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| 1 | 14 year old Parker stands up to his abusive Mom, free to go home with dad.I'm one year late but this bitch is creepy as fuck, my stepmom was a similar kind of manipulative and seeing her tricks just turns my stomach | /r/PussyPassDenied | 19/08/23 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Episode infinity on "Men Who Tell On Themselves"Fuck off lol this comment is five months old, you can't even respect a space exclusively for women on a site filled with men. That tells me all I need to know about what you think of women and boundaries. You're not worth my time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/22 11:47 PM |
| 21 | Feelings of loneliness is realI know in Japan they actually have host clubs, specifically to fill the need you're describing. They have the opposite for men too. The society they live in plus the overabundance of lv men has made it kind of a lonely culture. The birth rate seems to agree, anyway... I live in an area of the US that could be described like Seattle Freeze but maybe not so severe, it is lonely though, hard to connect with people, and I've even tried self help to improve my odds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/22 12:10 AM |
| 69 | Let's Talk About OralIf a guy doesn't want to give oral then what's the point of him being involved? I can get a better orgasm in way less time on my own. They're really not as good at giving orgasms with their dicks as they think they are, I feel like them believing they can is a lie by porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/22 09:42 AM |
| 171 | Old men and their entitlement to young women (specifically their wombs) are poisoning the dating market for professional women in their twenties.Whenever the whole 'it's legal' thing comes up with an age gap where the man is almost 30 or even past and the girl is super young I bring up that people under the age of 25 are still developing their brains and are more likely to make decisions based on emotions than logic and reason, that this is backed by science, I get a bunch of downvotes but no replies. Now why wouldn't Reddit care about science? Unless... if it's not in their best interest...! Shocker. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/22 05:05 AM |
| 445 | All those men that you've made a first move on in the past never wanted you.They don't find it attractive. I tried following mainstream Reddit's advice (you only have to do that once to learn your lesson), to try being more forward with men. Got shot down every time and even thought of as 'creepy' in one case. I'm glad I just gave up, I realize I could have been used if I had succeeded. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 05:29 AM |
| 15 | Living With MenIt goes hand in hand with strategic incompetence, you know that thing they do where they act like bumbling idiots so you don't ask them to do the thing again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/22 07:53 AM |
| 3 | The amount of pickmes on reddit is too highTwo years ago the trash sub associated with drama actually did something useful for once and decided to ban everyone who posted more than a couple of times in the teenagers sub using a bot. The kicker was the ban message simply said "Underage". Now this is actually brilliant bait, which is why it's surprising that it came from that subreddit of all places. People love being right on the internet. Of course if the ban message simply says "underage" and makes no mention that it was because they po… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/22 07:42 AM |
| 56 | Never EVER take or send nudes. This poor woman had then used against her 12 years ago and then spread around town recently by her neighbor who got access to her case. The post was made by the woman's husband.In a thread related to this once I said "men think that nudes are their personal property, free to use and distribute as they please" and boy I got all kinds of flavored responses from people agreeing with me to trying to twist it so their logic works so they don't have to feel bad. So I just kept replying "Okay if she was okay with it at the time then ask her if she's still okay with you using her nudes," and of course the conversation drops dead after that, when you lay it in their lap like th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/22 04:15 AM |
| 39 | And I guarantee you men still won’t take the initiative for birth control, and put the onus on us.Men are absolute pussies, have you ever seen the vids of them wearing the cramps/birthing simulator thingy? The women barely react and the men are doubled over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 11:13 PM |
| 38 | Geriatric 65 yr old scrote is telling people that I led him on…Tell everyone the arrangement was that you paid for his gas AND premium in exchange. Let him look like the perverted old fool trying to take advantage of someone who needed help like he is. Gross. Guys are delusional, like literally living in their own fake porn world where they think women exist to be seduced. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 05:37 AM |
| 6 | The Scrotation PlaylistI want to mention the opposite, the song 'Take a Hint' from the show Victorious on Nick TV. I was watching Quinton's video on the show and this song is the only song from the show other than the intro that is actually good. "You asked me what my sign is and I told you it was STOP 🛑" 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 10:43 PM |
| 6 | Spotted one in the wild.Male animals perform in various creative ways to earn their mates in nature, from movements to colors. Dress up and dance for me motherfucker 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 12:51 AM |
| 38 | Forever Girlfriend finds out her baby daddy isn’t going to marry her. This is why we need FDS.Time to break up and fuck him with child support payments then lol, boys need to learn they can't just pump and dump or leech while providing zero security for the woman who gave birth to their kid or kids WHILE having the audacity to have a foot out the door. Women can't fucking do that, it's way more stigmatized for a woman to abandon her children. With men it's another Tuesday. It's so normalized that guys just don't even care, they openly admit it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 12:35 AM |
| 3 | Tips on how to protect yourself in every day life?Idk about anyone else but I carry pocket sand 😂 nobody expects pocket sand. Sh-sh-sha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 12:27 AM |
| 1 | lvm approached me and I made a disgusted face at himI'll repeat myself since you didn't get the point: since when is it good advice to put yourself at harm's way to be humiliating or confrontational with a man that might react violently? My 'internalized misogyny' is fine, thanks. I'm going to call out shit advice that directly puts women in danger. We do not benefit from being confrontational with men in person, especially men we do not know, who didn't do anything except look at you. Again since he was going to say something, I already gave a b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 09:42 PM |
| 38 | lvm approached me and I made a disgusted face at himThis post is definitely gonna end up getting a lot of upvotes on the anti-FDS. I would go as far as to say we should say this is a clown take and downvote. Yeah it depends on how a guy approaches me. In this case if I noticed a guy was going to shoot his shot and he looked like OP described I probably would have said "I'm good, buddy," with my hand up and a 'polite' (not reaching the eyes) smile with a short nod and body language to indicate a closure of the interaction. Like... since when is it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 12:52 PM |
| 58 | this is why I will never settle for less until I meet someone who loves me and respects our relationship like thisYou know I was always told relationships are work too. I really hate work so it's no wonder I haven't settled 💅 The most work I wanna do is my job that at least pays me money thanks lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 08:55 AM |
| 6 | The whole unmitigated audacity of this scrote. 🤢 I am so glad sis leveled up, adjusted her crown and LEFT.It's a bold strategy Cotton, let's see if it pays off. No but how? How did he think that could possibly work? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/22 08:01 PM |
| 60 | Reminder to also vet your female roommates!I just thought about how my stepmom used to bring all sorts of strange people over. I think fellow drug addicts and people she was cheating on my dad with. One of her weird friends was a registered sex offender and he ended up going through my underwear drawer when I was a preteen. It's a miracle I was never a victim of SA, I honestly put that down to my grandparents praying for my safety and being active to keep me safe. They told me later that they came around so often because they worried abo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 03:34 AM |
| 18 | Makeup Give UpI just paint my nails now, it's all about doing what makes you feel nice 💅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 10:13 PM |
| 6 | How do I avoid men coming up to me?I find that looking uninterested and serious has mostly worked for me. I interact with men cordially but short. Imma be honest though me looking uninterested and serious is probably just my depression lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 10:43 PM |
| 47 | This is one of the most horrific stories I have ever seen on Reddit. Thank god she is getting out. How is there not protections for young women like this.She doesn't even know she's living in a waking nightmare. That's what happens when you are SO abused, your brain protects you by putting you in blinders. She is and was basically in a survival mode and is only now seeing after it's cracked and broken by everyone on Reddit explaining what is happening to her. Fuck I feel bad for her now but I'm going to feel worse for her when she realizes the true weight of everything she has been dealing with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 05:19 AM |
| 14 | You won't give your wife the assurance/insurance she needs to know that she will not financially suffer for having a child with you but you will still TaKe CaRe Of YoUr ChILd. The audacity. 🤡"What do you mean porn lied to me???" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 09:52 PM |
| 44 | Wholesome❤️What a fucking horrible family, what do you mean not family anymore? This child is their family member's kid! How can they be so heartless? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 02:20 AM |
| 42 | She did that! A woman can’t even run a business without a scrote having the audacity. She cleared his ass and I know his ego was deflated.My first and only commission as a graphic artist was an older man trying to get into my pants. I already deal with depression, but for some reason this experience kind of made me lose any passion I had left for wanting to do art for others. And once I realized I no longer wanted to do art for other people to see, art became meaningless to me entirely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 05:34 AM |
| 127 | This Woman Dated a Man for 2 Years Without Ever Meeting His Family, Friends, or Seeing His HomeLol same looking for updates tomorrow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 11:58 PM |
| 3 | Swipe. Man goes on 63 dates, does not use FDS tactics, still single. Huh...Probably wants a 'partner coach' to help him in his sobriety? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 04:25 AM |
| 8 | Financially abusive Scrote strings along his 4.5 year live-in girlfriend, finally "gets engaged", yet cries when he finds out that he wasn't entitled to ALL of her money after all, etc. Next, he pitches it to the audience about whether he should take the money, then dump her any way.Came here to say this thank you, green username | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 03:57 AM |
| 78 | Woman quits job to breastfeed boyfriend "full time", what in pickme hell?It's all you really need to know 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 04:36 AM |
| 200 | Woman quits job to breastfeed boyfriend "full time", what in pickme hell?No where does it mention that she's getting paid for this lmao "Mulford said she believes adult breastfeeding will create a “magical bond” between them, and Leeson, meanwhile, hopes nursing will give his body health benefits." wtffff 😂😂😂 magical bond | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 03:10 AM |
| 339 | Women who implement FDS are "groomed, hot, successful, with standards", says FDS-hating manreeeeeeeee literal misandryyy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 01:26 AM |
