that’s not cute
/r/seduction11/02/20 08:34 PM
19

Do not go to meet this man unless you have exit strategies, money to travel back at any moment, your own place to stay, prior knowledge about the place you’re traveling to, and people back home you can trust to check in on you. Should you really go if you need so many precautions due to the fact that you do not know him? I don’t think so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:12 PM
29

Yeah. Sounds like he’s investing for a return. Something always makes me feel suspicious about men who make huge financial gestures for women they have not discussed establishing a committed relationship with. They are usually trying to compensate for something they lack or want. I would not go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 06:05 PM
38

If you have any doubts about him respecting your boundaries, then maybe he isn’t a HVM. There is a possibility that he may be making these gestures to receive sex. He could also not expect any at all although he was disappointed at first. Either way, you don’t have to go on this trip if your gut is telling you otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 05:55 PM
7

Fucking horrible. Glad you’re healing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 10:25 PM
4

Your poor wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/20 09:54 PM
12

The replies under that post made me roll my eyes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 08:58 AM
55

Block her. Like right now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 12:10 PM
37

YES!!! Explain this to anyone of low value and all hell would break loose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 06:06 PM
39

Go the fuck off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 06:04 PM
4

Exactly. Straight up lies like that are alarming to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 05:56 AM
5

Yup!!! Always be ready to choose yourself. I’m just happy that I’ve learned all of this before my first committed relationship. I’m trying to equip myself with as much knowledge as I can. Good for you and good luck !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 07:15 PM
7

I’ve been disappointed so many times that I’m not even impressed by potential anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 05:16 PM
13

It’s astounding to me how men can confidently claim and believe that they have a big dick when it’s clearly below average. Don’t they watch porn and obsess over their penises all day? How do they not know? You’d think they’d be cautious about making bold statements about that since they get so hypersensitive about size. Glad you’ve moved on from that pathetic scrub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 05:08 PM
14

L M F A O
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 04:17 AM
9

Lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 08:23 PM
20

So? Make new plans or utilize it for a different day. Do you, boo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 05:35 AM
3

It really is. On so many levels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 11:29 PM
8

Olivia has the potential of being a high value woman but she does the dumbest shit for men. It’s so contradicting and it made me stop watching. So frustrating because I love shows with strong black female leads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 05:12 PM
7

Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 08:31 AM
1

Lmfao yikes
/r/seduction04/12/19 04:46 PM
5

So happy for you!!! Sounds like a wonderful date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 02:43 PM
10

Holy shit this is good. Thanks for taking the time!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 03:14 PM
24

Sounds like this one has a vendetta against black women. So fucked up. They are so unprotected and poorly mistreated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 12:58 PM
2

Wow, I cannot imagine how you just have felt. I’m glad that you’re investing into yourself for yourself. It can be a lonely process- I can relate. At least you know your growth is repelling the people you don’t want to associate with. I’ve been noticing that my confidence and self esteem are making me less approachable and more impenetrable to bullshit. Good luck queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 05:12 AM
3

I have yet to come across someone who couldn’t fuck for long but they sure as hell never made me cum. Makes me annoyed all over again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 09:02 PM
5

I may not know you, but I really do appreciate your dedication and generosity when it comes to this subreddit. You’re a boss ass woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 07:17 PM
7

Let’s start with my mother. I never want to be like her. She’s outspoken, brilliant, incredibly ambitious, and very successful. However, she basically gave up her greatest dreams for my father and instead helped him achieve his. She put him through college which resulted in his law enforcement career (she did all the work), gave up pursuing her PhD although it would have granted her tenure, and traded in her happiness for a marriage broken by his infidelity. My parents exposed my sisters and I t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 06:59 PM
22

Age 19. I’m 19 now and still have yet to date, but I have come across a lot of shitty men and I’ve learned lessons through others as well as myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 06:54 AM
24

Seriously tho, Automod needs a raise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 06:46 AM
4

Very enlightening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 03:26 AM
20

I cannot get over how accurate this is. I’m laughing and crying lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 08:02 PM
15

This is art. I feel it in my soul.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 08:02 PM
2

And how exactly do you execute this weapon?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 04:55 AM
11

Exactly. It’s one thing to tolerate and enable this bullshit by yourself, but to have your family endure it as well is another thing. And for what???? This is why I will always see through those that claim to hate this sub. It’s astounding how people can reject logic yet defend their own headassery. I’m not surprised tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 09:53 PM
13

