I'm new here but felt compelled to join after recently breaking it off with a guy and completely blocking him from my life. I was a part of his discord server with a ton of red pilled dudes (some of which are actually great guys and I enjoyed talking politics with them) but after awhile the things I would see these guys (including the one I was dating) say/behave was absolutely appalling and gross, but it definitely shed a lot of light on how men think and operate.

The final straw was the constant negging and gaslighting. When I finally got sick of it and expressed that I wasn't okay with how I was being spoken to or treated, the guy I was talking to said I was being too sensitive and would constantly try to explain away why I shouldn't be offended. I'm so done. The dude lives with his parents still, is honestly short af, terrible at sex, and not worth the stress at all. I just want to continue focusing on improving myself, vetting out LVM, and knowing how to deal with a HVM when that guy comes along.

I could really use to female support and guidance.