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| 1 | This is why we don't give an inch! | NICE FOR WHAT? | anahatasanah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 03:22 PM |
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| 23 | My Cousin Designed A Dating App Experiment to Test Her Male Friends and EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. LIED.Ugh, the projection is EVERYWHERE. They use it to justify their shitty behavior, when most of the time women aren't even doing what the men are projecting onto them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/22 05:33 PM |
| 43 | Men Pretending To Be Women On Dating Apps Are Getting Humbled (PATREON EPISODE)scrotes are always demanding that others perform what is asked of them before the scrotes will offer a medium of decency or respect. the AUDACITY. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/22 10:48 PM |
| 84 | Men Pretending To Be Women On Dating Apps Are Getting Humbled (PATREON EPISODE)UGH. I cannotstand the fact that men think we judge them based on looks for kicks. No, scrote, we're looking to ascertain how likely you are to MURDER us. Not your muscles, your height, your facial hair, your job, whatever tf else. We're making sure you're not completely unhinged in your eyes, body language, and how much misogyny comes through your writing. Ffs, we just want to LIVE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/22 06:56 PM |
| 4 | Why Does He Do That? - A StudyYou've explained this in a way I've never been able to understand it before. Thank you, thank you. 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 08:56 PM |
| 19 | ladies, how do you hold space for yourself?Yes, yes, and yes! One important thing I'd like to note- keep your nourishing routines yours. As much as we'd sometimes like to share our passions with our loved ones, it changes the dynamic, sometimes to the point where our activities evolve from hobbies to drama-filled experiences. Keep your spaces sacred, and just for you. 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/22 04:46 PM |
| 53 | "You're a Saint!" isn't a compliment...Sainthood is generally achieved with selfless sacrificial service, yes? Women are conditioned to practice this, yet without the recognition of our hard work, and usually for the benefit of lvm, and then children exposed to it generally step into those replies as well. When we turn this effort towards ourselves, not only do we benefit, children benefit, and ultimately the world benefits. Here's to putting this energy into ourselves! Love you all. 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/22 04:39 PM |
| 65 | "You're a Saint!" isn't a compliment...Thank you not only for taking care of our next generation, and also for teaching them accountability. You're so right, "I'm sorry" with the reason behind it it so much more effective. Kudos! 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/22 04:36 PM |
| 16 | and they want women over 30 to just... disappear? hide in a basement somewhere? this queen is goals! title is" why can't I be sexy at 71". LVM in fumes! gross is sexualizing teenagers and 20 somethings and preying on them! gross is drooling over 16 year olds when LVM are their dad's age!What an inspiration, keeping that active! Bless her, f*CK the haters. 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/22 05:03 PM |
| 53 | Beware “the husband stitch”. Women who get an episiotomy are sometimes sewn up “tighter” for the benefit of their male partner. This happens without consent, at a rate of at least 10%, and can cause lifelong pain with intercourse.Oh my goodness, I had no idea. Those poor women! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/22 06:52 PM |
| 102 | Beware “the husband stitch”. Women who get an episiotomy are sometimes sewn up “tighter” for the benefit of their male partner. This happens without consent, at a rate of at least 10%, and can cause lifelong pain with intercourse.Women were given scopolamine just before birth in the middle of last century in the US, it was called Twilight Sleep. Sounds peaceful! Women often woke with deep bruises from the ankle and wrist shackles, unbelievable pain and tearing from needing foreceps and vacuum suction because they couldn't assist in their own birth, and birthing wards echoed with terrified women's screaming- fortunately, most didn't remember. Anything but peaceful. The drugs, medical devices assisting the birth and the tr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/22 06:49 PM |
| 203 | Beware “the husband stitch”. Women who get an episiotomy are sometimes sewn up “tighter” for the benefit of their male partner. This happens without consent, at a rate of at least 10%, and can cause lifelong pain with intercourse.Not only is this being done, but women are also subjected to internal exams while anesthetized for surgery (mostly at US teaching hospitals)! Not to mention the medical devices that were not thoroughly studied before being brought to market- essure mesh, anyone?, and drugs given to pregnant women without being tested first- thalidomide, scopolamine, the list goes on in regards to the flagrant abuse of women in the medical field. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/22 05:43 PM |
