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LESSON LEARNEDTexiMcCrae/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:36 PM
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SHOWER THOUGHTTexiMcCrae/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 09:56 PM
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TexiMcCrae/r/askFDS21/10/20 03:56 AM
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Where the FUCK can I find a man that knows this as facts?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 04:25 AM
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I haven’t had that problem. My biggest pet peeve is a dude texting and walking slow af. That’s not as bad I know, but dear lord for a gender that talks about being from hunters and warriors you’d think they’d have spatial awareness or peripheral vision
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 02:53 PM
9

I just want to be her friend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:11 AM
1

Wait until y’all see the snap chat advertisements for “Love Don’t Judge”. Honestly every time I see them I’m like.. love might not judge but the court of law is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:50 AM
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I saw that title and thought I was rudely mispronouncing that lady’s name for years 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 03:59 PM
20

Yeah it makes sense. I don’t enjoy the company of children and have a fear of pregnancy, so I typically let people know that I don’t intend on having offspring. I’d only give it a shot if a surrogate is involved, which is a great way of weeding out men. Not being motherly to these dickheads is unattractive which I find so weird and gross 😂 I’m glad these ladies are getting bank for being surrogates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 07:32 PM
45

Surrogates are 60k+? Looks like I’m never having kids lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 05:54 PM
20

I invested in exercise equipment manufacturers at the beginning of the pandemic lol. Invested in more around New Years. People are predictable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 02:37 AM
96

Being born straight is a damn curse at this point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 05:32 AM
31

I really dislike tiktok and these “challenges”... whatever happened to the stupid, but innocent, planking or mannequin nonsense they were doing. Can we not just go back to that? 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 04:54 PM
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I messed that up... another rule to ingrain in myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 04:31 PM
51

We can’t do anything without men condemning it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 05:41 AM
17

You lose either way in the eye of others. I had the flattest chest on earth that even women terrorized me for. I got a breast augmentation a few years ago and now people remember me as “oh, boobs!” You can’t win. I grew up and don’t care about other’s opinions hardly as much nowadays and can confidently say to people they’re inappropriate if they mention my chest in any way. My poor, young self was very insecure because people just can’t leave women’s bodies alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 12:12 AM
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Yes 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 12:03 AM
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I got chills just from the trailer! I wish my best friend still lived here so we could watch together
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 01:07 AM
16

I ignored it honestly. I didn’t know if it was a man, sarcasm, or just... gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:43 AM
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Ha! I bet this was TwoX right? I can see the two gears turning in their heads on how to shame her for finally being free. I don't understand why they're upset though. Ain't like they ever gave out orgasms naturally as a species before. Gatekeeping much, boys? LUL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 10:47 PM
8

Is anyone else as disturbed as me not only for the fact she’s cleaning his apartment but... she just put that shit down the drain. Babe, no. Outside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 11:07 AM
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Ooooh... putting that in my pocketbook because that’s beautiful and needs to be repeated. Endlessly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:34 AM
12

I replied that rape should not be taken lightly and it isn’t a fucking game in bed and got downvoted into oblivion. 👍🏻 Great job, PickMes. You made rape attractive and sex work eMpoWeRInG. The bar really is in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 10:45 PM
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I’m spoon feeding my lady friends slowly because of how absolutely wrapped up they are in these guys... It’ll get better one day! Just got to keep applying the rules to every day life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 02:51 PM
4

I do too ❤️ I love this group.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 12:45 AM
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That makes sense! I figured all the flairs had criteria, but never really questioned it. I don’t post anything other than comments often so I have a feeling I’ll be a newbie forever lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 09:12 PM
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I thought it was the ones with the Pickmeisha flairs that were commenting nonsense. I thought us newbs were just ya know.. new lol 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 08:21 PM
48

I bet they exploded over that one lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 11:47 PM
9

