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| 10 | The truth about "the wall"From what I remember she graduated | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 11:47 PM |
| 187 | The truth about "the wall"Kim is a very successful woman, she was a Harvard grad who created her own safe space called forharriet which is used for insightful discussion surrounding black women, media, and everything else. I enjoyed some of her takes on something other not so much, but one thing I will say is she is firm in her beliefs. Something that doesn't come easily to many. Check out her youtube and Parton she gives some good insight on womanhood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 03:14 PM |
| 137 | What are some good dating green flags?I went on a date with my boyfriend Saturday we went to dinner and to see the new batman. I just felt depressed, he asked was okay. I tried to play it off and said yes, but he knew. He asked for to-go containers and the check. Too much of a crowd makes me uncomfortable he knew and acted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 03:06 PM |
| 384 | What are some good dating green flags?Picking up on signs you are uncomfortable and or not enjoying yourself. Asking about your well-being "are you okay?", "how are you feeling?" Listening and giving input without taking away from the conversation Respectful to you, others, and themselves. Upfront and honest about their intentions without putting pressure on you. Daily communication, and weekly or biweekly dates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 02:06 PM |
| 158 | Banned from a feminist subreddit for asking if someone had a source or a link... Pretty sure the real reason is because I'm in this subreddit. Reminder to keep your FDS account separate if you want to participate in discussion outside of this sub. You can, and will, be banned just for being here.Most of reddit is male-operated and racist. Most of the female subs of XY as mods, and most of them seldom allow women of color (def black) to come with their problems. They usher everyone in but dare you to say anything that directly questions non-women of color, and or men. FDS is the only sub that is for women, by women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 04:36 PM |
| 38 | Why are men so fucking weird ?So you targeted a random woman and a random set of friends which you know nothing about in pursuit of sticking it to some generalization that you aren't sure if this applies to these groups of women. F-ing weirdo. He does this to get his d- wet, and I want his unattractive behind to stop pretending he doesn't. Let's really break it down: OP has worked out, tried his best, and the woman he truly desires still doesn't want him. Hence him mentioned it in the beginning. So he goes for women who he d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I told a person on this site a few days ago men who date women with large age gaps are disgusting and creepy. My boyfriend and I talked about this watching law and order SVU and he was disgusted. When I said my BF would never the poster and two other men tried to claim no man can stop themselves. I guess the bar just went from hell to predatory real quck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 10:24 PM |
| 169 | when men have nothing else they have the audacityI mean is this any different from what men did in almost every major invasion. South Koreans detest white American men because they slept with Korean women during the 1950s invasion products biracial, left and never saw their children again or those women once they did. They seek out partners for sexual conquest during the worst times. When my BF was deployed men would be on tinder looking for hooks ups and they were married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 07:37 PM |
| 69 | LVM are out there thinking men don't treat women like shit. Drew's response is on point as always 👑Women are more like to be physically, sexually, mentally, emotionally, and financially abuse than men when in heterosexual relationships. 1/3 women are abused in their lifetime and the majority of the abusers are men. So when we say men re treating women like shit it is very much true. And their is enough that we have to address it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 05:25 PM |
| 12 | Teens should not be wearing lingerie or sexy underwear. comments are saying she should help her find something comfortable and guide her the right away even if thongs are her thing. I’ve never meet anyone say a thong is comfortable. If it was booty shorts or cute or boxers it would be different.VS=/=exclusively sexy lingerie. They sell various underwear of different cuts, materials, and colors. Some are completely appropriate for girls/women of all ages (besides girls 0-11), and the pink section is categorized as junior meaning that adult can fit them, but their sizing is slightly different, and they are for young adult, teens, and preteens. And they are fairly cheap I believe pink has the 5-20 USD. As for a thong I do not feel it is appropriate for a young teens. But underwear such as… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 04:45 PM |
| 120 | I don’t know who’s worse: her trifling mama or her POS husband. I found this on Facebook and was shook. Honestly I probably would have went to jail.FDS is usually about women, but this story is a deep issue that needs to be addressed. The grooming, and sexual abuse of young people. While she seduce him at 18 I am sure when he was 15-18 she was grooming him. This is a tale of a pedo woman who was probably grooming and raping a child until his adulthood. So for that, I truly feel for the husband. Childhood rape can cripple a person's mental, emotional, and physical state for a lifetime. Now as for everything else he has to own up to that afte… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 03:27 PM |
| 35 | Are sororities high value?Depending on the soro remember most sororities exclude POC and that's why black women had to create their own. I think anything built upon exclusion and racism can't be HV. And since many still practice the same ideals (allowing 1-2 POC to meet a quo), I still believe most are. But the black one slowly has lost its way as well. Excluding people based on looks and associations. My great aunt was a part of the divine 9 and always shakes her head when I tell her how some of the women are. She in th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 02:48 AM |
| 417 | I may already know a high value man. I just wasn’t healthy enough to notice it.I think FDS often doesn't tell us every HVM will not be YOUR HVM. You will meet great men in your life that will be great partners but it may not be to you. Not being with you, or you not seeing them as the right person for you doesn't mean they are not HV. In your journey, you need to be in a stable lifestyle and frame of mind before dating. And sometimes you will encounter HVM on the way. But they won't be your HVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 03:13 PM |
| 210 | Half time showMost people that are in the black community know him for being a murderer and like most rappers a man who practices misogynoir. It doesn't matter what these male rappers do they receive support. He is now the friendly pothead, who sometimes hangs out with Martha Stewart. It is always so interesting to me how black men in the medium def rapper changed their entire image and people forget. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 02:03 AM |
| 27 | What do you think of "The Tinder Swindler"?There is already a post about this. I will link it (give me a second). I think it was a good docs but I had some issues I didn't like how the news outlet/ journalist tried to take criminal matters into their own hands. Putting the 2nd "victim" in harm's way with a known criminal. I didn't like any of the women besides the last one (who sold his clothes) as people. The first woman knew something was up but for the could be chance he was a billionaire she kept going along with it. From the docs ac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 03:17 PM |
| 23 | Are most high value women “doomed”?I am doing perfectly fine. I have a great job, make great money, go to school, in a relationship, and get sex. You have to practice patience and learn what's for you will be for you. You have to create your own life, and decide what doom means. For me doomed would be never being able to in a career which I can provide for myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 05:43 PM |
| 9 | Canadian Teen Killed by British Man She Flew to Meet After Falling for Him on Dating AppYeah, the crazy thing is reddit blamed her brother, and so did a lot of the public. Then it went from her brother to her. They called her a drug addict, and I read some people called her an escort. Why because she is beautiful and likes to travel? Black women cannot move or enjoy life like their non-black counterparts without being judged. The man attests to being in the home all night, and she passed out. But her family found a used condom in the trashcan. I bet he raped her and drugged her. Th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 05:40 PM |
| 35 | The Tinder SwindlerNope, not a single thing. Crazy thing when my friend, my boyfriend, and I saw the photo he photoshopped we knew right away. These women played fool for the promise of being with a billionaire. As we say in the south play stupid games win stupid prizes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 03:27 PM |
| 103 | The Tinder SwindlerI don't feel bad for these women. The one-woman starts off talking about beauty and the beast, a cartoon where a woman was forced to stay with a man against her will. She stated that was her dream romance. Secondly, each one of these women could have googled the real billionaire and seen his sons. Who gives a man 10,000 dollars within months of dating? These women had power and are victims of their desire to live in luxury and romance. Each had a phone, each had access to the internet and common… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 03:01 PM |
| 64 | Canadian Teen Killed by British Man She Flew to Meet After Falling for Him on Dating AppA few weeks ago a similar met off of a dating app than murdered story was told regarding victim name Lauren Smithfields. Sadly because she is black she is being blamed for the ordeal. I always tell women to be careful, but black women be much more careful in this case this woman killer is being labeled as such. Because in death you won't be protect, fought for, and receive justice as quickly as others. Poor girl BTW. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 02:20 AM |
| 554 | Spotted this ad under "housing" on craigslist 😬Translation: I am an old weirdo looking to live out my fantasy as my ball sack sags. Hopefully in your time of need you will help me with that, if not I will make you so uncomfortable during you stay you wish you never moved in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 11:22 PM |
| 48 | Woman Crush Wednesday! This queen graduated law school 20 years after being rejected. Never married, no kids, glowing at 41! 👑Shout out to sis. It's always beautiful to see it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 10:59 PM |
| 1359 | How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part!There was a Twitter thread about this very subject. Many men claimed they wanted to be want to be with someone else but pick their wives because the first choice was no longer open to being with them. This is more common than you think. There was even a thread of men admitting they hate women and simply like sex. Be careful out here ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 01:56 PM |
| 142 | Rihanna & Her Pregnancy AnnouncementRihanna, Beyonce, and Nicki fans are like the horsemen's from hell they will come for you and drag you for dare life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 07:15 PM |
| 290 | Rihanna & Her Pregnancy AnnouncementJay-z has far worse issues than cheating there is literally a video of him physically pushing a young girl. It is also known in the black community he was sleeping with an underage Foxy Brown. He is a disgusting human being. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 07:00 PM |
| 1531 | Rihanna & Her Pregnancy AnnouncementAsap rocky has said both colorist and racist things. His comment on dark skin black women and red lipstick turned me off from him forever. But I think it speaks loud and clear on Rihanna as a person. Any woman who would still date and procreate with a man who has said things such as that either shares his ideals, or simply doesn't care. I have long disconnected myself from celebrities who support, engage, and lay with black men who demean black women. Nicki, Rihanna. Beyonce, and all the rest ar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 05:18 PM |
| 101 | Y'all, they're talking about us again 😂OP maybe real.... Overall I think reddit majority ( young, white, American, men) have an issue with the idea of women calling out male's toxic behavior, mocking it, and telling other women to stay clear. We FDS members are all single, uneducated, male hating, pigs who can only hope to be grace with the presence of a male. We foam at the mouth thinking of men, and them living life. Our lives are not complete until we find a man to hate for the day. Truth be told we all vary in status color ideals… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 03:12 AM |
| 101 | Evan Rachel Wood alleges Marilyn Manson "essentially raped" her on music video shootWhite men are so protected in this country, this man literally was coined as a horrible person years ago. And yet he is still getting work and being rewarded. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 07:31 PM |
| 105 | What are your thoughts about this?Dating apps are simply products of the people on them. Dating apps are bad because most of the people are them are bad. And her idea does not work because regardless if a black woman is Stephanie she will still get less likes because she is black. Truth be told dating apps are wrapped up in racism, classism, sexism, and confused people. And this is coming from someone who met her boyfriend from an app and he is a "chad". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 06:24 PM |
| 64 | What I hate most about reddit.Reddit is mostly white American males in their 20-30's, usually leaning liberal, and middle class. It reminds me of Dave Cook in his prime or Pete Davidson. Other white men loved/ love them, but he simply wasn't funny. Can men be funny yes, are all men funny no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 03:52 PM |
| 11 | Stupid rant about Kim & KanyeOh I knew even this sub wasn't free of it when white women here tried to say urban children black and brown are on equal playing ground with white children in the suburban area. Jammies corrected it, but they pop up every now and again to let us know they are here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 01:45 PM |
| 96 | Stupid rant about Kim & KanyeY'all can miss me with the pro Kim post. The K.K clan are all LVW and go against most of what FDS stand for. I feel nothing for their betterment or downfall. I simply wish we wouldn't give them attention for their lack of talent and their black belt in stealing. My biggest issues being: They culture appropriate like crazy. Mostly off of black women, their very essence is sucked from a black woman in an urban area, and they know it. The ignorance with boxer braids, their stealing of black urban d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 11:22 PM |
| 158 | Can we hear your LVM break up stories?My ex and I were friends for year, we boxed together in college and we formed a bound. His father was a cheater who impregnate a woman, who later on left her child on his mother doorstep. The mother brought the child in, only for the child to play trick and have people coin the mother as crazy. The worse part was when the child replaced the mother bottle of shampoo with nair, almost destroying her waist length dread-locs. My ex expressed his love but hate for his father for cheating, and could n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 06:54 PM |
| 36 | Do you think you would have an easier time finding a HV partner if you were attracted to women instead of men?No I do not. And I only say this because I truly believe majority of humans aren't great overall, men are just worse. My sister who is a bisexual woman noted that women take on the negative mannerism, idealism, and overall self of men. I personally had women sexually harass, not take no for an answer, and feel on me unwanted in close settings or clubs. I also think the majority in my country WW have a huge issue with racism, colorism, and misogynoir. There is also no level to pick-me some women … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 03:05 PM |
| 16 | What I posted versus a reason for a permaban from a large “feminist” subreddit. Wow I wonder why :)White women do it too, but seldom do we speak on it. I always try to tell people white women did not sit by while racism danced in the face of the oppressed. They sewed their hood, didn't include WOC in their movements, and benefited from it all the same. To simply say it always white men truly doesn't address the point which WOC would love for white women to address. Basically put and I don't care if it get downvotes white women aid in racism too. And even if there are no white men present WOC … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 01:21 AM |
| 15 | This holiday season I urge you to take trip down the girls toy aisle.WOw I never saw them I would love to see it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 06:28 PM |
| 125 | It saddens me that TikTok has a negative reputation on FDS.Tiktok: Is very racist. Tee Noir did a entire video on how they push black women from recommended pages. It also allows people to steal WOC dances, trends, and never credit them. Some of the biggest tik tokers steal. There was even a huge thing early this year where they were blocking, shadow banning, etc users for having BLM in their bios. Spreads a lot of misinformation. Literally a pilot had to get online to correct a woman who told everyone the wrong way to position yourself during a crash. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 06:25 PM |
| 3 | APPROVED COMMENTERYeah unless someone is asking should it be a deal breaker or not, I don't think it has anything to do with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 05:26 PM |
| 124 | What I posted versus a reason for a permaban from a large “feminist” subreddit. Wow I wonder why :)Seldom would I advise women to get on a female subreddit that labels themselves as feminist or for women anyway majority are racist as hell, and it's not inclusive feminism it's white feminism. They usher in WOC but seldom let them voice their opinions. I am not shocked they also support r- p- Take this as a award, those place are a mess anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 05:24 PM |
| 93 | The Double Standard between Men and WomenNick Cannon is literally creating children who it will be impossible for him to give proper emotional, and mental care to because he has so many children (7), with so many women (4), and none he has married (but Mariah). The question that should be asked would you want your daughter (mixed black and black) to date a man like you. One who calls white women the prize, and procreate children with women he doesn't plan on staying with. His ugly ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 05:19 PM |
| 44 | This holiday season I urge you to take trip down the girls toy aisle.I never saw black Barbie with curly/kinky hair. I wish they have more of those. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 04:39 PM |
| 121 | This holiday season I urge you to take trip down the girls toy aisle.In my teens and early 20's (during the summer of my college breaks) I had two jobs. One was a retail one the other was a legal intern for a judge. I worked at a huge department store, and it was never a shortage of toys like baking kits, thin white dolls, and other things. I will say by time I was that age we had doctor, vet, head chef, Judge, etc. the sad thing they were always white. Seldom did I restock the dark skin or what were the brown skin dolls. And I never ever saw an Asian one. I wish… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 04:28 PM |
| -1 | single womenOh I am not offended at all. But OP is extremely envious of single people (her entire post love letter to it), she isn't happy in her relationship because she had to compromise a lot what she loved, and she misses who she was before meaning 9/10 she changed for the worse. I think OP is emotional unstable. Envy, unhappiness, and insecurities are all signs of that. Which is okay, she admits she is doing some soul searching which means she is on a leveling up process. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 01:44 PM |
| 1 | single womenYeah my best friend was the same before she was married and after. People downvoted me but OP is envious of single people, but women in happy fulfilling and stable relationships do not change for the worse. My mother is the same way. This idealism that women are envious of single women, or the opposite is false. People may not like it, but most women don't give a flying f- about another random woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 01:41 PM |
| -9 | single womenHere are my thoughts: Betterment, better friends, more stable has nothing to do with singlehood or lack of (being in a relationship), it has everything to do with the woman. A LVW will remain the same usually single or not. Stability is most people's problem, and relationships or single often doesn't change stability the person has. Women who are stable, and well rounded will be great people regardless of their relationship status. I think that should be your mind set. Demonizing or pushing a ne… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 06:27 PM |
| 71 | Our youth are still glorifying breadcrumbing and low effort dating. How will we get them to demand more and understand they deserve more?My thoughts: Is understandable if both people have careers nobody should be texting all day. My mom told me this only men that can text all day are loser, bums, and teens. One which I hope nobody here is dating. Hanging out with friends is fine, but there should be time spend with your partner. And I do believe that time shouldn't be equal. Your romantic partner should get more of your free time than your friends. And kept plans should not be blown off for an outing with friends. He should get h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 07:16 PM |
| 72 | Want To Meet Decent Men Online? Write a Bitchy ProfileChild I said that too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 05:28 PM |
| 197 | This is the kinda shit we women have to put up with on OLDHis mother let him get the wifi password to the new router and he went crazy. Men like this are one of two things mentally ill (and unstable because it's out of control) or stupid. And we promote all FDS member to avoid men like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 04:39 PM |
| 213 | My HVM was actually just a golddiggerHow long were you dating this guy? Did he ever make a true commitment to you? Did you vet properly meaning: waiting a longer period to sleep with him, and become exclusive aka more than 3 months? Checking out if he is stable? Living with his parents should have been a sign if he has two degree and so well of why the f- didn't he have his own place This is not an attack against you sis BTW. Just seeing you are ignoring a lot of red flags. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 11:12 PM |
| 128 | Inspired by the Anne Boleyn post, what other women in history were done dirty by men?TW. Sally Hemings- At 14 she was preyed on by Thomas Jefferson her owner and a married man. White men (and women) romanize their relationship to this day. Yet black men and women protest that their relationship was that of rape and force encounters, they(white people) attest differently. Yet she was 14, and he was 44 people still say this relationship was consensual. He raped her often, and his wife knew of it. She (Sally) gave birth to her first child at 16. But this was a common tale of black … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 02:00 PM |
| 45 | Normalise shaming men with sex and dating app addictions. There’s nothing cool or ‘alpha’ about a man who spends ALL his free time chasing tail like his life depends on itAn addiction is something someone will put their mental, sexual, emotional, physical, and financial health on the line to get. It has to be done as often as the addict can get it. And often causes a pleasure stimulation within the brain. Do I think sex addiction are real? Yes I do. Do I think all the people who claim to have it truly do? No I do not. There is a lot of self diagnosing going on via men, because as we all know majority do not seek help when it comes to mental or emotional issues. Y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 03:44 PM |
| 32 | Why do men think that saying "enjoy being single forever" is supposed to insult us?Because society has taught men are only joy is being in a relationship. It's why everyone first insult to women is you will be single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 07:11 PM |
| 22 | Can’t wait to see the male commenters of DM collectively lose their tiny minds.Yep I said that in another post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 05:13 PM |
| 75 | Normalize spending energy on loving yourself.FDS specifically promotes women do better for themselves before dating. Meaning getting help for issue, building financial stability, physically being stable, understanding one's body and sexual needs, upkeeping one's self, and loving one's self. We want everyone here to be HV, without or with a male beside her. Love yourself first!! Doing so will make red flag easier to spot, as well as leave little gaps for you to settle for less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 03:25 PM |
| 271 | Can’t wait to see the male commenters of DM collectively lose their tiny minds.How dare we avoid men who pose a higher threat to our physical, mental, and emotion state. Who cares that men who are more unstable in these fields are more likely to abuse, and harm us. All that matters is their feelings, because we don't deserve the choice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 02:39 PM |
| 322 | Can’t wait to see the male commenters of DM collectively lose their tiny minds.Anyone who lacks mental, emotional, sexual, physical, or financial stability should not be dating. So yes we advise women to avoid them. Sorry not sorry. No person should get into a relationship where they must take on the burden of someone instability. Get the help you need if you are unstable in any form. It should be noted we do not say men with mental illnesses should be avoided all together, but those formally diagnosed who refused to get professional help. The men who suffer from a mental … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 02:32 PM |
| 23 | I have no wordsMen have a whole raccoon on their race hiding about 40 percent of their physical face, and they think we are deceiving them? Shave off that beard brad and let's see how weak the chin really is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 01:53 PM |
| 133 | Anyone Else Tired Of Sexism In The Gym/Fitness Culture?I stopped going to the gym a while ago and brought the equipment. I was sexually harassed very badly once, and it made me not wanna go. This is why: I was engaged in my early 20's, and a former college boxer. I was fit but I wanted a six pack for my wedding. I was getting my dress made and it looked like this but mermaid cut with a long train. I knew I needed a personal trainer so my fiancé paid for it. I was about 600+ for a 3 months with two sessions a week. I got a guy, and he was very fit so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 05:00 PM |
| 8 | A refusal to engage: How I came to terms with the reality of pornSorry if you felt that way as a victim of abuse including rape not my intent, but this is a discussion about porn so be prepared to hear very horrible ish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 03:21 PM |
| 244 | A refusal to engage: How I came to terms with the reality of pornI remember watching a interview with a black woman where she discuss how women are forced into sex scenes and not allowed to say stop. She said one woman was being r- and her vagina was hanging out of her body. To know a man or woman can be force to preform of face blacklisting is rape to me and I cannot watch it. On top of that: Porn grossly misrepresents actual sex in almost everyway. In many scenes women and men attested to displeasure, pain, and non-consensual performances. It also is made i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 04:52 PM |
| 232 | Red pill favourite Jordan Peterson doesn’t agree with their views on women and dating…I agree with what Jordan said, and glad he called it out. I personally don't allow men to pull emotions out of me that causes anger anymore. It is strain on my heart, my mental state, my physical state, and my overall self. I practice awareness and enlightenment toward men idealism, overall selves, mannerism, and long term actions in society. It takes a lot to be angry all the damn time at men, it takes too much of my time, my energy, and my will power. Nope I will pass, no man will hold my emot… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 12:36 AM |
| 170 | Red pill favourite Jordan Peterson doesn’t agree with their views on women and dating…I am personally not angry at men, I simply no longer live in the fairytale the society presents to us that most men are internally good people. I guess in a sense I am enlighten to men. This awareness has allowed me to call out men on their idealism, the hurt they cause, and the low effort they put in. I agree with Jordan anger for a subsection of people takes a lot of work. And I refuse to give that subsection of men (LV/NV) my emotions, and space in my life to cause emotion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 12:29 AM |
| 35 | PSA Holiday Gifts that both of you use does not count as a gift!Yeah I cook often and really love it. My BF will be getting me the Pioneer woman's pot set I have them in sky blue, dark blue, and dark blue with flowers. I want the black set now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 05:37 PM |
| 2 | My friend accused me of being racist because I advised her not to date black guys…Child beat it, let me add your LV ass to my block list. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 10:34 PM |
| 6 | My friend accused me of being racist because I advised her not to date black guys…She is this was a bait thread, and I hope mods ban her ass for this b.s. FDS gets enough sh*t now we have racist pick-me trying to get us coined as racist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 10:30 PM |
| 3 | My friend accused me of being racist because I advised her not to date black guys…Girl i don't want your respect, it's trash to me. f- you and your trash point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 10:29 PM |
| 16 | My friend accused me of being racist because I advised her not to date black guys…I am going to get sh*t for this. I am a Afro-Latina aka a black woman, and I drag black men on a daily if need be. HVM has NOTHING TO DO WITH RACE. All men regardless of race can be LV. To tell you friend to stay away from black men when we know white men, asian men, and latino men have a slew amount of issues statistic can prove shows your ass is racist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 10:22 PM |
| 5 | Thoughts on Teal Swans’s observation? I think she means “accountability” and not ownership. I agree that lack of ownership is men’s passive aggressive response to female liberation.Teal Swan has no professional background and has been coined saying that therapy is not needed and it put the blame on children. She is also a religious nut, please don't spread her b.s here she does more harm than good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 05:31 PM |
| 176 | FDS is NOT categorically against OLD.Somebody here asked me to write an entire post regarding how I lucked up on old so often, and how do I vet men on OLD. I have had good luck on OLD and have met my BF on there. I tried posting once but was dragged. So I assumed after being drugged FDS was against it formally. Thank you for correcting me. I still won't make the post again, but it's nice that this sub advising women to make their own decision regarding it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 09:10 PM |
| 292 | Do NOT procreate with bum ass men!Say it with me: My womb is locked down to men who ain't shit no stability no baby, no stability no sex, no stability no me. Find a pick-me that will do it because you won't be using me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 08:54 PM |
| 81 | Let’s count the red flags together!I do think it's rude to be late to a date male of female sue me IDC. He wasn't wrong to that, disregarding someone's time regardless of gender is rude. As for everything else IDC about nor do I feel bad for him. But I do wanna say this he should have taken up for himself which shows LV qualities to me her disregard his time and say thank you. I cannot stand rude people, just as much as I cannot stand men who get mad for paying for a date or getting mad at women for putting their safety first. Ho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 03:39 PM |
| 141 | "Hyosung (Korean idol/celebrity) targeted at anti-feminist protests after participating in campaign against dating violence"Korean men are horrible. I know because I have dated them and went to Korea. They are disrespectful, rude, sexist, f-ing odd, and extremely entitled. I was dating one this summer (he would be the 4th korean man I dated). I was honest saying I was seeing other men, he told me I owed him my loyalty. I said OOP you must got me f-ed up I owe you nothing but this block button. I was seeing another and he asked me could I find a woman in there late 50's who is overweight to sit on him. I hung up and b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 09:12 PM |
| 573 | "Hyosung (Korean idol/celebrity) targeted at anti-feminist protests after participating in campaign against dating violence"Women in S.K are sleeping with, marrying, procreating, and dating men less than ever. If I remember correctly more than (or just under) 1/2 of men ages 20-39 are single. Men are pissed and like American men are taking up anti-feminist idealism because of course that's the reason they don't want them. It has nothing to do with the toilet cams, the sexism, abuse, and ill treatment of women overall. I have dived deep but I am 100 percent sure like American men they lack basic sex skills. I bet Kore… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 06:17 PM |
| 18 | The Rapper Da Baby kicked out his baby mama and his newborn child, and when she didn't leave he called cops on her and reported her. He allegedly wanted to invite another woman to his condo and he wanted her out after she cooked, cleaned for him, slept with him.Funny thing is I am lighter skin, and I never act this way. And this is a very hard thing in the West Indian and Latino community, both which she claims to be apart of and so am I. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 01:16 PM |
| 112 | The Rapper Da Baby kicked out his baby mama and his newborn child, and when she didn't leave he called cops on her and reported her. He allegedly wanted to invite another woman to his condo and he wanted her out after she cooked, cleaned for him, slept with him.Colorism is rooted in bigotry, and racism she isn't ignorant she is racist. Ignorance is not knowing, she is very aware of the harsh realities dark skin women face. We have to stop giving women and men the ignorance pass when you can literally look up the ish online. And while I never promote abuse I won't stand there and fight a battle for a woman who think less of my mother who is a dark skin woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 01:52 AM |
| 74 | The Rapper Da Baby kicked out his baby mama and his newborn child, and when she didn't leave he called cops on her and reported her. He allegedly wanted to invite another woman to his condo and he wanted her out after she cooked, cleaned for him, slept with him.It's because dark skin women and women that look "black" are shamed when they have baby's out of wedlock or become 3-4 baby mother. But noticed Khole, Kylie, Dani, and other women are not shamed for being baby mothers or another baby mom to a ain't sh*t man. Peep how people are trying to push sorrow for this woman, and yet shamed Ciara and still does now that she did better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 01:50 AM |
| 552 | The Rapper Da Baby kicked out his baby mama and his newborn child, and when she didn't leave he called cops on her and reported her. He allegedly wanted to invite another woman to his condo and he wanted her out after she cooked, cleaned for him, slept with him.Sorry but I do not cape for women who demean other women based on their skintone. F- her and F- him too, only person I feel bad for is the baby. Poor baby born to two idiots. And I wish women stop calling it not a big deal. POC have been demeaned for year based upon their skintones, and she has aided in that thought pattern. She said "yellowbone is what he want" well a POS is what she got. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 09:08 PM |
| 456 | literallyI saw my former best friend wedding video (on FB), and her husband said something close to this. Yes, let's get married after I been jobless for years, no car, 1000 other kids by different women, flirted with your best friend, threaten to never take care of our daughter if you leave, and cheated on you you MY QWEEN. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 09:05 PM |
| 27 | Is the collapse of the middle class producing more LVM?Yes, in my opinion. Finically footing for men and women is extremely important. However, the wealth is being given to a small amount of people, leaving those who should be middle class with less of a footing. A few LVM manifest from these conditions the bitter, the wealth and entitled, the selfish, the hustler with deplorable means of doing so, the racist with generational money, the colorist with new money, the idiot with no money, and the worker who refused to get his mental health checked. I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 06:34 PM |
| 83 | "Oh yeah, you want a man who brushes his teeth? I dated a guy who brushed his teeth and he kicked puppies for breakfast!"Men have to understand men have created the rules, regulation, own most of the worlds wealth, head of most governments, and have long been in power. If men are suffering for any reason it because of men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 06:46 PM |
| 205 | "Oh yeah, you want a man who brushes his teeth? I dated a guy who brushed his teeth and he kicked puppies for breakfast!"Men do not want to address their mental health, and I don't understand why. I am literally arguing with a guy on the dating sub how being stable will help him in dating. He then blames women for the reason he cannot get help, and the reason he hates himself. Men do not like to do basic hygiene. F- their teeth some men have dick cheese and get mad when you say you need to wash everyday. Men have a list of requirements they want in women, they are just pissed that women on FDS are 9/10 the women t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 05:19 PM |
| 118 | Men who thump their fists on the table when trying to 'emphasize' a pointIn my 28 year of living I have never seen a real life human do that, outside of movies. Men who must display their action their physical force on object screams abuse to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 02:52 PM |
| 200 | Reminder: Nobody is nicer than a man trying to have sex with you for the first time.I was dating a guy this summer alongside some others. Y'all when I say he pulled out all the stops he pulled out all the stops. He took me on dates, brought me gifts (ranging from small to expensive), he wasn't pushy, nothing. As soon as I told him I would not be having sex with him he blocked and told me he never wanted a relationship (which he told me he did). Men really go above and beyond. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 06:42 PM |
| 0 | Millionaire Scrote Pulls Powerplay and Gets Come UppanceI don't think there is anything wrong with calling out fellow women on their mistakes, choices, or ideals. I am not one who believes silence is the best course of action. And depending on the action I will be more prone to drag than to just be kindly vocal. Those choices being racism, sexism, colorism, or hate of any kind. It is not looking down on people it's pointing out where someone went wrong and where they can fix it in the future. That is what FDS is about. If I were to simply say well he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 04:18 PM |
| 17 | Millionaire Scrote Pulls Powerplay and Gets Come UppanceYeah never move in with a you barely know you will never know fully what will happen because you don't know the full him. I think the lesson here is HV=/=money and of course let relationship stand for a while before you make major decision. Many men with money are POS, and they use the power of money to keep women around. Wealth breed greed, and selfish behavior. You won't often find good men with lots of money often, I hope she vets more next time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 02:28 PM |
| 93 | Millionaire Scrote Pulls Powerplay and Gets Come UppanceWhy would she move across the country for a man she was only dating less than a year, and has no job lined up? I spot a LVM and a pickme. One thing I learn via reddit (sadly) men believe they have option that far and wide. That is because a lot of women believe money=HV. We gotta stop boosting these turd egos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Should I tell my boyfriend (very recent), that I am not sure if I want to get married or have kids?The childfree sub hates parents and hates kids. I get not being childfree, but the hate those sick m.fer have for kids and parent I cannot down with. They call parents breeder, and children demons. Then they tell parents to adopt when they want bio children, and get mad when people tell them do the same. You going around trying to tell people what do to, and get mad when people do the same. The entire sub is walking cesspool of disgusting people, anyone who hates kids for being born is LV POS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 01:54 PM |
| 3 | Should I tell my boyfriend (very recent), that I am not sure if I want to get married or have kids?LOL cop out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 12:18 AM |
| 13 | Should I tell my boyfriend (very recent), that I am not sure if I want to get married or have kids?How did you figure out for sure? Like I cannot figure out for sure. I keep going back and forth, and I feel like I am being a fool because this is the one time in my life where I cannot make up my mind. I tried asking childfree before I got into a relationship about 2 weeks ago, but they just told me not to. I want to make the right decision and not regret it. The thing is I am stable and I be a good mom. But I just don't know if I should. This is kinda beyond my boyfriend, maybe I should look f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 08:29 PM |
| 22 | Should I tell my boyfriend (very recent), that I am not sure if I want to get married or have kids?I don't think he be pissed. I just am unsure and don't know which conclusion I will come to. Will I want kids later or not. That is my biggest issue 9/10 I want marriage, but kids is something I am like 4/10 at. I really am struggling. Truth is I am afraid I will have a daughter and all the things I experience r-, abuse, and the way people treat black women my daughter will. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 08:20 PM |
| -12 | Should I tell my boyfriend (very recent), that I am not sure if I want to get married or have kids?Well I am not dating lol I am in a relationship. Overall I like my boyfriend, but I am unsure about kids more than anything. It's been hitting home that maybe kids aren't my thing, and I fear how the world treats little girls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 08:18 PM |
| 443 | Men will waste your time and then waste it some more.In the words of my mother: Men don't have a lot, but they always have the audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 07:23 PM |
| 57 | If you want a complete stranger to stop and give you the time if day, call the phone company.Poor cat LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 07:16 PM |
| 2 | In case you're tempted to dip your toe back into OLD...My boyfriend was my second date I went on when I rejoined. I didn't really count how many guys I swiped on, but we started talking my second week of rejoining the app. My last BF was from Hinge funny enough he was the first date and like my second match ever on hinge, HV guy just wasn't my HV guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 02:04 PM |
| 131 | In case you're tempted to dip your toe back into OLD...I met my BF on OLD, and the one before that. I think it takes a lot of vetting, but if you have mastered the skill I see no issues. Since after college my time has been hella limited due to fulltime work, part time school, and just being tired going out and meeting someone is hard. OLD was one of my resources and after a bit I got the hang of it. I would give advice regarding it, but I doubt anyone wants to hear. Only thing I would say is that it take patience, shifting through a lot of shit, an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 03:48 PM |
| 409 | "Good friend" sent me a dick pic "accidentally". He has a great partner too. Let this be a lesson to me for trying to play it cOoL instead of going nuclear at the first message.I hope you send this to his girlfriend. And blocked him, you are better than me not sure why block wasn't your first choice instead of replying. In order to send a picture by mistake, you have to click on the the pic, then agree it needs no edits, then press send. He is lying and thought you were a perfect candidate for a sidechick. Also do way with reminding men that have good woman, they know already and don't care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 06:14 PM |
| 109 | Scrotes will be scrotes. NEVER move in with a boyfriend.If the home is a rental: If she has mail in the home, and or has paid any bill (but is not on the lease) she has legally set up residency in the home. Her BF cannot legally evict her, the landlord has to do so. And even then he or she has to give her 30 days notice because of the residency she has set up. Her BF can also be evict if he did not notify the landlord which therefore broke their lease. If the home is his: Residency has still be established, and he must give her 30 days notice. This i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 05:46 PM |
| 283 | Reminder why it’s crucial that you do not reveal any personal information or pictures on the Reddit account you use for FDS. If writing a post looking for advice, I’d suggest lying about your age, the time the situation happened, names (obviously) etc for your own protection. Please stay safe.Close your INBOX if you are on FDS even if you are using a throwaway account. You will be threatened with rape, violence, and murder if you do not. We keep telling you guys this. It is for your mental and emotional wellbeing. Most of my karma is from FDS and when I was making it to the front page FDS daily I get so many threats via men. Men say we are bitter, lonely, and angry but none of us here have message a man wish he be raped. Sick f*cks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 03:27 PM |
| 48 | I left a perfectly good man because FDS made me believe I could do better. And you were rightOP he wasn't a good man if you took on majority of the load of the relationship. You were dating yourself and giving him the credit for your work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 03:23 PM |
| 99 | Is bad sex a deal-breaker?Small dick, finish in a min, sucked at giving head, horrible during sex my goodness do you need a hug? Cause girl everything you said made a tear leave my eye. Is this a deal breaker to me yes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 02:27 AM |
| 60 | It's perfectly fine for you to vocalize how dope you are!Women are taught from early on to always be silent in who they are, what they are, and how much they can do. Young girls, and women should be taught like men it is okay to say I am pretty damn dope. I seldom hear women speak on their accomplishments, but often hear men do it. There is no limited to how we should love ourselves, and it's okay to vocalize that love | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 06:16 PM |
| 156 | Walk dates: I'm not a dogThere was this girl on the dating subreddit who said a man lived in a van, and the went on two walking dates. I said child you dating a homeless man she got pissy. I wish women stop letting men take them on bare minimum that's what I call them because they aren't dates | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 05:20 PM |
| 26 | Every fanboy getting ready to quiz me on the backstory of a random-ass character that was on screen for two seconds to prove I'm a fake fan:Yes, the story was about a girl at a party and boys gang r- her. They tried to push it under the rug until the anonymous group called them out. Same with the Roll red Doc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 05:29 PM |
| 29 | FDS IS OFFICIALLY 200K STRONG!! 🥳🥳🥳🥳Shout out to you Jammies remember where you started off from, and where you are now. Thanks for expanding and bringing other women knowledge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 05:24 PM |
| 68 | Every fanboy getting ready to quiz me on the backstory of a random-ass character that was on screen for two seconds to prove I'm a fake fan:Off topic, but shout out that group (or is it one person) that uses the mask to expose r-. I watched two small docs on two huge r- cases that were being covered up until that group (or is it one person) stepped in and expose it. First one was on ID on web of lies, other was on Youtube called STEUBENVILLE OHIO: ROLL RED ROLL Documentary | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 02:21 PM |
| 4 | As an essential worker, I’ve honestly met more male ‘Karens’ in my life than the stereotypical lady ‘Karen’Sis, I got you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 01:01 PM |
| 6 | As an essential worker, I’ve honestly met more male ‘Karens’ in my life than the stereotypical lady ‘Karen’I got the post, but I think it's a bit of entitlement to ask us to stop using a word which we have created a concept for because another group of people misuse it. The concept still stands for us. We cannot help white men using Karen wrong, as we cannot help white women calling corn rolls boxer braids. Concepts, style, ideals, and tools are stolen from us daily, doesn't mean we should stop using them because you guys got it wrong. And I will not stand by Karen being a slur it doesn't hold the sa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 12:30 PM |
| 50 | As an essential worker, I’ve honestly met more male ‘Karens’ in my life than the stereotypical lady ‘Karen’Karen is the modern day Ms. Ann and was use to specifically call out entitled, racist, bigoted white women. Something I time and time again have to address on reddit and so has one of the mods here. It was never suppose to be a blanket statement for every women. But like many terms coin, created, and made by the black community when the masses get a hold of it it's ruined. There is a male equivalent it's ken formerly known as Peter back in the 90's. We use it often to this day. However, if you a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 09:51 PM |
