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Women want to be cherished, provided for and protected. Got a problem? Don't date women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 05:31 AM
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Placeholder, he's looking for a placeholder. Any man who doesn't want to invest in you sees you as temporary, and therefore any investment in you as a loss. If a man sees you as permanent, it's not a loss since his investment in you benefits you both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 05:24 AM
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Its this 100%. They feel they need to be ok with their boyfriend ogling other women, because they know he would never stop. When they see other women being treated with respect they get bitter because it seems unfair to them, so they try to say "hey, you have to treat her poorly too because I am being treated poorly". I've never met a happy pickme who can keep her nose out of other's relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 12:48 AM
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This is so true. If you ask a man why he loves you and he lists nothing about you but a list of TASKS that can be done by any woman, understand that in his mind you could be replaced. Whether you want to stay in the relationship but put yourself first or start looking elsewhere, continuing to think you're special to him would make you a fool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 12:43 AM
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I've seen a few of these before and the I think they're all fan fiction scrotes write after seeing women on this sub prioritizing themselves and getting PISSED that we're not somewhere catering to a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 12:39 AM
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We need more wholesome content like this 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 01:36 AM
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This is why no woman should bother trying to date down in hopes of them being more appreciative of you. They're the exact same misogynistic scrotes - just uglier and will give you uglier kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 01:31 AM
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100%, was trying to have a back up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 01:27 AM
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My friend is having a similar realization recently. Thankfully she's considering leaving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:12 PM
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Let's bring CRADLE SNATCHERS back Or granddaughter fuckers. Make the name sick and jarring enough to drive the point home - that these men are pedophillic. Seeing how more and more normalized being a pedo is in society has taken any fear of "ending up alone" that I used to have completely away. I used to think WGTOW was pretty extreme but the more pedoey things get, the more appealing WGTOW gets. Like what is the point of men anymore?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:04 PM
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This is 100% true. They want virginal woman / pure women / innocent women (lets face it - children) because they get off on being the ones to corrupt them. If you don't believe me, consider the porn titles with words like "barely legal" "virgin" "teen" "pure" etc - it's always with verbs like "destroyed" "ruined" "wrecked" "abused" "ripped"... and very commonly "broken". Most scrotes really aren't worth it unless they are doing something really wonderful for your life. You never know if they're …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:48 PM
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These are the guys that complain that all their matches are asking them to cashapp them or buy them things. And they're genuinely surprised? As if their saggy grandpa ass isn't beyond revolting to young women who are around young fit men their own age?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:37 PM
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This doesn't even go into the fact that the likelihood for mental handicaps skyrockets the older then man is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:32 PM
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Why should we? Why don't THEY stop being so shallow if they're having such a hard time being alone. I would happily be single, you'll never see me begging some scrote to settle for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:28 PM
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When he says "date" he means "f*ck". What gives it away is that he says we have our pick of the litter - yeah if we want sex, but since most scrotes are liars it's not so easy for a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:25 PM
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He doesn't. He knows he's being cruel and he's getting a kick out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:13 PM
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This might sound mean but every time I think a pickme thought I go over to a particular sub (I'm not sure if we can refer to specific subs on here? I think one of my previous comments may have gotten deleted for it). Its the one where mothers complain about the difficulties of being a mom, but the posts often talk about how their LVM husbands don't lift a finger to help, and how the LVM clearly don't give a sh*t about them beyond being a nanny/maid anymore. If anyone with a history of being on F…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:05 PM
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Walk date is first red flag. If someone's trying to lowball you then they're just playing a numbers game. No guy ever tries to lowball a crush - they try to impress her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 05:29 PM
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This is a known tactic - they're essentially trying to give the scrotes a free pass to cheat or treat you poorly. It's suggesting that if a scrote cheated or mistreated you, it's your fault for not being a doormat. Like you should be a doormat, where you never challenge why he's at his exes house or why his social media says "single" because you're a good woman that gives him "peace of mind" right? Denzel is a cheater, this is what it's about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 05:23 PM
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That's it. Anytime some kinkmeisha or scrote tries to give me shit about my standards and boundaries, I'm going to say it's my kink and they're kinkshaming me. FDS is my kink. Its hot when the man pays for dates, sees me as the prize and cherishes me. I put myself first in life, and any man second. Also I only get in relationships with men that if they eventually end, my life would still have been improved by meeting them and my time not wasted. There's no point in me even replying to men who do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 05:08 PM
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Yes! And Happy Cake Day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:41 PM
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:/ She should call the ambulance or police to do a welfare check (depending on country) and his family/friends. You never know with some people, he might be serious. Personally I feel suicide threats should always be taken as if they were serious, just in case. Regardless of whether he's serious or not, the answer isn't staying with them and doing whatever they want. In both scenarios the best thing would be to alert someone of the situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:03 AM
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Yep, us ladies just need a vibrator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:54 AM
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I feel like eventually all these women will have the sad realization that's it's just scraps of validation they're chasing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 11:16 AM
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The very first line is a lie- "The booty call is a wonderful thing—it's like orgasms on demand!" 🤣 Nice try, talk to any woman, even a sex-possi-ONS loving woman, and she'll tell you otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 11:04 AM
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FDS is like the motherly or older sister advice I wish I received growing up. This is so true - how many men in our lives do we encounter that are crazy about us and cherish us - compared to the amount of men that wanted to pump and dump? The sad reality is that majority of the men you meet will have bad intentions for you, and the sooner you realize this the sooner you stop getting played.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 08:00 AM
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I feel this. I still desire a loving monogamous long term relationship, but FDS has really opened by eyes that men 100% know that a lot of women want this. FDS has shown me the way they dangle this carrot in front of women to get them to play pickme, while having no desire for the same thing with that woman AT ALL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 07:54 AM
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"he doesn't want to date you unless you put yourself on a huge discount" Wisdom 🙌 I'm writing that down
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 07:40 AM
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Its not the action that makes her a pickme it's the intention. Would the person help you clean? Usually if it's a friend, mother, sister etc they would, so I would help out too. Is it a uni party and the host is some guy that's one of your classmates friends? He wouldn't, so why would you? I have unfortunately seen this exact scenario in the wild, we were still sitting around drinking and eating while she awkwardly cleans around us, glancing at the guys every couple of seconds to see if they hav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 07:35 AM
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When you know he's cheated in the past, but he tries to justify it to you by saying what a btch she was. I never understood girls who date cheaters, you're just the next "crazy btch" he will tell the new girl about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 07:26 AM
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Focus on developing an interesting life, career and hobbies. The friends I know who do this don't have any other noteworthy aspect of themselves to build an identity on, so they settle for objectifying themselves. This might sound mean but think about the people you know who do this - if they stopped, they'd just be some random nobody would take notice of. Never stop self improving and developing yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 07:24 AM
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This might be a controversial opinion but with "separated" but still married/living together types, I would check with the wife. As another commenter mentioned - so many wifes thibk they have a happy marriage while their husband is telling girls he's separated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 07:15 AM
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You can always regain money. Time and youth, you cannot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 02:20 AM
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This is why we need women only spaces. Reddit wholeheartedly hates women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 09:59 PM
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Nah, red pillers openly try to spread their message of hatred for women. Fake male feminists are simply hiding their true intentions. I feel like one is way worse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 01:46 PM
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That doesn't surprise me at all. So much of misogyny is 100% pure projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 12:48 PM
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I've noticed this too. They are so proud of themselves for making a woman a single mother. I think it's important to see this mentality in other ways it presents itself - like how many scrotes intend to have a bangmaid wife raise the kids while he brags to his bros about his cheating. So many of them derive joy simply from lying and being cruel to us because it makes them feel like they have the upper hand and stokes their ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 12:40 PM
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The worst thing we do to scrotes is... ignore them? Yeah a lot of us here think men suck but we pose absolutely no danger, unlike these other pedo and rapey subs. It really shows that radical feminism is still necessary and the fight isn't over. Simply removing ourselves out of the reach of men with bad intentions is triggering them, because they are the ones with bad intentions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 12:31 PM
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I love this artwork. They like to pretend that certain depictions of women aren't problematic, but as soon as they are shown in that position they get SO OFFENDED. It reminds me of that art project that got some attention a few years ago where a lady swapped the genders in some common magazine ads and scrotes FLIPPED.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 12:22 PM
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Yeah it's clearly an attempt to make feminists look bad. It doesn't even make sense, since progressive women are more likely to go 50-50 and conservative women tend to expect the man to provide. (This is a big generalization, it of course happens the other way around as well.) If he's against feminism, so women looking out for their own lives and $ first, then how does he expect the housewife type to be able to pay? 404 logic not found
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 12:19 PM
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I'm really glad he posted this. 400+ is the extreme end but this is why players/f*ckboys/mansluts/PUAs are worthless for a relationship and should be filtered out. As soon as they adopt that kind of mentality, they can never turn back. It changes them forever. It's funny because the rp/incelly subs go on about how women having multiple sexual partners affects their ability to pair bond - and here is proof that it is actually scrotes who have this problem. I've never heard of a woman, even those …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 12:08 PM
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Omg this is brilliant. I would have said block them on the way home but pulling out your phone and doing it then and there is 100% better. So doing this from now on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:27 AM
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I've said it before and I'll say it again. Publicly thirsting over skimpy photos while in a relationship is announcing to the world "my girlfriend is a placeholder- I'm already shopping around for who's next". It could never be me, I'd leave at the first sign. How embarrassing for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 04:57 AM
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🤣 They give eachother the worst advice. Apparently all the handshakes I give at work make me horny every morning haha. One or two touches on the arm can be nice, but repeatedly trying to touch her over and over again is going to creep any girl out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 01:14 AM
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He sees women in this light predominantly because that's the women that populate all his social news feeds - only fans, sexualized tic tok dances and sugar babies. This is what he watches, so the algorithm shows him more until it is all he sees. I don't know how people can possibly keep arguing that things like this don't have a negative effect. A large portion of this generation of teen boys can only see women in 1 particular way because of exactly this reason. They don't have any interest in o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 04:08 PM
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Imagine her future self after he's cheated on her and dumped her, having to deal with the fact that these videos of her being a doormat for him are forever on the internet. She's going to learn why being pickme is a bad idea that hard way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 07:16 AM
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Because the husbands know the wives would do it. All the wives have to do is put their foot down. But many of them won't, and the husbands know that. The answer is simple - scrotes do it because they can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 09:58 PM
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I wholeheartedly agree with this video. She doesn't say anywhere that you'll be doing 100% of this once you're his wife - just to not do wifey stuff if you're not the wife. If you want to get married, he's got to have an incentive to marry you. If there's no difference between girlfriend and wife then you run the risk of being a forever girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 10:44 AM
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Are you just referring to the music or something else in the video?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 10:40 AM
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YES 🙌 In regards to your last paragraph - there is also a second, far more sinister type of scrote that this would help filter out - the PUAs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 08:42 AM
