In society we are taught as women to humble ourselves, never be too vocal, never speak on your accomplishments. I say f- that, it is perfectly fine to verbalize vocalized and display how dope you are. Nothing is off limits. You don't have to tone down who and what you are to please the masses. If you are a midi dress, heels, full beat kinda girl DO IT. If you are a sweats, ponytail, nike slides kinda girl DO IT. Your dopeness is defined by you, what you deem important, and have completed. You got that PhD be proud, you got that raise say damn I did that, you look beautiful when someone compliments you say thank you I know. There is nothing wrong with loving yourself, and everything that you have done in life. Good luck LADIES!!