| 30 | A man asked, "most men aren't bad so why don't women trust us all?" Here is my my reply:Men don't trust women now, if we did the crimes they be the same. Remember to a scrote we all want their baby batter, money the really don't have, and pregnant belly's without them ever experiencing child birth. We are trying to use men remember... LOL Our lives are all about men, so of course we cannot be trusted. CTFU | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 10:13 PM |
| 31 | A man asked, "most men aren't bad so why don't women trust us all?" Here is my my reply:I am not sure what you disagree with hun. I put most in quotation to represent me mocking most being a thing. Basically I am saying most aren't good most are POS. I put a p.s basically stating it's truly most who are doing horrible things. I don't really need to read a book. Slavery and the very treatment of black women today shows what happens when men have free range with a woman's life, her freedom, her body, and her image. To this very day the very foundation that slavery laid still follows … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 07:45 PM |
| 56 | A man asked, "most men aren't bad so why don't women trust us all?" Here is my my reply:I think it's closer to 60-70 percent poison honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 07:32 PM |
| 172 | A man asked, "most men aren't bad so why don't women trust us all?" Here is my my reply:Sadly she hasn't been able to heal. I am a rape victim too, and tried suggesting therapy, support groups, and for her to talk to a professor on campus who was black and a rape victim of gang rape just like her, etc. We were so close I still have photos of us together. One days I came back home and was gone. She promised me she come back, but she dropped out, and moved away. I see all her rapist on dating apps to this day. Like this very day pretending not to be sick rapist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 07:28 PM |
| 63 | A man asked, "most men aren't bad so why don't women trust us all?" Here is my my reply:Yeah I am from that city where it happened turned out a lot of the story was a lie (not the rape) but other part. Here is the update https://www.phillymag.com/news/2021/10/25/police-lied-septa-rape/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 07:27 PM |
| 55 | A man asked, "most men aren't bad so why don't women trust us all?" Here is my my reply:P.S: Let me also say this there are more men doing the abuse, assault, and cheating than you think. It's not just 10 percent think closer to that most number. Yep hence my p.s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 03:37 PM |
| 186 | A man asked, "most men aren't bad so why don't women trust us all?" Here is my my reply:Men get pissed when I say majority of women experience some kind of abuse and it via men so yes 9/10 one of your friends is an abuser. And most of you know who that one friend is yet y'all still friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 03:25 PM |
| 454 | A man asked, "most men aren't bad so why don't women trust us all?" Here is my my reply:Men truly are foolish creatures sometimes.... My friend in college was gang r- and drugged by a frat. One of the frat boys told her and showed her the recording. He said I'm the good one I told you. No you aren't. You watched a woman be gang r-ed and you did nothing. You didn't tell them stop, you didn't call the police, your didn't jump in to stop them. You watched as they recorded her passed out, and let them r- her. You are a coward and while not as bad as the others you sure aren't good. My … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 03:23 PM |
| 46 | Rapist redemption on TVThere are two things that can never be justified S.A of any kind. There is no redemption for r*ist. They should get life in prison, and their dicks should be cut off if it's a woman the female equivalent should be done to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 05:18 PM |
| 1 | For your safety if you want to reject men don't do it in person (I highly suggest not doing it at all)For me it says Pinger: Calling + Phone App https://apps.apple.com/us/app/pinger-calling-phone-app/id444741112 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 04:58 PM |
| 172 | Men tend to complain about women being fatter in person vs. their dating app pics... Well in my experience TOO 👏 MANY 👏 MEN 👏straight up LIE about their heightThere was this guy I use to talk to about 3-5 years ago, right I broke up with my fiancé (I though older men would be better, dont' judge me). Child, do you know he is still on tinder with the same pictures he had from years ago. Still claiming to be 35, the bish is 49 and looks it in person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 03:34 PM |
| 135 | Men tend to complain about women being fatter in person vs. their dating app pics... Well in my experience TOO 👏 MANY 👏 MEN 👏straight up LIE about their heightMen lie about their physical looks as well. Not just height OP. We have to remember men are putting out the best they have to offer, pictures they believe they look good in and so will others. Height is just one thing they lie bout. Men will take a picture looking like Trevante Rhodes but pop up looking like Steve Buscemi. let's also discuss men lying about their race, their age, and their career to get women interest. No Craig you are not Asian, No Chad you are not 25 you are 48, no you are not… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 03:29 PM |
| 44 | PSA: More reasons to turn off your “chat” feature if you’re a user of FDS.Before I closed my inbox (and I wasn't even on FDS) men threatened to r- me. Why in the h*ll would they give these men the power to send pictures when we know they will abuse it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 02:23 PM |
| 1 | For your safety if you want to reject men don't do it in person (I highly suggest not doing it at all)Do you have an iphone or andriod? Go to the app store, look up pinger, and download it. When signing up put any email, not your actual one make up one doesn't have to be real. Pick any area code, turn on notification if you like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 12:57 PM |
| 132 | PSA: More reasons to turn off your “chat” feature if you’re a user of FDS.Anonymous men with the ability to send pictures, I can bet my left leg tiny penis pictures will be send. Along with other deplorable things.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 12:41 PM |
| 177 | When you can’t handle rejection. Wait until the endThis is why I made my post yesterday, please read it through. Rejecting men should be done in a safe space. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 02:57 PM |
| 16 | Are you okay with your male partner only having female friends?I said it depends because I thought of my ordeal I only have male friends (2) at this point. Which is not in my control. My ex female best friend of year (17 years to be exact) married a man who sexually assaulted me when I was 15 (I actually came to terms with it during a break through in therapy), and when I revealed to her he was flirting with me she attacked me verbally. My other friend sadly got married and didn't see the need for me in her circle of other married friends because I was focu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 01:47 PM |
| 13 | I watched michelle buteau Netflix comedy stand up last night, it was wonderfully funnyI don't find Michelle funny honestly, but I am glad she is growing. I enjoyed her on Always Be My Maybe her interactions with the female lead seemed real and not forced. I enjoy Sommore she touched on the topic of excessive plastic surgery in our community and while she made it funny she spoke some real stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 01:29 PM |
| 54 | Any tips on how to engage a man emotionally without sex being on the table?Building a healthy line of communication where ideal, thoughts, goals, and overall self can be discussed without judgement or hostility. This only happen over time, with in person interaction, and other forms of verbal communication. Ideally little by little it will be build via dates, outings, and phone calls. Usually topics will be brought up or pop up during these time. It is also okay to ask after a period as well. You truly have to let these thing build themselves. The process will occur wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 01:21 PM |
| 5 | For your safety if you want to reject men don't do it in person (I highly suggest not doing it at all)So does pinger, you pick your area code, and you can use any email. I love it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 12:04 PM |
| 123 | Knowing Your Worth: Pricing the First DateI think many rich men throw money at women to try to show "effort" but it is simply to get in your pants. You decide what is priceless to you, and if he went above and beyond. Men who listen, and understand your likes and dislike are more important than someone who spend 400 dollars on you. Like if someone took me to a batman convention, it would mean more to me than someone taking me to a 200 dollar a plate restaurant. I deem my likes and interest more important than something expensive. I say … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 12:40 AM |
| 18 | For your safety if you want to reject men don't do it in person (I highly suggest not doing it at all)My stalker (still stalking) treated me with respect until I formally rejected him. To this day he is stalking me. I await for him to text me from a throwaway number, or find me on dating apps. Men can be masters at pretending. Ghost if you need to it is cool to be safe if men were belittled attacked or degrade at the rate we were they would spare you feelings. Being a black woman I am more likely to be abused, attacked, and assaulted so I don't take the risk. F- these men, I got one life a man w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 12:02 AM |
| 60 | Thank you, mods!Yeah I have to say I love the fact male vocalization seldom is here. When I come here, I am free from them and sometimes I need it. FDS mods are no nonsense, and I am here for it. I also love the fact LATELY I have seen a few newbies post thing against FDS and mods take it down. Shout out the community for also standing firm in their opinion. Lately I have been seeing some disagreements, and it's not a bad thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 09:40 PM |
| 11 | The Guide to Being Approved (ie, Getting a Flair)Is there anywhere I can see what subs get you an auto ban here. I cannot locate that information? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 06:28 PM |
| 141 | For your safety if you want to reject men don't do it in person (I highly suggest not doing it at all)My ex when I told him it was over said "You belong to me and you aren't going anywhere because you are mine." He called me for months. It was scary as hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 06:26 PM |
| 60 | For your safety if you want to reject men don't do it in person (I highly suggest not doing it at all)Would only ghost if the guy really doesn't deserve a ounce of explanation because of a potential deplorable attitude. Ghost even if he hasn't shown anything. Most of these unhinged men are very good at pretending. FDS teaches us LVM are very good at pretending to be HV, meaning they will be nice until you do something they don't like I never suggest you take the risk. GHOST IF YOU WANT YOU OWE MEN NOTHING!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 06:08 PM |
| -2 | Men's hair turns white faster then women's do. Idk how the world still believes we age fasterI think you are missing my point. In my experience white women age badly, compared to black and asian men. This does not mean I put the cape on for either I drag them daily, but I will not vocalize a falsehood or ideal I cannot stand by. I have not denounced your experience. I am just stating my experience. I seldom see white women the same age as black men more youthful. My example was Kofi and bad bhaie. She is nearly 10 year young but looks older. I said nothing about white men because they t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 05:49 PM |
| -8 | Men's hair turns white faster then women's do. Idk how the world still believes we age fasterI don't agree, I think white women don't age well. Perfect example is morris chestnut who is 52 jennifer anderson who is also 52. Morris looks very youthful, young, and physically has less wrinkle. If you put Jennifer in front of me I would be able to tell she is 52. If we even go to now, bhad bhabie is 18 and kofi siriboe is 27 but without the beard he looks 18 and she look 30. I think t still rains very true. From what I see celebrities and my real life. I have a lot of fellow teacher around t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 12:11 PM |
| 7 | Men's hair turns white faster then women's do. Idk how the world still believes we age fasterOh yeah black women age beautifully. I am 28 and when I worked in a h.s I was mistaken for a freshmen (14-15). My mother is 49 and is mistaken for her 20's. My grandmother is Afro-Latina in her 70 people swear she is in her late 30 early 40's. Funny enough black people don't use sunscreen often (which we should) for a long time black people believed we didn't need it. I think it has something to do with our skin itself which aid in our youth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 12:04 PM |
| 23 | Men's hair turns white faster then women's do. Idk how the world still believes we age fasterThis going to get me sh*t, but depends on the race of male and woman. Some women do age worse than some men depending on the race and what you mean by better. Physically speaking this is false. Black and Asian men tend to age better than white women physically. However, if we are discussing life span it depends on the race of man again. Example East Asian men live slightly longer than Southeast and South Asia women. I don't think the issue is who age worse, but how society handle aging in both s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 02:18 AM |
| 38 | PSA: Beware of “no shave November.”LOL funny enough my ex fiance and I were dating since we were 14. He always had a beard. At 25 he came to visit me (he was in the military and we broke up 2-3 year before that), when he didn't have that beard I nearly pepper strayed him. He is very handsome without it, but it didn't look like the same guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 04:42 PM |
| 85 | Where the F*ck is Kamala Harris?This should be posted on fds political sub Kalama Harris has a shady past with prosecution and locking people up. She was voted in as a figure head for WOC. For the black community she was an AKA that went far, for the Asian community she carried their race. She also was very shaky on her ideal, and not strong on he own. Overall I didn't vote for her because she along with biden were the best of the two. D and R have the political spare in the USA on lockdown. Voting for anyone else is a waste o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 05:29 AM |
| 54 | Don't settle for less 😆EW he can also stalk women, trap them, and worse. Don't settle for just a text back ladies want more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 10:06 PM |
| 444 | Married men live longer because of female care, this is well established and stories like this are not uncommon. Why is it that we hardly ever hear about a woman whose life was saved because of her husband's care and attention?Side note (but related) men are more likely to leave when their partners have a illness. woman diagnosed with a serious disease is six times more likely to be divorced or separated. So speaking frank if the shoe was on the other foot he might not have stayed. You don't hear about it because men leave in many cases rather than stay by their wives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 05:22 PM |
| 44 | Are men not attracted to women they respect?They are but some know they will never get them so they either Degrade, demean, belittle them Try to make them second guess themselves Promote and uplift pick-me Date them if they can | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 10:29 PM |
| 55 | Was reading a vent that got deleted bc OP said FDS and incels are not in anyway comparable and got hella attacked, but the worst part is the women who coddle men 🤦🏽♀️ truly our weakest linksThen she really doesn't need to be on reddit, because every single subreddit does it at one point. FDS holds men accountable, something society rarely does unless it is legally/criminally (and we all know that is skewed based on race and class). Also I really wish people stop calling us incel, we can have sex whenever we like. And speaking for myself I wanted sex I could be having it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 06:32 PM |
| 1 | The insults men make about women's bodies - and what THEY look likeYou may believe that. Good thing about leveling up is other people's opinion on your person doesn't mean much to you. But thank you for your opinion. I hope to see you once again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 06:29 PM |
| 1 | The insults men make about women's bodies - and what THEY look like(that was 2 year ago) I think the issue I have is 2 hours before you made this comment I replied below stating . I have stopped since learning I cannot clap back at everyone. So how much love can this be when you ignored that comment. Explaining why I did it. Explaining I stopped, and explaining how i had little to do with validation. I get it we read the first comment and don't tend to look for the people replies. This is a learning moment for both of us. You to read everything before we reply.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 06:10 PM |
| 2 | The insults men make about women's bodies - and what THEY look likeFar from the truth but I totally get why you think that. Here is the truth I use to (that was 2 year ago) get great pleasure from making racist white people feel small, and demeaned as they do POC. I use to be very combative on reddit regarding racism dragging white people who shows a hint of racism. My blackness was known, and I knew it would only be a matter of time before a white person commented on it. His validation meant nothing to me his embarrassment was my goal. I fed off of it.... I ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 01:57 PM |
| 8 | The insults men make about women's bodies - and what THEY look likeHonestly that was him and his girlfriend. He assumed I be jealous of and him her. Neither were attractive people. I won't go into why i really think he send the picture. You know what I will. We were arguing regarding how white women are no prettier than black women, he got pissed and said my GF is prettier than you I bet. Sadly he was mistaken poor girl. Hopefully he enjoys that picture of me on his lonely nights. I am glad I could give his life meaning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 01:01 PM |
| 55 | The insults men make about women's bodies - and what THEY look likeI never forget a guy here send me a picture of his ugly ass and his girlfriend (I won't go in on her because she did nothing wrong) saying she was so much prettier than me. This was my first month on reddit. I send a real photo of me back and he said of course you are pretty you have on make up (I didn't). It's always the gollums of the world talking ish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 12:14 PM |
| 12 | If he has to verbally ask for exclusivity, it's a TRAP. If was his job to make himself a space in your life, not yours.Yeah you title is confusing sis. Sorry, not sorry. I think if you wanted to get that point across you say men with little effort trying to lock it down. Even in the video the whole for the streets thing is a demeaning saying coined by men saying we are h*es. So I wouldn't really use her video either. Agreed men who don't put in effort should not be asking for exclusivity. But a man should ask for exclusivity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 11:39 PM |
| 188 | I just discovered blocked messages on my iPhone!SON? PHONE? SUCK IN BED? Girl you did the right thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 08:58 PM |
| 13 | To the Scrote I blocked that private messaged me that I am a 'femcel' I know you can see this, you are a sad little man, something I said clearly triggered you so change your ways or die mad about it. In the meantime, stay away from women hahaha well, that's not hard they probably smell you first xxLadies close you inbox. If someone wants to message you and you trust them following them will give them the ability while still closing everyone out. For your mental, and emotional wellbeing close them. Some men on this site happen to be ill, and while it's funny that they spew misinformation regarding you this is exactly what they want. Now he has his own little post of FDS, and he is creaming his pants. Close your inbox. Don't give these punk a** men a chance to insult you privately. Make the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 08:55 PM |
| 28 | If he has to verbally ask for exclusivity, it's a TRAP. If was his job to make himself a space in your life, not yours.I tell women all the time. He can literally take you to meet his dying grandmother that raised him, sleep with you every night, buy gift, and treat you like a queen doesn't mean you are exclusive. WHEN HE ASKS, AND YOU CONSENT WITH A YES YOU ARE EXCLUSIVE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 08:49 PM |
| 155 | Man cheats on wife online with a model who turns out to be a romance scammer. Says he married his wife “out of convenience” & doesn’t want to make the marriage workI shared with you all the twitter thread from a few years ago where men said they had not married the love of their life, but they married out of convince. From what that thread said many men f- up with the love of their life, and settle. This video reminds me of that. Men also are taught that the older they get the more desirable they become. When truth be told nobody wants you old ass Bill, most of the young chicka want your money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 08:44 PM |
| 77 | If he has to verbally ask for exclusivity, it's a TRAP. If was his job to make himself a space in your life, not yours.Maybe I am confused by the title, but I disagree with it (the title). A man should be asking for your consent to be in exclusive. That is not a trap. Both adults should consent, assuming is a trap FDS warns against. Early exclusivity is a red flag, asking to be exclusive after a period is not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 08:37 PM |
| 65 | I can’t help but feel there’s some propaganda going on to influence women away from education/ financial success… in favour of being a dedicated wife to a less intelligent, low earning partner. Here’s the evidence & my response:I never forget when I was young there was a huge new special about how more intelligent and smart a black woman was the more likely she was to be childless and single. When I was young I feared that, now that I am older I rather have it. Singehood is so beautiful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 05:54 PM |
| 134 | Uhhh awkward… maybe the illustrator didn’t have time to draw a fifth panel depicting innocent women, children & men getting killed? Maybe they forgot? Maybe they want to sugarcoat incel experience as something that only effects incels but NOT those around them?LOL def not a true reply of an incel. They would reply, "Even if I was a great guy (which I AM), you wouldn't like me. You only like white tall men name chad. Women only like guys like that. (insert racism, insert sexism, insert small dick vocalization)" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 11:35 PM |
| 15 | Dirty John: S1 John mehanS1 female lead daughters were a mess, and she was a pick-me. I think in her cause it was easy to ignore because she was trying to escape from her life. While she was successful everything else in her life besides her money, business, and house was a mess. Her oldest daughter clearly has undiagnosed issues (mentally), her sister was murdered, her mother seems disconnected and she was too a pick-me, I could go on. So while the signs were there when you yourself are emotionally looking for an escap… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 09:40 PM |
| 392 | I witnessed a man publicly threatening a woman today.In my city a woman was raped on the train the other day. Nobody did a thing, some people even recorded. The main was arrested after he raped her for a number of mins, while people watched. Men are going unchecked in society, and it's fearful nobody is stepping in to protect the women not even other women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 01:17 AM |
| 66 | If it wasn't for this community ladies, I wouldn't be experiencing this. #LiveYourBestLife #Don'tSettleForLess ❤️Yep my friend is their with her husband. Cannot wait for street food, and to see the sights. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 04:41 PM |
| 352 | If it wasn't for this community ladies, I wouldn't be experiencing this. #LiveYourBestLife #Don'tSettleForLess ❤️Good for you keep living your best life. They think all of FDS are single, lonely, poor, and unhappy. Cannot wait for my trip back to South Korea this summer. Enjoy love | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 04:16 PM |
| 93 | Men have it so hard 😢I am tired of going into to great detail how woman have long had it hard when dating, and had little to no choice in their mate. It become moot when the masses are upset because a standard men created, a joke, and consent is still the topic of discussion. What's the point of talking about the average woman is in far more physical, sexual, emotional, and mental danger than the average man on a first date. When you are discussing things that already have an answer to them. Men set the standard of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 12:45 AM |
| 313 | Calling women insecure/controlling because they don't want their BF to watch pornWe are insecure when we have standard, and when we don't. When we want a man, and when we don't. When we decide to have children and when we don't. When we put our career first or when we do it later. Women cannot win in this world either way we are doing something wrong to the masses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 11:50 PM |
| 63 | A guy I was talking to from Bumble showed his true self during our conversation: being sexually involved with his therapist. I should have blocked him then but I couldn't believe he was serious. Spoiler alert: he was. Block, delete, and move on.Sounds like a fantasy he made up thinking you like it. Don't entertain sh*t like this ever, unmatch and move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 01:49 AM |
| 124 | ladies whats some red flags that tell you a man is low key sexist?Oh yeah my best friend is bisexual the gay male communities vocalization towards women is sometimes worse than that of a straight male. The first term that comes to mind is fish, it is term used by men in that communication referencing women. The term fish of course referring to out vagina smell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 02:30 PM |
| 239 | ladies whats some red flags that tell you a man is low key sexist?I want to note ladies gay and bi men can sexist as well. Sexism doesn't stop based upon someone's sexuality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 02:21 PM |
| 3 | Calling women derogatory slurs is normalized that most people don't even recognize those slurs as such. A man can follow a woman, harass her, and call her several slurs but if she retaliates and calls him one she is the evil person and worse than him. Clow world and clown redditYeah no OP. A black man is def not looked as above a white woman in society. And I drag black men on a daily, but that's a lie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 01:27 PM |
| 3 | Calling women derogatory slurs is normalized that most people don't even recognize those slurs as such. A man can follow a woman, harass her, and call her several slurs but if she retaliates and calls him one she is the evil person and worse than him. Clow world and clown redditWhat that man did was wrong, unacceptable, and somebody should have stopped him. But i'll say this as a black woman. This woman uses that word in other ordeals outside of ones which is she under stress, or feels in danger. And she came to reddit which is mostly white thinking people would be fine with it, but I am glad they dragged her like they did. I burned my cape for black men along time ago. But I won't be putting my cape on for a racist woman. I say drag her, and drag him equally they both… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 01:19 PM |
| 66 | This is why it is important to vet and advocate for yourself, ladies. It's life or death for some of us. No one, neither progressive nor conservative, will speak on this because our lives don't matter.It true. Women are often not s.a by strangers but men they know often . Dads, boyfriends, cousins, uncles, brothers, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 09:31 PM |
| 137 | This is why it is important to vet and advocate for yourself, ladies. It's life or death for some of us. No one, neither progressive nor conservative, will speak on this because our lives don't matter.I am so vocal on here and other places regarding how under protected black women are. I CANNOT afford to give men the benefit of the doubt. My race of women are abused in all forms more than anyone else. And there is a racial bias against us when it comes to criminal proceedings, and if we are believed or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 07:46 PM |
| 19 | The first step in dating is realizing what you want, even if it differs from the masses.You username kills me every time. I agree with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 03:08 PM |
| 35 | Pick-mes Who Try to Act Powerful or Like BossesI think people have to understand LVW and pick-me are bosses, they are in congress, they are managers, and people with high titles. And often they make life for other women horrible in the process. This sub isn't really for discussing those women in the workforce, but there are a lot of Amy Coopers (aka central park Karen) in high positions. And like Amy they will never learn and never change | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 02:23 PM |
| 468 | Men have become so comfortable with violating women’s boundaries that they don’t feel any shame in admitting to itSome men truly believe women have no boundaries if the "right man" comes along. I have heard it being vocalized on this site and outside in reality as well. The idea that my boundaries disappear based upon a man physical or financial status is a falsehood men use to push the boundaries of women who have clearly laid them out. But many were breed to internalize women have no say once a man enters their life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 01:12 PM |
| 43 | Great strategy! Heavy pickme cope "she's a psychopath!"Sorry, you will never convince me being a single mother is something we want to be or do on purpose. Beating the game is finding a man who will be more than a weekend father. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 05:13 PM |
| 152 | Instead of looking for a partner, look for the father of your childrenLook for both. A good father=/= a good husband, a good husband =/= a good father. You should be vetting for both. Your life doesn't begin or end with children, and when that child leaves the nest you will be left with a shitty partner if you just looked for one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 04:02 PM |
| 0 | Weekly FDS Check-InI brought up racial bias on 2X sub today and last week, both times mods deleted my post. I am going to say it 2X is white-lib feminist b.s they don't want to here about ideals or outlooks from WOC. They want out support but they want us to be silent while supporting. It is not a safe space for any woman but white women, and I meant what I said and I said what I meant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/21 06:11 PM |
| 9 | This post will probably be removed.Why are people downvoting you for calling out OP clear contradiction within her post history here? The very thing she is asking for in this space she criticizes, and then pops back up to asked for the same thing she wanted to stop. Make it make sense. Downvote me, but I see OP as a walking contradiction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/21 12:09 AM |
| 44 | Should I go out with this guy?Nobody is that busy they cannot send you a single text throughout the day. I am dating a few men now one who is a getting is B.A and is a cop who works shifts that change weekly this week it is 3p-12a. Guess who still manages to text me. He is setting you up to be FWB. Casual means no string attached he already let you know this. You don't even feel right going out with him is this really a question sis? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 02:40 PM |
| 12 | Sisterhood doesn't have to be tribal.White women will not acknowledge their treatment of black women or other women of color, periodt. We spoke of it here before. How comfortable and included can I feel when white women still refuse to acknowledge they push racial bias, stereotypes, and they have a privilege not granted to us? How comfortable can I feel when here multiple times I had to argue what Karen meant (modern day miss ann) and white women were so entitled they compared it to the n- word? My point is there is an internal iss… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 12:06 PM |
| 44 | Sisterhood doesn't have to be tribal.I think while this is nice, we have to remember feminism at first wouldn't allow WOC. And to this day WOC issues are put on the back burner. It's like being included but each time you raise your hand they ignore you or tell you not right now. It peaks it head through on here sometimes via white women, and outside of here. I think we can speak of including people but they lack of equality in feminism still exist, and that is a big issue. There is a reason black women have their own term for misog… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 02:01 AM |
| 25 | Abba and PreachThey are typical woke black men... Supporters of Kevin Samuels, dismissing black women's issues, and think someone cares when they pork a WW because we want them so bad. I call them woke but still sleep black men, to the trash with them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 09:01 PM |
| 206 | Ladies how do you plan to KeEp A mAn? Wrong answers onlyAny black man name king is trash. I said it IDGAF if you like it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 04:28 PM |
| 213 | New reddit challenge: try to find a thread on dick size where women with a preference for larger dicks aren't downvoted/ignored and women with a specific preference for smaller penises aren't upvoted. And they think we're the ones coping......Not saying people can't prefer smaller but hmm....perfect size is 6-7.5 anything more is hell and I know I had a 9". However anything below isn't really fulfilling to me either so we all have our preference. But never have I heard a woman say give me that 4". Men want that but sorry mi say nah. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 12:34 AM |
| 26 | For ladies who don't like/can't wear rings, what do you prefer instead?I don't like rings because I lose them. When I was engaged I never take it off because each time I did I lose it. I lost it twice and my fiancé replaced it. Do I want a ring yes. But I know me Imma lose it. So insurance is going to be our best friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 11:26 PM |
| 389 | I'm done with men shorter than meIt should be noted members and onlookers of FDS. Height is not a indicator of LV or HV. So be ready to get the same sh*t from tall men. They feel better because they are taller. Still ladies be wary of all men, vet all men, and make sure you are keeping your standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 01:14 PM |
| 77 | POS is posting graphic cartoon p@rn on Reddit pages geared towards children. The users are begging their mods to remove the content. This is Reddit's response to my report on the user.Because it's mostly made up of men (white American to be specific. And that subsection of males are the most privilege entitled men there are. So nothing surprised me I mean nothing. A sub here has no mods and men promoting pedophilia targeted at most young girls. Reddit is deplorable sometimes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 12:13 PM |
| 129 | Scrote chases woman down an alley hollering and saying “come here” aggressively. Proceeds to call the woman racist for being scared, along with “dumb bitch” a few times.Sis ain't nobody banning you the creator of FDS know black men can be POS too. You fine in fact take a reward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 02:16 AM |
| 21 | FDS is featured on JezebelJezebel *in my mariah care voice* I don't know her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 02:14 AM |
| 139 | Sex positive libfem sex worker wants to “help” brutalized and abused ex pornstar by normalizing her traumaI think these lib fems who are white are so ignorant in the field of sex work it makes no sense. How is it equal and fair when it target poor women, young women, pay WOC less, and don't give women the outs to leave if and when they want to. Yes like most areas in the world it isn't fair for women, but even less fair for WOC. And this is why I call out white female privilege here and all over because a lot of them are IGNORANT. Well OF has made it so every woman has a choice. Do you forget that m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 01:16 AM |
| 179 | Having standards is not a hate crimeOn the dating sub today someone got pissy because I said I can afford to be picky. Why settle for chuck steak when I can have wagyu. Oh because in real life you would want me but I wouldn't want you LOL BOOHOO. Men are made your standard excludes them, had they not they be all for them. I am sorry Jim your balding head and studio APT doesn't meet my standards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 12:31 AM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Check-InWeak chin MBJ. I never forget him as a kid in the wire with those braids LOL. He isn't bad looking, but I have seen more handsome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 11:55 PM |
| 41 | Men agree that if he wanted to, he would.My step dad once told me a man does what he want, go for what he wants, he make sure what he wants is never going without their wants needs and desires. But you have to remember not all men are HV, and therefore not everyone will do even if it needs to be done. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 04:06 PM |
| 261 | Racist scrote had it comingLooks like he has all day and night to be racist now since his job is as gone. What a good start to my day. OP said I believe this is a clear invasion of my privacy and overall undermines the work I've done against racism for years. Translation: I help the POC so I can be as racist as I want. You cannot make up the entitlement of white men, you just CANNOT. But justice is swift, and as a JD student I can tell you he has no case legally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 01:49 PM |
| 19 | Weekly FDS Check-InOn that post people were creaming their pants in excited. I said oh I know I'm about to see a Trevante Rhodes, a Kofi Siriboe, Lance Gross, a Idris Elba, Tyler Lepley, or some fine like wine black man. And it is a 5/6 at best. The fuck.... No insult to him, at all but the standard is low if y'all think he the same looks as a Kofi.... I said y'all never see a fine black man before my goodness, they exist everyday and are a hot ass mess. Edit: I went to that thread and started dying. Warn me next … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 01:20 PM |
| 45 | Weekly FDS Check-InI'm starting to think I either date extremely handsome men or I have a skewed idealism of attractive men. Today I was on the dating sub and a guy posted his picture and I say oh he is a 5/6 at most. And everyone is like OMG you are so handsome. And I'm like have you guys never seen a handsome black man before because he really isn't that good looking. I think to myself (insert my name here) you have some high ass standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 01:07 PM |
| 285 | [Update] Good news about the post with the fiance telling his fiancee he wasn't attracted to her for two years. She left him.Thank you I was following this I was following it but didn't see the update. I hope OP was the driving force who ended it and it wasn't really him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 10:43 PM |
| 248 | FDS Works. It's best just to ghost men with no explanation when they do something shitty particularly in the early stages of dating. See link for why.There are 6 other comments here from men who don't learn that this isn't the space for them. What do you think those same 6 men will do when it comes to being rejected by someone they feel entitled to? I say this often and we discussed this on blacktwitter, and shout out to them because black men and women hold f-ed up men feet to the fire in the comment section. Men are the worse when it comes to rejection. They are horrible, and it is never worth being trigger to sooth a male ego. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 10:39 PM |
| 93 | The lack of attractive men out there is so dishearteningYeah I live in a big city and there are some handsome men here. Issue is handsome doesn't mean HV, and a lot of really good looking guys are LV/NV | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 07:53 PM |
| 111 | HVM Traits You've Noticed in the WildUnderstanding mistake and allowing people to recover from them. Correcting another man sexism, or belittlement of women Understanding others point of view, even if it doesn't align with theirs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 04:27 PM |
| 149 | Queens, how do you maintain being an HVW friend when your friends are being pick-me’s?As a HVW nobody around you should influence your ideals, hobbies, desires, wants. This is even if they share a space with you. Sometimes you cannot help people, but notify them of their actions and how it could harm them in the future is all you can do. It isn't your job to police people's actions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 03:17 PM |
| 31 | How do you feel about the squid game? Do you think it’s worth watching?The mask people are the most wealthy (mostly white men). Outside of America white men are coined as some of the worse people in society. Who have access to money and little positive morality (or what we deem positive morality). The are a representation of that. The others are wealthy people outside of white, but if you notice they are wiser, barely speak. Mannerism are very important in the show. They are there because it is their form of entertainment. Human life (besides their own) means littl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 01:32 PM |
| 321 | OH MY GOD????Signs like early signs of an abuser. She is lucky he showed his hand early, most do not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 04:13 AM |
| 603 | She asked her partner of 6 years out on their first date. He confessed to her that he was unattracted to her for 2 yearsThis must really hurt. What's so sick is he thought this would be a good topic during a get together with people they will see more often than not. He has now planted a seed of doubt in her mind that can never be unrooted. For two year as she shared her mind body and self with him he deep down was using her. I'd leave him, and I wouldn't even reply or tell him why. Straight up ghost. Edit: Crazy a user said this Yikes. I’d argue that liking someone you’re with romantically is much more important… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 02:24 AM |
| 67 | WOC be careful fetishization is real....Me too because I'm "light skin", can speak Spanish, and have looser texture hair. I am the exotics "black". It's all them saying what are you mixed with on OLD. I'm mixed with black and black you clown, my grandfather just is from PR. Black men also do this thing on OLD where they pretend not to be black to get into your eye site. Now Jamal you no damn well you ain't Asian why are you lying? I never forget this guy argued me down when I said I am not mixed. Well you have to be. Latino isn't a ra… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 12:46 AM |
| 61 | WOC be careful fetishization is real....Oh my ex is from Korean and I visited there before. They go their thinking Korean women would f- them, when many Korean women have coin white men as ain't sh*t and they leave you as single mothers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 09:49 PM |
| 141 | WOC be careful fetishization is real....I mean sis black men ain't no prize either, so LOL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 09:47 PM |
| 151 | WOC be careful fetishization is real....A lot of white guys believe WOC are easy, wild in bed, and will f- them just because they are white. The entitlement is crazy with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 09:23 PM |
| 134 | I can't believe this is the kind of advice that's out there 🙄I stopped reading when her pick-me behind said girlfriend for 20 years. She been a clown for a while, she won't leave next case (in my khia voice). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 08:17 PM |
| 31 | if a pacarana can lather his butt, pits, and balls then so can your bfSo I am like in uttershock, this rodent is cleaning itself so well. I never saw this before. I wonder was it trained to do this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 06:56 PM |
| 74 | FDS is and will always remain a dating sub first and foremost. Any suggestions to rename the sub or redirect its focus will be removed and offending users bannedAlmost all my upvoted comments on other subs are being met with "you post of FDS why isn't that sub taken down." Men are really pissed about FDS. In the last week I have seem an uptick in post as well. Just put FDS in the search bar. Ladies here need to be wary, some men pretend to be women and post crazy things to make use seem like we want all men to die in a fire pit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 12:37 PM |
| 31 | Just because you are both HV doesn't mean you will be compatible.Yeah I was dating a HVM recently and he said to me when we were talking about kids I don't really want them. I ended up, but he is great I just want children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 10:20 PM |
| 19 | I’d show you the comment I was responding to, but he deleted it. Called out a misogynist and he wrote an essay in response.Nothing is as tinder soft and weak as the male ego, beside the white male's ego, then the white reddit male ego. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 10:02 PM |
| 11 | Yes, that’s EXACTLY what I’m saying, and I won’t stop saying it.Everyone woman should be wary of rape and some race of women more than others. 1/5 women are S.A in their lifetime. Women make up most of the rape population, If you are black you are x2 more likely to be S.A in your lifetime. Most rapist (even if they rape male or females) are men Most rapist don't go to prison So most rapist are still free walking amongst us, and they are mostly men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 04:35 PM |
| 236 | I’d show you the comment I was responding to, but he deleted it. Called out a misogynist and he wrote an essay in response.The very foundation of most societies are build around the care of male's feelings, wants, and desires. It is ludicrous men refuse to acknowledge this fact. On top of that male's are he one who spewed the idealism that expression emotions is unacceptable amongst the male community. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 04:04 PM |
| 38 | What’s something that you thought you had to do but realized it’s misogyny and actually doesn’t benefit you?It sailor moon but she is drawn as a black woman with a septum piercing. It's by an artist called Mcflyy who draws anime character as black women and men. His site: http://mcflyy.com/ His IG: https://www.instagram.com/mcflyy/ The picture: https://www.instagram.com/p/CDp1nO4gkjX/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 01:54 PM |
| 271 | What’s something that you thought you had to do but realized it’s misogyny and actually doesn’t benefit you?I always say this to be problack for many is just to be problack man. Black women are often forgotten. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 12:32 AM |
| 869 | What’s something that you thought you had to do but realized it’s misogyny and actually doesn’t benefit you?Protect men and believe men of my race regardless if I know him or not. In the black community black women are expected to be the "everything" of the black community, while often receiving little from it in return. We are literally black men's everything. I don't protect nor care about black men like they desire me to. It doesn't benefit me to be, they surely don't protect us. And it start from a young age. Black fathers are not in the home often, and somehow black men find a reason and a why to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 11:47 PM |
| 54 | When people ask me why I suddenly only date younger guysMy mom who is 49 (she is married) told me men's bullshit don't stop with age. My stepdad join the conversation and says no it doesn't daughter. So let me tell you what 25 or 55 men are full of shit, as a older HVM he will surely tell you it's true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 11:18 PM |
| 78 | Weekly Reminder: OLD is trashWhat i have learned about OLD Most men do not read your profile. I made me tinder 2 weeks ago, and I would say for every 100 matches I get 90 do not read my actual read my profile. Most men don't care if they do read your profile they believe we are lying. One guy said oh girls don't mean that when they say no hook up. Community dick I said no hook ups. The men who are on OLD who have options (handsome, tall, and well off) often don't put effort into the communication. My suggestion and how I me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 06:30 PM |
| 16 | Everyone in the comments was congratulating him. I'm so confusedDoes he help him with his homework, does he talk to him about his day, does he spend time with him outside of picking him up, does he share experiences and lesson with him, does he take him on outings just the two of them weekly, does he pick up on sign when he is upset or emotionally unwell, does he listen, does he cook his meals, does he tuck him in a night, does he correct him when he wrong, is a presence in all his life not just after school and before it starts? This is what my mom did plus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 01:53 PM |
| 303 | It amazes me how many men don’t take responsibility for their sperm.My mother once told me a woman can only have one child each year, a man can have one everyday of he likes. It truly would be better if the concern is unwanted children to tackle men's reproductive system and not women's. The truth it is not their issue their issue is they want to control women's bodies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 09:48 PM |
| 221 | Jesus wept (photo not mine)I suggest against putting anything of sexual nature on your profile. With that being said this man is an idiot, and didn't even deserve a reply. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 08:50 PM |
| 64 | Today I had to ask what is wrong with some of these men?This user is right here is another comment talking about it I wish I had an alt I could tell this story with because I have a feeling people are going to get upset But when I worked at a SA/DV resource center, a man would block his phone number and call us pretending to be a victim. Now, obviously, I believe absolutely every single person who calls, it's a hotline. But, the level of excruciating sexual physical detail, the heavy-huffiness of his voice, the way he described it was exactly the plo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 01:17 PM |
| 211 | I went and read comments about the Korean Marriage situation and thought this one was greatMy friend is a black woman who has live in SK for over 8 year (I believe), she is currently engaged. But it was difficult for her to find someone who 1. wasn't racist 2. was not sexist 3. was understanding of her lifestyle. Women there want their financial freedom and freedom and all other forms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 11:24 PM |