I wish I had a father like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:34 AM
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Thank you ☺️ I was afraid people would call me selfish for not involving others in that, but I’ve been pleasantly surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 07:46 AM
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I dated a man that used to get angry when my opinion didn’t match his. I laughed when he got angry because I just can’t take something so trivial seriously. 😂 Like yo dog, we’re talking about music, not how to fix mankind. Chill. EDIT: needless to say we didn’t last 👍🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:00 AM
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As a person that took ASL language credits and volunteered at a deaf school ever since because she respected the community and their strength, that man can rot in fucking hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 04:44 AM
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Oooh that one looks expensive~ very beautiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 05:05 PM
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Why the hell are they badgering her about what she does for a living?? She makes more, end of discussion. She’s making more money and using it to benefit the household.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:32 PM
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“I’m alpha.” So fucking cringey
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:02 PM
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Cute as a dang bug!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:01 PM
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Um, ew? Lol why the fuck would she want to marry someone like 20 years her senior? Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:50 PM
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Now that I’m not with him I honestly don’t give a care for his reasons. I just want to move on and not deal with him anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:46 AM
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Sigh I hate how true your statement is lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:01 AM
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As a person that also lives in an expensive part of Southern California, I was disappointed lol. I found more attractive men in Virginia and Texas. I think the California thing is a huge stereotype because dear god the pickins are SLIM. Just keep your standards and wait
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:59 AM
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I can’t really say I saved myself. I honestly wonder if I would have got the courage if I didn’t find that handbook and a support group like FDS. This place is honestly a support group.. I know it’s not labeled that nor what they’re going for but I swear it’s more that then anything. It’s seriously a huge group of women that is trying to get each other to see their worth. I fucking love y’all lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:12 AM
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Thank you! I’m so excited to be myself again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:25 AM
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Yo... your flair has me cackling. I was so distracted for a moment 😂😂😂 Anyway, thank you! I wouldn’t have been able to do this without y’all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:19 AM
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All my med people are ladies 💅🏻❤️ I do my own mechanic and household work ✊🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 01:56 AM
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That’s what I was thinking the whole time! I was confused. It was like he was considering our friendship years our dating years and jumped straight to going for marriage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 12:00 AM
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“You don’t owe him anything” is exactly what it is. I’m sorry you had to go through a marriage like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:59 PM
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Public proposals should be illegal, I swear. I feel like men only do that as a security blanket because most women don’t say no when put under pressure 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:42 PM
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After that phone call I slept for 12 hours. I was finally relaxed. I didn’t realize how much stress I was putting myself through. ❤️ #KickHimOut2020
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:41 PM
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Fixing plates is a culture thing. In mine, elders get served first. Not lazy husbands....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 10:15 PM
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Ew to them all but the “most women in your position would be desperate for a relationship” made me really raise a brow. What exactly is the position so I can avoid it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 08:31 PM
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Omg... that’s a good point lol. Let’s hope she does this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 07:16 PM
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😕 Why the fuck would someone think that’s funny? I bet if a woman said yes and then threw the ring and said psych! People would hang her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:36 AM
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😐 men like him make me punch pillows
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 04:50 AM
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Soul sister ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 07:19 PM
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Too girly?? Food is too girly? Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 04:19 AM
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San Diego? No way. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 06:57 AM
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This is a sad truth. I didn’t realize my biological father never bought my mother anything until I got older
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 12:29 AM
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I’m like this too... It didn’t hit me that it’s a problem until a man I was talking to blew up and said “why won’t you just let me do things?” I would do EVERYTHING myself. I would rather order a taxi then get a ride from the man that worked in the same building as me, just for example. For me I think it’s a fear of being accused of being a mooch or needy. I already am incredibly quiet and serious about my independence so when I actually need something it’s almost like a grim determination to ne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:02 AM
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I didn’t know this was a stereotype until I left Texas lol. Men are so weird about horses outside of my home
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 07:39 PM
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That.. is disturbing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 05:20 AM
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NOT reading is the real red flag to me. I immediately assume you’re beneath me intellectually and I’ll move on lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 05:43 AM
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This startled me too lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 05:40 AM
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Maybe it’s just because I’m Texan, I don’t know, but my father will never see me naked. Ever. EVER. It’s just.... weird. I don’t even really enjoy being naked around my female relatives lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 04:25 AM
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I have never had a man grab his phone during sex... who the hell is even trying to justify that in their head....? I would never allow that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 04:23 AM
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What app is this you’re using?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 05:13 AM
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I’m so sick of the saying “belong to the streets”. I never thought I’d see it applied to a real message from a husband to a wife
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 07:56 PM
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I’m a little confused on just what the fuck he is trying to make
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 07:49 PM
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Anal is what I never understood. Why on earth did that ever become a thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 03:09 PM
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That he had been cheating on her when I thought he and I were dating and owed me money on top of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 11:57 AM
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Happens all the time... I have a man that’s steadily paying me money back because I loaned him money when I thought we were dating. Little does he know that when he pays my money back, I’m telling her everything. Her as in his fiancé. 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 03:29 AM
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Every day I’m shocked at how many people don’t know their vehicles, to include men. Everyone should know how to change their oil, change a tire, change filters, how to jump batteries, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 07:27 AM
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Rich men aren’t on dating apps 💅🏻🍷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 07:22 AM
9

