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| 14 | THIS VIDEO IS A SIGN.Where was she when I needed her to slap me sober 😅😅😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 03:25 PM |
| 22 | Can you recommend action movies with strong female leads?The Old Guard and Charlize Theron is the lead 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 05:37 AM |
| 5 | Things we need to become more mindful of!Thank you, I'll keep this in mind 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 02:27 AM |
| 38 | Things we need to become more mindful of!This is a really good reminder. No response is a response. I probably will add 1 more point - stop giving the benefit of the doubt. 😞 Learned it the hard way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 09:37 PM |
| 7 | Love bombing is a red flag 🚩He actually sulked and told all of our mutual friends that he felt I was playing him because I never said the L word early on. Even though he also admitted that he could feel the love from my action. But not from words 🙄🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 10:14 PM |
| 9 | Love bombing is a red flag 🚩Am I the only one who like her voice? 😍😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 10:10 PM |
| 3 | Love bombing is a red flag 🚩Yep! Same sis, same! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 10:10 PM |
| 5 | Love bombing is a red flag 🚩Wow I never thought of it that way. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 10:09 PM |
| 25 | It’s a no from meI hope this is a rescue mission? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone read this? Home Body by Rupi Kaur. Thoughts?Thank you! I'll take a look 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 03:43 PM |
| 28 | Let him drown on his ownI need to see this post today. I've been asking myself why I'm still feeling sad after all these months. I thought I feel sad because I thought I can change him to be better. I thought he has potential. But this post is a reminder that I should keep walking away, and let him be whatever he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 04:00 AM |
| 15 | When Bob the Builder fixes the houseWow, I came out of reading this post with full of bruises, all black and blue and a total KO. Shame to say I checked almost all the boxes except for a few 😞 I really need to work on myself. I have saved this post, btw, to serve as a constant reminder for myself to prioritize ME before WE. Thanks so much, you just saved a life 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 04:10 PM |
| 52 | Well well well, not what I expectedYou're glad to find us, and we are glad you're here, so I think the flair is suitable enough 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 03:51 PM |
| 6 | This ⬇️And to add on that: consistency. He can do all the chasing and planning in the first few months, and when we are reeled in, see if they will start slacking off and stop all the efforts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 03:20 PM |
| 19 | This ⬇️Always trust actions than words. He can say "I love you" every day and every night, but if his actions didn't really show it, then it's useless. I learn the hard way from this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Hi Queens👑! This is the 3rd baking I am sharing here! Made a cake for myself to outgrow all the birthdays my absent, narcissist father never celebrated throughout these 21 years, as my therapy of nearly two years is coming to a smooth completion this year.This is so inspiring! Thank you so much, I had a brownie yesterday after seeing your pic yes 😂 and I'm looking forward for more cake pictures from you in the future! 💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 02:07 PM |
| 10 | 🙄🙄🙄 wayyy too much /sDefinitely 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 04:58 AM |
| 5 | Reminder: don’t beg!Thank you so much 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 04:28 AM |
| 43 | Reminder: don’t beg!I'm still beating myself for begging. I regretted it so much and still can't forgive myself 😞 I wish I knew of FDS at the time. But it's also because of him, that I came to reddit and then found FDS. So I guess, there's a blessing in disguise 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Hi Queens👑! This is the 3rd baking I am sharing here! Made a cake for myself to outgrow all the birthdays my absent, narcissist father never celebrated throughout these 21 years, as my therapy of nearly two years is coming to a smooth completion this year.Happy birthday! Now I want some cake for myself too 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Believe in yourself 👑I feel you! It's so hard to find genuine friends now, especially with people constantly worry about each other 😞 but don't give up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 04:30 PM |
| 5 | Believe in yourself 👑We are on the same boat. I am learning how to enjoy my own company now. At the end of the day, people will leave you, and all you got is yourself, so I'm trying to like myself more each day. I'm doing things I love without holding myself back anymore. If I feel like soaking in bubble bath, or lazying around watching Netflix, or eat that damn ice cream at midnight. Hell yeah I'll do that 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 04:29 PM |
| 16 | Throw him out if he gaslights you by saying he’s busyThank you for posting this. I had a huge doubt and dilemma this morning and all the bad thoughts just took over me.... And that's why I came to FDS to look for support, and found this post. THANK YOU 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 03:49 PM |
| 14 | Move on from him because you deserve to be happy.There can be a lot of "maybe", but if he wanted to, he would.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 02:26 AM |
| 9 | It's called mutual respect and also showing your commitment in a relationship 👏They have grey areas over everything "needy", or "clingy" or "controlling" 🙄🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 11:51 PM |
| 5 | It's called mutual respect and also showing your commitment in a relationship 👏Wow insecure much! I hope he's a forgotten chapter now 💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 11:51 PM |
| 10 | It's called mutual respect and also showing your commitment in a relationship 👏😂😂😂 I saw that post omg! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 11:49 PM |
| 16 | Being single is okay!This is so wholesome 💕 thank you so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 08:35 PM |
| 15 | PSA: thank you FDA mods who go over and beyond 💛I agree! Thanks so much mod queens! 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 06:34 PM |
| 32 | Reminder that words mean nothing, always pay attention to their level of effort through actions.We better be asleep at 1am. We need those beauty sleep for our glowing skin more than waiting for texts 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 03:25 PM |
| 11 | How do you ladies handle flashback of happy memories?I agree, I am reaching a point where I just accept this feeling, not fighting it, and ride the waves until it subsides. But it is still so hard. | /r/askFDS | 26/11/20 02:07 PM |
| 7 | How do you ladies handle flashback of happy memories?I read somewhere that depending on the length of your relationship, it will take the same amount of time to forget them. For me, it will take about 10 months. It is already month 5, so I am halfway there. The waves come and go. Sometimes I spent hours not thinking about him at all, but other times, my mind just couldn't stop replaying memories. I hate human brains sometime 😂 | /r/askFDS | 26/11/20 02:06 PM |
| 5 | How do you ladies handle flashback of happy memories?Thank you 💕 I did change myself after the break up. I took up gym so that I could sleep better. I also tried journaling and coloring to distract myself. I also practice gratitude list to stay positive. But I keep feeling something is missing. | /r/askFDS | 26/11/20 02:03 PM |
| 39 | Don’t break your own heart, ladies.This!! 🙌 I used to pour more love for him than what I would have received. It's never balance. At the end, I was called "needy" and "too much" for him and that loving me was "too difficult" for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 08:13 PM |
