| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 8 | Wasn't the handbook a PDF file? | DISCUSSION | WindyScenario | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 10:39 PM |
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| 60 | What advice would you give to your 20 year old (or generally younger) self?I'm 21 and this one is just sinking in. It's a bit complicated to get out of the loop when the fashion, makeup, hair, etc. Industries prey and market so aggressively to young women, but once you see it for what it is there's no going back to it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 10:11 PM |
| 6 | "Not all men, but enough men" stop letting men paint you into a corner by accepting their already false statements.All men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 04:21 PM |
| 16 | Women can't do anything right in the workplace.they hate her because she didn't fuck them. Describes maleness very well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 04:18 PM |
| 2 | What would a world made by women, for women look like?This is fact | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 04:10 PM |
| 7 | Remove the boot, ladiesRead Loving to Survive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 01:38 PM |
| 34 | "Twin flames" and "Soulmates" are psychopaths and narcissists mirroring and grooming youI don't think we're ready to have it either. I mean, those books depict what's thought of as romance, period. What's left if you take that away, in the real world? How many women are capable of wanting something else, and how hard will men push back when we do want something else, and for how long will they? Forever? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 05:53 AM |
| 6 | Why didn't we ever learn about warrior women in school? Our history books were exclusively about men. I would have loved to play 'warrior women' with my friends instead of playing house :(Agree. Women should define what femininity means for and by ourselves, if we want such a thing at all. It doesn't count if the starting point is what men have defined as femininity like libfems do. I know it's hard but I wish more women dared imagine things differently. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 11:47 PM |
| 9 | 6pm curfew for men suggested by Green Party, views?Yeah, the benefit they get from misogyny outweighs what they'd get out of a world without it. No misogyny means unafraid women means female-male relationships aren't unconditional and locked-in due to fear and coercion. No man would be guaranteed female attention if women didn't seek men for protection from other men. Men lose by not being violent, and they're all about their self interests, so... It's basically "he knows" on a species level. It's not like men don't know that misogyny hurts us; … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 03:50 PM |
| 3 | Jess Phillips MP reads 118 names of women killed in the last year by men😂🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 03:27 PM |
| 11 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceRead Loving to Survive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 11:23 PM |
| 3 | Great thread. I get it’s a joke but it erases the violence and often horrifying nature that has come with being a housewifeThis most likely. There are women like that, but there's a trend with 4chan incel creating female twitter accounts to give credence to their talking points that dates back to at least 2014. There are some articles if you Google it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 10:40 PM |
| 21 | Legitimately evil m*le tells his gf he *had* to cheat on her bc she was r*ped, men in the comments defend himBecause if they didn't traumatize us no woman would get with them. Trauma makes you feel powerless and in need of protection. How much of our attraction to men is based around his ability to protect? Yeah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 07:21 AM |
| 2 | Instead of marriage, and romance. I kind of just want a sisterhood for life.I'm interested too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 02:00 AM |
| 4 | This musician used the power of neuroscience to help her fall out of love. Takeaway lesson: Stop indulging in thinking and feeling for the ex, and eventually the love will die out. Aim for a sense of calm indifference.Same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Confirmed by Science: Men are less moral than womenYou're spot on. They're broken. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 08:59 PM |
| 34 | I was looking at old anti-suffragette propaganda, and just realized that so much that was said about women is still being said today. In the comments tell me if also recognize any red flags.It was a real thing called wife scold IIRC | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 01:57 AM |
| 32 | I was looking at old anti-suffragette propaganda, and just realized that so much that was said about women is still being said today. In the comments tell me if also recognize any red flags.That would make them evil | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Trigger Warning: very disturbing sexual violence. Remember how I said that I think previously taboo things like BDSM becoming mainstream are going to force deviants to go more extreme to seek that feeling of taboo? Here we are.Because theres no market for men suffering. Because we're actual human beings and aren't interested in that, unlike them. That's why. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 01:10 PM |
| 30 | How to be emotionally abusive 101Because if they are we can reject them, and men, being so irrational and emotional, cannot cope with rejection, so they resort to emotional manipulation and much worse to take our choice away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 03:36 AM |
| 14 | She's in a "traditional marriage" but works full time AS WELL AS acting like his servant... Someone save this womanWe'd like to think that men don't, and that they want the same as us, but it's not true. They absolutely enter into it to squeeze as much as they can. I don't condone it, but reality and the history of marriage proves it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 03:56 PM |