| 50 | "It's hard to make a woman come"... as ifYes! Why is it that they"know" porn isn't real, yet expect porn results from porn actions... but don't expect real life to play out like movies do, when they also "know" movies aren't real life? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 03:19 PM |
| 2 | For the first time, I can’t think of a caption.What. In. The. Everliving. Hell. I feel so fucking nauseous. Every time I think I've seen it all, men sink to a new low. I'm so disgusted. And thankful I found this sub, so I can protect my womb. Thank all of you, sisters, for continuing to educate me. 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 03:54 PM |
| 132 | I have no words...Oh my god, the male part of the podcast trio is the only one talking sense?!?! What year is it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 03:24 PM |
| 23 | This is a whole other level of being a 🤡I got 10 seconds in and can't even with this woman! Stop. Enabling. His. Bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 09:27 PM |
| 45 | And I guarantee you men still won’t take the initiative for birth control, and put the onus on us.Yeah! Someone mentioned the copper iud being non-hormonal, which is great, buuuuut it's painful as hell- which we don't get any pain relief for other than the ibuprofen we're told to take 🙄, and it comes with "spotting" that can resemble periods for up to a year, plus it can fall out...and PERFORATE our uterus or bladder! Someone else commented that there has been research into female contraception, and while that is absolutely true, it's not as urgent as it needs to be. My issue is the research… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 05:37 PM |
| 304 | And I guarantee you men still won’t take the initiative for birth control, and put the onus on us.And where's OUR non-hormonal pathway research? We've been dealing with at best, shitty side effects and at worst, life threatening ones. Where's the damn given about our lives? Hell, our pain, that's not prevented enough, and outright dismissed most of the time. I'll be excited when there's actual progress for us, bc men don't care- they're not the ones who have to experience pregnancy or termination options first-hand. (None of this aimed at op, and I appreciate them bringing this to the forum.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 12:05 AM |
| 4 | A man wrote a book for women on how to text men to get them to not be absolute trash. I just… what?Sassy texting secrets: follow the handbook, block and delete those not worthy of us! 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 09:06 PM |
| 14 | Continuing from recent post by another Queen. Absolute trash book.Sassy texting secrets: follow the handbook and keep blocking and deleting those not worthy of us! 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 09:03 PM |
| 3 | Opinion | Consent is not enough. We need a new sexual ethic.Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 09:31 PM |
| 45 | Opinion | Consent is not enough. We need a new sexual ethic.It's behind a paywall. 😟 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 04:14 PM |
| 44 | Just no🤮 No. Thank. You. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 02:03 PM |
| 326 | Left my fiancée today. Here is the letter I left him.I mean this in the most gentle way: he doesn't care about what is written because he doesn't care about you. In fact, it will only give him leverage to hurt you again. We advocate for blocking and deleting without explanation bc it leaves you in the safest option, now and in the future. Wishing you lots of healing. 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 04:50 AM |
| 7 | I’m the girl who exposed him to his long term girlfriend. I believe he has more victims.Yes, exactly! I reaaaally wanted to point out examples, but don't want to tip off the lurker scrotes. But the whole undertone is not how a woman would approach it, ESPECIALLY in regards to how the handbook guides us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 05:35 PM |
| 12 | A simple trick to combat negging...Bwahaha! This got me good. 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 05:31 PM |
| 18 | I’m the girl who exposed him to his long term girlfriend. I believe he has more victims.Man, this just reeks of a male's creative writing exercise. Couldn't get past the first paragraphs without men writing women vibes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 01:57 AM |
| 53 | Bell Hooks on letting go of LVMWow, that really sticks out to me- Better to go thirsty than to drink poison. I'm gonna make that it to a kickass piece of art for my walls! Thank you for the inspiration. 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 03:46 PM |
| 20 | I finally figured out datingThis is not in line with the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 11:31 PM |
| 88 | Male Postpartum (or, how women cannot be allowed to have anything br about us)Exactly! Women experience postpartum depression due to a hormonal drop. Men experience the immaturity of not being the center of attention. So. Fucking. Different. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 02:53 PM |