Our wandering gardeners are in small groups and wearing masks 🥰 I can’t wait for covid to end so we can go back to doing bigger groups. We get so many native plants back into the habitats out here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:04 AM
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You and I would make fast friends ❤️ I do volunteer gardening and native plantings for neighborhoods. I’d smell right along side you! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 11:54 PM
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Eating by yourself is surprisingly not awkward. I do it all the time. I’ll even read a book at a bar, I really don’t care lol. If the bartender wants to chat, then I’m ready ☺️ Some of us aren’t much into the social aspect, but want to be around people every once in a while. I get my fill of everyone and I’m good for a couple of weeks of staying in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 10:38 PM
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I’m hoping we don’t have men in the midst. I’ve noticed some weird things too reading multiple posts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 04:12 AM
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HVW aren’t hot bad girls. They’re women with standards. Perhaps I’m misunderstanding what you’re saying?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 07:20 PM
12

Are you trolling?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 07:16 PM
11

... I never thought about it and you’re so right. I’ve never heard a lesbian complain about ANYTHING
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 08:38 PM
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So... we can all conclude by now that a man that has difficulty getting hard or might lose it during sex has ED and/or a porn problem right? Asking for a friend... 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 08:29 PM
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Wow I didn’t even know that sub was a thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 08:27 PM
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Been there, no more lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 06:30 AM
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They say it like single is a bad thing. I’d rather be single than be with a coward. Edit: The main character thing bothers me too... like, why wouldn’t I be the main character OF MY OWN FUCKING LIFE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 01:33 AM
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Yuuup. I find it weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:37 PM
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When someone is wrong, I tell them. Ignoring things just prolongs stigmas and false info lol. I appreciate your words, but I can’t say I’ll be following them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 04:23 PM
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Omg... my favorite thing besides horses is reading. If I had a dollar for every man that didn’t know Fight Club was a damn book before the movie I’d swimming in cash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:21 PM
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Her bone structure is life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:17 PM
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I’m bipolar too and on the severe end, so reading this I was like 😐. I get what they’re trying to say but I feel like it’s one of those situations where when people say bipolar it’s with an eye roll and just snap changes of happy and angry. So I didn’t quite enjoy this post 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 01:57 PM
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I hate waking up heterosexual. 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 09:09 PM
7

😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 08:57 PM
19

I love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 08:37 PM
44

A man claimed to know German to me. I’m American but the German influence is still strong and traditional in my family. The man quoted the band Rammstein...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 07:10 PM
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I saw this on that sub and was like 🤨 he didn’t do anything a good man wouldn’t. She really needs to improve her life if she thinks this teenage boy is so amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 06:09 PM
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😂 Our mods are the best. This post has me rolling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 11:28 AM
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It sounded relatively safe when you said that so I googled her myself. She’s definitely profiting off of these foolish men, so good job there, but the cringe effect by looking 15 is off putting. I think I read that she is only 19.... 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 11:22 AM
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Who the hell is this Belle Delphine person? I’m afraid to google her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 10:43 AM
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Raw chicken... dead octopus? Heh?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 10:40 AM
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I’d say it’s because they don’t want to know yours. Don’t want to be obligated to remember or buy anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 10:32 AM
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1AM? Who the hell is up at that time? My old ass is in bed by 10
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 10:17 AM
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Wow. What an idiot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 04:16 AM
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I’m considering this if I ever lose my disgust of pregnancy or manage to find a lady that will carry for me. I don’t want anything with my blood to not have my name. Especially since my name is unique and the men around me having ones like Smith......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 04:13 AM
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Reason 343 not to have a child. Thank you for telling us this story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 04:09 AM
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And men look at me funny when I say I’d never let the father in the delivery room...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 04:07 AM
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What’s crazy for me is that I have a pretty decent sex drive. I typically enjoy sex. But... I get so turned off so easily that I question the asexuality sometimes too. I also get so bored with men. So very bored...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 08:21 AM
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Serious note, men fucking hate it when you’re better at chess, checkers, fucking Shoji, anything that requires more than average thinking. I’ve never seen a man throw a bigger fit than when he realizes he’s losing a strategy game to a woman lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 07:41 AM
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I have said that but in a different way. “I feel like I need to be with someone more on my intellectual level”. That’s how I said “Get out of here, you’re too stupid”, in a nice-ish way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 07:26 AM
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Me too! I went out with my best lady friend and she knows how well I hold my whiskey and knew something off when I was loopy after two drinks. It was a long night but we made it out safe. Never been drugged anywhere outside of San Diego and it happened twice here... gross city
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 05:00 AM
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Never put your drink down, watch bartenders make the drink for you, and never accept drinks from strangers. If you keep those principles you’re usually safe from drugging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 04:35 AM
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I get dudes asking if I think they’re hot. It’s so awkward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 02:57 PM
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Pick-mes terrified of being alone, I assume
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 07:45 AM
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Isn’t... isn’t that white day? I bet hentai boys made this shit up to diminish white day in Japan. Edit: I see where it is celebrated. 100% neckbeardy waifu guys made this because of white day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 05:32 AM
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Lordy girl... I’m sorry. I didn’t mean to bring up an old ache.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 05:09 AM
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I never understood their arguments, honestly. I think they just want to fight and “hate fuck” or have that make believe “make up sex”. No such thing. When I’m mad, I’m fucking mad and I ain’t going to magically flip a switch and forget everything. If I had sex angry then I could promise it’d be a complete vanilla starfish on the bed and lord knows they’d flip shit if you did that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 05:03 AM
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Don’t ruin the word kitty... just don’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 05:00 AM
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So... don’t get rid of the maniac. Cover the women... where is the logic here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:57 AM
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He went to bed and didn’t want sex? I bet he’s either cheating or stopped liking her after she had kids
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:50 AM
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I get so creeped out when it comes to those certain sons in their mother’s eyes. It’s just so... weird. My mother never coddled the boys growing up, so seeing this in the wild has me 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 03:05 AM
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Tell her. Free her from being a fool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 02:57 AM
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Rick needs a job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 01:08 AM
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... I think I’m going to start doing this when I find someone. Just so I can look at it and remind myself what not to do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 01:04 AM
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Oooh, I wonder if he did it on those barn rails too! So cute!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 10:42 PM
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Not sure how that makes it better 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 10:06 PM
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Arab MEN are oppressed?! Are you kidding me??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 09:11 PM
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I would have told her that she never should try to change who she is for a man that clearly just isn’t right for her. Don’t be afraid to break up and don’t be afraid to be alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 06:12 PM
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Do they? I hope things clear up soon so I can go! I want to go to the museum of killers too, so I might make a little day trip of museum walking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 05:24 PM
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You were going to get larger than DD?! Dear god. I did get an enlargement from A to DD and I couldn’t imagine getting it any larger than that. I shudder to think of his search history on the internet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 05:20 PM
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Even if there is a HVM out there for me, I don’t think I want to risk being married and losing what I have. Isn’t that just sad? 🥴 we’re losing our trust
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 05:23 AM
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🤭 Yo... he did that on purpose and I am clutching my pearls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 05:29 PM
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How can people be so selfish? 🥺 That was going to be such a special mother and daughter day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 05:27 PM
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I feel ridiculous calling myself cute and this troglodyte is calling himself sexy... who is his psych because I need her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 03:31 AM
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It took me three times lol you’re fine. Valley girl accents are hard for me to understand also. We’re all different so don’t feel bad for hearing things differently too 🤘🏻🤓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 01:46 AM
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I’d leave him. I’m a gamer ( I know it’s a hobby not respected here, so I apologize for the distaste it brings others) and I’d never buy something like that for any male partner. I have yet to find a man that doesn’t get easily addicted to instant stimuli and pleasure, so I get why y’all don’t like gaming. It’s not for people with addictive personalities. Anyway... those dudes are trash. 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 11:48 PM
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YES! I’ve been trying to find the perfect analogy that suited ME for a while and this one is it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 11:32 PM
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My ex said that too and then we broke up. His friends told me he didn’t want me to get them because he was afraid I’d leave him for someone better. 🤓 I did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 03:56 PM
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Dear god lol. What a fool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 04:06 AM
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No they don’t lol. Take it from experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 03:58 AM
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You’re correct. Have a gun, sure, but never just fire a gun with innocents near by and without training to be able to hit your target efficiently. There are fools out there with guns and us women don’t need to be a part of that nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:28 AM
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Military and concealed carrier here. That’s a completely irresponsible thing to do with a gun. They are for protection. Not for a vague threat. We’re not even authorized warning shots in the military when in US territory, why on earth would a civilian just be doing desk pops in neighborhoods? Be better. And please don’t ever buy a gun without going through a class if that’s your mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:26 AM
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When a man doesn’t seem to understand how terrifying or absolutely unacceptable a situation like that is, I leave their asses in my dust. Maybe that’s harsh but I always feel my heart hurt after and can’t bring myself to respect them again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:22 AM
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This comment made me giggle lol. One room Animal Crossing with that first little log couch you could make. This guy did that and is proud 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:05 AM
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Isn’t this just the worst? You think you’re being strong and capable and that this is attractive for your partner but they just view it as an opportunity to just slack off and do nothing to contribute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:41 AM
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Right? He’s the biggest lush and such a charmer. Best friends with all my farm animals, never hurt a fly. A dog bit me at a park and he snarled at it and lunged. They tried to sue and get him euthanized for that in itself. That’s when I started the muzzle technique. He’s safe now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:27 PM
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Her smile is everything lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:08 PM
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The turbo in my truck cost 3K.... I’d never spend that much on a man, even if I was married to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 06:14 PM
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This one hurt a part of my heart that I thought I locked up tightly...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 06:04 PM
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I have to walk my pit with a muzzle because of that mentality... To keep him from ever being euthanized for protecting me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 05:46 PM
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I thought dogs were man’s best friend? 🙃 Sounds like they’d abuse the dogs for undying loyalty much like they do women...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 05:43 PM
0

