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| 1 | 365 Days on Netflix really helped when I was feeling horny AF.I think what women want deep down is a man who's very passionate about her inside and outside the bedroom. Unfortunately, the closest thing that they can find in the media is something like 365 Days because the people who make these films are so influenced by the male gaze and porn culture. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 07:02 AM |
| 145 | are guys allowed to roster date?I think this would be an interesting discussion. For me, it's okay for a guy to go on other dates for the first month since I'm still feeling him out. But if he still goes on other dates by the 4th week, it's a dealbreaker for me. I want someone who knows what he wants and is willing to pursue me full-time. Usually, if a guy is into you, he'll make it clear early on that he only wants to see you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 01:07 AM |
| 11 | Bi & wlw gals, how have your experiences compared in hetero dating versus wlw?I used to think I was one of the few men who just happened to keep meeting men who gaslight. But it sounds like it's terribly so common. Men's instinct is to gaslight instead of having empathy and understanding. It's rather sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 01:52 PM |
| 18 | Today I had to ask what is wrong with some of these men?This idea needs to be more popularized. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 01:45 PM |
| 6 | The most requested item at the Afghan refugee camps are condoms! As an Afghan American this disgusts me. So these men that already have 4+ kids while their wives are probably exhausted with no real home of their own and he’s just thinking about his penis. Not surprised.I doubt they would put in the effort to assimilate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 01:40 PM |
| 9 | They will stay mad for 7 years and never changeIDK how men are still considered the more intelligent sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 02:47 PM |
| 27 | Women need to stop pathologizing themselves and start listening to their intuition with menThey probably feel awful because some people will blame them for her death, but they won't feel bad about what they did. Most of the regret men feel are from looking bad in front of others, not for what they actually did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 02:31 PM |
| 43 | Women need to stop pathologizing themselves and start listening to their intuition with menWhat's fucked up is that on the comment section of the full bodycam video, people's comments were like, "Oh my god, the cops must feel awful and will blame themselves for this." Shut up, you're giving these people empathy when they don't deserve it, after the way they treated Gabbie. I'm so angry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 02:10 PM |
| 34 | 22 year old Gabbie Petito’s remains have been found after being missing for weeksIf this killer were my son, I'd turn him over to the police stat. I'm not gonna let them get away from committing such a terrible crime, even if they're my flesh and blood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 02:01 PM |
| 219 | 22 year old Gabbie Petito’s remains have been found after being missing for weeksMen actually reach and twist the reality of how women actually are to suit their egotistic narrative. If men had overwhelming evidence of women's depravity like we have of theirs, they'll keep us as slaves because we're a menace to society. They won't show mercy but here we are as a society, letting them run around without being held truly accountable for their actions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 12:51 PM |
| 256 | 22 year old Gabbie Petito’s remains have been found after being missing for weeksEveryone is afraid of naming the problem: men. The moment you say that men can't be trusted so easily, men and women will jump on you to tell you how delusional you are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 12:49 PM |
| 12 | Stop watching reality TV and reading trashy novelsAgreed. I appreciate a good Austen novel, but I definitely read romance novels from time to time for fun. If you live and breathe FDS principles, reading romance novels or watching reality TV shows won't make you suddenly become a pickme. You're still able to discern fantasy from reality and in fact, will strengthen your principles because you're able to see red flags in the storyline. Looking down on other women for reading romance novels isn't the move. I get that if you want a certain type of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 04:38 PM |
| 5 | I am SO tired of the misogyny, negging, persistent pushy rape culture and cringey male princess demands peddled by so called ‘pick up artist guru’s’ online. Notice the tone of his language wreaks of perceived entitlement to womens attention.https://youtu.be/pct1uEhAqBQ LMAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 03:53 AM |
| 41 | Today's crack-me-up - turns out even basic preferences like earning average pay and not being obese is statistically too much to ask (in the US). Stay strong, american queens!Same. Men over 6ft making 6 figures are easy to find where I'm from. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 03:31 AM |
| 5 | So the LVM in my city are pulling this now. Thoughts on how to respond ladies? It was that “let me get the first you get the second” line. She declined a 2d date and got this in reply.I'd just block him. I owe him nothing. ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 02:05 PM |
| 30 | Screenshot of a comment under a YouTube video titled: "Mrs. America" and the fight over the ERAPlease repost with the name and photo blurred out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 11:23 PM |
| 5 | Girls-Only Gym In The US Ignites Discussion On Whether It’s ‘Segregation’ Or Protection Of WomenNo one complains about male only spaces because women don't care and would rather go about their life than prevent men from having their own space. I wish men would do the same thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 11:02 PM |
| 15 | The “iM an AlpHa mALe” is already a turn off for me but then on top of that, these dudes never actually want to play that role all the way. They just like the part where they get to boss the woman around.I need to read this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 10:17 PM |
| 52 | If men really wanted to be good boyfriends/husbands, there would be more communities on it. But instead, we get communities where men share advice on how to use women for sex and other benefits. The internet is a reflection of men's true priorities. They can't lie to us anymore.If there's actually demand for something like this, men would be out there monetizing it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 12:37 AM |
| 188 | It's safe to assume that every man you date only wants sex from you —until proven otherwise.If most men aren't like this, they'd have a much easier time finding a man who actually wants a girlfriend/wife, just like how easy it is for a man to find a woman who wants love and a relationship/marriage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 03:18 AM |
| 365 | It's safe to assume that every man you date only wants sex from you —until proven otherwise.Yup. They are very nice and friendly to you one minute and when they realize that they're not getting sex from you, they will shut off immediately, as if their niceness is just a front (it is). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 03:15 AM |
| 10 | Is marriage good for women, or a liability to freedom?This is how I feel as well at this point. It's like I half expect something to happen and it always does. Men hide things from you. There are so many of them with girlfriends/wives who don't know the depraved shit that they're doing and how they are being lied to. Lying comes so easily to men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 02:39 AM |
| 27 | Is marriage good for women, or a liability to freedom?I get the sense that this will start with our generation, especially with the rise of FDS, radical feminism, and the WGTOW movement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 02:33 AM |
| 17 | Men assume all bisexual women are open to being Pick Mes who help them exploit other womenMen make so many excuses to spare their own ego. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 02:16 PM |
| 54 | I just have to laugh at this... Men practically created revenge porn, and don't give a dam about the victims.. But when it's a woman doing it she's JAILED.. 🙃 Yep no hypocrisy hereOnly women face consequences, while men can walk around doing heinous things without the world punishing them. Male depravity is so normalized that people aren't surprised when it happens (so they let it go) but if a woman does it, how dare she, let's put her in prison. It's sickening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 02:12 PM |
| 3 | Men assume all bisexual women are open to being Pick Mes who help them exploit other womenI tell men that I'm bi so that if they ever pull that threesome card on me, I know it's time to block them. Not telling men for fear that they'll be like this is just deluding yourself into thinking that *maybe* your man isn't one of those guys. But how would you even know if you hide it from them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 11:39 AM |
| 528 | Do they even themselves believe it 😂😂 as a 18 year old in my 'prime' i DEFINITELY don't want greasy hairy old pathetic 50 year olds 🤢🤢🤮🤮They think that if they repeat this lie enough times that 18 year olds would settle for their 40 year old crusty face. Keep coping, scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 11:38 AM |
| 106 | Just a thoughtThat's because women don't take out their anger and frustration on other people. They internalize their pain and doubt themselves for even feeling that way. Men externalize their pain and seek to hurt others. This is why you rarely hear of women going on a shooting spree because some guy rejected them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 11:20 AM |
| 77 | Woman makes a whole presentation to convince a guy to promote her to girlfriend..and this is how low he thinks of her. I'm in utter disbelief.Red pill men being disgusting, as always. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 12:13 AM |
| 34 | CHOOSE THE PRINCE!!! TFD is bringing the 🍵!I preferred the prince there moment I saw him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 11:11 AM |
| 66 | Rubbing his adoration for porn stars in my faceDon’t date men who watch porn. | /r/askFDS | 26/01/21 01:19 PM |
| 17 | Seeking new moderators for r/AskFDS!That’s why we’re hiring more mods. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 03:26 PM |
| 43 | What my self-defense classes taught me about people handling and datingI love this post 👏🏻 I’m planning to take self-defense classes too once everything’s back to normal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 05:47 PM |
| – | Seen this post on FB so many times and I cannot ... Especially the money giving part - what's your take on it?Please repost without their personal details (blurred out name, blurred out faces). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 04:30 PM |
| 235 | You deserve to have high standards even if you are overweight.They can’t fathom at all that being used for sex is a very negative experience for women because they project their desperate desire for sex on us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 01:07 PM |
| 399 | You deserve to have high standards even if you are overweight."Men have needs and sometimes we overlook the woman’s looks in order to get them met” This sounds sociopathic as fuck. This is why women need to be as discerning as they can because some men will see nothing wrong in using a woman just to get their needs met. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 12:59 PM |
| 1 | My LVM has pulled some shit?!You can't change him. I'd dump. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 12:25 AM |
| 6 | I am freaky worked up right now.Soooo... when are you dumping him, sis? PS: Redirect your questions next time to r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 12:23 AM |
| 7 | At least we realized our mistake... 😅I am in this video and I do not like it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 09:03 PM |
| 9 | Boyfriend (now ex) blaming Me for getting hurt from something he didYou shouldn’t be talking to an ex-boyfriend. | /r/askFDS | 15/01/21 09:16 PM |
| 12 | Woman asks rel_advice whether she has the right to be mad at her bf for not telling her that he has been with prostitutes before dating her. The answers will not deceive you. 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢I’ve searched “prostitute” on that sub several times so I remember how depraved men are for cheating on their SOs. It makes you want to be single for life because you’ll never know when they’ll cheat on you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 01:23 AM |
| 5 | Woman asks rel_advice whether she has the right to be mad at her bf for not telling her that he has been with prostitutes before dating her. The answers will not deceive you. 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢If she stays with him, every time they have a fight or hit a rough patch, he’ll sleep with another escort. These men, once they do it, they’ll keep doing it and they won’t feel guilty about it. Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 01:22 AM |
| – | BF (30M) lied about seeing patients, exclusivity, and quarantining together.You know what to do. Also post this on r/AskFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 12:02 AM |
| – | Need advicePlease post this on r/AskFDS. Use the search bar to read related advice posts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 12:58 AM |
| 25 | Almost 5 y together, still no proposal.If he wanted to marry you, he would’ve. Time to put yourself first. | /r/askFDS | 09/01/21 02:12 AM |
| 2 | I don’t want my boyfriend to have female friends. Am I being unreasonable?Yeah, if he doesn’t respect your wishes, you gotta let him go. I’m fine with a boyfriend having female acquaintances, but a one on one friendship? Nah, he can miss me with that because that’s not for me. He also made you so uncomfortable that you weren’t able to sleep. Follow your gut. He’d rather have his right to have female friends than be with you. Women can usually be friends with men, but men can’t be friends with women. | /r/askFDS | 09/01/21 02:02 AM |
| 8 | Here is a picture of the men who stormed the Capitol building today:I love the way you described Mackenzie! Yes to all of this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 08:37 AM |
| 72 | Why you ladies shouldn’t cohabitate with a man without a ring!I’m still not interested in doing a man’s laundry or cooking for him if he doesn’t do the same thing for me. I don’t need a title in exchange for serving him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 01:02 AM |
| 1 | If you're considering becoming a sex worker, read this.So many good ideas here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Anna Beyr/AskFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 08:30 AM |
| 8 | Movie rec: “Spinster” on Amazon primeGonna watch this! Thanks for the rec. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Rural American LVM starter packWhat app did you use to combine these photos? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 02:02 AM |
| 6 | I raise you Over 30s Midwestern LVM starterpack.This is funny 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 01:59 AM |
| 42 | Never let a LVM steal your self worth!This applies to LVM who are your friends/acquaintances as well. If someone makes you feel bad about yourself, don’t get close to them and avoid spending time with them. Men who make you feel bad about yourself don’t deserve a place in your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 01:58 AM |
| 70 | I just realized beauty is power. It is why men have wanted to possess us, as if I'm an object. I might not be as big or strong as men, but I'm powerful through my femininity.40+ year old men lusting on late teens and women in their early 20s are so gross. They’d probably fuck a high schooler if it was legal. Gross, gross, gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 01:56 AM |
| 79 | Men LOVE to intrude into female only spaces.Guys who don’t see the point of female-only spaces are a dealbreaker. If you literally can’t see why it might be necessary, I have no words for you because you’re so entitled. Glad you dumped him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 01:54 AM |
| 6 | If you're considering becoming a sex worker, read this.Are you a full stack developer? How did you learn? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 01:32 AM |
| 9 | If you're considering becoming a sex worker, read this.He was already successful for his age before he blew up on YouTube. I was an early subscriber and his advice then and now are still useful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 07:08 PM |
| 52 | Hot Tip: If you have to consult Google to see if his behavior is okay, it's time to dump him, sis.I feel like this meme is relevant here. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 06:27 PM |
| 36 | Y'all, they literally don't stop 😂 I've already posted here a couple days ago with a screenshot from their sub about the rings people are posting 🖕That makes them feel less needed and thus worthless. And really if they can’t provide, what more do they have to offer women? Then they actually have to step it up and learn how to become a good partner in other ways too: supportive, considerate, kind, loyal, affectionate, etc. They’re lowkey afraid that they’re not as valuable anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 05:09 PM |
| 15 | Don't debate with men about your FDS standards. It's pointless.That’s so true! We’re not letting men break us out or stress us out for 2021 and beyond. We’re too cool for that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 05:07 PM |
| 6 | Hot Tip: If you have to consult Google to see if his behavior is okay, it's time to dump him, sis.Hehe. It’s kinda crazy how so many women do this, but I literally haven’t heard of a man doing this yet! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 05:04 PM |
| 16 | Hot Tip: If you have to consult Google to see if his behavior is okay, it's time to dump him, sis.Honestly! We could have used that time to research about a topic to improve our careers or expand our knowledge base, but noooo, we spent it on guys who weren’t even worth it. No thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 05:02 PM |
| 60 | Y'all, they literally don't stop 😂 I've already posted here a couple days ago with a screenshot from their sub about the rings people are posting 🖕LOL, the poster who posted her new car is awesome. These men are so hateful for literally no reason at all. They just like putting women down. 😂 Oh, and I bet she probably has a much nicer car than him. 😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 04:42 PM |
| 2 | If you're considering becoming a sex worker, read this.Wow, your rudeness is appalling. You can express your views without being rude. Find another sub to partake in. Consider yourself banned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 04:29 PM |
| 44 | If you're considering becoming a sex worker, read this.She can literally make that (or more) working at McDonalds in a week. 😭 Not worth it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 04:26 PM |
| 20 | If you're considering becoming a sex worker, read this.Apparently there’s no women on the internet didn’t you hear /s 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 04:25 PM |
| 51 | Don't debate with men about your FDS standards. It's pointless.Men only respond to silence and a lack of engagement. Literally zero point in arguing with them. We’ll only look like a nag too if we do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 04:24 PM |
| 30 | Hot Tip: If you have to consult Google to see if his behavior is okay, it's time to dump him, sis.My happiness level skyrocketed after my breakup. I learned how to love myself and be independent of male validation. Best thing to ever happen to me. PS: Thanks for the silver! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 04:17 PM |
| 82 | Hot Tip: If you have to consult Google to see if his behavior is okay, it's time to dump him, sis.This! Women should be using the term “dealbreaker” more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 03:52 PM |
| 57 | If you're considering becoming a sex worker, read this.Imagine how confident a white man is even when he doesn’t know what he’s doing. Channel that (but obviously you know some information). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 03:18 PM |
| 17 | Hot Tip: If you have to consult Google to see if his behavior is okay, it's time to dump him, sis.💯! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 03:10 PM |
| 2 | My shopping haul from today, featuring my two cat sons (left cat has been known to attack guys I date when they don't respect his boundaries or he gets a bad vibe from them). I've been single for 2 months now after dating an LVM and I'm spoiling and treating myself in ways he never did!Your cats are so adorable! 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 02:38 PM |
| 1 | If you catch feelings easily, this might help! Stay strong! >:)Do you recommend watching it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 02:27 PM |
| 2 | This is why you never move on with a boyfriend!!This comment made me LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Thought you ladies might like this. Men mad that women are focusing on themselves instead of men.Lol, I can literally get married within 6 months if I wanted to, but would I? Absolutely not! Me choosing myself and buying myself an engagement ring has nothing to do with my desirability because I have quite a number of men interested in me. This is pure projection on their part to cope with the fact that women are walking away from them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 02:00 PM |
| 48 | If you're considering becoming a sex worker, read this.Graham Stephens, Andrei Jikh. Youtube has plenty of resources! Just keep watching videos and you'll gain familiarity with it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 01:38 PM |
| 50 | How to spot a cheating manMy ex told me his passcode at the start of our relationship but then changed it later. He got angry at me for finding it suspicious. Turns out, my suspicion was absolutely justified. He had the audacity to blame ME for not trusting him when he knows he absolutely fucked up. The fucking audacity to treat someone who you claim to love like that. To lie to their face and make them think they’re crazy. Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 01:34 PM |
| 2 | How to spot a cheating manYou’re amazing for sharing this. Thank you. I wish you the best in your journey. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 01:31 PM |
| 16 | If you're considering becoming a sex worker, read this.Telling women that they don't have to do sex work in order to make money isn't shaming them. Shaming them is insulting them and looking down on them, both of which I haven't done and which I'll never do. I'm coming from a place of helping out the women who are considering sex work. Just because you made the choice to do sex work, doesn't mean it's a feminist choice or that it's beneficial to you. If women want to make a living, they can do it in other ways apart from sex work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 01:29 PM |
| 9 | Don't debate with men about your FDS standards. It's pointless.Make an alt account 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 01:27 PM |
| 19 | If you're considering becoming a sex worker, read this.Yes, exactly! I love your positive energy! We must level up our skillset. No one else is going to do it for us. The alternative isn't sustainable in the long run. Our income mustn't be dependent on our sexual value to men. So many men present sex work as a viable option because it benefits them: it gives them access to women they won't otherwise have access to. It's to their benefit. True power isn't relying on men's lust for your income and independence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 01:19 PM |
| 18 | Don't debate with men about your FDS standards. It's pointless.Been there as well! I recently learned that for me personally, I'd rather keep my social circles and hobby groups intact rather than sacrifice them by being so vocal about my standards. The scrotes are going to get triggered -- that's a given if I share my true opinions. It's better to be silent/vague about my true opinions, spend time with them socially and enjoy myself, but don't get too close with those who give scrotey answers. They'll remain at the acquaintance/social level, they won't be a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 01:16 PM |
| 91 | If you're considering becoming a sex worker, read this.I'm glad you didn't proceed with the SD website! The men there are very exploitative and terrible. So many women get hurt by them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 01:06 PM |
| 17 | If you're considering becoming a sex worker, read this.Yeah, $5k/month is peanuts, but some women think it's quite a bit of money and they should be sooo thankful for the man who gives them that much. Uh, no. You're better off finding a regular job than doing that. I recommend learning Python. It's probably one of the easier languages to learn because its syntax is easy. Plus, you can use it for web development, data science, etc. It has a broader use case. I encourage the ladies in tech to answer this question as well and to give u/ScalesHaveFallen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 01:04 PM |
| 103 | Hot Tip: If you have to consult Google to see if his behavior is okay, it's time to dump him, sis.It's okay, we all make mistakes and we learn from them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 12:47 PM |
| 97 | If you're considering becoming a sex worker, read this.IKR? It's kinda crazy how investing is seen as a man's field, when women actually outperform men in it. According to a study done by Goldman Sachs, companies with more women in management also outperform those with less women in management positions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 12:39 PM |
| 18 | If you're considering becoming a sex worker, read this.Not every woman should code, but presenting it as a legitimate option is a good idea if they find that they actually like that activity. It's also a much better option than doing sex work. Furthermore, I asked for more ideas on what other job options women can do apart from coding that will prevent women from resorting to sex work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 12:32 PM |
| 107 | Don't debate with men about your FDS standards. It's pointless.Absolutely. Revealing your stance allows a man to manipulate you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 11:59 AM |
| 2 | A MASSIVE Red Flag When TextingWon’t keeping them on though let you know when they’re ignoring you, thus giving yourself a chance to see their true colors and dump them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 10:30 AM |
| 16 | Wife gets cancer and husband abandons her at the hospitalYup, male members can be just as shitty and depraved | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 10:07 AM |
| 12 | Wife gets cancer and husband abandons her at the hospitalThat is so messed up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 10:04 AM |
| 10 | Men respond better to silence vs cOmMuNicAtIonI was referring to adults in my statement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 10:50 AM |
| 17 | Men respond better to silence vs cOmMuNicAtIonThe silent treatment is literally not giving them any ounce of your energy. It’s disengagement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 10:24 AM |
| 19 | Her scrote bf told her she doesn't "look" anorexic, told her to lose more weight. Comment section say CoMmUnIcAtEAnorexia is a mental disorder. You can weigh about the same as her or less (I have in the past) and still not have an ED if you don’t have any issue with food. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 10:39 PM |
| 6 | Bridgerton or the epitome of liberal feminismI find the prince overall more appealing than the duke, even physically! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 07:46 AM |
| 5 | Bridgerton or the epitome of liberal feminismYes! I was very much rooting for the prince. He’s so dreamy and nice. Why do writers always have the protagonist NOT end up with the better man? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 07:45 AM |
| 48 | Boyfriend(33M) lied to me(24F) about his age when we met, only came clean when we slept together. I don't know what to think about it...He should be your ex-boyfriend by now. If a sandwich has some shit on it, you still throw it in the trash. | /r/askFDS | 29/12/20 01:23 PM |
| 21 | Say it louder for the Losers in the back!! Don’t accept that kind of behaviour. Not sorry if you scroll and like another girls provocative pic. You belong in the dumpster.These men are so fucking shameless. It doesn’t matter if you have indisputable proof. They will never admit it if they can help it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 02:51 PM |
| 9 | Can’t even imagine an HVM even in my fantasies.I don’t believe in describing other men as HV if I’m not in a relationship with them. I’ll never truly know until I enter into one with them. What you see on the outside isn’t a reflection of how they are as a partner. | /r/askFDS | 26/12/20 02:05 PM |
| 24 | Eloise from Bridgerton radiates FDS energy.Yes! I’m watching it right now. On episode 2, in fact. Can’t wait to watch all of it. Eloise sees marriage as a cage and she wants to focus on her accomplishments. 💕 It’s a bit sad thinking about how there must have been so many women in the past who wanted a different life, a life that we now have the freedom to have, but men limited what they can do. Men thought that women weren’t capable when we absolutely are just as capable as them. Imagine how many female scientists, artists, writers, etc.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 05:11 AM |
| – | But what if I don't want to go out for dinner dates on the first date? Or to be proposed to after 6 months?Reread the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 09:40 PM |
| 2 | NVM ex wanted me to choose between him and career in 2018. I chose career. Ending 2020 with 168k, halfway through my master's in CS, and just signed an offer letter with 400k of tech stocks vesting through 2025. NEVER sacrifice your career or education for ANYONE. (PS: He's still unemployed.)I’m so proud of you! ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 07:03 AM |
| 2 | Hitting his pregnant wife in the face with confetti during the gender reveal. I feel like LVM being blatantly abusive as a “prank” on social media is becoming more and more popularDo you have the link? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 01:31 AM |
| 20 | 🤡 They just never stop, do they? Between the audacity to ruin a girl’s future and the pick me behaviour, idk what’s worse tbh.It’s typical male entitlement to everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 09:39 PM |
| 33 | It’s a no from meMen have no shame in using women at all. They also don’t appreciate anything that you do for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 09:36 PM |
| – | Age gap and sexual abuse. That’s enough relationship_advice for the day.Repost without the usernames. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 10:28 PM |
| – | After yesterday’s brain cancer post, where are all the men calling him selfish for wanting to abandon her in her time of need. Their double standards are so fucking transparent.Repeat post. Deleted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 09:07 AM |
| 5 | Is anyone else here somewhat happy to be female?♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 08:27 AM |
| 20 | PUAs were welcomed into the mainstream with reality TV shows and late night show guest appearances. FDS is labelled a hate group and our mods get rape and death threats. The stark difference in how our culture responds to male vs. female dating strategies is pure cultural misogyny.Yes ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 07:33 AM |
| – | Hi Everyone I hope this post is appropriate for this sub. I want to share a letter I wrote to my mom about recognizing narcissistic abuse and co dependency.This sub isn’t the place for this type of content. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 01:40 AM |
| – | Should I make it clear to him that i can never pay?Post this on r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 01:38 AM |
| – | Am I being absurdDump him. Post this on r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 01:36 AM |
| 63 | Straight men shouldn't be OBGYNs- what are your thoughts?Only women should be OBGYNs. Men have no business being one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 01:35 AM |
| 5 | Most straight males see bi women as harem generatorsYup, I’m pretty open about it so I can reveal how pornsick and fucked up they are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 10:56 AM |
| 85 | Another example of a woman encouraging another woman to accept lessPickme Queen 🤡 If my boyfriend says I love you to another woman, I sure as hell am dumping him. She needs proper boundaries. Saying I love you when parting ways as “friends” isn’t the norm at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 04:15 AM |
| – | Another example of a woman encouraging another woman to accept lessRepost this without the link and blur out her username, name, and photo from the screenshot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 03:18 AM |
| 130 | Have any of you ever left a serious relationship because the man lacked ambition?Sis, you KNOW the right move is to dump him. Don’t question yourself. Don’t even think too deeply about it. You’ll realize why you made the right choice when you put distance between the two of you and you can see things more clearly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 03:16 AM |