| 19 | Never go backThe only family member to seemingly notice the warning signs and call to an online forum for help and she's barely an adult, 18. She must be confused as shit. Probably doesn't know what to think, suicide or murder, her sister is now just gone. The Klonopin comment got to me. This is so sad if it isn't fiction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 10:38 PM |
| 21 | I'd leave. Straight up would not make it down that aisle if my man was dressed like thisTo be fair I think it would be pretty hard to find a tux with as much embellishment and work put into it as a wedding dress. But the guy can at least have the thought to find a nice quality, well-fitting tux that doesn't make him look like a jackass next to his bride. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 09:13 AM |
| 54 | Ladies please be careful about who you have children with. She is pregnant but he is trying to dictate how she gives birth… also he doesn’t know about the umbilical cord? 🥴Go to the store, buy a large-ish grapefruit. Come home, hand it to him and tell him to completely shove it up inside his asshole. When he responds in confusion tell him if he can't manage to shove the grapefruit up his ass then he doesn't get to complain about the method of birth for his child. Then break up with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 04:46 AM |
| 6 | Heartbreaking. Wife wants to spend time with lv hubby v-day weekend, gets ignored. He admits he’s trash but doesn’t want her with another man"I don't have feelings for my wife anymore but I don't want a divorce because I like the stuff she does for me." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 04:31 AM |
| 20 | I thought they always said cat ladies were gonna die alone.Bro how do you die alone if you have cats, that is a contradiction | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 04:24 AM |
| 67 | Incel saying the quiet part out loud: we’re not people to them.More like their penises are parasitically attached to them considering they think with their dicks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 01:37 AM |
| 3 | I don’t understand why men are so cruel. Rant.Men cannot take even a fraction of the bullshit we put up with from them honestly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 05:50 PM |
| 199 | Juxtaposition, Screencapped by me, Digital, 2022Screencapped this earlier right before I had to work lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 11:20 AM |
| 68 | When your 11 year old son starts watching violent and degrading rape porn all you gotta do is let him know that it's totally not a guidebook nor an okay portrayal of women!If I had an eleven year old looking at violent porn he wouldn't be in the same ROOM as a computer screen for a year if it's not school-related. Console games only, no computer for funsies, no phone with internet access. A young boy doesn't need to know the specifics of sex, but only to learn to understand that you have to respect and listen to the person you love if you want them to love you back. But how do you help a child to unlearn what damage he did by watching what he did? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 09:47 AM |
| 11 | I’ve seen so many of these, the entitlement is real. No one wants to be your live in bang maid, especially not for FREE!! They’re hoping to take advantage of a woman in need, forget that women can room with eachother without the expectation of chores and sex. We don’t need men like thisFucking disgusting porn rotted brains. Trying to make a situation like this.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 12:15 AM |
| 67 | On what men do with nudes of their exes, majority responds “they are mine to do what I want with.” This is the entitlement they feel towards our bodies. LADIES DO NOT SEND NUDES EVER do not even watermark as those can be removed with photoshopI made a comment along the lines of what the title says on a thread about a guy whose girlfriend caught him jerking off to his ex's nudes. "For some reason men seem to think of these pictures as their own possession, free to use and distribute as they please." The replies I got trying to rationalize or wave it off were strong. One guy even went full "If you don't want naked photos out there, don't fucking give them to people. We've got more important moral problems to deal with." Guys: if you do… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 10:29 AM |
| 51 | this woman is a “love coach” she’s literally paid to say shit like this and scrotes are all over this shit 🤣"Men are tired of women with masculine energy" Ok. And I care.... Why......? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 01:44 AM |
| 109 | Episode infinity on "Men Who Tell On Themselves"I mean, the middle east and surrounding areas are not well-known for having men that treat women like humans.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 01:40 AM |
| 46 | TW: r*pe very triggering, I almost logged off of the internet after reading this but I decided to post here so we can all seeI replied STOP to that message. You have to get at least one to be able to say you don't want anymore. I don't get how they think it's an insult, I literally looked at it in my inbox and was like lol k. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 06:23 AM |
| 4 | TW: r*pe very triggering, I almost logged off of the internet after reading this but I decided to post here so we can all seeHey fuck this guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 06:21 AM |
| 11 | Why am I doing things to make myself more attractive when at the end of the day, men are still going to look at other women anyway?Keeping up an appearance doesn't have to be exhausting, it can be self care. OP, you do what makes you happy. I like wearing pretty earrings, ornate and cute, because I dislike putting a lot of effort into my appearance. I still get lots of compliments and I don't even wear makeup. I like my earrings because they make me feel cute. I paint my nails even though they're short because I have fun with it. If you're not having a good time with keeping it up then you should take an honest look at your… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 03:11 AM |
| 45 | LVM f*cked around, found out.It's just so refreshing to see sanity from a scrote's family | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 01:36 PM |
| 95 | LVM f*cked around, found out.You know what? Good on that brother for feeling out OP's shit and involving their mom and also telling him he deserved it, cause now his family knows he's a POS and can keep an eye out on any future relationships he has. And go Mom for not siding with OP and letting his (now ex) gf know about these toxic thoughts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 10:54 AM |
| 16 | I love heromg she better send the brother the thread so he knows how much of a clown he and his ilk are | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 05:00 AM |
| 135 | Spotted this ad under "housing" on craigslist 😬The fact these guys can't keep their dicks to themselves makes them seem like animals. Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 02:19 AM |
| 3 | He accused me of being a “gold digger” and threatened to end the relationship after me not wanting to put out on date #5. It backfired. How grey rocking can protect you!!!Got the idea from Dale Gribble in KotH to use pocket sand ("Sh-sh-sha!"). It's simply a small plastic Ziploc filled with sand that I keep in a small drawstring bag which I also use as a coin purse. The reason I decided to though was because of an encounter on the playground as a kinder. I threw playground pebbles in the face of an older boy and even though he wore glasses, he still was incapacitated and rubbing at his eyes. As bad as I felt about it (the punishment didn't warrant the crime, he w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 02:45 PM |
| 17 | FDSers who are waiting for marriage to have sex or have sex later in committed relationships, have you found that HVM (even non-religious) are willing to wait?I'm stunned he waited 5 years if he was that LV, was she doing other wifey shit or something? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 05:28 AM |
| 90 | 4 months and she realized she was a placeholder when he had to show basic effort. That's why vetting is important.My bullshit meter is going off. Not attempting any sort of contact on her birthday or even to make up for it, but liking her birthday post. They do this shit to mess with your head, it's nuts. Either trying to get her to break up or taking personal satisfaction in confusing her in a dominance sort of way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 04:26 AM |
| 90 | 4 months and she realized she was a placeholder when he had to show basic effort. That's why vetting is important.I still have the high quality plush owl my high school bf got me for my birthday or valentines, I can't remember which for some reason. We ended things relatively fast and remained friends, that owl is still something I love a lot because it's really cute | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 12:43 AM |
| 53 | One thing these scrotes gonna do is drop their masks. Their real intentions show when they feel they have trapped their wives. Girl run!I believe he'll use this kid to control and spite her even when they're not together if she ends up giving birth. It will be literal hell to deal with him and his family. I hope she goes through with an abortion, I'm honestly so sad for her. Like even if she did have the baby and just gave the child to him and his family, I feel like that's another cruelty in itself for the kid... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 02:48 AM |
| 8 | One thing these scrotes gonna do is drop their masks. Their real intentions show when they feel they have trapped their wives. Girl run!Holy shit how useless are you dude? Wahhh go cry to mommy and daddy because she got mad that you were being an abusive asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 02:39 AM |
| 37 | He accused me of being a “gold digger” and threatened to end the relationship after me not wanting to put out on date #5. It backfired. How grey rocking can protect you!!!Yeah even a woman who trains like hell weightlifting can be beaten by an average guy in terms of strength. Women shouldn't underestimate this. I keep pepper gel (and pocket sand 😂), and I've gone over in my head how I might physically deal with different sizes of men. Ramming the bottom of your palm straight up under their nose is sure to give you a moment of disorientation to act, as they will probably be expecting a hit to their nuts instead. And everyone's nose is equally fragile 😈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 02:28 AM |
| 32 | He forgets about her bday and ignores her, but he (finally) surprises her! Is this a new rock bottom?The mental gymnastics this woman is trying to do to keep hoping would probably qualify her for the olympics | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 12:22 PM |
| 18 | Groom smashes bride’s face into cake & she rightfully is leaving himThe groom: I was going to come in here thinking he just did it and she had never said anything about the matter prior (still would be bad on his part, very fucking socially tonedeaf). Instead I come in here and see that she specifically told him not to and he did it anyway. I bet there might end up being at least one cross discussion from this post to one of the many 'make fun of FDS' subreddits about how she overreacted... Dudes. If you do something that she specifically says not to do and she … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 03:03 AM |
| 82 | Men are crying out that no one cares about their mental healthStop watching porn and playing video games all day so you can learn how to emotionally connect with another human being and maybe, just maybe, you guys can... support each other. The real men's mental health activism is the friends they've made along the way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 11:19 AM |
| 73 | The bar is in hell.Grifting only makes sense if the man/woman has expensive taste or something... These guys think having to pay for a date to Applebee's is gold digging. 😂 How would the grift even be worth it? I knew a guy who rented out a local cafe (like an upscale/nice one with a foodie menu) for his girlfriend for her birthday for the night. DUDE WAS A COLLEGE STUDENT, not like a super rich mf or something. If they love the fuck out of you/admire you they'll go to LENGTHS to show and keep your attention. That… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Awful everything 😩 same grooming, different scroteOP of that post, wtf she's a minor, you document/report to the authorities asap | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 05:19 AM |