I’ve gotten rid of my social media that involves pictures and relationship statuses. It’s so stressful and tiring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 05:37 PM
14

I came out of a tattoo shop to find flowers on the hood of my truck. My boyfriend was in another state and it was close to 10PM, pitch black, and I was alone (I hope). It’s creepy. We don’t find it sweet and I wish whoever is telling them that this is a good idea would just stop. It made me wonder if I was being followed home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:55 PM
3

Lmao oh my god. This is hilarious 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:46 PM
9

I’m a blond and been told I’d look good as a redhead. Go find a fucking redhead then, Steven! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:42 PM
12

What the fuck... people say that to you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:40 PM
11

Oh god lol. He probably misheard someone say “comely” from an early century based movie and didn’t bother looking up that “homely” literally means unattractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:40 PM
6

I was thinking the same thing 🥴😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:30 PM
20

It’s because he doesn’t know punctuation. If he wrote it out properly then quick minds would slow at the correct spots instead of reading quickly like they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:30 PM
11

I cocked my head at that too. I was like... literally every race, culture, religion etc. has been telling women how to dress since day one. Not just the white ones 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:00 PM
7

This one speaks the truth 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 06:00 PM
112

I’m actually ending mine because of this, but I have to admit I said yes during my pick-me days. Now I’m going to go home for the holidays and admit to him that it’s a bad idea and I feel the need to put my career first. Going to be a rough Christmas... 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 04:18 AM
1

That’s pretty much how I read it too. She gave her all into something to have it taken away and the only thing beneficial is something so minuscule in the aftermath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 06:32 PM
5

What exactly are you misunderstanding? The whole thing or just the basic premise behind it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 05:23 PM
4

I wish my best girlfriend would realize this. I keep trying to force her into some hobby or another but she just doesn’t want to. Still stuck on the same useless MARRIED dude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:51 PM
3

I’m just saying I don’t have faith in the concept. I don’t date anymore really.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 11:31 PM
-2

Eh even if men do that, they stop once they feel comfortable enough to get lazy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 08:14 PM
39

She’s. An. Idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:59 AM
43

I wish they’d actually come here and see that we love and respect men that are worth that attention. We DONT lower our standards. That is all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 01:43 AM
12

Me too.... sigh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 11:28 PM
45

He sounds like a great bouncer. I bartended last year and our bouncer wouldn’t even get fired for grabbing the asses of all us ladies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 09:24 PM
17

I’d rather be a single mom then a unhappily married woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 03:03 AM
6