| – | Moving on after rejection from someone you liked.Read the handbook and use the search bar. Ask this on r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Banned from R/Feminism for Giving Informative InformationIt’s been approved! (Your new post) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 01:06 AM |
| – | Banned from R/Feminism for Giving Informative InformationRemove the link in your post for me to approve this post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 11:43 PM |
| 4 | Pay attention to men with abusive patterns of behaviour, they may just be intentionality trying to to induce a Stockholm Syndrome response in their target.You just dump him. Block and delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 09:22 AM |
| 1 | How did I let him treat me like this for so long?This is a great story. Thanks for sharing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 08:26 AM |
| 5 | An absolute entitled cretinI just got her book. Thanks for the recommendation! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 12:56 AM |
| 71 | Confronted my (27F) husband (34M) about his porn use today... This is how it went.He’s a creep and wanted to use you. I bet he watches teen porn and the next woman he’ll abuse after you will be a younger woman. Infuriating. Men like this aren’t worth anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 12:31 AM |
| 12 | What are some strategies and tactics to put off intimacy for as long as possible?You don’t need a strategy. All you need to do is to say you’re not ready. If you feel like you have to manipulate in order to not have sex with someone, that means they’re being forceful and you need to stop being desperate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 12:08 AM |
| 5 | I told him (40yo man) about the time someone I previously dated organized to have various bottles of wine sent to me for our video date “cause he wasn’t sure which type I liked”. His response to that was attempting to schedule a FaceTime date with MY groceries 🤡😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 02:34 PM |
| 28 | Seriously disgusting. And I left his name visible, as he is a public figure and has an entire page dedicated to this nonsense. 🤬Your mom is a badass. I’m sorry you had to go through that. It sucks that the age of consent is that low and that there’s so many pedophiles in this world who want to harm innocent children. It’s sickening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 02:24 PM |
| 8 | Seriously disgusting. And I left his name visible, as he is a public figure and has an entire page dedicated to this nonsense. 🤬Indeed. You can find more happiness in other pursuits. Worrying about men’s attraction to us yields zero benefit in our happiness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 02:23 PM |
| 6 | Seriously disgusting. And I left his name visible, as he is a public figure and has an entire page dedicated to this nonsense. 🤬For real. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 12:49 PM |
| 47 | Seriously disgusting. And I left his name visible, as he is a public figure and has an entire page dedicated to this nonsense. 🤬Scrotanamo Bay 😭😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 11:50 AM |
| 33 | Seriously disgusting. And I left his name visible, as he is a public figure and has an entire page dedicated to this nonsense. 🤬Women will always be more valuable than the average man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 11:49 AM |
| 16 | Seriously disgusting. And I left his name visible, as he is a public figure and has an entire page dedicated to this nonsense. 🤬Thank you for sharing your experience. I’m in my 20s and it’s great to hear yet another story that the wall is a cope made up by men to get women to settle and feel bad about themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 11:48 AM |
| 45 | Seriously disgusting. And I left his name visible, as he is a public figure and has an entire page dedicated to this nonsense. 🤬They absolutely would go lower if they could. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 11:46 AM |
| 27 | Seriously disgusting. And I left his name visible, as he is a public figure and has an entire page dedicated to this nonsense. 🤬They’re stating it so boldly and shamelessly in the hopes that it will come true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 11:42 AM |
| 37 | Seriously disgusting. And I left his name visible, as he is a public figure and has an entire page dedicated to this nonsense. 🤬It’s such a cope. The only younger women interested in older men are those with daddy issues and these men are ever so willing to take advantage of that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 11:42 AM |
| 24 | "Average women will die alone" This infuriates me. An unattractive, beta LVM calls a successful bussiness woman who wants a guy who makes decent income "average". He breaks her selfesteem down in the video but he calls himself "Alpha" HVM. He is breaking her so that she settles for men like him.This subreddit doesn’t believe in the concept of alpha/beta males. Instead, we look at men through the value they bring to a relationship and their character. The OP mentioned the word alpha because this man referred to himself as such and she was pointing out the absurdity of it due to his background. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 11:15 AM |
| 17 | Why is it that men that call themselves ''lucky'' to be with you, or that can't believe you gave them a chance, eventually treat you like trash?This is why with every man you date, you make them feel like they’ll never be good enough for you. That’s the only way men will continue appreciating you. It’s a game I’m not willing to play anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 04:03 AM |
| 9 | Birthdays before and after FDSThey will put the minimum effort so they can get exe from women. Men don’t care that they’re using women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 03:54 AM |
| 1 | A lot of TV completely unwatchable after FDSCable Girls is great. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 03:42 AM |
| 3 | A lot of TV completely unwatchable after FDSI gotta check this out. It’s not on the US Netflix though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 03:41 AM |
| 1 | A lot of TV completely unwatchable after FDSYes, this show is good 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 03:37 AM |
| 20 | Innovations created by women. Credited to men.There is so much erasure of female achievement in history. It’s awful. Even now, women underestimate their abilities when the average man is so fucking overconfident. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 03:13 AM |
| 25 | FDS or BustWomen have so many negative and degrading experiences with men. It’s not just a few women, it’s most women. Getting involved with a man is so risky. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 01:35 AM |
| 17 | What the heckity heck? Found on Instagram. What is the society making girls think we need to do this for a man?It’s pure projection. Just because they see sex as the ultimate form of reward, they think women think like that too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 03:34 AM |
| 36 | Mgtow spoils sex doll with fancy Jewelleries. He is literally talking to the doll like it can respond. Alot of mgtows have mental health issues and I don't mean it in a way to make fun of or stigmatise mental health. These men are deeply unhappy with their lives and need to use women as scape goat.The bar for human decency is in hell for men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 02:55 AM |
| 14 | Mgtow spoils sex doll with fancy Jewelleries. He is literally talking to the doll like it can respond. Alot of mgtows have mental health issues and I don't mean it in a way to make fun of or stigmatise mental health. These men are deeply unhappy with their lives and need to use women as scape goat.Most women see as dolls anyway without humanity, so this isn’t too far off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 02:55 AM |
| 359 | Some of these men are absolutely repulsive.Yup, by an ex-girlfriend who was abused. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 07:25 PM |
| 4 | My wish for 2021 and beyond is that more women realise that they don’t have to put up with callous, selfish behaviour in their relationships.You’re taking an offense to something I didn’t even say to paint yourself as the victim. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 09:42 PM |
| 5 | My wish for 2021 and beyond is that more women realise that they don’t have to put up with callous, selfish behaviour in their relationships.I was trying to be helpful, but you completely misconstrue my point and THEN take offense to it (something I didn’t even say). Good job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 09:10 PM |
| 28 | My male family doctor turned out to be a sex abuserMen have no business being a gynecologist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 08:36 PM |
| 25 | My wish for 2021 and beyond is that more women realise that they don’t have to put up with callous, selfish behaviour in their relationships.Respect your feelings. If a situation makes you feel bad, something is off. If what your partner does upsets you, it’s his responsibility to stop doing that so you’ll stop being upset. Some men will make it your fault, that you’re being dramatic or you’re asking for too much, but you’re not. If you feel bad and he isn’t doing anything about it, he doesn’t care about making you happy. If he can’t make you happy, there’s no point in being with him. If you deal with depression, it’s especially impo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 08:30 PM |
| 5 | How You End Up A Forever GF, Or A Reluctant FWB...STRAIGHT From The ANIMALS Mouth...LVM chicken coop, I love it 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 07:49 AM |
| 2 | Women make good lawyers, and have an especially good track record treating patients. I didn't really see this as cultural misogyny until I realized that when I saw this as a child, it made me question the validity of getting good grades.They’re really trying to brainwash us from not gaining power in society. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 07:21 AM |
| 2 | this angers me so muchIKR? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 07:02 AM |
| 3 | If he was ever unfaithful to you - you need to leave and never turn back. It’s not that once a cheater always a cheater - it’s that you’ll never respect them the same again. And no, the disgust you feel for him despite loving him will never, ever go away.This is an amazing post. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 07:00 AM |
| 12 | That huge son of a b told me "he tried to be into me"Nah, girl. Don’t make excuses for him. Don’t believe a word he says. Men don’t have commitment issues. If he wanted to commit to you, he would, but he doesn’t want to because he doesn’t like you enough. He’s probably waiting till he finds the girl he actually likes, someone who’s probably out of his league because men always want a woman hotter than they are. Don’t ever make excuses for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 06:14 AM |
| 19 | This is why we dont have sex with men who didnt commitGive them blue balls. Don’t fuck these dudes until you’re sure they’re 100% committed. Give it a lot of time. Make them wait. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 06:11 AM |
| 16 | This is why we dont have sex with men who didnt commitYup. It’s like when my ex playfully “choked me” a bit too hard. Called him out on it. He felt bad for doing it rather than about hurting me. I had to ask him to apologize to me. Fucker. I can’t believe I put up with that bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 06:06 AM |
| 5 | Please Help Me See This ClearlyYou don’t have to decode anything if a man is into you. Dump him and never look back. | /r/askFDS | 30/11/20 05:32 AM |
| 13 | How You End Up A Forever GF, Or A Reluctant FWB...STRAIGHT From The ANIMALS Mouth...This is probably one of those guys who think they’re hot shit but they’re actually not. If you’re actually a catch, you won’t have trouble attracting women. This dude is overestimating his value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 05:25 AM |
| 16 | How You End Up A Forever GF, Or A Reluctant FWB...STRAIGHT From The ANIMALS Mouth...They are so shameless with their lying, aren’t they? They think we’re stupid enough to believe them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 05:23 AM |
| 55 | i talked with a male friend about women doing the first love and trust me, watch what they do not whay they sayMen love getting left on read and chasing a woman. Don’t be easy. Make it hard for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 05:04 AM |
| 4 | The jig is up on older NVMWomen put up with a lot of BS. Jesus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 11:41 AM |
| 20 | Stop underestimating yourself because m*n damn sure don'tLesson: Be shameless in advocating for yourself. Don’t underestimate yourself. Make it seem like you’re a bigger deal than you really are because that’s the only way you’ll even out the imbalance caused by men who overestimate themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 10:19 PM |
| 16 | Stop underestimating yourself because m*n damn sure don'tThey are SO shameless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 10:16 PM |
| 22 | Thoughts on Subtle Asian Dating?It’s primarily done for entertainment and clout. I won’t take it too seriously. The best way to meet a potential partner is still in person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 10:02 PM |
| 8 | Former pickeme me would’ve been like ‘Awww’.He’s catering to women who are into K-drama so that he seems like the perfect man for them aka so he can hook up with them so easily. 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 09:58 PM |
| 47 | “What really matters to most women is whether or not he still has the *potential* to succeed and the *potential* to deepen her feelings of love, respect and attraction over time. As long as a man has that *potential*, he is a man in his prime.”🤮“You can be a mediocre man and you’re STILL entitled to hot women! As long as you have the POTENTIAL to be rich, it’s just as good as being rich! You can have all these hot women!” Fucking gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 09:56 PM |
| 34 | Remember not to get caught up in a guy just because he’s “seemingly HVM.” Just because a man has a good job, assets, and hobbies doesn’t mean you should forget your expectations and standards. Take it slow.I don’t consider a man to be HV till a year or more later. Even then, that judgement can still change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 09:54 PM |
| 100 | Reading this honestly made me feel...just sad. She's so very proud of herself for being a CoolGirl.This is like being someone’s background character, tbh. I’d rather do my own thing than watch someone play video games. It’s so passive and boring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 09:53 PM |
| 9 | I’m so disgustedSame. You never know what weird fetishes some men have and I honestly don’t want to deal with that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 11:18 AM |
| 373 | My wish for 2021 and beyond is that more women realise that they don’t have to put up with callous, selfish behaviour in their relationships.If you have to keep telling someone not to hurt you over and over again, that’s a sign that you should leave that person and distance yourself from them. Don’t settle for anything less. If you’re upset, your partner should be doing something about it. No excuses. I won’t ever feel like I’m the one burdening the other person by telling them that what they’re doing is hurting me EVER AGAIN. I will listen to my feelings. If you feel bad being around someone, ✂️ from your life. STOP QUESTIONING YOUR… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 11:14 AM |
| 6 | Damn Shiva Safai (40 y.o) broke up last year with Mohammed Hadid (72 y.o) and a few weeks later she got together with Niels Houweling (28 y.o). Niels proposed within a year and she got married last October.She’s gorgeous! I‘m happy she got married to someone who’s not old and ugly like Mohamed. Honestly, all the money in the world won’t compel me to date someone like him. She deserves better. Also, a 6 year engagement is such BS. He just wanted to keep using her without giving her marriage protections. Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 05:35 AM |
| 4 | Have you noticed that men aren't funny?Yup. My ex described himself as funny, but didn’t think I was funny when I’m pretty sure I made him laugh way more than he ever made me laugh. They’re clueless and so arrogant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 01:34 AM |
| 13 | I cancelled a ‘date’ last minute. It was the right thing to doSo he can fool women better the next time? Nah. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 08:12 PM |
| 29 | Holidays make it easy to spot LVM. Thank goodness my pick me days of cooking a full thanksgiving meal so a LVM can drink, watch football, and nap are over.That sounds amazing! What made you guys decide to start that tradition and how did the guys react? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 08:02 PM |
| 3 | Highly recommend this podcast about working on yourself, building confidence, and knowing your worthI’ll check it out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 08:54 AM |
| – | He cancelled 5 minutes after. Do I give him another chance?Stop saying that a man has HV qualities especially after only 2 dates. It takes MONTHS before you can even consider a man to be HV. Also, dump this dude. He flaked on you and isn’t putting effort. You should have blocked him the moment you felt the need to text him about the date OR when he didn’t respond. You didn’t need to call him – that will make him think you’re desperate. Don’t give these dudes the benefit of the doubt unless you plan on getting used. Next time, post questions like this on… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 07:26 AM |
| – | 40 yo man dumps girlfriend after 13 years and 3 kids for a 23 year old. 3 months later they're engaged and now his dad actively approves of him trying to force ex girlfriend and kids to sit through Thanksgiving dinner with the new fiancée.Repost w/o the username | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 07:23 AM |
| 44 | That moment this woman discovered she is with a NVMPlease please please message the OP this link to FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 04:09 AM |
| 120 | Just broke it off with him. I feel like he was playing me but I’m not certain.Men who don’t want to post you on social media are a red flag. If you feel something less than him being proud to show you off and tell everyone how much he’s in love and happy with you, next him. I want a man who’s not afraid to introduce me to the people in his life. If I have to ask for a man to make our relationship Facebook official, that’s a pretty telling sign that he’s not it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 06:49 AM |
| 103 | A HVM will NEVER threaten your childHave you removed him from your life already? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 06:46 AM |
| 104 | When women travelIt’s PURE PROJECTION 😂 They can’t imagine that we travel for reasons other than sex unlike them lmao! Sorry guys, but we don’t travel to hook up with men. We travel because it’s fun, we eat delicious food, see new places, meet cool people (without trying to get in their pants). You’re the ones trying to fuck every chick you can when you’re on vacation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 06:45 AM |
| – | Worth trying to educate or a lost cause?This is not a dating-related question. Stop posting it here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 04:37 AM |
| – | In a relationship with LVMr/AskFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 04:36 AM |
| 659 | they don't even hide it (a collection)One of the commenters is so self-righteous. “It’s not your responsibility to stop women from getting strung along; its hers.” The fucking audacity. THIS IS WHY FDS DOESN’T APPROVE OF CASUAL RELATIONSHIPS AND TO ONLY HAVE SEX WHEN YOU ARE IN A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP. Don’t give these dudes what they want. Make them fucking earn you. Vet men so hard that you’re nexting them left and right. Men will use you for sex and they will lead you on. Other men will shut the fuck up about it and they will no… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 04:35 AM |
| 57 | I can't take conservative men seriouslyLiberal men are just as bad as well: • Wants a strong, independent woman aka someone who’ll do 50/50 and maybe even pay for him • Wants a liberated woman aka a woman who fucks on the first date and makes it easy for him • Doesn’t believe in marriage because it’s “old fashioned,” aka doesn’t want to be held legally accountable • Believes that women’s bodies are public property • Thinks sex work and porn are empowering for women • Kinky AF aka likes seeing women suffer during sex • Uses their libe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 04:28 AM |
| – | Fed up of my broke boyfriendYou can’t change a man. Dump this LVM and focus on your own life instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 04:21 AM |
| 61 | Dating around after a breakup is not a substitute for therapy.Agreed! When I broke up with my last ex, I didn’t date anyone and just focused on myself. Plus, I realized that I actually feel better about myself when I’m not dating anyone. The sense of freedom that comes with being happy on your own is amazing! Whatever a man can offer me is nothing compared to what I can offer myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 04:20 AM |
| – | Should I go on another date with him?Do you want a boyfriend who doesn’t have furniture? Up to you if you want to settle. I’d next a man like this. He doesn’t sound mature. For more questions next time, ask it on r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 04:18 AM |
| 19 | Man prefers playing videogames over taking care of wife (f60) with cancerIt really isn’t. In fact, marriage might end up causing you more pain than if you simply remained single. Imagine marrying a man, giving him your youth, and birthing his children for him, only to for him to treat you this way when you get sick? Even though he acts so nice at the beginning, it doesn’t guarantee that he’ll keep on treating you that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 04:14 AM |
| 28 | The next LVM engagement ring trend! Fruit instead of diamonds.What... the fuck. I won’t actually be surprised if some scrote ends up doing this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 04:10 AM |
| 45 | I'd rather eat my eyeballs than comply with this kind of bullshit at any occasion, much less on my wedding dayI bet you that he’ll cheat on her if he already isn’t right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 06:55 PM |
| 73 | If any of this is real, she has more things to worry about than her meat dildo deadbedrooming her.Being single is so much better than being with a man who treats you like that. Seriously, she’s better off divorced. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 07:00 AM |
| 13 | I know my worth, I've paid dearly for every ounce of it. I make no apologies for loving myself and finally living my best life.Where is this from, OP? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 11:31 PM |
| 4 | Red Pill Man hooks up with girlfriend of imprisoned pedo, and somehow this is about female depravity (warning: long and may drop your IQ a few points)Post removed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 04:46 AM |
| 40 | How To Get A Man To Legally Claim A Child You Know is Not Biologically HisThe fucked up thing is that no one calls them out for posts like that. Men would rather come at FDS for posts on how to protect yourself as a woman rather than for posts literally about how to emotionally abuse women. People don't give a fuck. It's just accepted that men will be assholes but the moment women gain an ounce of authority over themselves, all hell breaks loose. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 12:26 AM |
| 1 | How Are You Happier (Even If Single) After FDS & How Has FDS Short&Long-Term Changed Your Life?This so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 10:21 PM |
| 3 | What my 6 years LVM boyfriend thinks about 50/50 before I moved in vs. when I moved in.I’m glad you left him, OP. Hugs to you. You deserve better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 08:22 AM |
| 8 | What my 6 years LVM boyfriend thinks about 50/50 before I moved in vs. when I moved in.It’s so repulsive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 08:22 AM |
| 2 | What my 6 years LVM boyfriend thinks about 50/50 before I moved in vs. when I moved in.My ex did the classic bait and switch as well. Pretending to be generous and traditional when he clearly wants something different later on. He made me feel like a gold digger when I wasn’t. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 08:22 AM |
| 9 | He deleted his video afterwards.😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 09:42 AM |
| – | Can I man have potential?r/AskFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 03:53 AM |
| – | Still not sure how to process finding nude pics on my boyfriend’s laptop...Dump him. For more advice, r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 03:51 AM |
| 2 | Question: If a guy is doing everything right, texts first, etc. Is there a time you can start taking some of the initiative or do you just have to let him lead forever?Ellen Fein | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Question: If a guy is doing everything right, texts first, etc. Is there a time you can start taking some of the initiative or do you just have to let him lead forever?Read it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 03:46 PM |
| 7 | Question: If a guy is doing everything right, texts first, etc. Is there a time you can start taking some of the initiative or do you just have to let him lead forever?Have you read the book “The Rules”? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 07:32 AM |
| 3 | WHYYYY Are There So Many Female led Podcasts All About the Guys They Fuck? Can Women’s Entertainment Do Better please???Yes, I love this 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 02:35 AM |
| 10 | Broke up with BF bcs of OnlyFansALWAYS TRUST YOUR GUT FEELINGS. IF SOMETHING FEELS OFF, SOMETHING IS INDEED OFF. Trust yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 12:26 AM |
| 7 | Broke up with BF bcs of OnlyFansAgreed. Ask me to split and off, I go. Boy bye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 12:26 AM |
| 5 | Poor birthday gift from boyfriendI was about to ban that person too. Their statements are so ridiculous. | /r/askFDS | 01/11/20 01:14 AM |
| – | I'm 22 and never had a bf. What are some green flags to look for? And how to present myself around men?Read the handbook. Use the search bar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 05:32 PM |
| – | A questionYou can lurk if you want and use the tips to your benefit, but only women can participate! Good luck. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 03:39 PM |
| 51 | Are men only as faithful as their options? How can we as FDS women avoid this?What’s even the point of dating men if this is their true nature? | /r/askFDS | 27/10/20 05:57 PM |
| 23 | Never going to date a cheap man ever againYou’re dad sounds based and really cool! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 08:28 AM |
| 3 | Idk if this is a joke or not but regardless it’s disgusting.Disgusting. She shouldn’t have to put up with a man who does this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 07:14 PM |
| 16 | Conditioned by fairytales and misplaced hope 🙃 reminder that men are like buses!Exactly. He’s still going to gaslight her, watch porn behind her back, cheat, and lie to her face. No fucking thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 07:10 PM |
| 100 | Women are finally allowing themselves to admit that they do not support the porn industry and they do not want their partners to do so eitherIt’s better to be single than to be with a scrote who watches porn and doesn’t see anything wrong with the porn industry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 07:02 PM |
| 26 | Women are finally allowing themselves to admit that they do not support the porn industry and they do not want their partners to do so eitherOh man, I haven’t heard of the term coomer in a while! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 07:01 PM |
| – | Strategy for dealing with mean, competitive womenr/FemaleLevelUpStrategy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 09:12 AM |
| – | Please help, boyfriend is attached a lot to his family, i don’t know if i should break up with him.You’re not heartless. He cares more about his parents than he does about you. Break up with him. Re-ask this question on r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 05:27 PM |
| 4 | Yikes...What’s in the freezer? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 04:22 PM |
| 3 | If you can’t keep your word, it’s a “no” from meNo matter how amazing a man is, don’t let your guard down. Also, you’ve only been dating him for a few weeks. In reality, the odds are, the shoe will drop. (I don’t mean this in a negative way but in a neutral way.) You’re not sabotaging your relationship with him; you’re being realistic. The way to do this though is to remove any anxiety regarding him cancelling plans, being late, etc. Just take it easy. Don’t be attached to the outcome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 02:57 PM |
| 5 | Imagine, your country found your gender so worthless when you were born, your peers were left in ditches to die. Now there's a surge in single lonely men in China & it's your fault for not settling. Oh and a red pill moron is making an example out of you. 😡She is gorgeous! Typical societal gaslighting that she should be the one who should be worried about finding a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 02:30 PM |
| 89 | If you can’t keep your word, it’s a “no” from meI give them ONE chance to shape up and to let them know that I’m not going to be with someone who can’t keep his word. After that, it’s an instant dump. ✌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 10:47 PM |
| 30 | Dinner Date ConvertYes! Allow a man to wine and dine you. It makes me feel like such a lady when I go on dinner dates in nice restaurants with good food and excellent wine. 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 05:54 PM |
| 141 | After lurking on asktrp, I found that men there both wanna casually f as many women as possible , and disrespect the women they had casual sex with. So:Men hate FDS because we encourage women to only have sex once a man has proven himself to you over time. It goes against the societal script that women should just fuck whoever they want, that it’s empowerment, when in fact, that only benefits men. Keep your legs closed. 99% of the men you date won’t be worth it in the long run. This way, you’ll have your peace of mind too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 04:23 PM |
| 97 | Excellent Article on why Women should never make the first move💯 If he can’t even ask you out, do you really think he’d be a good boyfriend material? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 04:16 PM |
| 105 | "the dating market" is like a nature documentary about pickmeishas and LVM scrambling to prove themselves as the most mateable. You don't have to participate in "the dating market" while you look for a quality relationshipIf my dating value revolves around how much I’ll debase myself for the approval of men, I’m out. ✌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 04:14 PM |
| 105 | How do you have standards for dates during Covid? Do we just not date right now?I’m not dating right now because of COVID. My focus is on self-improvement and loving my own company. This way, I’ll have a stronger base when I come back to the dating scene later. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 04:09 PM |
| 73 | Dating and relationships will never be perfect, but with FDS at least I’m not stressedAre you me? I swear I could have written this. Protecting my inner peace is way more important than being with any man. If a man gives me any sort of anxiety, he’s gone. I used to give excuses and think I was overreacting, but my gut feeling is usually right. I prioritize my perspective more than any man’s. They can’t gaslight me again into thinking that what I’m feeling is unreasonable. Fuck that, I’d rather be single and never get married at all than to deal with a man who just gives me stress… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 06:47 PM |
| 6 | Are you tired of being alone? Are you feeling lonely or incomplete? You don't need a boyfriend. You need friends for human connection and you need to be happy on your own without a man.It doesn't matter what a "good man" thinks. We're doing this for ourselves. 💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Are you tired of being alone? Are you feeling lonely or incomplete? You don't need a boyfriend. You need friends for human connection and you need to be happy on your own without a man.💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Are you tired of being alone? Are you feeling lonely or incomplete? You don't need a boyfriend. You need friends for human connection and you need to be happy on your own without a man.That's good to hear. More women should be happy with their own company. 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Are you tired of being alone? Are you feeling lonely or incomplete? You don't need a boyfriend. You need friends for human connection and you need to be happy on your own without a man.💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 03:11 PM |
