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| 1 | Should we be concerned about a lack of big conflict before getting married?My husband and I had the same, we got married last year. Since then, and before: no issues at all, we don't fight and really see eye to eye on everything. We had our 'first fight' two weeks ago, but that was because I'm very pregnant (ok, ok, I was completely unreasonable). Luckily he understood that so he apologized immediately! And we could laugh about it later. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/23 01:08 AM |
| 5 | What birth control method(s) has been highly effective and comfortable for you?Daysy in combination with the FAM (fertility awareness method). I have to measure every morning, but my body does the rest and I LOVE how much I learned about myself. My husband and I can't use hormonal birth control and/or condoms. I use a beppy sponge, if my period timing is undoable (want to have sex, want to go to the sauna etc.). | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/22 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Why single women are happier compared to single men ??I do think single women are happier because they instantly dropped or lost a lot of heavy weight. You can spot it also: first we're sad, and rapidly you will see us change our hair, our clothes, drop literal weight, rekindle and look for support from friendships. The more time passes, the more of ourself we can become again. There is never a lack of attention, whether you're in a relationship or not. You only have to cook and clean for yourself; much more fulfilling than doing that for someone y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Dear US ladies, how hard it is to come across high value man in US? Is chivalry also almost dead there?Hi! Eindelijk kom ik iemand tegen die het probleem erkent. Good for you. Laat het weten als je gelijkgestemden zoekt. There are solutions in weeding out the bad Dutch apples! The americans are much more traditional when it comes to dating (even the losers are doing better than the average Dutch males). I would opt for Suisse or French though ❤️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/22 09:21 AM |
| 5 | how do I make it known that I'm dating to marry and I'm looking for a serious relationship without coming off as desperate ?Having standards and boundaries isn't desperate. Men who try to ridicule you for them are. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/05/22 04:49 PM |
| 2 | In the majority of instances of “Ghosting” the person who gets ghosted did nothing wrong the other party just got a better prospect/offer.Would you rather hear you're a huge loser and I'm not interested or would you rather hear nothing? I always choose the latter, and I hope those guys I ghosted too (and otherwise: it's not my problem). Ghosting had to do more with the person than a 'better offer'. If I got one I always shared, because I had a better excuse then. It's better to hear: 'I feel more connection with someone else' than: 'I think you're a cheap, weird and ugly loser and I don't want to waste any air of breath on you, by… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Porn is the epitome of cuck culture.That explains a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Porn is the epitome of cuck culture.they're generally more mentally fragile, Which documented research learned you this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Does the act of 'puppying' by a guy actually makes you consider seeing him as a boyfriend?As a teacher; i see only contempt for this with my students. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 01:06 PM |
| 4 | Sugar Dating RealityMen treat women like mommybangmaidbeckythebuilderfreetherapist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 10:14 AM |
| 6 | Sugar Dating RealityWith that line of thinking... Men are no better than simple and dumb cavemen. Wallets. Paychecks. The fact that men can't handle it and resort to primitive behaviors when a woman brings in more cash, proves that. Life is not that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 08:45 AM |
| 7 | Sugar Dating RealityYou don't date a 'sugar baby'. You can only rent them since they're prostitutes unwilling to be called prostitutes. You could say as easily that you're dating your right hand, if you really think you can date a 'sugar baby'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 06:04 AM |
| 3 | Average people follow Societal Norms (And judge others by them): Age Gap ExampleTell that to the man victimized by predatory women. There is no way that I'm sympathetic to the 'victimized man' who is sooo very 'victimized' by putting his semen voluntarily into another human being, fully aware that sexual intercourse leads to babies. Fuck that shit. Who has to go through pregnancy? Ever seen childbirth? You are out of your mind if you think this is something women do for 'fun' or 'retaliation'; watch a little less drama/soaps. The easiest place to see this is in bars where y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Average people follow Societal Norms (And judge others by them): Age Gap ExampleWomen who have been the younger ones in AGR's know the deal. This is why we warn other women; they will always get the short end of the stick and will have to deal with a lot of problems, in whatever stage of life they are or their partner is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 10:29 AM |
| 1 | What quality did you want in a partner until you experienced it?I used to think it was important to stay with the guy you fall in love with in your teens. Eventually we would buy a house and start a family (but that never happened). Turns out; he's still doing the same things, working the same job, he's still living in the same tiny house in the same shitty city I desperately wanted to flee. It took me quite some time to see, since I deemed loyalty to be more important than compatibility. I lost out on some amazing opportunities because I was stuck with him,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 07:06 AM |
| 0 | People who were bitter but eventually found love, what was the beginning of you losing that bitterness?I was so so so bitter (and hung up on someone from my past). I needed to be single and free for a while. Met the love of my life and got married ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Why does it seem American woman dislike romance? (Evidence provided inside)The Netherlands is much worse than the states on this part... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 05:51 PM |
| 4 | What can we unanimously agree are dealbreakers in a relationship?Same here, and same for a lot of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Woman users of OLD apps; how many matches on average a month do you actually get?It gave me stress. I felt like I wanted to talk to everyone, but that just wasn't humanly possible. So I had to remove men from my matches constantly and had to keep up with a lot of conversations and dates/times. At some point I was dating (definitely not fucking, I wouldn't even kiss them) 30 guys, which is way too much. When I met my husband it was different. It was like I was sucked into that conversation. I didn't forget a thing, never switched anything up with him. Two weeks later I delete… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 06:47 AM |
| 3 | Woman users of OLD apps; how many matches on average a month do you actually get?I used to, before my husband found me on Tinder. It depends on how many people I would swipe right at. I used to have 30-40 matches a day by swiping 45 minutes a day. Sounds good, but it actually wasn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 02:22 PM |
| 0 | If western dating is not working for you try somewhere elseWhen we want men to show us effort, we're too high maintenance. 'Our standards are too high'. When we want men to bring gifts, or have a decent income, we're golddiggers. You like the woman who shows a borderline crazy amount of effort and to put herself in danger. Aka: you're an entitled attention whore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 03:03 PM |
| 1 | TRP and FDS subscribers: Is there anyone of the opposite sex who you respect/admire?Completely true. I had this realization some years ago; i was surrounded by jerks, assholes and dumb people. It was tough to realize that there was only one person to blame for that and that was me. I was acting like a dumb jerky asshole myself, so that's what I attracted. Took a lot of work and time, but eventually it got better and better. I can not recognize myself from years ago, and it's so much nicer to live a good life surrounded by good people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Would you hookup with your past partners, today?Never did and never will do. Would I light them on fire and pee on their ashes? Yes I would. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 03:37 PM |
| 0 | TRP and FDS subscribers: Is there anyone of the opposite sex who you respect/admire?Love your response. 🌸 Thanks! Ditto! I never prescribed to FDS, and I think they have some good advice The advice in the handbook is great, life changing I would say. but man, there are some posts or stories I read and I'm just thinking some of them cannot see how they're the problem and need to adjust some expectations. Exactly this. If you want to attract a tall, handsome, rich, kind, smart and social man you need to possess positive qualities yourself too! I see too many couch potatoes expect… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 06:59 AM |
| 1 | TRP and FDS subscribers: Is there anyone of the opposite sex who you respect/admire?She even noted that it seemed like women were getting more toxic and rude in general. Well, if one women says that it must be true? One straight up wanted details on my looks and after seeing a picture said no way. It's better to hear her truth right away, right? I don't see toxic or rude behavior in this. The second was interested in getting together but then wanted to know how wealthy I was. This one gave you a chance but wanted to know if your wallet made up for the looks. I think that's quit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Women who’ve dated tall men. Are you able to go back to shorter/average height men or have you?Yes. For example: my brother and father are over 6"3. My non-Dutch husband is 6"5. Most people here are very tall, men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 06:05 AM |
| 5 | TRP and FDS subscribers: Is there anyone of the opposite sex who you respect/admire?Well, if the common denominator is you there might be some work to do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 04:38 PM |
| 2 | TRP and FDS subscribers: Is there anyone of the opposite sex who you respect/admire?I'm ex-FDS (they went completely hypocrite/lefty), but I still adhere to the handbook... I encourage any woman to step away and leave them with their misery when the FDS crazy mods inevitably disrespect you. I admire my husband. He's always respectful, kind when needed, harsh when necessary. Extremely generous, but doesn't throw money like a crazy person. Sexually enticing and flirty, but not towards anyone else. Very accomplished career wise, but not a snob. Tall, good looking, but not a gym br… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Women who’ve dated tall men. Are you able to go back to shorter/average height men or have you?I'm not saying that. I'm saying it would be quite an accomplishment to find men here who are shorter than women. Most of us people here are freakishly tall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Women, how often are you approached by men? How do you usually react when it happens?I always hear that women (specially the pretty ones) are always being approached and asked out by men. Is it actually true? Do you actually get approached in the supermarket, for example? Yes. And in the train, in the bus, in the Uber, at the gas station, at my work, when I'm out with friends, when I'm alone, when I'm with my mom, when I'm with my students, when I'm on holiday (with my husband). This morning it was at the hotel breakfast with my husband 20 metres away from me. This happened from… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 10:45 AM |
| 2 | Women who’ve dated tall men. Are you able to go back to shorter/average height men or have you?No, why would I? I'm in the country with the tallest men in the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 10:36 AM |
| 0 | How many more hours would a man have to work to balance the effort/stress in a relationship?They're not 50/50, nor upper middle class. They're middle class. Upper middle class (and higher up) makes their money work for them by smart investments, rather than to both work like workaholics. In my European country where 50/50 is the norm (I think we even invented it), men usually work 4/5 days and women 2/3 so that they combine their workweek, but we always see the women suffer under this agreement. You can't go halfies on child birth. You can't do that with pregnancy also. Nor breastfeedi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Hello , i’m a women and yes i’m an anti feminist , AMA !Used to be like you, but I educated myself along the way. How do you feel about the way non-feminist men treat you? | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/02/22 03:43 PM |
| 3 | Do conservatives have lower rates of sexual misconduct?I have had the pleasure of ending up in a few college communist meetings. That sounds as just as much fun as going to a dentist.. I think they all looked like rapists except for one other guy who was also there for pussy. They are mostly smelly with predatory eyes, indeed... They probably think that acting pussy, might get them some. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/22 01:54 AM |
| 5 | Do conservatives have lower rates of sexual misconduct?Agreed about the shifty guys, i don't believe feminists think all or most men are rapist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 10:01 PM |
| 0 | Do conservatives have lower rates of sexual misconduct?Liberals and conservatives want to own womens bodies, make them a property, although in other ways. Liberals think women are public property, thus 'for everyone to enjoy, casual sex is amazing blabla'. Conservatives think women are private property, so 'only they may enjoy their own woman'. Both parties are abusive to/speak degrading about women. They're both stupid. It's one of the main reasons I'm very libertarian. I believe in the radical idea that me and my properties solely belong to me and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 09:50 PM |
| 2 | If the Military Draft is reintroduced do you think it should include Woman?My country included the (non active) draft for women. Officially, we still have a draft but it's dormant for... 45 years or so, I guess? About 4 years ago, girls also received a letter (when they're 17) that there might be a circumstance in which they will be turned into canon fodder. I would not fight for my country, nor will I ever let my husband or a child of mine be food for weapons. Fuck that shit, this country isn't mine anymore in some ways.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is your opinion on guys who use prostitutes?I despise them, we can't be friends even. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Short Woman with height requirements; how tall is your father and brothers?I'm 5'5, my mom is 5'7. My dad is 6'0 and my 'little' brother is 6'3. My other little brothers are kids, but also tall. My husband is 6'2. I have to admit, men and women in my country are usually very tall. It's rare to meet a guy that's 5'7 (or shorter). I have two requirements for a love interest; 1. Men need to be taller than me. 2. I need to be able to wear my super high heels, but rule 1 still counts. About being short; tough luck. I'm blonde, not everyone likes that. I have blue eyes, not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Q4W How would you react to your SO losing a fight in a really pathetic way?My husband wouldn't do that. If he would start liking MMA, I would already be scared for his mental health and call a shrink on him. We are active and trained, not at all sporty or muscled. He's strong and tall af, I don't think anyone would fight him if they see him... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 04:06 AM |
| 1 | If older men going for younger women is a redflag as he is using the difference is life experience to potentially manipulate her and take advantage, isn't it the same thing when women with relationship experience date similarly aged men with no relationship experience?Yes! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 01:05 AM |
| 1 | In your opinion, how does "Nice guy" stereotype affects actual good guys?No, you have nice guys and 'the nice guy'. They're worlds apart. A truly good guy wouldn't be threatened by the words 'you're a nice guy', nor feel spoken to in the 'nice guy' context. You're a good person for doing 'good people things' and not expecting social karma to make up to you for that since that's a nice guy thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 12:47 AM |
| -7 | Beware of the solo male traveller to certain regions of the world.Girl stfu your whole “luxury” and “rich” schtick is getting tired. Your entire post history revolves around it. Some women like nice things. You seem to have too much time on your hands and no etiquette so idgaf about your opinion... No, Thailand is not a “playground for the rich”. It’s a playground for loser, desperate men who throw coins at thai women who graciously accept because they would do anything to get out of their financial situation. I'm saying that it's both... So to watch out, rath… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 03:38 PM |
| 5 | Beware of the solo male traveller to certain regions of the world.In my country, going with the 'guys' is their cover unfortunately... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 01:55 PM |
| -9 | Beware of the solo male traveller to certain regions of the world.It’s super cheap there. With beautiful weather, amazing scuba and boating opportunities. So mainly on the water is where the cash hangs out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 09:58 AM |
| -30 | Beware of the solo male traveller to certain regions of the world.Thailand is a diving paradise, a playground for the rich; so don't be too hardcore when vetting. Although I do agree that it's good to be suspicious when a guy goes there, especially as a group with only guys... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 07:38 AM |
| 53 | Vetting strategies for dating a gamer.Beautiful tips! My man and I really like to game together, but I've only seen him solo playing with a controller in his hand. I've dated gamers before, but it always ended in a lot of discussions. Sometimes they want you to act too cool girl, or they can be blatantly misogynistic.. It's annoying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you dance and sing along to misogynistic rap lyrics?I don't personally, my mom always used to call it hood rat music from people who abuse the cupboards of their kitchen. It was very weird for me to dance to in the clubs with my friends, although I definitely did. I prefer harder styles music. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 08:37 AM |
| 3 | If ww3 occured now, how do you think social norms would shift among men and women?It's only men who forget their gender responsibilities and cry every time they need to cover bills. Women do it all, study, work, make kids, cover bills and do it with minimal bs. Men cry as babies anytime they need to pay for a dinner bill. It;s men who cry anytime they need to protect someone. So yeah I dunno why men cannot be useful anymore. Ask yourself. 👏👏👏 You're awesome. This is exactly the deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 08:48 AM |
| 2 | If ww3 occured now, how do you think social norms would shift among men and women?The Netherlands has a non-active draft for men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 08:40 AM |
| 0 | Do you think men should care about a woman's n count and sexual past?I don't think they should care. People can change, and people vary soooo much. I know a lot of virgins that are weirdly sex obsessed to the point they gross everyone out. I know a lot of former sluts who are now the most loyal and caring wives ever. I know 'virgins' who sucked and tugged a lot of dicks. Most women that are being called sluts, usually only have had 0-1-2-3 bed partners, but are called because they hurt one mans/womans ego somehow that they felt 'social retaliation' was in place. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Why Do You Think Most Men Instinctively Care About N Count?Why did the vast majority of guys evolve to find high n count women repulsive? They're don't, it's mostly inside of the Reddit echo chamber. And it's ingrained in insecure guys; we do have too much of those indeed.... Did the guys that didn't care about a woman's n count go extinct? What happened to them? Most men don't give a fuck. It's the insecure and controlling boys that do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 03:47 PM |
| 4 | How many of you ladies have found HVM since following FDS?I met the guy of my dreams and more. By vetting rigorously on OLD (I don't meet men in my field and I'm not a club/partygirl anymore). My ex is HV, I found FDS when I was with him, our timelines were off so I broke up with him. 4 months later I started dating again, but only with FDS principles in mind. So I wade through an enormous pile of shit men, until I finally met my amazing guy. He was generous, had great date ideas, he wasn't pushing me into anything, he genuinely wanted to get to know m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Would you date, marry or even consider a relationship with a single father?would you consider such a man a good choice for a relationship? I would not even entertain a chat convo with a man with kids when I was single. And I love kids and work with them, so that's not the issue at all! Would you resent that you had to take care of another woman’s children? I wouldn't even think about it. This man showed his inability to raise a healthy family. It's like birds, he fucked up his nest; I'm not building a new one with a nest wrecker. And if that's not the case; let's say h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 09:54 AM |
| 1 | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?You will hear the lingo and you'll slightly vomit in your mouth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 09:16 AM |
| 3 | Does a HVM have anything to gain from dating a FDS woman?Single women with kids complain, and they have a lot to complain about if you just try to grasp raising a kid (semi) alone. That's universal, and not only to be blamed on FDS. My fiance (I'm not married yet, thanks COVID lockdown!) gains a lot. What he gains? Food, drinks, companionship, cleaning, sex, help with his companies, help with navigating his professional/family relationships. What do you have to offer to a woman, besides throwing some cash and your dick? I do not think I have ever enco… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 03:49 PM |
| 1 | If sex robots were a thing, would you care if your s/o fucked them for fun?Would you care? Yeah, it's weird. For the ladies lets say your partners sex toy is like a woman that has everything he/she finds attractive in a woman. Would this make you feel insecure? No, just weirded out. Is this cheating in your eyes? No, but I wouldn't trust him anymore anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 11:29 AM |
| 2 | For those into BDSM yet you are here, what’s your story?I used to be very much into BDSM, but i discovered 'the community', so I walked away. I think the 'BDSM community' is upholding a false sense of any etiquette and a toxic kind of group think. They think they're all special, edgy, non-conforming and open people. The thing is; they're not, since they're exactly the thing that they say they despise... As someone else mentioned; my 'vanilla sex life' is bringing me to highs I've never seen before. I can't begin to explain how amazing it feels to hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/22 10:48 AM |
| 11 | Do you talk to your therapist about FDS?My lifecoach is a woman, she has very strong FDS vibes to me. I told her about the sub and the handbook a few times, she mostly supports it since she's the living and breathing example of a HVW. But she also thinks it's very linear thinking; which I can sometimes agree with (and that's only because of some language and cultural differences; I'm not in or from the US). Yes, I do talk about the sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 09:28 AM |
| 1 | What are the physical traits of men you find the most important inorder for the men to qualify as your partner?We would actually love to have the smallest wedding imaginable; a scubadiving wedding! But we would also like to host a little lunch for our close family/friends. But my country is in full full lockdown unfortunately, so we have to wait it out a little bit.... I never understand the big wedding type people; like, that's a lot of arranging and a lot of stress. Shouldn't it be the happiest day of your lives? 😇 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 06:39 PM |
| 2 | What are the physical traits of men you find the most important inorder for the men to qualify as your partner?Thank you!! 🤗❤️ COVID is making this thing all different than I imagined 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 06:13 PM |
| 2 | What are the physical traits of men you find the most important inorder for the men to qualify as your partner?I really like blue eyes, white skin and a guy MUST be at least 10 cm taller than I am (since I love my heels and I don't want to look like I'm entertaining a dwarf; in my country men are usually >5'10, and I'm 5,5 so that's not a really high standard). I don't like men with huge muscles that need to be trained regularly, I dislike extreme dadbods; but I see no problem with a little fat. I'm skinny myself, but I don't want a skinny dude because otherwise I feel fat... Teeth need to be nicely alli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 02:34 PM |
| 253 | Comeback For Lame Men Who Hypocritically Shame Hypergamous Dating And Or" Goldiggers" Whilst Beauty /Sex Digging and Using "Nice" Women They Deem "Beneath Them Looks Wise"'Nothing wets my pussy as much as a good conversationalist, a filled stomach and a beautiful handbag'. Smile politely. Watch. Them. Squirm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 10:10 PM |
| – | So apparently you're not allowed to post certain dating views on here, even if it's purge timeI'm not your sis'. Also, I don't owe you an explanation, I've dealt enough with your type in my life, so have a good one 💅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 06:42 PM |
| – | So apparently you're not allowed to post certain dating views on here, even if it's purge timeIt got flagged for inappropriate wording (referring black women as disgusting and hideous). If that's the case then I totally do not support this. Can he have this (IMHO wrong) opinion? Yes. Should he be allowed to voice that? Also yes. for once lol. For once? I've been fucking attacked by dumb lefties my whole life so excuse me, but fucking excuse me not. This 'wokeism' (which is anything but 'woke') seems to be the standard now, and for some time already. So no way in hell you get to accuse me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 03:30 PM |
| 4 | wEsTUrN wOmAN!!!!I applaud you, and this is exactly what I see with all my friends who have 'passed the wall'. It's just an incel cope, a sad little attempt they try to hold on to because they want to be the lady so bad.... My mom tells me she never got as much attention since as when she reached 50 (but she's happily married to my dad). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 08:11 PM |
| 1 | So apparently you're not allowed to post certain dating views on here, even if it's purge timeHellow fellow non-wokey! We're a minority these day it seems, aren't we? Really all I'm saying is a dating preference. I will continue to have this preference, no matter how much the woke brigade get offended by it. It's a shame for being burned down for your preferences. I have no beef with black people at all, I have a lot of black friends and I appreciate them deeply. A lot of my black friends don't like the way they are stigmatized by leftists/woke people; it's really disrespectful to look d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 07:55 PM |
| 4 | So apparently you're not allowed to post certain dating views on here, even if it's purge timeYou're not allowed to say that because you're stepping on wokey toes! This is not excluded to men btw. I'm only attracted to white and blue eyed men and received a lot of backlash for stating that. My friends who prefer black men and proudly shit on White men never experienced this. It's a strange world we're living in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 05:53 PM |
| 2 | If a woman has money, then starting to have children when she's 30 and over is mostly fine.I support every woman's right to an abortion if she needs it. However, when you're old enough, have a more then stable basis and love each other/help each other enough and you both love and want kids; why would you kill a baby? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 10:28 AM |
| 2 | Q4W What do you think about promiscuous “slutty” women?Amen! ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 09:46 AM |
| 2 | Men are NOT hypergamous. Women are. Men are hypogamous (dating/marrying DOWN)So you're actually telling me that the ogre-looking boyfriends of (IG) models and pornstars are settling for thém? They're mostly beautiful and talented women, spending everything on some ugly sack of hay. Such a waste. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Men are NOT hypergamous. Women are. Men are hypogamous (dating/marrying DOWN)Are you calling Scott Disick, the school dropout, a successful marriage option...? Those guys you mention aren't exactly the 'hypergamous women's dream, I would say 🤭 Those guys may have a little money, but they're unintelligent, have no social grace nor class, they're not handsome to say the least... I don't see any hypergamy going on there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 02:30 PM |
| 2 | If a woman has money, then starting to have children when she's 30 and over is mostly fine.Birth control isn't flawless.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe the industries men work in has a large impact on their dating opportunities and successes?Of course. Just as for women experience this. I'm an elementary school teacher. What did I meet there? My fellow woman teachers (I'm not a lesbian though). And single dads (without a change of ever being with me, i don't like that baggage). Or male teacher (who I also wouldn't touch with a 90 ft. Stick). Did it attract single men outside to my job? Yes. A lot of guys extremely liked the fact that I was working with kids. And only worked with people I'm not attracted to. And some pervs with weird… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 08:37 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe the industries men work in has a large impact on their dating opportunities and successes?Of course. Just as for women experience this. I'm an elementary school teacher. What did I meet there? My fellow woman teachers (I'm not a lesbian though). And single dads (without a change of ever being with me, i don't like that baggage). Or male teacher (who I also wouldn't touch with a 90 ft. Stick). Did it attract single men outside to my job? Yes. A lot of guys extremely liked the fact that I was working with kids. And only worked with people I'm not attracted to. And some pervs with weird… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 08:37 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe the industries men work in has a large impact on their dating opportunities and successes?"Trust me, I'm an engineer, I believe we fit that thing right here!' McGyvering his house to the max. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 08:24 AM |
| 3 | Men are NOT hypergamous. Women are. Men are hypogamous (dating/marrying DOWN)Oooooh like Madonna? And the Kardashians? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Men are NOT hypergamous. Women are. Men are hypogamous (dating/marrying DOWN)But did you also see the ogers they are usually with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 03:26 AM |
| 3 | If a woman has money, then starting to have children when she's 30 and over is mostly fine.I'm 27, which is considered very young in my country where most of us get pregnant >30 and I'm pregnant. I was seriously considering abortion until my fiance asked me to marry him and promised me I didn't have to fear anything and that we can live our lives however we want. A teacher salary can't keep me, a baby and my dog alive. He however, makes more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 03:10 AM |
| -4 | Don't know what to do anymore. I need help!Follow your heart, your husband sounds like dead weight. It's like pulling a dead horse I think. Why did you ask him? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/21 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Do women consider how good a father a man will be?They wanna be the lady sooooo badly, it's pathetic... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 09:20 PM |
| 0 | Do women consider how good a father a man will be?Hallelujah, exactly. And they think we all hop from dick to dick and they're jealous that they 'ain't getting some'. Most of us don't even have/want casual sex, even if we're hot af. Stupid losers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Do women consider how good a father a man will be?Hallelujah, exactly. And they think we all hop from dick to dick and they're jealous that they 'ain't getting some'. Most of us don't even have/want casual sex, even if we're hot af. Stupid losers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 05:12 PM |
| 3 | Do women consider how good a father a man will be?Hallelujah, exactly. And they think we all hop from dick to dick and they're jealous that they 'ain't getting some'. Most of us don't even have/want casual sex, even if we're hot af. Stupid losers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Do women consider how good a father a man will be?I'm an elementary school teacher. To me, it's extremely important. If not, the most important thing I consider before getting into a relationship with someone. If I would get pregnant; what kind of man will he be to me and our family? How is he with his family? Can he support a family? Even when I was not at this point (i recently found out I'm pregnant with my first child), this was always in the back of my mind. All the relationships I ended, I ended them because of exactly this reason; they a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 03:29 AM |
| 1 | [Q4ALL] What kind of environment did you grow up in - and how did it affect your view of dating?What pill do you believe in? How old are you? Did your parents divorce when you grew up? Does your social circle today consist mostly of people that come from divorced households or those from rather stable families? Do you have experienced stable relationships yourself? I threw the red and the black pill out of the window. I'm 27 years old. My mom was never married to my biological dad, but they're still friends. My 'step father' came into my life when I was 3 years old, he raised me, I don't s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 01:36 AM |
| 2 | If you don't have kids yet, do you worry you won't be as attracted to your partner after she bears a child? If you already have kids, do you find yourself less attracted to your partner as a result of pregnancy/childbearing?If you're in Japan or France, and you take more than 12 kg, you'll be put on a diet. Definitely not en France... They will be sued to oblivion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/21 12:31 AM |
| 5 | When did you first notice men noticing you in a sexual way?I was 9 when the pedophiles started calling me on the streets, approaching me closely and looking at me extensively. On a daily basis. My mom had to protect me a lot. I was not allowed to play outside from that age.. I had a c-cup at 10, b at 9. It's so sad. I'm currently pregnant. If I ever see an adult 'checking my child out', I think I can seriously end up in jail. I think my fiance has to seriously up our security. How can you be 20-30-40-50-60 and try to make a move on a fucking 9 year old?… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 06:31 PM |
| 3 | Missing Utah college student Madelyn Allen found alive, 'covered in coal' in suspect's basementI have no idea. I'm in a country where we treat prisoners better than the elderly... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 10:09 PM |
| 10 | What does an involved father look like?Thanks! 🤗😘 We need it! We're telling my mom tonight... 🤭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 03:32 PM |
| 33 | What does an involved father look like?Beautiful example! Wish every father was like that. That comfortable-ness is what's needed for healthy upbringing. I'm currently pregnant, we had the sonogram this Monday. I swear to you, the pure love in his face almost made me cry.... He postponed a million dollar deal so he could be there for me/us. At the ultrasound office they wanted him to sit in the chair a little further, but he declined; he wanted to hold my hand and have the best look at the screen possible. When he saw the heartbeat, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 02:59 PM |
| 60 | Missing Utah college student Madelyn Allen found alive, 'covered in coal' in suspect's basementWell, land of the death penalty. Do you good work on this creature. A prison is too much luxury and too valuable for this man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 11:36 AM |
| 37 | Missing Utah college student Madelyn Allen found alive, 'covered in coal' in suspect's basementToo much medical costs. Just end it. Quickly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Is FemaleDatingStrategy, ironically, conservative?People think radical faminism is extreme feminism that's a big misunderstanding I am not a feminist but if I am I am more in agree with radical feminism than lib feminism Agreed, and same here. The main difference I noticed between the both is liberal feminism believe in choices if a woman wants to be something like stay at home she should be What I see from liberal feminism is that they want women to work en masse, and that they put down women who want to be a homemaker (with all the jobs that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Do you expect your man not to watch porn while in a relationship?So I was wondering, do you consider porn use by your partner cheating? No, I wouldn't. Or are you okay with it? I've watched my fair share of porn, so I wouldn't mind if he would watch it! I do think porn use is bad for the brain and the physique of males, but on the other hand; don't we all have our habits? I like to smoke a joint now and then, is it healthy short or long term? No. Do I like it? Yes. My fiance thinks it degrading and objectifying to women, he also doesn't get horny from it. He … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Is FemaleDatingStrategy, ironically, conservative?Dude radical feminism is totally against gender rolls even if you wants them What stands out about radical feminism to me is acknowledging the differences between men and women. Something I do not see most feminists and libfems do; it's always about girls and women needing to work harder OR the be able to do and act the same as men.... When we're CLEARLY not the same. Radical feminism is the idea that your genitals should not make any difference in treatment (culturally or politically). But radi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/21 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Is FemaleDatingStrategy, ironically, conservative?I'm a libertarian leaning towards conservatism. Used to be more conservative. There was a post a few months ago that FDS is not a political sub and that women from all walks of life and political sides are welcome. I would say we're pretty mixed. I became more of a hater to liberal third wave feminists, but my admiration grew for radical feminists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 09:42 PM |
| 1 | What are the lesser known struggle dating as a woman?We've all run into this guy... Don't shift the blame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Do women even truly like sex?Do women actually see a hot guy and desperately desire him to stick his penis inside of her? I've never had that feeling spontaneous. I need the connection to feel that way. And then... I'm feeling it a lot! Even if a woman does become hot and bothered seeing an attractive guy is it a loud scream to want sex or is it a soft whisper that is ignorable? A stranger is who he is. A stranger. I don't get any sudden desire to fuck him. If I know him? I only get those feelings when I'm single. Same as l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 02:24 PM |
| 0 | What are the lesser known struggle dating as a woman?You won. You lost, since you clearly only see women for the tricks they can do with their pussy. Such a narrow view of women can only give a miserable life. I pity you, actually. You sound like my lifelong single uncle who's 49 and blames all his misfortunes on women, whereas he's just a stupid dick without any good upbringing or love for the people that happen to surround him but hate to interact with him, while he's an amazingly good looking guy and he always was.I hope you're young (<23) othe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 01:38 PM |
| 1 | What bad dating advice do men give women that you rarely (or never) actually see work in real life?I've never seen this work, and I'm in a country where this is not very uncommon... It seems that guys lose their respect for you once you do ask. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 01:23 PM |
| 14 | What bad dating advice do men give women that you rarely (or never) actually see work in real life?'Aks HIM out for a change'. 'Ask him for marriage, propose!'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 08:58 PM |
| 3 | What are the lesser known struggle dating as a woman?I'm not some distributer of sex for all. We have our red light district ladies for that. I'm not a machine where you throw dates in, and sex rolls out. those guys are dumb asses who are getting played and finessed Dumb asses. You mean the directors, pilots, engineers, heirs, business men I dated? I think they're higher educated than you are, tbh... And I never heard that one had regrets taking me on dates, we always had a lot of fun. They also understood the meaning of dating, which is more than… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 08:22 PM |
| 1 | What are the lesser known struggle dating as a woman?For what it's worth I agree you can date without sex Congrats, you can read! 👍 All the nice guys taking you out on dates that lead nowhere Well, if they worked harder, the fuckbuddy would be dumped in a heartbeat and they would've become the one and only. I'm not one to sleep around or to casually have sex with just about anyone who takes me on a few dates. I'm not a whore/slut and I need a very serious connection and a lot of trust order to have sex. the bad boy fuckbuddy gets no-strings-attach… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 08:13 PM |
| 1 | What are the lesser known struggle dating as a woman?We actually actually laugh about your kind, you insecure little shit 🤭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 08:01 PM |
| 2 | What are the lesser known struggle dating as a woman?Well, then explain me why they were fucking cuing up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 07:49 PM |
| 6 | What are the lesser known struggle dating as a woman?So you can only date if you have sex? Are you crazy? I used to date 10/15 guys at the same time and would fuck none of them. I would fuck with my former fuckbuddy, who I would never ever have a date with. Are you people totally crazy or simply unable to read? On a less agressive note, is your favorite color pink or bright yellow? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 05:02 PM |
| 0 | What are the lesser known struggle dating as a woman?There's a LOT of instances where it is unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 04:55 PM |
| 0 | What are the lesser known struggle dating as a woman?I ghosted a lot of very attractive guys. I dare to say that all the guys I ghosted, were the very attractive ones. The guys who I gave a explanation to, are the less good looking ones. Because I somehow think that they have already gotten a worse deal in life. Being ghosted would just add something to the pile. I ghosted for a lot of different reasons by the way. But it all boils down to safety, but also not having the time to give everyone 'an explanation'; my time is valuable and I'm not spell… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 04:43 PM |
| 1 | What's the thing with planning a pregnancy with your boyfriend and then complaining he hasn't proposed yet?I don't get this either. Let him take the steps necessary beforehand. And when he doesn't man up; see that as the conclusion it is.... When it's an accident; he needs to step up and when he doesn't; there's your answer. This is what stepping up looks like to me; Two weeks ago we found out I'm pregnant. We wanted to wait a year or two, get married, live together, buy our dream house and then start making babies. That was our timeline... But here we are. So my boyfriend (fiance now) told me we wil… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 08:47 AM |
