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The rational sex, my ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 02:45 PM
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Women hurting men: Leaving when he is abusive, tell him to wash the dishes for once, outcompeting them in a game, rejecting them after one date Men hurting women: emotional and physical abuse, rape and murder, financial abuse, coercion, constant cheating, not pulling their weight in household, berating, belittling and insulting the woman from head to toe, from inside and out, acting like a child when grown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 01:41 PM
943

What a sad existence to only care about having sex with some random women you saw on the street.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 01:39 PM
298

Another episode of women being punished for not dying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 01:08 PM
5

Ew, he basically said he wants a child so it can slave away for him by doing tasks this man wouldn't even have to do in the first place if he wouldn't have children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 07:17 PM
49

Oh man, I'm a short girl and sometimes still get acne like a teenager (I'm early 20ies), so I can definitely look young. I guess I have to show my ID for another 20 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 01:51 PM
7

You shouldn't think that men who fail at life want to go to work. Because it is this kind of men who use such calculators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 01:47 PM
8

Such men want to break women's spirits. They want her to be bored and drained because she is not interested. They want her to feel bad. And they don't allow women to enjoy these hobbies when they are interested. Such men just don't want us to have joy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 01:41 PM
9

And he would've dumped you anyway because he just cannot grasp that you should actually have deep conversations with your partner, instead of just ogling them and see them as some sex object.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 01:28 PM
17

In my country, women of all kinds of low-paid female-dominated professions go on a strike. They are working in the most important fields, caring for the sick or for children....It's a shame that important jobs and the women working them are not valued enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 01:19 PM
157

It's probably so men can live in the delusion of women "hitting the wall" after 25, when they would've guessed a 30 year old woman is 21.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 01:11 PM
12

Yeah, like it is a business, it would be theft if used her service and he didn't pay. He basically says she should be glad he does not steal from her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 03:32 PM
8

Hubby got a dog no one asked for, he can train him. Let him train it, then ask if he actually wants any more children. After that she may keep the dog but rehome the guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 11:45 AM
6

His thought process is so childish. This man has 3 kids. And he moans and cries over a relationship from last decade. So he built a whole life with another woman? He acts as if he did it all on a whim without actually thinking about the implications of that. He sounds highly irresponsible. I'm sorry she had children with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 01:45 AM
198

Wow, if woman did this, she would be dragged, how a murderer deserves. Why not the rightful same energy for men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 05:19 PM
11

Men....start to solve the problems they create? Ok, good news.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 12:50 AM
38

Ah, he was embarrassed about himself doing that thing and then blamed you for his perceived shortcomings. Because he thought it was safe to insult you. Good that you took the trash out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 11:10 PM
309

That. Is. Rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 06:40 PM
8

Throughout my teen years, it was considered basic decency to pay for yourself/have your parents pay for your share, if you wanted to go on a trip with a friend or boy/girlfriend and their family. Why in the world would this change as soon as the people are actually adults and can actually pay for themselves? The polyamory situation has nothing to do with paying for someone else who is not your own family on a trip. Who would actually expect the mom to do this for a monogamous boyfriend either?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 01:31 PM
1

You mean the power to be seen as a drama-obsessed crazy person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 02:19 AM
3

He should have dumped her for a younger woman who is in school and still broke, but what he actually wants is a woman's bank account? Make it make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 01:00 AM
24

Also cries when woman proceeds to tell him she wants to grab a strap-on and f*** his jucey ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 12:31 AM
6

Exactly! One can even argue that having such services available legally is just using a loophole to allow slavery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 12:27 AM
42

"We cannot control woman's bodies" -Exactly, this is why we cannot demand them on a market. Just as we are overstepping bodily autonomy if we offered a person money for their kidney.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 04:30 PM
122

The pretty young lady would also prefer her mentor to not be a perverted ancient relict, but young people might go with what they can get when it comes to career enhancement (she might not know better at 20). It's crazy how she tries to convince herself into not being angry about her husband's messing presence. Of course she is and she cannot convince anyone otherwise. She must be angry about this, it is the normal reaction for this situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 03:56 PM
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And we don't violate our partners privacy by filming them without consent and posting it online,plus we also don't invent the weirdest and most disgusting fetishes just because we want to hurt men. We still sexualize men with common decency and basic respect for them. In fact, we do this in all situations. Men do exactly the opposite when sexualizing women and in all other situations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 09:51 PM
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This! My first experience with it was with 14. 14!!!! This is ridiculous. They should (have to) make their sites only available after an identification process. Online brokers manage to do that, there is no reason why a porn site couldn't. (And agree with you, it should not exist at all)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 04:31 PM
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Girls and teens are targets because they are naive and inexperienced, they don't stand up for themselves like adults would. And of course, everyone, including those men, know they are actually children. That is why they harass them specifically. And if anything, people probably just think your niece is 2 years older than she actually is. But they all see that she is still underage. Let's think of a young, tall teen, maybe with Make-up and latest fashionable outfit. She looks "older" or "mature".…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 04:20 PM
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The omicron should be replaced with the FDS mindset, it would help so many women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 05:54 PM
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I can't believe they are delusional enough to think that Asian and African women would actually put up with their bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 12:24 AM
3

First sign of abuse and "just" being a scrote are often the exact same thing, and frankly, it does not matter if it is the one or the other now- fact is: he lied about something HUGE. What else is he lying about? He does not respect women he dates, or himself or his kids. He isn't a decent person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 04:11 AM
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Oh he is definitely trying to shock a random woman he dates into being a nanny, wich also means one of two things: a) he does not value mothering and caretaking tasks enough to pay an actual nanny for the job and b) he is too broke to pay for a nanny, so he has to get a free one Ok, ok, "one of two things" is giving him the benefit of the doubt, scrotes like this will fall into category a), which already disqualifies them from being a partner. But b) can apply on top of a) and this open just ano…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 04:04 AM
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You potentially save your friends life because you trusted your instincts and were not afraid to stand up for her! Bravo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 03:39 AM
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It is perfectly reasonable to worry about your own, your coworkers and patients safety. Part of it is concealing where you work at from random strangers. My first job out of school was in retail, where we would wear badges with our store logo and company shirts. Our managers regularly reminded us that we should conceal or take off anything that makes the store identifiable whenever we get to work, go home or leave the building for our break. Especially when we enter for an early shift or leave f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 02:59 AM
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Isn't it crazy how a woman with conventionally "unattractive"/rare/special features is still extremley beautiful, but men with no such features can be super ugly because of poor hygiene, poor state of health and fitness and lack good grooming habits and style?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 01:25 AM
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This! Women acknowledge and work reasonable with their emotions while men repress them and at some point get irrationally angry at everything and everyone. If they would think rarionally, they'd know that there is no way to get around feeling emotions as they are naturally hardwired into all our brains.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 01:01 PM
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But that is just your opinion on the style and aura of the character. The problem is that you listed this as a reason as to why the Zendaya MJ fullfills the cool girl trope/ is LV. I think you elevated your opinion to a general level. I guess we can agree that women of various backgrounds, lifestyles, appearences (casual or dressed up to the 9ths) can level up according to FDS standards and be a HVW. So this one point does not really belong into your list. I personally believe it is a good thing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 12:29 AM
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Many older women were forced into the traditional role of caretaker and housewife while their husbands did nothing- they actually lost track of their old hobbies, so there are sometimes not so many different things via those they could connect with you. But the spark of light is that this can indeed change with the younger generations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 10:31 PM
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And yet, with all this confusion, he does not even know if he likes the one collegue better when chubbier or thinner. Also note how he is opposed to weight lifting, because he is afraid y'all will get stronger than him and beat him up for the bullsh*t he says. The moment his wife told him she was afraid he gets stolen away was last night in his dream.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 01:57 PM
3

Classic case of internalized homophobia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 01:21 PM
1

This! They never gave a thought about how dogs derived from wolves and how they are very clearly and visibly extremly social animals? A wolf is not like e.g. a cat living just fine hunting alone all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 01:10 PM
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Thinking about it, it would be a waste to invest in sex robot for men, instead you can make better sex toy for women, they do not have unrealistic and abusive demands like men at least, so this task would be a lot easier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 09:36 PM
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There are grows ups who think this shit, more that we liketo believe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 09:39 PM
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If women were violent against male rapist and choose who to reproductive with, humans would have always had the best fathers for the offspring and would've kept humanity alive by quality childrearing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 09:36 PM
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Someone should install a camera that exposes the guys faces and put it online. Send it to their wifes, their workplace....They need to feel shame and be held accountable to their depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 11:41 PM
6

Well this is clearly attemted murder. He should be in prison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 10:31 PM
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Couldn't say it better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 05:27 PM
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Spot on!! Maybe better wording would've been privileged/unprivileged instead of strong/weak though, like we use it in relation to not only sexism/misogyny but also abelism, racism, socioeconomic imbalances etc...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 06:59 PM
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We first and foremost shouldn't have to look out for crazy men with dirty syringes and having to buy a denim head-to-toe bodysuit to block their needles. Or the clubs should just hand out such demin suits for their female guests for free.🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 06:29 PM
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Omg, let's just all fuck off with clothing recommendations (ahem restrictions) put onto women to be safe from men already.....These men have no shame, because they do not see any consequences for their actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 06:27 PM
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Also how pathetic that he thinks running errands counts as a date. He is using an emotionally vulnerable woman for free labour.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 04:51 PM
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Um....they will complain that a sex robot is to unrealistic and they want a "real" woman, whatever it means in their understanding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 08:47 PM
8

A hole that is holey, no shit Sherlock.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 08:26 PM
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I still wonder how they find people to cheat with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 08:23 PM
8

Imagine your man, who is ugly in the picture in question, posting this, while you look beautiful in it. That whole thing is such a bad look for him. It screams rotten character, contempt, selfishness, delusion, disloyality, disrespect and uglyness all at the same time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 08:14 PM
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Also, if a man ever did the misandry scream, it disqualifies him from procreation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 08:30 PM
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Don't feel guilty! He chooses to treat you right, how you deserve, because he cares! Do not get infected by their talk either! You feeling guilty would only ruin your relationship and the haters would get what they want. For the male "friends", they are not real friends if they are not happy for your good relationship! They either want to sleep with you- which means your bf has to go, or they are sour, because it remindes them to actually put in effort to be liked by women (probably both). Maybe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 08:25 PM
13

Very interesting how they can waste their energy literally crying out loud that they awful people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 08:21 PM
13

Those people who never live according to "their believes" are those who have the most time to talk about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 05:14 PM
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I think half-half is a solution here: I won't judge the whole "couple", just the pedo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 07:24 PM
9

But magically he isn't for doing the same thing😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 02:43 PM
39

Who's gonna tell him that this is just in the mild range of safety measures?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 02:31 PM
12

The bar has just molten in the earth's core and is now non-existent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 03:09 PM
1

Nor is any successful old man actually in a relationship with a 20 year old. If they are, that already qualifies them as a dangerous loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 10:32 PM
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I'm 20 and could potentially have children now. Other people my age already have them (even though this is way too young imo). Just the thought of bearing a hypothetical child right now and in 20 years, when I'm forty, dating someone my child's age is utterly disgusting. I cannot even begin to understand how the thought process of these men works. They are monsters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 10:19 PM
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Ugh. If you told him upfront, he'd tell you that you never think things through enough and that you changed your mind too often. You can win with these losers by throwing them out of your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 11:16 AM
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Women work more then them and still have enough respect to be awake in public.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 12:00 PM
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With a spark of optimism, I hope the degenerates/assholes just won't function in daily life or opt out of society as their kind of resistance, which leaves more jobs -and among those important/powerful ones(lawyer, doctor,...)- to women. If more women can hold economic and political power, we can create acomodations that makes life safer for us. If this is the case, men would also dependent on us more and rather try to befriend, thus not violate us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 07:19 PM
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Yes, height is a pretty constant feature while weight often fluctuates. Also no one cares about the number on a scale, but about the body shape (which many older men lie about by using photos from decades ago). I swear, men try the "weight in exact number" thing only to shame a woman for it when they cannot find anything else looks-wise to pick apart. She can be skinny with 1,80m and weight 70 kg, but a man will discard her as fat, because "the number sounds so high" while seeing her with his ow…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 07:11 PM
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1) The cool photos are just a marketing gig to lure in "customers"(i.e. followers). The reality behind the product is way more boring/normal than her insta suggests. Remember, she selects her post carefully and takes her time making marketable pictures and what you see is really just one little part of her day. 2) Don't focus too much on how to attract a HVM. It will just lead you into the trap of putting men's desires before your own for your detriment. It is easy to fall into a people-pleasing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 02:21 PM
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Basically sucking women's life out of them in order to live longer. Oh, and a body to give them kids so their "lineage" does not go extinct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 06:01 PM
5

It is wonderful to hear that you had great police officers. That is how they should ALWAYS handle their cases. I wish you only the best💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 12:59 AM
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First red flag: Your dad dated who(in his career hierarchy) would be his subordinate. Probably went for what he perceived as the lower position for a power trip and ego boost. If your mom was also a doctor, he might have already divorced her as she could be real competition in his narc eyes. Of course this is not the case for all male doctors, but could sure be a thing for narc doctors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 06:36 PM
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This! And not just in case your husband turns abusive, he could be the best man in the world but might have an accident and die suddenly- just for this case, you need to ensure financial independence and aim for a big social network.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 06:27 PM
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Interesting how they sexually harass those women who can arrest them for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 12:24 PM
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People defending this are full of shit and lying. If that guy botherd the victim-blamers the same way he did to this girl, all of those people would see it as harassment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 11:57 AM
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In my experience, this doesn't work either. They will say "but he doesn't need to knooooow"🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 11:51 AM
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Well yes, my "selfish"(=reasonable) interest is that I don't have sexual trauma and by extension, I don't want other women to have this either. From an evolutionary standpoint, we are community animals (= we'd literally die if completley isolated) and the community cannot thrive if men destroy it from within by traumatizing their women. I swear, men are not able to think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 11:41 AM
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I like to believe that remembering such a warning can help the new women get over OPs ex faster when she finally divorces him in a few months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 12:17 AM
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Dream girl just means that a man chases a fantasy, instead of taking interest into the whole personality of an actual human being. He has some sort of ideal he wants to aim at, but doesn't want to work on himself to reach this goal- he instead puts the burden to fulfill his dreams and emotional desires onto some random "dream girl". He outsorces his inner work and will emotionally drain you. He will have unrealistically high expectations of others and will get sulky or mad when your human-ness c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 04:18 PM
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He probably figured that women do not respect him if he's a manwhore, so he plays the long con with those people he actually likes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 04:09 PM
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This isn't even a real profile anyway, at least it shouldn't be seen as one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 01:09 AM
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The naked ladies in the internet are not the problem. The fact that many men are disgusting perverts is the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 03:01 AM
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On top of that, they will have unrealistic expectations of her because- as you said- they idolize her. They are infantuated with the fantasy of her, not the real her- they don't want to see who she actually is. No one wants to be with a man who is projecting fantasies on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 02:24 AM
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"Hot girl" is the signal word here. He should focus on her character, on getting to know her not her hotness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 08:05 PM
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After he cheated on her with his now second wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 11:31 AM
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Lol, I didn't even think of obese men with buried penis, but rather "regular" dudes with small peen. But it doesn't even matter they can all go drown in self-pity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 11:40 PM
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Yeah, when he is 80 I expect him to want to fuck other 80 year olds and not 20 year olds who could be his great-grand children. Dude has to grow up and get lost. Disgusting pedo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 11:31 PM
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What all of us can learn from this, ist that you don't need a relationship and your life is not ruined if you break up with your boyfriend. The opposite is true: You will shine and be healthier and happier. Women too often think they will lose when they are single, but in reality they gain so much. If you are even just unsure if you and your boyfriend are a good fit, leaving is the better solution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 09:54 PM
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I don't like Elon Musk, but I'm sorry for him that this was his childhood influence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 09:46 PM
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Or "walk alone at night without being afraid". I'd fucking sleep on a park bench if I was a man for one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 03:33 PM
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It is a failure of society if porn is somehow better paid than some actual jobs....And women are the ones suffering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 11:35 AM
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Rinse and repeat when the next boy demands the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 01:38 AM
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Yeah, best for them is we just stay silent sex dolls without preference for dick size, height, body shape, hair color, etc....We should just be attracted to ANY and EVERY man regardless of his physical attributes, meanwhile we also should not show any desire for them because that makes us slutty apparently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 01:30 AM
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Yeah, also there are two entirely different things: 1) The normal preference of many women for a bigger penis. Over 15 cm (~6 inches), which comes up as the average American man's penis size in 2015 in a quick Google search. 2) Whatever the hell men's porn fantasy of mutated 40 cm murder dick is. Their sadistic fantasy to hurt women with their penis, I could throw up. I can't help them if they honestly think that what they see in such porn clips, is what women actually understand under " nice bi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 01:14 AM
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There you see how many men think their own dick is too small....Honestly I have enough of this toxic masculine piss contest of who has the longest or whatever shit men compare themselves with. So many men who feel like they are invalid and have a hit to their self esteem if their dick is identified as small and then blame women for everything. Meanwhile, women probably tolarate small dick more than any phallus-obsessed/size-shaming heterosexual men would, even those women with a preferences for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 12:28 AM
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Also men we know are more likley to rape and murder us than a rando on the street. Means we are shamed into staring inside where we staristically are in even more danger. Then are shamed when men violated us in our homes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 10:38 AM
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Ah, didn't know you can be racist against men (as in the male sex). Next time I run away from another white man, I'll be a racist also/r
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 10:34 AM
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It begins at the point where a company decides to not hire an actual person that would be considered "diverse" in their region.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 07:57 PM
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You shouldn't show him this post, he will just call you a "nuclear feminist bi*ch" or some iteration of that and try to gaslight you into thinking why the OP here is crazy. I bet you told him a 1000 different times. There is no way he does not comprehend what you say. You gave him so many chances. At some point, he is not ignorant anymore, but malicious. Imagine you were in his position. How often would your partner have to tell you you don't do enough? Would you feel bad immediately the first t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 02:33 PM
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And all that work is done unpaid and without any kind of "thank you" ever. This is the existence of a house slave. The unregistrated foreign house maids/cooks etc. who live with the family they work for, who get paid below minimum wage and cannot even understand the language of the country they work in are definitely by all means considered "exploited workers". The STHMs you mention find themselves in similar domestic situations as those workers and don't even get one cent for folding the laundr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 02:13 PM
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And this is how his miserable days will never be over. He has to fucking learn how to build himself up. Single and alone without the unpaid help of a partner. Being the free-therapist girlfriend to a man with unresolved mental issues is like being the rich parent who finances their spoiled child through their adult life and then wonders why they don't want to find a job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 01:55 PM
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I would love such a break down too! I recently read through the handbook again and noticed a few passages throughout the posts where I thought:" Oh. This wouldn't be recommended here anymore". E.g. the section about "Know what your standards are and stick to them: Don't settle for less" mentioned that the OP tells guys that they can come up with a better date idea and sometimes they actually do invite you to a nicer date. She brought this as an example of how to assert yourself. It was just a fe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 12:32 PM
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Hm. I'm with the other comments that say it comes off as humiliating and backhanded, pointing out what she isn't skilled at. It sounds a bit like: "Look at how awful and annoying my girlfriend is, but I don't care, I still love her, I will gladly deal with her bad singing". A bit like a backhanded neg. He kinda insulted her because he went a bit into detail with the description of her singing, but she couldn't say anything against it because he did it nicely? I mean, you can say that he had to d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 11:30 AM
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It's funny to watch those narcissistic people "break off" the dating phase as if they have any leverage or power over the other person. Dude, she is not sad you're leaving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 01:17 PM
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He still doesn't appreciate it, he just wants a medal from strangers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 12:32 PM
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Ugh. The "notallmen" always sounds like: Not all people have corona virus, so why did everyone have to stay inside? 🤡 Exactly the same logic. I wish there was a vaccine that makes you immune to male violence, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 12:21 PM
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I'm sorry for those young women who think they have to be in a relationship with a dude who could be their father. This is financial abuse. The OP could have the freedom to live on her own terms. She'd be feeling so much better. I hope she reconsiders this relationship and leaves the dude. OP from the other post, if you read here: You are not stupid, you were manipulated. Abusers are insidious and know exactly how to wear other people down. But you can break free and leave this behind you, now. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 04:44 PM
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That is why you shouldn't give phones/social media access to little kids. Boys couldn't watch A) porn B) posts that hurt their feelings Problem solved. Men complaining like that should be at least consequent fathers then and shield their precious boys from the mental harm of the eViL(🙄) women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 03:50 PM
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I have heared about a man who aggressivley swipes right on ALL women, doesn't even look at their pictures. Tinder is a literal trash can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 06:05 PM
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We don't go around and proclaim that harm should be done to men, that's why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 03:50 PM
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FDS answer: "Well I don't think all men are abusive and useless, I think there are genuinely good people out there and we can all find such persons, but for our own mental health, we don't need to engage with manipulative idiots. Like most people, I want a loving, respectful relationship where I see eye to eye with my man. Don't you think this is possible? Do you think ALL men are abusive and apathetic? That is not a very positive outlook of yours, very sad". Men (not all men, just scrotes), sti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 01:05 PM
54