| 2 | No thank you sir.... Kindly add me up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 10:36 PM |
| 81 | Biggest lie society tries to sell is that women can't live without men while the opposite is true.The biggest reversal is that men are superior/smarter/better than women. They are superior in the same way that a gorilla is superior to them, muscle. We're seeing reality now that they're not using those muscles and the laws that flowed from them to keep women illiterate here. Others I remember now: that women can't love men as deeply as men love women (fucking lol), that women are the catty ones with shallow friendships, that women are manipulative/scheming/cold by nature, that women talk more… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 10:32 PM |
| 22 | Misuse & appropriation of feminist language/concepts by men on RedditThey do it because they want to be the "alpha" for themselves, and it's that much better if they can coerce or manipulate women to accept their ideal as our preference. They know what HVM is and they see women like it, then they try to change its definition to their "alpha", so that they can wiggle in and hopefully (for themselves) fulfill their dreams of dominating both other men and women, as they're also liked by women for it, because they're supposedly a "hvm" by the now changed definition a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 06:03 PM |
| 86 | Misuse & appropriation of feminist language/concepts by men on RedditWe project our humanity onto them. They project their depravity on us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 05:56 PM |
| 103 | Why is it that I’m supposed to specify “not all men” when discussing rape when 1 in 10 men are rapists?It wasn't even considered a crime until a bunch of decades ago. (All) Men are monsters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 05:51 PM |
| 29 | ...or will he?Well then read up on sexual conflict in general and in humans. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 09:57 AM |
| 32 | The letter my assaulter slipped under my apartment door. THE AUDACITY!Why do we date these fuckers? I don't even want to interact with them anymore. Predatory garbage cans. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 09:47 PM |
| 4 | I don't think I want to get married anymoreI want to know too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 02:21 AM |
| 12 | Remember: You're allowed to have creative time. The dishes can wait (or someone else can do them)Have you found a solution? I do this too... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 02:04 AM |
| 23 | “Rape isn’t about sex: it’s about power”It literally looks like a flaw to someone that wants to use and control it. Male sexual entitlement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 01:59 AM |
| 8 | Men casually admitting that they are willing to lie about their intentions just to get sex. Nothing surprising...'It's not our fault that women aren't immune to manipulation and abuse' We only need to listen to men when they speak. They tell us how they are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 10:58 AM |
| 3 | All the NVM and LVM getting upset at FDSIt's a preference for targets to control | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 03:32 AM |
| 7 | Why do men make idols of these emotionless, pseudo-deep characters that are almost always narcissistic and disrespectful towards women?I just want to say that I've seen the same as you. All of it, it's just like that. Their different, kind, feminist, etc. persona is just that, and they only fabricate it once they realize that due to physicality (usually) and social status, they cant be their true abusive selves with women and get away with it as easily. It's an auxiliary strategy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 12:27 AM |
| 4 | ...what’s YOUR worst case?It's not a bug | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 11:50 PM |
| 9 | “Your pussy ain’t worth 5 months of my time”I don't disagree with this assessment, but why? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 02:06 AM |
| 12 | Hot Take: There is no 'way' to meet a High Value Manbut my problem was I was lonely/too romantic and wasn't knowledgeable about how men operate, how they think. Is this the case for the majority of us? I think you've got it. The problem is that we still live in a male dominated world, and they do all they can to prevent us from becoming wiser, because when we do, most of their crusty, selfish & sociopathic genes die out with them. We were lonely because we were pitted against each other, and made to crave male validation when we couldn't get it f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 12:35 AM |
| 85 | Patron saint of women who don’t want to talk to you on public transitAll men benefit from female fear and lowered standards even if not all men may contribute towards it at all times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 01:20 AM |
| 16 | Neurodivergents & the Manic Pixie Dream Girl TrapThis post is amazing. You're very insightful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 01:14 AM |
| 3 | I broke up with my LVM bf☝️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 02:13 AM |
| 3 | "But that's hate speech!"If they did, fewer women would fall for it. Maybe none. They have to lie if they want any chance at gratifying their sad stick with our bodies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 12:11 AM |
| 7 | Trauma will keep you in a loop of your pastAmped up version of CPTSD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 12:05 AM |
| 89 | Why don’t they understand this lolThe comments on posts like this acknowledging that men KNOW, but don't care, make me smile. It's true queens, they know. That makes it even worse because it means they're not stupid, they just have malicious intent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 06:02 PM |
| 1 | I occasionally get messages from male lurkers asking for dating advice. I seldom respond because when I do, the conversation typically goes something like this:I think the sub has a discord server | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 08:55 PM |