| 9 | How much do you expect your SO to spend on gifts for special occasions?Please do! this was such a joy to read! I'm happy to share, but I also don't want to downplay/sound braggy or give to much personal info. But I'm always happy to share and I will do it more often. How did y'all meet?? Tinder! We went to a place our colleagues recommended for some tea, ended up spending all afternoon there which ended in dinner. Three days later we went to an amazing restaurant, and we never stopped doing that after that. Usually I take months to start to trust someone a little b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 08:39 PM |
| 9 | How much do you expect your SO to spend on gifts for special occasions?I am so happy for you Thanks fellow queen ❤️ And ladies, never ever mention the shit gifts from exes!! Exactly this. And dump them when you get them is key! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 08:37 PM |
| 5 | How much do you expect your SO to spend on gifts for special occasions?And I wish it for you! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 08:35 PM |
| 8 | How much do you expect your SO to spend on gifts for special occasions?Good old Tinder! ❤️ They are hiding there ☺️ Also, at drycleaners, with personal trainers, in good restaurants (lunches are the thing!) and good quality shops... Usually not at bars etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 08:34 PM |
| 159 | How much do you expect your SO to spend on gifts for special occasions?He amazed me for my birthday. He took me a weekend to Santorini (he was on holiday, i couldn't join since my boss wouldn't let me so he flew me over for three weekends). On my birthday he booked us a private catamaran with a few diving sessions. At some point the crew came out with a cake in my favorite flavors (I suddenly know where all the inquiring was for). He gave me the same (feminine type) Hermès bracelet as he always wears. When I got stuck on my way back over a COVID form, he moved heav… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Understanding FDSYou couldn't afford to take a look at my purse, tbh.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Understanding FDSI thought you couldn't be more unattractive, but, there you went! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 04:48 PM |
| -2 | TRP and FDS is less about self improvement and knowing your worth and more about getting back and every man or every woman in existenceHow many of you joined FDS to learn to better avoid fuckboys and players or abusers? I felt insulted by FDS at first. And sorry for men. And then it clicked; the handbook is the absolute truth. I never had a problem with men finding me, always had a lot of friends etc. But with reading the handbook, I realized why I started to dislike about dating. Dating became fun again,my relationships became much better, my friendships were much better.... hence the “Dread Game” tactic. Red Pill preaches it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Understanding FDSI don't try to understand women. Women understand women and they all hate each other. PickMe's hate, FDS celebrates. We feel sorry for PickMe's. I also accept that current day society make it less reasonable to wife one up. We happily agree that you 'shouldn't wife anyone up'. We just want your casual ass to keep moving away from us.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, what is your max age gap and why?I've been in two big AGR's. I left my house quite early, so I had to grow up very fast. To be honest, I would not recommend an AGR.... I was 16 when I met my ex H. of 25 (9 years AGR). We were together for 8 years. He was not driven enough for me, so I grew harder and faster in the relationship than he did. We're still friends. My other ex J. I met when I was 25. He was 12 years my senior. We had the same goals, he was a good guy, but he started to pressure me to have kids without being married … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, what is your max age gap and why?You are a very very salty short king huh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 02:56 PM |
| 3 | Q4Women: You find out that your boyfriend treated his ex better than you. What do you do ;I don't need info on his ex, so I don't know how I would find out? I would lay it aside. Tbh, my boyfriend moves the earth for me, so I'm already the luckiest woman on earth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 12:43 PM |
| 2 | How common do you think it is for men to have actual game?For women, how would you say the game is of the men who have tried to flirt with you specifically? They all try, they always fail. I'm not attracted to flirting/game/charisma; I have to feel an instant connection. And that also has nothing to do with looks nor money. I do, however, see that I'm only attracted to white people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Do you find men simple easy to read or a black box of confusing?I wouldn't know, don't now too many tbh. I know I strongly dislike libfems from what I read from them, but I admire radfems who appreciate and celebrate the differences between the two genders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 08:51 PM |
| 12 | In need of some positivity and also a reminder of what HVM look like..He follows through, you never guess where you stand. You know you're always loved, taken care of and admired. When you need something, he already picked up on it and made it happen. You share the same interests and goals and you can laugh best with each other. He is not overly jealous, but he is suspicious of people who harm you and he protects you with smart moves if you have to interact with him. He knows that life is harder for women, and is raised to make your life a little bit easier by doi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 07:54 PM |
| 3 | Every single polyamorous couple I've interracted with was instigated by the female party.You go tell that to the people who lay in bed at the oncology department. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 05:38 PM |
| 4 | Do you find men simple easy to read or a black box of confusing?Submission is not "bowing down". Meekly and obediently following someone's wishes or orders scream bowing down to me though... Like some fucking Muslim or something. In any realtionship between 2 people, someone has to do it In a healthy relationship you have two individuals who recognize each others individual strengths and weaknesses; it has nothing to do with the genitals you possess. they don't like being the ones to do the hard work and make the tough calls I can not deny that men are stron… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 05:22 PM |
| 5 | Do you think that being single will be the new norm and dating/marriage will become rare in the future?Intelligent, emotionally aware grown ups engage in ethical polyamory and casual sex every day The only ones taling positive about polyamory or casual sex, and the deformed individuals who partake in it. Intelligent, emotionally aware people who care about their physical and mental health will only laugh about those immature souls in denial. And don't forget. It's never who you want to be polyamorous, who's polyamorous... 🤐 https://youtu.be/DTsdKycVZZ4 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Do you find men simple easy to read or a black box of confusing?Submission goes only one way. Either he submits, or she does. Or you have a healthy relationship in which nobody has to bow down to anyone?? Men say they "respect" women like this so they can fuck her. But when women point this out, they are called 'bitches', 'too feminist', 'ugly' or 'man haters/shamers'.... It's very hypocritical. You see it on the daily on this sub! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Every single polyamorous couple I've interracted with was instigated by the female party.I agree on this part; they are not victims since you could say everybody (except for a lucky few) was a victim back then. But, the situation for women wasn't good.... Nor was it good for men; being worked to death and all. But at least they had some (little) self preservation. As though women were completely left to the vices of the men in their life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 04:19 PM |
| 5 | Do you find men simple easy to read or a black box of confusing?Not at all Then why are you expecting this back? Are you not willing to give or do you only want to take? She'll have problems. She's having problems since men don't respect women like this. But they say they do, and encourage women to be like that.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Every single polyamorous couple I've interracted with was instigated by the female party.So what's the point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Every single polyamorous couple I've interracted with was instigated by the female party.I... Do not believe in feminism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 04:12 PM |
| 4 | Every single polyamorous couple I've interracted with was instigated by the female party.O great! What did she think about not being able to have a bank account? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Do you find men simple easy to read or a black box of confusing?The submitting thing. How much do you submit to a girlfriend/wife? My best friend is like this. She is very feminine looking, and a nice person; but very masculine in her thoughts, acts and desires. The masculinity seems to come from insecurity though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Every single polyamorous couple I've interracted with was instigated by the female party.You go tell that to your great grandmother who was kept barefoot and pregnant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 04:04 PM |
| 3 | Do you think that being single will be the new norm and dating/marriage will become rare in the future?I don't think you understand maths, nor relationships or social consequences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 04:03 PM |
| 5 | Question for women: of these two infidelity scenarios, which is worse for you?Both. There is no gradation of cheating. If my man were to send some raunchy text to another woman or to fuck one; I would be equally mad and hurt. So it's a block and delete in all scenarios and one doesn't hurt more than the other. It's about broken trust. When it's broken, you can't fix it. You can not break it more, or heal it faster. What's done is done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 04:01 PM |
| 7 | Do you find men simple easy to read or a black box of confusing?want to run the relationship and can't submit. This made me barf, and not even because I'm pregnant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Do you think that being single will be the new norm and dating/marriage will become rare in the future?Same here! We wouldn't have come across ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Do you think that being single will be the new norm and dating/marriage will become rare in the future?Not only. In my country we see a huge decline in teen moms and abortions... People here are also losing their virginity later and later on. The perspective is changing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 03:49 PM |
| 3 | Every single polyamorous couple I've interracted with was instigated by the female party.You're right. .....Then it's clueless women formed by dumb man! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Do you think that being single will be the new norm and dating/marriage will become rare in the future?I"ve seen it all. Women going through the football team, a few at a time,etc. Some students here fuck the whole sorority/fraternity as well.... We're less prude, and with less social consequences also. Higher standards, mean you have less available people that would be acceptable to you = less options that are acceptable to you. This opinion comes from a scarcity mindset that just isn't true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 03:46 PM |
| 7 | Do you think that being single will be the new norm and dating/marriage will become rare in the future?Haha I thought you were going to say “children need love, adults need money.” Well, when you're an adult you realize you want/need both 🤣 We are self-actualizing, becoming more emotionally intelligent, evolving more in a sense (think of all the self help podcasts and audiobooks people listen to). I have a feeling that this will, swing the pendulum a bit back toward at least serial monogamy possibly, ethical polyamory versus straight up casual sex. Intelligent, emotionally aware grown up people w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 03:44 PM |
| -2 | Every single polyamorous couple I've interracted with was instigated by the female party.Maybe let's read them before? We do blame PickMe's, but guess who stimulates pickmeism...? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 03:39 PM |
| 6 | Do you think that being single will be the new norm and dating/marriage will become rare in the future?uhmm, you ever go to a college in the US? No. Friendly reminder that not everybody is from the country of fat people, a dumb healthcare system and Mardi gras... But I've visited frequently, and I have friends/family enough to have a say. In my country students also fuck like animals, and they did years (decades) before this day and age too. I've seen it across all social classes. Not the one that sets the tone then. I would agree, the higher your status, the less frequent it would be. Which make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 02:54 PM |
| 11 | Every single polyamorous couple I've interracted with was instigated by the female party.It's never who you want to be polyamorous, who's polyamorous. https://youtu.be/DTsdKycVZZ4 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 02:35 PM |
| -5 | Every single polyamorous couple I've interracted with was instigated by the female party.FDS says it’s all mens doing Where? We blame PickMe's just as hard, if not; harder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 02:34 PM |
| 5 | Do you think that being single will be the new norm and dating/marriage will become rare in the future?It also opened up a lot of opportunities for people to date outside their well-known/comfort zone. People who normally wouldn't meet each other have the opportunity they would not have before. There are also a lot of people who go back to traditionalism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 02:33 PM |
| 5 | Do you think that being single will be the new norm and dating/marriage will become rare in the future?Depends on your social standing. In lower social classes you see more of that behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 02:30 PM |
| 5 | Do you think that being single will be the new norm and dating/marriage will become rare in the future?Definitely, everybody wants it, just a few find it. Historically that's what happened years ago also. There is just less societal pressure. The frames wherein we find love changed. As my favorite pedagogue frequently says; children and grown up children need love, like plants need water. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 02:29 PM |
| -5 | If a man is "emotionally unavailable", he is like that for a reasonPerfect, i ain't Becky the builder who's gonna fix any man; then just don't expect any sex, trust, love or connection to follow into your life. It's that damn simple. I'm not a fucking shrink. There are more predatory men than women out there, and we see a lot less emotionally stunted women like OP discribes. I think the argument is dumb laziness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 06:34 AM |
| 24 | What does FDS think about the rise of the “stay at home girlfriend?”Only if he supports you by gaining and maintaining your own assets and getting more individual financial power. Most men will not do this, so this is extremely dangerous if you're not protected. I do, however, think that there are situation in which this can be beneficial to the woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 09:55 PM |
| 12 | [deleted by user]Beautiful! 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 07:53 PM |
| 9 | How long does it take you to say that you love someone?Exactly sis, we'll always keep vetting, even in marriage/pregnancy and especially during hard times ❤️😘 Tnx! To be honest, I've never felt so secure in my life. And for the first time it's coming all from me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 04:37 PM |
| 1 | How long does it take you to say that you love someone?I don't know how this happened, we're both definitely not the types for it. I used to wait with saying I love you/having sex/going on holidays for months so not years with ex's. But we discovered we had a lot in common from the early start; the way we love to eat, the way we talk, the way our families are, the jokes we like and how we serve them to others, the shopping we do, our career and educational backgrounds, the furnishing of our separate houses... To be really honest, from the beginning … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 04:32 PM |
| -4 | How long does it take you to say that you love someone?Usually? 4-5 months after they said it first. With my current guy? 3 weeks (we said it exactly at the same time btw). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 03:42 PM |
| 1 | How do you view the redpill's "never pay the entire bill/as cheap as possible dates" mindset?Avoid men like that like the plague. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 07:00 AM |
| 6 | One woman with 4 husbandshttps://youtu.be/DTsdKycVZZ4 It's never who you want to be polyamorous who's polyamorous... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 06:53 AM |
| – | Women with high standards of financial success in men do not 'only want you for your money'I'm not attracted to orange people that can star in some shore series. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Number of partnersRead again. Still too weak since my reply already tackled ALL your dumb ones. I can imagine it's too hard for you, but you are very welcome to join my reading comprehension class tomorrow. My 9 year olds can teach you a lot and would happily do so🤗😔 You also can't answer in one reply, you seem to need a lot... You also seem unable to use interpunction? We can really work on that. Kind regards! Edit: You're now deleting your messages. Did I hit a nerve or something? That was not intended, i just … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Number of partnersshe'd be more susceptible to stds with that approach Which approach? And you know that interpunction exists? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Number of partnersAre you seriously this Ill educated about biology, or are you joking? I have a few friends who fuck like half the globe. They have sex with condoms and they test very regularly; two of them had a STD and noticed very early. They got some pills/shots, and the problem was gone. My other friend M. was a virgin when she met and dated her husband. She can't get kids and has chronic pain because of untreated chlamydia (you can guess 3x who gave her this lovely condition). I'm from Amsterdam; I can ass… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Women with high standards of financial success in men do not 'only want you for your money'My fiance is a millionaire. I wouldn't love him any less if he was a garbage man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Bitter Pills For Everyone: The chances of you finding that fairytale perfect princess or prince are next to nonexistentSorry, my fiance is a kind in each way of the word. He was everything om my list and more. So yes, this happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 06:28 AM |
| -2 | Number of partners27F, engaged, pregnant. I'm a secure adult. I don't care. And I don't keep count for 'every body' I had sex with. Btw, that number is completely arbitrary. Do we count hand jobs? Then the number is fairly high, I think. Do we count oral? That shrinks the number immensely. Do we only count PIV? Even lower. I don't care about how many partners my fiance slept with. Or did stuff with. I'm not insecure about myself, him, others or my sex life. And my life is too rich and busy to entertain the though… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 05:46 AM |
| 3 | What are topics/views/opinions, sans the Red Pill or FDS?Check my last post and you know in which league we play 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 04:47 PM |
| 1 | What are topics/views/opinions, sans the Red Pill or FDS?Thanks for letting us all know you’re bitter and jaded. I hear that’s reallyyyyy appealing to men! I'm marrying soon and I have a scrotation that's still begging for attention. So 'my jaded bitterness' seems to be quite appealing.... Happiness is inside you It sure doesn't seem to be in you, little boy 🌸😌 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 04:38 PM |
| 4 | What are topics/views/opinions, sans the Red Pill or FDS?Most men dream of hypogamy, but are not able to keep such a woman happy so the relationship becomes inevitably miserable. And they start to look elsewhere when they achieved their goal. Like the little boys they'll always stay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 03:25 PM |
| 17 | What are topics/views/opinions, sans the Red Pill or FDS?Reddit is a circlejerking shithole, but we keep coming back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 03:19 PM |
| 26 | red flag: "I can't cook"No abled bodied man "can't cook". You can cook good food by looking up a recipe online and following it. No one needs years of experience and culinary schooling to take these basic steps. My boyfriend admitted on one of our first dates that he's always happy to take me out and pay for dinner, since he can't cook. I also thought it was bullshit, and a major red flag, but he literally burned down kitchens; I can see why... He knows two (healthy) dishes, and they taste very good, but don't ask him … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 03:33 PM |
| 3 | Question for Traditional Women and “Red Pill” Women: Would you date or marry or consider a relationship or family life with a Red Pill Man?I'm leaning towards libertarianism, more on the conservative side. Not any pill. I would NEVER EVER date/marry a man who is 'pilled'. I think those men are highly insecure, whiny little bitches. They see everything as a game/shit test and I'm simply not attracted to that. 'Pilled content' is pathetic af. I stumbled on it by accident, it intrigued me a bit, but RP is standing so far from reality.... It's all about games/tests to get (usually an already vulnerable) a woman to fuck. To then treat t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 08:51 AM |
| 32 | This is too funny 🙄This is such utter bullshit... My bf is a hard working man owning 5 businesses, with a day job as a partner with a big law firm. He still finds time in his busy schedule to help me with my job as a teacher. The more money/work/time they have, the more they have to prove themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 08:21 PM |
| 22 | What are the most ridiculous pick-me opinions you had before reaching the age of reason?'Feminism is cancer' 'Women should just work harder' 'Men shouldn't be responsible for children since they can't carry them in their belly' 'Women who complain about their treatment are too privileged to function in the real world' 'Women who want high earning men are golddiggers' 'Gaming is for men, but I'm the only girl that understands them, weehee me' 'Not going 50/50 is unequal to men' 'An ugly man will treasure me because I'm beautiful and such a catch' 'I'm so different than other women' … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 09:35 AM |
| -1 | Men and Women of PPD: Who Would You Rather Date?Those men both seem really dull and do not earn enough (to my liking). To be honest, my exes are more accomplished than idiot 1 ('you know his exes') and idiot 2 ('hates his life but is a lazy fuck'). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 09:40 PM |
| 14 | Hot Take: Why I demand a beautiful proposal and an EXPENSIVE ring.You're so right. I absolutely LOVE your post. 10k is lower than I would accept, tbh. But a beautiful proposal and an amazing ring, is not a lot to expect... Why would you downplay spending your life together? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 08:54 PM |
| 0 | Q4W of PPD: What is your personal happiness level, and why is general female happiness low?On a scale of 1 (Jumping Off A Bridge Tomorrow) to 10 (Everything Is Great And Couldn't Ask For More) what is your own level of happiness? 11 🥰 Seriously, i love my life so much. Flying through life, and believe me that I have been on '1' a few times. If you're one of our older members (35+), are you happier now or were you more in your teens/20s? What changed? A lot of manospherians firmly believe that all women get steadily more unhappy as they age, thinking about their declining physical look… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 02:51 PM |
| 3 | [Q4All] Have you ever been really surprised at someone’s dating success(or lack thereof)?Yeah, I'm very shocked by the amount of trolls that seem to have a beautiful girlfriend who will walk the legs out of her body for them.... Like .. Why? He isn't rich, he isn't handsome, he hasn't got a nice personality and is an overall dick. I'm outraged when I see people praising educated, well deserving women for staying with such low lifes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 02:41 PM |
| 17 | Be careful around maintenance men if you live alone. If possible, have a male relative with you when you need something installed/repaired. I’ve heard some ladies say to have used men’s shoes just in case they try something u could say ur husband will be back soon. Imagine if she was alone with him😳My god yes .... And the awful kissing your hand thing also happened a lot to me unfortunately. I really wished that I would've said something along the lines of 'please take your geriatric lips off of my beautiful hand'. But i wasn't raised like this, and it's fucking dangerous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 07:27 AM |
| 41 | When David Attenborough is asked about how his wife's death affected him, all he could bring up was how his daughter had to move in with him because he can't cook. Timestamp 16:40-17:50. This man is often thought of as a HVM because of his loves for animals. He is not.I’m sure he misses his wife immensely His wife or a dishwasher? How are you so sure? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 07:10 AM |
| 11 | REMINDER: Do not clean up for dirty scrotes and make them feel cozy in their filth *busy none* they can find *one* hour out of the week to clean their scum.because "potential " and he wasn't mean, breaking up felt as bad as putting an inured puppy by side of road :( b Exactly this. It's such a grievance process. The anger is real, but also the compassion. Sometimes you have to, just because you have to for yourself. There is some distinct difference between NVM and LVM. That poor guy is still wondering (6 years later) why I left. thank goodness I'm finally waking up . ❤️ Congrats | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 10:33 PM |
| 36 | FDS is NOT categorically against OLD.Love this post! If some people don't do online dating, perfectly fine! But there's no need for shaming women who do in the name of FDS. There's a lot of reasons to stop online dating, but there's also a lot of reasons to start doing it. I had amazing experiences through Tinder. I met 2 exes there and to be honest; they were a lot better than the 'men in the wild' I meet. Never had a one night stand. I noticed that I had an amazing opportunity to vet; I always seem to end up lucky with OLD wherea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 10:21 PM |
| 14 | REMINDER: Do not clean up for dirty scrotes and make them feel cozy in their filth *busy none* they can find *one* hour out of the week to clean their scum.I was so stupid and young... 😳 I really felt like such a bad girl for breaking up with him after 8 years of cleaning 🤪 PickMeitis 🤐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 02:04 PM |
| 37 | REMINDER: Do not clean up for dirty scrotes and make them feel cozy in their filth *busy none* they can find *one* hour out of the week to clean their scum.I was so stupid and young... 😳 I really felt like such a bad girl for breaking up with him after 8 years of cleaning 🤪 PickMeitis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 02:00 PM |
| 71 | REMINDER: Do not clean up for dirty scrotes and make them feel cozy in their filth *busy none* they can find *one* hour out of the week to clean their scum.Don't waste your time on scum creating scum. My ex lives in a house like that. And although he's LV, he's a very good hearted guy. When I broke up with him I felt so guilty, i came back for months to help him clean. This remembers me of that time.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 09:38 AM |
| 2 | Did your dad/brother/male figures understand when you were being harassed as a teen?They did protect me. But they also blamed me. For wearing clothes, having boobs or they thought there was something in my behavior that must have sparked something... Of course, because a 10 yo is really busy with old dudes 🤪🧐 My uncle send me harassing sexual whatsapps last week. I'm 27. This shit NEVER seems to stop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 06:10 AM |
| 3 | Reminder: Never Pay for Anything on a Date. Ever.That's the spirit! We would provide for them and keep them happy and safe, in case they got pregnant ☺️❤️ That seems a heavy task for most of them already.... Who's the weaker sex? Definitely not us... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 09:58 PM |
| 34 | Reminder: Never Pay for Anything on a Date. Ever.You can only reply with; I will cook, if you produce a baby. Or. When he's immature and/or young: if you buy me Tiffany earrings, i will clean up your dirty socks ❤️☺️ 50/50 baby😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 06:41 PM |
| 71 | Reminder: Never Pay for Anything on a Date. Ever.True ❤️ If he gets you to the cinema, let him buy you popcorn. If he buys dinner, make sure he gets you desert too. If he takes you to the ballet, let him buy you a pretty dress. If he complains, he's not interested. Or poor. We don't date uninterested or poor men 👍☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 06:33 PM |
| 52 | The importance of lying about your disfunctional familyNow imagine what would have happened if I told him the truth about my family? Lie, lie and lie, a HVM will forgive you and understand you later on. Preach it sis' ❤️ My man is a major catch, and he also told me (when I had to confess my shitty fam): if I tell a girl my dysfunctional family story right away, she will not understand me and/or use it against me. It's better to keep your guard up a little bit and see what they're made of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 03:58 PM |
| 3 | How Do You Handle Friends Trying to CompareThis happens all the time. Sometimes I notice myself doing it; it's very natural. We like to mirror ourselves to others and see the differences. It's evolutionary even; people mirror themselves to others and compare in which ways they are opposites or same-same. I'm dating a millionaire. This gave me a lot of backlash with my 'friends' and 'family'. You can easily sense when they're comparing our lives, and I notice some people feel like 'Jayda does not deserve this'. They are doing you a servic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 06:21 PM |
| 8 | Reminder: Being The "Cool Girl" who isn't "materialistic" will get you nothing.I was that girl once. Ended up with broke losers... I came out for what I love and like, and who I am. I'm currently together with an affluent guy who provides everything I can dream of and loves me like I never been loved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 08:16 AM |
| -1 | At what point does one become unchivalrous?I kill my own spiders. When are you guys going to learn something useful, like knitting or baking? Or you know, just simply washing your ass thoroughly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 10:50 AM |
| 0 | At what point does one become unchivalrous?Yeah we are already doing this. So when are you and your fellow men gonna carry half the job of pregnancy, delivery, child care and household chores? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 10:11 PM |
| 3 | Have you ever met a TRP or FDS person in real life? What were their lives like?Well. I wake up in the morning, walk my dog with my boyfriend and I brush my teeth. I'll do my makeup/hair and my boyfriend calls me an Uber to get to work. I teach in a male dominated schools, with lovely guys. In the afternoon my boyfriend calls me an Uber back, I walk my dog. Then I study. When my boyfriend comes home, we will go to a restaurant and have dinner. After that we walk the dog and I study some more. After that I prepare my lessons. We repeat it next day. My life is filled with fri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, what are your thoughts on guys befriending you to ask you out?I disgust them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Is there any difference between a conservative woman and a gold digger?Wouldn't liberal women actually work? That is, have a career and paid employment? So a 'career' and paid employment only count as work? That's a bit strange. In that case, I see a lot of people without work; since a lot of jobs aren't careers. And a lot of workplaces with actual work hire volunteers, who work just as hard as paid professionals. I don't see them as inferior or 'less work'. And whit the entitlement of most liberal women, don't you think they would work less but expect more? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Another question for women: Would you consider a relationship with someone who considered themselves Red Pill or outright identifies as Red Pill?I used to call myself a red pill woman. And then i discovered how bad the pilled men treated women. So no, I would RUN. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 12:26 PM |
| 2 | Is there any difference between a conservative woman and a gold digger?Gold digger is a made up term for a woman who cherishes living an affluent lifestyle. It's to put her down or keep her there. We don't have a special word for men who appreciate, let's say, beauty. I think there are just ass much conservative women who value that as there are liberal women who do. Only the liberal women feel entitled to it without having to put in any work, whereas conservative women usually acknowledge the necessity of hard work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What hardships you are willing to go through in relationship with your man? What you're not willing to go through?So he can rob a bank and you'll be fine? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What hardships you are willing to go through in relationship with your man? What you're not willing to go through?I will never accept cheating, lying, laziness, being unclean, being disrespectful, chauvinism, inceldom, abuse and negging. Prolonged loss of job by him (1 year)? He owns companies and invests. I would love to be able to spend a year together. Financial troubles? Depends. If he created them or made a stupid mistake, I would leave him. If this is out of his span of control I would help him. Him getting suicidal? I would leave. Him losing libido/dead bedroom? I would leave. Life-changing illness o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 12:04 PM |
| 15 | When we say some men are delusional, this what they mean. Your wife is not yet born is creepy! Calling women pretty young things is gross and dehumanizing.Yeah, of course a 'pretty young thing's fall for some balding old dude offering her to pay for herself at the gym. Hahahahaha 😂🤣😂 This twenty something is rolling over the floor from laughing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 06:45 AM |
| 2 | Men's bad hygiene is so common even SNL is making fun of itThis guy is the spitting image of my ex. They could be twins... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 07:17 PM |
| 30 | I mean… I can’t disagree.I wish I followed this advice because I had four (!) vibrators die on me when I became a single girl.. My bf still needs to get me some replacements. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 05:35 PM |
| 39 | This is how a HVM should reactHe made the decision without her. They made the decision to throw her under the bus. He's sticking up for her. I understand the way of thinking, but we also don't want 'pussy HVM' who feel the need to talk excessively before handling the situation. At some point I expect a man to stand up for me, like I would do if somebody treated my man wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 11:09 AM |
| 11 | What kind of tattoos are LVM red flags to you?Every one of them. I regret my tattoo SO unbelievably much .. I think they're all such low class. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 08:43 AM |
| 12 | If it wasn't for this community ladies, I wouldn't be experiencing this. #LiveYourBestLife #Don'tSettleForLess ❤️Wow that's beautiful, enjoy! I will, with FDS wisdom always in the back of my mind. sometimes I feel hopeless And that's totally justified. All the assholes out there make it seem that that's all the world has in store when it comes to men... stuff like this reminds me HVM do exist They do, I still think my ex is HV (although he changed some perspectives), and I have a few examples in life. They're just so damn hard to find. And even then they can change... So it's so important to never stop vet… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 05:57 AM |
| 8 | If it wasn't for this community ladies, I wouldn't be experiencing this. #LiveYourBestLife #Don'tSettleForLess ❤️Over the weekend, my boyfriend took me to a concert of one of my favorite bands. Yesterday, he cooked me breakfast, washed my truck for me, gave me a back massage, and made reservations for a winter trip down south together while I curled up on the couch and got to relax for the day. That's lovely! 🥰 Sounds really great! It's so nice when they make your life easier instead or f harder.. Much love! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 05:53 AM |
| 5 | If it wasn't for this community ladies, I wouldn't be experiencing this. #LiveYourBestLife #Don'tSettleForLess ❤️I replied 🤗❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 05:32 AM |
| 12 | If it wasn't for this community ladies, I wouldn't be experiencing this. #LiveYourBestLife #Don'tSettleForLess ❤️happy for you Thank you! I'm super jealous Believe me, up until two years ago i was literally screaming from jealousy at literally ANYone.... ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 05:31 AM |
| 28 | If it wasn't for this community ladies, I wouldn't be experiencing this. #LiveYourBestLife #Don'tSettleForLess ❤️Edited out personal info - I'm now hopping over to real estate since that's more manageable by myself! ❤️ (I will remove this post in a few hours because of the personal information) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 05:21 AM |
| 17 | If it wasn't for this community ladies, I wouldn't be experiencing this. #LiveYourBestLife #Don'tSettleForLess ❤️Greece, we hop from hotel to hotel. All private pools, nice food and fun activities! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 05:11 AM |
| 59 | If it wasn't for this community ladies, I wouldn't be experiencing this. #LiveYourBestLife #Don'tSettleForLess ❤️YES. Potential partners are competing with THIS, our peace, and our solitude. I’ll take this and my current lifestyle over the stress, drama, and expenses of a shitty partner any day. Exactly this! ❤️ It's better to be growing and following your own path, than to follow others! Proud of you, OP! It was/is a long way, but it's so rewarding in the end. I'm proud of you for following your heart too. Much love 😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 04:33 PM |
| 133 | If it wasn't for this community ladies, I wouldn't be experiencing this. #LiveYourBestLife #Don'tSettleForLess ❤️They think all of FDS are single, lonely, poor, and unhappy. It's a tactic. But we see through their games now! Cannot wait for my trip back to South Korea this summer. That's great! Have a great time 😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 04:31 PM |
| 262 | If it wasn't for this community ladies, I wouldn't be experiencing this. #LiveYourBestLife #Don'tSettleForLess ❤️❤️ Thank you! My fuck you fund... Is more filled than ever. I took half the money, invested it wisely and made it work for me. 🥰😜 My new bf is the most generous and kind man I've ever met. (And there is no disgusting age gap and we are minds alike). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 04:29 PM |
| 94 | If it wasn't for this community ladies, I wouldn't be experiencing this. #LiveYourBestLife #Don'tSettleForLess ❤️Thank you all so much, and bless FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 04:12 PM |
| 3 | Followup to yesterday's question: When do you first remember being told that a boy is mean to you when he likes you?I think at pre-school, when I was a three year old. I'm so upset with this shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Saying "I love you"My new boyfriend (we are together now for 5 weeks) told me after a week. At the beach, during sunset. He listed things why he specifically loved me (they were all about my personality). I told him for the first time last week. I felt it, it felt good to say it, I don't regret it one bit. Time will tell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 09:25 AM |
| 2 | Here's a calculator for women to find how many men fit their criteria, and the results are not goodYeah, we're SUCH golddiggers, although we just leave the money 😂 I had this exact convo with some friends of mine lately. They are well payed construction workers and plumbers. So I asked them that I would be happy to go out with them, if they can answer this question to my liking! 'What was the last book you read and what's the story?'. And then it went quiet. I've never had such an experience with a lawyer, surgeon or a doctor. And they can play golf, I've yet to meet a construction worker tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/21 10:53 AM |
| 2 | Honest question: have you ever met a man who has fully examined his relationship to patriarchy?I have this friend, E., And he's sympathetic to feminist issues. He surely debated his role in the patriarchy and brought it up himself during conversation. I asked him if he was a feminist, but he told me that guys can't be feminist, but he sees how the world treats women like shit. I think he's HV, it's a shame I'm not into tattoo's and piercings with guys.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 09:40 AM |
| 13 | How a scrote just replied to me on a discussion re: sexual harassment & objectificationThat would be great, but the bars don't ban toxicity unfortunately... 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 11:42 AM |
| 2 | Dating sucks because single people are like real estate - the best ones taken off the market quicklySeriously, you sound like a 16 yo. How old are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 06:38 AM |
| 31 | Being in a relationship was holding me back. NEVER live together before marriage, it just isn't worth it.I wish you so much luck ❤️ You can do it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 09:32 PM |
| 8 | A brag? Advice? Saw this and thought of FDS straight awayThose nails look real hard to deal with indeed... 🧐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 11:41 AM |
| 5 | Was Adam from the Bible a 50/50 🤡?Jesus was a leech. Mary Magdalene and a few other women paid for the expenses of Jesus and his disciples. What did he do for her? 'Cast out seven demons'. 🤔 And they called her a whore afterwards. Even back then pickmeism had it's consequences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 04:50 PM |
| 54 | Well done Germany on blocking Pornhub. Hopefully other countries will follow their exampleI’m going to germany to find a normal man That's not something my ancestors would recommend.. 🤭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 04:56 PM |
| 33 | Even some men in the comment section were saying that they wouldn't like it if their lady proposed to them but were attacked like anything !My friend is also proposing this summer. She thought of a really cute way, but something really irks me. But they know my stance, no need for conflict. I hope things work out for her in the end. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 08:14 AM |
| 2 | Men should treat you AT LEAST as well as a good employerDon't let him treat you like an employee EVER. I've learned the hard way. You'll end up a mule. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 09:03 AM |
| 2 | Looking for a Conservative Co-Host for our upcoming podcast, Female Political Strategy!I'm not from the USA, unfortunately..! I'd love to join. I'm moderately conservative, leaning a bit more to libertarianism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 09:00 AM |
| 30 | What's the most high-confidence, low-skill thing a LV date's tried to do for/to you?He made friends with my brother and gave him a special license place so he can park anywhere. He also gave him a key to remove poles from the roadside. He thought he deserved sex for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 08:34 AM |
