Love bombing is a red flag 🚩

WindyScenario · 2020-12-21T16:38:49+00:00

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atuan · 2020-12-21T18:08:38+00:00

Well also their compliments and praise are because that’s how they want to be treated. They literally don’t know how to interact with someone without putting or being put on a pedestal and just being.... equal and normal with a person.

onceuponasea · 2020-12-21T20:35:56+00:00

This is why we level up our self-love game. Love-bombing can feel SO good and can be SO seductive if you have low self-worth. If you fall for this, don’t beat yourself or shame yourself when you realize the illusion. it’s not your fault. We are human and on some degree we do want validation. Learning how to give ourself the validation we seek and raising our self-esteem is how we prevent falling into this kind of spell.

Loving yourself has to be your highest priority.

And just in case any one struggles with putting themself first- No, putting yourself first does not mean you are a narcissist or are selfish.

Love Xo

2020-12-21T19:13:59+00:00

Also watch out for lines along the gist of: "I thought I'd never get over my ex but you've made me feel love and happiness when I never thought I would again."

They'll set you up as the font of their happiness, just so they can tear you down later by blaming you for making them unhappy.

You're their perfect angel who never does or says anything wrong- until one day you wake up and EVERYTHING you say and do is wrong. Why are you being such a bitch? Why are you disrespecting them? Why are you always so uptight, can't you take a joke?

Papaverinum · 2020-12-21T19:08:36+00:00

Ignoring love-bombing is like a repellent technique. When they see you don't care, they'll ghost you in no time :D

UnstrirringCoffee · 2020-12-21T19:39:30+00:00

Right on.

Also, I love her hair and her jewelry.

futuristicallyangry · 2020-12-21T18:18:30+00:00

Has she met my exes??? It's like she's talking about them!

Thatretardedgirl · 2020-12-21T19:20:53+00:00

Yeah this absolutely happened to me. Everything she said is true, they get you attached before you even get to know them

Madholley · 2020-12-21T17:17:29+00:00

Wellllllll this hurt. Thank you for posting. So true.

BetterToBeLonely · 2020-12-21T23:43:57+00:00

I fell for that shit and married him. Talk about a 20 year disaster. I'm working on getting out. I'm so glad I'm in a better place and value myself enough now not to get suckered by another sociopath.

lol-life-suks · 2020-12-21T18:09:19+00:00

lol this literally sums up my ex

Mind-Objective · 2020-12-21T22:06:55+00:00

Can relate. I got compared to a unicorn before the first date

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Title	Love bombing is a red flag 🚩
Author	Swoleunicorn
Upvotes	591
Comments	25
Date	December 21, 2020 3:55 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/khk19n/love_bombing_is_a_red_flag/
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