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CULTURAL MISOGYNYdarkhorse8419/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 03:45 AM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSdarkhorse8419/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 11:41 AM
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darkhorse8419/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 06:55 AM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSdarkhorse8419/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 09:01 PM
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darkhorse8419/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 11:07 AM
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REMINDER 👑darkhorse8419/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 01:41 PM
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RANTdarkhorse8419/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 05:59 AM
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LESSON LEARNEDdarkhorse8419/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 03:28 PM
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FDS HUMORdarkhorse8419/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 01:53 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYdarkhorse8419/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 04:44 PM
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darkhorse8419/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 09:22 AM
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BOOK REPORTdarkhorse8419/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 04:27 PM
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RANTdarkhorse8419/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 02:38 PM
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RANTdarkhorse8419/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 08:25 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYdarkhorse8419/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 09:18 AM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSdarkhorse8419/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 04:01 PM
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darkhorse8419/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 07:52 AM
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RED FLAG 🚨darkhorse8419/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 03:38 AM
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Lmfaooo. Okay buddy. see this is what lying gets us. It’s the delusion for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 03:56 PM
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Wow, I bet you cried into your pillow that night regretting the chance to not have an orgasm. This is especially why women need to stop faking. This is the type of attitude men get when they think they can make you cum. Boy bye 👋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 10:16 PM
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I enjoy giving them to partners who enjoyed returning the favor. I think it’s so crazy how the majority of men expect them, and how some won’t return the favor. Even when I was a PickMe who slept around I would always say “Me first”. You got the wrong one honey if you think I’m going to aggravate my TMJ for a selfish asshole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 10:08 PM
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I can believe most women can be best friends with a man that she finds physically attractive. I don’t think most men can. I wouldn’t want my husband to be confiding his fears, hopes, and dreams to another woman. That should be me. This is why you should marry a person you consider your best friend., how often do people slip into emotional affairs that turn physical because they couldn’t talk to their spouse? All the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 04:28 PM
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I was thinking that when I read this. He’s probably trying to see if he could have a poly relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 04:22 PM
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Why would I ? already know her position. “ I’m a hypocrite. I believe in abortions for me and not for thee. I know I can get raped, I’m not that delusional like most conservatives, but I’ll keep voting with my party because I can go to the doctor and get it taken care of, or maybe the senator im having an affair with will slip RU486 into my mimosa during brunch. I’ll always have mommy and daddy’s money to fall back on, so I’ll never have to worry about needing universal healthcare, or paid leave…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 03:15 AM
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I didn’t listen to the podcast, oh she’s a cherry picking conservative , but she still votes for the party trying to stop them because she knows she can go anywhere to get one. Just like she can vote for a misogynistic rapist because she feels safe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 02:43 AM
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Conservative women are Boss level PickMes. A woman that votes against abortion rights and social programs for single mothers among others is a woman who only cares about herself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 12:43 AM
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Right, especially if it’s an office job, but even my late husband would come home after a long day of physical labor and still take over because he knew I’d be exhausted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 08:21 PM
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You nailed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 06:51 PM
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Honestly it’s just a manipulation tactic. Since The Who MeToo movement and toxic masculinity call out, men know that women are turned off my hyper masculine displays, so they try to tap into our nurturing, empathetic side. It’s sociopathic. Luckily their lack of emotional intelligence keeps them from striking just the right tone and they end up looking pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 06:49 PM
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This is predictable, and I know a lot of women here are questioning what’s the point of marriage, and why FDS advocates for it. FDS advises marrying men who earn more than you if you want to have children. If you have a difficult pregnancy and need bed rest, or if you can’t or don’t want to return to work six weeks after deliver he needs to be able to comfortably support his family. So in this case, marriage is advisable . Those of us who don’t plan on having children, don’t need to worry so muc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 06:33 PM
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It’s the best thing if you plan to have children, especially if he makes more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 06:23 PM
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The marriage advice is geared towards the younger members who want to have children. I personally don’t want to have any more children, and my son receives survivor benefits, so I’m not getting married because I trust the government more than I trust a man, and I don’t trust the government.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 06:16 PM
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So basically the common denominator is men, lol. My best friend is a chef and she cooks delicious elaborate meals for her fiancé at least three times a week and she works long hours She’s a lesbian though so 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 05:57 PM
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Right, I was dating a scientist and I thought I’d finally found a man who I can have intellectual conversations with. Ugh, what a narcissist. He got really nasty with me after I called him out. I just listened to his tirade and when he was done I dragged him. He got really butt hurt when I said “ You’re 50, your fuckboy days are long behind you. You know you’re really close to dying alone. A little introspection would benefit you” He changed his tune really quickly. Bye bitch. I’m done with you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 02:01 AM
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It’s weird but I’m 37 and the men in their twenties are so much nicer and respectful. I don’t even care if it’s fake, it’s like they have something to prove.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 01:56 AM
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They have absolutely no emotional intelligence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 12:59 PM
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The best piece of relationship advice when I was in my twenties was from an older married woman who told me when I was complaining about another failed date, “ The man has to love you more” as a lib fem I thought that was so offensive it should be equal, but men are not the same. They’re not raised to be nurturing, or to sacrifice , to make accommodations, or to compromise. They’re raised to take what they want, to fight for it, and biologically they are wired to chase. As soon as they feel they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 12:55 PM
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Girl, oh my god I can’t imagine having the emotional strength you two have, because I would not be anywhere near as functional, and If any two people have an excuse to be codependent, I wouldn’t even consider it an insult. I mean you only had each other. Fuck I ‘m not even surprised that Porn sick Reddit would even tell you that. Like what they fuck? That’s fucking sick. These people are lost man. If they’re not perverted they enjoy tearing people apart. I’ve seen the way they engage so I don’t …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 11:04 PM
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I’m so sorry that you and your brother lived through that. I’m glad you had each other. How are you two doing now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 05:08 AM
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Thats a great point. I think a woman should be able to set her own standards, and I don’t blame anyone college educated woman for wanting the same. It’s just funny to me because I know this isn’t the reason for the problem. Too many Pick Mes out there’s whose they breadwinner while her husband plays video games all day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 04:57 AM
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So if you care about things and not people, why should we feel bad about you being suicidal in 10-15 years? No one cares about men’s mental health!As they reject relationships built on substance, and make fun of each other for showing emotion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 03:36 AM
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I had a male gynecologist who made a sexual joke about me to his staff while I was getting weighed and all that. I didn’t hear what he said, but I could tell by the tone and the laughter . I was so embarrassed, but I didn’t want to be seen as problematic as a WOC, so I stayed,and acted like nothing happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 03:22 AM
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Isn’t that the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 02:58 PM
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I hear you You can be educated without going to college. Some people just don’t have the means, but that doesn’t stop them from learning, and IQ is irrelevant to having an education.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 06:49 AM
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How pathetic to deny a living breathing woman sex, and then hide in the bathroom to jerk it to porn.Men proudly proclaim they settle for us, and then they do this. Good luck finding a woman that looks and has sex like a porn star, but is also a virgin and will pay on dates. Delusional 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 02:33 AM
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Have you asked them why, or believed their answers? We don’t live in the same world as you do. So to answer your first question, a black woman was sentenced to 20,years in prison after firing a warning shot at the ceiling after her abusive ex attacked her. After a public uproar she was released. She had fo spend 3 years away from her children. I can give you many other stories of black women using firearms and ending up in prison.A friend of mine’s sister is in prison for life because she shot h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 12:35 AM
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Yep, you really know the truth about men after glow ups. That’s why I’ve never felt bad about having standards now, because I remember how I was treated before I grew into my looks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 12:21 AM
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What a crock of shit. I’m an RN and my late husband was a master carpenter. He was a great person and partner.Women want a man who treats them well and as an equal partner, but unfortunately that’s not the majority so women settle for financial security which usually comes from a degree. It’s not our problem if men are emotionally unstable. They’re upset about having to be held accountable. Every problem they are upset about, is self made.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 11:19 PM
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I know right? Probably part of that minority that wants a woman who has self respect. Honestly it’s such a turn to meet men who don’t want women they can break emotionally, or wants a man they don’t have to baby or build.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:38 PM
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Yeah it’s really sad and completely preventable. I’ve never seen so many 20-30 year olds die. It’s like being in a war. Every time I come back to work , 40 percent of the patients have died. It’s been very depressing. I hope your friend’s husband isn’t overweight. Delta is killing people so much quicker than last time. Once you need a ventilator you have a ten percent chance of getting off of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:31 PM
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High value people have high value friends. If his friends are womanizers and misogynistic. He is too. He’s wearing a mask around you, and he’s the friend whose role it is to be the “ nice one” .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:15 PM
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Ugh, he sounds old as fuck. I went out to a bar last year, and because I rarely drink anymore I over did it, so I was so nauseated. I’m in the Uber home trying not to puke, and he wouldn’t shut up repeating “ You’re so pretty, you’re really pretty” over and over. I told him to pull over, and I walked home, even though he still had my address.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:07 PM
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Wow, one of our coworkers had a huge blowup fight with her husband because she vaccinated herself. He died of Covid two weeks ago. He was 36
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 09:56 PM
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There’s no way in hell this woman told him about this fake raw sex tinder date, no way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 07:49 PM
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I saw this and was also impressed by how differently this would have been answered last year. I missed the part where it said she had been intimate with him. He probably made sure she did most of the work to pay him back, but at least she didn’t pay for meals and give her body to this loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 07:38 PM
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They know, they think it’s our job to look good for them, but on our own dime. 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 07:35 PM
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It was quite obvious those two were there to cause trouble. The comments were so ridiculous. People will fall all over themselves to defend white men . I wish they wouldn’t have taken the bait. But it’s interesting to see how that speaks one altercation speaks negatively of black people, and is going to bring violence back, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 02:54 AM
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But they don’t leave until they hook another one 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 06:56 PM
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I don’t even understand these advice questions. We don’t know how you feel about him.? I mean he already basically told you “ Parting is such sweet sorrow” . 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 06:51 PM
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Exactly. It’s weird how they can fake whole relationships and then be like. Okay bye! That’s some heartless shit. Sex aside.which doesn’t bond then to us. I’ve had platonic friends in my life that I lost and it hurt me deeply. Imagine knowing someone loves and cares for you, wants the best for you. Does things to make and keep you happy, and you’re just thinking “ Another bus should be arriving soon” while tell hun the you love them. Heartless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 04:45 PM
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I’m not dating LVM, but thanks for the concern. You’re getting way to defensive and rude about this. It’s really not tag serious, I offering advice based on reality, because positive thinking is nice but manifestation was real, there would be definitive proof. I Have a great day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 12:51 PM
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Yes, how as this not been made a movie? She was a genius. I found it equal parts tragic and pathetic how the Pick Me felt some guilt so she saved him, only for him to turn around and beat her again. Stockholm syndrome is a bitch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 12:07 PM
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That’s really smart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 10:49 AM
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Lol, No that’s a good thing to say, why should they have all the fun with their veiled threats of violence . One of my favorite heroines Giulia Tofana,, sold Bella Donna as perfume to women to get rid of their abusive husbands. Hundreds of women living their best lives, until a PickMe became her downfall. Of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 10:48 AM
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Shit it’s sad that this is the bare minimum and then the rest is being a parent you can rely on. Which is the standard for women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 10:42 AM
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The old ones can be so angry because They remembered how good they had it. Running around getting away with unspeakable crimes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 10:27 AM
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I was talking to this guy a few weeks ago whose ten years younger than me. I usually don’t do large age gaps but, he seems pretty nice : I told him I didn’t want to have anymore because I’m almost 40 /‘f tired, but he wants children. So I told him that he should find a woman who does, and he wants to see where it goes. 😐I just flat out said, you’re not going to like all the time you’ve wasted, you need to abandon ship now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 10:24 AM
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Yes, and if you’re a single mother. You’re just trash no one wants, looking for a father. Which is interesting because I’ve never seen single parents eager to introduce their kids as much as men. Have to get the new sex nanny in there so they can sue for 50/50 to not pay child support
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 10:20 AM
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The audacity for them to cry about this to women who have a million and one beauty products and magazines telling us every day we’re not good enough. I never had dates in high school and had my glow up in college, because I put time, effort, and money into my looks. Men have grown up with Adam Sandler and Seth Rohan making them believe he could be charmless and gross and they can get any woman. Then factor in porn and they’re actively turning down their wives for real sex, to Jacit it to the wom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 10:08 AM
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But women are not doing things like gagging, and being used as toilets for themselves. That would be a valid argument If women were centering their own pleasure, making men give us 20 minutes of oral to their 5 or 10, calling them names like worthless wallet or whatever. Lib fems may have deluded themselves into believing that they like being degraded, which is why men like facials, but Women are degrading themselves to pander to men and men know that, and they can’t even pretend to have respect…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 09:45 AM
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Have you heard of PPcocaine? Liberal feminism has betrayed us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 09:34 AM
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The risk is even higher if you own a gun. Please don’t ever tell your boyfriend you have a gun. The risk of death goes even up, and it will most likely be used against you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 09:19 AM
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Once you see these statistics it’s enraging to hear men complain about how we have it easy just because they want to fuck us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 09:13 AM
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Yeah, that really messed me up . The one time when these so called protectors should live up to their titles
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 09:12 AM
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You are completely right, this has been said before by prominent feminists. Men know they can’t collectively gaslight us anymore. This is probably why they’re gunning to obliterate our abortion rights, and at that point we need to have a sex ban. I know it won’t be feasible for a lot of women, but it’s time to stop giving men the privileged our bodies for such a high risk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 09:09 AM
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Yes! I told this guy straight up Ii didn’t see him that way, and because I didn’t want to hurt his feelings 8 put up with the innuendos, and inappropriate touching. One night I fell asleep watching a movie and woke up to his hand on my ass. When I started going off on him he basically told me he knew that I would have already slept with him if I was into him, but he still felt comfortable being rapey. Self proclaimed good guy of course
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 08:52 AM
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Exactly this. Plus our orgasms are never guaranteed and rarely delivered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 08:47 AM
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It’s ironic that the Madonna/whore dichotomy that men play against us most likely also has a hand. When women are young we feel pressure to be sexually appealing as we discover ourselves. So all these years men haven’t felt the need to get married and they stopped wanting to. That’s why it’s been progressively more difficult to find real relationships on OLD, as opposed to when it first started. So when women usually tire and age out of that stage of “sexual empowerment ”, they’ve realized that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 08:45 AM
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I agree with this. I’m an older millennial and to see the progression of men my age is frightening, as opposed to Gen z men I’ve spoken to who are weirded out by the new kinks that are just so clearly based on depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 08:36 AM
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Well considering how pedophilic and incestuous porn is becoming. It’s hilarious that America wants to control women’s bodies but they’ll allow these porn producers to make the most depraved content, and require no real proof of age to view it. What a time to be alive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 08:18 AM
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It’s ridiculous how much it’s warped their view on sex, Every man wants anal and asks if you squirt. I’m glad that women are starting to realize that catering to men’s desires is not empowering . I know there are women who enjoy anal sex., but it makes me wonder how much that enjoyment came from their desire to please a man. It’s crazy how men expect us to go through pain just for their pleasure. Why if I tell you don’t like it, to you have to say “ You’ll like it if it’s done properly”. Okay so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 08:14 AM
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It’s a very depressing time to be a nurse. I’ve never seen so many people young people dying. The Delta variant is terrible, and I’m afraid of what’s going to come next because anti vaxxers are just digging in their heels. At this point they’ve invested too much to be proven wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 07:57 AM
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Part of being high value is making good, well informed choices. I know a lot of well meaning and nice PickMes with great careers, but shackling yourself and your child to deadweight is not high value behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 07:23 AM
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My parents were happily married but shitty parents. Honestly a lot of people change, especially men after the baby comes. Hopefully everything will work out, but this rigid mindset isn’t going to work with raising kids either. A family is who you choose To share your life with, that can be anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 07:20 AM
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The OP is asking how to prevent settling in her choice of partner to have achieve her goal of having a child. We’re asking her to consider things may not go as planned because you cannot control life. Thinking happy thoughts is not going to manifest the life she wants, and more importantly, produce the best life for her hypothetical child. Being defensive and rigid is not high value behavior. Considering all the negative outcomes is, because it’s smart. You can visit the Breaking Mom subreddit w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 07:12 AM
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I was married to a HVM and he passed away. You can have a plan for your life and it won’t necessarily go the way too want . If you settle for an LVM just to have a child, what if you die? You want your child stuck with a man who will be a shitty parent? Nothing wrong width what you want, just be open to other possibilities. Life cannot be planned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 07:00 AM
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Ooh! I’ll have to hit that up , my friend and I want to start swing dancing when Covid calms down . Yeah, you’re right they just move the goal posts to constantly keep us unbalanced. They know our greatest strength is also our greatest weakness, which is our empathy, so now the weakest among us, the Liberal Feminists are holding us back. They don’t want to see the truth that men and women think differently, and unfortunately if we try to think or act like them, we’re the ones who are going to su…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 04:17 AM
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He sounds likes he’s in high school
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 03:54 AM
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I want to believe is a joke but a lot of men really feel this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 03:53 AM
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We sure do. We dress for their gaze because we know they like it. Gay men dress well and are super fit because they know that’s what they like, and yet here we are…. Subjected to chopped liver because we don’t want to be seen as shallow. When has a man ever been told “ Give her another chance! She’s funny/sweet/nice”, probably five times, but no one expects a man to settle for a woman who doesn’t look at least presentable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 03:47 AM
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Yes. Love 50s style. The dresses were gorgeous too. You know it’s interesting how it seems men are just giving up. They were always terrible, but at least when they had us as punching bags they knew they had a purpose. Now that women are living for themselves m. They can’t handle it.I was dating this man a few months ago that said men are depressed and angry because we don’t need them. Um… whose fault is that? All of the problems they have are their fault. They made the world they way it is. So …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 03:41 AM
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Yes, I do know that feeling very well, but I’m becoming a bit dead inside so I feel it less often. I’d gladly have a nice cup of tea with you. I appreciate you listening and empathizing. It’s easy for people to be apathetic in this world, sometimes it’s too overwhelming and depressing to care. ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 03:18 AM
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When you’ve had to be strong all your life, it’s impossible not to be. I have all the respect and love in the world for indigenous people. True spirituality and respect for the world we live in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 03:15 AM
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I had to cut off a guy friend who was upset that I didn’t want to date him but made no effort into improving his appearance. It’s funny how we’re just supposed fo love them for who they are, and we’re to supposed fo shave off most of our body hair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 07:24 AM
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You can’t blame it on poverty because they were still better dressed during the Great Depression. It’s another way for them to show their contempt for us. The majority of Gay men look incredible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 07:21 AM
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Men : Waah !!!!😩 “Women are afraid of us even though all of us aren’t psychotic” Also men when women are raped and murdered “ lol, What did she expect? Stupid bitch”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 01:18 PM
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Yes exactly. It’s crazy to me. I couldn’t believe they made Pocahontas into a Disney movie. There’s a need for them to romanticize their atrocities. There are women who will argue Thomas Jefferson loved Sally Hemings, and who can blame them when Hollywood made a movie depicting it as such.I mean Thanksgiving is based around a fairytale. Now books want to say slaves were happy and there by choice. I don’t understand. Black and Hispanic people grew up watching ourselves being portrayed negatively …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 07:23 PM
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Yeah it’s really depressing. Black women get so much of flack for having an attitude, but it’s armor. We don’t have anyone but ourselves. It’s hard waking up every day knowing that I have to modulate my tone and reactions so I’m not perceived as aggressive, remembering my mom tell me I always have to behave even better than everyone else because people will judge me solely on my skin color, to hear backhanded compliments like how my English is so proper, to see people’s faces, demeanor and attit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 07:04 PM
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That would be nice, but they don’t want to feel bad or guilty .It’s hard enough getting them engaged in shows and movies that don’t have at least one white protagonist. They’ll completely whitewash Asian films,and then turn around and say Spider-Man is white because that’s how he was written. People need to understand racism isn’t just about hating minorities. It’s also about not wanting to be around us, live next to us, learn about our cultures, and refusing to relate to us as people. As long a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 06:50 PM
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Yes unfortunately our struggles and diversity are a form of entertainment and a way to feel superior without actually doing the hard work of calling out racism in action, and cutting ties with racist family and friends. No one would ever ask a person who was abused or raped to provide the exact details of their torment so that they can learn to detect abusive behavior, and yet we’re expected to teach people how not to be racist, and then get upset when we tell them to read a book. I’m sorry let …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 06:43 PM
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They were upset and wanted me to revise my last post about the black girl who was shot by police while she was engaged in an altercation with her foster family. I posted it before all of the details came , but that didn’t change my opinion at all, which is the police would have responded differently if she were not a WOC, and then to prove my point a teenage white couple exchanged gunfire with police a week or so later in Florida, and are still alive. Yeah, insensitive racial comments are par fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 06:00 PM
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Exactly, imagine being upset about male oppression, while not wanting to stop participating and/or benefitting from racial oppression. They’ll complain about men. While engaging in the same behaviors. Complaining that men deny our experiences, they always shut us down, and then in turn doing the same to minorities. “ I didn’t do that! “ “Not all white people are like that”, yes we know that. We’re asking you to accept that life is harder fOr minorities . Please stop Engaging in what aboutism, de…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 05:49 PM
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No we definitely wouldn’t. They believe that she most likely would have been taken into custody and given the opportunity to call her parents, and they would have had the chance save her. This is a possibility, it such a small one it’s not even worth romanticizing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 05:14 PM
6