| 0 | Why do so many liberal feminist women discourage so many under 30 women from getting married and having kids in their 20s ?I had three long term relationships from the ages 16-27, and I'm nowhere near having kids now. This is the time to work on growth, on responsibilities and securing the future. I used to be super red pilled and wanted babies more than anything, but seeing my friends in miserable marriages/relationships with kids involved, breaks my heart... You need time to let your hair down, discover who you are as your own being. That helps you make informed decisions for the future. Getting kids when you're a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/21 05:38 PM |
| 6 | Hwang Hyunjin from Straykids, love the long hair!Same here, he's pretty indeed 😋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 11:25 AM |
| 30 | Is it unreasonable to expect a guy I’m dating to congratulate me on graduating with a first?He's not celebrating with you, so he's probably not that into you. Sorry sis'. A HVM would be waiting with champagne. | /r/askFDS | 19/05/21 12:14 PM |
| 10 | Telling a motherYou can warn her, but why would you tell her mother when she's a legal adult? I think that will have the exact opposite effect, unfortunately. She has to learn from experience, so share your wisdom with her! ❤️ | /r/askFDS | 19/05/21 12:12 PM |
| 3 | Educating my daughter on what men will say when she is confident and strong in her opinions, what are we missing?Do we also have deteriorating comebacks to them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 12:34 PM |
| 19 | I love pick mes that are so ignorant to history and to why some things exist... 🙄My ex gave me a pretty $200 ring, so he could 'save up for the real one'. We're broken up now. I should've thrown that ring in his fucking face and laugh.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 07:14 AM |
| 2 | 💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥READ THIS FOR A CHANCE TO APPEAR ON THE FDS PODCAST! 💥💥💥💥💥💥💥I'm a primary school teacher. I'm studying for my specialisation in behavioral and language studies. I work with less fortunate kids, in a low income area, but I've also taught upper class kids when I was a private school teacher. I'm from the Netherlands, Amsterdam. And I have a lot to share about the dating culture here. I'd love to explain more in depth about that, since I get mistaken here quite often and I know it's because of the cultural differences. I'd love to contribute! ❤️ You can alw… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 02:24 PM |
| 18 | F*ckboi Summer Is Approaching!Broke up a long relationship three weeks ago (only my close circle knows), and I'm being bombarded with 'How are you doings' from guys in the previous scrotation. 🤪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 04:57 AM |
| 2 | I dumped my HVM.Thank you, it was a hard time ❤️ But I'm happy with the decision I made. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 03:00 PM |
| 6 | Since people keep complaining about how wrong and immoral it is to have a "binary rating system" (LVM/HVM) I'd like to propose a ten-point rating system so that at least we're not "worse than the manosphere" 😘I think it's a great idea! But I could use a visual ❤️☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 09:15 AM |
| 2 | I dumped my HVM.Thanks ! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:39 AM |
| 1 | I dumped my HVM.Timeline is off and basically everything you're saying is the highest form of BS I've ever read 😂 8 months is when we started having sex 🤪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:36 AM |
| 2 | I dumped my HVM.Thanks! This was the first time I didn't get the short end of the stick! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 04:58 AM |
| 1 | I dumped my HVM.And it changed OVERNIGHT... We had a very extensive timeline on how to go about life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 04:57 AM |
| 0 | I dumped my HVM.Because I was grossly underpaid for years, worked my butt of last year and she was in a similar situation with her ex. It's really nice to be validated like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 04:55 AM |
| 2 | I dumped my HVM.How did you handle that situation if i may ask? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 11:06 PM |
| 1 | I dumped my HVM.You're a 👑👸 Somehow I couldn't bring it up. I know my life was great when I was single 😇 It's the 'i want my dog to have a dad' kinda nonsense. I hope it vanishes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 11:04 PM |
| -1 | I dumped my HVM.You're really offended by your fellow women having her shit sorted out, aren't you? Since you feel the need to write THIS frantically under multiple replies? Your life must suck 💅 I feel sorry for you to feel such an irrefutable urge to rant to a stranger on the internet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 11:02 PM |
| -3 | I dumped my HVM.You're really offended by your fellow women having her shit sorted out, aren't you? Since you feel the need to write THIS frantically under multiple replies? Your life must suck 💅 I feel sorry for you to feel such an irrefutable urge to rant to a stranger on the internet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 11:02 PM |
| -6 | I dumped my HVM.You are not receptive to advice. It's an issue. Why even post here? Where did you see an advice flair? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 10:51 PM |
| 0 | I dumped my HVM.What if she has a medical emergency and there is a $4,000 vet bill. Will he pay it? Yes, we have a contract. if you can't afford a dog than you can't afford it I can but not on my own. need to go to the person that is the most bonded with them I don't think he would've made her happy... I can. With help; which is arranged. Losing an animal is one of the worst things, and their happiness should come first always. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 10:35 PM |
| 2 | I dumped my HVM.I will! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 10:20 PM |
| 2 | I dumped my HVM.Hope you and your bestie have a great time in yalls new apartment!! And congrats on the raise, Queen✨💗 Thank you! ❤️ We even named it 'the high palace' 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 09:51 PM |
| 4 | I dumped my HVM.Thank you for sharing you story, and relating, that actually means a lot to me ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 09:48 PM |
| -5 | I dumped my HVM.She thinks she's "mature for her age" and that's why she likes older men. Where did I say that exactly? Because the thing is, I dated guys my own age and it turned out even worse. I think it comes more to life stages, they have to align for me in order for a relationship to work. And it's perfectly fine to think otherwise, but I think your assumption is quite rude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 09:46 PM |
| 3 | I dumped my HVM.I understand what you're saying, but it's a far stretch from the 10-15 year age gaps I was used to. I don't feel comfortable with men my own age: I left home usually 10 years before they did. And the ones that did leave, aren't the types i would ever date. I'm open to same age relationships, but they seem to consistently work out worse than age gap relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 08:30 PM |
| 12 | I dumped my HVM.Just out of curiosity, was there an age gap between you? 5 years. Which is like a non age-gap to me. I moved out really young, so all my friends are that age/stage as well. You did well getting out as soon as he started taking off his fake cloth and revealed the red flags underneath! I'm really excited to move on. He should be working at an airport, waving around all day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 08:20 PM |
| 8 | I dumped my HVM.We got a contract before moving in together. A break up would divide our shared income over the past years. He makes 4 times what I make, so I'm content. I also got a few thousand euros as 'repair payment' (which I advocated for). I also let him co sign the new house lease, while he didn't need to 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 08:18 PM |
| 31 | I dumped my HVM.Thank you for sharing this story❤️ I felt really down today since so many people are calling me high maintenance, hard to please, demanding, career driven and such while it has nothing to do with that. It has to do with self love and self respect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 07:36 PM |
| 23 | I dumped my HVM.Thanks ❤️ It was really hard. People used to call me a golddigger, but now I'm leaving his ass, everyone is calling me stupid for not staying with him since he earns extremely well... It's the world on his head 🤪 I'm glad I protected myself. The thing is; there's nothing I would want more than a child. But I don't like being pushed. I've been pushed before, and that's not the way to go. I want to be married, and I want to achieve some things first 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 07:34 PM |
| 15 | I dumped my HVM.I wouldn't, but I think he gets sick of it soon enough when he finds that magical uterus. But then he still needs to pay. Which is good, I couldn't afford her on my own... I lost a child before, she feels like a kid to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 07:24 PM |
| 11 | I dumped my HVM.Yeah, he gets her half the holidays and every other weekend. He pays for a dog walker 3 times a week. Also half of all the expenses. Which means I still need to see him every other weekend. But so be it 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 07:18 PM |
| 25 | I dumped my HVM.No, I'm in the Netherlands, where living together before marriage is the standard... I lived together a few times before, and had a hard time getting back up on my feet, while my ex's were living the life. I decided to lawyer up beforehand this time. I would strongly advice everyone to do so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:18 PM |
| 19 | I dumped my HVM.I should've known. 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 05:50 PM |
| 54 | I dumped my HVM.Thank you so much 🌹 It will be. I feel really blessed, actually. And strong, for standing up for myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 05:48 PM |
| 34 | I dumped my HVM.Whenever life is hard, I think about the fuck you fund and it immediately makes me smile 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 05:47 PM |
| 76 | I dumped my HVM.I immediately thought it was a way to coerce me, so i instinctively knew I had to get the fuck away. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 05:45 PM |
| 56 | I dumped my HVM.This happened two weeks ago. He turned overnight. He bought a fucking cabrio 🤪He used to cook, clean (and hire staff to do it if he couldn't). We would call half an hour before and after work. He used to love my job and support my study. We would talk endlessly and he was constantly acting, paying and investing in our future (not only talks). It's so strange how these things happen. Should we put bets on when he's gonna try to weasel his way back? (With no succes of course 🤪😉) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 05:44 PM |
| 25 | I dumped my HVM.You're so right. ❤️ This happened two weeks ago. He turned overnight. He bought a fucking cabrio 🤪He used to cook, clean (and hire staff to do it if he couldn't). We would call half an hour before and after work. He used to love my job and support my study. We would talk endlessly and he was constantly acting, paying and investing in our future (not only talks). But life is bright for me. And I think you're right. I dodged a fucking bullet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Female Dating StrategyGo wash ya ass crusts while complaining that no one will ever fuck you ☺️ Bye Felicia 💅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Female Dating StrategyIt's already reality bitch ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 05:46 PM |
| 0 | Female Dating Strategyi'm sure you wont spend the rest of your life bitter and regretful. I will laugh about illiterate little clowns like you, while lounging from one of my boats ☺️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 05:36 PM |
| 2 | What's going to change as many millenial women are now entering their late 30s/early 40s while still single?I see a lot of people who aren't married, but don't consider themselve single. It's the majority of people in my country right now. They're super single, but don't like to admit that, or they claim that 'marriage is bad since divorce rates blahblahblah'. I'm from 1994, so technically I'm considered a millennial and I see most people of my generation pushing for more traditional households. I'm also very curious about this subject. I'm taking the 'get married now, have kids around 30 route', I th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 04:31 PM |
| 0 | Female Dating Strategyclassic dumbass who has no idea what they're talking about move Like your reply here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 02:28 PM |
| 57 | From HVM to LVM the moment stress hitsI love your post. I do want to talk to him one last time, to say what I have to say and just share that this behavior is completely unacceptable and he needs to works on his shit before the next girl who's in for this What closure do you think you'll get? Don't do it. You'll just be embarrassing yourself while you can still walk away with dignity, class and mystery. gotta look out for our sisters. Then you must set him and his scrotey ass free ❤️ Either way I will be going no contact after this.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 02:24 PM |
| 3 | Female Dating StrategyI'm not being a dick and trying to poke holes in your relationship or to undermine your confidence Like you even could, haha! 😂 If I may ask what are you offering this dude of yours that convinced him to put a ring on you? I'm me. He knows me and sees how awesome I am, so it was a smart move for him to ask me: he's a smart man. He knows how I walk/talk/dress/ look/work and what kind of person I am, my background, goals, misfortunes, sexcapades and overall life story and he loves the shit out of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Female Dating StrategyThe facts just don't care about your feelings hun, that's what I already explained and that's why you need some reading comprehension classes 🤣🤦♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Female Dating StrategyI don't argue with stupid 💕 Try some reading lessons. Bye Felicia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 11:26 PM |
| 0 | Female Dating StrategyIt's already answered. Either both sides are allowed it or neither is allowed it! Well I'm glad your gatekeep-y ass isn't in charge ☺️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 11:22 PM |
| 11 | Your Standards Aren't Too High; Looking For Positive Stories PleaseMy fiance waited five months before having sex with me. It took him 3 more months to ask me to marry him. Living together made us rich and it gave me a huge fuck you fund (always say no to living together, unless it will make you richer 😉 ). We have a puppy now, she's the happiest little being you can ever imagine. I went back to school. He got me staff so i could finish school. He supports my career as a teacher while he's a very high up manager at international firm; he cuts figures and sheets… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Female Dating StrategyIt wasn't mixed in America. Maybe they should've figured out sooner that their club might be based on gender, but their activities aren't. The gender part came from earlier times, when women couldn't vote or partake in social life. That exclusionary attitude should've stayed in the era we (supposedly) left it. In my country you can choose. Boy scouts, girl scouts or mixed and most of the troops are mixed. Because we realize that being a scout has nothing to do with ownership over a penis! While … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Female Dating StrategyScouting is mixed for AGES in my country so i don't know what you're blabbering about? It just shows us that the Boy Scouts of America is such a petty organisation.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 09:36 PM |
| 2 | Female Dating StrategyBecause your kind repeatedly does the same thing for male spaces Where? You know all the other the big 'women subs'? Like feminism and such? All moderated by men.... 🧐 'Participating in' and 'invading in' are two very different things.... 🥴 We weren't allowed to fully participate in society for years. So what's up with your double standard blah blah? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 08:41 PM |
| 3 | Female Dating StrategyBut you are the exception to the rule. Not if you follow the FDS handbook. So no matter his wealth, his looks, his status, almost all men universally are going to want sex early on in a relationship, that’s what I meant. Decent guys won't ever pressure you to have sex. You can simply toss away the guys who will. One girls 'no' is another girls 'hell no'. Let's not normalize douchebag behavior by saying shit like 'the avarage man wants sex early on'. Hell no, only the douchebags. It's typical lib… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Female Dating StrategyI had to miss it for a while as well 😇 It's definitely great to be able to go again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Female Dating StrategyDid you alsnog check out insta to see which kind of women follows FDS? It's like those subs literally try to find to ugliest to follow their own narrative.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 02:57 PM |
| 10 | Female Dating Strategybut I also think in the day and age of online dating it’s difficult if not impossible to date that way My handsome (& rich) man had to date me for 5 months before I trusted him enough to have sex with him. He really had to invest attention, money and time to be able to see me since I was busy working and dating. He proposed to me 3 months later. I would never continue dating someone who's sex life is not compatible. And I would never date an 'average man'. I like them sexy, not too old and with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Female Dating StrategyI laugh at you from our golf course 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 02:44 PM |
| 5 | Female Dating StrategyYou're completely true. And realizing you have a lot of work to do is a VERY high value trait! Never dismiss yourself too soon. Most men want to invade our spaces and call us misandrist/entitled because we set the standard high for ourselves and for others. It's always more easy to start demanding that the bar should be lower, than it is to actually work to achieve those standards. It doesn't have (only) to do with wealth, or looks. And that's what makes it hard for the RP/pilled/incelcommunitie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 02:39 PM |
| 6 | Don’t Dress Up for a Man on the First DateMy fiance and I both dressed up for our first date, but I was hangover as fuck. I'm glad I didn't cancel 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 09:40 AM |
| 3 | HOW ON EARTH do I, as a girl, stop seeing as every man on this planet as horrible monsters with dark desires?99,99% of men aren't meant for you. Realizing that will change your life. I want to quit thinking that all men are perverts who secretly desire to rape and hurt women. I want to quit thinking that all men see woman as objects. Most of them do. You feel it, you recognize it, you see what's done to us in history. Don't ignore that thought, and don't let ignorant men with an agenda talk you out of it. So build your own environment. And invite only the people who respect you the way you like. And pr… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/03/21 03:35 PM |
| 1 | A question for all these guys who constantly whine about women having high standards and never giving them a chance: Wouldn't you do the same thing if you were in a position of that woman or a high value man?Fucking mothers will not immediately make you a father, you realize that?😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 11:09 AM |
| 1 | A question for all these guys who constantly whine about women having high standards and never giving them a chance: Wouldn't you do the same thing if you were in a position of that woman or a high value man?"Ummm, the IKEA one costs less, tho." And that's how we spot them cheap motherfuckers and dodge bullets ladies ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 07:33 AM |
| -1 | Introvert vs Extrovert dating.I'm extroverted, my fiance is as well and so are most of my ex's. Introverts tire me out. They're almost always secretive homebodies with a lack of social circles, besides family. They annoy me to no end. Go play empty shell with someone else. I don't want to make myself invisible so that the other party MIGHT grab the chance to say something. I don't adopt introverts, go play stray with each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 07:29 AM |
| 3 | Introvert vs Extrovert dating.Does that say more about guys or personality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 07:23 AM |
| 1 | How attractive or unattractive does everyone imagine the users of FDS are?They will be on the golf courses, the downhill ski resorts, the luxury spas, the yacht clubs and such. And what do you envision we do on our phones when we're there....? 🤣 Last year I was replying a lot while I was out with the boat (covid gave me a lot of free/alone time). You can check out the dog and new golf club bag my fiance gifted me recently. But a real attractive woman wants a real strong attractive genetic perfect male at her side. A lot of us have those HVM already, check the polls. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Women of Purple Pill: Are "Scrote" Stories from FDS and Other Female Subs Generalizable?It tells me that you lack understanding of what it means to be upper class. No worries, most people do. It did not refer to you personally. "If you are" is a formulation similar to "if one is" I know it's interchangeable, but still. The Netherlands is one of the richest countries in the world by per capita income and wealth. Just how poor can people in its UPPER classes can be? Where did I say they are poor? Fyi. Money doesn't always equals cash in the bank, it's usually the opposite. And it's R… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Women of Purple Pill: Are "Scrote" Stories from FDS and Other Female Subs Generalizable?Am I wrong to assume that if you are upper class in the Netherlands, you are basically an aristocrat and/or a millionaire? We tend to stay humble about our backgrounds, so I would never disclose that information. The immediate assumption is wrong, since our upper class not only consists of millionaires, heirs & heiresses. The question itself tells me enough about your surroundings. And they don't wash their asses? It would surprise you how many of them don't wash their asses, trim their nails, t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 06:46 AM |
| 2 | Women of Purple Pill: Are "Scrote" Stories from FDS and Other Female Subs Generalizable?We're very blessed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 12:25 AM |
| 3 | Women of Purple Pill: Are "Scrote" Stories from FDS and Other Female Subs Generalizable?Can confirm internationally. In the Netherlands (Amsterdam) upper class; still disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 11:21 PM |
| 1 | [Q4ALL] Are single father households as dysfunctional as single mother households?I'm a teacher. The single father households I witnessed, were all terrible without exception. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Why are seemingly all women bi?To pander to the fantasy of most males. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 11:16 PM |
| 21 | Men harassing me and my dog?As a mom of a pup, i understand this completely. It's maddening. But don't think it's HER attention they're longing for... They're trying to get a reaction out of you. Guys love the distressed look it gives you, just to strike up some dumb small talk conversation. I decided to use 'humor' as well. So when a dipshit like that comes close and tries to make ANY contact with my baby, I distract her with some treats and if that doesn't work, I pull her away and tell her we don't interact with unmanne… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Are women intimidated by men with high SMV?No, I would laugh and walk away. A guy caring about shit like that means incel, socially inept and/ or 'pilled' And it's better to stay the fuck away from those types of men. It's not that the answer isn't pretty. It's just that the question/mention itself is that ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Is dating down a negotiable and realistic option for high value and independent women?For example would you date, or give a man a chance, if he only finished high school and maybe some college but who latter dropped out, and who works a job that doesn't pay as much as yours, and is basically earning less than you, but who otherwise takes care of himself (physically and emotionally), has his own hobbies and goals in life but aren't grand or ambitious like becoming the CEO of a company or a doctor. Just a guy who is intelligent (just not formally educated) driven and self motivated… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 04:22 PM |
| 1 | What are your personal experiences with a "Chad"?My brother, my fiance and my father are what TRP would describe as Chads. They're the kindest, loving, successful, 'social butterfly-y' men I've ever met. I'm very sure they always treated all people equally nice (since they're not raised by wolves). I've never once got a 'pump and dump' impression from them, although they're highly popular and sought after by the ladies. They're true gentlemen. My SIL, my mom and I feel cherished and cared for everyday, so we're able to reach our full potential… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 03:30 PM |
| 5 | What is your all-time favorite FDS post?Fuck, I'm writing that song. At the piano as we speak. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 06:55 AM |
| 15 | How much of women's birth control use is simply to accommodate men?My mom was afraid when she heard I was having sex at 13 and I had acne. So they put me on the 'Diane' pill. Research showed that it caused blood cloths, so i had to switch. I stayed on the pill for 10 more years... 🙄 I just stopped one day at the age of 24. I was living in a dead bedroom situationship of 8 years. I wasn't attracted to the ex AT ALL anymore. Quitting birth control made me realize that I was in control. I left everything behind and started over.👸 I will never, ever, ever use birth… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 06:47 AM |
| 6 | HVM are not offended by FDSTruth! I speak FDS wisdom all the time now, and my fiance agrees with .Every. Single. Thing. And he takes it even further sometimes. But it's all from hearsay though. His friends are all serious, hard working people. There's no disrespecting women, there is no locker room talk. They're healthy, not on drugs, they don't smoke or drink excessively. (Though he doesn't know about FDS, since it's fight club and you don't talk about fight club!) 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 06:13 AM |
| 3 | Great example of healthy empathy on both ends, self respect and a man that respects you and your life with or without him. *If he is into you, you will know from the getgo*Hihi, just plain old Tinder. I'm a non-drinking teacher with feminine hobbies: i don't just meet men organically... Everything the handbook says is true! Being ruthless made me so strong. It made me grow as a daughter, a friend, as a sister and a partner. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Great example of healthy empathy on both ends, self respect and a man that respects you and your life with or without him. *If he is into you, you will know from the getgo*Exactly, this. Lifting each other up, makes you a power couple. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 09:17 PM |
| -1 | There's been an uptick of women defending SAHM on FDS. This is why we don't do that.Right! We have a saying for that in my country. Don't complain about a nail in someone's eye, when you yourself have a beam in yours... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 05:34 AM |
| 142 | Great example of healthy empathy on both ends, self respect and a man that respects you and your life with or without him. *If he is into you, you will know from the getgo*On our fifth date, after dinner, we went to a cocktail place. We met a couple of friends of my ex. It was really awkward for me. My fiance and I were dating for about 4 months. He noticed something, but didn't knew what was going on exactly. He asked me if he should drive me home, but I was in shock. Not far from crying. And the scrotes friends wouldn't leave me alone... He started complimenting me on my looks and talking about the personal achievements I made the past couple of months. Asked me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 11:02 PM |
| -1 | There's been an uptick of women defending SAHM on FDS. This is why we don't do that.Any woman here shitting on other women here are not representing FDS values. Exactly this. People can share different opinions respectfully, and especially we as women have to stick together. It’s one thing to call out women who hurt other women to get ahead, Right!!! That's hurting your own. That shit tears us down while we need to climb up. From my understanding the latter is NEVER acceptable in FDS. I thought so too.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 10:32 PM |
| -7 | There's been an uptick of women defending SAHM on FDS. This is why we don't do that.Standard shaming is also a rule... You clearly broke. But I'm not arguing, I have more important things to do than to argue with someone who doesn't respect other women's choices and answering one simple question (in the other thread). I could care less about respect from someone like you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 10:18 PM |
| -11 | There's been an uptick of women defending SAHM on FDS. This is why we don't do that.I didn't delete ANYTHING... I receive messages that it's done for me. Annoying, but probably i triggered someone who doesn't like views outside their own. But understand you are losing opportunities too, to further your career, to save for retirement/pension, to become tenured, etc. These may not apply to you specially, but what is being said here is to be aware of the risks. Risk assessment is the goal. Not vilification of women. Every choice has it's up and downsides. And I completely agree wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 10:12 PM |
| -3 | There's been an uptick of women defending SAHM on FDS. This is why we don't do that.Man, the mental gymnastics are strong in this one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 10:08 PM |
| 4 | There's been an uptick of women defending SAHM on FDS. This is why we don't do that.I couldn't agree more ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 10:07 PM |
| -10 | There's been an uptick of women defending SAHM on FDS. This is why we don't do that.I love to read this! 💕 This is exactly how I feel about it. I reacted here with my comment from the first post... Some of our own people really seem to HATE women making their own (informed) decisions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 10:06 PM |
| 1 | There's been an uptick of women defending SAHM on FDS. This is why we don't do that.Being a SAHM invites a shit ton of risk into your life. I think it does for a lot of women. But I don't think it's inherently bad. But know the risks. I know, and I've taken my precautions. The gamble is huge. Unless you know for certain you can get out if you need to, will have money if you need to, and can get a job if you need to - it's a bad idea. Agreed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 10:00 PM |
| -8 | There's been an uptick of women defending SAHM on FDS. This is why we don't do that.So what I dont get is why you are so triggered by us saying being a SAHM is not beneficial to women? Since I've seen that its beneficial to a lot of women and children. You are literally here making this up because you are upset that we don't say "what a great choice". Hell no, I'm not that dependant 😉 And I don't need feathers in my ass for choices. But I do think it's important to respect others, even if you don't agree with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 09:52 PM |
| -23 | There's been an uptick of women defending SAHM on FDS. This is why we don't do that.I am starting to think this sub is not for you. I'm starting to think you're trying to gatekeep. Which the mods have spoken out against. Did you SERIOUSLY just write this? Is it REALLY NECESSARY to feign that you can't read? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 09:50 PM |
| 4 | There's been an uptick of women defending SAHM on FDS. This is why we don't do that.you might want to figure out why you feel attacked by the idea that women will always need to ensure their financial futures whether they work outside of the home or not. Where did I say that wasn't important??? The fairytale you wish to live in may come to an abrupt end 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 09:48 PM |
| -8 | There's been an uptick of women defending SAHM on FDS. This is why we don't do that.Aaaand what are your plans if the hubby upgrades to a newer model? I'm not a car... Highly unlikely. But they can turn scrotey any minute of course. If he does. I SUCK HIM DRY and live a comfortable single life 😉 I appreciate your concern 💖 I have my ducks in a row! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 09:27 PM |
| -15 | There's been an uptick of women defending SAHM on FDS. This is why we don't do that.That's like saying: 'people have died in traffic, don't go outside, it's not safe out there'. I'd love to be a SAHM one day. It's literally all I ever dreamed of and I'm in the comfortable position to do so. Please don't gatekeep being a FDS'er. We're not all born to be career loving. Or a feminist, or of a certain political leaning; the mods made a post about that as well. I want kids. And I want to raise them fulltime. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 08:23 PM |
| 3 | There's been an uptick of women defending SAHM on FDS. This is why we don't do that.That's like saying: 'people have died in traffic, don't go outside, it's not safe out there'. I'd love to be a SAHM one day. It's literally all I ever dreamed of and I'm in the comfortable position to do so. Please don't gatekeep being a FDS'er. We're not all born to be career loving. Or a feminist, or of a certain political leaning; the mods made a post about that as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 08:18 PM |
| 1 | People who are using tinder to find dates are idiots. It's a hookup app. Stop using it to "observe female nature".I know a lot of couples through Tinder, my fiance met me through Tinder. I'm a 90's kid, i used to love online dating and I work in a women dominated field; so it was my preferred option to OLD. Tinder was a candy land of dates to me! I never had sex outside of some (serious) relationships, so if it's a hook-up app: it's failing miserably. You're observing a small portion of women that you want to fuck. Most men (let's say 99,99%) can't get away with crap like that. That attitude, is keeping tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 05:34 PM |
| 1 | FUTURISTIC: Average men blatantly covering their shortcomings with sugar may become a new trend in traditional dating.Women who clean their bf’s houses don’t generally clean for free. maybe he later takes her out to dinner. Most men who gift gifts don't generally do that out of kindness but for sex. Who's the desperate ho now? If my man started giving me money/gifts for sex, he would be homeless, socially ruined and broke yesterday. How does a man know if/when a relationship becomes sugaring? plenty of everyday women expect at some point to be spoiled with gifts. Rightfully so. But my (or a) man giving me (us w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 05:53 AM |
| 1 | FUTURISTIC: Average men blatantly covering their shortcomings with sugar may become a new trend in traditional dating.Is a girl cleaning your house a girl cleaning your house, or a paid maid? What do you think? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 05:26 AM |
| 1 | FUTURISTIC: Average men blatantly covering their shortcomings with sugar may become a new trend in traditional dating.Liberal feminism. They're nuts.🥴 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 05:25 AM |
| 0 | FUTURISTIC: Average men blatantly covering their shortcomings with sugar may become a new trend in traditional dating.Low value people will always find low value people. As old as the world. Oldest profession in the world. Sugaring is the same as prostitution, change my mind. Good powerful men, seek good powerful women and the other way around. We don't need shit like prostitution to come by, we would be embarrassed to be in such company. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 12:19 AM |
| 0 | FUTURISTIC: Average men blatantly covering their shortcomings with sugar may become a new trend in traditional dating.A 'high class prostitute' (they prefer to be called whores) makes 8x more than the general 'SB' in my country; we legalized prostitution. The girls who escort, usually sugar on the side. Who's more high class? I think it's the same thing. Sugaring is just newspeak for being a whore. As old as time.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Do you want children? Poll.Planning a wedding, can't wait to have a kid. I'm gonna make sure that me and my future kids are protected and always taken care of! My fiance is awesome. If we were to break up, I would go to a sperm bank. Most men are disgusting trash I wouldn't ever want to coparent with... We'd like to be foster carers as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 07:54 PM |
| 64 | You have value. And you are not a "gold digger".Be a golddigger. Like a man. Always digging for better. Make the pickaxe your best friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 06:27 PM |
| 1 | A scientist explains what men don't understand about dead bedrooms. I think she's right.Chill 🏳️ white flag of peace lol I should have a 🏳️ in my flair 😉 She doesn’t want sex...but she does in that moment? She doesn't want sex, but maybe only for that moment (aka not forever). I'm not from the US 😇 So I think we misread eachothers replies here.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 07:58 PM |
| -2 | A scientist explains what men don't understand about dead bedrooms. I think she's right.This can only be a contradiction inside a stupid male mind.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Which opinions do you hold that would be considered unpopular or controversial even on PPD?I think the two income household should disappear completely. Radical feminism has a lot of upsides for men. Liberal feminism is cancer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 06:50 PM |
| -2 | A scientist explains what men don't understand about dead bedrooms. I think she's right.most dudes have been jacking off since like middle school and their shit works fine. STFUF yourself, little one. ED is appearing younger and younger. And more frequent.. It's not that hard to see the underlying issues if you're not a complete tool. Somehow vagina's magically 'get loose' after more then one dick? 🤪🥴 Incel logik. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 06:42 PM |
| 2 | A scientist explains what men don't understand about dead bedrooms. I think she's right.Porn addiction exists among a certain minority of men, but [insert subject] addiction exists and that doesn't mean that subject is the problem. I'm not talking about 'porn addiction'. I don't believe in that nonsense. No such thing. I talk about the damage done to the peen if you jerk off too much; porn sick, limp dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 03:27 PM |
| 1 | A scientist explains what men don't understand about dead bedrooms. I think she's right.Their lizard brain interprets it as something analogous to rape, even though it was consensual. Hoe much experience as a woman do you have? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 02:37 PM |
| 2 | A scientist explains what men don't understand about dead bedrooms. I think she's right.don't bodyshame men who find it hard to orgasm They could watch a little less porn. To give their porn sick, limp dick some rest. To make that thing able to function, like it should. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 02:25 PM |
| 5 | A scientist explains what men don't understand about dead bedrooms. I think she's right.I think she's full of shit. Pandering to the male emotions of feeling rejected. evolution by selection has programmed our sexual psychology to have a very firm brake pedal that makes it difficult for women to talk themselves into having sex they don’t want to have, Well, a lot of women talk themselves into sex they don't want to have; male pressure is huge. Our instincts tell us to go with it, because we're easily overpowered by a strong man; 'don't make a fuss, you can end up killed and that's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 02:23 PM |
| 1 | What is the worst dating advice you’ve gotten and why was it so bad?Sorry if it was unclear, but this is a universal "you" not directed to yourself particularly. That's also not how I reacted, so i think you took that more personally than I did. It was merely one of many occasions where it happens casually. Most men and women mistake boundaries/standards with being an A-hole, because the line is very thin. People who set boundaries and standards are more respected by society, but male abusers get annoyed by this and try to fight this. As a result, the dating wor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 10:23 AM |
| 2 | What do you guys think?Don't you think the blurring is extra hurtful for people who are non-native speakers/readers? Because that's why I was reacting.So that precaution is dumb IMHO. And I know it's not something you did ❤️ Just something that made me wonder. As a victim, this is more hurtful to me and it kinda makes me ignore the message since I'm too busy deciphering...🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 07:55 AM |
| 1 | What is the worst dating advice you’ve gotten and why was it so bad?you don’t know others lives and always be kind regardless. I'm not a social worker. A lot of people do not deserve kindness. To be treated like a human is minimum, but my kindness and compassion is limited to and saved for the ones I grant that to (people who have proven themselves worthy of kindness). That's something you discover with life experience, it's about self preservation; something women are taught to ignore from baby on up. If someone really does harm you, you act accordingly and you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 07:51 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys think?Our brains automatically fill in the letters. That's the thing, for non native speakers this is so shitty...! After I was raped, reading the word “rape” wasn’t a trigger. Reading the descriptions of it and seeing the scenes of it were. I'm sorry you also got raped ❤️ That's exactly why I don't understand this. It's not the letters that hurt me, but having to imagine 'what's that word again... O, I see'... That sucks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 05:48 AM |
| 2 | What do you guys think?I see that you didn't do that 😉 But when you're that easily triggered by written language, you're gonna have a terrible life. And it's shit for non native speakers.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 05:43 AM |
| 5 | What do you guys think?Why the fuck is everything blurred? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 11:33 PM |
| 1 | What is the worst dating advice you’ve gotten and why was it so bad?Not from the states. Literally the only thing your comments prove, is that men are always quick to go 'what about us poor men', when they're made aware of the treatment of women. Like we're used to for centuries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/21 11:28 PM |
| 2 | What is the worst dating advice you’ve gotten and why was it so bad?And you haven't dated as man. I have 6 brothers. And people pay me to coach them. you then order vegetarian options How can you NOT expect such a date to go wrong? Vegetarians ...😉 All jokes aside, I think that it's admirable that you do so! My compliments to you, no sarcasm there. . You go to the place few days before, you then order vegetarian options to make sure they are actually good, you get a fresh haircut, pay the reservation fee I can assure you that most men can't even fathom of bringi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/21 08:33 PM |
| 1 | If people where actually honest what 3 traits do woman and men find most desirable in the opposite sex?To not be the physical preference of the one you're attracted to? Or to be an extremely good sex partner? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 04:35 PM |
| 1 | What is the worst dating advice you’ve gotten and why was it so bad?❤️ I knew this before in theory, but trial and error let you learn quickly.. especially if you're an ugly girl with confidence - they love to tear that shit down fast for their sadistic pleasure Yeah, that shit gets ugly real fast... And when you're beautiful, they try to make you seem like 'the crazy type'. Unbelievable what they can get away with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 11:30 AM |
| 0 | What is the worst dating advice you’ve gotten and why was it so bad?Paying for a fine dining restaurant is done because it feels good, for both the lady and yourself, not because she took three hours to get ready so you have to do it... I hope that when women dress up to a date, they do it for themselves and because they are actually excited to go, not for 50/50 or 80/20 reasons. You haven't dated as a woman, it's a cesspool of terrible men with awful plans. Planning an awesome date is a necessity for vetting the possibilities of a pleasant relationship, but you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 09:54 PM |