Marie Curie is so disrespected by that post...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 01:59 AM
87

Yo is she on Reddit? I just want to be her friend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 02:32 AM
6

I’ll give it a watch tonight!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 06:51 PM
2

This made me laugh way too hard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 06:26 PM
13

As a sailor that’s been in for 10 years... this one speaks the truth. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 11:37 PM
4

She’s trying to give you solid advice on pill storage and life expectancy of Plan B lol. Don’t get defensive. She’s actually correct. You need to research more and be careful. If you take a less then effective pill because of age and lack of temperature control then your chances of an unwanted pregnancy scare are going to sky rocket.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 06:02 PM
95

If I was the doctor or one of the nurses, I would have kicked him out. This is so disrespectful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 10:04 PM
7

What. The. Fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 05:34 PM
8

What is Womanizer?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 05:24 PM
7

I can see you’re disappointed and I’m sorry for that but dang... why on earth would you give yourself a label like that when you’re already in a place that isn’t up to standards? There isn’t a reason to validate what we already know. Men get bored in relationships and cheat. Put more faith and trust in yourself above all others and you’ll see the forest for the trees.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 09:08 PM
4

Lmfao I’m dying at the pic reveal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 03:07 AM
22

I do the same shit not gonna lie lol. I go out by myself and just BE MYSELF, if ya know what I mean. Oh how the fragile male egos crumble... we both should watch ourselves because we’re too brave for our own good I guess lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 03:03 AM
72

Wow... why am I not surprised. I’ll be sure to give Jennifer’s Body a watch now that I know the meaning behind it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:02 AM
111

This little lady in Texas is cheering on our Polish sisters! Show them what happens when we ban together!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:21 AM
3

Looks like I’m getting 100 bucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:19 AM
16

You are correct there. I’m working on it myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 05:13 PM
39

Successful women make me a giddy lady. Keep climbing that mountain, sweetness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 04:49 AM
14

Oooh, I’ll have to google this! I always pride myself on how well I smell, especially since I work with a bunch of men that are considered the neck beard kind lol. Looking and smelling my best always makes me feel a step above. Is there any other scent that you suggest?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 04:29 AM
17

Why do people call us incels for only trying to be with men of quality? Incel would imply that we aren’t getting laid and quite honestly... I’ve never seen a woman have difficulty getting laid. If penis was money, we’d have inflation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 02:54 AM
12

The older and more advanced in my career that I become the less want I have for marriage, to be honest. I’m on the fence of childfree too, so that also makes marriage unlikely considering every dude thinks they have these fabulous genes that just have to be passed on..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 07:49 PM
61

Eh... If she said how much she misses going to the movies and he did this for her then I think this isn’t pickmeisha. I personally enjoy going to the drive in and snuggling in the bed of the truck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:24 PM
1

This is the weirdest test I’ve read yet lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 08:31 PM
16

What is mommy tracked? Like mommy as in mother in law being a Rumplestiltskin or as you getting watched by the bosses? When in comes to parenting I’m super paranoid because I rarely see happy mothers and I’ve been researching... I’ve been on the fence for child free or just having a kid later on in life. I’m very career oriented...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 08:41 PM
33

Oooh you just put that in a solid perspective for me. I needed that. I make more than the average man so I have this stupid guilty feeling sometimes when they pay for me. “Their brain doesn’t value what they don’t have to work for”. Now that’s a slice of apple pie to the ears ❤️👌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 08:37 PM
2

My first boyfriend used to do that to me... I was a lot more insecure back then and definitely wouldn’t tolerate it now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 06:55 PM
4

Jesus... she’s probably so nice to him and he’s clearly a dick. I hope she knows she doesn’t have to tolerate that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 09:51 PM
10

I’d love to check out your line!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 10:04 PM
16

This is why I fear marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 11:35 AM
3

Why do men want to have kids so badly when they don’t want them taken care of? He’s the epitome of a baby daddy with that kind of mentality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 04:11 AM
7

I’ve never looked at another person and wondered how much reproductive life is left inside of them. There is something really creepy about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 04:06 AM
9

BuT nOT AlL MEn! mEn Get BEAt ToO! God, could y’all imagine the outrage of the troglodytes if someone posted this on TwoXChromosomes? They’d be flooded with crying men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 10:27 PM
17

I think you forgot to put the /s....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 10:25 PM
35