I wasn’t born in America, so I don’t have the ties that many Black Americans do and I get why they don’t want to. They have an investment in the country they helped build. We’re Americans, and we have every right to be here, and it’s not even their land to claim. It’s stolen land. Where are you going to go? Isn’t it sad we can’t just move without having to research how racist it is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 05:11 PM
13

Unfortunately there are, and that’s why many black women don’t want to be associated with feminism because it’s never served us. Last summer was eye opening with the Black Lives Matter rally. I had so many radical feminists tell me that the black community is naturally violent and self destructive, as if black people can only be violent. Which is ironic when you take into account all of those thriving successful black communities that were destroyed over night. Communities that are not even ment…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 05:07 PM
16

It’s all part of the competition women have against each other to win the affections of the few decent men there are. It’s easier to hate each other than to do the real work of holding men accountable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:58 PM
7

Exactly, They basically said “ Being black sucks, but just this one time maybe it would help to be black “
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:56 PM
12

They need to admit they don’t want to lose the benefits of being seen as the preferred standard of beauty. Many of them are also prejudiced and racist. They want to be treated better by men, but still want to feel superior to other women, which is why so many voted for Trump even though he so clearly has no respect for women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:54 PM
12

People who don’t want to hear the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:48 PM
13

I was honestly taken aback. It’s bad enough to see women have this sudden distrust of police and want them defunded, all because white men took another white man’s word over a woman. When how many police brutality videos have we seen over the last few years? How many black women were shot and killed in their own homes? We’ve seen police officers chased around their cars or assaulted by white perps and they walk away, but whatever crime we commit death is always the appropriate punishment. I had …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:47 PM
14

I appreciate you ♥️ People say they are tired of talking about race, they could never imagine how it must feel to live it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:38 PM
17

Government officials are exempt from judgment and scrutiny. They want to take a woman’s rights to choose for herself how many children she has, but has no problem sterilizing WOC up to now, and again it was a black nurse who blew the whistle last year about these poor women being forcibly sterilized in these internment camps, and it was on the news for 2.5 seconds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:22 PM
14

I agreed because I’m a woman before I’m black, but at the same time I feel like we won’t achieve our collective goals because many women use their proximity to power to achieve a false sense of security. We have to listen and watch ourselves be demeaned and disrespected, and then watch non POC women make those things trendy and popular. We are expected to nurture and project strength, and no one ever stops to extend the same courtesy. Black women started the Me Too movement, flipped Georgia blue…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:11 PM
37

I remember reading about a white man who choked a Native American woman nearly to death and he didn’t even serve time in prison. It’s a joke . WOC are specifically targeted by sex traffickers because no one is going to come looking for us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 03:58 PM
1

This is the way. Silence is the only thing that works on men. The occasional dirty look and back to ignoring them is how you deal with them. Asking them to explain themselves is like asking them why they thought sending a dick pic is appropriate. Any attention is good attention
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:07 AM
2

You’re completely right, it’s all a bunch of bullshit. The two major parties are controlled by lobbyists, and money is all they really care about. I understand your struggles and pain even though they’re different from mine. At the end of the day, people suck. People want to point fingers when everyone’s hands are dirty. I’m not sure who I can attribute this too but they basically stated that the fact that we’re all dying and living such a chaotic existence should make us love each other. We sho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:23 PM
20

They don’t know what they want. Honestly. They’re so emotionally weak and wishy washy. They’re all about appearances and what’s going to make them look good and feel good at the time. That’s how they pick their life partners That’s why it’s hilarious that men tell us we should settle. Maybe we practice hypergamy because we don’t want to abandon ship in 15-20 years when the next best thing comes along. They point to themselves and say “ We settle for looks derp derp derp”. Okay and? Just because …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:09 PM
64

It was gut wrenching to see how much she had suffered and overcome before she met him, and how doggedly he pursued her just for it to end like that. Like a parasite , he latched onto her because she was a go getter and full of life. I’m sure when he realized that none of her greatness would rub off on him he quickly resented her. Ugh. The worst part is apparently he’s thriving in prison. He probably likes being there because he doesn’t have to make many decisions or actually take responsibility …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:54 PM
8

Which is interesting because Christianity has its own terroristic history to atone for, past and present, but now that it’s own form of religious extremism has evolved with the times, it had to adapt to keep people under its control. Now we have the prosperity gospel that aligns with America’s true religion, Capitalism. As an atheist I found it quite amusing when Christians around the country advertised Trump’s rapist, racist, misogynistic, despicable, disgusting ass as the new messiah. It wasn’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:48 PM
7

It is. It’s exhausting and depressing. But at least the Y chromosome is degrading so if we’re still around in a couple hundred years, the problem will correct itself. The future really is female 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:37 PM
5

Girl, I’m so over them. Hypocrites. They are so misogynistic and patriarchal , talking about feminine and masculine energies and all that, but look how many of them don’t have a pot to piss in.. Black women can’t win with black men. I saw a panel of black men talking shit about weave, saying they want to be able or run their hands through a woman’s head. So they asked them what black celebrity‘s hair they preferred. Beyoncé 🧐. Um…. They used to say terrible things about Serena Williams. How she’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 08:50 AM
8

Ask a man whose crazier men or women, most of them say women. As if they don’t know they’re the ones putting us in the dirt. It’s disgusting and infuriating that they can look in our faces and lie like that. Then they have to pretend to remember all of the dead women that met crazy men. They don’t give a shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 06:42 AM
11

All of this. They don’t care. Never did. Never will until women as a collective start going their own way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 06:34 AM
2

I wish I was there Sis! I love how his friends broke formation to give you your props 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 06:31 AM
4

Exactly, a lot of them live vicariously through them too. That’s why a woman can be assaulted in broad daylight, and you won’t see any scrotes coming to her rescue, just staring. Probably imagining a time when they wish they could have done the same . I’m so sick of men and their bullshit. The way they play devils advocate as a game. This idiot on Facebook argued with me on a Covid post just to say he agreed with me. Okay…. Did you have fun loser? Then he said that he wouldn’t dare make assumpti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 06:27 AM
44

My son was assaulted by my white boyfriend. They let him flee the state, and they tried to redirect the case towards me. I’m sure they figured it would be a slam dunk., even though he was the one with the criminal record, and I have a good career. No matter how far we get in life, they will always try to keep us down
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 06:16 AM
26

I’ve tried in vain to articulate to white people that it’s possible that cops can treat us like criminals and escalate confrontations to make us react negatively, while simultaneously treating them with the courtesy and respect every human being deserves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 06:13 AM
18

Girl, MOC have no fucking room to talk. The audacity they have opening their mouths when black men murder us at even higher rates. For all the shit they talk about white people, they had no qualms about having sex with white women while we stupidly stayed loyal, and they want to belittle black women who have just now started to divest and date interracially,stating that white men wont respect us like they do their own, and to remind us of our history like we don’t already know. Sir take all the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 05:52 AM
72

The title is passive aggressive and so is the act. Their little way of saying. Domestic work is beneath me. That’s your job. Okay so then you provide and I stay at home. They want it both ways
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 03:01 AM
195

We should all have a friend like Shannan’s. If it weren’t for her who knows what that idiot would have gotten away with I hope that poor woman has some peace in her life. I can’t even imagine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:17 AM
8

Yuck, of course men can be friends with what’re political party person they want because it doesn’t effect them, and even when it does effect them they’ll be the last ones to suffer from it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 01:15 AM
20

Just like you have Pick Mes licking Chris Watts balls for having to deal with Shannan when he could have grown a true pair and left her anytime, plus him killing those poor girls clearly showed that reason didn’t have shit to do with why he did it. He wanted to be free of all of them. He didn’t love his kids either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:29 AM
12

If this was self defense he would have shouted it from the roof tops when he returned, but because he probably ambushed her as they do, he knows he could not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:27 AM
14

They enjoy their power over us. They have no interest in stopping it because it keeps us in our place. “ See what happens when you make us mad?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:25 AM
29

Right, cause what are they doing to make the world safer for us women or color? Not a goddamn thing. Just like every whataboutism they want to rally behind. Men’s mental health, sexual abuse towards men and boys, the finger always points back at men being the perpetrators and they know it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:23 AM
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It’s interesting how women never ever get the benefit of the doubt like men do when they kill in cold blood. It’s always “ She should have left”, “ Violence is not the answer” but for some reason, it’s okay for men to kill us, the insinuation is that we provoke them. Shannan Watts was annoying and bossy so of course he snapped. If men are so easily provoked and manipulated why are they world leaders? If we are equally as violent, why haven’t we poisoned or killed the majority of them in their sl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 02:13 PM
48

Exactly, if anything he would have felt more comfortable killing a POC, because they wouldn’t have been in a hurry to look for her. He could say anything and they would believe him. “ We’ve been fighting more often because she became addicted to drugs”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 03:14 AM
24

Or they could have admonished her for dating outside of her race, or not answer the phone, or told her they don’t have the money to bail her out, etc. There’s too many hypotheticals to entertain the thought that she might have survived this relationship with this piece of garbage solely because she’s a POC. Even if her parents would have bailed her out, abused women often go back to their abusers so the outcome would probably have been the same anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 02:41 AM
10

I understood that and I answered that . I don’t know why having the opportunity to call her parents would have made any difference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 02:29 AM
45

Yes they are aware of it. That’s why it’s popular to call certain women Karen. There are a certain group of white women who weaponize the police when they deal with minorities
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 02:16 AM
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I’m really shocked that you would even entertain the thought that a woman of color would have had a better outcome with the police. No she would not still be alive If she was a POC. She would have been arrested if it was a white man, and probably still arrested if it were a black man. In fact they wouldn’t have been as diplomatic in their interaction. Black women are routinely physically and sexually abused by the police because no one cares. 75,000 black women are missing today in America.So no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 02:13 AM
2

Yeah, Americans have such shitty education on purpose, they honestly think we have the most freedoms. Americans see the unfettered spending of the rich and believe they will be one day too. Unfortunately, a lot of black people here uphold white supremacy and capitalism. It’s sad to see: They want you be accepted by white people so bad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 08:55 PM
2

Everything is always a woman’s fault
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:49 PM
4

Isn’t it interesting how a video depicting a black girl as violent shows the story exactly as it was, but when we see a video of a black man being gunned down, that’s when videos don’t give context. Fascinating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 05:49 PM
4

If that girl had been white the police would have attempted to use non lethal means and ascertain who the aggressor was. She would have been given the benefit of the doubt, and people would understand that she was in fight or flight and not acting rationally because she was a child.. Black people are never given the benefit of the doubt, and our lives are worthless. When white children shoot up schools we are preached to about bullying and being nicer. When black children commit crimes they are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 05:34 PM
5

Yep, just like Natalie Wood’s “ accident”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 05:17 PM
3

That would be wonderful. We could definitely items use the support! Unfortunately the proximity to power and supposed safety is too much to give up to most of these women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:36 PM
3

Americans have been brainwashed by nationalism and fear of violence . It’s sad,There’s no use reasoning for with many of them. They always think m their way is right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:35 PM
3

Thanks for the suggestion . I should have definitely done that. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:34 PM
2

They didn’t have to run and grab the knife. They could have shot her in a non lethal area or use a taser. But that’s not hardcore enough for America
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:12 PM
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Adults shouldn’t be attacking children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:11 PM
11

Yeah, it’s terrible. No one on our side. Our own men beat and cheat on us, and openly mock us and call us monkeys and disparage darker skinned girls. There was a whole Twitter thread of them degrading us, it make me sick to my stomach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 02:51 PM
11

Nope. She was straight up murdered too. Suicide my ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 02:38 PM
9

If she stabbed her it would have been very unfortunate. However, she was defending herself from an attack, she called the police, she did.she’s 15 years old, and like I repeatedly said the police disarm knife wielding assailants all the time in less blood hungry countries. I watch videos of white people threatening and beating cops that make it out alive. Mass shooters are taken in alive. Kyle Rittenhouse ran towards police with an assault rifle and he’s alive. All we want is the same treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:36 PM
12

She was being attacked and stood her ground which is legal in that state.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:07 PM
2

That still doesn’t justify an execution
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:02 PM
14

You’re right, this never happens in other countries where they are able to bring in armed assailants alive. People are so used to seeing police murder people in this country that they think it’s the only way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:01 PM
5

Why are you defending an execution that didn’t have to occur. She called the police. She was defending herself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 11:48 AM
2

Is a taser not a weapon? Or maybe one shot to a non lethal area? Don’t ridiculous. You realize other countries are able to disarm people with knives without shooting them right? Americans are sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 11:20 AM
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Always, I had to check this girl on FB for telling me that “ not all white people are bad. Some of us care”. Right, but not enough. That’s the problem. If you’re not cutting off your racist friends and families, you’re not an ally. We’re tired of performative empathy. We’re tired of being shut down when we express our pain. We’re tired of being tone policed. We’re fucking tired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:07 AM
29