| 25 | Men are threatened by EVERYTHING. Why??Penis size and inferiority complex appear to have a 1:1 direct correlation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 01:42 AM |
| 68 | The things I had to freaking hear.I'm 26, dated a 27 year old when I was 19. I would NEVER date a 19 year old, I cannot begin to tell you how much you change as a person between hell, 18 and 23, and beyond. You change a ton in your 20s. When I look at 18, 19 year olds, yall are just adorable in like an 'I want to mentor you' kind of way. It would feel like I was taking advantage. The age gap isn't such a whiplash the older you get. These guys ALWAYS argue legality, "It's legal, that's all there needs to be said about it," some d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 05:47 AM |
| 3 | I only read female-dominated subreddits now"I have money give me sex" video game transaction lol 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 04:07 AM |
| 35 | I only read female-dominated subreddits nowTop reply to a comment on a ask reddit thread asking if you'd give up alcohol/drugs for life in exchange for a billion dollars: "you could hire a ten grand hooker every night". 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 11:37 PM |
| 87 | Men tell on themselves the second you refuse to settleAlso, don’t tell the guy you have a rape alarm or pepper spray because the first guy who assaulted me found out and he got really mad about it I am in no way blaming you for what happened, God I'm sorry, but I want to point out this red flag for others too. Men know men better than women. A guy shouldn't get mad about you trying to protect yourself, because he should know how bad men can get, and they know the physical power difference between men and women. Even women who train like hell weight… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 04:55 AM |
| 94 | Men tell on themselves the second you refuse to settleAnd then they're confused and angry when the sites become filled with bots. Um, what woman on Earth would want to go through message after message of desperate guys who want a quick fuck? They went from dating apps to hookup apps for these dudes. Like fuck off lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 04:50 AM |
| 7 | I know there are creative types here. Shall we use this as a writing prompt?I HATE harems, I have even in my most pickme days lmao. I remember watching Familiar of Zero as a teen and being so pissed off when I'm x episodes in and the harem becomes obvious... felt like such a waste of time lmao. I hate it for the obvious pandering to men now, but at the time and still I hate harems because I find love triangle/angst/bullshit to be so annoying to read, I'm not invested in which girl ends up with the bland guy! My taste in anime has also improved since then haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 01:58 AM |
| 18 | I know there are creative types here. Shall we use this as a writing prompt?Male authors absolutely do write female characters differently, at least enough for me to absolutely notice. I'm playing VA-11 Hall-A Cyberpunk Bartender Action at the moment, I've finished multiple endings, it's a good game for the most part but SHIT it is so obvious that the writer is a dude. I'm not even going to look it up, I know it is, I'll bet both of my tits. There's a loli android character who never upgraded to an adult appearance that is like super sexual and is openly proud about her… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 12:48 AM |
| 67 | This sh*t right here!!Lol fucking this, having sex isn't like swapping a hug or a handshake you fucking Neanderthals. They admitting they have bro sex with their friends then? 😂 Such bullshit. They literally will say fucking anything to avoid accountability even if the things they are saying are so goddamn dumb that they make no sense. They would rather look like morons, anything to get you to stop 'nagging' them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 02:07 AM |
| 8 | Tell the world you abuse women without telling the world you abuse women 🤫🤭Also finally, millions of women won't have to feel obligated to have sex over being nagged anymore if this ever happens to you actually tho gtfo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 07:37 AM |
| 8 | Tell the world you abuse women without telling the world you abuse women 🤫🤭This reads in a similar feel as a copypasta 😂 My dude, go and get your robot pussy, your incel barrier is working | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 07:34 AM |
| 194 | Men that push for 50/50 still don’t realize that dating has become a ladies’ market in 2021, with Tinder being 78% male / 22% female and Bumble & Hinge being 65% male / 35% female. Men outnumber women 4-to-1 on Tinder and 3-to-1 on Bumble/Hinge.They are all about 'alpha' shit in nature which isn't even really true in wolves, but don't want to recognize THIS particular fact of nature lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 08:52 AM |
| 17 | Yep, just about what I expected 😡Men would parade their assholes for money on OF if they could make two dollars. Any girl who actually wants to be on OF is being lied to about the amount of money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 10:18 PM |
| 15 | Yep, just about what I expected 😡Is he alive still? Dude was incinerated 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 10:16 PM |
| 15 | I thought for a long time that my male friends were actual friends, but everyone of them ended up trying (aggressively) to get me to sleep with them. So it's a NO for me.My friend from college is married and has a baby girl with his wife. He helped me build my PC (I bought the parts) and sell some of my stuff on his ebay shop without wanting anything in return, and that's because we've just been good friends. We don't talk too often but we're all cool with each other, his wife is lovely. Conclusion is: it is possible, in very specific situations, with the right person. He's the first HVM I've met. If we believe in HVM, should we not also believe that these men a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 08:52 AM |
| 26 | Dunning-Kruger.Waterboarding in Guantanamo Bay sounds awesome if you don't know what either of those things are | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 09:58 PM |
| 6 | Just saw a post about someone tricking a woman into a date…It's just so fucking disrespectful! That was the first commission anyone had ever offered me, and it really crushed my spirit for a while. We deserve to be treated like the professionals we are, dammit. The Activision Blizzard controversy really pissed me off, that shit is like an incel's dream workplace. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 09:25 AM |
| 27 | Just saw a post about someone tricking a woman into a date…I got offered a commission by a guy who wanted album art done. It wasnt a real offer, when we got to the coffee shop and afterward it was obvious that his motives were different than what he tried to make it out as. I was so pissed I got tricked into a coffee date. These guys think if they can get some of our time that their gReAT PeRSonAliTY will win over and change our minds. Um sorry dude, not able to look over the fact that you're in your 40's, fat, ugly, working as a dishwasher and in an un… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 08:26 PM |
| 15 | My HVM was actually just a golddiggerYikes, that's just embarrassing.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 04:45 AM |
| 26 | My HVM was actually just a golddiggerLet me know how the breakup goes, I'm a filthy tea-sipper and I wanna know what his reaction is, was it a surprise pikachu face or did he get mad? I'm sorry he turned out to be a hobosexual. You should go treat yourself instead! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 02:43 AM |
| 12 | This had me howling!! 🎶Leave us alone, please leave us alone 🎶..They always get sexual when it gets late in the day, don't even bother texting a man very late, they pretty much only want to booty call and this guy is just outing himself lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 02:35 AM |
| 60 | The bar is in Hades. When will we stop glorifying terrible men?Paul Rudd is People's Sexiest Man Alive for 2021, and he claimed his wife was "stupefied." (LOL wonder why). I mean sure he's not as bad as these guys but "sexiest man alive" (he's in his 50s now) is a pretty optimistic claim. Everyone wants to push these men who aren't actually attractive or who are just above average at best, it's weird. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 02:27 AM |
| 28 | Avoidantly attached men like to pretend securely or anxiously attached women are “needy” when avoidants are actually very, VERY needy.As an avoidant attachment person, no, I can't imagine expecting anyone to put up with me, that just wouldn't be fair. That being said, I couldn't tell you how recovery works when the issue of trust is the inherent problem (I think?). At least, for as much as I've analyzed myself, the problems come from being repeatedly abandoned/tossed around as a kid, as well as a predatory relationship that happened when I was 19 and he was 28 and I got pushed into doing things I wasn't ready for. My main prio… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 04:22 AM |
| 20 | I have no wordsI'm surprised she kept it together the whole trip, he didn't really deserve that kindness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 07:27 AM |
| 9 | Wife discovers that her 30 yo husband was planning to leave her after finally graduating from college "because he wouldn't need her anymore". Another reason to not settle for men who are struggling.And you somehow just know how much of a whiny bitch he would be if either of THEM cheated on him lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 11:51 PM |
| 11 | Wife discovers that her 30 yo husband was planning to leave her after finally graduating from college "because he wouldn't need her anymore". Another reason to not settle for men who are struggling.That guy is a fucking sociopath. How do you USE someone who you know LOVES YOU to get through school, tell them to their FACE that the fling was because they were bored with school (lets face it, he says 'bored with school' but you know he feels the same way about her). He was annoyed with her bothering him over her medical issues because it revealed his lying. How can someone treat another human like this? I feel so bad and disgusted for her that I want to give her a hug. Fuck this guy, I hope … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 11:50 PM |
| 3 | This is why FDS recommends snooping. Be very ruthless with your vetting process! You never know how deprived some men can bey'all (coomers) need Jesus | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 06:54 AM |
| 9 | Man hides 14 y/o daughter from fiancé for the entire duration of the relationship. Either he was trying to have two separate families ,or he was trying to trap her into supporting the daughter. Something malicious is at play.See, my ex lied about shit that didn't even matter, like how he started smoking again. I felt more insulted that he tried to hide it from me, like a child that wet the sheets. I would probably be nuclear if my partner lied about HAVING a child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 11:36 AM |
| 3 | The Guide to Being Approved (ie, Getting a Flair)Thanks for this! I'm thinking about making a new account. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 11:09 PM |
| 3 | Scrote harasses a 21 year old girl and people in the comments are blaming HER for not “shutting him down”…"Hey sir I have some pepper spray, would you mind if I try it out on you? No? Bugger off then." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 08:26 PM |
| 86 | When having boundaries makes you “insecure”The perfect man to ever look toward in the bible is Jesus. Women in the bible respected him genuinely because he treated them like people. Take the woman at the well for example, she was there alone, and Jesus just walked up and asked for water and talked with her. From what I've learned, it was very looked down upon for a Rabbi to be alone talking to a woman, especially a Palestinian woman, but he proceeded to talk to her without judgment of her relations. This has an even further layer of subt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 05:57 AM |
| 235 | She asked her partner of 6 years out on their first date. He confessed to her that he was unattracted to her for 2 yearsI think it's a thing of psychology, but I learned that there are many people who are doing something/are a certain way that they know is wrong, and they feel guilt, so they'll tell the truth... but in a tricky kind of way. One example is "I don't know why you're friends with me, I'm such an asshole/bitch". It is something that one might say to alleviate their self-guilt with the idea that they 'warned' the other person, so them sticking around is fair game. So if someone tells you how it is, bes… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 03:53 AM |