| 199 | Why women disliking men is not the same as men disliking womenA lot of women's dislike for men is build upon long term societal abuse, and sexism via men. Also pure disgust and excuses they give. A lot of men really coin males as being uncontrollable human being, and they are NOT. Worse they make it seem like we have to teach basic sh*t too. I literally just saw a man post in a subreddit for r- fantasies about Miya Marcano. Miya a 19 year old girl who is missing and was most likely murdered. It truly made me say men made me the f- sick. Why do have to teac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 09:15 PM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Check-inI am tired of people making everything about Gabby. From the post here talking about how gabby teaches us this, to the post that Gabby cases opens our eyes to this. Nobody deserves to lose their life in that way. But it is extremely ignorant to try to coin Gabby's ordeal as the holy bible of lessons. FDS wouldn't exist if we didn't already know men are trash, FDS wouldn't exist if we didn't know that for long women have been put in danger via men, that sometimes abuser are stayed with, that poli… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 01:25 PM |
| 4 | My relative makes payments on her own engagement ringThis is how I feel and it might hurt some feelings. Let's call it what it is missing white woman syndrome. People are trying to link every thing to her, gabby teaches us to be cautious, gabby teaches us to leave me, gabby teaches us to seek help. No she doesn't. We already have this information, we already know this stuff, and we already internalized it as women. You know what Gabby taught me as a black woman, that the same women who are Native American, Black, Asian, or Latina will not get the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 01:16 PM |
| 77 | My relative makes payments on her own engagement ringI want to say this and it may come off offensive, sorry. Women far before Gabby where being murdered, beaten, stalked, and treated badly by there spouses and boyfriend. Gabby's story doesn't teach us much more, that we didn't already know regarding abusive POS men. If you watched the ID channel once you've seen it before. Your aunt is 40+ she probably heard worse stories than this, she is a clown and doesn't care. I say this being 40+ her mother (your grandmother) had way less ways to escape a m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 11:41 PM |
| 288 | Women going to college is creating violence in men! There isn’t quality in Uni so men aren’t going! We have a mating crisis!!It speaks on men if they are feeling less worthy because women are going to school. It also speaks of men if they have connected women obtaining a degree a with women having sex less. You know what else will happen since less men are going to college less sexual assaults. I think it also speaks to men and their desire to want to make money many are lazy. My ex went to trade school and made 6 figures, college isn't for everyone but why the hell are you broke? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 10:32 PM |
| 114 | What should we expect from a HVM?Stability in all forms. They should be mentally, emotionally, financially, sexually, and physically stable. This doesn't mean they are void of mental illness (I see this a lot here and other places), it means they have handled those properly so they function in a relationship. They should have their own beliefs, but open and understanding to others that may differ (as long as these beliefs do not harm anyone). They should fit their partners needs, and wants. They should not judge past endeavors.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 08:56 PM |
| 46 | Woman wants to stay after finding out her boyfriend of four years is still married - to his best friend - because they never filed the paperworkAWWW Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 07:39 PM |
| 183 | Woman wants to stay after finding out her boyfriend of four years is still married - to his best friend - because they never filed the paperworkA lot of people aren't on reddit seeking advice but validation. I noticed a lot of pick-mes are those seekers, after this woman woman jumped in my inbox last year tell me I am laughing at your r- because you would validate me. I learned to let pick-mes be. That and reddit suspend my account for a week behind that ordeal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 06:50 PM |
| 517 | Woman wants to stay after finding out her boyfriend of four years is still married - to his best friend - because they never filed the paperworkI don't argue with women who stay in ordeals like this. It's a waste of my finger strength which will soon be limited because arthritis runs in my family. Let her stay, she is a clown allow her to keep painting her face daily white with red nose. She is only hurting herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 06:30 PM |
| 165 | Do NOT listen to men when they say richer men don’t care about your educational background or job statusMost rich men regardless of how old their money is are LVM. Remember the rich kept their money in most cases by enslavement, sweat shops, low wages, monopolization, racism, and uphold sexisms. You have to also recall the rich men who care so deeply about background are often referring to your race, and what class you come from two thing women cannot help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 04:50 PM |
| 292 | Do NOT listen to men when they say richer men don’t care about your educational background or job statusI want to add... HEM (high earning men)=/= HVM. All HVM should be stable enough to support himself, and a family. But not all HVM are rich.... So yes some rich men could give two f-s about the care, well being, education, background, job status, and what not of women they date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 04:27 PM |
| 38 | Man claims his gf WANTS him to hold a gun to her head. I call bs.I notice this and I am not sure if this is the case here. But a lot of subreddit where men know women will be or female geared subreddits have become a cesspool for men making up stories or questions to get off. This could be one of them. I always suggestion looking through a person post history, and be cautious of throwaway accounts. It is a sick way men are living out their stories of sexual pleasure. I think the way this young man worded it it just doesn't sound real. Sounds like a fap fodder… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 04:16 PM |
| 8 | How do you deal with gaining less interest in dating and men overall?The issue is I get there numbers and I ignore them. I don't even feel like vetting or dating, I don't get to figure out who they are truly and if I do even if they seem nice or to my standards I still don't go on the dates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 01:25 PM |
| 19 | Scrote messages to teach me a philosophical lesson excited to mention Gabbie Petito “but hey, at least my sex isn’t being murdered” 🤡For the love of goodness (and I will created a post) stop posting men who message you from reddit on here. It is not entertaining by giving them attention, it's what they want. If you haven't decided to close your inbox, then report screenshot and report it to reddit directly (then block). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 03:05 AM |
| 155 | Everyone's talking about Gabby Petito. But they're having the wrong conversation, experts say.I think people are having this conversation amongst others, and it's great. Other topics include why women of color in the same ordeal don't get as much coverage or their murders or bodies aren't found as quickly. This story is bringing up a lot of hole in the justice system, new coverage, DV, and the media. I want to say it is making people face a lot of hard topics: DV The justice system and how it is sways against people of color Media coverage ad how it is sways to cover specific people (whi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 12:15 AM |
| 634 | Offered dating advice: now banned permanently from a popular subreddit because I follow FDSI was banned from one the dating subs, and one of the relationship ones. One because I post here, and the other because I said someone was porn sick. Don't feel too bad. Most of the dating subs are just guys complaining how they cannot get dates, and how women have it so much easier. There are some people there who truly need help, but most of it is a circle-jerk of petty. I made an entire post here about it. You ain't missing out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 09:36 PM |
| 43 | Weekly FDS Check-InI am very fearful, I work in a setting where we are tested weekly. Sadly each week 2-4 people are out due to testing positive to covid19. The virus is still spreading, and it's scary for myself as well as others. I wish they would have let us stay home. We can do our work from home without an issue, and out lives would not be on the line. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 07:33 PM |
| 164 | Don't trust men's words, trust their actions.Trust nobodies word always their actions. The biggest favor you can do to yourself is make everyone earn your trust, it should never just be given. There is def true in dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 06:07 PM |
| 6 | Can we please stop posting the messages we get from FDS Super Fans?As I said on the other post Ladies please close your inbox, and people's ability to follow you. Do not give LVM/NVM men and pick-mes a way to contact you cowardly. If they have something deplorable or threatening to say let them do it where everyone can see it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 02:04 PM |
| 150 | Oh shit here’s another one😆 Scrotes big mad about this sub and my activity on it. See my last 2 posts in this sub for more context.Ladies please close your inbox, and people's ability to follow you. Do not give LVM/NVM men and pick-mes a way to contact you cowardly. If they have something deplorable or threatening to say let them do it where everyone can see it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 09:55 PM |
| 41 | Racial Baiting/ Playing the “Race Nice Guy”I want to add and inform please be careful black men are not the only men who seek black women based upon what society has coin us as. White men are notorious for feeling like when they grace us with the present and or offer companionship that we are over the moon. The white guy and non-black latinos (usually white latinos) who put on their profile BLM and don't mess with the sistas (and yes I've seen it). The ones who never voiced their love or desires for black women until a black man has disr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Husband misses old body from when wife had an eating disorder :DI believe we all need to be healthy not for anyone but ourselves and the longevity of our lives. The body positivity movement has brought about love for one's body in all forms (which I LOVE) , but has also push unhealthy habits that can make people immobile, and push them to poor health (which I HATE). This husband seems to want to dismantle that love she has for herself in order to get the body he sees as sexy. That is sick. She wasn't healthy when she was smaller, and he knows it. But to upke… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 08:53 PM |
| 17 | "Should I really vet for the rest of my life?? That seems excessive and too much work!" Yes, sis, yes you shouldMy mother once told me people's B.S never stop even into old age. Often it becomes worse because they pull out all the stops as their life comes to an end. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 01:22 PM |
| 66 | Streamer does 6% of the housework, leaves everything else to his gf🤮He swept up ice cubes and left them there, they then melted and she had to clean up water. My goodness is he 10? She even came in and stated "do you need toilet paper". This man sound very lazy, and she sounds tired. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 01:20 PM |
| 96 | Saying she post on FDS isn't an insult to me, there is a reason this is my main account IDC.I think the issue is a lot of FDS addresses men's actions, including how society (most of it) has been wronged by them and it is a shit-show. We are having people rush into other countries because of power hunger men so FDS is not far off (speaking of afghanistan). It hurts to find out the predecessors before you, and those who currently there have done some egregious actions. It isn't terrible to call out men who abuse, belittle, gaslight, use, demean, and degrade women. In fact no man should c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 01:53 AM |
| 26 | I keep having to delete posts I make on other subs because creeps look through comment history and find out I'm on FDS.I was as well, don't think too hard about it the dating subs are just men crying how they cannot get a match on dating apps and how women have it so much easier. I literally summed up 99.9999 percent of the subs you are missing nothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 01:33 AM |
| 604 | So we all know that men can’t stop talking about themselves, so I wanted to ask you ladies..The last guy I was dating and why I ended it stated he believed pedos deserved a second chance, in life and to make things right. Meaning they deserve a second chance around children, and once serving their time should not be on the S.O.R. (sex offender registry). I had to end it right away. There are two things in my opinion that are never justifiable and should carry a life sentence pedophile, and sexual assault of any kind of any gender. People who think these men and some case women are rede… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 04:14 PM |
| 19 | Dressing nice and leveling up has backfired for meWho cares what it comes across to someone else? Do you like it? Do you do it for you? Then keep doing it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 12:25 AM |
| 95 | How do you not desire love when you have independently accomplished everything else you have wanted in life?I don't think there is an issue with desiring partnership or love OP. That is not the point of FDS you are human, humans desire partnership and romantic companionship (it's normal). FDS is suppose to help you not desire that with the wrong person, and if they are the wrong person you see it right away. It also should consume your entire life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 06:50 PM |
| 31 | Black women are not protected, LVM plans to rob a woman and goes to her home pretending to want her number.Because as I stated here white women have a privilege in this society, and they on here and other places don't want to acknowledge it. A black girl a few months ago murdered by her ex as he lead the police on a high speed chase after he kidnapped her. It was widespread but if she would have been white it would have been. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 01:16 PM |
| 229 | Boomer pickmeisha blames women and feminism for men being "pushed out" of academiaNobody can stop men from attending college and sticking to it but men (meaning themselves). It is no fault of women. In fact on the average college campus women are more at danger than the average male. So who is keeping what away from whom? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 02:08 AM |
| 68 | Scrotes really think they are entitled to do whatever they want in public spaces no matter how annoying it is to everyone else.In my younger years (not that I'm old) I hated when people get on the train blasting music. They have on headphones, but you could hear it as if you were wearing them too. Mind you it 6/7am and we all just wanna go back to bed. Nobody wants to hear that sh*t go deaf on your own time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 11:48 PM |
| 14 | How do you deal with rejection?I'm okay with it. I realize that in life I may not be his type, as some men aren't my type even with their HV status. Rejection is perfectly fine. I tell people here often not everyone HVM is going to be your HVM and everyone HVW will be his HVW. I don't think rejection means he is LV automatically, it couldn't simply mean he knows you aren't compatible. In the course of my life I have rejected HVM. Most recently a guy who was HV but he stated he wanted to be childfree, disappointing but doesn't… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 02:08 AM |
| 13 | Men on reddit advising women to talk it out after a male slaps them during sex (without their consent) is this normal?You never lied I am literally arguing with someone about why I don't have to formally reject men. He said well it's women's fault niceguys exist, and we need to help men get over it. No it's men's entitled and long line of lack of emotional awareness niceguys exist. And it is not our job to care for your men's feelings. Another man "well you are selfish." "Yep I come first until I have children." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 06:31 PM |
| 14 | Men on reddit advising women to talk it out after a male slaps them during sex (without their consent) is this normal?Thank you for sharing your story. You are a strong woman, and I am glad you got out of it to be able to tell others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 02:51 PM |
| 21 | Men on reddit advising women to talk it out after a male slaps them during sex (without their consent) is this normal?A man never hit me in the face, I cannot imagine. I am guess these women are lost in the scene or today's acceptance and they think it's okay or they should accept it. It's sad I feel for them. When my abusive ex threw me across the room once I ended it right away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 02:41 PM |
| 285 | Men on reddit advising women to talk it out after a male slaps them during sex (without their consent) is this normal?On a sub a woman posted her husband believes women r- just as much as men, when she tried to show him fact and statistics attesting to the opposite he wouldn't hear it. Some men truly believe that men are equally as preyed on as women, and they just aren't. And most men are the ones doing the preying in both cases | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 02:08 PM |
| 6 | Nicki Minaj's Husband Pleads Guilty for Failing to Register as a Sex OffenderYou are missing the point beloved, and you aren't taking into account what we are trying to tell you.... She is not a pickme for being abused nor for having feelings for her abuser. She is a victim, and it takes time for victims to get out the mindset of being a victim. Again FDS does not promote shaming abuse victims for their feelings, or being abused. Mental and emotional abuse usually is comes with (and usually before) physical abuse. u/NAthrowaway0613 said it best and you should really real… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 02:05 PM |
| 72 | FDS is not the place for you if you’re not willing to examine your own attitudes, beliefs and behavioursI want to add ladies look at your actions when it comes to men but also your fellow woman. As the RS said if I don't call you out it be a disservice to myself and every other woman here. Address the tough things you refused to internally look at, it is a hard pill to swallow but too bad you have to do it. Realize that your silence or not owning up to it is a directly harming another and yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 12:47 PM |
| 6 | Not really about dating but about lvm friendsOP you are a pickme. To even question if you should block a racist man screams that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Bare Minimum vs High ValieI don't agree with some of the bm vs hv in this post. Specifically being 1,2 and the last one. Sometimes people cannot take off of work. A person putting in the effort to check on you throughout the day, and getting you a gift is perfectly acceptable and HV. Just no. A HVM will know when he should be doing something being a man=/= being able to fix stuff. Him paying for a person to clean up the mess and fix the issue is HV as well. Plus if he has a job who is slaving for 10 days? No OP just no. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 08:08 AM |
| 105 | It's peak PUA season. Be on alert at all times!My behind is needs to take a nap. I saw PUA and I said Pandemic Unemployment Assistance they cut that off last week how is this a season? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 06:56 PM |
| 75 | 'Money can't buy happiness' is a lie women are sold which compels them to seek fulfillment in romantic relationships instead of investing in their education and careersMoney gives you a specific amount of privilege in this society and accessibility that can leada to happiness (depending on what your idea of happiness is). I want to add money=/=HV nor HVP it simply means you are surrounded by high earning people. It is a difference, most HEP are pieces of sh*t. I don't disagree with what you said. In my case money didn't buy happiness, but a blanket statement shouldn't be made that an because individual didn't find happiness with money money cannot do that for … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 06:37 PM |
| 80 | Dailymail degeneracyYeah, it's a no for me dawg. I won't lie I don't like this. You shouldn't need a contract to make a man do basic sh*t. I mean they have things on there like honesty, awareness of partners needs, basic boundaries, and communication. Why do these need to be written on and agreed upon in a contract basic men with self respect for his partner should do all this without it having to be said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 06:21 PM |
| 8 | Stop telling these men what your idea of a HVM is, LVM/NVM love to pretend to be HV and you just gave them to blueprint what HVM is to you.Sandman is a youtuber who promotes and spews the MGTOW rhetoric | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 02:41 PM |
| 3 | This is why I will never trust fully. People like this guy have destroyed my trust in humanity.They truly are, the one with the locs once tried to say we black women are jealous he is dating a white woman. On behalf of the black female population we are glad white women took one for the team LOL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 03:44 AM |
| 78 | Nicki Minaj's Husband Pleads Guilty for Failing to Register as a Sex OffenderIt's not at all. Victims of abuse should be given grace. Physical abuse is almost always accompanied by emotional and mental abuse. It takes time for women to escape that. So yeah u/queenofswordsxxx I think you are 100 percent wrong here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 03:42 AM |
| 80 | Nicki Minaj's Husband Pleads Guilty for Failing to Register as a Sex OffenderYeah no that doesn't make her a pick me, she is an abuse victim. And abuse victims often takes years to mentally and emotionally recover from such. Her still loving him is a result of trauma not a result of being a pickme. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 03:40 AM |
| 27 | This is why I will never trust fully. People like this guy have destroyed my trust in humanity.Please do not post these two men on here they were defending Kevin Samuel. Kevin Samuels is a small penis man who often goes after black women to uphold MGTOW values, because he know most men including black men demean and belittle black women. They are also known for making videos that directly contradict FDS values. They are both LV. And have no place here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 12:46 AM |
| 224 | What are some of the reddest red flags you’ve ever seen on a date or during a relationship?A guy started quoting MGTOW to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 12:43 AM |
| 266 | Nicki Minaj's Husband Pleads Guilty for Failing to Register as a Sex OffenderIt is a very common knowledge that Nicki minaj husband is a rapist and murderer. He has more mug shots than LVM have excuses. In fact Nicki "r-pist support" Minaj is being sued via the victim. From the victims account she harassed her and told her to recant her statement aka her testimony about her being r by Nicki's husband. She (nicki) even posted and was on her podcast claiming the victim and her jailbird LV husband were in a relationship. The victim came out and said they never were, and Nic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 12:35 AM |
| 118 | Sorry ladies but I gotta use this space to mock poly people 🤣Poly relationship boils down to this greed, not willing to let someone go because you are afraid someone else will have them, or you don't want to be honest with yourself about the relationship. Someone is unsatisfied in the relationship physically, mentally, sexually, emotionally, verbally, intellectually, or financially and instead of leaving they bring other people in to feel in the gaps. The person doesn't meet one parties needs wholeheartedly. And like the clown the other party is they you … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 06:37 PM |
| 47 | I just found his alphabetized nudes from previous relationships. Mine included.I learned it when I was an app rep at a huge company. If you enter the wrong passcode too many times, you will be locked out of your iPhone. There's no way to bypass the passcode without factory resetting the phone. Using iTunes, you can reset your disabled iPhone to its factory settings and then restore your apps and data from a recent backup. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 02:12 PM |
| 46 | Oh woe is men!I think this could be a good thing for women in fields who have exclusive been male dominate aka mostly STEM fields. Also it will be good because I am sure r- will decrease a great deal with the lack of men on college campuses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 01:30 PM |
| 612 | I just found his alphabetized nudes from previous relationships. Mine included.And when you are finished put the code in wrong to his phone the max amount of times. It will lock itself and he will have to factory reset it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Cops don't give a shit about our safety. Full evidence and these clowns say there's "not enough information".Oh I know who created this subreddit, and I saw when she first started it (and it wasn't on reddit). I won't go into details because I think it's her business to tell her own story. But I always think it's funny when white women here downvote me when I call out they have privilege. Then try to inflate or bring out a falsehood to demean my point. I never said anywhere white women don't experience male oppressions. I said cops care about them which they do more than any of the race of men but whit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Please do not use race as sign someone is a HVM, VET EVERYONE.K-drama are still very much full of shit, and I say that as a k-drama lover. It has not changed much. In fact I think they said let's drop the physical and switch to verbal. The main trope that still exist is a male verbally and emotionally abusing the female lead and she still falls for him anyway. Or he is just plain cold, and somehow she falls for him. The trope women love bad boys, and men who cannot emotionally express themselves is present in most of the romantic dramas today as well. Exam… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 01:41 PM |
| 149 | I can't get over how society shames women for expecting men to pay for dates but they never shame men for using women for sex.I literally never paid for a date in my life, even when I was engaged. The first time I heard of 50/50 is via reddit and online. I never been asked to pay via a man, and I am confused where are these men. Because I wish a mfer would. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 06:23 PM |
| 72 | frustrated with guys lying about their height, and how i’m respondingI think it downright pitiful men lie about their height. And in my opinion it is petty, so if he lies about something so stupid then he will lie about more. I am only 4'11 so height means nothing to me. However, when men say they don't have a preference and every man I dated but one literally seeks me out and is 6 foot plus it tells me they sure do. Let's not ignore men deplorable names, and their mocking of tall women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 06:13 PM |
| 5 | Cops don't give a shit about our safety. Full evidence and these clowns say there's "not enough information".That's not what I said. I said cop (which range in race and sex) care about white men and women, which is very much true PERIODT. You white women do not want to admit you have a privilege in this society that extends to law enforcement, criminal acts, and medical care and I don't get why. I won't argue here about it because you will never admit it even though fact prove you do. There is a reason white women call the cops like the woman in central park even though they know she was lying. She kno… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Cops don't give a shit about our safety. Full evidence and these clowns say there's "not enough information".Correction rich white people...... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 01:38 AM |
| 69 | Why scrotes are mad at feminismFeminism for some men is a reminder that woman seek equality in all forms, and that vocalization upsets them. Equality is still something many men believe women can do without.... Yet the 1st and 2nd wave mostly excluded women of color upon some of them joining it, it farther gave woman a voice that they did not before have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 01:16 AM |
| 32 | Do I just have to be a bitch, then?Sis you should have nodded and said I have to go after he got creepy. Never go back and forth with a LVM, or entertain them even for a moment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 10:28 PM |
| 2 | If you have a high value mom, always go to her for adviceNope... I think it had everything to do with my PTSD and honestly nothing to do with my asthma. You have to pass a mental health check, and I think I was too honest. My aunt is also a cop and black... My city is majority black (45 percent black), we have a high black police population compared to most cities, and our police commissioner is a black woman (before that is was a black man and before that a black man). This is not to say that women aren't treated badly we surely are, but I don't thin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 07:02 PM |
| 7 | If you have a high value mom, always go to her for adviceI get it, we can disagree that's what being an adult is. Understanding that the world has different points of views, and knowing you cannot change people's mind. I respect you choice. My sales job was stressful to the point I didn't want to live anymore. I worked 12+ hours a day, tricking people into buying things they didn't need, watching people come back trying to return the product knowing from the beginning they couldn't afford it, people crying at your feet can takes a lot out of you. Afte… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 03:54 PM |
| 9 | If you have a high value mom, always go to her for adviceI am in the USA and tried to be a cop in one of it most dangerous cities where cops are in short supply. So I am telling you from experience. I was denied because I have asthma and PTSD. Never thought it happen but it did. Also again I was specifically speaking of overall take a pay cut and mental health. I went from 80K to making 40K as a teacher. In some cases making less is okay if it protects your mental health. My point still stands you don't have to listen to it. This was not direct to him… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 03:41 PM |
| 25 | I used psychedelics to work through some stuff (k!nk and other trauma recovery), my experience:This shouldn't have to be said, but please consult a doctor and do not take drugs without the permission of your PCP or a professional (DOCTOR) who is very very very educated in the field. Not a friend who does it sometimes, they are not a professional. Some psychedelic's can trigger behaviors making your trauma worse. You can end up harming yourself, and damaging yourself worse than before. AGAIN NEVER TAKE THESE DRUGS WITHOUT TALKING TO A PROFESSIONAL. Reddit is not a place seek advice on matt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 01:40 AM |
| 111 | I don't want any relationship after the argument I overheard from my bedroom windowOP never let someone else actions, and what occurs in their personal life deter you from something you desire or want. Yes you should never want a man like this, or allow anyone to talk to you like that. But you set your standards, and stay firm you will be fine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 11:53 PM |
| 11 | When you are not attracted to a potential HVM... SighI learned this a long time ago every HVM you encounter will not be YOUR HVM. Meaning a man can still be HV and not be the man for you. For example you may not want kids, but he may does that make him LV no but it does mean you guys aren't compatible. It is okay to acknowledge hey this is a great guy, but he isn't the guy for me. Do not settle for something or someone you do not like wholeheartedly. He (if a truly good guy) deserves someone who will and shall be attracted to him and you deserve s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 11:15 PM |
| 12 | Men will waste your time and then waste it again.Y'all noticed how this person said "He brought up common law marriage and starting joint bank accounts but never wholeheartedly agreed to marriage. He's heard too many horror stories so he's not keen on it." then she says ". He promised to buy me an engagement ring and to get married." Which one is it is he against marriage, or was he all for it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 11:10 PM |
| 15 | Men will waste your time and then waste it again.OP your story doesn't add up and I don't think you are on FDS often: You said he in the beginning he said he never wanted to get married, but later on you go on to say he promised you'd get married and buy you a ring. Please stick with a story a man who is firmer against marriage through an entire post somehow in the TL;DR is doing the opposite? You should always work or have some outside income coming in. This is for your betterment, and safety in a relationship. Had you been on FDS long enough… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 11:08 PM |
| 3 | What should we call Male Karens? Darrens?Thank you sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 08:35 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Check-inYeah they are I just messaged you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 06:51 PM |
| 6 | What should we call Male Karens? Darrens?Ms. Ann Yes it is. In fact it has had many names before it's current one (Karen). As a kid growing up in the 90's we call them Becky's and the male's Peters in my city. And for the white women here who will say what is Ms. Ann it was used in the black community the same was Karen was.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 06:31 PM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Check-inHow do you join the chat here again? I use to be apart of it, but for some reason it is no longer there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 06:23 PM |
| 105 | Leveling up this weekI am leveling up this week by putting myself first. Starting by protecting my mental space/state further by distancing myself from specific online activities. Something I saw today made me extremely disappointed, but also didn't shock me. This it is a sign I am to heavily invested. I need to take a step back and rethink some of my ideas and places I frequent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 06:17 PM |
| 6 | What should we call Male Karens? Darrens?There is already a name for male Karens they are Kens. Not to OP.... But a side-note may get me banned I am fine with it. You know the pioneer of FDS was on another site (which I will not name or name the site) and I truly was confused why she opened up FDS. And so were all the women there. Not because I don't think FDS needs to be promoted to all women IT DOES. But because I knew that at the very core of womanhood there is a issue between women that and I will be frank white women will not addr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 03:54 PM |
| 26 | What should we call Male Karens? Darrens?Because upon white men getting a hold of the word they began to reference it to every woman. Often things coined, created, and displayed by people of color is taken via white people. Another example of this but not as big of a deal is the Harlem shake. That stupid ish white people do in the middle of the dance floor acting foolish is not the Harlem shake. The Harlem shake was a street dance created by black people. But it was change and the original is lost and hard to find and just in case you … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 03:29 PM |
| 1 | What should we call Male Karens? Darrens?Not sure why they are downvoting you Jammies. But Karen is a term coined by black people to refer an entitle racist white women. As I stated below earliest Karen that comes to mind is the woman who lied on Emmett Till. Once white people took hold of it like the Harlem shake, box braids, and potato salad once they got a hold of it they changed it for the worse. The funny thing is white women do it to this day. A recent example is that woman in the park who pretended to be attacked by the black gu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 03:19 PM |
| 2 | What should we call Male Karens? Darrens?I want to correct you Karen was coined by black people to call out white women who used the white privilege against POC (specifically black people). They used vocalized, and displayed reactions actions. One of the earliest examples of a Karen I can think of is the woman who lied on Emmett Till. However, once white people took hold of like many things it's mean has change and it used to refer to an irrational (usually) white woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 03:16 PM |
| 135 | Woman says she prefers big dicks and you can imagine how the response is.I see nothing wrong with a woman having a preference for whatever she like, 8" is too much for me (had a 9" before nearly died), but if she wants it why shouldn't se have it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 12:01 AM |
| 389 | Woman says she prefers big dicks and you can imagine how the response is.She said if your not hung like a comcast remote she doesn't what you. SHE SAID WHAT SHE SAID | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 10:25 PM |
| 5 | Set your account to not allow followersI had about 6 people follow me when my other post went to the front page here. I am sure more will when and if they see my other post. I assumed they followed simply to get me to follow back to message me. However, I guess they want to follow my posting. It's so odd. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 10:09 PM |
| 11 | Why do men always bring up women's height preference when factually speaking we know men have a race, weight, look, and physical feature preference?The very funny thing is my ex fiancé was very short 5'3 and he had/has no issues with dating. Was not a mean, nasty, rude, or self pitting person like I so often see on this site. Super talented guy, and overall a great guy truly HVM. Confidence and self love is what helped him, and a lot of men on this site need that. Truth is even though I don't have a height preference if my ex finace whined and b*tch like the men on here did I never would have dated him in the first place. He never let his h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 10:03 PM |
| 63 | Why do men always bring up women's height preference when factually speaking we know men have a race, weight, look, and physical feature preference?Very interesting thank you for sharing. As a Afro-Latina aka black this is very true in my culture and race as well. There are literally communities of men who degrade black women who are also black, uplift white women, but when they cannot obtain one after stringing black women along for years they will marry one but too like your culture treat her like s*it. Also often in our community it is a running theme that when black man become wealthy they tend to distance themselves from black women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 08:41 PM |
| 157 | Coworker’s r*pey social media accountsIf I were you this would be me typing up a letter to my boss, HR, my boss's boss, and the head of the company with this information. Make sure to screen shot everything, including the emails just in case they don't do anything. His behind be fired and back on twitter angry. Also screen record you going into the profile so it won't look like you created it yourself or it's fake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 08:31 PM |
| 35 | Why do men always bring up women's height preference when factually speaking we know men have a race, weight, look, and physical feature preference?A guy I am dating who is a cop told me a white cop from outside our city told him often "Damn I didn't know how pretty the black girls can be, always thought they were ugly. I never really see them in my town" He said I looked him like you came a very highly populated black city and never saw a black person. WTF. He says now the guy keeps asking him to get a hook up with a black girl and he refuses each time. For most of his life he thought we were ugly we don't want you. White men are entitled,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 08:11 PM |
| 43 | Why do men always bring up women's height preference when factually speaking we know men have a race, weight, look, and physical feature preference?LOL A few months ago I had this guy who said he gamed 12+ hours a day, and that whoever he dated must understand that. I kindly told him it wasn't going to work, this man then went on to say well can you help me find a overweight woman who is elderly to sit on me. UMMMM excuse me? I told him this is why I truly don't even like to entertain gamers they are the oddest f-ing me. He got pissy. Sir you just asked to find someone to sit on you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 08:00 PM |
| 16 | Why do men always bring up women's height preference when factually speaking we know men have a race, weight, look, and physical feature preference?I wonder if a woman made a post like that he is shorter than I thought would people be as kind..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 07:51 PM |
| 8 | Why do men always bring up women's height preference when factually speaking we know men have a race, weight, look, and physical feature preference?Can you link them I want a laugh as I watch my anime. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 07:46 PM |
| 15 | Why do men always bring up women's height preference when factually speaking we know men have a race, weight, look, and physical feature preference?Fine like wine and she only getting better with time. Her and Omeretta are so pretty my gooness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 07:44 PM |
| 66 | Why do men always bring up women's height preference when factually speaking we know men have a race, weight, look, and physical feature preference?The tinder subreddit is a shit show. A girl posted a guy saying some horrible stuff to her of sexual nature, and the guys said unless he said sorry. Or this is tinder what do you expect. Wish I could find it, | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 07:38 PM |
| 365 | Why do men always bring up women's height preference when factually speaking we know men have a race, weight, look, and physical feature preference?I think we need to address this. Men keep saying they don't get dates but 5 mins after I join a dating app I have 100+ likes. Why are all these men aiming for me? This may come off bragging but honestly I am very pretty, and well off at this point in my life. I make it known on my profile too. F*ck it I am proud I am a law student and make good money.... Why the hell is a 4 who works at walmart liking me. Be realistic, but if I say that you are being a b-. Truth be told men are aiming for the sa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 07:21 PM |
| 39 | Why do men always bring up women's height preference when factually speaking we know men have a race, weight, look, and physical feature preference?Here is the video And you don't have to say not all, it is always implied here we aren't talking about all men. But there are enough that it is causing a problem that all men need to address. Not all black men are racist and colorist, but enough are that it is causing a huge problem in our community. I want to say though I agree with you. I also want to say if any man of any race degrade all their women a woman should run, if she doesn't she is a pick me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 06:55 PM |
| 72 | Why do men always bring up women's height preference when factually speaking we know men have a race, weight, look, and physical feature preference?Oh sis black men are very known for their colorism and racist ways. And it starts at a young age. Tiktok had whole debate when a group of black male teens voiced they do not and will never date black women. Rap music has some of the most deplorable, dismissive, racist, and colorist lyrics towards black women. From chris brown not allow dark skin black women at his table, from Kodak black saying he doesn't date women that look like him (aka black women), from Asap rocky telling black women they s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 06:41 PM |
| 138 | Why do men always bring up women's height preference when factually speaking we know men have a race, weight, look, and physical feature preference?I read this in a caveman voice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 06:34 PM |
| 66 | Why do men always bring up women's height preference when factually speaking we know men have a race, weight, look, and physical feature preference?I truly could never understand people can say without a shadow of a doubt all black women are unattractive as if: Nia Long, Gabrielle Union, Brie Myles, Regina Hall, Nicki Minaj, Omeretta, Tanerelle isn't a thing. I don't date white guys but I would never say hey they are universally unattractive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 06:24 PM |
| 89 | Yet more proof high value ≠ high earnerHV is a person who is stable in all forms. That means the person is mentally, emotionally, physically, sexually, financially, and intellectually stable. high earners=/=high value. When a person enters your life they should aid in it's betterment not bring problems. This doesn't mean a man had to be rich to be high value, I am not sure where that came from. It should also be noted most rich me are horrible people. Also remember OP pickmes and LVW exist as well as men. And pickmes damage women for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 06:01 PM |
| 56 | Why you shouldn’t go back to OLD.The idea of online dating is to get you to come back, hence them excluding and including some preference behind a paywall. The very thing that could bring two compatible people you cannot do unless you pay. A hard going Christian could match with me, why do I even see him I am agnostic and detest organized relationship. It doesn't help that men outnumber women on apps, therefore you will be overwhelmed with the nothingness you get. 9/10 those matches won't be compatible with you, and you will ge… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 05:52 PM |
| 141 | Why do men always bring up women's height preference when factually speaking we know men have a race, weight, look, and physical feature preference?Broke men can also do something about their income, so why is any man poor or not making 6 figures? If you tell a man this they get pissy well ____ and it's hard. And losing weight for some women is too. So now? My point is extend grace to people don't demean them because if it. Each person can have an ordeal that they may to deal with. I literally wrote someone this about women and weight, and men downvoted me: I think you are missing her point. She is stating that some women are that size due … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 05:45 PM |
| 5 | Please do not use race as sign someone is a HVM, VET EVERYONE.Where are you from? Because this isn't just an american thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 02:32 PM |
| 6 | Please do not use race as sign someone is a HVM, VET EVERYONE.I stopped going to nail salon that do not have license nail techs, often those fully asian base one do not. From what my ex said (his family owned a nail salon) they teach the new person how to do nails, and they keep practicing on clients until they get better. Nail hair is important, and if damaged could be very painful. Damage my nails and spew racism I'll pass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 12:29 PM |
| 43 | Male Scrote TrollsCLOSE YOUR DM's. And do not follow anyone back, following people back allows them to message you (DM). I have learned after the 3 I hope you get raped nobody on this site is worth my mental health close it. Just by my post being on the front page of FDS about 6 people followed me today, mostly men. I can tell they are hoping i will follow back so they can drag me by my beautiful thick baby hairs. Ahh yeah, NAH. Beat it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 03:00 AM |
| 149 | Men want to believe porn is empowering to women so they can to consume it without guiltI always am confused on men's true intention regarding porn. Many belittle, make fun of, and degrade women who participate in porn. Most will refuse to date them (porn star *including OF girls*), and create post attesting to be tired of women doing it. However, they are it's number one consumers. In my Monique voice "make it make sense". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 12:35 AM |
| 26 | Please do not use race as sign someone is a HVM, VET EVERYONE.I am not surprised. The Asian community is very dismissive but aids heavily in racism and sexism themselves, definitely the males. On the incel subbredits that once plague reddit often white and asian men were among the highest commenters and subs. In fact they would refer to asian women as demeaning terms and black women as gorillas (I saw it). Asian men coined their height, small penis, eye shape, and lack of muscle mass as the sole reasons as to why women didn't like them. Not the fact that a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 12:28 AM |
| 22 | Please do not use race as sign someone is a HVM, VET EVERYONE.Yes this is what I said The only thing I see is a racist pickme, and we don't do that here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 05:07 PM |
| 100 | Please do not use race as sign someone is a HVM, VET EVERYONE.Yes. I think it is easy to spot some people from deplorable actions and traits right away but it should always be based on the actions of the individual. But it should NEVER be based on someone culture or race. Oh he's black he must be HV, oh he is white he must be LV. Also which I should have added political affiliation doesn't give him a HV stamp of approval either. The vetting processes is important. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 04:59 PM |
| 65 | Please do not use race as sign someone is a HVM, VET EVERYONE.In some cases they do not say LV or HV (because outside of FDS women do not use those terms), but they will say something that is categorized as LV or HV and attribute that to one race of man making the LV or HV. Example from reddit: Girl just don't date Asian men, as a woman was raised and grow up in Asia and dated few Asian American, they don't know how to respect women and they want you to respect their families and expect you to stomach everything for the family. Just do yourself a favor don… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 04:48 PM |