| 3 | What is the worst dating advice you’ve gotten and why was it so bad?I'm curious as why you think this is exclusive to men ? I'm curious, why you think that's what I said, since I didn't say that anywhere? But I do think men have to be more courteous and step up more when it comes to a date. As a woman, you have way more things to consider and to take care of before going on said date. So that whole 50/50 thing, is actually 80/20:women/men, as it was throughout history. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 07:53 PM |
| 2 | What is the worst dating advice you’ve gotten and why was it so bad?r/femaledatingstrategy is why my datinglife went from shit to amazing. That 'radicalization' saved my life and gave me a dream life. Engaged to a wonderful man, with healthy relationships, amazing opportunities and endless fun and sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 07:26 PM |
| 4 | What is the worst dating advice you’ve gotten and why was it so bad?Wow your editing is trough the roof! Still. If 'she must be able to pull her weight' is THAT important to you, you should just go marry an elephant 🐘 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 06:17 PM |
| 1 | How much housework should the provider spouse do compared to the at-home one?Depends on how much he or she is willing to do around the house, and with the kids and/or pets. Im gonna be a SAHM in the future. I would want my fiance to clean the bathroom and to do the 'dirty work'. Like taking out the trash, putting together appliances and such. But, to put things in perspective. These are the avarage, monthly costs of professionals to handle the tasks to be done in and around the home. Fulltime nanny: $2,824 Fulltime maid: $2,500 Personal chef: $2,626 Dog walker: $1800 (on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 05:59 PM |
| 1 | For women who settled for their partner - was there any sexual attraction at all, and if so, did it wane over time as a result of settling?I think everyone settles whenever they're in a relationship. If i didn't settle, I would still let guys court me/take me out. I truly loved dating. It really was something for me, to give up my single-ness! But. My fiance is the most honest, manly, sexually attractive man I've ever met. He's beautiful inside and out. Even if i were to meet other handsome men, I would choose him over and over, and over, and over. And I know how mutual he feels because he amazes and cherishes me every day. The bea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 05:33 PM |
| 0 | What is the worst dating advice you’ve gotten and why was it so bad?You should pay 50/50. It's okay to ask a guy out. Have sex whenever you feel like it. Ghosting is rude. Spoilers: No, 50/50 isn't fair because ladies invest far more and carry all the dangers of dating. He should walk on the outside, come to the door to greet you, open the door for you, help you with your chair and pay the bill; that isn't old fashioned. It's a sign of respect, demand it. Guys will do this for the girl they persue, no questions asked. If they laugh about it or shame you when you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 04:14 PM |
| 35 | Why are strip clubs normalized? Its cheating imo, and you should NEVER go with a partnerYou shouldn't have to worry. My fiance is going to Vegas with his buddies next year. I jokingly asked which strip club they're going to visit (we don't really have strip clubs in my country). He was a bit offended by it, actually. He told me that it was one thing to gamble and party, but another thing to gauge at less fortunate naked ladies. His buddies are really serious, hard workers with happy wives and marriages. I'm not worried the least. Fuck I love that man ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 09:37 AM |
| 96 | Does it annoy anyone else when someone refers to a boyfriend of <1 year as a "partner?"Most of that “gender neutral” and “inclusive” language being pushed recently is erasure of women in language. It’s a “woke“ form of misogyny. Exactly this. Women presence and their bodily functions aren't to be heard, seen and smelled these days or you'll get brigaded against. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 09:30 AM |
| 3 | Men making slightly above average salaries have a right to be wary of gold-diggers since they are the prime targetThe men most afraid of 'golddiggers', usually don't have any gold to dig for. As someone who hung around gold diggers for a couple of years 'As someone who is jealous of women levelling up way much than I ever could'. uber rich guys can afford rotations of hundreds of women. But yet, they won't. Those guys you perceive as 'uber rich, able of getting women by the dozen', usually see the value in having a good wife, who can measure up and balance them when needed. Because that's how you grow, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 03:30 PM |
| 6 | How it feels to hear that other women have shared experiences with men/no longer having to gaslight yourself about how you were treated:Happy rebirthday! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 01:38 PM |
| 149 | The audacity is off the charts. This is also why FDS advocates blocking and deleting men as soon as it’s done (NOTE: this screenshot was found on Twitter).Whahahahahahahahahahahaha 😂 'Alright honey. Please reimburse me for my skincare routine, the dress, shoes, make-up and my time.You owe me €2500 now, I think that's fair, and I consider you a fair man. Date ogers, next time, if you think spending money is unnecessary'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 12:45 PM |
| 6 | My big sister asked me to read this. I was like, “I know about this scandal!” But this isn’t about Britney. I have a feeling this will sit heavily with every woman. Once you read past Britney, her words will hit you. This should be a mandatory reading.Can someone post it? 😅 I'd love to be able to read it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 10:46 AM |
| 27 | I took it all.O girl, well done! I know it feels petty, but this is so we'll done! ❤️ Be proud on this accomplishment. I did exactly the same to my ex. Lightbulbs, toothbrushes, toothpaste, linnen, every utensil imaginable and the rail to put it on and all... Maybe it's fun to know. I broke up with the ex after 8 years, that's 4 years ago. This guy still has everything laying like I left it. Bathroom hasn't been cleaned, the stuff in the refrigerator is laying there like I left it. 🤪🤭 He's unable to find some… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 10:30 AM |
| 2 | If people where actually honest what 3 traits do woman and men find most desirable in the opposite sex?you’re from the netherlands? I am! I live in Amsterdam so I'm surrounded by canals. It's more common than in the US (I lived in SC for a while) but it is seen as a luxury. Older people usually prefer sailing boats (my fam), but young people usually prefer motorized boats (like me). Personally I wanna buy a small bass boat in the future only because I love fishing. That's lovely! And that will definitely give you less maintenance compared to a bigger boat, while still being extremely enjoyable. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 12:28 AM |
| 1 | If people where actually honest what 3 traits do woman and men find most desirable in the opposite sex?Hihi, 'Koop een boot, werk je dood' (buy a boat and work 'till death) is the saying in my country 😉 But we all agree that it's much better to know someone with a boat, instead of owning one yourself! Lord knows I spend some summers cleaning sundecks and pillows.. 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 11:37 PM |
| 2 | How often do you feel that "spark" when you meet or come across a new man?think I get more "sparks" based on behavior and if he makes me laugh and smiles at me and etc. versus just off first impressions This! That happens over time unless he's jaw droppingly gorgeous or something Well, I never experienced that... (Yet). Maybe I'm too critical, since I live in a country where my type is the national standard.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Women have more freedom than they’ve ever had in history, but they still choose to sell their bodies for incomeDe wallen are one of the safest places in Amsterdam. We do not only have police, but also ex whores (yes, they prefer that term: 'hoer') who work for PIC; the prostitution information centre. They come by frequently. Religious organisations walk in and out as well. There is private testing from the GGD every two weeks in the brothels. Surprise unsupervised visits are made to check up on the girls and businesses. Safety buttons are mandatory. Opening hours and windows are extremely reduced. Silen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 06:14 PM |
| 2 | 84% of working women told ForbesWoman that staying home to raise children is a financial luxury they aspire to...more than 1 in 3 resent their partner for not earning enough to make that dream a reality.Your whole first paragraph is just feminist nonsense. And I'm not even a feminist 🥴 Your mind really sees what it wants to see doesn't it? Women bitching about uneven housework doesn't scare men wtf? It makes them annoyed They should fuck off to war then, or go chop some lumber or something. We don't care. You guys need us way more than the other way around. The repercussions were halving the wages by doubling the work force. Done by men, to both men and women, under the watchful eye of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 03:22 PM |
| 3 | 84% of working women told ForbesWoman that staying home to raise children is a financial luxury they aspire to...more than 1 in 3 resent their partner for not earning enough to make that dream a reality.Like? Going to college? Owning your own property? Getting into a relationship with the guy you're actually interested in? Being free to step away from abuse at any given time? Or bodily autonomy? Earning your own paycheck? Taking charge of family planning? The freedom to explore the world? We can accomplish almost anything these days. And it scares men. At which point they try to scare you with 'unavoidable repercussions' like a (non-existent) 'wall', a 'cat lady life' or simply being childfree.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 03:03 PM |
| 3 | 84% of working women told ForbesWoman that staying home to raise children is a financial luxury they aspire to...more than 1 in 3 resent their partner for not earning enough to make that dream a reality.If a mom gets more money by staying alone, why would she be interested in keeping a useless man around? If she's such 'a golddigging hoe looking for more money to contribute to her quality of life?' Also. Quality of the moms life has effect on the kids life as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 02:45 PM |
| 3 | 84% of working women told ForbesWoman that staying home to raise children is a financial luxury they aspire to...more than 1 in 3 resent their partner for not earning enough to make that dream a reality.It's harder to raise a kid AND an adult, than just a kid. So they deserve right to complain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 02:29 PM |
| 3 | 84% of working women told ForbesWoman that staying home to raise children is a financial luxury they aspire to...more than 1 in 3 resent their partner for not earning enough to make that dream a reality.The complainers are usually the ones who romanticize being a nuclear family; who think it's best for their children to grow up with both parents and want nothing more than that. if they don't raise the kid alone and just complain, they are lowest of the low. They usually are raising kids alone. A kid and an adult. They deserve some compassion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 02:25 PM |
| 3 | 84% of working women told ForbesWoman that staying home to raise children is a financial luxury they aspire to...more than 1 in 3 resent their partner for not earning enough to make that dream a reality.when "x" is sufficiently bad, people don't keep doing "x". What world do you actually live in? Have you ever set foot outside or? If you don't walk the walk and raise the kid alone you're full of shit and want to both keep the benefits and complain your way to even more In my country staying with a deadbeat, doesn't give you extra benefits.. It gives you less, actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 02:17 PM |
| 4 | 84% of working women told ForbesWoman that staying home to raise children is a financial luxury they aspire to...more than 1 in 3 resent their partner for not earning enough to make that dream a reality.They just complain Begging for human decency, which we can not expect from most men. I do agree with you that most of these women are better off alone. If it's so bad, they would shut the fuck up and raise the kid alone. Well, that's the beauty, little sir. You can't tell women what they can and can't do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 02:08 PM |
| 4 | 84% of working women told ForbesWoman that staying home to raise children is a financial luxury they aspire to...more than 1 in 3 resent their partner for not earning enough to make that dream a reality.That's always better than with a useless partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Women have more freedom than they’ve ever had in history, but they still choose to sell their bodies for incomethe red light district in Amsterdam has proven that legal brothels only served to INCREASE sex trafficking Where? I live near de wallen. I see ladies with a safe work spot who would be escorting themselves over the internet if it weren't for the windows and the brothels. And I'm anti sex work and all that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 01:59 PM |
| 3 | How often do you feel that "spark" when you meet or come across a new man?Same here. I do know I'm attracted to guys, but never at the spot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 01:46 PM |
| 3 | If people where actually honest what 3 traits do woman and men find most desirable in the opposite sex?Top 3 traits I value in men: Ambitious and generous. Driven to accomplish the best with and for me with a positive outlook towards the future. Good social skills. Kind and trustworthy; helps other (small) people but also knows how to stand up to someone or something when necessary. Good in the bedroom. It's so important to connect on that level. Makes me cum before he does. Initiates sex. Knows where my clit is instinctively. I do care about boats. I only date guys with a boat. But I wouldn't ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 12:09 PM |
| 2 | If people where actually honest what 3 traits do woman and men find most desirable in the opposite sex?No,at least, not for me. The best relationship/sex I had was with someone I wasn't physically attracted to at all. I love blonde 6'0 ft tall, muscled guys; said guy was a bit overweight, brownish hair 5'7 and wore glasses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 11:59 AM |
| 5 | 84% of working women told ForbesWoman that staying home to raise children is a financial luxury they aspire to...more than 1 in 3 resent their partner for not earning enough to make that dream a reality.Exactly, as said: choose their own life path. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 11:28 AM |
| 8 | 84% of working women told ForbesWoman that staying home to raise children is a financial luxury they aspire to...more than 1 in 3 resent their partner for not earning enough to make that dream a reality.Are you being sarcastic? No, just a libertarian (not from the US). The market in any western nation and most places in the world is far from “free”. Agreed, it's barf worthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 08:58 AM |
| 3 | What does the typical day of an "average woman" and "average man" life look like?It's 6:15, I have to wake up. Sometimes I have sex. I shower, get dressed in clothes of lower quality than my fiance (but they're the same price). We also both have Bachelors degrees, and he makes 7 times the money I make. 6:30 I start with my skincare and make up routine since people assume you're sick if you're a woman and your skin isn't looking pristine at any given time... 6:45 I start walking to the train. Our own car is another 30 minutes away, since we're not allowed to park TWO cars in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 08:55 AM |
| 12 | 84% of working women told ForbesWoman that staying home to raise children is a financial luxury they aspire to...more than 1 in 3 resent their partner for not earning enough to make that dream a reality.It's the beauty of the free market, isn't it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 08:44 AM |
| 9 | 84% of working women told ForbesWoman that staying home to raise children is a financial luxury they aspire to...more than 1 in 3 resent their partner for not earning enough to make that dream a reality.What do you expect men to do? I expect people, men and women, to stand up against the two income household. But they won't. They're too attached to their dual income. How else are you gonna pay for your kids PS5 to keep them busy while you work? It's a catch 22. 🤪 So I blame this to the stupidity of people, not only men.. Women wanted to work they got it Women wanted to: not starve to death, help their families, not be abused, handle their own reproductive rights and own their own possessions. W… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 08:28 AM |
| 14 | 84% of working women told ForbesWoman that staying home to raise children is a financial luxury they aspire to...more than 1 in 3 resent their partner for not earning enough to make that dream a reality.So basically women pushed for opportunities in workplace, where privileged men were having fun slaving away. Women fought for equal opportunities, as they couldn't own a bank account, vote or have possessions to themselves. They couldn't enter the workforce and keep themselves and their families afloat. They got that , labour doubled , wages halved Well, women never fought for doubling labour and half wages. They fought for equality, and didn't get it (still). Inflation is what happened under th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 08:04 AM |
| 2 | How is casual sex degrading to you (if you do feel this way)?So they do feel used and like they lost something then, right? Breaking up with a man is dangerous. You never know what their psycho ass is gonna do.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 07:39 AM |
| 3 | How is casual sex degrading to you (if you do feel this way)?Men don't feel they've lost something after sex. They might feel disappointed if she ghosts but they don't feel used. You'd be surprised about how many men feel 'used' and 'degraded', simply because you don't want to see them anymore, or want to keep things casual. Most of them lash out... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Well a lot of men suffer from ED issues and size issues. So how do both sides feel about the use of Male Hollow Strap On sex toys as a solution in a relationship?I would laugh so hard that I wouldn't be able to fuck anymore. A guy wearing a strap on over his dick? I would pity that man. ED seems very porn induced to me (porn sick, limp dick). I wouldn't even think about having a (casual) relationship with someone who's wanked his dick into oblivion. If it's not porn induced, it's a physical or a mental health issue and I don't like my men damaged goods. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Women prefer spending non-sexual time with their partners and men prefer spending non-sexual time with their friends.My fiance is mature enough to want to spend his time on things that enrich his and our lives. He's always busy on his businesses and with the families. We both have jobs that keep us busy, and after that we go play golf, chill on our boat or go out for dinner. I like to go surfing, shopping and going out by myself or with friends, while he loves playing hockey and being an entrepreneur. We enjoy and value the time we spend together to the max, but we also have our personal hobbies and leisure ac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 08:57 PM |
| 8 | Is it bad to be on Bumble when I don't really want a relationship?Although I do not agree with the 'OLD bad'-mantra that is often portrayed in FDS. I do think Bumble should be one of the last places to use for OLD! It's inherently wrong, from the start, when you need to reach out first 🥴 Bumble sucks. | /r/askFDS | 24/02/21 02:46 PM |
| 6 | How do you vet millionaires?Welcome to my area of expertise. Do they let you do your own thing? And value your qualities? They usually don't, so you need to lay down the law on how they must treat you FROM THE BEGINNING. Watch out for superiority complexes. Don't let them exploit you. May it be your body, your own resources or your sanity. If they're simply flaunting you instead of treating you like a queen, sun and earth, watch your back. Always feel the temperature of the room. Hang out with the other ladies and do your … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 01:00 PM |
| 4 | She thought this was cute and quirky, but this made my stomach drop.Same here... It's maximum cringe.. Age Gap Relationships have more to do with life stages, I think. They aren't automatically bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Does this describe you? "I have a job, a house, and a loving group of friends, family and a dog. But I'm willing to throw all of that away if it meant I could be a guy who can get constant endless casual sex on demand."You clearly misunderstood me. The Chads were my leftovers, and I have a fiance who lives and gives us a dream life. At least he's getting his dick sucked voluntarily. That's not something we can say about your deprived ass 🤭😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Does this describe you? "I have a job, a house, and a loving group of friends, family and a dog. But I'm willing to throw all of that away if it meant I could be a guy who can get constant endless casual sex on demand."We don't even have time to pity you before we're getting it on 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Does this describe you? "I have a job, a house, and a loving group of friends, family and a dog. But I'm willing to throw all of that away if it meant I could be a guy who can get constant endless casual sex on demand."The Chads loved sucking my clit too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 02:48 PM |
| 2 | Does this describe you? "I have a job, a house, and a loving group of friends, family and a dog. But I'm willing to throw all of that away if it meant I could be a guy who can get constant endless casual sex on demand."Doesn't matter, it's still awesome right? If you're compatible. Experience isn't always good, but that is also a learning moment which enhances your sex life over your lifetime. And people choose to do that over finding a relationship Well, they don't. Most people still end up in relationships. Fortunately: a lot of incels stay incel for life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Does this describe you? "I have a job, a house, and a loving group of friends, family and a dog. But I'm willing to throw all of that away if it meant I could be a guy who can get constant endless casual sex on demand."No, I'm saying that casual sex isn't as exciting as sex in a good relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Does this describe you? "I have a job, a house, and a loving group of friends, family and a dog. But I'm willing to throw all of that away if it meant I could be a guy who can get constant endless casual sex on demand."why are women encouraged to "explore" in their 20s? Well, they should be encouraged to do so. I would advice every woman to just go out and explore. I was in an eight year long relationship in my late teens and early twenties and I wished I had 'explored' more at that age. I discovered so much more about myself and healthy relationships after dumping him and staying semi single for 3 years. I would've missed out on that if I married my ex, and I'm sure that would've hurt my relationship with my … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 01:17 PM |
| 4 | Does this describe you? "I have a job, a house, and a loving group of friends, family and a dog. But I'm willing to throw all of that away if it meant I could be a guy who can get constant endless casual sex on demand."Although it is a Q4M... I don't see 'marriage' listed. When I'm single I can do whatever the fuck I want, so if I felt like doing that; I would. Single me can get endless casual sex if she decides so any minute. I doubt I would. Casual sex isn't what incels make it out to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 07:33 AM |
| 18 | What's the status of your love life as of NOW?I also noted 'married' and 'engaged' and 'situationship' but somehow that disappeared... 😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 09:07 PM |
| 27 | Does the FDS attitude apply to male friends as well? How might it differ?Men aren't your friends. There is no such thing as true friendship with a man. | /r/askFDS | 19/02/21 05:15 PM |
| 12 | Former Sex Worker Discusses Repulsive ClientsVery, very, very fucking stupid. Oil tears condoms. Way to get yourself sick 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 09:41 AM |
| 56 | If men were allowed to contribute their VITALLY IMPORTANT, MUST-BE-HEARD "dating advice" on FDS:What a sense of humor and signs of good taste! That's a really fun guy, he must be! 🤪 I had a funny one like that as well. He told me I was a slut because I had big boobs and a previous sex partner. Got his friends in on the joke as well. Such humor. Why did I let this treasure of a man go by humiliating and dumping him, in front of all of his friends and family? That was NOT. FUNNY. AT. ALL!!! Women making jokes about men is so hurtful and toxic. Don't they know men are vulnerable and have feel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 08:42 PM |
| 159 | If men were allowed to contribute their VITALLY IMPORTANT, MUST-BE-HEARD "dating advice" on FDS:If he insults/mocks/negs you, that means that he has a lot of humor. Girls love funny guys. Laugh about it in a shy manner, so he knows you are a really fun girl. Watch out. Laughing too hard will make him feel like he's is being mocked and insulted. It's terrible to mock or insult a guy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 08:17 PM |
| 1 | My flair got upgraded 😎Congrats ❤️ You deserve it! Hope to get there soon, since I'm close to hitting a year of contributing ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 10:10 PM |
| 70 | I fucked up againNo worries, every fall is a chance to get up again. Block and delete him everywhere. Call a friend, read a good book or take a walk ❤️ You'll get there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 08:21 PM |
| 6 | Sexist rapper being destroyed by a woman. (translation in the comment)https://youtu.be/ssiqVBvH2rg I love it. Here's the english subtitled version. Man... Germans and their subtitles 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 12:55 PM |
| 69 | Cosmopolitan. Why, WHY did I regarded it like the bible once?? SMH. 'WomYN HYperGAMouS BAD, man naturally born one uppers GOOD.I'm so proud to level up so much and to have left so many guys angry about upgrading their asses ❤️😇 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 12:53 PM |
| 14 | Am I the only one who doesn't like to block?I needed to read this at exactly this moment. Thank you for confirming and describing what I couldn't give language to! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 09:56 PM |
| 6 | I’m married to a LVM. Realized this after marriage. He’s making small amounts of progress. Now what?Get out sis's, while you can ❤️ | /r/askFDS | 01/02/21 11:35 PM |
| 41 | Even the radio guy was like, what?!O damn , that's so sad. Poor woman.... My fiance bought me a vacuum cleaner Saturday, a Dyson. I said I hated the philips about a week ago, so he asked me what he could do to make it better...For that one time I picked up a vacuum cleaner (in a year) 🤣 If he would have given me a vacuum cleaner for my b'day, his mother, sisters and me would've kicked his ass and made him homeless! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 08:53 PM |
| 27 | "15 Men React to the Idea of Taking Their Wife's Last Name." It's like the twilight zone reading how many are aware of their misogyny and still trying to justify their entitlement.My mother in law is a OG feminist who was forced to give up her name and two days at work (she was a principal for a huge, respected school). She got divorced 25 years later. My FIL was ANGRY since she kept his name and declined to use her maiden name. He tried everything in the book to make her use her maiden name and not his name anymore. She's married a new man, but she still uses the name she got when she married FIL. I asked her why and she told me that when she was forced to take that name… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 07:24 AM |
| 14 | How many of you have found a HVM husband that really doesnt watch porn?I'm so sorry for your experience ❤️ This man is not capable of hiding anything, I'm much more tech savvy than he is (and lord knows I always check). He knows I actually wouldn't care if he did, but also that I would leave him at the slightest lie. Addicts should be left immediately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 08:58 PM |
| 20 | How many of you have found a HVM husband that really doesnt watch porn?My man 100% doesn't watch porn. I can look in his phone at any given time no questions asked, and we do sometimes when we don't have our own phones near. He's even more anti-porn than I am. I used to be a very frequent porn watcher. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 06:50 PM |
| 14 | What is your ideal ONS?I had this one! I'll finish it for you. ...And then you slip into your comedown. You're all looking like zombies and the inside of your mouth is bleeding. When you stand up to go to the bathroom and see yourself in the mirror, you've never seen yourself as ugly as of that moment. You still need to get home, but it's not a-ok to drive yet. 😅 Man, this was so much more fun in my teens.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/21 04:57 PM |
| 15 | Scumbag Steve was ahead of his time. He is the penultimate opportunistic NVM.Exactly, we should have more good guy Greg's (minus his cannabis use 😉). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 10:42 PM |
| 3 | People who went through a bad relationship and took the long road of maturing and building themselves after it, do you regret that you had to go through that and wish you remained as you were? Or are you thankful for the experience that you went through?❤️ Life advice; Don't worry too much. Take shit day by day and set steps for yourself and congratulate yourself when you achieved anything. When you have an off day, be kind to yourself. And just congratulate yourself at the end of the day for simply making through. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/21 01:33 PM |
| 1 | People who went through a bad relationship and took the long road of maturing and building themselves after it, do you regret that you had to go through that and wish you remained as you were? Or are you thankful for the experience that you went through?I'm wondering if you were given the choice to go through what you went through and mature, or simply not going through it what would you choose? I see it as learning time that I needed, in retrospect. But... I could've gone without. It took a lot from my mental health to recover from my ex. I wish he (or I) cheated, that would've made it easier for me to get over him. I will always remember the seemingly random panic attacks, the pain of physical harm inflicted by him, hate towards my environmen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/21 07:24 AM |
| 1 | "She Wrote Fake News for Cosmopolitan" To what extend do women follow media, magazines etc?How many women and how strong do they follow this media guidance on dating? Look at liberal feminists. They're everywhere. Is it normal for women to follow this kind of author dating advice? Every woman gets to deal with it at some point in her life, most just laugh about it since our mama's+environment raise us. It's not that hard to spot the lunacy in media. women seem to actually follow whatever this dating gurus type say about relationships which is not that far from those PUAs just in a mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 07:58 AM |
| 2 | Who benefits more from relationships / marriage? The man or the woman?They're so obsessed with sex and the multitude/shortage of it, that it prevents them from reaching any pussy ALL THE TIME. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 08:09 PM |
| 3 | Who benefits more from relationships / marriage? The man or the woman?Dating doesn't mean sex in my book 🥴🤪 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 07:20 PM |
| 0 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.For starters... Looks (hiring a professional for advice is what would help 99,99 % of incels). Effort; making sure that you pursue women in a nice way and proper setting. Easy thing to ask a successful man and follow in his example. Body; nobody feels attracted to a fat sack of potatoes. Hit the gym, hire a professional. Hobbies and interests; if you want to find a partner who you can connect with, it helps if it's not behind some screen from the comfort of your chair. Or loaded with the gender … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Opinion on marriage and our surname (last name)Nothing, but I'd personally rather be called the 'Jayda-family' instead of the 'Jayda,- Lisa,- Karen and Hank family'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 03:46 PM |
| 7 | Who benefits more from relationships / marriage? The man or the woman?How's Harvard for ya? https://www.health.harvard.edu/mens-health/marriage-and-mens-health | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 02:20 PM |
| 4 | Who benefits more from relationships / marriage? The man or the woman?We're not the ones proposing... (well: self respecting women don't propose). And men do make more money once they are married. Maybe you should take a look at: https://youtu.be/EtvfHnZMcOY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Do you have a dating strategy?Vetting. Vetting. Vetting. If I see a red flag, or a slight wave, I'm out. Ye olde block and delete. Date (non-physical; keep them knees close together) in a rotation. I met my fiance that way. Dating other guys in the beginning kept my feet on the earth instead of with my head in the clouds. It made me see how wonderful he really is. Enjoy dating. Dating should be a pleasurable experience for all involved. If I don't have fun during dinner, I'll excuse myself and walk away to find fun times. Do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 01:09 PM |
| 17 | Who benefits more from relationships / marriage? The man or the woman?Science says that men have more to gain from marriage. https://ifstudies.org/blog/why-men-resist-marriage-even-though-they-benefit-the-most-from-it/ I think so too. While I was dating (I had a rotation), the sky was the limit. I could get anything from any guy I wanted. Being in a relationship shuts down some of those opportunities. That's why my fiance really had to work to show me that a relationship with him, is better than staying single. He really showed me that being with him is mutually b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 01:01 PM |
| 9 | Has anybody here shifted their perspective after engaging in a Purple Pill Debate?It's good to hear other viewpoints than just your own. And I'm completely open to discuss my own values and way of thinking. However, this is usually met by some enraged dudes threatening to kill me over DM, or with a reply that has nothing to do with what I wrote. It actually opened my eyes to TRP/incel/pilled guys. I used to be RP Tradwife to the max, but after seeing what it did to men, I totally barfed out the pill. It's choking people. Live a little. Let people be. I did have a few lovely c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 12:53 PM |
| 5 | Opinion on marriage and our surname (last name)I can't wait to change my name since it's hard to pronounciate and spell. I also have a lot of LVM in my family and I don't want to keep the same name as they have. If it weren't for that, I would hyphenate. It was a point for discussion with my fiance. In my country, children automatically take the name of the man the mother married. If i don't take my man's name, we would all have different surnames unless you go to a notaire (and pay from the moment you touch the door knob). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 12:36 PM |
| 18 | standards check: career / education levelMy fiance has a master in economics, social studies and law. When I was dating, the least I expected was a Bachelor. I've learned that a lot of guys under that level of formal education, can't form coherent sentences and have grammar problems. Language mistakes really turn me off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 12:29 PM |
| 0 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.They can't even get the opportunity to have a conversation before being turned down. Because you need to work for opportunities. And I see a lot of complaining from incels, but no work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 07:25 AM |
| 3 | Is the expectation of red pill type men for financially independent women with old fashioned values who will be submissive to them not contradictory?Is the expectation of red pill type men for financially independent women with old fashioned values who will be submissive to them not contradictory? It's so contradictory, that it's not achievable. Male or female, would you be willing to take the backseat in a relationship in which you’re the breadwinner or an equal financial contributor? I'm an engaged woman. I work fulltime, I go to school in the evening. My salary is avarage. I will quit working once we're lucky enough to get me pregnant. We… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.Just like there are a lot of crappy men, there are a lot of crappy women out there. But behaving like a dump of crap yourself (when you're not), will have you ending up with crap. And the sperm swims to the egg, not the other way around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.More women than men are graduating these days, and are educated at a higher level. Since we entered educational institutions, we're kicking ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 03:08 PM |
| 0 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.Chads talk about women like shit too. And still Chad needs to work for pussy. All the bullshit hamstering on this subreddit can be boiled down to "be hot or rot". And being hot is very subjective. I have friends with a lot of different tastes in men. It's not 'over', and it's not unthinkable to change yourself into a decent human being. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 01:12 PM |
| 0 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.Plenty of dudes I know are perfectly nice, fun people and get NOTHING I've yet to meet one nice, fun incel. They look like misformed dwarfs and talk about women like shit. That's not fun nor nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.I'm not the one threatening to take other people down, like you and your awful existence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.Be careful of opening the door for people in suits and sunglasses, is all I have to react to that 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.Well, die jealous 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 12:51 PM |
| -1 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.Be hot or rot. Hot gets you quick sex. incels are right at the end. No, because they're to lazy to build themselves or another up. Why would you invest in such a lousy investment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.Disgusting pigs who look like Chad have 0 problems getting women. I'm gonna let you in on a little secret. Chad is your made up fantasy enemy... There was a tinder experiment where the guy told women he hadn't bathed in 10 days cuz he lost a bet. Women had no problem with that. Yeah, duh. A lot of girls think 'ill just shower with that hot mofo'. But who wants to shower with an incel/pilled dude? Nobody. Because it's boring, and annoying and time is more valuable than that! Crazy-hot matrix equi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.Proving OP's point, men don't have that option. Men already have the bare minimum handed to them, so that's no comparison. And it's not a secret here, we KNOW all women are sluts for Chad. I'm gonna let you in on a little secret. Chad is not a real person.. Calling the entire other gender sluts because they have no trouble getting some is jealous. Reminds me of the story about the grapes and the fox. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 12:34 PM |
| -2 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.A lot of men can't even reach the bare minimum, whereas a more women have their ducks in a row. So I don't think that's true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 10:06 AM |
| 1 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.Compare the ugly man who brings his gf a few flowers and a bath bomb for her birthday This guy is getting his dick sucked so hard.... the attractive man who forgets it was even today I would carve his car. Clean yourself up, be considerate and engage in meaningful conversation. All there is to it. The basics are so hard to grasp for the scum out there...! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.Why are manly / masculine be loved by women then? Edit: (since you changed your reply) Being clean, responsible and generous and all that isn't feminine per say. That's just being a basic fucking human being. Your parents should have taught you that. This is one of the reasons why those disgusting pigs can't find women.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.No, Chad is more capable at being a good lover because he's the one that gets women wet. Getting someone wet doesn't automatically make a good lover. Just like getting wet doesn't have to mean you're horny. If this is something that most men can't consistently do then you have to ask if women's expectations are unrealistic. Most men can, that's why most men are perfectly capable of finding a partner when they take the time and effort. The scraps remaining, have trouble. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 09:23 AM |
| 5 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.Would you rather have 1000 trash bins delivered to your doorstep every day, or struggle to find your trash bin all the time? Women and men experience their own struggle. One isn't hard than the other. Decent in a woman's mind means Chadlite with benefits of a hardworking, wealthier guy. Decent means bare minimum. Hardworking is the bare minimum, indeed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 08:28 AM |
| 4 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.I love how you stuck this in with the others. It's as important as the others. And the bare minimum, as the others. Like the rest aren't good enough unless he's Chad. If Chad's more capable at delivering the bare minimum, that's something to really think about... The funny part is there are plenty of betas who fit the rest of those attributes, but as usual women only want Chad to have those. Let me tell you a little secret. Women aren't obsessed with little mind farts like that. We demand the ba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 08:25 AM |
| 3 | Is his friend checking out my private Instagram + my dogs public IG? And if so, how can I stop it?I haven’t used ig in several years, but can’t you just block her on both accounts? Will she be able to see that I've blocked her? *Since I don't want to give the impression that they're anywhere in my mind... I don't want to give them the satisfaction, IF she/they might be creeping (my IG is private so nothing to see there, my dogs IG is just a simple dog IG and I couldn't care less). | /r/askFDS | 25/01/21 07:40 AM |
| -1 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.Hahahaha 🤣 I'm not a feminist. I used to be one of you, sir douche. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 06:58 AM |
| 0 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.Most never did, open up a history book🤣 Women just aren't accepting it as before, anymore. We can be our own unicorn these days. Btw, my 'unicorn' and I had a good laugh over your comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 06:54 AM |
| -3 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.A guy at least capable of the bare minimum. Like being a useful human being to society, clean, independent, responsible, generous, good lover, has a job + ambition, that simple af stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 06:51 AM |
| 37 | Women struggle to find relationships, but get sex easily. But if men struggle, they struggle in both.I've seriously never met a woman who had trouble finding a relationship. I do, however, see a lot of girls my age having trouble finding decent men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/21 11:29 PM |
| 22 | Are all divorced men = LVM?I think unmarried men over 40/45 are bigger red flags tbh. Definitely, he is almost mid thirties but it would've been such a red flag if he hadn't shown more commitment than a LTR by that age! I do not feel this way about older women, seeing as it's men that ask women to get married. Right, and there's a lot more shitty men than shitty women out there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 09:35 AM |