| 10 | You need to *humble* yourselfI am living for this! So, so glad women are waking up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 08:39 PM |
| 93 | No 🥰Louder for the people in the back! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 07:06 PM |
| 31 | Explaining South-Asian mama boy's culture and how it effects the women and the men caught in itWow. Thank you for clearing this up, it makes perfect sense now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 05:00 PM |
| 342 | Story about my friend which ultimately led me hereSo glad your friend didn't give him a "second chance," allow him to "explain himself" bc it "wasn't his fault," clearly she just "misunderstood!" 😒 Welcome, we are happy to have you! 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 08:34 PM |
| 10 | A Curated Selection from OLDOnLine Dating (emphasized the acronym in the explanation to make it easier to decipher, hope it helps 💗) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 08:31 PM |
| 36 | Eve doesn't date single fathers, or: cultural misogyny in a nutshell, or: the audacityRight?! It's mind-blowing how they're "right" about everything and anything. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 03:24 PM |
| 76 | Eve doesn't date single fathers, or: cultural misogyny in a nutshell, or: the audacityDontcha love when they gaslight us about our OWN beliefs? The entitlement is staggering. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 02:16 PM |
| 41 | I believe the push for men to go to therapy will end up with the same results as the libfem idea that “feminism is for men too” therapy will not destroy the patriarchyThank you for this perspective- I was unaware it went this far. The more I learn, the more I realize I have been brainwashed by the patriarchy. I'm so grateful to be unlearning this with y'all's wisdom. 🙏🏼💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 11:51 PM |
| 50 | Being alone is always > than being with a person of low valueBut, see, I'm not lonely anymore bc of leveling up and learning to be by myself. I prefer my own company to 99.9% of men, and so many scrotes are mad bc I love myself now! 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 02:47 AM |
| 87 | This made me feel dirty, I'm glad I broke up with himThat's what jumped out at me, too. Waaaaaaaa, look at all the things I have to do without bc I'm a douche. You need to boost my seretonin levels! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 07:36 PM |
| 22 | See how he treats his family, especially the womenYou hit the nail on the head. This is the kind of upbringing that primes girls for grooming, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 05:56 PM |
| 7 | See how he treats his family, especially the womenJust breaks my heart. She was exploring different ways of dress, and this douchecanoe called her slutty and fat for wearing a barely-counts-as-crop-top that only shows her waistline when she walked 😳 I so wished I could have gotten her number to help, but unfortunately I can't do any good being a stranger she never met. 💔 Edit: just realized you were responding to the other commenter, apologies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 05:54 PM |
| 14 | See how he treats his family, especially the womenRight?! I felt HORRIBLE. I've met many a scrote, but none to match the apathy of this one. He was confused when I had tears in my eyes bc he was just fucking *cold*. Couldn't understand how my heart bled for her, bc too many of us had fathers who weren't the best they could be.My own was/is low value, and lived across the country almost my whole life, but even he managed to call every Sunday, visit at least once a year, and never badmouthed me to anyone. I was completely aghast when after 4, yes… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 05:46 PM |
| 175 | See how he treats his family, especially the womenOof. Met someone with a 13 year old daughter. Asked him to describe her- he used all negative descriptions. Confused, I asked what the positive traits about her were? He thought for a couple seconds, shook his head, and answered that he couldn't become up with any. Had a dozen different awful ways to describe his daughter, but couldn't say one- ONE! - nice thing about his baby girl. Only one of the many red flags to spring from this a*hole. Block and delete are so satisfying. Edit: had someone r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 05:33 AM |
| 10 | Just a friendly reminder that men will date and marry women they don’t like.This man can't even moisturize the pubes coming out of his face, and has the AUDACITY to say she isn't pretty? Get TF outta here, man, you're the one punching above your weight. Smdh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 07:29 PM |
| 25 | “What we not finna do is waste our damn time!” YES 👏🏻Especially not on no lose-her! Man, she's a trip. Spittin' it real, spittin' it quick, 'cuz she knows we don't waste no time on nuthin'! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 01:56 PM |
| 1 | She has far more patience than meRight?! No, your words are not more important than here. Bye, Felipe! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 09:24 PM |