| 49 | Please do not use race as sign someone is a HVM, VET EVERYONE.All men can be LV sis. I NEVER had a good experience with white guy, however I am sure there are some HVM out there that are white. We can never use blanket statements. However, to protect my own emotional healthy I do no date them being called the n with an hard er is something I'm tired of white men calling me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 04:36 PM |
| 62 | Please do not use race as sign someone is a HVM, VET EVERYONE.I actually don't allow white men to see me on apps if possible, because anytime they do something racist comes out their mouth. Example: Him: I never dated a colored woman before. Me: Excuse me I am Afro-Latina aka black Him: Yes a colored n-er. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 04:31 PM |
| 150 | RANT: WHY do men feel the need to change their gender to "female" on dating apps?Girl men change their gender, age, race, and height to weasel their way in. I have a preference and I literally see men clearly not that age or race being shown to me. They lie lie lie it's so damn odd. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 04:26 PM |
| 93 | Ladies, we need to talk about this...Edit: I'm curious to hear from any FDSers who live in Texas? How are you doing? I was dating this doctor from Texas who left because he couldn't stand the stance that many Texas males had for women. He being a doctor believed women had the choice and right to decide what to do with their body, a debate he often got in with his friends and family. He left in lives in my city now, he said he is not surprised this pass it has been in the works for a while. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 04:25 PM |
| 48 | Please do not use race as sign someone is a HVM, VET EVERYONE.Sadly I know so many that do. There a minority female sites that talk about white men like their penis's don't collect cheese like the rest of the men out here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 04:18 PM |
| 172 | Please do not use race as sign someone is a HVM, VET EVERYONE.The idea that all white men are high value is rooted in white supremacy and racism that has weaseled it's way into every minority community. While white men have been leaders and responsible for some of the most deplorable crimes known to man, for some reason in specific races they are still held in high regard when contrasting them to their own men. It is because the conditioning most of our families has been tricked into believing still is rooted in the very foundation that we use to categoriz… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 04:11 PM |
| 50 | Please do not use race as sign someone is a HVM, VET EVERYONE.I have met a few, but we were not compatible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 03:53 PM |
| 309 | Please do not use race as sign someone is a HVM, VET EVERYONE.As a woman who dates Asian men they can be full of shit too, and some can be sweet. Only way to know is to vet. VET VET VET!!! I see a lot of women of color have this fetishization for white men, and how they are often all put together and sweet. AKA all white men are HV. I do not know where they got this ish from, but they are just as crappy as the other races. I keep seeing it and it's very annoying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 03:37 PM |
| 37 | listening to Gotye song “Somebody that I used to know” after discovering FDS made me laugh at the whiney scrote lyrics ..I think it's more so the lines of entitlement and not the harem. In the song he said you said we can still be friends, and so he became pissed when she didn't uphold that. Nobody is entitled to uphold relationships of any kind once they are not important or they hinger more than they aided. You can tell from this song Gotye is emotionally unstable, and I am willing to bet he wanted to dump his emotional baggage on her more than anything. Often men will use women as therapist, and they will not d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 03:09 PM |
| 80 | listening to Gotye song “Somebody that I used to know” after discovering FDS made me laugh at the whiney scrote lyrics ..I love that song. But after reading the lyrics it seems as if he was unhappy in the relationship anyway, and was happy it ended (he even says it). Why was he so upset that they drifted apart? It is what normally happens after a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 02:40 PM |
| 5 | Ladies, what are some of the worst examples and common trends of LVM and pickme’s giving advice on the dating subs?The worse advice I have seen coming from both sides are you don't need to change when the person is clearly mentally and emotionally unstable. Regardless of our personal feelings about specific people someone who is vocalizing demeaning, nasty, harming, extreme misogynistic or misogynoir, or self deprecating words in the form of a reddit comment they probably shouldn't be dating. They either are unwell, or have some harsh ideals on women that shouldn't be brought into a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 12:02 PM |
| 236 | What to do when you see a Pickmeisha receiving terrible advice on other dating subsThe other day I got a few women to join. They saw my post about incels taking over dating subs, and they came here. Glad I can do my part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/21 08:41 PM |
| 20 | PSA: Don’t share links to Tiktok videos from your main account if it’s publicBeing online is risky OP, finding someone's IP isn't hard. It is best to use a VPN if you truly want to be anonymous on here. You always leave behind trials, def with the way people today share their entire lives online. Even those ring photos people had can be linked back to them. I always suggest keeping your social media private, not having people outside your circle (friends, family, and maybe coworkers) as friends on social media, not linking things that are directly linked to your account,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, do you consider seeing a man once a week (every Saturday) as fulfilling dating?I've never a IG, SC, Twitter, only a fb when I was a teen which was 10 years ago. I just do not want people outside my circle to be able to look at my life. I don't want former friends, stalkers, exs, people I don't talk to, or people who envy me to look into my life. I am a pretty private person, and I suggest most women be that way (not saying not to have a social media but keep your circle tight). Nobody should be able to see into your life unless you allow them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 03:34 PM |
| 8 | Ladies, do you consider seeing a man once a week (every Saturday) as fulfilling dating?If this be the case then leave. This ideal for me, I enjoy my space I have limited time and want a relationship where my days are left mostly to me. You don't like that, don't accept it move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 11:51 PM |
| 14 | Ladies, do you consider seeing a man once a week (every Saturday) as fulfilling dating?I don't like social media posting and specifically tell my BF and men I am dating not to post me. I like to be as invisible to people not in my inner circle as possible. Hence me not having a social media account beside this thing (and I am anonymous on here). As for seeing each other every Saturday, and talking everyday this is my ideal relationship/dating at 28 full time teacher and grad student. Saturdays are my only free days. Besides in the summer..... But stop asking us what we like. Are y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 10:04 PM |
| 59 | I don't know what to honestly say at this point.I am actually much better. Just was mad this man was accused by 3 women and here come this KANG saying he didn't do it. How do you know? In one of his cases he got an underage girl drunk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 08:32 PM |
| 147 | I don't know what to honestly say at this point.I was raped a month ago. He was nice, he was kind, he was attentive, and everything. When I asked him to stop he didn't, when I said no he wouldn't. Anybody can be a rapist, anyone can a abuser. You can know them well they can be your best friend and they can still be a rapist. I judge myself daily, if I wasn't loud enough if I was clear enough if I didn't fight or push hard enough. My 4'11 frame was never any match for a man 6'3. Men like this are sick as fuck, it's never the victims fault NEVE… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 08:02 PM |
| 5 | The dating subreddits have become a cesspool for incels, and a bullying ground directed at women and it's sad.Oh no problem my dear. Stay beautiful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 07:53 PM |
| 42 | The dating subreddits have become a cesspool for incels, and a bullying ground directed at women and it's sad.Post formula on the dating subreddits Male: I am ___ yrs old I cannot find a date or never got a like online. Other male: Yeah me neither women are too picky, unless you are 6 foot white and perfect they don't want us. They have it so easy. Woman: Yeah I feel the same way, I have it hard too. So don't think we all have it easy we don't. Other Men: Shut up you are a woman you have it easy Logical married man: I am not the best looking and short, but I have a wife. Maybe treat women better, and li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 06:47 PM |
| 53 | The dating subreddits have become a cesspool for incels, and a bullying ground directed at women and it's sad.No part of reddit 100 percent supports me overall, hence me not getting on as much as I did in the past. I am a black woman, in her late 20's, and am firm in my stance. There aren't many places for me here or anywhere to be honest. Reddit is a mostly white male forum, and therefore what I need in a safe space will not often be met. I have learned long ago to never 100 percent subscribe to any forum, reddit, advice column, or other. Online activities should be a very small part of your life, and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 05:51 PM |
| 29 | The dating subreddits have become a cesspool for incels, and a bullying ground directed at women and it's sad.Yes I was on youtube shorts and the MGTOW movement has moved over to youtube. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 05:42 PM |
| 90 | The dating subreddits have become a cesspool for incels, and a bullying ground directed at women and it's sad.It is the best thing to do. I was tired of getting death and sexual assault threats via men. My last straw was a man jumping into my dm saying it's my fault I was sexually assaulted, saying I need to pick better, than trying to get me to go on a date with him. Some of these men on reddit are unhinged, and I refuse to allow them to burden me with their illnesses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 03:18 PM |
| 206 | The dating subreddits have become a cesspool for incels, and a bullying ground directed at women and it's sad.Sis that was my post, and I was banned after making that post too.... .. We know what sub we are talking about. One mod finally came in trying to clean up the sh*t-show but the damage was already done. Men saying women were irrational, women advice is less than, and women have it easy. The sub is a cesspool for incels, and the few men that try to get in with good advice who are married and doing well they tell them to shut up because they must he 6 foot and a chad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 03:07 PM |
| 86 | The dating subreddits have become a cesspool for incels, and a bullying ground directed at women and it's sad.Oh I know men are in here. My messages are also closed so they cannot bully me there, so they thought they come here. Try again.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 02:43 PM |
| 84 | Small wins!! OF to ban porn.From what i have heard they will still allow nude photos, just not full sex. They are only doing this for investments. But the belief is once they do this they shall die out like tumblr. But with the allowance of nude photos including topless and bottomless I don't see how that will be the case. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 10:10 PM |
| 597 | Dear male lurkers: FDS is coming for your girlfriends.Hide your daughters, hide your aunts, hide your girlfriends, hide your wife cuz FDS is coming for erybody out here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 07:11 PM |
| 5 | I want to share something with you guys.....I saw a woman today blaming Skai Jackson for being exposed. If that ain't LV. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 06:53 AM |
| 2 | I want to share something with you guys.....He has been with his wife since forever. They are married as well. He treats her very very well. He provides for her, love her, and helps with her children too (they are not his). He would have stayed with his son's mother, but she decided to get on drugs. After years of trying to get her help he decided to just take his son. He is great in both ways. He is HV. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 03:40 AM |
| 14 | I want to share something with you guys.....I agree. Perfection doesn't exist, we are human so we are perfectly imperfect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 09:35 PM |
| 13 | I want to share something with you guys.....Exactly. I never said it's anyone's fault. But if we believe something will occur, and we believe something to be true it is more likely to occur. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 09:32 PM |
| 79 | I want to share something with you guys.....I want to also add we never speak of this but there aren't a whole lot of HV people in general. Good people are hard to find, and that's the real tea....Both are rare. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 09:08 PM |
| 29 | Are there even any HVM from my eraHVM exist and they are all over. I have been lucky enough to befriend a few, and have some in my family. I think the issue we never discuss that good people are hard to find. I have been a lot of places in life, worked in various places, and encounter many people. And most people are bad, most people aren't trustworthy, and most people ain't shit. I am your age and yes there are HVM out there, but like everyone else they are harder to find. I find LVM/NVM have done the final boss power move on m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 06:52 PM |
| 18 | Are there even any HVM from my eraHVM are not a myth. I know a lot of them surprisingly. One being my uncle who is a single father, and was like a father to me growing up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Lori Harvey ain’t got Time for your purity cultureI will say this Lori doesn't care what you, I, or anybody else thinks about her. And I do think that is great thing for all women to have (not care, not so much everything else). Her relationships yet public are private, not a single man she has been linked to speak on her. And lastly she remains a mystery. Can you tell me what she does? Who she truly is? Or her inner workings? Regardless if she is HV or not I think is irrelevant to her. She is living her life, and if she lack confidence or self… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 06:23 PM |
| 74 | My response from now onI use to love Rih until she started dating Asap "dark skin girls shouldn't wear red lipstick* Rocky. She is a pick-me, but she has some of the best clap backs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 06:23 PM |
| 36 | I live in South Korea. I am so sick and tired of men.I stayed in Korea for a bit when the epidemic of the toilet cam was out. The cams could easily be found online, and women were afraid to use public restrooms. Men there can be deplorable. But American men are another breed of gross I'm numb at this point. SIDE NOTE: I wanna say this those k-pop, k-drama, k-whatever fans are fucking odd. The whole fandom is extremely racist, sexist, stalkerist, etc. And half aren't even Asian, and many are in there late 20's so they know better. While I speak ful… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 05:31 PM |
| 136 | CAn wE JUst DO SoMEthINg NiCE FOr MEn 🤪From the blurred out face I can see this is a black woman. NO THE FUCK WE CANNOT we do enough for BM, and men in general and are treated the worse of all women. How about people start doing nice stuff for black women. Remove the cape enough is enough | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 05:20 PM |
| 53 | A Man Sends Hookup off With a Bag of Doritos and $40 - PickMes on Twitter: 😍😍😍😍😍😍Processed shit, and enough to fill up your tank but not go to the spa to detox from the (most likely) meh dick she got. I really wish women would stop clapping for the bare minimum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 05:18 PM |
| 124 | Online dating... should I try again or am I being ridiculous?I think it is the worse time to date online, and I will tell you what I told someone else there are far too many men (I'm heterosexual so this is the demographic I see) who are down and out. Some are due to their own fault, many due to the pandemic. Mentally, emotionally, financially, and physically unstable people. And it's too much of a burden to take on, sorry not sorry. It is also something I personally refused to bring into my life. I love myself too much to do it. I lost weight during the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 05:11 PM |
| 5 | Armed and dangerous?Tasers are allowed in my city and so I have one. I also have mace/pepper spray. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 01:16 AM |
| 14 | Look at the description of Tyler Perry's Sistas vs Bruh - UGH! The double standards continue.Tyler Perry movies summed up: Women are nothing with a man. She is bitter, worthless, and no matter what she gains she is not good enough until she find a light skin black man who makes 1/4 of what she makes and wear bad lace frontal. Also lets throw in cancer, HIV/Aids, or abuse just to get some points. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 12:56 AM |
| 69 | After reading Armie Hammer's DMs, I never want to date or live near a man ever again. Anyone else feel that way?I want to keep it 100 working the court system I never want to be around any human again after what I see and read. However, I realize that there are HVM/HVW and then there are LV/NV people. I will not allow those people def not a LVM/NVM to dictate my life in anyway. I just avoid their asses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 06:39 AM |
| 14 | Ladies make sure you are stable before you go into the unstable dating world.Yep. Before I deleted my app a guy who looks just like the guy from that movie who said I'm the captain now liked me. I said now what makes you think I ever??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 05:28 AM |
| 25 | Ladies make sure you are stable before you go into the unstable dating world.One of the biggest things LVM/NVM have is over estimating their league. Men are taught via TV, social media, and society it doesn't matter as long as you have a penis. I think the biggest issue when we hit the level up status is We allow LVM/NVM to dictate our love-life still. We live believing (thanks to LVM/NVM) that HVM don't exist And lastly we make it our reality LVM/NVM can do a number on women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 03:40 AM |
| 93 | Ladies make sure you are stable before you go into the unstable dating world.You need to be prepared to be rejected. You need to be prepared to feel like you're not valuable. You need to be prepared to be firm on your boundaries. You need to be prepared to unmatch at red flags. You need to be prepared to disengage. Yes this and be prepared to not give men who are LV/NV any form of energy. I don't even reject these men. I ignore, block, and find a safe space to get away. LV/NV do this thing with women where they take away our ability to believe in the existence in HVM whi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 03:33 AM |
| 22 | Ladies make sure you are stable before you go into the unstable dating world.A part of being HV is not caring who is drawn to you, but who you are drawn to. Your options are bigger than you think. However the picking become smaller depending on where you are, who you allow in your space, and what you allow to take your interest. At the end of the day if you believe the 5 percent (which you haven't met even 1 percent of that 5 percent) aren't interested than that's okay. But it is falsehood that opposites attract, and I will say this: Speaking things into existence hold p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 03:26 AM |
| 49 | Ladies make sure you are stable before you go into the unstable dating world.This is actually false opposites don't attract. Like-minded people are attracted to one another. The difference is in many cases if you are unstable incompatibility won't make you leave. Why? Because you lack the stability to realize that you deserve someone you relate to. It also should be noted instability direct impacts your ability to spot abusers, red flags, and losers. There is a lot of winning, but winners don't get there by not training first. Singehood is that time, but you go into dati… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 02:58 AM |
| 720 | Today a grown ass adult man threatened to kill himself if I didn’t let him out of a contract he signed.I detest people whom use suicide as a means to get what they want. It is extremely deplorable for someone to do so. This man agreed to whatever it is, and now found out probably due to his own shortcomings he cannot uphold his end of the deal. TOO FUCKING BAD. And OP if I were you I call the police send them right to his home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 02:07 AM |
| 25 | LVM in disguiseOp do you have children? If no why are you talking to a male with them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 01:25 AM |
| 68 | Is porn just normalised cheating?Yes excessive masturbation (even outside of porn) will cause desensitization. It is a hard thing to kick and can take months to fix. Many men have porn addictions and wonder why sex lack pleasure for them and their partner. Porn is unrealistic, damaging, and all in favor of the male. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 01:22 AM |
| 85 | Just another reason to stay away from casual sex and men in general: Headjobs Might Be Giving You Cancer - ViceDon't tell reddit this, I told people here nobody wants to contract HPV or anything that is STI group. Men are disgusting and they think their kindness means they can shorten your lives. Commitment, Tested, and Wrap it is the only way to have sex PERIODT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 06:35 PM |
| 44 | HVM examples in fiction and irl?Guy please fact check Joe Biden is not HV. TroyceTV does a great breakdown of his racist past. And a HVM can never be racist EVER. You racist anytime in your life you are forever LV, PERIODT!!!!!! Start clip at 4:30 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 01:48 AM |
| 23 | Introducing: Meme-Free MondaysYes please | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 01:40 AM |
| 8 | Need advice on feeling guilty for being unsure about people I’m datingYou should be unsure about people you are dating until they have proven otherwise. It is a falsehood that people will know right away a guy is right for them. A HVM will understand this and not dismiss the idea. He too will be unsure of you, because HVM vet just as a HVW. Nobody of HV status rushes in a relationship, expect full trust, and someone's life story right away. NOBODY. Now after a while of dating I think that you should be a bit more sure. And single until exclusively in a relationshi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 07:33 PM |
| 147 | I just got flashbacks of a bearded man on a "date", talking about his beard for 45 minutes, while stroking his beard... also why do they make that facial expression?A guy got made on me here (reddit) when I stated that you don't know if a male is truly handsome with a beard. Beards hide 40-75 percent of men's face. Including chin, cheek bones, jaw, upper lip, etc. You are hiding ugly under there, I SAID WHAT I SAID | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 06:11 PM |
| 39 | Why do men refused to love themselves or fix their issues, but demands women do both in the dating world?It is simply nothing but entitlement. But I think the realization is coming to men that many women don't want a broken partner who refuses to mend themselves. Men are single and sexless more than ever before, marriage is at an all time low. Men have long ignored their lack of appeal, mental, emotional, and sexual health. But they are finally feeling the harsh realities of it. Nobody want to clean up your shit while you lay about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 06:03 PM |
| 52 | Why do men refused to love themselves or fix their issues, but demands women do both in the dating world?There is a literally a trending question in r/dating where they are making fun of people for telling them to love themselves and get therapy . Men in the comments are refusing to do so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 05:58 PM |
| 12 | Circle the LieRight. She was a racist nut, and for people to be trying to guilt us into feeling sorry she was shot after acting like a terrorist they can miss me with the B.S. Them: She was good woman, we should feel sorry for her. Me: Y'all know they sell yankee candles at walmart, the maker is good y'all go check it out. Them: But about the woman Me: Y-A-N-K-E-E CANDLES I said | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 01:23 AM |
| 10 | Circle the LieYep sis. She was just as much a terrorist and deplorable as these men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Here is a picture of the men who stormed the Capitol building today:Yep funny white people are using the BLM saying say her name. This isn't an innocents person wrongfully killed. She broke into a government building and acting a damn fool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 12:42 AM |
| 75 | Here is a picture of the men who stormed the Capitol building today:I think here there needs to be a discussion while YT(white men) there were there were no shortage of pick-me/white women (the 55 percent who voted trump). We expect deplorable behavior from men, THEY AIN'T SH*T. As a BW I feel anger when I see that during BLM protest black people were met with violence when WP were not. A part of being HV man or woman is acknowledging white privilege. And YT women here and everywhere need to start seeing it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 04:17 AM |
| 34 | Is anyone else afraid to have a son / what your son might turn out like after seeing how 98% of men are, and how so many turn out to be no matter what their mother does from them? Stories like this it’s almost always the male child doing some entitled shit to their mother...I'm a teacher and have no children. I am equally afraid of having both a boy and a girl. I am afraid for many difference reasons. As I see my students grow I see how they change, and I become fearful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 03:30 AM |
| 31 | The sole reason why any woman stays with a man who doesn’t respect/value her, KNOW YOUR WORTH!I asked reddit why TV promotes fit/well build ,beautiful, intelligent women with obese, uncaring, abusive, idiotic, financially, mental, emotionally, and physically unsecure men. Men literally had no answer. It's great women are starting to wake up that's why men are sexless and single more than every before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 12:09 AM |
| 32 | This is why you shouldn’t have babies with men you aren’t married to.OP correction this is why you don't babies with LVM PERIODT. Marriage doesn't mean he isn't LV/NV. Vetting is a must. Marriage is a must. And HV is a must. However marriage=/=HV there are more than enough examples on reddit of LV/NV husbands | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 04:07 PM |
| 21 | "There's no such thing as sex addiction. The only people at the clinic are married men who got caught"As a therapist ( longer doing the job current can go back anytime) I have to disagree sex addiction is a very real thing, and women suffer from it as well. To educate people, yes single men and women are seeking help for sex addiction. Most cases sex addict is triggered by sex forced onto a person in their youth. In other words people who have been raped, molested, and or victims of sex trafficking. Do men use this as an excuse sometimes, yes. But to say there is no such thing is pretty ignorant… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 02:37 AM |
| 32 | Did anyone else see the bumble ad pretty much discouraging marriage and encouraging children out of wedlock?Men are stupid creatures. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 09:25 PM |
| 37 | Did anyone else see the bumble ad pretty much discouraging marriage and encouraging children out of wedlock?Yep. FWB and Forever girlfriend via bumble is the future for 2021. I will not be apart of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 08:49 PM |
| 17 | Did anyone else see the bumble ad pretty much discouraging marriage and encouraging children out of wedlock?Agree. Marriage should be thought of as such. What I believe it the real issue is these women have not met any man they trust or believe in enough to be in the contract with. And instead of admitting the men they know, have dated, and are dating are LV/NV they rather commit to the sexually, physically, emotionally, mentally, and procreate with them but not ask them for commitment truly. They deep down believe they will never be able to uphold their end. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 08:44 PM |
| 73 | Did anyone else see the bumble ad pretty much discouraging marriage and encouraging children out of wedlock?I don't get on bumble because it seldom has my preference in men. Not that there is anything wrong with it but nothing but white men and I do not date them. I tried to join again a few months ago, and I was like f- nobody is messaging me. My best friend said girl you have to message first. I said nope delete. But bumble tends to cater to the average LV/NV male. Not making the first move, not pushing marriage, and giving women limited options. Sounds like a waste and a echo chamber for pick-mes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 08:41 PM |
| 17 | Nah, sisGoing into 2021 with negatively and nonsense is not something I'm down with. This right here is both. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 03:44 PM |
| 4 | You decide who contributes value to your life 🙌Platforms feel like flats to me, so it's not so bad honestly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Anybody have male family members who are pissed?No my step dad, my uncle, and my cousin all say men ain't shit so they aren't surprised I'm single. Nobody shames single moms either, I truly am happy I have good men in my family. My uncle is a single father himself and knows that it takes a lot of work, he is very caring loving and always praises me no matter if I'm single or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 03:48 AM |
| 38 | Low value men whine about women not playing the role of a therapist, calling us unempathetic for not letting them cross our boundaries in that regard. I explained to the idiots on how the healthy relationship works. :/That little meme summed up what BW finally burning the cape and I LOVE IT. We are told to support these ashy knee black men regardless of how little they make, how little they give, how they refuse to participate in their children's lives, how much they ignore their mental and physical health (STIs included), how colorist, and self hating they are. For years we have been their mothers, their mules, their therapist, their provide, their womb for their children, and so much more. No more. It is no… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 01:05 AM |
| 43 | Woman who got the COVID vaccine experiences some side effectsLOL my mom is a nurse and got the vaccine Monday. She's always been a boss, so those side effects did not mean much to her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 01:00 AM |
| 48 | We joke about ringpop proposals but nah, sisFuck the ring pop nobody is going to address the 9 year age difference? Fucking gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 10:40 PM |
| 183 | You decide who contributes value to your life 🙌I wear heels all the time, I do not own jeans, and I seldom wear pants I remember I was dating this struggling future pilot ( the bum probably still isn't one) who I had little respect for. So we are talking and I say I have another date so, I need to go... He says you are always dressing extra as if you are going somewhere special. He was jealous LOL. I told him everywhere I go is special once I'm there so I must give my fans a show. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 10:33 PM |
| 30 | 🤔Your user name had me dying. And I stated this above and on r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy every black female space is safe for all women, but seldom are other female spaces safe for black women. We have to be extremely careful as I stated above. Feminism did not include us at first, and with that being said some space still refuse to include us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 09:28 PM |
| 75 | 🤔To inform everyone who is not aware. Feminism in it's beginning stages (which took place in the 19th century) did not aid/ nor include black women. So correction feminism now includes black women, but previously it believed in the oppression of black women. Hence black women beginning their own forms of feminisms which coined terms such as misogynoir. Be warned black women, black men will use this fact to keep you from believing in feminism. They will also condemn it because it never wanted you … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 09:24 PM |
| 7 | Would break up with someone if you bought them $300 xmas gift and they got you nothing?Correction I would never buy such a gift | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 04:46 AM |
| 130 | NoBoDy ReALLy uNdErStAnDs MeCan we talk about how cute the black girl cartoon is? The baby hair, the beautiful flips, the lashes YAS!!! Let me get my tiny violin for these sad sad crumbs who want us to keep understanding their struggles while ignoring ours. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 04:26 AM |
| 17 | This definitely explained a lot for me and put things into perspective! Never again if someone can't fulfill me mentally, spiritually and emotionally... I'm goneAlready posted sis: Here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 08:26 PM |
| 14 | I feel ashamed for my past, and I don't know how to heal. Most of the things that happened were nonconsensual, but I don't even know how to try and explain myself and open up As a woman who was rape because that is what you explained I will tell you this. You need to forgive yourself......You need to forgive yourself because you did nothing wrong. Listen to me YOU DID NOTHING WRONG. I suffer PTSD due to being raped more than once, believing men when they said they are different and giving them a chance. You have to get help, learn to forgive yourself… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 03:06 AM |
| 60 | His friends say a lot about him. Have you ever peeped a group chat?I was in a work groupchat with males from work, it turned into who was the hottest. And why I was the thick goth black chick that dressed weird. BTW I'm not goth I just wear black lipstick and colored hair. I never forgot. Years later one of those guys hit me up stating he wanted to take me out. I said as a goth woman I don't date broke n-. He was offended. He said oh we all thought you were beautiful. And so does every other man I know do you want a cookie, because you sure won't get a min more… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 02:50 AM |
| 20 | “My Legacy 🤡” yeah sure - of sexism and homophobia.Drag him to hell. (cheers) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 12:56 AM |
| 7 | We need to discuss Iggy and why the only person we should feel for is the baby. Being a pick-me doesn't pay ladies.Oh no sis you are 100% right. Black men are a huge issue that I could write a book on. But I truly don't care about them enough to do so. We had a discussion about this in the groupchat here. But this isn't the place nor time to discuss the issues in my community. However, I will say this. No other race of men practice blatant hate for their own race of women like black men. And no other race of men have such loyal women like black men do. Also no other race of men look for their women in other … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 11:08 PM |
| 33 | 2 fears that keep us in toxic relationshipsI think a big fear and the biggest is being alone. Yet FDS teaches us being alone is fine (which it is). However, under long periods without human interactions humans mental, physical, and emotional state often decreases. That is why it is critical you NEVER make your relationship your entire life. Often women stay because they don't want to be alone. It is sad, but loneliness is okay to feel ladies. Your emotions are not one you should be ashamed of. I learned this being a therapist but also ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 09:52 PM |
| 62 | Went to retrieve my belongings from ex's place. He threw my things at me, did this 🙏, and slammed the door in my face.he has problems opening up about his feelings I tell women this often a man needs to be emotionally stable before he enters into a relationship. If a man ever shows signs of immaturity in terms of expressing themselves I advise you to leave. A man who cannot even understand his own feeling yet alone express them will seldom ever be able to understand yours. Glad you learned your lesson | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 09:45 PM |
| 4 | We need to discuss Iggy and why the only person we should feel for is the baby. Being a pick-me doesn't pay ladies.I know a lot of white women when they sleep with black men they believe it gives them a black card. Hoping on black d*ck allows you to say the n-word or so they think. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 08:19 PM |
| 2 | We need to discuss Iggy and why the only person we should feel for is the baby. Being a pick-me doesn't pay ladies.Yep seems like a problem for racist like herself to solve. Her problem, it's above us now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 08:09 PM |
| 5 | We need to discuss Iggy and why the only person we should feel for is the baby. Being a pick-me doesn't pay ladies.No self-respecting black man (or any man) would sleep with Iggy, yet alone procreate with her. Iggy has demeaned black people as a whole, and vocalized her dismissiveness of the pain black people experience. HVM regardless of race stand clear of people who are racist. I feel sorry for the baby. He has mother who has little care for his race, and a father is who a piece of ish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 08:00 PM |
| 9 | We need to discuss Iggy and why the only person we should feel for is the baby. Being a pick-me doesn't pay ladies.I mean this isn't the first time she has been vocal in terms of break up when she was dating Nick Young she tweeted her little heart out. Black twitter drug her then because of her racist past. Not a tear left an eye. Now she thinks we forgot but I haven't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 07:49 PM |
| 1 | What are some new years dating resolutions you have, and how do you plan on meeting them?A dating goal is a goal you have for dating, one being (for me and many others) to avoid it. Remember goals do not always have to be to uphold, obtain, or have the thing. It can simply be to not to do it anymore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 05:17 PM |
| 62 | Why would you want either?I have two male best friends one is gay the other is straight. Both are extremely kind mature and great to be around. I would say like any relationship with men you need them to be HV, LV/NV people are good for nothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 07:26 PM |
| 49 | Why would you want either?My best friend of 13 years is a male. Love him to death. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 06:58 PM |
| 16 | NAH sis 🤢🤢🤢Khloe a pick-me so I was confused at first but love the message. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 06:37 PM |
| 8 | Iggy Azaelea’s NVM picked videogames over being there for the birth of his child 🤡I made a post about it just waiting for FDS to approve it. I also found out she believe white people should be able to use the n-word. It's above me now. I could care less about her crying, but I hope the baby comes out this okay | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 02:20 AM |
| 47 | We need to discuss Iggy and why the only person we should feel for is the baby. Being a pick-me doesn't pay ladies.Iggy's tweet: Iggy saying why white people should use the n-word When Iggy was first spotted with PBC: The date Iggy's fake accent: Example Iggy's real accent: Example Iggy calling herself a slave master: Proof Blaccent: The history and what it is Iggy using the n-word: Photo Edit: BTW she has some racist past directed towards Asian's too: Example | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 02:18 AM |
| 11 | Iggy Azaelea’s NVM picked videogames over being there for the birth of his child 🤡I said this in my comment, no self respecting HVM would sleep with and procreate with Iggy after her very racist vocalization. Racism is a sign of a LVW period. As a black woman we know what hip-hop was build upon and what is has become. To look for a man there is like looking for a man in the sea of LV/NV. These men practice misogynoir, they push violence, unfaithful behavior, excessive drug use, and abuse. I am not sure why people here are mad at you for pointing out the truth. Rappers are not… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 01:28 AM |
| 36 | Iggy Azaelea’s NVM picked videogames over being there for the birth of his child 🤡While what her boyfriend is doing is wrong let's not sit here and forget Iggy is not a good person herself. She is LV herself, I said what I said. 1. Faking an entire urban-black accent to appeal to the hip-hop community. 2 Having a freestyle which she calls herself a slave master. Which in the context made no sense. 3. She mouth the n- word during a video. At the end of the day she went into a very toxic, misogynoir, violent, and idiotic environment to find a man. She should have known this man… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 01:23 AM |
| 36 | reminder ladiesHe should not be all traditional, remember men back in the day beat their women restricted to being a housewife. And when women spoke up they were asked what they done. They lacked even more emotional awareness than men today. They ignored women sexual, emotional, and mental needs. Cheating was allowed as well, hence a lot of grandmother staying even though papa had 3 kids 10 miles away. You don't want a traditional man. You want a HVM, and a HVM has great quality all around. That includes what … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 12:54 AM |
| 173 | “Find a pretty girl with low self esteem” sickening. LVMs will take advantage of anything.EWWW and to know he has a girlfriend, disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 06:25 AM |
| 37 | Remember Ladies: A man being attractive or rich doesn't then mean he is HV.He maybe cute, he maybe rich, but remember ladies he still has a dick. With a penis comes a lot of shit, something pick-me women may miss. So whatever you do be smart, know if he is a HVM and remember most men are not.- hope you like my rendition of Dr. Seuss. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 02:55 AM |
| 6 | Double Standards.Yes sis, I am Afro-Latina if another crumb ask me am I pink all over or can I speak Spanish to them I will go crazy. I also hate that white guys always say hi chocolate, I'm not even dark skin you are just racist you dusty hoe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 07:09 PM |
| 13 | Double Standards.Yes my cousin is the most beautiful woman I have ever come across. And she is bigger, she would tell me guys would and still do approach her think she sleep with them easily. They believe women that are bigger have no standards, and they will take anything. This should def be discussed here. As I think the treatment of women based on their race, status, skin tone, background should be talked about. Men demean us all but not all in the same way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 06:46 PM |
| 12 | If PickMes didnt settle for uglies then their sons wouldnt be bitter LVM.Right handsome men treat women like trash as well. Handsomeness=/= HV. Unattractive=LV/NV | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 06:17 PM |
| 21 | If PickMes didnt settle for uglies then their sons wouldnt be bitter LVM.I have to disagree with your statement that being attractive makes men detest women less. Regardless of looks a male can hate, disrespect, demean, belittle, and abuse a woman. I want to also add a HVM can be not the best looking physically. What creates toxic men are other toxic men and ugliness has nothing to do with that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 06:14 PM |
| 11 | I don’t know who needs to hear this butI want her necklace and earrings | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 06:11 PM |
| 61 | Being dickmatized doesn’t exist. A majority of women think sex with a toxic man is so great because what they’re experiencing is actually trauma bonding. Water tastes like heaven when you’ve been thirsty for days.I always wondered where this idea came from. The first sign of a toxic person is extreme selfishness. So speaking freak they probably be too busy getting themselves off to even care about your needs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 06:01 PM |
| 6 | Double Standards.While I was talking about USA the commenter is a bit off in term of Europe over 50% of both men and women in the WHO European Region were overweight, and roughly 23% of women and 20% of men were obese. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 04:41 PM |
| 3 | Double Standards.About 50 percent of adults in Europe is overweight about 25 percent is obese. 1/2 of your population is overweight, about 1/4 happen to be obese. As for Japan they do not have a overweight/obesity problem but Europe does https://gateway.euro.who.int/en/indicators/h2020_6-overweight/ https://www.euro.who.int/en/health-topics/noncommunicable-diseases/obesity/data-and-statistics | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 04:37 PM |
| 65 | Double Standards.Men have become extremely deplorable when it comes to women. The difference is men previously knew but didn't care, men now act like they don't know and still don't care. They deny the verbal and sometimes physical accosting they direct towards women. The great thing is men are single and sexless more than ever. Some women are combating this by refusing to date them and sleep with them. The idea that most women are doing hookups is false. Many women aren't even touching men these days. I will sa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 05:08 AM |
| 56 | 😂Magnums are for very large penises 8+ inches, which is rare for a male. The average penis is about 6inches depending on some factors it's smaller, but when I bring that up on this site they get mad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 04:28 AM |
| 67 | Onlyfans creators marketing themselves by radiating pickme energyOnlyfans creator ain't telling y'all what most women on OF actually make. But she trying to promote it. Real clown girl ish. Tell them pick-me that they are only making 180 dollars a month, and the top 1 percent who are mostly celebrities (who already have money) are making bank. I say this often pick-mes hurt women in many cases as bad as men do. Some are just stupid *which does nothing*, other create platforms and ideals that will harm women for generations to come | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 03:57 AM |
| 179 | Imagine conceiving, birthing, and raising a male only for them to turn into such a pathetic, depraved, disturbed individual as an adult. I’m truly sickened.A woman yesterday in her 40's told a subreddit she was so tired of men making comments on her social media that were sexual. Men dismissed her and downvoted her. Men are out of control, no women should be told via a man let me drag my balls across your face. Men truly don't think of us as humans, but sex objects. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 03:53 AM |
| 97 | 😂Off but on topic. Men are idiots. My best male friend told me a secret. A normal size condom can fit a larger penis up to 8 inches. But men buy XXL and Magnum condoms to make themselves feel better. 99.999999999 percent of men need the extra small, or the normal. But they refuse to buy either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 03:50 AM |
| 1 | I am glad more and more women are having that mindset in this day and age.Right. But jobs barely want to give you that 1000 a week. They would be damn to give you 2500. SMH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 03:37 AM |
| 1 | I am glad more and more women are having that mindset in this day and age.This guy is not interesting in a girl right now because he think she is ugly. But I have to give ugly men like you a chance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 03:35 AM |
| 5 | I am glad more and more women are having that mindset in this day and age.Men with money are never mad. My ex had wealth close to 7 figures. Owned a few business and properties downtown. At first I had no clue he had properties. But when I told him I need someone who made what I did or more, he never has a issue with it. After he told me I never cared. Now we aren't together anymore due to me moving away, and f- LDR. But I don't think HVM care at all. LVM who are broke (LVM can be rich too BTW) are mad. Nobody want your money your crumb. But on a combined income of le… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 03:35 AM |
| 1 | I am glad more and more women are having that mindset in this day and age.Before taxes I make 1000 a week after I make a little less than 1000. Even though I make close to that it's not enough. I will say I need at least 2500. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 03:28 AM |
| 3 | I am glad more and more women are having that mindset in this day and age.The guys were saying imagine you think you deserve better making what you make. Funny I am a teacher. Imagine a nation that pays a teacher 60K (now before my promotion I was making 56k) but pay a rapper millions. You are pointing the finger back at you men, who runs this country but don't care about these children or the people who teach them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 03:25 AM |
| 34 | I am glad more and more women are having that mindset in this day and age.I had a convo with someone last night who got pissed because I said I don't want to date an ugly guy. "yes you are beautiful, but you don't have to be mean about it. Give people a chance." How about I don't want to wake up to steve buscemi in the morning, I am allowed. I am told I am a b- because I have standards. But IDGAF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 10:09 PM |
| 125 | I am glad more and more women are having that mindset in this day and age.I'm not a high earner, but I do make more than the median household income for two people in my city, and most of the USA. Sadly they don't pay teachers well. I actually just noticed my pay increased yesterday due to me changing my position (now lead SGI teacher for my school) last month. 56K to 60K (I am so excited). I won't see the difference until this check. But it isn't enough for what I do in my opinion. I told them I don't want someone that makes <40k, they cursed me out. CTFU. How dare y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 04:43 PM |
| 381 | I am glad more and more women are having that mindset in this day and age.The dating subreddit got so mad at me yesterday when I said I want someone who makes equal to me. Who do you think you are? I am me bish, I want what I want. And being single as long as I need to get someone who has matching incomes is fine with me. I worked hard to overcome bias, sexism, racism, and classism. I deal with some of the hardest treatment in this country, so if I can do it you can do. Everything else is an excuse to me, and if you got those I DON'T WANT YOU. Date yourself, cherish y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 03:33 PM |