His responses just shows that he cannot be as "good" as he leads on or he just does the bare minimum for praise and if he doesn't get that constantly, he'll just as well let his kid freeze in the cold and starve to death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:54 PM
23

A woman could be a German who learned all about the Nazis and WW2 (and obviously pre-era) in school and scrote from America would be like "but you cannot possible know better than I do!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 11:27 AM
13

The man is broken. He has no sense od protecting his child, he steals his sons food and doesn't care for sanatizing which would keep his son away from infections.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 10:29 AM
43

Right. But then they somwhow invalidate and shame every woman who lifts something as well as every woman who isn't strong and needs help lifting stuff. Basically use their upper body strength as a reason why women are useless and horrible. This shaming is sexism "benevolent" towards men. Don't know if this can count as benevolent sexism in the explained sense though. Just seems to be the "standard"version of sexism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 05:56 PM
104

She is so manipulated by pickme-ism that she cannot even show her own mother enough respect and love and leave this dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 05:50 PM
10

When you keep all the medical gaslighting in mind that especially women have to face, you really come to the conclusion that cosmetic surgeries are just an absolute scam. You literally are faced with the possibility of having side effects dismissed. And all that due to a procedure that you did absolutely not need. What a waste of money and health. Just to appease a sicko. Not worth it at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 07:25 PM
22

And then mens generalizations are about shallow and materialistic subjects, like looks, how a woman is in bed OR they are about how prone to accepting abuse/ subpar treatment different groups of women are. Tells you all you need to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 07:06 PM
13

Wow, they are really milking woman's whole life history just to create the stereotype of women being dramatic and exposing their past. Also the assumption that the men are of course not there for a relationship, but all the women are....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 06:29 PM
145

He can pick up the hot dudes, good for him, he can have them.😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 10:14 PM
61

Men like this should lose the right to be a father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 08:20 PM
149

Exchange scrote with asshole and they'll hopefully be on board.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 04:18 PM
5

Self awarness and reflection of your own behavior are essential. Acknowledgeing one's own mistakes and dismantling our toxic behaviors is key to a good relationship with yourself and others. However, when you are in a relationship where you have to completley change yourself in order to communicate better with your partner, then maybe you need to relize that you are just not so compatible. If two people are too different, no amount of reflection and common aim towards improvement can save the re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 12:05 PM
20

Last time I checked, I heard that young teens look and as soon as you approach adulthood you have to get your stares in check. This guy is not 12 years old. He knows better and can do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 11:51 AM
12

She's delusional. You handle it by ending the relationship. She should be happy that other woman still have some sense. And she should be worried about men if they do not advice her to break up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 11:37 PM
47

It's honestly being a touchy-feely, huggy person instead of a sex-addict.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 11:40 AM
92

A woman from this subreddit would just pay her half and never see him again after that date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:52 AM
12

They probably laugh at him and tell him he is gay as if it is an insult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:31 AM
56

Yes that's an ass-hat, this is right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 08:37 PM
66

Much of the "uglyness" can also be resolved by better hair and clothing styles that fit his body type and skin complexion, skin care, healthy food and sport and good hygiene. Most of the time, they are not intrinsically ugly, they are just sloppy with their health and looks and clueless about style and astetics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 03:53 PM
12

Also why did another adult have to step in and what where the parents of the kids doing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 12:06 PM
179

But then they shame women for being outside alone at night, even though the statistics say it is safer for us there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 11:51 AM
74

They seem to really be afraid that women will just take their rights away, as if that is possible with the distribution of power in the world and our history with how women were treated. They truly think women in power would act as horrible as men in power. They are projecting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 10:46 PM
38

Pestering for threesome sounds like coercion, it is definitely not a consensual act if he manages to wear her down until she gives in. She is delusional herself, trying to excuse her boyfriends emotional abuse. Those people are not good friends. She needs help herself and can in no way be a supporting or guiding role in you trauma level-up journey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 10:36 PM
42

Disgusting trashbags those men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 08:03 PM
66

They are delusional. Mad at him for cock-blocking? They already know you did not want to fuck him, what's the point of him trying with you? It doesn't matter if you reject him right after the friend told you the guy wants to get in your pants or if you reject him a little later after he tried hitting on you. And they are literally dangerous. Your "guy friend" was complicit in planning rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 07:46 PM
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Other stress symptoms: -nervousness/anxiety -uneasiness -shakiness -nausea, vomiting -crazy digestion, diarrhea -loss or increase of appetite -feeling weak/unfit and sick -increased attentiveness, being more easily sensory overwhelmed or scared -being confused and unable to concentrate, unable to fully access your cognitive abilities -random obsessive-cumpulsive thoughts and behaviors, perfectionism and feeling like crying if you cannot stick to a strictly set schedule or time-plan, skewed perce…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 07:08 PM
46

He tries to use it to make you shut up when he does exactly that thing, but doesn't relize you can come at him with the sentence: "Oh I see, your ex was right". Edt: He told you who he is and showed it too. Believe him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 05:12 PM
46

Do it, she should tear him a new one and shame her rapist son out of the family. This man deserves no family support network.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:41 PM
38

I bet he hasn't slept with anyone, who would want him? But you never know, did you get tested for STDs? Also block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:39 PM
69

She calls herself hateful lover because she is passive-agressive in regards to her man as she always buys him way more expensive presents than he buys her, right? A nice suit and dinner cost more than shoes and lunch?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 12:36 PM
55

Bet he thinks fake moaning = orgasm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 12:13 PM
51

Right? Makes fun of women being pregnant from deadbeat and shitty fathers, then proceeds to get mad that women in the club don't want to fuck his dumbass. Choose one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 12:02 PM
25

It's honestly sad how good suggestions like from the dark red (third comment) and blue marked person get shouted down. You can literally hear him scream :" I don't care for all your advice, I demand a woman to neg and wear down NOW!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 11:58 AM
16

This! We cannot have a better society when the children are traumatized and neglected by their parents. Having no children if there are no decent men is better than having them with shitty men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 11:43 AM
22

This reads like you want our permission to break up. I want to tell you, if you feel like something is wrong in your relationship, no matter the reason, break up. You don't need anyone's permission but your own. And it seem like you are ready. Your list is very long. Read through it again. If your good friend came with that long extensive list of complaints, would you like to see her stay with that man? I know it is easy for me to say it not being in your position, but it is still true. He is 3 …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 11:22 PM
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I especially love how he says he doesn't pay attention to his surroundings, but women speeding up in his presence bothers him so much? He can just keep listening to his music completely unbothered as he claims, but he won't because he is a lunatic who has to get into people's faces and randomly insult women who did not do anything to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 06:46 PM
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I can tell he is a bad person just by the way he writes this. A normal man would change to the other sidewalk when he sees that a woman is alone and fearful. Any normal person would just change the side recently because pandemic. This is a dude who would make a whole scene out of trying to pass me, because I am "too slow", even though my normal walking pace is close to light run and my tall friends always have to remind me to not walk so fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 06:36 PM
75

Ew 🤮🤮 I almost downvoted you just reading this. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 06:17 PM
44

Those responses are just the good old victim blaming. People who say this know that POC are (even more) afraid of police violence whereas a white woman's worry is rather to not be believed/be seen as crazy and be sent home to her abuser again. 'It'S NoT aBOutT YouU"🤡. I can scream. It is about all of us as women. WOC are after all women too. All those cases of WOC disappearences should get the media coverage that this case got. All cases of women being raped, stalked, murdered and kidnapped AGAI…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 05:57 PM
38

They must all be high on several drugs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:16 PM
19

We can see that misogy is still a rampant problem when the only thing that makes a woman's murder news-worthy is her socio-economic class and ethnicity or race. When a woman is white (or a bit more broad: from the ethnic or cultural majority/privileged group), she at least has that race privilege and her struggles with misogy must SOMETIMES be taken seriously. When she is a WOC (or an ethnic minority/an immigrant/from another nationality or culture...) she has to deal with misogy mixed with raci…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 12:19 PM
4

Threaten him with police if he keeps stalking you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 11:27 AM
13

Imagine thinking just because one person finds you attractive/unattractive most other people do to.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 10:02 PM
96

The crux with that is that it works on LVM because they jump at the first woman that gives them attention, sex and free labor, even if he does not like her at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 09:41 PM
3

As soon as we start raping and murdering men on a mass scale, as soon as women and male pick-mes victim-blame men who went trough the same thing as Gabby, she can come back and talk about how women behave like men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 11:18 AM
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This is literally creating false intimacy. I'd go to the gym or on walks with my long-term bf not a dude I just start dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 10:19 PM
16

Exactly, it is not like she has now failed her business just because of one other creepy dude she met.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 11:18 AM
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They don't. It's an excuse to rape children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 08:26 PM
31

If someone comes to you with the biology argument, tell them how by that logic, it is fine if you masturbate to hot male models, have a nude male calender hung up in your home, follow them on insta and sending them DMs about how badly you need to fuck them. And hit on (sexually harass) them on the street by throwing wild comments at them and literally staring your eyeballs out at the sight of a hot dude while your boyfriend/husband is present. Biology, huh? This is what makes women and men diffe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 07:24 PM
9

Ew, what a useless idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 06:59 PM
37

I think it is great if the dad takes the role seriously and actually fathers the children. Unfortunately there are many lazy bums who don't do anything hiding behind the label "SAHD". I live in a country where mothers and fathers can take time off work anyway to care for the kids. It is a paid leave. I actually believe if the state provides less than this, they are just bonkers and cruel. And I think any good father should make use of this leave for at least a few months in order to get to know …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 11:40 AM
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It is crazy to think about it. Sometimes an individual man does not have to do anything to coerce a woman because society already did that for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 11:48 AM
29

I think most of us have experienced situations like this. I continued a yes when I was just not in the mood anymore during sex, instead of cutting it off then and there. I said yes when in my mind I wanted sex, but in my body I felt no and then was either bored until he finished because I could not come or had to cut it off anyway and either way I'd be angry that I wasted my time like this. Never. Again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 11:38 AM
33

Don't forget the stealthing men or those who hide their STIs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 10:49 AM
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Also consent can be coerced.Yes does not mean yes in instances where you could not equally choose between yes and no, where the decisionmaking process was skewed. All such situation are rape/assault as the man takes advantage of you and the skewed situation. Also, if you have just the smallest doubt on why you should have sex, don't. And lastly, please don't let men get away with not sexually pleasing you. He has to truly try to make you come, he needs to listen to what you like and put your adv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 10:34 AM
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Exactly. They may have gotten a "yes", but it is still a crime and those people doing it are still perpetrators. Why else would they want to do that? In the BDSM circles they always stress the importance of a discussion about boundries and involved acts beforehand, which first, people don't even do and secondly doesn't make the acts less depraved. "Consent" does not mean anything if it means that another person got hurt. I admit I should have stated that differently in my original comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 10:13 AM
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It is because we young women don't have as much life experience and are just not as assertive as (older) adults. Also we do not have established careers or big income yet. We are just making our fist adult decisions and experiences and don't really know how to navigate those new situations in the best way possible. We still have to learn so much. This makes us vulnerable. Also it makes a loser man come off better than he is, because against a teenager, he has got "hot shit". An older guy can may…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 09:37 PM
37

Time for the world to be feminized then, as female humans make half of the population, I think it is fair for us to have at least half the influence and power in the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 12:17 PM
23

If men ain't shit, I can't help them. But let's see the good side of it: if less men enroll in higher education, that leaves more high positions of power to us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 12:01 PM
72

It is amazing how they think masturbation=porn. They have no fantasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 11:49 AM
15

In some parts of the world, you are a female teacher and are shunned because how dare you be in a masculine field/ at work, you should be at home and cook and play with the kiddos. In other parts of the world,you are a female teacher and are shamed/looked down upon because teaching is a female profession as women are "naturally better with children and more verbally eloquent".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 12:04 PM
20

I wonder if they still say that when women are better in all areas of the IQ test than men. F*** off with your different types of intelligence. The IQ test does not even account for all those mental characteristics that people would describe as intelligence. I am pretty sure patriarchal men never took into account the concept of emotional intelligence, which women tend to be better at.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 11:54 AM
8

Oh yes. He sounds like the type who has to make everything a game and competition. So exhausting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 09:38 AM
136

As if overcoddling and entitlement have something to do with each other😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 09:35 AM
116

Why exactly can't he search the livestream of the TV channel on the phone he uses all the time for communication anyway? Or get up to get batteries for the remote. When he stood up to lock the door, he could've just as well go get the batteries. Also why does he think he can manipulate her career and financial situation during a time where he is literally dependent on her? Lady should divorce him, what a piece of crap. Wasn't there once a time where all people understood that if you are away at …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 08:35 PM
16

Also why does he have the audacity to expect anything else than friendly conversation? He is not entitled to flirting and sex from any stranger he meets lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 06:00 PM
5

Nah, I like my last name, it is mine, I only ever had this last name, it stays. Like you have mentioned, it is a part of a person's identity. It would feel wrong for me to use another person's last name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 01:52 PM
30

Isn't it statistically most likely to be the partner anyway when it comes to murder?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 01:32 PM
93

"I lied to you, but I am soooo honest and you did not respond to my messages after 2 seconds, I don't think we can work out that way. I want to treat you nice, give me a second chance. You are not honest with me, you are like all the other girls who treated me badly. I yelled at you, but I am cool and calm. Oh don't post me on TikTok, I threaten you with legal action, but call me back!" All that after not showing up on the first date, leaving her in the dark for two hours claiming his father was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 10:36 PM
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If they'd at least start out with the clit, which is a better structure to aim for when wanting to orgasm as a woman. I know men who slept with 10 women and made not even one of them orgasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 07:10 PM
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Slapping is not something that can be just done randomly during sex without warning/the consent of the other person (and even if it is with consent it is very very questionable, why would people wanna do it in the first place?). There is no talking it out. This man attacked her and is violent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 01:59 PM
16

Girl, you deserve a medal for this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 11:54 AM
13

No, they know they won't get women, they do this soley to scare us, irritate us and bring our mood down. It is insidious because they know these behaviors make us be on guard and scared/annoyed at all times. They try to bully us into being more timid. We should never forget that there is always a man to ruin our day. Those men hate women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 11:30 AM
46

Also, if you were not well off financially, but he is, he would try to buy your affection and hold it against you afterwards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 10:54 AM
19

Yeah, better way to deal with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 10:42 PM
60

They do not relize that behavior influences evolution and nowhere in nature exists a rulebook that says that women have to put up with rapey men. After all, it is in every individuals best interest to protect themselves and their personal welfare. So, speaking from an evolutionary standpoint, women must raise their standards throughout time in order to have a nicer and safer life in which they can thrive and live long and produce physically and mentally healthy and loved offspring which is fit t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 10:25 PM
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Honestly, just tell him bluntly that he is a useless asshole who sits on his ass all day and doesn't do anything. There is no nice way of going about this, he need to feel like he seriously fucked up. Tell him, when both of them are present, that you thought so highly of him once and you don't know how he could become such a lazy bum. He might work out now, but this doesn't make his attitude more attractive and he only has time to work out because he dumps so much labour on his wife anyway. If h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 12:50 PM
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Exactly, every pedo who is attracted to teens proved he has no clue about biology and because of that lack of intelligence or education he is an unfit partner or father anyways. Just think about the dangerous myths about the human body he would teach his children. (And also which is more important, he is unfit foe those things because he is preying on young vulnerable kids.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 12:07 PM
19

I don't think it is possible to be so clueless how you painted them. One must be delusional to think that someone who rejected you must actually like you, just because they can keep up respectful, friendly conversation. Trust me, they know. There's a point where it is more about carelessness rather than cluelessness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 01:33 PM
15

Again an idiot who invites others to a gathering but doesn't want to foot the bill. INVITING=PAYING.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 11:18 AM
31

He probably invited her to the date. Inviting = paying. In my language, if someone says "I invite you" it equals "the bill is on me". It is literally used as another word for "to pay" in social gathering- situations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 11:06 AM
18

Some maybe just lurk or made another account for using the sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 11:05 AM
486

Last night of freedom is stupid. You were in a committed relationship for years, you gave this freedom of singlehood away since you started your relationship. You were supposedly fine with that all the time, what changed for this one night? Yes, nothing changed, nothing is different that night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 07:52 PM
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Unfortunately, this is when women in such relationships or women with a pick-me-mindset become dangerous, which is exactly why we need places like FDS- no one should ever find themselves in this position. Maybe she is cold hearted (and what she did is certainly inexcusable and unacceptable), but probably because she got used to the violence from this man and now she is traumatized and numb inside. Those women are manipulated, traumatized and too scared to do anything. They are violated and threa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:15 PM
66

Right? Honestly, which person over 18 has that much free time for sex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:05 PM
22

I have no clue what is going on with some dudes. At least all people I know who play video games are normal (men and women alike). They play maybe a few hours a week while talking to friends on Discord in the evening. They do their jobs and studies, which come first and are not impacted by games and have time for their other hobbies and meeting friends irl as well. When the weather is nice in the summertime, everyone is outside and no one would even want to sit on a console in the house. Honestl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:51 PM
16

She should rather call the police.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 10:55 AM
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This is why it is crucial that women get more economical power. More of us have to be businesses owners and managers, more of us need to be lawyers, doctors and police officers. When more economical power and jobs are in the hands of women, men can go die mad and homeless with their violence, because employers and coworkers (women) don't accept this behavior either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 03:10 PM
117

Right? Either she has some medical conditions/ bad doctor's work left or he is just disgusted at a normal looking result of a common bodily function of women. I guess it is the second. This guy is nasty. "Disfigured". Go f*** off with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 11:30 AM
41

Hansmaiden's tale is a true story that is happenning in brothels and on porn sites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 09:20 PM
33

They always complain how women have it easier on dating apps, but cannot anticipate that in an open relationship, she will definitely find a hot guy to fuck while he can't find a hot woman.😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 03:45 PM
11

He can die mad and homeless then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 03:37 PM
78

"Good luck finding a guy who treats you like I did". He literally exclaimed that it is IMPOSSIBLE to find another man who is as full of crap as him.🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 12:19 AM
5

I think what can help is to plan out smooth escape-strategies. Then you don't worry about breaking social norms and looking weird in such a situation(if these are your worries, but even if they aren't, you should have escape-tactics in the event that a guy might be dangerous). Having a stash of ideas in the back of your mind helps you keep a cool head and you can walk through all the steps that you laid out beforehand after you gut-feeling kicks in. Really, plan out phrases and excuses as to why…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 09:29 PM
11

The let's get married- scenario doesn't even sound like a proposal, it's just an introductory sentence to a discussion about future plans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 08:54 PM
6

They act like clueless children. Obviously, you would stop seeing someone at the first few dates when you figure out you are not compatible, no matter if the finances or their sleep cycles are not compatible with your standards. Also, you'd discuss your dream proposal and expectations beforehand, so that he has a guideline on what he can plan. And even if nothing was discussed because the proposal came by surprise, you should expect something romantic and thoughtful. Those things can be achieved…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 08:49 PM
31

Use of simple words, as if I'm talking to a toddler....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 06:05 PM
21

Some men act woke to gain sympathy points from women, but are just misogynistic. They want women to be vulnerable with them so they can exploit us better. And when they hurt us, they hide behind their social activism/good person mask and people will say: "You are a liar, he is not the kind of person to do that. Look he donated to charity for a woman's shelter." Actions speak louder than words. A guy doesn't need to brag about his moral/ethical standpoint. If he really holds those views, it shows…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 11:46 AM
80

We don't need our own country, men would just attack a female society. What we need is to lead all countries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 10:41 AM
121

This sheds a whole new light on "women and children first". They had to say this because they knew men wouldn't live by this phrase naturally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 10:23 AM
45

He has to learn to take a joke, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 07:06 PM
121

Ah and why should only women have self control? Bet she can't answer that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 03:25 PM
20

The "what is wrong with you" should be more of a "what's up" and "how can I accommodate, help and understand you" in a loving relationship. A partner has to be caring and helpful, not accusatory. If he says you are alien and odd, then he doesn't want to understand you and get to know you better, he just wants a pretty facade. A superficial relationship like this cannot work out long term, it will only make you miserable. To answer your question: A man should love you for who you are. There is no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 11:26 PM
25

And honestly, if you post FDS-like advice with another account, no one will be mad at you and get your comment removed. They are just angry that you browse this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 11:02 PM
38

But the free advertising won't stop, regardless.🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 10:59 PM
220

So they want children to be groomed into porn addiction? Is this secretly a porn site?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 10:52 AM
65

I cannot understand how they rather see women struggle with violent, dangerous and gross men while doing sex work. How about gaining more power through education and climbing the career ladder into higher management positions? So that we can own more of the businesses, real estate, properties, restaurants, hotels, gas stations or jobs in court or medical offices, where women still regularly get screwed over. I prefer getting real power. Sure you'll get sexist comments from male coworkers, it is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 10:39 AM
133

When my bf and I hang on our phones too long, one of us has to say "phones away" and we do it. And no one is mad. Your dude had a tactic. He was cold the whole day = He wanted to make you feel bad for your "mistake". He warmed up later = he also wanted to present you the illusion of "good times". Maybe when you meet him next time, he'll be all nice and happy again, you just have to jump through hoops with back rubs and favorite food in order to maybe get him into this state.🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 10:29 AM
35

