Should a DTR Talk be an Ultimatum

MuffinSongs · 2020-09-03T14:30:49+00:00

If a man isn’t super excited to lock me down, then it’s a no from me.

Fatt3stAveng3r · 2020-09-03T14:42:21+00:00

Don't continue seeing them if you exclusivity and they don't. It looks desperate.

Icchy24 · 2020-09-03T15:19:36+00:00

would it be bad to continue seeing them even if they don’t want to be exclusive/official?

Yes.

Ideally the man should be asking/initiating this conversation.

If you had to ask AND he says he doesn't want to be exclusive, just leave

Pasdepromesses · 2020-09-03T15:59:21+00:00

I never initiated exclusivity, but always got it fairly soon. Men hate it when you date other men.

If he doesn’t mind, he doesn’t care about you. Flush! 🚽

Summerisle7 · 2020-09-03T14:54:04+00:00

In any relationship I’ve had where we really loved each other and it lasted, there was no need for any DTR talk. Closest thing I’ve ever experienced was when my now-husband asked me to be his girlfriend and we both knew what that meant: exclusivity etc.

If you have to ask/beg a man to tell you how he feels about you.... you already have your answer.

CuriousBubbleMilkTea · 2020-09-03T17:05:20+00:00

I'm sorry, what is DTR? (It's a serious question as I really don't know what this means). Thank you.

Title	Should a DTR Talk be an Ultimatum
Author	Throwaway45_RA
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	September 3, 2020 9:17 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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