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I'm slightly disappointed at some of the comments here. So much male comedy is guys yelling things at the camera and nobody questions it. She doesn't have to be gentle and soft spoken 🎤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 03:31 AM
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Always date multiple men until you're in a committed relationship. Until you're his girlfriend and it's public, you're single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 09:41 AM
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Thank you for sharing this. I am on the fence about having kids, I keep flipping between being childfree and on the fence. If I do consider having kids, I plan on doing similar - seeing if he will be able to keep up with doing 50% of all domestic tasks and looking after our cat FOR AN EXTENDED PERIOD OF TIME. (I learnt this trial of sorts from my other childfree friend, but she only asked him to prove it for 2 months and then got pregnant. She is now a single mum in a relationship, and by that I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 12:44 AM
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Wife leaves and he creates a hazard that can burn the house down ha. It's always boggled my mind how some scrotes want to be seen as the head of the household and the boss etc, but then want to have a teenager / mommy dynamic. Like? Just wtf (not this dude specifically I mean in general)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 12:10 AM
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If you're not going to block, don't be a fool and do what I did recently. I was really bored and had been in the waiting room for an appointment for almost 2hrs so I replied to a scrote to entertain myself and after a brief conversation HE LEFT ME ON READ after years of occasionally pinging me and trying to talk to me. I was so mad at myself for that 😅 Also my ego would tell me sweet little lies about how he was pining after me, but you've got to realize that you're just 1 out of 20+ other women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 11:52 PM
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I had a similar realization but with a positive twist - only marry or date men who significantly improve your life. If they did cheat and leave, make sure everything they did for you/ gave to you/ how they improved your life would be worth it. This will only apply to a small sliver of scrotes but like you said, it's better than sacrificing a large portion of your life for nothing. If there is no sacrifice on your part though, then no problem. 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 11:22 PM
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Every single thing he mentioned is a mainstream men's attitude towards women. Assigning people value - the rating women out of 10. Not helping you with your mental health - why is almost every scrote saying he dumped his ex because sHe'S sO cRaZy. Also the mockery of abuse as "daddy issues". Leaving you when you're not 100% - look up any study on men leaving sick women, vs women leaving sick men. Men leave, women stay. Also the prevalence of scrotes cheating on their girlfriends when theyre preg…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 08:47 AM
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Notice how it's just some scrote that she used to talk to - he expects to drop back in her life at his convenience and have her make talking to him a priority. Pfft dumbass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 01:13 PM
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This is hilarious. Although most scrotes would accept a hookup if offered. Making them wait and court you for 3 months (or your personal minimum) definitely does the trick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 07:08 AM
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I love this energy 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 06:59 AM
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They're so whiny. They get triggered by the natural body, pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 01:57 AM
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My parents tried to condition me to be this way too, but observing the way my mother was treated convinced me that being single is way better. Why do all that only to be ordered around and unappreciated? There's just no point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 01:54 AM
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Before my current job, I had a string of casual low income jobs in retail, fast food, call centre work, handing out pamphlets, etc. Almost everyone was in one of 2 camps - the backpackers and uni students, or the older women who spent their lives focusing on family and now have the same skill level as entry level employees - none. From those I spoke to, they all thought their marriages would last forever and none of them thought they would end up where they were. Don't ever underestimate the cru…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 09:08 PM
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Until fathers abusing their daughters is taken seriously instead of being a "oh good, it means she's slutty because of daddy issues" joke, I won't believe for a moment they actually care about improving attitudes around mental health. Notice how it's never "men's mental health isn't taken seriously - I will share resources for men, and promote changing the narrative of toxic masculinity and that it is OK for men to ask for help" Its always "men's mental health isn't taken seriously therefore we …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 08:57 PM
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Ew. This is why you don't play pickme - he won't value you for it, you're only wasting your own time. If he's not putting in effort, dump him and move on to someone who will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 08:51 PM
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Distrusting men and being skeptical of them upon meeting them initially doesn't actually hurt them in any way. Thinking about treating others how you want to be treated - would you have a problem if he wanted to meet at a public location first, see if you are serious about wanting a relationship, and not trying to waste years of his life taking advantage? No, these are all perfectly reasonable. Men don't tend to need to do this because there isn't a culture of women using and discarding men, how…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 08:49 PM
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He's doing exactly what it looks like - seeing if he still has an in with the ex. The fact that it's just after his current lady had a baby is very telling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 08:42 PM
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Personally I think if you're not a virgin (or even if you are since this line of thinking is gross) don't even give them the time of day since they'll secretly think you're a slut. They offer nothing but to waste your time and ditch you when they want to marry. Useless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 08:37 PM
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Yikes poor thing. The whole "I was hurt before so all I can offer if fk buddy/situationship" line is the oldest in the fkboy book how is she falling for this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 08:33 PM
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You did an amazing and brave thing that many are too cowardly to do. You saved another woman years and years of wasted life, and wasted resources and energy that she would have spent pouring into a cheater. If more women were like you, scrotes would hesitate before cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 08:30 PM
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I'm worried this is the next step for what's going to be "cool" for teen girls. We're already halfway there with girls thinking being beaten and degraded during sex will make them cool before they even turn 18. Taking it out of the bedroom and into the living room doesn't seem like that far of a jump to me, I'm concerned that soon showing off black eyes will be edgy. I don't necessarily think it will happen but it concerns me how easily I can see it going that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 08:25 PM
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Wonderful list, you've inspired me to make my own using the same categories. Each to their own but off the top of my head I would add no previous cheating is his former relationships - he could have broken up with her if he was unhappy but if he schemed and plotted to have her and step out on her at the same time, that says volumes about his character and personally I believe he'd 100% cheat again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 08:20 PM
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As it should be! Focus on yourself and never look back!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 02:28 PM
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I've noticed this too. I'm not in America but I have wondered is it because of the prevalence of "situationships" and "talking" stages? In Australia if you're "talking" to someone or you're flirting and have gone one a few dates with someone but there is no title - both people are 100% single and ok to look for other people. You're single until there's a title, there's none of this other bs. This whole commiting to being someone's girlfriend while the guy is still single and you're not their gir…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 10:00 AM
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I'm also out of the loop. The lady in the striped dress is Khloe Kardashian and the guy next to her is her boyfriend who cheater on her, with the woman in other picture (Idk their names)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 09:45 AM
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I am saving this, truer words have rarely been spoken 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 09:41 AM
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So many scrotes are trying to do exactly this on a smaller scale, with just a few women. This is why you only date someone who significantly improves your life. Even if he's cheating or playing you, at the end of the day you walk away gaining something. Anything else is a waste of time, youth and energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 08:15 AM
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Who do scrotes think they're fooling trying to pretend they're "trapped" in marriage. THEYRE THE ONES THAT ASK 🙄 They ask because they WANT to lock her down and keep the benefits she provides.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 08:13 AM
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I hope this is a joke because if it isn't... traaashhhhh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 08:09 AM
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Well done on noticing the signs of narcissism, sometimes they can be hard to pick and this is definitely one of them. Every time my mother was excited and happy about something, my narc stepdad would mock her for being happy and giddy, and put her down for whatever she was interested in. Now she has no hobbies and no identity outside of wife, mother, and her job. She just seems so empty, you really really dodged a bullet here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 08:08 AM
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Don't be embarrassed we are all learning and growing here <3 Also wanting to isolate you from friends and family is a reg flag for someone planning to abuse you. Not saying that he was, he could have had other reasons, but this is definitely something to watch out for - think, why would someone not want you to have anyone to turn to?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 07:39 AM
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Translation: I want a beautiful gf who has low self esteem so I can treat her poorly and she'll put up with it, and she won't post on social media so other guys won't notice her. She can be my placeholder that I don't have to worry about losing. Meanwhile, I'll be in the dms of all the girls posing themselves that I pretend to not like, while I desperately thirst over them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 07:02 AM
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They're trying to pretend like they are taking away something we actually want 😹 None of us want you scrotes. If for some reason we wanted to be an abused slave to some cheating scrote that offer is on the table any day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 02:18 AM
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They convince themselves that all the HVM that women want are actually arseholes to make themselves feel better about being sub par. Any man they are jealous of, they just say he's an asshole. Handsome? Must be an assehole. Rich? Must be an assehole. Big dick, talented, accomplished in his field? Instead of just admitting that they are jealous because these men get more attention from women because they're a way better option, they do mental gymnastics to make them "bad" somehow so protect their…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:28 PM
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This is the way some scrotes talk when they are trying to mock feminists, seems sarcastic to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 02:15 PM
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It does! Thank you so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 01:05 PM
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I'm not going to watch because it will increase his views, and honestly I would suggest others to do the same. We're boosting his popularity and therefore $ by clicking it. If they're not providing then they better be doing 50% of cooking, cleaning and child raising. Oh what's that? They don't want to, they still want women to do all that? Then wtf use are you scrote. Nothing but a leech and a waste of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 10:20 AM
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Let's change the narrative. Every single time someone mentions ANY shaming of women without a man or children, be it a scrote or a pickme, I'm going to link of these studies. Not even in an aggressive way, just oh really? Because science says otherwise. Do you think the earth is flat too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 10:12 AM
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Men are absolutely dumb af when it comes to appearances too. Next time you hear a male friend say he likes natural, ask him to show you an example on his phone. Watch him pull some a filtered photo of a girl wearing light mascara, foundation and contouring, and nude lipstick. They're not familiar with how makeup changes your face so they don't even know what they're looking at. They think light makeup is no makeup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 07:39 AM
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It's blocked in Australia for some reason :( Can someone give me the gist in 2 sentences?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 07:35 AM
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This is what most men don't understand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 01:31 AM
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To me this sounds like it actually has nothing to do with cooking and he's just looking for an excuse to go straight to your place instead of on a date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 01:29 AM
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This is what society is trying to groom teen girls to think is cool now. I have less and less hope left for the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 10:48 AM
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Congratulations for seeing through the societal conditioning and levelling up! It is such a lie that being a ride or die will make men value you. It does the opposite - if a LVM is in a community where every woman he meets would be ok with being abused and cheated on why would he ever value her, he can easily find another. This brainwashing keeps entire societies of women down. There's some of this in certain Eastern European regions but I don't think it's to the same extent. I'm so glad I'm in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 04:28 AM
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It's because they already plan for the mother to do 99% of the child raising, while also paying for 50%. They expect to come home and relax or do their own activities, while women come home from work and keep the house and raise the kids, and figure out all the logistics like daycare, doctors appts, etc. If you doubt me, go check out the r/ breakingmom sub. This experience is all too common.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 04:22 AM
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Adult friendships tend to require more solid common ground than earlier in life. I find that common ground that can translate into shared memories or activities tend to be a great base for friendship. Think about it in terms of EXPERIENCES vs TOPICS. For example if you like a specific type of music, are you interested in seeing local shows of that genre? This may be better than an interest like a TV show, which doesn't really lead to anything other than sitting on a couch. Another example would …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 04:15 AM
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The age gap ones always cheat. What they enjoy is the power dynamic, and being loyal to a young woman doesn't make them feel powerful. Cheating makes them feel they have the upper hand. 100% of the time age gap is bad news for one reason or another
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:26 AM