| 22 | A Taste of his Own Medicine!I really love your writing style. I hope you consider going back to write again (more interesting stories) 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 06:04 PM |
| 16 | I thought this was worthy of sharing here considering it’s a reminder of what we’re all fighting for! LVM behaviors all too often fall into the category of physical & mental abuse.🙌🙌🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 02:28 AM |
| 179 | Thank you to the queen who called me out on another sub! You’ve helped change my life.Glad you found us now 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 01:20 AM |
| 36 | Sister is divorcing her husband of 22 years early next month. She is tired of his lies. He's already moved on and has a girlfriend.🙄 why am I not surprised? I'm so sorry that happened to your sister. Please send her my virtual hugs, I hope she's getting stronger soon 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 01:18 AM |
| 5 | Has anyone read this? Home Body by Rupi Kaur. Thoughts?Oh let me take a look! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 01:16 AM |
| 8 | Has anyone read this? Home Body by Rupi Kaur. Thoughts?Thank you. I see there's a deal in amazon. So I am tempted to get all of her works 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 12:14 AM |
| 2 | How to recognize future fakingYep! You and me both 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 09:37 PM |
| 12 | Bought myself a love ring as a promise and reminder to treat myself with all the love and care and never settle for less.Ha! That's so apt 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 07:03 PM |
| 4 | They got mad because they were caughtI can! 💕 Thank you so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 06:57 PM |
| 52 | #1 😂😂😂 of course they won't admit being oneI should have run when LVM ex first told me: "I'm an a$$hole, and I only do sarcastic jokes 😂" And at the time, I thought he was being funny. But instead, I stayed for 6 months. What a clown 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 04:14 PM |
| 4 | How to recognize future fakingI heard it's actually genetics. LVM ex definitely got his "attention seeking" traits from his mom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 03:24 PM |
| 6 | They got mad because they were caughtWtf 😂😂😂 I'm so glad at how things changed so much now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 02:55 PM |
| 10 | They got mad because they were caughtFor my case, he blocked me everywhere, and moved on within 2 weeks with a new gf (mutual friend told me). And so I know he's been sneaky. I'm still trying to heal myself from feeling worthless because of his blocking, making me feel so insignificant 😞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 02:54 PM |
| 6 | They got mad because they were caughtToo many guys with too big of an ego 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 02:52 PM |
| 10 | They got mad because they were caughtAgree! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 02:50 PM |
| 15 | They got mad because they were caughtI swear they are all using the same guide. Like some kind of template or something 🙄 or maybe we all just dated the same clown 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 02:50 PM |
| 8 | They got mad because they were caughtThey hate being called out! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 02:48 PM |
| 22 | They got mad because they were caughtI'm so sorry that happened to you. I'm glad you are happier now! 💕 I'm also certain he cheated on me and I have no proof, but the gut feelings. And I cut all contacts with him, so I have no way of finding out how he's doing. I don't need to. I'm focusing on my life right now 💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 01:07 PM |
| 13 | They got mad because they were caughtOh no! I hope you're not seeing him anymore? LVM ex kept calling all of his ex with either "wh0res" or "$lut" or "gold digger" in front of me. 🤔 I keep wondering what he will call me in front of his buddies now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 01:01 PM |
| 9 | They got mad because they were caught😂 I need to learn that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 12:59 PM |
| 13 | How to recognize future fakingYep! This! Consistency is definitely the key. LVM ex also did this to me. Told me how much he loved me from day 1, how much he wanted to get married (he told me he is dating with marriage in mind, and always vet the girls around him if they're compatible). Told me he will court me properly, yet no effort was taken to get to know me. Never initiated conversation or never curious about my well-being. Told me we would live well off and happy in 2 years, yet did nothing to improve his life or his ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 12:58 PM |
| 15 | How to recognize future fakingMe too. I had never heard of this term before, until we broke up, and I started reading FDS, and then my eyes were opened. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 12:52 PM |
| 17 | They got mad because they were caught👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 12:50 PM |
| 43 | They got mad because they were caughtYep! LVM ex told me "I have enough of your $hit" before he broke things off after we argued over him not replying texts 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 12:49 PM |
| 59 | what are you proud of?I am proud of: First step to becoming a new me. Surviving a very painful breakup, I'm on month 5 of NC. I can do this!! 💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 05:36 AM |
| 87 | Treating MYSELF the way I want to be treated. I closed my first major deal today in my new career and took my beautiful self to the jewelry store to pick out exactly what I wanted 👏🏼I love your ring! But I'm very distracted by your beautiful nails. Please tell me what color that is 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 01:55 AM |
| 23 | If Disney Princesses Visited the TherapistI'm surprised that Ariel is not here 🤔😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 11:56 PM |
| 42 | If Disney Princesses Visited the TherapistI don't get Elsa? So, Elsa is the only real FDS Queen? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 11:51 PM |
| 3 | The BIGGEST fucking RED FLAG!!!Oh, don't worry. We are not together anymore. He left me all of a sudden, telling me he doesn't love me anymore and he blocked me everywhere... But he got himself a new gf few weeks later. Making me feel so sad an insecure 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 09:29 PM |
| 38 | The BIGGEST fucking RED FLAG!!!What if he called all of them "b1tch" or "wh0res"? What does it mean? Edit: don't worry, we are not together anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 02:35 PM |
| 24 | and he’ll still ghost you.I don't get why men like to do this "small d" joke thing? Why? What's the intention? 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 02:11 AM |
| 12 | I regret.I find that by acknowledging our own actions, only then we can really learn from it and move on. We can do this, sis! 💪 I definitely regret writing a long a$$ letter for him thinking he would care. Nope! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 05:45 AM |
| 11 | I regret.I was reading this and then "Wait? What dog? Did I miss a picture?" Before I realized OP username 😂😂 thanks for the laugh, needed that tonight! 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 05:43 AM |
| 20 | REMINDER: BLOCK AND DELETE THAT MANThank you so much 🥰 you unknowingly helped to keep me afloat. I've bookmarked this so I can go back and read it whenever I need a support! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 05:33 AM |
| 21 | I want my time, money, and emotional labor back now please.[serious question] Can someone explain this to me? What does it mean by internship? Is it trying to say having all the emotional labor? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 09:49 PM |