Right? If my hair was straight, the pulling would still hurt, therefore, turn me off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 11:17 AM
28

I wonder how often he even gets the opportunity to have sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 11:14 AM
7

Not my fault if he thinks all of them are like that. But if this was the case, yes all if them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 04:04 PM
164

"Hating" men= hating male abusers, rapists, scammers and mysoginists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 12:35 PM
116

These 50 year old dudes should really stop pursuing anyone under 45. And what 30 year old wants to be with a 18 year old? They are in totally different life stages. No need for a 30 yo to go for under 25 either. Those dudes really complain that teens look like teens. 16 and 18 is not a big difference, girls look the same at both ages, I look the same since 5 years, I'm 20.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 09:35 AM
102

He bought an aquarium before he bought a bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 05:36 PM
107

And most men, too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 04:08 PM
77

Ugh, women like this get thrown into prison alongside their men when CP is found on their laptops and those women "don't question" the fact that the man told them to lie to the police about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 11:19 AM
17

Same, mine would agree.😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 08:38 AM
18

Yes all men. If they are not offending, they are at least not defending. And even the actual good ones profit from the sheer amount of awful men, because they stand out and get praise for normal things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 08:34 AM
11

Right? When men and women have THE SAME SIDE EFFECTS, it cannot possibly be the women that suffer, right? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 08:25 AM
248

Promote the pill for men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 08:15 PM
437

As a german speaker, this is not Schadenfreude anymore. This is pure evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 03:16 PM
67

If we like bad boys so much, why do many of us stay NOT with them longer than a night?🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 03:12 PM
10

Oh, then I misread it. Good that you don't have contact with him anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 09:03 PM
286

Yes the men lose their rights too, but the women obviously lose more. Way to make everything about men when it doesn't need to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 04:38 PM
69

A few days ago, there was an influx of people who defended a shooter and you wonder why he reacts to your posts like this? I bet he wants to be a Taliban himself, so he can go on a rape and shooting spree. Also block and delete. Don't stop posting links and donation pages. It is for a good cause.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 03:48 PM
71

What tf is wrong with this person? With all that happens in Afghanistan right now, how dare she even say that? Girls get bombed in their schools and women who stands up for their rights are guranteed to be k*lled by the Taliban. There is no love. There is instability and war. How dare she suggest you can raise children there at the moment?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 02:07 PM
51

The one who says women don't understand. If men didn't want and demand prostitutes, they wouldn't exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 02:03 PM
17

Comment 5 "Not every woman is insecure, but I surley am." I think if she made that comment towards a man, she'd still be "insecure"- why would she hit onanozher man if she is in a relationship🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 10:57 AM
101

We do it to male pets too, so they won't be as aggressive. Should work in humans, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:21 PM
62

He wants to prostitute children? "Men" at 15. F*** off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:18 PM
36

The mistake it to ask men what makes the world better for them. They won't come up with real solutions for improvement. We want a society without male violent crimes. This is objectivley better for everyone, but men don't think so. They want to keep abusing women and punch down weaker men for an ego boost. They shouldn't be listened to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 05:02 PM
14

Wtf, also he owes YOU something if you help him. But apparently we owe then no matter if they help us or if we help them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:29 AM
40

Exactly, foe every type of woman, there is another excuse as to why they abuse them. They have to abuse us because we are "self-entitled" but a woman with low self esteem has to be abused because she has no self-respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 08:30 AM
12

He never took a look at our book recommendations? And the double standard. Why should he get to be self entitled but not me? (As if we actually are)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 08:22 AM
27

I'm always baffeled at the audacity. Why would they think they can show their dick to strangers? This is sexual harassment. I also cannot grasp how they don't have any fear about their pictures being leaked, showed to other people and made public on the internet. This just shows that women just aren't a danger to them and they know ans take advantage of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 08:12 AM
59

He really just wanted to re-traumatize all the women who suffered sexual violence with this post. He know exactly what he was doing. He deserves to be outcasted from society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 03:44 PM
79

A single mom with one baby and one adult child who still lives in "hotel mama" at 44.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 11:32 AM
40

I hate how she feels bad for the gold digger comment. Girl, no. He needs some shaming. Guy acts as if he doesn't know that pricey stuff costs actual money. Just a tactic to abuse his girlfriend. If it really was a deal breaker for him that she cannot come on trips and he really does not want to pay like he claims, he would've broken up with her and find himself a rich woman. But no, he has to stay to make her miserable. He is the gold digger. He is the Mr. Scruge who exploits people for some ext…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 11:12 AM
102

They demand every woman to have sex with them then call us sluts when we obviously are not virgins anymore because if these demands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 09:16 AM
18

Yeah those 99,9 percent of women in Plymouth who don't even know him, the little three year old girl, the teachers that won't coddle him when he does not turn in his assignment after he "forgot" it the third time and his mother who works his ass off to pay for her son's needs and wants are all sooooo awful people by doing this/s 🤡 No one is entitled to sex and a relationship. Men are not entitled to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 08:31 AM
33

Sexual liberation starts with the right to say no to any sex act, just because. Sexual liberation is about having sex on your terms and making it pleasurable for YOU! If there are certain things he likes to do, but you don't, he can f*** off with that. If you know that you can truly and comfortably nope out at any time, if the "no" is an actual, whole option, only then you can start thinking about what you REALLY like and go get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 09:42 PM
85

Sure they need such elaborate reproductive rights......when they didn't even tried the pill for men and half of them doesn't even want to wear a condom when f*cking with strangers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 09:36 PM
10

If he csn beat up anothrr man in a heartbeat he sure can do it to her......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 09:31 PM
42

As if those two are completly different things. How convieniet to act as if he is no real danger because he is "non-offending".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 05:12 PM
1

Of course it is irrelevant and it is just self preservation, but that is not how society percieves it. And certainly not how the incel percieves it. I just wanted to illustrate how those types percieve everything as a hate crime against them , even if we did really nothing wrong at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 08:18 AM
9

It is a mocking ironic truth I guess. The truth about human psychology is that everyone is responsible to fix themselves. It is just not possible by your own force to build up another human being but yourself. We cannot fix a broken man. By staying away from dangerous men, we actually do show them that we respect (or more acknowledge) their ability to be responsible and to better themselves. They are not children who can throw tantrums and be forgiven. They are adults who have to deal with the c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 11:27 PM
119

Yeah they are basically dismissing violence against women by being like "Oh, not a terrorist, just a guy who hates women, just the usual, normal shit"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:47 PM
112

"Oh the make up influencers are artsy and paint their faces in such beautiful and crearive ways, it is really inspiring and you get rewiews on new products, so you can decide if you actually want to buy them or not. That is different to all these gamer influencers who just yell your ears out while they play. I dunno about you, but I'd rather play my game without having an angry men spoil my session who is trying to make me deaf."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 06:15 PM
110

And then we would actually go and work on losing the weight, but also complain about the people who were haters towards us and then get told we are negative because we took "stupid people's comments so personal". Meanwhile the incels reaction to good suggestions as well as hate is to not better themselves i.e. loosing their extra pounds AND to go on a shooting spree on top of that. This is misogyny running deep into society. No one bats an eye at violent men, because they are expected to act lik…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 01:37 PM
30

Right? And even for the other types of terrorism: I think in the last 5 years, out of all the islamic terrorist attacks in Europe that I heard of in the news, only one perpetrator was a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 01:22 PM
404

And ultimately, this is the most respectful thing towards them also. We acknowledge that they cannot handle relationships and certain responsibilities, so we give them the space to grow for themselves, because ultimately, change and growth comes from their insides, maybe with the help and guidance of therapists, and not from their partner. Edit: Thanks for the awards! You ladies are very supportive!😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 01:13 PM
235

Women struggle with mental health and get told they are just lazy and entitled because they did not clean their whole apartment for once because their depression makes their energy levels drop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 01:03 PM
273

Yes this is judgemental because at this point, you must be judgemental to be safe from literal murderers?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 09:36 AM
62

Would be nice to have this feeling for once, must feel as if you are invincible. You know people are less likley to attack you when they are intimidated by you. So you can fearlessly walk around and fully enjoy the night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 08:28 PM
55

Yes, it would k*ll us and this same men would blame us for not taking precautions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 08:26 PM
67

I wonder how all these women grew so tall when it is unnatural to achieve.😂🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 01:47 PM
91

"If you get to know my hight I get to know your weight". As if they were equivalent. It is really hard for me to hold my tongue and to not go into a rant about what he is actually attracted to is the body shape and that shape and weight are different things, plus a factor in weight is also the height and how asking for the weight is just asking for a non-descriptor in order to nag someone. Let's be honest, no one needs the exact weight of a person, if someone is obese and you don't like that, yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 01:06 PM
26

Poor child doesn't have a dad who is able of financial prioritization.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 10:58 PM
54

He is probably jealous because other guys might look at his hot wife and she can just pick a better man. So he tries to knock her down by telling her that she is ugly anyway and by setting unrealistic beauty standards, like looking as she did 17 years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 02:57 PM
31

So he is simultaneously saying he preferrs children, but she is also so stunningly hot that she has to dress only for him to pander to his ego and wear no make-up, because he thinks then she'll look more bland and guys won't look at her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 02:53 PM
12

The first picture especially is so creepy. She looks way younger than her age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:51 PM
46

Right? Just like we lock up the tiger at the zoo, to be a non-hazardous attraction to watch for pleasure and the thrill of seeing wild predatory animals. Maybe what he tries to say is that he believes men want to be locked up and objectivied like zoo animals? It would solve the problem of "putting us in dangerous situations", though.🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 10:45 AM
36

So we have to sit in our houses and not do anything all day? Our houses, where we are statistically more likely to be abused by men than on the outside? Also funny how he talks about nature, but doesn't acknowledge that neither do the sexes of a species live separatly from each other an a day-to-day basis (as we'd be safe by his logic if men and woman were separated i.e. "not putting ourselves in dangerous situations"), nor does any individual naturally just gratefully take the violence used on …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 10:33 AM
9

And in the end, you probably still have to chase the men away and unfortunately the dating prospects do not decrease how they promised😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 11:30 PM
5

That is why they complain, iT's NoT fAAAAAir that others get to put in work into their appearance and look good, but he doesn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 11:15 PM
37

"Ah so you would treat me like shit if I am unable to work? You think women who don't pay have to be slaves for men and be abused by them? You sound like such a misogynist! You also do not sound like a family/community man, I find that unattractive."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 12:33 PM
1

Ah the people who think selling products and services is the same thing as selling your body. Gives me vibes of "I think women are just objects". No, selling clothes in a retail store is not the same thing as sex work. There is a natural distance between strange humans. We crave this privacy because we want to be safe, we want to have a head start to flee if the other person starts attacking us. We do not know if a stranger is a friend or a threat. When we have sex and bodies come together, ther…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 09:01 AM
6

Right? I'd say this is in the territory of not forcing people not to drink next to you in the bar because you are now sober.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 08:40 AM
2

There is a male living spaces, he can use that too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 06:12 PM
160

Apparently I do know, I make myself cum every time. I am able to find the clit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 12:24 PM
17

Note how she doesn never clearly state: "I am uncomfortable that you wear make up, because I am afraid he will look atyou sexually" because she knows how stupid this request is, but she doesn't want to relize that she has to dump her boyfriend if this fear has any grounds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 09:31 AM
210

Which uncivilized person call someone a little bitch over this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 02:51 PM
11

I own a few vibrators which are fun to use obviously (best thing are the clitoral vibrators), but most of the time i use my hand on my clitoris and the trick is done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 11:06 PM
27

So he confused women with a hair brush????? Also his first mistake is to "expect" sex from anyone. People feel like a sex object when they are objectified, not when using objects. Seems like this guy doesn't know that much about how objectification works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 10:49 PM
161

Probably the fact that we are allowed to work, make our own money and not be dependent on men. Maybe he is outraged because he heard women describe physical features their dream partner should have and this is sooooo craaaaaazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 10:42 PM
215

Classic case of "losing privilege"- syndrome, where the more powerful group percieves equality as a hate crime against themselves. Symptoms include projection of the mistakes and flaws of the powerful group onto the disadvantaged group. Seriously, men must learn that not dating and just focusing on one's own happiness is a great option for anyone. Some men must also learn that if they qant to be dated, they need to be liked, which includes being a respectful, caring, reasonable person with moral…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 10:40 PM
15

How is googling them any different from searching their social media and adding them right away, which is somehow normal and acceptable? If they are the avarage person, social media is the only thing that comes up in the google search anyway. Any differing variations are an indicator of more outstanding things about them, negative (e.g. criminal record) as well as positive (e.g. news article about their charity work). But these infos are for the public anyway, so how is it an invasion of privacy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 06:32 PM
74

It is just an excuse. They just hate women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 05:15 PM
162

Creepy =/= ugly, my dudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 02:11 PM
12

You don't mean benevolent, you mean malicious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 10:25 AM
31

How would they know what a toddler can do when they believe child rearing is an unworthy woman task?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 10:16 AM
53

And their sons life, too. What violent fantasies will a man, who watches porn depicting such power imbalances, have about his son , even if they are not of sexual nature? Plus, someone like this doesn't seem to be a good role model for a young boy. I don't want pornsick men to raise their sons to be pornsick losers, too. Men won't ever change if these little sh*ts are their fathers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 10:07 AM
17

Almost as if we are undetactable in the pool of women, maybe because we are not outstandingly abusive or archaic like he thinks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 09:54 AM
25

Apparently, she did not have sex but was raped by an old scrote who groomed her when she was a kid, like one comment said. The husband is evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 11:08 PM
249

Maybe we don't....because "we not dumb like that"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 11:02 PM
10

But the question of why we should sleep with him remains unanswered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 10:56 PM
8

I figured out it is the opposite when you are the only shortie in a bigger group! Then you get overlooked, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 09:35 PM
16

I'm the opposite, I'm a short woman who is mostly attracted to rather tall men, around 1,80m (I don't know what this is in feet, maybe 5,9? correct me if I'm wrong). I got comments of the "why don't you like short men, you are also short"- type. Well it just happens that the men I find attractive happen to be tall and I sure won't force myself to date men I don't find attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 09:27 PM
205

And do not forget the men that shame women for being taller than them! Calling them unshapley or manly, complaining when they wear heels...... Men are the ones who want shorter girlfriends. On top of that, there's society telling us a couple where the woman is taller is an oddity. It is not women's fault when shorter men's egoes get hurt because a womans body dared to activate genes that made her grow taller than him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 03:42 PM
27

Men date women they hate, your train of thought is not logical to all of them. Those types think we have the same audacity they have and are mad about it, because how dare we, we are women and only men are allowed to be entitled idiots, right?🤡 They should take a hint, we do not want to behave like the most awful people in the world, we just want respect like everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 10:03 AM
39

Also they are not afraid of the consequences not complying with women's standards. They have to comply with their bosses rules because they can be fired and sit home-and moneyless on the street and starve. Women are raised to be nice, caring and agreeable. So men are not afraid that we will just throw them out our house and leave them with nothing when they act up in a romantic relationship setting.They just expect us to put up with underground behaviour all our life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 09:55 AM
20

Right? If this is their name, they should also become independent and stay alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 09:43 AM
14

Yeah, we are so toxic complaining about misogyny and telling women to leave men they don't want to be together with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 09:42 AM
44

Also it will literally have the same effect as if you were straight and divorce your husband. Marriages fall apart all the time. You cannot put on a show your whole life, let alone have sex with someone you are not attracted to. Men first act as if lesbians are so hot and the next second act as if women betray them by not being attracted to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 09:58 PM
6

Almost as if it was to much drama.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 09:18 PM
22

Omg. Answer should be: "Yes I get it that you wish he was gay, you want to have him for yourself, he is hot, I feel like this too. But see, he has a girlfriend, he probably is into women".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 09:05 PM
12

Oh well, a mother who is mad that her house slave cought onto her unequal treatment of her children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 08:44 PM
132

This! A man never has to fear a group of women, but most women could throw up at the sight of a man group in the street shw has to walk by.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 06:29 PM
7

Um well, but it's the men's fault we are not doing well. Even this argument of scrotes doesn't make sense. Men just have to not be so traumatizing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 04:04 PM
9

Right? Only a coward or a leech stays with people they hate when they have the free choice to go. His woman is not putting a gun on his head and threatening him if he leaves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 04:02 PM
35

Always remember, the exact nature of the off vibes can differ from person to person. An entitled person for example will find everyone "off" who doesn't enable them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 06:21 PM
55

Lol, don't be too hyped up, they have more of the fake woke misogynistic type we always talk about here. (If you're young)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 06:02 PM
71

I hope it goes through, I would be so proud. But unfortunately it is only one little step.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 05:58 PM
20

She already knows but apparently she trained herself to endure this behaviour. It is almost pathetic how she already assessed him the right way but doesn't want to take him for who he is. Has heard that he likes her and now she thinks she has to accommodate this, even though she does not like him and he doesn't have any qualities? No no no no no! Reminds me of a guy who used to be a friend who does photography. He also sells photo shoots. Asked a girl on instagram if she wants to do a photo shoo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 09:22 AM
51

"Sorry, I am not into bitter and gossiping men."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 08:48 AM
41

Also he wants you to have strong and very long nails, but you are not allowed to do this with extensions or fake nails? Just like the men who shit on our make up saying it is fake, who go ahead to compliment a beautiful woman with a full face of makeup (NaTuRaL style, that they love soooo much). They want us to look like this, they want us to jump through hoops to chase the ideals of beauty as a nagging strategy, becauase no one naturally looks like these ideals and everyone has to modify their …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 08:26 AM
5

Ask her if she also shows footage of a murder to a person who survived attempted murder. Doesn't work to resolve the trauma? Obviously the same goes for assault and r*pe victims. Watch her get mad or quiet and tell her what a piece of shit she is. Yes you need another therapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 05:12 PM
8

Wow, this man was with this one woman and his mind went: "My ex liked it and was a woman, therefore all women must like sugar cookies."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 04:26 PM
42

Have these people never heard of privacy and the concept of not publishing or taking pictures if the person doesn't want to?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 03:15 PM
74

Who makes museum trips out to be something immature? Isn't that a typical "adult" activity?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 11:21 AM
2

I am baffled that the man who tries to sell something acts like this towards potential customers. How entitled can anyone be?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 11:03 AM
17

Sorry, but which idiot would really say porn is EduCAtIoNaL🤡. If I'd speak about this with anyone in rl, no one would even think sh*t like this and just laugh at the statement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 09:54 AM
25

Exactly, and they never question it. Porn does groom little boys into depraved beings to an extend. It doesn't create them of course and the men of the older generations were just as awful, but it is one of the many symptoms of male violence against women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 09:52 AM
188

Every normal person should first and foremost be disappointed, because either he is actively cheating with her or he has the pictures (still) on his phone without consent. Or he is a creep who takes advantage of women's sexy instagram pictures. None of those versions of a man is a man you should want to be with. Many men are trash enough to do this sure, but that just means there is a lot of trash to throw away. Never fall for the lie that men cannot better themselves. They can, like anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 12:34 PM
32

Ah so they are telling you your salary is shit, but also say you shouldn't go for a higher degree which will allow you a higher income bracket? Tells you all you need to know about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 12:07 PM
20

I love how men like this one always blame this on modern society when it couldn't be easier for them to find casual sex. Back in the day, they actually had to be a provider and go through a lengthy courting process to even get access to a woman. They complain that they are expected to be somewhat attractive, nice and respectful humans so that anyone would want to have sex with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 11:10 AM
38

He probably respects men's different tastes but women cannot have preferences in looks like anyone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 10:46 AM
29

There are literal statistics that show how much the "cum-rate" shoots up in lesbian couples. Maybe it is a combination of women listening to each other's likes and dislikes more and women knowing what turns themselves on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 10:49 AM
41

Imo, you can date with mental health issues, IF IT DOES NOT IMPAIR OR DISTRACT YOU FROM THE HEALING PROCESS. And if you are responsible about it, which includes not emotionally dumping everything on your partner while you expect them to fix you. No one will fix you, that is on you and it is work that comes from the inside. Also it is something different if you already had a partner when the struggles started. You don't need to break up with them just because now anxiety came up for the very firs…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 05:00 PM
198

It took him so long she wasn't in the mood anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 12:12 AM
33

Fair enough, that makes it even worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 04:01 PM
167

And honestly, this age group is much grosser. If you want to find an age group of girls without periods, your maximum is about 10 years old. They still play in the dirt and sometimes still pee into their pants. I have no clue were this fantasy about this pure and clean Madonna- girl comes from. Men like these are gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 11:09 AM
165

The 17 yo won't want sex with that either. It is so telling that he specifically talks about 17 year olds and not about 18 year olds who are basically the same but with more legal power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 10:59 AM
7

So this man went out of his way to secrwtly make a photo of her topless? No girl this age would want to have their PARENTS take a topless photo of them. If he did not take them in secret, he was either coerced or persuaded (read: groomed) into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:19 PM
14

What were the people commenting?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:01 PM
10

So she threw you out when you were a minor still and this was illegal?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 01:27 PM
2