Exactly. Unfortunately, just like every minority, the majority has to known one personally order to identify with their struggle. How quick did Dick Cheney have a change of heart when he found out his daughter is gay? War mongering criminal piece of crap that he Is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:03 AM
107

They absolutely do. A man murdered his wife on a cruise ship in front of their two children because “ She laughed at me”. Animals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:00 AM
87

I had to confront a woman beater while all the men stood and watched. When he came up to me I got in my car, and threatened to run him over. Afterwards a scrote came to “console” me and then asked for my number 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 04:55 AM
13

You should. The very first high value woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 04:49 AM
41

This was payback for the murder I’m sure. It’s not going to stop until enough white people take a stand. Unfortunately they don’t want to understand the duality of police enforcement. They way they are treated in comparison to the way we are is completely different. Honestly many of them are fine with the status quo because as long as we’re being murdered, it won’t be them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 04:36 AM
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Yeah, men are fucking delusional, gaslighting motherfuckers. I’m so sick and tired of their lies and deflection. Like y’all used to beat us to death, stuff us in insane asylums, have whole families in other cities. When did this matriarchy exist? Not in most major societies. I can’t stand most of them. I had to cut a “friend” off because he wouldn’t stand up to his friends on Facebook who were saying misogynistic things. When I confronted him he said “ We all have our bad sides. Women kill their…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 04:34 AM
97

As cops begin to be held responsible for their crimes, they will rebel by murdering more of us. I implore the black community to stop calling the police on your mentally ill family members. Find a way to incapacitate them and bring them to the hospital yourself. The police were formed in America to catch former slaves. They will never stop seeing black people as the enemy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 04:11 AM
329

A man told me once that women are equally as violent. I said if that’s the case, why aren’t we murdering them at a rate of 3 a day like they are murdering us? Why aren’t we poisoning their food, or killing them in their sleep? He said, and i quote, “ Because women don’t have to”. He tried to back track but he said the truth. Men believe women deserve to be murdered by them. They feel entitled to hurting us. That’s why men don’t step in when they see women being abused. They won’t say it, but the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 04:05 AM
50

They murdered her as soon as they got out of the car. I’m so tired. It’s never going to stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 03:58 AM
89

I’m an atheist but I love the story of Lilith too. A bad ass bitch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 03:29 AM
1

They really put here expecting us to subsidize their degeneracy. Nope. They love to tell on themselves. They congratulate these women who pay fifty fifty, but they’re not with them. Boy sit down
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 07:23 PM
1

There will always be women to pick up the scraps. We have our work cut out for us. As long as there’s a woman that will tolerate fuckery, feminism will continue to center men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 07:21 PM
3

Yeah I don’t blame you. It’s unfortunate that predators of both genders seek out every opportunity they can to prey on children
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 11:44 PM
18

You’re welcome, I ll add more context too. I had already told him that my last boyfriend physically and sexually assaulted my son after I let him babysit after he begged me to when I went to a friend’s baby shower. We had dated for six months, and he was a preschool teacher. You can’t ever really trust men. That’s the sad truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 11:38 PM
27

Would you let a 26 year old man you don’t know watch your child?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 11:14 PM
49

Yeah, they always find a way. I was on a Facebook sub for people in their 30s, and this man thought he would help us women folk out by explaining why men cheat as if we didn’t already know. He was so proud of himself. Basically it was for the reasons we already know. They get tired of the same vagina, and we have to nag them into not being completely useless pieces of shit. There are thousands of men who are members of that sub. Not even one of them commented, but 2/3s of them liked his comment.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 08:42 PM
30

Yeah, I’m pretty much done too. Last man I dated a few months ago, kept pressuring me to move the relationship quickly, even when I told him multiple times I wanted to take it slow. He was upset that I couldn’t go on dates once a week, and when I told him babysitters cost money, he offered the babysitting services of his twenty six year old son. I was flabbergasted.Men only care about their needs and wants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:45 PM
18

Lol,Right. Liberal and conservative PickMes love to screech from the mountain tops that a woman’s role is is a breeding mare/ free prostitute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:21 PM
55

Amen, and the way men lie like it’s an Olympic sport, can’t be afforded any benefit of the doubt. They have no problems looking you in the eye on Monday and telling you they love you more than anything, and then by Friday they’re saying that they’re leaving because they were never in love with you. I’ve read too many stories on Reddit of women being blindsided ten, fifteen years in. This is how men are. You can live in a world of fantasy where blind trust is given, or you can go on the offensive…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:19 PM
28

That was a good article. I hate how liberal feminists tore Alyssa Milano apart for suggesting it. “ You’re making it seem like we’re not active participants! We like sex too”. They’re incapable of looking at the bigger picture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:30 PM
14

Porn is absolutely the problem. These scrotes are rewiring their brains and burning dopamine receptors like it’s going out of style. Dating is work, when they can just Jack their dicks to the beautiful women on screen, that would never give them the time of day in real life. Men have never appreciated women, but they knew they had to do pretend and do the work to see a woman naked. Boys as young as 7 are watching women being abused and degraded, and so this is what they expect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:10 PM
37

And also causing cervical cancer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:04 PM
47

Exactly. It’s like they say, they’re not allowed to beat us anymore, so they’re doing it in the bedroom under the guise of BDSM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:00 PM
76

This is why men have to shut us down about everything we bring up about them being garbage. They know they just have to do the bare minimum. Every woman I know has said, “ Well at least he doesn’t cheat or abuse me”. Women have Stockholm syndrome
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:45 PM
107

You see the truth of men in the way they talk about is when we’re not around, and when we’re in a dangerous situations they don’t intervene because they’re living vicariously through the attacker. I wish women would realize how much men collectively hate us. It would set us free
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:43 PM
86

Yep, this is why early FDS recommended going through it and the personal computer before marriage, these scrotes aren’t loyal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:36 PM
59

Why women who have a choice, have not collectively started a sex ban for our abortion rights is crazy to me. Liberal feminism is a cancer. These women will say, “ Well we enjoy sex too”. Okay but look beyond your genitals and look at the bigger picture Brenda. Liberal men are not standing up for our reproductive rights, but are reaping the benefits of birth control. I’m sure if they were denied sex they would actively be fighting with conservative men to end the bullshit. Liberal men hate women …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:30 PM
4

Yeah, that’s sad to see. Unfortunately paying for meals doesn’t make a man high value in itself, and eventually they’ll turn into the degenerates they really are, but men know they have to invest in a woman if they want her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:24 PM
102

They would never make their dream girl Beyoncé or Jennifer Lawrence pay for a bill. Scrotes will say, “ Well you’re no Beyoncé”, and you’re no Morris Chestnut, but women are expected to audition to be a wife no matter how fat, bald, and broke they are. Men want to Provide for those they deem worthy of providing for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 01:11 AM
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Men say this knowing that women date to find a life partner, and they date to pump and dump as many women as possible. You wouldn’t have to worry about money if you dated with intention. Not our problem 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 10:55 PM
203

Are people really this delusional? Today’s porn has women dressing like children and holding stuffed animals and the like while wearing pigtails.. That’s why they declared porn a public health crisis in several states because there’s an uptick in incest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:32 PM
23

Exactly. Hence the reason why we would never stoop so low as to pay a sex worker. The great majority of women would never force a man to have sex with them for money. I’m pretty sure they probably showed them pictures of women dressed in normal clothes and probably got the same response, but they couldn’t have women knowing the truth of how men think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:27 PM
8

Yeah it is. It was eye opening for sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:25 PM
53

https://www.nationalgeographic.com/science/article/bikinis-women-men-objects-science I guess to be fair they showed them women in bikinis, however I doubt that made much of a difference the way men act around women who are fully clothed as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:06 PM
1

Exactly this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:28 PM
38

The thought process itself is dumb, but that’s what societal brainwashing does. You can be intelligent and be brainwashed into believing something is true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:24 PM
30

Not dumb, they just settled and believe they can’t do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:21 PM
81

Finding out that men’s brains light up under “ tool use” when they see women, killed any expectations I had of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:18 PM
36

I honestly think men like seeing women abused, especially in public. Men don’t like or respect women so they think we deserve it when it happens.There was a Twitter thread with women sharing their experiences of their boyfriends or male family members throwing them under the bus in dangerous situations. Men offer protection as a form of extortion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:17 AM
5

Even if a man doesn’t want to sleep with you, he’ll still use his female friends for emotional labor,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:08 AM
49

They don’t. I’ve had to interfere when I saw a woman being beaten in broad daylight. Protectors my ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 11:11 PM
52

Exactly. They couldn’t even have Amy Schumer end up with the hot guy in her own fucking movie because a man would never settle in the looks department
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:17 PM
3

Just make sure that if you are debilitated or die you have someone who’d be willing to take the child. I don’t enjoy being a single mother, but that’s me. Good luck to you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:01 PM
105

Her brother was useless. Just like most men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:51 PM
69

This would require them seeing us and valuing us as people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 12:30 PM
12

Do men give women chances? Hell no. So why should we?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:28 AM
3

It’s already happening. Several states have declared pornography a public health crisis among children because they are molesting and raping their siblings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:24 AM
12

This is why I have very little respect for men in general. They will ruin their lives for a piece of pussy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 05:31 AM
15

My parents do, but they sucked as parents so.... I got nothing 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:16 AM
3

Men are pathetic. They don’t want to look for the women who just want hook ups because he can be the only one bringing diseases to the table
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:11 PM
117

You can never really trust them. You have to keep vetting for the rest of your life. It’s no longer a desire of mine to remarry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 04:39 PM
18

Right, who was also a rapist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 01:15 PM
7

True, but otherwise they won’t do it at all. They’re purely transactional beings. Very few derive pleasure from doing good deeds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 01:01 AM
2

You’re absolutely right. Most Men hate women. -‘d they don’t want us to feel good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 05:21 AM
16

Jim Jeffries really hates women, so does Bill Burr. HIm trying to justify Chris Brown beating the shit out of Rihanna was disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:16 PM
17

Don’t punish yourself. Most of us were libfems until we realized that It’s not in our best interest to give away our sexuality for free .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 09:02 PM
75

Yes, tell us how you really feel. This is what the libfems need to see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:14 PM
20

That is a good point. Does he shit his pants every time you get near his phone? These hoes ain’t loyal 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 02:36 AM
49

Lmfaoooo. I had a hard time with that advice at first, but I’m definitely not putting my blind trust in a man. They lie too well. I have no problem playing Nancy Drew or Carmen Santiago, cause if I find some shit, you’ll never see my ass again with no explanation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:51 AM
41

Yeah, a year ago this subreddit recommended going through his phone before marriage because they can pretend so well. It’s all so exhausting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:28 AM
20

A few weeks ago, this guy I was dating offered to have his grown twenty something year old son babysit my eight year old son so we could go out on a date. We had just met a week prior to that. I was shocked that he thought I was that much of a piece of shit mother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:07 AM
317

Men are simps for each other. Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:04 AM
75

I totally feel you. There’s just not enough good men to go around. That’s just the truth. Most of the men who can wait to have sex is because they’re sleeping with other women already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 12:50 AM
49

Preach. They also glorify toxicity in relationships. The whole movie you see the protagonists fighting and arguing, and then suddenly at the end they’re able to put that aside and live happily ever after. Yeah okay 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:17 PM
3

No worries. I agree with you completely. That’s why we shouldn’t ever settle. Men think nothing of dropping us when “ something better” comes along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 06:22 PM
16

Men don’t do themselves any favors at all. It’s like they want us to just be done with them. So you guys are saying that you can’t be nice and attractive? I’d rather be single
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 06:27 AM
9

Right, but what I’m saying is that men only think about how easy it is to be a woman because they are only thinking of attractive, beautiful women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 03:10 AM
78

Gay men are very attractive, because men respect other men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 02:44 PM
16

That’s what pisses me off about men. They objectify women so much, they don’t even THINK about the women that aren’t considered attractive. Physically unattractive women don’t even exist to them. I would love for them to wake up one day as a Femcel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 02:28 PM
21

Thank you :) I saw those red flags and knew to abandon ship right away. I guess that’s why they want the younger gals right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 02:09 AM
46

I meant him running her down with the car
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:39 AM
65

Older men also want to rush you to the alter so you can begin a life of servitude. I’m 37, and I briefly dated a 48 year old a few weeks ago that was pushing for weekly dates, nightly phone calls, and to meet my son after a week of knowing him. After the second time telling him he wasn’t going to meet my son until I was ready for marriage, I had to dump him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:18 AM
84

There’s no way it was an accident. He’s just trying to get lesser charges. Sick fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:05 AM
8

His responses sounds like he has a humiliation fetish, as amusing as this was to read,He most likely got off on this exchange. Men are turned on by our anger and disgust. Best you can do is block and delete
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 12:19 AM
24

Men who care that much date within their social circles. You shouldn’t feel inferior at all because women bring more to relationships then men do, and often all they can offer you is financial security.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 09:33 PM
49

and as much as they call us gold diggers I’ve had several men tell me they don’t care how accomplished i am because all they care about is looks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 09:24 PM
60

Many ugly men are just terrible people. They’re angry they can’t pump and dump like their better looking friends, so they have to take it out on the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 09:01 PM
4

Thank you 🙏 I’m glad I don’t work at the bedside anymore after 15 years of sexual harassment and assault
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:56 PM
11

That’s exactly right. This was probably the billionth time she told him not to act like an animal, so she thought to herself, “ If he doesn’t care about my opinion, maybe he’ll care about the opinion of millions of strangers” You played yourself babygirl. I bet she’s getting reamed out right now by his and probably her own family for putting their business out on the streets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:40 PM
29

Right, I’m embarrassed for her for having a loser for a husband, and thinking shaming him in front of the world is going to make the problem better. Last woman who pulled this on Tik Tok had her husband leave, which really was for the best, but still.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:33 PM
46

You know she did 🙁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:31 PM
18

Period
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:28 PM
80

Right like that hour shaped figure with a thigh gap and big ass, that’s popular these days is a completely natural way for women to look 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:26 PM
88

Lol, That would explain the desire for anal sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:14 PM
597

Men are simps for other men. They care more about what their friends think, they only respect their male friends, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 04:16 PM
27

When I was a new nurse I had a male patient pretend like he was too weak to use the urinal, so I placed it in there for him. The male nurse I got report from thought it was hilarious seeing the look on my face when he told me he had been using it by himself all day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:37 AM
65

It’s extremely sad, especially since these men probably look like lagoon creatures themselves, but when they see fat hairy monsters in porn having sex with the most beautiful women, they think that could be their reality too. Porn is going to bring this country to its knees. They are already declaring it a state of emergency in several states because there is an uptick in children being sexually abused by their siblings and schoolmates. Porn is encouraging and exacerbating degeneracy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:16 AM
21

Men stay delusional too. I was enjoying an evening to myself a few weeks ago and this old fart tried to buy me a drink. He was probably in his mid to late sixties. I’m 37, but I look like I’m in my mid twenties, so I get hit on by younger men all the time. Now why in hell would I get with some old fuck, when I have options.?That’s why they want to throw money at younger women. They have nothing else to offer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:02 AM
60

It really did. They want us to look and act like their favorite porn stars. They’ve desensitized themselves to what real woman look like, and they’re all holding out for that perfect “10” who will be sexually submissive, and let them abuse them in bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 02:44 AM
21

African and West Indian men are notorious for cheating. We just can’t win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 02:19 AM
25

They sure will. And they love to tell the world how inferior we are compared to other races. Black men are the only race that dog out their own women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 12:48 AM
15

The embarrassment. Sis, what are you doing? Couldn’t be me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 12:46 AM
27

Here’s one of them https://newsnationusa.com/news/entertainment/proud-boys-trump-rioter-please-dont-arrest-me-im-married-to-black-woman/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 12:35 AM
58

Exactly! Kanye West didn’t have that be the last line of Golddigger because it’s an isolated incident, and these men will say it’s a preference, when it wasn’t ever a preference when they were broke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 11:32 PM
54

Yuck. A lot of the Proud Boys that stormed the Capitol are married to black women. Black women should be cognizant of the fact that racist white men will marry them and have children with them because they can essentially “breed out” blackness in a few generations because they will keep them and their children in white circles
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 11:30 PM
103

And isn’t it funny how black men think dating outside of their race is completely fine when they do it. It’s a running joke in the black community about how men will “trade up” when they date interracially.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 10:07 PM
172

I’ve stayed away from those communities because they think white men are the ultimate prize. I went through a time where I didn’t want to date black men because of misogyny, and unfortunately in the South, black women are usually more successful and driven, so it’s difficult to find a black man on the same level in terms of education and economy. I learned really quick white men aren’t any better. They are passive aggressive instead of directly aggressive, and the ones who claim to love black wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 09:43 PM
5

That’s scary horror movie shit. Glad you made it out okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 09:06 PM
7

It’s too much work to use your imagination, and there’s anything that men hate more, it’s putting in work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 09:05 PM
16

How great was that line that Wanda said though, “ When you look at someone through rose colored glasses, all the red flags just look like flags.” Wanda was the closest to FDS. The way she just side stepped his manipulation on the whole auto asphyxiation plot to get her to say I love you back. That was Queen shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 08:58 PM
3

That sound like a great day :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 07:10 PM
4

This is wonderful news! Your best life is ahead of you now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 06:44 PM
32