| 31 | Another series of men projecting Ep. 124842: Women using men for free foodWhen I worked at a university cafeteria during peak covid, guys would stuff their pockets with bottled drinks because we didn't have a limit if you had a meal plan. That's just how some men think, they come up with strategies to 'cheat the system' so they expect women to be the same way, even though it's just so childish. Lemme tell you, I never saw a woman stuffing her bag full of drinks when I worked there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 09:21 PM |
| 15 | Evidence A: Don’t spare these fools any sympathy or play Bob the Builder and take chances on a cheater! They will always throw it back in your face. These men will use you as a stepping stone whilst broke & promise you the world only to cheat on you with younger women when they hit bigWow her family fucking sucks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 04:31 AM |
| 18 | Congrats scrotes! Your screeching into the void and constant harrassment of FDS and its members has continued to propel us to the front page!Yeah I find having a throwaway account to be a pain so I just avoid giving too much personal info and remove the exif data off any photos I upload, along with turning off dms. I get it though. Just the way they were implying was like our numbers are way off because of all the throwaways 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 09:04 PM |
| 10 | Congrats scrotes! Your screeching into the void and constant harrassment of FDS and its members has continued to propel us to the front page!Taking a look at the other discussions tab to see what whining we have here today, oh look, apparently FDS is full of throwaway accounts. Aight fam lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 08:11 PM |
| 8 | Pickmes are brain dead 😑The cognitive whiplash has me needing an ambulance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else notice this? How come men's convenience is put above womens health & comfort? If you're not making him wrap it then you're playing yourself.I'm taking klonopin twice a day at the lowest possible dose. This particular one takes longer to kick in but lasts longer, and is about the dose equivalent of 1mg of Ativan. She specializes in mental health and also has me on quetiapine 200mg which has helped tremendously. I did previously voice those same concerns, but she stated that there are many people in my situation who need to be on a low dose of benzos. What she does is basically clean up negligent doctor's messes. She's told me she's h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 11:51 PM |
| 80 | Attention Male Lurkers: You need to SHUT THE FUCK up about your online dating problemsAt worst, of course, it’s painful and traumatic. Ugh even worse is when they get off to our pain and discomfort... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 05:57 AM |
| 7 | Anyone else notice this? How come men's convenience is put above womens health & comfort? If you're not making him wrap it then you're playing yourself."D-don't fetish shame me!" they cry 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 03:00 AM |
| 36 | Anyone else notice this? How come men's convenience is put above womens health & comfort? If you're not making him wrap it then you're playing yourself.I mean seeing as how those dudes on tik tok trying the period cramping/labor simulator were ABSOLUTE babies... It's really funny how many guys think they're tougher than women just because they're physically stronger. My period cramps pre-birth control (I won the birth control lottery) were so horrible it felt like my uterus had been directly punched. And those are just periods, something nearly every woman in the world has to regularly go through. Needing painkillers is common, chocolate is no … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 04:33 AM |
| 12 | [deleted by user]Well that's the first time I've ever sent in an editorial complaint to a news website. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 02:30 AM |
| 18 | 😭😂 If you need any further motivation to delete those dating appsI changed the flair lol good idea | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 10:47 PM |
| 68 | 😭😂 If you need any further motivation to delete those dating appsShit you're right LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 09:10 PM |
| 212 | 😭😂 If you need any further motivation to delete those dating appsYeah even without FDS I would never invite a man I don't know to my house, I really don't get it. Some women really live a little too carefree and it's a bit baffling. I guess they don't watch true crime (true crime got me double checking my locks) 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 09:09 PM |
| 142 | 😭😂 If you need any further motivation to delete those dating appsThe man is committed enough to introduce her to his family, now that's a green flag that he isn't hiding a side chick /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 09:02 PM |
| 55 | i don’t know who james fell is, but i appreciate him (shared via The Female Lead) on instaAt my job I don't ever give a real smile to men because I don't want to give off any semblance of interest (I've had misunderstandings in the past, don't want to repeat), but if any man ever says this to me I'm just going to say, "I physically can't, it's a medical condition" and watch as they either get embarrassed and profusely apologize or realize I'm probably taking the piss with them but they're unable to do anything about it. 😂 I have had men tell me to smile more in other situations in th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 08:42 PM |
| 38 | Clearly an FDS lady in the wild, with a sparkly blue penWho the fuck else doesn't wipe until they can't see anything on the TP? I even use a baby wipe after and throw it in my garbage. I can't imagine being so filthy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 08:28 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Check-inThis guy kept saying my name in conversation when I was at my cashiering job today (we wear name tag), it kind of weirded me out, is this some tactic to make conversation feel more personal or something? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 03:35 AM |
| 11 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guySame thing happened to me with my ex boyfriend, except instead of being allergic to latex, he just said 'condoms'. I call bullshit, tell him non latex versions exist and he sheepishly falls apart and admits to lying. I hate liars, opportunistic shitheads. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 09:00 PM |
| 70 | And they wonder why we don’t even want to acknowledge them in public 🤦🏼♀️I work a grocery job so I have to be 'customer service' and I try my best to be polite to men but not too sweet so they don't take it wrong. Have actually had an incident where being my sweet self ended up being creeped on before, and the last thing I want is more awkwardness. Now I only use my true smile on women lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 12:49 AM |
| 11 | Only a man would come up with the idea for this dumb shit and then actually do it after being encouraged by other menI worked in a cafeteria for a place that had meal plans and during the start of the pandemic dudes would literally fill their pockets and bags with drinks, especially water, because we didn't have a drink limit. You can get a case of like 40 water bottles for a couple bucks lmao. They also did other dumb shit. Me and my coworker would just talk shiiit about dudes because too many acted like total couch creatures compared to the women we would see in our cafeteria. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 02:23 AM |
| 45 | To the guys lurking - stop shaming women with high standards.I feel scared for young girls/women because so many aren't aware of just how predatory men are. They want that fantasy of whatever their version of Prince Charming is, while the reality is a ton of guys are out there beating off to various shades of disgustingly abusive porn and are so low effort. I cringe that I dated a 27 year old when I was 19. He was such a piece of shit. I'm barely in my mid twenties and I worked around a bunch of 18/19/20 year olds, they're basically kids, even the mature … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 08:27 AM |
| 6 | I have no wordsEveryone has already said everything that needs to be said about this fucked situation, but can I mention a Diva Cup is like 30 bucks new? I know this cause I use one, and fuck I'd be pissed if my partner had the freaking AUDACITY to do something so selfish and abusive. She should save some money in the long term and divorce this clown. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 01:26 AM |
| 43 | I have no wordsWowee look at that age gap, I'm sure surprised /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 10:08 PM |
| 126 | Women protect women from harm. Men protect other men's ability to lie, cheat, and knowingly harm womenThat was the reaction of two of my coworkers when one of the other older coworkers was being creepy toward me and the other young women working there by pursuing them. The age gap alone was inappropriate, not to mention it was at work. He basically tricked me into going on a date with him at a coffee shop under the guise of it being a meeting to discuss album art he'd commissioned me for his band. He kept me conversationally hostage longer than I wanted, tried to invite me to go to a show with h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 08:41 PM |
| 8 | YepI know we here believe men are smarter than they let on about a lot of things, but y'know honestly in this case I think they're so stupid from porn that they don't understand the nuances of courtship anymore, hence why they mistake politeness for flirting. I had a super awkward experience from a way older coworker because I was just being friendly and he thought I was leading him on. I KNOW how to flirt and what I was doing was so far from that, I believe they are hopelessly stupid when they've … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 12:57 AM |
| 56 | Fantastic post over on popular womens' subreddit. But OP's edits demonstrate clearly why the FDS subreddit and its mods are so precious.It's cool to start seeing more and more women in the other subreddits putting their foot down. It's a slow process, but it's a start to telling men who have clearly never been told this in their entire lives: shut the FUCK up lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 09:20 PM |
| 14 | HVM right there. Take note scrotesLOL @ that other thread "Why Can't They Just Accept That They're Not Worthy of This Treatment?" Why can't you just accept that you're not worthy of our time? 😂 Imagine being triggered over a joke, why do men have to take things so seriously? They're so sensitive /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 08:29 PM |
| 12 | Thought this belonged here. Do you know the difference, lurkers? 🙃To me, sex will always be something that takes from me. Maybe I'm just too messed up to ever see it any other way, but the thought of someone touching me makes me want to puke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 09:40 PM |
| 51 | Once again, All of Reddit vs. FDSBRUH female incels don't exist, everyone here could get laid within an hour if we wanted. We just don't want you shitdicks lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 12:17 AM |
| 38 | Reddit admins and powermods having a staff meeting to discuss r/abortionAlso they spend upwards of thousands of dollars on custom made fursuits. Whatever makes you happy, I guess. I know not all of them are like this but I've also heard of pedos using furry culture to lure in victims. Here's a mirror video I watched years ago by someone who left the community entirely due to pedophilia and zoophilia being rampant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 10:37 PM |
| 4 | Popular Canadian brand targeting teens suggesting a prostitution site in their advertising email headline. Has pandering to the patriarchy gone too far?That's a super cute beach outfit. Not sure I'd wear something like that anywhere else though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 11:12 PM |