I wonder how they want to ever get their "dream job" without work experience and a huge gap in their resume? Just a code for "I don't ever want to work."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 01:12 PM
34

Ask them if they'd still talk to an unattractive woman on a dating app or if they'd just stop answering. Women get an influx of men on dating apps, nobody has the time to scroll let alone answer them all. Well, now you know better than to talk about personal issues with those coworkers. Keep it professional, everything else will drain you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 11:55 AM
106

As they do not want anything long term they porpousefully decieve you by telling you little lies you may not be able to figure out. We can use the example from OP: A white- looking Asian-American can say he has a hispanic and white parent. The goal is for you to put him in false categories mentally, so you'd look for him in the wrong places. They want their life to be a secret and hide it. Chance is they have a wife or a girlfriend and kids already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 10:02 AM
7

This! For the love of you and all the other women he violated who don't even know!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 05:43 PM
9

Double standard, but wants to force her to have a relationship with him when she isn't interested anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 05:16 PM
11

Plus they do not even no any foreign comedian, let alone the language and culture of the comedian which are key to understand any of the jokes in most cases.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 10:25 PM
64

They really think they want to be father of a baby at 60 when they are a grandpa.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 02:51 PM
119

This way of thinking just means you still believe women's only worth lays in their beauty. It is the believe that good looks automatically make people entitled to exhibit certain behaviors. This is misogyny fuel. A man can be a wealthy ugly asshole, but deserves 20-year old girls to f*** with, but a woman in his position can't demand the same without being humble or overly nice or a pushover? Nah. You are more than your looks and your looks should not be a factor of how you are treated. Set the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 02:31 PM
13

There is investing. And there is gambling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 11:45 AM
52

He outed himself when he explicitly stated that he is drug-sober, except alcohol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 01:10 AM
60

As a young woman in a work environment, you can easily be afraid to be seen as a brat or a rude young child if you are not overly polite, especially to older coworkers. Sometimes you hear yourself thanking everyone for eyerything and find yourself ridiculous, but also don't feel comfortable enough to stop. Maybe it stops with more expirience. In your situation, tell her politley "You don't need to thank me for that. I mean, I'm just doing my job". She'll probably stop after that, at least with y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 01:00 AM
13

I hope people are messaging his wife telling her to leave this idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 12:42 AM
6

There are people out there who would be joyful when recieving a present. He complained because he got a present. If she did not buy him any presents ever, she'd probably be called a gold digger or an uninvested wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 12:28 AM
8

Next video of hers hould be rape jokes against men towards the class. As we just figured out, rape jokes are funny, so nobody will complain if she makes those jokes too.😇🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 10:29 PM
40

You cannot even use your eyes to look where you're going without having one mf think it is an invitation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 10:57 PM
32

Plus, hasn't he heard of cor*na? First rule of pandemic is to keep distance. He made himself out to be a creep because he doesn't respect the basic hygiene regulations that our society agreed upon. It just becomes so much more suspicious if you sit right next to someone now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 10:25 PM
20

This behaviour already is second nature to me. Just yesterday I actively did not look at a group of men standing right next to me in Mc'Donalds waiting line. Later when I was at home again, ran as if my life depends on it when I took out the trash because a car was slowly driving up right next to me. I shoved the trash in there as fast as I could and ran off. Maybe they were just your regular posers with their fancy expensive car, but I felt odd around them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 10:18 PM
10

Is that another tik tok trend? I'd take the billion without the punch, tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 06:34 PM
22

Bu-bu-but it is my right to insult strangers! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:54 PM
31

I wonder what the cause of her reaction is. Maybe she is afraid that a man doesn't support women's empowerment and liberation anymore, if he does not call himself a feminist? Maybe she wants men to join to show them off to the misogynists: "See, this is a MAN and a FEMINIST". Because she knows men will only take other men seriously. Making feminism better digestible to men by forcefully including them in the movement like this is just pandering and compromising with the opressor. It stems from f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 11:56 AM
92

It is just enabling men. Men should have healthy emotional regulation and outlet. Yes. I'm all for it. But this is not the same as "showing emotion". It also includes not blowing up and endangering others because you're angry. It includes not being a manipulative and selfish prick. Not acting as the victim because you feel the guilt of an offender.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 11:47 AM
69

I swear if they heard women making jokes like that about men they would throw a fit and yell 'misandry'. When do I get to call the opposite the misogyny it is wothout being scrutinized by men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 11:15 AM
7

Oh yes and it gave him a bad example of manhood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 06:28 PM
21

Good for you! You noticed the problem fast and moved forward! Be proud. If he doesn't reach out, if he prevents you from using means to contact him,......how could you really have a relationship? He could discard you at any moment and put you out again if he wants to play with a woman. No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 12:46 PM
16

Seems like his father didn't raise him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 12:10 PM
26

Wow that is the most normal thing to do. Why would you cook at your parents house when you are the guest? Not a child anymore who somehow also owns their parents' kitchen because she lives there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 11:00 PM
78

She is alone in his country. Biggest red flag of them all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 10:40 PM
31

Tbh, they sound quite immature for their age. Better leave the group chat again. What are you doing with this group anyway?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 08:08 AM
91

Plus she should be a housewife who doesn't work while she pays 50 percent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 08:52 PM
15

Yeah, they really think the change is so easy and permanent. They focus on the legalities on forms but not on the mindset of society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 04:45 PM
8

Yeah, they have no shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 03:12 PM
57

Correct me if I'm wrong, but I once read that tears contain certain stress hormones, which means we are literally crying our stress out/getting it out of our system. Yes, it is healthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 11:51 AM
18

And then they'll get mad when just one driver in formula 1 is a woman. Hey this is one of the few sports where individual women and men competing in the same game is fair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 11:33 AM
27

The english fans even used laser pointers on the italian players during the game, trying to light it in their eyes. This is what we would call "unsportlich".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 11:18 AM
21

He really doesn't use the app for dating, but just to be an annoyance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:23 PM
120

Healthy and quick foods/recipies on a google search probably gets followed up by 10000 sites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:33 PM
61

Plus they are basically outing themselves. Don't they think women read the description?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:13 PM
19

I am shocked too, don't they think the same thing applies to all contents of art, a photo as well as a sculpture or a caricature?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:47 PM
14

I mean, they really think that people with OCD tendencies be like: "Oh I'm just tapping my arm ten times to avoid the catastrophe of the ground under me ripping open dragging me into earths magma world where I die". Nope. Not how it works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:22 PM
3

Idk, they probably think they are missing out on having a vagina and boobs, not thinking about how much initial risk and hazards they alone give to a human. Then add the social layer of gender roles. They somehow really think we live on easy mode for a reason because we get periods and give birth and have to fear violence by men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:09 PM
6

How can they possibly think a woman would stay with someone who says that. They just want to instill fear in you and make you uncomfortable for their fun, gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:05 PM
559

He didn't even decide if his narrative is "woe is me" or "I'm better than you, b*tch!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 09:17 PM
38

Huh? What would they fap to? A profile pic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 08:12 PM
28

Being more direct: Drunk overbearing dude tries to hit you up in a club: "You are a creepy fuck, go away and do not talk to me with your unwashed hair, look ar you, you are an alcohol corpse." Oh, you are mad I said that? But men want us to be direct! Those unstable beings, never can a woman ever be able to predict their everchanging moods!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 12:57 AM
11

I prefer to say hourglass shape for that, because i feel curvy is associated with a bit more meat on the bones. A skinny person can have an hourglass figure and big boobs and butt for her own proportions, but they will still be way smaller than those of other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 10:35 PM
6

A man with long hair might be excused for not being able to braid, a woman who only ever wore her hair short will be scrutinized for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 04:30 PM
123

This question gives me a mental image of a woman bringing a table to a picknick date in a park. She sets the table up nicley with beautiful flower decor and sets up all the dishes. The man arrives to the date and aks her: "So, what do you being to the table". The woman gets angry and she turns over the table, all the plates and glasses break. She takes her table with her and walks away, leaving the man to clean up the mess. Because in the end, it was her who brought the whole effing table.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 12:47 PM
10

It really is awful. No one would tell the manager of a company that s/he should be thankful that the employees on minimum wage basis are doing the bare minimum tasks of their job right. But when it is a woman who is unpaid house-manager of her home she should just deal with everything and not expect the man to step up and adult and treat him as a treasure for doing the most basic things?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 12:32 PM
58

"OMG, i found an adult for my relationship instead of a child!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 12:24 PM
21

Add to the list: Takes care of and raises his own children, this includes making them lunch or dinner, dress them, braid his daughter's hair nicley, take them to the hairdresser, make appointments for them, drive them to school, help them with homework.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 12:23 PM
491

How they all say that he will miss out on certain acts when he would probably still be a virgin if not for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 07:10 PM
25

Doesn't seem like a good deal imo, if she is expected to raise the family alone and if she does not get to have affair partners too. I wonder how many of the wifes actually know what their husbands are doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 03:00 PM
38

So basically they married a woman to have an unpaid secretary, not because they are actually romanically or sexually interested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 02:40 PM
4

"I went with what was comfortable and available." Like dude, that is the first problem? Don't be in a relationship with women you don't want! OP, you did not deserve this treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 02:24 PM
19

Yes, she could have been a sister or coworker or maybe even a girl he dates who was shocked by his behavior. This may have been the first time she witnessed him doing stuff like this. This poor woman did nothing wrong, she fell victim to a man who had to assert dominance by being cruel, violent and dangerous. She was not driving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 11:52 AM
12

You'll be a much happier and fullfilled person if you focus on yourself and strive for only the best in relationships! You'll future self will thank you for the work you put in now to deconstruct unideal behavioral patterns from you, men and society at large. Also check out FLS for more general life advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 10:31 AM
33

I'd say it is fine as a random gift if you both enjoy it and like the lingerie, but for Christmas or birthdays? No way, especially if it is the ONLY "gift" or if it comes along with other non-gifts like cleaning appliances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 12:13 AM
25

They really think it is much more likley getting HPV from using our fingers for masturbation???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 11:31 AM
156

Everything to do with the post. The age gap makes the "equal" payment situation more uneven. They are literally saying: "Get yourself a man 20 years older and pay half of his sh*t".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:52 AM
14

And in this picrure we see a 50/50 relationship with a 20 year age gap? Seems fair /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:50 AM
162

The comments on this, omg. I hope these men have the same opinion if the wife wants several husbands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:39 AM
16

Manchild?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:25 AM
12

Ew, reason # 1273379229290 to never get pregnant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:23 AM
70

Again, something men did to themselves. If they were just not pedophiles and if they did not catcall us since we were kids, we would trust them around kids. If they stop their shitty behaviour as a whole, they will be trusted. If they don't, unfortunately the group "men" will be treated with some form of suspicion, no matter if the individual is actually a pedo or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:18 AM
13

He really thought he can have his cake and eat it too. What an idiot, glad you move on from this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 04:16 PM
85

I think it is some neon*zi crap, that they believe they are some nordic god because they are white and therefore their european ancestors must be some nordic royalty, I guess?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 12:13 PM
11

Sounds like the wife despises him and considers herself a single woman with a pornsick roommate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 12:06 PM
44

You can see it is a real issue when you think you have to convince women porn is good and beneficial. If it was, why are apperantly only men doing it and not women? Why do men get a free pass for being a pervert again, but women are conveniently not even expected to want to see it? 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 12:02 PM
382

When he searches for rape and murder ON THE INTERNET, he should very well be shamed for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 11:49 AM
31

I bet he is actually 45 and she will never see his drivers license.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 01:08 PM
3

Look at the picture again, he was voted an asshole!😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:51 PM
17

He sounds as if they were in a polyamorous relationship all the time but he wanted a monogamous one. In his mind she cheated on him when they were never in a relationship in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:07 PM
21

This is odd, because this is not status quo. It is normal for a 28 year old adult to settle down and start looking for a house, a car and a pet. It is not like you can or want to live your whole life as if you were 20. Sure those men would like their own place or good education and career, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:52 PM
17

Like, she owns the content of the image and if you publically display that image without the persons consent, you can get sued.....I hope this applies in this situation even though I am sceptical as it is "only" in his house.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:45 PM
18

I always want to tell these women, they do not like it because they have negative feelings around them i.e. men being gross and harassing/assaulting/abusing us. If they did not do it, the male body would be seen as beautiful art by women, too. I mean, come on, these women ahve never seek old greek statures of athletic male heroes or don't like a photo of a man with sixpack?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:38 PM
215

Just comfirms they must be pedophiles if they can call a KID a "slut". They would not say this if a little boy cried.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:21 AM
22

Who has done the violence? Mostly men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:46 PM
189

I am sorry for those women. His younger flame probably sees him as a friendly father figure, like an uncle and will be put off and creeped out when she finds out he actually wants to f*** her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 11:21 AM
4

Nah, he would call her a gold digger and a bitch and shame her for not being able to afford his expensive holiday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 11:44 AM
14

He does not want to give her more, as if he ever gave her anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 11:42 AM
99

A win🥳🥳🥳🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 08:03 PM
296

Y'all, let's laugh at the man who really thought of a hot woman when he smelled the ball sweat. I swear, men hate each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 05:39 PM
24

Ah, sure, all her organs are to small to carry a pregnancy (in a healthy way) but sure scrote, go ahead and rape children and then make abortion illegal and tell her that she is weak if she gets a cecarian and abolish that too, so that both children have to die in the birth process.🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 11:41 AM
14

I'm 20 and have no clue what I would want to do with a child. I still am one myself. I haven't lived and payed bills by myself, I haven't had responisibity for my own household yet. I have no career or much money yet, I'm a student. I still have to learn and grow so much to even be able to take responsibility of a child. 20 is not an ideal age for having children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 11:27 AM
22

Said no woman ever. And no man would really like this either. No sane person would like it. I also have no clue why comment 1 is downvoted when this is the general opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 11:18 AM
63

At least they proclaim that FDS is full of pick-mes and that they are better🤣. So they set themselves apart from us and at least don't spread the lie to be a sister sub. I still believe this sub is abusive men's wishful fantasy, instead of satire. It is full with stuff they think they would do if they were a woman. Like being a sugar babe for example.😂 Typical things men would do, because they don't care that it actually sucks so much for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 12:12 AM
24

Right? How come that a teenage boy has to be more responsible/ would face more repercussions for such pictures than grown ass men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 01:57 PM
30

I mean, that is having sex with your grandfather basically. Who wants that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 10:45 PM
5

They still believe she enjoyes it when she clearly faked an orgasmn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 09:39 PM
14

I found the opposite to be true in my environment, the dating standards of older women are higher. My mom is the very first person to tell me that I shouldn't go to a drink date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 09:09 PM
35

They need to get shouted at when they bother poeple, so true. Sadly their intimidation works. They may not beat you up in the end, but you don't know what they'll be doing....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 09:06 PM
40

Ah, abusive men who think it is manipulation and abuse to leave an abuser instead of sticking it out. Classic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 05:30 PM
19

Sure he only sends them to you.🙄 I think he doesn't believe this lie either. You should tell the ex gf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 11:14 AM
12

And even if they are in a relationship, she only ganve consent for the person she sent it to to see it, not for others. He violates her consent anyway if he sends it to other people, no matter what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 11:12 AM
1

WHO JERKS OFF AT WORK?!?!!?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 11:31 PM
21

"I know of the shitty posts, because I made them!" This is definetly a tactic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 10:22 PM
20

I always say it as opposition to "not all men" that is spouted everywhere and that women here have suffered from. Of course good men exist. But all men benefit under patriarchal standards. Good men benefit from LV behavior, because it makes them scarce and they become more valuable than they were, if ALL men or "just" most men were good. And this is the FDS starting point imo. If we only choose the best of the best men and otherwise don't bother with them, we may motivate them to become better (…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 10:24 AM
17

I mean, many guys already are ape shit crazy, so who knows what they'd do if they actually got harassed un masse like women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 07:39 AM
15

I mean, those men know it is not cute. They just want to be disgusting on purpose to break women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 01:10 AM
40

Some go as far and claim they are sooooo "desperate" and they'd take the fat old woman AND gay guy( even if they are hetero). Like bro, you'd have sex with people you are not attracted to? Like, people you find ugly or who are not your preferred gender? Doesn't sound healthy, but I can't safe you from yourself. But just don't think other people(women) have to be so self-destructive and desperately engange with men they don't want, just because you'd do it. (Spoiler, he wouldn't actually do it ei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 12:43 AM
54

Yeah, I'd rather be hit on by other women too(this is what men always claim "I'd love it when women hit on me") because they'd be polite and strike a normal convo about common interest, not like men on the street or the club who are like "Oh wow, you got tits! Niiiiiiice!!!/ Sluuuuut!/ I will rape you!!!!!" I bet if you ask other heterosexual women like me, they'll agree.😂 Men just know themselves and know other men ain't shit either. Thus the famous quote, that goes along the lines of "Hetero m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 12:24 AM
17

Nah, a healthy relationship lets you relax and feel safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 09:46 PM
52

Plus, even if he has memory loss.....this doesn't automatically mean he is a good person. The OP of the other post would have to vet, vet and vet to be more certain about his character. And she clearly isn't willing to do that as she was offput by his behaviour, so why even bother? She is uncomfortable with him anyway. At this point it doesn't matter if his reasoning is legitimate or not. Don't date people you are uncomfortable around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 01:41 PM
77

You commented that he already talked about having children and letting you move in with him. On the first date. Ya, no, he wants to move it to fast. Nope. Talking about the list only: Even if he had a legitimate issue like memory loss, he went about it the wrong way from the beginning. You don't owe him a date and you were put off, so it wouldn't even make sense to go for another date. It could've been bad communication about his possible medical condition on his part. It could be he is a lazy s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 01:32 PM
22

Um...............what? And how?????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 12:43 PM
121

When I was even younger and dumber than I already am, I would've thought of this as EmPoWErInG, because "it challenges gender stereotypes! Why would women always be painted as delicate and girly"(because for some reason, normal and passionate, lovely sex was categorized as "girly= big BAD") It is total clownery and the target group to fall for the bs are young teenage girls. Young as in 11-15.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:25 AM
2

This is wonderful! Real sisterhood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:09 AM
253

But.....when do the sexulized ads featured on meme pages finally disappear? And the OF instagrammers?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 09:58 AM
70

Women hate men and put their anger into something useful, like community building and genuinely helping others. We imropve ourselves and do not resort to violence. We are such bad people for that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 09:56 AM
3

Yes and it just can never be protected enough to be a safe work option. It is inherently unsafe as it is so intimate that it is literally bonkers to monetize it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 12:53 AM
21

Because at least he should pay to see her naked🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:52 PM
54

I'm only 20 and I second this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:44 PM
20

Same, women have to become more even common in the workforce/take higher positions in order to set themselves free financially and to push for actual change. Women would make laws and policies that are pro-women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:31 PM
81

Exactly, the key is to not give a f*** and to leave the "game" whenever we please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:30 PM
5

I wonder what the excuse is when single men get those houses easier
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 10:23 AM
111

They don't understand that our problem is the increased "attention", lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:54 PM
23

People also have to understand that it is not true consent if someone is being talked into a sex act constantly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:41 PM
27

It is the nerves and they try to warn you because of the innate fight-flight-freeze response that stresses them and your whole body when it senses danger. So why would you stress yourself for a man, lol. Don't do it. You sense the red flags and see the potential danger. This isn't worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:13 PM
25

So he basically admitted he has no sense of shame?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:09 PM
71

Misogyny is inherently narcissistic, so obviously it is like fuel to narcissistic men, who are the group benefitting from misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:53 PM
8

Once there was a time where "I like older guys because they are more mature" was used as an explanation as to why a 16 year old dates a 18 year old or a 17 yo a 19 yo. And now pedos use this line to justify a 15 to 20 year age gap?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:46 PM
17

I actually can't believe this is real because no one her age writes like this.... Or do they?😳 It is scary to be thinking of this possibility, but there must be people in this world who are truly so much more immature than their peers. After all, it would make sense that a groomer goes for the most immature ones or that the relationship stunted her educational process.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:18 PM
17

She's fawning all over, I think she has to overplay her own frustration. Her text sounds like an uncomfortable laughter all the way through. She mentions the word "happy" a 1000 times, as if she tries to convince everyone it is actually true, because she already thinks no one would believe her. Plus the writing style seems so simple and fastly/irresponsibly written, it is more childlike than written posts of other 19-year olds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:08 PM
106

Nobody said the actors have to be married to each other🤷‍♀️🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 11:55 AM
27

This is a time where she is physically impaired, has health and mobility issues. Often she's out of work for a year and makes less or even no money in that time, so she is more dependent on her boyfriend or husband. She is more vulnerable and men take advantage of that. Some abusive men only become like that later on as they wait for a very easy target to come along and a woman in her normal/non-pregnant state is just not "easy enough" for him. This is also why disabled women are more at risk of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 11:33 AM
44

They don't have to be called child diggers, there's fortunately the word pedophile for that. And that is what those rich men with girls 20 to 40 years younger than them are. And then have the audacity to call these people who are basically children to them gild diggers. You want a child? You have to pay for it. But men don't like to relize this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 11:17 AM
29

True! Forgive me, my impulsive brain only thought of Obgyn visits and not other doctors!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 09:48 PM
11