| 69 | NEVER chase a man, always chase your dreams! 👑 ✨One thing I learn from the high value women that I met before, is that their HV husbands always help building that world with/for them. Supporting them with their daily work, or helping them to study, or accompanying their hobbies, etc. They lift each other up, and not dragging another down. Always strive for growth, and not satisfied with mediocrity. Each gave 100% to the relationship, and not 50/50. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 01:02 PM |
| 8 | He told you who he was, don’t let his words convince you otherwise.Thanks for the encouraging words 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 01:07 AM |
| 20 | He told you who he was, don’t let his words convince you otherwise.Thanks for the reminder 🥰 It's been a difficult week for me that I spent with full of crying. Simply because it's his birthday this weekend. And my brain just keep repeating what we did together last year. We broke up for a few months now, and I know he is no longer the same person I used to know. I know healing is a process, and as the dumpee, all I wanted is "closure". I have to start changing my way of thinking now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 09:36 PM |
| 50 | Not sure if this belongs here, but I can't take a man with bad spelling and grammarAw! Your cute /s I seriously hate when he sent me that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 04:18 PM |
| 29 | Recognize the red flags. This will also serve as a reminder for myself 🙌You and me, sis 😂😂 we dated the same clown! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 05:07 PM |
| 1 | I don't know where to go. Or who to talk to. My self esteem and confidence are on all time low 💔 please help a sis 🥺Thank you, I really need these words. I can't thank you enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 07:30 PM |
| 2 | I don't know where to go. Or who to talk to. My self esteem and confidence are on all time low 💔 please help a sis 🥺That is a beautiful analogy, I'll make sure to remember that. Thank you so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 07:21 PM |
| 3 | I don't know where to go. Or who to talk to. My self esteem and confidence are on all time low 💔 please help a sis 🥺Yes, my heart keep trying to think about him. Even though my brain told me to stop and that he's not worth it. Luckily I've deleted all sort of contacts I have about him (phone number, social media, everything). So no matter how my heart struggles, I won't be able to reach out to him. But this constant battle is tiring, sis. Very tiring 😔 I have been pretending to be strong, and laugh like no problem in the world, but I guess today is the day I'm tired of playing pretend anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 03:04 AM |
| 3 | I don't know where to go. Or who to talk to. My self esteem and confidence are on all time low 💔 please help a sis 🥺Thank you so much. I am tired of crying all the time. I hate this weak side of me. I am definitely looking forward to a stronger me. *Hugs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 02:34 AM |
| 2 | I don't know where to go. Or who to talk to. My self esteem and confidence are on all time low 💔 please help a sis 🥺I love Tedtalks, I will definitely watch these, thank you so much! Universe does work in a mysterious way. I believe everything happens for a reason. For you to stumbled upon my post and replied me, thank you so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 02:33 AM |
| 3 | I don't know where to go. Or who to talk to. My self esteem and confidence are on all time low 💔 please help a sis 🥺Thank you. I definitely need to channel more self love and keep remembering I deserve more and better than before. I know it's a process, I think right now I'm just being impatient. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 02:32 AM |
| 3 | I don't know where to go. Or who to talk to. My self esteem and confidence are on all time low 💔 please help a sis 🥺Thank you so much. I really need this. Growing up, I don't have a lot of high value women as mentors. All my friends in real life are too self centered to care about others, simply because the people around me are those who are career minded, so their goals are to be successful in their jobs. I am trying so hard to channel the love that I used to give to others, now to myself. But learning is definitely a challenge for everyone. Every step is shadowed by constant doubt and these few days I have … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 02:31 AM |
| 2 | I don't know where to go. Or who to talk to. My self esteem and confidence are on all time low 💔 please help a sis 🥺Thank you! I love Lizzo, she's so inspiring! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 02:26 AM |
| 2 | I don't know where to go. Or who to talk to. My self esteem and confidence are on all time low 💔 please help a sis 🥺Thank you. I feel like I'm at the end of the road, and I'm just tired to keep going and just wanted to sit down for a while. The past just keep dragging me back. It's so HARD to be strong. I keep reading the FDS rules, I keep reading the stories for fellow sisters here, but my heart and my brain just keep fighting with each other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 02:25 AM |
| 3 | I don't know where to go. Or who to talk to. My self esteem and confidence are on all time low 💔 please help a sis 🥺Thank you, sis. I really appreciate the love and support. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 02:24 AM |
| 3 | I don't know where to go. Or who to talk to. My self esteem and confidence are on all time low 💔 please help a sis 🥺Thank you. I feel so lost today. All I've been doing is just crying and reading motivation quotes and self love videos. It's so hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 02:23 AM |
| 5 | I don't know where to go. Or who to talk to. My self esteem and confidence are on all time low 💔 please help a sis 🥺I feel like I'm growing in the midst on storm. How I wanted to stay strong, but the wind is too strong. I'm tired. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 02:23 AM |
| 13 | I don't know where to go. Or who to talk to. My self esteem and confidence are on all time low 💔 please help a sis 🥺Always. Every day. I'm not giving up. I just hate how I am still easily swayed by the past. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 02:22 AM |
| 4 | I don't know where to go. Or who to talk to. My self esteem and confidence are on all time low 💔 please help a sis 🥺Thank you, I am definitely trying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 02:21 AM |
| 12 | I don't know where to go. Or who to talk to. My self esteem and confidence are on all time low 💔 please help a sis 🥺Thank you so much! I have been pretending to be strong because that's the only way I know how in order to survive. I guess the past has been clouding my mind lately, I'm tired of pretending and all hell break loose today. I was just crying and crying. After breaking up, I made a vision board, what I want to achieve in the next 2 years. But I can't seem to let go of the "illusion" of romance that he painted before and I've been trying to drag him down from the pedestal. I'm not perfect, it's a co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 02:21 AM |
| 8 | Ladies: the day you stop looking for "closure" is the day that you will be free. **You** are the only closure you need. Acknowledge your pain, forgive yourself, and forget the one that hurt you. Then go and use your experience to help one of your sisters. **That** is your closure.Wow sis! I need the tough love right now. Thanks for saying this 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 08:40 PM |
| 6 | Man proposes to girlfriend of 45 years on flight...Yikes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 08:38 PM |
| 27 | Ladies: the day you stop looking for "closure" is the day that you will be free. **You** are the only closure you need. Acknowledge your pain, forgive yourself, and forget the one that hurt you. Then go and use your experience to help one of your sisters. **That** is your closure.Or needy and clingy and causing so much $hit in his life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 07:43 PM |
