| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Why I quit OLD | ROAST-A-SCROTE | Kingkazola | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 04:55 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 45 | Women who play video games and want a partner to play with; Navigating the toxic wasteland of Gamer BoysMy fiance and I play games on occasion I don't think gaming is inherently problematic but maybe it's because we're both in our early 20's? We don't spend everyday gaming just a few hours every so often. There are some genuinely decent games out there that you can come back to every once in awhile, like Animal crossing or we play co op games together. It was never a red flag for me because I never needed to ask him to get off his game because he knows when to help me immediately. So I don't think… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/22 03:25 PM |
| 96 | BE ALERT: Men on TikTok are fantasizing about ways to hurt women on imaginary dates.They need to be on a FBI watchlist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 08:14 PM |
| 21 | Have you ever seen your threads on FDS being shared in other subs?I'm sorry they did that, I would honestly just turn off comment notifications. They're mostly racist white incels. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 08:12 PM |
| 11 | Have you ever seen your threads on FDS being shared in other subs?Yeah they're pathetic so, I just ignore them. No use in arguing with brain dead scrotes 🤷🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 08:11 PM |
| 13 | Is there even a bar anymore?A good example of this, would be Mike and Ximena from 90 day fiance (if you guys have seen that show). Mike was this super socially awkward sex tourist, who all the incels and pick-me's were rooting for because they could relate to him and he was "so pure and innocent". Ximena was a poor woman from south america that had 2 kids. They demonized her because she didn't like him, due to his poor hygiene issues and him being immature and acting like a child. Everyone also expected her to cut him some… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 06:16 PM |
| 1 | But sex work is work, amirite?Sadly, the truth I doubt it's going to get better overtime either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 11:04 PM |
| 9 | The mental process of a pickme - it’s long but I feel like we have all been herShe desperately needs FDS, I was making these kinds of mistakes with guys at age 20. Even though the whole thing is cringy, I can't help but feel sad for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 09:54 PM |
| 4 | I love this hot take 😂👏🏼I was wondering why this was so controversial when I saw a bunch of scrotes mad at this post on the trashy subreddit lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Something positive for onceAwww that's so sweet ❤️❤️ and I hope you recover well! I'm also deeply sorry for your loss. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 07:11 PM |
| 207 | But sex work is work, amirite?Funny how all these redditors come out saying it's gross and he deserves to know. While they're simultaneously paying for onlyfans and watching porn. A woman choosing to do sex work on her own is only a problem when it somehow inconveniences a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 07:09 PM |
| 3 | The Guide to Being Approved (ie, Getting a Flair)Thank you guys for keeping this place a safe environment for women. We appreciate the hard work you guys do ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Like…I know it’s bad, but I didn’t know it was THIS bad.No. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 06:52 PM |
| 3 | Have any of you had an actual relationship from tinder?Nope most of the guys I met from tinder were various levels of crazy,but I met my now fiance on bumble we've been together for about 2 years. Though I will admit I got insanely lucky since most of the time relationships from dating apps don't turn out that well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 06:48 PM |
| 6 | Geriatric 65 yr old scrote is telling people that I led him on…This is way too common I'm 22 and I've had Uber drivers 50+ hit on me and make uncomfortable comments about my body. Even old age doesn't stop them from being disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 04:46 PM |
| 5 | The difference between being a famous man and a famous woman…I fucking hate this site but it's the only place that has FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 01:53 PM |
| 3 | Horrifying TikTok trend where boys and men joke about going on a date with a girl or woman and describe how they would murder her.I'm just so confused by the amount of harmful and depraved things TikTock allows on their platform. Luckily I only follow mostly other women creators so I've never run across this. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 01:07 PM |
| 9 | Husband Hates Wife: CEO Edition. He refers to his wife publicly as a "sucker", she asked HIM out, they dated for 5 years before getting married. This is his anniversary post after 12 years of marriage.He clearly hates her, I feel horrible for any woman stuck in a loveless marriage like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 01:01 PM |
| 7 | FDS seems to be catching on, on Reddit : good job ladies!I'm happy to hear this, saving more women by the day! 🥳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Has a man ever left you or started abusing you when something negative happened to your looks?He called me fat then I walked in on him cheating on me with a woman who was significantly larger than myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 05:34 AM |
| 2 | Only 19 years old 😭 she shouldn’t tolerate thisEven back when I was 19 making horrible life choices.I never saw the appeal of older guys it always seems so perverse and disgusting. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 05:31 AM |
| 1 | I could not find ONE comment saying she’s in the right. He expects her to come over on the first date but gets offended when she mentions him paying for tea. A $2 item. 🥴This is why before even going on a low- effort date like that he either agrees to pay or I'm staying home. 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 05:26 AM |
| 4 | when men have nothing else they have the audacityThey just keep getting more depraved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 05:24 AM |
| 2 | Man wants to have a kid with his wife's younger sister....the traditional way. This poor woman is actually confused about it. WHAT.This isn't even a question divorce immediately. Also as an older sister if any man had said that to me, about one of MY sisters. I would deck him in the face. 💁🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 05:22 AM |
| 3 | Safe spaces for women CANNOT have men! If men are included it ceases to be a safe space for women.That's why im glad this subreddit exists its the only place where i truly feel safe without men butting in on everything. There's even too many men on the babybumps sub reddit every so often a random guy comes in posting about something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 05:14 AM |
| 1 | TW: nasty as hell. I don’t even have words..Honestly, couldn't get past the title that's revolting 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 04:59 AM |