| 15 | ⚠️ Angry woman incoming.Anger comes about bc your soul knows there is mistreatment. Good for you on doing the inner work! Anger is bad, it just needs to be channeled, and you're doing the hard work to take advantage of that. My gold star for you! 💫💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 08:51 PM |
| 2 | She has far more patience than me"Wait, wait, let me speak." Just walk away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 10:17 PM |
| 287 | Vetting/strategizing is not the same as “playing games”, “shit testing” or manipulation.Men play games so they can get laid. Women vet because our lives are on the line. Double standards who? You put it so well- context dependent. Yet another great phrase from another Queen looking out for all of us. Thank you. 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 10:46 AM |
| 15 | It's perfectly fine for you to vocalize how dope you are!Yes! We need a whole chapter on reframing our perceptions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 08:09 PM |
| 56 | How I met my HVM husbandThank you for typing all this out- it's so heartening to hear how this stategy has been successful. Best of luck! 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 08:06 PM |
| 36 | Happy for Britney Spears for getting her freedom.Wow. WOW. Fuch yeah, Britney's finally getting to speak her truth! I'm so happy for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 05:48 PM |
| 5 | These NVM ain’t even trying to cover up what they really think anymore… it’s truly sad that their are women that will actually choose to match with these sick men.The hilarious thing is that they're making a "joke." But as we know, the "joke" is how they really feel. They think they're so smooth, getting one up on us. Boy, we see the flags loud and clear! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 01:35 AM |
| 30 | Hurt feelings on InstagramBwahaha! Perfect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 08:04 PM |
| 67 | A form of negging new to meYep, exactly as described in the movie. It's all just for your attention. Ignore him until he uses your name. And toward the movie- a slimy scrote impersonated a medical professional and saw a woman's breasts in her exam with the doctor? With Anne freaking Hathaway signed on to play this woman, who finds out after the appointment that the scumbag is a pharmecutical rep...then DATES HIM?! Why tf is this even a movie?! This is such a gross violation of women, and we're expected to give our money t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 11:42 PM |
| 76 | If someone does not meet your standards, it is better to just not date them at all, rather than date them and try to change them into the person you actually want to date.And that's what it all boils down to: "You wouldn't date me and I don't like that." Then we suffer the consequences because they can't process their goddamn emotions in a healthy way, and proceed to take it out on women (the very women they claim to like or love, no less), even though they're tHe mOrE lOgIcAL sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 06:42 AM |
| 6 | Found this "pick me" on steroids in comments under the video about Gabby Petito. Apparently, she wasn't "feminine" enough and it's all her fault 🙄How did I know there would be a religious passage as her argument? Ah, yes, because a book written by men for the benefit of the patriarchy is only teaching women how to fulfill their womanly potential! 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 11:03 AM |
| 34 | Can we please stop posting the messages we get from FDS Super Fans?Yes, please! We're about empowering women, not showcasing men trying to "take us down a peg." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 01:13 PM |
| 1 | She made a PowerPoint about strippingThe link isn't working for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Other Women Demanding Performative Femininity from YouIt's the same principle as putting a banana on top of ladder in a room full of monkeys, with a shock being administered to anyone attempting to grab it. When additional monkeys are brought into the room, all the original monkeys keep them off the ladder and teach them to avoid it at all costs. Future generations won't know why it's bad to avoid the ladder the just enforce previous generations' behaviors bc it them alive to propagate the species. Earlier generations of women were taught to stay i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 06:13 PM |
| 137 | BruhOh, man, you called it! I was wondering why he would be so defensive! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 04:10 PM |
| 13 | So I'm deleting my Facebook. A strategy?Wow. Really drives it home when you already have the contact info of everyone you need out of 900 people. I love how you worded your final message- straight and to the point. 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 05:12 PM |
| 17 | Can we collectively update Urban Dictionary?Brilliant! Let's be the change we want to see! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 10:29 AM |
| 13 | In a Happy Relationship with my Twin Flame and Wanted to Share…Bwahaha!!! You really had me going in the first half. Yes, the ONLY time we tolerate this kind of behavior is from a cat. 😸 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 10:19 AM |