| 5 | I’m tired of men going “postal” and people accepting it as him just “having a bad day”When I worked in a kitchen we were allowed to go inside the freezers to vent because they were basically noise proofed. Sometimes I'd be so angry I'd scream and cry while punching boxes. Was it healthy? ....To be determined. I think it was healthier for me to quit the job entirely honestly. But it did feel pretty good to get blasted with cold air while I threw a private fit. I would never have done that in public, it was the idea of privacy that made me comfortable enough to vent like that. Work… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 08:28 AM |
| 9 | Ladies, ready to play MANSPLAINER BINGO?! New square suggestions welcome.echo chamberrrrr | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 07:56 AM |
| 5 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 12 - How FDS Can Help Autistic Queens Navigate RelationshipsI have a male autistic friend from grade school, he's like one of the most empathetic people I know. He reached out to me as an adult and told me he liked the fact that I didn't treat him any different from anyone else when we were kids. Sure he did weird stuff sometimes, but he also annoyed the shit out of me just like any other kid LOL. I always thought it was weird that people coddled him but would also be like "Just treat him like anyone else!" so I really did just treat him like anyone else… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 06:37 AM |
| 44 | I posted a video criticizing scrotes believing women hit a wall and got this comment, with a picture of him to match ☺️I wish I had the confidence of a below average middle aged man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 06:05 AM |
| 17 | Let's see how many of these we can come up with.. I'll go first. "He says he wants a woman to have long hair because it's feminine, meanwhile he's balding." 😂🙈Sorry to sideline but holy shit she could cosplay Chun Li, daammmmnnnnn those thighs tho, that's some amazing dedication to the gym. 😲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 10:48 PM |
| 3 | "bUt imAgINe bEiNg KiCKeD in tHe BallS" they saidI take Ashwagandha for anxiety/stress and I've come across some research and testimony from women going through menopause that it helps with relieving the symptoms. I can't vouch myself obviously but I try to throw it out there whenever I see someone going through menopause, maybe you'd wanna give it a shot. I take 'Gaia Herbs Ashwagandha Root' that I buy from Amazon. I mostly made my choice of brand from researching on reddit/other sites based on how it positively affected them. Anyway I don't … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Male students in Japan are so incompetent they’re allowed to pass high school entrance exams with up to 40% lower scores than girls.Yeah I notice my favorite characters are the ones who are kind and encouraging and selfless while experiencing strife. That tweet put it into words what I have been feeling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Do not read or entertain essays from low value menI turned off dms, it satisfies me to know it probably really fucking irritates them to know they can't force their unwanted opinion on me 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 06:25 AM |
| 3 | Porn is blatant abuseShit you don't even need to Google porn, just Google 'school boy' and 'school girl' in Google images separately. I know you know the difference already. Like come on, that's fucked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 06:20 AM |
| 8 | "bUt imAgINe bEiNg KiCKeD in tHe BallS" they saidShit I'm so glad I found a birth control that makes my cramps way less severe, all I need is an ibuprofen or two. It was debilitating when I was in HS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 06:18 AM |
| 27 | I love her so much!!!!Please tell me you pressed charges? Jesus | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 06:05 AM |
| 9 | Yup. Especially how creepy most of the men giving out compliments areWhenever I see Harold I just think of Internet Historian lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 11:23 PM |
| 18 | Yup. Especially how creepy most of the men giving out compliments areAn older man complimented my shirt yesterday, I spared only a glance with no expression and kept walking. Sure there is that chance it could have been a harmless compliment, but I really don't believe most men are out there complimenting women they don't know with no ulterior motive. inb4 some scrote crossposts my comment and whines about how women are rude bitches for not giving attention to random men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 11:21 PM |
| 13 | Male students in Japan are so incompetent they’re allowed to pass high school entrance exams with up to 40% lower scores than girls.That explains why the male lead is written so well, I love Tanjiro | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 11:06 PM |
| 17 | Male students in Japan are so incompetent they’re allowed to pass high school entrance exams with up to 40% lower scores than girls.I totally understand if you just don't want to support the anime industry altogether, but there are some great animes that don't have gross tropes. Demon Slayer is probably my favorite. Great characters, superb animation, made me cry at times. Orange is another great one. Sometimes digging through anime though is like digging through a pile of shit that is the 'flavor of the season' animes that get thrown out there for fanservice. It used to be during the golden age you'd get excellent shit like… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 07:38 PM |
| 11 | lol 💀💀Yeah maybe the fact that they even call women these names in the first place is a reflection of their personality/feelings toward women which comes out to the surface in reality and makes women not want to date them. Misogyny/=/misandry btw lurking scrotes, we don't hate men and want to rape them or for them to die because they aren't up to our standards or because they won't date us. Misandry comes from fear and anger of being treated like fuckholes. We haven't committed violence in the name of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 08:20 PM |
| 107 | lol 💀💀lol this was crossposted over in a subreddit that wants fds to be banned, in what fucking way is this a bannable offense? There is a literal subreddit dedicated to incest where there are users who involve their family members involuntarily/without their knowledge into their kink. Not to mention all the other subs involving disgusting shit. But yeah ban fds because we hurt your fee fees lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 05:47 AM |
| 3 | Thought this belongs here. (From selfawarewolves... Men are so close, I can't decide if they're ignorant on purpose or genuinely can't grasp basic concepts)If some man walked up to me and yanked one of my earphones out, would I be legally in the right to pepper spray him? I don't know who this person is touching me/my stuff | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 09:43 AM |
| 41 | Shaking with rage at pederasty on redditI'm fucking shaking at your descriptions of assault men have committed against children. You are just one person, I can't imagine how many more fucked up things have happened out there in the world. Any pervert who so much as touches a child should just fucking die, they have NO value to this world, they are literally fucking scum. I am sickened. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Don't forget it Queens.OH yeah I'm on the website, at the top where it says the subreddit name, there are other tabs that say comments, other discussions, show images, etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Don't forget it Queens.Yeah just checking out that 'other discussions' tab is like a dumpster fire of whining babydicks, I'd almost pay to be a fly on the wall for some of the shit you have to sort through as a mod lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 10:08 PM |
| 3 | Don't forget it Queens.Oh just check out the other discussions tab, there's already 22 comments of manbaby whining lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Don't forget it Queens.Meanwhile in 'Other discussions', 22 comments: tHe kInG Is tHe mOsT ImPoRtAnT PiEcE!!!! YoU LoSe tHe gAmE If yOu lOsE ThE KiNg! Goddamn they're so triggered over a fuckin meme 😂 Like we don't know how chess works you fucking dumbshits? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 10:05 PM |
| 14 | Why do men LIE like this? REALLY? You've NEVER heard of any sex based slurs for women? "Scrotes" is BY FAR THE WORST? This is why I cannot take Redditor critics of FDS seriously.Nobody gonna crosspost this to your 'complain about fds' subreddits? They sure know how to cherry pick to make us look as terrible as possible without addressing any of our actual valid concerns... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 12:55 AM |
| 9 | The NVM I was with would complain about celebrating my accomplishments. My HVM just celebrates being with me! Thank you ladies ❤️Yeah wow, self care is so lame, we must be lonely /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 12:41 AM |
| 32 | 5 years, 1 child, no marriage. The top comments give me lifeSeriously, my friend wanted to marry his girlfriend as soon as possible. He and her family are the traditional type, he values her dad's opinion of him and wanted to be in his good grace. Her dad was only okay with them being engaged after my friend established his career. So he went to college, graduated, got a good job (she went to college as well, graduated at the same time as him), and finally proposed to her (and with a beautiful ring to boot). They're happily married now with a baby on the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 04:41 AM |
| 3 | Angry scrote texts me from another phone number after I blocked and deleted him because we’re not a match...I'd have this kinda vibe like what | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 08:41 AM |
| 4 | A Woman's TouchWow do you even do that?? lmao like just cut it in half? How hard would it be to cut a mattress in half realistically? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 08:31 AM |
| 6 | Why I’m a podcast patron and you should be too.Yeah I cancelled some of my other patreon subs just to afford to donate more to the fds podcast | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 08:16 AM |
| 99 | "Sit down with him and have a conversation"Men act like dumb fucking idiots and think they're smart for getting out of doing their fair share, but also wonder why women don't want to have sex with them anymore. They've simply decimated any sex appeal for themselves. And then complain about dead bedrooms. Think about it, why would women want to have sex with someone who acts borderline mentally challenged? ? ? ? I still remember that post about the dude who put the entire crock pot in the fridge when his partner asked him to put the food … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 04:41 AM |
| 33 | What in the fresh hell-- throw this man out of your LIFE and slam the lid shut 😡I sent a DM to her to this thread, so we'll see. Her post made me very sad because how openly he clearly doesn't respect her especially after having their baby. Like "you're trapped now so I can say what I want" kind of behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 12:47 AM |
| 86 | What in the fresh hell-- throw this man out of your LIFE and slam the lid shut 😡I'm glad the comments are mostly "divorce his ass", you still got the cOMmuNIcAte ones but the top voted ones are at least rational. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 11:56 PM |
| 267 | What in the fresh hell-- throw this man out of your LIFE and slam the lid shut 😡You're not crazy or emotional, you're responding to emotional abuse in a completely normal way. My heart hurts for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 11:30 PM |
| 1 | A boyfriend you don’t like looking at naked, who STINKS?! I’d rather be single, thanks 😘/u/lilithwon Podcast material holy shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 11:12 PM |
| 56 | To our lurkers: Just don’t read our sub.Anybody tries to corner me, they're getting maced and a swift kick to their dicks. I understand the need to protect yourself and make sure you don't get hurt but I personally am so tired of being prey. Anybody ever pulls a gun on me, fuck em, guess I'm going down. I've seen enough true crime to know you're dead anyway if you get in their car at gunpoint. Being weaker than men pisses me off. They think it makes them better than us and entitled to our bodies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 09:12 PM |