Notice the language we're using here: Young girls instead of young women Imagine we'd say "young boys" instead of "young men".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 09:44 PM
28

Why would she buy underwear for the doctor if she is going to be naked there again😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 09:09 PM
5

They act as if teens are grown to make themselves feel better about being pedophiles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 05:43 PM
10

"The 11- year old black man and a 9-year old white boy, who is the 11-year olds cousin, raped a 4-year old woman." Basically this. Oh wait.... "The 4- year old woman was raped by an 11-year old black man and his little 9-year old white cousin." More like this, passive language, the girl is mentioned first, so that the perpetrators are pushed in the background.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 05:31 PM
55

You can see this pattern everywhere in the world. Women are basically everything and men become more useless each year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 01:18 PM
137

So he insulted your cooking by backhanded admitting he won't eat what you make?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 09:29 PM
2

Well I can't continue after orgasm. I am swollen and penetration hurts at this point. Why would he think this isn't the case for his gf too?🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:10 PM
58

Someone should push that one off a cliff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:00 PM
91

Men have created this myth of "the wall", they actually think that the signs of aging that happen at 55 happen to women at 25 somehow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 02:59 PM
63

Yes, just yes. I wonder why they identified themselves like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 12:00 PM
6

Being afraid of false accusations= wanting to freely commit crimes just to "see what happens"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 10:01 AM
9

Yes it is so true....and only when porn is only about the m*rder of women, people will start to wonder if porn is actually that bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 12:41 AM
9

To me, it reads like satire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 12:27 AM
13

This is literally the world we live in. Sex workers feel empowered becaude "at least they get paid" and they operate on exactly the logic you decribed. Don't they want a world were they have to do exactly NOTHING? A world were they don't have to have sex, but focus on themswlves, their careers and life goals instead? It is so sad that many women in patriarchy only think themselves one step out of it, instead of several steps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 12:22 AM
32

"My man doesn't make me feel bad but that is just human decency" She's getting closer, but not close enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 11:15 PM
8

Most (if not all) girls and women were. Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 11:07 PM
85

Wtf I just read the article about the boy who eatched porn and raped his sister. This is terrifying. And now say porn is not dangerous. It's not like kids are safe from it. It is extremely easily accessible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 11:05 PM
29

This isn't even about control anymore. It must be deep hatred. At this point they literally want to m*rder you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 10:56 PM
323

So how is it equal if the one who makes more doesn't contibute more?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 02:23 PM
111

Wow, I'm gonna play the tiniest violin in the world for them🤏🎻 🤏🤏🤏🤏🤏🤏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 11:54 AM
54

So he likes the feeling of being in love, but not actually the love part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 07:38 PM
3

Women: My partner is an abuser, I have to leave. Men: My partner is an abuser, I have to k*ll them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 04:08 PM
141

He should make his own clothing company which sells short and sexulized clothes for men to liberate them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:54 PM
127

Yep, plus those men make fun of traditionally feminine things like make up, knitting, sewing, cooking and don't consider any of this a skillful task or a hobby and belittle women who do any of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:36 PM
60

Why do I get the impression he does it all the time ans because it is a "lesson" it is also not cheating in his mind🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:13 PM
64

Chivalry died because of men too. We did not ask them to make up a skewed version of feminism which entails "women are equal now, i do not have to hold doors open anymore". They did it to themselves, because they are mad misogynist who only want to do something for a woman if she is his property.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:40 AM
50

So they want us to lie and say their crusty asses are hot, but don't want us to spread body positivity in their presence, because it is lying to them? Sulking, self pitying teenagers behave like this. Plus, he complaines about people who sell services that he ABSOLUTELY 100% would want to pay for?????? For the services intended for his peer group because they created the demand for?!?!?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:22 AM
98

Reminds me of a friend who almost got scammed by a dude who lied to her that he studies the same major as she at her university. He hung around people 5 year younger than him on uni and at parties to make it more convincing that he is actually a student. And don't even get me started on another friend who got a gambler who only took her on walk dates, because naturally, his addiction does not allow him a big budget. He lied that he was 22 when he was actually 26 and on the first walk date fell o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:06 AM
121

Omg the edit. The guys could throw in their bad experiences in peace without the "why do you hate men" shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:04 AM
73

And please wear a burkini or any long swimwear for the beach date and see how angry he becomes because he cannot see you almost naked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:42 PM
15

Tradcon men seem to often have issues and shame around sexuality and probably don't think about sexuality and their own deprivaty too deeply as they see the whole thing as tainted, thus don't want to spend to much time with self reflection around it. I'd like to dive deeper into the content of your last paragraph. Here my two cents on the M/W-complex and how it can possibly arise in a man: The Madonna is their romantizised fantasy-image of a woman, that is always 100% perfect- this is not and ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:15 PM
13

Sounds like the women/girls who "freely choose" predatory men because they are so used to the trauma at this point, or they try to overwrite the trauma with "consensual encounters"(spoiler: this never works) Maybe it was odd to you because you see so many red flags in his behavior while simultaneously feeling sorry/being worried for his wellbeing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:27 PM
20

Man B thinks he has no choice but to marry her🤦‍♀️ I dropped my phone reading this, because I actually wanted to throw it in his face. Does he think he is a child who has every decision in his life made by his parents? Growing up in our western cultures, you ALWAYS have a choice on who to partner up with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:55 PM
5

I want to tell this man that the problem is he thinks to little/less than her and he should start using his brain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:51 PM
13

LoVe!!! Yeah, it can't be love if you and your partner are unequal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:26 PM
6

She probably wanted to make a new friend but he read it as a date and then he negged her into more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:16 PM
55

Right? He should just say that he has no money or that he is selfish😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:10 PM
49

"Let him die" --> proving that sex is not actually a need and he will not die from lack of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:01 PM
13

Name and shame the pedos! If everyone started to embarrass them like this, they would not act out like they do now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:38 PM
578

I fail to see what you did wrong? You don't owe him a relationship or sex. This is a stranger. If it does not work for you both, then so be it. He should date someone else who is willing to drive or who lives in his city. How should a relationship with him work out if you already cannot agree with each other and when he, on top of it, insults you, a total stranger to him and acts entitled? He doesn't even know you and his disrespect already shows. Hard pass on this man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:17 PM
34

Isn't it sad how men have the possibilities to dive into our expiriences and most still act like utter trash? Goes to show they really know and just don't care. The one from the post may have just not believed it, which is bad in itself, but maybe he can start to care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:52 AM
2

I guess i have to sew pockets into my dresses and pants from now on, so I don't have to carry a bag anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:39 AM
50

June is a whole mood, I love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:32 AM
85

I mean, imagine people make fun of other people standing in a line. They should do this in a store at the cash register. It is the customers fault they buy stuff, right?🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:52 AM
40

As a young woman, I really appreciated the beginning where Gail talked about how porn became extremely depraved so fast. Growing up in a pornified culture makes you think you are going crazy for thinking this is not normal anymore. I'm glad that an older woman, who experienced the changes in the porn industry over time, basically tells us young women: "Yep, it definitely did get worse rapidly and this was not normal 20 years ago, you belong to the first generation to experience the shit we did n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:21 AM
31

Research and statistics starts with a collection of anecdotes, doesn't it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:07 AM
33

What did they say about their sex lives? Did they tell you how the relationship changed over time? And did they tell you if they argue with their girlfriends about what they find annoying about her/if they cOmMuNIcaTeD their problem? Or do the gfs not suspect that anything is wrong?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:52 PM
63

They could have the best parents and they will act out like this because of the bad influence they call their bros. Men do this specifically because they are in a group thus are stronger than a single woman or girl and way more intimidating than alone. Who would hunt alone and put themselves in danger when they can do it in a group? It only takes one or two mega assholes in the group to put peer pressure on the other 4 to 10 weaklings who would "never do something like that because they are such…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:32 PM
4

I see you don't have a flair so I assume you are new and haven't read through the entire FDS handbook yet. Definitely check out the article about "signs he is deep into the Madonna/whore complex".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:56 PM
3

Classical Madonna-whore-complex. Such men don't know what they want and carry a lot of shame inside themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:20 PM
12

As if they are calling his mother to pick him up. For adult men, the police should be a better institution to call for harassment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:38 PM
74

If it is an organ and not "just" blood or bone marrow, the missing part of your organ will shorten your life span. Do you really want to possibly give up a few years of your life for this man?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:22 PM
2

That is true, but i meant it more like this: "She was raped" describes the victim, in this case, a woman. But there is no info on the rapist. Who raped her? A tree? A park bench? A mysterious magical force that pops in and out of existance randomly? No it was most likley a man who was responsible for this action. Even if the rapist is unknown, the sex of the rapist is most often identifyable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:03 PM
403

He already blames the girls for their future eating disorders that he gives them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 10:14 PM
20

I think that too, but unfortunately this is a reflection of misogyny and therefore happening BECAUSE of misogyny. We must still be truly backwards if a the journalist of a newspaper actually gets more hate massages because they wrote "a man raped a girl at the park"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 10:06 PM
48

She was raped" makes the victim known, identifies the victim and points the finger towards them. Meanwhile it makes the rapist anonymous, which excuses mens actions- "we did not make an effort to identify this mysterious rapist-person, I am sorry, I cannot help you".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 09:59 PM
38

Right? If you return it the shop will probably throw it away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 09:51 PM
40

It truly takes one idiot, doesn't matter if he is hated and basically cussed out of the discussion. This is also why "we don't need feminism anymore because the mindset shifts in its favour over time" is stupid. It is not enough already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 09:23 PM
44

Labiaplasty- the odd surgery where they shorten the inner labia and a grown woman's private parts look like those of a child again. I bet he did not even pay for the surgery that he wanted so badly. "I just love my husband so much" - Nah, you fear him, that two things are NOT the same. "We're going to marriage counseling because he takes advantage of me"- She only slowly gets that he is abusing her and has no idea what to do about it, so she lets herself think that counseling is a step forward a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 09:09 PM
136

Right? I do not use it personally, but I can imagine that a woman has to buy a few of them anyway in the beginning to see what cup fits her best and if she figured it out, at least have a second one at home. So around 60$ if you buy two or three.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 09:01 PM
11

Plus, someone clearly is abusive and not "just a dick" when they coerce someone into sex acts, even if it only happened once.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 07:44 PM
512

I cosign it. Plus ask him to pay for her new cup. Bare minimum to do for someone who throws belongings of others in the trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:30 PM
3

So he forces his armpit fetish onto random women and then wonders why they don't get wet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:02 PM
13

Plus the free emotional support from friend may not compare to the advice and means that a professional has who can prescribe you therapy methods and medication that have been tested, so are proven to be at least a bit helpful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:27 PM
13

Ugh, case of misery wants company
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:22 PM
6

Just think about what a wonderful summer you can spend now, whith yourself, family and friend and most importantly WITHOUT all the negging. This pathetic little boy basically got in a relationship with a wonderful person(you), but he did not want her- joke is on him. Why would one do that? All reasons you can come up with are pathetic and will paint him as the loser he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 12:50 PM
19

And then they "cope" by thinking their creative duty is fullfilled by insamination. But after that they do not want to have anything to do with raising or even paying for their creation, which was oh-so holy to them, but just until the act of sex was finished. Then their wifes became "less fun" and were "unhappy" or "unattractive" so he decides to leave her and his kid. Those men truly do not have a creative fibre in their being, because if they had, they would know how to nurture what they have…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 12:43 PM
25

But men get depression, just like women- this means men should stop using birth control, but women should keep taking it🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 12:35 PM
28

Also aks them to write down in their notes that they refused you treatment (they have to take notes of the whole talk with ypur doctor, but they may conveniently leave out malpractice, so make sure zhe motes are a representation of reality) and ask them to record your talk.Whatever you have to do to make them act.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 12:28 PM
9

Like, are they even out of uni and have a job in their field yet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 12:08 PM
194

But women's mental health is taken more seriously than men's, eh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 10:54 AM
65

I have hope that more and more women/girls will become "bitter" earlier, so they won't waste their teens and 20ies with old and/or perverted men. I want the pedos to call us "bitter, old hags past our prime" at ages 16-24, because if they did, the ridiculousness of this statement cannot be hidden anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 12:17 AM
15

The whole world id a bad area then.🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 02:48 PM
19

And would scream sexual abuse when the women they send it to post the pic on a porn site, because it f***ing is.....but somehow it is different for women. When her pictures are posted without consent, she is at fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:56 PM
16

Logical conclusion that other men exist who demand the same of all women is not reached.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:52 PM
49

Spoiler: They feel bad about themselves on the inside, because of their rotten deprivaties, but would never admit it, so they externalize and project onto women. If his fantasies around a woman are dirty, it means she must be the dirty one and not his mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:51 PM
3

Plus this is not a gender based problem, this is literally something that can happen to anyone. He would not care about women that are lonley.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:30 PM
3

So this man does not really have personal experience with discrimination, therefore cannot realte to women's reasoning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:29 PM
65

You can literally be a long haired guy and post 3 mm of your split hair on a sub about hair health and there will be men who tell you what a pretty girl you are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:40 PM
12

She should definitely refuse sex then. Sounds like the only option that makes sense until her appointment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:49 PM
153

People do change but only for themselves. If someone's not feeling it inside, no one can make them. This is why you have to leave if a person is not up to your standards or just not a good fit concerning personality or lifestyle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 11:45 AM
10

I guess no one cares if their man uses toys too. (I do not count sex dolls here) They are devices, a thing, not another person, not even trying to copy human beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:21 PM
67

Dude, what do you think women do when they cannot have sex? Watch porn for sexual enjoyment? No, we can masturbate with only hands/toys and our imagination. No one stops you from doing this. Women are jealous when their men wants to fuck other women, but if his gf rather watch gay porn with hot guys because all he can do is jackhammering for 30 sek because his porn- fried ass has ED she'd be an evil witch. And this is if we only think about the cheating part of porn and not about the actual issu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 10:46 AM
24

She sees with her own eyes that he tries to kill her but still stays in the same house as him? She is not worried enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:47 AM
50

It seems like a minor incident, just that it isn't. It is reoccurring. It happens to often. These micro-aggressions add up and then one tiny thing is the straw that breaks the camel's back. Actually, more people should act like you did. If we all do not tolerate such behavior, it will become less common over time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:42 AM
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Yes, he feels like he does not accomplish anything in life, so he takes it out on much younger people who enjoy their life and put their money into their hobbies for everyone to see. Remember the post yesterday about the guy who was complaining that a woman he was chatting with is "too expensive" when she told him she got her nails done? It is a dude like OPs husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:02 AM
5

We'd barley have men left and society would probably just not die out because women will team up as parents and use the sperm banks for creating children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:19 PM
12

Showed you porn?!?!!!?!!! You mean sexually abused his little child! And your mother is just an abuser, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:00 PM
3

I think I'll be childfree then. I love my hypothetical children to much to have them exist along these men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:55 PM
3

They are probably talking all the damn time and he acts as if hw loves her like nothing else. But why would he care, she is not there to give him sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:31 PM
33

Some men say that women only like lies to prove us as bad....... If your own personality is unlikable that is on you. You cannot simultaneously expect women to have no standards/hide their standards and better judgement but still expect us to be mindreaders who will judge everyone by their true intentions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:21 PM
95

Yes! And we don't even have to have a female partner for that.....we do the same with our boyfriend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:19 AM
20

Especially because it is no taste of their own medicine: I yet have to find a picture of a man here while he is ab*sed (which will not happen here). So far, I only saw hot shirtless photos. I haven't even seen a dude's dick or ass so far.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:59 PM
3

This is always a very funny conclusion as hurting, beating and raping women has been a sign of unequal treatment for centuries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:23 PM
5

They will answer one after the other: 1) They wish they can start an only fans like women and get that easy money with being "sexy" 2) They will absolutely not start an only fans because nobody wants to watch them as men have "less sexual market value and women just don't look at those things" 3) When we women say we do not want to perform on onlyfans because of abusive men, they will shame our hypothetical choice, because it is such an easy way for us to make money and we should just use the op…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:04 PM
46

I love the Fine AF Fridays! If sexulization is a part of society, why is it bad when we post model photos of men and talk about them without degrading them?🤔 Other than the male-centeic porn where women are degraded and treated like trash. Probably because there is an inherent problem with sexulization but it is only bad when it is done to men right? We always have to be the holy saints when demanding equality, just persuading with the goods of our heart, while men can go ahead and stay deprived…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:16 PM
28

So he ran to his mommy? Oh that little boy! She did not treat him like the dirt he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:27 PM
20

Yes! That also includes all personality traits, hobbies or future plans a parent imagines for their kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:40 PM
137

And if that is the case, it will be the child that suffers. If your relationship is bad, do not have a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:59 PM
47

I bet he also did nothing in the household and just ordered you around. He is a big boy and apparently knows exactly what to do, so he can so it himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 11:53 PM
21

Wow, this could almost look realistic (please tell me this pic is a joke)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 10:27 PM
42

FDS: Stop dating trash men. reduces the possible dating pool for incels We definitely play into their hands
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 10:25 PM
62

Plus male incels would never support rhis kind of feminism especially the anti-porn attitude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 10:13 PM
69

Imagine his scratchy beard on your freshly shaved skin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 10:09 PM
31

The moment when the world is so awful, that you relize you protect the next generation by preventing your eggs from becoming humans instead of bearing and releasing them into the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 09:02 PM
78

Yes! It is sexual abuse. The initial argument sounds a bit like this pattern: "You did not cry when your mother died, so you do not grieve" "You laughed along when bully Tom made a joke about you, so it did not really bother you" "You did not say no when he raped you, so you liked it" "Why did you freeze, you should've fought back when you were attacked" Additional to that: Children do not relize the severity of porn. I saw porn as a younger teen and saw women(?) who looked as old as me at the t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:50 PM
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Just because children are not immediately upset does not mean it is not harmful to how they view relationships and sex. If they cannot consent, they cannot fully understand porn and therein lies the harm. Other people's bodies are not my human rights. Fuck that noise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 06:56 PM
13

How can one person be so pissed because someone else spends their own money on things they like?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 06:04 PM
8

Right? There should be a time in life when a person can be wrinkly and "ugly" in peace. Without the pressure to look good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 05:55 PM
20

Shameful to want food and shelter for yourself and your children!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 05:48 PM
15

She saved him money by not participating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 04:44 PM
11

Some of them probably also think FDS tells women to drop a man mid-date if he does not pay, when all we say is if he asks you to pay, do it and if you do not like it, do not go on a second date. That also means vetting for nicer date opportunities in the first place and refuse those you do not want. No playing around, no bs, only accepting what you actually want. When a man pays for a coffee date, he will lose more money than he would do if he had no date at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 04:42 PM
19

That can only come from people who cannot grasp the concept of celibacy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 04:29 PM
6

They will literally mentally go back for millenia and say: See! These woman of some crazy primate species with less than ideal body built for pregnancy, who has hight risks of health implications or death during reproduction and who is basically defenseless during pregnancy and after birth is evil because she may choose to not sleep with me and take my sperm that causes her misery! This is why we started societal structures that treated you badly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 08:32 PM
15

Ah, no shit Sherlock, sex is a privilege. Go and masturbate if you do not have someone to f***. Our fellow sisters or brothers who are nuns or monks do not have sex either and they stay alive regardless. My exact thought process whenever some idiot says sex is a "need". 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 08:18 PM
101

99% of all rapists are male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 08:09 PM
29

I mean, everyone knows by now that men cannot drive. We all know men drive more reckless and cause more accidents. We all heard statistics about that at least in school or driving lessons. Reckless young man from 18 to 35 causing an accidents is a well-known type and I do not believe someone who has NOT heard it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 08:04 PM
41

You are so right. Tbh, these few lines sounded like satire, it is the bs men spewed about women for centuries, but with a role reversal now to make clear how dumb misogyny is. And actually, judging by the way many men act, it is understandable why women would hold these believes. If women believe like this, it is about protecting ourselves, when men do it to women, it is about hate and putting women down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:03 AM
14

Soooo, why would his partners not show him enough affection: 1) They are cold people, which he does not like, means he should break up, block and delete 2)He is egocentrical and wants praise 24/7 3) He is an abuser and drives people away from saying nice things to him by treating them like garbage 4) He is a delusional abuser, who wants to be shown "affection" in unrealistic ways e.g. certain sex acts, never having to do chores, etc.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 12:28 AM
100

"Always call me daddy" and ass drawings making clear that he sees his wife as an object. And had written an examination on holiness on the very same chart. And then murdered a fellow human being. I understand why he focused on his wife so much- if that asshole did not, he would have to engage with his own rotten self.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:17 PM
15

How did he even have time when he is gaming half the day or more? He probably did not even have a job. He was gaming, sleeping and eating, then the day was over. He did nothing all day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 12:31 PM
24

Maybe because men are not sexually attracted to male children as they are to female ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 11:36 AM
6

Reminds me of the time when my biology teacher used "genetical peak" (best quality of genetic material) around 16 to 18 as an example as to why "but biology" should NOT be a valid argument for family planning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 11:31 AM
63

It is true, women like this should really not be existing people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 04:05 PM
5

If you like photography and take random pics of others, you are a piece of shit and you know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 03:24 PM
2

Probably men thst arw too old to know the dangers of the internet. How can one disagree on the fact that porn is too accessible for kids?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 03:20 PM
6