Have y’all ever gotten some weird ass sexual jokes about your job? I had a man ask if I spanked people. Y’all know what I do? I’m in the fucking military and instruct armed forces students on radars. When I called him out on how disgusting and inappropriate that is not only for my age difference between my students and I but for my uniform itself, he had the AUDACITY to say he meant across the knuckles. I literally work on radars and instruct massive amounts of students and this guy thinks I’m d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 10:18 PM
3

I was shocked too. Happened pretty recently. Man Drives off Sunset Cliffs with Daughters in Car. San Diego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 03:00 PM
22

Sis, only one percent of men should make children anyway. Yawn and next
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 01:28 AM
3

How quickly does that work? I’m not needing it yet but I’d say I’d have less than a decade before seeing laugh lines and crows feet if I’m not careful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 07:42 PM
14

My coworker‘s husband drove over the side of a cliff with her two baby daughters in the car because she said she wanted a divorce. They all survived and he’s now in prison. I wish they just let him drown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 03:01 PM
2

Bumble has a friend mode?? Wow I never knew that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 02:50 PM
14

Me too, girl. I was tearing up and feeling foolish for falling for such a low trick. I wish I could give you a hug because god damn it I need one too lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 02:14 PM
14

I’m in the discard phase of a love bomber. It took reading stories on this sub for me to realize I’m being emotionally fucked over constantly. It took the wife of his best friend calling me to come visit her and her telling me he’s a narcissist. I still wonder how the hell I fell for it. And even identifying that I’m not the problem, I still feel like shit. I’ve always been confident and now I’m insecure. Reading this made me feel all the more like a fool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 02:10 PM
60

Most men are cowards despite popular belief. You’d be surprised at how weirded out they get when you stare them down or call them out on poor behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:16 PM
61

Things that didn’t happen for $1000
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:26 PM
8

I had a mother literally call me a different woman’s name and then laugh it off in front of me and the man I was supposed to be dating. Mothers of sons can be the damn worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:20 PM
21

Balanced women are a necessity but I’ve yet to meet a balanced man...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 11:07 PM
38

I was smitten over a man with a beard. He shaved it and I questioned if my children would be ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:50 AM
20

And the sad thing is that it probably works as a “joke” on gullible girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:43 AM
-21

I didn’t realize that the red head was supposed to be a woman... I thought the “yes” was her picking herself and her standards. Judging by the comments she’s a pick me because she’s blond and pretty... come on y’all...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:37 AM
7

Chlamydia is treatable. Dont be ashamed of something that can be fixed and don’t be ashamed of something that someone else gave you. It’s not always your fault. Some people are fucking despicable and care nothing for your health. I have something that can’t be cured and I still find love. So can you. It doesn’t make you any less of a person and don’t let anyone tell you different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 12:15 AM
23

I live alone. They best live alone too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 12:10 AM
34

Oh hell, don’t worry about this little thang. Ain’t nothing stopping me from doing me. No marriage here unless the man makes more than me and that’s a difficult thing to achieve. I’m full of hobbies, but prefer to only sleep with one man at a time, is all. They don’t last long if they give me disrespect anyway. But thank you... thank you a lot for not calling me a pickmeisha lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:47 PM
12

You’re good lol. It’s just an average social media platform. I have it and it ain’t like it means I send nudes to every rando or whatever. Keep having fun, love
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:34 PM
5

.... he cute and FDS approved... but... dang he’s good lookin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:29 PM
60

Right? This drives me insane and is the biggest red flag for me. I attract men that don’t understand that I NEED communication. If you’re gone for the weekend then I expect at least one check in daily. And I KNOW that’s me being pick-me. 🧐 And if I can’t even get that? Boy, fuck you and bye. As I get older I’m getting less and less tolerant of “I’m just bad at texting”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:25 PM
12

Omg lol... I think her and that one Asian lady has convinced me to watch this 90 Day Fiancé show. If the women are like these chicks then I’m down to watch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:21 PM
13

Omg, did she spy on my relationship? Damn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 11:54 PM
14

Omg this is legit one of my biggest pet peeves. Don’t ask me for nudes if we’re livin in the same fucking town. Like Jesus if you want to see me naked then drive over here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 06:06 PM
6

Did we find the male lurker?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 01:31 PM
55

Jesus... where do people come off speaking that way? It’s so distasteful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 12:46 AM
5