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To a scrote a "gold digger" is any woman who isn't going to have sex with him if he pays for a meal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:10 AM
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The world is resembling The Truman Show movie more and more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 07:27 AM
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Imagine constantly critizing yourself like this, in hopes of one day pleasing some scrote. What a sad life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 06:58 AM
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Congratulations on breaking free! There have been many great posts on this sub asking for advice for when breaking up. My favourite would be to write a long list of every shitty thing he did you to or made you feel, and any time you start to miss him get out that list and read it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 06:50 AM
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Keep in mind this sub also has a problem with scrote lurkers. I wouldn't assume all the downvotes are actual women on this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 02:30 AM
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If ANYTHING is proof that men aren't worried about "gold diggers" at all its this pedophile pretending to be worried about being finessed by the 13 year old victim he's trying to statutorially rape. Sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 01:42 AM
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If he ever says this instantly dump him. Translation "I'm going to cheat on you whether regardless of whether you degrade yourself or not, but when I cheat on you this will be my excuse".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 01:38 AM
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Any mention of "free lunch" is a red flag. It means he expects women to be $15 prostitutes and is pissed off that they're not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 12:47 AM
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This must be the "p*ssy pass" scrotes are so jealous of
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 12:34 AM
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Scrotes on other subs complaining why women don't respect them. How can you respect a grown adult who wants to be coddled and for you to play mommy? 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 12:22 AM
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This is extremely common. They want girlfriend benefits from a girl while they look around for their next one that they will be more keen on. It's the norm and I think women should adapt to be similar. Never to cheat, but if he starts being complacent or scrotey, cast an eye out and contemplate if you can do better. Don't ever fool yourself that scrotes aren't doing the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 11:08 PM
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And scrotes try and convince us that we better lower our standards or we might miss out on an opportunity to give bjs while smelling sh*t 🤮 Singledom over LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 10:33 AM
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I WILL NEVER STOP SAYING IT - SCROTES ARE THE REAL GOLD DIGGERS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 10:30 AM
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This is what many conservative scrotes want though. They don't want to co-parent their children and spend quality time making memories with their family. They want to leave all that up to the wife while they spend their time working, having fun, and cheating. This isn't a new thing at all, if anything society seems to be drifting AWAY from this an people as a whole are becoming more aware of the value of balance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 06:01 AM
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Look at how unable the scrotes is to control his emotions, and how irrationally he acts. Throwing a toddler tantrum while abusing his own toddler because he lost a video game. How pathetic, the "logical gender" my arse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 05:58 AM
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Remember that "hatef**cking" is a popular porn genre. Let that sink in. Also, scrotes openly admit to sleeping with women they're not attracted to while they search for women they actually want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 05:53 AM
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I strongly disagree. There are plenty of fathers see their daughters as property, as an extension of themselves, or lesser than their sons. Also I know many incredible strong willed women raised by single mothers. I think having a HVM for a father will help create a confident woman, but with the majority of scrotes being scrotes, I believe many women learn to have lower self esteem because the misogyny of their fathers can rub off on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 05:46 AM
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They never define the "equality" we should strive for, they never describe the middle ground they supposedly think is reasonable. The reason for that is this is all pretense, they want to continue to oppress women and are pissed at ever little inch we can towards freedom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:59 PM
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More women should opt out of being a single parent while supposedly in a partnership. He's a deadbeat because she allows it, she needs to put her foot down and refuse to do literally anything for him until he shapes up. Cook only for yourself and kid, only do your laundry, no sex etc. If I ever, goddess forbid, find myself in this situation I would do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:34 PM
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If we supposedly don't add value, why do they live their whole lives with us as the focal point 👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:29 PM
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You're so right, look how desperately scrotes try to make women feel guilty for wanting the most BASIC COMMON COURTESY. They actually try and get us to believe that anything better than outright hostility is more than we deserve. No way, I love myself and I deserve to be loved and cherished, and I will settle for nothing less 😊 Scrotes can die mad. Also can someone please tell me how to disable chats/messages on mobile? I haven't opened a single one but they seem to be collecting in there. Also …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:27 PM
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Oh my gosh this is an epiphany for me. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:21 PM
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Its revolting but this is exactly how so so many conservative scrotes think. They will gladly marry you and have kids with you, already planning to discard you once you age. Many of them already have this plan before they even say hi. This actually serves as a good warning for young women (actually all women). Focus on levelling up yourself because aging is inevitable. Straight from the horse's mouth - even if you submit and do whatever he wants, to many scrotes you will be nothing to them at a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:20 PM
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"So many married women are single mothers too".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 02:27 PM
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I hope this is satire of pickmes, if it is then this is great. Really captures the at-your-wits-end desperation to simply receive polite consideration lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 02:26 PM
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I absolutely adored this. Straight to the girls chat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 02:24 PM
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I feel it is better to hope for, but not count of a settlement in case of a divorce. Lawyers can do sneaky stuff and hide assets. If he's not significantly improving your life in the relationship, move on to another that will or work on providing that life for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 12:59 PM
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It's so pathetic how they are about penis size. Length and girth feels better, no amount of screeching about it is ever going to change that 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 12:51 PM
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They're all like this! They want traditional gender roles for women but are too useless to fulfill the provider and protector role of a traditional man. Without those things why on earth would any woman submit hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 12:40 PM
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There's entire subreddits for scrotes who plan on doing exactly this. "Starter wives" have always been a thing. No man in the history of time has ever been criticised for this. If some women are doing the same - good. There's like a 99.99% chance he would do it to her. Power to her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 12:35 PM
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I wonder if they comprehend that they're not shaking our beliefs at all, but strengthening them more by proving that they are exactly how we say they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 12:32 PM
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HE IS A PEDOPHILE. Ffs this is textbook grooming behaviour: " the perpetrator may also start discussing sexual behaviors and content with the child/adolescent so that they feel more comfortable with this type of material." https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/protecting-children-sexual-abuse/201901/what-parents-need-know-about-sexual-grooming Has someone reached out to her yet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 01:56 AM
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I know right. I would have given anything to have found this knowledge sooner, but I am so happy that I know what i know now and live the rest of my life happier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 01:44 AM
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Hahaha this is hilarious. It's what so many women already suspected but scrotes hold on to false beliefs so hard as a cope. I hope this is a nice slap of reality in their crusty faces 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 10:05 AM
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It's illegal in some countries/states unfortunately. It is why I only talk to certain men in my family through text though and always miss their calls 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 09:58 AM
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My stepdad also believes women are lesser than men, and spent his life trying to convince me to see myself the same way. Then, somehow he's surprised that once I've grown I'm distrustful of men, and am focusing on a career instead of becoming a wife/mother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 09:55 AM
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Never go to a scrotes house until you've been dating for a while, this is exactly the thought process of any scrote who even asks. He's just saying it out loud. Always meet AT the public location too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 09:40 AM
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Thank you for posting this, there aren't many places where people can have an open discussion about these types of things. I'm also bi, and I don't mind bj's but I expect being eaten out. The cumming on the face thing had always seemed disgusting to me. I'm still on the fence about cumming in the mouth though, and would be interested in hearing your thoughts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 07:28 AM
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Aw no, glad you dodged a bullet! <3 Proof that any coffee/walk "date" guy isn't that keen so don't bother. If they're excited about you they wouldn't dare lowball like that out of fear of losing you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 07:24 AM
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Old scrotes are complaining more and more that they only interest from young women they can find is from sugar babies. Young girls are catching on and I hope they shake these grandpas down for everything they have
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 07:19 AM
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They're not ignorant. They understand exploitation of women and they enjoy it, so they play dumb so they can continue to try and propagate it while trying to hold on to the benefit of the doubt pretending to be ignorant may grant them. Don't believe it for a second, thats what they want. See it for the manipulation that it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 07:17 AM
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I would highly recommend r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 07:11 AM
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Oh please if you remember the name tell me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 06:39 AM
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So if I'm feeling unappreciated then I get a free pass to cheat with other guys? Sweet! And he has to beg for the chance to let me continue cheating on him? Alright if you say so. If women started expecting scrotes to do this they would have a meltdown 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 03:57 AM
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Look how carelessly he dropped her. LVM really have no empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 01:13 AM
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Scrotes keep proving to us that marriage isn't worth it unless even if he cheats, you can leave significantly better off than you started. Anything else is a waste of youth and your resources. Thank you for posting this. My boyfriend has been talking about getting a house with me (before marriage no way, no ring no wifey stuff) but on the other hand I was thinking of going back to Uni. After watching this video and being completely unsurprised he's cheating, I am shocked at myself that I was eve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 01:10 AM
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A lot of the time it's so they can take a screenshot and post it on woman hating subs to "prove" how awful women are and justify their hatred. Women don't need to do this because scrotes are openly as awful as we say they are. Essentially it's pathetic attempts to be "victims" of women. Every time I see this and I try to find the original post, most of the time it's removed because it doesn't actually align with what the sub they're targeting believes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 12:45 AM
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Bumble is TRASH. For this and for protecting conservative wackos. Thank you for this information. Time to make a catfish account.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 06:09 PM
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Eh a lot of porn sites have an "are you over 18?" button that practically does nothing to deter underage viewers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 05:59 PM
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This is true, it's why I stay away from MENA men, I know what they think of me not being a virgin and they're only going to waste my time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 08:50 PM
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That's a very good point and I'm still learning, I ofc don't have all the answers. But in my personal experience any mention of it sends them into a tangent. For example, "my co-worker has this odd thing where she likes to send pictures of xyz", and then they go and willingly incriminate themselves. Idk perhaps it depends of the community but they seem all to eager to talk about it from where I'm from, even the ones I mistook for not depraved at first, which is why I find this useful. No of cour…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 11:43 AM
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Love the name. But also yes, this is extremely effective. Due to pickmes competing with eachother about who wants to get choked, spat on, pissed on (I wish I was kidding) and who can out-degrade themselves, scrotes haven't got any guards up about their depravity. They think depravity is cool and will gladly flaunt it. I reckon don't let them know you're disgusted, let them spill all their red flags to you, then wait a bit, then cut them with no explanation. Explaining won't make them change, sim…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:56 AM
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I strongly suggest that women start calling f*ckbois gold-giggers. They get so offended and flip their lid (perhaps do it later to all your girl friends and not at the time, depending on the safety of the situation). They want a prostitute but they don't want to pay for a prostitute. When I have pointed this out they got so mad, but not that I said it to them, they mainly got mad that I told all my girl friends about the night. Hit them where is hurts - their reputation. Call them out for what t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:50 AM
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Men have insanely unrealistic standards. Some are just clever enough to keep their mouths shut about them. Look at the trending searches on porn to understand most scrotes sexuality. Unfortunately there's no guaranteed way to know who has absorbed these ideals or not. Imo if you only accept scrotes that are benefiting your life, that is the only way you can't lose. My suggestion is make sure any relationship you agree to, make sure that IF IT ENDS you're better off than when you started. I've lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:12 AM