Exactly, they look like children not like a grown woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 03:13 PM
45

Is it actually your son or your daughter if it does not even have evolved genitals? Plus at first, all embryos are female anyway. At this point, we are aborting their daughters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 09:01 PM
32

Well, might be true i guess. My eyes would just be red an icky all the time. And the mascara on the pillows.🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 08:51 PM
18

I always thought it was a term before FDS. I've often seen pick-me used for the "nice girls" (female version for nice guys).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 07:52 PM
60

And he will tell her off for "eating like a guy" if she is a person with fast metabolism who needs to eat much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 07:19 PM
88

This is awfully unhygienic and bad for the skin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 07:15 PM
52

At this point, he wholeheartedly chose to be an awful person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:12 PM
286

Wtf. How about just not letting these men pass then?🤦‍♀️ Equality ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:03 PM
102

What do you personally think about the comments along the lines of: "If you feel like you have to snoop, just dump him and save yourself from any more complications" ? Is it misogynistic gaslighting to you (because men can lie and act like the best dude for years and a woman may not sense something is off, so she rather casually check his phone to be sure) or a strategy to take the trash out faster?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 01:33 AM
13

Um. That is deliberate. He KNOWS that this is harassment. I bet there would be a hardcore BDSMer who would tell him off for being an awful sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 09:49 PM
111

I hate the sw's customers too. They are depraved animals. And they know it is depraved and that they are actually awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 09:46 PM
26

If there is feminist porn for me, why should i accept a man who does not watch "feminist porn" 🤔🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 09:18 PM
3

He wants to get his dick broken because a person is flopping around while ultimately falling down because she cannot hold her balance while riding on him? That is the only way i can imagine it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 09:52 PM
10

Yes, we have to teach them all the block and delete mentality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 09:43 PM
10

Who is gonna tell her that free use is not is thing? But rape is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 09:35 PM
144

That man is called a rapist. Sad this woman does not get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:41 PM
30

It would already help if he stops associating with these losers. If he really needs the lowest effort variation. If you are not even able to do that, you are probably malicious and not just a coward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:35 PM
85

Say all men! The ones who are not abusers are still held down in this society, thinking they should not speak up against ill-treatment of women and benefitting because they seem like a grandiouse catch in comparison to all the awful men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 06:23 PM
513

"I raped my ex" is what he meant. Block and delete sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 06:12 PM
12

It probably comes from those men who find signs of fear sexy. Or men who stare at a womans butt the whole time and see it wiggle more as soon as she speeds up her pace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:39 PM
19

Right? That is a casual get togetehr to catch up with a friend. The thing that I may have done every second weekend with my girls before the rona.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:45 PM
77

This is actually the kind of response I was expecting.😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:41 PM
9

This is not something. It is not nearly enough. Why are the mods not doing anything against these pedos?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 10:34 AM
34

I thought it once meant just a normal belly with a little bit of fat....because not everyone can have a flat stomach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 10:06 AM
46

They do not hate hot women, they are just entitled little sh*ts who think just because they find a women hot, she must have sex with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:59 AM
550

Um......who ever actually got into a relationship because they talked to a complete stranger on the street
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:24 AM
330

This quote to me sounds like: danger....you gotta run, at least walk very fast
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:50 AM
16

Maybe they do the "stranger danger" talk with their children and then think they just understood for the rest of their life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 12:20 AM
65

My boyfriend always says he is ashamed of his gender and there was a time where I told him he should not feel sorry for what others do..... I don't say this anymore and am just thankful that he is disgusted by men too.😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:12 PM
45

Always use condoms, kids!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:40 PM
37

Yeah, better yet, show him the hot men and tell him how you just masturbated to them! Then tell him you relized how repulsive you actually find him and then break up to be able to have sex with hotter men freely. Maybe do it with a certain distance, you may need the head start to run away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:18 PM
24

I agree she should get therapy to get more confident, she will realize she should be single and dump the loser!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:13 PM
92

Yeah, they are actully attracted to sex dolls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:57 PM
67

Also how come women's work is doing organizing taks and cleaning tasks in the household then?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:21 PM
45

Wow with 12 dears you are not even legally considered to be able to consent ro peers in my country.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:02 PM
809

Can they please make a picture with a fat, ugly, "gamer girl" and hot Adonis is the background? Oh, I forgot "gamer girl" can only be an attracrive woman, a woman that the gamer boys specifically find attractive, only then can they "prove themselves worthy"🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 02:42 PM
12

ENRICHING????😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 02:39 PM
18

ENRICHING?!😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 02:39 PM
15

A man becomes trash not because of his disabilities, but because of his behavior. I will not put up with a man who is not responsible, does not provide for the houshold and i will not have children with a man who cannot raise them. I will not let a man induce trauma into my children because of negligence and because he shows he does mot like them very much or by being a rapist or even only by being creepy and suggesting sexual things to a kid. I will not ever let myself be shamed to put up with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 02:34 PM
66

What a theory, he could also have come up withthe more logical thing i.e. that women actually care for and like their children and do not want children to be raped. Someone must be a exceptionally codependent amd abusive mother to actually think that way. And if they actually do think that way, they just let it go on and do not report.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 11:58 AM
145

Yes, yes and yes! This reminds me of a post here a few days ago that was about "womb morality". And as women on FDS say:" We have the power to wipe out society in one generation by not having sex with men" Isn't this how nature is supposed to work? Female part chooses the best mates for the best possible offspring? Well our basic-mate-qualities are respect, responsibility and non-rotten character. These are the basics. Men should have to level up to meet the best-mate-qualities, you know, like g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 12:28 AM
419

C*nt? Aside from whore, hoe, slut,.....I would argue we need more insults for men (or, alternatively just stop calling women such things)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:02 PM
13

Plus, medicine historically speaking, has been sexist. Womens issues are still not taken as seriously e.g. endometriosis or outright not researched enough like autoimmune deseases. Or they are misdiagnosed because men and women tend to have different symptoms, while the typical description of the condition is the male average version e.g. heart attacks, ADHD, autism,.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:34 PM
30

They do not want other men to buy us stuff and they do not want us to buy stuff for ourselves. They probably want women to drop dead and let humanity go extinct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:16 PM
38

Didn't they also complain when we had this trend of posting the flowers or rings we bought for ourselves?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:23 PM
44

They do not even know how old women look. They think women are 35 when they are actually 47 because of the bs and myths of aging they are spewing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:43 PM
81

Next step is to refuse them after you called them disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:38 PM
137

Right? If we apply the existing logic the other way around, it suddenly becones clear how cruel it is. So why is it not cruel for women? Society cannot continue to devalue women like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:36 PM
34

"One of the most recent ones I saw was that “they don’t like that these things are outside the control of women”. And that one just boggled my mind because they essentially admitted that these acts were orchestrated by men and are controlled by them. I can see what they might have been trying to get at but I feel like it just backfired." They fully mean: Men should control women, women don't like that, but we do not care. Why would we see them as humans?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:11 PM
6

The whole ordeal could be a book or movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:53 PM
18

Also it is projection: People think pretty people are dumb, when they thenselves would ONLY utilize their looks to get ahead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:38 PM
64

They really think they are smart when they put the task of childrearing onto women but then do not understand that, because of this, of course we oppose child brides? If we do the childrearing wewould be the ones to know this basic: child brides are children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 02:44 PM
20

We get bitter BECAUSE we get "male attention". But men will act dumb. I will contine to be bitter while young. They cannot pull out the aging/wall thing when they are talking to a 20-year old, lol. To the young women: When 50-somethings pedo hits on you, tell him: "Oh, but you have hit the wall already, don't you think so?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:53 PM
52

This is very true and another issue. It is like the male chefs, while cooking is seen as a woman's chore. But when talking about all these little tik tokers who do their make up i think this might apply.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:46 PM
74

Right? As make up is a "feminine" thing, men are not iterested in this. It somehow really is a technique to create a women space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:15 PM
6

But that would be attached to an "old woman", you know....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:38 AM
19

Dafug? We are young, we are basically children. I'll just keep looking teeny-young with my occasional acne flair ups and grey hairs, I don't care that I have some visible grey hairs already, no one can tell me i do NOT look young in my face and my body. And when these two change, i will still be beautiful. Aging is also beatiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:34 AM
5

I feel so passionate about this! What we do is self-preservation, protecting ourselves from (further) trauma, which is the most natural/instinctual reaction of a human individual. We deserve this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:13 PM
172

It will only increase. He does not value you or even acknowledge you as a person if he does not text back for days. It is NOT acceptable to declear a relationship when there is none, because you have no contact and do not see each other. What will that escalate to? Not having contact for a year, but still calling him your boyfriend because on paper, he is? Nah. Send the break up text(he won't), block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:57 PM
39

"Did you move? I want to know where to stalk you now"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:06 PM
34

Yeah, like....what else is he? He knows exactly he could be the girls grandpa.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:50 PM
30

Right? He is around 60.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:48 PM
41

Oh they wonder why they would be protesting, they would ask us why WE are not protesting about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:14 PM
34

Yeah, these texts of naked stupidity really are too much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:42 PM
65

How can they even be this stupid and confess they stole the laptop?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:40 PM
266

These men are so lazy, they wait to bring up their own issues only when other people bring up theirs. Dude, come up to me to talk about circumcision without attaching it to FGM, but as its own issue. I will listen to you. Bring it up as a reaction to FGM and I will be mad at you and ignore you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:35 PM
36

Also when a woman prefers smaller dicks, men are offended too, saying she discriminates against big dicks, saying something must be wrong with her because she cannot take big dicks, maybe insinuating she is not female enough because of that.🤦‍♀️ You cannot win. You cannot like small dicks or big ones or girth, they will always complain. The "big dicks are worse at sex"- cope is like the nice guy trope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:51 PM
21

He may try to stop with porn and stop dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:46 PM
28

And then they expect women to act like this towards them bit somehow never the other way around. Nah dude, at least act like you make up with me too, like ypu do with your friends. Better yet, raise your standards and do not tolarate resentment, bad communication or emotional abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:39 PM
20

Came here to say this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:28 PM
13

Yeah, those apes are still stuck in their uncivilized state and truly do not know what they want, just know they want to stick their dick inside something. And it costs them basically nothing, especially if they use these manipulation tactics. Homo sapiens males have invented interesting mechanisms to do less work for their women and society. This is why in biological theory, the sex with the most reproductive risks (almost always the females) chooses the partners. Because individual saftey matt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:22 PM
12

If the scrotes are mad, it definetly is protection of women. The mad scrotes are the ones we have to be protected from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:05 PM
45

Men don't know what they want
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:04 PM
64

"Making up" = tolrrating each other abuse and expect everyone to do just as
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:02 PM
42

Lewis is free to write other men that they are hot kings, but he won't. His loss, he does not get to be mad at women, WHO WANT MEN TO SHOW NORMAL EMOTION, when MEN are the ones who police each others emotions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:01 PM
20

If a woman opened a door, some men would think she wants to sleep with him and would use this opportunity to stare her down creepily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:53 AM
27

I would have the urge to shit talk them to my whole circle and their families. I would want to sit with his grandmother and laugh with her what a pathetic little loser he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:45 AM
62

Or they mean murder can sometimes be excusable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:31 AM
193

Plus we have to maintain our identities when married. Women are often pushed to be the selfless wife or mother who sacrifices herself for her family. The woman who only have their children as her identity, which many misoginistic people also complain about. We don't do that here. We want to teach women who are married or in relationships that they are a whole person alone, aside from their husband, even if he is amazing. You do not have to melt into one person with hubby after marriage and sitti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 11:25 PM
18

I surley am not the perfect unbothered women who is free of all patriarchal bs, because who is? But I've always had many views that were shared and discussed on this sub so I found a gem. It really helps me improve myself. It is very helpful to read what you lovley ladies have to say without reading the usual troll posts you have to endure in other corners of the internet. Thank you for that.💕 And to the mods: Thank you so so so much for your ruthless moderation. It must be hard (and probably pa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 11:10 PM
27

I wonder how he justifies that behauvoir. Shouldn't he be the bigger person and not entertain us or give us attention after all, if he thinks we're idiots🤔🤔🤔🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 11:03 PM
24

We do not have a warped view pf men, we only focus on the bad ones, qhich are not all, but too many. It's clear to everyone that can read or has some understanding of gender violence or abuse or feminism or self care. Also i would argue that we are voluntarily celibate (or just not celibate).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:58 PM
19

My friend lives in the 5. story of an apartment building, I swear, it takes her as long or longer, depending on how much trash she has. Your acquaintance somehow saw this as a brag: "Look at me, I can complain that I am sooo rich". But what you complained about literally is not even a sign for being rich or owning largw property. Also it was not an awful thing by itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:46 PM
16

How about dating women your age, you know women who look 50 instead of girls who look 14-23?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 07:43 PM
105

"My relationship is just good, not perfect, but I think I'll settle for marriage" - Girl should be the one to think about it twice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:50 PM
15

Oh wow. I never heard of that one. The only thing that I came across that was remotely similar to this is some female teachers saying that little boys may see men as a kind of attraction, because in their everyday life, they are mostly in contact with women, thus men are more exciting to them as they are a more seldom sight. But that is of course just one anectode.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:09 PM
157

The myth exists because they are predators, therefore know no generosity. Would you want sex from a man if you paid for his drink? I sure do only pay for others if I want to treat and invite them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:50 PM
91

It is just predatory, they KNOW they will only get 20-something sugar babes which they will have to pay for, because these women won't have a relationship with their crusty asses otherwise. How pathetic must a man be to buy the the illusion of human affection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:45 PM
96

Homophobic, probably because some women here say that the "gay best friend" can be a misogynist too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:34 PM
85

They are calling themselves feminist but do not want to acknowledge that depictions in porn are unequal and mostly hateful against women, not men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:20 PM
25

Depictions in media come from real sources concepts or societal issues and believes, so there's that.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:18 PM
114

Yeah unfortunatley, but I'll keep trying, so I have another one: You cannot fully be empathetic to another person if you are not empathetic and loving to yourself. The key to self-love and happiness in relationships of all kinds is to look out for yourself and your saftey first and foremost and to hold others to the standards you hold yourself to (even your boyfriends or girlfriends). It is natural for humans to look out for the own person as a first priority. So do not betray your natural insti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:06 PM
16

Should've told him to stop touching your leg- has he ever tried to tell a dude that and did it work? It sure does not if you are a woman (which means, they find you sexually attractive) and not a scary, big, hairy dude. Many many men are worthless. But I love how the women found the courage to speak up about him after you did!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:54 PM
5

They are already made at women who didn't choose the single mom life. And do you know how mad they can become at women who choose to be single moms via sperm bank? Oh boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:40 PM
735

Another one: Do not do anything that makes you uncomfortable. If you have to compromise with your boyfriend by violating your own boundries, leave him. You are better off and happier and even healthier alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:31 PM
73

Right? If you want emotional support- expect just that and NOT sex. Just tell those men that sex is not a healthy coping mechanism in such situations and you do not want to be a rapist and take advantage of them while they are vulnerable. Maybe that makes them shut up and stops them from calling you manipulative (plus, it is true, do not ever use sex to "resolve" trauma, it is mostly just further traumatizing)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:20 PM
8

He don't want to hear how a woman makes another women cum, he will feel so useless and emasculated. Women cum more often when they have sex with other women, I think hetero men should learn from lesbians and bisexuals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 09:44 AM
9

I love that your parents are reapectful people. I wish they knew how depraved people can really be. Their perspective seems almost a bit sheltered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:59 PM
12

So they cannot grasp their daughters will and wants
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:11 PM
32

A rare good men in the wild it seems, one that can actually advocate for us women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:15 PM
27

Ah other animals do better than us. They have a better grasp of their female biology and actually choose the best of the best to mate with. Humans should follow that example.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:11 PM
52

And "wronged" means she just did not want to sleep with him, just because she did not like him that way or found him creepy and obsessive. Or she broke up, which is a normal part of life too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:56 AM
119

They don't want lwsbians as friends because they can give men REAL dating advice and those men do not want to hear what she has to say about the dynamics between women and men without any pressure to impress him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:36 PM
75

Should' ve dumped him by angrily saying: "Am I fat to you?!?!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:31 PM
35

I'll stay lonley, wohooo! Dude this is the point. We want a society where women (and men) do not need relationship bs and only choose the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:29 PM
39

Huh? They pay for entrance?😂 Clubs do not care about "uglyness"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 08:57 PM
95

It is actually sad if women do NOT come to such a conclusion before 30
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 08:53 PM
37

How? His wife has a chronic consition and he cheated. He is a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 08:31 PM
15

Um this is the one with the "crazy exes" who are good in bed. The dude is a walking red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 08:27 PM
22

Wow how can someone say this to you when you were a child then?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 08:23 PM
25

The last one is the only way to teach them how not to rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 08:19 PM
151

Wow, what should you have done about your school uniform? Men are depraved shitholes and pedos when they sexulize a student ( a teen, a child) like that. Promiscuous girls have big boobs? No, men are just depraved shit. I did not know my genetics know if I am promiscuous or not. All men who say this should be thrown in a jail cell. For the enjoying feminine clothing part: Dress up at home just for yourself. For outside use, start by only wearing your nicer clothes when you meet up with others, t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:50 AM
68

When they say we should compliment them, they actually mean we should perform unwanted sex acts on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:37 AM
9

It seems it is ot socially acceptable in their circles to tell their brothers their hot like women do with each other? But then again, they just use other words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:29 AM
15

Sometimes I feel to just go to abuse related subreddits and tell all of those men of and report them. How dare they? Who do they think they are? Retraumatizing and blaming victims. In a gendered context, these guys are patriarchy in action.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:16 AM
181

Or considering the english language does not even have as harsh or as much insults against awful men, but many for women who did not even do anything bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 05:41 PM
24

Not exact....fuckboy is not in relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:38 PM
30

Girl the real tea begins when white men of any specific country argues about women's role in society with foreign and/or non-white men.😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:30 PM
43

He could just not be a coward, but no. Jokes on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:20 PM
18

Wow, you did everything in your hand to help him. Now it is on him to better himself and please tear him apart if he dares to complain to you again. You told him multiple times by now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:11 PM
47

Right? No abuse, just hot model photos. Plus many of them are clothed and in no pic did I even see a man's dick so far.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:40 PM
27

He better do such nice things for her too when she enjoys her hobbies alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:52 PM
89

Imagine if we told men to shave their beards and look "too young" and in the same second tell them to let them grow long again, but then he is a "catfish".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:49 PM
104

Yeah, like we say he is a slut and that we want to rape him like male porn addicts do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:10 PM
17

All men complain about are the disadvantages they have because of patriarchal society structures. A bell should ring here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:47 AM
52

This is only a question to make someone feel bad about themselves and invalid. You easily figure out what someone brings to the table by having normal back-and-forth conversation. The question is a hard pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 09:50 AM
58

You better be bitter after bad experiences instead of still being a bubbly fool who makes the same mistakes over and over again....that would be some scary shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:28 PM
85

For us? Yeah sure they killed the opponent's men to rape their women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:02 PM
31

Wow, that is really extreme. I get that abused men should be accomodated to, but there has to be another way?? Refuse funding?! This is insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:50 PM
15

Like no worries man, I will completly blame the rapist, as it can happen to anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:00 PM
12

And victim blame victims of abuse (male, female, and all inbetween) in the same breath. I wish men would just act right, so no one has to worry about abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:53 PM
5

One on hand they'll say "wtf I love muslims now" when they see articles of abuse, gay stonings, harems, all things only extremists would do. Nah, ours act as if our society is better and not misogynistic at all. They cannot believe that hate crimes against women can happen in "these countries", but simultaneously won't admit the remains of our own traditional misogynistic culture. And then make the muslims the scapegoat by saying they shoot up places. Hate against the jewish exists in those circ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:12 PM
21

I have no clue why hate fuck is even a word? It is literally rape
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:52 PM
10

Maybe because she has big boobs but wore baggy clothes in odd styles?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:51 PM
5

Basically the epitome of Madonna-whore complex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 12:29 PM
17

I think she also mentioned in one video that young women who want to rest in their traditional femininity should rather NOT go to college or that it id valid if they chose to go after a man instead of going to college. Girl, you do you, it is just the worst idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 12:13 PM
17

Fashmeisha, perfect! This word is perfect😂 I did not come up with more motives, just want to say i am sick of the alt right women and men in my country that use the narrative of the dangerous african/arabic/turkish MAN, who comes from a misogynistic culture and who will rape and attack "our countrie's" (of course only white and of our nationality, no migration background in the family) women. I wonder if they actually believe that our own man don't rape and harm us. What do they think our men do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 11:57 AM
19

Also note how he "corrected" her: As if he was this great, all-knowing teacher who has to explain the world to a dumb child and expand its vocabulary. That is how he thinks about their dynamic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 11:41 AM
112

He definetly wants her to call him daddy and he feels like he is living hid porn fantasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 11:22 AM
61

And this is the deliberate effect of these porn terms sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 11:19 AM
10

She must break up with him, that is how she gets rid of the dumb talk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 11:18 AM
25

And when you destroy their delusion about male superiority i.e. by saying "only a handful of great men built stuff, the other were just working class among the women" they'd throw a tantrum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 11:11 AM
34