| 40 | Are all divorced men = LVM?My fiance was married before. I used to reject divorced men since I don't need that kind of baggage in my life. He was with her for 8 years, married her and divorced within 9 months because she was cheating with her boss (she's with the boss now). No kids involved. I had issues with that, so i decided to speak to my mom. I also got out of a 8 year relationship. She thought it was a good thing; that he wanted marriage and asked her when she was ready for it. My fiance and I are waiting for our we… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 07:55 AM |
| 4 | ~90% of school teachers are women. How do you feel about this with regards to the healthy development of masculine/feminine identity and social dynamics in both boys AND girls?I checked several states, actually. That was just my preferred state. I'd make more at subways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/21 07:22 PM |
| 6 | ~90% of school teachers are women. How do you feel about this with regards to the healthy development of masculine/feminine identity and social dynamics in both boys AND girls?I'm a teacher in the Netherlands, I was planning on working in South Carolina for while, but I was informed that I would need 3 jobs in order to stay alive. So I think you're a bit of a sour puss since we have Holidays. (Which aren't holidays at all since you're mostly working because you're a teacher). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/21 05:33 PM |
| 11 | How To Spot A PlayerExactly this, it sounds insecure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 12:33 PM |
| 40 | Low effort proposals are not FDSMy fiance asked me in front of my students. I couldn't have been happier. Around my favorite little people in the world and I could let my ring sparkle in my colleagues faces (they have mocked me for implementing FDS standards). It was as high effort as could be expected in CoVid times. And it meant a lot to me. He knew. He took care, like I'm used to with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 10:51 PM |
| 15 | Let's start CELEBRATING the END of LV relationshipsI'd throw one for my friend if it wasn't for covid 🙄 This should be a FDS standard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 09:47 AM |
| 62 | So many young girls develop eating disorders due to sexual harassment from young boys. Little boys are not innocent.I had C's as a 10 yo, and I was a very thin girl. I got SO much shit for it. Church ladies losing it, fathers trying to touch me, not being able to go swimming because of old men ogling me constantly, touched by teachers, photographed without consent at random places... I could go on and on.... Most men are trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 09:19 AM |
| 23 | He restlessly nagged me for sex until...Good for you. Sounds like my ex. He also complimented me on not sleeping with him many times. Such clowns, those scrotes, such clowns 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 09:15 AM |
| 6 | Legal advice OP says she was convinced against her will to have a blowjob, some scrote tries to gaslight a sensible comment. The audacity.Not in the Netherlands. Police will probably laugh at her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 06:39 AM |
| 3 | Can we talk about Botox and lip fillers and plastic surgery?+1 so hard to trauma that is visible in the face. The expressions we make etch lines into our faces. So right. I even had half a wrinkle. I have no problems with full in wrinkles, but a half one? O hell no. The expressions we make etch lines into our faces. I have spent so much time crying and being hurt that it would show in my face. I feel you so much chick. After 6 months of constant crying, the damage is enormous already... ❤️ Now I’m in a better place, and I am so happy to look in the mirro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 07:51 AM |
| 3 | Can we talk about Botox and lip fillers and plastic surgery?It’s very “damned if you do, damned if you don’t” as a woman in this world. Exactly this! If I do get under eye filler, some people might judge me as a bad feminist or think that I’m vain. If I don’t, I (genetically) look tired all the time no matter how much sleep I get which I hate, other people judge me for looking tired and/or sunken, etc. It's your right to help this. Nothing more annoying than people asking if you're tired aaaaall the time. As long as you’re not getting validation from the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 07:46 AM |
| 18 | Can we talk about Botox and lip fillers and plastic surgery?We can. I'm such a twenty something year old with botox and fillers. I'm not ashamed of it in any way and I do not accept shaming of it. Why do women feel like they need to spend hundreds or thousands of dollars to inject themselves with silicone? With botuline. Not silicone. Because trauma was visible in my face. And I didn't want to see that anymore. Who are you doing that for? ME! Botox, so you don’t get wrinkles, so you can look like a little girl forever so men will keep wanting you? Botox,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Slutty women are happier than restricted womenSo conservative women, join your urban liberal sisters and enjoy life for once. Those liberal sisters aren't exactly empowering themselves either. Look around you, the girls having hookup after hookup (although most urban women do this anyway)... do they look depressed? No they look quite happy and cheerful, new things will do that. Slutty women get attractive husbands, wide friends circles, good jobs, the whole lot You are SO right about this one! Because we know what's out there. Guys everywhe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/21 10:00 PM |
| 20 | My Hero: Mary Louise ParkerShe's was such a badass in Weeds. Such a layered character ❤️😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 09:41 PM |
| 6 | "No," by Meghan Trainor. Be very comfortable singing this song and using this word, ladies. You're going to need it.Yeah true. I just rewrote it FDS proof, 'cause I'm bored. 🎹🎶🎵 Dear future husband... Here's a few things you'll need to know if ...you wanna be my one and only all my life..... Take me on a date Pay it all the way And don't forget the flowers every anniversary 'Cause if you'll treat me right I'll still go out at night Please buy groceries Buy that new stuff we need You got that 9 to 5 Baby, now, so have I So don't be thinking I'll be home and baking apple pies Be prepared to cook So I can write … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 09:35 PM |
| 105 | Gets one teeny tiny taste of objectification and immediately seeks out a female sub to tell his whole story and somehow thinks he ranks high enough to Personally Apologize for decades of misogyny. Comments all bowing at his feet.And you can just hear a certain sub screenshotting us. Emphasizing 'how we hate man for understanding us'... Those dumb fucks This guy is looking for 'good boii points' for acknowledging one minor way of putting women down. Zum kotsen. (Barf worthy). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 09:24 PM |
| 13 | What was the last straw?1) I don't need that drama No one needs, but imagine being the other party. 2) I don't need to make myself a target to help anyone You are right, but in this day is too easy to do such a thing anonymously. But I feel you on this one.... And such a good thing for us all to remember: informing another lady is a good plan, but protect yourself first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 05:49 PM |
| 22 | What was the last straw?He left me sick and bleeding in my apartment and ignored me for days. I was in shock. Bleeding. Hurt. Couldn't eat, couldn't sleep. Only cry. One day I woke up sooooo incredibly angry, that I promised myself better. I got so much better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 05:46 PM |
| 33 | Pay Attention to How Men Talk/React About Their Ex-gf(s)Exactly this. My fiance's ex wife cheated on him with her boss. He never said bad/emotional things about her. He got himself a rental for 3 months, he left her in the house and have her some money to go away. He blocked her and never spoke to her again. No kids involved. That's the kind of endings I like. We both leave the past in the past. I'm deeply traumatized by my ex's myself, it's hard to not be negative about them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 05:42 PM |
| 25 | Get off of OLD!BS. I found my man there who is the HV'st of HV (check my post history). If you're in a position where you do not meet suitable men: you have no option but to turn to OLD these days. I understand the hassle, frustration and the wasting of time that comes with dating. But that's from dating. Not specifically online dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?without realizing that if everyone did like her then she wouldn't be in the top 5% anymore. Like I could give a rats ass about that 🤣 That's what the insecure, broke, tiny peepee boys care about. Some people have troubles understanding that an outlier data point can't be a trend, because if it were then they'd no longer be an outlier. Same as above. I wish my fellow humans the best. Just one of the many qualities that make me likeable. I'm very lucky and I 100% deserve it, I wish the same for ot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 12:18 PM |
| 0 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?If divorces me, I'm rich. If we break up, I'm single. I don't see negatives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 12:13 PM |
| 6 | N/LVM rarely change. They don’t have good intentions when they try to worm their way back into your life. Don’t be fooled by them or let them trick you into talking. The ONLY way to go is an IMMEDIATE block and delete.Also, I could swear I matched with this one about 1,5 years ago. But he never wounded up on my scrotation, so he must have done or said something wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 11:50 AM |
| 19 | N/LVM rarely change. They don’t have good intentions when they try to worm their way back into your life. Don’t be fooled by them or let them trick you into talking. The ONLY way to go is an IMMEDIATE block and delete.There is a Dutch thing to this, really... I'm still busy writing it down so everyone can understand. But it comes down to this; pickme is the expected and enforced standard, so it's a LVM's paradise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?You are the whiner here, croque monsieur. This is reported income, which is also something very different than the actual income. We have a lot of leechers and abusers in our welfare system as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 12:19 PM |
| 15 | Problems that are beyond the scope of RPW.Don't be a 'forever girlfriend' if you don't want to. There are lots of great men out there who can't wait to commit and start a life with together. If you're just there for convenience sake, it's not strange that he feels more attraction to his game console (or friends, hobbies etc.) than towards you. If he won't commit, find someone who will if that's your goal. Don't stick around waiting for change. It will never come. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/01/21 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?Did you also check the tax system, the extreme shortage of houses and the cost of living in the various provinces? And the lack of job opportunities for fairly high educated people outside of the randstad? 40-60 k will keep you warm in Friesland. It will make you practically homeless in Noord-Holland. You're a joke, croque monsieur🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/21 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?Are you blind? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?not just one to get bored of. You're mistaking me from your mom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Women age like wine, men like milkThere's actualy a mirror behind you and... You can spot his ass in it if you look good. You know what, best of luck to you both. I wish you the utmost happiness and bliss. Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 09:57 AM |
| 2 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?Thanks! I am. We're lucky! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 08:58 AM |
| 2 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?What were her behaviors you qualify as ambitious? My mom was always busy, always aiming for improvement. She also raised us to always do volunteer work and help people in need. If my dad wouldn't have her, he would've never gotten as far as he did. She also organised very big events/fundraisers etc., she collected thousands of Euro's that way. She isn’t an overachiever but she is not lazy and always working for her family. But I would define that as very hard working more so than ambitious. Bein… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 08:58 AM |
| 1 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?Let me break it down for you, dear wallet. In my country, were top 3%. So I would never move to the fattiest fatso country in the world. what are you gonna do to catch that man? You're hilarious, I'm not catching a man, that's counterproductive. are you gonna stay single till one of those 91 percentile pity marries you? I'm engaged, as you can clearly see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?Definitely! We're lucky to have each other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 07:40 AM |
| -1 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?What is this condescension? Exactly what you deserve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?I would love to run the house, and he would love to be the only provider. Nothing wrong with that. We're just not there yet. It’s not tit for tat, it’s both parties sharing the responsibilities in a relationship You get and you give in life. We don't believe in silly things as'50/50' or 'being equals'. We share resources, responsibilities, caring for family members and our pet and such. Equity is key. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?Yes. We each keep the same amount of money from our own salary on our own account, the rest is on a joint account. When we'll start having kids that will change, but we hope to be able to live off our savings, our investments and his salary by then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?You're a teacher (actually student teacher). Factually, but student teacher is at another level here. I have a full-time position. I came from another profession. Not exactly high status or high earning By your definitions Paris Hilton is a broke bitch, then? Not to compare myself to that queen.. But just so we understand each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?No, we pay bills and the mortgage since it's our money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 06:20 AM |
| 2 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?But I dont think it's really that uncommon or unattainable. People need to be willing to work for it though. Exactly this ❤️ Determining goals together, making sacrifices together, it's so important. Believing that your relationship is worth it - contrary to the pessimistic messages from society that seem to imply one has to be totally happy all the time or else the relationship isn't worthwhile - strikes me as an important attribute and it sounds like you have that. Good luck! Thanks! For bette… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 06:18 AM |
| 2 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?Not anymore, but we used to. We're fairly organised and clean people. He hired a cleaning lady, a cook and a dog walker so I can focus on work, school and social. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?60K would keep us warm and fed, but it doesn't leave room for fun. The materialism in the US is off the charts... I'm not in the US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?Now, if you found a man rich enough to do it, more power to you I don't find men. That's counterproductive. And he's very lucky to have me. The fact is most men can't afford it so it is mathematically not an option mpst women will have. A lot of women don't strive for (IMHO) the best and settle for scraps. Convinced they're not worthy of more, no confidence, no pride. Really sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?Where exactly did I say he's richer or has a higher status status than I am/have? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?He hired someone 2 weeks ago. Unrelated field, no connections, but a beautiful CV and he got through all the rounds. Daddy's money, old boys networking or a frat boy attitude means nothing, if anything something negative, to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?No, selling boats is just a personal hobby / side business😉 It's more technical and... Cooler. Comes with special perks. Sales is faggot tier Well, he's turned off by anal and body hair, and very into tits. I don't think that would classify him as a successful homosexual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 05:26 AM |
| 0 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?These MGTOW and incel retards give red pill a bad name. Jealousy is strong with most... This stuff is exactly why I left TRPW/TRP; very inconsistent in just about anything. It doesn't hold up with experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 05:21 AM |
| 2 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?Funny how it just seem te work one way, and the contributions of the wife are always dismissed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 05:17 AM |
| -2 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?does your fiancé know what he’s getting into? You didn't look close enough obviously, because you would've had your answer.. Did I read right that you’re trying to get the rights to own his house, bank account and a divorce if he watches porn? Again. Reading comprehension seems hard.. He knows. And you forgot to say that he also wouldn't have a dick anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 05:14 AM |
| 2 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?Average income is 60k. You're asking the man to pick up overtime or a second job Not if he's a smart man, making good (financial) choices improving their future. Sisters like you I'm not a 'sistah'. Sisters like you are the reason men are happy to be eternal bachelors Most men deserve to be, since they aren't worthy of our time, money, energy; anything! The nerve of you. The audacity of you. You already said that you know women won't agree. I actually feel sorry for the woman that ends up with a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 01:08 AM |
| -2 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?So you'll provide her with a kid (and the body that comes from it), one annual family kid involved vacay, a 1200sq ft house to clean, no restaurants, half a car and no nice gifts? What woman could ever resist such a catch.....! Have fun finding Becky the builder! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 12:45 AM |
| 3 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?But why wouldn't a housewife be ambitious? My mom was a SAHM when we lived at home, very talented in a lot of fields, extremely smart, very social; a badass gorgeous woman. She never pursuit any career or further education, but I've never met a woman more ambitious than her! If I compare her with my friends in the arts, law, consulting, banking etc., I would still classify her as more ambitious than they ever were. My brother and I left 3 years ago. She has a good career now, fulltime on only th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?if you want a traditional housewife you can’t really complain when she gets half the marital assets in a divorce. I think you're right. But why is PPD/RP/Incel feigning 'confusion' about exactly this? Always amazes me! Far healthier for both partners to pay their way. Or you can try being a team so that you can have an actual healthy relationship, instead of tit for tat? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?I see that it's a genuine question. I'll be honest! It's not any quality he's doing it for. I'm more than just some quality or a possession. Just like he isn't my monopoly man or something. We both invest money, time, energy, love and ourselves in our relationship/(after covid) marriage. He provides so I can do anything I love, and I provide so that he can do anything he loves. So it sounds arrogant, but we bring ourselves to the table. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?I turned my life around too actually (went from years of state welfare and heavy depression to a happy top 5% earners in France). Wow! Good job! I admire that. But althought I worked extremely hard and have been very smart about my choices, I must admit I also started with some privileges and a lot of luck. Of course. Our privileges and luck contributed as well, but we also had a lot of misfortune in our (back then; separate) lives. It kinda evens it out in our situation. Life happens, right? We… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 11:56 PM |
| -1 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?It certainly helps thought. Of course! Heck, you can even become president of the USA, you don't even need the education part. I think becoming a president wouldn't be as hard as his hiring process, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 11:51 PM |
| 7 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?Well, that's the beautiful thing. You don't get to tell me what to have or to get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?"Be sure to be born a rich white kid" You don't have to, but it sure does help if you are. Most people I know ended up in stuff like FIRE/investing/entrepreneurship etc. because they turned their life around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 11:48 PM |
| 0 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?What does your partner do? He's sales director in a very specialistic technical field. Short: he's the go-to guy for a lot of luxury brands. 'Daddy's connections' or 'being your typical frat boy' doesn't get you there. Education alone doesn't get you there as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?You are welcome to join my reading classes, kind regards 'sis'! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?I actually got a reward from the board for doing exceptional work regarding financial literacy for less fortunate children. So they know how not to get poor. Being poor, is always better than being an envious feminist.! Internalised misogyny is strong in this one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 11:33 PM |
| 3 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?Why would a guy ever tie himself to a broke woman? Comprehensive reading is very hard for you! Where did I say I was broke exactly? 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 11:30 PM |
| -5 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?You're funny with your <insert Karen voice> 'instead of depending on someone else'. Because I'm a teacher and I love doing what I love😄 Also; you don't know what my bank accounts hold, or what my investments are doing the last few years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 11:26 PM |
| 3 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?It works for us and an idiot wouldn't succeed in his position/career. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 11:18 PM |
| 0 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?Not only career counts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 11:14 PM |
| 0 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?He is the breadwinner, but he will be the solo breadwinner when we're married with kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 11:13 PM |
| -4 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?Nah, he knows what I bring to the table. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?Seems a bit shallow imo I have a lot more standards! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 10:29 PM |
| -1 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?I wouldn't ever be with someone earning less than 100k. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 10:20 PM |
| -1 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?My fiance can't wait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 09:54 PM |
| 0 | Do men in these modern times want to be breadwinners?Im in my early 20's...it's not an option anymore for the majority of us Not if you settle for scraps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Should we pursuit the right person or the ideal person?What is ideal? That's for you to decide for yourself in your life. Can someone turn ideal during a relationship? I think so. Circumstances and people can change, you can change yourself. Can someone not have ideals and get into a relationship and feel surprised? Yeah, when you get older you realize that all those things you clenched onto, aren't as important as you thought. Or are even more important than you used to think before. What is the right person then? That's really subjective. How do p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Evolution of Penile Anatomy points to Multiple Men copulating with the same Woman. Your Reaction.That more of our ancestors should've done that? I'll try! Where's my sandwich though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Evolution of Penile Anatomy points to Multiple Men copulating with the same Woman. Your Reaction.Nah... I'm not some fat american. My 110lbs can handle it, I'm sure 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Evolution of Penile Anatomy points to Multiple Men copulating with the same Woman. Your Reaction.And you can go make me a sandwich. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Evolution of Penile Anatomy points to Multiple Men copulating with the same Woman. Your Reaction.Virginity and an obsession with 'n-count', is based entirely on the male ego 🤣 this is just a proposed theory that even other scientists have disputed as conjecture Ciiting religious sources with an agenda, doesn't make you look wise, but foolish. There's a lot of fools out here... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Why do MRAs ignore that a big number of divorced men don't even want primary custody of their kids?🤣... Another one bites the dust | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 09:54 PM |
| 0 | Women age like wine, men like milkSo are half of the guys on grindr are married too. It would surprise you how many women secretly have someone on the side as well... What's your point? I'm just actually think you might be at least bi. Straight people tend to have inherent bias for the gender they are attracted. Newsflash. Disliking the overwhelming majority of the opposite gender doesn't make you gay 🤣 But if yea trollin, props on good one though, seems to ruffled many feathers here. That's not that hard in incel/RP paradise PP… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Women age like wine, men like milkI'm engaged to a wonderful man who doesn't suck. Just try to better your sucky ass so you won't be as offended. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Evolution of Penile Anatomy points to Multiple Men copulating with the same Woman. Your Reaction.It's disputable science. Not any less than any bogus study about 'N-count'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Why do MRAs ignore that a big number of divorced men don't even want primary custody of their kids?I think you should dive into it a bit more. You're seriously make a fool of yourself... They can take a baby out a real womb, and put it in an artificial womb, so that can start earlier than an incubator 🤣 Perfect for older mothers and mother's with problems carrying to term. Nobody will ever allow a man to get himself a kid, for obvious reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Why do MRAs ignore that a big number of divorced men don't even want primary custody of their kids?Same fuckin' link🤣 From research done in my country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Why do MRAs ignore that a big number of divorced men don't even want primary custody of their kids?Not from conception on forward, Einstein. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 09:49 PM |
| 0 | Women age like wine, men like milkHaha, I've only been to London and Newcastle, that seems to be the case there. Dutchies are seen as beautiful by a lot of countries: we have tall people, a direct way of talking, a lot of blondes/blue-eyed people (while that is changing, though). But you can spot differences between women/men aging quite early here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Women age like wine, men like milkNetherlands | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Women age like wine, men like milkI didn't? I became prettier, more successful and more stable. So did all my girlfriends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 11:23 AM |
| 4 | HVM suddenly displaying traits of LVMI'm with a HVM. But I have no doubt people can change, sometimes overnight, so i think it's important to always keep your guard up.. Your story sounds familiar to my ex. He has a lot of HV qualities; he just isn't a HVM for me since I have grown so much. In your circumstances: consider leaving. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Why do MRAs ignore that a big number of divorced men don't even want primary custody of their kids?But this does. https://www.discovermagazine.com/health/how-close-are-we-to-making-babies-from-bone-marrow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Why do MRAs ignore that a big number of divorced men don't even want primary custody of their kids?We don't need men in a few years. https://www.discovermagazine.com/health/how-close-are-we-to-making-babies-from-bone-marrow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Why do MRAs ignore that a big number of divorced men don't even want primary custody of their kids?I'm not even a fucking feminist 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 09:07 AM |
| 2 | Women age like wine, men like milk100% I'm in my best years for years, and I see myself becoming more beautiful as I age! Can't wait till mid-thirties (I can retire early). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Women age like wine, men like milkI'd rather have some old wine than gross old cheese... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Why do MRAs ignore that a big number of divorced men don't even want primary custody of their kids?They're lining up to do so, so that's not that special. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Why do MRAs ignore that a big number of divorced men don't even want primary custody of their kids?Fine to know that my 6 sentences made such an impression on you, that you felt the need to draw up a TedTalk. Bye bye, sore loser Felicia! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Why do MRAs ignore that a big number of divorced men don't even want primary custody of their kids?slavery was a thing for like, a long while And abolishment started before women had the right to vote... You're just proving my point 🤣 Maybe you can hop on ebay and get yourself that 6ft+ dude with the Subway foot long in his pants and a face to make Henry Cavill cry. That was called Tinder and it worked out great for me! Women like you are what drive men away from the plantation. Keep doing you cystur. Notice how I spelled that with cyst? Are you really trying to insult me by bringing up slave… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Purge PPD is just as bad as FDSPoor girls gold for you 🏅🏆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 09:36 PM |
| 0 | Purge PPD is just as bad as FDSWas it mine then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 09:35 PM |
| 1 | How Many Couples Treat Their Pets Like Kids?We do with our yorkie, we even call each other mom and dad... We're planning on kids after we're married, now that I've seen what a great dogdad he is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 09:34 PM |
| 7 | The Purge ConcludesThank you mods, you're appreciated! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Women age like wine, men like milkAbout the leathery flaps were supposed to call men, above the age of 30? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 09:26 PM |
| 92 | He broke my finger a year ago, and I'm celebrating my freedom and healing with this commitment ring to myself. Long live the rose that grew from concrete!It's beautiful ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Women age like wine, men like milkThe Netherlands.. Ugly people are everywhere, but the difference is astonishing here. But look at celebrity couples.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Why do MRAs ignore that a big number of divorced men don't even want primary custody of their kids?Your gender held my gender barefoot and pregnant for ages. Don't you talk to me about expectations from other mothers, most of them are too exhausted to kick their lazy ass husbands out! It was about men for ages. It is always 'but what about men!!!!'.Times are changing. We are getting more succes; each generation of women deciding to enrich herself instead of being put held down by some loser man, is a step towards freedom for womenkind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 07:53 PM |
| 1 | "You're such a nice guy" is an insult.So that's how I roll 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 05:49 PM |
| 0 | Women age like wine, men like milkBye Felicia!! 👋👋👋 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Women age like wine, men like milkI don't have to, since I can fuck real Chad's that don't have eyes like they smelled something bad permanently... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Women age like wine, men like milkI see, that's why society is in the state it's in, right? 😂 Hilarious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Women age like wine, men like milkMisandrist bitch whatever you say Projecting a bit? Infantile, misogynistic erectile dysfunctioning dog eater? But I seriously doubt you're healthy or you wouldn't be projecting lmfao Haha, you could've known how I look by now if you had any functioning brain cells.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Men talk too much....and why this can be a good thing 😈thank you so much for taking the time!! This is GOLD :D Thank you, I'm happy you liked it! I think now I'm in a better place to only date providers but see it as the bare minimum. He still has to be HV. Spoken like a queen. Being a provider can only do so much... It's the other qualities that make it worthwhile. I'm really really impressed by your vetting process, especially knowing how it is in Europe (my gfs are huge pickmes). It's heaven for PickMe's and scrotes here... That's when I started … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 05:22 PM |
| 0 | Women age like wine, men like milkOh nice a bit of racism sprinkled with misandry lmfao You put emphasis on it, ethnic wannabee Chad 😉 Who's the racist now? its better then whatever dog shit bland food you eat. Someone's projecting haha... My country's dishes and eating pattern is seen as the healthiest in the world, actually. Better than your fattening rice and curry's... You can roll to your job in a few years! It will save you gas money, maybe some woman will voluntarily fuck you one day! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Why do MRAs ignore that a big number of divorced men don't even want primary custody of their kids?So how did you do in labor? The contractions, how hard are they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Women age like wine, men like milkYou know you can mask your smell by using some deodorant and perfume, right? Must be hard, gassing every woman with your curry scent... I sense a lot of projection lol. I'm 110 lbs 😂 Which 'extra weight' exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 04:56 PM |
| 6 | Why do MRAs ignore that a big number of divorced men don't even want primary custody of their kids?Still, the majority of women have solo custody here in the Netherlands as well.... The courts know most men are terrible parents. I wouldn't say guys in general fighting to see their kids are whiny bitches but you certainly are you spinless little shit stain :) ❤️❤️❤️😍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Women age like wine, men like milkDon't blame men for that go and blame your god or nature/evolution. Men are the ones making us pregnant 😂 We are bigger and carry more muscles mass too Most of y'all aren't, but look more like pudding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 04:42 PM |
| 0 | Women age like wine, men like milkI'm not in the US. And not into soy or boys😂 I like them manly man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Why do MRAs ignore that a big number of divorced men don't even want primary custody of their kids?😂😂 Go to your hole fatty mc fatfat. No girl will ever want to fuck a hideous monster like you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Women age like wine, men like milkAlso... Men are usually fatter than women... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Women age like wine, men like milkTrue! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 04:28 PM |
| 5 | Why do MRAs ignore that a big number of divorced men don't even want primary custody of their kids?Better than being a a sad little fatty, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 04:26 PM |
| 17 | "I was a starter wife."- Justine MuskHis daughter got him hooked on pills. That's how the 'manosphere' thinks, at least. You can almost hear them thinking. 'He's an addict, how can we blame a woman?'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Women age like wine, men like milkWe all die and rot away like flesh. But some of them uglier than other. 'Some of them' means; mostly men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Why do MRAs ignore that a big number of divorced men don't even want primary custody of their kids?How's raising a family going for most men? We just don't respect your silly asses no more 😌 You've just reduced yourself to a womb in terms of female value No, you do, and you do you, but I'm not having none of that. And I'm proud of my ability to create life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Why do MRAs ignore that a big number of divorced men don't even want primary custody of their kids?Attempt less, succeed more, men are better at everything. How's making babies going for them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Women age like wine, men like milkLooks like someone felt spoken to.. 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 04:12 PM |
| 4 | Why do MRAs ignore that a big number of divorced men don't even want primary custody of their kids?Taking a bottle of asprin and calling your ex or family and going to the ER for a stomach pump isn't trying to kill yourself. That's also the case for most men. Losers. Do at least one thing right, selfish pig. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Why do MRAs ignore that a big number of divorced men don't even want primary custody of their kids?Men are not entitled enough to want primary custody, they want shared custody No, they want to seem like an involved dad (liars! Most men are liars). While they're still being their terrible selves and the woman is expected to change everything about herself when she becomes a mom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 04:09 PM |
| 7 | This some low value shit lmaoYeah same here... I was getting all argumentative over my cooking 🤣😂 She probably put a bib on him too And wiped his mouth clean after... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Women age like wine, men like milkI truly love getting older, and a lot women with me. I wouldn't want to go back to early 20's or teen years! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 03:59 PM |
| -1 | Women age like wine, men like milkI know there’s this myth that men age better but I’ve never actually seen it. Crazy, right?! Why can't we find those men, but is it a saying? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 03:57 PM |
| 4 | "You're such a nice guy" is an insult.My mom's still getting hit on/whistled at quite regularly and she's 50, she's not missing anything. I would pay good money for douchebags to just leave me alone! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Boyfriend’s Height is a Dick Measuring Contest for WomenChad doesn't fail, what you saw are betas. No, I know where I stand in society 😉 Yea sure a queen of sucking chad's cock. With his ring on my finger, yeah. My Chad's getting sucked whenever and wherever he wants! While I'm queening in all areas of life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 03:45 PM |
| -1 | Boyfriend’s Height is a Dick Measuring Contest for WomenWalk into any frat house where a chad lives and you will see the truth. I've been in those frat houses and I never saw anything resembling that. I saw Chad's trying real hard and mostly failing, as per most guys. Stop thinking of women as little princesses. They are monstrous beings. No, I'm a fucking queen, peasant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 03:41 PM |
| 5 | “Men are protecters” doesn’t mean much to women since men are the ones we need protection fromSo true! Always need to watch my back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 03:31 PM |
| 4 | “Men are protecters” doesn’t mean much to women since men are the ones we need protection fromThe right men protect you from the bad ones.... Not 24/7 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Women age like wine, men like milkI think that's truth as a cow! 🐄 (this is an expression in my country). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 03:29 PM |
| -1 | "You're such a nice guy" is an insult.I love hearing that! Usually I get these after they tried touching me.. Pfff fuck them scrotes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 03:05 PM |
| -3 | "You're such a nice guy" is an insult.If you're an incel, yes. And only because the following: 'but I would never have sex with you', is silent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 03:03 PM |
| -3 | Boyfriend’s Height is a Dick Measuring Contest for WomenMen don't compare anything. Men sleep with all kinds of women. Hahaha, you're funny. You ain't seen nothing yet... Ever tried dating as a woman? 😏 Women are the ones who compare. Why do you think we have gang leaders getting their dick sucked by 5 different women a day ? By whores, which is totally fine IMHO, but they would never do that voluntarily.🤣.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Do you agree with the observation that FDS women buying themselves an engagement ring is the equivalent of an incel buying himself a sex doll?No woman will walk around all smiley faced with her vibrator or dildo 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 02:58 PM |
| 6 | Do you agree with the observation that FDS women buying themselves an engagement ring is the equivalent of an incel buying himself a sex doll?There’s nothing controversial or wrong about buying jewelry or promising to take care of yourself lmao. Taking care of yourself is too high maintenance for incels en RP'ers... It's a good thing that we can notice their ugly smelling asses early on! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Men talk too much....and why this can be a good thing 😈First of all, congrats and you look glowing... Thank you! ❤️☺️ but how on earth did you secure a wonderful man who is the provider kind in the Netherlands? You are so right to notice that it's really hard to date in Europe, especially in the Netherlands (still, still, still working on a post about it, but it's quite difficult...). The thing about the middle east is that these guys are forced by society/culture to act more courteous. Which in itself can be very deceiving when you're on a HVM-hunt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Boyfriend’s Height is a Dick Measuring Contest for WomenMost Dutch people eat potatoes, veggies and some meat. They have breakfast and lunch with bread. I think it could be healthier, but it's much better than what I see all those Americans chewing on.. 😉 Bratwurst is the best, though! 😍 ..I live in the region next to Netherlands..North Germany.. Many Dutch people live there as well, right? Near the border? I never saw a lot of differences in height between Germans or Dutchies. I always kinda had a thing for German guys..! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 12:25 PM |
| 4 | I got me a divorce kitty 😆 Man better treat me better and love me as much as this little guy does to get me to spend time with him 😁 Burmese/Siamese snuggle monkey 💕What a lovely little guy ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 11:50 AM |
| 2 | Boyfriend’s Height is a Dick Measuring Contest for WomenOf course. Hoi! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 11:47 AM |
| 3 | Boyfriend’s Height is a Dick Measuring Contest for WomenIn my country most men are 6'0, we have tall men. A small man raises eyebrows because it's abnormal. How is that a dick measuring contest? I'm 5'5, and a lot of guys had something to say about that. Like I'm some little girl or something 🥴 If women are having a dick measuring contest about height, what do those men have over here? A gnome hunt or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 11:00 AM |