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Is such a hypocritical scam. As soon as you question "how does this societal belief benefit those it applies to" it becomes clear as day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 06:48 AM
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They 100% understand. If a gay man tried the same thing to them, they would 100 say he was a criminal and should be punished. Don't believe for a second they don't get it, that's what they want. Notice how men believe themselves capable and intelligent in the workplace, but suddenly are drooling morons when it comes to being held accountable for their actions? It benefits them to keep this duality going, see if for what it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 02:20 AM
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Love that he does that, I'm worried that if she posts it on the net though it everyone will tell him he's a simp and brainwash him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 02:09 AM
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I love Anna Bey! I would highly recommend her youtube channel if you like topics like learning how to be more elegant and feminine (aesthetically) and how not to settle waste any time on men who are going to be low value. She is controversial because a lot of libfems and pickmes don't like her, personally I think she is very wise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 01:55 AM
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One of the reason I'm childfree is because I don't want to a mum dealing with this sh*t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 11:37 PM
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This highlights the different worlds men and women live in. A woman wouldn't be able to provide this service, scrotes would try to be rapey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 11:28 PM
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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 10:49 PM
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Omg I'm not on Twitter can you please please please help me find it? I will use it to shut scrotes up left and right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 09:55 AM
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I KNOW RIGHT I've noticed this too. I think this is why scrotes hate FDS so much. The message that women need to put up with whatever disrespect the husband throws her way is drilled into us by society that many women believe it. They are fed the false lie that if they put up with it they will be kept, and they are painfully surprised when they are cheated on/replaced. If he's this obsessed with a specific type of woman you can bet 100% he's out there looking. (edit: spelling)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 09:48 AM
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Ew the rest of the screenshot too. The rising pornsickess in men is making casual sex more and more unappealing to women. Imagine giving a guy no strings sex and he's not even happy about it, he's DISSAPOINTED because you're not a pornstar. Vibrator > scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 04:52 AM
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If a girl wrote this scrotes would lose their minds calling her a gold digger and asking for too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 03:32 AM
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Any mention of cuddling is straight upa request for sex, don't even believe for a moment they want to cuddle lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 02:43 AM
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Hopefully this will make it difficult for him to be employed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 03:14 AM
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Huh? FDS isn't a monolith, we're a collection of different women giving eachother dating advice with similar ideas and goals. Like you said, you're a grown woman and if you want to have one night stands then go an have one night stands. We're just going to say that's it not an effective strategy if you're looking for a relationship but you are your own person lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 11:06 PM
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Doesn't this give them an opportunity to make you put as desperate though? What's wrong with just blocking them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 10:59 PM
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Ew! If he already has bunch of these pre-packaged then he gives them to everyone. Yikes you're not special, imagine being so mistreated that getting some chips and change is a post worthy moment. How bad are the rest of the encounters? Sheesh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:58 PM
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I disagree, but I respect your decision - after all it is up to you and what you're comfortable with in your own life. Personally I will always tell though, because if it was me I would want to know. Right now she could be sitting next to him on the couch planning her life and considering babies with him, changing the course of her life for him. The just decisions are rarely the easy ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:53 PM
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"Your bottom line is the end of the line". I love it. Really important to establish these before it gets to that point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:42 PM
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YIKES so glad to hear you got out of rhat. It's very useful when scrotes out themselves while telling "jokes", they're not kidding but testing the waters. Well done for getting rid of him, he would have been very, very bad news.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:29 PM
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Did you find out the details of the wives and message them? Scrotes do this because they know a lot of women will be complicit and won't tell - show them your virtues and do his wife a life changing favour!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:39 PM
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What a depressing life. Is this supposed to be enticing? Her husband cheats on her, so she continued to let him cheat and tell herself it's ok by also getting with other men who don't love her. The way she writes it sounds like this is recent, I can't see her being satisfied for long. He's communal so she makes herself feel better by also being communal? Singledom is preferable to this nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:35 PM
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She takes it as a compliment that he would give all that up for her. There's a reason old scrotes prey on young women, they simply don't know better. Once they get some life experience and a little older and see it for what it is, it will be too late.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:32 PM
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I've said it before and I'll say it again every time I see this. I was raised by a narcissist, the scrote in the story may not be a narcissist but it is 100% a popular tactic for those who want to avoid accountability for something they said to "not remember" it. Notice how it is only convenient things he doesn't remember? He remembers perfectly well he just can't think of a way to justify it right now, that's all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:29 PM
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Well done for sticking up for yourself. Unfortunately it is very common for men to put that they want a relationship in their profile because they know it's what a lot of women want, while they only want no strings sex. Also the being nice to you, then flipping to subtly dissing you sounds like he was trying to neg you. You haven't lost anything, that scrote had no good intentions for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:27 PM
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There's no such thing as looking like a child forever. She can have work done but if this was possible the world would be full of old ladies looking like kids. You can slow the clock but it never stops.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:21 PM
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She's going to lose majority of her fan base when she starts looking more like an adult. Just watch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 08:25 AM
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And scrotes wonder why casual sex is no longer appealing to women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 07:24 AM
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Make sure every effort of yours is worth your while or reciprocated. For example, if you're cooking meals every night is he paying for the groceries or going 50-50? If you're keeping the house clean is he paying more rent or going 50-50? Etc. The biggest danger is you end up wasting your time, youth, energy, and resources on someone else while he gives his time, energy and resources to himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 07:20 AM
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The danger of nurturing/mothering men is that usually you're giving more than you're receiving. This is why 50-50 money wise is a scam.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:31 AM
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Probably 90% of them, every time I hear someone say that I get automatically suspicious that they probably cheated or did something awful to upset her, and her crying and dumping him was the "crazy" thing she did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 02:04 AM
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Reddit hates women. Another day another women's only space gets banned, all the while hosting pedophile and rapist subs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 02:02 AM
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Another one who thinks she's proven she's "not like other girls" by shitting on other women. All that and he still didn't even want her for 2 years, and when nothing better came along agreed to let her be a placeholder for a while. Don't most scrotes lie about how crazy/bad all their exes were? I don't even believe them when they say it anymore. If it's true then it's bad what his exes did, but if meeting 2 bad people of the opposite gender is a free pass to distrust the other gender then every …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:58 AM
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Sure, but if that's the case you should divorce him and move on with your life for the sake of your children and yourself. No reason to stay with someone like that even 1 second longer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:51 AM
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Ha sucked in, this literally always happens. So many pickmes think if they pander to misogynists that they will be seen as special and not face misogyny themselves, and they are disappointed 100% of the time. They have no sympathy from me though, tbh I love to see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:44 AM
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This sub has over 100,000+ members and by posting it here we are giving them exactly what they want - more views, so the algorithm promotes them more. Pickme youtubers are a time a dozen there's nothing new here, let's not give them a hand by promoting them. If you want to share something at least screen record it and post the video instead of linking their actual video.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:39 AM
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I saw that one, and the whole breakingmom sub is so much like it. I wish more women would stop fantasizing and actually leave the kids in the care of the father every now and again so they have no choice but to learn. If you're saying "oh the kids might die" then yikes what is your life that you're living with someone who would willingly let your kids die out of laziness and indifference. Many women aren't taught to be mothers, we use common sense and seek out sources of information and support.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 01:51 PM
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That's how I got here! Stumbled across PPD and saw a comment that there was this FDS sub that was supposedly redpill for women. I took this to mean a manual for becoming an abuser but for women, so I click out of morbid curiosity and instead I find wholesome supportive women lifting eachother up and giving eachother advice that our mothers should have given us. No mention of abusing men, literally just ignoring the bad ones. I thought it so laughable that they were whining about simply being ign…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 08:27 AM
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It's not fair of you to saddle a woman who had so much of her life ahead of her with your kids while you be a dead beat either, isn't it scrote? I love children but seeing how scrotes are just makes me too afraid to get trapped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 07:27 AM
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He has to actually be PARTIALLY responsible for the kids he created instead of ditching and dumping them on the mother like he planned to 🥺 and being a worthless deadbeat dad who doesn't give a s*** about his kids is looked down on by women 🥺🥺 and child support for their food and education comes out of my beer and videogame fund 🥺🥺🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 07:25 AM
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Truth. They want one of these women to be their maids/cooks/mommies but they always cheat with the women they supposedly hate. I would enthusiastically choose dying alone over this fate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 01:57 AM
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These exist! It's called FDS 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 01:49 AM
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This is why going 50-50 is a scam for women. We aren't valued as much on the workforce, so have to work harder for less pay, and in any kind of recession we'll be the first to get chopped. Ghost any man who wants you to go 50-50 on dates or rent or whatever. Men know perfectly well it's not an even playing field. As another commenter above also said, these same scrotes will want you to do most oh the house chores too. Focus on your career, and include a man in your life only if he's significantl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 08:38 AM
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He remembers perfectly well. My abusive narcissist step dad would pretend to "not remember" having certain conversations to avoid accountability. Notice how his memory loss is very strategic? Trust me it's 100% deliberate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:01 AM
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If a man wants to be with you forever he won't have any problem marrying you. A man not wanting to marry you is him essentially telling you "I'm still looking around because I think I could get a better option". As soon as you realize this, dump and leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 02:53 AM
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Yeah, toxic masculinity harms men. They don't want to hold themselves or eachother accountable so they blame women instead. The ones fighting women's beauty standards are women, men don't want to so they want women to fight for men's beauty standards too while upholding women's unfair beauty standards. It's so dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 02:08 AM
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They say this and complain that more and more women aren't having kids, or not doing ANY wife shit including having kids before marriage. Can't have it both ways dumbasses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 02:03 AM
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Each to their own, if you disagree then no problem do whatever works for you. Personally, I think it's useful to understand the nature of men because you wise up to their antics and see the hypocrisy for what it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:31 AM
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Congratulations! I'm very happy to have found this sub at 26. This sub has inspired me and motivated me to level up in life so much! It has really helped me with my self esteem, I hope it does the same for you. I think you may mean modern liberal feminism not radical feminism though, radfem is against all that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:22 AM
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A few of my friends are polyam and they're sweet girls but watching their love lives is like watching a trainwreck. You're right about it being pickme "cool girl" types that go into it. It's just being on the back burner and feeling thankful for the opportunity to have your brief turn to be on the main burner 🙄. There's a reason most polyam relationships don't last very long. She can't ask anything of her boyfriends, or expect them to be supportive of her in any substantial way. Both only wanted…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:14 AM
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Friendships can be platonic if there's common ground e.g. a hobby or specific interest you share. Old men don't usually have a lot of common ground with young women, so you should always ask yourself the question of what their motive might be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:55 AM
56