So the pedos actually scream ageist now? I find it ageist that they specifically abuse people who could be their children and grandchildren!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:38 PM
48

Young teens and tweens women who do not want their crusty asses anyway, and they know. Can confirm as a girl of this age range.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:34 PM
10

Aha, I still have to figure that one out....🤔🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:32 PM
6

I once watched a documentary where a pedo brothel in a third world country kills, sells or kicks their prostitutes out when they are around 14, because they "age" and become "unattractive".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:59 PM
15

It is actually such a common trauma reaction and people gloss over that- one of the many reasons why I do not support sex work anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:04 PM
7

Ew...I think I have to puke reading this. Of course his daughter is your age🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:48 PM
14

I mean, when I was 18, I was offered 200 euros for nudes without my face even being visible, but I just said no. And that happens to many women. It is not a flex, it is disgusting, these men and what they think they can get out of us is disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:06 PM
12

And we are apparently slut-shaming. I believe many ladies say what I say: no shame on the female sex worker, only on her customers! You are not bad or a slut and we are not better than you- there are just more empowering options for you to earn money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:55 PM
10

The baseline of transactional intimacy being beneficial to women is the assumption, that all men do not respect women's sexuality anyway. In this assumption transactional sex is of course better.....but is it the best possible outcome for women in general? The transaction ultimately benefits men more than women. Women are only free if they are finally left alone by men in a secxual context, when we make money without even trying to appear sexy, like men can do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:43 PM
6

Also hating men is hating abuse caused by men, while hating women is mostly just....misogyny. I rarely see men say they hate women because they were abused by one or several.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:02 AM
29

To make up even remotley, she should never have to lift a finger again. Just relax in bed while he does absolutely everything. And then she should still not forgive and instead divorce him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:43 AM
18

There are resources for dads, you lazy bum do not even have to get your ass up from your computer to follow family/pregnancy/pedagogy/ob-gyn Youtubers, use google schooar for articles and buy books on amazon. You can ask your wifes doctor if you were just a bit invested in her. What do you think we women do when we are pregnant? What a stupid clown. Played video games and neglected his children. He talks big and feels no shame. I hope the kids get takes away from him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:35 AM
6

Not lower yourself, you'd think you deserve their bad treatment because you would be as bad. Also, you would be the one abusing and dismissing others. Be prepared to walk away at the first sign of disrespect and build a happy single life. For this you do not need to disrespect and treat these men poorly. If you live by your standards and level up, a good partner can always find a place to add value to your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:59 AM
30

And they will 1000% say this to girls in rl. I hope someone kicks them in the balls for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:45 AM
45

So why dows he complain then? Is he offended because the mean woman said something against people like him? Life is so hard, he should learn to take more🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:42 AM
83

I hope she picks out a male prostitute and tries to gaslight her husband into dealing with her going to him too.🤦‍♀️🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 09:24 PM
57

Good to know this is why I am single, now I know I just have to keep doing it! (go-to answer, am not even single btw)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 09:17 PM
17

There are no words for this one.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 09:05 PM
10

Plus big handbags can give us back issues and backpacks are easier to steal from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:56 PM
153

I have a feeling she'll come to FDS later. And when people on the other sub start telling her what we would tell her, she'd be so thankful that they helped her see this man for who he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:54 PM
20

Wow the pocket issue is literally a thing in our society as well! Where are the pockets in our jeans and jackets?!😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:41 PM
10

I wanted to ask the same question! I saw it like 3 times today lol. To me it reads as if she is so poor, she cannot even buy herself socks. She does not demand anything from her "provider".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:39 PM
40

Diagusting. Underage "sex workers" do not exist, only raped children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:11 PM
21

And even that is just because she was fortunate enough to move.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:09 PM
24

Men shouldn't be cops, judges or lawyers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:57 PM
33

They are only harmful if pedo women make porn like this with teenage boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:52 PM
43

I am curious: can children/teens bring up such issues to court for custody arrangements and be taken seriously?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:50 PM
3

I count them too, why would an adult advertise sexual or romantic topics to children that much? Let them be kids and figure their own romantic/sexual feelings and views out when they get older.(But to be clear: people should know about sex and relationships, kids should have sex ed, just not pushed into a direction or lifestyle)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:18 AM
25

How was he not fired already? He is unable to fulfill his job description AND endangers the patients.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 10:44 PM
23

Exactly....and then we wonder why adult men and women suddenly "can't" be friends- well, because their parents always made it weird for them when they did hang out with the opposite sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 10:10 PM
10

Also he expects his daughter to raise children while she shall not be independent? Lmao, who does he think is going to be shamed into doing all the work?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 10:05 PM
65

Hating women and hating the concept of consent in many cases is the same thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:11 PM
37

In general: Dump him if he is bad with animals, continue to vet him carfully if he is good with animals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:10 PM
499

This fits what women on FDS also say. How often do women here say, that men fear and hate mature/capable women with their own minds who are smart, educated and self-sufficient. Such women would not put up with pedo men's shit, this is why those awful men go for the young, naive minds, who are easier to abuse. And some of these men are so depraved, they gladly "get rid of" their girls the second they show self-sufficient, assertive, adult behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 12:03 PM
34

And still, they enjoy and watch it....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:48 PM
23

Right? Imagine women saying: "Oh dad, you are awful, have always been, why tf would I waste my money on a present for you?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:18 PM
21

In my country it is on Thursday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:15 PM
35

They are everywhere, they are like a *rona virus. I hate them to the core.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:09 PM
44

I mean, what future children? In an ideal world, there will be none, because no one wants to mate with such bastards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:46 PM
36

Yeah, I always unintentionally have the most unappealing and angry body language when I come across them. Sometimes you can see how much it bothers them, but at least they talk to you a bit less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:45 PM
68

Yeah right? And everyone sees they are teens, but as everyone knows, teen boys are always younger than teen girls of the same age....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:38 PM
26

And it was not even accidentally like it sounds, he purposefully made her fall down, he f***ing kicked her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:37 PM
95

Good that they were cought on camera!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:29 PM
44

Father's day is in 4 days ffs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 06:32 PM
2

I'll just say that i want equity, that is the better aim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:06 PM
6

I thought pedos, but you are right too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 12:51 PM
14

I like him, he basically tells men to stay away from all women. Good one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 12:40 PM
45

I did not know we hated waitresses and retail workers or nurses....I guess we take agency away from them because we say they should have better pay....oh right, we hate poor people because we think they should earn more instead of letting them stay poor🤡 I do not even hate aex workers, I hate their customers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:07 PM
82

It was like if I said: Italian people are famous for a variety of pasta dishes, and then an Italian dips in angrily and says:" But I am allergic to wheat, I do not"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:02 PM
21

Now that I do not pressure myself into wearing makeup every day, I can actually appreciate it and ONLY do it as a hobby and to relax. You may see me with graphic eye make up when I want to wear it, and the rest if the week is me in bare face. You go girl! Not caring about what others may think of your appearance takes time and practice, but it makes you feel good and gives you more flexibility in you day-to-day life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:13 PM
80

If they run it then it is not his kingdom right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 11:58 AM
115

Almost sounds like he wants to expoit minimum wage workers for an illegally low amount of pay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 11:56 AM
50

Men push all responsibilities around children on us and wonder why we chose to not deal with that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:54 PM
38

I always say the same. You want humanity to survive? Do not produce too much ofdspring!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:51 PM
70

So they are even related? Uh, no.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:50 PM
10

Also why is it "morally icky, but legal" for the old creep, but then it is: "funny that they can do this to him too" for the ladies? When he is morally more in the wrong then they are?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 05:35 PM
17

It is deep in our society that women have to internalize pain and men externalize. Toxic masculinity mixed with an awful father makes sole of them believe they have to be abusive to be powerful. They only ever learned to be selfish, to abuse women like their father did with their mother and the feeling of love is impaired, because they have no feeling ok even the basic foundation of love: respect. Some men won't try to better themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 11:07 AM
15

It is definetly underreported and this is so sad. The world wpuld be better if we held these men accountable and have no sympathy for them. These women and men in your life did not desrve this treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 11:00 AM
39

And it does not even make sense? It means it has no legal repercussions sure, but the ladies can still make him delete it without legal force?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 10:57 AM
50

Why would arming myself help if I am not physically attacked? How would it even help me when it is illegal to carry weapons aound? Should I murder someone who took pictures of me with a pocket knive or what? No, of course not. I do not have to defend myself that way when i am recorded. I rather have to do something these women did, to make him stop. They did not film his ass or film eith an ulterior motive. They recorded as a defense. This is the difference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 10:55 AM
107

If we could "turn" gay, we all would. These dudes are out of line with their infiltrated ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 10:49 AM
76

Tbh honest age/identity verificitaion should be demanded on all social media apps. If our online brokers manage to do it, why wouldn't porn sites or even facebook and instagram not manage it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 10:45 AM
161

Was anyone else disappointed when she said "morning oral" and then proceeded to describe only her giving him a blowjob, instead of him licking her? Or them doing both?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 10:10 PM
15

I mean, it already feels different every step of your cycle, so i guess there is much variation to the "surface" of the vagina in different women too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 08:44 PM
3

Honestly, I want to to stick to my name. It is part of me and I like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 08:21 PM
38

They do not know that woman actually have dark undereye shadows but would also complain if my concealer is too yellow or too white, becuase I did not find one that matches my skin color exactly. And I swear, men can wear make up too, if they want to cover up blemishes or if they are feeling artsy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:02 PM
45

And the expectation exists, it is awful. We are only free if we wear make up or not how we want and if there is no expectation Not wear it one day, but wearing a full face the next day and be treated with the same respect. I am saying this as someone who loves make up, fashion and beauty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:45 PM
5

I have not seen the stats but i can imagine. Makes pregnancy very unattractive for me. If I want to have children, I think I try for adoption.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 01:53 PM
9

Plus the mere fact that they watch porn, which contains often groomed/abused "actors" is a violation against those actors in itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 01:50 PM
7

Plus the fact that birth itself is traumatic, especially when medical staff is rude, or something goes wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 01:43 PM
6

And then the "conditions" were treated by sexually abusing them at the doctor's office even more. Thought "hysteria" should be trated by release of sexual tension or some crap and gaslighted women into going to the doctor to use a dildo there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 01:42 PM
11

To many girls and boys already get raped by their fathers and have enablers as mothers, sometimes even as participants or sole abusers. They are too afraid to speak up, they are not believed, because they are only children and their family gaslights them. It happens to them regularly and even if it stops, they have to live and spend time with these people. This is child sexual abusd and EXACTLY what these "kinksters" want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 01:37 PM
13

Imagine if the mother had a son and was specifically looking at porn of barley legal boys, incest with barley legal or teen boys and rape of boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 01:22 PM
11

Wow, they really try to groom a young girl and instill "daddy issues" in her mind, don't they?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 01:20 PM
8

The fact that it is a sexual fantasy means that he thinks of teens in a sexual way which is what a pedophile does. It means he thinks of people like his daughter, girls who could be his daughter, maybe his daughter specifically, in that way. Which is disgusting. Also parents who watch porn are irresponsible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 01:19 PM
14

Right? I find it especially revolting to find abuse porn so easily when you are 14 and the women in the clip look not a day older than you. And of course all the young boys, who watch it since they were young, who as the male gender are the target audience, become addicted to it. It is irresponsible that porn is so accessible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 12:04 PM
30

Most women have done too, most people saw at least one clip somehow. All women here chose to not stick with it. It is actually that easy, and if not, you may be an addict.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 11:02 AM
17

I never understood how women could say "Guys just do it, I have to put up with it". Um if all guys do, women would too? There is enough gay porn where women can see men have sex in action (not like hetero porn where men are basically invisible). And I know that I, as a woman, do not need this and do not watch it. So why would men "have to"? Never made sense to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 10:47 AM
28

Like, he can still imagine naked women? No need to disrespect women by the action of looking at their naked pictures at least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 10:34 AM
44

She should just go in bed with him and look at /masturbate to gay porn. It is natural and normal, women like to look at hot men, she does nothing wrong, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 10:31 AM
26

As if men are not silent bystanders. People are afraid they will be hurt or raped next if they intervene.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 10:19 AM
111

Also anal rape should be better for men because they have a prostate, right, right?🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 10:17 AM
23

Like I said, is it not bad when a woman raped a man, because he sticks his dick into women already? No, she is a f*ing rapist! But I forgot that men will victim-blame the raped guy in this situation, saying he wanted it and he should have just enjoyed. I bet the raped guy of the comments would come after a guy raped by a woman, trying to convince him why his own rape was worse, like it was a competition. "Poor me, I am the one most suffering of them all and everyone else is invalid"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 10:10 AM
24

So they only see men as humans and women can't bring the attention to the women again. Unsurprising. They believe women deserve to be raped. I will just flat out disagree with them and say it is worse when a man rapes a woman, just because.(obviously not true every rape is just as awful). I wonder what they will say when a man is raped by a woman? "A man is used to stick it into women, why is it so traumatic if he was forced to do it then? " This would be their logic. It does not apply. And when…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:53 AM
7

It is interesting to explore wether we associate a look with "sexy" because it comes out of the male gaze or if we ourselves find it sexy. Would we find different looks sexy if gender roles were different? What can be boiled down to biology and what to culture? Many things seen as sexy are due to genetics. But are our genetics misogynistic? Chimpanzees and humans have similar violent male behavioral patterns, our ancestors were probably like our current males, too. This means, if the males have …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 12:14 AM
2

I totally understand your point, this is the exact issue with how beauty is advertised to us. Why do WE (and not men) need to wear make up, shave our legs and use anti-ageing creams when 21? And why do body type trends change all 10 years? F*** that, we do not HAVE to do that. We should wear and do what we like. Tbh, the push to be "pretty" in my country is not as strong as in the US.(beauty standards, like looking young, shaving, not looking sickly or tired etc. however do still exist) Here it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 11:47 PM
48

Um how old is that girl?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 09:53 PM
346

How does that actually exist? I cannot believe that. Actually this is sexual harassment in the workplace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:08 PM
27

Yeah, where is the male variation of that? We need more names for those Kevins, as well as for the creeps that think they can be sexual towards waitresses even though she is 16.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 07:54 PM
53

Yeah, even children, soon they will call crying newborns a Karen, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 07:52 PM
6

For me it is art, I draw on my skin and express my inner self on my outside. For me this is the most intimate way of art, because it is on my body, not on a piece of paper (although I do like to draw on paper too). I also find body painting and also tattoos really fascinating, but I do not want one myself as of now. I have it as a hobby, I can learn how to use different textures, colors, styles, application techniques and make it more complex and detailed. It is soothing and relaxing. I will put…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 06:37 PM
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So this rapist played a longer game by acting like he harshly judged exactly those acts he later did. Sounds like he wanted his crime to be extra painful to her, because she did not expect it and now has to lose trust she built. This is on purpose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:15 PM
28

I also hate how big-breasted women always get talked out of reduction. "But they are so beautiful". No they are not when they hurt this much. A woman likes to move without pain. Doctors see reduction as an absolutely last resort and recommend it unnecessarily late if at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 10:31 AM
5

Men will acuse women of "gossiping " for example when we go to the bathroom together while clubbing, when we actually talk about predatory men's behavior and how to get out safely. They acuse us on gossiping about other women's clothing, when we critique a woman's outfit in a neutral way often based in fashion/artistic theory while men will "critique" a woman's clothes by slut-shaming her to the bros and other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 11:53 PM
58

I mean, physically make scores. Make a list. It makes the whole thing more real if you put it out of your head on a paper and you do not forget anything after a while.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 11:38 PM
17

It is actually theorized by scientists that gossip is the beginning of our human languages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 11:18 PM
7

They should make multi-layered skirts with the top layer covering the pockets of the other layer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 11:12 PM
2

A bit off topic, but did Amazon even exist 20 years ago as this big online business like first commenter on page 5 claims?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 09:32 PM
25

And want a traditional housewife, but won't be a traditional husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 09:24 PM
20

Nothing new. They are either rapists or lazy rapists, who think they can buy a girlfriend for a day. They are disgusting scum. This is why we women need to be in law enforcment and politics. How can we possibly let men get away with this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 09:16 PM
2

It is sad in a way. If she kept the style, she could've stood for empowerment by saying "I do not care what you think about my style". With this change in style, the situation is double bad: 1)As a minor, she had to cover up more, implication is that grown men cannot control themselves around a girl or woman with skin- victim blaming of teenagers. 2)Now she, still a teen, can show skin and look like a woman and will be sexuslized "without penalty" by grown because now she is of age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:52 PM
82

Like, how can a person come to think they will always be in a relationship or always have enough money to hire professional help? It seems they do not even worry about themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:53 PM
7

Never heared if this, but i sure hope this is a porn thing that does not ever become fashionable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:37 PM
48

I seriously begin to belive it also is projection when some men say: "Women like assholes"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:31 PM
9

If they only care about money it makes sense to make the patiens feel bad, means they'll come back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:24 PM
3

Say hello to the mother who wonders why her 18 year old daughter moved out immediately, changed her phone number and does not talk to her parents anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:21 PM
10

They did not relize yet that paying a student to wank out genetic material is waaaay easier than building the reproductive system of a woman+ robots who fullfill womens labour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:11 PM
3

Love those woman. Single households are bad if they happen when the other parent suddenly decides to leave, if there is a plan for single parenting in place it will not be as bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:07 PM
29

What the actual f*? Yeah, would feel very safe in this city with these cops. Acting like an old lady is secretly a ninja that can overpower them....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:12 PM
34

In a misogynistic society, women have to be angles at all times and abusive men can be dismissed as "complicated". Maybe we should have the same moral standards for men that we have for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:09 PM
174

Unfortunately, we get male "attention", this is why we are in this sub🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:06 PM
6

You would be hated because we all want to actually see more real stay at home dads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:16 PM
14

Imagine telling your manager at work he/she does not work because they have a secretary. Imagike going to a cook in a restaurant and twlling him he does not really work as he has other cooks and waiters working at his restaurant too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:08 PM
6

I mean, who would hire her? Retail and restaurants that are not even (fully) open rn, who are hit hard by the pandemic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:49 PM
4

Like, who still hires a nanny if the kids are over 10?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:46 PM
12

Next post of him is titeled: my wife started to work again and asked me to do the dishes. I snapped at her. AITA? -I know it sounds bad, but hear me out.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:27 PM
37

If he was single, he would have all money for himself but also do all his household alone and complain about that. He totally forgot that he got a win out of it, if she does the household and childcare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:18 PM
6

I really wonder how they do not think they are whores themselves if they keep sending unwanted dick pics. All men who do that are sluts and predators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:40 PM
5

I wonder how he does not just die walking out of his bed, he sounds as if he is being too dense to even stand upright, even if his body and mind physically could.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:29 PM
7

If he wants to be a good man finally, he should tell her and deal with it when she breaks up and if she wants to sue/report him for that. This is a sexual predator who really should not run around in the world freely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:27 PM
60

Right? Why not hot male dancers?!?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 10:58 AM
14

BDSM: what would they say if we women wanted to abuse men more often in this scene? Many people would feel more icky about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 10:56 AM
59

Some people have to learn to take rejection. The way one gives attention is not right for you? Fine, it won't work out. These men think they can put women aside and think they have all the time in the world to pursue her and when this is not the case they freak out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 06:01 PM
1

But also "I don't want sex". Gotta have that text printed out and sent to his mail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 01:31 PM
9

He did not show interest, if he did he would have answered your message ans offered a date on maybe your day off, friday, which you told him.😂 And he acts as if you have to apply to be his friend instead of....letting the friendship grow naturally?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 01:23 PM
53

I think they'd start to shoot down places and rape people if they had to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:27 PM
29

Or do you ever walk by a senior and wonder "would he hit on me if I was 13 now?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:24 PM
55

99% of rapists are men and rapists are not that rare. Almost every man is a cataller or sexual-harasser( is this even a noun?)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 04:17 PM
52

Those are like the "all lives matter" people. Equating pineapples and oranges.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:55 PM
53

Almost as if they ask these women to not text them....you know as if they think those women would actually text them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 09:08 AM
26

These days? You mean the last few millenia?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 08:04 PM
3

And then call all other women "basic" and say this is a red flag too. Toddlers who cannot secide what to play with and then trowing a mantrum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:19 PM
2

Exactly. "Oh it is so crazy that you have to actually spent a lot of time to take care of your giant animals" -non horse-men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:13 PM
1

Craps on Captain Marvel under the guise of being a "Mary Sue"- loves Star Wars with Luke who is also being kinda a Mary Sue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:10 PM
3

Especially the succulents and toe rings! And somehow i think he does not water his own plants or he found it crazy that his ex actually occasionally watered the succulents because he thought "desert plants need no care or water ever, why else would you have bought them" (answer: because they are beautiful)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:08 PM
3

"Red flags" of men-more like: "these are a list of things I am not interested in" Red flags of women: Behaviour that makes it more possible for him to be a rapist pedo or serial killer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:02 PM
12

"I don't suck, you probably suck" 😂😂😂 I have to laugh so much at this. Good, he also should not say that because obviously no one is perfect and there is room for improvement. I hope he is still open to learn and listen to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 12:55 PM
18

