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| 122 | That’s a pretty low bar for ‘relationship goals’. And they say women are gold diggers. | PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAME | man-in-trash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 11:35 AM |
| 112 | I can’t imagine how anything but a clear ‘yes’ is attractive. | GLOBAL RESISTANCE | man-in-trash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 11:58 AM |
| 90 | Come join in the fun. There are two women I may have convinced not to lower their standards. | SCROTES MAD | man-in-trash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 01:57 PM |
| 40 | It’s hard to watch, but if you’re looking for a film about a man who dragged himself out of actual hell and made something of life, it’s worth the time. | FDS MOVIES & TV | man-in-trash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 02:34 PM |
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| 4 | [UPDATE] Just found condoms in my LTR purse. WE DON’T USE CONDOMS.She should definitely next your ass. Neurotic much? | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 01:31 PM |
| 7 | GF recently got cancer. I was planning to end things leading up to this and now don't know how to do so without being the bad guy.You’ve been planning to end things ‘leading up to this’, but you didn’t. She gained 20kg in 6 mths (maybe bc of the cancer). Sure, end it, but don’t try to justify you were the good guy. You should have ended it when it was over. Coward. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 01:12 PM |
| 12 | There is no such thing as female privilege.Let’s not forget that men have normalized hitting, slapping, choking and abusing women in sex too. They don’t just do it in anger, fury and control, they do it and try to pass it off as intimacy too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 01:29 AM |
| 33 | Where's the lie?Never truer words written. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 09:15 AM |
| 2 | It do be like thatFrightening in its accuracy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 09:01 AM |
| 100 | Biology warning: men’s sperm has a clock AND it creates higher pregnancy risks for you and your child! Beware men over 35 yo.There have also been studies recently that show men may be responsible for passing on the addiction gene for alcoholism, that alcohol consumption in men may be a cause of fetal alcohol syndrome, that men who drank alcohol during the time leading up to conception have children exhibiting a range of behavioral disorders such as ADHD. Glad to see science is finally acknowledging that while women carry the literal burden of pregnancy and birthing, there’s finally some recognition for the defective m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 01:56 PM |
| 19 | "it's just a fantasy! "Of course. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 02:23 PM |
| 45 | "it's just a fantasy! "I do not know of a single woman who defends this shit outside of Reddit pickmes (plenty of late teen girls defend it in a variety of relationship/dating subs, but I do wonder how many ‘teen girls’ on Reddit are just fat, balding, predatory old men). The golden precursor to this is old men who date young women. We all know the trope - he tells her (and she thinks it’s true) that she’s ‘so mature’, so much more than women his age and so many of us older women ate this shit up in our 20s. No. The r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 01:58 PM |
| 32 | Male lurkers. The kids are 100% YOURS. don't ever call me :)One of the best things about this sub is that it encourages women to support each other and not compete with each other (like pickmes do). If he wants you to compete with other women, you do not want him. The way women in this sub lift up women who want to be moms, who do not want to ever be a mom, who are single moms, who are single moms but don’t want to be step moms, who aren’t moms, but willing to be step moms, who don’t want to give birth but will adopt a child or the kids of a HVM, honestl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 12:58 PM |
| 3 | I want to puke. His dad makes fap material of him and his barely legal girlfriend and he "doesn't know what to do".Oh hell no. Please don’t tell me he has a younger sister or I’m going to cry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 02:40 PM |
| 22 | Polyandry be like 🙃Whole man disposal service. Yes, the whole man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 02:36 PM |
| 64 | Amateur porn is just as bad as professional porn! When men look at porn they can’t verify if the woman’s involved is a consenting/willing party or not, and most men don’t care. This is exactly why you shouldn’t date a porn addicted man.I think a very high percentage of ‘women’ on Reddit who claim to ‘love porn and abusive sex’ are men. It’s frequently obvious in the language they use. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 07:15 AM |
| 7 | It’s hard to watch, but if you’re looking for a film about a man who dragged himself out of actual hell and made something of life, it’s worth the time.Yes, I did roll my eyes a few times at his male entitlement, but I do think for a boy who was horribly abused, he did well not to become an abuser himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 03:42 AM |
| 25 | Why do guys have to remind women that we're physically weaker every chance they get?It’s a threat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 01:50 PM |
| 11 | Dear men, we don’t give two shits what you want. Signed, A real womanHAHAHAHAHAHA. Omg. We’d just like you to act like the grown man you are. You know, have a job, pay your bills, treat us with respect, wash your ass, brush your teeth. Seems like the bar is some kind of nebulous fantasy light-sabre for women and a rusted piece of shit on the ground for men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 01:43 PM |
| 2 | mAyBe hE’s JUsT tOo dEpReSsEd tO wIpEThis is incredibly disgusting. Men seriously think it’s okay to bring their excrement to bed with them. I don’t even know teenagers either hygiene this bad. What a revolting creep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 01:03 PM |
