A short while after I kicked out my boyfriend I really started to notice a guy in my friend group. He's sweet, empathetic, funny, good looking, and working on becoming an English major. I asked him out last week to come eat dinner before he goes to see his parents. He came over and I thought we were having fun when he got a phone call from another girl! In his contacts her name was "Baby" and I knew something was up. So when he got up to go to the restroom I went through his phone. I checked his messages and he had been talking to her for around 4 months. At that point I got up and left without telling him goodbye. I don't know if I even want to see him in the group anymore after this.