| 3 | Are you tired of being alone? Are you feeling lonely or incomplete? You don't need a boyfriend. You need friends for human connection and you need to be happy on your own without a man.I don't need to constantly remind someone of my schedule because they're conveniently forgetful. Being in a relationship with someone like that is infuriating! It's better to be single than be with someone who can't bother remembering your schedule, when you know very well that they can remember things (they can memorize sports scores and teams) but they just don't put in the effort. So not worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Are you tired of being alone? Are you feeling lonely or incomplete? You don't need a boyfriend. You need friends for human connection and you need to be happy on your own without a man.Sounds like you're keeping your social life buzzing -- that's awesome! This reminds me, I also need to create a visual vision board. I have goals written down, but I need to take it to the next level! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 03:09 PM |
| 5 | Are you tired of being alone? Are you feeling lonely or incomplete? You don't need a boyfriend. You need friends for human connection and you need to be happy on your own without a man.Being on your own is hard? That's your default in life and it's best to learn how to be happy being in that state. Youtube has a lot of videos about self-love and generating those feelings of happiness without external things/people. Being single shouldn't be hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 03:05 PM |
| 9 | Are you tired of being alone? Are you feeling lonely or incomplete? You don't need a boyfriend. You need friends for human connection and you need to be happy on your own without a man.Totally. FDS also helps make me feel less alone! <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 03:03 PM |
| 9 | Are you tired of being alone? Are you feeling lonely or incomplete? You don't need a boyfriend. You need friends for human connection and you need to be happy on your own without a man.Agreed. Women are whole all on their own. Society should stop giving women this message that they're worthless just because a man hasn't "deigned" to pick them yet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 03:02 PM |
| 4 | Are you tired of being alone? Are you feeling lonely or incomplete? You don't need a boyfriend. You need friends for human connection and you need to be happy on your own without a man.Joining a local sports club is a fantastic idea! I'm thinking of joining one after quarantine ends where I'm at. I heard it helps you with assertiveness in the workplace too and it makes you more tolerant of competition. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 03:01 PM |
| 9 | Are you tired of being alone? Are you feeling lonely or incomplete? You don't need a boyfriend. You need friends for human connection and you need to be happy on your own without a man.Yes! Whenever I'm feeling lonely, I just reframe my feelings as being "at peace" and not having to deal with other people's BS. That means more time engaging in more introspective hobbies that make you feel in touch with yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 03:00 PM |
| 2 | Are you tired of being alone? Are you feeling lonely or incomplete? You don't need a boyfriend. You need friends for human connection and you need to be happy on your own without a man.Yes, enjoying your own company is very important! Everything else doesn't matter if you haven't gotten to this point yet. You mentioned houseplants... I'm thinking of getting one too! One that's young so I can see it grow! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 02:59 PM |
| 7 | Are you tired of being alone? Are you feeling lonely or incomplete? You don't need a boyfriend. You need friends for human connection and you need to be happy on your own without a man.This type of attitude repels LVM and you will never have to settle for one because you're so happy on your own! This is the attitude that women should have tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 02:57 PM |
| 5 | Are you tired of being alone? Are you feeling lonely or incomplete? You don't need a boyfriend. You need friends for human connection and you need to be happy on your own without a man.I love the Bilyeu couple! I agree with you. It's important to just be alone with yourself and your own thoughts sometimes so you can get in touch with your true self. At this point, I'm developing myself as well. Hopefully, when quarantine is over where I'm at, I'll be more ready than I'll ever be to date men again. Right now, I'm just learning to be by myself and learning to find happiness in that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 02:56 PM |
| 16 | Are you tired of being alone? Are you feeling lonely or incomplete? You don't need a boyfriend. You need friends for human connection and you need to be happy on your own without a man.Better to be single than deal with a LVM! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 12:49 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop letting this type of behavior get to me?r/AskFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 03:03 AM |
| 7 | “Women should be more indulgent of affairs”. Excuse your mouth?Yeah, let’s just forget she’s being played by LJ. I really enjoyed Mama Mia, both movies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 02:13 AM |
| 7 | I kinda missed my ex, so I decided to redirect the energy into something that will appreciate my effortsSo cute! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 01:52 AM |
| – | I have read the handbook but need some clarification when it comes to first dates!r/AskFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 11:37 PM |
| 352 | Men telling on themselves lol. Just a reminder a HVM will never let you take on unneeded stress!This is why you don’t do anything for men 🙌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 06:22 PM |
| 25 | “Women should be more indulgent of affairs”. Excuse your mouth?Disappointed in Lily for dating him. I was a fan of her before this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 06:20 PM |
| 1 | The Life Skill Woman Are Never Taught | I'm on a Couch! | Kiki G.Post removed. Make another one containing the summary of the video – the best points and such. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Do braces make me an LV woman?No. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 07:38 PM |
| 40 | ‘If a guy truly loved you he would do xyz’ a phrase that makes me think ‘why not me’. How do we reframe thisGirl, I've been there! Here's what I told myself to move on: "I know I'm extremely valuable. If my ex can't recognize how much of a catch I am since he treated me like shit, he deserves to be shut out from my life. Who does he think I am? Does he think I'll allow any riffraff in my life who doesn't see my value? Chanel doesn't feel bad that 99% of the world can't afford it and think it's overpriced. It still doesn't give discounts because it knows its worth. How others treat me isn't a reflectio… | /r/askFDS | 13/10/20 07:22 PM |
| 7 | I'm so tired of being aloneYou don’t need a man to save you from your loneliness. You need friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 05:17 PM |
| 13 | If they didn't do it for themselves, they're not going to do it for you.This is why it’s important to find a man who actively works on himself. Vet him really well to analyze his character. If he’s lazy with himself, he’ll probably be the type who won’t actively work on the relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 05:09 PM |
| 40 | If they didn't do it for themselves, they're not going to do it for you.And they’ll dump you once they become the successful man you always wanted them to be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 05:08 PM |
| 9 | Everyone ages like wine, but sometimes, wine becomes vinegar.Great post, OP! We must always take care of ourselves and strive to improve everyday if we want to feel our best. Being a HVW is an ongoing thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 05:04 PM |
| 40 | When a man has only female friends - red flag?I prefer a man who gets most of his friendship needs from male friends. This is a dealbreaker for me. | /r/askFDS | 13/10/20 03:27 AM |
| 5 | What posts do you enjoy seeing on FDS and what would you like to see more of?Read the comments on this thread and you'll understand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 03:24 AM |
| 11 | What posts do you enjoy seeing on FDS and what would you like to see more of?It doesn’t offer value to the subreddit. I’d rather not give LVM the spotlight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 03:04 AM |
| 8 | Just thought this was funny (not sure what to flair it, but oh well)This made me chuckle 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 02:08 AM |
| 25 | What posts do you enjoy seeing on FDS and what would you like to see more of?I see. How do you feel about the memes? What would be a good ratio? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 01:50 AM |
| – | About my STBE-husband's tendency to "debate" with me... Lovely Ladies of FDS, please help me explain this phenomenon :\r/AskFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 01:49 AM |
| – | At what point in a relationship/courtship do you feel okay instigating the conversations/first contact?R/AskFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 01:22 AM |
| 31 | Ways to tell you’re being kept as an option or a backupYou’re on point here 💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 12:50 AM |
| 1 | LVM in disguiseRead the handbook. FDS women don’t ask men out. Permabanned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 12:23 AM |
| – | My boyfriend called me fat and I simply can’t believe he said thatDump him. Keep him blocked. Ask this on r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 11:03 PM |
| – | Everything was going great, then I saw a tinder messageYes. Block and move on. He’s trash. He’s not HV until at least 6 months later. What men do at the beginning is mostly a front driven by their lust. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 09:17 PM |
| – | Do you find yourself comparing yourself to your ex’s new girl? If not, how do you refrain from doing that?You can post this on r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 09:16 PM |
| – | Comfort women, but make it woke!This has been posted before. Deleted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 09:12 PM |
| 1 | I find the casual cohabitation culture to be repulsive I don’t know whyBumping you down to FDS Newbie for this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 07:56 PM |
| 69 | Can't even mention this sub to my guy friends...The hate is unjustified to be honest. The moment a man tells me FDS is the red pill for women, that’s when I know he’s a lazy, judgmental person who can’t be bothered to learn what we’re about. Men are so quick to judge FDS when they have no idea what they’re talking about. What’s also funny is that they don’t care that there are a lot more material on the web that talk about how to manipulate women into having sex. Men don’t hold other men accountable, but will sure as fuck hold women accountab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 06:23 PM |
| – | Need reassurance that I did the right thing in leaving himR/AskFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 06:20 PM |
| 20 | I love you all💖♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 06:20 PM |
| 19 | OLD - how to handle messaging to connect?Bumble attracts the type of man who wishes the woman would make the first move – some of them because they think they’re hot stuff. I’d stay away from Bumble if I were you and stick to other dating sites where it’s expected that a man will make the first move. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 06:23 AM |
| 28 | I find the casual cohabitation culture to be repulsive I don’t know whyNot moving in with a BF before engagement or marriage is ABSOLUTELY a core principle of FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 06:20 AM |
| 13 | It’s not empowerment if your power lies in the hands of a manWhat’s empowering is gaining skills and making money using your mind and creativity, NOT sex work. You’re not taking advantage of society’s objectification of you. You’re being a willing victim of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 06:14 AM |
| – | My boyfriend is HV but he has no initiative. Should I just accept this is how he is?He’s not HV. Taking initiative is one of the most fundamental things a man has to do to be HV. Ask your question on r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 12:03 AM |
| – | Just read the handbook and disagree with a few thingsIf you don’t agree with our core principles, FDS isn’t for you. FDS isn’t a regular relationship sub. If that’s what you’re looking for, you can go to relationship_advice. | /r/askFDS | 10/10/20 10:36 PM |
| 28 | Excuse me, what the actual f*ck?He sounds sweet. 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 07:50 PM |
| 4 | I don't know why our culture lets this soft pedo shit fly like it's not problematic AF. Why do so many of LibFem sexual fantasies center around abuse of power? They'll juxtapose bullshit like this next to a 10,000 word essay wondering why rape culture continues to exist.THAT SUB WTF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 04:37 PM |
| 7 | please take the time to watch this 1 minute video on reactive abuse.Oh God, that’s scary. I’m glad you weren’t harmed in the end because your ex sounds absolutely fucking crazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 04:31 PM |
| 10 | please take the time to watch this 1 minute video on reactive abuse.“The root is giving men chances.” This is why I’m never doing that again. Fuck up once and you’re out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 04:30 PM |
| 7 | please take the time to watch this 1 minute video on reactive abuse.100%. This should be taught in schools to younger people. Teach them early so they know what to look out for and won’t be completely clueless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 04:29 PM |
| 47 | Fuck dudes I’m not dating againAlmost always there’s no crazy ex-girlfriend, and it’s the man who’s being abusive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Guys. I love you, but I don't think I need you anymoreYou’ll always need FDS if you want to have a good relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 04:07 PM |
| 10 | Recognize when you’re doing this and block that man on everything for real. When you’re really over him, you won’t need him to see you leveling up.This is very important. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 04:58 PM |
| 1 | How to be a femme fatale.I like these tips. They’re definitely more “strategic” than the average FDS post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 06:25 PM |
| 89 | Don’t Let Men Dictate Your Life DecisionsMen don’t see it as a big deal. It’s just expected that you’ll have kids for them. When you voice your concerns, they don’t take it seriously because we’re just supposed to hear it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 04:28 AM |
| 77 | Don’t Let Men Dictate Your Life DecisionsSame. I’m not putting myself through that for anyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 04:28 AM |
| 49 | The audacity of this LVM to ask me to take him on a date.. OLD is full of them.What is it with some men thinking that they’re the prize? Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 12:40 AM |
| 10 | Excuses so common we’ve all heard them.Haha, I love her 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 10:52 PM |
| 3 | I “ built a man up” and now I know why a lot of women refuse to do so anymore.I literally gasped when I read that your ex-husband impregnated a 16-year-old girl! I 100% stand with the idea of NOT building a man up. He’ll never be grateful to you and he’ll just dump you for a younger woman while you spent hours working to help him out. You’re improving his life while he gets much better returns. NEVER build a man up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 06:15 PM |
| – | need help!Read the handbook. Use the search bar. If you have any more questions, post this on r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 06:06 PM |
| – | First date- confusedRead the handbook. Use the search bar. If you have any more questions, post this on r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 06:00 PM |
| – | Boyfriend of 2.5 months ... Are these red flags?Post this on r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 05:59 PM |
| 3 | It’s not possible to tell if a man is high value after a few dates/weeks/months. Vetting is an ongoing process, and you should be glad that it isLove this! The vetting never stops. 👌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 05:52 PM |
| 13 | I have decided to date myself, & Thursday nights are date nights!😂🙌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 05:32 AM |
| 26 | I’m really disappointed and y’all are the only ones who will understand.People think it’s about the material aspect in itself, but really, it’s about what it represents... how little you mean to the other person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 11:20 PM |
| 194 | I’m really disappointed and y’all are the only ones who will understand.Breaking up with a man over a shitty gift is 100% justified. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 06:21 PM |
| 1 | The prenup myth - why does it exist?That makes sense! It's definitely something that needs to be discussed before getting married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 04:04 PM |
| 29 | Her post versus his... and she’s posting about how it’s ‘cute’ and ‘funny.’ It’s like no... he did this for his own selfish gain and not for you, how is this cute?If a man doesn’t do anything that wows me during my birthday/V-Day/anniversary, that’s a serious enough reason to break up with him. Not gonna date men who do the bare fucking minimum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 03:54 PM |
| 2 | The prenup myth - why does it exist?But isn’t it fair for the SAHM to receive something after a divorce? They didn’t work to take care of the kids and the household, and after divorce, they get nothing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 03:50 PM |
| 0 | The prenup myth - why does it exist?A lot of MGTOWs act as if they’re the prize who women want to “steal money from” when they in fact make under 100k. Doesn’t make sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 03:49 PM |
| 142 | Racial fetishization and pedophilia. He wonders if he should learn to speak Chinese so he can have a better chance of targeting women that have the body type of school boys. Reddit is a cesspool of depraved LVMsAnd funny how they call those women leftovers to make them feel bad when it’s women who have the power. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 03:39 PM |
| 20 | Girl this is not it.This is exactly it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:09 PM |
| 42 | I'm so proud of you ladies. Whenever I see a woman on another subreddit who could use our help, I send her a DM invitation. Seems many of you are doing the same! Keep it up, it is our sacred duty to uplift women especially when they have been trampled by patriarchy. Cheers to 100K! 🥳🍻🎉🥂👯♀️🍻🎊Same! We’re changing lives one at a time! 🍹 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:07 PM |
| – | We fucked on the first and second dates- will there be a third date?Girl — read the handbook and use the search bar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 07:12 PM |
| 53 | We made it! FDS has 100,000 members!Love you, gals! 🥰 Let’s change the world one member at a time. Next up — 200k! 🍾🍾🍾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 07:10 PM |
| 6 | This is how I feel about you ladies!🙌🏻❣️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:41 AM |
| 26 | I made you all a guide to the PERFECT walking date outfit - just to keep it nice and "casual" for him 😉Yes!!! NO MAN IS WORTH THE UV RAYS 😂👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:32 AM |
| 19 | 40yo women seem to be giving up on dating, 40yo men are getting extra desperate to convince them to change their minds. Can any 40+ FDSers confirm this observation?Send me an invite as well! 👋🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 10:11 PM |
| 38 | Why Justice RBG’s Husband was a HVM.A true HVM!❣️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 07:10 AM |
| – | Friends with exThread locked. Please post your personal question on r/AskFDS. I’m aware that you just want validation from us that it’s okay to dump your shitty ex. (Please do. You’re better off single than stressed.) You can post it there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 07:08 AM |
| 3 | Incels new chart about women.😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 04:03 AM |
| 28 | Guy I’ve been dating for a couple months texted me to say he’ll be busy this weekend and nextTime to detach from him and get your life back in order. You’re depending too much on him for your happiness. Search for posts on FDS on how to detach from a man. Stop placing too much importance in him. Make more friends who can fulfill your social needs. Also, how much of the handbook have you read? | /r/askFDS | 19/09/20 03:46 AM |
| – | The Notorious Ruth Bader Ginsburg is dead.Repeat post. Please post in the other thread. 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 11:51 PM |
| 35 | In MemoriamRIP 😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 11:50 PM |
| – | I want to make my own decisions and be freePost this on r/femalelevelupstrategy or r/askFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 11:36 PM |
| – | Do you 10Q? You should! I’ve been doing it for years, and it helps me see my growth and what I need to work on.Post this on r/femalelevelupstrategy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 11:23 PM |
| 3 | Joining the Level Up / Vision Board Fun. This will be me in a few short years.I love this one! Saving it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 10:43 PM |
| 1 | How to move on from someone you didn’t even date?You’re welcome! | /r/askFDS | 17/09/20 07:44 PM |
| 1 | You are never late to FDS. You can vet your current relationship or marriage even right now. It’s not late.Leave him then? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 05:35 PM |
| 11 | Why are most men so unattractive?Thank you. We want FDS to stay up. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Why are most men so unattractive?Hey, tone down on the male hate please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 05:17 AM |
| – | Why do boundaries feel so shitty??He’s an ass. Keep him blocked. You want to be a queen in your own right, no? Don’t feel guilty about removing someone shitty from your life. Don’t look back. Thread locked. Please post your personal question on r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 05:13 AM |
| 84 | What do you guys think? Did I make the right choice?Why would you go out with a man using a burner phone? It’s alright for women to have it since we encounter a lot of creeps, but for a man to be doing that? Nah, he’s hiding something. He’s probably cheating on some other girl. | /r/askFDS | 17/09/20 05:11 AM |
| 54 | So I made a collage of a modern desi girl's worst nightmares..to remind myself of the kind of toxicity that's ready to suck me in if I don't run fastGirl, don't even entertain Indian men. At the end of it, their parents will never accept you and they will choose their parents over you. The parental control is too strong and they have no backbone. Indian men are their mama's boy. Don't even bother with them. I've heard so many horror stories of them leaving their non-Indian GF when they introduce her to his parents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 04:11 AM |
| 4 | Hopping on the wholesome collage bandwagon! Thanks for the inspiration ladies.This is super cute! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 04:07 AM |
| 65 | So I made a collage of a modern desi girl's worst nightmares..to remind myself of the kind of toxicity that's ready to suck me in if I don't run fastFrom what I've read, it sounds like typically, the "husband" doesn't give a fuck that his wife is unhappy. He'll take his parents' side over his wife's. Indian men have no backbone. They just follow whatever their parents tell them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 04:02 AM |
| 6 | Truth.I love this. <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 04:00 AM |
| – | Make sure he’s adding value to your life and not extra responsibilitiesThis is a repeat post. Thread locked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Do I cancel?Sounds like he just wants to hook up. Thread locked. Read the handbook and use the search bar to look for old posts relevant to your situation! Then, you can post your question on r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Approved! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Approved! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Approved! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Approved! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Approved! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Approved. ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Approved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Post more in FDS :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:25 AM |
| 2 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Approved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Draconian sexist mindsets/laws that force women to have to run an obstacle course to get tubes tied vs men getting a vasectomyThis post pissed me off. Seriously. So unfair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Approved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:21 AM |
| 5 | Thoughts?Men who are disrespectful, sure, you can stand firm like this author says, and then maybe he'll come to respect you and you'll be seen as "different" compared to other women. But so what? He was disrespectful then, he'll be disrespectful in the future since it's still his true self. He's probably just pretending to be tamed by you so that he can sleep with you. It's not worth it. If a man offers you something low value, you don't throw him back another idea that will seemingly make him think of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Approved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts at my cousin's weddingIf my new husband does that to me, we'll be getting divorced the next day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Approved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Approved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Question: What is the best way to decline a kiss or other unwanted physical contact on a date?Disgusting! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:07 AM |
| 0 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.ErikaNaumann, You suggested going for coffee on the first date. You're better off doing a pre-date phone call than going to the trouble of a low-effort coffee date. That also sets a lazy precedence for the man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:05 AM |
| 2 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Approved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Approved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Approved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Approved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Approved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:56 AM |
| 2 | How to move on from someone you didn’t even date?You don’t really have high standards though if you’re emotionally investing in a man who won’t even date you. | /r/askFDS | 16/09/20 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.And you‘ve committed to him even though it has only been a month? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 05:36 AM |
| 2 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Approved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Hey! How long did you vet your current boyfriend? It sounds like 20 days ago, you were just going on a third date with a guy (I assume this is the same guy)? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 05:28 AM |
| – | Thoughts on exotic dancing to get through university?FDS is against sex work, including stripping. It’s also against dating much older men. Post this question on r/AskFDS so the ladies there can give you thorough advice on why you shouldn’t proceed down this path. Add more details for me to approve it. I’d rather you get advice from us so you won’t choose this path than from other subreddits who will tell you that it’s empowering to be a stripper. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Overly EmotionalThread locked. Read the handbook and use the search bar to look for old posts relevant to your situation! Then, you can post your question on r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 05:04 AM |
| 7 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Approved 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Approved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 04:59 AM |
| 3 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Approved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 04:50 AM |
| 2 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Approved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 04:46 AM |
| 2 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Approved! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 04:43 AM |
| 7 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.I see! Glad you dumped your ex. No 50/50 here. Anyway, please post more and then you can apply again later! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 04:41 AM |
| 6 | How to move on from someone you didn’t even date?I think you idealize him too much. You barely even know the guy. You need to have higher standards in the type of man you invest your feelings for. Level up. | /r/askFDS | 16/09/20 04:16 AM |
| 9 | How to move on from someone you didn’t even date?I think you feel that way because you feel like you’ve lost out on someone valuable, right? You’re placing too much value on him. Yes, you “felt” something for him, but it’s a bit misguided, no? He didn’t want to work it out with you, so he’s not the person that is worth all of this suffering for. In love, you shouldn’t have to suffer, and if he didn’t want to make it work with you, he’s not the one. FDS women only entertain men who show interest in them. If a man loses interest, she doesn’t tak… | /r/askFDS | 16/09/20 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Please post more first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Approved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 04:01 AM |
| 2 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Approved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 03:59 AM |
| 3 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Approved | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 03:57 AM |
| 4 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.You have posts about giving your boyfriend a care package. Has he made similar effort towards you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 03:56 AM |
| 6 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.You posted on RPW. I’m sure you’re aware how harmful their advice is. Also, what happened with you and your boyfriend? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 03:55 AM |
| 3 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Approved | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 03:53 AM |
| 3 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Approved! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 03:49 AM |
| 2 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Approved! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 03:21 AM |
| 2 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Approved! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 03:20 AM |
| 2 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Approved! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 03:18 AM |
| 66 | Are men actually bad at texting or is this just an excuse?It’s just an excuse. It doesn’t sound like he’s that interested in you. Anyone can appear present or interested on dates, but you have to observe how they are in between those dates where you’re not physically present. If you feel like what a man isn’t doing is enough, it’s not. Because when a man is truly interested, you’ll just know it. You don’t have to question yourself. | /r/askFDS | 16/09/20 03:13 AM |
| 8 | My sister is the biggest pickmeisha of all time. She realizes it is bad every single time (after it bites her hard), and I always think she has had a breakthrough, but she never actually changes and repeatedly gets with NVM or even worse. How can I help her?You can give her “The Rules” book. | /r/askFDS | 16/09/20 03:08 AM |
| 4 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.I love your name! Approved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 03:03 AM |
| 2 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Done! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Done! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Done! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Yes, I just gave it to you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 02:52 AM |
| 3 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Done! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 02:46 AM |
| 8 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Just approved you! Members can now comment on this post to get approved there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 02:25 AM |
| 5 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.Just approved you! Members can now comment on this post to get approved there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 02:25 AM |
| – | acceptable covid-proof dates?Approving this post since this is a discussion that can benefit not just the OP, but also those currently looking to date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 02:06 AM |
| – | My reaction when the entire comments section of that post is filled with LVM vilifying her and saying things like "oh but if a MAN says this about WOMEN it's WRONG" as if men haven't been saying this very thing about women since the beginning of time.Less focus on LVM, please. Thread locked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 02:04 AM |
| 41 | The collage thing...I love this energy! Let’s make more collages on how we can be a HVW! 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 02:00 AM |