Society raises us to have so much internalized misogyny, it is always freeing and eye opening to see how far you've come <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:53 AM
54

Yep. "Give me a chance" is code for "have sex with me".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:52 AM
47

Oh my goddess this is truth. I never thought about it that way but youre absolutely right. Every time they want to threaten women it's always violent rape, the very thing they wack off to. I'm going to point this out so much now, thank you for the lightbulb moment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:50 AM
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If this was a screenshot of a woman saying to a scrote that if he doesn't lose weight he's going to lose a wife, can you IMAGINE the absolute meltdown scrotes would have and what they would say about her? No scrote would be arguing that yeah he might be a bit overweight. I'm in good shape (dancing classes are awesome) but I don't see the point in giving scrotes leniency they would NEVER give us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:46 AM
25

FINALLY 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:40 AM
48

Congratulations on your freedom! All the best for 2021. Think of all the time, money and effort you've saved!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:39 AM
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Ikr 🤣 delusion. Why's is always balding scrotes that go on about the wall haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:33 AM
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Ngl didn't read the article but a lot of sperm banks (where I'm from anyway) don't accept sperm from men over 35 so that might be a factor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:59 PM
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It's just fear mongering, it's trying to make women worry so they settle for any LVM instead of choosing a man to be with if he benefits her and not detracts from her life. It's an extension of the "if you're not married by x age you'll never find anyone" message that's pushed so much. Anyone with eyeballs and a brain can look around and see both of these statements are objectively false. I believe it may also be a cope. A lot of scrotes cling to these hopes that the women who reject them will s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:46 PM
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My heart goes out to this poor girl. At least you can see she's at the very end of the rope in terms of her patience for this BS, hopefully this is the awakening she needs. A man's loyalty is not for sale, a cheater will.simply take your money AND cheat. Never ever provide for a man or go 50-50 unless you want to be in this girls position one day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 07:24 AM
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The thing I don't get is what his motive here is. Is it just the standard ordering people around to feel 'like a man', is it a weird flex in front of the roommates? I'm really interested to see everyone's comments. (edit: letter)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 07:06 AM
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On one hand, I hope she realises this is rape and that she can report him to the police. On the sad other hand, she's filming him on tick tock calmly waiting at the hospital with her. I'm worried this is her bf and this is desperate attention seeking kinkmeisha shit. Both scenarios are awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:47 AM
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Notice how whenever a guy snoops a girls phone and finds cheating it's perfectly justified? It's only an "invasion of privacy" if it's a woman checking a man's phone? What's the alternative? Ask? If they're a cheater then they're a liar, there is no alternative if you have doubts and need to be sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 02:30 PM
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So if I woman doesn't immediately have sex with you you rudely tell her to leave? At least this is rude enough to offend most women so even pickmes should be put off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 07:44 PM
25

It seems to be a "I'm so random and quirky" thing. Unfortunately girl do it too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 08:14 AM
65

This is a pickme reality check - sucking up to him and cooking for him, he will still see you as a bitch and publicly shame you for being a doormat. Save your time ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 01:40 PM
31

I am so sorry. They are so depraved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 08:06 AM
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"If someone is offended by your boundaries, that is their problem" I am writing this down and keeping it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 07:58 AM
12

IF A MAN HURTS YOU SUE THE ABSOLUTE SHIT OUT OF HIM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 07:47 AM
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Best case scenario is he is lazy. Worst case scenario is he's trying to do one of those tactics where they try to flip the tables and make you "chase" them by trying to offer up something good. Pass in either case
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 07:46 AM
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I love this. It's really showing pickmes what desperate house elves they look like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 07:33 AM
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If he showed you fake IDs what he did is 100% illegal and you should seek legal advice. See if there are community legal centres in your state if you can't afford it, many of them offer free legal advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 10:00 AM
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I would be so embarrassed, she doesn't realize that he's publicly making a clown of her. Sis they're not laughing with you, they're laughing at you. Could you imagine a scrote lining up for 10 years with a t-shirt of Gossip Girl or something on? No way in hell, right? Ask yourself why- he'll probably get offended you asked and not want to be disrespected on the internet like that. Mhmm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 09:49 AM
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Yep, they start with little things to see if you'll cave, then start ramping up the controlling behaviours. You saved yourself so much pain by running at the first sign
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:51 AM
10

If only they actually did this though and showed all their red flags early. Instead they pretend to be a completely different person so you don't run away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:15 AM
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I'm confused about the context, if this is in the dating stage she shouldn't be asking to come over at all. Is this about when you're already in a relationship?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 03:57 PM
213

If saying "men ain't shit" is grounds to close a sub down, then literally 100% of reddit would have to be shut down. There isn't a single sub in existence where you won't find woman hating somewhere in the comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 12:06 PM
6

True, I meant more her catering to him wanting to 'anally dominate' her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 03:19 AM
21

The things pickmes put up with in the name of kink, if only they could see how the rest of the world laughs at them :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 02:07 AM
144

Proof that any guy that doesn't want to take you out on a date is only looking for sex. He's not looking for a girlfriend, he admittedly only wants free sex for no effort. This just confirms that dates are the only thing you should accept in you're not looking to be a pump and dump.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 09:36 PM
5

SPOILERS seriously!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 08:22 PM
5

Welcome! Hindsight is always 20-20 but now that you've found this sub you can be forewarned! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:27 PM
61

Poly = placeholder until he finds someone he values enough that he doesn't want to share or risk losing her. If he's ok with you going off with other people, he's not afraid of losing you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:23 PM
40

Here in Australia car insurance rates are lower for women, particularly for P's, because we have less accidents. They pretend scrotes are better drivers even though it is verifiably false because it makes them feel "manly" 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:15 PM
11

Queen energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:09 PM
93

Good on her for posting this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:06 PM
70

LEARN THE GREY ROCK METHOD I cannot praise this method enough for how well it works. It's a psych method that's usually taught as a way to get rid of people with narcissistic personality disorder out of your life without having to endure the drama of cutting them off bluntly (work colleagues, relatives, others you can't just block for whatever reason). Once I started practising it (to distance my step dad from my life while still keeping a relationship with my mum) I realised it works like an ab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:03 PM
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They do the most hilarious mental gymnastics to cope don't they 🤣 They actually think we're going to what, be afraid we'll miss out on getting treated like an inhuman sex object? That offer is on the table for all women 24/7, we just have walk into any bar or go on any OLD site - and yet, women in droves are choosing singledom. Are they actually trying to pretend that getting treated like that is a SCARCE opportunity and not something we're constantly declining lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 01:25 AM
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Yup look at redpill - they all think teens will want them when they're old 🤣 This is going to be their reality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:10 AM
108