| -6 | Boyfriend’s Height is a Dick Measuring Contest for WomenMen exist to compare their shit to other people's shit. Like; How thicc/skinny their gf is. The douchebags just complain they can't get sex, while other people easily can. Could be how much of a virgin/ho a woman is. They compare their loser scores (aka gaming). How much their useless hobby's cost. How much they control women. How much experience they do/don't have/get to have, and then complain... complain, complain. How small their dick is. Men are really superficial as hell, when you look at … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 10:56 AM |
| 2 | Men talk too much....and why this can be a good thing 😈Yes! I did, and I followed the handbook to the letter. We met through Tinder. Tip; spinning plates is very good for keeping your sanity! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 09:48 AM |
| 1 | We all know the truth ladies...No it will turn to rotten fruit, as displayed on the pic. And the black banana is definitely smaller than the yellow one 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 06:56 PM |
| 88 | The decency: “I have a wife and a gorgeous kid but you’re georgous”Dumped my 5 year boyfriend because I was dating him since 19 and wanted to see what else was available. Now I’m started to regret that. Dating pool is horrible. Oh Gosh. No worries chick, I was in your shoes and I got everything I wanted (and even more) from following FDS! ❤️ Staying with someone who isn't a HVM, is keeping you from actually meeting one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 06:42 PM |
| 3 | Q4 straight women: if you were blindfolded, would you rather get fucked doggystyle by an anonymous woman using a vibrating strap-on with your choice of size or by an anonymous man whose dick had the exact same dimensions?I wouldn't let some stranger blindfold me in the first place. It's a dangerous world for us women out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 05:56 PM |
| 19 | And this folks, is how women went obsoleteHeartbreaking. Can't stop crying 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Why do we give kids and teachers so much time off?So how many days have you taught a classroom in your life exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 05:40 PM |
| 1 | If you wanna smash so badly why don’t you just bang eachother?You are so not OSM.... It's hilarious 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 01:22 PM |
| 2 | We all know the truth ladies...In you eyes I'm promiscuous, I'm sure. I'm getting married in the fall with my CFO fiance. That's just life 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 01:21 PM |
| 29 | My fiancee organised another lovely date in lockdown times! Happy new year ladies ❤️Definitely, if they want to, they will! I'm really happy to share it with all the awesome women over here ❤️ I wouldn't have gotten here if it wasn't for fds! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 12:58 PM |
| 1 | If you wanna smash so badly why don’t you just bang eachother?Broke guys wouldn’t worry about gold diggers. They do. Since most guys are rapidly aging, ugly, controlling little shits by nature. Did I already say that most guys are rapidly aging, ugly, controlling little shits by nature? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 12:56 PM |
| 42 | My fiancee organised another lovely date in lockdown times! Happy new year ladies ❤️Thanks! English is not my first language! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 12:54 PM |
| 3 | We all know the truth ladies...The vast majority of high value men prefer women with more sexual options and experience. You having different personal taste, doesn't discount this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 12:22 PM |
| 3 | Why do we give kids and teachers so much time off?How many days have you taught a classroom in your life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 12:04 PM |
| 6 | If you wanna smash so badly why don’t you just bang eachother?Only broke men complain about 'gold diggers'. The grapes get real sour, when there's no gold to dig 🤣 Guys expecting free therapy en masse.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 12:02 PM |
| 3 | I hate women to deathIt's hilarious everyday! But I specially love purge week! 😍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 12:00 PM |
| 1 | We all know the truth ladies...Sexual successful men aquire sex and relationships easier Not as easy as I aquired that, when I was single 😉 Sausage fest deluxe, wallets flying around like it was Christmas every day! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 11:57 AM |
| 18 | My fiancee organised another lovely date in lockdown times! Happy new year ladies ❤️It tasted so good! This restaurant only serves raclette and fondue, never heard of the place before he took me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 10:37 AM |
| 72 | My fiancee organised another lovely date in lockdown times! Happy new year ladies ❤️Yeah, he arranges lovely dates! He took me to Belgium for our anniversary and we went to Greece for Valentine's last year... Hope lockdown ends soon! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 10:36 AM |
| 36 | My fiancee organised another lovely date in lockdown times! Happy new year ladies ❤️Thank you! ❤️It was awesome. It's a really warm dress.. 😍 So nice when it's cold outside ❄️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (27 December 2020)Just a highly sought after gentleman, like my fiancee ☺️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 09:57 AM |
| 2 | We all know the truth ladies...I've had more sex than you could ever imagine, even with huge dicks, and I'm seriously tighter than I was when I was a virgin 😇 The fraction of different dicks, is training the muscles, which actually makes your pussy tighter. Entering many vagina's, or wanking off, creates friction. Too much of that can lead to many diseases that make your dick unusable and disgusting. https://www.webmd.com/sexual-conditions/guide/sexual-health-male-reproductive-problems-penis-disorders#:~:text=Some%20of%20the%… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 09:56 AM |
| 1 | We all know the truth ladies...I said it's ugly and small. Not that it represents the pictures, there's yummie Chad's for that ☺️ We dislike subhuman cock. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 09:45 AM |
| 2 | We all know the truth ladies...No it's not. I've been there. And it's definitely not. The sex was great, but I was always wondering about other guys and other dicks. Experience made me so much better in every aspect of my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 09:43 AM |
| 3 | We all know the truth ladies...I did, when I finished scissoring your mom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 09:35 AM |
| 3 | We all know the truth ladies...women value men who have more sex. Nope, I think they're sluts and their wallets should be used by everyone in town before we state assign them to put their dick to work in retirement homes, for lonely ladies longing for gross used dick. Incel logik! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 09:33 AM |
| 1 | We all know the truth ladies...No it will become like rotten fruit. But whatever tickles your fancy! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 09:29 AM |
| 1 | We all know the truth ladies...Hihi 😂 You're really funny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 09:28 AM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (27 December 2020)FDS is rapidly growing and we'll all teach our daughters and sons to be of high value. Gen Z, Gen X, Gen A, millennials and even fucking boomers are fucked over by age old strategy 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 12:26 AM |
| 1 | We all know the truth ladies...That's not how the real world works, dear peasant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 12:03 AM |
| 8 | We all know the truth ladies...Wow you have a whole scenario 🤣 My ex and I were together for 8 years, and we fucked at least once but usually three times a day before I dumped him. By your 'logic' I could be able to go camping in my pussy by now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 11:59 PM |
| -1 | We all know the truth ladies...Please check it out early 🙏 This is quite common... More common than women would ever experience with only sex and/or masturbating... https://www.webmd.com/men/peyronies-disease | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 11:54 PM |
| 8 | We all know the truth ladies...And what if she's with the same man during her whole life, but fucks 3 times a day? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 11:50 PM |
| 1 | We all know the truth ladies...Or something like https://images.app.goo.gl/wh8hhmVYzZ94BHMo7 ☺️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 11:48 PM |
| 3 | We all know the truth ladies...We should be friends on OF or any other service with monthly deductions from my oppression accounts I can subscribe to! OF wouldn't ever host your ugly ass, and I'm not supporting sexwork, but you do you ☺️ I think it's a good thing they make you pay like the wallet you are! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 11:44 PM |
| 3 | We all know the truth ladies...Here's an educational video showing you why the pencil sharpener is not essential, but a luxury. https://youtu.be/UhUJSz4__kw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Why are most men so unattractive!?You are really helpful to those losers over here. Bless your heart for that! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Women cum too muchNo wonder. Your father was already complaining about his inferior, genetically transmittied small dick... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 10:41 PM |
| 4 | We all know the truth ladies...Whahaha, I seriously had soda streaming through my nose reading this 🤣 I would love to live in my own vagina! That makes an Amsterdam mortgage unnecessary. It's such a shame, with all the amazing sex and all the amazing schlongs I have encountered I should be able to host the entire city in it! It's such a shame incel/TRP/TBP analogies always fail when held up requirements... My fiancee has trouble even fitting two fingers in. Let's keep practicing, right?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 10:33 PM |
| 7 | We all know the truth ladies...That's a lot of words for 'I can't make a lady cum and I don't know what a vagina is'! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 10:26 PM |
| 3 | We all know the truth ladies...Uh.... Where? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 10:25 PM |
| 5 | We all know the truth ladies...Good job supporting women with your money! Maybe, one day in the future when you're a bit wiser, a woman might actually WANT to voluntarily touch your little pee-pee ☺️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 10:19 PM |
| 12 | We all know the truth ladies.... You have said nothing new, just the same thing we've heard thousands of times over Must sound very familiar to you 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 10:18 PM |
| 2 | We all know the truth ladies...It will never make one touch your rotten fruit. Sorry, not sorry for ya 😘 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 10:17 PM |
| 3 | We all know the truth ladies...A sharpener that sharpeners a lot of pencils, is considered a supreme object. Care for it and it lasts you longer than a lifetime. A pencil that's sharpened a lot, is a quickly dissolving object, leaving an undesirable mess. It's a very good thing for society, that you don't get to use your ugly af little pencil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 10:14 PM |
| 5 | We all know the truth ladies...I always compare vaginas with pencil sharpeners, and penises with pencils. A sharpener that sharpeners a lot of pencils, is considered a supreme object. Care for it and it lasts you longer than a lifetime. A pencil that's sharpened a lot, is a quickly dissolving object, leaving an undesirable mess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 10:11 PM |
| 7 | We all know the truth ladies...Why are you all day complaining about women then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 10:06 PM |
| 13 | We all know the truth ladies...We don't have to question my intelligence with a father like yours. He couldn't even find the capacity to put on a condom and... Here we have you 🥴 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 10:06 PM |
| 5 | Your annual reminder that none of you are entitled to sex.Not entitled, but we will snatch them coins 😌 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 08:42 PM |
| 6 | We all know the truth ladies...News flash; if your parts present rotten fruit, you probably won't get lucky 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 08:28 PM |
| 5 | FDS is for any womanBeauty doesn't equal a good treatment. It makes their inner clown come out. I'm seen as very attractive, and it's mostly downsides tbh... It's just like a text from an ex: it isn't good/praiseworthy to be beautiful. FDS helps enormously! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 08:37 AM |
| 4 | Ladies, what are some of the things women should know about pregnancy and giving birth, but that society keeps quiet on?In my country (the Netherlands) the staff is barbaric to women. Natural birth without any pain medication is set as the standard. Anything other than the standard, is honed about (to your face since Dutch directness). You can't get an epidural just for the simple reason that you are in pain, since they promote 'natural births'. 'Birth plans' are laughed about. I've seen this numerous times. A lot of friends of mine had traumatic births. I'm actually talking with fiancee about stuff like this; I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 04:50 PM |
| 3 | George Clooney was asked if he cooks and in reply he talked about how amazing his wife is.Good that he appreciates her, but the joke about 'how she boils eggs, teehee' grinds my gears. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 04:31 PM |
| 12 | Does anyone have a story about leaving someone who wasn’t abusive or terrible, but just wasn’t quite HV enough?Yeah, I was with my ex for 8 years. He is a good man, a lot of people told me I was crazy for dumping him. This guy was good, I still consider him a dear friend, but he just wasn't for me. He was of low value, without being a douche or a dipshit, and I deserve more. A lot more. My life was so shitty at that point. No good job, no chance for better education, too close to my parents' house and living in de wrong city. Since then, my life made a complete turn around. I found a guy who really is on… | /r/askFDS | 31/12/20 09:19 AM |
| 18 | Men talk too much....and why this can be a good thing 😈Good question and the answer is don't 😉 Don't ever ask for anything unless he's your husband. Compare it to sales. What do we buy? The things we need. OR the things someone convinced us we need. So.. You do the damsel in distress LIGHT, to convince him that you're in need of something. You make light hearted jokes about what you need (a bag, shoes, something for your hobby/house; anything). Praise men who spoil their girlfriends. Make sure that he knows you have men providing for you, if he isn'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 05:47 PM |
| 25 | Men talk too much....and why this can be a good thing 😈He fixed a ton of stuff in my apartment, he gave exactly the amount of attention I longed for but the independence I also need. He took me on dates, paid for them. He didn't push for sex as fast as he could. He helped me arrange my return to college. He booked a vacation. He showed me what we could accomplish as a team. He understood my trauma's because he shares a lot of the same background as well (our ex's coerced us in the same toxic ways before). He showed me that being single (which I enjo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 03:40 PM |
| 50 | Think long and hard before dating a gamer😂😂DENZEL QUINCY CROCKER! I'm dead. I'm calling them crockers from now on 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 12:32 PM |
| 16 | Any Powerful Men (like CEOs) that married DreamGirl? Or do these men just chase after status and bangmaids?If you’re going to play the game, you better be DAMN good at it. Play only to win. Hihi, I was one 😉 I've sucked them dry, since I knew what I was doing. But man, it was a pain in the ass conversing with those old, ugly 'I think I'm soooo special' kinda guys... Couldn't deal with them anymore so u quit. I will never make even 3k a month with my job and I'm ok with that. Not to mention!!! These women are underpaid!!!! 5k a month? No thanks, I make more than that at my day job lol If they even get… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 11:05 AM |
| 105 | Men talk too much....and why this can be a good thing 😈Yes! Do this! I would even advice you to take it a step further... 👸 I needed a clean drain in my apartment, so i matched with plumber who fixed it for me. I needed a new job asap, so I matched with a director in that field to tell me everything I need to know. He even got me a job. I needed some clothes, so i matched with an executive for Zara and got myself a whole new wardrobe. I needed new sunglasses, so I matched with a guy who was an luxury items entrepreneur. I own a couple of cool ray-ba… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 10:29 AM |
| 34 | Any Powerful Men (like CEOs) that married DreamGirl? Or do these men just chase after status and bangmaids?Although I do not agree with going into wh*ring yourself out (for obvious reasons!), I advice everyone to take a look there for educational reasons. These men are looking for a wh* re, but not just a whore because 'those are gross', but a 'special wh* re' . She needs to be a wh* re, but only for them. They hope to lure women in for $400 a month and demand to see you everytime their dick is hard, then call it an relationship. They also prefer calling it a relationship over an 'arrangement'. Their… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 09:33 AM |
| 2 | As a woman looking to leave red pill concepts behind me: FDS isn't the answer to my problemsThere are major differences between the two, but this doesn't deny the major overlaps. How is a dating strategy like FDS, classically taught from older to younger women, overlapping a tactic like RP? RP teaches men to hurt already vulnerable women, to only care about their little pee-pee. RP teaches women to be a PickMe extraordinaire while focussing on shallow qualities. FDS teaches women to do whatever and whomever they want, but without pandering to man and the demands of society. I've been t… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/12/20 07:01 PM |
| 44 | Hey I just want to say I've stopped letting people intimidate me over having high standards. Sometimes their comments that I expect too much would make me question myself... but now I realized I either stay genuine to my needs, or get in a relationship that will not last.I've been called a cold hearted, gold digging bitch for having BASIC standards so many times. Even by my own 'friends' and 'family'. It made me doubt myself and feel insecure. And then I would visit FDS to get my self esteem back (since I lacked it so much....). But it all worked out. And I'm glad I didn't listen to those people. Remember: misery loves company. Aim for the stars. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 10:47 AM |
| 19 | Don’t give away your love too easily.I feel for you sis'. Don't feel too bad over it. 2 years ago I thought I had hit rock bottom, didn't even feel the need to live anymore since I was so hurt... But I have my happy continuing now ☺️ (happy endings seems so definitive). Follow. The. Handbook. ❤️ It will all come in time! Good luck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 10:40 AM |
| – | As a woman looking to leave red pill concepts behind me: FDS isn't the answer to my problemsThere are major differences between RP/Incels and r/femaledatingstrategy. Especially since the Redpill comes from a place of scarcity and FDS from an abundance mindset. I'm a former red pill chick myself, and I totally found my place there. Even though I'm not a feminist per say. There are some things I had to get used to. Like calling each other 'Queen' and pointing out dusty men (aka s crotes). But it grew on me as my life experience grew and I saw that my way of thinking was wrong. And since … | /r/ExRedPill | 29/12/20 10:17 AM |
| 6 | Setting boundariesSLOWLY stop doing things, and pull back a bit. That should make him work. If it doesn't, that's your answer right there. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/12/20 07:39 PM |
| 31 | Ladies this guy is on to your games! He knows you want to dig his gold and he will NOT stand for it.Genuine question. Does this hold up in court in the states? I'm in the Netherlands, and I'm working on my pre-nup with my dad's lawyer. My HV man told me to protect myself and my assets before marriage: in any way I see fit and he will comply 😍 I tried to put in a clausule that if he cheats on me, watches porn or has a baby with another woman; that I have the right to kick him out immediately and that I'm the full owner of the house and bank account from then on. The lawyers straight up told me … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 10:21 AM |
| 17 | Whyyy...I don't even want to know what the options are for this depraved scenario.I've been bombarded by those ads too. I will report them as well! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Men aiming for marriage should avoid women with high N counts. How to recognise them?i have problems getting the highest quality women That's understandable because we despise losers like yourself just as much as the 'male feminists'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 11:57 PM |
| 2 | Men aiming for marriage should avoid women with high N counts. How to recognise them?Exactly this. Being obsessed over N-count is really childish when there's so much more important stuff to discover about each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Men aiming for marriage should avoid women with high N counts. How to recognise them?Serve me or die. It’s a good summary of the modern women’s attitude towards men. Sounds familiar, right? Men have done this for CENTURIES. Why would you be with someone who doesn't serve you well? If I'm taking care of him, he damn well should be taking care of me. You think you know, but you are really just seeking out men to confirm your view and justify your behaviour. And there's plenty of high value men who agree with me. I'm in the happy circumstances to be surrounded by good, hard working… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Men aiming for marriage should avoid women with high N counts. How to recognise them?Exactly this, true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 11:31 PM |
| 0 | Men aiming for marriage should avoid women with high N counts. How to recognise them?I think you should start your journey off by gaining knowledge on the difference between correlation, causation and straight up blabbering like a dumbass. Some things those 'studies' (blog posts usually aren't studies) also said, which guys like you are eager to forget are...: Women who had between 5 and 20 partners had LOWER divorce rates, than those with 1 to 4 partners. If a man has more partners, the more likely he is to report he's unhappy in his marriage. Same is true for women, but there … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Men aiming for marriage should avoid women with high N counts. How to recognise them?Getting what you deserve is natural selection at its finest. But that's a tough pill to swallow for low/negative value guys and girls.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 09:17 AM |
| 2 | Men aiming for marriage should avoid women with high N counts. How to recognise them?It does matter, it's natural selection doing its wonderful work! We don't want any more losers/incels/douchebags being fathers and contaminating society even further. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Men aiming for marriage should avoid women with high N counts. How to recognise them?I know what's important to the good guys, the rest can go to war and die for all I care🙂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 08:24 AM |
| 2 | Home made Tinder experiment: FDS vs simps edition.Damn, that's an extremely bad profile text for an FDS lady. We would never ever use such a shitty profile. My profile had on average 6000 likes per day (I had Gold since I'm intrigued by data). Never texted first. I could have multiple dates per day if i wanted to: like practically all FDS ladies. I met my fiancee through Tinder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/20 08:45 PM |
| 15 | What a way to break up.Agreed, the block and delete is the most powerful tool we have 💅👑 But. She looks pretty, she has humor and I would pay a pretty prize to have left my ex in a house of stinky shrimps! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 06:59 PM |
| 6 | Men aiming for marriage should avoid women with high N counts. How to recognise them?For some people that disparity creates a bit of resentment. In my experience, those guys have problems: huge issues with their self esteem and controlling behavior. There are also men who are emotionally weak and inexperienced so they’ll stay with someone that they’re not sure about because it’s better than nothing. A (mentally) weak man without experience couldn't stand a chance with a a confident, educated, feminine and experienced lady. Weak and inexperienced guys don't deserve someone to sta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/20 05:58 PM |
| 9 | Men aiming for marriage should avoid women with high N counts. How to recognise them?If he didn't knew already, he wouldn't have proposed 😉 I'm a bit more experienced, we both know that. It never was an issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/20 05:40 PM |
| 6 | Men aiming for marriage should avoid women with high N counts. How to recognise them?This is dumb 'pilled talk' from a bunch of douches fearing the (sexual) experiences of women. They're so afraid and insecure of being a disappointing bed partner, they need to make up bs claims like this. Good way to make sure she hasn't tasted better before, right... 🤣 It's pathetic. More experienced women know what they want and recognize controlling and abusive behavior. They know their worth, wants and goals. I was such a virgin girl in my first relationship (8 years together, before I dumpe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/20 04:05 PM |
| 17 | I just realized that "nOT aLL mEN" includes male family members and I'm floored.True, but there is usually at least someone HV in their life (extended family or chosen family, like friends). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 10:17 PM |
| 33 | I just realized that "nOT aLL mEN" includes male family members and I'm floored.It does. And his family will rock your world too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 09:14 PM |
| 6 | YouTube Dating Coaches creating PickmesIn my country they are implying that she is the cheater! 🥴😂🤢 Typical, I live in PickMeNation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 11:35 AM |
| 11 | In the spirit of the holidays... What is the most OTT gift you gave to a man who absolutely did not deserve it?❤️ Thanks, I'm happy I'm here to be with kind women like you all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 11:41 PM |
| 11 | In the spirit of the holidays... What is the most OTT gift you gave to a man who absolutely did not deserve it?Thank you ❤️ I will! Happy holidays ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 11:41 PM |
| 201 | In the spirit of the holidays... What is the most OTT gift you gave to a man who absolutely did not deserve it?My parents and me gifted my xbf a really luxurious toolkit (€800). We wanted to gift him something really nice since I was pregnant (unplanned) and I was very emotional and unsure. He said he would stay with me whatever I'd choose. That he would support me. Fast forward to new years day: he got a hold of abortion pills (which I declined) forced me to take them and two days later when I started bleeding, he dropped me off at my apartment and practically left me for dead. He gifted me a balloon fa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 04:46 PM |
| 8 | Oxytocin, pair-bonding and casual sex: does a high n-count impairs women's ability to keep a relationship?You don't NEED to pair bond with anyone you have sex with, you know? For a matter of fact the person can fuck 50 people casually, and still have zero relationship experience... | /r/ExRedPill | 23/12/20 08:05 AM |
| 13 | Oxytocin, pair-bonding and casual sex: does a high n-count impairs women's ability to keep a relationship?People always come up with the 'lock and key analogy': ' A key that opens many locks is a master key, yet a lock that is opened by many keys is a shitty lock.' I usually respond with the pencil and sharpener analogy:' A sharpener can sharpen thousands of pencils and still work, a pencil can only be sharpened so many times before it's completely useless.' | /r/ExRedPill | 23/12/20 06:37 AM |
| 3 | Oxytocin, pair-bonding and casual sex: does a high n-count impairs women's ability to keep a relationship?Why? | /r/ExRedPill | 23/12/20 06:30 AM |
| 1 | "Men in real life don't care about N count because I rarely get asked about it" - why this logic is very flawedSo you're the local towns bicycle, and you definitely care about that. But you would shame your girl for that same behavior? Sir Slutalot, may I present to you: your own double standard? 😉 If you're really masculine, you don't need to put emphasis on that stuff since you'd be secure enough with yourself and your manhood to not care about any others/former lovers. It simply doesn't matter anymore when you're an adult with healthy self esteem, may it be a woman or man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 10:36 PM |
| 19 | Single dads are not more attractiveExactly this! 'Who's gonna pay for all that shit, crusty looking dad bod sir?!' 🤣🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 01:37 PM |
| 1 | "Men in real life don't care about N count because I rarely get asked about it" - why this logic is very flawedYou slut 😉❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 10:59 AM |
| 3 | "Men in real life don't care about N count because I rarely get asked about it" - why this logic is very flawedThis post screams insecurity to me... Live a little. Try not to be obsessed with what and who was in you gf/date/wife's pussy, before you. Just like women usually don't care that much about which porn you masturbate to, or want to know all the strange places you put your schlong in one time in life🥴 When I started dating while I was a virgin, I got asked the 'N-count'-question a few times. I instantly dumped them. Not because the answer isn't pretty, but the question itself is that ugly. My moth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 09:38 AM |
| 2 | Christie Smythe is the ULTIMATE pickmeisha to top all pickmeishas!!! 💯💯💯🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️That's gross 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 08:33 AM |
| 13 | Why do men think photos of them posing beside luxury cars that don’t belong to them is attractive.My boyfriend is a high up at a luxurious car brand. That means we get a new car every single month/two months maximum, and then they sell the car and he gets a brand new one straight from the factory. I'm talking cars worth more than our houses. He's really humble about it and treats his cars with respect. He always tells me that it's a nice extra with the job, but it certainly has is downsides as well. I think that's some HV quality. He always tells me to enjoy it to the fullest, so i make pict… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 08:22 AM |
| 75 | Single dads are not more attractiveI'm mid twenties, I have no kids with my fiancee yet. I always hated single dads. It's so obvious their ex is doing the hard work, and the single dads are just enjoying the fun parenting stuff.. I applaud single moms, but I ignore single dads like the plague! I even had it on my Tinder: I don't like failed father's, husbands or divorcees, don't make me come across one and go be with your family. It would surprise you, how many fucktards still tried to have contact with me. They were extremely of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 08:01 AM |
| 1 | The earlier part of the video (not shown on this clip but what I saw that led me to this one) said that they'd met online 10 days ago...I would rather end such a friendship.. If they place an online love interest of 10 days over me, they can't be a friend; that's your enemy right there. And why would you film such a disaster waiting to happen? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 12:51 PM |
| 4 | The earlier part of the video (not shown on this clip but what I saw that led me to this one) said that they'd met online 10 days ago...I think it's so sad for her, what terrible friends let her do that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 11:27 AM |
| 2 | 'Us men, we are hunters. The harder the challenge, the grater the reward'. 'Thats why we see her as a prize'. Someone really stamped on this scrotes 👌tiny peepee by simply being desirable and sought after🤣❤️ thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 09:48 PM |
| 8 | 'Us men, we are hunters. The harder the challenge, the grater the reward'. 'Thats why we see her as a prize'. Someone really stamped on this scrotes 👌tiny peepee by simply being desirable and sought after🤣O I see! English is my fourth language so sometimes I read it totally different than how it's meant! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 02:38 PM |
| 10 | 'Us men, we are hunters. The harder the challenge, the grater the reward'. 'Thats why we see her as a prize'. Someone really stamped on this scrotes 👌tiny peepee by simply being desirable and sought after🤣How is she low value? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 02:33 PM |
| 3 | A TRUE, HARSH and BRUTAL STORY. ( NO CHASING WOMEN. NO GIFTS. NO FREE ATETION....NO NO NO). Read what happens when you do those things.They are... Always. | /r/seduction | 16/12/20 12:45 PM |
| 37 | I know I'm probably late to the party but my friend and I finally learned that being a HVM has ZERO correlation with someone's education, career, statue etc.I really think you need a reread of the handbook. FDS is all about explaining why money, power or status doesn't make a HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 10:55 AM |
| 145 | 'Us men, we are hunters. The harder the challenge, the grater the reward'. 'Thats why we see her as a prize'. Someone really stamped on this scrotes 👌tiny peepee by simply being desirable and sought after🤣'I was dating a girl' , 'it was actually a relationship'. This is the FWB/ONS, being angry about not being the bf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Promising Young Woman coming out this Christmas. The movie's about a woman's revenge on rapists and a reckoning of the social structures that perpetuate rape culture .I have no idea, but I have seen this movie about half a year ago on Netflix, I think. I loved it but I remembered it had a weird ending. Im in the Netherlands, for those who are wondering. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 08:29 PM |
| 5 | Stumbled upon this gem today, I have no words!Exactly this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 03:55 PM |
| 27 | Stumbled upon this gem today, I have no words!I always told my ex that if he wouldn't marry me when I became pregnant, the child would have my name and he would have nothing to do with it. That scared the mf really bad. After eight (!) years of being together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 06:22 AM |
| 9 | Have any of you ever left a serious relationship because the man lacked ambition?You already know you need to dump him. I broke up my 8 year relationship with my ex for exactly this reason. He's definitely not a bad guy. He had a very standard job, was capable of much more but he just didn't have the ambition. He thought both of us could work when we had children (out of wedlock since weddings 'are a waste of money'). It's not our job to be a therapist. Flash forward, 4 years, I'm thriving. I have a good job, I got my ass back in college.. I've met a man who would jump throu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 06:30 AM |
| 3 | This made me snort with laughterBreadsplaining 😂🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 10:03 AM |
| 7 | If your man’s place looks like this - run. Don’t walk. That apartment is a reflection of his inner state.Exactly this ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 09:30 AM |
| 6 | How many years do you count?I think so too! ❤️ I tried adding more ages, but I was limited in the polling options... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 08:47 AM |
| 7 | How many years do you count?Same here, same age and all❤️ I would like every girl to have access to all FDS wisdom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 08:34 AM |
| 5 | How does a HVW act when running into a LVM ex?We'll do a polite wave to the unworthy peasant, and we continue our path. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 10:24 PM |
| 3 | Asking a guy his 'porn preference' 🤡I mean, unless he's streaming porn in front of me or I'm going through his internet history, I will have no way of knowing. Every girl will get a phone handed to her some point in time. Is she doesn't than that's an orange flag.. And I'm personally not comfortable snooping through anyone else's personal property. In this day, age and dating culture? I think every girl needs to find her inner CIA agent rather sooner than later... A lot of guys stream porn on their own time and keep their social m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Asking a guy his 'porn preference' 🤡would asking this question be a good way to weed out men who watch porn? No. They can do to many gymnastics with that and giving them leverage is not smart. Your described options are very accurate. how to weed out porn-watchers as quickly as possible without teaching them how to manipulate others? This one only needs a clock (aka: time). Watch him for some time and you'll find out. Does he stream porn? Does he have a collection (downloads/DVD's and such)? How is he on social media, is he follow… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 06:07 PM |
| 151 | PickMe LifeThis is awesome 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 05:10 PM |
| 3 | What are some high effort dates that your boyfriends are doing during the pandemic?We go on walks with the puppy he got us. He orders home menus from star restaurants once a week so we can feel like we have date nights at home. We're also busy looking for our dream house. We go boating (but it's too cold now). He introduced me to golf since that's practically the only sport we can do these times, so he got me a brand new set of clubs in a beautiful pink bag with a huge ass crown on it. He's awesome ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 08:16 AM |
| 12 | Facts. I’m shocked that I even gave certain men the time of day.Yeah, I hate 99,9% too. Thank you for your wishes. I actually got the world, since then. I've risen so far above him and got everything I ever wanted ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 10:00 AM |
| 18 | Facts. I’m shocked that I even gave certain men the time of day.Thanks. No worries, I picked myself together and achieved a lot ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 09:59 AM |
| 9 | Facts. I’m shocked that I even gave certain men the time of day.Thanks. No worries, I picked myself together and achieved a lot ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 09:58 AM |
| 75 | Facts. I’m shocked that I even gave certain men the time of day.He forced me (violently) to abort our child, and I still hadn't seen enough. I hope he dies alone and soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 09:29 PM |
| 4 | No, biology doesn't say that you "should" reproduce / spread your genesExactly this. They are só delusional.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.Why would you involve my beauty in the thread you started by calling me 'awful'? 😂 Don't forget to take your meds tonight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 04:43 PM |
| 30 | People who say their partner is HV before 6 month in, and people in here supporting it?I'm with a HVM and I support this. But I do have to say that his high value qualities where spotted very early. You just can't ever trust a man. You can't even trust your fam & friends. There's only one person in the way that will truly always be there for you in the end; it's yourself. I love my HVM. He has such a great character and everything is great. But life told me to be cautious. You never know when the tables turn, or when a storm will turn your life on its head. It's always good to be … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 04:38 PM |
| 10 | Scarcity vs. Abundance Mindset: What's your approach?It's such a shame when a beautiful D is attached to a clown.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 04:34 PM |
| 5 | Scarcity vs. Abundance Mindset: What's your approach?Exactly this, that's why there's a need for LVM/LVM to put us down when we're dating someone new ('N-count' and such). It's in their best interest to do so. A HVM will work for you EVERY. DAY. OF. THE. YEAR. and some more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.You sound dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.Dayum, he asked about how other guys fucked you? Yeah, he wanted details otherwise I 'wasnt honest'. No problem, but don't be butthurt over normal sexual relationships then. Mind you, he wasn't a virgin as well. religious people will be more critical of sexual history and I can respect that (I’m catholic myself, not a good one but I try truly to be my best) Hi fellow catholic 😉 I don't believe my standards about sexual history are that much higher than my non religious friends. I do believe pers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.There is the all too common 'men have it so much worse' comment. Why would you have sympathy for someone that stupid and childish? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 04:16 PM |
| 53 | Scarcity vs. Abundance Mindset: What's your approach?Always have an abundance mindset. It attracts men and encourages them to step up their game constantly. And you know dick is abundant. You got to love you and let yourself deserve the best. The HVM you're seeing isn't for you. He's the placeholder for the relationship you're looking for. But that isn't the deal. You gotta let that guy find you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 03:46 PM |
| 28 | Currently diagnosed with cancer and struggling with exI have no advice. But know that you're worth more than a douchebag like that. Glad to read that you're released from that chunk of human shite, so you can focus on your health. You have a sub full of support right here ❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 03:41 PM |
| 4 | Couples with unbalanced sexual histories.I was with such a 'wholesome church going guy' for about 8 months. When I was 23 and he was 27 (we're both 3 years older now). I just don't see how I ever dated such a guy!🤪 He was ALWAYS jealous, insecure, wanted to talk about other guys who fucked me and how. Whenever I see someone obsessed with 'N-count'; I think about his immature ass. He would always focus on my sexual en relationship history and made me 'explain myself'. He would feel really insecure about his dick, other guys checking me … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/20 07:38 AM |
| 3 | What are your thoughts on this ladies, would you divorce him?I love this chick and her family. They sure kicked some NV ass! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 07:48 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on this ladies, would you divorce him?Haha I'm dead 🤣😂 It's better to pee on their clothes/phones. Establish dominance and such. Then we divorce. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 07:47 PM |
| 8 | i think my eyes rolled back so far i saw my brain.True, same here. Found my HVM on Tinder. And if you're in an occupation where there aren't HVM (or any man) to be found, it's damn hard to let a guy find me. I don't drink alcohol, so going out is a real bummer because of all the intoxicated men... I understand the frustration with OLD, but IMHO it is as frustrating as IRL dating. Happy cake day! 🎂🍰🎈🎇 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 02:49 PM |
| 6 | How was your experience dating/marrying Engineers?My ex was a mechanical lead engineer for the yachting industry. There's no one in this world who has gotten to me in such a god awful way.. MacGyver in all aspects of life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 11:27 AM |
| 7 | My tinder experimentAs someone that matched everyone she swiped right on: yes, being an attractive lady is overwhelming and it would drive any man nuts. The thing is; the offers are usually not that great. There's a lot of trash men on Tinder. It's about quality. Not quantity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/20 09:28 PM |
| 5 | 'My daughter had an abortion. Her bf did some decent things: he is a true HERO now. And if she ever might break up with him, I won't hold a grudge to her about it.' Imagine this as your mother 🤮 Poor girlThat was the universe telling you how bad of a man your ex was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 09:29 AM |
| 44 | 'My daughter had an abortion. Her bf did some decent things: he is a true HERO now. And if she ever might break up with him, I won't hold a grudge to her about it.' Imagine this as your mother 🤮 Poor girlYeah, he's really anti-bs and pro women empowerment so he was as shocked as I am.. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 10:35 AM |