| 50 | OLD strategy for unacceptable datesI’m not currently dating right now, but if a man offers me a low value date, I’m not even going to tell him that I deserve a better date. I’ll just hit that block button because I don’t entertain lazy men. I’m not gonna be like, “I prefer dinner dates :)” Nah, fuck that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 01:18 AM |
| 1 | I deleted his number (!)I’m glad you’re making progress. However, I think you need to read more deeply into FDS principles, because you shouldn’t be getting excited over a man you haven’t even met. Thread locked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 01:14 AM |
| 37 | I invested so much for nothingnessYou haven’t read the handbook or the search bar. FDS women don’t approach any man, we don’t travel to them, we don’t initiate contact of any kind. Now you can spend time catching up on FDS principles. | /r/askFDS | 16/09/20 01:11 AM |
| 20 | How to move on from someone you didn’t even date?Block him. Work on yourself and self-love. Spend your energy learning FDS principles so you don’t make the same mistake ever again. | /r/askFDS | 16/09/20 01:10 AM |
| 165 | I thought I married a HVM, but not 2 months in and red flags are starting to show.Shut down. Don’t show any affection. Treat him neutrally, like a roommate. He doesn’t deserve any positive or negative attention from you, so take it away. Focus your time and energy doing other activities and spend less time with him. If he asks you what’s wrong, say everything is fine, then later when he asks again, you can say that you’re disappointed with his behavior. If he doesn’t change after that or he blames it on you, keep being distant. Don’t stop being distant until he acts like how … | /r/askFDS | 16/09/20 01:09 AM |
| – | Feeling a lil upsetIt looks like you’re new to FDS principles. Read the handbook and use the search bar FIRST. Then, if you have more questions, you can ask it on r/AskFDS. Thread locked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 01:03 AM |
| 1 | How do I let older guys in public know I’m into them?FDS doesn’t recommend dating older men or approaching any man or making the first move. Read the handbook and use the search bar FIRST. Then, if you have more questions, you can ask it on r/AskFDS. Thread locked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Am I in the wrong for not wanting the marriage?Thread locked. Ask your question on r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 01:00 AM |
| 1 | I felt like this is relevant to this subreddit and might uplift some women here. Never lower yourself ,your standards, or your boundaries for anyone.Repeat post. Thread locked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 12:58 AM |
| – | Ghosted on my first tinder date ever, after a 5 year breakup.Use the search bar. Ask your question in r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 11:59 PM |
| 78 | Covid-19 is showing me that my HVM really is just a pig in a Prada scarfe.Remember to also pull back hard. Don’t reward him for his bad behavior. Bad attention is still attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:07 AM |
| – | How to deal with intrusive thoughts regarding ex-HVMAsk this question on r/askFDS. Use the search bar as well on how to get over an ex. Personally, I’d stop putting my life on hold if I were you. You need to fully move on first if you ever hope to get into another relationship again. If this man was actually a HVM, he won’t let his dream girl go like that. He’s using you as a backup plan. Stop romanticizing him, thinking that he’s not seeing other women. You don’t know that. He let you go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 01:15 PM |
| 1 | I'm really struggling about my most recent ex.Ask this question on r/askFDS. Use the search bar as well on how to get over an ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 01:11 PM |
| 47 | Men trying to get with you when they know you're in a relationship isn't flattery, it's an insult.I can’t fathom how some men think like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 01:08 PM |
| 7 | Imagine paying double the rent for the privilege of being a man’s room mateI think it’ll be worth it. At least give her the chance to decide if it’s right for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 12:51 PM |
| 12 | It workedDon’t cancel your existing plans for a date. Don’t date a man who gets too hungover to go on a date with you. Don’t date a man who can’t show up to a first date, regardless of the reason. Next this man and block him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 12:35 PM |
| 8 | Imagine paying double the rent for the privilege of being a man’s room mateOP, please share this post with the poster through DM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 12:31 PM |
| 4 | The vitamins. Professional, personal & sensory. When they are fulfilled a partner is not necessary but an addition.I love this post! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 12:27 PM |
| 14 | How to ask what he’s looking forHow much of the handbook have you read? | /r/askFDS | 14/09/20 05:57 AM |
| – | What is the general view on dating younger?Use the search bar and if you haven't found an answer yet, head on over to r/AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 05:53 AM |
| – | Dating tips =)Locked thread. OP, read the handbook first and familiarize yourself more with FDS principles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 05:49 AM |
| 55 | Decided to take a look lmaoPeople who complain about FDS are too lazy to spend even 20 minutes trying to understand this philosophy. They'd go to our sub, see us complain about how men are shitty to warn women to be careful, and they're like, "REEEEEEE." I can't take anyone seriously if they come to me saying that FDS is the red pill version for women or saying that we advocate manipulation. We're the best thing since sliced bread. Anyone who thinks otherwise is either too brainwashed by liberal feminism or they hate wome… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 05:43 AM |
| 4 | Why is dating in your late 30s/early 40s so hard?At this point, you don't need a man, you need a transformation. You need to get to the point where you've truly internalized the fact that you're in charge of your happiness before dating again. You're the first person in your life who you should be seeking approval from (and giving yourself that said approval). You are the one who can generate these feelings of confidence and self-love. You also need to understand that 99% of men out there ain't shit. If they treated you badly like that, it's a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 05:31 AM |
| 5 | Struggling with bad breakup from LVM exHave you used the search bar in the main FDS sub? It helped me a lot when I was going through one. | /r/askFDS | 14/09/20 03:30 AM |
| 8 | If men are 'more visual', why are they ugly?😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:29 AM |
| 57 | If you're not married, you are SINGLE. Point blank.She’s not advocating seeing other people, but she’s reminder us that until we’re legally married, it’s not that stable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:23 AM |
| 79 | Keep Him Blocked.. Forever!Wow, so has he regularly been spamming you for years just in the hopes that you’ll respond? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:09 AM |
| 4 | Been seeing each other 4 months - how to DTR?So you’re gonna wait for 1-2 months for this guy so you can have that exclusivity talk? Also, he said he wasn’t seeing anyone else on the third date? Girl, maybe around that time, but if he really wasn’t seeing anyone else, he would have already asked you for exclusivity. You’re putting your life on hold for this man. I think you need to have more pride in yourself. Dump someone who hasn’t asked you for exclusivity in 2 months. You’re not some chick who’s just gonna wait 2-3 months for some dude… | /r/askFDS | 13/09/20 04:28 PM |
| 3 | Don’t do it sis.People who got fucked over “deserve whatever shit comes to them.” I understand personal responsibility, but your comment is quite judgmental. “Sorry about y’all who got fucked over tho.” Like who says that? We don’t need your negative vibes in this community. 👋🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 04:17 PM |
| 12 | Don’t do it sis.Even though a man might seem HV, he can always become a LVM. We have to watch out for men with the tendency to get bored with their partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 04:04 PM |
| 5 | Don’t do it sis.And any man who dismisses this real concern is a LVM. I’m glad it worked out for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Don’t do it sis.This is all so complicated and from the quality of men we have these days, it doesn’t sound like marriage is worth it, especially if the husband turns out to be a LVM in the end. It’s making me consider not getting married at all. 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 03:58 PM |
| 5 | Been seeing each other 4 months - how to DTR?Exactly. This is way too much time. He’s not into her. | /r/askFDS | 13/09/20 08:21 AM |
| 10 | Been seeing each other 4 months - how to DTR?If he hasn’t asked you for exclusivity within 3 months, he’s not that into you. Date other men till you become exclusive with someone. | /r/askFDS | 13/09/20 08:21 AM |
| 4 | Been seeing each other 4 months - how to DTR?I’d think about dumping him at this point. 4 months and he’s not itching to make you guys exclusive. At the very least, you need to cut down the amount you spend together and your emotional investment in him into half. Also, you don’t know for sure that he’s not seeing someone else, so I’d be careful about that. Even if you think you know, you never really know. | /r/askFDS | 13/09/20 08:19 AM |
| 5 | To block or not to blockProud of you. | /r/askFDS | 13/09/20 08:17 AM |
| 3 | Found out my #1 celebrity crush accidentally released nudes and took 2 seconds to accurately think about what looking them up would mean:He’s such a cutie. I love him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 08:14 AM |
| 56 | Scrote want to have sex with a prostitute because his wife refuses to submit to a painful sex act. DIVORCE HIM.This so much. If a man mentions anal to you, he’s most likely porn sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 08:04 AM |
| 20 | Quinn is often seen as an airhead, but she actually exudes pure FDS energy.💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 08:01 AM |
| 150 | Don't worry, he's very attentive, buys her gifts and is not all abusive. The woman is risking her health, going through all the pain, but "oh no, what about my dick? :(("And this is one of the reasons why I’ll never bear a child for any man. 🙅🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 08:00 AM |
| 1 | I’ve never seen a more accurate depiction of marriage before this one... It’s funny (but depressing), because it’s true! 😂If some women want to be high earners, there’s nothing wrong with that. If that doesn’t apply to you, move on. FDS hasn’t said anything about your worth being tied to how much you earn. It’s very accepting of women from all income levels. Getting offended that women express that they want to make more doesn’t make sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 11:33 PM |
| 12 | Dick is abundant and low valueThis made me chuckle 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 10:19 PM |
| 55 | What’s been your personal experience with making the first moves?Men like saying that women should ask men out, that’s it’s... “the 21st century already” and “it’s for equality.” It’s not because they’re forward-thinking male feminists. They just want to make it easier for themselves to get laid. Also, men will rarely value you if you ask them out and initiate everything. Men WANT the pursuit. You also don’t get the chance to filter out half-interested men. You know, the type of men who otherwise wouldn’t pursue you if you had left them along but they’ll say … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 10:22 PM |
| – | Was it wrong for me to ghost on him?Read the handbook. Use the search bar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 10:16 PM |
| 25 | This is scary. We need to secure our rights.Same. I can’t imagine myself getting pregnant. Too many risks and you also destroy your body with it. No, thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 08:22 PM |
| 33 | FDS Mantras as quick reminders. Any suggestions?If you have to wonder, he probably doesn’t care about you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 06:42 AM |
| 15 | FDS Mantras as quick reminders. Any suggestions?A classic 🙌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 06:41 AM |
| – | Can you please explain me this kind of behaviour?Read the handbook. Use the search bar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 06:13 AM |
| 10 | I feel like FDS is the only place I can breathe.I second this 😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Any tips on not getting involved emotionally earlier on?Read the handbook. Search for posts on emotional detachment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 06:18 AM |
| 282 | Why do men online always have such a negative reaction/hangups over dinner dates?? Yet they want to meet you ASAPIf you’re talking on the phone and he says that dinner dates are too much, you just calmly say, “Cool. Well, I gotta go. Bye.” Then you block him. Don’t spare him an ounce of your emotional energy. You’re not even angry. You don’t feel anything. He is simply... inconsequential. A queen doesn’t get fazed by a LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 06:13 AM |
| 9 | Getting a place together then going 50:50?You don’t move in with a man till you get engaged at the very least. That’s moving too fast for a man who basically hasn’t at least shown that he wants to take it to the next level. Living with you should be fiancé/wife privilege. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 01:25 AM |
| 10 | Am I the only one who does not consider videocall, zoom, facetime, etc "dates" and think it is lowkey an excuse for lazy men to be lazy?Nah. I’m not going on a date during a pandemic when we don’t even have a vaccine yet. Men can wait. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Advice about making the first move online?Read the handbook. FDS women don’t chase. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:25 PM |
| 50 | Anyone tried this?Give them a solid first impression. Then several dates in, relax and see how they react as a test. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:19 PM |
| 119 | BF is upset that his best friend is dating his ex. Now we are on a break.It’s pretty straightforward. You’ll be played like a fool if you go back to him. Your choice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 04:30 AM |
| 3 | Never put yourself down for your past choice in menRead the handbook to never let men use you again like this. Master the principles. Use the search bar to look up certain keywords so you can learn more about specific topics. Learn and grow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 03:50 AM |
| 194 | BF is upset that his best friend is dating his ex. Now we are on a break.Dump him. He’s not over his ex. You deserve a man who only has eyes for you and who is certain about you. Make that break permanent. There can be no going back after what he did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 03:38 AM |
| 102 | No words.I hope he does her a favor and leaves her. Imagine having a husband who’s this much of a scrote. I’d rather be single forever than put up with a man like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:44 AM |
| 79 | Ignoring Red Flags in DatingThe age gap is a red flag. The ghosting you is a red flag. Block this man and read the handbook. Hell, everything on this subreddit. Use the search bar if you want to read advice on specific topics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:42 AM |
| 35 | What’s the general consensus for meet and greets?I don’t do meet and greets. Moving forward, I’ll be doing a pre-date phone screening to ask him some questions to see if it even makes sense to meet. I’m not gonna meet with someone who I haven’t qualified in some way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:41 AM |
| 40 | A precautionary tale, of flags, boundaries and what lies deep under the 'cover'...This is why I’ll never take a month seriously till it’s at least 9 months of consistent good behavior from him. Otherwise, he’s just a temporary thing and I won’t be too upset if he leaves. You don’t really know a man till later. How many months did it take for him to show his true colors? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:39 AM |
| 65 | Am I the only one who does not consider videocall, zoom, facetime, etc "dates" and think it is lowkey an excuse for lazy men to be lazy?This is why I’m not dating at all and will only resume once everything is back to normal-ish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:36 AM |
| – | After three months of dating this guy, he shoots me down multiple times over the past few weeks because work is just sooooOooo crazy.FDS women don’t initiate dates. Read the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:35 AM |
| 73 | Why do men think stuff like this is going to make us want them? 🙄If I see a man has a photo of himself with a woman on Tinder, I automatically swipe left. Men like that think that being with another woman in a photo will somehow increase his SMV and make us think that he’s desired, but all I can think of his how much triangulation I’ll face in the future. This is the kind of guy who has close female friends who he claims he’s not attracted to but you know he is but they just don’t give him the chance. Ew. Hard pass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:30 AM |
| 84 | The ending was so refreshing.Fucking queen 👑 Please DM her a link to this page! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:27 AM |
| 3 | A scrote has some of my stuff he isnt giving backYour mom’s advice is petty and immature. If you want to follow her advice, go ahead, but FDS isn’t the right place to ask for advice if you’re just going to do whatever you want anyway even though we’re telling you that’s a bad idea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 08:22 PM |
| 10 | I’m out of words.😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 05:57 PM |
| 211 | Flew across the country for a guy, heard him matching with girls on Tinder in the middle of the night.First of all, you don’t travel to meet a man. He comes to you. Don’t ever pay for your own plane tickets too or your food or your transportation. Did you even read the handbook? You need to block him from everything and do a deep dive into FDS principles. Spend plenty of hours reading the posts here and you can see your mistakes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 05:03 PM |
| 124 | Guy harasses, makes false accusation, shows threatening behaviour and then still expects me to be interested?He showed his true colors. Boy, bye. 🚮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:59 PM |
| 6 | A scrote has some of my stuff he isnt giving backYour peace of mind is more valuable than whatever disrespect or lack of character you perceive from him. It doesn’t matter that he’s being disrespectful. You already left so don’t look back. Choose to not bother yourself with entertaining a LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:55 PM |
| 129 | "I will kill us both"Yep! As soon as someone shows you who they are, don’t give them the benefit of the doubt, BELIEVE THEM! We usually break up with guys over things that we already spotted earlier on in the relationship, but we just ignored them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:53 PM |
| 2 | This is by far the most repulsive LV behavior a man can have.. wanting a woman to woo him. 🤮 That’s so effeminate. Hobbies include video games and makes 50k a year. Any takers? Nah passWhat cultures do you recommend then? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:46 PM |
| 7 | I’m out of words.Because he tried to cheat?!! Holy moly 🚮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:44 PM |
| 3 | I’m out of words.Forward her this thread! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:43 PM |
| 26 | I’m out of words.Yup. This is why I’m going to ask guys what they did wrong in their previous relationship, what they could’ve done better, and how that relationship made him grow. If he can’t take accountability for what he did wrong in that relationship and admit to it, that would be a yellow flag for me. Whatever their story is, I’m going to take it with a grain of salt because it’s most likely going to be unreliable, where they’ll paint themselves as the victim who did nothing wrong. Men like to think they h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:42 PM |
| 15 | All the indicators...LVM logic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:38 PM |
| 7 | All the indicators...Not being harsh at all! You were very polite and tolerant of his LVM ass. You gave him 3 chances but he still blew it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:37 PM |
| 17 | Can men and women be just friends?This. Women can be just friends with men and women, but I question men’s friendship with other women. They tend to sexualize even their friends. I don’t trust it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:09 PM |
| 11 | I feel insecureI’m petite but I’d love to be 5’10. Rock it, girl! Lots of guys out there who prefer taller women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 05:26 AM |
| 33 | Guy (43m) says I (37f) talk too much. Played it off like he was teasing me and I was being sensitive by getting insulted. Is this a neg or playful teasing or a flat-out insult? What does he possibly hope to gain by being so rude?This is an instance where you promptly block someone if they did that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 05:25 AM |
| 22 | I Never thought I would agree with Tomi Lahren but Politics aside she's on point here!I was pleasantly surprised by this video! Even she's tired of putting up with men's BS and acknowledges that maybe men are the problem, that women all over the country have some sort of issue with a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 07:21 PM |
| 17 | be careful with guys who seem HVM or overly interested early on!Yep. And it will crack in over 70% of men who make it past 3 months. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 02:39 AM |
| 7 | She bought her fiancé a house and he wouldn't move with her, nor would he look for a better-paying job... this is why a proposal doesn't necessarily mean a happy endingDating below our league doesn't benefit us at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 01:58 AM |
| 16 | She bought her fiancé a house and he wouldn't move with her, nor would he look for a better-paying job... this is why a proposal doesn't necessarily mean a happy endingMen are overconfident while women tend to be underconfident. It should be the other way around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 01:58 AM |
| – | The MOST embarrassing thing I've ever seen..This is a repost. Deleted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 01:41 AM |
| 33 | Boyfriend of 2 years ghosted me after a fight and I feel like an idiot.Hey, don’t be so harsh on yourself. I’m proud of you for having the strength to block him after what he did to you. :) What you feel is normal. I was feeling ashamed of myself too after my most recent breakup, because here I was, one of the OG mods of FDS, but I still got myself into a bad situation because I kept giving my ex chances / didn’t want to believe that he meant to be disrespectful towards me. I’m an expert in applying FDS during the early stages in a relationship, but I’ve never appl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 01:14 AM |
| 76 | be careful with guys who seem HVM or overly interested early on!A man doesn’t show his true colors until 4-6 months into a relationship, so I’d never consider a man to be HV until a lot more time has passed. Not even a year in. He’ll have to pass a lot of tests before I would give him that title. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 01:01 AM |
| 14 | I’ve leveled up in every way, on paperYou have to learn deep down that you deserve better behavior from a partner. A queen doesn’t pine over an ant who’s of zero value to her. She only considers those who put in effort towards making her happy. If that person stops making her happy? She walks away. Also, why miss a scrote who’s only given you heartache and pain? You can do better than that. He’s not the person that you thought he was, so why miss him? You can miss him if he’s amazing, but he’s not, so boy bye! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 12:58 AM |
| 34 | She bought her fiancé a house and he wouldn't move with her, nor would he look for a better-paying job... this is why a proposal doesn't necessarily mean a happy endingIf you look at the photos, you’re just like, whatttt, girl, you can do so much better and there’s literally nothing special about this scrote? I think she’s just so attached and she doesn’t know how to live life without him. I hope she makes better decisions from now on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 08:45 PM |
| 148 | LVM masquerading as HVM...never trust 'em ladies!We literally have to be prepared to walk out at anytime because men can switch up on us from out of nowhere. The moment he showed that he hasn’t prepared for the date should have been the cue to block him. I’m not telling you this to blame you, I’m just annoyed at your behalf because you don’t deserve that kind of half-ass treatment! Once a man shows us his lack of regard for us or that he doesn’t value us as well as he should, that’s our cue to walk away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 08:42 PM |
| 1 | My mistake for swiping on the guy with one photo 😆😆Image not showing up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 08:38 PM |
| 129 | She bought her fiancé a house and he wouldn't move with her, nor would he look for a better-paying job... this is why a proposal doesn't necessarily mean a happy endingShe literally looks like a model and has her shit together, but a scrote who is NOWHERE near her league has the audacity to treat her like this. Jesus Christ. How a man treats you literally isn’t a reflection of your value as a person. It’s a reflection of them. You can be the most amazing person in the world and you’ll still be treated like shit if you don’t vet a man well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 08:38 PM |
| – | I feel conflicted with his texting??Read the handbook and search for posts related to this issue. This is very basic stuff. You should block him, don’t engage further, and read EVERYTHING on this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Remain committed to the light at the end of the tunnelThis is a great message. 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 05:11 PM |
| 65 | Trust your instincts: If you feel like something is wrong with him, there is.My gut feeling told me that my ex was going to be physically abusive the first time I met him (he wasn’t doing anything abusive towards me at all, but the way he acted made me think he was like that for some reason). I was right, and it took me 10 months to leave him because he made me doubt my perception of reality and made me feel like I was being too harsh on him (for standing up for myself, I suppose, like I cringe now, thinking about the shit I put up with). He was emotionally abusive and a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 05:04 PM |
| 1 | My dad is such a LVMPlease only write posts that add value to the sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:57 PM |
| 30 | LIARS CLUB: Isn’t it incredible how easy they lie? It’s literally like breathing- thank you to the sis at the car dealership who worked with me to catch a CHEATERThis is why women should always trust their intuition! Literally, I was having dinner one day, when I decided to check on something and I found proof that my ex wasn’t honest with me. It was a random thing, a weird feeling, that got me to check it, and I was right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:55 PM |
| 38 | LIARS CLUB: Isn’t it incredible how easy they lie? It’s literally like breathing- thank you to the sis at the car dealership who worked with me to catch a CHEATERThe DARVO/gaslighting combo is so fucking lethal. This is why women should ALWAYS trust their intuition and perception about men. Don’t doubt yourself. Put your perception first above anyone else’s, no matter how much they insist that their version of reality is correct. Nope. You know what you saw. Your gut feeling is telling you something important because she’s trying to protect you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:52 PM |
| 35 | LIARS CLUB: Isn’t it incredible how easy they lie? It’s literally like breathing- thank you to the sis at the car dealership who worked with me to catch a CHEATEROh no, she stayed 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:49 PM |
| 36 | LIARS CLUB: Isn’t it incredible how easy they lie? It’s literally like breathing- thank you to the sis at the car dealership who worked with me to catch a CHEATERYes! When you’re being gaslighted by the person who’s supposed to be the one person who loves you a lot, you doubt that they mean it that way and surely he couldn’t be bad? Trauma bonding, having your perception questioned is going to make you doubt yourself. It’s easy to say to leave an abusive guy when you’re not dealing with the emotional side of things. It’s a great feeling though when you finally leave. You’re going to realize later that you’ve been treated like shit and how you will NEVER … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:47 PM |
| 33 | LIARS CLUB: Isn’t it incredible how easy they lie? It’s literally like breathing- thank you to the sis at the car dealership who worked with me to catch a CHEATERNope, calling up a store to verify his story IS something that you should be proud of because you were just protecting yourself by making sure that you’re not being lied to. Don’t gaslight yourself into thinking otherwise! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:44 PM |
| 31 | LIARS CLUB: Isn’t it incredible how easy they lie? It’s literally like breathing- thank you to the sis at the car dealership who worked with me to catch a CHEATERYes! This happened to me too. I made myself perfectly, but when I caught my ex doing something he should’ve, he claimed it was because he “misunderstood” the meaning of what I was saying. Such a liar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:43 PM |
| 3 | Peak Pickmeism 🤪🤪Who says every woman wants to have her nails done? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Men ain't shit!Read the handbook. FDS is against casual sex. You’re only going to get taken advantage of and used if you can’t control your urges. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Getting motivated to start dating again?Have you read the handbook? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 12:01 AM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020A truly confident man wouldn’t consider himself arrogant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 11:44 PM |
| 139 | Be the first one to pull awayYes! I love this advice. This helps you maintain emotional distance too so you maintain your composure and self-control. Be aware of the time you spend with them and always be the first one to pull away and give them space (aka giving yourself more time for yourself). Men are meant to be enjoyed only in small doses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Asking the more experienced to help me devise w/a solution?Read the handbook and old posts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 11:16 PM |
| 174 | If you’re writing a post asking for advice on your relationship, feel the need to google his bad behavior or have endless talks with friends and family analyzing him, it’s a clear sign that you should leave.Exactly. If you feel the need to google his behavior, he’s doing something wrong and don’t gaslight yourself into believing otherwise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 09:55 PM |
| 3 | The silent treatmentPlease read the handbook and the recommended books that we have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 08:58 PM |
| 10 | The silent treatmentHere’s the trash 🗑 Feel free to dump him here. You’re better off being single than having to put up with a man who treats you like that. As he is right now, he’s not adding value to your life, he’s not even being neutral to it. In fact, he is detracting value from your life. You know what you have to do. It’s going to hurt for a while, but after a month, you’ll feel this immense relief and sense of peace that you wonder why you ever put up with him in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 08:47 PM |
| 55 | Why do men become more interested after you stop initiating all the timeThis is why you rarely initiate with a man. Read “The Rules” for more information on why this works. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 06:49 PM |
| – | His lossThis has been posted before. Deleted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 02:33 AM |
| 53 | Should I reach out to him eventually?He’s not into you. He doesn’t value you. He takes you for granted. Give up on him. Don’t reach out to him. Don’t come back to him. Read the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 08:07 PM |
| 34 | Hearing ‘ILYBINILWY’ speechProud of you for sticking to your guns and walking away! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 08:06 PM |
| 36 | How do I break up during COVID? Terrified of becoming tied down to a freeloader!You unlearn it by just doing it. Just trust yourself. Know that you’re actually pretty smart and that you know what to do. Generate that feeling of confidence within yourself because no one else can make you feel like you trust and love yourself like you can. Your gut feeling is telling you to leave. Listen to her because she cares about you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 07:03 PM |
| 14 | My LVM-ex keeps contacting me lately and it is making me anxiousIs there a way you can slowly transition your contacts to a new number? He’s violating your space, it’s disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 05:54 PM |