| 31 | Ladies: the day you stop looking for "closure" is the day that you will be free. **You** are the only closure you need. Acknowledge your pain, forgive yourself, and forget the one that hurt you. Then go and use your experience to help one of your sisters. **That** is your closure.I am in my low moments today, trying to deny everything that has happened to me. I kept finding excuses for him, but luckily I have deleted all sort of contacts I had on him (phone number, social media, everything) so even if I wanted to reach out to him, I won't be able to. What I'm trying to say is - thank you for reminding me. This post really came at the right time. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. 🙏🙏🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 07:32 PM |
| 3 | Can I brag about my HVM?This is so inspiring. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 02:37 PM |
| 9 | Just learning some new vocabularies 🙌👑💅 (not sure which flair to use, please let me know!)The queen 👑 ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 09:28 PM |
| 137 | OC: I decided to do a little gender swap on that horrible meme. I’m not a cartoonist but I hope you enjoy it! 🥰😂 the younger one is addicted to phone LOL the accuracy! I love the fine prints you put there too "known to cause STD" 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 12:25 PM |
| 11 | HVW Michelle ObamaWe should print this and frame it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 07:18 PM |
| 15 | !!!Dumbledore. I just watched that scene last night. Breaks my heart 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 07:17 PM |
| 131 | !!!"Don't drink the poison just because you're thirsty!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 04:07 PM |
| 20 | Found on iFunnyOmg! Thanks for sharing this. My ex used to say "I have enough of your shit!" Before he left me. I was so hurt and I couldn't stop blaming myself ... Until I saw this today. Now I know, all along, it's because he gave me lots of crap!! 🙌 Thanks sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 06:17 PM |
| 10 | Pinterest offering this nugget of adviceOr "I promise I'll try to change" See "promise" and "try" here? This is to protect themselves when they left, they could say "oh well! We just didn't work out" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 01:09 PM |
| 73 | If he’s still blaming women for his behavior, he is NOT a HVM. A HVM is not “the right man for the right one”, he’s the right man 100% of the time and does not exploit Pickmeishas just because he can.When he says, "I'm not a nice guy, but I promise I will only be nice to you" is a translation to "I am an a**hole and I promise to behave when I need you and will be back to my own self when I find my next target and dump you." Always trust people when they tell you who they are. Even if they're saying it as a joke. The old pick-me in myself was blind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 12:11 PM |
| 14 | Grateful for my dad ❤I was just thinking about you! I saw your post and I am so glad you found us here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 07:23 PM |
| 20 | He proposes with a 20$ costume jewellery necklace and then gets butthurt when she asks for a ring. The guy needs a shovel so he can still dig his way below the bar.This!! 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 09:29 PM |
| 14 | He proposes with a 20$ costume jewellery necklace and then gets butthurt when she asks for a ring. The guy needs a shovel so he can still dig his way below the bar.Please please tell me majority goes with YTA? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 09:28 PM |
| 6 | Just when you think you've seen enough? Gold digger man locked out his GF out of THEIR hotel room that SHE paid for to score brownie points in front of buddies 🙄I love how her (hotel staff) shift had actually ended, but she still stayed and took care of her (guest). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 02:31 PM |
| 7 | Just when you think you've seen enough? Gold digger man locked out his GF out of THEIR hotel room that SHE paid for to score brownie points in front of buddies 🙄I really hope he didn't beg her to come back. I hope her eyes are truly opened now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 02:30 PM |
| 4 | Just when you think you've seen enough? Gold digger man locked out his GF out of THEIR hotel room that SHE paid for to score brownie points in front of buddies 🙄That was my first thought too, but I think it happened a lot out there 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 02:29 PM |
| 3 | Friends, #KickHimOut2020 was blazing success. Lets start the discussion for the theme of 2021Aw thank you 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 07:27 PM |
| 16 | Friends, #KickHimOut2020 was blazing success. Lets start the discussion for the theme of 2021I love it - LivingQueenLife2021 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 07:13 PM |
| 6 | Ladies, don't treat your boyfriend like he's your husbandThanks. I guess I forgot to mention that that nagging was pre FDS. We broke up already. But thank you for the advice. I am definitely learning a lot of things here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 09:53 PM |
| 20 | Ladies, don't treat your boyfriend like he's your husbandI'm so confused too. I was nagging him to drink more water and his buddies commented "your girlfriend is acting like a wife". I'm not sure what the definitions are anymore Edit: he's an ex now. Don't worry, queens, I'm definitely learning. 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 07:11 PM |
| 64 | Wise words to keep in mind, queens ❤Thank you so much for the reminder. It's been a difficult week for me with me doubting the breakup, and keep having hope that he will come back one day. But I need to remind myself that he left me. That's the fact. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 12:58 AM |
| 113 | “I just don’t like texting” 🙄He said, "my thumb is too big to text, I kept having typo, let me just call you when I can" 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 12:56 AM |
| 31 | They try to invalidate grown women because impressing us is harder 🤷🏻♀️Anyone knows what are the differences between fully developed and not in terms of their behavior? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 09:52 PM |
| 30 | nothing says traditional more than rocking her box for 10+ years with no ring or kids or a marriage. Sure I'll commit after getting the milk for free for 10 years and then "Maybe" we can get married and start a family. Sooo tradition you people!I think I'm really out of the loop here. Who are these people? Are they famous? What's the back story? Serious question btw, not being sarcastic. Thank you in advance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 03:55 PM |
| 35 | "Men don't really get better looking with age". Tell us something we don't know!Yet, there was already an advocacy that "Men aged like fine wine" 🙄 I really believe that it was solely for the sake to increase their "market value" after their divorces. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 04:48 AM |
| 10 | Bring more to the tableI failed this test. I was reading it and "oh wow" and then nope! That's not good! And started to scold myself. 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 12:30 AM |
| 5 | Man is offended that I ask about his most interesting photo. Also feels the need to insist he could take a moose in a fight...Someone forgot to take their chill pill I see 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 03:51 PM |
| 18 | My mom sent me this. I thought it’d serve as a good reminder for everyone on this sub.This is so true. Reminds me of that quote "Even when you're thirsty, you won't be drinking poison, will you?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 09:41 PM |
| 12 | When a LVM says he is "loyal"Yup! He will not cheat on you, but when you started to cOMmUnIcAtE, he will feel threatened and call you "needy and clingy", and then "no longer feel the love, and I'm leaving you." Next thing you know, he has a new gf within few weeks. How did I know - you asked? That girl he broke up with is me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 07:58 PM |