| 7 | Absolutely Speechless- Scrotes doesn’t get GF an Xmas present but gives £1000 to his OnlyFans lady. GF doesn’t dump him.What the fuck did I just read? What the hell is wrong with men?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 12:54 PM |
| 55 | Come join in the fun. There are two women I may have convinced not to lower their standards.It doesn’t matter if he doesn’t participate. His silence is complicity. This is rape culture. I won’t call out my bros for their shitty misogyny, but I reserve the right to be angry when women treat me like shit. You reap what you sow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 02:42 PM |
| 78 | Come join in the fun. There are two women I may have convinced not to lower their standards.Her bf was in several group chats with the same group of male friends. This one chat was a GC to swap and discuss nudes of women they all know. OP was uncomfortable with this and raised it with her bf who refused to leave the chat because his bros might think he was beta and then he gaslit her to hell for being uncomfortable. He is still in the other chats with his friends for gaming etc. She said he didn’t comment or participate, but still viewed the pics and comments. She saw this on his phone… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 02:23 PM |
| 71 | A man taking responsibility, we love to see it!Exactly. It’s great he can take the feedback, but he’s an adult, not a child. He would happily have let her carry on doing everything had she not raised it. It’s not a woman’s job to raise an adult man. If he was a whole, entire adult, ready for a relationship with a woman, he’d be capable of cleaning up after himself without needing her emotional labor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 03:13 PM |
| 7 | Telling on themselves again. So many things wrong with all of this.Not to mention the scrote/pimp who runs it takes a 30% cut. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 12:41 PM |
| 3 | His Dick Fell OffOMG. Finally a legitimate use of OF! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 12:33 PM |
| 1 | 😂😂That’s a lot of words to say “I’ve never made a woman orgasm”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 12:24 PM |
| 43 | This scumbag commenting on documentaries about an Indian acid attack victimPlease don’t tell me this is about that horrifying case of the alcoholic gambler who ‘bet’ his wife and then ‘gave’ her to the men he owed money to for them to gang rape her for a month, and after a particularly horrifying attack on her, she refused to go to them again, so he threw acid at her? Because no amount of justification or whataboutery can even touch such an evil act. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 01:14 PM |
| 100 | 'Us men, we are hunters. The harder the challenge, the grater the reward'. 'Thats why we see her as a prize'. Someone really stamped on this scrotes 👌tiny peepee by simply being desirable and sought after🤣“don’t offer free attention” says the dude who will cry-wank because he didn’t get free therapy and room and board for the night. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 11:08 AM |
| 114 | One step closer!!! Pornhub has removed over 10 million videos from unverified users due to Mastercard and Visa cutting ties with the site. Don't forget how many YEARS these corporations made money off exploitation.That is apparently over 80% of their content they deleted in a couple of days. Says a lot about how hard they worked to remove reported content before this. I guess the abuse of women and children only matters when it also damages your revenue. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 12:18 PM |
| 7 | What I learned from being an evil stepmomIt is so true that many single fathers are more permissive and let their kids run amok. Even really nice kids will behave like entitled little shits if they aren’t called to account. If you see this out of control stuff going on at his place, ask him if they’re allowed to behave like that at their mom’s, and if not, why do you think that is? If a man’s children are climbing the furniture and leaving food scraps around the house at his place, you can bet they’ll treat yours like a climbing gym an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 01:07 AM |
| 121 | There is so much hilarity in this post. But if I had to pick my favorite, it’s that even an incel chooses the women who make him invest in them. Never prize yourself on looks or circumstances: you are a queen the moment you decide you are.She has a ‘web-based business’. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 05:20 AM |
| 60 | I've most definitely learned this the hard way. Lowering your standards will cause you to lose respect for yourself in the long run, and it will never be enough for LVM. What is one dating standard you won't compromise on?Personal hygiene. If a grown man doesn’t know how to clean himself, I’m sure as hell not going near him and I’m certainly not going to teach him how to wash his ass and brush his teeth. So many men can’t take care of this one simple, daily part of life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 12:50 AM |
| 94 | Sunk Cost Fallacy in full effectShe defends it by saying he’s a ‘God among men’ if he tries to stop because he’ll be ‘sacrificing his own sexuality’ for yours. And yet she’s sacrificed her own sexuality to accommodate his disgusting, damaging addiction. Yeah, that sounds like a healthy relationship. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 12:40 AM |
| 97 | Mastercard severs ties with Pornhub and Visa suspends payment processingThis is huge! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 02:29 PM |
| 38 | "Prime teen puss"“prime and developed girl” He knows exactly what he’s saying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 08:32 AM |
| 49 | My heart is breaking for this woman.I’m judging. He wants to ‘do to her’ not ‘with her’. This is the language they talked about in the studies on how porn changes the way men see women. He sees her as a thing to do things to, not a person to do things with. Horrifically objectifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 01:42 AM |