Yeah you can really see misogyny at play with the undo hatred of this woman. I can see the criticism about the large social media presence, but it seems like that was apart of her job, and anyways he could have opened up his stupid mouth and said something, but that wasn’t the reason he wanted out. He wanted strange. That’s always the reason. I cried at the beginning when she was talking about her struggles before she met that piece of shit, and the fact that kept on pursuing her even though she…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 06:38 PM
2

That looks amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 06:33 PM
16

This is the truth! I can’t even tolerate low value behavior in my friendships anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 06:32 PM
6

That’s beautiful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 03:51 AM
11

Right, and I stated at the beginning that men aren’t much different, but it’s true that back then they knew they had to work for sex. We’re saying the same things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 01:59 AM
3

It’s only going to get worse. Porn is enabling and normalizing pedophilia and incest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 11:05 PM
60

Ah yes the Bible. Don’t be a rapist, didn’t even crack the 10 commandments, so that just goes to show you where women stand in a man’s eyes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:46 PM
26

It is, look at all the criticism Ariana Grande got for for leaving Mac Miller
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:41 PM
13

He’s saying a man will never openly be with an unattractive woman, unless she becomes his servant. Yes we know this already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:24 PM
40

As a nurse, my worst nightmare is having to go home an also take care of some giant man baby who couldn’t be bothered to eat vegetables or exercise. I’m definitely not spending my retirement years wiping my husband’s ass and changing his diaper because he had a massive stroke due to negligence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:19 PM
87

Yes in the past men weren’t much different internally, but they knew that they had to earn a woman’s affection and time. Liberal feminism has women giving themselves away for free, so men don’t even pretend anymore that they want anything else but sex. Thanks to porn men have grown up seeing women reduced to living sex toys. A lot of men prefer to stay home and play video games and master-bate to porn, and they’ve killed their dopamine receptors and their drive to see long term rewards, such as …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:13 PM
21

They miss the days they could stick us in asylums, beat us to death in the privacy of their own homes, and half of us died in childbirth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:52 PM
17

I mean there’s an actual subreddit where men confess their rape stories for people to get off to, so this is definitely not surprising at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:49 PM
10

I hate this disingenuous shit. Yes, some model giving us ordinary gals advice on how to snag a man, as if it isn’t her gorgeous features that are attracting these men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:47 PM
29

He was expressing pity that he has to make a young decent looking white man accountable for crimes. He identified with him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:26 PM
5

Exactly, and even if they keep the mask on for a while, when she ages out of his preferred age range, he’ll be back out there in no time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:19 PM
17

How fucked up is it that society enables sociopathic behavior in men so much, that women believe, and men encourage the belief that a man can’t be good looking and a decent person at the same time. When a woman is cheated on by a good looking man, other men will be like, “ See, that’s what you get for being shallow”, as if they don’t live their lives as if they don’t constantly judge and trade in women like Pokémon cards because they feel like they could do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:11 PM
21

This reminds me of the psychopath who would scare his wife in the kitchen by sexually assaulting her, causing her to cut and burn herself why she was cooking.Most hate women so much but cover it up with “humor”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 03:42 AM
33

Yep, your disgust and discomfort turns them on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 03:28 AM
19

Testosterone is an empathy killer, that’s biology and can’t be changed. It’s unfortunate that women evolved to have empathy, but men did not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 03:20 AM
80

It’s projection. An attractive woman will get attention from men no matter the age. I get more attention now at 37 then I did in my twenties, and especially now that I’m more financially dependent and confident. My friend is almost 50, and she could bag any twenty something year old man if she wanted, but she doesn’t because she’s not a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 03:12 AM
47

They’ve fried their brains so much with porn that even the most beautiful women can’t have any discernible flaws. What a time to be alive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 11:40 PM
51

It is creepy, and disheartening that honestly....that’s pretty much how they see us. A bunch of parts that come together to serve them drinks, food, and sex on demand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 10:26 PM
120

Yep, and it’s always the most disgusting gargoyle that feels like he deserves a “10”. I’m always grateful for growing into my looks so that I could see the true nature of men. When men aren’t attracted to you they pretend you don’t even exist. They can’t even be bothered with basic decency.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 10:07 PM
94

No one ever talks men into dating women they don’t find attractive, and luckily small dicks aren’t even really a dealbreaker for most women if the man has other positive attributes, because men are such terrible people women have learned to accept the bare minimum.They expect us to starve ourselves, wear expensive makeup, and have cosmetic surgeries to fix the things they don’t like about us. I’ve never heard men telling their friends, “ Give her a chance she’s so nice/smart,funny”. When they’re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 10:03 PM
23

This is definitely why
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 09:56 PM
2

I think the context of the picture is in reference to girls at frat parties who want to show off their slavery skills
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 07:59 PM
464

Men will fly into a rage about this post, but are perfectly fine with dissecting a woman into parts. Look at al the different subreddits devoted to that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 07:56 PM
26

I’ll never forget my first labor and delivery clinical in nursing school. This tiny lady was having trouble naturally delivering her nine pound baby, and her “significant other” was literally sitting in the chair sulking silently because he clearly didn’t want a child. Hey asshole, no one forced you to come. It was disturbing to me because she was so sweet and polite even while her vagina was being torn to pieces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 05:59 PM
8

I’m sorry depraved is what I meant. Prisons are filled with religious people, and only a tiny identify as atheist. If believing in Jesus was a sign of morality, the Catholic Church wouldn’t be the largest pedophilic organization in the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:40 PM
23

The most depraved people are religious. As an atheist I’m good without god, many people are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:20 PM
4

That is what they do best
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 12:52 PM
16

They complain because they don’t want to be monogamous. Most men want a harem of at least three women they can bounce between.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 12:19 AM
7

Nice to see a man admitting that they would never consider coffee or walk dates with a woman they were actually interested in, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 03:30 AM
11

Three women a day are put in the ground because of men’s violence, but we have nothing to fear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 03:19 AM
6

This is how much men hate us they can’t even be bothered to look presentable, but you always see gay men looking good for each other
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 09:22 PM
27

Even if they exist, there’s not enough to go around. Not all of us are going to get one, and this sub is good about preparing us to live our lives without male companionship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 08:56 PM
88

I never understood why women are the shallow ones when a man would never ever ever marry a woman he wasn’t physically attracted to. I mean yeah he’ll fuck her but... they really are cretins
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 06:20 AM
2

Men are so pathetic with the way they’re perfectly fine with coercing women into sex. How can you be okay with knowing the other person is completely disgusted by you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 05:35 AM
6

There’s just not enough HVM to go around and that’s the reality. I am very grateful to this sub for making me satisfied with my life as it is. I look around me and most of the women I know are settling in their relationships.that’s not what I want for myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 05:23 AM
3

Just when I thought I couldn’t be surprised by men’s depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 04:54 AM
85

At this point I imagine men don’t want to pay a prostitute for sex because they know how pathetic and disgusting it is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 12:59 AM
6

Exactly. Sad for his child, but I give no fucks about a dead rapist. One less in the world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:19 AM
32

Kobe didn’t cheat....he raped a woman. Raped. That poor girl had vaginal tears only seen during assault. Not rough sex. Assault
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 10:47 PM
22

We’re not useless when you want to stick your dick in one though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 08:09 PM
39

He finds amusement in terrorizing her. Charming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 08:02 PM
8

That’s why men say “ We don’t play prostitutes for the sex, we pay them to go away”. That’s their end game ladies. Don’t give it away for free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 11:31 AM
53

Same. Jealous and abusive. I’m Dominican. I would never
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 04:04 PM
2

Preach, I’ve seen stories of some PickMe’s setting their friends up to be raped. They’ll do anything for male approval
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 10:17 AM
1

She sounds like the same person 😂. Had of mayonnaise? I’m screaming! Yeah, I’m not jealous of your six year mediocre relationship, especially when they’ll let the mask slip and tell you unsatisfied they are every once in a while
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 10:15 AM
4

Isn’t it sad that women will accept any piece of trash as long as he’s not abusive?My friend has literally said” Well I know he won’t cheat on me or beat me” That’s the bare minimum sis. But go ahead and keep cleaning after him like a child. The bar is so low it’s in hell. That’s why men go after women to shut them up, but never put their trash bag friends in their place. They all benefit from the worst of them. As long as they can say I’m not a rapist or abuser, they are marriage material
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 12:54 PM
5

Thank you sis. It’s crazy to me, because I’ve worked with so many Asian women, and they’ve all had such strength of character. They are wonderful! It makes me angry that men think they can bulldoze them, and treat them like servants. All men have is the audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 12:49 PM
3

I hope so love I’m starting to give up,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 11:02 AM
9

Now this is an informed helpful response. Thank you Sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 10:20 AM
6

Lol. It’s definitely not a competition, but you’re telling me something I already know. You as a mixed woman should be sensitive to the fact that men prefer women like you, and jumping in to say, “ We have it bad too”, is not comforting. It’s a free country, you’re allowed to say what you want, and I’m allowed to respond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 09:16 AM
4

I don’t know. I’ve seen other races co-sign their bullshit. No one respects black women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 09:13 AM
15

I know they do, but no one has it worse than black women. That’s a fact
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 09:09 AM
37

So sad. Men want us to audition for them, in the form of sex, emotional labor, and maid duties, but will get so angry at the thought of paying a 30 dollar meal at the Cheesecake Factory. It’s not our fault you’re not dating with intention sir.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 08:49 AM
29

I wish it was a lie Sis, but it’s definitely the truth.Black women are the least messaged and responded to on OLD, and it matches what I’ve seen and experienced in real life. Black women have been dying alone for a very long time, and I’m not even sad about it anymore. I deleted my OLD accounts and I’m working on enriching myself through my hobbies and talents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:56 AM
5

Thank you. Yeah it was terrible, but I’ve leveled up in a way I would never have if he were still alive. I have a great career and own my house, and am raising my son In a quiet, loving environment Yeah. It’s scary because they know they have to have an alibi, so that when you leave, other people can say “ Well he never treated ME like that”. Most men are not good people. They truly lack empathy. What happened to you is not your fault, and it doesn’t mean your weak or foolish. I was 28 and a wor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:41 AM
31

It’s fucking terrible. Someone posted a twitter thread of black men calling dark skinned black women monkeys, ugly, and other terrible things. It made me sick to my stomach. You have rappers and singers openly stating that they prefer light skinned women. When I was on OLD I had the most attention when I wore long haired weaves, and I’m light skinned myself, so I knew what they were attracted to, and when I started wearing my natural hair, my matches dropped. I refuse to wear weave again just to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:34 AM
37

Yes fetishization sucks, but it hits black women worse because we are the least desirable of all of the races. Black men are the only men out of all the other nationalities who actively trash and demean their own women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:24 AM
10

That’s how abusive men are. They can’t treat you like shit all the time or from jumpstreet, or you’ll leave right away. Know this. They know exactly what they’re doing. It builds up gradually over time so that when the abuse reaches full force, your mind is completely disoriented. It’s just like the frog in a boiling pot. Men are expert gaslighters and manipulators. My late husband would have me feeling so sorry for him. Then one day I woke up and realized. How come, it’s all my shit that’s gett…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:20 AM
17

I don’t have conversations with PickMes. They are dangerous. They want every woman to be as miserable as they are. They don’t want to expect more of men. I agree with the comment about sending them the handbook and leaving it at that. Even then, they’ll scoff at it and say it’s too high maintenance. That’s it not realistic. I’m done performing emotional labor for these women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:16 AM
81

Yep. This is what us black women have to deal with. Black men who fetishize white or Hispanic women, or white men who fetishize black women and call us chocolate or whatever else nonsense. I
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:06 AM
7

Yes. I’ve distanced myself from a friend who thinks I should settle for plain guys, even though her plain husband makes her come home early from work because he can’t deal with his own child, and can’t be bothered to turn on a crock pot when he’s been home all day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:48 AM
3

I’m sorry you went through this. I can’t even imagine being spit on. That is the most vile disgusting act. I’d rather be hit, honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:47 AM
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A woman can get over her hopes and dreams not panning out, and carve out a life anyways. A woman can be generally dissatisfied with her life, but still tries not to take it out on other people, Men have to make everyone else around them pay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:37 PM
2

I once talked to a man on OLD who became irate when I told him I didn’t appreciate him turning the conversation sexual because this was literally our first conversation. He went off the rails and told me that men don’t care about our degrees or success. They only care about our looks. I believe him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:28 AM
3

Exactly! It was in response to a meme joking about ejaculating in a woman without her consent. But that’s okay of course
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 03:03 AM
2

Mine too. I was raised to believe a man wants his wife to be a servant. Made me never want to get married
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 03:02 AM
2

Yeah. It’s such a shame. He’s way to good looking to have such rapey opinions. Very disappointing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 03:53 PM
5

I had a 3 day FB ban for saying men are pigs🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 03:48 PM
28

Pick me’s are dangerous. I used to play Captain Save a Ho, but I gave up. They are the ones to offer up their kids to their sexual predator boyfriends on a silver platter. It’s best to cut them out of your life, or put a lot of distance between you if possible. They want every other woman to be as miserable as they are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 03:20 PM
4

There was a black feminist page a while ago that didn’t get a lot of traffic so the page runner gave up. Black women are too suspicious of feminism due to comments such as above, and the fact that white women overwhelmingly voted for Trump. Honestly, with everything going on recently politically. I don’t have the energy. It’s very traumatizing to have to explain racism to people who should know better, but don’t care to. As seen above
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 10:46 PM
6

You should. Feminism has never included black women. I left liberal feminism because I was told that radical feminism is for everyone. It’s definitely not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 01:12 PM
7

Black people cannot appropriate other people’s culture, because we are not seen as human in most parts of the world. Appropriation is the stealing of another’s culture, and turning it into something palatable and acceptable for a mainstream audience. black culture, music, and art is seen as cool when white people do it, and basic and ignorant when we do. I’ll point you to how twerking was seen when it was primarily done by us black women, and now there are several white women who have made their…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 11:18 AM
13

I’ll never leave the house I paid for with my blood, sweat, and tears. If I do, I want it written in our prenup that he’ll have to pay me the entire value of it if he cheats or defrauds the marriage in any way. Obviously I’m not marrying any one who is below my tax bracket next time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 09:07 PM
55

Whenever you point out that women are raped in places like this or India, it always shuts them up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 04:00 PM
17

So I should pay for the risk of being raped and murdered at worst, and shitty and risky sex at best? Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:58 PM
6

Yep. Liberal feminism has spread the lie that a man can respect you, while simultaneously treating you like trash in the bedroom. An updated form of the PickMe. Maybe if I let him choke, slap, and tie me up. I’ll be more desirable, and he won’t cheat. Women think that if they act like the porn stars their men are used to seeing 24/7. It will keep his interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:02 PM
1

He is! Thank you so much. He’s a happy little boy :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:56 PM
6

It sure is. And when it’s good it’s usually attached to a trash human being. Men use good sex and going to the gym as a personality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:54 PM
6

You sound like a very strong person! Not every abusive person is abusive 24/7. It sounds like the good traits is just him love bombing you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:04 PM
14

Exactly! Block and move on.It does hurt, but having a man tell you in ten to twenty years he never loved you and settled for you is even worse, and it happens all the time. Men have no problem telling you they love you to continue to reap the benefits they enjoy. A coworker once told me “ If a girl’s not used to going out for steak and lobster, I’m not taking her out for some” That is their mentality, as much as they accuse us of using them. They use us more. No one is using men for 30 dollar pl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:06 PM
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If they’re attracted to you know then no, and most men don’t want to associate with women they aren’t attracted to. They ignore the rest. The. There are the ones who will be friends with women they find unattractive just to extract emotional labor from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 10:31 AM
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Think about it this way. If this man went on a date with his dream girl, Charlize Theron. Do you think he wouldn’t text her the very next day? A man would never let his dream girl have a chance to be taken away by another man. Think about the men who were really into you. They kept the lines open of communication because they didn’t want you to make another choice. Men make the time for the things they care about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 10:24 AM
10

I’m happy you cut him off. The only reason a grown ass man would be talking to a child is to groom them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 09:57 AM
16

The problem is, is that there’s simply not enough HVMs to go around. That’s the unfortunate truth. They are definitely out there, but with the increase of pornography and liberal feminism, men are just degenerating. I hope to meet one one day, but I’m focusing on improving my life, and I’m fine with being alone. I look around and see all these trash relationships around me, and I feel lucky that I don’t have to deal with that anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 09:54 AM
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It also meant that sex was very painful for her, which probably made him enjoy it more. Savages
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:10 PM
15

Exactly. Good men love to provide because it gives them self worth. These ashies can call women gold diggers all they want. but they sure love a gold digger when they get some money. Lol. Emotional vampires
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:02 PM
20