| 87 | How do I break up during COVID? Terrified of becoming tied down to a freeloader!Time to dump him, sis. 🗑 These are all red flags and you should have dumped him way back. You don’t have to move in with him if you don’t want to – why are you still asking us? It’s OKAY to follow what your gut is telling you and to leave a relationship. Your BF is never going to change. He’s going to continue adding no value to your life. You’re better off being single than to have a burden like him. When you break up with him, you can tell him matter-of-factly that this relationship isn’t work… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 05:53 PM |
| 191 | When he says that he didn't feel a spark, it means that there was another woman in the picture all along. Never trust a "perfect" first date!!A few dates is very early to tell if someone is a HVM. That takes more than 6 months. Don’t get your hopes up anymore, expect that the majority of men you deal with during the dating phase will disappoint you. This way, you’re never attached or hoping that it will work out with a guy. Also, it’s amazing that men can say such sweet words and act so in love with you yet their heart isn’t really there or they’re only half-interested. We must keep our guards up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 05:49 PM |
| 17 | The results of doing the workYes! 🥳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 05:38 PM |
| 20 | I guess this is good?You’re making progress! Just keep this state up 3 months, 6 months into the relationship. Don’t give them an inch, because they will take a mile. Don’t get emotionally attached, thinking he’s the one, not even months later. Vet him hard! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 05:17 PM |
| 18 | Why do some of us have trouble asking for what we want? Enough!This! We should raise the bar for men in terms of how they treat women by enforcing our standards. Yes, we want gifts. Yes, we want special dates. Yes, we want acts of service! We want a man who goes out of his way to make us feel special. If a man makes us feel like a god digger for wanting special gifts and dates, that’s a big sign that we should dump them. We should NEVER be with someone who makes us feel that we’re asking for too much. We’re not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 05:15 PM |
| 128 | Dumped him because he didn't get me a b-day giftIf a man doesn’t give us a thoughtful and romantic gift on our birthday or during Valentine’s Day, 🗑 him. If his gifts don’t feel romantic to you, that’s because he doesn’t feel that way towards you and he’s being low effort. Good move on dumping him and for not making excuses for his behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 05:10 PM |
| 41 | PSA: If you feel like you need to play mind games with him, he ain't it.Great post! If we ever get the need to become more hard to get for a man to show us more enthusiasm, that’s a strong sign that we should walk away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 05:06 PM |
| 208 | Homeboy thought he could disrespect me on a date, so I walked out.You’re justified in walking away when he didn’t pay for your movie ticket or offer you food. Same goes for when he kept texting on his phone during the movie. You can walk away at anytime during a date. You can stop it if you see that a man is disrespecting you. You don’t need to offer the courtesy of going through the whole date with him to be polite. Good job though in ending the date though. He knows he’s being rude and disrespectful, but he didn’t care. I hope more women end more dates quick… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 04:58 PM |
| – | How to heal from who you thought was going to be the one for you and how do I ever feel the same way again now that he’s gone?Read the handbook. Look up posts here on how to move on from a breakup. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 04:55 PM |
| – | i need some help this is killing me.Block him and stop asking for male validation. Read the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 04:52 PM |
| – | Did they misspell "clown"?This is a repost. Next time, make sure that it’s not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 04:22 PM |
| 29 | “I just don’t feel like I’m good enough for you”Being beautiful and out of a man’s league won’t prevent him from cheating on you, sadly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 08:58 AM |
| 5 | “I just don’t feel like I’m good enough for you”100%. He did stuff that you wouldn’t approve or he’s about to. RUN. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 08:57 AM |
| 2 | How to stop thinking about men/relationships? I’m tired.I wrote a post on how to stop crushing on people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 06:14 PM |
| 5 | Is this gaslighting?I’ve been there before. Dumping him will hurt a lot, but after a month, you’ll be so happy that you don’t have to be gaslighted anymore by any man. You’ll be lonely in the beginning, but gradually, you’ll make space for doing the things that you love and meeting new friends. It’s better to be single than to be in a relationship with someone who makes you feel unheard of and who doesn’t care for your feelings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 05:51 PM |
| 14 | Apparently a basketball game is more importantYou’re making way too much effort here. He should be the one planning it. Read “The Rules” because it will teach you how to let the guy plan dates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 05:35 PM |
| 20 | How I feel about this sub💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 05:03 PM |
| 1 | He just learned how to hide it betterHow did it go? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 05:45 AM |
| 7 | Boyfriend mad she did things to her rapists she “hasn’t done with him”😷😷😷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 11:34 PM |
| 11 | Is it possible to find a porn-free man, who I fancy and who will take me on dates?Are you sure you’re in the right sub? We’re not /r/dating_advice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 05:32 PM |
| 49 | From a thread where a man said that they need explicit instructions for them to do something for their SOs. Imagine being the wife of this man, how sad is this :(I’d rather be single than have to force a man to give me thoughtful gifts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 05:19 PM |
| 10 | Is it possible to find a porn-free man, who I fancy and who will take me on dates?If he doesn’t date you, why are you with him then? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 05:18 PM |
| 26 | He just learned how to hide it betterI’ve been here before. He fully knows that you want him to stop jacking off to these women completely and he just lied to you, claiming that he misunderstood your meaning. My ex did the exact same thing, saying that he thought I meant that he shouldn’t watch porn when we’re physically together. Once you find out a guy masturbates to other women, cut him off. He’s never going to change. He’s just going to learn how to hide it better. Also, it’s normal to miss your ex, despite him being a bad part… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 06:25 PM |
| 91 | mgtow pedophiles discuss the female wall 🥴We don't want them. We want to protect young girls from them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 05:54 PM |
| 27 | mgtow pedophiles discuss the female wall 🥴We want to raise the legal limit because of competition? No! We don't want guys who are into women who are much younger than them anyway. We really don't. What we want is to protect younger women from predators. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 05:53 PM |
| 6 | Why do guys act like this? What’s the deal?Read The Handbook. Read "The Rules" (a book). Don't chase men. If he's not making an effort to take you out, he's not interested. Stop reading too much into what a guy does and look at the tangibles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Has it always been this way?<3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 05:46 PM |
| 10 | New rule: you aren't my husband? No sex.Story time! Please share how you've reaped the benefits! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 05:27 PM |
| 4 | New rule: you aren't my husband? No sex.They're repulsive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 05:25 PM |
| 17 | New rule: you aren't my husband? No sex.The very thing that men pride themselves to be so good at. But nope, their ego and arrogance get in the way so in the end, they're really not that superior to us in terms of that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 05:25 PM |
| 3 | I’m quitting birth control.Good for you. It really is just an option, not a rite of passage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 05:22 PM |
| 6 | Accept that you cannot control others. There is no magical combination of words that will transform a LVM into a HVM. The only person whose actions you can control, is yourself.It's really not our fault if a man cheats on us. That says more about his character and the type of person he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 05:15 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, is this the "50-50" or actually fair?Time to dump him 🗑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 08:15 PM |
| 3 | ☣️ Men as nuclear waste ☣️I love this visual. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 08:10 PM |
| 16 | When he doesn't really care, he's just making a showMen can indeed get things done if it’s something they care about. So really, they have no excuses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 03:38 PM |
| 12 | DAE feel like FDS reset them?Yes! After my last breakup, I’ve been feeling this freedom more acutely. No more stress anymore, I can do whatever I want. I don’t have to please a man anymore and try to fit within his ideals. I recovered from the breakup relatively quickly and I just feel so happy. That aching need to be with someone isn’t there anymore. I’ve learned and grown so much and I’m in a happy place now where I have control of my happiness. I no longer feel like I have to settle for subpar behavior so I don’t have to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 03:13 PM |
| 37 | Ex sends me this message, 11 months after we broke up 🤔 BLOCK AND DELETE!He's so extra and a try-hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 09:16 PM |
| 25 | Queens, I finally did it- I now have no sexual attraction to men who don’t put in effortLove it! How did you get to this point? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 09:15 PM |
| 158 | Why 50-50 men make undesirable partners: The hidden ugliness of the 'equality' mindsetWomen are the ones who have to go through pregnancy and give birth. We're the ones risking our lives and destroying our bodies forever by carrying their child. The least they can do is to be generous and make our happiness their #1 priority. But nope, pregnancy is "not a big deal" since "women have been doing it for centuries." They devalue what we bring to the table so that they don't have to step up and give us the best treatment. They're such hypocrites. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 09:13 PM |
| 10 | Can I just say I love low n count men?Women usually have a higher n-count because they've been lied to by society that it's acceptable to hook up, that they'll find love this way. They don't hookup necessarily for sexual pleasure (even though they think they are aka a "cool girl"); they do it because it might lead to love. They don't objectify men sexually. Men, on the other hand, I question their intentions more if they have a high n-count. I can't trust them if they've hooked up with a lot of people or outside of a relationship. N… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 08:54 PM |
| 10 | Whilst following FDS won’t always be easy, it WILL make your life easier.<3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 08:48 PM |
| 32 | Whilst following FDS won’t always be easy, it WILL make your life easier.Good for you. Disappearing for 3 days just like that is a sign of wavering interest and he would indeed have done the hot and cold BS which might make you feel insecure. Inconsistent men don't deserve to be in our lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 08:48 PM |
| 21 | Whilst following FDS won’t always be easy, it WILL make your life easier.It's not easy, it takes time and practice to enforce what FDS teaches but it is so worth it. Gone are the uncertainties and the confusion. You'll know what to do. You'll know when a man is BS'ing you and you'll know if he's treating you like crap. You'll learn how to stand up for yourself and take care of yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 08:46 PM |
| 17 | I broke up with him after 6 years. I'm in pain but I know it will pass.I also went through a breakup recently. I was miserable, I couldn't work properly, but now, I feel truly at peace with what happened. I can clearly see things for what they are, devoid of my attachment to him. I know I deserve better treatment and I can now clearly see how he didn't treat me well. You're going to get to this point, I promise. I was feeling so bad about myself, inadequate, unworthy, but now I feel happier and I know that I don't need him. It's going to get better, I promise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 08:44 PM |
| 13 | This sub ruined my marriage!!! 🤣Yay! So proud of you. <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 07:18 PM |
| 4 | Always get a PreNupWere there any red flags that would indicate he would eventually do this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 03:13 PM |
| 11 | Doing nice things for a man won’t make him love you. On the contrary: the more he does for you, the more invested he feels, and the more in control you feel in the dynamic. You’re better off investing your effort into yourself to maximize your value & confidence.That’s so awful. Men can sometimes lack so much empathy and they just... don’t care that they’re hurting another person emotionally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 03:10 PM |
| 12 | Doing nice things for a man won’t make him love you. On the contrary: the more he does for you, the more invested he feels, and the more in control you feel in the dynamic. You’re better off investing your effort into yourself to maximize your value & confidence.Even the nice ones will turn on you if you become a nice girl. They’ll take advantage of you if they see an opportunity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 03:09 PM |
| 7 | Keep on evaluating a man — regardless of how long the two of you have been together.Were there any red flags from before marriage? Good for you for leaving early! Marriage isn’t forever if the man doesn’t act like a proper husband. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 03:08 PM |
| 13 | Keep on evaluating a man — regardless of how long the two of you have been together.Were there red flags before marriage? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 03:06 PM |
| 6 | FDS youtubers? who do you watch that supports FDS teachingsI second Isabel. She has good videos on how to be a HVW mindset-wise and doesn’t believe in chasing men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 03:01 PM |
| 3 | FDS youtubers? who do you watch that supports FDS teachingsYes! She spits out FDS truths. I love her videos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 02:59 PM |
| 4 | To all the ladies who think weekly flowers is asking too much... he buys me a new bouquet even when last weeks is doing fine. You deserve to be spoiled.💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 02:57 PM |
| 3 | How to catch them cheaters“Looking for information that directly affects your own life, and that is unjustly withheld by a dishonest person, is not snooping. It’s discovery. Let’s start calling it that.” I love this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 04:02 AM |
| 13 | Until you’re engaged, when you make plans for the future, always start your sentences by “if we are still together by [ insert month/year], we could go to xxx“If he’s slacking off, spend less time on him and put that time back on yourself and expanding your social circle . Reflect his level of interest back on to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 12:05 AM |
| 1 | I’ve been rewatching Daria during quarantineI need to watch clips of her! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 09:12 PM |
| 4 | Always be ready to leave. As soon as you feel yourself having the scarcity mindset, remember you’re a queen and deserve peace.100%. We should always trust our gut feeling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 08:46 PM |
| 2 | I’ve just watched it on Netflix. She is very funny and FDS minded. Recommended!Ooh, bookmarking this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Never let yourself forget the true nature of menWhat the fuck. He is GRADE A trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 05:43 PM |
| 17 | First FDS EncounterGood luck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 03:44 PM |
| 29 | Ladies: Don’t fall into this trap! This is a great time to work on ourselves instead of desperately looking for any LVM just to be with someone.I’m not gonna start dating till 2021. No need to entertain guys at this point in time. Better to work on ourselves and learn to be without a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Did I mess up? 4th date - I paid for dinner.Read my post on how to never ever pay on a date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 11:57 PM |
| 9 | I just realized that men are disgusted by women who have a lot of sex because deep down they know that they are(men) gross and repuslive so having a sex with a male is an insult lmaoWhere is the lie 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 06:53 PM |
| 6 | Focus on YOU 👸🏽This is me right now as well! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 06:52 PM |
| 4 | A real man knows what it means to love correctly. There are no ifs or buts.Yes please 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 06:48 PM |
| 7 | I really love this tiktok. As someone that is currently learning to love myself and do things alone. Seeing ppl do this encourages me😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 03:39 AM |
| 86 | Sex and the CityI absolutely HATE Mr. Big. I hate how he treated her. Leaving her at the altar??? TRASH. Once a man breaks up with us, never take him back again EVER. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 04:36 PM |
| 53 | Is it possible to mend things with a man who’s already starting to pull away, or should I just suck it up and move on?Definitely suck it up and move on. You guys should be getting closer as time goes on; he shouldn’t be needing “space.” It doesn’t sound like he’s afraid to lose you and you deserve more than that. You want a man who’s 100% sure about being with you, someone who has no doubt whatsoever in his mind that it’s you that he wants. I’ve been there before, I hate being stuck in limbo, and it really is the best thing to just walk away no matter what. No indecisive men for us FDS women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 04:34 PM |
| 57 | He thought I was willing to audition to be his girlfriend and compete against all his side-girls. The shock of rejectment hit him hard.Yes! I’m so proud of you. 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 04:30 PM |
| 2 | What would you say to pre-teen you?Don't believe the sex positivity movement. You're not empowered. You're believing in the lies that allow men to more easily take advantage of women. Don't entertain men until you're 25. Focus on your career and gain valuable skills. Make friends. Learn to love being single and know that you're enough. Trust your gut and your perception. If you feel like you're being mistreated, it's because you are. Don't let anyone into gaslight you into changing your perception. Vet men hard. Figure out what t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 05:59 PM |
| 6 | Moving in together....??? I need help on this oneDon't believe them because their advice only benefits men. Believe what the women in this sub are telling you instead because they're looking out for your best interests. Your objections and feelings are valid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 05:39 PM |
| 28 | Man showing his true self after first date?Don't ever ask a man out. It's against FDS principles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Man tries to get his girlfriend to sell the condo she worked her ass off for so he can take the money and be put on the deed since his is shitty and he can’t benefit from the one solely in her name. He tries to guilt her into selling by slut shaming her since she used stripper money.Please tag the OP here or DM her this thread. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 05:18 PM |
| 22 | The other side I guess (Not an excuse! I just found it interesting information) Thoughts??They lack the empathy that women naturally have more in abundance, generally speaking. I remember one time I said to an ex that what he did hurt me and instead of feeling concerned about me, he's the one feeling bad about himself. "Oh, I can't feel bad about it because I did that to you?" Uh, what the fuck? You hurt me and you're focused on your own pain? It's unreal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 04:20 PM |
| 1 | My friends and I love this one: this LVM told me he didn’t believe in condoms on a first date and when I ended the date he unraveled.This is a fantastic point. He's a man, let's not erase that fact. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 04:12 PM |
| 3 | My friends and I love this one: this LVM told me he didn’t believe in condoms on a first date and when I ended the date he unraveled.He's so delusional then. Men tend to overrate their looks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 04:12 PM |
| 71 | This girl is about to become a forever girlfriend and the commenters are telling her to CoMmUnIcAtE. Waiting 5+ years before talking about marriage? No thanks.That's so repulsive, but men like that do exist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 04:07 PM |
| 20 | This girl is about to become a forever girlfriend and the commenters are telling her to CoMmUnIcAtE. Waiting 5+ years before talking about marriage? No thanks.And dump him as well. Boy, bye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 04:06 PM |
| 63 | This girl is about to become a forever girlfriend and the commenters are telling her to CoMmUnIcAtE. Waiting 5+ years before talking about marriage? No thanks.Women should always trust their gut feeling. It's usually spot on. This man has no honor at all and doesn't feel guilty about using his girlfriend for benefits while he wastes her time. It's so selfish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 04:06 PM |
| 6 | Reading this makes me both sad and mad at the same time!!!That’s gross! Men who go for younger women are fucked in the head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 04:03 PM |
| 20 | Reading this makes me both sad and mad at the same time!!!This is exactly why I don’t want to get pregnant. I’m not going to sacrifice my body for a man or a child just to “build a family.” I’d rather not pee every time I laugh, thanks. Getting pregnant seems like a really bad deal for many women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 04:02 PM |
| 9 | Reading this makes me both sad and mad at the same time!!!I’d rather be single than be with an ungrateful husband who doesn’t think the world of me. Less stress! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Reading this makes me both sad and mad at the same time!!!So when you get cheated on, it’s still a no fault divorce? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 04:00 PM |
| 47 | Straight from the horse’s mouth!! These men WANT us to employ FDS principles ladies!!!! 💅🏽 I’ve added captions of important points outlined in our lovely handbook under each picture.Same! I trusted the other person but when my intuition was SHOUTING at me to check their phone, I did, and found out a bunch of BS. I WISHED I got the idea to check on his phone/laptop monthsss before but I trusted him so much. Also, with another person, they hid stuff well-ish on their phone, so I didn’t see anything, but in the end, I told him to check something else in his phone and there I found his lies. My spidey senses were right all along! IMO, EVEN if you trust a man, it doesn’t matter,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Remind me again why I even bother to be friends with men??? Man friend chosing his dick over partners mental health.I think you should ask for her number and tell her to get the fuck out. Your friend is such a jerk. Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 08:43 PM |
| 12 | Unconventional red flagsIf we ever feel like telling a man to ask us more questions or if we feel that they’re not curious about us, if we ever get that feeling, we have to cut them off because that’s actually a good sign of how they really feel about us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 07:59 PM |
| 7 | The texts from this man.... then take a look at the woman he’s saying this to. MindblownI hope she doesn’t take him back! She is GORGEOUS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 10:03 PM |
| 0 | Sending me home with an extra mealAre the both of you guys Indian? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 11:17 PM |
| 10 | Dating in your 30s - men with roommatesA complete dealbreaker, especially if he's in his 30s. He should have his own place by now. Sorry, I don't date losers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 11:13 PM |
| 10 | Relapsed in contact with LVM, looking for some reminder of why to keep levelling up!BLOCK AND DELETE HIS NUMBER, sis! The best revenge is living your life well and leveling up! Accept that there are shitty people in the world, remind yourself of the lessons you learned from this man, and move on. Don't carry this grudge within your anymore because it will only poison you. Work on improving your career, friendships, hobbies, fitness, etc. Focus on the positive things and let go of the past. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 11:11 PM |
| 53 | Stop Sexualizing yourselfWhen it comes to men, it's best to tone down your sex appeal and to not be overly sexual (heavy makeout sesh, sex before an exclusive relationship) because that's how you filter out men who aren't serious about you. Present them your down-to-earth self where you show off more of your personality and intelligence. If he can't love who you are as a person inside, he needs to go. I used to dress pretty sexily before because being glamorous used to be my style, but I think now, I'll be leaning more … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 11:07 PM |
| 16 | Dumping a guy I like because we want different things out of life.You're strong, girl. <3 You're meant for greater things while he's just content with mediocrity. The future has so much in store for you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 10:52 PM |
| 19 | Dumping a guy I like because we want different things out of life.How did you find out he wasn't into commitment? Did you guys discuss about commitment before that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 10:51 PM |
| 29 | This is "You get one chance to act right and that's GENEROUS" - This FDS mindset girl said it againMany women see getting their exes back or dating men w/o much selectiveness as a hobby. Sis, you're better off learning a new skill than entertaining LVM. YOU > MEN Always and forever! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Found a HVM but after 10 months of dating I'm starting to be more and more suspicious.Honestly, that's what I felt too. I felt like I hurt my ex, that's why it's justified what he said to me because he's just human too like me. But the moment you feel overly guilty about what you did, you blame yourself way too hard, and you question if it's okay to feel hurt by what he did, that's the moment you need to step back and detach from this guy a little. You need that distance to know if you're being reasonable or not, but I think you should trust your feelings more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 10:44 PM |
| 10 | Has to get to know me over coffee and THEN we can go on “real” dates 🙄When a man suggests a coffee date, that's good news to my ears because that means I can block him promptly. The man I want will never suggest a coffee date in the first place because he wants to impress me. :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 03:29 PM |
| 7 | Please tell me this is not real - whyyy would anyone EVER take that man back?What?! French Montana is not a looker at all! He looks disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 03:23 PM |
| 3 | Don’t ever settle for less ladies. Walk away.THIS!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Don’t ever settle for less ladies. Walk away.This. You can't manipulate a man into having a good and honorable character. You just can't. If he mistreats you, it's on him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 03:19 PM |
| 11 | Found a HVM but after 10 months of dating I'm starting to be more and more suspicious.If a man is super in love with a woman, do you think he'd say these things to her? Remember that no matter how good he is otherwise, if he makes you feel bad about yourself, it's a red flag. If a man is really in love with you, he'd be really careful about your feelings. TRUST YOUR FEELINGS please. More than you trust his words or actions. If something feels off, something is off. It really is better to cut things off with a man at the first sign of disrespect because I can assure you, the disre… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 03:16 PM |
| 9 | LVM on CMB with 1 Pic trying to call me fat. Thank goodness I am well trained in FDS.Yes!!! Don't date a man you haven't seen shaved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 03:11 PM |
| 14 | LVM on CMB with 1 Pic trying to call me fat. Thank goodness I am well trained in FDS.Exactly -- an instant block! Asking for another photo feels like a power play, as if you have to prove yourself to him. I don't entertain that BS. Boy, bye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 03:10 PM |
| 2 | How I Deliberately Revamped my OLD Profile to Attract HVM and Deter LVM (Example Profile and Rational Included)I love this! Thanks for sharing. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 03:08 PM |
| 107 | Megan discussing why men cheat & where the ‘crazy’ label comes from...the interviewer is grinning but i’ll tell you who looks crazier...a gaslighting cheat when you delete and BLOCK him sis.I thought he was making a joke to further emphasize her point, but now I just cringe at him lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 03:02 PM |
| 5 | HVM behavior — my friends bf has been watching YT videos during quarantine so he can trim her bangs and now they’re out of town so he made her a combAwww! 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 06:50 PM |
| 11 | He really called his son being brought into this world “B.S” I have no words...I’d rather be single and childless than to be with “bullshit” men like that. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 06:40 PM |
| 53 | Too good to be true. Great boydriend until I find out he doesn't just watch porn; he is more into live sex cams.Time to dump that man, sis. Would you really be okay with him being into live sex cams? He’ll never change. You’re only going to be miserable in the long-term if you stay with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 11:30 PM |
| 19 | High Value Men and what it means to be oneI love this ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 03:42 PM |
| 16 | Kanye West would 'be at peace' with Kim Kardashian divorcing himI hope she does divorce him. She deserves way better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 07:44 PM |
| 22 | I dont want that my(25F) boyfriend (32M) to think i’m a goldigger.Be patient with her. You were once in her shoes too. No need to be rude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 12:35 AM |
| 6 | iM nOt LiKe OtHeR gIrLsWho won that game? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 09:40 AM |
| 8 | Please help me get over itThe way you get over it is redirecting your focus on improving yourself, so that you feel more confident in who you are and how you’re able to get a higher quality guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Join the FDS Discord server to keep in touch with your FDS sisters!Message me there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 05:35 PM |
| 23 | Join the FDS Discord server to keep in touch with your FDS sisters!If you’re not comfortable joining, that’s alright, but we’ve had men attempt to access the server before and we have to be really careful about who we let in to protect the privacy of our other members. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 06:41 PM |
| 10 | Join the FDS Discord server to keep in touch with your FDS sisters!If you’re not comfortable joining, that’s alright, but we’ve had men attempt to access the server before and we have to be really careful about who we let in to protect the privacy of our other members. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Join the FDS Discord server to keep in touch with your FDS sisters!Yes!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 05:21 AM |
| 8 | Do you agree with FDS teaching on women not dating older men?Keep coping 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/20 02:50 AM |
| 6 | Do you agree with FDS teaching on women not dating older men?They really are uglier. Ew. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Do you agree with FDS teaching on women not dating older men?What competition 😂 Older women have way more options than older men. They don’t need creepy older men who go for younger women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 11:36 PM |
| 7 | Do you agree with FDS teaching on women not dating older men?And these older men don’t have baggage themselves? lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/20 11:15 PM |
| 6 | Women are marrying less. It's such a mystery!Did she get a citizenship at least? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 11:25 PM |