| 107 | 'My daughter had an abortion. Her bf did some decent things: he is a true HERO now. And if she ever might break up with him, I won't hold a grudge to her about it.' Imagine this as your mother 🤮 Poor girlMy man just reacted: 'I'm surprised the mother didn't try to suck his dick, poor daughter. Imagine your little girl going through that and have her mom brag about her LV bf'. I'm dead 😂. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 10:26 AM |
| 49 | 'My daughter had an abortion. Her bf did some decent things: he is a true HERO now. And if she ever might break up with him, I won't hold a grudge to her about it.' Imagine this as your mother 🤮 Poor girlIt's really sad. That girl is so f"d up. Hope she sees through all that bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 10:08 AM |
| 258 | 'My daughter had an abortion. Her bf did some decent things: he is a true HERO now. And if she ever might break up with him, I won't hold a grudge to her about it.' Imagine this as your mother 🤮 Poor girlIt's really shocking to me. That bf is regarded as a king in that household for bringing her snacks, drinks, coming to Thanksgiving dinner and watching TV with her. He made your little girl pregnant, you cow of a mom! Can the bar drop ANY lower? Or is this it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 10:02 AM |
| 121 | Reminder that words mean nothing, always pay attention to their level of effort through actions.My ex used to do this after we had a really traumatic break-up. Every Thursday I would get a text, we would enter a convo and I would have 'hope'. On Friday and Saturday I would be happy that he reached out to me. On Sunday I started to worry. On Monday I would be sad and crying. On Tuesdays I was mad, and would vow to myself to never have contact with him again. On Wednesdays I would feel really strong. On Thursday I would get another message and the cycle would start all over again. It lasted … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 08:56 AM |
| 27 | What do you do if he doesn’t call when he says he will?We pull out ye old 'block and delete'. | /r/askFDS | 26/11/20 07:27 AM |
| 3 | The transformation of a pickmeishaI'm really happy for you ❤️ Good luck. There's only up hill now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 06:40 AM |
| 8 | Pickmeisha hasn’t figured out her boyfriend is never going to propose after being with him for 5 yearsI feel this girls pain and desperation, I recognize it. I'm really happy that I left that twat when I was 23 and had time/room to grow. She's in so deep... Poor thing ❤️ Hope sis finds FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Women are not 'complicated' - they almost always make it very obvious if they like a man'If they give sex, forced by biology...'. I think that's clear enough right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/20 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Hooking up and doing ONS on the side while in the beginning stages of dating a real relationship prospect😂 Am as humiliated and embarrassed like your mom is proud to see your replies... Have fun there 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/20 04:13 PM |
| 3 | 'Before I respect you, I want to know all aspects of you. Let's exchange detailed photos of us physically'. My best friend found this gem in the wild 😂Boeren met een godscomplex. Niet te doen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 07:26 AM |
| 1 | 'Before I respect you, I want to know all aspects of you. Let's exchange detailed photos of us physically'. My best friend found this gem in the wild 😂I was involved in being a scout and scout leader some time. There sure are some weird, ugly, dangerous pedo's in scouting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 07:25 AM |
| 4 | 'Before I respect you, I want to know all aspects of you. Let's exchange detailed photos of us physically'. My best friend found this gem in the wild 😂Inderdaad. Optiefen gauw! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Hooking up and doing ONS on the side while in the beginning stages of dating a real relationship prospectI took you 9 days to come up with such an uninformed, dumb reply? Are you 8 years old? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/20 06:48 AM |
| 15 | When your values and self worth are the same price as a Chanel bag...She looks high. And such an ugly bag. This girl has a lot of learning to do.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 06:43 PM |
| 12 | DON'T close convo's with a X or ❤️🥰👄💋🌹😘Exactly this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 06:34 PM |
| 52 | DON'T close convo's with a X or ❤️🥰👄💋🌹😘I had a guy who had the audacity to say that it was good that my mouth was already a bit open... 🤮 That's when I pulled out the old 'block & delete' 👍🏻. I always thought: just a duckface.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 06:00 PM |
| 0 | Women are not 'complicated' - they almost always make it very obvious if they like a manI like dicks too much ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/20 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Women are not 'complicated' - they almost always make it very obvious if they like a manMy boyfriend legit didn't talk to me for two days after a fight we had a few months back. He only does it because he knows he can get away with that. It's a matter of respect. If my fiancee would do that, he would live to regret that the rest of his life. Please blink 3 times if you need help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/20 06:32 AM |
| 14 | Women are not 'complicated' - they almost always make it very obvious if they like a manWhy are you talking about sex like it's something for the men to 'take' and the women to 'give'? Sex isn't something done TO women (well, not if you're a good lover actually 😂). Consent and participation are hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/20 06:26 AM |
| 8 | Do redpill cult leaders and pua coaches actually believe what they say or it's all about scamming inexperience naive gullible men?They themselves are inexperienced, naive and gullible men. In the land of the blinds, is one-eye king. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/11/20 07:51 PM |
| 14 | Found one ya’lls boyfriend, time to make him an ex.Wat a sad, sad man. Sis', if you're out here; dump that piece of shit HARD. Looks how he talks about you, this is revolting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 06:31 AM |
| 4 | How many men are on your blocked list?97, the rest was from my PickeMeDays, I'm which I just removed their number from my phone without blocking them (stupid, don't do just that). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 06:24 AM |
| 17 | I got married, queens! ❤Congratulations! ❤️🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Marriageable men do care about N-countMy fiancee couldn't care less and laughs about men/women who value that. When someone asked me during a date: it was a deal breaker, and I have a low 'N-count'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/20 03:26 PM |
| 5 | Is it bad of me to really want Karma to strike my ex hard multiple times?No worries, just try to preoccupy yourself. Sometimes I dream that my ex gets hit by a car. Or that he has a terrible tumor. Or that his dick falls off randomly. All sorts of happy dreams. But it's very LVbehavior, try to temper it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 02:46 PM |
| 11 | Thoughts on AbortionMy bc stopped working due to antibiotics. I had a coerced abortion, since my bf at the time got hold of the pills for a medical abortion (through my own fucking GP) and he literally forced me to take them. Although I'm happy that I'm not still stuck to that POS, I feel terrible about my abortion (which I didn't want in the first place). And I think abortion should be regulated strict (woman is boss in her own belly, no one may interfere). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 01:47 PM |
| 13 | How to end a text conversation?Always end on a high note and leave room for wonder. 'I really love to keep talking, but I have something planned for now. Talk to you later 😉🌸'. DON'T send emojis like: 🥰❤️😍😏 | /r/askFDS | 15/11/20 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Stop calling Jason Momoa a HVM. He's lowest of the LVMS.Nanopenis 🤭😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 08:00 AM |
| 6 | I ended a 6 year relationship with my first serious BF❤️ You can do it, rock on sis! You only see the pain at this moment. But I can guarantee you that within a few months, your only train of thought is gonna be: 'how could I take that for that long? I'm a damn strong woman'. I'm really excited for you. About all the stuff you're gonna learn and all the opportunities that will arrive shortly! ☺️ | /r/askFDS | 14/11/20 09:06 PM |
| 11 | I ended a 6 year relationship with my first serious BFHi, no worries, you certainly did the right thing. It's a tough decision and you made it gracefully. You deserve much better. You made room for better options. Life will show you them, now you've some room for that. Breathe, if that's all you can do then that's an awesome job already. Time will heal you. I had a 8 year relationship that was kinda the same. We didn't spoke for about a year, and after that we both came to the realization that we just weren't made for each other. We're friends now … | /r/askFDS | 14/11/20 08:40 PM |
| 1 | You ladies have literary/cinematic women who are prime examples of this sub?I love me some HV🍆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 04:23 PM |
| 6 | I have taken a dive in the red pil because of the way feminism is presenting itself lately. I've found that it's turning me bitter. But I don't necessarily think their points are all wrong. Here for a second opinion on itThere is help available for you, no worries!!! Good luck! | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/20 04:20 PM |
| 6 | I have taken a dive in the red pil because of the way feminism is presenting itself lately. I've found that it's turning me bitter. But I don't necessarily think their points are all wrong. Here for a second opinion on itI'm a 'feminist', like you're 'smart and articulated' 😂 | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/20 04:09 PM |
| 6 | I have taken a dive in the red pil because of the way feminism is presenting itself lately. I've found that it's turning me bitter. But I don't necessarily think their points are all wrong. Here for a second opinion on itCan you also give some intellectual input or is this your standard? 😂 Hilarious. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/20 03:41 PM |
| 3 | Never laugh about a joke on your own expense, they'll mistake your laughter fro compliance. Make them explain themselves.Love it!! I'll take it with me and try it out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 02:59 PM |
| 6 | I have taken a dive in the red pil because of the way feminism is presenting itself lately. I've found that it's turning me bitter. But I don't necessarily think their points are all wrong. Here for a second opinion on itGo take a look at the xx chromosome sub. Go look at r/feminism. It's moderated by men 😂 The replies are filled with 'the so much needed male perspective'. It would be laughable if it wasn't so sad. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/20 02:58 PM |
| 9 | I have taken a dive in the red pil because of the way feminism is presenting itself lately. I've found that it's turning me bitter. But I don't necessarily think their points are all wrong. Here for a second opinion on itNope, former red pill lady here. They hate you just the same, even if you're on their side. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/20 02:56 PM |
| 5 | I have taken a dive in the red pil because of the way feminism is presenting itself lately. I've found that it's turning me bitter. But I don't necessarily think their points are all wrong. Here for a second opinion on itDear OP, I had the same thing. I was the first one jumping up and down to tell everyone how feminism is cancer, how it's detrimental to society, the whole shebang. But. I learned more about radical feminism, and how it's strives for equity (don't mistake this for equality). I learned how important it is to advocate for women's rights and to make a very clear distinction between men and women. Liberal feminism made me hate feminism. Their narrative is delusional and constantly contradicting itsel… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/20 02:49 PM |
| 5 | I have taken a dive in the red pil because of the way feminism is presenting itself lately. I've found that it's turning me bitter. But I don't necessarily think their points are all wrong. Here for a second opinion on itIt is. Libfems will not agree. But feminism is for women. What's in a name, right. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/20 02:45 PM |
| 57 | Stop calling Jason Momoa a HVM. He's lowest of the LVMS.Word on the street is that he is like..... This👌 big. Tweezer level pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 06:19 AM |
| 18 | You ladies have literary/cinematic women who are prime examples of this sub?Books. The series of 'The clan of the cave bear'. It's about a human girl, Ayla, who's found in the woods by a tribe. She doesn't fit in, but she wants to. She has to deal with a lot of misogyny and traumatic experiences, but she always finds her own way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 03:03 PM |
| 7 | Can’t get through to “cool girlfriend” sisterPoor sis'. Please show her the comments. We've been there lady, we know the drill. He's such an ass, please dump, block and delete for your own sanity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 06:28 AM |
| 20 | Never laugh about a joke on your own expense, they'll mistake your laughter fro compliance. Make them explain themselves.I feel you girl ❤️ I have the same damn thing. I'm slowly stopping giggling it away, from shame. I'm starting to demand more and more respect.. Bit sometimes I fuck up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 08:16 PM |
| 0 | Hooking up and doing ONS on the side while in the beginning stages of dating a real relationship prospectMaybe they will finally learn to step up their game and start being decent human beings👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Hooking up and doing ONS on the side while in the beginning stages of dating a real relationship prospectYou are drifting so far away from reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Hooking up and doing ONS on the side while in the beginning stages of dating a real relationship prospectI didn't, actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 01:26 PM |
| 24 | Oh Holy HellI'm a teacher as well. Sometimes I come home smelling like some science project, with clothes dirty from painting, stains for digging through mud, a little fingerprint on my cheek for stamping with ink and some flowers in my hair because they think I look pretty that way. My ex laughed about it. Always ridiculed me to his friends with all the stuff I was doing while still getting payed shit. While pretending that he loved it that I was a teacher, to everyone around us. He hated my job and he tho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 11:08 AM |
| 422 | Multiple green flags! Notice how he gets up to clean immediately, involves the kid in his happiness, puts off the playing till later when the kids are in bed. Etc. It’s the small things.I feel like 1000 yo when watching this. And I'm 26.😂 They look like babies having babies. But bless them, they seem very content and loving parents! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 07:09 AM |
| 0 | Hooking up and doing ONS on the side while in the beginning stages of dating a real relationship prospectWhere did I say that exactly? 😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/20 11:14 AM |
| 2 | Hooking up and doing ONS on the side while in the beginning stages of dating a real relationship prospectTwenty-six. Used to always date like that though, until I got exclusive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/20 06:51 AM |
| 3 | Hooking up and doing ONS on the side while in the beginning stages of dating a real relationship prospectHe asked me if I had sex, so I told him I had someone came over once in a while. He was free to do the same. It wasn't a big deal at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/20 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Hooking up and doing ONS on the side while in the beginning stages of dating a real relationship prospectHe asked me about 4 weeks/dates in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/20 06:45 AM |
| 2 | Hooking up and doing ONS on the side while in the beginning stages of dating a real relationship prospectHe knows, but I wasn't rubbing it in his face or anything, didn't keep it a secret either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/20 06:43 AM |
| 2 | Hooking up and doing ONS on the side while in the beginning stages of dating a real relationship prospectYeah, I did. But my fiancee makes me cum 100% better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/20 06:41 AM |
| 10 | Hooking up and doing ONS on the side while in the beginning stages of dating a real relationship prospectYou probably are the one in the fuckzone while she's exploring her better options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/20 06:36 AM |
| 2 | Hooking up and doing ONS on the side while in the beginning stages of dating a real relationship prospectIn the days I dated, which is about a year ago/a year long, I used to have a rotation of men. I had one steady guy who I used to only have sex with (100% safe). This guy wasn't relationship material for me, but he did get my sexual needs met. At the same time I would date like 5/6/7/8 guys, with whom I never had sex, but I was checking out if they're relationship material. From that, I ditched some guys and I would date around 3 men at the time. I chose my bf after 5 months of dating. He asked t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/20 06:22 AM |
| 6 | Female privilige≠pretty privilegeengineering I, too, can throw random words without any context at you. Observe: BUCKWHEAT NOODLES. Digital engineering, construction... I could go on and on. You know that there are dictionaries, right? For the rest; look up: women, business and the law, 2018 from the World Bank Group. Femicide is widely acknowledged. "Statistics cited by the ACLU suggest a wide gender gap in sentencing. The average prison sentence for men who kill their female partners is two to six years (the illustration here… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/20 03:47 PM |
| 25 | THE BAR IS SO LOW ITS UNDERGROUND'Dont expect a ring, just settle for a string!' 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 02:45 PM |
| 0 | As many American men report being "forced to penetrate" each year as women report being rapedAnd then I'm not even talking about the unreported rapes. Man/man rapes are even harder to report. So it's probably far worse... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/20 02:34 PM |
| 2 | As many American men report being "forced to penetrate" each year as women report being rapedMen report being raped by men, mostly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/20 02:28 PM |
| 3 | As many American men report being "forced to penetrate" each year as women report being rapedMen report being raped by men, mostly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/20 02:27 PM |
| 2 | As many American men report being "forced to penetrate" each year as women report being rapedMen report being raped by men, mostly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/20 02:27 PM |
| 2 | As many American men report being "forced to penetrate" each year as women report being rapedMen report being raped by men, mostly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/20 02:27 PM |
| 1 | As many American men report being "forced to penetrate" each year as women report being rapedYou forget that that's mostly done to men, by other men. Which shows that men are much more predatorial, correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/20 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Female privilige≠pretty privilegeI.e. stuff they don't do anyway, and in those super-rare cases when they try, that almost instantly cripple them into disability and make them spend the rest of their lives without being able to have healthy kids and depending on state handouts Police, army, education (after marriage), engineering... I could go on and on... So that's bs right there. I don't care. Privilege codified into law is 1000 times more important than "societal societies and expectational expectations". Way to avoid the po… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/20 02:17 PM |
| 17 | Female privilige≠pretty privilegeSome more wars for you; In most nations, women are not permitted to do a lot of jobs. In most nations, women are expected to take care of the family. In most arabic nations women aren't allowed to walk outside alone. In all nations are women expected to be the main caregiver. In all nations, rape and femicide are seen as 'not as bad as stuff done to men'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/20 01:50 PM |
| 33 | A Nigerian prince says he rented out an entire NYC restaurant for his first date with his now-wife, who had no idea he was a royalI heard they expect to be catered to, in an extreme fashion. My friend has a thing for Nigerian men, she's 36, hurt and single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 06:37 AM |
| 4 | Women express love by being servants?My love language is good behavior, sex where I can cum first, new boots/sneakers, some dresses and don't forget to top it off with diamonds. He can serve me ice cream afterwards. I'm a person with a lot of love to give, just understand my damn love language! 😂 Most men are só delusional. Honey, you ain't the prize. Stop trying to be the pretty gf, k? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 06:31 AM |
| 6 | This is sweet props to this mom!I'm a teacher, I want to learn my students this! 🌸 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 10:16 PM |
| 8 | How do I become completely emotionally unavailable towards guys?That's exactly why you keep scrotating. You always have a number 1, 2 and so further. But once you see your number 1 fuck up; you're glad with your number 2/3/4/5/6 etc. It makes you appreciative of the right qualities, which makes dating easier. | /r/askFDS | 08/11/20 09:52 AM |
| 25 | You can literally be Beyonce and still be devalued by LVMJay-Z 🤮🤮🤮 Ugly, untalented, fat sack of LVM shit. She's a PickMe monetizing on a facade of empowerment. I hate her music, I don't like her little dances and I don't think she is a strong woman. I might like her in person, idk her irl, but I don't think she's sending out a good message. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 09:04 AM |
| 3 | I’m so over OLD. Yes, please scold me for not messaging you first. Fastest way to my heart (translation in comments)Neuk je volgescheten kont? Haha, mijn Duits is niet zo goed😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 08:56 AM |
| 2 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.No. Pencil and sharpener analogy. A pencil that gets sharpened too much, is eventually reduced to nothing. A pencil sharpener can sharpen tons of pencils and be just fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.Sexism, or the unethical or generalising parts of those menosphere do not necessarily make someone unattractive. What makes them unattractive is a combination of a lack of desirable physical traits, status and social skills. And people who frequent those groups are more likely to lack those traits. Agreed, but their presence in a 'manosphere' doesn't help them. I see decent looking guys (if only they would put in more effort...!) who are telling other decent looking guys to go hang themselves an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.Hoord? Ja, sorry, ik ben leerkracht. Het is absoluut niet erg als je de taal niet tot in den puntjes beheerst, maar spreek dan niet een ander aan op haar taalgebruik. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.I don't believe in forever alone guys/girls. That's a choice. Ugly guys and girls get relationships as well. The incel/TRP/MGTOW community shows exactly why they're: 'forever alone'. They're not specifically, extraordinarily ugly, but their behavior, viewpoints and way of living sure are... That's exactly why nobody wants to talk with them, let alone fuck them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.Blijkbaar heb je ook moeite met aanwijzende voornaamwoorden, er valt dus nog wat eer te behalen op taalkundig gebied. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.Of course! I admire your ability of asking questions! However stupid they are 🤗 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 10:47 AM |
| 0 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.Why are you always a little crybaby when you're commenting, peasant? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.They certainly reduce women to sexual objects and shame them for having any (sexual) relationships. It's their personality, backwards logic and double standards that hurts them. Don't you think their envy of 'Chad' and their obsession with 'not being betabuxx or bluepilled/a cuck' shows how they're incapable of loving and valuing another person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.Wishing you good luck is mean? Aw... Little peasant, the world is gonna get you so hard. Explore, little peasant, explore! Try to find social skills, that golden creditcard or a magnificent dick! ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.Good luck, peasant ☺️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 09:42 AM |
| 0 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.I do. It's exactly why they can't get any woman to sleep with them; we see through their bs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 09:41 AM |
| 2 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.You know what time it is? Introspection time! (For you)⏰ Have fun ☺️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.Hahaha, you're very butthurt aren't you. 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 09:36 AM |
| -1 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.I'm actually laughing my ass off 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 09:28 AM |
| 0 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.I didn't call YOU weak, idku, but that sure was a weak reply. Yes. They do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 09:27 AM |
| 4 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.We have a saying in my country. Man stoer, vrouw hoer (man is tough, woman is a whore). Women are called sluts for having sexual partners, men are seen as 'high achieving' (while it's none of that at all). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 09:26 AM |
| 2 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.Where the name calling you're talking about? 😂😂😂 It has nothing to with luck, but with their shitty personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 09:24 AM |
| -1 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 09:21 AM |
| 3 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.Man manipulate, coerce, gossip, slander, make rumors, ostracize and shame on the same level (if not more) as women. There's the complimentary add of violence, yes. It's in men's best interest to set up women to each other. The nonsense you spout is exactly that tactic, fine example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 09:21 AM |
| 6 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.Tip; punctuation is a real blessing. Since most men are incapable of following through with their own double standard, you see it here, very clear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 08:52 AM |
| 2 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.Drumrolls... 🥁🥁🥁 Where's your try? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 08:48 AM |
| 6 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.And that isn't for women? I know more women hurt by men than the other way around. There's also more women with c-ptsd, so your argument doesn't hold up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 08:47 AM |
| 5 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.It's not a female tactic when there is a huge male incentive 🤗 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 08:46 AM |
| 2 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.Maybe put them on, actually read other comments here and then come back to my comments. It shows you're really unable to have a good reply, weak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 08:33 AM |
| 3 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.You see how nobody does that, especially when it comes to women? You own eyes right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 08:30 AM |
| 2 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.Their misogynist ideology, that holds themselves back.I actually mostly feel pity for the people that get sucked into it, because they're having their worst experiences and insecurities about themselves exploited by an ideology that will really only serve to make them feel even worse about their low level self. They don't see women as persons. They see us as "potential girlfriends", "potential sex mate", "potential housewife". Never as a full person, which is what we are. They're constantly cont… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 08:27 AM |
| 5 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.And in your case, what's a key that can't open any lock? A vagina isn’t a lock and a penis isn’t a key. But you sure are a tool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 08:17 AM |
| 2 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.How? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 08:14 AM |
| 3 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.They need something to hold onto, since there's no hope for them useless f*ckers 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 08:13 AM |
| 12 | Men in general are much more of a slut than women.While condemning women for it. Delusional clowns 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 08:10 AM |
| 12 | Women who left stressful careers - what did you do/how is life now?I'm still in a stressful career (until we are married and start having kids. Then I can be a homeschooling SAHM). I noticed that I couldn't do the stuff we needed to have a clean, tidy home with cooked meals on the table. My man got us a dog walker, a cook who prepares weekly meals and a cleaning lady. Why don't you ask your partner to hire some help? | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/11/20 03:23 PM |
| 56 | Ultimate pickmeisha move - proposing to your boyfriend with a watchThat smirk on his face is vomit worthy... 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 02:37 PM |
| 18 | Why do you think young men gravitate to the redpill?I know why I gravitated towards the red pill as a woman. I loved traditionalism, and I hoped to find men who were just that. I stumbled onto a bunch of incels/RP's, incapable of forming meaningful relationships. Spouting out so much BS that I couldn't sweep it under the rug anymore... I think it's a silly boys club promoting violence and destructive tactics to get -hopefully- someone who likes them. But play stupid games, receive stupid prizes; they usually end up with really meek/insecure/traum… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/20 06:51 AM |
| 27 | Let a bot run through a dating site and match me with 9870 guys. Here are the resultsI would love to learn what you can do! It's that I love being a teacher, otherwise I would definitely try to learn some back end programming 🥰 Really cool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 06:54 PM |
| 8 | THEY JUST BANNED ABORTION IN POLAND 😳The handmaid's tale used to be fiction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 06:47 PM |
| 33 | The saddest proposal story I’ve ever heard. She wrote it along with a recipe for Mac and cheese on a blog.I would've thought it was the most romantic story about 2 years ago. Now I just sit and read this with disgust. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Has your sex and romantic life improved as you've gotten older?Yes, I'm getting less adventurous but more experienced, I relax more easily. I have a very stable view on relationships and sex now. My bf is a skilled, generous lover so I'm always happy to be together. He makes me feel really feminine. He's also extremely romantic with gifts and gestures, my ex's sucked in that department. I'm a woman. 26 years old. My longest dry spell was for about a month... Had 3 LTR's, engaged now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 12:43 AM |
| 10 | At what age did you stop dressing up as Ninja Turtles and Batman and start wanting to be ‘pretty’ for Halloween?I was 9 years old developed early so I was sexualized from an early on. I think I went as a fortune teller. I can tell you that I have yet to meet a fortune teller with an exposed midriff and cleavage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadIt's never gonna take ONLY being nice, that's just the bare minimum for a simple convo. You have to have goals, aspirations and a clear direction in your life. But, be a pleasant person that people like to interact with, that attracts people. Practice that. Go sit by yourself somewhere, have a drink, just look around with a friendly smile on your face truly enjoying some sunlight. Be casual with people, make smalltalk. I've seen hella ugly dudes building great relationships that way, which event… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/20 04:57 PM |
| 3 | RPers: do women suck no matter what they do?It's all different flavors, it also differs very much between FDS-ladies. The men FDS'ers see as high value, are definitely also perceived by society as high value. What's seen as high value by society, isn't seen as high value by FDS ladies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/20 11:13 AM |
| 1 | RPers: do women suck no matter what they do?What's one man's trash, is another man's gold. Most FDS ladies (and ladies in society) are very clear about HVM though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/20 08:00 AM |
| 5 | Let's discuss this exchange. What are your thoughts?He looks and sounds like my ex.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadYou can never do right when you're a girl. Want to take care of kids? You're gonna get called a mooching golddigger. Want to have career? You're a stuck up careerbitch who deserves a cheating husband. Want to combine working and a family? You'll end up miserable yourself because that's not doable at all. And the PickMe's are like: 'no, she is a bad woman! I can boil pasta alfredo while I lick your balls, PickMe, tee-hee!!!'. While the incels go like: 'Women should be evenly distributed, why isn'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/20 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadBeing beautiful isn't all what you think it is... I don't hate men, I just hate the way most men treat women. We get shit on for almost every simple life choice, and are still expected to be a doormat. From men ánd other women, btw. Most incels I see on Reddit, are perfectly capable of leveling up if you look at it lookswise; if it wasn't for their awful personality, wrong attitude and repulsive behavior... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/20 11:53 PM |
| 0 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadBasically 9/10 these “Nice, Well-behaved Guys” have poor grooming and negative social skills. It has nothing to do with them being well-behaved, or women preferring “Assholes” (which the majority of women: don't). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/20 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadWe don't have a need to. That's a plus about being a lady. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/20 05:47 PM |
| 40 | I Feel so sorry for oglers’s partners .What do you do when they start making kissy-faces at you, or winking, or licking their lips?😳 I tried it a few times and they always started doing that to my RBF... 🙄 The tip about telling the person you're with is great! ❤️🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadI'm happy and thriving; so that comes naturally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/20 02:26 PM |
| -3 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadMaybe change your behavior towards us and you'll see that we love conversing with respectful men. You get what you give. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/20 08:43 AM |
| 4 | RPers: do women suck no matter what they do?You're right. Used to be a RP-lady, and the RPmen totally put me off. So insecure while pretending to be all tough... Using harmful tactics to get to what they see as the end goal (getting their pee-pee touched). Those aren't men, but they are silly, immature, game-playing manchildren, who most girls can smell from a mile away. That's why they are so unsuccessful at dating. They try to solve that problem by pumping up the volume of their endeavors, which in the end comes from a scarcity mindset,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/20 08:32 AM |
| 151 | Men will make you crazy if you let them !She's nuts for staying, but I love her badass attitude and resourcefulness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 07:53 AM |
| 9 | If he wanted to marry you, he would. A year into dating and he’s getting the ring made.It's a numbers game. I met my HVbf on Tinder, after seeking through some awful NVM/LVM... Have a scrotation, I can't say this enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 10:46 PM |
| 72 | She cooks all this amazing food for her husband as he's gaming, who she's admitted doesn't eat dinner with her most of the time. Comments call this a healthy relationship. 🙄This is SO sad. He barely acknowledges her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 09:29 PM |
| 32 | I feel like this guy raised a red flag by sending me a video of him hurting/annoying a dogIs there a way to save this dog? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 09:24 PM |
| 16 | FDS Troubleshooting. I have been using FDS strategies but keep running into a few issues. Help?No worries! I struggled with those points as well ☺️ Try to think of questions to ask during the date, before actually going on the date. Put them in your phone so you can have a quick look if you're anxious. There's tips on them on this sub. Be confident, fake it till you make it. Let him lead the conversation, but make sure to talk as least half as much as he does. Same goes with texting. He sends 4 messages, you reply 2/3. He needs to chase you. Not the other way around. Guys usually don't as… | /r/askFDS | 30/10/20 10:28 PM |
| 33 | FDS Troubleshooting. I have been using FDS strategies but keep running into a few issues. Help?Ask open questions. Be bubbly, funny and energetic, but let him lead. He doesn't lead? You leave. Don't say anything. Leave it up to the imagination. That's some FDS magic right there 😉 Do as the french do. Double kiss. Or the Dutch way, that's with 3 ☺️ Make sure to turn around and wink after you walk back. Good luck! 🍀 | /r/askFDS | 30/10/20 08:23 PM |
| 1 | HVM may still end up screwing you over the minute they see you as “defiled” or impureA HVM doesn't do shit like that. My HVBF will always respect women: his mother and sisters taught him thay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 07:41 AM |
| 15 | This Lesser-Known Form of Abuse Involves Sabotaging Birth ControlReproductive coercion is hell. I went through it two times, though it were completely different experiences. I'm still in therapy, 12 years later from the first experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Dating as a DemisexualHappy to read this, I think you're right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 09:36 PM |
| 37 | Anyone else grinning and bearing through a career while hoping to be a homemaker one dayI love my job (I'm a teacher), but I can't wait to do that work from home; with kids I created myself. We are in the lucky position that I can be a SAHM and we don't have to live frugal. My man has a good career, my job will never be a career. It's also making me realize I need to stop working one day. And I will miss work, definitely. But my priorities will lay at home. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/20 04:33 PM |
| 7 | Hey ladies, What's your opinion on a guy who poses like this whom is also around 30?Looks like my ex. Screams depression to me 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 09:03 AM |
| 114 | NO, NO AND NO. Women NEVER liked serving men.Matt Forney, you are a fat sack of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 04:42 PM |
| 30 | What are your favourite "casual" questions to ask a new guy to figure him out (for the purpose of vetting without him knowing)?What goals did you achieve? ...How? What's your biggest accomplishment so far? What goals are you currently working on? What in life taught you the most? What quality do you like best in people? How is your family? What's your favorite brand of clothes? Are you a handyman or do you have two left hands? How would your ex describe you? How would your friends describe you? Ask open questions: they can not be answered with 'yes' or 'no'. If he's giving strange answers, walk away, block and delete 👍 | /r/askFDS | 23/10/20 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many men believe that women prefer partners that treat them bad.How is this not civil? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/20 06:36 AM |
| 2 | Why do so many men believe that women prefer partners that treat them bad.You are wrong. There are many types of mentalities and it’s very easy to see it if you pay attention. Where did I say that there aren't? It's also very easy to spot the manchild/childlike women when you're an adult. For example: how do you talk to babies? Do you hit them with adult shit? Or do you “baby talk” with them? Babytalk isn't good for linguistic development. Child development 101. Or kids, do you talk to them about taxes? Or do you “parent” them As a teacher, I teach kids. Also about ta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/20 08:14 PM |
| 2 | This sub seems to be made up mostly of "perverts", incels and bored wives, am I wrong? :)Thanks! I also had some fuckups! Still learning 😇 I really dislike regular datingsubs, since it's so easy that it's hard. That sounds really stupid but I'll try to explain... The people on regular subs usually come up with the same problems over and over again. Usually don't want to listen to solutions and tricks as well. There's no honor in advising/reading along with people who don't want to change (for their own benefit). I love the discussions at PPD because I can learn from all the differen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/20 05:46 PM |
| 2 | LOOKS MATTER BUT if you can’t find even one woman that likes you for you then there’s something wrong with your personality. You probably have a personality flaw or extremely high standards (see 99.99% of incels)You're so right. Telling the truth isn't sexist, so no apologies necessary. Women are usually easily invited and people (especially men) like to connect with women, more so than with men. It just isn't usually with the best intentions. So there's a very dangerous component to being a women, very different from the male perspective (which also has hardships). We're easily perceived as weak and are quickly physically overpowered... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/20 05:34 PM |
| 4 | This sub seems to be made up mostly of "perverts", incels and bored wives, am I wrong? :)I usually prefer to not use those terms when I'm actively helping someone IRL 😉 I started out with freebies, after that no cure, no pay and now I'm at the point where I charge per hour. When somebody asks what I do, I usually say that I help men who are willing to work on themselves find great connections. You wanna know the truth about dating/a relationship? Don't settle. Never settle. Find that one person who is just as excited about you, as you are about them. And if you're still looking for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/20 03:46 PM |
| 2 | LOOKS MATTER BUT if you can’t find even one woman that likes you for you then there’s something wrong with your personality. You probably have a personality flaw or extremely high standards (see 99.99% of incels)I don't think there's anyone at fault. It's a matter of perception. The solution is finding the right crowd who love you as much as you love them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/20 03:36 PM |
| 6 | This sub seems to be made up mostly of "perverts", incels and bored wives, am I wrong? :)I can! I saw a guy who was totally depressed and convinced that he could never date anyone since all he got was rejection. So I send him to a personal trainer, I send him to a professional shopper and I went to his house and helped him feeling more comfortable there. He had some dates, but the feedback was really bad. So I observed him on another date. He was really, really tense and way too shy. So I asked him where he would feel comfortable, got my girls there and we had a fun time. Afterwards… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/20 03:32 PM |