| 34 | There's an all-women African village. They wanted to escape abusive husbands, old pedophiles, genital mutilation, and so on. Now, many living there don't even want a husband at all anymore, and work together in their village. It's a facscinating short documentary well worth the watch.He said it himself, because they want to control us. Probably because we're like a big bag of resources to them (sexual, reproductive, domestic) that they fight each other over, not human beings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 12:15 AM |
| 22 | There's an all-women African village. They wanted to escape abusive husbands, old pedophiles, genital mutilation, and so on. Now, many living there don't even want a husband at all anymore, and work together in their village. It's a facscinating short documentary well worth the watch.But it makes sense. It's not that men got worse, it's that we're not financially coerced into having to be with shitty men anymore. This is what things look like when women partner BY CHOICE with the men that treat them like human beings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 12:10 AM |
| 13 | Are there even any HVM from my eraI ain't dealing with shit. Hope their dicks fall off! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 12:45 AM |
| 16 | Gets one teeny tiny taste of objectification and immediately seeks out a female sub to tell his whole story and somehow thinks he ranks high enough to Personally Apologize for decades of misogyny. Comments all bowing at his feet.This this this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 10:37 PM |
| 4 | Keep it short and simple 👀This can be harsher for women who can't afford to enforce their boundaries like the most upvoted comment mentions. That's why we shouldn't date until we're secure with ourselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 10:02 PM |
| 22 | Men have been projecting this ENTIRE TIMEYes, this is a thing. They're called patriarchal reversals, look it up. It's amazing how weird they are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 10:14 PM |
| 72 | sighExactly. They're no better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 10:14 PM |
| 8 | This applies to anyone in our lives. It’s not enough to communicate, the other person has to be in a headspace where they can accept the message.LMAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 09:58 PM |
| 6 | Men are not stupid. They are smart. They know when they are doing something wrong, they just don’t care. Stop giving them the benefit of the doubt that they don’t know what they are doingThank you for saying this. I needed to hear it. It really wasn't just me that fell for it, they do this to any woman and see if it works. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 10:55 PM |
| 5 | If you actively practice FDS, people are going to fucking hate you.Me too. I would support this idea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 10:46 PM |
| 18 | I highly doubt that most straight men are capable of loving somebody romantically.This is true, but we need to supplement it with fighting against the systems and culture that'll socialize them once they enter school and start having peers.1 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 10:23 AM |
| 6 | The lows you stoop to to get picked.More like by 25 lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 10:15 AM |
| 19 | The world we live in has sadly turned into this. In FDS we don't give up on love. But we don't tolerate porn and cheap sex.Those guys will say sex is all women are good for. That's why we need to vet vet and vet men. As soon as they reveal themselves to be trash, OUT! Be around women and men that respect your humanity first and foremost. It's not us, it's NVM and LVM that are defective, their only goal is literally to have sex with different women. Literal sperm dispensers... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 11:00 PM |
| 7 | This is the kind of crap that just makes me wanna give up on love forever...This is prostitution... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 09:54 PM |
| 8 | My 2021 Resolution. Done explaining my standards, beliefs, decisions, dreams, and feelings to the undeserving. Nobody is entitled to an explanation - protect your energy!This, fucking this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 03:27 AM |
| 1 | I love how pressed men are about this subWhat'd you learn from it? Is there anything in there that's not on the red pill sub? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 05:36 PM |
| 5 | I love how pressed men are about this subI'm not sure of how quarantine works. I couldn't find it in the search bar, but if you find someone's comment linking to it you can be redirected if you're logged on. Here, maybe... r/TheRedPill Edit: it's a serious dumpster fire. Basically mostly awkward and misogynistic -- usually young -- men that want to have a lot of no commitment porny sex with a lot of women. They use manipulation (negging, lying) and hidden threats (dread game) to get it, then slut shame the women. A lot also want to hav… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 10:59 AM |
| 2 | My personal checklist of must have qualities and dealbreakers. One red flag and he is out. Thought I’d share for anyone who needs inspiration to make their own 😄 excuse the messy handwritingDoes it say compatible religious and political views under deal breakers? Why? Did you mean incompatible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 04:39 AM |
| 4 | I love how pressed men are about this subRed pill was only quarantined | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 04:32 AM |
| 11 | I love how pressed men are about this subYes. Now that some women aren't economically coerced to marry and provide all sorts of services to those men, we get right wing backlash and incel phenomenon that want guaranteed access to women again. And thankfully some 'herbivore men' that just masturbate in solitude or commit suicide. It's literally so hard/impossible for 99% of men to step up and treat women adequately that they'd rather become one of the above. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 03:33 AM |