| 10 | This is why I’m okay with not getting married or having children. I’d much rather be out experiencing life and enjoying myself than have to deal with thisTime to ground the boys and take away their video game consoles and phones. "I expect you to regularly clean up after yourselves or when I ask you to (have a clear task list written or something), or else I'm taking your games for the week/weekend." Sad that they don't respect her enough to just do it, but kids do respond to consequences. Whenever my cousin gets his video games taken away for bad grades, attitude, or whatever he smartens right up and puts in the effort. They also have him do yar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 07:52 PM |
| 36 | my friend, the wife, is upset with me for being rude to her husband. I’m sad for her.What a babydick lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 07:44 PM |
| 14 | Some kind scrote reported me to Reddit Care for my last post. I guess I’m supposed to in crisis because I’m alone? Granny has some words for you.I was just on reddit care's profile and I reported reddit care to reddit care just to see if it would work without really thinking about it, hope I don't get in trouble lol 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 07:26 PM |
| 2 | The anime obsessed🚩🚩I agree it also depends on how tropey it gets, if it's only a little bit then I can ignore it if the story and characters can make up for it in a big way. Shit like this is just fucking-- like what the fuck?? That's not how boobs work | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 06:50 PM |
| 16 | Scrote's GF can't meet the same standards as his anime sex dollHoly shit I'm dead; the trash takes itself out sis, stop resisting 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 07:26 AM |
| 4 | They get off on dirty feet and question the thought that women MIGHT be smarter than them 🤨 y’all, I just can’t 😂I would report the comment to the mods of that sub for being an irrelevant comment/stalking | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 11:22 PM |
| 32 | The anime obsessed🚩🚩Depends on the anime for me. I hate harem anime or anything that just has gross tropes like big titties flopping around or anything clearly pandering to men. Love Demon Slayer, it's made me cry. Seriously, it's amazing, the emotion behind the story and the character building and the animation is stunning. I just went to see DS: Mugen Train in theaters... so awesome 😳😭 You used to get amazing shit like Akira or Angel's Egg back during the renaissance of anime, but over time more and more it just … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 11:13 PM |
| 3 | The biggest PickMe in the world is back at it again. I can’t stand herMy eye was twitching while watching this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 07:34 AM |
| 15 | To counteract liberal feminists and beta males trying to manipulate us into thinking "dad bod" is the hottest male form, we will be instituting one day a week to post photos of actual hotties! Let us know what we should call it!Reading/watching JoJos made me like ridiculously muscular men. Jonathan Joestar is top tier unrealistic physically but dayum 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 02:53 AM |
| 3 | Husband pushed his pregnant wife off a cliff...I'm honestly surprised she's recovered mentally, that is some serious shit to go through. Tough woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 07:25 AM |
| 58 | Men’s fixation with younger girls really boils my kidneys.I dated a 27 year old as a 19 year old. Trust me, the intentions of this guy were twisted. I'm nearing his age when he dated me now and I would NEVER date a 19 year old. I worked around them, they're kids. I've had people argue with me that "18 is legal therefore it's ok end of question." No you pieces of shit, I'm not going to let you continue to normalize going after young women whose brains are not yet even finished developing and therefore cannot make critical decisions properly. I even post… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 04:00 AM |
| 62 | Probably a repost but fuck that 'friendzone' bullshit. A good friend is worth more than a good SOHey fuck you Aaron | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 09:20 PM |
| 12 | Ghosted after not putting out on a dateYou tell them your intentions up front right at the beginning and they still get mad that you didn't do exactly what you said you wouldn't do from the very beginning... men are fucking ridiculous lmao. They complain that we "string them along", yet even when we are up front... fuckin morons 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 08:17 PM |
| 57 | FACTS 💯What if they're resentful of us because we outclass them in every way and they're just slaves to their penises when it comes to us and that makes them want every opportunity to try to get on upper ground, even if that is abusing and belittling us or deluding themselves and becoming incels who blame us for their peepee problems? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 03:13 AM |
| 20 | Men Intentionally Act As If They Don’t Understand How Porn Negatively Impacts Women. It’s a Power Play. They Fucking Know.I'm staying single. The thought of being someone's sex object is traumatizing to me, to the extent I no longer see sex as a sacred union but something more twisted and evil for men, a way to use us to satisfy themselves, while we are unworthy of respect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 08:16 PM |
| 61 | FDS must be an Eye Doctor, because I'm now seeing that most dudes are NOT AttractiveI like being single now and I want to stay that way. I'll just tell any scrote that is interested that I'm 'married to the Lord' and maybe they'll be too weirded out to bother me further. I know I'm in the minority here, but I already go out without makeup and unshaven legs; it feels freeing to not give a shit about potentially attracting unwanted attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 04:26 AM |
| 4 | Was disappointed to see standard-shaming from a sub that encourages never settlingFunny how people seem to forget that men survived without porn for thousands of years... oh right, I suppose in return for abusing and raping the women in their lives. So then if porn is supposedly the only thing keeping them from being animals (which, let's face it, it doesn't really, many women are still victimized), tell me again why we haven't built a giant fence to keep them out like we do with wild animal predators to our livestock? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Polyamory only favors men and when it DOES favor women it is generally frowned uponThe only poly throuple I ever met was a girl and two guys, I feel like I saw a unicorn(s) LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 08:35 PM |
| 8 | Men are out of their minds desperate for any attentionUgh I always lock my doors when I get in my car now cause I'm afraid of some dude opening my passenger door or something, especially when I drive to the ATM. I keep my pepper gel close. I practice unarmed self defense techniques in my head and do the motions to drill it into my head so I can take action instead of freezing up if I'm taken off guard. I take lessons from true crime on how to be safer-- all those women who lost their lives, I learn from their tragedy to help keep me safer. Maybe in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 09:20 PM |
| 47 | THIS is why you don’t ask guys out 🤡 😭Yeah the couple times I tried this with different men he and his boys looked at me like I was crazy/creepy, and I am very pretty. Dunno what they're going on about with this BS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 05:30 PM |
| 2 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 7 - Where TF are the High Value Men...is Online Dating Dead?!/u/LilithWon I would love if the patreon bonus podcast segments could also be for the lowest tier ($3.01, I pay like 3.50 per month tho) instead of just for the 8.99 tier and above, I can't really afford to support for more than what I pay for spotify itself on top of that as a student. I understand if this is unreasonable as a request and don't mean to offend or anything! I love the podcast as always regardless, keep doin what ya doin! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 06:09 AM |
| 82 | Every “girls should make the first move!!” Post in a nutshell 🌰 🥜Both times I tried this with different men it ended up with him and his boys looking at me like a crazy person/getting creeped out? And I am very pretty. This happen to anyone else? You just can't win, so don't play their game 🤷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 05:30 AM |
| 26 | “First time dads needs their mommy’s support in the delivery room and that mom is not the most important person in the room.” Comments pickme.They should but I imagine they're probably incapable or they get off to it 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 05:55 AM |
| 73 | “First time dads needs their mommy’s support in the delivery room and that mom is not the most important person in the room.” Comments pickme.How do men not feel ashamed at being infantilized at every turn (minus the ones that literally diaper kink)? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 04:15 AM |
| 27 | 💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥READ THIS FOR A CHANCE TO APPEAR ON THE FDS PODCAST! 💥💥💥💥💥💥💥I would like to bring up an important point that many women are diagnosed as borderline or other mental illnesses by therapists because of the trauma they are or had been putting up with in a relationship or in their families growing up. Rather than it being a reaction to abuse (PTSD and the like), it tends to be labeled as some form of mental illness like borderline personality disorder, like it likely was for me. I would be happy to see that brought up in some fashion. Love the podcast! 💖💖💕😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 06:53 PM |
| 8 | This will never not be funny.She was also accused of having a ghost writer on her videos because she couldn't possibly write all of her content on her own 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 11:08 PM |
| 21 | Men Pushing Pregnancy During DatingMy senses reading this is that he's trying to baby trap you. A pretty common and sad thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 07:51 AM |
| 14 | I was reported for a comment here..to RedditYou can appeal if you're ever suspended, I was suspended for three days because I replied to a comment on here that said "wow men are just cock apes huh" with "Gorillas, straight up". I appealed and the suspension was lifted in under 15 minutes. The funny thing was the original comment of cock apes the scrotes had no problem with? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:37 AM |
| 65 | My cousin was molested by her stepbrother and his friends. The proliferation of "stepbro/stepsis" porn is something we should all be very, very worried about.My younger stepbrother, the brother that I had known since he was a wee toddler, molested and raped both of my and his younger half sisters (his mom and my dad's kids). I'm not making excuses for him ladies, but you cannot believe how heartbroken and confused I felt. I wanted to beat the fucking shit out of him. This was my brother. Knowing that he turned out so horrible was heartbreaking to me, not nearly as heartbreaking as knowing what happened to my sisters, but dealing with that mess when I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 03:20 AM |
| 26 | I'm so proud of you ladies for sharing and normalizing FDS concepts on tiktok, Instagram, and other social media 😂I represent on twitter, man that place is a cesspool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 02:51 AM |
| 40 | I’m seriously surprised how many people I triggered. And this comment is like from January🤦🏻♀️ I commented on a video where a girl showed how her stupid ex did a proposal prank and I said I would break up right then and there.Years ago I offered to get my slightly underage friend who I recently became friends with at the time some weed in a legal state (I would never do this now). He proceeded to pretend to be his mom stalking his account and yelled at me, different text patterns and everything. I was fucking terrified I was going to be reported to the police, he revealed in person it was a joke, that their friend group just 'jokes around' like that. He said he'd gladly take me up on my offer. Um fuck you? Stopped be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 07:28 PM |
| 114 | It do be that wayeChO chAmBErrrr | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 05:50 AM |
| 5 | ANOTHER SLUG UPDATE and honestly, this one is much worse. He was clearly exploiting her mental illnesses for his own personal amusement. One of the most disgusting, depraved, and truly evil things I've ever seen.No words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 01:39 AM |
