Reminder that words mean nothing, always pay attention to their level of effort through actions.

Sage_Planter · 2020-11-28T05:51:02+00:00

Ladies, please don't be on your phones at 1:00 AM.

If I got a text like that, I'd be like "Oh, that's nice," when I woke up six hours later. And that's it.

RiasXgremoryX · 2020-11-28T06:12:53+00:00

Lol at the men who really think they are geniuses for doing this. Years ago before FDS, my narc ex used to text me some mystical, spiritual, soulmate/twin flame mumbo jumbo between the hours of 9pm and 6am. He would get so angry with me because I always replied "what do you want now?"🤣

A man who texts you between the hours of 9pm and 6am is always looking for sex aka a booty call.

jayda92 · 2020-11-28T08:56:26+00:00

My ex used to do this after we had a really traumatic break-up.

Every Thursday I would get a text, we would enter a convo and I would have 'hope'. On Friday and Saturday I would be happy that he reached out to me. On Sunday I started to worry. On Monday I would be sad and crying. On Tuesdays I was mad, and would vow to myself to never have contact with him again. On Wednesdays I would feel really strong. On Thursday I would get another message and the cycle would start all over again. It lasted months. And it wasn't 'booty-calling', even. Fuck I hate that guy. I hope he just dies very painfully; but on the other hand, I don't even care that much to be honest.

man-in-trash · 2020-11-28T06:43:39+00:00

I have dumped every guy who texted me at unsociable hours. It’s so damn rude. It just shows they have no respect for me.

CountingDownTheDays5 · 2020-11-28T06:47:44+00:00

Action speaks louder than words. BTW Bish don't text me at 1am, I'm sleeping

atuan · 2020-11-28T14:51:31+00:00

Does this really "work"? I mean I can see someone falling for it once maybe twice, but after interacting and seeing how false and empty the words are, this would just serve to piss the woman off even more. And if you get a woman that clings to this, you're going to have a bad time with "crazy"...they complain about women being crazy but they are doing things that only would either drive a woman crazy or work with a crazy unstable person.

Kingkazola · 2020-11-28T14:04:02+00:00

I don't understand why they can't just do these things to show empathy or be loving they always have some other ulterior motive(most likely sex). Most men are trash unfortunately and this is just one of many examples.

TexiMcCrae · 2020-11-28T10:17:13+00:00

1AM? Who the hell is up at that time? My old ass is in bed by 10

yourscreennamesucks · 2020-11-28T17:56:26+00:00

LMAO this really did happen to me. An old friend I rarely talk to and basically ignore because the last time I talked to him was 3 years ago and before that was probably 10 years had the audacity to be drunk and tell me how much he missed and wanted me. BOY BYE. I had just left a 5 year relationship so I didn't want ANYBODY. Then about a year later he sends me this exact type of message about the thing we went to almost 20 freaking years ago 😂 I just didn't respond. Now almost 2 years after that he just recently tried again talking about my dog. Someone please do something about these dudes because I just do not have the energy.

ChocolateBiscuit96 · 2020-11-29T01:12:25+00:00

If it’s such a chore to be in a relationship, then just be single because games such as this one are stupid

Ok_Satisfaction1911 · 2020-11-29T15:57:29+00:00

My phone, off and on air plane mode in another room: 💤 Me: 💤💤💤 Scrote: 😧

Optimal_Grapefruit_5 · 2020-11-28T20:19:49+00:00

"das gay bruh" block delete

Title	Reminder that words mean nothing, always pay attention to their level of effort through actions.
Author	Espionagess
Upvotes	439
Comments	22
Date	November 28, 2020 5:48 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/k2ibde/reminder_that_words_mean_nothing_always_pay/
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