| 3 | Incel saying the quiet part out loud: we’re not people to them.Just say you like men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 12:05 AM |
| 5 | Update on my LVM dad: We had a car crash and yup, he is a sociopath narcissistMy dad is excatly what you described here he got my brother in a pretty bad car accident and he physically abused my sisters and I growing up. Abusive fathers with narcissism never change I would focus on trying to escape with your mind intact as soon as you can. I'm sorry for what you're going through as well hopefully your situation improves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 11:55 PM |
| 8 | How'd You Find FDS?I found it while browing that banned sub trufemcels 2 years ago back in my pick-me days. It was for lonely women that lacked social skills and conventional attractiveness. Eventually after posting on there complaining about the shitty dates I've been on with men I stumbled across this sub. FDS has completely transformed my life in the best way possible I wouldn't be where I am today without it. ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 11:45 PM |
| 5 | Porn sick scrote almost killed his girlfriend performing kink. THIS IS DANGEROUS!This is extremely horrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 11:41 PM |
| 27 | When the guy you're dating doesn't even send you a message on valentines....Block and delete I've dealt with this same situation millions of times. Don't embarrass yourself by waiting for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 11:40 PM |
| 12 | Me and the other girls in my theater class in high school were constructing props in the library late at night and we all had a tearful heart to heart about all the abuse we have received by men. That night we learned that each and every girl had been raped and/or beaten by a bf or family member.I apologize I misunderstood your comment, but at least we can bond over traumatic childhood experiences! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 09:13 PM |
| 12 | Me and the other girls in my theater class in high school were constructing props in the library late at night and we all had a tearful heart to heart about all the abuse we have received by men. That night we learned that each and every girl had been raped and/or beaten by a bf or family member.Thank you I was thinking I was unusual for joking about such horrid experiences but I've been actively seeking out therapy thank you though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 09:12 PM |
| 26 | Me and the other girls in my theater class in high school were constructing props in the library late at night and we all had a tearful heart to heart about all the abuse we have received by men. That night we learned that each and every girl had been raped and/or beaten by a bf or family member.I mean I always use humor to cope with things I've always been that way since my father used to physically abuse me growing up. It might be different for others but that's just how I feel better. I don't know if you're also trying to make fun of me with that hashtag either ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 06:17 PM |
| 89 | Me and the other girls in my theater class in high school were constructing props in the library late at night and we all had a tearful heart to heart about all the abuse we have received by men. That night we learned that each and every girl had been raped and/or beaten by a bf or family member.I've been raped too a couple of times. I'm not really sure how I'm supposed to react to it I just kinda ignore it or hope the memories fade. I didn't realize how fucked up it was until I tried to make a joke about it while I was around a group of my female friends and they were all rightly horrified. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 05:56 PM |
| 40 | This is why we dont have sex with men who didnt commitI can't tell you the amount of times I've been on the receiving end of this before FDS. I'm so thankful I found this subreddit so this shit can never happen again 🙏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 10:42 PM |
| 13 | PSA: thank you FDA mods who go over and beyond 💛Yes thank you mods for creating a safe space for women 🖤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 07:54 PM |
| 21 | Reminder that words mean nothing, always pay attention to their level of effort through actions.I don't understand why they can't just do these things to show empathy or be loving they always have some other ulterior motive(most likely sex). Most men are trash unfortunately and this is just one of many examples. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 02:04 PM |
| 1 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highI'm so sorry that all of this is happening this is one of my favorite subreddits its taught me so much! Keep up the good fight ladies :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 04:03 PM |
| 9 | If you are a male lurker and feel you are healthy partner & catch because you do not blatantly cheat, hit, financially exploit, get excessively jealous/controlling, or pull other explicitly abusive red, orange, or yellow flags--check yourself. You are not a king for not being explicitly abusive.My ex's words never matched his actions he would apologize while crying (pretty sure he was emotionally manipulating me.) Then continued to do the same excat thing that made me upset in the first place. 🤦🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 02:56 PM |
| 3 | If you can’t keep your word, it’s a “no” from meThis happened to me too,recently! At first he seemed to be HV, because he bought me thoughtful presents,planned elaborate dates and gave me rent money when I was struggling. He was always prompt to respond to my texts despite being at work. Then towards the end he started flaking out on dates and taking hours to respond to texts. At first it was something innocent like,"I'm not feeling well, I'm sorry I can't make it." Then it escalated to, "I just feel like being alone." Boy bye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 11:08 PM |
| 4 | What were your biggest lightbulb moments from dates/ relationships that went wrong? For example, small things you easily overlooked in the beginning but in retrospect you realise were warning signs he was manipulative? Lets discuss!He told me he wanted a woman who could be a therapist for him 🤦🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 05:15 AM |
| 2 | IT'S HERE!! WE'VE LAUNCHED THEREALFEMALEDATINGSTRATEGY.COM WEBSITE! SIGN UP ASAP IN CASE WE'RE BANNED!I always get branded as a man because I have the word king in my name it's so frustrating but I'll be more than happy to share my pictures or hold up a sign to prove that I'm female | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/13/2020I just get frustrated by the LVM in my dms taking a day or two to talk to me and pretend to be interested,only to waste my time and try to emotionally manipulate me into sending nudes. When I very clearly set out my boundaries in the first place. Since when did no mean yes??? Why are you purposefully ignoring me expressing how uncomfortable and disgusted I am? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 03:59 AM |
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