| 32 | Fashion & Tech Join Forces To Create A Dress That Signals When People Get Too Close (perfect to keep guys away in general not just for social distancing.)Oh, man, thanks for sharing this! I remember reading about her work, super cool. My only complaint is that it only has one arm that spreads out from each side- you know there needs to be some revamping -with barbed wire, perhaps, that needs to be impenetrable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 02:48 PM |
| 91 | Single fathers will date women for free child care. Don’t let a man dictate which car you buy because they don’t want their child in it. This woman needs to 🏃♀️Aaaaaand there it is, the first flag that should have negated this relationship. Block and delete is our motto for a reason, saves us so much trouble ahead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 11:00 AM |
| 24 | There is no reward for sufferingOooohhh, I LOVE this! "Be free of the conditioning" is so powerful, I'm putting it in my daily affirmations! 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 10:55 AM |
| 90 | I just read a post where a woman was shamed for wanting to be walked to her car post date🤦🏼♀️. The bar is in Hades.Yes! What a difference from the "real world" where the m.o. is to tear us down. Fds out here saving lives. 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 01:52 PM |
| 108 | He really thought he did somethingYes! Thank you for putting it so succinctly! They don't settle, neither will we! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 12:15 PM |
| 9 | Male neighbor invited me to his daughter's birthday--red flag?I've saved this link before, and today's the day I read it. Thank you for helping me to learn this. 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 09:55 PM |
| 28 | Made me laugh 🤣Oof. Fuck, you're right. Jeez, this really hits it home how it's Not Just Me, that his whole life he had others trying to show him a better way, including a father in recovery. It never was, and never will be, because.. if he wanted to, he would. 25 years to figure it out, and he still hasn't caught on? That's a him problem, not a me problem. Thank you for sharing this. 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 04:26 PM |
| 84 | Why the overwhelming majority of divorces are initiated by women.I think the video you linked has a good message, it just rubs me the wrong way to putting all the onus on women. It feels like yet again, it's up to the women to fix the relationship bc the man can't even meet her halfway and freaking LISTEN when she says the words "I'm unhappy." I'm tired of it always having to be the woman to instigate change. Men know, they just don't care. I want you to know-that this anger is not directed at you! I wholeheartedly appreciate you sharing your knowledge, which… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 04:21 PM |
| 41 | YouTube scrote almost pops a blood vessel during his rant on how men are the “logical” sex. Anger is an emotion ladies!!!Unfortunately, the only way it makes sense is for them to talk out their butts. 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Start by rebuilding your sex life with yourselfThank you for writing this out- what a nice reminder to fall in love with OURSELVES, in every way. I like how you described being sensual with yourself- gave me some good ideas. I love all you guys so much. 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 03:30 AM |
| 8 | Again with the height thing....Manlet!!! Omg, I'm dying. Sooooo appropriate. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 03:17 AM |
| 65 | One of the Benefits of Living Together... Splitting the RentYou may have learned it the hard way, and kudos is still in order for writing all this out for us to learn from! Thank you. 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 02:55 AM |
| 45 | “Water always meets its level”Thank you for sharing this-she is ON POINT, as usual. I appreciate each and every one of you queens, thank you for guiding and supporting me on this journey. I am so blessed to have found y'all. 🙏🏽💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 05:48 PM |
| 5 | I can't share my dating strategies on a dating strategy group because I use OLD - an FDS catch22I've read it three times, genuinely can't tell. Either way, out of line with the sub. I hope this is a newbie, although they posted a year ago about their HVM friendship-one would otherwise expect they're more aware of the spirit in which posts should be written, no? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 08:55 PM |
| 94 | Queen Spitting Facts Once Again😂🤩I LOVE her. Spittin' it on a Queen's BLINGED OUT microphone, no less! 👑🎤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 06:17 PM |
| 17 | That feel when your cousin is the first non-LVM you've met in a long timeOh, what a sweet thing to read! Thank you for sharing your story, fanning the flames of hope. 💝 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 04:26 PM |
| 23 | FDS is helping me reshape my identityHere here! Cheers to all of us realizing our worth! 🥂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 03:03 PM |