| 28 | Racial fetishization and pedophilia. He wonders if he should learn to speak Chinese so he can have a better chance of targeting women that have the body type of school boys. Reddit is a cesspool of depraved LVMsEver seen that meme of "Heaven is when you have an American salary, German car, Asian wife" or something like that? It's been a while since I saw that, I may have forgotten some words. 🤦 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 06:33 PM |
| 44 | Racial fetishization and pedophilia. He wonders if he should learn to speak Chinese so he can have a better chance of targeting women that have the body type of school boys. Reddit is a cesspool of depraved LVMsI blamed this to the widespread of anime too. And all the hentai porns they grew up with. I mean, we even have that subreddit here for AsianGoneWild. It's sad to see even asian women are encouraging this kind of behavior 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 06:30 PM |
| 32 | Racial fetishization and pedophilia. He wonders if he should learn to speak Chinese so he can have a better chance of targeting women that have the body type of school boys. Reddit is a cesspool of depraved LVMsOne of my asian girlfriend actually told me she wanted to have mix babies because she wanted to "fix the generation beauty standards" so that's why she only date white guys. And she came from China to study in the US, supposedly by marrying an American, her family back in China see that as an "upgrade" because she's marrying a westerner. But I have another Chinese girlfriend who only wants to be a rich man (asian/white) race is not a problem, as long as they're rich. That's how the preconception… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 04:33 PM |
| 78 | Don’t be Bob the Builder for a man.I had to teach my ex a simple "say sorry when you have made a mistake" because he never thought it's necessary to apologize apparently 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 03:23 PM |
| 87 | The “not all men” guys are the worstAll quotes should look like this. Pretty enough to be a wallpaper, yet powerful as a reminder and so detailed that even the flowers are face palming LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 03:18 PM |
| 3 | My ex was broke, lazy, selfish, thoughtless but he still had all the audacityBroke, lazy, selfish, and want to be taken care of? Financially? I'm assuming that's why you put the "sugar mama" there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 04:11 AM |
| 8 | Future goals: become a painter and live a quiet life ✨This is so calm and peaceful 😍 thank you this is so inspirational! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 09:32 PM |
| 21 | My mood 😎Seriously. I. Miss. Traveling. So bad!! I wish this covid era can be over soon 💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 06:26 PM |
| 90 | Hope it’s not a repostWow! I really need this. Thank you so much. Or he could also be thinking "oh I got this one fish, who's a catch (me), maybe I can get that another one too!" 🤮 Anyway, let's repeat it together. No longer my problem! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 09:35 PM |
| 11 | Looks like my previous post struck a nerve 😪Wow! So men really are lurking here LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:56 PM |
| 222 | Hope it’s not a repostOh my LVM ex said "look at me! I'm 6.2' and with beard, no girls will want to talk to a bear like me. You'll be the only one." Fast forward 6 months later, a girl was fawning all over his ass, and he dumped me. Edit: so apparently, a lot of men lurkers were offended by this comment. I received messages that told me to: - stop dating tall men, just date short ones then lol! - stop being bitter, how is tall men a LVM? - bear is a warm creature, they protect people! Don't compliment and insult us a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:55 PM |
| 1 | How to move on from someone you didn’t even date?Thank you this, I really need this advice right now. | /r/askFDS | 17/09/20 06:41 PM |
| 6 | Men love to play games all day, right? Fine. Let me say this.I hope you're feeling better soon! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 05:58 PM |
| 9 | Men love to play games all day, right? Fine. Let me say this.That is so true. Unfortunately, I have to learn this the hard way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 05:58 PM |
| 12 | Ex collages for your amusementThis bro code rule is seriously irritating. I experienced that many times with my ex LVM. He claimed that they had been together since childhood, so it's normal for me to be the second priority. Dude, what?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:56 PM |
| 15 | I had to get on this30s and unemployed and living free with his parents??? OP! I'm so glad you got out of this relationship! And I'm glad you realized that he's a master of manipulator there! Hugs! I hope you're feeling better now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:09 PM |
| 1 | The narcissistic man-child gamer who fetishized on Asian women, a lazy, broke-ass, master manipulator and Mr.know-it-all neckbeard - please meet my LVM ex.He's all talk, but no action. When I found this quote, I knew right away it's so him LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:04 PM |
| 2 | The narcissistic man-child gamer who fetishized on Asian women, a lazy, broke-ass, master manipulator and Mr.know-it-all neckbeard - please meet my LVM ex.Thank you! I am glad too, I wish I got out sooner because he damaged my soul too much 😔 And thanks 😍 boba is life! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:03 PM |
| 7 | Dating as asia FDSerI think it's important to know his exes. My LVM ex claimed to love only asian, but his exes were from different ethnicities (he dated latina and caucasian before). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 10:16 AM |
| 11 | I love the life goals collages you're posting, so I had to create my own and share it with you!I love this! I'm all for independent woman with beautiful goals! And I love the idea of being able to work from everywhere. Good luck on your way to fulfilling them ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 10:14 AM |
| 9 | The narcissistic man-child gamer who fetishized on Asian women, a lazy, broke-ass, master manipulator and Mr.know-it-all neckbeard - please meet my LVM ex.I agree with you. I think for my case, it was a combination of watching too much porn / anime and also the existing preconception that asian women are submissive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:58 AM |
| 7 | The narcissistic man-child gamer who fetishized on Asian women, a lazy, broke-ass, master manipulator and Mr.know-it-all neckbeard - please meet my LVM ex.Thank you. It took me a while to accept that he was just a jerk that approached me with bad intentions to begin with. And also used me as his jerk off imagination. I'm so hurt. But it's a good lesson. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:31 AM |
| 10 | The narcissistic man-child gamer who fetishized on Asian women, a lazy, broke-ass, master manipulator and Mr.know-it-all neckbeard - please meet my LVM ex.Hugs! And for my side, it would be - why would you only see me as "the next asian girl" instead of liking me for me? Imagine dating a guy who was fawning all over me, sending me compliments every day, and then I saw his Instagram was all about liking people my own race. The hot sexy type! I dressed more on the modest side. And I'm talking about these asian girls in hot pants and mini crop top with flat tummy, long black hair, and acting cutesy. 😔😔😔 Luckily it's all in the past now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:22 AM |
| 3 | My Ex collage! Ffs...Lordy! He's 32 and he's a man-child 🙄 I'm so sorry, sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 10:42 PM |
| 9 | The narcissistic man-child gamer who fetishized on Asian women, a lazy, broke-ass, master manipulator and Mr.know-it-all neckbeard - please meet my LVM ex.I'm so sorry that happened to you *hugs. I hope you are much happier now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 10:40 PM |