Adults also have the right to call you a predator and R Kelly though so 💁‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:02 AM
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100% It's pure projection. They thought they would be Jason Momoa but instead they're starting to give off grandpa vibes and they're getting scared 👴👴👴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:50 PM
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They really think we don't all know what negging is 🤣 so many delusional scrotes out here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 01:25 PM
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They started it, only fair 🤣 I'm going to do it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:34 AM
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Sure if we're being literal and pretend to just be exactly like the equivalent of men. But men don't see themselves as the male version of women and aren't concerned about their lack of fragility or innocence, they are concerned about their lack of 'masculinity' and 'alphaness' which most of them misunderstand as simply being bulky from the gym, or being hostile and acting like a narcissist. I'm not advocating for watching porn, I'm saying having a rebuttal up your sleeve can come in handy. For …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:33 AM
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Let's make this such a popular joke that scrotes won't even bother with "loose" arguments because they know we'll all bring this up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 10:03 AM
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Yes 🤣 He makes sure she is truly enjoying herself...aw what you can't even make sleeping with you fun for me? He can hold her against the wall by her ankles but you can't even go down on me... 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:33 AM
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The redpill, pua and mgtow ideas are on the rise in the new generation of boys unfortunately. The flip side of the coin is that girls are observing this, realizing that self actualizing and finding a life passion is more important. They're seeing that many men view women as a disposable housemate/cleaner/breeder and weighing up the options, and seeing that putting yourself first has the best chances. After all, it is what all men do. Self actualization (+or - HVM) = peaceful, accomplished, fulfi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:25 AM
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I still think before you ditch a scrote who is pornsick, show them some porn you watched of an insanely well hung chiseled god of a man with full scalp of sexy hair. If he ever made comments about you, turn it back around on them. If they say why don't you have x quality, whip it out and say well why don't you have y quality. (Not really, only kidding. This is still giving views and therefore money to the industry. However, if you've already got some downloaded though... is giving them a taste o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 07:53 AM
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Women with their own $ are harder to abuse because they can leave. Scrotes like this are just admitting they want a woman they can trap and abuse. Why would her freedom be a problem otherwise?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 07:28 AM
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Another day, another example of men being liars to get sex. This is why you hold out and don't trust them until they've shown consistent effort for some time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:12 AM
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Dobby the house elf, despite being a simpering doormat ready to obey orders and desperate to please, illicits feelings of revulsion, disgust and pity. A pickme is just a house-elf to LVM, but trade the pity for contempt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:07 AM
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Men who call themselves "traditional men" are usually misogynistic and will probably abuse or cheat on you so how do you vet for this specific quality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 11:34 PM
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I've heard of this kind of pornsickness before. She looks like a woman down there instead of a pre-pubescent girl, or a pornstar who had a labiaplasty to resemble the vaginal features of a pre-pubescent girl. I'm not kidding - look up the history and reasons for labiaplasty and hair removal in porn. He's fried his brain and now has pedo tendecies, throw him away he's damaged and can't be saved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 10:50 PM
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So much "satire" is just being openly racist and misogynistic with a thin veil. I don't buy it for a second - he 100% intended to be racist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 07:36 PM
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Most scrotes this day and age have social media, they need it to slide into women's dms. Especially if he's sleazy, it's possible he has one and just lied to you to keep you compartmentalized. Even grandmas and grandpa's have at least Facebook these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 07:33 PM
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This speaks to the danger you pose to other women by being a pickme too. He admits that the only reason scrotes are not openly hostile is because it means women won't sleep with them. Lowering your standards and accepting sub par treatment gives them less and less reason to be respectful to women as a whole. Pickmes pay attention, you're undoing the work our ancestors did..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 07:28 PM
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Nope. As soon as you try and pull the same shit as they do suddenly they have the maturity to understand perfectly well why it hurts? Pfft nah they know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 07:05 PM
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Scrotes are the real gold diggers. He's single, she's just paying him to allow her to pretend to herself she's his gf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 06:54 PM
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Well done for blocking him, it's never easy. But realizing he's just checking to see if he still has his hooks in you for a ego boost makes it a lot easier to cut them off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 12:56 PM
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Why would you even give the time of day to anyone who calls themselves "Playboi" etc? Any scrotes with these ratchet names are automatically useless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 12:47 PM
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Yep reddit is a cesspool of sexism. Imagine being the mother and knowing nobody gives a sh*t about you enough to even think of getting you something even small on Xmas. What's funny is if any of the scrotes on reddit had this done to them by their mothers, they'd whinge and cry and say they're abused 🙄🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 11:30 AM
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Tradwives need to see this. A tradwife is just a placeholder until you've had his children, which is when he discards you. I've seen this scenario so many times
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 06:41 AM
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Text: WEDDING RING SEEKERS, BEWARE: YOU CAN'T TEACH OLD BACHELOR NEW TRICKS How many shrinks does it take to change a lightbulb? Depends on whether the lightbulb really wants to change. It's an old joke that draws its humor from one small truth about human behavior: People only change if they want to. This is something single women in particular should remember whenever they get the fatal notion that they can change men. It doesn't work - especially with older bachelors.Insight into the inner wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 01:09 AM
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Hey this is a good idea, we should do this to scrotes who send rude messages. I'm so going to start doing this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 03:23 PM
2

Understandable. Could he have just been lying because he doesn't like the feel of condoms? Who knows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 11:22 AM
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They try to tell us nobody would want us after 30 but they're sleeping with COMA PATIENTS. Desperate sickos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 11:17 AM
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I have never heard of a man getting fired, beaten up, getting ostracized, having his parenting abilities questioned or there being a universal attitude of disgust for a man who has had sex with a lot of women. It's just not the same risks, not the same stakes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 10:49 AM
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That sounds really odd, I used to spend a lot of time lurking on the worst subs of reddit but I've never come across this in relation to pedophilia. Then again just because we haven't heard it doesn't mean it's not tied in his mind - did he explain any further his reasoning?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 10:47 AM
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Yup, needs to be a teen virgin but somehow also a p*rnstar in the bedroom, needs to be no maintenance but also looks flawless 24/7, needs to be domestic rather than career driven but somehow also be able to go 50-50 on everything, needs to be gullible and not have enough experience to recognize abuse but also somehow have the knowledge and life experience it takes to be a good mother, among countless other qualities that cancel eachother out 🤣 The girl so many of them want simply doesn't exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 10:35 AM
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They objectify and dehumanize us at every possible opportunity, and laugh about it with their peers.They wonder why we are automatically suspicious of men for being creeps - it's because every day we see another reason to never trust them. Every single day. I mean that literally - hypothetically if we did a challenge to find just one reason a day, we would never, ever run out of reasons. This experiment could be achieved with a <5min scroll through reddit, and we will see paedophilia, the sharin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 10:26 AM
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How interesting, do you have any links for the 2nd point? I would be very keen to learn more a out this. (Not questioning, I'm sure I can find it online once I get looking later. Only if you've got it on hand, if not all good.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 10:07 AM
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Oof the first and last one 🔪❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 09:59 AM
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💞 Thank you so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 11:21 PM
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Mhmm. Plus in cases where the mother wants to put the kids up for adoption, they hate on that too! Nobody ever says "see if the father can take them" its always "no it's your sole responsibility". So it's damned if you do, damned if you don't. This is one of the many reasons I am so pro-choice, don't let some loser change the course of your life while he gets off scot free. It can be discreet and you don't have to tell anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 02:32 PM
85

I think for tiktok videos we should start uploading screen recordings of the videos and not links to the video on the person's profile. This sub has 100,000+ members, we are giving them what they are fishing for: views, and the tiltok algorithm will promote them and allow their hateful message to spread to more people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 12:59 PM
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Imagine the absolute laugh he's having with his friends. Really breaks my heart for this girl. Girl he doesn't want you :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 12:54 PM
13