| 3 | Not to mention there can be professional repercussions for not performing femininityI do none of these things and I feel happy. You should do whatever makes you feel happy, makeup/shaving or not. I especially hate shaving my legs because they feel so itchy, so I don't, but my grandma feels embarrassed for me when I wear shorts without shaving. I don't understand why, I don't care about others' perception of me physically. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 01:12 AM |
| 1 | What is the best tool for protection?oke! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 08:57 PM |
| 1 | What is the best tool for protection?I bought pepper gel cause I am afraid of it coming back in my face on a windy day, dunno if it works better I havent tried it out but it exists | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 06:02 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check InI saw a thread recently where the woman kicked her boyfriend out, and the pinned top comment from one mod said "don't break all of FDS rules and then post about it" and the post was like deleted and everything (the user was also deleted, maybe the user deleted? dunno). I read it via removeddit, mod had a point there, I agree. But then there was another comment in the thread that another mod commented on saying "approved for emphasis" that was against pornography which is obviously great but goin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 11:30 PM |
| 31 | Why sex positivity always harms women and why I'll never accept it.And yet we're a 'toxic sub' lol. Haters gonna hate, die mad scrotes 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 11:20 PM |
| 65 | Scrotes are mad over the new Lola design. They are mad over a CARTOON bunny who is no longer sexualized!!I think taking a step to stop sexualizing what is supposed to be a teenage girl is a good thing but the previous new official design that was dropped (not the one in the thumbnail) was not drawn well imo, from my perspective as an artist, that was my only complaint about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 10:39 PM |
| 20 | Ethan Klein: when men like this are considered good husbandsUsed to love H3H3 until they started doing the podcast, then it became apparent how much of a moron he actually is when he can't edit himself. He is really fucking stupid and full of himself. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 01:35 AM |
| 70 | Another dog went after my dog and it's proof men are trashI was walking to my local park last summer and this guy and his kids were there with his unleashed dog. This big dog CHARGED AT ME, full speed aggro and barking like I'm an enemy. He's yelling at his dog but not moving at all. I go into defensive mode ready to shove my phone down this dog's throat because I have nothing else. The dog stops right as he gets inches to me and turns back, didn't sniff me or anything. I was shaking, I had gone through getting bitten in the face by my mom's dog like a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 07:22 PM |
| 6 | The podcast has only 1 episode so far and we're already in the top 5% of podcasts. Let's see if we can get into the top 1% 🙌 New episode dropping tomorrow!The first episode was awesome, I'm definitely recommending it to my coworker | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/21 12:44 AM |
| 13 | Recognizing a predator’s behavior: how older men will initially try to trick into age gaps relationships/hook ups.I made a comment about the game grumps controversy and how it's crazy how many people are saying it's okay for a dude in his 40s to go after 20 year olds. It's not the legality that's the issue here, it's a power imbalance. But of course men want to support age gaps, they want access to impressionable young women with little life experience without being made to feel like creepy pieces of shit. Which they are. And then I linked to a source which explains how the rational part of a teen’s brain i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 07:56 PM |
| 4 | I went on a walk today and a man spit in my faceI'm fucking fuming rn Karma is a bitch, just hold onto that if anything. He'll get his. I'm really sorry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 04:04 AM |
| 36 | Woman asks men who are into exploiting their wives sexually for other men (wife sharing etc) why they enjoy it, gets this response. Imagine seeing your wife as a sex toy that’ll earn you brownie points with The Boys.Reminds me of A Thousand Splendid Suns by Khaled Hosseini, there was a part in the book where the husband was comparing the two wives to cars. Well-written book, made me cry, I'll never read it again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Jesus christ this man is a piece of workThe entire rant is so ridiculous it borders on parody without being parody | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 07:53 AM |
| 4 | And hobbies you’ve picked up as you’ve leveled up?I have a betta in a big vase with a plant above, the roots are in the water. Taking care of my plant and betta are fun, so I guess I consider it a hobby. Both are doing really well, my fishie likes to wrap himself in the roots near the top cause I also have some jute rope tied around the neck of the vase, which hides him a little. It's a nice hidey spot for him. He also has a hidey stone on the bottom he likes to hang out in. Betta ownership is fun <: | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 10:18 PM |
| 19 | Not dating broke men isn't "mean-spirited." It's a matter of having you and your partner having your priorities in order.Yes pickmes go ahead and date broke men, let us know how that goes for you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 10:05 PM |
| 9 | How the 90s Became the Era When Women Started Leveling DownLovefool by the cardigans might as well be the pickme national anthem 🙄 such a bop but I can't stand to listen to it now because I'm like WHY DONT YOU RESPECT YOURSELF GIRL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 02:33 AM |
| 44 | Women are under no obligation to be inclusive towards people who are hostile to us. Calling us an "echo chamber" and whining that we "don't include opposing opinions" isn't going to shame us into changing our mind.The sealioning as well drives me crazy, just don't even engage with these fools, disable your dms | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 01:39 AM |
| 1 | 🔥🔥The Female Dating Strategy podcast teaser is now live on Spotify! Check it out! 🔥🔥Scrotes be quakin | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Woman makes a whole presentation to convince a guy to promote her to girlfriend..and this is how low he thinks of her. I'm in utter disbelief."plate"? go fuck yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 07:20 AM |
| 39 | The Truth About Women in the BibleI love Jesus, he's the true HVM 🙏 he has such a tender heart. God led me here to this group of strong women who built up my self-esteem after I made a plea in prayer that he help me heal mentally. I believe in the God who loves all of us equally, men and women, as children made in his own image. I go to a large women's group every week instead of church, we're all spread out in tables in the main church room and it's just like normal church with praise+worship, prayer in the back, and a sermon. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 07:41 AM |
| 14 | Thank you mods 💗Ye, I wish I could send them flowers or something, that's a lot of work to do to keep men out of here without getting paid, I appreciate it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 07:35 AM |
| 15 | I begged my N-ex to make me a love note (as I would do it often for him) .. I made him a personalized comic book of our life and this is what I got in return. LMAO.meanwhile in other relationship subreddits: "YoU shOulD have ComMuNiCateD hOw iMpOrtAnt iT was tO yOu" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inI just discovered Lovefool by The Cardigans is such a bop, but it might as well be the pickme national anthem 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 07:24 AM |
| 4 | Wife threw cheating husband and friend out of her house and proceeds to divorce him intending to get full custody of kids. Commenter decides to blame HER for not being home to look after the kids."dIvorCE RaPE!!!1" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 08:08 PM |
| 16 | Please talk some sense into me *age gap*Girl I dated a 27 y/o man when I was 19 and now that I'm in my mid twenties I would NEVER date anyone who is still a teen, I'm sure if I was 35 I'd feel the same way about a 22 y/o. There is a vast difference of life experience between a 22 y/o and a 35 y/o. The issue with age gap relationships is they can (and do) use your inexperience to their advantage. My ex definitely tried to but I had the sense to leave before it got too bad. He pushed my boundaries and lied about shit. Please be careful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 01:25 AM |
| 29 | Confirmed by Science: Men are less moral than womenWhere I used to work, like 99% of uni students doing rude shit in the cafeteria were men. Zero manners. Didn't want to follow basic covid rules, left messes, filled their pockets with drinks. The level of entitlement was fucking annoying. Me and my coworker who were the only two women working there during evenings would just be in awe of the audacity of these boys at times, they just gave zero fucks. Not all of them were bad like, there were plenty of polite men and it wasn't bad all the time, b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 12:34 AM |
| 15 | Gamers, porn addicts, misogynists, and ugly people are not legally protected classes 😑🤦♀️I'm not sure, I followed a link tree from where it said on my profile that I was suspended until I got to a point where I could appeal my suspension. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 10:41 PM |
| 105 | Gamers, porn addicts, misogynists, and ugly people are not legally protected classes 😑🤦♀️I got my account suspended for three days because I replied to a comment on here that said "wow men are just cock apes huh" with "Gorillas, straight up". I appealed and the suspension was lifted in under 15 minutes 😂 men can be whiny little bastards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 06:10 PM |
| 31 | I DID IT!!!!!! I STOOD UP TO MY P*RN ADDICTED LVM CHEATING ABUSIVE BOYFRIEND!!!!!!Holy shit don't walk RUN outta there with your stuff while he's at work or out for a while, or call the police for an escort to be with you to move your stuff out for your safety (or strong family members). You are in genuine danger, please proceed with caution. Do you have somewhere safe you can go? Family, friend, even a female coworker? If I knew one of my lovely coworkers was trying to escape something like this I'd help out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 06:01 PM |
| 22 | A guy that I'm seeing sent this to me in good humor #niceforwhat?Yeah lemme just pull out my guillotine, all of us women keep ours in the hallway closet 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 05:53 PM |
| 55 | It’s meant to be a joke but...Oh I get it the joke is that he's seeing a therapist 😂😂 /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 02:11 AM |
| 3 | Wife of Queens Proud Boy arrested in Capitol plot wants a divorceWhenever I see my male coworker do this I say "nice chin diaper" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 06:03 PM |
| 22 | Be careful out there ladiesDisgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Bought myself some cute flowers 💖 I love themStuff like that makes God very angry. He loves us, and intended for us to be treated with kindness and respect. At least, that's the God I know. He led me to FDS when my self-esteem was in the gutter and I felt inferior to men. I can't really debate the bible well, I really only focus on Psalms and I'm pretty early in my journey with God. I fall under non-denominational with an emphasis on Jesus, he is very important. Instead of going to church I go to a woman's group every week where we are foc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 07:13 PM |
| 20 | Bought myself some cute flowers 💖 I love themThank you!! I love Jesus, he brings me a lot of comfort <: | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 10:55 PM |
| 14 | ReminderAmong many other reasons I don't want children, I kinda just feel like it's morally wrong to create life on purpose given how shitty life is. I'm a Christian who believes in life after death. However no joke, if I could press a button that could make my entire being cease to exist, I would slap that shit so fast. Maybe I'm depressed, I am tired though. Just tired. So the thought of bringing someone else into this... Nah. (I completely and totally respect if you want kids and plan to have them, I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 09:04 PM |