| 14 | The narcissistic man-child gamer who fetishized on Asian women, a lazy, broke-ass, master manipulator and Mr.know-it-all neckbeard - please meet my LVM ex.I think you're absolutely right! Though he claimed that way, but all his pics of his buddies were never any asian in it. I remember he told me I was not allowed to meet any of his asian friends (I'm asian) 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 09:41 PM |
| 9 | The narcissistic man-child gamer who fetishized on Asian women, a lazy, broke-ass, master manipulator and Mr.know-it-all neckbeard - please meet my LVM ex.I suspected we dated the same guy. All of us!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 09:30 PM |
| 16 | The narcissistic man-child gamer who fetishized on Asian women, a lazy, broke-ass, master manipulator and Mr.know-it-all neckbeard - please meet my LVM ex.He claimed his good friends are actually asian (Vietnamese and Korean) 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 09:29 PM |
| 3 | Self care collage ❤️It is! It's very heart warming to see some of the pictures there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 08:54 PM |
| 5 | The narcissistic man-child gamer who fetishized on Asian women, a lazy, broke-ass, master manipulator and Mr.know-it-all neckbeard - please meet my LVM ex.Yeah I have no way of knowing who she is because I'm in NC. And I refused to find out anything about him. I just hope she can find a good support system like I did and found my FDS sisters. I hope she's smarter than I was when I was in that relationship. 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 08:53 PM |
| 15 | The narcissistic man-child gamer who fetishized on Asian women, a lazy, broke-ass, master manipulator and Mr.know-it-all neckbeard - please meet my LVM ex.I think they all like the idea to be in control, and reset every time they failed. Running away from reality 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 08:40 PM |
| 19 | The narcissistic man-child gamer who fetishized on Asian women, a lazy, broke-ass, master manipulator and Mr.know-it-all neckbeard - please meet my LVM ex.He claimed that he's playing games only to kill time because "it's covid out there, and I can't really meet other people". But when his buddies called, he's out of the house the next second, didn't even bother to tell me that he would be away the whole damn day. Talk about respect! 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 08:39 PM |
| 6 | The narcissistic man-child gamer who fetishized on Asian women, a lazy, broke-ass, master manipulator and Mr.know-it-all neckbeard - please meet my LVM ex.Thank you, I am fine now, on my way to be healed. He has a new gf now and, I just hope I have a way to warn her, but unfortunately I don't know her personally 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 08:37 PM |
| 2 | "A LTR with flair"We learn new vocabulary every day 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 08:06 PM |
| 43 | The narcissistic man-child gamer who fetishized on Asian women, a lazy, broke-ass, master manipulator and Mr.know-it-all neckbeard - please meet my LVM ex.I know right! It's amazing how common they are. It's like they came from the same mold or something? Making this collage is really therapeutic. I am now on page 3 of my collages, and I really don't want to spam you sisters LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 08:05 PM |
| 20 | Self care collage ❤️I love this so much! I almost thought I was at cozyplaces instead of FDS 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 06:59 PM |
| 37 | My ex collage!It's amazing to see how 90% of the LVM here usually is a gamer! And at the same time porn addict 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 06:55 PM |
| 6 | Queens don't settle or compromise.I know looks are important. But I feel like so many LVM use this to manipulate. And that's how ladies are charmed away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 04:07 PM |
| 7 | How to move on from someone you didn’t even date?Maybe it's just me, but I found that men who used to do all the chasing, and decided to break things off, generally are the Narcissist that do that to test if we will beg and cry for them to come back? To solidify the fact "yeap, I need to leave her!" It could also be a mix of their chauvinist pride and ego - like "let me dump her, so I don't get dumped" kinda thing. I have been in your shoes, and it took a huge amount of determination to move on, to be able to actually move on. If you're still … | /r/askFDS | 16/09/20 12:56 PM |
| 19 | Are men actually bad at texting or is this just an excuse?I guess you already got your answer. I just wanted to add - if he wanted to, he would. My HVM ex once spent HOURS inside a very cold server room just to keep talking to me because his work area at that time had no network other than the server room. | /r/askFDS | 16/09/20 12:44 PM |
| 10 | How do you stop letting men define your value?"Don't blame the diamond who's looking like a dirty rock, but blame the blind human who can't recognize its shine." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 12:57 AM |
| 10 | May the fires left by Michael’s errors light your path. 🤣😂🤣😂Ladies, ladies, let's not forget our manners. Let's lit a candle for fallen soldier, Michael. /s 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 12:22 AM |
| 14 | Pickme's when they talk about their "HVM"😂Lol this is so apt! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 09:26 PM |
| 29 | Found out I’m pregnant last nightI'm so excited for you! Congratulations, sis! Please keep us in the loop. It will be great experience for us to watch this baby grow along with us (like a big family over internet LOL) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 05:33 PM |
| 34 | Things you wish you could tell your 18 year old self?Put your study first. And choose your friends wisely. They are what build or break you. Practice gratitude since early days. Other people around you may side track your goals, but don't get swayed easily. Forgive yourself and don't be too harsh on yourself, you're just human, and you will make mistakes. Don't rush on love. Choose what is best for you. Respect your own body. Don't listen to peer pressure to get on a relationship just for the sake of it. Don't rush to sleep with anyone just for th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:01 PM |
| 28 | First and last conversationsMy first "serious" conversation with him was him calling all his exes "whore" and "bitch" for having slept with a lot of men. At the time, I felt bad for him because he made it sound like college life was crazy and sex was easy and casual - and that grossed him out. My last conversation with him was how he spent hours gaming, rather than spending time with me. Now that I think about it, I think he was just lazy and all talk - but never really put in the effort in relationship. And that's why all… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 09:36 PM |
| 392 | It's not your responsibility to make your or any man feel like a manI felt sad for her when I watched how she had to go around the house to hide her stuff just to keep his pride intact. And when he said he's leaving, he was able to held her chin high and go on with her life like a true queen she is, I clapped the hardest! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 04:13 PM |
| 24 | Manifest Greatness, Not a Man.Amen sister! I'm actually curious about the teens out there (do we call 20s teens?) Anyway, I'm worried about their mindset, what is considered "normal" for them. And if their girlfriends are doing this, the potential HVW may also think this is "normal" too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 03:01 PM |
| 43 | Ask WHY a guy likes you - and pay attention to the answer.He told me - I like you because you are you. You are smart, you travel a lot, you seem fun, you know what you want and you match the type that I like. 🤔 now, I wonder if those were red flags that I missed? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 10:30 AM |
| 10 | I think the Netflix Cuties movie may have just ended my relationship.Always trust your guts! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 08:49 AM |