| 125 | How quickly they change their tune. In the past I would have settled. Thank you FDS for teaching me to put my foot down!He has shown you what kind of man he is. Just because he changed his tune, doesn’t mean that you should still go for it. They’re just mirroring you so that they can get sex (what he’s shown to you by asking you to come over). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 05:12 AM |
| 7 | Common courtesy things your bf should be doingHow did he ruin your life? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, I think my Boyfriend is a LVM. I need your help.This!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 08:49 PM |
| 3 | Drink Dates: Don’t Do Them if You’re Looking for a RelationshipNo, it doesn’t. How men react to you not drinking says a lot about them. If they don’t like the fact that you don’t drink, it’s a red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 10:40 PM |
| 2 | Join FemaleDatingStrategy's buzzing Discord community! We maintain an active server where we talk about FDS essentials, how to become a high value woman, and other fun topics. Be a part of the FDS sisterhood now!Please message the mods again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 05:30 AM |
| 32 | If m*n text you late at night, don’t reply😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 05:25 AM |
| 2 | Join FemaleDatingStrategy's buzzing Discord community! We maintain an active server where we talk about FDS essentials, how to become a high value woman, and other fun topics. Be a part of the FDS sisterhood now!You should be able to it if you join the server. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 01:19 PM |
| 3 | We need a sub called "Am I With An Asshole".Remember to tag the OP! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 11:03 PM |
| 12 | The CDC has released a facial hair guide for men to help prevent the spread of Coronavirus. Coronavirus out here ending whole beardfishing careers😭LMAO 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 08:57 AM |
| 6 | What the actual fuck was I thinking?!This is why you NEVER EVER date an older man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 07:15 PM |
| 8 | You are not a free or low cost prostituteHaving less women = less power politically. You’ll be treated like cattle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 12:59 PM |
| 11 | We often talk about FDS w/ the goal of marriage. But marriage doesn’t always (or even usually, anymore) mean forever. So, yes, hold out for an incredible HVM. And ALSO: learn about investing. Hire a financial planner. Start your 401k. Buy a house. If a man joins your path, yay. But OWN YOUR FUTURE.Omg yes, a FIRE sub for women! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 12:54 PM |
| 24 | Apologies if this was submitted already: Jennifer Gardiner's ex is so grossJennifer is too high value to put up with his shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 05:43 AM |
| 12 | Are HVMs attractive?Do you find LVMs hot because they're objectively physically attractive or because of something else? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 03:05 PM |
| 21 | This guy I used to hook up with hits me up to try and win me back. This is what he says.This is why women should never "hook up." It rewards low value trash like this for their shit behavior. Men like this should NEVER have access to sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 03:04 PM |
| 43 | Practice FDS - watch the LVM expose themselves. A story of the lowest effort exposure ever (texting....)You don't need to initiate texts with men -- ever -- unless you need to. If a man is genuinely interested, he'll do that on his own without you having to reciprocate on the initiation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 03:03 PM |
| 57 | 🤡🤡🤡 clown alert 🤡🤡🤡“Ya thirsty thot” I love it 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 03:25 AM |
| 3 | So my mom is plannin on divorcing my dad after years of abuse. He doesn’t know yet. He lost his wedding ring (for the second time) and mom found it. She sold it and bought herself this cute ring. I’m so proud of her. (Pablo, our cat is too)Your mom is badass! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 10:50 PM |
| 10 | Just when I thought that I've seen it all!That would be hilarious. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 10:46 PM |
| 15 | Do you judge a guy’s interest in you based on the type of date?Kind of cheap? IT IS CHEAP. Having a walk or coffee date is unacceptable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 08:56 PM |
| 20 | I love Anna Bey so much! After breaking up with my broke ass man (ewww), I found her. Thank God I did!I’m in my early-20s, BF is the same age as me, and he has called me an Uber before a few times from his home and to the destination I’m going to. It’s not unreasonable at all. If my young BF can get me one, men over 25+ can give that to women as well. Also, your phrasing of women “demanding” car rides is pick-meish. Women stating their standards is not “demanding” anything. Demanding is guilting a man to get them Ubers. A woman doesn’t need to accept a man who can’t give her what she wants. That… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 08:50 PM |
| 52 | LVM Starterpack:This is hilarious. We need more FDS starterpacks 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 07:27 AM |
| 2 | Join FemaleDatingStrategy's buzzing Discord community! We maintain an active server where we talk about FDS essentials, how to become a high value woman, and other fun topics. Be a part of the FDS sisterhood now!Dm me there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 05:57 AM |
| 34 | And supposedly we’re the ones that are gold diggers.Please tag her here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 10:52 PM |
| 5 | Stop engaging in FWB relationships! It does nothing but make you an unpaid escort who will eventually get her heart broken. Women aren’t built for casual relationships. You deserve a man who loves you, treats you like his queen, and commits to you. You deserve the full package!Proud of the changes you’ve made! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Join FemaleDatingStrategy's buzzing Discord community! We maintain an active server where we talk about FDS essentials, how to become a high value woman, and other fun topics. Be a part of the FDS sisterhood now!https://discordapp.com/invite/v5nQCVG?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 09:52 PM |
| 58 | Stop engaging in FWB relationships! It does nothing but make you an unpaid escort who will eventually get her heart broken. Women aren’t built for casual relationships. You deserve a man who loves you, treats you like his queen, and commits to you. You deserve the full package!You’re better off masturbating than exposing yourself to STIs, pregnancy, rape, and getting your feelings hurt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 12:11 PM |
| 8 | No effort from them = no effort from you. Men will initiate texts, dates, and commitment with women they’re really into. Don’t give them excuses for not trying and program yourself to literally be turned off by their lack of effort.😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 10:24 AM |
| 30 | Should a hvw plan dates?Nope, that’s the man’s job. Let him do it. If he really likes you, he’ll enjoy doing it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 07:42 AM |
| 8 | Join FemaleDatingStrategy's buzzing Discord community! We maintain an active server where we talk about FDS essentials, how to become a high value woman, and other fun topics. Be a part of the FDS sisterhood now!It has more of a community feeling vs just being an anonymous poster on Reddit. You can talk to like-minded women in a chat environment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Dark Triad Womenhttps://discordapp.com/invite/xU98mSn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Dark Triad Womenhttps://discordapp.com/invite/xU98mSn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Dark Triad WomenCheck the FDS sidebar for the link. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 10:26 AM |
| 2 | Dark Triad WomenCheck the FDS sidebar for the link. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 10:26 AM |
| 1 | Dark Triad WomenCheck the FDS sidebar for the link. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 10:26 AM |
| 2 | Dark Triad WomenCheck the FDS sidebar for the link. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 10:25 AM |
| 33 | When you post about dumping a guy for his porn use and it becomes "one of the most controversial posts of the day on all of Reddit." This speaks volumes. Not only about our pornsick culture...but "Similar numbers of *upvotes* to downvotes." I see you, sisters & lurkers 👀My post on how to not pay on dates landed me in this secret club too months ago 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 10:19 AM |
| 99 | FDS is important because too many men think this is acceptable. My heart breaks for her.Please tag her in this post so she can get FDS advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 08:01 AM |
| 11 | You are just "jealous and insecure" if your BOYFRIEND goes on a DATE with another woman on VALENTINE'S DAY.Please tag her in this post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 12:37 AM |
| 58 | What is the FDS opinion on strip clubs?Completely unacceptable. A HVM won't be interested in going to a strip club. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 08:15 PM |
| 5 | Dark Triad WomenCheck out the sidebar for a link! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 08:14 PM |
| 56 | Is there and FDS version for marriage? Or book reccs along those lines?Stop being a pick me. Fill up your time with hobbies, friends. Stop hanging on to his every word. Get a life, basically. Don't initiate texts or conversations. Let him initiate everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 08:13 PM |
| 8 | Ya love to see it 🗞 💁🏼♀️Yes!!! OP, do you know where I can get a copy of this in stores? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 11:13 PM |
| 2 | I stopped reaching out to himA man should be the one reaching out to you 90% of the time. Read The Rules first and foremost. It’s a book that will hopefully help you stop reaching out to a man first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 08:33 PM |
| 7 | I support everyone's right to have standards, but like...Sounds like a virgin wrote it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 03:15 AM |
| 34 | It took him exactly five weeks and five days from the first date to making me his girlfriendFDS works wonders. ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 09:29 AM |
| 8 | Is this negging?Why are you entertaining a low value man? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Finally watched "Bombshell" and it made me sick to my stomach. I'm horrified to realize that most men watching the movie probably identified with Roger Ailes, not the actual victims of sexual harassment.I need to listen to this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 12:40 AM |
| – | Some concerns regarding the DiscordMod of the Discord here. We had an issue with security so it was not just you who was kicked out of the server. It was everyone. We had to revamp the entire verification process, but it’s up and running again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 11:58 PM |
| 33 | Man with crippling low self esteem admits to playing games in order to keep a HVW interested. On her side, she’s probably wondering why someone below her league has the audacity to play hot & cold. Don’t date down ever! DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM THESE SCROTES!💯 HVM don’t feel the need to play games. They are secure in their value and know that you can see it too, so they don’t hold back on how they feel about you and they show it through their actions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 08:00 PM |
| 16 | Anne Hathaway is more of a bombshell now than ever - a response to "the wall" BS. 2010 vs 2020 - using more comparable events, lighting and photography.Goals! This makes me optimistic that I’ll still look good when I get older. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 11:52 AM |
| 28 | Anne Hathaway is more of a bombshell now than ever - a response to "the wall" BS. 2010 vs 2020 - using more comparable events, lighting and photography.She also had a nosejob. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 11:52 AM |
| 33 | Our best friend Lauren Chen tells us all why Incels are the REAL victims. (Sis really knows who her audience is, eh?)The ultimate pick me. Imagine catering to incels but thinking that FDS women who have standards are the monsters. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 04:34 AM |
| 3 | r/AgeGap grooming teenagers for abuse: 18 yo girl in BDSM relationship with 62 yo man./u/aceisdefinitelyhuman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 09:42 PM |
| 9 | This wealthy 38M has strict requirements for the privilege of dating him. Too many to post, but “female applicants” must answer ALL questions (A-Z) to even be considered. It’s written like a business proposal, but I’ve seen less strict RFP’s in sales 🤣Nowhere in his post does it outline why he’s a catch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 06:11 AM |
| 3 | Join FemaleDatingStrategy's buzzing Discord community! We maintain an active server where we talk about FDS essentials, how to become a high value woman, and other fun topics. Be a part of the FDS sisterhood now!Hey! Check out the new link on the sidebar :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 06:05 AM |
| 5 | How to Join /r/DarkTriadWomenExactly, it’s for FDS women who want something darker 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 03:10 AM |
| 15 | How to Join /r/DarkTriadWomenYes. Not all women want to be dark triad! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 03:09 AM |
| 4 | How to Join /r/DarkTriadWomenMy voice isn’t super girlie either, so just be yourself! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Join Us at the FemaleDatingStrategy Discord Server!Are you in touch with other members? If so, please share this link to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Join Us at the FemaleDatingStrategy Discord Server!The invite still works. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Join FemaleDatingStrategy's buzzing Discord community! We maintain an active server where we talk about FDS essentials, how to become a high value woman, and other fun topics. Be a part of the FDS sisterhood now!Hey! Can you send your recording again? My inbox is swamped! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 11:22 PM |
| 14 | This is how flippant men are about toying with women’s feelings and treating them like dirt. And we are called bad for wanting to protect ourselves against this kind of bullshit. 🙄It's rather disgusting how they call the girl "drama" for not wanting a man who plays around. Fuck off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Join FemaleDatingStrategy's buzzing Discord community! We maintain an active server where we talk about FDS essentials, how to become a high value woman, and other fun topics. Be a part of the FDS sisterhood now!It’s different from the sub since it’s more personal, you can make friends, get advice ASAP, etc. We also do voice calls from time to time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 12:40 AM |
| 5 | OP (25F) dates old, post wall male (40M), is SHOCKED at his low-libido & unfulfilling, lackluster sex, feels insecure with lack of sexual foreplay. There's NO BENEFIT to dating someone much much older... and let this be a DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!!/u/Curlyhairdontcare01 Read this thread I've linked you to, girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 10:21 PM |
| 1 | The only kinds of men who will respect boundaries according to Purple Pill Debate🤣🤣🤣It's clear: they don't see HVM behavior because they're LVM and a HVM will not be friends with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Toronto pastor drugged his pregnant wife with a sedative so he could talk to his mistress and look at pornography without getting caught - she's dead, he's out on bail 😟How the fuck is he still not in join? WTF? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 10:12 PM |
| 8 | Woman helps her husband “transition” & now he calls her “some d*ke" and filed for divorce. You don’t have to be a Pickmeisha in the name of gender equality. Abandon ship as soon as they start to put their needs far above yours. Trans scrotes are still scrotes and expect them to behave that way./u/fuckyoupaula Please check out this thread. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 10:05 PM |
| 20 | Wife tells her side of "Deadbedroom". She suffers from PTSD & several health complications from childbirth and is stressed out by 2 kids & pregnancy. No romance, husband doesn't try to take her out, pressures her into sex. Husband worries about his dick... while she nearly dies from complications.Hi /u/Momof3klc, Please read this thread. You don't deserve this treatment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 10:01 PM |
| 23 | Wife tells her side of "Deadbedroom". She suffers from PTSD & several health complications from childbirth and is stressed out by 2 kids & pregnancy. No romance, husband doesn't try to take her out, pressures her into sex. Husband worries about his dick... while she nearly dies from complications.Men act like they are the only ones who can get shafted in a marriage. Guarantee if she has a sexual and emotional affair or outright leaves him, shes just another of the 70% of wOmEn iNiTiATe dIvOrCe This. TRP men act like all men are angels because they don't initiate most of divorces. Uh, no shit. It's because most men make bad life partners and women can't stand it anymore. It's good that they leave a shitty marriage! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 09:57 PM |
| 12 | Wife tells her side of "Deadbedroom". She suffers from PTSD & several health complications from childbirth and is stressed out by 2 kids & pregnancy. No romance, husband doesn't try to take her out, pressures her into sex. Husband worries about his dick... while she nearly dies from complications.I like this idea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 09:50 PM |
| 0 | How is a woman’s hypergamy worse than a man experiencing the Coolidge effect?I find it funny that men like to claim that only women are hypergamous. Men are just as hypergamous (even more), especially when it comes to women's looks, but TRP likes to claim that it's "biological" and "natural," so it's okay, but God forbid that a woman wants to secure a better partner for herself. I think men feel less guilt in being hypergamous than women do and they're more likely to do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Is there a difference between redpill term "Betabucks" and Femaledatingstrategy's term "High Value Men"?If you make a man wait, that's a clear indication that the attraction might not be 100%, genuine desire can't be negotiated. That's your own view of it. It's a view that's primarily driven by your desire to have rampant sex instead of finding a long-term relationship with one woman. You're exactly the kind of man who FDS women avoid. One of my plates has a triple digit notch count, she's sexy and amazing...but mentally she's damaged,she can't be a good anything other than a plate. It's funny tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Pursuing men makes you an opportunity, not a love interest.Ok, I missed that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 04:11 AM |
| -4 | Pursuing men makes you an opportunity, not a love interest.They’re not together for a reason. It just doesn’t work if you want an everlasting relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 12:38 AM |
| 39 | I don’t even know where to start; the threesome fantasy, the ‘conversion’ fantasy and her thanking him for making her day with his gross comment on her marriage... Just shows how they view women reallyIt may actually be a good idea to tell them. If they make some gross comment about it, you can promptly next them vs not saying anything and not knowing how they would react. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 01:02 AM |
| 3 | Unfortunately asked him out for drinks as a first date... How can I change the dynamic from cool girl who gets drinks late with him to his future queen?If he wants to ask you out, he’ll do so. Don’t stress about it. You can’t make him do anything he doesn’t want to do. Literally let him initiate everything from this point on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 08:15 AM |
| 7 | How to avoid becoming a starter wife?They’re more likely to be much older than you though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 07:57 AM |
| 3 | How to avoid becoming a starter wife?A man who’s already that successful is likely to be older though in most cases. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 07:56 AM |
| 2 | Piece of shit boyfriend shares his girlfriend's nudes with his FATHER - father comments on how "hot and wet" she is/u/findmyipad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 07:36 AM |
| 25 | Pickmeisha Lindsay Vonn Proposes to Fiancé P.K. Subban: “Men Should Get Engagement Rings Too”He looks so uncomfortable in his photos | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 05:40 AM |
| 29 | LVM thinks it's acceptable to lie to women to get them into bed. 🙄Yikes. This is why to never believe men and give them time to prove themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 02:47 AM |
| 28 | On cooking and not cooking for menGreat post on how to maintain being an FDS woman when in a relationship! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 02:46 AM |
| 72 | I just tried to be niceGirl, what are you doing wishing him first? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 04:44 AM |
| 14 | It was going well, then he waited til 7.30pm to wish me a Merry Christmas💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 03:32 AM |
| 4 | It was going well, then he waited til 7.30pm to wish me a Merry ChristmasHaving him over? You shouldn’t let a man into your home / go to his place till you’re exclusive with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 03:31 AM |
| 3 | He told me he's not looking for anything serious, but also he isn't pressuring me for sex. So I'm confused. Maybe you ladies can enlighten me.That’s a waste of her time. She should use her time more wisely instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 01:34 AM |
| 11 | He’s not that into me?Don’t think too much about men asking you out. It doesn’t mean anything apart from them wanting to hookup with you. Also, read the sidebar and check out all the recommended books there. You’ve been acting like a pick me (so I’m changing your flair) because FDS women don’t initiate. You don’t initiate so you filter out the trash make that you just described. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 01:24 AM |
| 5 | Sorry, I'm too pretty for that2 years is too long to wait for an engagement. I don’t think stating her needs aka issuing an ultimatum is a bad thing because if he really wants to marry her, he would, and if he’s feeling iffy about it, this will cause him to back off. A man who’s sure about you won’t be turned off by the ultimatum. It will cause him to move forward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 09:40 AM |
| 4 | Sorry, I'm too pretty for that2 years is too long to wait for an engagement. I don’t think stating her needs aka issuing an ultimatum is a bad thing because if he really wants to marry her, he would, and if he’s feeling iffy about it, this will cause him to back off. A man who’s sure about you won’t be turned off by the ultimatum. It will cause him to move forward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 09:38 AM |
| 4 | Sorry, I'm too pretty for that2 years is too long to wait for an engagement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 09:38 AM |
| 5 | Sorry, I'm too pretty for thatTwo years is too long to wait for an engagement. If he was eager to get married to you, he would have proposed already. Do you really want to marry a man who wants to make you wait? I don’t think stating your needs aka issuing an ultimatum is a bad thing because if he really wants to marry her, he would, and if he’s feeling iffy about it, this will cause him to back off. A man who’s sure about you won’t be turned off by the ultimatum. It will cause him to move forward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 09:05 AM |
| 9 | “I’m Not Sure Yet” is one of the biggest lies men tell. If he’s not consistently pursuing you and trying to impress you, NEXT THE HELL OUT OF HIM UNAPOLOGETICALLY.I don’t think your BF will marry you by the sound of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Can't tell if im over exaggerating💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 11:33 PM |
| 23 | Can't tell if im over exaggeratingIf a man wanted a relationship with you, he would have brought it up by the second month max. The fact that he never brought it up after 3 months AND when you asked him about it and he said no? That’s a big sign that he’s not madly in love with you, so he’s not boyfriend material. If I were you, my action steps would be to block him and move on. Also, since you’ve been seeing him for 3 months and he stuck around w/o proposing a relationship, I assume you’ve been intimate with him? It’s best to o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 06:56 AM |
| 8 | To the woman who recently went on a date with a man and shared her reddit with him:Welcome! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 10:52 PM |
| 13 | To the woman who recently went on a date with a man and shared her reddit with him:Free publicity ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 10:19 PM |
| 10 | I'm still friends with my toxic ex boyfriendKeeping him in your life isn’t going to work if you want peace of mind and to move on. The only solution is to remove this person from your life completely. If you want to keep toxic trash on your life who uses you – that’s your choice. We’re not going to help you justify why keeping him in your life is okay no matter how good he acts towards you now. Toxic ex-boyfriends must be left in the past. I’m not friends with ANY of my exes and it’s all for the best. That’s how I’ve managed to move on an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 11:28 PM |
| 13 | "Love Kernels" - The Pickmesha National Anthem from the brilliant Rachel Bloom (Crazy Ex-Girlfriend)Rachel is brilliant. This show is so self-aware lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 11:37 PM |
| 15 | New to this--what do I do from here?You don’t do anything but block him. Don’t do coffee dates and when a man asks you to get your own food/coffee, ask him bluntly if he expects you to pay for your own. If he doesn’t step up, he’s not that into you and only wants a cheap fucktoy. A man who offers a coffee date and makes you split is low value. Don’t entertain these fools. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 11:33 PM |
| 46 | Should I even respond?If I were you, I’d next this man. No man who wants a relationship with you and sees you as his future girlfriend will make a shitty offer like that. He sounds like a fuckboy looking for sex. I see no reason why you’d continue entertaining him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 09:16 PM |
| 5 | another example of how most dating threads are toxic/u/keto_cheeto | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 08:59 PM |
| 2 | I slept with him...am I useless to him now. What do I do?Only have sex with men who have committed to you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 08:41 PM |
| 9 | When you let a man set the “precedent” of what you’ll accept in a relationship, this is your futureWhoever wrote this so she can be redirected to FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 04:07 AM |
| – | When you let a man set the “precedent” of what you’ll accept in a relationship, this is your futurePlease tag the user to this post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 04:02 AM |
| – | R/Darktriadwomen questionHello! DarkTriadWomen is a secret subreddit for femme fatales (or those aspiring to be one) who aren't afraid to get their hands dirty to get what they want in life. We study the dark arts of seduction and we are amoral in nature, unlike our sister sub FemaleDatingStrategy. To keep this a sanctuary for enlightened women to have private discussions free of male participation, we do have a screening process. Please hop on to vocaroo.com on your desktop/laptop, and record the following: Say your us… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 09:26 PM |
| 2 | How do I turn this train wreck around?Never go to a man’s place + do anything sexual with him before commitment. Don’t make out in a public space by the end of the first date. Don’t put him up on a pedestal just because he’s attractive and has his shit together. Move on from this man. He’s not going to give you the amazing treatment that I presume you want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 08:43 PM |
| 12 | Abused girl upset about turning 18 because she can’t be “jailbait” anymore. Has extreme age anxiety because of pedophiles and teen porn. Depraved Males in the comments try to tell her women peak at 20.How to get some self-esteem and how to not rely on gross old men fetishizing your youth to feel good about yourself. Read the whole subreddit and be enlightened. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 05:23 AM |
| 3 | Abused girl upset about turning 18 because she can’t be “jailbait” anymore. Has extreme age anxiety because of pedophiles and teen porn. Depraved Males in the comments try to tell her women peak at 20./u/Litaloxo135 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 10:30 PM |
| 21 | When you go on a date, do you pretend to reach for your wallet?Go back to /r/dating_advice. This sub isn’t for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 08:25 PM |
| 8 | Ask a dumb question, get a smart answerYou go girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 07:16 PM |
| 1 | SugarBaby Gets scammed out of $2K and wants to know if she should double down on the stupid by applying for a credit card linked to his account./u/CaramelKangaroo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 06:36 PM |
| 5 | Woman subscribed her pornsick bf to all the porn subs she knows he visits, changed his phone background from her to a porn pic he downloaded -- princess is going to earn her crown 👑 soon/u/FaultInTheTit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 09:31 PM |
| 42 | Cardi B Gave Her CHEATING HUSBAND $500,000 in Cash for His Birthday.She needs FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 07:55 PM |
| 46 | How men learn to hate womenGreat post! As FDS women, we must not only look at a man's potential to be a husband, but also as a father to our future children. Find a man who would be an amazing father for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 07:50 PM |
| 8 | The Oxytocin MythThis! I’ve dated a player once, thinking that he might be great in bed, but he was super meh. He’s just overconfident about his skills. Typical male delusion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 08:30 PM |
| 78 | What in the flappy flip flap ??If a man is really into you and wants a relationship with you, you’ll never feel confused. Block him and move on with your life. He’ll do everything he can to try to waste your time. It’s up to you to set a boundary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 03:32 AM |
| 14 | Do not date a man based on his potential.So what's the direct advice that you're suggesting? That a woman marry a man who's already successful? How do you define successful? What if you're dating a man your age making low 6 figures -- is that still considered potential? When does a man stop being a potential -- is it based on income? Since most men in their 20s only have potential, do you suggest dating older men instead? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 10:05 PM |
| 25 | The BBC Exposes The Pickup Artist CommunityThe comments are just as disgusting. Also, it's absurd the level of delusion that these men have. Check out the first men featured in the video. The girl said he completely misread the situation. The girl was just trying to shut down the interaction calmly to not set him off, while he's out there saying that she would have been a same day lay if they met on vacation. Yikes. Men are so delusional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 07:49 PM |
| 12 | Low effort dates?Never accept a happy hour date. That's such a turn off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 07:47 PM |
| 19 | My friend called me a homophobe because I told her I would never date a Bi-manYep. And what if he cheats on you? Bi/gay men have a higher sex drive and are more likely to cheat because male partners are more available than female partners. Look at how non-monogamous gay men are. It just increases your risk being with a bisexual man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 06:49 PM |
| 29 | When your male friend treats women like shit.Why are you friends with a person like that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 06:12 PM |
| 19 | This guy I’m seeing won’t pay for food??Nah, no need. She shouldn’t give a guy like that a chance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 06:11 PM |
| 8 | Choosing your child’s father is one of the most important decisions you will make in your lifeOmg 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 04:42 AM |
| 10 | Gives birth to his 2 babies, works 12 hrs/day 6 days/wk to support her family, has zero time for herself or self care, husband does JACK SHIT and then tells her he doesn't want to have sex w her bc she's "fat and hairy." Never over-perform for a LVM, he will NOT appreciate you for it./u/kyotobabe please check out our sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 04:18 AM |
| 37 | I think this horrifying post from dating_advice pretty much perfectly sums up what this sub is empowering women to avoid by knowing their worth. DO NOT BE HER.I consider blowjobs way more intimate than sex. I have sex first before giving a BJ. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 04:15 AM |