| 27 | Men lying on their dating profiles...I agree. I see many guys do, but many don't. Dusty crumb not to mention a child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 03:28 PM |
| 64 | Men lying on their dating profiles...I was seeing this pilot a few years ago. We were dating for a good period like 2-3 months. He asked me over, and I said sure because we were exclusive at this point. NOT GF and BF. He had a room of original comics, I am a huge comic book fan (huge comic book tattoo on my leg I paid 1.5K for) . I noticed a toy on the floor, but it wasn't in a case looked like a child toy. I handed it to him he said oh that's my sons. HUHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!! SON!!!!! Never mentioned a child, NEVER. Not on his pro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 03:23 PM |
| 53 | BREAKING NEWS: The Porn Industry Is Extremely Fucking Racist! Trigger Warning: White Dudes On Weird AF Racial Power TripsPorn racist? oh no can't be /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 05:41 AM |
| 15 | This reminds me of the time when my ex made me fill foolish for wanting to be a bakerAs does my aunt, he house is a 3 story house, with 5 bedrooms, three bathrooms, and a basement that could be it's own APT. She has been doing hair for over 20 years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 02:11 AM |
| 4 | Never move in with a guy before marriage! Poor girl has to keep living together with her ex because she doesn't have a place to go, and the LVM ex asks rent from her although his financial status is better...Yes I found out how much I didn't want to marry my fiancé only after we moved in together. I think it is a must. He was great but as soon as we moved in I found out a lot. Including I was never in love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 03:25 PM |
| 10 | Anyone else find it odd that men are posting women's entire profile on reddit for upvotes?I deleted my tinder a few months ago, it is a cesspoll of losers now. I remember finding my ex on there who was a great guy. After I messed that up I went on a year or so later and it was like the pits of hell. Men are not good looking, lazy, fat, and just wanna f-. Even during the height of the pandemic people are having sex with random people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 02:54 PM |
| 62 | Anyone else find it odd that men are posting women's entire profile on reddit for upvotes?Someone on r/NoStupidQuestions said it's fine because it only their first name. I won't post their profiles because I don't want to spread it any farther. But I can see the city the person lives in, their first name, job, age, what school they went to, and what they look like (currently). It would be easy for me to find the person if I truly liked. That's what creeps me out. Blur out their face, and cut off all the information. I don't need to know it's Mary from the bronx, NY who works as a tea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 12:50 AM |
| 37 | So this woman I follow blurs her mans face. I thought they were married... turns out they aren’t so now that changes my perception of why she feels the need to do this. She says she does this because “people are weird”. What are your thoughts?I don't have any form of social media and I would kindly tell my fiancé not to post me (and he didn't). When we go engaged he posted my hand. I didn't and still don't want a social media presence at all. It's just not my thing. With that being said I believe she is doing this for another reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 12:46 AM |
| 66 | Anyone else find it odd that men are posting women's entire profile on reddit for upvotes?I am not sure. I saw a guy say he will drag his ball across a woman's face. WTF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 11:49 PM |
| 295 | This sounds like my last relationship!That is the classic sign of a narcissist. People who want everything and anything to be about them. They are the people that make the conversation about them, bring up their issues, and don't take the blame for ish. If you come across one of these men run. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 11:38 PM |
| 57 | I just realizedMy mother is 48 and people think she is my 20 something year old sister. I am 27 and when I worked in a HS I was told I was a freshmen (Freshmen is 14-15). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 11:04 PM |
| 29 | I don’t even think this needs a title just watch this horrendous tiktokPeople don't get it with OF and I said it here before. NOTHING IS PRIVATE THERE. There are entire subreddit and site dedicated to showing people's onlyfans. So if you ever want to stop most (not all) jobs won't even want to hire you. I get it some people need the money. But pick up a manager job at walmart, substitute teach on days you are off, uber, sell bake good on the side, manage properties. So you wanting your "friend" to seal her body is foolish. And plus " The median account makes $180 a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 10:03 PM |
| 9 | Just when 2020 couldn't get worse 🤦🏽♀️Beautiful women. I wish that people could make this kind of money doing work that doesn't demean them. Like why don't teachers, nurses, firefighters, etc get paid millions. Sadly people turn to work like this for the money. We should make it so nobody should have to do this, because other career paths that make a difference are just as profitable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 09:58 PM |
| 12 | A picture is worth a thousand wordsToday I tried to make a post asking fellow women why we don't want men today. Mods took it down. But some women voiced that men are disgusting. This didn't prove that to me (because I already knew) but it's ironic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 09:54 PM |
| 29 | HVM proposed with a Tiffany diamond after 1 year, then surprised with a bouquet and a thank you note <3Congrats!!! And remember all ladies here you deserve the best never aim lower. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Most pickmes are anti-feminist/anti-woman because they're being rewarded for it.I cannot say, but I know her from another site and she is very vocal about black women and our issues (even those that directly relate to white women). So I think if there is an issue it be best to reach out to her. Jammies also created this sub herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 05:06 PM |
| 3 | Most pickmes are anti-feminist/anti-woman because they're being rewarded for it.A black woman asked the same question but on FLS. And in the sub blackladies they voiced how they experience racism here. I tried to direct them to jammies (she's black and mod) but they stated they rather just not comeback. I like FDS but I won't like and say I haven't experience mircoaggression, or racism here. Heck a woman on FLS told she doesn't see color, and she wasn't living in the fake world I lived in. I was simply telling her to address WW issue with women of color. But that wasn't the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 04:27 PM |
| 15 | Nearly 30 and still can’t piss straight or clean up 🤢🥴The hood philly came out in me a second go. But I cannot talk how I want on here. Ayo, this animal pissing on the floor and she is cleaning it up. Then got the jelly fish backbone nerve to ask is she the asshole. What in the pick-me, low grade, no back bone, young dickhead, foolishness is this ish right here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 03:25 PM |
| 7 | Most pickmes are anti-feminist/anti-woman because they're being rewarded for it.You have traditional feminism that doesn’t benefit black women. To comment on this no it didn't. Last year I read my students a book about the first female mayor in the USA Susanna Salter. It was one of the earliest forms of outright acts of feminism my students had come across. The white women who tricked their white husbands into thinking they were meeting to talk about "female things", were truly discussing how they were tired of the male mayor not doing ish. When asked by a woman wouldn't it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 09:15 PM |
| 30 | Twitch Bans “Virgin, Incel, and Simp”The gaming community is extremely sexist, and women (sadly) cannot get half the views or praise as men unless they are physically appealing or underdressed. Not at all kind to women, nor are the terms used for women positive. It doesn't help it is equally as racist. The most talented gamers are Asian males, and yet white males are the face of gaming and game streaming. I personally enjoy gaming, so I do not demean the act of doing so. But let's not pretend the issue is not deeper than virgin, in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 08:52 PM |
| 11 | Don’t give men your time when they have nothing to offerI had a math teacher from HS who was from Russia. She would talk about how bad it was there, and how women weren't treated well. I never forget her telling us she came here to escape violence via her husband. She was the best math teacher | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 07:02 PM |
| 210 | Don’t give men your time when they have nothing to offerAfter seeing that man from Russia lock his GF outside and she died, he allowed her body to sit while he streamed NO OFFENSE but she can miss me with Russian men aren't entitled. All men seem to be entitled. The difference is here men try to give the illusion that we have freedoms when we are still very much oppressed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 05:40 AM |
| 70 | The projection is palpable; I've spent quarantine fixing my skin, working out, and taking college courses. Ya'll?To think some men believe that a woman is at her peak when her brain hasn't even fully developed. She is just getting the hang of adulthood, she is understanding herself and her body. Men like this are great. They tell on themselves so all the women (besides pick-mes) can stay clear. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 07:45 PM |
| 11 | Incel ParadoxYeah i did a whole post about incels and why FDS is nothing like them. Seeing some of their post is really scary | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 06:30 PM |
| 29 | Incel ParadoxActually incel quote (like this is real) *TRIGGER WARNING*: " They are submissive masochists, and literally want Chad to rape, hurt and degrade them. It is the most common female fantasy. They want to be penetrated by a penis so big that their pelvis is damaged. This shows that females even hate themselves, and suffer from penis envy. " These men are suck, but they will sit here and desire a relationship. LOCK THEM ALL UP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 05:42 PM |
| 25 | I'm juat gonna leave this hereWoman: something came out of my control can we please reschedule (a family member died from roni) Man: I shall punish you that'll make you learn Woman: BLOCKT Man: Why would she block me, me not understand. Me followed the rules of other single man who has nobody. Me sad and lonely again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 05:32 PM |
| 23 | LVM reacting to FKA twigs domestic violence lawsuit against Shia LeboufI can never imagine what is it like to make fun of someone's abuse. As a victim myself. My relationship before this one my ex was verbally and emotionally abusive another ex was physically. It feels like crap. As a teen I remember watching that tine turner movie and hearing people make fun of her. Rapper males still do. While she is happy now picture people mocking your abuse. FKA twigs I feel for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Are we following this story? vile, disgusting old man reporter who exposed an young, female EMT out of spite?Look into EPIK. It is the programs I used. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 01:10 PM |
| 25 | “I don’t fuck women with pubic hair even though my beard literally looks like I glued my pubes to my face”Something really makes my stomach turn when I see a mattress on the floor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Are we following this story? vile, disgusting old man reporter who exposed an young, female EMT out of spite?You good sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 07:16 PM |
| 14 | Are we following this story? vile, disgusting old man reporter who exposed an young, female EMT out of spite?I knew it was f-ed up when I decided to teach in-between law school, and found out in some states teachers are only paid 30,000 a year. WTF teachers???? You mean the people who mold the minds of young children, WTF is wrong with this country. When I worked in Korea they paid my rent, I had health insurance, and I had a bus pass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 06:36 PM |
| 10 | Are we following this story? vile, disgusting old man reporter who exposed an young, female EMT out of spite?So I read this study I'll post it if I can find it.. How we are more educated, working more hours, and doing more than the people before us. But if we would convert their money to now, we be making less. Working harder simply to get less. WTF. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 05:58 PM |
| 5 | Are we following this story? vile, disgusting old man reporter who exposed an young, female EMT out of spite?Having a public account only showing your body def when the photos are for public consumption and is known for being exposed in my opinion should not be done. She had to do what she had to do, hence me talking about the wage issue. However, publicly exposing yourself can lead to this. You can take that as you may. And nobody stated I am the only victim, again you coming up with sh*t. But rape and onlyfan exposer is not the same, the comparison or the conclusion you pulled out your butt saying I'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 05:53 PM |
| 19 | Are we following this story? vile, disgusting old man reporter who exposed an young, female EMT out of spite?It is a shithole. The crazy thing is nobody is addressing this fully. Why is minimum wage in some place 7.25 an hour (where I am) but the average 1 bed APT is going for 1200 not including utilities. How can anyone afford to live. And how dared a job ask you for 5 years experience and a masters paying only 44,000 a year. NO F-ing WAY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 05:33 PM |
| 11 | Are we following this story? vile, disgusting old man reporter who exposed an young, female EMT out of spite?No it is not. NOT AT ALL. However onlyfans is not private in fact there are subreddit for sharing onlyfans account. It is well known that onlyfans get exposed. Nothing is private online. Don't put words in my mouth as a victim myself. Style of dress, color, creed, status, beauty, location, time of day, etc doesn't justify rape. EVER. However someone showing your onlyfans account is not rape. I don't consider it the same. Not even close | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 05:25 PM |
| 32 | Are we following this story? vile, disgusting old man reporter who exposed an young, female EMT out of spite?I think this and this may be harsh don't do porn or sexually explicit stuff and expect nothing to happen. Is the male LV, yes. But nothing online is truly private. I do want to address this though which is an even bigger problem. Females in the health care field being paid less than livable ages. My mother is a nurse and while she makes great money at her job in other hospitals they only offer her 20-25 an hour almost 10-15 dollars less than what she makes now. Disgusting. The pay gap for women … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 04:27 PM |
| 27 | DAE so SAD bc WOMEN just ASSUME men are CREEPS? sO uNfAiR 😭😭😭😭My true advice to every woman here trust nobody until the prove otherwise. Trust regardless of sex, race, gender, ideals, body type, ordeal, status, wealth, emotion, mental, and physical stability need to be EARNED. Men don't get a pass on this. F- em if they say otherwise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 04:06 AM |
| 6 | Reddit users excited about pornhub credit card ban.What kind of content you can literally find anything online for free, men are wasting money. It's an addiction oddballs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 02:21 AM |
| 38 | Do Men Care if You Come?HVM care but other than that no | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 02:20 AM |
| 7 | Reddit users excited about pornhub credit card ban.I am really shocked, isn't porn free. Maybe I'm out the loop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 02:18 AM |
| 4 | FDS is nothing like those incels or the subculture they have of pillers, and it is odd you would think that.Me neither sis until yesterday. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 01:47 AM |
| 28 | Reddit users excited about pornhub credit card ban.Q: Y'all drag me if you need to men out here paying for porn? How low and pathetic can they be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 01:24 AM |
| 8 | FDS is nothing like those incels or the subculture they have of pillers, and it is odd you would think that.*sips tea* Sis you spoke some deep truth but they won't hear you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 01:20 AM |
| 9 | FDS is nothing like those incels or the subculture they have of pillers, and it is odd you would think that.We shouldn't associate with pill groups if any of them can be linked back to those crazy people. If we want something than start something new. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 01:17 AM |
| 4 | FDS is nothing like those incels or the subculture they have of pillers, and it is odd you would think that.We should want no association with incels and the pill subculture. It is low, disgusting, and violent | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 01:06 AM |
| 14 | FDS is nothing like those incels or the subculture they have of pillers, and it is odd you would think that.My intention for creating this post is not just for men. But for the women like myself who were until yesterday very ill-informed. In my opinion these men are irredeemable But up until yesterday I assumed rehibition was possible. If a woman ever wants to know what or why I put the points here. Until yesterday I never knew how bad they were, nor about the shooting in 2014. At the end we make message for male lukers not because we care as we don't care what pick-me say or do. We do it more so to v… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 08:06 PM |
| 25 | FDS is nothing like those incels or the subculture they have of pillers, and it is odd you would think that.1 is 1 too many in my opinion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 08:04 PM |
| 9 | FDS is nothing like those incels or the subculture they have of pillers, and it is odd you would think that.I think there is no redeeming incels, I think they deserve nothing after saying women should be raped. So no incel former or current is good to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 08:03 PM |
| 83 | FDS is nothing like those incels or the subculture they have of pillers, and it is odd you would think that.My intention for creating this post is not just for men. But for the women like myself who were until yesterday very ill-informed. In my opinion these men are irredeemable. But up until yesterday I assumed rehibition was possible. If a woman ever wants to know what or why I put the points here. Until yesterday I never knew how bad they were, nor about the shooting in 2014. At the end we make message for male lukers not because we care as we don't care what pick-me say or do. We do it more so to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 07:20 PM |
| 38 | FDS is nothing like those incels or the subculture they have of pillers, and it is odd you would think that.I won't lie yesterday was the first time I read their words, I heard from FDS but I never saw it with my own two eyes. That r- post was very very very disgusting. As a victim I was downright shaking. My friend said these men are r-ing women, and we need to be careful. No way a site promotes rape and not a single person is doing it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 07:17 PM |
| 13 | The type of women that redpill guys avoidI see men here say that FDS is like redpill for women. We never promote r*pe, mass murder, abuse of men, ways to tricks men into having sex with us, or say all men are the same we split men into categories LVM,HVM,NVM. These men truly believe women a machine used for them, by force if need be. Sadly these are the men we warn women about and how to spot them right away. FDS promotes living a fulfilling life not because we are single by force but because are single by choice awaiting a HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 03:42 PM |
| 17 | The type of women that redpill guys avoidSis I wish you told me this before I looked it up. Yesterday i saw some very unhinged stuff. One being a guy who said all mother's are whres, another being women like being rpe and they aren't scream in pain but pleasure. I am so scared that men like this exist, because in my opinion their is no way to be redeemed after that. Like ever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 03:11 PM |
| 7 | The type of women that redpill guys avoidThank you. I haven't gotten through the entire handbook yet. But I just looked it up my word, I was disgusted. I cannot believe men actually think women enjoy being r-. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 03:08 PM |
| 30 | The type of women that redpill guys avoidWhat is redpill nobody will tell me, nor blackpill, or purple pull | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 05:11 AM |
| 2 | Don’t listen to Mariah Carey, do listen to Eartha KittWell to correct you they never planned on signing Cardi B, they wanted to sign a talented (much more talented than Cardi) UK rapper names lady leshurr. But she declined to sign because they said she had to go against Nicki Minaj. Also Megan the Stallion throws shot lowkey at a lot of women including Nicki Minaj. Hence Nicki Minaj tweeting about her failing albums sales a couple weeks ago. She came at Cardi B and then worked with her. Megan has been exposed also for talking about other females be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 06:40 PM |
| 8 | Unbelievable! I go on a few dates with someone, I think we’re pretty good together, and then this garbage. I’m not gonna go to your shaggy apartment just so you can try to seduce me. Glad I caught this early on. Blocked!I never heard anything about doctors at all on this sub. For me it's the person not the career (beside pornstar then it's the career that's a no). There are HVM all over but that doctor I was seeing wasn't one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Excuse me whatSo what's this one about it's there a red black pill so what is purple pill about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 06:33 PM |
| 2 | More bad male fictionWhat's a radfem | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 07:07 AM |
| 16 | Don’t listen to Mariah Carey, do listen to Eartha KittGirl you don't have to tell me about Jennifer stealing Ashanti vocals Lopez. I know it all. Sad Ashanti was done like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 07:04 AM |
| 45 | I Don’t Think Women Talk about Childbirth EnoughI made a post here a few weeks ago about death in childbirth and how black women much higher to face it than anyone else. I went on to tell women to be selective with who they have children with. It is very important and I wish we discuss this more. Do I want kids yes I do. However, I rather not have kids at all if I have any doubt in a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 06:41 AM |
| 37 | Don’t listen to Mariah Carey, do listen to Eartha KittLove me so Eartha, but Mariah gives out some queen advice. She taught us when a pick-me comes around "I don't know her" when a man does us wrong "shake it off" and some of the best advice " No stress, no fights. I'm leavin it all behind. No tears, no time to cry. Just makin the most of life" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 06:32 AM |
| 96 | Unbelievable! I go on a few dates with someone, I think we’re pretty good together, and then this garbage. I’m not gonna go to your shaggy apartment just so you can try to seduce me. Glad I caught this early on. Blocked!I started seeing this doctor 3 weeks ago. Things were going great, then he hits me with you know I just got out a relationship lets see where things go. UGH BLOCKT. I feel you sis men can pretend pretend pretend, then when they show their true colors you like WTF. Wasting time. Time is precious I don't get it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 06:24 AM |
| 9 | Excuse me whatWhat subreddit is this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Is it a red flag if a guy calls his ex crazy+no talk of marriage, but mentions marriage in break up call?I don't think HVM mention their exs unless they are asked about it. Is it possible some women are unhinged, yes. I had a friend who poked hole in condoms and drugged her ex. However, most people will not mention it. Usually a toxic relationship is not something people enjoy bragging about to people they barely know. So I say yes if it is brought up right away, and yes if he keeps bringing it up (even if not away). Some of the first questions in the getting to know phase you should be asking a ma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 09:47 PM |
| 20 | It's gonna be a yikes from me sis*cough,cough* she does | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 09:22 PM |
| 34 | Snip snip bitch 👋🏼☺️Anyone else uneasy because she driving and letting go over the wheel and looking away? Just me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 09:17 PM |
| 144 | LOLWait until he gets a prostate exam. His booty hole will be screaming (evil laugh) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Men aren't heroes for doing their parenting role.In my community it's worse, but I won't sit here and say I don't hear praise for black mother. That's probably it. We don't get praised for much else. We are treated extremely bad in society in fact I will say the worse out of all women. So I get your problem. I am simply stating women are praised in my community for being good mom. To add, sadly if we happen to be with wrong men we will not be praised in any of the ways you listed. I think that's why FDS is important. A HVM will not expect you … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Men aren't heroes for doing their parenting role.I will say in my community (not to say this is true for other) this is false black women are praised for being mothers all the time. Sadly because they take on both roles it is very rare to even the father in the picture. Women are seen as the backbone of the community, both in parenting and everything else. This is not to say your experience is not different, it could be but I hear about moms being praised all the time. And my comment wasn't a direct dig at you. I am simply stating good parents… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 07:44 PM |
| 16 | Men aren't heroes for doing their parenting role.As a teacher I think being a good parent is being a hero, and you cannot see this from a few online snippets. There are so many people that have kids they cannot afford, they abuse, they neglect, they don't care about. and sometimes worse. To see parents that love, take care, nature, and care about their kids aka a good parent is rarer than you think. True hero status to me. I see so many babies neglected, left on their own, made to be adults before they have to. Being a parent is one of the har… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 05:59 PM |
| 1 | FKA Teigs alleges physical and emotional abuse from Shia LeBoufAlready posted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 10:20 PM |
| 5 | FKA twigs Sues Shia LaBeouf, Citing ‘Relentless’ Abusive RelationshipYeah I listen to twigs music, and I like her. But when I saw she was dating him I said this is going to end bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 09:41 PM |
| -1 | Canadian MP's motion that Pornhub executives be called to testifyWe can agree to disagree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Canadian MP's motion that Pornhub executives be called to testifyNo it doesn't but it does so we need to make it safe, and secure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 08:57 PM |
| 4 | Canadian MP's motion that Pornhub executives be called to testifyAgreed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 08:41 PM |
| 7 | Canadian MP's motion that Pornhub executives be called to testifyYes I am a JD student (2L) who is going into sex crimes as a prosecutor. I was a legal intern for years as well. I also mentored young girls in the inner cities who are most preyed upon when it comes to sex crimes. I personally am being honest I don't think porn will end anytime soon. There are still many men and women who support it. And now with onlyfans I truly doubt in my lifetime. That doesn't mean I don't support it's ending because i have that mindset. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 08:26 PM |
| 18 | Romantic Relationships with men are poor investments of time, energy and money for womenTo be frank good humans are hard to find, rarity comes everyday that doesn't mean it's impossible. But I wouldn't sit out here and look. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 08:00 PM |
| 0 | Canadian MP's motion that Pornhub executives be called to testifyYes but in the mean in between time how are you going to help women already there? That is my concern. You say end it in the longer run, but pornhub is the 10th most profited site in the world. Unless we take it away tomorrow (which you cannot) there are still human exploitations occurring. So how will we secure and help the women there? That is a focus too. That's what I'm saying. Nothing wrong with what you are saying, but you are focus on the end goal. I'm thinking of the in between because t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 07:55 PM |
| 17 | Romantic Relationships with men are poor investments of time, energy and money for womenI think some pick-me ignore red flag in order to have a relationship. For some it isn't about a good man, but just having a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 07:48 PM |
| -3 | Canadian MP's motion that Pornhub executives be called to testifyI don't disagree, however porn isn't going away. So we start exploring options. Onlyfans is a porn site at this point and extremely profitable. So when one shuts down another pops up. The industry won't be dismantled regardless of how you or I feel, so how can we help in terms of making it safer? Besides making it go away because that isn't going to happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 07:42 PM |
| 43 | Romantic Relationships with men are poor investments of time, energy and money for womenI would say this if you are picking the correct man the investment is not poor at all. Relationships should not happen if a LVM is involved nor should children, home ownership, or marriage. HVM are great investments, the biggest issue is they are rare. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 07:34 PM |
| 25 | FKA twigs Sues Shia LaBeouf, Citing ‘Relentless’ Abusive RelationshipI think we women have to really look at people's action and realize they are not relationship material. Love me some twigs but Shia Labeof is known for his massive issue, aggression, and outburst. Why do we date men like this and get surprised when they abuse us. Not saying she deserved it NOT AT ALL. But stop putting your hand on fire and be surprised when you get burned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 07:05 PM |
| 4 | Canadian MP's motion that Pornhub executives be called to testifyI will say this pornhub if it wants to exist needs a revamp. There is no way with the sheer number of uploads they can catch every single one. Like youtube they have no process for uploading, as long as you lie about being 18. Anyone even a child can upload. They decided recently to change their policy so only verified accounts can upload. I am not sure how much this will help.I don't know the process for becoming verified but if it is like youtube where it's just about views and subs that's stu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 06:55 PM |
| 20 | Tough to act excited when a friend gets engaged, bc fear of LVM-to be. Anyone else?He's LVM a degree or being a doctor doesn't change that. No HVM would allow such a thing to occur PERIODT. But she knows it, nothing you can do. Don't save her she don't wanna be saved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 03:17 AM |
| 44 | Tough to act excited when a friend gets engaged, bc fear of LVM-to be. Anyone else?My best friend of over 16 years got engaged to her LV baby dad. He has been flirting with me for years, my cousin had to pull him aside and ask him to please stop, it didn't help he gave us both alcohol underage and sexually assaulted me. I put up with him for a while. But when he said "I didn't invite (insert my name) to our engagement party because I know she doesn't like me." I got tired. I told her I wouldn't be supporting their union. Not only because of what he did to me but him 1. Cheatin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 03:10 AM |
| 62 | Why do so many people have kids/buy shared property before marriage?Some people believe marriage is more of a commitment than property ownership and kids. Take for example Tiny's daughter, she is a millionaire but believe marriage is too much of a commitment than being pregnant. It is an stupid logic pick-mes have been taught by LVM. Never would I. I didn't even think about living with my ex fiancé until after 6 months of our engagement. And by then I decided to walk away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 02:40 AM |
| 44 | WHAT?! This is such BS.Beautiful girl, but nah sis. We all don't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 02:37 AM |
| 11 | Woman, 26, takes her boyfriend to COURT for not marrying her after eight years of dating and a child togetherI think this needs to be relabeled as pick-me. Having a kid with a man she isn't married to, staying for 8 years, wasting the courts time because they cannot legally make him marry you. Nice for what would be leaving him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 01:02 AM |
| 17 | Perma banned and muted for what? 🤔😂what sub is this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 07:45 PM |
| 11 | Redditor makes an argument for not reporting rape. I can’t help but wonder how many of these upvoters are male...See, this is why I always look for receipts because from her post history and the comment she def is suppressing her feelings | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 06:26 PM |
| 14 | Redditor makes an argument for not reporting rape. I can’t help but wonder how many of these upvoters are male...Sadly this is a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 05:49 AM |
| 41 | Redditor makes an argument for not reporting rape. I can’t help but wonder how many of these upvoters are male...OP says she came out fine but seems to have issues with sleep, allows her husband to cheat on her to which there was a child as a result to which she states she will not leave, she allows her husband to emotionally abuse her. These are all tell-tell signs of someone who has experienced trauma. These people are more likely to accept mistreatment, and have issues with walking away. Deep down they believe no one will want them due to the impact. I think OP is trying to convince herself that the rap… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 05:49 AM |
| 57 | Minority Men Using Shared Race/ Culture/ Religion to Act Like They Own YouBlack women are seen as property to black men, PERIODT. This is not just by black men either, black women (many not all) push this narrative as well. Literally on the subreddit r/blackladies (which I usually love) I was told I must have some deep rooted issue because my preference was not black men. For a black woman to date outside their race is very rare. We are raised to believe that black men need our support no matter what, and if we do not follow by these rules we are a sellout. My best fr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 07:31 PM |
| 24 | Minority Men Using Shared Race/ Culture/ Religion to Act Like They Own YouAnd usually by black men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 07:13 PM |
| 216 | Tea.Because many men believe everyone else besides a paid professional and people who love them want to hear their deep rooted issues they label as helpful insight. Dysfunctional views that come from abuse, trauma, sexism, and misinformation. Men are taught they are always right, instead of the truth they like all human can be wrong. Like this ashy knee crumb stating women prefer much older men. WRONG. Truth is he low-key likes younger women because he 1. Has some sick issues aka pedo 2. Lacks matur… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 07:04 PM |
| 28 | Remember, your locus of control is not external but has been inside of you all along. Ignore media and LVM who tell you any differently. Step into your power and live life on your own terms.Some women will have a hard time with life due to factors some may never face. Some are in better positions due to location, color, wealth, and social status. The acknowledgement of this fact doesn't mean that one's path is set. The only thing holding us back in life is ourselves. Manifest your wants, desires, and goals. Don't say if.... Say when. Don't say could... Say will. Small steps to self assurance will lead you to a more fulfilling life. But realize this : YOU CANNOT CONTROL OTHERS. Only… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 02:47 AM |
| 3 | FDS change my mindset: as a former supporter of dating apps here is why I think they are a waste of time now.He said all women would be lucky to be her, she is the most beautiful women in the world, and if only he could be as lucky to meet someone like her. FYI I am afro-latina aka black and thick. Here I am listening to a guy oddly talk about a woman who I look nothing like, eww fucking creep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 01:06 AM |
| 8 | LVM love to say that women hit the wall by the age of thirty, but this is Katy Perry at 36.Ashanti is a better example she 40, but everything about her is amazing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 05:34 PM |
| 80 | Abusive therapist. Should I just let this grudge go?Former therapist here and current JD student: Report his ass. Make him loose his license, ruin his life. Inappropriate conduct will open up an investigation, and if founded to be true he will lose everything he worked for. Also see another therapist, you need true help after this. Trust me most therapist won't do this. I want to apologize on behalf of him. (sorry for grammar errors drinking) Also on the law side you have time to report for sexual harassments which this would be classified as dep… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 05:45 AM |
| 29 | Thoughts on the financial burden on womenYes I have PTSD, BPD, and depression all due to sexual assault. I lost hundreds not being able to go to work, or finish school on time. It's not just the rape then it's over, everyday of your life (some worse than others) you are fighting it. It being the ability to function. I was unlucky enough to be raped more than once, and my rapist are living their best lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 03:28 AM |
| 18 | He mad as hell!!! LMFAOOOOWish we could expose these men's face so we can all stay clear | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 02:48 AM |
| 68 | Thoughts on the financial burden on womenLife long therapy due to mental illness triggered by the rape is very expensive . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 02:45 AM |
| 12 | FDS change my mindset: as a former supporter of dating apps here is why I think they are a waste of time now.I have too and I'm like man no more | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 08:00 PM |
| 28 | FDS change my mindset: as a former supporter of dating apps here is why I think they are a waste of time now.That's 99 men you had to ignore, 99 men who you had to get through, and 99+ men you had to block. Think of that... While it is great you found your man 99 people is a lot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 07:14 PM |
| 11 | FDS change my mindset: as a former supporter of dating apps here is why I think they are a waste of time now.Yeah it's just too much to get through, and with no promise of a relationship forming. At this point OLD is hosting the worst of the worst due to the roni (co-vid). And it just is a waste | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 07:09 PM |
| 2 | “Love yourself first, because that’s who you’ll spend the rest of your life with”Before the pandemic I would go to the movies alone. We have a movie grill and bar here in my town. So I would get a meal watch the movie and get myself some drinks. I cannot wait to go back to do that. I miss it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 06:26 AM |
| 467 | Please stop dating in reverse.I will say this nothing wrong with movies and chill with your boyfriend, this is not exclusive to a spouse but it is exclusive to a BF/Spouse. However, before exclusivity no women should be going to a man's home or the opposite (him coming to yours). We (women) need to stop giving spouse treatment to boyfriend/potential. Which is a bigger issue in my opinion . Some are: No sex without condoms No buying a home together No kids No moving to another state or country for him Cooking for him everyday | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 03:29 AM |
| 7 | 14-16 was when I got catcalled the mostmine was 12 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 05:21 PM |
| 28 | Men and their repulsive homes 🤢I am glad I rarely encounter dirty male homes. Praise the powers that be a roach is never something that greeted me at the door of someone I was exclusive with. My mother once said this a messy home represents someone's mind. I would suggest women be wary of men with messy homes not because cocky the cockroach may come out to say hey, but because something is going on with a guy who doesn't want his own space clear of mess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 11:52 PM |
| 10 | Did you also notice this?As I stated to someone here: There is no magic list that tells anyone who is good or bad. You want every woman to put herself at risk, just to smooth your ego. If you men have that magic list well I would like to see it. Oh you don't, then STFU. No male (or female in rare cases) would fear being distrusted in the beginning of a relationship. TRUST HAS TO BE EARN, until you earned not being bad you are looked at with a side eye and kept at a distance for my safety. Issue is men today do not want … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 11:47 PM |
| 44 | “YouTuber kills pregnant girlfriend on live-stream as viewers pay him to abuse her.” - Summary in comments.What the actual fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 05:10 PM |
| 44 | How To Stop Chasing Guys and Being A Pick MeI cannot stand Shallon Lester she herself is a pick-me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 08:14 AM |
| 2 | We should stop calling libfems feminists. They don't deserve the honorable title of "feminist"I wouldn't call myself that either since traditional feminist in this country (USA) excluded everyone else but white women. In fact I read my students a story last year where they voted in the first female mayor (took place in 1887). During that time when they spoke of women's desire, wants, and needs they made sure not to mention Asian Latina or black women. In fact one specifically said they didn't want the colored people to have rights because they need them for work. I wish I remember the st… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 01:57 AM |
| 38 | No girlfriend benefits without exclusivity.She slept with John on the first night/first time they met. She never asked where the relationship was going or set ground rules. Basically she went with the flow, and he ended up marrying her. So pick-me believe everyone will be like her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 07:21 AM |
| 24 | No girlfriend benefits without exclusivity.Yep women love to use Chrissy Teigen as the example for this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 07:12 AM |
| 52 | No girlfriend benefits without exclusivity.I think exclusivity should be established. Quick exclusivity is love bombing, and waiting too long is a sign of a LVM/NVM. So to me time does matter. HVM aren't sleeping with other people, but he like you is vetting. I wouldn't expect him to make it exclusive after a date or two. But after a month or so of dating yes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 07:09 AM |
| 47 | “Nobody hates women more than straight dudes”Actual sis it expanded well into the 90's. Women couldn't decide not to have sex with their husbands until the 90's. " spousal rape wasn’t criminalized in all 50 states until 1993. Read that again … 1993. " Until the 70's women couldn't get a credit card, get an ivy league education, employer could fire a woman for being pregnant, and sexual harassments at work was perfectly fine. Here are some more things women were restricted on until the 70s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 06:52 AM |
| 16 | “Nobody hates women more than straight dudes”The silk cotton candy punk durag has me dying. No lies were told. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 06:46 AM |
| 54 | No girlfriend benefits without exclusivity.Imagine starting a new account to make a comment on a subreddit you will be banned from. How pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 06:41 AM |
| 122 | No girlfriend benefits without exclusivity.Ladies: Dating is not exclusivity, exclusivity is not being a girlfriend, and being a girlfriend is not being a wife. While different stages of the relationship you could have with this person, some are very different than the other. Also if he doesn't say it, IT DID NOT HAPPEN. If he never said you are dating then you aren't if he never said you are exclusive you aren't, and if he never asked you to be his girlfriend you aren't. But biggest if he is f-ing you without any of these thing set 9.9/… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 04:22 AM |
| 82 | Say it louder for the male lurkers who claim we're misandrists huh 😂Anytime I have a debate with a guy who looks through my post history here: Crumb: You FDS women hate all men, you are bitter Me: No we detest LV/NV men we acknowledge HVM but we also know they are in limited supply. Most of us just want to avoid you LV/NV men. the issue is you guys won't leave us the f*ck alone. Crumb: *bothers me for 6 more hours* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Kids?I am too, I went to check last year if I could have children. I can. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 04:54 PM |
| 23 | Kids?In my personal opinion I think kids, marriage, and relationship standards should be set before marriage and a relationship. A man can be HV, and so can you. But if he wants kids and you decide later on you do not, the relationship might turn sour. You nor him should have to pick between a lifelong desire or each other. And kids for some (many in fact) is very important. I think once you get into a relationship, or even up to that moment you need to make a decision. I rarely meet people in the mi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 02:52 AM |
| 149 | This, seriously.Men are demeaned for allowing their girlfriends to have a say in the relationship. Women are praised for allowing men to do whatever, whenever, however. We have to let that set in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 02:15 AM |
| 26 | How do you guys feel about the character that was played in Acrimony? Shes dealt with a LVM for years and has became bitter from it.Tyler makes me sick, but to explain he was huge in the play world. Black people are highly into church, and he was known for his gospel plays. Everyone and their momma had a tyler Perry play where the mic would stick out those bad wigs LOL. It is how he made his millions, then he started those bad movies which gave him more money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 06:46 AM |
| 2 | Appropriate age gaps?No problem queen stay beautiful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 06:09 AM |
| 64 | How do you guys feel about the character that was played in Acrimony? Shes dealt with a LVM for years and has became bitter from it.We all know Tyler deep down want him some light skin male booty, it why he praise them in almost all his movies. Don't come for me I am just a messenger here to speak the truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 05:52 AM |
| 31 | Gym CreepsThe mother-f-ing-au-da-cityyyyyyy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 02:31 AM |
| 11 | Thoughts on this?? I feel like he could’ve easily went to a bathroom at a restaurant, store, or gas station? People in the replies say she should give him a chance.WTFFFFFFFFFFFF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 02:19 AM |
| 22 | If you fw straight men “only ok” is hella generous.Girl it took me until I was 26 I started at 18 too. *Cries in former pick-me* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 02:18 AM |
| 48 | they’re ALMOST getting there :’)Y'all wanna know something, these young girls can be just as ruthless as the women on FDS. I got the word crumb from my students. LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 01:55 AM |
| 25 | they’re ALMOST getting there :’)While I believe that both are neglected urban areas get far fewer options Did you miss this part or.... I clearly stated the neglect that urban students face is greater than those of their suburban counterparts. For you to insinuate I stated that both do not experience neglect shows you didn't read what I said. As educated as you claim to be you lack the understanding that regardless if the neglect is present in both areas one is greater than the other. You truly believe that opportunities are i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 01:40 AM |
| 57 | they’re ALMOST getting there :’)Urban=inner cities often the hood. The population is dense, the funding is low, and the classrooms are overcrowded. There is a saying in the hood by pick-me and LVM/NVM "girls cannot be sexualized they are just being too grown". Guess who was blamed for being recorded without her consent by staff? Not the boys.... We use to have a sex educator who came around, they no longer do that. We use to have nurses talk to kids, they no longer do that. Usually sex ed is mandated to 2 classes per-year, and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 12:16 AM |
| 113 | they’re ALMOST getting there :’)Sadly children do not know this. We had some students (14- 15 years old) tape a girl on the staircase having sex, they then spread the video around the school. Guess who is going to juvenile detention? I made an announcement to my class how doing this will get you in trouble. Girls then pulled me aside telling me boys were making them send photos, and they wanted them back. I feel for young girls.... In urban communities they aren't taught their bodies are important, and so they often send nudes… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 12:02 AM |
| 25 | Appropriate age gaps?1-5 years is appropriate, but not only that OP the farther the age gap the more likely you are to break up. 5-year age gap resulted in an 18 percent higher chance of divorce, compared to a 3 percent chance with a 1-year age difference. Those with a 10-year gap were found to be 39 percent more likely to divorce, and those with a 20-year gap were 95 more likely. Dating a older man is not only a difference in ideals, maturity, and overall self; but you it most likely won't last anyway. Divorce rate… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 10:11 PM |