| 3 | r/MGTOW gleefully plotting to replace women with machines.What does MGTOW stand for? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 12:49 AM |
| 13 | What will happenThank you so much. I really need this today. I have been highs and lows since breaking up. It so hard for me to move on easily no matter how asshole he is. I need this constant reminder that he is really a lesson in my life, and I have to keep moving on. Thank you so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 07:00 PM |
| 5 | Recognize the signs of a NarcissistThank you. You just gave me inspiration to do the same. ♥️ I am trying to build my life too after being hurt so bad by my ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 01:58 AM |
| 13 | Reminder: Trust your gut. Get out at the first signs of gaslighting.This!! 👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 10:20 PM |
| 94 | Why are guys so obsessed with pictures?Yes and yes. Yes - they used them to jerk off. My ex straight up told me he got a lot of boobs pics from snap easily and then asked for mine. I replied right away "you really think I will give you one? Seriously?" And then he laughed it off and said "you're right you won't, I won't allow you too anyway." And yes - cut him off. I regretted not doing that even after he kept asking for titties / ass pics and then replied with "I'm just kidding" They're not kidding. They wanted to test your water an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 04:44 PM |
| 18 | This video on Tiktok made me think of FDS ^_^ she’s got other videos on similar topics @youcancallmerachI wish I found this earlier. My ex was the other way around. He manipulated me with reversed psychology. "Yeah I'm an ass. I've told you, I don't know why you are still here, you deserve someone much better." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 12:56 AM |
| 66 | When a LVM tries to drop this hot line to reel you in thinking you are a pickme, but you decide to play stupid to give him a taste of his own medicine before you block & delete for good as an enlightened QueenOmg this is so smart! I'm stealing this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 07:19 PM |
| 55 | Y’all rock!Or some horny a$$ kid who moved on real fast even though he promised all the grand things when you're still together and lifted you on pedestal. But before you know it, he's swiping right all the time, and has moved the F on. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 07:18 PM |
| 5 | Ladies, you don’t miss him, you’re craving dopamineThank you. Daily goals and reqard is a good idea. I'm into Animal Crossing now. It was fun, but now feels like a chore 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 05:24 PM |
| 21 | My desi aunt and uncle are looking for a daughter in law. Sign up with the name of the woman you hate.This reminds me of that matchmaking show in Netflix. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 04:51 PM |
| 14 | Never againWe should build a circus together, sis! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 04:50 PM |
| 15 | Never againThank you so much. I am definitely trying everyday. I hope I will feel better soon! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 03:33 PM |
| 27 | Do NOT Date A Broke man!Ikr!! I am still keeping in touch with his daughter (my high school friend). She married HVM. Her husband pampered her a lot and prioritize her in their family lives. She has 6 figures income and is financially secured both individually and as a couple. She is pregnant now and her husband makes sure to sanitize the house and to read everything about newborn babies and new mothers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 03:20 PM |
| 32 | Do NOT Date A Broke man!This is why it is important to have HVM so we can educate better generations :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 02:41 PM |
| 80 | Never againOh that jackass has a name and it's me 😔 We broke up before our anniversary, and I still begged him to stay. I sent him animation video that I created to gift him. And also a long ass letter about my feelings for him. And then crickets. The clown is me 🤡 the whole circus is me 🤡 And I still can't forgive myself until today. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 12:49 PM |
| 13 | Ladies, you don’t miss him, you’re craving dopamineIs there a way to "hack" ourselves for dopamine, then? I really don't want to break NC for a piece of jerk and regret the next day 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 12:46 PM |
| 184 | Do NOT Date A Broke man!Very well said! When I was a teen and visited my friend's house, I know of a man (a father) who clearly told all of his girls that "women should be a gold digger". He said "I don't raise my girls with all my love to be a maid of another man. I raised her as my princess. She has to be a queen. I clothed her, I educated her, and I will not want my daughter to be living in poor." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 12:38 PM |
| 2 | How to make friends with women?Pm me too please! Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 06:57 PM |
| 25 | How to make friends with women?I have this dilemma too. The girls in my office are narrow minded and back stabber. And I can't possibly approach other women at Starbucks "hey, can we be friends?" Without appearing like a creep 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 05:52 PM |
| 13 | If you’re in one of those long distance relationships reliant mostly on texting and no solid plans for either of you to move, then you’re just playing an elaborate mobile phone game.On a separate note, I know of a girl who went into this LDR with men for the sake of passport marriage. She is from Southeast Asia and always targeted men from US or Europe. Playing the victim card to get their sympathy and to get those men to fall in love with her. She showered them with love notes and cheesy videos and her selfies all the time to get them attached. And she kept rotating between those men with a promise of "let me visit your country in the future" and started to "future faking"… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 12:44 AM |
| 16 | If you’re in one of those long distance relationships reliant mostly on texting and no solid plans for either of you to move, then you’re just playing an elaborate mobile phone game.Omg sis, are you me? Did we share an ex bf? LOL the jerk! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 12:30 AM |
| 75 | Beware of Trojan HorsesMy ex told me that men in general lives off "challenge". I think that's why when they finally get in the relationship, some men just stop trying anymore and feel bored easily. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 03:06 PM |
| 23 | From r/coolguidesThis is why detox from social media is important! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 01:52 AM |
| 20 | I draw things to help me feel better about the inevitable disappointment of the dating pool. Here’s my latest.This reminds me so much of my ex. He really like to say this "I think you're cute when you're mad" and that's his answer when I asked him why he always tried to irritate me through his jokes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 12:50 PM |
| 22 | Saw this from another sub. I think there's hope!That's true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 10:25 PM |
| 10 | Saw this from another sub. I think there's hope!Hmm I didn't think of that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 10:24 PM |
| 3 | Should a DTR Talk be an UltimatumI'm sorry, what is DTR? (It's a serious question as I really don't know what this means). Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 05:05 PM |
| 14 | I wonder if men still do this nowdays?Eye roll. You think after "centuries", they will be evolved, right? Wrong! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 03:04 PM |
| 20 | I wonder if men still do this nowdays?Nana is the most wise! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:53 PM |
| 11 | I’ve booked myself a hotel roomYou go, girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 08:58 PM |