"Why else would you really need them?" If you want a dick, go to amazon and buy yourself a dick-shaped pillow: they are smooth, fluffy, pink and have cute little faces and they support your neck when you lie down. All things that dicks on men could never do. We bought a friend one for her birthday as a fun gadget.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 11:26 AM
24

This is how depraved they are. Actually it does not even make sense as these are mens crazy fantasies, which are unrealistic and invalid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 11:06 AM
48

Yeah, did you not know that 17 year old boys are younger than 17 year old girls? It is more pedo to like boys🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 11:02 AM
28

So they are rapists and pedophiles, nothing new, we all know since we were like 10. They should all go to jail in order for us women to run freely in the world in a peaceful society. Only the ones who behave like humans should run freely with us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 11:00 AM
109

I do not know where you live, but it is normal to wear your legs out with short pants or skirts especially in the summer? Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 10:54 AM
21

I would have told him he should put his dick out in front of the prof to see if he may like it. He sees this dude sexually harasses women, no one wants his better grades and if it pisses him of, he should be the one to be complaining to the heads of college about the unlawful incidents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 10:13 AM
20

Do they seriously not know what natural smells are?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 10:05 AM
55

I think it is unfair, that men do not get periods and are not in pain, this is not equalityyyyy. /s More companies should do this! Not as sick days, but really as this extra thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:58 AM
37

Ah yes it does, it gives me the ability to earn money and buy myself blankets, rent an apartment, pay for electricity bills, etc...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 09:48 PM
17

Where are the "not all men" when they would be useful😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 07:59 PM
34

Exactly, some men will say exactly that as if they bumbled through school as children without ever knowing what a category is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 07:58 PM
41

We should all adopt 'shrink dick' in our vocabulary!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 07:56 PM
354

Categories of guys= fancy names for the two categories "assholes" and "normal people", terms that everyone already uses anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 04:08 PM
27

I just read another article where an 11-year old girl went to school with knives because of this who was then lectured by the police Article: https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/14739374/schoolgirl-knives-school-tiktok-rape-day-hoax/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:37 PM
5

True, and as if this was not an offense for anyone by law.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 12:23 PM
34

It can only work with projection: in their minds, they take their bad traits, take them onto women and that means the bad traits have been taken out of them. Logically this leaves them with only good traits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:33 AM
38

They do not imagine women as humans. They imagine us to be like them. To do the same depraved shit and shame us for the things they have done and we have never done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:30 AM
2

Also how can they make a child responsible for that? Can children even dress themselves at that age? They just learned how to talk in sentences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:51 PM
25

Means: I act as if i want children but do not want to protect them from predators because this is haaaaard. Who would've guessed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:28 PM
22

Online brokers and finace companies can do it too, why not also do it if there are risks like sharing child porn or rape, you know, issues more important than money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:49 PM
19

I think they confuse "not being able to comment until approved with a flair" with "being banned".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:38 PM
13

I mean, what shouldI asa woman say about this topic? Get a gun and s**** into my surroundings like men do? I don't think so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:36 PM
4

It is probably becuase college students tend to be more independent than high schoolers, which means they can manipulate them better in order to never put in actual effort into the relationship (and in order to abuse her).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:01 PM
1

How many drugs did he take at once?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 02:19 PM
6

Right? Why are anti vaxxers and conspiracy theorists portrayed as angry Karen's when they are actually angry "viking" Kevins.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 02:07 PM
13

Exactly this is what I mean. It does not matter if "she came onto him". It does not matter. There is a power imbalance and she is not ever at fault for even "coming onto him" as she calls it. He is a predator. I mean the same as you. I am sorry if this was misunderstood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:37 PM
13

I am so sorry that happened to you. It happens to young women to much. We get manipulated and are lucky if we do not fall for some of their crap. I hope you are better and safe today!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:31 PM
17

It is the go to phrase of children playing adult. "Look I am a big girl". She is not "at fault" for anything and she cannot consent to this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:14 PM
20

Aaaand? Teens might do risky and irresponsible shit, it is the adults responsibility to not play a dangerous game with a child. Part of being a child and teen is literally lack of maturity and experience that you only gain gradually over time. It is sad how they manipulate their own judgment. Edit: this should be your answer if someone in real life ever comes at you with that "argument".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:12 PM
6

It is like he did not have eyes before the age of 13. Did he really not remember what his peers looked like? That they had boobs already?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:04 PM
6

I am so sorry that happened to you. Children should not deal with this. I was asked if I was an adult already at 12 when we went on vacation. By service staff who sell you tickets. 2 times at different places. This actually made me think I looked older than I was and when creepy older men catcalled me around this time, I suspected they actually thought I was older.🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:00 PM
7

Girls who just got their period and who are now im the prime childbirthing years, is the most awful description. These days, girls get their periods early, as children, not at the end of puberty like they did in earlier centuries. I was not physically able to birth a child when I got my period with 11, same for all other women. The average for starting periods is around 12-14 i think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:53 PM
8

A girl turns 18. A child turns 18. You cannot be an adult thus a "woman" before you become an adult. They are pedophiles lusting after teenagers. The fact that 17 and 20 year olds look the same should tell them it is not fine to be attracted to early 20 year olds either, just as late teens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:47 PM
71

When men are awful, they really are the worst version of human scum and have to infitrate themselves everywhere and ruin everything. They are like a bacteria population, except they some how do not die in their own waste when they become to much in number.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:43 PM
34

Wow, makes me wonder where our awful dehumanizing slurs for men are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:39 PM
7

What is this new fancy word "plate" I have not heard about so far? Where does this come from and what does it even mean?🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:38 PM
42

Like, if it actually was, the angry mob would break into your house, strip off your clothes and drown you while the police will try to find excuses as to why they do not need to protect you. Modern equivalent to that would be how rape and assault reports are treated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:09 PM
17

And today witch is a slur for female assholes or sometimes even for women who are just "moody" or for no reason at all. I really became aware of my language and I try to not use gendered insults anymore. Not bitch, not whore, not even witch, that im my language is actually a mild slur, because of the scapegoating and hate of women that happens over and over again. I once used those female slurs for men also, but as the words are actually gendered, I relized I do not insult the genders "fairly" o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:03 PM
12

Should be like that right? Also is it actually the speed at what kids mature? Is it not more like girls go into puberty earlier but not necessarily faster?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:42 AM
8

He could use you as a wall to talk towards for his selfish character traits. This is a dream for the selfish man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:01 PM
7

Right? It is the dame dumb excuse exept looking for recources and behaviors makes more sense than only looking for appearance. (and they are also mad when we state who we find attractive)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:58 PM
51

And then still stay for a long time as if they do not even have a perception of time, as if 6 years just gone by in a blink of their eye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:58 PM
3

What an uttelry dumb interaction, oh noooo😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:50 PM
8

In general the northern half of Europe is like this and we still have enough awful men left. At least we do not engage in smalltalk culture so much and thus most of the time do not talk to strangers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:39 PM
17

It just seems to me rhat the are all pedos. Why would they care so much when a woman is taller? Or has big hands? People have all kinds of proportions, that is what makes unique beauty imo. Too bad they cannot see that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:21 PM
34

Or she was pregnant and and post partum and just physically could not bring herself to have sex? Which is perfectly understandable. He is afraid of being seen as an asshole because he is one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:50 PM
3

Right? Only fine to have it when you are younger and already had it in your teens. Or when you are older and your kids convinced you to download it, lol. But a bad sign is when he wants to move the convo from dating app to snapchat, especially at nighttimes. Means he only wants nudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:39 PM
1

About point number three: I know US people are different in what messenger apps they use, but where I live EVERYONE uses Whatsapp. It is the standard massaging tool. For my place a red flag could rather be the exact point in time when the convo is moved from i.e. Tinder to Whatsapp. And in my book it is more fishy when the person turns off the blue ticks. It means they can leave you on read and they can gaslight you with "but I did not see the message"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:32 PM
46

Who really thought of a marketing concept and came to the conclusion that this is a good idea? Is this marketed to children? Does not even matter, it is awful anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:26 PM
24

Also if they get pumped and dumped they would throw huge fits. The problem only exists when it becomes their problem. So many do not care about other people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:09 PM
20

Sooo what is the point? I tell you:men are perverts who would fuck every hole they can find. They would masturbate into a hole in the wall. This is not womens fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:08 PM
1

I was talking about the wage gap. Men would argue it is "fair" they get paid more because they do not live as long when this logically makes no sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 09:55 AM
13

In fact women have to be paid more, because all people will go into retirement aroimd the same time, but women in general live longer, am I right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 08:26 PM
11

Like they often look the exact same from 16 to like 20. I certainly have not changed much in this age range.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 11:48 AM
16

Misogyny also stems from hatred based on assumptions about women, not the actions of women. It is selfish and its use lies in demonizing the reasonable and responsible actions of those kind of humans who bear greater reproductive and societal risk. Only because those humans without these risks do not use their empathy in order to understand why we must do what we do (i.e. reject men, not letting strange men in our homes, pretending to talk on the phone at night, etc.....)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 11:16 AM
46

What a crapshow, this makes me mad. In this case safety is more important than the offender's data.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 11:08 AM
10

There are people who bite their ice cream! I do not know how they do it, it just hurts my teeth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 10:53 AM
71

But it never works as good as the humanization of the Joker, who is praised by a loud crowd of awful men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 10:34 AM
11

Like perpetual children. Hehehe this looks like a penis. As if they were 12.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 10:18 AM
18

I noticed that men will stare at a higher rate when you just lick on your ice cream. Maybe in their mind they are threatened of us performing better oral sex on the ice cream than they do on women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 10:03 AM
1

Four years omg. Yeah movies are really unealistic. The only women that "look older" according to men are teenage girls. Like, wow, it is not surprising that one girl looked the same from 17 to 19. Maybe that should tell those men that "barley legal" is still for pedophiles and no it is not fine for old men to like 18-year olds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:42 AM
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Befriend women in order to manipulate other women! 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 11:30 AM
52

He did, she said he was selfish before. This was the last straw.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 11:28 AM
8

Ah, those lovely people who think anorexia is the only cause for being thin. Genetic preadaptations, food allergies, stress, any other physical or mental illness....not it must be anorexia and she must be a bad person for suffering this condition. Makes sense. /s And then they cry that no one takes their mental health seriously when they are ashamed of every imperfection they or other people have. Actively villifying mental issues and not taking them seriously themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 11:22 AM
12

Well, every woman is abused or treated baldy by men in some way. That way, all women can sympathetize with each other around those topics.Yes all women, yes all men, especially men who say shit like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 11:13 AM
6

Men who do this are not more than immature 13- year olds who still think those insults are cool and edgy. They use names of diagnoses as insults. "You are crazy" is just the evolved, non-specific version of that. But do not be fooled by the more fancy expression, you are still dealing with a manchild.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 11:04 AM
43

This culture shows in this example too: Mr. Vs. Ms OR Mrs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:55 AM
41

They should decide on one already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:52 AM
53

Exactly this! They are children! Girls! This is deliberate because the english language often refers to grown adult women as girls. So why not also use it for actual girls? It almost seems they are trying to make the CHILDREN seem more mature than they are, thus make the men look like less of a pedo. When i was underage, I always wanted to describe myself as a woman, as if I was in the "big girls club". But why? Girls are expected to act mature and to be in touch with "mature topics"(sex). We ge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:49 AM
2

What the actual f***. I am baffeled at how the cops did NOT have the idea to call the girls parents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:34 AM
1

Did you not know, men are like children, everything has to be explained and handed to them and if you are lucky, they take your advice. They should sleep with children because they have the same maturity levels as them🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:25 AM
12

Even if the child was the pursuer and "wanted" it (read as: rationalized to themselvs they wanted it) the adult is at fault because the child does not grasp the power imbalance and therefore cannot consent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:13 AM
6

But how does not spreading your legs work if they demand sex and coerce and abuse us anyway?🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:03 AM
5

They do not even care they can go to jail if they rape someone. They brought it on themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:01 AM
2

I would love to hear that story time.I am so sorry that happend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:58 AM
3

The adult is at fault because we expect young people to be immature like this. She is still to uninformed and unexpirienced to consent to adults. Even when 18 you still cannot consent to people much older. This is rape, always. He needs to step up and evaluate who he tries to sleep with. Maybe he should not pursue women so young they could be 18 or still 16. Maybe he should go for relationships or have no sex at all. Maybe he should look for sex where the chances are higher dhe is an adult. Plus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:52 AM
71

And they'll also put no effort into the women they find stunning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:39 AM
29

Especially when we pay our managers tons of money for organization tasks and emotional labour for the company.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 10:31 PM
102

Nah I think I'll just be a mathater, towards every womanhater.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:35 PM
67

The first point: they tell on themselves. Men who say that think all men are bad, because they themselves are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:31 PM
77

As if it is so hard to understand that we only want to date people we actually like. This should be a standard drilled into everyone: strive to love yourself and be fullfilled by yourself (aside from relationships).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:29 PM
5

The very first sentence: This is pretty much everyone whos straight right? Women hate men for their shit and men just hate women. And oh so bad that women need safe spaces and like to compliment each other. Such women stuff....so weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:27 PM
18

If you are truthfully an asshole, expect people to be truthfully angry at you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:05 PM
52

Let him take some photos too. Or date a guy who does not like to be in photos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 08:55 PM
75

It would work best for women if men just do more house work and child rearing, it is not that hard to udnerstand😂 Sure, you should do what works best, but the workload is still so unevenly distributed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 08:48 PM
49

Is sex still a must if the man does not want it?🤔🤔 I can only speculate on this man's opinion about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 02:18 PM
78

Oh yes, I remember being still a younger teenager when we watched the movie and cringed at it. Suddenly BDSM was so trendy. And somehow the movie was always protrayed/advertised as this romance-fantasy FOR WOMEN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 02:15 PM
20

Yah, sure, because throughout history women never worked 🙄 Truth is the course of society was always ruled by a few wealthy men (and sometimes women). Truth is, throughout most of history "the winner takes it all" applied and men created a system in which they themselves are mostly powerless, thus have to compete for the power with other men. Meanwhile the backbone of society who built everything, put ideas into practice and who made the world work every single day- includes women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 11:57 AM
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This is the US right? You guys are unfortunately still so far behind in some areas like the social state and worker's rights. In my country, you HAVE to allow a woman maternity leave (and there is an equaivalent for fathers too, because well, manybe he should not leave his wife completly alone with a newborn). In physically demanding jobs women aren't allowed to work from a certain point onwards, and then have to take paid leave. I find thing like these to be the bare minimum a modern state has …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:46 AM
4

That is awful, she should reaaaaally watch more porn to meet her needs! I tell you she'd go mad if I tell her that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:24 AM
22

True. It is also because of being used to cum with "death grip" and being to lazy for sex because watching porn is less effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:22 AM
45

Men do not "hit on us", they harass us. No one should entertain harassment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:01 PM
93

Well then I hope they watch much gay porn with hot Adonises who have 20 cm d*cks. Equality, guys!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:47 PM
2

But they are also groomed by society to fall for predators. Many of them are teens and still imressionable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:06 PM
26

Also do not forget that plan B does not work after ovulation anymore. If you get pregnant in the second half of your cycle and do not want to be, you have to abort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:40 PM
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So does her husband still watch porn after she "stepped up her game" or did he actually try to hide it better now? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:34 PM
10

Lmao, I figured out it was a common myth amongst children.😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:26 PM
1

Yes, it is truly odd. I might yell or cry when angry depending on the person and situation. Or I try to leave the situation as fast as I can to cry and rage alone and later come back to talk in a neutral manner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:23 PM
25

Men will also be out there calling themselves "daddy" at 21 when they try to hit on 19 and 20-year olds.....and somehow they don't think it is embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:12 PM
2

Omg, I worked in retail too and right at the very beginning of this job, my coworker told me the story of a lady who shat in a dressing room and when confronted tried to deny it! I've never heard of something ridiculous like that before. And you are right, it seems planned. It is not like this stress reaction where you feel your guts acting crazy and then excuse yourself and go to the restroom like it's a secret.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:08 PM
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I was first catcalled at 12. Such an awfully ridiculous feeling. I thought at the time, maybe they find me attractive, but ohhh boy if they knew my age. Grew a few years wiser and came to understand that of course they knew. 11 or 12 are the ages where kids start to be out alone more and longer, without parents. We start having afternoon courses at school and go to the bakery nearby to grab lunch by ourself our with our friends who are just as young. After school and on weekends, we start meetin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:59 PM
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Yes girl! Tbh, I have the feeling that this whole "women age like milk" narrative is so stuck in our heads that we do not even know how women of a certain age look anymore. Society portrays 40-year old women to be old and wrinkly, not so different from 60-year olds, when this is just not the case. It could be my own bias, but I have witnessed so many times, that I and others find out a woman's age and we are stunned that she looks so young. It happens so often. Makes me believe that women that a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:26 PM
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Yes definetly. Too many are pedophiles. If they do not go for outright prepubescent children, they go for pubescent girls who barley grew 2 cm of tits. They also think it is fine to sexulize underage teenagers who already have an adult women body-structure. Because apparently only looks matter, not the mental state. This reminds me of this one time at my old work place (all women) where we got home from our evening shift at 7.30 pm and our manager had to scare away a bunch of drunk 30+ men who t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:09 PM
7

Bu....bu.....but, it is cotton, not plastic. I save the environment! I am such a good person, how can you try to burn a good person like meeee!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:39 PM
7

Idk, the best response would be to slap them in their face and say: "You talk so dumb, you were asking for it".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:36 PM
3

Why looking forward? Strive for it now! Adopt two fur babies and live your great single life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:27 PM
2

Ew. First I thought it was uneasy guts due to anxiety/panic attacks, because that happend to me in the past. But your examples really are something else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:49 PM
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She totally shows how not fine she is- these are laughs of frustration not of fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:31 PM
21

Does she really want to be with a man who is one of the two: 1) So dumb and ignorant, he cannot even fathom that of course someone refills the pepper grinder. 2) So malicious, he plays dumb in order to put the work on other people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:26 PM
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They did not find a boyfriend either, so what does their standards-talk even mean? Does she want a fuckmate or a boyfriend? If it is the latter she has to run at the words "no stings attached". He is not worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:14 PM
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Exactly sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 07:42 PM
143

Well, projection. They are full of themselves, so they think everyone else is just like they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 07:39 PM
47

How can people call you trash? He wants a baby NOW but you do not. You do not fit together anymore. Good that you left. Do those people who called you names want you to be a resentful mother? Good that you know what you all want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:20 PM
4

If they were just a tiny bit less lazy and useless, they'd fight with each other and would argue who is better/more useful to her because they'd be jelous and afraid she'd like the one more who is providing more. They are basically like uni-roommates who like to have sex with each other, this does not seem like a relationship dynamic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:54 PM
9

Which would basically make her and the older partner a family with their son that mommy-bang-maid also fucks.....ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:50 PM
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How are they not ashamed ?! How do they act like they do not know they are in a business setting? How can they just not care? We really do have to report every case like this. They should get expelled and go to jail. At least pay damages to the victims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:30 PM
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Because did you not know it is their birth right to burden women with children they did not want in order to shame them if the woman dares to aks the man to pull his weight! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:15 PM
10

I just hope it helps some boys get scared of trying shit like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:08 PM
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I just meant it is men who enjoy watching violence, also of other men. But obviously especially of women, unfortunately. And yes, I agree, if it were us women watching it, they'd throw a fit. Somehow it is fine for them to be aggressive and violent but we women must always be on our best behaviour. I am sorry, I drifted a bit to far away into another topic and away from this comment thread.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:00 PM
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Omg, is this system THAT awful?! I cannot believe it. I'm so sorry for all these poor children. Neglected kids by imposed misogyny. But I really cannot fully believe that you'd actually give advice like this. Seems soo odd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 11:39 AM
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Exactly! I think in my country such a woman could go to jail as a compliance, which is exactly what she is. Same for this sick father. Both the parents excused their son's crime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 11:33 AM
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Creepy enough that she just takes pics of him and sees nothing wrong if he did the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 09:20 AM
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Remember,you can't judge the whole relationship by this one thing! Which is true, this makes it even more outstanding that one single thing can literally ruin a relationship and be a dealbreaker. That a person can do one thing (along with many other red flags that have been ignored) to be a complete asshole. If it wasn't like this, you wouldn't post on reddit adivce subs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:16 PM
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Um....it does not matter if someone knows women who like that. If one woman doesn't plus she says that then it is violent to continue. Also it is common sense that you have to ask consent and talk about any act that is not the most basic of the basics, or else ot is rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:17 PM
33

Someone come and get him.... ....and he was not even dancing like a stripper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:23 PM
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He hit the ewww spot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:22 PM
22

So what does he want? For his son to be a doormat?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:53 PM
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He should try being afraid to be murdered and raped, if he does this, planning suddenly does not seem like as big of chore anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:38 PM
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I wonder which idiot finds such a prank funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 05:10 PM
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And you see how smart that is? People often set their age range preference at round numbers. That means as a man over 40, he still goes through young women's filters, who have their preferences set on "until 40". So yeah, keep reporting such catfishes. And set you preferences on unusual nubers like 24, 27, 38, 43.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 12:23 PM
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