I’ve learned this same disappointing lesson over and over again. Now, I’m only choosing myself until someone makes it crystal clear that they are choosing me. I hope you continue to do so too. Good job!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 09:42 PM
15

I completely agree. I wasn’t able to crosspost so unfortunately the person who really needs to read this can’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 02:18 AM
1

I’m smiling so hard right now. I’m proud of myself too. Thank you... now I’m getting all emotional. Means a lot coming from the queen of shutting and holding shit down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 05:37 AM
8

make him your ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 12:54 AM
1

Thx, it truly was empowering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 09:25 PM
5

Thank you, you’ve made very good points. It happened at night when I was alone too. How much rejection can one take?? There was much more that I wanted to say but I was honestly so uncomfortable and appalled that he STILL found me approachable. I find that so insulting and it makes me angry. How should I approach the situation if it happens again? Everytime I think I made myself clear, he does something else. He’s even super liked me on Tinder and this was even after I blocked him. At this point…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 09:23 PM
2

Love that! Simple yet assertive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 08:29 PM
1

Thx! It’s so satisfying! Super awkward too lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 08:27 PM
2

Thank you. It felt great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 08:25 PM
2

Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 08:20 PM
9

You’re busy and your schedules didn’t really match up. I don’t think you did anything wrong. It sounds like he’s done waiting tho. Oh well, his loss. Keep your plans and don’t feel bad about attending them. Let them be salty. If he was truly serious, he’d wait. That’s just me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 01:15 AM
2

It makes me cringe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 03:31 PM
3

They really think we’re like them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 03:21 PM
2

Exactly. Those losers finally get their dream girl and she uses him just like he planned on using her. The men are always weird and entitled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 03:19 PM
1

I always think of doing stuff like that but I know I’ll get banned
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 03:06 PM
18

Yas sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 09:44 PM
11

So those disgusting imbeciles are actually selective of who they want to stick their dick in??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 05:02 PM
2

I thought this wasn’t able to be cross posted?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 05:08 PM
7

SO FUCKING GROSS AND THEY PROBABLY NEVER FACE ADEQUATE CONSEQUENCES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 03:01 PM
7

I always ask that. It saves annoyance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 01:48 AM
8

I like your energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 04:03 PM
14

Holy shit. So glad he’s your ex. Hope you’re well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 11:36 PM
5

Because they are threatening to raid our inboxes. Thought members should know no matter how often it happens
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 04:09 PM
5

Respect !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 09:28 AM
6

Duly noted!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 09:24 AM
10

You are reading her to filth and I’m here for it!!!! Your comment history is gold. I try so hard to have sympathy for Pickmeshas bc we’ve all been there at one point or another. However, they take it to another level and it’s painfully embarrassing to witness. They’d rather take misguided advice from men than hear the truth. It’s truly sad and borderline scary. I’m no longer wasting my time extending advice to those that are willfully ignorant- although they need it the most.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 09:22 AM
3

for life ? Lmfaooo It’s ludicrous how they compare us to incels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 08:47 AM
27

Because he feels zero remorse. He probably “feels” sorry because he knows you’re supposed to. He has countlessly defended his own actions and minimized the damage done. She should get press charges 100%. I truly hope she has the strength and recourses to leave because it seems like this will only escalate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 04:48 AM
13

They literally always come back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 01:48 AM
43

Do they fucking understand that we want men to pay because we are accepting dates, not hosting them? Usually when you’re invited out on a date, you don’t cover the bill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 02:04 PM
2

This. This is why I don’t think teaching a man how to treat you works. They know how. They just don’t want to and don’t plan to. Men know how to play the part to get exactly what they want. Then, it all goes to shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 01:24 PM
8

Men literally don’t give a fuck about birth control when it comes down to sex. Even STD’s. They just want to have sex without responsibility. But ofc, we’re to blame and usually face those consequences alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 01:17 PM
28

I don’t think I could ever comfortably get married knowing the fuckshit people do to others
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 01:08 PM
14

No, he gets it. That’s literally when you stop responding and block. These men aren’t idiots in the ways others might think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 01:06 PM
1

What’s it like?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 03:07 PM
3

Hahaha I saw that comment too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 08:24 PM
21