| 23 | Lyn Ruth Miller is an 86 year old comedian. She embodies FDS values and drops some truth bombs."People come up to me and say 'I want to be you when I grow up.' No, you don't! You want to be YOU when you grown up." What and amazing woman. Thank you for sharing. 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 06:13 PM |
| 9 | Update: Saw My Ex on OLD.It's so heartening to hear this! We are supporting you every step of the way, and are so proud of you. Good job on seeing him for what he truly is- a rancid, shriveled scrote who has done nothing to elevate you. Cheers to you!!! 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 11:39 PM |
| 6 | Be careful if you join TelegramI didn't know that this even existed. Thank you for the warning, this is absolutely terrifying. 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 02:08 PM |
| 24 | Dear scrotes, this was a discussion about how women in their early 20s DON’T want you, stop approaching us or this will be your future. Raise your hand if you’re in your early 20s and have NEVER been attracted to an old scrote, I’ll go first 🙋🏻♀️🙋♀️🤏😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 03:39 AM |
| 9 | Just to make you laugh - why you shouldn't be sad.But not just *any* old mini microphone- a mini BLINGED OUT microphone! To go right along with that (well deserved) crown. Love it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 12:42 AM |
| 6 | I made the move: broke up with him first.Yes!!! I'm adopting this right now. Thank you for sharing. 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 12:39 AM |
| 4 | Bought this mug a few years ago, big FDS energy. I love it.Oof. This hits hard today. Thank you for sharing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 11:53 PM |
| 11 | Posted on FDS a few months ago during a breakup. We broke up. I bought my own house and took possession this weekYou've got this. And you've got all of us here loving and supporting you through this. 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 04:37 PM |
| 59 | Posted on FDS a few months ago during a breakup. We broke up. I bought my own house and took possession this weekThank you for adding this. It's necessary to remain vigilant, even during celebrations, to remain safe. Thank you. 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 04:33 PM |
| 8 | Posted on FDS a few months ago during a breakup. We broke up. I bought my own house and took possession this weekYasss!!! Sending you do much love. 💗 We're so proud of you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 04:31 PM |
| 77 | Not All Men..Omg, that was high key brilliant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 07:41 PM |
| 32 | I saw this edit on Youtube and I thought I'd share it here. Sums up the struggle of every woman in the world. The ending was satisfying because women stood for themselves.This broke my heart. It's beautifully shot, with an amazing score, and even though some women speak up for themselves, a lot of us feel we cannot. 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 01:58 PM |
| 3 | Men: Marriage is till death do us part, not till "I don't feel like it anymore". Time to get off your entitled high horse.Preach it! I lost 300 pounds (he was morbidly obese 🤮) and have never felt lighter. Well, all this money and self respect is a bit weighty, but I think I'll manage. 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 05:39 AM |
| 31 | Always ask a guy when he got tested for STD's - AND always get testedRecently had this talk with someone, who not only was incredulous that I would have my std panel in hand, and was over the top offended I'd asked him- "I haven't been with anyone in 3 years," he says. Bwahaha!!! I don't know you from a hole in the wall, dude. You would have an up to date resume when job hunting, why the heck would you not have your std panel at the ready when dating?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 04:08 PM |
| 142 | Never again!!!Ugh, wtf is it about dudes not brushing their teeth? Someone told me (happily I might add!), That they didn't brush their teeth for 10 years, and now brush them an average of once a week. 🤢 Someone else had such bad breath I couldn't even think to kiss them, let alone the YELLOW LAYER OF PLAQUE on every tooth. Like, I have some sensory issues, too, I get it. But I always have sugar free mints in the event that it's been more than 4 hours since I've brushed, nevermind talking to and kissing peopl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 03:56 PM |
| 76 | Sound advice 👏🏻 Pay attention to the holes in their walls, this is a good way to vet out violent men and men with low impulse control or anger issues.My thoughts exactly!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 11:04 PM |
| 1 | It's not about how Bro you are.Thank you! I always miss out on these. 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 11:17 PM |
| 36 | The✨mandacity✨A scrote had the mandacity to mansplain what it was like as a woman going through a specific experience. Nevermind that he was not only NOT a woman, he has NEVER experienced the situation. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 09:27 PM |