| 3 | The reason why lvm find FDS so threatening is being denied access to your womb, finances, emotional labor or mere presence is enough to make them go off — they’re projecting.I came to this thread to comment the same. You ladies are amazing. So unafraid to be honest. I love it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 01:37 AM |
| 11 | LET GO OF MALE VALIDATION IN 2021🎉About time we pick ourselves. Made me smile | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 10:43 PM |
| 17 | LVM coerces woman into sex while sick and then calls her a disgusting pig when she voms on him. Because she was SICK.I would say the issue runs deeper than porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 09:29 AM |
| 7 | LVM coerces woman into sex while sick and then calls her a disgusting pig when she voms on him. Because she was SICK.Honestly... they dont think like us, otherwise it makes no sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 09:28 AM |
| 10 | Not all women agree with Female Dating Strategy, and that's okay. There are plenty of women alive today whose mothers and grandmothers were anti-suffragette, and nowadays we still get to enjoy the right to vote. Future women will benefit from FDS, whether you like it or not.It is incompatible with it though. But fuck their status quo. We never needed scrotal ruling, they took it by force & their force is useless in civilized society. The troglodyte days are over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 09:50 AM |
| 7 | Not all women agree with Female Dating Strategy, and that's okay. There are plenty of women alive today whose mothers and grandmothers were anti-suffragette, and nowadays we still get to enjoy the right to vote. Future women will benefit from FDS, whether you like it or not.They're garbage and it's only going to get worse for younger generations raised on even more online porn and misogyny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 09:43 AM |
| 9 | Love bombing is a red flag 🚩And yes they know what they're doing. But where did they learn? This doesn't come naturally to me. Not with men, not with women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 06:39 AM |
| 3 | Not that he is actually going to care for them himself. We all know it's a status symbol for men.Is there anything at all that could make the attitudes change? Are men capable of that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 06:32 AM |
| 3 | How FDS changed my perception of my male friendshipsThe world could truly move forward if they acknowledged this and started learning from their superiors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 01:58 AM |
| 1 | How FDS changed my perception of my male friendshipsHVM are more hardworking to get to that place, so it’s another path of least resistance to defer them to a higher position/ assume a hierarchy. What do you mean? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 01:51 AM |
| 18 | A lesson on feminismFeminist man is an oxymoron. They'll pay lip service but reject and fight against it when it goes against their penile interests. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 01:12 AM |
| 6 | A lesson on feminismThis is what men when they learn about feminism do with the knowledge. It's all manipulation with these NVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 01:11 AM |
| 30 | How FDS changed my perception of my male friendshipsHe meant to say that men have nothing to offer women except dick. Classic patriarchal reversal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 03:48 AM |
| 26 | How FDS changed my perception of my male friendshipsSpot on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Gaslighting red flagsYes. It's normal to pull back when you're hurt or the person you like has changed. Did he do something with ulterior motives at all? If he does, it's hard to let go and not be on alert following that. We shouldn't let go, because he'll keep doing it. I'd say trust your perceptions. How do you feel around him? Small, anxious, on edge, etc.? Then the trick your mind is playing is probably just trying to get you to ignore those feelings because they're in conflict with your attraction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 02:10 AM |
| 8 | This might be the most depressing Twitter thread of all time. Our work is never done 😫I think it's because they don't understand how opportunistic and sick most men are. They expect the every man to not disregard their feelings and not abuse them, when the majority of men will. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 02:12 AM |
| 4 | Pay attention to men with abusive patterns of behaviour, they may just be intentionality trying to to induce a Stockholm Syndrome response in their target.Sometimes I wonder how differently men experience the world. I wonder if that came as an instinct to him. It's wild | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 01:02 AM |
| 14 | Pay attention to men with abusive patterns of behaviour, they may just be intentionality trying to to induce a Stockholm Syndrome response in their target.That's so sick. Where do men learn these tactics? Are they just good at them like women are good at spotting creeps, because we need to? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 12:53 AM |
| 22 | What in the fresh pick me hell is this?Just needs her to communicate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 07:08 AM |
| 4 | Say it louder for the male lurkers who claim we're misandrists huh 😂Word for word what he'd say. Wow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 11:24 PM |
| 6 | I believe there is some truth to it for sure. Any thoughts ?I think women more often put their eggs in one basket - the man - and when things get bad, they don't have so much support anymore to be able to leave smoothly. If you leave and realize that you neglected your friends and maybe family you can feel lonely enough to go back to the man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 09:44 PM |
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