Of course they’d rather be fuckzoned than friendzoned- no one wants to fuck them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 05:01 PM
11

Some men aren’t really intimidated by women that make more money because they see it as an opportunity to take advantage. Shit, they’d probably take advantage if they’re intimidated too. Their ego makes them do wanton things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 03:11 PM
6

I think it has more to do with having a partner that doesn’t make as much money. I think it’s a no no among the standards of this sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 03:03 PM
13

Been there sis. It doesn’t get better. It’s going to be hard but BLOCK him. You know that he’s an asshole and so does he. Choose yourself. These men really don’t give a fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 02:53 PM
3

Oh my. Are you okay?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 09:51 AM
31

Yup. Then they want to complain about child support and how it breaks families apart lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 10:55 PM
20

You don’t need to put up with that. Trust your gut. You know how you want and deserve to be treated and he is choosing not to acknowledge that. Move on, choose you, things will become so much more apparent,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 04:25 PM
31

I bet he thought the responses would be reassuring. I’m glad some people actually think with their brains.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/19 01:51 AM
14

It’s so sad how I can hardly recall asking myself those questions when I was “involved” with someone. And when I did, I still prioritized their perception of myself over my own. I’m going to keep this in mind now that I’m working on maintaining my self-respect and self-image. Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/19 05:15 PM
7

Also, men have it all wrong. I really can’t think of an age women “peak” at. We age beautifully and honestly grow much more mentally than men. It’s like they get worse or don’t change at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/19 05:11 PM
7

What’s weird is, I’ve noticed I have a thing for older men. I thought they’d be more mature and provide more stability.... boy was I wrong. They can be just like these 20 year old fuck boys. Thank fucking goodness I’m no longer that naive. Men can be trash at any age. I’m 19 btw. It kind of makes me sick that 30+ aged men were/are so eager to sleep with me... But yeah, I don’t want my youth squandered on caring for some geriatric scrub. No thanks! This dating lottery is fucked anyways, I’d hones…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/19 05:07 PM
1

Elaborate? I’m curious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/19 04:12 PM
8

Just stop communicating with him. If your instincts are telling you that he isn’t worth anymore time and effort, believe them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 05:52 PM
4

Yeah, I was reading that entire thread last night on GenderCritical. None of the attacks towards you were warranted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 05:05 PM
20

LMAOOOOOOOOO. You had us in the first half.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 04:56 PM
3

I’m so sorry hun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 04:08 PM
13

I can’t imagine committing myself to someone in an exclusive relationship and doing absolutely nothing to maintain it. It makes zero sense to me. Sorry OP. You did what you had to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 09:47 AM
12

The bald subreddit is quite interesting. I had no idea so many men below 30 were already balding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 09:45 AM
17

Some start all of that in their 20s🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 09:20 AM
10

Same here! Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 09:14 AM
15

They just banned me lmfaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 09:10 AM
7

Just realized what that subreddit is... makes sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 08:53 AM
11

This is usually how it goes. Fucking sucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 07:25 AM
13

Yeah, it’s definitely a mix of jealousy and attraction lol What’s crazy is, I wouldn’t even think about using their sexual history or relationship drama against them. Then again, our sense of morality doesn’t reflect everyone else’s. I’ve also noticed that the males who sought “friendship” with me were always attracted to me. But guess what happened when they caught onto the fact that I’d never fuck them? They started dropping like flies. The only male friends left are gay and bisexual. Interest…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/19 07:15 PM
3

It’s so true it hurts. The “friendship” aspect diminishes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/19 02:41 PM
21

As soon as my “closest” male friends found out I was having sex, that’s all they could focus on. They kept saying that they saw me as “innocent” and that was why they were so stuck on it. But I don’t think that was the case... they are oddly fixated on my sexual activity and who I was fucking. One of them even went as far to put on a full on investigation that ended in a lecture. What the fuck. Wish I never even bothered opening up to them about it. It sucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/19 02:33 PM
2

How is that a preference
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/19 02:28 PM
2

So fucking powerful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 05:18 PM
1

Why would you want to emotionally abuse your SO? Isn’t that the shitty behavior you’re trying to speak out against? If you choose to commit to someone based on your own standards and interests, why would berating them even cross your mind? You’re not combatting the abusive patriarchy. You’re just being abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 10:43 PM
1

I agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/19 10:37 PM
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