Wow. Yeah, it’s so crazy that men have gaslighted women into thinking we don’t deserve better. That we have to jump through hoops to earn their love. Every time a man bitches to me about gold diggers and users, I point them to the science of statistics. We are the ones being raped and murdered by them every fucking day, They are the single greatest threats to our lives. That’s a fucking fact. A black woman, such as myself, is six times more likely to die by domestic violence. How are they not as…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 05:01 PM
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Right, and that’s not the worst case scenario. What if he turns abusive? What if he dies tragically? My education and career made the difference between staying in an abusive marriage. I was able to kick him out, because it was me who was paying the bills and rent. I have a son, and I would definitely discourage his future wife from staying at home. It’s not smart. Men are fickle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 03:08 PM
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Thank you sis! Struggle love is very popular in the black community unfortunately. I thought dating outside my race would fix that, and then my son ended up in the hospital when I let him babysit him for an hour to go to a friend’s baby shower. He ended up fleeing the state, and I was left to pick up the pieces. So I learned very quickly that most men are trash, I’m almost forty, and I’ve had enough pain and suffering from men to last a lifetime. We need to vet hard, take no excuses. Your life m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 02:54 PM
3

You’re welcome! We have to look out for each other Sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 02:01 PM
49

You got it sis. Men will never think the same as women. They generally lack empathy, and don’t appreciate the things they don’t have to work for. Men are resentful of asking for and receiving help. They demand everything, take everything, and will give you nothing if they can get away with it. I’ve built up several men, and All I got for it was to be cheated on in my own bed while I was at work. Women need to set higher standards for ourselves. What have we really gained in these relationships b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 01:55 PM
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It took me a long time to understand that men use women as placeholders, and then dump you for the ones they really want. Being sexually attractive to a man is not a compliment. They will have sex with anyone, and sometimes any thing. They want us to settle for their subpar treatment, and still expect us to audition for the wifey role. All they have, is audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 01:37 PM
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Right, they would never ask Margot Robbie, or whoever to split the bill or pay for anything. If you don’t see me in that light, I don’t want you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 01:24 PM
27

You still need a separate form of income. Many men can keep up a mask for years. unless you’re wealthy, it’s not smart to leave a large gap in employment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 01:21 PM
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Women need to look out for each other.m, because men are not protectors. I witnessed a man beating a woman with a baby in her arms. I screamed at him to stop, and when he came towards me, I threatened to run him over with my car. I would definitely reverse a few times too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 01:19 PM
3

Absolutely! If you do decide to stay with him, never ever ever let him disrespect you in front of them or anyone else! Good luck ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 10:09 AM
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Water seeks its ownlevel. There’s always the “nice guys “of a group of trash, because they look better by default. That’s their entire angle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 10:02 AM
8

Just forget about him. Block him.He doesn’t deserve any closure. Sounds like a complete loser. Good job for moving on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:58 AM
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Yes, but going bare feels so good, along with being a complete sociopath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:49 AM
3

I’m so sorry to see this. It’s not your fault. Plenty of men pass out at parties and are not raped or violated. It makes me feel even worse that many of us who were raped, can’t recognize what it is, because society has such a great job of gaslighting women in every possible way. We are here for you, and you are not alone ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:42 AM
8

Imagine if a woman told a man this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 12:52 PM
8

Wow, anyone who truly loved you would never let you hitch your wagon to them, if they were in fucking prison for life. These women are mentally ill
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 09:40 AM
3

Wow, his biggest complaint was the cologne, because she was going through chemo. I’m just disgusted. His daughter needs to never look back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 02:25 PM
3

With the way the incest genre in porn is growing, I wouldn’t put their own daughters out of their lustful gaze either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 03:28 PM
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Exactly, a wise redditor once said that unattractive women don’t even register to men at all. They always picture their lives as women, as a “ hot one”. I concur that the lack of self awareness is astounding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 02:48 PM
7

Okay ashy..... maybe if y’all learned how to stay out of jail and get an education, like we did.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 02:49 AM
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So he’s basically done this himself. That’s why the MeToo movement has incensed men. They’re remembering all of their rapes that were never considered rapes before
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 02:43 AM
11

Charlamagne da god admitted to raping a woman using Spanish fly on live air. Of course he still has his job, because it’s such a scary time for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 12:24 PM
6

Does he know he’s proving the point that men are violent thugs?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 04:22 PM
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We are the prize. That’s why you run down people on the street and shoot up classrooms when you can’t get us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 02:46 PM
23

Wow, the level of disrespect, and the complete stupidity. Men only think with their dicks. What would he tell a guy friend who had “fallen on hard times”. He’s say, “ Guess you’re staying home. Broke ass bitch”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 03:13 PM
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Right, because that gun will be held by the person who swore to love and protect you. It’s very depressing. Three women a day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 02:43 PM
13

Absolutely. Can you imagine the whining we’d hear? “ Huh, you expect compensation for putting your health, livelihood , and mental sanity at risk? What do you mean you don’t want to risk entering your golden years with no savings or nest egg because my penis does what my penis wants?!!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 02:31 PM
11

We used to need men, but unfortunately they’ve stopped evolving, so no....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 02:26 PM
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And yet we’re the ones who have to walk by grocery stores, malls, etc. filled with magazines telling us how ugly, boring, prudish, slutty fat, skinny, skinn/fat we are. Sorry, no empathy here because if they actually put in the effort to be good lovers, it would not matter so much. If they could put their egos aside and get strap one. I have to train my ass, because my vagina isn’t tight enough for you, but you can’t wear a strap on, or learn how to use your mouth and fingers properly? Let me pl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 02:25 PM
3

Aww that’s sweet. Now imitate the frown of disappointment she gives you, after the two minutes of terrible sex you’ve just bestowed upon her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 02:17 PM
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He wants a cookie for having to parent his kid I guess. Sorry, I’m all out 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 02:13 PM
1

She’s talking about low value men, which is who I’m referring to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 06:16 PM
1

My OP is responding to the low value male she is describing, is she not?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 11:05 AM
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We are not talking about high value men. I don’t. Know why people get the impression that I am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 10:47 AM
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Sad reality. Even for black men now. Everyone wants to emulate our culture, and our body features, but no one wants to be with us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 10:32 AM
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I didn’t say anything of the sort, and I do give good men credit when credit is due. You guys put words in my mouth. I said a man’s eyes will wander if you do not look like the woman he truly desires physically. A wandering eye is a whole spectrum of behaviors
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 10:25 AM
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Yes cheaters are going to cheat, and we’re pointing out what gives them incentives so that everyone can be aware. There’s nothing that I said that should be taken personally, and yes PickMe’s need the cold hard truth. They’re already flocking to the plastic surgeons and have been since ever. It’s true that if am man feels that he settled with you in any way, he will most likely leave you later on. That’s the truth. That’s why you pick a man who goes above and beyond for you and treats you like h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 10:22 AM
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I thought we were talking about cheaters. That’s what I was talking about. Not every man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 10:21 AM
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Of course they’ll cheat regardless, but if a man feels like he has to settle for what he whatever he finds physically attractive, it will make it a lot easier for him. That’s what’s most important to them. What pleases them most aesthetically. As long as you look like their favorite porn star, the rest is inconsequential
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 01:16 AM
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If he loved her and they mean that much to her, it would mean that much to him that the frogs have made her find her purpose in life. I used to have pet rats and i would never give them away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 12:33 AM
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I agree with this completely. If you’re not his “type” physically he’ll always have a wandering eye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 09:40 PM
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No it doesn’t, because any decent guy wouldn’t have let it get to that point , Jesus Christ, he didn’t even return the favor. My anger is directed at that man old enough to be your father, definitely not at you. This is why old men want younger women such as yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 07:19 PM
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You should have included all of the details. This pervert is twice your age and has already gotten you to give him a blow Jon. Run away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 04:10 PM
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Men are very comfortable with having sex with woman when they have no desire to. They absolutely don’t care. We exist for their pleasure. That’s why the MeToo movement has men pissed off and scared. They don’t want to think about all the times they’ve had sex with a girl who has shut down emotionally. Men are strange creatures. I could never have sex with someone who didn’t find me attractive, or who I had to avoid eye contact with while I raping them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 11:22 PM
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Men of quality give women this exact same advice. I have met a quality man that didn’t expouse these values of letting a man pay, not sleeping with a man so soon, making sure a man has his shit together, and most importantly being successful and independent. The quality men I’ve met have shared invaluable tips that have improved my credit score, showed me how to negotiate for more pay, given me critical career tips, etc. Any man offended by our message, is a man who wants to pump and dump his fr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 05:11 PM
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Yes, that was literally the standard. A good man is one doesn’t beat you, and doesn’t drink too much. My mother is a boomer, she adopted me later in life, and she raised me to think a woman needs to cook and clean if she expects to keep a husband. She doesn’t understand why women want men to share their same interests, or have a sense of humor. She thinks that’s unimportant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 04:41 PM
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It’s because they know the majority of men are trash, and they were even worse back in their day, so most older women can’t imagine a man who isn’t a slave driver
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:53 PM
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Girl yes, we got our sisters out here with MDs and PHDs with these losers with no pride or ambition, and they’re getting cheated on while they go to work and earn the money for the household. My piece of trash forgot to log out of my iPad, so when I took it to work one night to pay my bills, I got to read about him inviting women over to sleep in our bed. Never going that that road again. Everything stays separate and that pre nup is going to be ironclad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:52 PM
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Yes, emotional leeches they are, and another shining example of how unattractive women don’t even register as people to men, because all we are, are objects to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:37 PM
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The standards for men, and black men in general, are so low, that as long as they have a job, we should be dropping our panties. The black men that are college educated, good looking, and are actually good people, are beating women off with a stick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:13 PM
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Yes, black women are told this daily by society, and our friends and family. We understand completely sis. It’s called “struggle love”, and I want to part in it anymore. Most men are intimidated and resentful by a woman’s success. They’ll use it in the beginning, because they’re leaches and parasites, but eventually they’ll try to destroy you, usually it’s your self esteem, but the worst is paying them child support for equal time and alimony. Stick to your standards sis. We understand here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 01:51 PM
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I know what you mean. I feel the same way and it doesn’t make us lesbians. Friendships with women are based on real genuine caring and emotion. Our sisters are our sisters because we truly love them as people. Women take the time to know and truly care about their friends. Men are more based. They don’t have genuine and meaningful connections with each other. Their friendships with each other are based on sports, cars, money, using and abusing women. very superficial things. They don’t support e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 06:53 AM
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Same sis. Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 06:43 AM
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They can cry me a fucking river. “ I can’t change how tall I am, or my penis size, you can change your looks and weight!!!! Waaahhhhhh!!!”....... which makes it even easier for men, because we’re expected to cut into our bodies and have obsessions with fitness and eating well. Being healthy is important, but looking like a celebrity takes hours in the gym. Porn has men expecting women to spend their entire lives lifting and meal planning for a thigh gap that he’ll eventually tire of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 06:39 AM
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And yet men are the biggest gold digging vampires of them all. At home and at work. They are cutthroat and ruthless in all areas of their lives. They steal ideas, they step on people to get ahead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 05:45 AM
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Money doesn’t make you high value. You had the strength of character and courage to leave a dangerous situation, and you tried to see the best in someone. You sound very high value to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:40 PM
3

Don’t do this, for your own safety
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 03:23 PM
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It’s just because they want any excuse to beat us. That’s all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 03:18 PM
15

Yasss Queen! The future is yours now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:13 AM
3

You are my hero
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:03 AM
13

Yes, most men think they’re good. Hannah Gadsby touches upon this brilliantly when talking about how all men have their own unique specific line they think is crossing into “bad” guy territory, and how they always move the line for themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:59 PM
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As a former lib fem, I think 1. It’s make all the bad decisions you’ve made okay. if the majority believe something, it must be true.2. They really believe men have good intentions. In my twenties up to a few years ago, I really believed that a man could respect a woman he slept with early, if she was “great enough”. I was wrong, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:56 PM
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Out of sight, out of mind.... until it starts blistering. Cracking, then oozing. Men don’t typically have symptoms, and for them that’s good enough. They don’t care about their health in general, but anything that will affect their pee pee is a no go
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:13 PM
6

Or maybe...she left because he was clearly a fucking psycho!!!!! Men are not good people-K. Michelle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:11 PM
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You know the answer sis, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 12:07 PM
15

Men are soulless ghouls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 11:19 PM
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Yes ma’am. I’m Dominican, I will not date a Hispanic man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:40 PM
31

Socio and psychopaths, the lot of them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 05:34 PM
12

I love how men expect us to understand we’re just objects. They couldn’t possibly be satisfied with one woman. We’re replaceable holes, but how many women would get beaten for even asking for a MMF?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 03:50 PM
5

Hmmmm. I agree with you 10-15 percent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 01:37 AM
4

I’m definitely happier now accepting this reality Sis. I’m not waiting for my life to begin again, I’m living it! Thanks to FDS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 01:33 AM
10

Exactly!!! I wonder why women would want to avoid a man who would threaten rape over an internet disagreement. Oh yes, I want to be near a wild fucking animal. Yes Please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 01:00 AM
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Right, and even if there was hatred, maybe it’s because hmmmmm, I don’t know.... it’s completely justified? we’re tired of being murdered, raped, and abused.... and then gaslit into thinking we’re not, but hey guess what? Women that hate men would prefer to live separately, they don’t have the incel fantasies of revenge rape/murder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 12:58 AM
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Some! Most guys honestly, and is exactly the reason why many of those women only care about the dollar. Why invest feelings in a man who only wants you for your thin body and good looks?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 12:27 AM
1

Just throw him and his brother away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 06:39 PM
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They did try it Queen, and I loved how you swerved them like a bad habit. The audacity!!!! Men want women to be with them no matter what they look like. We can’t even ask that you have money, but they never extend the same courtesy to us. “ We’re visual creatures!!.... okay and? We are too. Men are the worst hypocrites. I can’t even tell you how impressed that you didn’t give these crusty assholes a chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 06:17 PM
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There are no words. I’m glad he’s sparing Australia the cost of a trial
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 04:08 PM
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If he has good relationships with all of them, then he’s still having sex with them. Besides, if this go serious, you could never get married. Your income would tied up in his child support.Run sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 03:40 PM
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How come the same thing doesn’t apply to them when they marry a woman who fleeces them for all they have?. It’s never, “ That will teach you John...”, it’s always, “ Women are snakes and that’s why you should always have the skinniest one”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 03:30 PM
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That sub is weird to me.They constantly post memes about men disrespecting women, but then they talk smack about FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 02:44 PM
7

Everybody Loves Raymond has to be the worst. Poor Debra
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 02:42 PM
7

Edible Arrangements is what you get your realtor as an appreciate. Shit, I gave mine a basket of brownies and cakes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 02:27 PM
5

I have no words...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 02:03 PM
5

It’s not that marriage isn’t for you. It’s that HE isn’t for you. It’s sounds like you’re having to mother him more than be his equal partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 07:30 PM
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So important. I’m not going to end up a caregiver to someone who didn’t live healthily
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 02:26 PM
4

It wasn’t sentimental if he’s having you pay on a date
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 02:17 PM
10

“It’s what I get for reaching out”..... or how about don’t give out insincere apologies?🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 02:05 PM
7

Nailed it, 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 01:56 PM
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Yes girl. Not doing “struggle love”, anymore. But then the same people judge the single moms that are left behind. Admonishing then for not choosing better. Maybe it’s just hatred of women. I think of classic LVM Kanye West’s disrespectful anthem to the black woman, which is one of his most popular songs, had people dancing to the idea that black men leave black women when they become successful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 01:07 PM
1

It’s not about you, and it never was. These type of men need to have strange. That’s all sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 12:09 PM
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Nope, if more people got the truth like that, the world would be a better place. Some people live their whole lives having sunshine blown up there ass, especially men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 11:36 AM
18

This is why I don’t blame any kept woman for squirreling money away. Rainy day fund comes in all forms 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 11:27 AM
37

There’s a reason they went no contact. He’s just not saying it. If he actually developed an emotional connection with his daughters, they would have never done that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 11:20 AM
17

I had only heard of reddit being incel central. I was surprised to find this sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 11:16 AM
81

No one is told to settle more than black women. That’s okay, I’ll stay single. Been there. Done that. Never again. Men will tell you that they love your independence and success, and were drawn to it, but eventually they’ll resent you for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 10:21 AM
41

They never leave without a new one set up..NEVER
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 06:56 PM
2

Yes, that is my major deterrent. I have a seven year old boy so, that’s what they like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 06:23 PM
2

You’re totally right. Women should have the knowledge, because you’ll never know if it could have come in handy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 06:22 PM
3

Agree to disagree, but it’s not realistic in my opinion to expect most women to have the time, money, or ability to not react perfectly in a traumatic situation, and I definitely do care about victim blaming, if we’re telling them that they could have prevented their rape if they had taken self classes.That’s not fair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 05:36 PM
22

No. I don’t know how old you are, but I’ve been a RN for fifteen years, and I’m almost forty. Women, have the mental and emotional capability, to defy any illness. From birth, girl preemies survive more. Women will cultivate relationships, get married, have children. They live and appreciate life. While having debilitating physical and mental illness. Sometimes it has them in and out of the hospital their whole lives. Women seek treatment. We’re socialized to please, to be grateful.We don’t want…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 05:24 PM
8

I” ll definitely look into that, because I do go back and forth with the idea of getting a firearm as a single mother. but statistics don’t lie, and as a woman of color I can’t ignore that, and it’s important for people to also have that knowledge.They tried to sentence a woman to prison for twenty years in my state for shooting at ceiling when her husband threatened her. Also, at the end of the day, a man who wants to kill you, will kill you., and I shy away from advocating heavily for self def…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 04:58 PM
9