| 1 | 7 Texting Habits of a High Value WomanDo more research on feminine and masculine energy in relationships. Just because you control your life (I do), doesn’t mean you can’t be feminine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 05:37 PM |
| 17 | Friends f*** with no worriesCasual sex rarely benefits women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Watch what they do, not what they say? He's not that into me. How do I move on?Elliot Scott has some good teachings | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Dude asking for my height and tells me to keep the heals on with him because he is 6 foot tall Lmaol🤢 yuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 06:40 AM |
| 24 | r/AITA: Her Brother got a woman pregnant, then blocked her and refused to help pay for the abortion. His sister KICKED HIS DEADBEAT ASS THE FUCK OUT OF HER HOUSE for the audacity. Imagine if all women held their male relatives this accountable?🙌👑/u/anonymouss_throwaway Please check out our sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 06:40 AM |
| 36 | Man Does his best friend’s 11 year girlfriend a solid and tells her the truth: HE WLL NEVER MARRY YOU. (She’s in denial)I like OP. He’s a man but so based and pinkpilled. /u/ThrowawayL6197 Bravo! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 06:37 AM |
| 41 | Man Does his best friend’s 11 year girlfriend a solid and tells her the truth: HE WLL NEVER MARRY YOU. (She’s in denial)/u/ThrowawayL6197 Please show her our subreddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 06:36 AM |
| 12 | Why it's not shallow to insist a man be financially capable💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 06:03 AM |
| 12 | Watch what they do, not what they say? He's not that into me. How do I move on?Time to start anew. Just remember though that even if you start dating new men, if you still have this doormat mindset and being too emotional for men, you'll still get the same results. You have to not only replace this man but also replace your mindset. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 09:00 PM |
| 10 | Confused on who should pay on the first date ?The man always pays. Read the sidebar for more insight on what FDS stands for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 08:01 PM |
| 5 | The actual nerve/u/TheSingleSociety | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 12:07 AM |
| 9 | The actual nerveShe should have walked away the moment he mentioned splitting the tolls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 12:06 AM |
| 5 | I'm a pick me.. I feel horribleAdded you 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 06:29 AM |
| 15 | Fuckwit husband wants 2 "hall passes" because his wife got raped by 2 men. Then suggests a 3some to help her get over it./u/riahnamacc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 06:27 AM |
| 56 | Fuckwit husband wants 2 "hall passes" because his wife got raped by 2 men. Then suggests a 3some to help her get over it....that's literally what I just vocalized in my head. Fucking crazy. It's also absurd that people are suggesting therapy. She needs to leave NOW. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 05:06 AM |
| 61 | Why Men Fall in Love Faster Than WomenThis is exactly why women need to stop making excuses for men. "Oh, he just needs more time to really get emotionally invested. 6 months isn't enough to get him to commit." "I said I love you to him first. He only said it back to me a week later." If a man isn't madly in love with you early on, he'll never reach that point no matter how long you wait. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 05:05 AM |
| 7 | [Seeking advice] Time to move on? Or is it worth to continue seeing this guy?Men will fuck anything. Giving you attention isn’t special. What’s special is him stepping up which he’s not doing. You’re overvaluing what he’s doing and reading too deeply into it. Don’t believe what a man says. Believe his actions. Giving you attention through text isn’t enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 12:26 AM |
| 3 | So We’re At War Now, I guess 🙄Link? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 12:21 AM |
| 8 | [Seeking advice] Time to move on? Or is it worth to continue seeing this guy?Because you allow yourself to have your time wasted. I’m putting you on pick me probation. Read the sub’s recommended reading + actually listen to the advice given here instead of arguing with everyone that this man is into you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 12:02 AM |
| 24 | [Seeking advice] Time to move on? Or is it worth to continue seeing this guy?He’s just not that into you. Don’t stop dating other men until a man has stepped up and asked you to be his girlfriend. I suggest you stop seeing him. It’s not going to get better. He will never ask you to be his GF. Men who will ask a girl to be their GF will not be this wishy-washy about her early on. Save yourself the heartbreak and block him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Wondering how to balance being a receiver and putting in effort?I find that men who complain within two months that I don’t put as much effort into it are just not that into me. If a man is really into you, he won’t mind that you don’t initiate, AS LONG AS YOU RESPOND to his advances. That’s all a man needs if he’s deeply in love with you. My BF mentioned that he wants me to initiate more when it comes to being affectionate, but he doesn’t see it as a dealbreaker and that doesn’t stop him from initiating stuff with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 08:23 PM |
| 3 | Nope... no red flags here at all... 😒This is the type of dude who’ll end up in the news for shooting his girlfriend after an argument. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Men who want to get married do so.There’s nothing wrong with “ultimatums” aka telling your boyfriend what you want and if he’s not able to provide it, you’re moving on to something else. You’re not FORCING a man’s “hand” by doing that. You’re weeding out dudes who would never marry you in the first place. If he feels that he’s being forced into marriage just because you expressed what your needs are, he’s not the right man for you. He will never marry you. A man who will marry you will not see it as being forced at all. A man is… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Banned permanently from Reddit for saying it's unacceptable for men to watch rape porn for me as a rape victimI would support that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 07:43 PM |
| 4 | Idk what to title this to be honestNext time, don't have sex until you get a commitment and you know he's crazy for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 01:30 AM |
| 3 | "AITA for proposing to my boyfriend as a woman" Another cautionary tale of a forever girlfriend. Hint: never marry a man you have to force into marriage./u/proposingtobfaita | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 01:26 AM |
| 60 | FDS works!There's no value in being official with a low value man like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 12:44 AM |
| 1 | r/femaledatingstrategy megathread.Cool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 05:09 AM |
| 1 | r/femaledatingstrategy megathread.You don’t talk to women much, do you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/19 08:51 PM |
| 5 | "haha yeah"Stop thinking about the times when he was consistent because the current reality is that he is now inconsistent. He wants to use you for sex. If he actually had feelings for you, he’d be pursuing you way more. Next. Block him. Don’t entertain more of him. On to the next candidate for your heart. Hit up dating sites and expand your social circles. Don’t waste a second more of your time thinking about him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 09:02 AM |
| 7 | You guys were right and now I feel like a fucking retard.What he really means: “I’ve noticed that you’re good enough for me to sleep with, but you’re not my type (through no fault of your own) for me to go all out on courting you and treating you with the respect and love that you deserve.” Don’t waste a second more of your life on this tool. Keep it moving. You’re not even in a relationship with him nor has he done anything for you to be stressed about him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 08:52 AM |
| 5 | Finally tased this A-holeBe careful out there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 06:01 PM |
| 25 | Just FYI, not all dating strategies work the same way for all women...I don’t need to ask a man out. All I have to do is flirt and it’s up to him if he wants to take it to the next level. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 05:55 PM |
| 15 | Disgusting excuse for a man rapes this poor woman, she’s trying to figure out how to “let him down easy”/u/ashwheee | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 08:04 AM |
| 2 | Women both insist that men are better off paying for dates and encourage other women to take advantage of men who pay for dates. Is getting 'fleeced' just an unavoidable part of dating?I was definitely stupidly brave when I was 18-20 years old. Thankfully, nothing bad happened. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/19 06:55 PM |
| 39 | The characteristics of a High Value ManWomen are simply of a higher quality as human beings than men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 06:53 PM |
| 51 | The characteristics of a High Value ManOoh, please make a post on what signs to look out for early on that tells you if a man is a waste of time! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 06:53 PM |
| 11 | N-count in men, does it matter?Same! I’m way more forgiving of a woman’s high n-counts than of a man’s high n-counts. Men are definitely more likely have to manipulate to get there. Men with lower n-counts are best for LTRs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 06:50 PM |
| 58 | “Women don’t want to fuck me. Therefore, they shouldn’t have rights. There’s no other option. I hate that it has to be this way though :/.”FDS: “How to never ever pay on a date” Reddit: “You fucking demons, how dare you be so entitled that you’d demand that men pay on dates. I want you to split the bill on dates so I don’t have to step up because I’m actually the one who feels entitled to date you. If you don’t do that, I’ll keep harassing you and sending you shitty messages.” MGTOW: “Women don’t want to fuck me, so we should take away their rights.” Reddit: crickets It’s fucking absurd that we get criticized for having basic stand… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 06:43 PM |
| 47 | take less than zero shits about these scrotesIf a man can’t text you back or make time for you, just remember that a Japanese man found out where to find his crush by analyzing the reflection on her eyeballs. What he did is super shitty but it speaks of the length that men will go to if they’re really into someone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 08:25 AM |
| – | How does one join the private sub r/DarkTriadWomen?Hey, I’m the creator of/r/DarkTriadWomen. It’s currently private and it’s not as active, but I’ll start writing more content for it and will be accepting new members pretty soon. I’ve been busy IRL recently so haven’t had time to write some content, but if you want to join, please DM me or send a message through the sub~ I’ll be dedicating a few hours this weekend to rebuilding it so we can have space for FDS women who are more into the dark arts of seduction and psychology. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 01:57 AM |
| 2 | r/femaledatingstrategy megathread.You were 23 and dating a 16 year old... Okay, pedo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 07:53 PM |
| 2 | r/femaledatingstrategy megathread.So you do agree that most people your age look like their age and you're the exception, but then you're saying as a general rule that women are attracted to older men more than they are attracted to men their age. You're a walking contradiction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 07:53 PM |
| 1 | r/femaledatingstrategy megathread.Agreed. There are tons of mature younger men. And just because you’re older doesn’t mean you’re more mature either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 06:04 PM |
| 2 | r/femaledatingstrategy megathread.Lmaooo you’re a 27 year old dating a 16 year old? wtf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 06:03 PM |
| 18 | How to resistDon't invite a man to your place unless he's your boyfriend. Don't fall for the shitty tactic of cooking together before you're bf/gf. https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/wiki/recommended_reading | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 10:32 AM |
| 13 | When men ghost and come back without explanation, what should you do?Girl, move on. Block him and date other men. Read: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/wiki/recommended_reading | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 10:31 AM |
| 6 | r/femaledatingstrategy megathread.Because that's the shit we have to deal with. We have to deal with tons of shitty men before finding respectable ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 10:29 AM |
| 1 | r/femaledatingstrategy megathread.As if. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 10:14 AM |
| 3 | r/femaledatingstrategy megathread.Male spaces on Reddit aren't afraid because a lot of them will just beat "female agitators" down, who are the minority. Compare that to moids who brigade subreddits which they find despicable, trying to insult us. Women don't do that. We're not that violent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 09:45 AM |
| 5 | r/femaledatingstrategy megathread.If we allow dissenting opinions from moids there, our message will just get diluted. The purpose of the sub is to educate women on how to have better relationships, not spend most of our time debating other people and justifying why we have this ideology. This ideology gets us results (aka great guys who treat us well) and we have better things to do with our time than argue with those who will never change their mind anyway. Live and let live. We're not here to debate you for your own pleasure … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 09:44 AM |
| 9 | r/femaledatingstrategy megathread.Some of us are attractive, yes, and that attracts more men and statistically, more assholes, so we need FDS to filter out bad men from the good ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 09:41 AM |
| 6 | r/femaledatingstrategy megathread.lol keep coping, the majority of younger women aren't attracted to older men when they can have access to a Chad/cutie their age. Keep thinking that though and be delusional. Also, you're disgusting for wanting to date barely legal teens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/19 09:38 AM |
| 25 | “I know what women want better than they do. They are all liars and hate nice old guys like me.” - ScrotusHe's trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 09:14 AM |
| 27 | The Dumb Fox CredoFirst option is better. Being part of the group doesn’t mean anything if the men who flock to you aren’t gonna give you the relationship you want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 05:50 AM |
| 15 | The Dumb Fox CredoOmg girl 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, what's the worst date you've ever been on before FDS and after FDS?Good thing you didn’t pay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 05:12 AM |
| 15 | Im tired of women who find gross stuff about their boyfriend's being criticized for snooping.Holy fuck. What a piece of shit man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 04:36 AM |
| 7 | Boyfriend wants to fuck other girls-- BUT HD LOVES MEOP, can you tag that OP to this thread? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/19 07:22 PM |
| 22 | Men never follow through on things they say!The FDS stance is: never message a man first. If he wanted to, he would have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/19 05:54 PM |
| 26 | I think it says something about male nature when they get so upset and triggered by women wanting men to reciprocate effort into sexually pleasing them.😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/19 08:34 PM |
| 28 | I think it says something about male nature when they get so upset and triggered by women wanting men to reciprocate effort into sexually pleasing them.These guys think we’re having way more sex than how much we actually have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/19 08:34 PM |
| 4 | Can you date a man who has a female BFF?That’s a hard no for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/19 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Can you date a man who has a female BFF?She sounds like a great woman! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/19 08:11 PM |
| 19 | Girl finds mountain of nudes and porn depicting asian girls on her boyfriends' phone. Comments gaslights herinto thinking SHE'S wrong 🙄/u/throwRAclown | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/19 08:01 PM |
| 0 | Guy asking to be in a relationship = not a good thing??You need to work on your self-esteem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Guy asking to be in a relationship = not a good thing??Don’t fall for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Post-First Date Struggles. KEEP ME STRONG!Don’t obsess about him. Start meeting other guys! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 09:03 PM |
| 2 | this some real queen shit tho 👑Yikes. He should have cut him off when he fucked up. This is not inspirational at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 08:58 PM |
| 3 | This text my ex husband sent me while on his way to meet his side chick to discuss their future together. I was giddy thinking he might be planning a much needed romantic date for us. Surprise! He packed a bag and walked out two days later. Protect yourselves.That’s disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 08:56 PM |
| 28 | The "gonewild" subI have more respect for women who at least get paid for it, but women on the gonewild sub do it for free. Overall, women shouldn’t objectify their bodies, even when it profits them. There are other ways to make money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 06:15 PM |
| 8 | Say no to equally pursuing a man – that just indicates he is only mildly interested in you. Find a man who fully pursues you.Uh, no it doesn’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 06:11 PM |
| 51 | An update from the man who found his girlfriends FDS account. (Did we figure out who the lucky lady was??😂))Lol, if she’s a true FDS girl, she’ll start dating other men the moment he starts acting up, with his knowledge of course. Time for some rotational dating, sis. Make him learn his place. He doesn’t sound that high value though if he’s this cheap in sharing his resources. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 05:09 AM |
| 5 | 7 Texting Habits of a High Value WomanNope. Her advice on having sex before a commitment and waiting around for a commitment for more than 3 months is BS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 01:07 AM |
| 2 | 7 Texting Habits of a High Value WomanI practice embodying feminine energy when dealing with men and it works. Being feminine doesn’t mean that you’re weak and accommodating. You can be feminine, letting the man lead and not trying to control anything, while being high value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 01:06 AM |
| 12 | The most dangerous thing you can give a man, is the benefit of the doubtIt's been 5 years though. Why hasn't he married you yet? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 11:13 PM |
| 7 | He canceled, should I give him the benefit of the doubtNah, move on. Why would you want a man who puts you in the backburner like that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 10:39 PM |
| 75 | Underrated Strategy - Single to Engaged, no Boyfriends allowedThis is the ultimate FDS strategy. I’ve always wondered if any other women have implemented this successfully and how it all works. Now I’m super tempted to do the same thing. No commitment until I get an engagement ring. Let them fight for my exclusivity until I get a ring. If you’re already in a relationship though and you want to do this, how do you downgrade him? Esp if he’s already expressed wanting to marry you and is just waiting for some months. He also treats you really well too. I gues… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 09:55 PM |
| 67 | Marraige....don't do it. Marriage is a woman's grave my sisters. We've been sold a shitty bill of goods.There are marriage material men out there who are super caring, will put you first, and add value to your life. It’s our job to find them and filter out guys who don’t fit that bill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 07:19 PM |
| 33 | 7 Texting Habits of a High Value WomanThis is good advice, but I’d be careful when delving deeper into Katharina Phang’s philosophy. She’s a bit of a pick-me since she believes that a woman must wait for a man to claim her even though it’s been more than three months (“just give him time, don’t pressure him”) PLUS she believes in having sex before commitment and she’ll shame you for making such a big deal out of sex (aka we should give it up so easily). No thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 07:17 PM |
| 26 | I get texts saying they enjoyed their time with me after the date is over: but not asking for a second dateThat’s just them weeding themselves out. You don’t have to do anything. You move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 05:37 PM |
| 4 | Thoughts on asking guys out?No one’s stopping you from doing that, but it goes against FDS principles. The “he’s just shy” is a myth – if he’s crazy attracted to you, he’ll ask you out. It’s also a myth that only confident assholes are more likely to approach you. Confident high quality men will ask you out too. As a woman, it’s not your job to pursue a man. It’s his job to prove himself to you. You’re not being a “visionary” by suggesting you’re missing out on men because you don’t have the confidence to ask him out. If y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 01:23 AM |
| 7 | I bet he thought he really got me typing out this word soup. Just say you want a FWB and go.Uh yeah no, I’mma pass, mate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 06:46 AM |
| 8 | Someone else’s boyfriend discovers his GF is an FDS member. Y’all gotta stop leaving your browsers open.Yesss. These haters are doing the hard work for us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 12:02 AM |
| 11 | For all the people scared to ask ‘what are you looking for?’ - just rip off the band aid ASAP and get the truth. Get comfortable asking difficult questions and weed out incompatible suitors early.That got an audible gag from me. Ew. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 11:52 PM |
| 1 | At what point is it okay to 'make the first move'?It’s still approaching. You’re a high value woman with lots of friends and hobbies. Men should be the ones approaching you and trying to get to know you, not the other way around. It’s better to devote your energy making friends and expanding your social circle than it is to approach a man you’re interested in to “get to know him.” He should be the one plotting to know more about you. ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 11:43 PM |
| 20 | At what point is it okay to 'make the first move'?If a man isn't asking you out, that means he doesn't want to. Stop having a crush on this man. He's not that into you. If he was, he would have asked you out already. What do you want, a "relationship" with someone whom you've had to plot on how to get them to ask you out, or with a man who knows what he wants, can't resist you, and pursues you directly? He's not a high value man for you if he doesn't pursue you. Crushes are pointless (I made a post on this -- please read it). Only entertain men… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 07:54 PM |
| 28 | I should have kept it broken off, but I didn't. Consequences are detailed.Uh, he’s disgusting. Fuck “history,” you don’t have any with him. Caring about having history only applies to men who have treated you really well in the past and it doesn’t apply to this man. Just text him that it’s over, don’t wait for his response, block him, and move on with your life. You don’t know what you’re missing out if you think tolerating this man is acceptable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 07:47 PM |
| 23 | Sex on the first date... Never again!That male is disgusting. I’d never sleep with a man until I get a commitment. We deserve at least that, ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 07:22 PM |
| 13 | Get him to propose within a yearJust be upfront. If he wants to marry you, he will propose without any doubts. But if he’s being so-so about it and doesn’t offer you anything solid, it’s best to see other people. You’ve already wasted 3 years on him. If a man wants to marry you, he’ll do it within 2 years absolute max. Don’t be afraid of telling him what your standards are. The right man won’t be scared by it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 05:21 AM |
| 11 | Tired of Tinder^ this You’ll meet high qualities by having shared hobbies/interests and meeting people through that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/19 07:58 AM |
| 14 | How to tell a man you won’t sleep with him until exclusivity?If a guy tries to escalate, I just tell them upfront that I don’t have sex until I’m committed to someone. It’s that easy. You’re not going to turn off the right man. It’s not an unreasonable expectation on your part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/19 07:56 AM |
| 3 | The 666 Rule: 6 Feet, 6 Inches, 6 FiguresHow many tall men with good income have you met dating-wise? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 02:39 AM |
| 4 | The 666 Rule: 6 Feet, 6 Inches, 6 Figures💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 02:35 AM |
| 8 | The 666 Rule: 6 Feet, 6 Inches, 6 FiguresGeneralizing by height isn’t a good idea tbh. Thinking that all tall men with good income are bad is just limiting yourself from the good men that you can meet who are those two things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/19 02:35 AM |
| 24 | Creepy Man Covers His Van with Images of Teenage Girls. Cops claim they’re powerless to stop him.superiormalelogic 🤧 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 11:41 PM |
| 10 | Love bombed, slow fade by fuckboi - how do I respond?Girl, stop hooking up with men without a commitment!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 08:13 PM |
| 23 | After posting here, received a DM from a man trying to "help" me XDNotice how he’s only trying to lower your standards. It’s not really about helping you. Future guys won’t avoid a woman just because she’s used to men picking up the tab. A high value man expects that he’ll pick up the bill, no problem. He wants to show that he can provide and that he values the woman. The point of not chasing is to only be with men who put a ton of effort into being with you. Going for a man who doesn’t pursue you just hurts you as a woman. As for height, I don’t look down on s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 07:45 PM |
| 58 | He just doesn't like you (enough)So true. A man who’s truly into you will ignore your flaws and will want you regardless. Plus, you won’t be too needy for him and there’s very little thing you can do to turn him off. Your real self won’t turn him off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 05:33 PM |
| 10 | Nosy Male “Friend” wants to know AITA For Calling Out My Friend Who Has Been Heavily Browsing /r/femaledatingstrategy?I know and my comment is my message to her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 03:57 PM |
| 5 | Discuss the Tatcha power couple love story: the woman committed all the sins in the FDS bible - initiated, chased, proposed and even bought the ring. They went on to build a successful company together. What's going on here?If you think that her outcome is a good outcome and that FDS principles aren’t the be all, end all, then no thanks. That’s not a good outcome and I never want to be with a man like that nor would I ever propose to a man. Yuck. 🤢 Why do y’all think they sound happy? She’s a pick me who chases a man. Do you want to spend the rest of your life doing that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 03:55 PM |
| 8 | Discuss the Tatcha power couple love story: the woman committed all the sins in the FDS bible - initiated, chased, proposed and even bought the ring. They went on to build a successful company together. What's going on here?That’s kind of sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 03:53 PM |
| 11 | General guidelines and timing for "I Love You"A man should always say it first. Only say it back once he’s expressed is desire to be your boyfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 03:37 PM |
| 16 | Dating - Engagement - Marriage TimelineHere’s my timeline: For a man to show he’s serious about me, he must commit to me within 4-6 weeks of dating. Any longer than that means he’s not very eager about me and I don’t want to spend any more of my time on a man like that. Within two months, he must express his intent to get married. When men are ready for marriage and you sound their wedding bell, then he WILL express his desire to marry you. Engagement should happen within 9 months to a year and a half max. Any longer than that, any d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 03:34 PM |
| 14 | FDS 5th date successYay! 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 03:13 PM |
| 48 | Nosy Male “Friend” wants to know AITA For Calling Out My Friend Who Has Been Heavily Browsing /r/femaledatingstrategy?If you’re the friend mentioned in this post, I’m so happy that you didn’t let your ignorant male friend change your mind about this sub! 💕 Men just don’t want women to wake up and have standards. Notice how just because you want someone you find attractive + a gentleman who picks up the bill, he instantly thinks you want a rich male model. It’s like his male brain can’t comprehend the idea of you wanting what’s best for yourself. Never ever listen to men about dating advice. They’ll always give … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 03:10 PM |
| 3 | Need some advice! Been played :/Who cares if it seems butthurt? It’s about doing what’s good for you and blocking him is definitely it! I’ve blocked plenty of men and DGAF about what others think about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 03:01 PM |
| 13 | HELP What do I say to delineate between dating and ?drinks?Just ask him upfront, girl. Don’t be afraid to be straight up with men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 03:51 AM |
| 6 | Do your daily duty at the truerateme subThis is so true. I've had a dude I met online rate me as a 6 once and apparently he's a 7. Like kind of world does he live in? I'm clearly more attractive than him and he's overestimating himself. If he approached me IRL, I would next him so hard. Men are so overconfident. Yikessss. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 02:31 AM |
| 5 | Have any of you guys came across any genuinely good guys?💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 12:44 PM |
| 16 | Have any of you guys came across any genuinely good guys?Agreed. Just because you’re close to your mom, doesn’t mean that you’re a mama’s boy. There’s a big difference. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 12:44 PM |
| 17 | Bask in their desperation - boob shamingI have big boobs too and honestly, it’s best to accept and love them because they’re a part of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 12:40 PM |
| 3 | FDS MOVIES BRAINSTORMReady to Mingle on Netflix! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 04:34 AM |
| 98 | Red pill guys "why dont girls pay attention to betas during their peak years!!??!!😥" also red pill guys "You should dump that girl who stuck by you during her peak years when you were beta because shes not pretty enough!"What the fuck. This is why you don’t ever help build a man up. Fuck that shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 08:44 PM |
| 13 | Girlfriend(28) asking me (27) to marry herWhat the fuck? | /r/askTRP | 13/11/19 08:32 PM |
| 2 | New to this sub and need encouragement.Girl, you deserve a man who knows how to plan to meet you. This is why girls should never ever try to move forward a relationship with a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 08:28 PM |
| 13 | Losing interest in the guy I'm dating because he used to be a hoeLove it 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 06:10 PM |
| 9 | Aging, over 30, dating as a womanYou shouldn’t feel bad for not being hit on by men your age who go for younger women. Bullets dodged. Men who like women who are significantly younger than them are not high quality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 11:07 PM |
| 14 | Is this supposed to entice me? In what way did you get the impression that I was a sex worker?Lol, men with real money don’t flash their money like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 11:01 PM |
| 24 | They aren't even trying to hide it anymoreMeaning: “I’m so fucking unattractive, please give me pussy.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 10:59 PM |
| 19 | Top notch hvmWow, the victim blaming is ridiculous and the fact that he can’t take responsibility for his own actions. It literally makes me sick. This is a child, not a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 10:56 PM |
| 20 | Guys who literally just want to text you all the time with no plan to ever meet.Drop them. You want a man who takes action. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 01:52 PM |
| 12 | Met a HVM, how do I not be a pick me about it.Keep meeting other men. Your goal is to have a few high value men courting you so you can choose which one you like the best. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 10:56 PM |
| 10 | An example of a low quality man.YIKES. This is why men who have a history of dating women younger than them is a red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Banned for suggesting she check out this subWell, you’re just letting them know hat this subreddit can help them. It is ok | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 02:50 AM |