I'm also working on a couple of pickme friends at the moment. I've tried many things, so far I have found 3 that seemed to have at least made them think on it for a moment. Ask her to imagine this happening to you, and what her advice would be. Then to her sister if she has one, or another bestie, and what her advice would be. Then to her mother, and what her advice would be. Pickmes sometimes have this weird thing where they don't really listen to other women but put much more weight on the tho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 12:30 PM
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I haven't seen it, but rewatching things after FDS really gives you a different perspective on how the media markets so many toxic ideas to women and girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 12:18 PM
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They hate on single mums so much but SO MANY OF THEM HAVE SECRET KIDS THAT THEY DITCHED. There's an absolute epidemic of deadbeat absent dropkick "fathers" and we as a society should really start shaming them more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 12:14 PM
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Why would I feel sympathetic about there being male standards for what is generally considered attractive, when the same men that say this (it's always the ones who complain about "women today") say women are useless after 30, dehumanize us into a number /10, and bond with other men over our humiliation? Pfft, they can't even take 0.01% of what they dish out? Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 12:03 PM
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I know right! Makes me so happy how based some of today's teens are, I wish I had this attitude back then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 11:54 AM
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This gives me a sliver of hope for a HVM. I truly thought none of these existed anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 11:52 AM
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I wonder what the goal of open misogyny like this is - like are we supposed to want men after this? Nothing is more motivational to level up and get a degree or to focus on improving your life and put men last in your priorities than seeing how so many of them have nothing to offer us but hatred.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 11:50 AM
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I wouldn't comment this stuff even if you think it. Scrotes will gladly use anything they can to get this sub shut down - don't give them ammo to do just that. If I were you I would delete your comment, it doesn't hurt scrotes but has the potential to hurt FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 05:30 AM
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The Alien series. The reason it has such an awesome female lead is because the part was written for a man, but they ended up giving it to Sigourney Weaver. Anytime men try to write a strong female character it's always misogynistic or a complete fail, and I believe this is done on purpose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 05:16 AM
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Yeah men outright lie about wanting a relationship to try and get sex out of women. Sure you can be open to both, but more than one admit they actually don't want a relationship at all. Stay picky and don't trust men, trusting men only gets you used and discarded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 05:14 AM
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This just seems to be a classic attempt at negging to me. Nothing new here. If I got this a would screenshot message, screenshot his profile and send it to all the gals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 02:14 AM
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BADASS yes this warms by very soul
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 12:36 AM
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They all want to girlfriend experience for nothing, they don't want to be the boyfriend but still want all the perks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 07:41 AM
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incubatorbangmaid OMG exactly spot on 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 07:39 AM
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Agreed. He is absolutely loving the power trip. Always understand that men can turn on you in a snap, always have your own setup or means for your own setup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 07:38 AM
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Is it something specifically about Xmas gift shopping? My bf is currently trying to do this to me. (Former pickme, this sub has opened my eyes and I am levelling up planning my next move).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 07:35 AM
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I try to look for a silver lining in everything. The silver lining in millions of men being anonymous on the internet (although still overall negative) is that the teen girls they harass are discarding the rose coloured glasses and seeing the depravity of men younger and younger. I'm only in my 20s but when I was growing up in Australia, a boy wanting to take you somwhere private and kiss/touch you means that he likes you and wants you to be his girlfriend 🤡 The teen girls I see are so much more…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 04:48 AM
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The delusion here is that by convincing him of how much you care, that he will be moved and reciprocate the feelings. Men are simply wired different to women, the sooner pickmes understand this the less pain the endure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 04:42 AM
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I haven't read the book yet so take this with a grain of salt, but moving towards these types of discoveries has been liberating and eye opening, to see into the psychology of my dad and step dad is going to be rough, but no matter how brutal it is it is better to know. It is my next book in line, but I have watched hours of youtube on the concepts it covers (not as good ofc, which is why im changing to books/audiobooks). It is better to realize they were nasty selfish people who took advtange o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 04:10 AM
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Welcome! This sub is absolutely life changing. Once you open your eyes to the tactics of men, you can never go back to accepting indifference and disrespect. In answer to your question about why men are so lazy - it's because there are pickmes who will gladly scrub the toilet of a man who cheats on them whenever he can, just so she can say she 'has a man' (for now, pickmes always get replaced(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 03:01 AM
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This seems to obviously staged for the media. They are celebrities they know paparazzi would be taking picks and they put on this performance? Pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 06:33 AM
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I really hope that's her in second picture and not HER DAUGHTER. Praising girls for being subservient is how you raise them to be prone to abusive relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 06:08 AM
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This is so wholesome 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 02:25 AM
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I know right. It's not cheating but he's publicly announcing "my gf is temporary - I'm shopping around for what's next".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 02:05 AM
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Cheaters will always cheat, regardless. This time it's because she doesn't spank him. Next time it will be because they had an argument. Then it's because she recently had a baby and wasn't recovered. The time after that, it will be because she was tired. Then it's because a better option came along etc. Cheaters will absolutely never stop cheating. Cut your losses the first time, save yourself from a life of misery. Cheaters are actively out there looking for your replacement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 01:50 AM
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Never pay for a man or go 50-50, you're just prolonging the amount of time you're going to get used for before being discarded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 01:39 AM
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I feel really bad for her, but I think this is in a different category to pickmeisha. Does she really have a choice? You can't always know, there could be some cultural differences here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 01:23 AM
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This is actually a very good lesson for "full of attitude feminists". Compare the 2 women in this story. Scenario 1: Excel in your career and have a fantastic accomplished life, and marry someone who cares for you. Scenario 2: Marry and have kids with a LVM instead of focusing on your career (assuming his wife didn't follow the same path since he didn't mention it). Your husband spends his time pining and obsessing over the woman who chose scenario 1. Choose wisely ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 01:15 AM
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Imagine being this indifferent to contributing to the demand for human trafficking. We're supposed to feel bad for being picky when they have no empathy for us at all, not even those of us trapped in sexual slavery. Unless you find a HVM that adores you and significantly improves your life, it isn't worth it. It truly is better to be single than with a LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 12:51 AM
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So many men have this mentality. You've got to be in a place emotionally, that even if you love them, love them on the condition that they treat you well, and make sure you are able to cut them off and leave them as soon as they pull some bullsh*t like cheating. Best way to keep this mindset is the same way men do - keep yourself, your career and goals at the center of your life, with a man secondary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 03:31 PM
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I really hope he shares these views in his real life with people he knows, especially women. Imagine the laugh they would have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 03:15 PM
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Nothing to worry about then if it's true. Woo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 05:37 AM
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I cannot upvote this comment hard enough. YES 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 02:24 AM
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I'm glad you're here, although if you think anyone who identified with red pill is a good person I strongly advise you to go over to r/ theredpill and look through what they think of women coming from their own mouths. They think we're lesser beings and take joy in exploiting and hurting us, don't take my word for it go over there and see for yourself. This sub teaches you so much valuable information, including tips on how to filter out any men with this type of thinking from your dating life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 05:24 PM
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Thanks for the tip, I check the legality of this in my area. Still going to do it in the meantime, and if it could get me in trouble I'll simply adjust to be just within the law and continue. No way am I ever going to hold my tongue haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 04:05 PM
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Is he exclusively fishing for r/ notliketheothergirls?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 04:02 PM
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This is why you never listen to anyone who says "guys don't care about a girls degree / career". Oh yes they do, HVM respect it and it also helps keep away abusers because education = freedom and independence. I feel so sorry for all the tradwives and pickmes who fall into this dynamic by putting men first before themselves. It only ever leads to regret. I have never met a single woman in all my life who regretted getting a degree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 03:58 PM
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I'm so glad for FDS, this wouldn't work on any of us. Doesn't gets what he wants so he starts insulting you and insinuating you need to pay to take him out? He would be immediately blocked. For good reason too, if his mindset right from the get go is to "punish" women with the goal of trying to manipulate their behaviour into something he wants to see, then he is 100% going to be extremely controlling and abusive. From the start his goal is to mould her behaviour, this is 100 red flags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 03:51 PM
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That's if you post it publicly though. How are they going to file a lawsuit for a chain of private group chats. If it's hard to charge someone for distributing nudes without consent, charging someone for distributing messages they sent you would be extremely hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 03:35 PM
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He 'misses being single and the single lifestyle'. He thinks he's missing out on hooking up with bunches of women and thinks there will always be the option to get another perfect wife later. It's so weird, men complain about how picky women are, how hard it is for men to get a date online, and how no ladies ever compliment or give them the time of day etc. Then as soon as they get into a serious relationship they think suddenly if they were single now they will have a new woman every night. The…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 03:31 PM
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Every time a woman gets these nasty messages, they need to screenshot the message, the person's profile including a picture of their face (in case they change their user name) and blast them in all the girls group chats you're in. It's what my friends do anytime we get some nastiness, helps us avoid psychos and it's entertaining.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 03:15 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear that. Good that you're out and that shitty person is still stuck with their shitty selves, while you can move on an flourish <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 02:16 PM
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Unfortunately I've come across incels talk about this fantasy multiple times (when I used to go on those subs for morbid curiosity, I don't really go there much now because I've chosen to focus on positivity and it's just too much of a downer). They seem to think that if they purchase a woman from overseas she will be their willing slave and adore them because they saved her from somewhere worse. I don't know what they think happens once she gets acclimated to life here and realizes she's stuck …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 02:14 PM
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Fantastic, I'll give it a watch. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 01:58 PM
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Ah ok, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 01:58 PM
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It so is. The good marks are like a little treat biscuit or a pat on the head for doing a particular trick well. Roll over, good! Here's a good mark for validation as a treat. 🤮🐶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 01:57 PM
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I don't get it but I'm very curious - please explain? :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 01:53 PM
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Imagine your self esteem being so low that you're willing to put up with public degradation like this, and actually be pleased about rated because some areas you got a good mark. I hope one of her friends reaches out to her after seeing this, this is beyond sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 01:48 PM
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Poor thing :( How could she possibly think this was a good idea. Her friends really should have talked her out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 11:58 AM
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The waiting x amount of months is a good suggestion to weed out guys looking to pump and dump, if you're looking for someone interested in a relationship with you. Everyone here is their own person though, if you don't want to do that, then don't and do what works for you. I'm in my 20s at the moment but when I get older I would never want to have sex with a guy who sees me as not good enough to date but okay enough to f*ck. I just think of it the same as if it was something other than age, like…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 11:39 AM
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Yeah, if he sees you as not being valuable because you're older, then he's not going to care about making you orgasm or showing you a good time in general. This is such a trash offer. I think because men are so obsessed with the chance at a younger woman, some of them assume women are the same. No, we don't get anything out of inexperience because we're not predatory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 09:57 AM
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This is the SECOND post I've seen along these lines, and the first one was WAY more vile. I've saved a screenshot so I'll post it when I find it. Being hard to get stops your time being wasted, don't let the fact that a guy is younger flatter you into going 50-50, and don't invite him into your bed prior to 3 months minimum of consistent effort on his part (or whatever the usual time you've set for yourself is, point is do everything the same as if he was your age/older).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 09:21 AM
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Hm, interesting. Perhaps it depends on your friendship group? Not sure. Unfortunately I don't see the word pickme being used on any social media amoung anyone I know, but I am seeing a trend towards more fds-ish views being shared. I only see pickme on here, and only know it's used elsewhere due to screenshots on here from other media haha. Then again if they are using the word at least they are aligned with the ideals, so maybe if it's someone close you could point this out to them and how it's…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 08:46 AM