| 206 | Straight men shouldn't be OBGYNs- what are your thoughts?It helps to have body parts in common with your doctor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 01:38 AM |
| 11 | "females" "men" it's a yikes from me dawgI don’t care about his sexuality, he’s just an asshole. Anyone who calls men ‘men’ and women ‘females’ is a class one misogynist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 01:03 AM |
| 14 | That’s a pretty low bar for ‘relationship goals’. And they say women are gold diggers.So one-sided. So many of my friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 03:19 PM |
| 16 | That’s a pretty low bar for ‘relationship goals’. And they say women are gold diggers.Apparently. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 03:18 PM |
| 18 | That’s a pretty low bar for ‘relationship goals’. And they say women are gold diggers.Step 3, block and delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 03:17 PM |
| 77 | That’s a pretty low bar for ‘relationship goals’. And they say women are gold diggers.I thought it was even more gross that some clown posted it to r/relationshipgoals. Really? Your ideal relationship goal is to get a gaming console? I can think of a thousand things I’d like more from a relationship, starting with respect, consideration, participation, responsibility, but no, all a man wants is to twiddle a controller for hours and shrink his grey matter and vocabulary. You can probably watch porn on it too. Oh look what a surprise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 12:08 PM |
| 113 | That’s what you get for dating someone your kid’s age.He met her when she was 22 and he was 34🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 10:37 PM |
| 79 | Girls are posting this picture all over their Instagrams. Toxic pick me culture is believing that you are some sort of mystical godly creature that's more worthy and deserving of love than other womenWhen are women going to stop using ‘females’? It’s repellant enough when men do it, but why have so many women bought into this reduction of our womanhood? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 10:23 PM |
| 7 | I don’t know how to escape BDSMI’m glad you’ve found this community and made this decision. It’s not a community I have any experience with, but maybe therapy would be a good start. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 10:19 PM |
| 71 | "MGTOW: “There are no real differences between a 16-year-old girl and a 30-year-old woman"...And they continue to say we're just like these pedos/predators.It’s not a mistake, it’s how they think they can control us. They think if they say it’s jealousy often enough, everyone will believe them, including women and girls. The reality is that it’s disgusting to women because we were teenaged girls once and can remember the lecherous creeps who hit on us, including our dad’s friends etc. Or we were brainwashed enough to believe them and allowed ourselves to be manipulated and abused by older men, thinking we were so mature. Or we’ve now got girls that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 11:22 PM |
| 27 | Did you also notice this?It’s interesting, because hypergamy has reversed, at least as far as education goes in many countries. The pay gap persists of course, but men get very angry when I tell them that hypogamy is on the rise in almost every country in the world. Your comment is spot-on though. It’s all part of that great double standard. Article here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 11:02 PM |
| 42 | You don't even have to try to weed them out on OLD, you just breathe at them and they melt into incels mid-conversationHe should have stopped at ‘Have a great night’. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 01:42 PM |
| 152 | This is why you don't discuss any sexual trauma or just anything from your past with males. His GF was abused by 10 guys and he has the audacity to refer to her as "promiscuous" due to that.Have you noticed how it’s ok for him to be ‘insecure’ about something she was forced into years ago and never enjoyed but it’s not ok for women to be ‘insecure’ about men watching porn, subscribing to OF or following a thousand Insta models? ‘Insecurity’ is such a great and all-encompassing cloak for men’s basic lack of self control when they want to deflect it to us. Sure Brad, the fact I won’t threeway you with the teenager who serves you coffee every Monday is all about my own insecurity and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 01:03 PM |
| 7 | "We want to make you happy. The fact is, we love when you orgasm almost as much as we love it when we do."This exactly. Call it out for what it is. Not just that the camera-angle sex is uncomfortable, painful or just unsexy, but that his ED isn’t helped by him jerking it every day. Death grip is real. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 01:56 AM |
| 7 | Where's the lie?Wine bottles? WTF? That’s so twisted. The threesome thing is such a bore. Lots of women have experimented sexually or had a relationship or two with a woman, or identify as bisexual. That does NOT mean women want group sex. The two things are totally unrelated and it boggles the mind that men can’t work out how to use an iron or fry pan but they can invent a non-existent connection between bisexuality and group sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 01:24 AM |
| 3 | If you have to drop hints, then he doesn’t really want you.She should have bought it herself. Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 01:19 AM |
| 9 | Where's the lie?I think the solution is to keep your standards. There are men out there who are interested in a respectful relationship and there are men out there who believe they have to ask for or are expected to just do this stuff. One guy asked for anal and I just shot back “Why?” He had no answer for this. He ended up saying he thought that was what ‘everyone’ was doing. I asked if he genuinely thought that or if he’d seen it it in porn and just wanted to try it on. He mumbled something about porn and I s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 01:17 AM |