Awww that’s so sweet. That’s expensive at that age. A man will do anything when he values a woman. Men just want to use our bodies, and then get mad when we ask them to prove that they want to invest in US as people. Not “getting some pussy”. Like y’all out here not even being good at sex. Doing the most.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 04:41 PM
5

Yeah of course. Men belittle and abuse men who show kindness and a sense of serving someone else. Remember all of the hurt feeeweees for the Gillette commercial? I ripped into my male coworker who appears to be a HVM when he stated “ It was a little preachy” so I said. “ Well you know.... women are gangraped in full view at concerts, at the beach, in clubs, etc....Three women a day are beaten to death. Every day.... many of you guys are mistaking your apathy for “goodness”. Men rationalize and c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 04:30 PM
9

The first and only thing my mom ever told me about finding a husband was that if I don’t cook and clean for him, he’ll leave me. My seven year old son already knows women weren’t put here to serve him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 04:06 PM
5

I saw this. So beautiful. Even the little things... like the guy spelling out I love you in the snow 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:29 PM
4

Never work people. Ever!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:24 PM
5

Part of the negging/ power move umbrella,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:09 PM
3

That’s really cute :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:08 PM
13

I agree completely except for firearms. Statistically a woman has a greater chance of being shot with her own weapon, especially women of color
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:05 PM
6

I love seeing success stories! You deserve it sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 02:54 PM
57

Oh you had the “provider dad” too. I don’t even bother faking pleasantries anymore, after a lifetime of emotional neglect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 02:43 PM
12

Misery loves company
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 02:38 PM
3

Since males spread STDs without showing symptoms, They are the ones who need purity checks. Idiots
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 02:35 PM
4

Okay? And who?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 02:23 PM
16

Yes, men lobe the feeling of being loved. That’s all. They don’t have empathy, so it’s impossible for them to love
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 01:58 PM
16

Snowboarding trip? Probably off to see the side piece who he showers with gifts probably
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 01:57 PM
8

Yes sis, they gaslight us with these toxic thoughts when we’re young, so that we settle for any turd with a job and a car, when we’re too young to want more and know better. Women age like fine wine when they take care of themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:49 PM
6

It’s okay. Let him keep the money. Deep down inside he knows he’s a worthless piece of shit, because he didn’t earn it himself. It’s thousands and years less than what you would have wasted with him. You’re already stronger than him in so many ways. Continue to level up Queen. And I quote, “ The best revenge is your PAPER”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:46 PM
2

But then it’s surprise Pikachu face when you tell them it’s OTHER men that are killing you, you waste of space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:37 PM
6

I can’t. A food court Valentine’s Day. Girls... I just can’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:25 PM
13

Yes sis, I found out he cheated on my birthday... second verse same as the first
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:21 PM
6

You did the absolute right thing, and your friend is definitely a PickMeisha and doesn’t have your back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 03:07 PM
40

I was generalizing for the sake of humor...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 02:42 PM
5

Yes sis. They have no problems looking you square in the eye everyday to tell you how much they love you, I want you to be the mother of my childrencakes.....blah blah blah.... and then next year it will be.... “ I’ve felt this way for a while now...:”Chris Watts had no problem having sex with his pregnant wife before he murdered her in their bed. What men “love” is the feeling of being loved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 02:32 PM
27

What happens when women prefer to use sex toys over their partner? It’s the exact same thing except a woman would be torn to shreds, because women bad. Men right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 04:35 PM
20

Honestly this the damage the Patriarchy and it’s army of PickMeishas have done. When you can order your next conquest on Tinder like a blue light special... is it any wonder when you start to think it’s vagina that’s in abundance. We need to have better standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:19 PM
10

A decent man would have had the vasectomy instead of suggesting his wife have the procedure, if he was the one who didn’t want kids
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 08:36 AM
33

Yes we know unfortunately. They’ll look right in her eyes, and lie to a woman for years about loving her, and then one day trade up and say he hasn’t been in love in years. That’s why we should never settle. Men settle all the time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 08:03 AM
13

He’s going to kill her with his incompetence, and you know if she strokes out who will put her ass in a nursing home so fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 07:58 AM
15

Shout out to all the incels proving us right, with every threat of violence and rape. Yes, your crazy ass needs to pay to be in a woman’s company. Die mad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 07:30 AM
29

I’d say 85 percent because men as a whole lack empathy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:02 PM
23

Yep My late husband drained my bank account on several occasions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:53 PM
37

I just spent the whole On the Run Tour 2 looking at Beyoncé like why Sis? Is it true? Is he really your Emotional Support Camel?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 12:10 PM
51

Men are just filth. I once saw this movie where a professor took his wife to a restaurant to break the news of him cheating on her with his student. He was hoping she wouldn’t make a scene. At one point when she started to get loud as she read him for filth, he had the audacity to ask her to lower her voice. I just sat there in awe, because it would have taken everything for me not to have flipped that table over on him, but why take out my anger on the restaurant?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 12:00 PM
64

There was this exact same sub in reverse, except the man didn’t want to tell his pregnant fiancé he inherited money, and all the posters were licking his butthole in agreement
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 11:27 PM
18

Never get involved with a man who has a child under the age of three. Chances are he’s still having sex with the mother
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 09:11 PM
47

Testosterone kills empathy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 08:52 PM
34

Men know exactly how terrible and disgusting they are. Look at how protective they are Of the women in their own lives. They ask us these things to deflect and gaslight. As long as they have women asking themselves, “ Are men really that bad?” They can continue to use us as sex and slave labor. As long as they keep asking “ But aren’t women as equally violent?”, they can continue to benefit from what the worst of them do. Women can say “ well he doesn’t beat me and he goes to work...” That’s wha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 05:24 PM
6

Yes me too. Most men don’t know how to truly love a woman. It’s how she makes him feel. They usually described physical and slave qualities when they describe the women they love, “ She’s, beautiful, she’s selfless, she knows exactly what to do to make you smile, her cooking is phenomenal, she keeps everything in order....”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 05:04 PM
22

And of course he looks absolutely disgusting to top it off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 02:58 PM
7

Yes sis, and they wonder why we don’t want to fuck them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 02:55 PM
10

There’s only one place on their body that gets the lotion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 02:55 PM
11

The problem is that men are sociopathic in several ways. The first is that men act lovey with FWBs so that they can ensure that you are not sleeping with anyone else but them. Men know that our sexuality is tied to our emotions, so if they can pretend they care about us as people, and have use develop feelings for them, that will secure that whoever is in their harem, is not out looking for new dick. The next confusing thing is the displays of emotion. Men only do this because it feels good for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 02:48 PM
36

Yep.Men are the biggest gold diggers of them all ladies. Don’t let them lie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 02:08 PM
10

I love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 02:07 PM
35

Right, it’s easy to be accomplished, when there’s someone in the background running the day to day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 02:07 PM
20

This was nice to read :) These type of men are few and far between
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 02:04 PM
15

817 undateable pieces of shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 02:47 AM
2

Yes, and there’s nothing wrong with that sis, if that’s what you prefer, but he better pay for that coffee, and I would hope he was dressed nicely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 10:52 AM
21

Okay? Like the very fact that your fucked up mind goes there proves that men need to pay for dates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 01:17 AM
21

Exactly. Notice how all the men who are worth a damn have never complained about paying? I have never been in the company of a wealthy man who has ever complained about paying for dinner. Like all these jokers wouldn’t take out an Amscot loan, just to take a Megan Fox type to dinner. Well you’re not Chris Hemsworth, and even he pays for dinner. Believe that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 01:11 AM
26

Right, they can’t even argue without being uncouth and vulgar. Like you really can’t even argue without wishing rape upon someone, and you wonder why we don’t trust your intentions? How stupid can you be?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 01:07 AM
3

They can deny, deny, deny..... but fathers with daughters, and brothers with sisters act like lunatics for a reason, and we all know what that reason is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 12:37 AM
8

Right? Men are nothing, if not sociopath Case in point,,I’m getting these DMs right now calling me all kinds of terrible names, and hoping I get raped. How is it that you’re so stupid as to not see how you’re proving my literal point, with every trash word that comes out of your useless fingertips? Lol. Die mad, losers 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 12:34 AM
3

Yep, they’re indignant that the real life women with flaws, like cellulite and weight, have the audacity to ask for a gesture in good faith, when the real life blow up dolls on the web, will spread it for free. No sir, it is you with all the audacity.So, good day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 12:29 AM
5

Yes... it’s very convenient for them, to deny it, so that they all can benefit from using women’s bodies. However what happens when a woman is raped? The only crime in the world where the actual victim is blamed more harshly than the perpetrator/a. What was she wearing? How much did she have to drink? Has she had sex before? So then, you ask us to go out with you.... knowing you have no self control over your penises, and you refuse to give a measure of good faith? Boy fuck you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 12:27 AM
6

Right, fast forward a few years, and if you don’t fake an orgasm while they’re choking and strangling you, it’s going to be a wrap for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 12:22 AM
16

I asked a man once, if women are as violent, why don’t we routinely murder them in their sleep, or poison them with as much regularity as they murder us. Why don’t the death rates match? He said y’all.... “ Because women don’t have to...” of course he tried to backtrack... but I need the younger women to understand that men truly believe that they have every right to murder us when we displease them in some way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 12:20 AM
4

That’s why they big mad, because they’re afraid their free sex tinder dates will go away, and they’ll have to go to those poor prostitutes for sex with a woman who they can choke and demean,and not worry about her pleasure. This one idiot can’t attack me for being a gold digger, since I have my own money, so he’s basically saying my life is meaningless and empty because all I focus on is working, which is interesting since he doesn’t even know how much I work, or how I spend my free time. Of cou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 12:06 AM
46

Lol, You’re so right. “How dare you not meet me in Starbucks, like it’s any other old day for me!!! You even asking me to wear something nice? You better look nice though. You have no self respect as a woman if you make no effort. You’re not wearing makeup and a figure flattering outfit? And that figure better be size two and under. You better fuck on date three bitch, that’s the night I’m taking you to Ruth Chris.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 11:42 PM
47

I love it Queen. We know how to be attractive to men. Never complain, stay thin, cook, clean, and sex on demand. That’s why I made it my mission in life to become self sufficient. The idea of slavery sounds terrible. Isn’t it bad enough we’re all slaves to the system already? At the end of the day, three women a day are murdered by their male partners, women are raped and murdered by the thousands yearly. More women in America are dying of birth and childbirth related complications, and the sing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 11:38 PM
31

Right!, It’s also very telling that as soon as a man gets money, he turns around and uses it to get an expensive looking woman. Look at Hollywood. What do these pathetic assholes do when they make it? They trade up wifey for a younger version. Did y’all see Ewan McGregor thanking his ex wife and new piece at that award show a few years ago? Chile, what a mess. Men are messy as fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 11:15 PM
60

Okay? Straight clowning. This one loser told me he hopes a girl gets drunk and gang raped after following our advice. Wow, that’s definitely not the mindset of some porn addled reject. I told him we don’t advocate drinking on dates, so his incel fantasy is never going to happen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 10:19 PM
53

Yasss Queen, and if I ever get married again, the prenup is stating the house is mine, and if he cheats he will pay me the entire value of my house if I sell it to cohabitate .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 10:01 PM
85

They even posted me on misandry. How pathetic are they that they think having standards is misandry?Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 09:36 PM
52

It’s because men are parasites and don’t want to do any emotional labor of their own. That’s why they leave their sick wives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:16 PM
41

They all do now. It’s Porn Nation.They don’t even care if you’ve been anally raped in the past. “ Well, I’ll be gentle”. Look at the way choking is being normalized by porn.Soon they’ll all be automatically doing it, which has been quite a good way for some of them to get away with murder, “ We were playing rough”. Ladies, don’t EVER let a man choke you. This should not be normalized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:09 PM
30

Oh thanks. Now I have to cough up an extra 100 bucks for an antibiotic, and 600 bucks for an abortion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 02:37 PM
49

They say that because we’re the ones dying of cervical and ovarian cancer. Men have always downplayed anything deadly to women. Domestic abuse and childbirth being the main two subjects. They miss the days when they could beat us to death(or stuff us in mental institutions and then wife up. No pesky child support payments....Why do you think the liberal men don’t stand up for abortion rights? It’s their punishment for us asking for child support, and not allowing them to abandon their families a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 02:36 PM
79

Yes we get the STDs. That they don’t realize they’re carrying. HPV and herpes is skin to skin. Condoms are ineffective
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 02:14 PM
55

Yes, look at all expectation for anal sex . Why? We don’t have the prostates, and I don’t want to risk a colostomy bag for anyone’s pleasure. Real life is not porn. I don’t want to prep with enemas, stretch my anus, any of that. It’s bad enough they jack hammer our vaginas like they’d like to kill us with their penis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 02:02 PM
57

Yes, how dare we ask for a display of good faith?!?! Fuck them. What happens when they have daughters? They become psycho towards them, because they know how much trash there is. Even “decent” guys will think nothing of pumping and dumping during college. and justifying it as a “stage”. How many of those guys have gotten women drunk, or seen their friend rape an unconscious woman, a and done nothing? Lots, plenty. Too many
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 01:49 PM
6

I’d say it’s twenty percent, and that’s being generous. We have to remember low value is a spectrum, many men that appear to be high value at first, because of money and basic human decency, reveal themselves to be low value later on. I also think we tend to think of men who the basic things they should do as high value, when they’re not really going above and beyond
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 01:42 PM
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Right they really think faking an orgasm and acquiring a cervical cancer causing HPV is actually the same thing as having an orgasm. They think porn is real life and we can cum with 2 minutes of mediocre oral.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 01:10 PM
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I’m sick of their shit, They think nothing either, of asking a woman to put herself in an unsafe situation.You wouldn’t believe the fucked up things I’ve allowed myself to be talked into, because I heard “ I’m a nice guy....... Oh don’t be stuck up.....” Then what happens when the next poor girl gets murdered because she didn’t want to be seen as bitch. “ Oh wow, what a dumb ass. She should have known better”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 12:00 PM
9

Yes, it’s the same way they look at a nice steak, or an expensive sports car. We’re objects to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 11:46 AM
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That’s one of men’s greatest wishes. They’d just love to be able to beat down a woman. Some of them don’t need any excuse. Yes, honestly have to treat men like wild animals. Show dominance when necessary, but not when it’s going to get you killed. This is our life ladies, the only other emotional creatures on this planet don’t speak human. So we’re doomed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 11:31 AM
9

Jesus Cheist, men are so sociopathic. Let me tell her something cruel, so that way she won’t think she’s too good for me. Huh.? Men don’t want to really love. They want to conquer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 11:28 AM
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It’s nice when the wall defends itself and bones are broken
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 05:21 PM
36

Yes girl. I understand completely. I too have been very fortunate to be privy to men’s true nature by having been not as “fuckable”to men at one point in my life. Many women just don’t know how lacking in civility men are, when they have NOTHING to gain from your presence. If a man doesn’t event want to fuck you, you might as well join the Fantastic 4 as the second Invisible Girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:35 PM
20

Huh? Sounds like “ Iceberg!!!!! Straight ahead!!!!”... to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:23 PM
62

I’m tired of these lies girl..... Men cheat on the women they “love” , when these women suck, fuck, cook and clean for them every day. Why? They need to “conquer” strange pussy.Why do men start complaining that their wives don’t want to fuck anymore? They big mad that they have to keep up the pretense that they love eating pussy and kissing for more than two minutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 03:54 PM
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Right, like they’d be okay with their gfs and wives giving money to the hot cam guy with the full head of hair, eight inch dick, and washboard abs. Here honey, I got a fucking bridge to sell ya
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 03:48 PM
9

Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 03:34 PM
50

Yes, it’s so hilarious to treat human beings as slaves. How accomplished they must feel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 03:32 PM
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How many women would be beaten to death if their significant other found pictures of his brother, cousin, whoever, with a bigger willie?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 03:19 PM
64

And yet they’re more logical and less emotional? The lies we tell...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 03:19 PM
18

So they can justify in their minds, staying with they shit show
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 03:54 PM
17

Exactly! As lonely as I get, I’ll never be this lonely again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 03:53 PM
6

Sounds pretty awesome
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 03:06 AM
13

As a short woman I want to add the qualifier.... Under 115 pounds....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 02:46 AM
30

Or black, or brown,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 02:44 AM
18

Right, exactly. They seldom want to be choked, tied, spit on, degraded,etc. Hmmmmm. Wonder why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 02:29 AM
9

It’s pretty convincing the first time they say it was, until it happens again. It’s the most incredible pain I’ve ever felt in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 02:26 AM
5

I love this! Damn that sucks. I thought no one in space can hear you scream. 🙁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 01:00 PM
72

Yes it’s very sad how anal sex has become the expectation in the last ten years, especially. Hmmm wonder why. I hate how men don’t appreciate the fact that all of us have taken years to get used to their penis where it naturally belongs. Most of them have sex like the vagina is another thing to be conquered. Some act like they’d like to eviscerate you with their penis.That all being said, I’m now celibate because the last “ FWB” asked me twice if I’d do anal, and I never give men the opportunity…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 01:30 PM
9

YES to allllll of this!!!! Add being an atheist on top of all of this. I’m going to die alone 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 01:18 PM
4

Ya already know 💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 02:05 PM
20