Wow she’s stunning! Cute accent too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 12:34 AM
57

25? That’s a little young to hit this wall they speak of lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:09 PM
19

This video called me out lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 07:11 PM
3

Aw... I’m sorry that happened to you. There is nothing more disappointing then cooking for another person and being so excited to show them and make them happy, jus to have them cancel or decline
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 06:45 PM
13

Exactly! The amount of money it takes to maintain horses is incredible. If you’re apart of the show or race lifestyle, ya might as well tack on an extra 20k lol. My horse cost more then that guy’s car 🥱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 05:11 PM
6

No horse girls? Because we see wealth every day and have been raised to take care of ourselves probably. Horses are a girls best friend. Neigh neigh, fucking man child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 05:09 PM
12

... why is he so angry? Lmao! It costs zero dollars to smile and be happy for someone else’s clearly sweet relationship. What a jealous douche
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:49 PM
69

I hope someone gave her good advice. This was a sad read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:46 AM
19

Oh ffs. I’d have blocked him quicker then an incel having sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:40 AM
14

I can see negging now. I never realized how many men in my life undercut me as a professional radar technician because THEY couldn’t understand my job and tried to make me feel stupid instead. Now I can hear it and give it right back. I know that sounds very basic... but it’s improved my life a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:47 AM
46

Dang... I hope to be called that, not gonna lie. Means I’m attracting the right guy not the bad kind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:45 AM
25

Omg lmao I cackled
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 12:19 AM
127

Omg... that title was all I needed because, no lie, that’s why I sought them out too! I wanted to see what men were so afraid of ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 12:13 AM
45

Y’all stay happy as larks, y’all cute ass song birds. 🤘🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 12:05 AM
27

I knew the guy I was talking to was a sweetheart when I was having an absolute MELTDOWN when my period was late. He said “You’d make a beautiful mom and we’d have the prettiest blond babies. Don’t worry, babe.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 12:03 AM
1

.... the crackhead is a better person then the average man... what the fuck... facepalm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 11:56 PM
6

How on earth could anyone justify that?? I would seriously doubt the cleanliness of his body if he didn’t see those as a problem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 11:21 PM
23

I’m on that sub and I soooo want them to ban men. I don’t see why they allow them when it is quite literally called TWOX-MOTHERFUCKING-CHROMOSOMES.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 09:46 PM
56

I’m not a huge fan of divulging that much information about my bedroom escapades either. A lot of people think being tacky is being progressive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 09:42 PM
2

Dang I really do love whiskey though... lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 11:10 PM
44

I feel like men don’t actually appreciate stuff like this. They’d be left in a shoe box or thrown away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 11:04 PM
6

A man designed that shirt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:28 PM
11

Aw... I like a nice beard. When they put the right time into it they’re glorious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 09:57 PM
15

Well... that just demanded me to get off my ass and keep unpacking my things and making my new home tidy. I swear I needed to see this even if I’m just unpacking 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 09:54 PM
17

You know.. you might have a point. You’re supposed to marry your best friend and mine is... a woman 🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 09:52 PM
3

That’s almost a Ann and Andy story from Parks and Rec 😅 You definitely dodged a bullet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 04:15 PM
30

Beauty and that beast~. Yeah... they ugly AF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:17 AM
3

We’re all different ❤️ that’s what makes attraction so interesting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:13 AM
3

Oh gosh this is a hard one. I love blond (I’m talking BLOND!) men with low body fat. Preferably with super blue eyes. Height isn’t a big deal for me, honestly, since I’m so short. Big beards are an instant turn on, especially if they have the right bulk and length. Like... let me braid it like a lord of the rings dwarf 😍. Haha, it’s crazy how different we all are! Also.... I’d never say no to Dwayne Johnson. He’s my weakness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 09:56 PM
3

Laughs in hunter Let’s see how long you last against me, ya troglodyte. I swear, they’d think we are all just helpless in our homes or something. 🤦🏼‍♀️ We’ve been taking care of ourselves for years because men forgot how to provide a long time ago. I can’t tell y’all how many men get huffy when I correct them on gun terminology and appropriate uses for each kind. They ain’t shit even for things they claim should be for them only.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 08:48 PM
2

Highest building... what on earth. 😂 that really made my eyebrows raise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 04:19 PM
11

Omg even Kanye knows the truth 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 05:11 AM
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