| 3 | LOOKS MATTER BUT if you can’t find even one woman that likes you for you then there’s something wrong with your personality. You probably have a personality flaw or extremely high standards (see 99.99% of incels)Everyone experiences that, believe me. I'm pretty with a good body. Some people think I'm too superficial/shallow/dumb/high maintenance or some more bullshit like that. That shit hurted me in the past. But if they're that stupid and superficial themselves, why would I want to feel bad or resentful about it? Is it not better to erase those people from my mind and life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/20 03:21 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS MATTER BUT if you can’t find even one woman that likes you for you then there’s something wrong with your personality. You probably have a personality flaw or extremely high standards (see 99.99% of incels)Do you think 'high demand successful people' don't experience that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/20 02:50 PM |
| 6 | This sub seems to be made up mostly of "perverts", incels and bored wives, am I wrong? :)I'm a young (engaged) woman. My side business is matchmaking. Incels are my complimentary bread and butter. I love analyzing incels and helping them change their ways / become successful men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/20 02:43 PM |
| 0 | LOOKS MATTER BUT if you can’t find even one woman that likes you for you then there’s something wrong with your personality. You probably have a personality flaw or extremely high standards (see 99.99% of incels)How are you treated like trash? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/20 02:39 PM |
| 2 | LOOKS MATTER BUT if you can’t find even one woman that likes you for you then there’s something wrong with your personality. You probably have a personality flaw or extremely high standards (see 99.99% of incels)Some women want casual sex, and they prefer a nice physique/pretty face over personality and communication. Just like most guys, who (on average) fuck about anyone who shows the slightest interest in fucking. Even if that means the girl is an STD ridden, ugly matress; they would happily put their shallow little pee-pee in her. If I HAD to choose a man to fuck me, and I had the choice between a hot-looking someone who wants to commit racial genocide and an incel; I would choose the hottie. I'd ra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/20 02:35 PM |
| 27 | Men on Reddit are MAD at these tweets yet fail to understand that these girls are trolling and are repeating excuses and lies men tell women when they cheat 🤣It's quite possible that some simple conversation will solve this problem. But, guys.. Sigh. Always so emotional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 08:20 PM |
| 8 | Even Lauren Southern’s boyfriend expected her to pay for him. Goes to show that libfem logic is pushed onto women from all sides of the political spectrum. Yes, she was stalked and harassed like the rest of us. But she had been a 🤡 from the beginningI feel for her. As a girl who was once a traditional anti-feminist Lauren Southern fangirl; I think she suffered a lot of abuse. We can go say 'fuck her and her choices', and it would be highly understandable. But I don't think she could comprehend the outcome or the actions stemming from her choices. They fucking ruined her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 09:45 AM |
| 34 | Alright ladies! How many of you have been in a fight like this?! (The Break Up)Sounds like 8 years with my ex, this shit started after three years. Crying in bed, blowing up fights about him not caring for anything or anyone. Crying in the store, screaming to him that he made life miserable. Crying all day every day, and I thought that shit was normal.... 🤪 I just thought I couldn't leave. I did and I flourished! He's still sitting home wondering why I left 6 years ago; unable to grow, unable to change. So sad (for him). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 07:29 AM |
| 0 | The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl.I'm not a Pickmeisha, I can only observe and watch. And what I see is Pickmeisha desperate for any male attention, including incels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/20 02:49 PM |
| 0 | The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl.Because even douchebag Chad is a better option than the Incel. HVM aren't attracted to Pickmeishas. If you have to choose between two low value options, why not go for the one who is the most good looking? Any women will choose that man over the one who's not only misogynistic and socially inept, but fugly as well... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/20 02:43 PM |
| 3 | The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl.You're basically describing providing for her and taking care of her, good for you. Take care of your lady 🌸 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/20 02:37 PM |
| 2 | The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl.Exactly this! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/20 02:36 PM |
| 3 | The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl.You don't know my specialities, qualities and capabilities and I'm gonna leave it at that. 😉 There's no such thing as free food. BTW: I have a man, and a phone full of blocked men hoping to one day get a reaction/date from me, practically begging me to buy me dinner. Guy not willing to pay dinner/treat their lady; that's some low class behavior which needs to be overthought with a lack of pussy and a rapidly balding physique. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/20 02:34 PM |
| 4 | The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl.Are you splitting her bills as well? Are you splitting pregnancy? Are you splitting giving birth? Are you splitting childcare? Are you splitting the cost for her lady products?Are you splitting your savings? That would all be really equal! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/20 02:28 PM |
| 2 | The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl.As you can see in other replies; no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/20 02:22 PM |
| 0 | The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl.O no.... Pickmeishas are the best friends of incels! Defending them, advocating for them. 'Liberal feminism' to the bone, internalized misogynistic poor souls of PickMeIsm. Their insecurities are so alike. Pickmeishas crave male validation like incels crave to be recognized. That's exactly why there is so much hate for FDS. We don't lie awake for male validation anymore because we know the nature of men and how to get what we want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/20 02:21 PM |
| 2 | The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl.Maybe you should read that again, since I didn't say that anywhere 🤭. I also stated much more than materialistic needs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/20 02:15 PM |
| 2 | The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl.We hope for the day that men stop thinking with their dicks for once. Maybe there might be some hope for the future! I sure know they'll always follow the pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/20 02:10 PM |
| 3 | The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl.If we want a relationship with each other; these are the things that need to be provided. Typical as that, indeed. I'm respected and respectable. The answer to your question is something I talk about and share with my man/circle of people, not with some strangers in the internet 😉 It's all the special things I do and am for him and myself, which are none of your business 🤗 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/20 02:08 PM |
| 1 | The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl.https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=pick+me+girl&=true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/20 01:56 PM |
| 1 | The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl.Partnership, commitment, love, respect, exclusivity, sex, dates, children, money, time, help, understanding, jewelery, clothes, family, friends; I can go on and on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/20 01:11 PM |
| 3 | The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl.Women who subscribe to the r/femaledatingstrategy subreddit have no problem attracting men (just check the sub for reference). We are looking for ways to not have to deal with god awful men (check the sub for reference). Whether we're in a relationship/single, whether we're old/young; we are just looking to eliminate the unworthy men from our lives so they don't bother us living a good life with ourselves, or with a good life partner. We celebrate men who are thoughtful, considerate, kind, lovin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/20 01:00 PM |
| 6 | The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl.I don't think hypergamy is a bad thing. For women, nor men. History is full of it. I'd love for Incels to go extinct. Darwin at it's finest. I deserved to be spoiled and get gifts because I'm me. Just like he does, because he's him. We're very entitled to each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/20 12:54 PM |
| 5 | The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl.Partnership, love, sex, children, money, time, help, understanding, gifts, family, friends; I can go on and on. All the stuff we provide for each other. We can share that with anyone, but we know that we have the same goals and morals.That makes us a unit. That makes us a stable investment and reliable people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/20 12:49 PM |
| 3 | The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl.I treat all people well, including men. I don't have to bring anything to the table; I am the fucking table. When my effort, time and investment aren't reciprocated, I will just let someone else take a seat to show they're worthy enough for my investments. Yeah, I deserve to be spoiled and if a man doesn't do that, I will do so myself. I'm a fucking catch, so is he; but I have way more options than him simply because I'm a woman. If he wants to keep me, he better step up to the plate. It's not e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/20 11:33 AM |
| 9 | The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl.They can get sex easily with the more superficial/PickMe women, but they still have to put in a lot of effort. Don't underestimate the work this guys still have to do.. And they age só bad! The 'Chads' who all tried to make moves on me in highschool, are bold, ugly, fat douches with 6 kids from 7 moms right now (early/mid twenties) Highly undesirable. That's when we see the women (who are mostly just as worn out by now) pop up in 'where are all the good men'.... FDS does critique PickMe's A LOT.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/20 11:22 AM |
| 6 | The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl.The reason why the sub was created was to help women shift out men who are not worth their time, energy and effort. It's about cancelling awful men by being just your feminine, awesome self. LVM/NVM/Incels/TRP/MGTOW are coming from a lack of abundance. These men do not get attention from the opposite sex. Women who subscribe to the r/femaledatingstrategy subreddit have no problem attracting men (just check the sub for reference). We are looking for ways to not have to deal with god awful men (ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/20 10:54 AM |
| 6 | The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl.Perfect, as long as your company is great (yourself or a high value male); you will have a great time 🤗 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/20 10:29 AM |
| 7 | The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl.A lot of them procreate with the scraps of the barrel: the low value/negative value men. I see that with a lot of girls my age. You're right. r/femaledatingstrategy is a negative value/low value male hate group. We hate those LVM/NVM guys so much, we just want them to stay the fuck away from us and don't have to deal with them. High value men are deeply appreciated and celebrated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/20 10:28 AM |
| 8 | The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl.I see a lot of similarities to the story of the fox and the grapes over here 😂 https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Fox_and_the_Grapes. Cognitive dissonance. If a man (my man, for example) wouldn't treat me extremely well and care for me like his queen; he's dead weight. Why would you hold onto dead weight? I would rather be alone all by myself, than be with a guy who doesn't spoil me/takes care of me. Because than I will spoil and take care of me all by myself, which is just as much fun! I'm a f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/20 10:17 AM |
| 16 | The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl.Yeah, he's so entitled that he thinks that his wonderful personality will make up for his attitude. The ones who talk about golddiggers, are usually the ones without ANY gold to dig for... It's the classic story of the fox and the grapes over here 🤣 Oooooh, those grapes are sour.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/20 09:57 AM |
| 1 | I'm so done with online datingI understand completely.... No worries, time will tell. My HVM found me through Tinder, but I had to go through hell and back first.. !😅 You might need to hear this right now: there are a lot of normal, sane men out there; they just usually don't congregate/hang around OLD all too much! 🌸 Live and love your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 03:22 PM |
| 8 | I'm so done with online datingHaha 😹 I'm all pro 'be the HVW' and stuff. But this is a really funny comeback! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 03:11 PM |
| 9 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadBecause women choose and men chase. The ugly ones as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/20 02:14 PM |
| 1 | What’s the truth about personality in dating/in general? Are some better than others?I fucking love your reply and your username ❤️ So right. Have a good day! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/20 09:42 AM |
| 10 | Exclusivity? How does a HVW ask about this?A guy who doesn't chase is unworthy relationship material. There's nothing wrong with stepping up to the plate when you see you're lacking. | /r/askFDS | 12/10/20 06:17 AM |
| 69 | Exclusivity? How does a HVW ask about this?A HVW doesn't ask. You just shift your attention to someone else in your scrotation. See that guy stepping up to the plate in 3, 2, 1... | /r/askFDS | 11/10/20 12:38 PM |
| 1 | If you are a blue pilled man who has struggles dating there are literally zero resources out there for you.The difference is that FDS teaches one to focus on building another connection, before getting intimate with each other. I don't see how that's manipulating sex to control the relationship. It's valuing the relationship instead of just/first the body with it's physical aspects. What's low value to me, might be high value to you or the other way around. Everyone does it, one way or the other. Maybe you should stop spamming this sub with disinformation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/20 11:02 AM |
| 0 | If you are a blue pilled man who has struggles dating there are literally zero resources out there for you.Yeah, low value people hate successful people finding good resources. Misery wants company, after all. I would highly suggest every men on earth to check r/AskFDS instead of the toxic male infested moderated subs like r/relationship_adice, r/feminism and r/AskWomen. Ask a girl, instead of someone just as unsuccessful with his dick and relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/20 10:40 AM |
| 1 | If you are a blue pilled man who has struggles dating there are literally zero resources out there for you.FDS teaches one to focus on oneself (not on any man, high,negative or low value) and to not settle for crappy men. There's nothing empowering in being used as a self-sufficient bangmaid, and that's exactly what FDS teaches. There's no tactics or anything to hurt men into giving you what you desire. I don't see any comparison to TRP/PUA subs. Low value/negative value/high value is a beautiful thing. My mom always used to teach me about it but she used the words 'wrong crowd/good friend'. It diffe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/20 10:35 AM |
| 0 | If you are a blue pilled man who has struggles dating there are literally zero resources out there for you.You're right, r/femaledatingstrategy isn't welcoming to guys and PickMeChicks. It's a girls only space. That's why there's r/AskFDS for women and men who are looking for dating/life advice. For the incels we have r/FDSSuperFans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/20 10:26 AM |
| 42 | She could have easily navigated ALL three "issues" without trying to stone her own gender to death. Not all women are allies just because they're female.This chick is libfem to the bone. I disliked her when I was 'Red-Pilled' and I still dislike her now for being such a PickMe-clown. I would love it if she would find FDS and starts leveling up. I would support her so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 10:11 AM |
| 1 | If you are a blue pilled man who has struggles dating there are literally zero resources out there for you.If you follow the sub sometimes, you see lots of 18/19 year old women posting. It's also a very fast growing sub. I think the majority of women who find FDS, are between the ages of 16/30. There's also a lot of women who already have great relationships with HVM. The financial advice is on par. It's just VERY inconvenient for guys if they're expected to treat the ladies they ask out. I think that's what's creating a lot of frustrated male ego about FDS. Which is all the better for us ladies: sho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/20 10:04 AM |
| 1 | If you are a blue pilled man who has struggles dating there are literally zero resources out there for you.I doubt you ever visited the sub, maybe you should. There's lots of great advice there. And it's actually moderated by ladies. r/AskWomen , r/feminism , r/relationship_advice ; all moderated by (clearly delusional) men. If you want advice on ladies, don't go into incel infested male shitholes. A lot of women follow FDS without knowing. Since it's the advice that is given to a lot of women by other women (mother/grandma etc.). FDS is just wording/explanation for age old advice, passed from woman … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/20 09:39 AM |
| -1 | If you are a blue pilled man who has struggles dating there are literally zero resources out there for you.Just go make me a sandwich bro 🌸 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/20 09:31 AM |
| -1 | If you are a blue pilled man who has struggles dating there are literally zero resources out there for you.Go to r/AskFDS. There's a lot of resources and advice. As long as you're respectful and kind, you will receive a lot of helpful info. I used to be 'blackpill antifeminist aspiring trad wife' once. It fucked me up. 'Unpilling' and finding r/femaledatingstrategy was the best thing that could happen to me. Good luck! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/20 09:12 AM |
| 93 | Sis, just leave during the dateTRP in action. Surprise, surprise... It doesn't work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 10:23 AM |
| 5 | Guys. I love you, but I don't think I need you anymoreNever, ever trust a man sis'. We all had it and lost it some times. I love my man, but I also know the other side of love trough experience. Don't let down your guard and make sure to always be respected! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 04:05 PM |
| 7 | Third date, asked if I wanted to hang out TOMORROW MORNING when “nobody was home” after I kept asking him to plan dates and I didn’t want to hookup. Blocked.That's such secret, sacred FDS goal. If only guys would give us burritos; we would spread for them like eagles! I'm kinda sad she spoiled our secret cover up for free burritos.... Burritoscheme | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 03:02 PM |
| 19 | Redpill scrote (former incel) sats FDS is for “unattractive women”. Help me roast this scrote ladies.Haha i'm not even thinking about wasting my precious time with such an idiot clearly underestimating FDS, the strategy and her ladies. He's a delusional scrote. I'm happy he ventilates himself as such so that's it's damn easy to recognize his scrote-isms. When you take a closer look at his dislikes, you can see what he likes. It too bad for him that I don't want trash like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 03:09 PM |
| 9 | When LVM and I took a personality test together...You are so right. Their ego is SO IMPORTANT. My ex is a lead mechanical engineer in the yachting industry. He always felt the need to push others down. He really thinks he's the smartest guy in the world. He made MacGyvering an artform. He couldn't fix ANYTHING in real life. Shower? Broke down. Boats? Broken down. Cars? Barely working. Kitchen? Filthy and the cabinets are broken... I could go on and on.... He was always complaining about how stupid other people where and how he's so annoyed by t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 10:02 AM |
| 0 | Do women actually want to be wives ? Or do they have to pretend in order to Jeep the charade going ?You, my dear lady, must be my spirit animal. May peace and blessings be upon you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/20 10:22 AM |
| 23 | A Seeming-HVM Explains Why He Won't Leave his Forever Girlfriend for Someone Else He Likes More, Using Economic Theory as ExplanationIs there any way to tell his poor GF? Anonymously even, maybe? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 11:48 AM |
| 97 | This is disgusting.So, this is a place where the whore walkers (as we call them in my country) post about sex workers they are trying to fuck over/get sick etc. The girls are sometimes shown without a blur and they're heavily discussed at this sub. It's vomit worthy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 09:51 AM |
| 1 | Do you measure your value as a woman based on your ability to "keep a man"?A high variety of relationships, long and short, are praise worthy and really valuable to future relationships. I had a 8 year, a two year relationship and a 1 year relationship (I'm 26). I was also single for some time between those relationships, that learned me a lot as wel. I know what I want and what I don't want. I was never the dumpee. I dumped guys who I didn't want to commit to anymore. My fiancee loves that about me. They're part of my life story, but not my life. That would be very we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/20 03:02 PM |
| 24 | If a guy you are dating has someone "who got away", tell them to go get that person backI totally see where you're coming from. I somewhat agree. But when I go into a relationship with someone, I want to know how they talk about their ex's. Admiration > Dump him Scrutinizing her > Dump him Still in regular contact/ 'friends' > Dump him Talks about her often / in the first months of dating > Dump him Talks about her, admits there where problems but doesn't throw her under the bus > Sounds healthy. That's someone who can analyze incompatibility and unhealthy behaviors in themselves á… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 09:01 AM |
| 9 | Dear FDS please stop using the phrase: "Going Dutch".It is definitely cultural. See my reply to OP. I'm writing something for quite some time; it's gonna tell you the origins and the current Dutch dating culture. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 06:37 AM |
| 11 | Dear FDS please stop using the phrase: "Going Dutch".Sorry, I don't mean to insult you and I'm sorry you feel offended. But I'm gonna post a post in a while, completely refuting your point, based on the Calvinistic history and modern dating in Nederland. Native Dutchy here as well... Same age, even. Ever went out with colleagues/friends? Ever used an app for dating? Or are you residing in or flirting with the expat bubble?There is a very specific reason why it's called going Dutch... Does the phrase double dutch offend you as much too? Racism? Bei… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 06:32 AM |
| 39 | What sort of touching do you think is acceptable on a first date?Feel comfortable? Okay, let's roll with it. Uncomfortable? Ask him to stop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 03:25 PM |
| 22 | STIs. How to avoid?Don't have unprotected sex without getting tested. Period. Oral sex is sex. 69 is sex. Everything where his penis/tongue is on you/inside you, is sex. If you're a few months into dating, he asked you to be exclusive and the time comes around that you're contemplating sex; get yourself tested. Show it to him. Let him finger you, do nothing else yourself (he isn't tested). Maybe a handjob if you're in a really generous mood. Tell him to get tested if he wants to fuck you or wants you to suck his d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 03:21 PM |
| 9 | After so many toxic/one-sided relationships in the past, do you feel like a "bad girlfriend" when you finally are in a healthy relationship?You'll get there. Admitting your PickMe ways is a HUGE step forward. ❤️ Don't take your 'bad self' to serious, laugh about her sometimes. Whenever I feel like I'm returning to my old 'routine' I'll just have a laugh about myself and think about the growth I went through already. I keep my head up and hold my shoulders straight. I'm happy you're in a good relationship now. Rock on! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 05:35 PM |
| 23 | After so many toxic/one-sided relationships in the past, do you feel like a "bad girlfriend" when you finally are in a healthy relationship?I feel hard, unkind at times. And that I treat him unfair... 🤐🤫But those are my insecure moments. 🙄 I realize what an amazing queen I am and how lucky he is to be with me (and vice versa). Those are my normal/good moments now 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 05:16 PM |
| 9 | Is there anyone on this sub from Scandinavian countries + Germany doing FDS ? Have you been successful?Can you send me a DM? I can tell you a lot about it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 12:43 PM |
| 9 | I made my ex cry on the phone. Did I do something wrong?Yeah, delete en forget him LIKE YESTERDAY ALREADY!!!! We've all been here sis'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 10:23 AM |
| 33 | Is there anyone on this sub from Scandinavian countries + Germany doing FDS ? Have you been successful?The Netherlands here, van confirm. I'm writing a post about it for some time now. It's hard to do so, though because the culture differences are subtle if you don't see them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 05:30 AM |
| 0 | You guys are missing the whole point of FDS, the point of FDS is NOT to solely attract men. The strategy is to WEED out men they don’t want.The posts about dumping LVM and the succes stories and 'how to high value' are at the same level.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/20 09:21 PM |
| -25 | Saddens me more than I can sayI agree with you on that for sure, but that was not what this specific thread was about if you read what I'm replying to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 11:42 AM |
| -17 | Saddens me more than I can sayI know it's a quote. But I don't agree. I already explained why. I don't think you understand why since you're quoting a mob mentality quote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 11:37 AM |
| 60 | Saddens me more than I can sayYour reply is great! Thank you for giving me insights. Maybe she did beat herself up over it, I can imagine. And even if she didn't, she had delivered such great service to the USA, that should absolutely be forgiven. We don't have eternal life, in her case, unfortunately... Maybe she prayed/hoped for living longer so she could maximize the outcome of her years of dedicated work. This woman survived cancer, she survived a lot of shitty men, the patriarchy and all the PickMe's who would like to s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 11:14 AM |
| 78 | Saddens me more than I can saySome women are so obsessed by a certain mentality, that they cannot grasp the idea that there are decent people who aren't actively supporting EVERY DECISION OF EVERY WOMAN ON EARTH EVER, simply because she is a woman. If you asked me 2 years ago what feminism entails, I would've answered with: 'cancer to society'. Since I met radical feminism, I totally had to take back my words. I'm an ally now. And I feel sorry for misunderstanding the classical feminism my ancestors fought so hard for. If it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 11:07 AM |
| 69 | What would you do if there were no men around for 24hrs?I'd go eat breakfast at the park, enjoying nature with other women who can now feel safe to go out andn not have to endure scrotes. I'd drink cocktails and go by boat by myself, wearing a bikini all day and not having to worry about dusties ruining my view or peace. I'd go out with all my girlfriends in scandalously pretty clothes. Remember: there's no man taking liberties just because they see more of my body than in jeans and a t-shirt. I would walk around the city by myself at night. Smoke a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 09:06 AM |
| 2 | Why isn't there a REAL equivalent for female dating statergy for men?Where do you read often? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/20 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Why isn't there a REAL equivalent for female dating statergy for men?Sometimes there's a bright light and a good discussion. Shame that it wasn't yesterday 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/20 07:50 AM |
| 283 | Saddens me more than I can sayIt's maddening. I love RBG and I'm afraid what her replacement will do... I think she accomplished so much and needs a lot of praise. She needs to be remembered for all her hard work and endless drive to work. She fought so hard to stay at her level. Please don't hate me. But I'm also critical. RBG could have retired earlier (under Obama). I get the honor of working until you die, I completely understand and applaud her drive. I think she's an amazing lady. She told that she didn't confide in ge… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 07:48 AM |
| 2 | Why isn't there a REAL equivalent for female dating statergy for men?To laugh at the PPD douches getting offended by me. And now it's time to play some golf! Have a good one 🤗 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/20 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Why isn't there a REAL equivalent for female dating statergy for men?I love laughing at PPD douches 😉 Hihi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/20 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Why isn't there a REAL equivalent for female dating statergy for men?🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/20 07:36 AM |
| 4 | Women sacrificing their last name and taking husband's last name indirectly treats the wife as a property of the husband. Are the ladies here in FDS still willing to take their husband's last name after marriage or do they consider last names mixing/blending as an option as a sign of equality?Call me old fashioned, but I'm gonna take my HVM's last name. I don't like my last name and I want my future family to carry the same name. I will also pass my first name as a second name to my daughters, since it translates into 'queen' (not kidding). My MIL is divorced (years ago) from my FIL and she kept the name nonetheless. My FIL did not agree, but she laughed, couldn't give a shit and even kept the name in her new marriage! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 07:26 AM |
| -1 | Why isn't there a REAL equivalent for female dating statergy for men?🤣 I'm gonna give you a loser medal for your delusional thoughts, since I'm in a fun mood tonight!🎖️ You guys could be comedians if you would be even slightly as entertaining IRL. Have a good one! Keep up being scrotey! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/20 09:18 PM |
| -3 | Why isn't there a REAL equivalent for female dating statergy for men?I'm amused by the fact that you think I care ANYTHING about what internet strangers at a dominant incel debate sub think 😉 Have a good one! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/20 09:04 PM |
| 7 | HVM will do ANYTHING to make you succeedIt sounds really unrealistic. But Tinder did it for me🤣 Tinder is not seen as a hookup app particularly in my country. As my little brother once said; 'when your old (haha, still in my mid twenties) and want to start dating, use Tinder. Not Bumble, Happ'n, POF, or anything'. I had a huge scrotation (non-sexual), and I was keeping FDS standards high, without me even knowing about FDS yet. I'm highly convinced a scrotation keeps you sane and distracted. My first message back to him was that I didn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 09:38 AM |
| 2 | HVM will do ANYTHING to make you succeedThank you so much!!! ❤️ I'll try to kick ass! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 09:29 AM |
| 5 | HVM will do ANYTHING to make you succeedExactly, so true!! Speak it sis! ❤️ And to imagine; I never was and will be a career woman. We had a conversation where he asked about my goals and dreams and this was one of them. He supported it completely, just because it was something I wanted to prove to myself. I will not be making more money, I will not have more time, I won't get extras for it.... It's just for me, myself and I. I got kicked out really young, school also kicked me out really young so I had to fight for myself and take ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 09:28 AM |
| 3 | HVM will do ANYTHING to make you succeedI will! Thank you so much ❤️ All the best! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 09:23 AM |
| 3 | HVM will do ANYTHING to make you succeedThank you so much, I don't want to brag, but I wish EVERY single lady here a relationship like this; since all I see is 👑👑👑 (of course only if they want to, being single also has a lot of perks!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 09:23 AM |
| 4 | HVM will do ANYTHING to make you succeedThat's seriously awesome!!!! It shows so much excitement for you and your endeavors. That's really great, you deserve to be treated like the queen you are 🤗 I hope you choose a path that fullfils you completely. I can definitely recommend going back to school. It's so awesome to feel loved and supported while you're kicking ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 09:21 AM |
| 7 | HVM will do ANYTHING to make you succeedYeah.. I have those visions sometimes 😉. But, I'm also very cautious. Life learned me so much. Men can turn around at any time. I hope he doesn't, I don't think he will. But even if he does... I will have me. And I'm really happy with her, for once in my life 🤗❤️ No man (HVM/LVM/NVM) can replace that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 09:18 AM |
| 20 | Is anyone else kind of interested to see how people's faces turn out? (Aging)I got botox for myself to fix that (a minimal amount, 2 zones). I couldn't stand looking at a 10 years older face in the course of such a short span of time. My ex hated botox. That felt extra liberating 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 08:41 AM |
| 58 | My favorite part is how her female friends are surrounding her for this epic momentShe is a reigning queen, mi gado 🤣😂❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 03:05 PM |
| 3 | BIRTHDAY MEGATHREAD! HAPPY 100K BIRTHDAY FDS!🎂 IN CELEBRATION PLEASE POST ONE WAY THAT FDS CHANGED YOU AND YOUR LIFE. KEEP LEVELLING UP QUEENS🥂🥂🥂🥂🍾🍾🍾🍾So. About 1,5 years ago I was contemplating killing myself. My ex scrote made me lose my house, job and health after a horrible traumatizing event. I layed in bed for months. Unable to sleep or do ANYTHING. I got really sad, but I decided starting dating again; with new rules that align with FDS standards. I had a nice little scrotation going on, when I stumbled upon FDS. I already changed my life, but I had found a community and language in which to address my annoyances. I decided to ditch my … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 04:11 PM |
| 28 | How to remain HVW while still being anti-marriage / childfree?If you're anti marriage / childfree and you're happy that way; why change it? Especially for a guy. If you're doubting it: have a convo with yourself about the subject. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 06:28 PM |
| 3 | How long should I date him before moving on?You can still keep dating him, but only take the fun stuff and (re)build your scrotation.. Use him like he uses you, that would be my advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 06:26 PM |
| 20 | How long should I date him before moving on?I (26) had a scrote like this!! Dated the man child (34) for 8 months. To be honest, I was already on my FDS mindset and he was in my scrotation just for his boat and some nice companionship (I was ditching LVFriends so I felt lonely sometimes). He would do everything, the whole enchilada; weekends away, gifts, sleepovers.. Except showing some balls and ask me to be his gf/fiancee (I'm so glad he didn't, now!). He thought we were dating exclusively but I promised myself to never ditch my scrotat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 03:19 PM |
| 16 | What do you guys think about the show "Jane The Virgin"It has the looks of a telenovela, which is nice. But Jane annoys me to no end. The women constantly switch between a HV act while the series is being drenched with PickMe-behaviors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 10:33 PM |
| 1 | The whole I’m ready to settle down memeWe'll be each others! Hihi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/20 05:42 AM |
| 9 | The whole I’m ready to settle down memeYou're so right. That's probably why they're so salty: they'll never be able to form ANY healthy relationship while the 'sluts' they secretly admire, are getting fun/fucked on a daily basis. The 'whores' get to pick any guy they'd like and they will 'finish last' (if they even get to finish at all 😂) while having NO clue that their personality and attitude fully contributed to that 🤪 They're delusional. I'm happy more and more women are standing up for themselves, each other and their rights. Le… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/20 10:41 PM |
| 3 | Unlike women who don’t give blow jobs, I don’t care about fancy dates 😂 Go!Unlike the women who sext, I can change a tire 😂 Damn... Does sound like a PickMe right there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 03:25 PM |
| 10 | What about STI tests?If my bf (since I ain't spreading my legs for no one but a serious bf) wants to fuck without protection, he has to show me a recent test aka not older than 1 week. Including testing for Herpes, syphilis, aids/HIV, gonorrhea and all the other important ones, of course. I do want to use condoms before I ovulate, during ovulation and 7 days after. So I only do bare sex for +-1,5 weeks (I use an app for that!). I always test with them, I think that's fair. Never had an STI. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 09:46 PM |
| 24 | I’m convinced OLD is a wasteland.I used to have to resort to OLD since I'm in a women dominated field and I have very ladylike hobbies. I figured out some structure in it though! For every 30 dates I had, I usually had 1 HVM for in my scrotation. That means that for 3 HVM's in the scrotation, I needed to go on 87 awful dates. I fucking hated it. But realising this made me decide that I would only go on dinner dates within a 5 minute radius of my home (I lived in the city centre). I could easily let the guys schedule 3/4 dates i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 07:11 PM |
| -25 | MOD UPDATE: No more LVM ex-boyfriend collages. They are all pretty much the same and we don't want LVM stank all over our subreddit. Effective immediately, any collages about substandard men will be removed.How do we feel about a real ex collage? Post a pic of all your ex's for the world to enjoy (and of course make them unrecognizable!!!! Blur and NO NAMES?). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 09:33 AM |
| 8 | I kind of love this... not trying to shame anyone but exactly- why would you give away the most powerful and incredible force in the universe to some guy that doesn't shower?Exactly this. I'm so happy I found a like-minded community. I was always so annoyed by people telling me how dangerous that attitude was, I understand them completely now. ❤️ Much love! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 09:28 AM |
| 25 | An HV reaction to abnormally low sex drive (Commentary in the comments)Studying for my history, geagraphic and nature studies exam makes me feel so sexless for like 2 weeks already. I don't want to think about sex when I need to think about Karel V or the 2nd world war. So I asked my bf if he's disturbed or worried about our lack of sex the last two weeks; we love to fuck every other day or so and we're highly sex driven. He told me that he's more worried about my exams than his dick so he'd rather see me studying than naked at this point in time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 07:00 AM |
| 7 | Incels new chart about women.Hi twin! ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 06:48 AM |
| 2 | Beyond the peen: what are your physical preferences when it comes to men's appearances?I'm 5"5. I date(d) men > 6"0. I don't particularly like muscular guys, I'm definitely not into skinny boney types anymore though. His body type must be normal or a little muscled. They need to look at least 30 yo but with a maximum of 37 yo (they are all so wrinkly and ugly over that age...). I really like a strong jawline, every guy I ever dated had a really strong one. Straight, clean teeth and a good wardrobe are a must. I love blue eyes; I only date blue eyed guys. I prefer them blonde, but … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 06:49 PM |
| 2 | This makes me sick to my stomach❤️ No girl should go through this shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 05:48 AM |
| 1 | This makes me sick to my stomachGrown guys starting preying on you, fucks you up so early. I would get shade from women for developing as well, even my own grandma 😪 I was always 'the bad example'. While being a church going virgin girl with her nose burried In a book all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 05:47 AM |
| 2 | This makes me sick to my stomachThe initial bullying came from girls. But now I'm older I notice that even that might have been fueled by the boys..! It pushed me to PickMeisha'ism real early. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 05:44 AM |
| 1 | This makes me sick to my stomach😔 That's really sad. It singles you out so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 05:43 AM |
| 2 | This makes me sick to my stomachThank you ❤️ Getting older did a lot for me. I know that most women undergo somewhat of the same treatment, but that took some time to realise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 05:42 AM |
| 2 | LVM is very upset about being told what being a woman is like after lecturing other men about what it entails to be a woman 🤣FUCK ME FOR LAUGHING AT HIM! 🤪 ITS HARASSMENT!!!!! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 07:42 PM |
| 1 | leaving that toxic nvm was the best decision i ever madeDump the trash sis ❤️ You will feel so much lighter in a while. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 07:32 PM |
| 94 | This makes me sick to my stomachI feel so bad for this girl. Shit like this happened to me on the regular. School (13 yo): 'You're just too adult-looking to be wearing the same stuff as all your classmates wear'. ' Girl scouts (10yo): 'Perhaps you need to cover up more when you have boobs like that'. Side job(14yo): 'Just wear a man's uniform then, we don't have blouses for women that are big at the top and narrow at the waist, you will distract men'. I could go on FOR DAYS... I can't help the fact that I have boobs. I could'v… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 03:29 PM |
| 10 | leaving that toxic nvm was the best decision i ever madeI feel this one ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Do you think women's standards for men have become too high and their hypergamy has got out of control?No, my bf is the living example. There are a lot of guys like him, why waste your time with a waste of space? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 10:54 PM |
| 13 | 😂 they're watching us 👀If he wants to understand, he will. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 04:00 PM |
| 12 | I think the Netflix Cuties movie may have just ended my relationship.I showed my bf the first promo pic and he was physically repulsed. He said: 'that, right there, are young sexualized girls. Who are being perved on by douchebags. Where's their dad/mom? Where is our responsibility as a society to let this see daylight?'. Fucking gold, this man 👑🌸 How could your (ex) bf be so cold about child pornography? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Do not date "newly single" or "recently separated" men. You are not an emotional support animal.I'm glad you gained so much wisdom ❤️ But sometimes indifference isn't possible. At all. If the trauma you endured was so incredibly hard and detrimental, it's possible you'll never feel indifferent to it/the person who caused it. Then you'll have to move on, whether you want it or not. I'm not a believer of the pet peeve 'the opposite of love is indifference'. The opposite of love is hate, and it isn't interchangeable with love. Hate and love are two very strong feelings, but they're not 'close… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 05:47 AM |
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