| 2 | When men call women “females”So true and so completely and deliberately disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 12:41 AM |
| 56 | When men call women “females”When men call women females, I interrupt them and ask “A female WHAT?” You know, women. No, I don’t know. When you use ‘female’ you reduce us to a feature of biology that generally references reproductive capacity. ‘Female’ could be a camel, goat, or skink. Of course it could also be a woman, known as an adult female human, but ‘woman’ is easier and quicker to say. I also hate men who call women ‘girls’. It’s so damn creepy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 02:34 PM |
| 32 | If you have to drop hints, then he doesn’t really want you.Yes, and it’s from Pandora. A hundred fifty or so? It’s on her right hand though, so not an engagement ring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 02:29 PM |
| 42 | Where's the lie?My cup runneth over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 12:16 PM |
| 264 | Where's the lie?I’m so sorry your generation are really bearing the worst of this porn-sick epidemic, and it must be just awful for you. As a woman in my 40s, I didn’t have to deal with any of these things at your age. Like literally, it wasn’t until I started dating again after my marriage ended a few years ago that suddenly domestic abuse was on the sex menu. I was like WTF?? No, you sick losers. That’s not passion, not intimacy, not love and it is definitely not what women with any self-respect are looking f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 12:16 PM |
| 18 | Let's sing a song: WOMEN🎶ARE🎶NOT🎶YOUR🎶THERAPISTS.This is a threat 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 12:10 PM |
| 160 | He says it’s a sign of disrespect towards him to not have lost the baby weight already- after giving birth to their 7th child. The audacity!He finds time to work out every day and is very fit. She cooks three meals a day for EIGHT people and is feeding the NINTH from her own body. She probably does all the laundry and cleaning too. He is a selfish ass. This belongs on r/amiwithanasshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 01:23 AM |
| 79 | Reading this honestly made me feel...just sad. She's so very proud of herself for being a CoolGirl.This woman just wasted an entire day of her life that she could have spent doing something productive, useful or fun. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 10:05 PM |
| 76 | this angers me so muchMy ex literally put this in his court papers in our parenting dispute. He wanted me to send a separate email for each separate issue. Okay 🤡, let me break your inbox over this week’s stupidity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 02:04 PM |
| 1 | I’m so disgustedTo be clear, if we follow the ‘demand increases supply’ argument, we know that men will not stop seeking this rubbish out. It’s not victim blaming at all for women to take a collective stance and demand better treatment of women. Sure, let the pickmes keep up the supply until they wake up to their trashed reputations when they try to get a professional job. Let men keep outing themselves as LVM or NVM by engaging with this content, including the filthy creeps in senior jobs who limit women’s car… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 01:59 PM |
| 12 | I’m so disgustedI don’t think she’s blaming her at all, but in answer to your question - supply and demand. If fewer women engaged in this industry, there would be less of this trashy stuff out there for men to consume. Yes, the man is as low value as they come and he should have more self control and her anger is and should be directed at him for his shitty behavior, but porn is deeply problematic on a social level and cam girls even more so. Watching porn destroys grey matter, but men can interact with cam gi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 07:38 AM |
| 30 | Reminder that words mean nothing, always pay attention to their level of effort through actions.I have dumped every guy who texted me at unsociable hours. It’s so damn rude. It just shows they have no respect for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 06:43 AM |
| 3 | Men can turn on you at any moment, even if you're famous.I think your girlfriends might be lying. Or maybe they just don’t know what assault or abuse looks like because they’ve been groomed so well by media and society. First time I was cat-called I was about 10. It’s been relentless since then and I wouldn’t even consider myself above average attractiveness. I’m tall and lean and fair though, so I stand out. Your friends should ask themselves if they’ve ever been cat-called on the street, propositioned or groped in a club, had a boyfriend take consen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 12:46 PM |
| 32 | Men can turn on you at any moment, even if you're famous.I do not know a single woman who has not been assaulted or abused by a man. Not one. Let that sink in. I know a lot of men who (claim that they) never assaulted a woman. I quite literally do not know a woman who has not been harassed or assaulted by a man. Quelle surprise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Give an inch and it tells them they can take a mile. Your boundaries are valid, and not up for discussion. All of them. No means no, and is a complete answer👏🏻Happened to me once. Thankfully I was with friends who carried me home and never left my side. I was horribly sick for over a week. To think that men drug women to the point they’re practically comatose and then rape them shows how fully depraved these men really are. Their minds are pure fury and they see women as nothing more than objects. Like a fleshlight with a pulse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 09:43 AM |
| 7 | Happy Holidays! 😜‘My last girlfriend had a problem with this too’. Uh, did it ever occur to you that if multiple women have a problem with your shit, the problem might be you, not them? Of course not. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 01:27 PM |
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