| 251 | If you fw straight men “only ok” is hella generous.Most men suck in bed. All women can climax during sex but most men cannot get women there. And so they created this false narrative some women simply cannot. No Jerry it's you, you suck. Y'all remember that old saying that if women could only get pregnant if they climax there be like 4 babies in the world. LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Great FDS Dating Advice to share with your non-FDS friendsIt's fine people disagree they are allowed, I just think people should vet in everyway possible. I don't believe in leaving information on the table. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 08:11 PM |
| 60 | I believe there is some truth to it for sure. Any thoughts ?In my 27 years of living, being online, having female friends, etc women come back. It's why we had a entire generation singing to foolish by Ashanti with so much hurt and pain. Sadly only some women can leave and stay away. That is why FDS is needed or a strong HV female support system. LVM are LV but many are cunning, and if you are not HV yet it is easy to go back to a man who doesn't deserve you. Why? Because you haven't seen your worth yet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 07:15 PM |
| 3 | Literal teenager has more common sense wisdom when it comes to dating than 90% of men today. Emotional intelligence is not that hard just admit you don't want to do the work. How about you start with googling the word 'empathy'What are we supposed to listen to? We're ugly? We're short? We're the wrong race? Okay now what? We can't change any of that. You say that as if "listening" is going to fix it. We're not on here complaining because we're 6'4" white and 8/10 facially. No shit. It doesn't take a genius to point that out. And it's not remotely useful. Here is one of those comments | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 06:38 PM |
| 24 | Literal teenager has more common sense wisdom when it comes to dating than 90% of men today. Emotional intelligence is not that hard just admit you don't want to do the work. How about you start with googling the word 'empathy'Me and him went back and forth for a bit. I told him it's him he said couldn't be. Of course it's use women. You know tonight I made a hinge just for fun 20 mins later 40 likes. Bruh it's you..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 04:42 AM |
| 73 | Literal teenager has more common sense wisdom when it comes to dating than 90% of men today. Emotional intelligence is not that hard just admit you don't want to do the work. How about you start with googling the word 'empathy'They need to post this on the dating subreddit the amount of crying men on there is large enough to fill the pacific ocean. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 03:05 AM |
| -3 | Great FDS Dating Advice to share with your non-FDS friendsAlways sis. That's what us HVW do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 02:50 AM |
| -3 | Great FDS Dating Advice to share with your non-FDS friendsTelling a pick-me to leave information on the table is foolish and not at all FDS. She should have it all and properly vet it all. The handbook is the baby steps. Dive deep ladies, and if you have questions you read the handbook or if worse comes to worse ask. But never leave things to the unknown. Never walk into a forest blind when you have the ability to see. LVM will pretend as long as they can. And I said what I said, and meant what I said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 02:32 AM |
| -1 | Great FDS Dating Advice to share with your non-FDS friendsI think it be better to say then "Dive deep, but don't create unrealistic expectations." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 02:10 AM |
| 281 | Hate to see itMen: I'll insult her she will surely like me and find me funny Women: Ew, you disgust me Men: *pikachu shocked face* I just belittled a person I don't know, I don't know why she wouldn't like me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 01:53 AM |
| 8 | Great FDS Dating Advice to share with your non-FDS friendsShe said do not dive deep into like comment and photos. She then says this is not to say if they are real, but for everything else. She goes on to says this stops you from learning about them organically She said that it will condition you to make assumption about the person However as stated again you should. FDS teaches us what to take at face value and what to question. Dive deep, see what they like, who the follow, and what they post. Because knowing their real is just one of many things you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 01:49 AM |
| 17 | Men sending you pornWas seeing this guy a week or so ago. We planned a date, he sends me a photo of himself (I asked for it). He send me a few but in between his rush he send me of porn gifs. Guess who is BLOCKT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 01:22 AM |
| 11 | Great FDS Dating Advice to share with your non-FDS friends#3 I disagree, YOU CREEP. Look to see who this guy is, what he does, if he has been honest, and if what he says is anywhere near true. But most of all how you wants people to see himself. This is important, and a glimpse into someone's internal self. Most (not all) people put their entire life online, and so you will be able to find almost everything about a guy online. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on Subtle Asian Dating?I mostly see white and Asian women in media, it is extremly rare to see anything else. But it was dope Issa Rae (HVW) had Andre (alexander hodge a Chinese American) and Molly (Yvonne Orji Nigerian American) in a relationship on her hit show insecure https://www.instagram.com/p/CAmEkIZBxhz/. They tried to address the issue of Asian vs Black people, but it went south. It's also pretty dope that Alexander real girl is a dark skin black woman in real life. https://www.instagram.com/p/B_NfseMBhRq/ Bu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 11:50 PM |
| 5 | Thoughts on Subtle Asian Dating?I think standards should be allowed, we all have them. In fact I have dated and been in relationships with Asian men who preference is black women. However, I do wonder if they address the racism the many Asian communities display towards other people of color. I grew up in a subsection of Philadelphia were the Cambodian, Korean, and Chinese population was the majority. The way they treated black people was detestable to say the least. But what was even more wild was the way the Chinese and Kore… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 10:45 PM |
| 5 | #Dump His Ass! 2020 🔥 😎My ex once told me he didn't like the fact that I had colored hair, black was best. I dyed my hair pink, dropped my boyfriend, and my students said I looked like a pretty cartoon character. Shout out to my babies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 10:37 PM |
| 104 | 🙏🏿Looks matter, PERIODT. Make sure you are physically attracted to someone as well. Don't settle ladies you can have all of it and then some. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 10:19 PM |
| 7 | Thoughts on Subtle Asian Dating?I've never heard of this before, but it could be because you know (looks at skin) I'm not Asian. But I did look somethings up: Here is the google slides for information and overall summary of the group: Slides Here is the group itself: Group I do think they restrict themselves by putting Asian in the title. And if they want to market to a bigger audience they may want to allow everyone to be there. Not all Asian men and women date Asian men in women. In fact Asian women date/ marry outside their… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 08:53 PM |
| 56 | Reminder that words mean nothing, always pay attention to their level of effort through actions.Action speaks louder than words. BTW Bish don't text me at 1am, I'm sleeping | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 06:47 AM |
| 16 | They want us to find them dates now, but they give us $10.00 per-date we find them (how thoughtful). Y'all ready to put in the work /s.I believe most men want mother figures who they can f-. I said what I said and meant what I said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 06:43 AM |
| 12 | A lesson learned.OP did you relay what you told us to your therapist before he suggested you reconnect with this guy? It is odd to me your therapist with all the information given would recommend you talk to this guy again. And I say this as a former therapist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 04:57 AM |
| 37 | They want us to find them dates now, but they give us $10.00 per-date we find them (how thoughtful). Y'all ready to put in the work /s.They want you to Create a profile for them. Which has photos, all which will catch the female eye. So most likely you will need to have a photoshoot because most men suck a photo taking. An interesting bio, which includes their hobbies and interest. And your magic to make them appealing, because lord knows these men need it. They then want you to monitor the profile throughout the day and swipe on women. Upon matching with women they want you to talk to them, and spark up good conversation. Appe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 02:57 AM |
| 23 | They want us to find them dates now, but they give us $10.00 per-date we find them (how thoughtful). Y'all ready to put in the work /s.LVM main vehicle for excuse is they have already tried or they know someone who tried everything people have suggested. They indeed have not, and they don't know a damn soul. They are too lazy to do so. They want the Naomi Campbells of the world but they are bob the fry cook at Bojangles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 02:44 AM |
| 10 | They want us to find them dates now, but they give us $10.00 per-date we find them (how thoughtful). Y'all ready to put in the work /s.LOL all you listed is too hard for LVM/ NVM most will never change, but at least you get that money. I would charge an application fee of 100 dollars and reject in 2-4 business days because they cannot be helped. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 02:41 AM |
| 39 | They want us to find them dates now, but they give us $10.00 per-date we find them (how thoughtful). Y'all ready to put in the work /s.As long as they get a date, and show us how "difficult" dating is for men (because women have it so easy /s). It's a win win we will surely get them a date, which they will screw up, and they will put the blame on us because we didn't set them up with the right person. No blame on them, and as usual no responsibility will be taken. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 02:02 AM |
| 11 | They want us to find them dates now, but they give us $10.00 per-date we find them (how thoughtful). Y'all ready to put in the work /s.Beyond delusional they are entitled as if we don't have our own romantic pitfall dealing with LVM/NVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 02:00 AM |
| 30 | They want us to find them dates now, but they give us $10.00 per-date we find them (how thoughtful). Y'all ready to put in the work /s.First the guy who stated we don't want a man put together we desire to fix them. And now this.... Everyday I ask myself are men getting more pathetic or more deprived. The answer is BOTH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Where to buy rings?Yeah first time I heard it on that show. Interesting concept. I wear one every so often. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 01:15 AM |
| 9 | Where to buy rings?I got mine from Zales. They are having a sale 30-50 percent off, and if you spend 300 they take 50 off. After watching the Chinese show divorce lawyer I liked the main male character started wearing a ring on his pinky finger. This ring symbolized you are not looking, and you are committed to yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 10:59 PM |
| 39 | “I don’t have to put with this.”I needed to hear this today I experience some real disrespect and I was feeling the need to justify my actions. But at this point I'm like why am I putting up with people who have LVM in their beds, and are pick-me inside and out. I am too a people pleaser, I have an extremely soft spirit, but most of all I am as sweet as apple pie. But I need to learn my life is mine, nobody else matters but ME. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 10:58 PM |
| 124 | X post from r/whitepeopletwitterHad a debate with someone regarding this a few weeks ago. He called me stupid for still thinking things from the past impact our future. Then he expected me to visit him in his hometown later on in the week, since he "paid for this expensive date". That expensive date being "60 bucks". I waited to I left the date (to avoid verbal/physical accosting) and blockt him as soon as I could..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 05:02 AM |
| 116 | This holiday is a good reminder of how useless men can be when they go about life with low expectations.Wow my step father (HVM) was sent to the store by my mom. He came back with her favorite bottle of wine, and what she asked for. SMH I cannot even imagine what some women go through with these men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 03:15 AM |
| 40 | Man negs me first, gets violent when i neg him back lolOP while this man is LV, I will say this you never show a man your insecurities until he has proven himself worth opening up to. Saying you think you look fat is a clear sign to him you have body issues (even if you were joking). Say what you mean and mean what you say. Lastly block a man after he test you, he deserves no more of your time. Twig should have gotten a blockt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 01:42 AM |
| 3 | So... this is considered romantic now?I can never get beyond women proposing to a man. It is the final boss form of a pick-me. This to me is not romantic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 05:44 PM |
| 33 | How to say Fuck Off nicely?I had a guy try to run me over after I said no to him. Another follow me for blocks downtown. And another grab me and wouldn't let go. Men can be unhinged. So when someone tries to talk to me I simply say nothing, until I get to a safe location. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 05:07 PM |
| 19 | Low Value Men on TinderIs it bad to say I've seen worse on tinder? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 01:11 AM |
| 57 | Queens of FDS, I think I may have a HVM on my hands!I think everything he has done so far is basic, and we cannot say if he is HV as of yet. I say this often and it's my favorite quote by chris rock "The first few months of meeting someone you are meeting their representative, the person who they always wanted to be but aren't truly. But sooner or later the rep has to go home, and you are left with the real person." You need to give yourself more time to figure this man out. A few dates, a mug, and future promises not yet acted upon is not a sign… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 12:58 AM |
| 3 | He bought her a $4k Louis Vuitton purse after their fourth dateSome store are open some are not, but everything about this scream no HV is here. LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 12:51 AM |
| 3 | He bought her a $4k Louis Vuitton purse after their fourth dateAs I was saying above HVM must be financially stable, it is a requirement. However, it is not the only requirement. Nor is spending excessive amount of money on you a sign of HVM. It simply means this man has money. Inquired minds wanna know doe: How dis man not see her but 4 times in a 2 month period when co-vid cases were decreasing. But when co-vid cases at an all time high he comes with a 4,000 bag, Probably with the rona. No ma'am | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 12:46 AM |
| 4 | He bought her a $4k Louis Vuitton purse after their fourth dateIf they have only been on 4 dates in person, then they have only been on 4 dates. So in a 8 week period he couldn't see her due to co-vid. But he managed to see her during the peak of co-vid cases worldwide, when all states (in the USA) are red from high infections? But when the spread was decreasing he could only go on 4 dates and couldn't see her. After only seeing one another 4 times in person he buys her a $4,000 bag? Mmmmm. Something isn't right here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 12:40 AM |
| 13 | He bought her a $4k Louis Vuitton purse after their fourth dateWouldn't this be considered love bombing? It's a no for me dawg. While a bag is nice after a 4th date is this in a 1, week, 4 weeks, or a 2 month time. Either way to buy someone something so expensive without Knowing how long they went out Knowing how long they've known one another Knowing anything about the man I just wouldn't call it HV. Too much missing. I think we have to remember that gifts are not label of HV. It just simply means this man has money. To add: It comes off like a manipulat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 12:20 AM |
| 62 | Also, if men love big boobs so much, they should get their own implants 🤡What she truly means: As a pick me, I always make sure to please my LV husband by any means because I fear him seeing anything his tiny brain will deem as a flaw. I fear he doesn't love me for me, so I walk around with a bra on to keep his attention . All other pick-mes should do the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 10:24 PM |
| 8 | I think I found the queen of pickmesMe: So are you a clown 24/7 are only when you are spreading your legs, and sharing your body with married men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 07:29 AM |
| 47 | If any of this is real, she has more things to worry about than her meat dildo deadbedrooming her.Talks to my male cat: why do people that share your sex act like this? I'll let you all know if he gives me an answer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 07:27 AM |
| 82 | So anyway, sex is not a needSex is not a need for anyone. A need is a thing you cannot live without. You can go your entire life without sex and you will be perfectly fine. You try to say it is a need to force women to give you something you haven't earned, you don't deserve, but most of all YOU DON'T NEED | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 12:09 AM |
| 11 | Another story that doesn't make sense on so many levels.Yes it is a tacit to make them seem right. At the end as they say to us, I need proof or it aint' happen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 09:51 PM |
| 112 | Another story that doesn't make sense on so many levels.2L student here going into sex crimes, B.A in law and psychology, also worked in my local court for years (criminal courts to be specific ). So I am well informed. False rape allegations are so rare, I mean rarer than a HVM in this world. I am not sure why men keep bringing it up. Women should truly worry about men raping them because that is much common than a man being accused of rape when he didn't do it. Most women (meaning majority) never ever ever ever report their rape Most women who repo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 09:07 PM |
| 10 | Her husband cheated and left her and their 2 sons. Raise those boys like daddy I guessPick-me mother's breed LVM/NVM and then get mad when they are living in their 1 bedroom condo they brought with their retirement to downsize, and their son/sons are eating all the fruit snacks meant for the grandbabies. Still saying this my house too. You only have yourself to blame sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 08:36 PM |
| 33 | The partnership is about working together 🤗 he's making the mess, and I am cleaning it. But seriously, I can't imagine how harmful it is for the young girls to hear such things said by an authority.If it took about 10 seconds why didn't his bish a*s do it himself? Oh that's right because he doesn't think about you all day like you said, he thinks about himself so much he cannot be bothered to pick up his clothing because you coddle him. Then make tiktoks with a buddha in the background when you ain't even buddhist excusing it. Shame....pick-me, just shame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 01:00 PM |
| 16 | /r/againstdegeneratesubs made a change petition to ban fds lol scrotes maddid BPT start making people do that? Funny as hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 05:11 AM |
| 125 | /r/againstdegeneratesubs made a change petition to ban fds lol scrotes madWhy do they call us incel when everyone here can have someone eating their booty as we speak? Everyone here can get random sex. Incels are people who want sex and relationships but they cannot against their will. We are single, and not having random sex by choice. Why do they say we all hate men when we praise HVM and some of us are in relationship or a married? Makes no sense to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 05:07 AM |
| 146 | I feel so sick after reading this. “She should know I would never do that to her.”I never thought I be abused. I thought my BF for years was trustworthy. Until one day he threw me into a wall almost breaking my arm, and forced me to have sex. I am 4"11-5 foot and he was 6"3 so there was no reason to use that force with me. Nor did I touch him in anyway. Men can snap one day and attack you, I never put it pass anyone. So if she feels unsafe you make her safe you don't dismiss and belittle her feelings. And you def don't go to male dominated site like reddit who often dismiss w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 12:36 AM |
| 280 | Grand pickmeisha. Precious “husband” is going to be walking all over this doormat in no timeI am a JD student, 2L to be specific restraining orders are not given out lightly he had to one been stalking her really badly or two abused her in some way where she can show proof. I would bet my left foot he did both. For this pick me to invite him but not her sister is disgusting. Hope her marriage falls a part faster than her morals did when her husband told her to invite her sister's abuser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 09:02 PM |
| 30 | "5 men who upgraded their women." An article that celebrates men leaving their bob the builder chicks for other younger, hotter women after they reach certain level of success. More reasons to not build with men.oh this site has LVM gems all over it. Such as WOMEN ONLY HATE FEMALE OBJECTIFICATION WHEN THEY CAN NO LONGER PROFIT FROM IT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 07:29 PM |
| 7 | If you could go back and give your 23-year old self dating advice, what would it be ?Stay in South Korea don't come back here. America has nothing to offer you years down the line. You can visit your mother, and sister. But you won't be fully happy here. And you deserve happiness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Quick Survey - How Did You All Find FDS?Other, a guy on r/dating was complaining about FDS. And I joined. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:59 AM |
| 166 | FFS This is terrifying. Stay safe out there.It there dozens of men in these comment stating they rape or touch women breast vaginas or butts. It's really scary nobody is calling them out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 12:07 AM |
| 395 | FFS This is terrifying. Stay safe out there.OMG men are disgusting. And 60 men liked this WTF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 11:58 PM |
| 129 | "Not all men!!!!!!"It is so scary sometimes wake up and seeing men promoting abuse. What is even sadder is the "not all men" men are not even defending women in ordeals like this. They are too busy worrying about not all men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 01:07 PM |
| 47 | No 50/50 birthdayYep basically be his mother only difference his you have to have sex with him. It's a damn mess | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 01:41 AM |
| 57 | No 50/50 birthdayLOL LVM/NVM are usually cheap HVM won't be. You my friend have a LV/NV man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 10:36 PM |
| 333 | No 50/50 birthdayI would be appalled he asked, but even more appalled that he did this on your birthday. Time to get a new boyfriend. I expect an update of you breaking up with this man. Don't go into your 30's carrying trash Edit: Wait sis. This man lives in the house you brought and only pays 1/3 of the expenses? Girl you should have broke up with him 2 months ago when you made that post. he saves about 3/4 of what he earns. SIS LEAVE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 09:32 PM |
| 7 | Pick-Me tales from reddit: Pick-Me falls for former friend who stole her nudes, askes reddit for advice since " he'd make me so happy as my boyfriend", claims he is just a confused virgin. WHAT IS LIFE Y'ALL?I would say this, but you never know with these pick-mes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 04:10 PM |
| 46 | Pick-Me tales from reddit: Pick-Me falls for former friend who stole her nudes, askes reddit for advice since " he'd make me so happy as my boyfriend", claims he is just a confused virgin. WHAT IS LIFE Y'ALL?he told me about still being a virgin, and being extremely curious. he made sure to clarify he never had any special feelings behind what he did, and it was purely out of urge, thrill and extreme curiosity. This is the guy she is falling for. WTF. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 06:28 AM |
| 110 | Pick-Me tales from reddit: Pick-Me falls for former friend who stole her nudes, askes reddit for advice since " he'd make me so happy as my boyfriend", claims he is just a confused virgin. WHAT IS LIFE Y'ALL?My Reply: I am going to be blunt and it may come off kind of rude. OP you are stupid. A man violated your privacy and stole your nudes. You reach out to this man, and are falling for him. I hope this is a fanfiction. What trust can be built wit this man? No sis no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 06:21 AM |
| 14 | Why do men think their opinions are always wanted?Where is the guy who can afford to buy the Hennessey XO 750ML (200-250 dollars), the thing I was drinking in the photo. Nobody, just shi**y underwear and struggle stories? How sad. Back to my HENNY. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 11:41 PM |
| 20 | Wife gives him a sex coupon and the first thoughts that cross his mind are abuse and humiliation.You cannot say no, even if you truly want to? Sounds like rape to me. I will take a hard-mother-fu\ken-pass for 100 alex. Are you sure? Oh you bet your a*s I'm sure.* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 11:33 PM |
| 44 | Sean Connery’s death has inspired the manosphere to start saying the quiet & implied part of their whole ethos out loud.https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/jlkk2r/sean_coonery_beat_women_and_believed_in_doing_so/ <---Here is the post. I don't really know how to screenshot on my computer. LOL I didn't know you guys couldn't see what I wrote but I said So Sean Coonery died today boo-f-ing-hoo. In his life he was a actor, and a abusive man who promoted other men to do the same. "I don't think there is anything particularly wrong in hitting a woman, though I don't recommend you do it the same way that y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 06:42 PM |
| 165 | Sean Connery’s death has inspired the manosphere to start saying the quiet & implied part of their whole ethos out loud.I just made a post about this and r/TwoXChromosomes removed it. Men were defending him in the comments and so were some women. SMH. Men will defend anyone even those who beat women as long as it means they can still praise their favorite person. I expect no less out of Cooper, but Twoxchromosomes disgust me today | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 06:08 PM |
| 22 | “Online dating is so easy for women, you get so many messages!” My inbox:Sis I tell you what (in my hank hill voice) I seen some ish on OLD. Some men liked me and I was confused. What would make you think I would EVER like you back. Perfect example: Look at this ish It's like WTF bruh really? Like really? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 02:15 PM |
| 42 | Pick-Me mother belittles her daughters and women in order to justify coddling her son. "Girls are just too much"God, black women get shit on since day fucking one, don't they? By their own mothers, by their own men(love the colorism), by their brothers, by their sisters(always fighting over men), jesus. Where do you find solidarity in such a world? Us black women are very sought after. So highly and many of us don't know it. Literally our style, looks, and features are copied, paid for, and injected. But we are told so early on we are undesirable and only black men can see our beauty (A damn lie). Even th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 08:31 PM |
| 30 | Pick-Me mother belittles her daughters and women in order to justify coddling her son. "Girls are just too much"her 30 years down the line: mY SoNz DiDn'T dO NuThIN WRonG. he JUsT TrYinG To GeT On HIS FeEt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 07:51 PM |
| 50 | Pick-Me mother belittles her daughters and women in order to justify coddling her son. "Girls are just too much"Paris Milan has a phone call with a pick-me mother who spends 10 mins belittling her daughters. All in the name of saying boys are just easier, and "girls are just too much." The comment section is pure gold littered with beautiful HVWs, and they rip her a new one for damaging her daughters in the long run. Thoughts? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 07:28 PM |
| 10 | My soulmate married someone else. Am I wasting my life waiting for him?How can one be your soulmate when his soulmate is someone else, who he married? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 06:17 PM |
| 26 | “I feel bad for whoever tries to date you”The war cry of a man on reddit when I own him in the comments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 06:14 PM |
| 3 | NoNo a woman is not suppose to pay bills, fix cars, buy a house because you should be building it go by the materials, or have to touch a dish clean clothes or cook because every man should have the money to provide her with a maid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 05:21 PM |
| 20 | Maybe because he isn’t the right guy for them 🤷🏻♀️LOL I think that might have been me. I said " Well do you group of individuals have a magical list we women can have so we can know which one is which? If so (in my Mo'Nique voice) I would like to see it. " | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 04:52 AM |
| 25 | Having a baby with a LVM can cause some of us our lives, make sure he is HVM so you leave your children in the right hands and it will be worth it.Yep two successful, wealthy, and well known women in the world. Shows you they don't care about us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 12:12 AM |
| 44 | Having a baby with a LVM can cause some of us our lives, make sure he is HVM so you leave your children in the right hands and it will be worth it.Both but mostly due to healthcare. For a while there was a common misconception in the medical community that black people didn't experience pain as everyone else. Also it is more likely for a black woman to be turned away when she has an issue than a white women. While we are more likely to experience these complication they can be treated if caught in time. The thing is doctors don't care to catch it because when black women say something is wrong they don't believe us. https://www.facebook.co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 11:07 PM |
| 45 | It's Not That I Can't Find A Man To Love Me, I Can't Find A Man I LoveSum up my love life in one sentence why don't you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 09:23 PM |
| 29 | About a third of college men would force a woman to have sex if there were no consequences, study reveals.I was raped so I know the feeling. Worse feeling in the world is to close your eyes and feel hear and see the rape, know for sure it happened, but knowing nobody will believe you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 01:41 PM |
| 46 | About a third of college men would force a woman to have sex if there were no consequences, study reveals.I am a JD student (2L) going into criminals law (going to be a prosecutor) for sex crimes, but have worked for the local judicial courts under a federal judge. Most criminal are actually criminals, most of the people in prison deserve to be there, this includes rapist. Majority of women do not lie about being raped, in fact majority of women never say anything. Men love to come up with B.S about how what if he didn't do it. 9.7/10 his ass did do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 01:30 PM |
| 95 | About a third of college men would force a woman to have sex if there were no consequences, study reveals.My friend was raped in college. All the men are successful, apart of a black frat, and they never faced any consequences. Men often get away with it, and I hate when other men try to dismiss that. Most rapist are free as ass cheeks in a hospital gown. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 01:23 PM |
| 56 | Stop trying to find love during a pandemic 🧚♀️If you follow FDS I think that you will be able to get passed everything this article speaks of. You should know not to force a connection, you know that if the feeling is not there you don't waste the most precious thing in the world. That thing being time. You should always have topics to talk about because you are finding a compatible mate, but also there is so much to talk about. Hey how about them pushing through a barely seasoned judge as a supreme court justice? How about the fact that th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 12:09 AM |
| 4 | Dating as a DemisexualI am. It could be because I was forced into sex so early on (rape), that I disconnect with it. Or it could be simply my body needs that connection to enjoy it. Sex has never been enjoyable for me because I was never 100 percent emotionally connected to my boyfriends. I learned a year or so ago that it isn't worth even trying to force it. My body, mind, and emotions will do what it does. I am just being patient, I know it'll happen sooner or later. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 09:27 PM |
| 6 | An FDS anthem to make your day fabulous!!! I'm doin me - FantasiaY'all don't forget she was with a married man at one point. She is a class-A pick-me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 09:09 PM |
| 64 | PickMe dating app — posted un ironicallyI think the dating concept here is foolish. Men cannot even write a basic bio, I can only imagine them trying to answer question on the spot during a limited time in a studio. Men just don't want to address their issues and so they are trying to find new ways to find dates. A video won't help you Jerome (in my lizzo voice) take your ass home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 02:10 PM |
| 8 | The highest value man I've ever met didn't meet any of my standards, the significance of a beautiful heartSis whatever helps you sleep at night. But he wasn't HV. A HVM doesn't fight in a woman's presence, which will put you and him in danger. A HVM makes a commitment if he "loves" a woman so dearly. A HV has all those basics you stated, but then some. A man running around shirtless, popping his pecks like cardi b pops pussy, screaming and cursing, fighting random people is not HV. But I guess the catch of the day is what won you over? Bojangles has fried fish aka a catch too, I am sure you would li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 12:16 PM |
| 6 | The highest value man I've ever met didn't meet any of my standards, the significance of a beautiful heartSo he wasn't HV, he just was nice some of the time. MMMM OK | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 12:05 PM |
| 6 | The highest value man I've ever met didn't meet any of my standards, the significance of a beautiful heartOkay it's not just me. Here I am with my morning coffee like ayo this doesn't sound HV at all. Or is this creamer bad, or am I tripping? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 12:01 PM |
| 20 | The highest value man I've ever met didn't meet any of my standards, the significance of a beautiful heartUhhhhh........ This man doesn't sound HV at all. Or is it just me? He was nice to you, gave you some catch, and never made you his girlfriend. He was violent when someone said something about your breast possibly putting you and him in danger. You spend time with his family with no commitment, or exclusivity? WTF is this ish right here. It's like he gave you the basic we talk about (excluding the violence) on FDS and you are amazed by it. Him being nice, loyal, treating you with respect is basic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 11:47 AM |
| 8 | Do not risk your mental and physical health by rejecting a man. GHOST HIM if need be.GHOSTING IS FINE, NO MATTER HOW LONG YOU KNEW THE GUY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 10:57 AM |
| 13 | Do not risk your mental and physical health by rejecting a man. GHOST HIM if need be.Rejecting him outright will trigger him as well. My suggestion that you always have a security system in your house, change your locks, and have protection of some kind. You should have this anyway, regardless if you are single and dating or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 10:49 AM |
| 16 | Do not risk your mental and physical health by rejecting a man. GHOST HIM if need be.As a teen a girl I watched an ordeal where a man physically assaulted a woman due to her rejecting him. A female told a guy "NO" on the bus when he asked for her number. He waited to his stop, punched her hard in the face, and ran. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 10:47 AM |
| 8 | Do not risk your mental and physical health by rejecting a man. GHOST HIM if need be.. Unless you have been officially dating for months or you have mutual agreement about ending things and are in friendly terms It doesn't matter if he has done anything deplorable, disrespectful, demeaning, belittling, or a threat against your person that you deem unacceptable GHOSTING IS FINE, NO MATTER HOW LONG YOU KNEW THE GUY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 10:44 AM |
| 13 | Do not risk your mental and physical health by rejecting a man. GHOST HIM if need be.Was on a post earlier and this guy was so pissed about being ghosted. Men egging him on. You know this ashy knee, mayo breath man tells me us ghosting is like the stereotypes black people experience. Ghosting a man is like the oppression/racism black people experience is what he said. You cannot make this ish up.... -___- I f-ing cannot with entitled men. You are so egotistic you think that being black is comparable to your ghosting experience. These men are literally crazy, nut, off their rocke… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 10:41 AM |
| 33 | This house definitely belongs to a LVMLOL you know I have no life, I did full tour. And it is a LVM male shoes and clothes are in the bedroom. EDIT: OMG look at the kitty litter all over the floor | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 12:05 AM |
| 225 | So sad :( the future is not brightWhy do people assume because we are single we cannot have sex or find someone? I could be having my p*ssy eaten as we speak, while someone buying me a ring if I settled. We are single and sexless by choice. Not by force. I had some LV sending me full body nudes last night. It isn't that we have no one we just don't want 99.9999 percent of them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 11:38 PM |
| 9 | Deprived political post.LOL I guess my hope is too high. I am sure men will bring it down soon enough CTFU | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 09:08 PM |
| 17 | Deprived political post.I'm not hopeless but before reddit I thought it was 60/40 60-LV 40-HV, now it is 80/20 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 08:52 PM |
| 72 | I ghosted him, he sends this 🤡Send my regards to the woman who will be struggling with you for the next few years. She is taking on the flame I was trying to blow out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 08:48 PM |
| 74 | Deprived political post.The more I get on reddit the more I find men detestable. I've seen men in a new deem, broken, flickering light after coming here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 08:47 PM |
| 12 | I’m at a loss of words. This woman’s husband doesn’t give a shit about her or women in general and she’s asking what to do? How can people like this exist?My thoughts exactly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 08:38 PM |
| 31 | I’m at a loss of words. This woman’s husband doesn’t give a shit about her or women in general and she’s asking what to do? How can people like this exist?And I was right, this is what she said: I'm not running to the court after this post due to the commenters. I don't want to jump into something that extreme. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 07:12 PM |
| 4 | This is what patience gets youLordt I thought that said 45 years old I put on my glasses and saw what it really said. What in the pickme, waiting so long could have completed a full medical career, could have saved to buy a home, watch 2 kids go through school is this ish right here? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 07:10 PM |
| 85 | I’m at a loss of words. This woman’s husband doesn’t give a shit about her or women in general and she’s asking what to do? How can people like this exist?Most pick-mes like this never plan on leaving their husbands, they just want to scream into the void and hope someone will rub their backs. She knows what she needs to do, but she probably won't do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 03:49 PM |
| 72 | Just a reminder! This will change your life.This is something I needed to see this morning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Obvi? I just got back on tinder and after FDS I digress. Hard.I like hinge honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 12:40 PM |
| 38 | Im not saying he is a HVM, but he has potentialLVM are the same ones who will run to the women who outright say I only want your money as soon as they get money. Men only complain about "gold diggers" because they cannot afford them. As soon as they do they run to them like roaches to moldy bread. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 12:47 AM |
| 281 | This is absolutely amazing, and a great way to deal with such.The issue I have is how can I tell 25-50 year old male mother he is sending me rape messages, because that's who usually send them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 11:34 PM |
| 7 | This is just sad, a young, strong and ambitious young woman GONEYep I watch them both. Paris is funnier though with the way she says words. Her tweet blame black men had me dying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 11:31 PM |
| 73 | This is just sad, a young, strong and ambitious young woman GONEParis has many post about BW being killed by BM specifically. They don't tend to get a lot of traffic or news coverage because they are black. If you look a bit farther in the post history of Paris you will see there is a serial killer who targets black women in Chicago. They have his DNA but will not run it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 03:52 PM |
| 6 | No, unicorn, you’re a douche and please correct your age and put your own photo, thanks.His a*s is too old to still be trying to catch an STD/STI. Having his partner (which I am sure he wants them young) explore around town passing her vagina out like gum in a classroom, so he can explore his sick fantasy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 09:03 AM |
| 9 | You don't need to beat yourself up if some man didn't want youA man rejecting you doesn't mean he doesn't see your value. It could simply mean you aren't compatible in his eyes. You won't be compatible with every HVM you come across. You should learn that. HVM means that he has qualities and characteristics that makes him HV. It doesn't mean every single woman who is HV he come across will be his future wife. A HV will be able to tell the difference, and leave kindly reject the woman so he can move in the right direction. The same is true for a HVW. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 08:21 AM |
| 89 | You don't need to beat yourself up if some man didn't want youTo add.... Rejection doesn't always mean the person is evil, mean, or LV; it simply means they didn't see a future romantically with you. Rejection in it's most lay form is a person who doesn't believe you guys are compatible. Take it as just that ladies. Do not beat yourself up, look at yourself as less than, or think now you must give up on dating all together. My aunt once told me when I was afraid to tell someone I liked them," the worse thing he can tell you is no, and if he says no that's … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 09:15 PM |
| 130 | Obvi? I just got back on tinder and after FDS I digress. Hard.Tinder is like the breeding grounds for fuckboys, low effort men, LVM. I would not suggest it. Since it is so heavily populated by men (men make up about 60 percent of the population on there), you have to swim through a lot of shit to get the HVM you desire. Is it possible, yes. But just because something is possible doesn't mean it will happen. The tinder subreddit shows you 99.9999999 percent of the men on there are LV, and they are cheered on by other LVM who call them kingz. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 01:34 PM |
| 17 | Do not trust men, even childhood friends WILL betray you without a second thoughtLadies be cautious of everyone. Trust has to b earned and even then expect the unexpected | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 06:24 PM |
| 9 | you deserve someone who takes care of you ❤️Who cutting onions? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 06:52 PM |
| 50 | Someone pick her please!Destiny has a destiny for being with an LVM and there is nothing we can do about it. Let the LV's have her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 07:11 AM |
| 2 | May be a meme but it's the truthyo I saw this and thought the same thing. Also did you guys see the female who is trying to buy her husband a PS5 but is taking money from other people/places to afford it. he replies when someone says why don't you buy it " I decided not to due to financial situations so her doing this was really amazing of her. " They both clearly cannot afford it, the f-. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 06:33 AM |
| 19 | Guys, what’s your opinion on couples pretending to be strangers at a bar/place and then flirting with each other?I honestly think it's none of my business what people do to spice up their marriage. As long as both people are consenting to this, faithful, and desire the ordeal I say more power to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 03:54 AM |
| 65 | Ran into a guy I’ve been seeing while he was on a date with another girlI feel the same way honestly. A man who is trying to jump into a relationship or exclusivity only after a few weeks or month of dating is a huge red flag to me. Exclusivity takes time to earn, not just because it takes trust and understanding. But you need to know the person. I always say this 90days to earn your trust, your commitment, a place in your mind, etc. Before that is risky. A HVM is indeed going to be vetting people, his potential partners included. I think FDS has a very clouded mind… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Um... What are the odds he's offering a living wage? (Spoiler: 0%)1000 dollar to help him find some pant wow, are men this lazy today? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 03:21 AM |
| 2 | beyond disgusting - no normal, well adjusted person makes friends for this purposeManipulation tacit? So tricking a women into sleeping with them? Sound pretty rapey to me. Why is this sub not banned if it is promoting sleeping with men via manipulation? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 12:59 PM |
| 73 | LVM/NVM - Do you want attention? Woman - No. LVM/NVM - So that's a yes.Women: Breathe LVM/NVM: Is this attention? Do they like me? Do they want to have sex with me? It must be something why else would she be breathing in my presence. I am not Indian, I am black. However, the way black men treat black women in America is scary. And I don't feel safe, mostly because nobody care about us here. There are a couple of video you can find (and I have experience first hand) where men harass us. Men surround us, won't let us leave, grabbing us, pulling us, touching our body,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 12:16 PM |
| 3 | beyond disgusting - no normal, well adjusted person makes friends for this purposeHow is that possible when incel means men who are sexless by force aka nobody wants them? So really they are incels whom are even more crazy than the normal ones? These men are among us that is so damn creepy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 11:46 AM |
| 47 | Trigger warning: Men's behaviour during the pandemicThe thing is men's behavior will always be deplorable, it is a factor in our lives that we can avoid but cannot change (in most men and in most cases). However, we have to practice safety tips giving to us. Never go with a stranger, never go into a strangers home, anything he has to show you that cannot be shown in public ain't worth seeing, and lastly IF HE DOESN'T WANT TO ACTUALLY DATE DO NOT PARTAKE. I see men say on this site often, well I prefer to just chill inside. And a pickme calls from… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 11:22 AM |
| 13 | beyond disgusting - no normal, well adjusted person makes friends for this purposeWhat is the redpill? Is it for incel men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 11:12 AM |
| 38 | where do you actually FIND hvm?HVM are everywhere. Literally everywhere. My BF, a HVM is from hinge. But I only found him after I sat down with myself, and figured out what I needed in a partner (not just wanted). This included my physical, sexual, mental, emotional, financial preference. But I couldn't come to this conclusion until I was mentally, emotionally, financially stable. Work on yourself before ever seeking a relationship. For me I got HVM even in my worse state, however I couldn't handle it. Only now after becoming… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 07:19 PM |
| 32 | “Lower your standards, No one wants a divorced single mom” Yeha okay...one week on tinder 4,600 “likes” and 60+ matches...I think the issue with OLD is men literally don't take the time to swipe or read profiles. They literally swipe on anything, there should be a feature where aimlessly swiping should be flagged. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Are they actually trying to date, or is this just trolling?Chad: Hello I'm chad. I am a rapist, molester, I'm rude, and I have nothing to offer but possibly harming you and leaving long term damage. KidsR' Us is closed now, and so is it's parent company Toysrus. Actually since June 2018, so I am jobless as you could guess. I am abusive and can't take the time to write out full words, or use periods properly. Why would you swipe on me? Here is a clue you shouldn't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 01:56 PM |
| 326 | Classic example of scrote stringing his forever girlfriend along. I hope she dumps himMy advice for women never have kids with a man you aren't married to, and cannot provide for you both. That is the biggest mistake we can make. My step father told me it takes a man 1 year to know if he will marry her for sure, at most 3 years to actually do it. Make marriage a requirement not an option. A requirement for buying a home, a requirement for having kids, for sharing anything. I bet the next one will and I bet he will marry her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 01:20 PM |
| 767 | Classic example of scrote stringing his forever girlfriend along. I hope she dumps himThe Top comment: He doesn’t intend to ever marry you. I’m sorry. I don’t know what advice to give you. Me: I am not needed here I'll see my way out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 01:15 PM |