| 1 | It's not about how Bro you are.I can't see this bc I don't have ig. What did it say? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 07:34 PM |
| 43 | Objectification is being disguised as empowermentThe message you're trying to relay is great. The medium? Not so much. I'd love to see this viewpoint from someone who isn't spewing internalized misogyny in all their other videos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 07:25 PM |
| 10 | What to look for in a HVM: The 8 C’sThank you! Adding these to my list. 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 07:03 PM |
| 11 | Our society lives on women's unpaid labourPreach it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 02:15 PM |
| 1 | I love this song! I’ve got so many FDS anthems saved and now you’re all gonna hear about them 😈 U + Ur Hand - P!nkCan you elaborate? I don't really follow her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 06:12 PM |
| 18 | Daddy issuesFuck, this hits hard. I so needed to hear this, thank you. 💗💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 05:34 PM |
| 31 | That explains all the "Nice Guys™" out thereWow. Thank you for so succinctly putting tbis into words. 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Alysia Harris - "This Woman"It's amazing to see the transformation from "That Girl" to "This Woman". What an inspiration. Thank you for sharing this, op, it resonated deeply. 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 08:27 PM |
| 2 | A big thank you to the moderators of FDS 💕Hear, hear. I'm so grateful to y'all for providing us with the only safe place on reddit. My life has completely changed bc y'all do such hard work day in and day out. So much love and so many blessings to you guys. 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 04:20 PM |
| 3 | We all know it. If he wanted to, he WOULD.Thank you for sharing this! I appreciate reading how FDS has helped others. 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 06:29 PM |
| 2 | "IM HIS FIRST LOVE. HE'LL ALWAYS COME BACK TO ME."Oof, this is HARD to hear, even knowing that this comes from a place of love. I have been transitioning him out of my life, and you're a sign from the universe that I'm on the right path. With y'all's strength and support, I'm realizing all my pick-meisha ways and leveling up for MYSELF, not for anyone else. Thank you. 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 06:14 AM |
| 2 | Article about Learned HelplessnessI know exactly how you feel. Let's leave the pain in the past, and enjoy all the good things we've fought so hard to put into our lives. We are beautiful, we are strong, we are competent, and we are confident! 💝 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 10:55 PM |
| 1 | I'm doing some amazing spring-cleaning by giving away old stuff and commenting on feminist sub-reddits...Yes! I literally realized that, oh, 4 days ago? It's been so helpful in reminding me to leave the discards, bc it's so hard not to pick them back up. 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 10:52 PM |
| 3 | Article about Learned HelplessnessI'm so sorry you had to go through all that. Sending you big hugs. 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 03:04 PM |
| 4 | Article about Learned HelplessnessI'm so sorry you had to go through all that. Sending you hugs. 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 03:04 PM |
| 43 | I'm doing some amazing spring-cleaning by giving away old stuff and commenting on feminist sub-reddits...Girl, I am stanning you so hard right now. I'm proud of you for living your values. Getting rid of all the things that no longer serve you makes room to invite more good in. 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 02:57 PM |
| 6 | Promising Young Women is an empowering movie for all women **Trigger WarningThank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 05:57 PM |
| 2 | To hear what LV scrotes think of women and how they try to manipulate us, watch some "comedy." 100% he's not kidding. 50 years old, never been married, and this is how he treats women. High standards will save your life.I watched this before I found FDS, and it sickened me. Glad to see it brought here. 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 08:23 PM |
| 12 | Self-described "stingy men" whine about Nigerian women's dating standardsNot only that, but then the men expect women to stay home for a minimum of 15 years, foregoing their financial independence! They're salty about us remaining independent, but want to retain their ability to screw around behind our backs, leaving us with nothing. No, thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 03:42 PM |
| 1 | What Red Flags Have You Ignored That Later Became the Reason You LeftYelling at his mother. Granted, we were only 16. He became verbally, mentally, and physically abusive a year after we were married. Took me a long time to leave, and I'm so glad I did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 04:11 PM |
| 26 | Dear male lurkers: FDS is coming for your girlfriends.Thank goodness. We've put up with too much crap for too long. FDS out here changing lives for the better. 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 10:39 PM |
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