| 15 | Peter panAnd said "what did I do??" When he clearly made a mistake but tried to talk you out of it. And when you ignored his ass, he would come back with half ass apology. And when you dismissed it, he would be the one calling you "too difficult" because of that. Even when you asked "why did you apologize?" With the hope he would recognize his wrong? Nooo.. he would say he doesn't know and he apologizes because you're mad. 🤷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 10:41 PM |
| 4 | My dad decorated my mom's garden space.I love that! Is that Indonesian batik? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 10:36 PM |
| 22 | When you witness the birth of the newest FDS memberOmg! This was so me. I was so surprised when my ex was drinking water, when he's been drinking soda his whole life! 🤦 And he made sure to let me know everyday that "he's been listening to my nagging him about drinking water." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 05:53 PM |
| 139 | Yup.... we give way too much to not be taken care of. NEVER settle.She forgot: "be patient when I'm playing my games", "don't text me too much", "don't call me too much", "pamper me", "can you do this pose for me?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 01:47 AM |
| 14 | I’ve decided to start vetting men for their sense of humor because, to be truly funny, it’s necessary for an individual to be both observant and perceptive.Oh damn I forgot there are male lurkers! Oops! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 07:25 PM |
| 55 | I’ve decided to start vetting men for their sense of humor because, to be truly funny, it’s necessary for an individual to be both observant and perceptive.I once thought a guy was funny, but all he did was being sarcastic and throwing snarky remarks. He also tried to humiliate himself to get people to laugh at him. Jokes like, "well, I'm dumb so.." or "my pp is only 2 inch long so.." And at the time, everyone was laughing and saying "oh you're so funny." But is he really? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 06:59 PM |
| 9 | Well I'm alone and bored on my birthday because of a LVM. Any suggestions of how to make myself feel better?Happy birthday! You deserve a nice cold champagne and beautiful HUGE bouquet of flowers. Go get them. Pamper yourself with hot bath and manicure/pedicure (if your city allows). And most important, don't forget to turn on your fave music and just dance the night away! Happy birthday! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 05:36 PM |
| 24 | Trust your instincts ladies!So true! My ex described this as my personality. He said "She's controlling, needy and overthinking stuff." 🙄 When I care about his health from his habit of gaming the whole night = controlling When he ghosted me the whole day, and I had to beg for communication = needy When I question his friendship with his "childhood friend that I totally have no feelings for, but I went to prom with so I could grabbed her ass" = overthinking Go figure! PS - sorry for the rant! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Miley couldn’t have said it better.I see now. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Miley couldn’t have said it better.I see now. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 03:54 PM |
| 78 | This should be the bare minimum!I have to keep replaying this over and over again because I was so distracted by her eyes. They're so gorgeous! And yes, the messages really hit home! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 03:53 PM |
| 6 | Miley couldn’t have said it better.Can you help me understand how did the guy become LVM? I have been out of touch with the news, but all I read about her before was that she had been cheating on him multiple times? What did I miss? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 03:33 PM |
| 9 | Don't just be beautiful but .....Agree. I find the same thing with "Hot". Now, I can't help to think of negative meaning whenever someone said "oh, you're so hot!" 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 02:35 AM |
| 58 | Speculation: Men want young women to think they will provide, so the woman will not meet her potential and become dependent on them.Or another side of the coin is they want older woman to baby them and take care of them. So they can get away with the bare minimum and not having the need to level up 🤔🤔🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:28 PM |
| 20 | What do you think? Parenting done right. How to raise a HVM.Raise the army! 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 03:47 AM |
| 16 | What do you think? Parenting done right. How to raise a HVM.I hope he can keep doing this until he's grown up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 03:47 AM |
| 12 | What do you think? Parenting done right. How to raise a HVM.Very wholesome!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 03:46 AM |
| 15 | All the comments were a variation of “WeLl HoLd On, iT’s NoT nEcEsSaRiLy FeTiShIsAtIon” - the bar truly is in hellI saw the other post here today (title "if I could turn back time"), I can feel her pain just from her words. Truly sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 01:22 AM |
| 52 | All the comments were a variation of “WeLl HoLd On, iT’s NoT nEcEsSaRiLy FeTiShIsAtIon” - the bar truly is in hellThis is really sad. I saw more and more posts about women (mostly asian) being fetishized nowdays. Dating is so hard 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 01:14 AM |
| 23 | If I could turn back time......Forgive yourself and be strong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 09:13 PM |
| 12 | Yas! 🙌 It's a blessing for me to find FDS, I really feel empowered every single day. I'm constantly reminded that I deserve respect from men. Thanks, queens! 💪💅👸I agree, this is very well said. If every woman prepare their next generation like this, we will have a population of great women 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 05:05 PM |
| 130 | They would love it if we fought each other and lived in discord, but we refuse.But how can we avoid the jealous women out there, who instead of being supportive to us, they stab us in the back? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 04:19 PM |
| 30 | QuestionInstagram is a platform to show whatever you want to show. Unfortunately, most of them are not real. But it serves as inspiration for us women in men 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 04:17 PM |
| 3 | I buy myself flowers for no reason & any time I feel like because I am the most important person in my life.Yes!! This one ♥️ thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 11:01 AM |
| 73 | I buy myself flowers for no reason & any time I feel like because I am the most important person in my life.That's awesome! This actually reminds me of an old FDS post about this huge pretty pink flowers with baby breaths and all that, and OP even told us what to order to get that gorgeous bouquet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Feeling good about myself after 2 months of feeling depressed 🙌 This may not last for long, might as well post this when I'm feeling like a queen 👑You are amazing too! Thank you so much ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Feeling good about myself after 2 months of feeling depressed 🙌 This may not last for long, might as well post this when I'm feeling like a queen 👑One day at a time! Thank you so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Feeling good about myself after 2 months of feeling depressed 🙌 This may not last for long, might as well post this when I'm feeling like a queen 👑Cheers 🥂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Feeling good about myself after 2 months of feeling depressed 🙌 This may not last for long, might as well post this when I'm feeling like a queen 👑Hugs! Thank you so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Feeling good about myself after 2 months of feeling depressed 🙌 This may not last for long, might as well post this when I'm feeling like a queen 👑Thank you. Hearing this from you really made my day! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 11:59 PM |
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