| 4 | Engagement rings - do they tell a lot about how he values you?My ex fiancé and the other loser who proposed to me knew me enough to know what ring I wouldn't like and would. I think a male should be intone with his partner, so much so he knows what jewelry she like and doesn't. So I think that it does show you how much he values you. Not due to the size but due to it matching your taste. A man who values you will buy what your heart and personal taste desires, not what he wants due to his budget. If a man disregards that because he isn't willing to fork ov… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 01:08 PM |
| 66 | No, thanks 😒Block & Reported. *please state your reason* Other: He got me f-ed up. And I needed to report it to someone else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 12:19 PM |
| 29 | Someone got butthurt after going through my posting historyNope, not at all. I said this to someone yesterday people don't hate FDS concepts, in fact the agree with them. They just hate FDS name. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 11:21 AM |
| 48 | Someone got butthurt after going through my posting historyI had a front page post on dating subreddit. Everyone was agreeing with me, until one crumb went through my post history and said She post on FDS. Then all of a sudden my post was wrong, and I was bitter. I turned my messages right off. No crumb will get in my inbox to tell me a damn thing. *messages set to NOBODY CAN MESSAGE YOU* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 10:55 AM |
| 60 | Men on Reddit are MAD at these tweets yet fail to understand that these girls are trolling and are repeating excuses and lies men tell women when they cheat 🤣As long she comes home to him that's all the matters | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 09:15 PM |
| 15 | Pinterest offering this nugget of adviceAn apology alone can be seen as manipulation. My question is what mistake/mistakes did you make that you need to apologize, and also which requires change? Because those sound like big mistakes. Which sound like you need to be yeeted to the streets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 12:41 PM |
| 28 | I.... I can’tFrom giving you his number to getting arrested. Well that escalated quickly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 04:46 AM |
| 7 | Why young South Koreans aren't interested in dating - no money or time. Thoughts?No we aren't I am Afro-Latina, she is African American. I was thinking for a man to even want to date us over there he has to be open-minded. So of course we won't get what korean women will because they already have went against the norm but being with us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 04:29 AM |
| 6 | Why young South Koreans aren't interested in dating - no money or time. Thoughts?Wow this is sad, I lived there for a bit; and my good friend stay and married her husband. Very different experience for me, and her. However it is interesting to see the outlook from a woman whom isn't an outsider. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 04:09 AM |
| 16 | Men using LinkedIn to pick upI don't have any form of social media but this thing (reddit), so you aren't the only one. I personally like to keep my entire life private (beside rants and openness on here). Nobody knows who I am behind this computer and I like it that way. I think when I get back to work I will probably delete this thing too. Honestly my feelings on social media is grim. I don't believe anyone should get a glimpse into your life without being fully apart of it. I don't think it's safe nor does it protect you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 06:09 PM |
| 31 | When your ex messages you on Google docsLOL some people will find anyway to talk to their exs, WTAF. Google docs? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 05:00 PM |
| 38 | Men using LinkedIn to pick upGirl I had to delete my linkedin because my ex was stalking me on it for the last month. Be careful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 02:52 PM |
| 4 | Stop looking through FDS everyday, and then jump in our inbox to harass us.I say the same thing. Men always act like we spit on them, twist their nipples, and beat them with a stick. If this is the case, why y'all crying over us every night under your mildew smelling sheets? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 12:17 PM |
| 70 | I seen this on twitter sisters.One woman allowed him to take 25 years of his life, and another allowed him to take her freedom (cause she probably in prison for the rest of her life). Couldn't be me, I cannot relate. This man was taking from women even in death such a shame | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 11:57 AM |
| 204 | Never emotionally drain yourself for the other person in a relationship!Yep, as I tell men on this site anytime I get the chance: Women are not emotional support animals. You desire mental and emotional stability do that before you get into a relationship, don't seek a relationship for it. So many broken men who think a woman will fix all their problems. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 09:40 AM |
| 11 | Stop looking through FDS everyday, and then jump in our inbox to harass us.You are the real queen for letting me know this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 06:18 AM |
| 5 | Stop looking through FDS everyday, and then jump in our inbox to harass us.I love k-drama as well. And some korean men are very handsome, hence me being in a relationship with one. I think it is hard to find ones without the cliche stuff though. Some are very good like mother, my strange hero, voice, heart to heart, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 06:15 AM |
| 6 | Stop looking through FDS everyday, and then jump in our inbox to harass us.How do I turn my DM's off here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 06:12 AM |
| 10 | Stop looking through FDS everyday, and then jump in our inbox to harass us.I don't think there is a way. I remember on my old reddit account I was banned from K-drama's subreddit for posting a site they didn't support. Hunny nobody paying 20.00 a month to watch glaze donut face Korean men, grab someone by the arm, and kiss them with no movement. If I wanted that I call my ex up. I am a teacher not millionaire LOL. Anyway I could still downvote, I just couldn't comment or post. I am not sure if that is still the case, but I think it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 05:24 AM |
| 51 | Stop looking through FDS everyday, and then jump in our inbox to harass us.They are in here right now downvoting as they lean over their 100 dollar used 2005 dell computer, angry wishing they could comment, and hoping someone will utter their names besides their mother's. Whom secretly want them out because they are tired of cleaning up sticky socks everyday. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 05:17 AM |
| 17 | Stop looking through FDS everyday, and then jump in our inbox to harass us.Sis my block hand strong, but my report hand is even stronger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Please RUN when a guy says he has mostly female friends. He doesn't have mostly female friends. He has mostly PICKMEISHA friends!!Yeah my two best friends are males, one is gay the other is straight. With that being said I wouldn't dismiss what everyone has said, personal experience shape our ideals. It takes very mature person to be first with the opposite sex, and not expect a romance to occur. This is rare for both men and women. Will that make me end by 13+ year friendship with both these men no. But I am cautious to new men that come along that claim to be friends. I would like to also add be cautious with female frie… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 04:15 AM |
| 9 | are British men actually gentlemen?I didn't finish my train of thought, they were concerned I be too cold or be too hot. It was like a daily weather update. Like hey did you know it'll be rainy today, don't forget your umbrella. Or it's chilly did you wear a warm jacket. It was odd I never had a guy be so concerned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 02:28 AM |
| 38 | Louder for the pickmes in the back! It's not you, it's him.I was extremely mentally/emotionally unstable due to being sexually assaulted, and abused. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 02:25 AM |
| 3 | are British men actually gentlemen?Oh no they aren't, I never stated that. There are f-ed up men everywhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 02:24 AM |
| 10 | are British men actually gentlemen?Korean men in my opinion tend to keep themselves well groomed. I don't often see them with messy hair, long dirty looking beards, or ill fitting attire. But that tends to be common with east asian men. From the few I have dated they told me that messy looks are a sign of being poor. For a while until I dated them I didn't know they could grow full beards. I also assumed they did all that skin care we see online, nope they use soap in water. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 07:00 PM |
| 7 | are British men actually gentlemen?예 very much so. I was seeing this NY korean guy a couple months ago. Looked like some air brushed his face. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 06:48 PM |
| 22 | Louder for the pickmes in the back! It's not you, it's him.LVM can ruin our very lives with their behavior. And sadly in my case, what they did to me created more issues than just my personal instability. Overall, I am in a better place after therapy. So for the next HVM I will be ready. I am hopeful but still very focused on my betterment. I like this sub because I see everyone is growing. I hope my story can help one woman know she can beat this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 06:28 PM |
| 16 | Louder for the pickmes in the back! It's not you, it's him.I have two male best friends and upon finding out I wasn't going to eat meat both were supportive. My cousin whom is like my bother brought me all this morning star stuff LOL. My uncle always says during thanksgiving you got something for my babygirl this better not have meat in it. Damn sometimes I have to humble myself because when I hear stories about crumbs on this subbreddit I am amazed how men can be jerks about the most stupidest ish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 06:21 PM |
| 30 | Cardi B clapping back at all the pornsick men.If a women would have made fun of a man penis it be hell to pay, but it is fine to make fun of a woman's nipples. And I detest cardi b as a person, but these men are the same ones whom would drink her toilet water if they got the chance but clown her areolas online. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 06:15 PM |
| 13 | are British men actually gentlemen?One can only hope. I do noticed upon talking to men not from this country they do not understand our society nor how it functions with such dysfunctional behavior. My ex from Ghana would always be pissed at the way men treated women. We truly do not notice how bad it is until we have seen so much better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 05:25 PM |
| 26 | are British men actually gentlemen?No man asked me for sex, all asked me on a proper date, none said anything offensive about my race even though I was black and they all were korean, when I curse they believed I was angry and became extremely apologetic believing they offended me, most date to marry, they are kind, and oddly enough they care a lot about the weather. My friend stayed and two years later she married to a nice korean man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 05:13 PM |
| 114 | Louder for the pickmes in the back! It's not you, it's him.Girl I found him from tinder of all places. The lawyer who gave me my legal internship and helped me get into law school, the guy who paid for professional fireworks for my birthday and brought me a dog, the guy who gave me the strawberries, the guy who named his business after me and took me to Ghana to show me where my roots come from. Girl all from tinder, and I messed them all up. Don't go to tinder now nothing but crumbs there. CRUMBS I SAY! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 05:09 PM |
| 75 | Louder for the pickmes in the back! It's not you, it's him.We got into a relationship, and we ended up breaking up due to my immaturity (I won't lie). I was very childish in my early 20's, and it ruin most of my relationships with HVM. That and I was extremely mentally/emotionally unstable due to being sexually assaulted, and abused. And I had them back to back to back too. I remember this one guy I was dating took me to a roof top (of his luxury condo), paid for professional fireworks for my birthday, and with a surprise dinner. I messed it up with him… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 05:02 PM |
| 27 | are British men actually gentlemen?I asked people the difference between USA dating and other countries, one woman inboxed me and said: I found in America that guys seemed pretty immature and aggressive. Like if they bought me a drink they expected sex in return right away. In Europe there more relaxed. Obviously if a guy buys me a drink in a bar I'm fully aware that he's doing it because he's attracted to me and is hopeful of sex. But in America guys seem to think its like a porn film, they buy me a drink, i giggle and we screw … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 04:46 PM |
| 321 | Louder for the pickmes in the back! It's not you, it's him.Never forget my first date with this guy, he took me to this steak house (fancy nice) problem is I don't eat meat. He felt so bad. I said it's fine, no biggie. The following week he kept asking what I got in the mail. It was strange. I noticed a big box at my door the following day. Upon opening it, it was 24 chocolate covered strawberries and a rose bear. On the card it said I am sorry, I hope you will go on date number two with me. My fat a*s ate all the strawberries. I learned then if a man r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 04:31 PM |
| 60 | Anyone see that Finland is criminalizing unsolicited nudes?I tell men if you send me an unsolicited dick/nude photo you are consenting to me sharing this photo in my group chat to clown you. Haven't gotten an unsolicited nude since. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 03:58 PM |
| 7 | Three profiles in a row on Tinder 🤮 I’m deleting my OLD profiles, anyone with me?LOL I remember I told some guy what you look like forreal. He got offended. 35-50 percent of your face is covered by a racon I want to know what Imma get. Men use beards to cover the ugly. Remember my words ladies when one day he gets zealous, and cut it off and you are staring at Steve Buscemi instead of Trevante Rhodes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 02:16 PM |
| 5 | Please stop posting screenshot of you going back and forth with a LVM on OLD, text message, or on social mediaCTFUUUUUUUUUUU I never saw the flair given. I am dying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 02:09 PM |
| 153 | Not the pickmeshas getting excited over the bare minimumThis has to be a joke because I am dying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 01:46 PM |
| 61 | Three profiles in a row on Tinder 🤮 I’m deleting my OLD profiles, anyone with me?I noticed a lot of white guys are going for the poor lumberjack look lately. It doesn't suit them well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 12:36 PM |
| 9 | Please stop posting screenshot of you going back and forth with a LVM on OLD, text message, or on social mediaMeme and screenshot do not have to center around entertaining and going back and forth with LVM. I think a two panel screenshot of a woman going back and forth with a man on why she will not have sex with him is totally a waste of time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 12:57 AM |
| 3 | Please stop posting screenshot of you going back and forth with a LVM on OLD, text message, or on social mediaMy thought excaltly not too long ago a guy on OLD said hey I see you are a lawyer help me with my murder charge. I said do you think this will be a properly reply to a future lawyer Block and reported. I waited until I saw him type and blocked him. Make sure he saw it, but don't give him a chance to reply. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 12:15 AM |
| 59 | "Men are shamed for being emotional in public"And women are shamed for being born women. Crumb need to stop. If a woman shows slight emotions she's on her period, she's too emotional, it's because she's a woman, she's PMS, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 11:40 AM |
| 6 | I can't control my anger with these dusty men anymore.Nor does "giving them a telling". You are wasting your time. Men such as this will just do this to someone else that will give in or accept it. A second of your life wasted on a LVM is too much time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 10:27 AM |
| 115 | DICK. SIZE. MATTERS. SAY IT with your CHEST!Men stay dragging me on this platform for saying dick size matters. It does! 6+ better be the size or you can't get in between these thighs. You better make it exclusive or keep your dusty a*s moving. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 08:03 AM |
| 23 | FDS will be increasing the amount of low quality memes/videos we remove at our discretionI wish it was | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 05:06 AM |
| 244 | FDS will be increasing the amount of low quality memes/videos we remove at our discretionThis sounds like a good idea I am so tired of seeing OLD chats where a girl is going back and forth with a crumb. Just block him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 04:41 AM |
| 73 | Is there a reason for women to get married - set me straightThe benefits of marriage can be great if you are marrying a HVM, but if you are marrying a LVM then there is no benefits A lifetime partnership that is legally recognized by the state, binding both people together financially and legally. A HVM brings just as much if not more than you to the table. So your value does not decrease, it can only increase by being with him. Good sex without the risk of STI/STD. A lifetime partner whom is going to spend the rest of his life loving, cherishing, and be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 04:29 AM |
| 51 | What posts do you enjoy seeing on FDS and what would you like to see more of?-I would like to see more things centered around the betterment of the woman not directly linked to a man. So women who are single or dating but are successful. Example young judges, doctors, lawyers, business owners, or being successful in anyway or form. AKA more HVW shown. -I would also like to see more content that shows HVM. Always seeing LVM can be overwhelming. -More success stories via the method used on FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 02:02 AM |
| 32 | What posts do you enjoy seeing on FDS and what would you like to see more of?Yes block him and move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 01:58 AM |
| 1 | LVM in disguiseI don't think you were wrong for seeing what was up. But I think it best to allow men to make the first move. it shows his interest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 12:36 AM |
| 0 | They wanna take all and give back nothingCTFUUUUU | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 12:15 AM |
| 11 | LVM in disguiseYou asked him out. (mehhh) Did you guys go out for dinner, or did he take you out? You already knew he was untrustworthy so much so you had to go through his phone. Why are you rethinking this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 12:12 AM |
| 8 | As a PhD track woman, I'm realizing more and more men are stupidIt didn't take me going to law school to figure that out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 11:27 PM |
| 2 | And this, my wonderful Queens, is why we don’t do house dates.Zoomdates don't exist, you are just video chating and pretending. Don't let these crumb get you. Him:Let's zoomdate Me: You mean videochat Him: No it's a date Me: We are in my house, I am eating my food, holding my phone, and not going anywhere this is not a date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 11:08 PM |
| 9 | Tinder: Investigation reveals the dark side of the dating app | Four Corners. Watching this has reaffirmed that you need to block immediately after the first red flag, be it asking for nudes or after 6 months of communication and he suggests you go to his home for sex.When I made a post on the dating subreddit telling women how to look up men's backgrounds they snapped. I don't get it if you have nothing to hide why do you care if women do it or not. I man can look me up and see I never had an open case, never had a conviction, record is clean | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 11:05 PM |
| 91 | Tinder: Investigation reveals the dark side of the dating app | Four Corners. Watching this has reaffirmed that you need to block immediately after the first red flag, be it asking for nudes or after 6 months of communication and he suggests you go to his home for sex.I watched the first 3 mins, but I stopped when they said these apps do not care to comment. I know first hand they don't. Back when I was 22 or maybe 23 (don't remember), I met a guy off of okcupid. Seemed nice enough, I was looking to move out my mother's place before starting law school. He offered me a tour of his home. Foolishly I went, he trapped me in his home for over 5+ hours. I saw the son go down and watched it rise. He told me he wouldn't allow me to leave unless I had sex with him. H… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 11:06 AM |
| 15 | Some scrote posted this on r/Bumble talking about how SHE'S deranged???? LMFAOSis block and move on. Even a second wasted on a LV is too much time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 09:02 AM |
| 29 | NGL some of yalls really don’t support womenI will be the first to say no I do not support all women and neither should you blindly. There are some women who will sell their children for d8ck, there are some women who will support a rapist to align with men, there are some women who will target people based on their skin tone. So I allow their actions to speak before I support anyone, women included. So you brought your happy. clappy, without the strappy behind in here to tell us you are leaving? Based on the notion that some women don't … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 08:19 AM |
| 86 | Tinder rape dates. Not the first app date. Ladies, please be carefulAnyone can be a rapist, even those whom jobs are to protect you. Never go over a man's house you don't know. Even if they do not rape you, they can rob you, beat you, or give you an STI. A hook up hold no benefit in my opinion for a woman. You put yourself in all the danger, and leave yourself with little power. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Why do they act like this is only a male issue? Especially since women are being pressured to make the first move nowadays. I guess being pressured to be confident is no longer a problem if women are the ones being pressured. Reddit really only cares about men.Women: Get help so you can care about yourself, your stability is much more important than a girlfriend Men: No me need girlfriend, not help for my issues | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 04:34 AM |
| 6 | Why do they act like this is only a male issue? Especially since women are being pressured to make the first move nowadays. I guess being pressured to be confident is no longer a problem if women are the ones being pressured. Reddit really only cares about men.Girl I just made an entire post telling men to get help for their emotional and mental instability, not a girlfriend. LOL hunnnnnnnyyyyyy men sat in those comment and said no I will not get help, I will get a girlfriend she will help me. Men rely on us for everything, and when you give them good advice they throw it into the sea like a coin. At nobody got time for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 04:19 AM |
| 5 | Do you find men when you reject them romantically will then try to see if they can get sex from you?Oh no don't feel sorry for me. Honestly, I learned my lesson through harsh ordeals with me. And while it left some damage, it left a stronger person | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 04:00 AM |
| 108 | FDS is NOT about manipulating men into getting into a relationship they don’t want toIncels literally are void of romantic interactions, believe all women are the same, and hate when women desire anything that isn't directly in pity of them. FDS splits men up into two categories LVM and HVM based off of their personal actions ideals and treatment of women or others. We do indeed make fun of men who are LV because many are horrible people, with horrible ideals. No this sub is not the reverse of incel. We all can have men, we all respect good men who do good things. And unlike inc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 02:48 PM |
| 48 | Do you find men when you reject them romantically will then try to see if they can get sex from you?Upon rejecting my ex when he asked for sex one night (we were still in a relationship) he threw me out at 3am. And when I mean threw I mean he picked my 4'11 little ass up and threw me out the door. If a man who claims to love me does this, I don't want to take the risk it with a man who doesn't | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 02:40 PM |
| 677 | FDS is NOT about manipulating men into getting into a relationship they don’t want toFDS is for the betterment of the woman with or without a man. And if she happens to be with a man we push for him to be the best male for her. We do not promote forcing, coercing, and or suggesting men do anything. Be yourself, but remember that self maybe LV. In fact we say you either do or you don't. And if you don't we bounce. That is what makes these men mad, we are teaching women to leave. Men are so d*mn use to us staying through whatever, whenever, however. But when there is a sub that ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 01:19 PM |
| 123 | Do you find men when you reject them romantically will then try to see if they can get sex from you?Nope, because I personally stop telling men I am rejecting them and just disappear aka ghost them. Men can be 3 things when you reject them 1. aggressive 2. violent 3. extremely vulgar. And I rather not take the risk. I have been told 1 too many time I hoped you get r*pe to be trying with these men. My safety, mental, emotional, and physical stability is the most important thing to me. I suggest every lady does the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 12:26 PM |
| 20 | What would you do if a NVM took you to a grocery store and gave you $50 on your first date? I’d take the money and go straight home.On the first date take him to a tree, give him a tool box, and see if he can build a house from that wood the tree has. Only the best will do ladies. Don't get play, don't get used. Make sure he can truly show he is a man. If he isn't interested he will not build the home. CTFUUU I died writing this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 04:48 AM |
| 14 | I felt my brain cells vanish after reading thisYep and Beyonce even his first he was sleeping with a teen foxy brown back in the day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 04:36 AM |
| 34 | She could have easily navigated ALL three "issues" without trying to stone her own gender to death. Not all women are allies just because they're female.Them and the homosexual men whom think because they aren't straight they can comment on women. No you are still a male sweetie you just take pen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 09:34 AM |
| 27 | No career no personality no respect for women no decent pics only sad dickEveryday I am on reddit men make me more and more sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Am I just super critical or is this the majorities experience using old? Like 95% left swipes lol I do this for like an hour everyday.What are the filters you use like what restrictions and whom | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 07:22 AM |
| 34 | I recently realized that, when assessing mental illness patterns in women, 9 times out of 10 the root cause is some shit a man did to them (molestation, rape, abuse, etc) or some shit a man failed to do FOR them (be a father, be a good husband, etc).CTFUUU I like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 05:31 AM |
| 9 | Boyfriend's "RULES"Y'all make me use this song so often h*ll naw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 04:44 AM |
| 8 | Dear men: You suck that is why you are singleYep sadly. https://www.thoughtco.com/property-rights-of-women-3529578 It would take until the 1970s before women were able to get credit cards. Before then, a woman still needed her husband's signature. The struggle for women to be financially independent of their husbands extended well into the 20th century. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 02:18 AM |
| 6 | Why should we care about men’s mental health when they don’t even care about ours?As a former ABA therapist I will say this, I have read some f-ed up stuff in regards to child trauma (which leads to mental illness), and this is regardless of gender. But the whole notion nobody cares about male mental health is indeed bullshit, most men will not seek help and that is a fact. They suffer greatly because of that. And I cannot feel bad for someone who bathes in their own pity. Women's feeling are often made to feel invalid because they are women and simply too emotional. There is… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 11:56 PM |
| 18 | Dear men: You suck that is why you are singleI don't demean or invalidate anyone's trauma. But like my aunt once told me, get your ish together. You are hurt and so are a lot of other people. So what are you going to do about that hurt that directly impacts you? And that's what I told him, fix yourself. Trauma takes a moment to happen but years to fix, you have to be willing to do the work. I then told him you still wrong, and that trauma doesn't give you a pass on being wrong. I hate when men do that. Me: You are wrong. Men: Yeah but I wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 08:07 PM |
| 33 | [Morgan Freeman voice]: But it was not, because men literally swipe right on everyoneMy sweet sweet HVW please say no to tinder. This has been an announcement. AGAIN SAY NO TO TINDER | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 07:38 PM |
| 8 | Scrotes make fun of an abuse victim and spout all kinds of vile bullshit about women. Never talk about your dating/sexual history with men.Men will have the penis of a carrot, the communication skills of a baby doll, the money of a 10 year old, and still be crying about someone calling them ugly when they were 11 (calling it trauma). But when a woman has been abused it's her fault, and it makes her flawed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 07:34 PM |
| 25 | Dear men: You suck that is why you are singleThe boy (person who posted) was 19, barely gotten through life, and has extremely limited experience. But he decided to smooth over his own insecurities by making up some B.S about all women. As soon as I hit him with reality his insecurities poured out. And so the real issue shows. You are single because you are insecure, and so you project your insecurities on women (as do most men). I am insecure so they must be, it all makes sense. They want to fix me, and since I am not broken they are mad.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 05:43 PM |
| 67 | Dear men: You suck that is why you are singleYes sis. I was dating this guy, and after a month of dating he said well I am unsure how I feel. BLOCKT I don't play that I am not sure, I need to feel you out, but want to emotionally rely on you ish. You know this crumb text my work phone (I have two phones one for work teacher and legal intern and one for personal). He texted me over 10 times. He kept saying we could work it out. I never answered or replied. No, you want me to emotionally carry your ashy knee a*s and I ain't going to do it. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 05:14 PM |
| 38 | Dear men: You suck that is why you are singleI actually put that in my comment to the person on the original post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 04:52 PM |
| 231 | Happy Friday. Remember, know your worth.Him: whats your addres? I'm spending the night. Her: 4351 Pasadena ave Him: that's the animal shelter Me: Finish him (mortal kombat voice) Her: Yeah they take in strays. Not me goodnight Me: Fatality (mortal kombat voice) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 01:37 PM |
| 16 | Possible red flag: if he justifies his past shitty actions with other women instead of taking accountability.We all make mistake and sometimes we end up hurting people to protect ourselves. But to seek out someone, just to hurt them is sick. And no you shouldn't be lenient on that (good job op). I never date men who have a past of hurting women purposefully even if they claim they changed. But for your friend to feel proud in that moment shows she is a pick me. No real woman rejoices in another woman's pain for her own gain. It is not worth having someone if it caused someone else (unwarranted) pain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 04:15 AM |
| 38 | Woman who doesn't realize that she's in a potentially emotionally abusive situation receives the advice that it's not okay to ghost. Why do we always have to be courteous to men, even when they blatantly violate clearly set boundaries? GHOST HIM.I tell young women often while harsh it is best to ghost and block. Men become aggressive, and violent when rejected. It is not worth hearing I hope you get r*pe simply do you can explain why you rejected them. Stuff like that sits with you, and triggers you if you are a victim. I ghost and block all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 04:02 AM |
| 65 | What would happen if we stopped sleeping with LVM 🤔Never going to happen sadly pick mes won't allow such a thing, and some of them cannot be saved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Everyone was retweeting this with 'she's so beautiful I hope she dumps him'. I can smell a LVM a mile a way.people explained it above. properly. so I got it. But at first I didn't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 12:44 PM |
| 6 | Everyone was retweeting this with 'she's so beautiful I hope she dumps him'. I can smell a LVM a mile a way.MMM okay | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 11:37 AM |
| -8 | Everyone was retweeting this with 'she's so beautiful I hope she dumps him'. I can smell a LVM a mile a way.I don't get why people are coming at them, anyone care to explain | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 11:29 AM |
| 40 | The audacity of men on IGWe really need to start without restriction exposing these men pictures and all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 11:13 AM |
| 35 | Anyone else not finding a home first date with Mac and cheese fish crackers that cute or HV?Will be hard because we don't measure in my community we allow the spirits to lead us: elbow macaroni, eggs, butter, milk, flour, seasoning salt, Extra sharp cheddar cheese, Cheddar cheese (normal), Mozzarella cheese, Gruyere cheese, Mussels, lobster, shrimp, Italian bread crumbs, oldbay season, Seafood stock, Ghee step1: Boil noodles do not cook all the way through. Step 2: For mussels cook in seafood stock (I make my own). Not fully they will cook in the oven, you should cook them enough so th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 04:45 AM |
| 6 | Standards? Whats that?I stay sending this to scrotes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 03:32 AM |
| 25 | Anyone else not finding a home first date with Mac and cheese fish crackers that cute or HV?There are I made (for a brunch party I had with friends) seafood mac and cheese. I used lobster mussels and shrimp. Very good. But this ain't it you right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 02:01 AM |
| -7 | How on earth do you let it get this farI assumed it was someone else's asking for advice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 01:56 AM |
| 18 | How on earth do you let it get this farI stopped reading after no ring. Good day. Then I went back and so 7 months. You know what to do. You don't need us for the answers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 01:55 AM |
| 12 | And on today’s episode of men are oppressed...CTFUUU girl I laughed so hard I woke my cat | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 01:53 AM |
| 120 | Anyone else not finding a home first date with Mac and cheese fish crackers that cute or HV?I am a black woman and most of my family is from the south. Where soulfood is a staple, and mac and cheese is the heart of any good southern cooking. My southern black woman senses are going off this just ain't right. I am sorry, this is a f- no | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 01:38 AM |
| 32 | And on today’s episode of men are oppressed...Off topic: What are those dents in his skin? They are like holes, are they a skin condition? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 10:04 PM |
| 8 | FDS Strategy today vs courting beforeThis. As I states previously women were forced to marry due to limitations. Choices were limited because most women were born, raised, and died in the same city they lived in all their lives. They couldn't leave. We should be proud of where we are. Your husband backhanded you they asked what you do. Your husband gave you an STD you still had to stay. Your husband barely communicated you never could leave. On top of that you think men cannot have pleasure you now in bed. Picture back then when th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 09:55 PM |
| 12 | Standards? Whats that?H*ll Naw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 09:48 PM |
| 74 | More than that for most of us, but still rings true!Wyd, hi, HMU, wanna chill ashy knees, dry lips, dirty underwear, making 10 dollars an hour men. They are vast in number and bad in bed, its going to be a no for me dawg. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 07:41 PM |
| 1 | What would you tell black women who are experiencing racial bias when it comes to dating?White men are trash, I am shocked you haven't experience that. Hell it is where racial bias started. While black men have been brainwashed to desire women outside their color, mostly their hate for us is build on the backs of hating themselves. So ashy men like that can kick rocks. BTW Hispanic isn't a race most likely they are white men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 06:55 PM |
| 1 | What would you tell black women who are experiencing racial bias when it comes to dating?Hesitant in which way? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 11:46 AM |
| 48 | The comment section is full of people hating on “Princess week” and how he’s just super spoiling her etc. I can’t believe how some people just can’t deal with a man being nice to his wife...LOL A week? I demand treatment like this all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 11:43 AM |
| 157 | Twitter been killing me with these memes 💀I am tired of the ashy/dry mouth/ pickle breath men (mostly black men on the black side of twiiter) trying to push the hold a brotha down narrative. No Tyrone I a black woman will not hold your ashy knee a*s down | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 11:40 AM |
| 169 | Twitter been killing me with these memes 💀Black twitter and they b.s again I cannot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 11:14 AM |
| 51 | Isn't it sad that in this day and age I'm pleasantly surprised to meet a man who actually picks up the phone and CALLS to make plans?I prefer phone conversations over texting. I believe text messages take minimal effort and doesn't truly display care on the male part. However, I do believe the best form of communication is in person face to face. With that being said (and off topic as it was) I do wish more people would create plans via calling or video-chating. Feels more personal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 11:14 AM |
| 45 | And this, my wonderful Queens, is why we don’t do house dates.Yes the do. I remember I was talking to a guy and he said well everything is closed so we mind as well go to your house. (Blocked). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 08:11 AM |
| 24 | A guy I’m talking opened up that he was sexually abused as a child by his uncleMost men have been sexually abused by other men, but never want to admit. In my opinion to reveal this so early on he is trying to pull you in. My therapist once told me trauma should only be expose to people you know you can trust. Not before but right when trust has been gained. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 01:37 AM |
| 100 | I hope this hasn’t already been posted😂Men at town hall idiot men meeting: We all shall be the providers, women will be limited because we know if they get out they won't want 75 percent of us. All men: yes Some men: I cannot hold a conversation, I am ugly, and I suck in bed. But this provider thing will help me Women today: Okay provide Men: pikachu shocked face | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 01:34 AM |
| 11 | Explaining your standards to men?They be on reddit dragging fat women, but eating her booty and buying her rings later. They can miss me with the b.s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 01:23 AM |
| 14 | Explaining your standards to men?I just tried to post about standards on here but for some reason FDS mods hid my post. Anyway you can have a requirement for anything. This does not make you shallow. You might be spending the rest of your life with this person. Do you want to be like toni from girlfriends when she got married? Always focusing on the one characteristic in her husband she never wanted in the first place. All at the end she found out she didn't want to be with him anyway. Don't waste your time on settling because … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 12:58 AM |
| 159 | This the FDS energy we love. No sending paragraphs or explaining. Just pure boredom: “I’m just less interested.”Block em and move on. Too much replying. He will know I'm not interested when the message isn't popping up as delivered | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 12:41 AM |
| 200 | I will NEVER get over the fact that Mariah Carey got a $70mil payout from ex-fiancé James Packer for “wasting her time” and did not have SEX with him even ONCE! And he apologized to *HER* for it! 😭😭😭😭🙌🙌🙌I never forget when they asked Mariah about JLO (old song stealing lala vocal a*s) and Mariah said "I don't know her." Mariah been the GOAT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 12:29 AM |
| 19 | When LVM and I took a personality test together...LOL So I'll ask! How did you guys date after he already displayed he couldn't understand words such as "couturier"? What made you say yep this guy sounds right. I have personally have never dated a man whom believes he is smarter than everyone else. Erykah Badu once said "The man that knows something knows that he knows nothing at all." Knowledge is too vast for any human to consume it all. Idiots show their colors when they think they could beat stephen hawking in a test about the cosmos. There… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 12:27 AM |
| 18 | I've said it before, I'll say it again. The. Audacity.*Report* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 10:38 PM |
| 25 | A Must-Watch Shallon Video!Isn't this the same woman who was demeaning other women and making up stuff about mental health, she was also caught looking for young (illegal) pen? It's going to be a nah for me dawg yeet her back to the streets. Edit: Pen=Penis LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 10:38 PM |
| 48 | This just happened to me...feeling stupid but now on high alert SMHWhen I was engaged I had my ex fiancé's password and everything, as he had mine. Heck I even was logged into his bank account so I can take money when needed, knew his SSN, and paypal. If a man has nothing to hide there won't "I got ish to hide" actions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 10:34 PM |
| 38 | Do you ever think back on a past relationship in disbelief at the things you went through?Yeah all the time. My ex would verbally, sexually, and physically abuse me. The first time he threw me across the room because I asked why he didn't buy me food as he ate a full plate in front of my face was one of the worse experiences I had in my life. I only told one person (our mutual friend), and she took his side. I now have a gun, a taser (they are legal in my state), and I am a former boxer (trained during our relationship until I graduated). I refuse to allow a man to do that to me agai… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 03:04 AM |
| 13 | No a laundromat is NOT A DATE !!LOL Josh was like "I would rather be with someone like OP" I replied boy this is a blessing, to know you would never seek me. Men believe that pulling saying on reddit I would not date you hurts my feelings. When 9/10 it's a damn lie, if they saw me on OLD they be the first to superlike. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 01:05 AM |
| 93 | RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN 🏃🏼♀️She know what to do: Yeet that man to the streets | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 10:06 AM |
| 20 | Standing up for myself in 3 years against my woman hating ex. He called me a cunt, an asshole and more. All because I put him on blast for paying sex workers while bashing them on social media. Thank you FDS!!!! I finally unraveled the maskSo you are going to risk your freedom for this man? Nah sis. Nah. You block him, you change your number so he won't find another way to contact you, and you get a security system so when he shows up to your house you have proof for that restraining order. LEVEL UP sis. You are literally not doing that. Your replies aren't even properly clapping back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 07:11 AM |
| 16 | This is why you don't marry after 10 years togetherShe might have but she sure didn't want to here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JEUbNhjkLTw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 06:36 AM |
| 76 | Man freaks out over girlfriend’s period products, then apologizes and begs her not to leave him. She needs to throw the whole man awayReddit will always show us you think you have had LVM, well I got news for you. CTFU | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 04:58 AM |
| 332 | Man freaks out over girlfriend’s period products, then apologizes and begs her not to leave him. She needs to throw the whole man awayI remember I stay a night over my ex fiance's home, and I (without noticed) got my period. Not only did he buy me pads, he took my bloody clothes and washed them from me. I don't get men on reddit. Each day they make me more and more sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 04:38 AM |
| 12 | Acknowledging you have no HV friends in your life and deciding to go forth alone...? Anyone experience this?I used to work for a judge. Beautiful, smart, kind, and all you think a HVW would be. She told me you will be alone a lot, people will talk about you even more. But being alone isn't the same as being lonely, enjoy the time you have. Value it, it is priceless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 04:31 AM |
| 65 | This is why you don't marry after 10 years togetherThis was on dr phil, you know she was trying to get back with him. SMH Her friend and mother were trying so hard. I feel for them. But not her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 04:28 AM |
| 20 | Post complaining about women wanting 6 figures, 6” d, 6 pack. I initially thought it was an FDSer setting him straight but, it’s a man 😂My mother a married woman disagrees with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 02:16 AM |
| 52 | No a laundromat is NOT A DATE !!She has already admitted in the comment to sleeping with random men. She has no standard she just wants a piece of man. This man literally was trying to make an excuse not to meet up. And she desperately begged to go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 12:09 AM |
| 155 | No a laundromat is NOT A DATE !!I told this OP "So he tried to make an excuse to get out the date, and you offered to go with him. Okay, sounds really desperate of you but go on. You say this is the best date of your life. Sis were the rest of your dates in a back alley? WTF. He literally did nothing but talk to you. Have you never had an interaction with a man before? The bar is so low, but good god this is the lowest of the low." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 12:04 AM |
| 200 | No a laundromat is NOT A DATE !!You should see the LVM in the comments rejoicing - yay no more forking up $70 meals to impress the ladies. i stopped doing dinner dates as first dates a long time ago - Fucking this!!! Guys, don’t worry about spending money on dates. It’s seriously not important, and anyone who suggests otherwise is likely a materialistic gold digger... lol - Same never took chicks to eat expensive and boring. Always go for drinks But a fellow FDS subber has to be there she is ripping OP a new one: HVW: If this … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 11:45 PM |
| 14 | A man going 50/50 is him expressing he is insecureYeah my ex is from ghana, and he didn't understand it. In fact when I mentioned it he became offended. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 06:47 PM |
| 49 | A man going 50/50 is him expressing he is insecureEvery so often there is a pick-me on the front page of reddit saying I love going 50/50. And my reply is usually "Couldn't be me, but you do you." Men always run to my comment like a bat signal was send to their iPhone 4s or their 200 dollar pre-used Asus computer, and ask me "Why you no pay half?". I reply I believe in courting, and I am traditional when it comes to dating. "Dis not fair to the man." How so, I always reply when they will be getting all of this. "Just cuz you pretty don't mean y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 06:19 PM |
| 72 | Don't let it go to your headYep, she is the talking about you when you leave and saying he can do better than you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 06:18 AM |
| 43 | Field Report - 8th date suggestion from a man interested in pursuing me. See comment for context.Right sounds like a ball, let me hit up my friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 05:23 AM |
| 4 | Not sure if this is appropriate for the sub, but I am scared and in need of urgent advice.Yes this is harassment. Requesting the person to stop communication and they continue is harassment. Excuse me if I miss that I had a good bottle of wine. Anyway, report this to the police record the dc number and in some cases if asked a judge will grant a restraining order on the spot. He does seem unhinged, so I would follow all the things I (me) stated previously. And also report him. Also record all these attempts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 04:46 AM |
| 10 | Not sure if this is appropriate for the sub, but I am scared and in need of urgent advice.2L student here. No it is not. Requesting an item would not constitute harassment. This request is not a threatening to your person, or alarming to your person. My suggestion as a woman no a JD student: Change your number it is 10-30 dollars, get security on your home if you live alone, change your locks, and block all his friends on social media. Text the friend once "I do not have the item, any farther request for the item will be reported to the police. Please do not contact me anymore." Scre… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 03:53 AM |
| 42 | Why don’t guys understand that women just prefer tall dudes! It’s biology!Because it hurts their ego as does liking penises 6"+hurt their ego. I don't want your carrot jacob back to the hole with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 03:45 AM |