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That is Queen energy right there. Power to you! A man who values you would treat you well, and be afraid to lose you. He wouldn't be "meh, too much effort" about it, if that's how he is then you're cutting your losses and saving yourself from pain later down the road.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 08:39 AM
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Proof that it's not about money and about the power trip to see women being thankful for scraps and laughing about it. Someone as rich and famous as 50c, a date costs effectively nothing, less than 0.0000000001c to any one of us. Yet he still posts this, because he and LVM want to laugh at women. In a less serious way, without the exploitation but still on the same note- pickme "cool girls" don't realize that their giddiness at being taken for a walk, or how thankful you were for a copy paste ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 08:33 AM
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Oh my gosh I bet you're right! She probably found a vibrator in the house that is his mistresses or that he uses on his mistress and this was what he thought of to cover it up. The only other explanation other than that is he and coworker are fucking, because there is no way anyone would think this is a normal gift for a coworker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 06:25 AM
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He admitted that is was a PERFECT RELATIONSHIP and he still wants to bail. This is proof that you should always put yourself first 100%, you can literally be perfect and they won't value you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 12:14 AM
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Sus out if any of your friends are getting pissed off at the abuse by men / the dating (hookup) culture today / misogyny in the media and coax them over here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 12:04 PM
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I see more reasons to be childfree every day. Imagine having a son and he turns into this piece of sh*t. I might adopt a daughter later in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 09:29 AM
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Yeah they want to live in a world where they can snap their fingers or bark commands at women and we immediately concede. I love all these little ways to let them know that too bad, the world is changing and their barks mean nothing anymore :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:16 PM
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Damn right, times up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:05 PM
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Yeah there's a reason all the creeps want us to marry young. Trap us before our brain is finished developing and before we have enough life experience to see how deranged things like this are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 08:35 PM
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You can tell so much just by looking at the little things. If they can't be bothered doing the little things, you'd be a fool to expect them to show up for the big things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 08:30 PM
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Queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 08:28 PM
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My friend taught me a neat trick. When some loser says "smile" you can turn to them and say "say something funny" or "ok amuse me". After a couple of seconds of their stunned silence make a buzzer noise with a thumbs down, or just say "dissapointing" and walk away. It's from a sketch but I can't remember which one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 08:26 PM
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I know right. All their subs say they can get young girls later in life because they'll have money. Deep down they know nobody would want their nasty ass unless they were providing $$$. They admit that they'll just be paying for young women to pretend to want them lol. But then at the same time criticize "gold diggers" and women after money as if that's not the exact thing they're counting on haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 08:23 PM
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That's so true, they really do bond over misogyny. I feel like if a man has 1 sexist friend they tolerate, best believe that whole group including him is sexist behind closed doors and throw him out. Does the word pickme stop female solidarity though? If someone is a pickme they'd put men's validation above solidarity with women I reckon, so it's not really losing a potential bond but planting the seed for them to really think about what they're doing? I do understand what you mean though, it is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 08:18 PM
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Seems like a test - he's hoping you'll let it slide and reinforce that it's alright to share these sentiments around you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 05:38 PM
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Ha, both would do the trick :p
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 05:33 PM
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Congratulations on breaking free! It must have been hard but life it way to short to be wasted on being with someone cruel. Your life of freedom and happiness awaits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 05:28 PM
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Yes queen, if they're not adding value to your life there is literally no point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 02:43 PM
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This reminds me of the Spike away personal space vest lol. https://www.cnet.com/news/spike-away-vest-keeps-people-out-of-your-personal-space/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 02:40 PM
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It seems to be getting picked up by the mainstream, and occasionally you will see it being used the wrong way just as you would literally any other saying, but at the end of the day it's a good thing that it is being used. So many pop culture terms trash on women only, with not even a word to describe the male version of the same thing. Think of thot, Karen, slut, etc. The male versions of these are considered some variation of "alpha". Recently the word "simp", which orginiated as an insult for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 02:23 PM
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It's also advice given to PUAs - to try and get a reason. They're just gathering data through trial and error to get feedback on why their "tricks" didn't work this time so they can repeat the same scenario but just change a little thing for the next woman. They want to try and hone their manipulation skills, that's all. Either don't give them a reason or tell them some bs to throw them off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 08:20 AM
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SEND IT. She has a right to know. Men expect us to keep our mouths shut when we see them disrespecting other women. Are we going to do as we're told or are we gonna be badass sisters who look out for one another. SEND IT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 02:01 PM
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Each to their own, but I personally don't use it at all even to joking refer to other women. Because what's next once that's normalized? Once b*** is normalized they're going to start "jokingly" referring to women as "whores" or "holes" and are we going to have to start calling ourselves that to normalize it too? Hell no. As soon as I hear a man refer to women as b***es he is scum in my mind. If I hear women do it, I pose the above question to them and it gets them thinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 03:10 AM
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Good on you for telling her. That was brave and many women are too cowardly to say something to the new girlfriend. Regardless of whether or not you were doing it to be vindictive or not, letting her know was still the right thing to do. She may have blocked you but you have still planted the seed of doubt in her mind. What she decides to do with that is her problem not yours. Keep a screenshot of every single message he sent on everything and save it in a folder in case you need it later, inclu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 02:13 AM
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Yeah they hate feminism and FDS because young girls are gaining access to knowledge about their tricks and schemes and no longer falling for it. Yet another among countless reasons for why FDS is so important. I used to be in a relationship with a much older man and I'll make a post about it soon it was such utter BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 01:17 AM
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This is why you see so much mental illness in the older male population. They keep trying to blame it on women but it's other men like the ones who wrote this article, and that participate in all those misogynistic forums that do it. So many men genuinely buy into this and think that once they hit their "prime time" suddenly all these teen models will be lining up around the block desperate for a scrap of their attention. They don't value any women they come across because they believe there are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 01:00 AM
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I used to be like this. It sounds like the first time she's done this. Unsurprisingly it gets very boring very quickly, and then when she tries to have some of his attention he will get annoyed that she's distracting him and the resentment will seep in. The good news is all the has to do to learn, is give it some time for the boredom to set in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 12:45 AM
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I've found that it is usually one of 2 reasons that they send porn. Like others have said, to test your boundaries. They know you'll be shocked when you see it, they want to see If they can be disrespectful to you and you'll put up with it. If you do, it's a green light for them to escalate. Because they get horny and want to sleep with the nearest woman when they watch porn, they think by making you see some that it will have the same effect on you, and they can be the readily available guy. I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 12:39 AM
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THANK YOU! It's so good to see things like this, because I'm trying to introduce FDS to 2 of my pickme friends but they took a look at the sub and they dismissed it, they weren't ready for it. They still blame themselves for getting abused again and again instead of seeing their abusers as the problem. I've been looking for FDS style advice from other sources to show them to ease them into it slowly. This will be my next one, thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 12:21 AM
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Men keep trying to threaten us with ending up alone as if ending up with something like this is better. I'll take peaceful singledom over a guy who complains about my body after 7 CHILDREN any day. She cooks 3 meals a day, takes care of the other kids and is nursing a newborn baby. Why isn't he taking some of the load off her so she has time to go to the gym as well? Sounds like he's got plenty of time on his hands if he's going to work out DAILY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 12:13 AM
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In so many ways men are conditioned to not feel empathy for women and see us as usable and disposable. Unfortunately this is so common that it's safer to assume this about a guy until he puts in effort and shows us otherwise, rather than giving guys the benefit of the doubt and getting screwed over repeatedly. The good thing is, this gets very easy with time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 11:43 PM
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I know right. I can see how this would work to get someone to talk to you again, but he's delusional if he thinks telling someone a nice memory is magically going to make them dtf like that. I took a look through the user's profile and honestly every comment seems made up and would belong on r/ ihavesex so it's all probably bs, but it's good to know their tactics anyway. Anytime a man calls a woman "clingy" I take it as "I'm lying to her and deliberately leading her on". Like if she was really a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 11:34 PM
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The thing that gives it away the most that they're just looking for freebie prostitutes and not actually date any of the women is the fact that they don't care about filtering for her personality. They don't want to talk to the women and get to know her and decide if he's interested or not, the only criteria is she has to be a woman and willing. The fact that he tried to bring a $ incentive into it highlights that he wants quantity not quality too. So 1 really good match won't get you as much as…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 07:33 AM
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Oh I completely agree. But even if he texted you in daylight hours it can still be all be nothing but BS trying to manipulate you to 'game for the weekend' and we all know what that means.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 06:06 AM
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It's a handy red flag though. Makes them so easy to filter out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 06:02 AM
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I don't know who either of these people are, but I looked up their pictures and the grossest part is it's not just some old man but it's one that looks really similar to her dad. Gross girl she needs a therapist wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 11:08 PM
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Thanks for the suggestion, will check it out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 10:38 PM
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Mens humour is 90% "women bad". It's never been funny it's just misogyny that other misogynysts enjoy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 10:35 PM
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Welcome! You will find so much empowerment from this sub, I know I did. There is some WISDOM here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 10:31 PM
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I think some people here are missing the point a little. If you don't want to wear a ring then simply don't wear a ring, do whatever you want. It's a red flag if your man refuses to ever wear a ring for the same reason that keeping his social media status as single or hidden when he's married is a red flag. If he doesn't mind wearing it but prefers not to because or work or whatever then that's fine, two completely different mindsets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 10:26 PM
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Scrotes who say this are the ones actually being deceptive here. If they're having trouble telling if they would like a girl without makeup, all they have to do is ask her for a pic without makeup right? They don't though because that will reveal he is super shallow and not make the girl want him. They want to trick the girl into thinking they are better men than they are. Next time I see a guy complain about makeup I'm going to point him out as the liar he is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 06:43 AM
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I bet the pregnant girl is his girlfriend or wife. Military men are known for a culture of constant cheating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 06:03 AM
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So many men treat us with disrespect in front of their friends to act cool, then expect us to still do this in private. If he ever disrespect you in front of his friends, calmy gather your things and leave. It's classy, and let's your (ex) boyfriend and his friends know you don't tolerate that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 05:28 AM
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As a young woman with no degree who will be returning to uni to obtain one shortly, the answer is simple. Any man that predominantly values youth is already planning to replace you with someone younger later on when you get older. They decide this from the very start. I would rather be an older woman with a degree, than an older woman without one. Getting older is going to happen regardless, might at well prepare for it well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 01:40 AM
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Another dumbass that read some pua bs that coming off as a nasty male slut is going to attract women. It doesn't work then they get this chip on their shoulder, pretty hilarious honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 01:37 AM
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The bit at the end is actually very useful. "We very rarely end up spending our lives with the woman who loved us throughout our stretch of unavailability. Nope, much to the collective chargrin of women who consistently love unavailable men, we snap out of it and run straight to a new chick. You want to know why don't you? It's because men use a formula to assign value to the women in their lives and a large part of that formula is derived from how much we believe that woman values herself. If y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 01:03 PM
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Good on you for blocking him. He probably ghosted you thinking he can come back whenever he feels like it by throwing a few 😟 your way. If they ghost just ghost back, don't even give them the satisfaction of an acknowledgement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 12:30 PM
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It's already happening all over the world. Little movements in South Korea and India as well as US and The Pacific. Both developing and developed countries are shifting towards women putting themselves first and men are foaming at the mouth with rage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 10:32 AM
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Scrotes can stfu about women ghosting them then, take one quick scroll through the niceguys subreddit and you'll see why even non-fds minded girls are starting to favour ghosting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 08:21 AM
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