Yep. He’s holding out for an A/ B lister. I used to be a big fan. I think it’s almost hysterical how these guys follow the same pattern. I feel bad for her. She designs beautiful jewelry.l
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 02:05 PM
12

It’s part of the chase. All they want is to know that you’re at the point that you’ll do anything for them, once they know that, the thrill is gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 01:41 PM
37

He’s waiting to really hit it big in Hollywood, and then he’s going to trade up. Tale as old as time........
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 06:39 AM
25

Sex for them is tied to dominance, is a part of their drive to spread their seedYeah it is pretty rapey, when you think about it.So yeah someone “easily dominatedl” is not challenging
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 06:56 PM
2

I think a lot of women on this sub automatically assume all of us can attract Chads. I can, if I put a ton of time, money, and effort into my looks, which is why I’m not dating right now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 06:51 PM
48

Right, and that’s why a wealthy man’s house looks just like that, because men are just so comfortable with themselves. Oh please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 05:33 PM
3

Men have always felt comfortable in the idea that they can fuck and eat their lives way, since they will always have a sex slaves to take care of them. Men know they fucked up by “allowing” us to have independence. Hopefully, more women will wake up to men’s true nature and that will force the big babies to evolve with the rest of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 02:04 PM
10

I totally get it. As long as he always puts your pleasure above his. Always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 01:29 AM
4

That would be the only excuse in this day and age :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 01:25 AM
11

Right, and if he really put in the time before he would know what a real orgasm is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 01:23 AM
6

Yes Judd Apatow is the King of the genre.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 01:22 AM
12

He probably never cared before
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 01:18 AM
17

Yes ma’am. It’s always... you’re a dumbass for staying with that abusive/cheating/sociopath. Women should always see the signs and be psychic. Single moms are dumb whores!!!!! Waahhh...... but single dads are brave superheroes tricked by the whores
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 12:46 AM
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I refuse to wear sexy lingerie for a guy. The hours a day I spend working out are good enough for you to feast your eyes upon. Especially when they rip that shit off in minutes. “ Oh you like when a girl dresses up? That’s nice. I like orgasms, but that’s statistically not going to happen”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 12:42 AM
16

Men wonder why we don’t want to fuck big babies. They treat us like bang mommies and then expect us to get wet for doing the dishes, and then the terrible sex. They act like they can take criticism by lots of them can’t, and will continue to suck at it anyways. Porn sick idiots think we can cum in two minutes like those real life blow up dolls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 12:34 AM
14

Exactly? Oh you can create and birth your own children? No? Then shut the fuck up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 11:43 PM
20

All they have is the audacity and HPV
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 11:42 PM
28

You will never doubt if a man truly loves you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 11:01 PM
34

My last “date” , this fat ass had the audacity to tell me he couldn’t be in a relationship with two big bellies rubbing together. Mind you he is the type 2 diabetic here, and I’m the one with the six pack. Then he’s all like, why aren’t you eating crap. So of course I was like “ Can’t have a small belly if you eat like shit”. Then I proceeded to make him feel more like shit, by telling him I’d never marry someone I’d have to take care of, since I’ve been an RN for 15 years. I want to spend my re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 10:59 PM
20

Right? Like they would EVER marry someone they couldn’t display like a trophy.... unless they were desperate. Such hypocrites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 10:56 PM
27

I love how indignant men were when Fifty Shades of Grey came out. “ Duhhhhh..... so a good looking rich guy can treat you like shit?! Derp derp derp”............ “ Um yeah.... just like you let hot girls treat you like shit.... and best believe we let you broke ass guys treat us like shit too. Why shouldn’t I be treated like shit, with a Birkins on my arm? Boy, fuck you”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 10:55 PM
20

And shit any woman who has to and screw and wake up next to these disgusting apes deserves fifty billion handbags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 10:52 PM
36

Why is he asking for the women’s advice? We’re clearly beneath him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 01:21 PM
14

Right, I would promptly divorce his ass. Oh so you are capable of being an adult? Boy fuck you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 09:25 AM
20

We’re nothing to them. Just another example
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 09:25 AM
33

Jesus Christ, I’d rather die alone then make a man baby step up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 09:23 AM
9

Yasss Queen! Put those animals in their place!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 08:22 AM
2

The world is yours sis!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 07:31 PM
1

I plan to hopefully move to Canada in ten years if this country doesn’t start Universal healthcare. I haven’t had a vacation in ten years and have accrued 20,000 dollars in overtime because I’m terrified of becoming ill or injured. That’s even with them taking disability out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 07:31 PM
7

Yuck, I bet he’d say that to 15 year old you too. Pig
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 07:29 PM
8

They want us to thank them for not raping and beating us every day like in the good old days
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 03:06 PM
40

I walked past an older couple last week in a parking lot and the man actually said “ Heeyyyyyyyy”, to me. And his poor wife said, “ Stop it”. I’ve had several men try to openly flirt with me in front of their wives. I brought a patient coffee once, and he told me to dip my finger in it to sweeten it up. His wife just death glared him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 02:46 PM
37

Marry the girl..... as long as she’s between 100-115 pounds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 11:16 PM
3

I totally get your pain as another black female. As another sis said, online dating is not for us Queen.. I’m concentrating on my health and fitness, I almost have a six pack and I’m almost forty. I adopted a dog. I’m raising my son, and. I have a career . I’m fulfilling my own life. I may never get married again, or even find someone, and that’s okay. I’ve settled before, and trust me sis. It will only ruin your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 11:12 PM
3

That’s why it’s imperative that women get a trade of education that would prevent them from needing to use their vagina as a come up. My career saved me from my late husband destroying my life, and yeah my life would have been some much easier if I truly vetted him. Oh well, here’s to struggling for the rest of my life, and I say that as someone who makes close to six figures ladies. Single motherhood is hell. Do not EVER settle!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 10:28 PM
6

Exactly, I’m sorry but I want to read a marriage trap book from someone who is actually in a successful marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 10:25 PM
7

Exactly. The only thing I did agree with was that the romanticized version of men, that movies portray, doesn’t exist. That was my one takeaway. So yes, I’ll never get married either, because romantic love is not real. I mean it is, but Ben are not capable of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 10:23 PM
1

I’m done 💀💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 10:19 PM
1

If he cared he would make you cum first sis. Men are such trash. “ TaLk To Me!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 12:02 PM
7

My heart broke reading that. She’s a bigger person then me, I would have NEVER exchanged pleasantries that one day after work. I would have looked right past him like his name was fucking Casper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 04:08 PM
1

Your post is a whole vibe. I find replacing my sadness with disgust helps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 03:44 PM
6

And now I’m dead. Call it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 02:34 PM
13

No it’s very necessary, the audacity of him being picky when he looks like this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 02:34 PM
12

Yes sis, It feels like your uterus is being crushed in someone’s fist. I was shaking and vomiting for 1/2 hour, and of course insurance wouldn’t pay for the ten year, so I have to dread having it removed in a few years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 09:03 PM
6

It’s interesting how they don’t spit out the same vitriol for single dads....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 10:15 PM
13

Right, it’s so selfish to not want to risk getting knocked up by a guy who can’t even go halfsies on an abortion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 10:13 AM
5

You are?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 10:12 AM
22

It’s possible but not likely. If he’s the one who suggested being FEB, then it’s not going to happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 12:28 PM
2

Thank you! I’ll take that hug ☺️. He was the biggest piece of shit. Ended up cheating on me with an acquaintance of mine from high school, and then he ended up calling me two weeks before their wedding to try to win me back, even wrote a book he dedicated to me. Not his wife. Me. Men are fucked in the head
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 12:27 PM
125

Sounds pretty gay to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 12:25 PM
5

It’s all fun and games until that birth control fails
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 01:29 PM
12

I knew I made the right decision when my ex tried to fuck me that very night...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 11:35 AM
3

Yep. Sexual assault and degradation is what he’s serving up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 11:11 AM
3

You sound awesome. That’s all I have to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 06:26 PM
60

And the hat. Pussy grabber defenders are an automatic NO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 01:01 PM
14

If you do it face to face do it in public. Make it short and sweet. He’s going to try to gaslight and manipulate you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 12:58 PM
47

Men don’t understand why we don’t want sex when they won’t even try to be good at it. That’s actually not true, men feign ignorance to get out of doing work. That goes for every aspect of their lives. They do this at their professional jobs too. Men can barely pretend that they want women in their lives as maids and sex slaves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 01:17 PM
159

Men are not even human. Holy shit. 3 kids back to back. Multiple health issues. PTSD from sexual trauma., but let’s leave all that out because my dick needs to get wet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 10:09 AM
85

Wow. The only thing men have is audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 03:38 PM
24

Damn, this is just plain hateful to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 03:16 PM
34

“ Did you cum? Are you cumming? Now? Soon?!?” That’s why we fake it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 09:26 AM
29

Bingo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 08:37 AM
10

Ooh, time to buy a pair of steel toe boots from Amazon. Add to cart 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 04:43 PM
42

I just want to kick it out from under him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 12:58 PM
3

It’s asking for trouble. I don’t care how much trust there is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 10:19 PM
15

Matt Damon is an asshole and a misogynist. His best friend is a cheater, and groped a woman on live television. He spoke so poorly about JLO, even though it was she who was cheated on before her wedding. He’s still friends with Casey, the rapist, Afffleck too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 09:41 PM
43

And look at the fucking creepos justifying his pedo kink
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 12:54 AM
55

That’s fucking gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 12:50 AM
3

You can’t help them. I gave my drug addict soon to be ex husband money because I didn’t want him to be homeless, after I kicked him out, and he ended up overdosing the day after Mother’s Day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 12:44 AM
32

Yep. Heard this before. Second verse same as the first...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 12:39 AM
2

Yes, I wish I could tell you it will get better, but I turn 36 this year, so I’m not sure about that. Yes, every one wants black women to look Like Beyoncé or Rihanna..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 12:56 PM
9

All his good parts sound like just basic decency. You deserve better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 05:11 PM
8

You already know. He’s not going to let you see his plonk, and if he does he’s going to try to scrub it first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 05:02 PM
3

This is truly the way men operate. They never leave the comfy relationship, until another is set up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 04:41 PM
5

I agree. I have a good career, and I have not had any good luck with OLD. It destroyed my self esteem, so I’m not even trying anymore. I got a dog, I got to the gym five days a week for several hours, I take great care of myself. and hope one day I’ll find a HVM, if any more are left at this point. I have no problem dating outside of my race. I’ve experienced black men to be too misogynistic in my experience, and I’d rather be treated well as a fetish, then not at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 04:39 PM
3

I guess men know their default setting is trash, because she’s trash for being seduced by a wealthy older man, and he’s not trash for pursuing a teenager as a fucking 30 year old grown ass man. Nope. I would have pulled a Dexter on his ass: I live in Florida too, the Everglades is a 3 1/2 hour trip..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 05:49 PM
3

She has to have a major screw loose if she lived with this man all these years, and believes he’s a good man, father, and husband otherwise.This disgusting behavior would make a good person’s skin crawl. If I would have stayed, it would have been for the long con. Having him sign a sweet ass life insurance policy, and then cashing it in ten years later to share it with his abandoned daughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 05:47 PM
66

This is a whole vibe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 02:15 PM
34

I’ve gotten so fed up with men, that I’m honestly fine dying alone at this point. I’m not settling again.Maybe you’re not fed up enough, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 12:41 PM
8

A man is whoever he wants to be with whatever girl he wants to be it for, on that day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 10:24 AM
19

No she’s definitely a pick me, because no one else would stay with a man lacking in character and morality, and as much as he’s the villain, she’s not the hero.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 09:56 AM
39

Yeah, everyone is saying how great of a person she is, but I’m giving her the side eye for staying with this garbage dump for 20 years. There is no way I could love or respect a man who would abandon his own kids. Then she offers her a nanny job? Really sis? The best part is the husband wanting to claim this poor child as his daughter at the end. I would have definitely left him a long time ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 09:53 AM
18

I respectfully disagree. I would lose all respect and love for a man who would prey upon a child, and then emotionally and financially abandon the child he created. This woman stayed with a soulless demon for her own reasons, but that doesn’t automatically make her a good person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 09:50 AM
64

Y’all I can’t. This waste of space takes advantage of a teen he considers “trash”, abandons his child to a life of poverty and has the nerve to call her “trash”, and then harasses the wife for “manning up” in his place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 09:21 AM
4

Yep. Many of us have said yes because we were afraid not to. It’s so disgusting when they beg for sex. Pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 04:30 PM
11

Most women will never look like the human blow up dolls they would leave you in a nanosecond for. So yeah, I want a guy to tower over me, just like you want a girl you can pick up easily. Fuck off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 03:57 PM
19

I agree. I met a married fuckboy who was obese in high school and early twenties. So he made up for it for it later. Of course he wants in a poly relationship, and couldn’t understand why I wasn’t “ open minded” enough to want to be a part of his harem. He wanted me to “ make him feel like a King”. I was shell shocked that he would even think I would lower myself to play second fiddle to anyone. I told him, “ You obviously have no respect for me if. You think I’d ever be in a relationship where …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 07:50 AM
13

I usually thank them for the visible red flag. These are the same guys who open up their OLD profiles with, “ I’m tired of being cheated and lied on, is their anyone faithful out there?” These men are possessive and misogynistic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 07:41 AM
62

Right! Just like when Cardi B admitted she drugged men, and men acted like that was the worst thing she could do, but she didn’t rape them. Then you have the male rappers, haven’t they been rapping about shooting,and killing, and raping since ever?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 01:54 PM
18

Just bought it thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 01:52 PM
81

Because men don’t see as as human, they think we’re too stupid to see their games.The humble brag, the negging, the gaslighting. Men are masters of gaslighting. I’ll give them that. It’s an art form to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 11:44 AM
8

I’m Dominican as well. I don’t date Hispanic men in general for this reason. Growing up my mom told me I’d never find a husband, or he’d leave me, if I didn’t cook and clean. Marriage always sounded like slavery. All men are terrible, but I mostly date white men. I find them to be the least disrespectful and misogynistic, and that’s not by much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 11:42 AM
12

You are a straight boss! Love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 10:59 AM
3

Always have it done to you first. Always
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 11:11 AM
5

He sounds bitter and jaded, just like me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 11:09 AM
11

In theory, I would be fine with a man wanting a woman who has her shit together.... but he wants this with a size 2 body, double DD chest, and long wavy hair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 11:02 AM
3

Knowing how terrible my bad marriage is. Coming home to my own house with peace and quiet. Never wanting to be angry or afraid again. I’d rather be alone forever then be with another piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 10:51 AM
2

Exactly. That’s exactly what I thought, and if it’s true how depressing that Sharon fucking Stone of all people has to resort to OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 10:31 AM
15

Men are so pathetic. Newsflash: These young blow up dolls don’t want you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 09:14 AM
12

I’m almost forty and I look younger now. Replace your favorite drinks for water. Water will keep you young. If you can invest in collagen powder, take it. I eat fresh foods, and dont eat fast food anymore. I’m in the best shape of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 06:30 AM
32

It’s not often a psycho puts his cards on the table like this. Kudos to you sir
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 04:43 PM
7

I’m not a fan. It’s painful and uncomfortable.Porn is not real life, and it takes preparation and dedication, that I would prefer to devote to my vagina. I’m almost forty, and I’ve spent almost a decade learning how to comfortably take a dick in my primary sex organ. I’m good sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 03:00 AM
21

Yes sis. I can truly never trust a man because I know how fickle they are. Now I treat them with a mild indifference, which men fucking love. It’s so bizarre. My favorite fantasy is living on a planet where everyone looks the same, like the Borg. People would be forced to develop personalities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 12:35 AM
10

I didn’t say he won’t treat you like garbage, I said they won’t do that wishy washy shit with you, pretending like they don’t want a relationship. They just pretend that they are decent boyfriend material, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 08:59 PM
49

He would be sure if you looked like his favorite real life sex blow up doll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 03:43 PM
1

Lol. I mean.:. The audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 03:35 PM
1

Yep. Most woman knows what it feels to have the attention of a guy who really wants them, at least at first. They ALWAYS message. ALWAYS. Good night...., good morning..... how’s your day going... There’s few exceptions. Men are designed to chase what they want, and to do that most effectively, they let you know right away they want to own you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 03:20 PM
163

This is why it’s extremely beneficial in a sense, to have or be an unattractive women, and it’s even better to grow into your looks, to truly catch the hypocrisy of men. No guy would ever look at me in high school, in that way. The only date I had to a formal function was bullied by his parents into asking him. He looked like an ISIS hostage in our photo. I can laugh now..You are literally invisible, even if you’re nice, intelligent, and have a sense of humor. Any guy will fuck you if they’re de…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 02:59 PM
39

You’d never see a male magazine encouraging men to let their partners peg them. Wonder why? Anytime a guy has asked me for anal, I always tell them I get to go first.Let’s go to the sex shop and get a dildo that’s comparable to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 01:17 PM
25

No one tells you about pain involved with the first bowel movement afterwards either. That alone makes it not worth the price of admission
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 01:15 PM
57

Ewww. Fastest way to kill my lady boner is to imagine some uggo in the room
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 01:07 PM
18

Yep, and we know most of them are terrible in the sack too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 12:18 PM
21