| 22 | Banned for suggesting she check out this subYeah, I got banned for that too. It’s best to tag them in one of the posts here instead! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 11:54 PM |
| 7 | Do I need a better job to attract a HVM?Agreed! Which is why we must level up our careers too. 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 11:53 PM |
| 32 | Do I need a better job to attract a HVM?Not really. A man doesn’t care about a woman’s job. What he cares about are your looks, your attitude as a high value woman, your intellect, your charm, your femininity, how much chemistry the two of you have, and how much he enjoys his time with you. Focus on leveling up in all ways. Your career, looks, mindset, confidence, intelligence, charm, femininity, and be fun to be around! A man won’t hold your meh job against you. The only ones who will are men who aren’t generous and want to use you f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 09:22 PM |
| 19 | Should I feel bad about lying to guys? (Newbie)Men don’t feel guilty about lying to women. Plus, no one is entitled to knowing everything that goes on in your life. You’re allowed to have a private life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 09:15 PM |
| 20 | Just discovered FDS, realizing I unwittingly went on a couch date.. Thoughts??He has to put more effort into the dates he plans if he wants to see you again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 08:24 PM |
| 15 | Ladies, a word of cautionI’ve posted the videos to make it more concrete for everyone (and for myself) that the moids who bash us are low quality and we would never be seen dating them. They’re just not our target market. Anyways, I don’t know about you gals, but I find it fun to read about moids getting triggered with our sub. Their hatred of us makes me smile because I know we’re doing things right. 😎 These days, I don’t argue with moids who come into my inbox anymore because it’s a waste of time, but I do like readin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 08:22 PM |
| 60 | FDS GUIDE. Non-mainstream opinions and strategies held by this sub.Thisss. Thank you! If you want to debate constantly about the basic principles that we uphold, FDS isn’t the place for you. All your participation does is dilute the vibe of the community. Either you agree with at least 80% of what we believe in or you don’t. If it’s the latter, you’re better off in /r/dating_advice or basically, the rest of Reddit. FDS is a special place where we can discuss our unique perspective and help other women improve their lives. The regular posters don’t have the ener… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 08:16 PM |
| 16 | Keep your heart on lockdown until he has demonstrated consistently that he cares about making you happy.This is such a cute anecdote with great lessons. Thanks for sharing! 💞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 08:02 PM |
| 12 | Keep your heart on lockdown until he has demonstrated consistently that he cares about making you happy.Yep. Even if it’s been months, even if we’re married, I will never open my heart up so fully to the point of unhealthiness. Men don’t like to be pressured. We can only inspire them to give us what we want, but we’ll never be able to demand it of them, unless we want to drive them away. It never ever works, trying to help them out and asking them for things. If they’re not giving us what we want, we can only distance ourselves and entertain other things in life. If they step up, good, but if not,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 07:57 PM |
| 40 | Should I text him or wait for him to text me?Read through all the posts in this sub. • Don’t ask if a man wants to hang out. If he wants to see you, he has to text you and make plans with you properly. • He has to travel to you. Always date in a place that’s convenient for you. • No last minute dates. He has to plan at least 2 days in advance if he wants to see you. • No watching a movie in his place. He has to plan a proper date – going to dinner, etc. • Don’t ever text him first. It’s his job to move the relationship forward. • Date othe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 06:28 PM |
| 36 | How to train WomenSo this post doesn’t awaken the ire of the internet, but my post on how to not pay on dates gets me countless of harassing messages? It’s like men are expected to take advantage of women, but the moment you take control as a woman, you’re beaten down. Yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 05:55 PM |
| 103 | Reminder that hot and ugly dudes end up treating you the same wayI used to think that if I want to have a super caring, romantic, and loving boyfriend, I have to settle for someone who’s below my league, but I really don’t lol. I can actually date men who I legitimately find physically attractive because I’m attractive enough for it. This is a myth perpetrated by society so women have to settle and so ugly men will still have partners who are above their league. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 05:43 PM |
| 25 | Don’t you just love how people like to think we’re larping men, 40+ loners or extremely unattractive?They’ll just victimize themselves even further. “Oh, poor us, of course we can’t resist a woman who’s trying to use us.” 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 05:29 PM |
| 7 | Keep your heart on lockdown until he has demonstrated consistently that he cares about making you happy.Yes! I was reading it before I wrote this and I was so inspired to make this post since I myself needed this reminder. It’s my understanding of her message + my own stuff~ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 05:12 PM |
| 16 | I(21F) can't decide if my bf(28M) is showing red flags or if I'm being too insecureDo you really want to be with someone who comes to the conclusion that it's acceptable for him to spend time with a female friend at 3AM? Do you really want to be with someone who wants to party? I guarantee you that he's at least lowkey flirting with strangers when he parties; everybody who parties does that. You're not being insecure, it just sounds like your boyfriend has different priorities and you're not on the same page. It's also a red flag that he's 28 years old and still interested in … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 10:00 AM |
| 5 | I(21F) can't decide if my bf(28M) is showing red flags or if I'm being too insecureHey! Do you have favorite books on relationships and dating, especially ones that show what a healthy relationship/marriage looks like? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 09:59 AM |
| 29 | Man rejected by 30 year old and later trying to save face by only saying he dates 27 and under. Ladies, keep rejecting LMV men!What, so he only wants to use her, but he's bitter because she won't give him the chance to use her? Good for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 09:49 AM |
| 8 | LMAO this MGTOW moid made a video about us on Youtube. THIS is the type of salty trash hating on on usThis is the kind of dude who criticizes FDS. Cute, generous, great guys willingly pay on dates with no problems. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 04:51 AM |
| 9 | Thank god for this subDefinitely don’t suggest a date next time. Let the man do that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 04:49 AM |
| 35 | Will a true HVM “entertain” Pickme types or worse for fun?A high value man in my eyes doesn’t hire sex workers or have casual sex. Someone who’s so commitment-minded that he’ll only enter in a relationship with someone and have sex with them if they see a future with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 03:18 AM |
| 3 | Dealing with Silent Treatment from boyfriend in a High Value way?A week is too generous. 3 days is more than enough to dump someone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Dealing with Silent Treatment from boyfriend in a High Value way?Have you dumped him already? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 09:14 PM |
| 20 | Fiance said, "enjoy your meltdown" while I was cryingWow, can you read what you're writing? You deserve way better than this garbage. First off, do you want to be with a man who has a high libido, watches porn a lot, and wants to be poly? Clearly this dude wants to fuck as many women as possible. He's only saying that he wants to be monogamous with you in order to appease you, so he can have his steady supply of sex and female companionship, while he's indulging in porn and possibly looking for new sexual partners. Secondly, do you seriously want … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 09:10 PM |
| 13 | QuestionIf you’re a part of multiple social circles, you’re bound to get asked out by guys. If you’re at a social event, look approachable to get them to approach you. I’ve written a post on how to get guys to approach you with just eye contact and smiling. This is way better than approaching some dude who will only end up wasting your time because he’s not that into you anyway since he didn’t bother approaching you. If you approach a dude, he’s not going to say no to you, he’s going to just use you for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 08:58 PM |
| 6 | QuestionSpend some hours reading through all of the posts here so you have a better idea on why being upfront with men is a bad strategy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 08:56 PM |
| 19 | QuestionThat's the issue. You don't tell men upfront that you're interested or that you have feelings for them. Let them make all the moves to advance the relationship with you forward. This is how you avoid things like this from happening again and again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 08:01 PM |
| 24 | ex-BF told me he was ready to pay me for sex.Block him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 07:30 PM |
| 10 | Best OLD appsAre there ways for you in your city to build your social circles instead or meet guys socially? Online dating doesn't tend to attract men looking for a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 07:30 PM |
| 37 | Dealing with Silent Treatment from boyfriend in a High Value way?You shouldn't tolerate silent treatment in a healthy relationship. A true high value man won't resort to giving you the silent treatment. He will want to communicate with you instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 07:15 PM |
| 11 | managing the three political positions of datingYou're saying radfems and FDS women don't advocate dating? I'm seriously confused by your post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 07:11 PM |
| 21 | A mod over at TRP commented this...all I can do is laugh 😂😂For most men, sex is the #1 thing on their mind. They string women along for sex until they find a woman who they "fall in love with." Some might be open to love, but most of them look for sex first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 06:31 PM |
| 19 | I didn’t want to go this route but I think I’m starting to really dislike and look down on most men. Don’t want to feel this way.There are great men out there, but I do enjoy using this sub and other femme spaces to vent about my frustrations towards them. How they're shallow as fuck, driven by sex, can't look at a woman beyond her looks, filled with rage, can't respect female spaces, hurt women, use women, etc. Men are responsible for most of the violence and pain in this world. It's not unnatural that the women who have woken up to that fact will feel bitterness towards them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 06:20 PM |
| 11 | Find the strength to leave! Don’t ever be afraid to choose yourself. Good for her./u/desperateandugly Please check out our sub. Hopefully it will help you on your journey. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 06:08 PM |
| 21 | Woman doesn't want to date roommate, lets him down gently, then sleeps with another man 2 days later. Roommate feels "betrayed". She didn't betray him. She communicated clearly and did nothing wrong!LOL, I doubt he's in love with her anyway. He's just in lust, but he feels so entitled to have her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 06:03 PM |
| 6 | He Only Wants Couch Dates with Her, But She Found Two Movie Tickets StubsRIP OP | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Why do we as women ALWAYS have to be the ones who change for their partner?You don't have to tolerate men who aren't willing to change for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 06:02 PM |
| 33 | A mod over at TRP commented this...all I can do is laugh 😂😂Women are the ones who can look past a man’s looks whereas men can’t fall for a woman romantically unless she’s his type and she’s physically attractive. So really this concept that men are the romantics is laughable. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 05:46 PM |
| 11 | A mod over at TRP commented this...all I can do is laugh 😂😂💯! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 05:44 PM |
| 28 | A mod over at TRP commented this...all I can do is laugh 😂😂“So, men do “actively” search for love...” You mean they search for sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 05:43 PM |
| 16 | My (ex-)boyfriend of a year confessed to me that he molested his cousin several times when he was 14 and she was 4, and expected me to just forgive and forget. Needless to say, I reported him to DCYF.What the actual fuck. I feel so bad for the little girl. Fucking monster. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 04:24 AM |
| 13 | Woman is flooded with handsome men who want to date her. There are too many hot guys to stay stuck on any one dude. Daily reminder to take ZERO shit from losers who are easily replaceable!I needed this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 04:19 AM |
| 5 | Heyo I really like this guy, and I think the feelings mutual? What do I do?Don’t make the first move. Let him. If he doesn’t, oh well. Go date other men so you won’t be as focused on him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 07:38 PM |
| 4 | I just wanna complain - Don't be like me💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 07:37 PM |
| 7 | The surest way to lose a man—using sex or otherwise—is to worry about it.Just because you only have sex after getting a commitment, doesn't mean that you're giving out desperate vibes. It's simply a standard -- one that if you adhere to it, will give you the likeliest chance of weeding out men who aren't serious about you vs. having sex in the hopes that you won't be seen as desperate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 05:20 PM |
| 3 | Onision Redpill, Shiloh and SarahI didn't know he was this horrible. I feel so bad for the women he's abused. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 05:32 AM |
| 9 | 🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮Yuck. Why, Russell, why?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 05:21 AM |
| 14 | The State of Young Men from A World Renowned EconomistWhen sex is so easily available without commitment or investment of resources from the man, this is what happens. Men don’t have the drive anymore to strive to be better because of the easy sex they get these days. Yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 11:41 PM |
| 7 | Man confesses that he knows after 2 months of dating that his GF isn't wife material. Men know, ladies! They know if they're going to wife you or not, and they know it fast. Don't let them string you along. If he's "not that into you", BLOCK HIM!Your name, I love it 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 07:49 PM |
| 34 | Men age like wine 🍷 women age like milk 🥛.Imagine being this ugly of a moid and thinking you’re an alpha male lmao 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 07:32 PM |
| 18 | Multiple Subs on reddit are using unsolicited pictures of women for sexual comments. Sometimes their own SISTERS and MOTHERS.Women aren't inherently sick and vile creatures, so of course we won't objectify and treat other people like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 06:28 AM |
| 22 | Leave them on read if they’re not going to make any effort at all. Don’t settle for “Netflix and Chill”Blockkk. No point wasting more time in a man like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 06:38 PM |
| 9 | British women are killing themselves over revenge porn - please never trust men completely even if they are your long term husbands,mots of these victims thought they are in love with those men,never share a nude no matter the pressureWhich look disgusting 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 03:43 AM |
| 40 | British women are killing themselves over revenge porn - please never trust men completely even if they are your long term husbands,mots of these victims thought they are in love with those men,never share a nude no matter the pressureWhy are men so fucking vile? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 10:17 PM |
| 13 | Cheating husband advises other cheating husbands about "OPSEC". Basically he tells them how to avoid getting caught... Check out the OPSEC subreddit to learn how to be able to catch a cheating and learn about your phone's features!!!What pieces of shit. This is why it’s best to find a man who has no problem with you really going through his phone. Some cursory check isn’t enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 05:26 PM |
| 118 | Hmmm. But moids claim women hit the wall at 30.High quality men don’t see a wall. Clearly, Keanu is one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 11:11 AM |
| 16 | FDS Discussion: How are you working on yourself?• Working on advancing my career. Can’t be too specific for privacy purposes! At least 5 hours daily. • Doing strength training 4x a week. Cardio at least 3x a week. • Journaling daily. • Maintaining my social relationships. Will edit more later since I’m out right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 01:25 AM |
| 43 | AskReddit: how do guys feel abour girls making the first moveDon’t come to a fish for fishing advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 01:49 PM |
| 7 | Receiving EnergyI needed this today. Just BE. <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 05:11 AM |
| 3 | Just want to say THANK YOU + something that’s helped me recently.Yes! I'm glad you're making progress. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/19 09:04 PM |
| 43 | Ex added up how much money he spent on me. Number should have been higherRead The Rules. Don’t travel to a man. He has to come to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 03:34 PM |
| 6 | Just had a Tinder date, he asked me to go to his place. I said hell no.The male entitlement... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 03:32 PM |
| 10 | How do I let the man know I would like him to pay for the date he asked me on?Read my post on how to never ever pay on a date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 03:08 PM |
| 33 | Where can FDS members debate the haters ?You’re better off doing some self-improvement than debating moids and pick-mes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 03:53 AM |
| 4 | Why be Financially Dependent when You Can be Breadwinning?If you have your own money, you’re not anyone’s cattle nor are you under any man’s control. A man who spoils us is there because we want him to be there, not because we need him since we have our own money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 09:11 PM |
| – | Why be Financially Dependent when You Can be Breadwinning?Why post on /r/FemaleDatingStrategy when you’re a pick me and can post on /r/dating_advice instead? Why try to convince the women here to be the providers when we clearly believe that that is a man’s role even though we have our own money? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 09:07 PM |
| 2 | The boyfriend who treated me the absolute worst was super short, like 100 lbs, alien-looking, broke, and had an annoying loud personality.I think not. https://edailybuzz.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/iain-glen-young.jpg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 08:14 PM |
| 10 | Inconsistent Long DistanceHe’s just not that into you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 05:58 PM |
| 4 | The boyfriend who treated me the absolute worst was super short, like 100 lbs, alien-looking, broke, and had an annoying loud personality.Iain Glen 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 05:54 PM |
| 38 | When men say "let's see where this goes"...A man will never say that to his dream girl. You're unlikely to be her and he will never commit to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 07:51 AM |
| 6 | Genuine Emotional and Physical ConnectionHave you read the sidebar? We listed our principles there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 09:36 PM |
| 5 | Genuine Emotional and Physical ConnectionIt's pretty much assumed that we also seek genuine emotional and physical connection along with chemistry. Just because we don't talk about these things, doesn't mean that we only caring about men paying on dates. A connection is easy enough to form. However, paying on dates is an indication that a man is stepping up because he invests in his relationship with you. If a man does that consistently, there's a higher chance he will treat you like the love of his love. If you're so against for a man… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 09:30 PM |
| 12 | He follows a bunch of IG models, most of which are local (acceptable behavior?)Tell him you can’t see him anymore. Don’t explain why. Just block him. If he texts you from another number begging for another chance, keep blocking. Men like this don’t deserve a second chance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 07:26 PM |
| 23 | He follows a bunch of IG models, most of which are local (acceptable behavior?)Big yikes. You’re in your mid-20s dating a man in his late forties and he’s not treating you like a queen (and giving you $$$$). He should be worshipping the ground you’re walking on. He minimizes your feelings and doesn’t care about how you feel. Dump him. He’s not worth it. Set your boundaries. If this doesn’t feel right for you, honor it and if he doesn’t respect it, boy bye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 06:27 PM |
| 11 | Moid not supporting his girlfriend who moved for him and can not find a job/u/praha462 Please listen to the advice the ladies in this sub will give you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 01:37 AM |
| 41 | Reminder that these are the Red Pill "alphas" RP-Women call "captains"The young guys I date who pay on dates are wayyy hotter than these dudes. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 11:09 PM |
| 8 | Us: Brag about not letting a dude fuck us over Them: Brag about happily watching a woman get fucked overApparently a woman who gets her meals paid willingly by men is worse than this man. Fantastic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 08:07 PM |
| 7 | How many of you are femcels and how many date routinely?I don't look like a VS model, but I'm on the more attractive side of average. I have no problem getting dates with cute younger guys my age who have good jobs and who have no issues w/ paying on dates. I get approached in bars and clubs. My dating life is basically in a state of abundance, so I'm not really a femcel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 08:06 PM |
| 6 | How many of you are femcels and how many date routinely?Good mom <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 08:01 PM |
| 6 | "He left me after 10 years of dating for another girl and now I'm devastated." Ladies, don't set yourself up for this type of heartbreak. Leave after 2 to 3 years without a ring.So true. A man should already talk about marriage by 8 months max. Marriage-minded men bring it up way earlier though. 6-8 months is the absolute max. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 07:58 PM |
| 5 | "He left me after 10 years of dating for another girl and now I'm devastated." Ladies, don't set yourself up for this type of heartbreak. Leave after 2 to 3 years without a ring.It's just wasting your youth and beauty on a man who ain't shit. It's such a sad story. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 07:57 PM |
| 11 | "He left me after 10 years of dating for another girl and now I'm devastated." Ladies, don't set yourself up for this type of heartbreak. Leave after 2 to 3 years without a ring.Yep. If you're looking for marriage, stay in a relationship for 1 year max. If you're not engaged by then, leave. Ideally, you can suss out his real intentions with you before the one year mark so you can leave earlier if you have to. Men totally know by date #1 if you're girlfriend or wife material. So if he's not treating you early on like he's going to marry you, he's never going to marry you. Men don't suddenly just fall in love with you after treating you like you're just like any other wom… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 07:57 PM |
| 7 | "He left me after 10 years of dating for another girl and now I'm devastated." Ladies, don't set yourself up for this type of heartbreak. Leave after 2 to 3 years without a ring.If we're looking at purely maximizing female benefit, exploring other options on the side is a smart thing to do. You might just find someone else who will treat you better and is an overall better long-term material. Most people hold back from it though due to "morality." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 07:54 PM |
| 5 | Finally talked about commitmentYay! 🥰 Indeed, speaking to a man honestly about what your standards are works. It's up to us to teach men how to treat us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 07:50 PM |
| 8 | FDS Success story, or what I did wrong, and how I fixed itI'm proud of you! FDS is the real deal and it's what will land you the ideal relationship that you want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 07:49 PM |
| 9 | "Worthless unemployed misogynistic male who is almost 50 seeking women in their 30s to "start a family with", wants to leave his menopausal GF for them." I hope women in their 30s destroy his pathetic ego. Please also NEVER allow yourselves to fall for a dude like this./r/DarkTriadWomen ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 07:23 PM |
| 17 | "Worthless unemployed misogynistic male who is almost 50 seeking women in their 30s to "start a family with", wants to leave his menopausal GF for them." I hope women in their 30s destroy his pathetic ego. Please also NEVER allow yourselves to fall for a dude like this.He's thinking with his dick and low IQ. What else can we expect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 07:23 PM |
| 13 | Does status mean shit for guys?Men have the worst egos. Everything is about them, them, them. How they must always be better than you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 07:20 PM |
| 13 | Should I be seeing a guy that I don’t see long term with?It's best to detach as early as possible for less emotional hurt on both sides. Spend your time searching for someone who's a better match for you instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 07:15 PM |
| 2 | f/femaledatingstrategy is a great sub!<3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/19 07:03 PM |
| 11 | Don't ever feel ashamed of your preferences in menGirl, same. I love tall men and I cannot lie! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 03:45 AM |
| 18 | Don't ever feel ashamed of your preferences in menThat should be your choice, not his. Yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 03:45 AM |
| 3 | He confessed that he had a year-long relationship with an older blood relative. Is there any getting around this?Girl... love yourself enough to not have to put up with this kind of man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 03:44 AM |
| 3 | Am I being irrational?I am so proud of you for standing up for yourself and loving yourself way more than his pathetic ass! <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 03:42 AM |
| 29 | 3 Ways to Know FOR SURE That He Doesn't Want YouYes, girl, yes! If a man isn't crazy about you right from the get go and he's lukewarm about you, what's even the point? You're just wasting your time on him. You can find another man who will treat you like the queen that you are. He will see your value and will treat you accordingly. It's also important for women to uphold the "Would he treat x (a famous model or celebrity) this way?" If you are his dream girl, he would treat you the way he would treat a VS model or a Hollywood star. That's th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 03:40 AM |
| 1 | u/AverageTooHot is a TERRORIST.LOL, these targeted harassment attacks are getting old... Moids can stop bothering... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 01:17 AM |
| 24 | OK but just want to knowHe looks ugly AF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 12:37 AM |
| 24 | To retcon or to move on?It’s easier to train a new man to treat you like a queen than an old one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 09:37 PM |
| 14 | How can I compete with "proactive" women?Don’t worry, some men are hunters and they WILL come for you if they like you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 09:19 PM |
| 23 | How can I compete with "proactive" women?I’m a proud “passive woman” when it comes to dating and I‘m able to get men. It’s men’s job to be proactive and you’re the chooser. Don’t approach men, let them come to you and win you over. Women who approach men and take control will only be used for sex. Men will not commit to them because they don’t feel like they’ve really earned her. Be confident in your own desirability to not ever have to approach a man. It doesn’t work if you’re looking for a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 09:19 PM |
| 5 | Look Hotter If You Want To Get a BoyfriendYou’re born conventionally good-looking. Some of us have to try harder. :p but I do agree that you should act in a way that would get you the man that you want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 07:25 PM |
| 10 | Look Hotter If You Want To Get a BoyfriendI literally said you should only get plastic surgery if you want to do it for yourself, not for a man, because you can get a man without plastic surgery. Comprehend better next time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 03:03 PM |
| 16 | Hey, guess what...Oh yeah. Men with high n-counts are a no no for me. I prefer a man who’s very relationship-oriented. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 02:23 PM |
| 19 | Dating a Old man (?Nope. Date someone your age who has a proper job – 23-26 years old. Their job should preferably be in finance or technology. You don’t have to date older men to find a man who has money to pay on dates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 02:22 PM |
| 27 | Look Hotter If You Want To Get a BoyfriendThe messed up thing is that some men will specifically go after fat women because they believe that they have lower standards and are more open in bed. Such a disgusting POV, demeaning women like that. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 02:17 PM |
| 15 | The Truth About FDS Women: We aren’t similar to incels, nor are we "ugly" or mentally deranged. We are your everyday women.The other one is so infamous and triggers people so much that we get lots publicity though, and free publicity = more members :p | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 12:41 PM |
| 6 | Am I being irrational?No. You block him now. You don't have to listen to anything more that he has to say. This is your life and you decide when you're going to stop letting a dead weight remain in your life. You don't hope HE leaves it at that. YOU leave it at that. He doesn't get to decide anything. Why do you give him that power? Men don't know how to stop? Don't leave it up to them -- leave it up to you to tell them to stop through your ACTION of blocking them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 11:55 AM |
| 14 | Am I being irrational?he explains what he meant by that and that I probably overreacted He's gaslighting you. He should be acknowledging your feelings and not say that you overreacted. You didn't. Listen to your gut. Believe your feelings more than what other people think. I ask him why would we want to keep in contact (he lives far away) and he said to be friends. It's an ego boost with him. He wants to reaffirm that he has you on a leash. So, I don't want to be friends with him if he's far away, and I certainly don… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 10:21 AM |
| 12 | Honestly communicating my needs with men has always been extremely difficult for me. I was conditioned to value any attention and approval over my own feelings. I'm Leveling Up and learning to share how I feel. This may not be a success for everyone, but I'm proud of myself :)Yes, definitely bring it up as early as possible. I’m happy you took a step in honoring your needs! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 09:37 AM |
| 2 | Do women really need dating strategy advice? 🤔They totally are delusional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 08:37 AM |
| 10 | A thank you to the Red Pill man I datedWelcome to the sub! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 07:23 AM |
| 8 | Thank you girls!50/50 girls deprive the man the happiness that comes from taking care of their woman. Glad you’re making improvements 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/19 09:23 PM |
| 0 | How can I make my boyfriend pay if we go for fine dining?He earns 70% more than you? Girl... there are men out there who will gladly pay for all dinners. You don’t need to prove to any man that you’re a strong, independent woman by splitting the bill. If a man lets you split the bill, you’re not long-term material for him. Men will gladly provide for the woman they’re really interested in. I would tell him upfront that you prefer a man that mostly pays for dinner because you’ve realized how much it makes you feel taken care of. If he’s fine with it, y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/19 08:37 PM |
| 3 | Found this sub through people mocking it. Fell in love with itYay! Welcome to the sub, sis. 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/19 08:34 PM |
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