| 3 | This is why I’ll never put a dick in my mouth. Men have absolutely no respect for us.Sis I just had a while disagreement with a asian man on here (reddit) about this. While my asian ex's don't care, not have they ever belittled their asian female counterpart. After the hate I see for asian women via asian men on this site it makes me rethink talking to them. Are you dating me for me, or is it because you are mad an asian woman doesn't want you. If they had ever told me that to my face I would yeet they asses to the streets. And no sis say it black men be thirsty as hell. It is w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 02:55 AM |
| 7 | Anyone else deleting and redownloading dating apps?step back and get therapy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 02:30 AM |
| 16 | Anyone else deleting and redownloading dating apps?I miss it too. It is not pathetic human need affection. When people confined for months alone they literally go crazy from the loneness. But remember a temporary person is not worth damage that takes a lifetime to fix. I miss sex, I miss love, I miss being held, someone telling me I am beautiful. I feel no shame for this. But my feelings will never overturn my logic. Too much of a risk with these men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 02:21 AM |
| 7 | This is why I’ll never put a dick in my mouth. Men have absolutely no respect for us.Wow you are literally the first white women who has told me this. Many I have encounter said they don't care as long as they don't disrespect us. Thank you for standing with us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 02:17 AM |
| 27 | Anyone else deleting and redownloading dating apps?I met some great men on dating apps I will be the first to say. So for a while after a break up I always came back. But lately it has been really bad. LVM are so heavily populated on OLD, I cannot find and HVM. And frankly speaking I am tired of looking. At this point i have too much on my plate mentally, emotionally, and physically to keep going back and forth with these men. My husband will be there when I come back if he is, if not he is somewhere else. I miss no blessings meant for me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 01:50 AM |
| 24 | This is why I’ll never put a dick in my mouth. Men have absolutely no respect for us.Yes in our community it is very true. I tend to not talk about it here because I know that many women outside our race will not understand. Plus they wouldn't understand that in many cases their (BM Black men) love and praise of white women (in many cases not all) are build on the backs of hating black women. They detest us, which is sad because BW are usually the only parents in black homes. I am afro-latina and often considered an "exotic." I have the features of a black woman but have looser … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 12:33 AM |
| 3 | Need some HVW songs for my playlistMary J- Just fine is my sugar honey ice tea https://i.pinimg.com/originals/40/ab/61/40ab6187eb3789f5ef5671f6d7ec9266.gif | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 12:22 AM |
| 60 | This is why I’ll never put a dick in my mouth. Men have absolutely no respect for us.Black twitter (and yes there is a subsection of twitter like this) can be the most funniest and degrading place for a woman (def as a black one). Black men have no filter when it comes to their low vibrational thoughts involving women in general. And this is a place where all of them to come together to laugh about it. The things I have seen like rip her wig off during sex, choke her for being with someone else, allow her to be shot is just the tip of the iceberg. I can show y'all some stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 10:53 PM |
| 11 | Don’t post screenshots of texts to men UNLESS...P.S ladies. If you wanna say something smart say it, wait until u see the bubbles writing back (because you know he read it), then block him. Never wait for a reply. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 10:47 PM |
| 42 | Look, we’re on Wikipedia! 😂It's probably a LVM. A HVM doesn't care how a woman dates, as long as it is for the betterment of the woman. My step dad told me this good men know most men ain't sh\t. When a woman says it she isn't referring to all men, but she is referring to most because most fit in that ain't sh*t.* Edit: Their resource for our sub is from a pickme here is the article writer name is erin | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 06:43 AM |
| 122 | Every one needs to unsub from r/feminism right now. Read below.I am not apart of that sub anyway. My views don't align with them on a lot of topics so I never felt the need. But this isn't stocking to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 06:37 AM |
| 16 | Just... WHY IS THIS PIC ON YOUR TINDER PROFILE?!?!Y'all know I got story for days. Here is another related to this post. So a guy on tinder has a picture of himself nude, you cannot see his face only his boxer pulled down. There are marks in the boxers and stains on the floor. I thought to myself okay sh**y butt how do you expect a women to lower her standards this far. Crumps dropping out your butt like biting into toast and you are on tinder. Men are low expect the worse and then when you think of it expect worse than that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 05:22 AM |
| 29 | I am screaming internally right now. Why do women do this to themselves? 😒I saw this earlier and I said what in the desperate, pick me, low standard woman is this ish right here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:53 AM |
| 22 | Moved to the US.. can't believe how men treat women hereThis is sad, we know this. But to hear someone else from another country write it out so well, and be in utter shock due to it. It opens my eyes. Our men aren't bad they are some of the worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:51 AM |
| 106 | Men who complain about girls using filtersMale's have on a filter most of the time, they are called beards. Coming in looking like Idris but when they shave it off they look like Steve Buscemi. I never forget my ex fiance (right before he went to the military) came to get his ish. He has no beard, he walked up I said who they hell are you. He said it's me. Was he fine still? Yes. But did he look like himself? H-ll nah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:26 AM |
| 82 | Can’t believe I thought OLD would be any different this time around.Sis after a man told me to help him get off on a murder charge I knew I needed to stop OLD. As I told someone here before. Co-vid19 has created a bat signal for all LV, POS, desperate, sweaty ball sack men. And they are answering the call. So here they come coffee date, sex deprived, no money, two baby moms with 4 kid, working at your local Bojangles asking you to lower yourself and part your legs for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:22 AM |
| 5 | Grown Men with Room MatesI don't live in NYC I live in an even worse place. CTFU pray for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:15 AM |
| 6 | Grown Men with Room MatesYou are 39 I would hope it is a deal breaker, at your age a man should have everything together. It is the same for me as well even though I am 27, most men I date are older. And indeed it isn't. However the average amount for an NYC APT outside of the bronx is much more than 1500: https://www.nakedapartments.com/blog/average-rental-prices-nyc/ https://www.renthop.com/average-rent-in/new-york-city-ny As for what you said I agree. In my city only one place is not crime ridden. This why I plan on … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:07 AM |
| 6 | Grown Men with Room MatesMy point exactly. In my city property taxes alone are 800+ a month. My friend just brought a home smaller 3 bedrooms 1.5 bath single family 350,000. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 12:22 AM |
| 31 | Grown Men with Room MatesI think that it's great I moved out at 22 as well. However men aside. And just discussing housing etc..... you are talking about 10 dollars and buying a house nearly 15 year ago. That is almost impossible in NYC now. You barely afford a studio with that now. In my city a 800 dollar APT will get you running from your house to your car daily. Afraid someone will jump though you window nightly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 12:08 AM |
| 14 | Grown Men with Room MatesA person over 30 no. A person in their 20's I could understand. In my city specifically if you 1. want to live somewhere were you won't get bust in the face or robbed 2. Want to see a dead body laying on the corner 3. Don't want to be greeted daily by the local drug dealer You probably will need a roommate unless you make 70,000+. Rent for a studio in those area start at 1500 not including utilities. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Let’s Discuss PERSONAL Requirements, Red Flags and Dealbreakers! 😍🤡I would take out a couple of things. But the list is okay. Not bad just missing stuff | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 10:21 PM |
| 5 | Let’s Discuss PERSONAL Requirements, Red Flags and Dealbreakers! 😍🤡Oh no I get it I just didn't see the conservatard part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 10:17 PM |
| 8 | Let’s Discuss PERSONAL Requirements, Red Flags and Dealbreakers! 😍🤡I think you are missing a lot. Where is must be faithful (he may have never cheated but that doesn't mean he will be faithful to you), family orientated, emotionally sexually and mentally aware, good communication skills, you say no leftist but are you okay with someone extremely on the right (which tend not be for women's rights), where is healthy, respectful? Do you not want marriage because you haven't stated that here either? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 10:09 PM |
| 1 | LmfaoOP which one are you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 09:47 PM |
| 3 | I’m honestly speechlessIt was removed like you said | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 03:43 AM |
| 1 | LVM encouraging LVMNot to my knowledge no. But I would check with apple directly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 03:38 AM |
| 9 | I’m honestly speechlessReddit doesn't allow what I truly want to say. So I will just hiss in discontent. (I am very prochoice) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 03:14 AM |
| 2 | What would you tell black women who are experiencing racial bias when it comes to dating?https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/j291os/i_respect_peoples_dating_preferences_but_it_does/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 02:14 AM |
| 2 | LVM encouraging LVMYou can go to apple if you have proof of purchase they can unlock the phone. Restoring might not be possible if you did not backup via cloud (ever), or computer (ever). Even if a back up is old resorting can still be done, but the data will only be from that period and not after. It was not on iCloud or backed up.<---If this is true no it cannot be restored. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 12:45 AM |
| 12 | Love when men get praised for the bare minimum...on a post about a husband making jokes that got his wife upset and irritated while she is in labor.Every man should be forces on the machine when their wife is giving birth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 12:36 AM |
| 48 | “I just don’t like texting” 🙄F- that if vybz kartel can make music, tweet, send photos, and updates from prison men have no excuse. He is in prison for life but makes a new song every two days | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 11:56 PM |
| 47 | Love when men get praised for the bare minimum...on a post about a husband making jokes that got his wife upset and irritated while she is in labor.I vote we create a device where men can feel the exact pain of labor, and see how they react. Men cannot even handle a common cold. You wife is pushing out a whole human and you complain because she is upset? And then women defend him I cannot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 10:18 PM |
| 13 | I saw this today and wanted to share. It’s NEVER too late to level up ❤️YAASSS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 10:15 PM |
| 69 | This poor woman 😭This is my new favorite saying, ask yourself if you should yeet or keep. Ask yourself he for the street? If so yeet him back to where he belongs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 10:10 PM |
| 2 | What would you tell black women who are experiencing racial bias when it comes to dating?Yeah I personally don't care about racist preference I have them, I don't date white people. I just often see people like that young lady | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 09:32 PM |
| 1 | What would you tell black women who are experiencing racial bias when it comes to dating?No I meant we great. LOL But yes we are diverse too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 09:30 PM |
| 6 | What would you tell black women who are experiencing racial bias when it comes to dating?Very odd because the diversity of black american women is great and vast. But LVM don't need to make sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 04:35 PM |
| 5 | What would you tell black women who are experiencing racial bias when it comes to dating?What is the standard american look? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 04:32 PM |
| 9 | What would you tell black women who are experiencing racial bias when it comes to dating?Agreed. I am happy when men show their colors right away. It is like a gift from them to me. And I return the favor with a block and a report if it applies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 04:24 PM |
| 15 | What would you tell black women who are experiencing racial bias when it comes to dating?Good advice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 04:15 PM |
| 5 | What would you tell black women who are experiencing racial bias when it comes to dating?Well said. I think would be good advice for her and women struggling like her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 04:13 PM |
| 36 | we literally can’t even sleep in peace...Did he just promote men to rape women? *in my skinner voice* pathetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 03:58 PM |
| 26 | Not even forever gf but forever tenant 10 years and she gets this, can someone explain to her she needs to leave ?!Paying rent sis, and taking 9/10 basic ass dick. Couldn't be me. Not I. Nope nah. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 03:05 PM |
| 8 | What would you tell black women who are experiencing racial bias when it comes to dating?I am lighter skin, and the light bright, butterscotch, yellow bone m-fers make me sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 02:19 PM |
| 6 | What would you tell black women who are experiencing racial bias when it comes to dating?I am an afro latina and I don't care either way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 02:17 PM |
| 78 | LVM encouraging LVMFrom my 7 months experience working there I learned men often keep nudes. Hell I have male friends who tell me they still have their ex's nudes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 02:16 PM |
| 14 | What would you tell black women who are experiencing racial bias when it comes to dating?Yeah I want solutions too, to be honest. But I will never mind a black women voice telling her own story. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 01:19 PM |
| 12 | What would you tell black women who are experiencing racial bias when it comes to dating?I don't think the article is suppose to be solution based. Again I think it is suppose to simply display an experience. I don't mind that. You see one part of uplifting black women is also allowing them to vent, speak their truth, and share their experience. Do not believe that critical thing isn't just as important as solutions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 01:13 PM |
| 11 | What would you tell black women who are experiencing racial bias when it comes to dating?Beautifully said | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 01:02 PM |
| 33 | What would you tell black women who are experiencing racial bias when it comes to dating?I would agree, but I think the female who is speaking on her experience is trying to bring light to it. The screenshot she has of those men is eye opening for some | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 01:00 PM |
| 191 | LVM encouraging LVMI use to work for a famous phone carrier in the USA (the biggest actual). I was an apple rep, which means I was directly trained by apple on their products. When it comes to troubleshooting, restoring data, etc I was that gal. Well guess what I always found... nudes of women, sextapes of women, cheating, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 12:48 PM |
| 73 | Pick-me Sh*tshowHer: I have very little knowledge on this topic. Also her: I will explain this topic I know very little about Okay jane | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 12:16 PM |
| 8 | How to date men less smart than youMy thoughts exactly. And this is the case 9/10, often those those men lack experience in those critical fields as well. So you get book smart, but sexually emotionally mentally and physically they lack. You are right those people good in all those fields are rare indeed. And OP will soon find that out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 12:57 AM |
| 10 | How to date men less smart than youLesson you have to learn education doesn't always equal intelligence, nor increased intelligence. The one thing I learned working in the court system in my city. As I was surrounded by lawyers, judges, and people of higher education it was plain and clear to me idiots can have PhDs, JDs, Masters, and MDs. Do not be foolish enough to believe such a notion. I have met law clerks smarter than judges, smarter nurses than doctors. So my suggestion is expand your options. Not everyone pursues a PhD be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 12:53 AM |
| 30 | Ugh. 30, the new 15.*report and unmatch* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 12:40 AM |
| 31 | Reality checkAs I told someone earlier, men were never taught to respect women until most recently. It was bred and passed down from male to male. Women were not seen as individuals for a long time but property that men owned once they married them. Heck it is even worse for some women of different races, who were caged and displayed for their (men's) pleasure. Now we are demanding respect, and some men cannot fathom such an idea. Respecting someone who has been deemed less than? Some men will never respect … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 10:48 PM |
| 64 | Reality checkI tell guys on reddit all the time you breathing, having a penis, and lacking communication skills doesn't obligate you to a woman. The issue with males today is this: Previously women had to rely on men for basic needs. The limitation set forth by men place upon women were great. Career, income, sex, decision making, etc were limited for us. Now we need men for nothing (but baby batter and that's if we want kids). Procreation can be done without ever seeing or touching a man. And so now men hav… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 10:39 PM |
| 67 | Reality checkThey do. Trust me the dislike comes from men who creep into this subreddit and hate... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 10:34 PM |
| 16 | Young queens that are new to the dating scene. Learn the rules of the game before you get taken advantage of!I would agree with this, even though I didn't follow it funny enough. My best friend use to have romantic interest in me years ago. 7 years later we are best friends. He is married and happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 08:39 PM |
| 4 | "Brand New Me" - Alicia KeysI remember Mashonda (ex wife) being on L&HH (I detest that show), and her finding out he was cheating with AC. It was also clear because 2010 he ended his marriage with Mashonda and married AC. She said she later forgave them both to protect their blended family. Either way I feel like her music just misses the soul, and r&b at this point. Her last few albums didn't do well either. Among the community that is her target demographic (black women) her personal life lowered the value of her music. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 01:23 AM |
| 13 | "Brand New Me" - Alicia KeysI cannot support AK after she went from mistress to wife. Also her new music just doesn't hit the soul like her old music could. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Made a post for women regarding safety tips while on OLD and men get into the comments to discredit it, oh and the token pickmes come with their capes.CTFU. If only. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 12:49 AM |
| 16 | I ain’t dropping nothing, esp my standards, unmatched byeb--ch what? *BLOCKED and REPORTED* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 03:56 PM |
| 2 | He told me he is frugal, was I wrong for ending it?He is. Very nice too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 11:50 PM |
| 3 | He told me he is frugal, was I wrong for ending it?Yeah, I am the type of woman where I don't even own jeans. I own four pairs of sneakers and two are made of silk. The rest are heels or boots with heels. I find those shorts horrible, and frankly speaking I can smell them from the photo. I am not rich by any means. But I am well off enough where I have a good savings, my rent is paid for the year, and I can buy red bottoms on the fly if I like. My step father was lovely enough to provide a definition where he said "frugality is when I buy what I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 11:43 PM |
| 5 | He told me he is frugal, was I wrong for ending it?Both my friends are married so sometimes I think they come at me for my standards because I am single and dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 11:17 PM |
| 4 | He told me he is frugal, was I wrong for ending it?I have a pair of so kate shoes and they are. But they are so classy. The arch is high as f- and the heel is super skinny. Before you go out you prey, and keep thinking heel toe heel toe. LOL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 11:14 PM |
| 40 | Ladies, if you’re lucky enough for this guy to ask you to get a drink, you’d better bring a stopwatch! You’ve got one hour!There is this beautiful roof top bar/restaurant in my city. Dress code, reservations only, and expensive as all hell. My ex took me there for our first date. I made the mistake of wearing the so kate red bottoms and fell down the stairs (y'all judge me). I want to go back but am afraid they will remember me. With that being said I wouldn't mind a bar date if it was that. But putting a time limited on it no ma'am. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 10:22 PM |
| 57 | More sexual expertise from our friends in sex pozzy media!It took me a bit to figure out that it is okay to have sexual preferences. I too was afraid at a point to say I wasn't sexually satisfied, or I like penis that are bigger. Until I realized one day while laying in bed why am I trying to protecting a male's ego, while living an unsatisfied life? Never again. Ladies put yourself first. Tell him he doesn't know what he is doing, and if his feeling is hurt too damn bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 10:12 PM |
| -7 | What would you do if there were no men around for 24hrs?same thing i do with them around men don't stop me from being me and living my best life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 08:55 AM |
| 19 | EVERY guy I talk to on tinder will not stop talking about himselfI stop getting on tinder when a guy asked me to help him get off on a murder charge (future lawyer 2L student). However, in the past I met all my HVM exs on tinder. Now I think tinder houses the worse of the worse. However, they cannot hold a candle to POF. Lord if you want crackheads, drug dealers, and LVM to the tenth power go there. Men are a waste of time on tinder at this point. Co-vid has created a tinder bat signal to all LVM. And here they come carrot dicks, selfish, self centered, ugly,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 12:05 AM |
| 36 | Think about it....I am a special education teacher, and the amount of shitty parents I encounter is mind-blowing. Some people (men and women) should never be allowed to reproduce. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 11:58 PM |
| 5 | Broke up w a man bc he couldnt satisfy my sexual needsYeah me neither. And so like batman during a commissioner gordon talk I left. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 10:40 PM |
| 15 | Let's talk about waiting.There is nothing more roller coaster drop inducing than you finally seeing is dick and it is the size of a baby carrot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 10:29 PM |
| 25 | Let's talk about waiting.I think the only person a woman is hurting by waiting until marriage is herself. I find waiting until marriage instead of exclusivity a foolish check to write. You may end up with a partner whom you are sexually incompatible with. Sleeping with the same man for the rest of your life is fine (in fact it's great), but having to coin toss weather that sex will be good or not is not fine (in fact it is horrible). Your idea is flawed because the idea of FDS is you don't date LVM or sleep with men unt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 10:18 PM |
| 21 | I accidentally deleted the rest of it when I was moving it around, but I saw this and it was aimed directly at women. I wanted to comment "title should just say people instead of women", for obvious reasons, but I know it's not worth it. What a loser.Former self harmer here due to abuse. Self harm free since 2017. During the peak of my self harm I was dating a HVM. He helped me get therapy, paid for it, and loved me regardless. After that I dated another. Trust me you will be fine. I know from personal experience. HVM will only care about you wellbeing. I would not suggest you date if you are still doing it or not fully healed. It will only ruin your outlook on your partner. Other than this most HVM will understand. My ex who got me therapy … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 03:27 PM |
| 36 | Broke up w a man bc he couldnt satisfy my sexual needsOne of the reason I left my fiancé. I wasn't dear going to spend my life with someone who couldn't make me climax into a turtle aka hatchback aka quasimodo position. I want to be singing on top of the bell tower when you are done with me. If not we it's going to be a no for me dawg. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 11:04 AM |
| 41 | Men hating astrology and tarot, ect.Right I detest it. People online like I am a cancer looking for a scorpio. I'm like is that your only requirement. You base your entire partner on when they came out the v? Do better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 10:59 AM |
| 3 | Politics changes need to come. Men need to be imposed a Homicide and Partner violence tax.The affordable care act was changed so much that it doesn't truly reflect the original bill. It was first discussed as universal free health care, but became what we know today as ACA. The discussion is nice, but you are asking a political system run by wealthy white males to tax only men for abuse. When they refuse to even implement better taxations on the rich. Again what you need is a change in both sectors of congress. Which will take major reform. But sis it is hard for that to happen. For … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 07:36 PM |
| 5 | Politics changes need to come. Men need to be imposed a Homicide and Partner violence tax.Okay sis: 1. Bills have to be passed through the house and senate, which is still white male dominated. 2. Men would never allow such a tax that excludes female abusers 3. Had this bill made it to the floor, passed through both sets of congress, and men let go of them specifically being targeted they surely wouldn't let the money go to those places. They would line their pockets first. 4. Many of the women in politics are just as problematic as the men. In order to flip the vote you need both th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 07:09 PM |
| 5 | “I heard that in Asia, if women can’t cook well they can’t get married. Is that true?” he said. And then this conversation. He is overseas born Asian. What a huge turn off.Ex boyfriends were Korean and the other was Chinese. Both born in their countries of origin. We never talked about it. But one thing my years of watching K-drama and living in korea has taught me asian men specifically east asian aren't getting married at the same rate. Most take what they can get, so I think it is b.s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 06:58 PM |
| 3 | My mother husband did the sweetest thing, get you a HVM like this....That sound so cute, I wish I knew the site he got it from I would link you. The box just said LOVE on it. Edit: I found the site The site | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:38 AM |
| 2 | My mother husband did the sweetest thing, get you a HVM like this....He didn't make it he brought it from a site. My step dad handmaking anything makes me laugh CTFUUUU. I would love to see him trying to bind pages. Edit: Here is the site | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:34 AM |
| 4 | My mother husband did the sweetest thing, get you a HVM like this....Yeah if only he hide the gifts better she found the apple watch. Nice but terrible at hiding gifts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:21 AM |
| 6 | Why do men get upset with their girlfriends/wives when they get pregnant? It takes two to make a baby!I always tell men and women if you aren't ready for all the possibilities and what ifs sex can bring then you shouldn't be having sex. I remember I had two friends in college, male and female. One day the girl came to me and said she lied to the guy she 1. wasn't on birth control 2. was poking holes in the condom 3. Trying to trap him. Sis I just couldn't. Needless to say I told him, and he refused to believe me. Guess who got pregnant? I think if two individuals have a talk about sex, the perso… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:17 AM |
| 68 | When i saw people calling this a sub for "nasty/evil/crazy/scary" women i immediately got hopeful and wanted to see whats up, not despite of the reputation but BECAUSE of it. Because every time women are doing something RIGHT it's rebranded by men as "nasty/evil/etc"This is a good subreddit. I will be the first to say I do not agree with everything said here. And that's okay as well, doesn't take away from this sub being great for it's intended audience. One thing being that one user who blamed rape victims for being raped because they were too plain and nice. I see that user here, and believe she should be banned after posting the B.S here. However, I do believe some women can learn a great deal from this sub. People don't like others (specifically) to hav… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:04 AM |
| 53 | I made you all a guide to the PERFECT walking date outfit - just to keep it nice and "casual" for him 😉Walk? Date? Me? Sneakers? Oh no ma'am | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 12:46 AM |
| 58 | Ladies, I found another gem on the dating sub. I don’t care how they explain their need for coffee dates. It’s a no for me, but all the other pickmes can have these men. 🥴Coffee dates are the cleanest, cheapest, and low-effect way for a man to "date" a woman. If she denies his sexual advances, doesn't give him the right vibe, doesn't look like he wants, or is boring he didn't spend more than 10 dollars on her. Men are taught to not take the risk now a days. The risk being them not getting what they want in terms of sex looks and conversation. And ladies remember not all well off men are HVM. Do not think because he took you to restaurant he is a HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Long distance relationSHITLOL is it rude I knew it was going to be some shit after I read younger man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 03:32 PM |
| 23 | Blocked a LVM and want to share what happened here. Please share your thoughts!What's a voice chat? And how is it done? Is it a phone call? I am only 27 but I don't know ish. CTFU | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 03:26 PM |
| 15 | Identifying a HVM.I would add a HVM will not guide you in the wrong direction simply because it will strokes our ego. If we are wrong he let's us know with love we are. If we need to address an issue then he lets us know. And if there is an easier way to do something, he let's us know. He will call us out when need be (privately), not because he wants to demean us. But because nobody is 100 percent mistake free, and sometimes even we cannot see it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 04:13 AM |
| 2 | My man is riding his bike 8 hours to see me tomorrow. 💁🏼♀️ If he wanted to, he would 😘❤I am not I wished you luck. I just found it strange that as soon as I mention bus ticket you say he brought one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 03:42 AM |
| 3 | Makes me 😤 to see a gorgeous queen put in effort for date night while her man does the absolute leastLooks like a typical white male outfit honestly. Went to a PWI/IVY and this was the outfit most wore to class. In the winter they change the flipflops to sneakers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 03:39 AM |
| 3 | My man is riding his bike 8 hours to see me tomorrow. 💁🏼♀️ If he wanted to, he would 😘❤MMMMM. Something ain't right in the buttermilk. Good luck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 03:35 AM |
| 3 | My man is riding his bike 8 hours to see me tomorrow. 💁🏼♀️ If he wanted to, he would 😘❤You live 8 hours away why not buy a bus or train ticket? Can he not afford this? I just think it sounds strange to ride 8 hours on a bike. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 03:30 AM |
| 9 | My man is riding his bike 8 hours to see me tomorrow. 💁🏼♀️ If he wanted to, he would 😘❤He doesn't have a car? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 03:19 AM |
| 34 | I'm tired of viewing men as the enemy.This subbreddit won't like this but I will say it. No one is an ally no one is an enemy based solely on their gender. Also no person should be trusted unless they have earned it (man or woman). All men aren't terrible people. My uncle was like a father to me when nobody else was, he loved me, praised me, and jumped of over barricade when I graduated college with a giant cut out of me lol. Losing both his parents at 18 didn't stop him for being a great man. He showed me how great a man can be, ho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 07:50 PM |
| 68 | I want you as my wife, not as my maidNo offense but women still need these life skills for themselves. Learn to cook, learn to iron, learn to wash your clothes. Not for a man but for yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 07:33 PM |
| 10 | Got banned from r/datingoverthirty due to inviting women to FDS via PMI like this subreddit, I truly do. But some women have their own ideals, and desires in a partner/dating, and life in general that does not align with FDS. While I think every woman can benefit from this subreddit every woman isn't looking for what we are. I don't think it warrants a ban, however I don't think these women are wrong for desiring to live their life by their own terms. As long as they are happy, living a fulfilling life, etc I see no issue. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 07:30 PM |
| 6 | Homelander from the boys seems like most guys in real life, minus actual superpowersI think Homelander is suppose to be a knock off superman not Captain America. And he gives off that vibe. His suit is blue and red, his powers are the exact same, he is the leader of his crew and the most known, he dated the wonder woman knock off aka queen maeve, and he comes off perfect. I would double down on that because the boys was a DC comic, and most of their character are knock off DC characters | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 10:53 PM |
| 6 | Homelander from the boys seems like most guys in real life, minus actual superpowersWho said he was redeemable. He just has characteristic men today do not have. And you have to learn the difference between an explanation and an excuse. Long term child abuse results Young children who are abused tend to act out in a negative fashion. They will physically harm themselves or others. If not addressed it can lead to negative outcomes. Plus we have to remember homelander is a character compromised of toxic masculinity, but also what almost every man wants to be. It is not far-fetch … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 10:22 PM |
| 14 | What about STI tests?If my bf (since I ain't spreading my legs for no one but a serious bf) wants to fuck without protection, he has to show me a recent test You should have him be tested either way. Protection doesn't protect you against all STIs. Also go together, and have access to the test results. It is easy to mock up a fake STI test. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 10:00 PM |
| 21 | What about STI tests?Women should always go to the doctors as a couple, and get an STI test. You go as a couple because you need to know he did it, when he did it, and if he actually did it. Never trust the trickery of a man, they may mock up a fake one. Also HIV will not show up right away in some cases. Never have raw sex right away in a new relationship. And you should get one a month after having sex, this is just in case. HIV will definitely show up a month after. My advice is to always us protection, boyfriend… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 09:58 PM |
| 20 | Homelander from the boys seems like most guys in real life, minus actual superpowersI agree but also disagree. Homelander is suppose to be handsome, he is charismatic, isn't afraid of going for what he desires, and is truly great at being what everyone wants him to be. He is also self centered, crazy, and unhinged. But many men now are cowards, cannot hold a conversation to save their lives, cannot pull people in because of how they lack basic skills, are open books, and not attractive. Also unlike homelander they cannot blame their characteristic on being raise coldly (being r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 07:20 PM |
| 8 | 'I'ma Choose Me': Sanaa Lathan Is Investing In Herself Rather Than MarriageShe is almost 50 but still looks 30, black don't crack. When I was a young black girl watching her in love and basketball, blade, the wood, the best man, brown sugar, and out of time I was so happy to see someone like myself. But for those who think she still doesn't desire a partner she states: " I do believe in love and I want that for myself, but right now I’m focused on loving myself and the truth is when you start loving yourself, you attract a better quality of situation I want somebody wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 06:00 PM |
| 6 | Who are your favourite Youtubers? Not for advice/dating specifically but women who have a good attitude to life and love. I love Angel Lately 🌹Savannah Sylver she is from the cayman islands, but currently lives in Japan. She speaks patois, japanese, and english. Sticks to herself, and keeps her personal life personal. She opened up about something I believe last year and it made me realize she's stronger than I thought. Plus, the small glimpse she gives into her life is beautiful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Gucci Frames - AsiahnI get the message but this song is trash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 05:06 AM |
| 7 | Is he HV? Always pays on dates, doesn’t push for sex, is intelligent & excites me, but recently moved to a different city, so it would be long distance.Oh, okay. Why is he asking you out on IG when you states you have been on a few dates. Do you not have his number him nor him you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 04:27 AM |
| 6 | Is he HV? Always pays on dates, doesn’t push for sex, is intelligent & excites me, but recently moved to a different city, so it would be long distance.You said he doesn't push sex but are you having sex? Also that looks like the format of a dating app, if you guys are close/been dating why are you still speaking via the app? Anyway I was speaking with my mother about this. Never travel to see a man that isn't your man. You need to be a city you know so if he acts up you can go home without a long drive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 01:01 AM |
| -18 | Male sexuality, as it exists today, is a black hole waiting to consume you.Sound like you had a POS for 25 years. Why'd you stay? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 12:58 AM |
| 73 | I think she discovered FDS.. better late than never 👑Men on that subreddit can be pathetic. But what makes it worse is (y'all come closer), somebody made an entire post trying hook up single ladies with these love my little penis, go half with me on the bill, walk to out first date reddit men. And some women were excited. This display right here is why I said h*ll no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 12:56 AM |
| 35 | To all insecure, LVM who cry about being lonely on social media but think texting and Netflix and Chill are the keys to a queen’s heart.LOL this sounds like the advice I give to men on the two dating subreddit, and I am downvoted to hell for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 07:37 PM |
| 1 | The Ultimate Pick-me: SzaBut I would like to see that statistic that debunks that. I remember seeing that when I was in my teenager years and never saw anything to suggest the opposite. As a successful black woman, I never knew the opposite | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 07:17 PM |
| 1 | The Ultimate Pick-me: SzaOh I never said we aren't married at all we are just the least likely to be married compared to everyone else. Which is sadly true. Before the 1970 this was untrue however something switched | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 07:07 PM |
| 64 | Right. To each their own I guess, but for me it's basic grooming?I don't date hairy men. I want to spare my children. My Latina roots already have me looking like chewbacca. My hairline connects to my eye brows, which connects to my side burns, which connects to.... Oh never mind. You all get the point. Over 500 dollars in waxing, and I am tired of bracing myself for the pain. Also I am 4' 11, tiny frame, little feet (size 4), little hands. No big burly man will be crushing me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:23 PM |
| 7 | Me to my soon to be ex. CCd all my gurls too.We gotta start paying these men dust. Even a second wasted cursing them out is a second we can spend on something else. Why waste finger exercise on a POS. Block! Then delete! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 12:34 PM |
| 5 | How to not attract creepsQuiet as it's kept OP seems ill informed all around. Nothing will stop a creep from being a creep around you, but pepper stray and ignoring his behind. Little does OP know that is what make a creep a creep they don't know when to stop, when to go, or when to leave you alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 11:36 AM |
| 7 | How to not attract creepsOn top of that most rapist are close to their victims family, friends, coworker, former lovers, school mate are usually the attackers. Watch for people like OP, they are just as bad as the men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 11:29 AM |
| 7 | “what do you mean having a dui and six charges is a big deal? why are you upset?” -LVMYou should have blocked him, no need to say he lied or even reply. You wasted enough time, next time sis don't waste it telling him he lied. Girl they already know they lied. Men such as this one use any reason to keep the conversation going. Also my advice be very careful dating men at work. If it goes south, crap can get odd. I am still kicking myself for dating a fellow lawyer. Once I pass the bar it is only a matter of time before I see him again. And CTFU to make you laugh he would send me … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 09:38 AM |
| 18 | The Ultimate Pick-me: SzaNicki is 37 and didn't want to be single. Dating celebrities just didn't work for it (meek mill, quavo, and nas). Plus for women of color specifically black women, the more successful we (BW) are the less likely we are to get married. Some women's dreams are to be married and have kids. Nicki stated many time she was one of those women. I think she feared being alone and missing her chance to have children. So while giving out food in NY she met back up with Petty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 09:20 AM |
| 21 | Invited me over while he is in a two week quarantine. Double whammy.Reddit needs to give us gif ability because I want to insert viola bag grab so bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:52 AM |
| 20 | The Ultimate Pick-me: SzaAww I love me some SZA. She is beautiful. But most R&B centers around female hurt, and accepting men's crap. I won't go into why because that is a debate for another sub.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:49 AM |
| 28 | The Ultimate Pick-me: SzaThose moments being marrying a convicted rapist, who makes less than her, who she dresses, and killed someone. I cannot with Mrs Petty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:47 AM |
| 42 | How to not attract creepsSecond be confident if there is anything predators hate its confidence Thats why rapists go for plain women who look like they have low self esteem. WTF is this crap. Do you really believe rapist go for plain, low self esteem women. Goodness. Please rethink this statement | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:34 AM |
| 1 | LVM and assertive womanThis subreddit doesn't recommend OLD. I would recommend hinge, or bumble. Okcupid is good too because you can be specific about education, age, race, and those who seek long term to those looking for hook ups. Hinge is specifically for LTD (long term dating)/relationships. It has a videochat feature so you don't have to give a man your number before seeing if they are real. If a man says anything inappropriate in the slightest, hinge will recommend you flag/report them. I had a man say you have … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 01:16 AM |
| 1 | LVM and assertive womanvery true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 12:29 AM |
| -1 | My advice as someone who has managed to actually make good connections, get a partner, and find HVM on OLD; as well as why I believe it is important to learn how to navigate this form of dating.Exactly, what I was saying. 1 hour is still a gap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 11:48 PM |
| -2 | My advice as someone who has managed to actually make good connections, get a partner, and find HVM on OLD; as well as why I believe it is important to learn how to navigate this form of dating.Most jobs (even dave at bojangles) do not allow phones out at any given moment. Maybe yours does (I cannot relate). And maybe the men you have dated text back right away, there are never gaps. Lucky you. I cannot pull out my phone during class, or while working. Texting during work hours for me and many others will get you written up. And if it is frequent fired. So yes expectations of gaps is realistic not pickme. It isn't simply he doesn't want to talk, but he cannot. I even state if it is ful… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 10:55 PM |
| 0 | My advice as someone who has managed to actually make good connections, get a partner, and find HVM on OLD; as well as why I believe it is important to learn how to navigate this form of dating.You know I don't think women who want to date online are pickmes. But then again there is a lot on this sub I don't necessary agree with. I think it may not be for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 10:25 PM |
| 1 | My advice as someone who has managed to actually make good connections, get a partner, and find HVM on OLD; as well as why I believe it is important to learn how to navigate this form of dating.I apologize if you misinterpreted or I said something that left it open for things I did not imply. I want to be clear, so this is no misunderstandings My post is for women who want to get on OLD, and why I believe it is best we navigate this form of OLD If you are in a good mental place (unlike what I was when I meet all the HVM on OLD) but my most recent BF then I think OLD should be given a try All forms of dating is dangerous. Every single one, not just OLD. I am not here to force you, you d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 10:09 PM |
| -4 | My advice as someone who has managed to actually make good connections, get a partner, and find HVM on OLD; as well as why I believe it is important to learn how to navigate this form of dating.Yes I was I was also talking to my ex boyfriend on the side. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 09:58 PM |
| -1 | My advice as someone who has managed to actually make good connections, get a partner, and find HVM on OLD; as well as why I believe it is important to learn how to navigate this form of dating.I think the decision is yours. If you decide that you do not want to be on OLD then yes by all mean do not. But for those women who do or desire to be on OLD with more success that is I made the post for. We have to think logically. OLD hasn't created bad relationship, bad dating experience, or dangerous ordeals from men. It has always been there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 09:57 PM |
| 0 | My advice as someone who has managed to actually make good connections, get a partner, and find HVM on OLD; as well as why I believe it is important to learn how to navigate this form of dating.I never implied that they are happy, we cannot say. Nor can we say for those whom met in any other way. I stated that most couples (which is true) meet on OLD. Normal dating can be dangerous for women as well. OLD is not an outlier. And I never said it was | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 09:54 PM |
| 0 | My advice as someone who has managed to actually make good connections, get a partner, and find HVM on OLD; as well as why I believe it is important to learn how to navigate this form of dating.I do not have to justify it, because even if you all say no. I will still get on. I think nobody read my post clearly and so everyone is upset. I am giving people the tools for success on OLD, since most couples meet on them. Also you should read my post because it seems you didn't | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 09:49 PM |
| 10 | My advice as someone who has managed to actually make good connections, get a partner, and find HVM on OLD; as well as why I believe it is important to learn how to navigate this form of dating.I am pretty transparent on here since I am anonymous so I'll be honest. I was experiencing PTSD from being sexually assaulted a few years earlier and in my childhood. Ignoring my own mental health for years and pushing through school left me in a bad place. I turned to self harm. I was also engaged as well to a HVM (in 2015), but could not grow a connection. Until 2017-2018 I wasn't mentally stable enough to stick with anybody. But I did it anyway, because I believed that would make it better. W… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 09:45 PM |
| 0 | My advice as someone who has managed to actually make good connections, get a partner, and find HVM on OLD; as well as why I believe it is important to learn how to navigate this form of dating.Sure: Number of couple meet online. (I should be clear I assumed most of you were straight so I am going off of heterosexual couples because it say HVM and no men are allowed here. I also rounded the number.) By a friend and other places (and I do apologize the number I meant 20 percent, hence me getting 65) As for the OM I pretty much guess since that is not common here So that leaves everyone who doesn't do OLD 40 (OLD)+5 arranged+ 20 (meet by a friend) so you have the 35 percent chance to mee… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 08:06 PM |
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