This is one of the most succinct analysis of the male primitive mind I’ve read. Good stuff!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 12:14 PM
79

He looks like a thumb but his partner needs to be smoking hot. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 12:23 PM
22

“ I want to meet people” code for “ I want to smash every woman who will let me”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 10:45 AM
5

The patriarchy has done such a bang up job convincing men and women that we are not sexual beings, and are not visual creature like them, that we are solely pragmatic daters, which that we definitely are. That’s the only way I can wrap my head around it. I couldn’t even entertain the idea of wearing someone down, but they see it as a challenge. They us as objects to be obtained. What we desire makes no difference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 10:41 AM
11

Men are so fucked in the head. I’ve had several guys keep pursuing me even though I’ve told them I wasn’t physically attracted to them. “ Oh that’s okay..”. The fuck it’s not. How could you be with someone who finds you repulsive?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 10:36 AM
11

Wow, the comment section is filled with people not winning at life. “ I replaced one addiction for another. I’m single, sad and lonely, and instead of improving that, I’m going to make myself even more of a loser than I already am”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 09:50 AM
10

I’m dead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 08:03 AM
8

Oh look a big ass that’s actuallly proportionate to her body. Cough Kardashians
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 07:47 AM
5

Yes, because he could get any beautiful woman, he realized what we all know. An accomplished, intelligent woman will enrich and add more to your life than a man could ever dream
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 02:51 PM
15

Yeah exactly. He wants porn sex where the girl performs 15 minutes of oral to his 2, and starts screaming and convulsing one minute into penetrative sex. It sounds like she’s so put off by his shit personality and sex , that all she can do is pretend to be a sex doll with vocal features
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 02:30 PM
26

He’s probably like the usual guy who thinks that just sticking his penis inside her is enough to get her excited. No foreplay. He sounds like a condescending ass on a good day. I once had a guy scream and verbally abuse me for stating the truth. If men were making women cum, women would be wanting to have sex with them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 08:12 AM
22

Right? And they act like he’s the catch. No he’s an aging actor. She is the one who is accomplished. He’s not worthy of her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 08:05 AM
38

Wow, he tried it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 08:02 AM
16

That was awesome! I hate guys who can’t kiss. You really got to this age swallowing women’s heads?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 07:42 AM
26

I’ve routinely dated white men, and I don’t understand how you can say you love black women, prefer black women, but then want to call her racist and derogatory names. How can you love that person? Men are a virus
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 10:30 AM
9

Maybe yours was, but there’s there were plenty of white women were being beaten to death, and raped by their husbands back then too 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 01:38 PM
11

Committed doesn’t mean married. My grandma was in a loveless marriage that she couldn’t leave because women had few rights. That’s what the past was like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 07:30 AM
26

Drugs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 06:53 AM
21

This isn’t true. Many if not most married women have never had an orgasm. You think men in the 50s were sexually satisfying their wives? Lol, they weren’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 06:49 AM
15

And they won’t leave you till they have the next situation secured either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 12:25 AM
3

Absolutely brilliant!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 09:45 AM
12

Right? He’s a police officer too on top of that. That’s something he hid from me at the beginning, he told he did military contract work, because he knew id never be involved with a cop. Too much too lose.-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 03:17 PM
14

Damn, that’s a good one :) I’ve already blocked his ass, but that’s exactly what I should have done, I wish I could warn his wife what a trash bag she’s married to, although she probably already knows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 02:49 PM
25

And it’s enough men that women have to be chaperoned throughout life and hear of other women gangraped in public. So that phrase can kiss my ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 02:05 PM
19

Yes, and they’d rather us wilt and die then put back in the earth to flourish. Men don’t know what it is to want something better for some one other then themselves. That’s why don’t see a problem with dating when they have nothing to offer. They are used to women doing the sacrificing.They’ll destroy you and every one else they come in contact with. That’s why men are unhappy in relationships they won’t swallow the bitterness down like women. They’ll either leave eventually, disassociate themse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 02:02 PM
14

It’s more than some sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 01:54 PM
32

You know, I thought of this, and boy what a miscalculation on his part. I’m not going to chomp at the bit to give you more un memborable sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 12:59 PM
52

I’m so so sorry that happened. Men are predators who are constantly seeking for something stronger than them to take down for their ego and domination. They are disgusting, and all they know how to do is destroy. That’s why they hate us. We literally create life. We naturally foster relationships because we have empathy. They hate that we can find beauty in everything, and we can be grateful, and build something out of nothing.We build, and they annihilate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 09:29 AM
11

I’m sure female castration is the human way of attempting that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 09:26 AM
25

They do deserve it. They think nothing of trampling on anyone who gets in their way. They’re raised that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 09:25 AM
39

Yes, most of them, if not outright abusive, are dismissive of women in general. If they find you attractive, they treat and speak to you like a child. If they don’t find you attractive, they just ignore you completely. Most men are master gaslighters. Even the “decent” one.s You see how the MeToo movement outed all the rapists and rape apologists. I heard a “decent” guy complaining about the Gillette commercial because it was “preachy”. All men want to say not all men, but then why do we hear ab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 09:22 AM
36

Yes, men will withhold sex because they know, unlike them... we care about being seen as sexually attractive, so they do it to break us down mentally, and then wack it to women wouldn’t touch them with ten foot poles.I was helping a boyfriend finance his up and coming business, all the while he was bringing women back to my house to have sex on our bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 08:55 AM
105

They are. Someone else wrote on here somewhere that men are constantly chasing that unconditional mommy love high that they received from infancy to pre teen hood. No accountability Endless love and service. Puberty hits, and then they want all of that, plus their dicks wet. Mommy can’t do that, so we’re the next best thing. Unfortunately, unlike mommy, they have to think of this woman’s thoughts and needs, and they fucking despise us for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 08:29 AM
48

I’m convinced it’s a psychological manipulation to keep you from sleeping with other men I guess. Overall, we’re just shiny toys, and he was done with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 08:22 AM
8

Wow, you guys are lucky, I’ve had to argue with so many guys about getting head. The black community is notorious for that, especially back in the 90s, early 2000s. It wasn’t until I started dating outside my race, that I started receiving oral sex more consistently. Even then I’ve still had to block guys who would attempt to say they don’t. Men have the nerve. I’d always say, “ That’s a coincidence, I don’t suck strange dick.” Funny it’s never, “ Do you suck dick?”, it’s “ Do you like sucking d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 08:20 AM
8

Yes, when men talk about women they “ love”, it’s usually about how these women make them feel, or what they do for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 08:03 AM
11

You have nothing to forgive yourself for. I’m 35, and I remember how I thought when I was 19, and it wasn’t that much different from what I thought when I was 17, meaning I was a child. This grown ass man lied, manipulated, and hurt you. You did nothing wrong. At all. Please take care of yourself, and focus on yourself from now on. Continue to learn and read from this site, and keep reminding yourself of the true nature of men. Most of them are liars. All of them are opportunists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 07:49 AM
513

This picture smells
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 03:11 PM
5

I stay away from people who can’t respect my boundaries. I don’t want to have to tell you no more than once or twice, and people who try to change your minds, are usually very manipulative and controlling. Pass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 03:33 AM
3

Men are sociopaths
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 03:24 AM
5

Yeah I’m not giving him credit for shit. He has to disclose his past, he’s going to be on parole, have travel restrictions, have a hard time renting, etc. He’s just trying to get his brownie points in right away for appearing honest. Secondly, your sobriety doesn’t count in prison. One-you’re probably lying, and two- forced sobriety doesn’t count, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 03:06 AM
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If she didn’t say no because of her education or life plans, then he’s a real piece of garbage if she said no, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 02:59 AM
9

RN here. You cannot cure schizophrenia through your own. It is- severe potentially life debilitating disease, that could potentially place you in harms way if he’s not managed on medications. He’s love bombing you, and for you to say you’re holding yourself up as a prize for him, is definitely not the way to get him to improve. He has to change for himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 07:52 PM
8

Honestly it’s probably because they found someone on a tinder who will screw them that night
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 07:16 PM
11

Or they’ll stay and try to destroy your life. Lived that twice. Never again. I know my worth now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 07:10 PM
12

It’s really more sad and rage inducing anything. She could have had a peaceful like this whole time, and he could have controlled himself this whole time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 06:52 PM
11

Right? The worst oral known to man, accompanied by fingering that looks like it’s designed to disembowel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 09:08 AM
9

Yes sis. You know they don’t. There is a wonderful interview with an early black feminist in the 70s.. She questioned why men kiss ass all day long at work. They smile in the face of blatant disrespect, and then when they get home, they unload all their anger and stress on us. She said women are not asking men to bottle up everything inside, but think about how you can fake kindness for an oppressor or stranger, but not for the one who loves you the most. It was such a profound message to me, be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 05:07 PM
35

Oh okay, so he feels entitled to be rude, dismissive, inconsiderate, and lazy because’s physically appealing. Men are so lucky. They only need to be one thing at a time. A beautiful woman knows a shitty attitude will ultimately get her abused and ostracized . Even the women who are rotten inside know instinctively they must shield it for survival.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 09:23 AM
25

I can’t tell what he looks like. Is he even attractive enough to justify having this inflated ego?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 08:52 AM
69

Men are garbage. “ Hey, come over to a stranger’s house”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 08:14 AM
4

The comments are really something aren’t they. Men clearly have a very limited store of empathy. Is it the testosterone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 07:54 AM
40

Okay, so when are you going to give that size 14 a chance huh? Or that girl with short or coily hair? The girl who doesn’t want to shave her vagina? The girl who isn’t as pretty as everyone else, but she’s funny and smart. But but men are visual creatures!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 07:45 AM
44

He told you he wasn’t in love with you after almost ten years of wasting your time, on Valentine’s Day, and you’re wondering whether or not if you should respond back? Oh honey, no. Just no...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 07:40 AM
43

Wow she pulled a boss move on him. Level 2000. She played the fuck out him. Good for her. What’s good for the goose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 07:29 AM
53

Because they don’t/ can’t understand that porn is still a performance. Idiots., and now they definitely don’t want to put in the work, when their favorite human blow up doll “cums” in 10 seconds after 20 seconds of oral
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 07:25 AM
15

You’re absolutely right. They did a study where they asked men, and they admitted they fuck things up on purpose so that we end up doing it. Men ain’t shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 07:22 AM
11

He was just negging you to keep you on your toes. What a douche
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 07:19 AM
19

And that’s why they hate us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 07:15 AM
2

Every time some man wants to complain about how “evil, conniving, and distrustful” women are, I’ve just pointed them to the scientific fact that a woman’s greatest threat in her life, is the man/men closest to her, and how is that not the most fucked up thing they’ve ever heard”, it mostly shames them into silence, in my experience, because then the wheels of empathy start turning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 04:41 PM
144

Why are men allowed to be damaged. But men will tell their friends to stay away from a woman with baggage or trauma? Men are emotional leaches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 09:11 AM
12

Sad to say he’s already probably cheating. Two kisses on a romantic weekend. Too sick for sex? No man is too sick for sex with the one they want to have sex with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 09:06 AM
8

I have so much to learn!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 08:58 AM
113

You can’t win anyways. I had a guy yell at me through the internet that men don’t care about women who have careers either. All they want is a hole with a pretty exterior
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 01:03 PM
409

Men are hilarious. “ How dare she not want me for my personality! Even though I don’t want her for hers !” So pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 12:31 PM
7

So basically, women are only worth their vaginas.Got it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 10:05 PM
1

I spent my entire pregnancy afraid my husband would shake our baby because he had no impulse control and would throw or break shit when he was upset. I wish I loved myself more, enough to know I deserved better. My education and career is the only reason we’re still alive and thriving. My late husband died after overdosing with money I gave him so that he wouldn’t have to sleep on the streets, so I basically enabled him to death. I’m heartbroken for my son, but I’m relieved for myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 06:53 AM
1

I would be devastated if my son marries a woman who wants to stay at home, Don’t do it ladies! It’s a trap. Russian roulette
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 06:45 AM
1

I used to feel the same way. I have a career, and am fiercely independent, but at our core biology doesn’t change. Men are supposed to court us. We ruin our bodies and set aside our dreams to raise their families.We even risk death having their children. The least they could do is pay for meals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 06:32 AM
8

Why would any woman date a professional sports player? Sounds like a miserable existence of insecurity and deception.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 06:25 AM
1

That’s definitely not it. You need to change your approach and mindset. I had to change what I looked for in a man, and in a relationship to find the men who would pursue me. I used to put a lot of focus into physical chemistry and attraction, so much so that if I didn’t feel “butterflies”, on the first date, I considered it a loss. I didn’t realize that my intense focus on what was really just the physical was leading me to find fuckboys. Really good looking men are usually not good people, lol…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 06:09 AM
2

I feel you sis. I’ve always been a take charge person, but it doesn’t pay with men. They want to be the aggressors, and they love the chase more than anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 06:01 AM
3

Is this the first time he hasn’t responded to you? If it is, I wouldn’t worry yet. Just don’t text him anymore until he texts back. That’s very important. You don’t give more than he does. He pulls away.You pull away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 05:57 AM
1

How long have you been waiting for a response, and what time did you text him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 05:54 AM
6

Men are definitely more emotional, but they have muted most except for anger and apathy so they seem more rational, but clearly they are not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 05:01 AM
5

I’m dead 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 04:59 AM
3

Amen!!!!!!!!! And please don’t ever confuse money, with a high value man. A low value man that has potential for money, is still low value. He will make you put aside your dreams, build him up, leave you because he reminds you of his weakness, trade you in for a model that looks like you, but twenty years younger, and then emotionally manipulate the children with his money, while he nickel and dimes you, and makes you beg for every penny. I have and will never beg a man for anything, I’ve never …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 02:59 PM
20

I’ve been a RN for fifteen years, and I refuse to take care of anyone when I’m finally old enough to retire. I broke up with a man who was diabetic because he still ate like crap. Nope, not me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 11:55 AM
101

Which everybody finds so hilarious, but really it’s just fucking sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 11:26 AM
4

Like a boss!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 11:20 AM
4

Me too. She’s like a PickMe hybrid. It’s very disappointing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 11:22 PM
5

Scandal 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 05:00 PM
29

I’m fucking gagging. You touch my face after that, and you get a throat punch. I bet she’s got the worst acne
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 09:10 AM
14

Exactly, but they wouldn’t have anything good to say about a Low value woman either, unless she was hot of course
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 09:05 AM
14

I’ve deleted all of my OLD apps and messaging services.Imm focusing on by fitness and health.I’m getting back into my consistent workout routine. I feel great and I want to head towards my forties in the best shape of my life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 08:28 AM
16

Buying a house myself was the single up most empowering decision I’ve ever made. Level up girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 08:27 AM
2

Thank you sis. It feels really good not to feel envious anymore of these mediocre relationships,....afraid to live my life because I felt my family wasn’t “complete”. The best thing we can do is show our children what freedom independence is, when you’re not with someone weighing you down in life. My late husband I was going to ruin me financially. He almost stuck me with a 25,000 dollar drug rehab bill, and the universe told me to take his ass off my plan. If he doesn’t bring more to the table …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 04:57 PM
1

Did this idiot forget poison and contract killers are a thing? No , women have more empathy and kindness. Men are not good people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 07:10 PM
9

Yes sis! It would take a very wealthy man to lock me down again, and the whole time I will be hiding appreciating assets from him in the case of divorce. My marriage almost ruined me financially, and I’ll never be in that position again! I have a wonderful vibrator, and men just don’t care enough about giving women pleasure to risk dangerous situations.i plan to tie my tubes next year, since this country is trying to go full Handmaiden’s tale.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 02:03 PM
12

Yes, peace of mind is exactly that. It took me a while to realize that when guys start giving you that lovey dovey shit when you’re trying to keep it casual, is just their way of making sure you’re not sleeping with other men, all while keeping you in a rotation. I’m definitely down with dinner and drinks with the girls! Double vodka for me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 02:00 PM
18

Oh my gosh yes. Their “ love” means nothing. I’ve have the privilege of growing up nerdy and unattractive, so I know what it’s like to be invisible to men. As I grew older, and learned how to look myself more aesthetically pleasing I‘ve noticed how quickly men would “ fall in love” with me. Then as you become more comfortable and less perfect in their eyes, they begin to look elsewhere. Men take advantage of our need to please and be loved, and then belittle us for being abused. We are the ones …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 10:21 AM
9

Thank you sis! So glad to be here! I’ve finally seen the light and the truth.... Men ain’t shit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 10:13 AM
23

Thank you so much! I wish I had woken up a lot sooner. My life has been very difficult. I love for you that you don’t want children. I love my son, but if I had done everything differently, I would have never bought into the fairy tale they sell us. I’m glad I have a son, because that’s one less piece of shit man out there. At seven years old, he’s already a sensitive and thoughtful child. His favorite character is Elsa, and he loves to show kindness and affection. Knowing all this, I would stil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 08:03 AM
3

They don’t care when they live by themselves or another guy, but they sure notice the “filth” when they have a girlfriend or wife cleaning up after them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 04:26 PM
1

Men are only conscious with what other men are saying. They tune us out on purpose, because they don’t think we’re as knowledgeable or as interesting. That’s society’s fault. Look at girl vs. boy toys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 04:06 PM
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