I feel like whenever to talk a man that there is always a part of him that isn't listening and I don't mean just the usual cliches we are all familiar with, I mean that most men just have an auto reply machine in their heads which precludes them from engaging with you meaningfully. Ladies, do you think that they do that on purpose? Or is it more subconscious and ingrained? Do you think that men typically relate to each other on anything deeper than their basic depravity?