| 8 | contrary to belief deadbeat dads are very proud of being deadbeatsAs someone who never wants kids and doesn't want to be tricked or trapped (since I wouldn't abort it) if I ever even find anyone that passes my standards, he's getting a vasectomy or we're done lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 06:46 PM |
| 11 | Literally every guy I meet that I’m nice too thinks this. It’s why they hate women who are snarky. Unkind women are the worst thing on the planet according to them.a guy in his 40s at my job (he was a dishwasher and was in his own band on the side) took me being nice to him as me being into him, and then when I shot him down he started spreading shit with other coworkers that I led him on. I was in my early 20s. What the fuck is wrong with men? Now I treat men, especially older men with complete indifference because I don't want them to take it the wrong way. Lurker scrotes, don't complain about women being cold with you when you and your bros are so fucki… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 04:16 AM |
| 4 | Reminder - DO NOT POST LINKS TO OTHER SUBSClarification-- You can't say the sub name even if you don't include the / r / at the beginning of it? Does this include comments or just posts? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 08:40 AM |
| 21 | Woman who tries to warn other women about a Reddit scam gets rape & death threats, is harassed, doxxed, and blackmailed. Please protect yourselves online and don’t reveal any personal info about yourselves!!They sure do shit their pants when they end up in the news though, like for jailbait and the like | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 04:18 AM |
| 72 | Woman who tries to warn other women about a Reddit scam gets rape & death threats, is harassed, doxxed, and blackmailed. Please protect yourselves online and don’t reveal any personal info about yourselves!!Admins need to get involved, they can't allow this shit to happen on here. EDIT: I found the post and reported it to admins, I dunno if they can do anything since she deleted the account but this is fucked up. FUCK YOU SCROTES | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 12:08 AM |
| 4 | Groomer (32M) Wants to Marry Girl (19F) He Used to Pick Up From SchoolI would find it very hard if I was a parent to not want to beat the shit out of the guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 11:59 PM |
| 190 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂I got my account suspended for three days for this comment Promoting 'hate speech', with a message from reddit saying 'Reddit is a place for creating community and belonging, not for attacking marginalized or vulnerable groups of people. Last time I fuckin checked MEN AREN'T A MARGINALIZED OR VULNERABLE GROUP OF PEOPLE LMAO. I actually laughed my ass off for a solid minute at the thought of a scrote or scrote(s) being so butthurt as to report my comment as hate speech. I appealed and it was lift… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 11:16 PM |
| 14 | Friendship with straight males is a lieMy cousin in law was drugged and raped by her CHILDHOOD ELEMENTARY SCHOOL FRIEND. Someone she'd known for YEARS. The incident happened only a few days after I had met her for the first time, but I cried when I learned of it. I could only imagine the feelings of betrayal and desolation she felt in the hospital afterwards. He was so violent with her that she was internally injured. Fuckface now faces prison time. I have two good male friends, one happily married and the other lives far away, so I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 07:30 AM |
| 3 | Woman asks for the nicest way to approach asking her husband to stop leaving poop crumbs in their bedJesus H Christ what in the 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 07:23 AM |
| 25 | I can't believe you women expect, nay, DEMAND to be treated with respectFirst thing to do is disable your DMs in your settings, I mean some don't but it's just better to do so otherwise you get salty scrotes in your inbox and it's just personally not worth the time or attention imo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 11:44 PM |
| 28 | I can't believe you women expect, nay, DEMAND to be treated with respectHave been here since 20k members. Still laughing at the rising numbers, scrotes be mad 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 11:43 PM |
| 14 | “She is 18 ‘legal’ so I’m not a pedophile.” Way of thinking needs to stop!!Dated a 27 year old when I was 19. About as bad as you would expect. I'm now in my mid 20s and I would never date anyone below 21, they're just cute babies. I feel like I'd be taking advantage in some way. 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 07:31 PM |
| 61 | Hold the line, ladies. Never lower your standards. Men can meet us on our level or not at all.They sure can't seem to go their own way 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 07:25 PM |
| 1 | On Ethical Self-Preservation: is it okay to fundamentally distrust men?I've been thinking about this a lot lately. As a Christian it's hard for me to let go of this fury that I feel for how my fellow women are treated. I have a 'whitelist' of men who I do care about and that I know are respectable, but feel hatred in general for men. How do I find the grace to forgive their atrocities? God created us to be physically weaker than men. I feel frustration in my heart that I could be overpowered and likely would not be able to do anything about it. And IF in a hypothet… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 07:48 AM |
| 322 | The wisdom in these verses... (book and author in tags)I've read Kite Runner and A Thousand Splendid Suns, the latter is my favorite but both made me cry. Great books, I will never read them again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Interesting thought on "not all men."The thing is though, the key here is training. Pitbulls are dangerous untrained, and a lot of dumbasses love but don't take the time to train them. Even then, they're a breed known to just 'snap'. I've seen diehard pitters rescind because their kid got mauled. It's just sad. The people over in pitbullhate are there for a reason, in one way or another they or a loved one were impacted negatively by the breed. I'm not saying I know what should be done or whatever, but it's strange how much love th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 07:34 AM |
| 42 | 9/10 the men that lurk, comment or post screenshots from FDS, are men that feel disenfranchised from normal “masculine” circles. And in an attempt to regain power, they enter female only spaces to try and obtain an “authority” or “power”.Pst, in case you didn't know you can deactivate the ability for people to direct message you in your settings so you don't have to deal with scrotes sliding in your DMs. It's a common problem here, pathetic really. I mean shit, they have a group where they are supposed to go their own way but they can't even do that properly, instead they're in our DMs and pissed off. We don't do that to them because: Really as simple as that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 05:23 AM |
| 9 | Men casually admitting that they are willing to lie about their intentions just to get sex. Nothing surprising...What wasted opportunities for abortions Imagine choosing to be the kind of person where the world would be better off without you in it. Good job lads. Your mothers carried you for 9 or so months and gave painful birth to you only for you to end up being bitter, worthless sacks of shit 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 07:24 AM |
| 3 | INCELS and guys with anger issues need to read this. Your inceldom is not an excuse to unleash your abuse while calling it "the red pill rage"I have Borderline Personality Disorder, but like a milder version of it because I have never trashed a room. Mom was also diagnosed (note it's not a misdiagnosis from reacting to an abusive relationship). I have had to work really hard to recognize triggers and stop hurting myself (I self harmed) and others through words. Rarely it slips out and if other people are involved I feel so awful and profusely apologize. Haven't ruined any relationships so far thankfully, my friends and family are real… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 04:09 AM |
| 21 | INCELS and guys with anger issues need to read this. Your inceldom is not an excuse to unleash your abuse while calling it "the red pill rage"Idk if it's true but I read somewhere on this sub that the mom was at work and after she found out she kicked him out. I'm just going to believe that because damn that baby's face during the whole thing broke my heart | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 04:02 AM |
| 17 | INCELS and guys with anger issues need to read this. Your inceldom is not an excuse to unleash your abuse while calling it "the red pill rage"I couldn't even watch all of it, that poor baby's scared face and trying not to cry just broke my heart | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 04:00 AM |
| 27 | The last thing he did. Rest his soul.Mods needa flair change OP from newbie to disciple | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 08:19 AM |
| 76 | Example: Saying the Stanford Prison Experiment reflects human nature when not only were the subjects all male, the only woman mentioned in the experiment (the scientists wife) is the one who put a stop to it.Convenient how a lot of people left that out, huh? This was brought up a lot of times throughout my years of school/college but I never knew this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 08:12 AM |
| 5 | Top comment by a gay man about how fragile men are.This happened pre-FDS, and I got into FDS right after, I am way more ruthless now! Not mean, just don't give as much of a shit. I hate my fear/panic response though, I always freeze up in uncomfortable situations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 11:03 PM |
| 22 | Top comment by a gay man about how fragile men are.I had a guy in his 40s at my work "I think you're attractive, we should hang out" I just froze up, I was so uncomfortable. He had managed to get my number because he wanted to commission me to create cover art for his band, and I met him at starbucks to discuss what he wanted me to draw (work was closed for a week break). He kept me verbally hostage for longer than I wanted but I didn't think anything of it. Then the next time he comes into work he walks up to me and asks me out like that. So I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 10:50 PM |
| 15 | Sexism in MedicineIt helped me lots but it feels like a prison. The withdrawals are horrific. I went through a chain of events afterwards trying to get off effexor but didn't have proper guidance even with my primary doctor, and she was just letting me take way too many big steps down. I went through several day/week periods where I had withdrawals that made me question whether life was worth living. Goddamn it was bad, worst extended experience of my life. I wanna cry just thinking about it, I mean I even went i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 10:31 PM |
| 46 | Sexism in MedicineI had to see a male doctor in an emergency because I was having panic attacks for three days straight and he switched me cold turkey off of Effexor to Paxil. I wasn't in my right mind, but after three days of withdrawals (the pharmacy tech told me that's what was happening) I came back and told him and he was like, "yeah?" I told him I wanted to wean off it, he told me to cut my tablets in half for three days and then stop taking it. Time release tablets. So I suffered for another couple days un… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 08:02 PM |
| 7 | Reminder to check your security: Former ADT employee pleads guilty after spying on hundreds of customersWas it worth it, dickhead? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Being called a lesbian is just another way guys get us to try and conform to their incredibly unrealistic beauty standardsI don't wear makeup and don't put much into my appearance (I am naturally pretty) but I've literally never experienced this. I'm not saying it didn't happen to you, the most I notice is that men just ignore me entirely as a sexual prospect. Honestly I'm alright with that LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 07:33 AM |
| 115 | "But that's hate speech!"You should report that to wherever that counselor works, I'd light a fire under their ass. I've been to counseling lots and that is some no no shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 04:11 AM |
| 6 | "Men don't care about your career, all we want is a woman who is young, reasonably attractive, and with a tolerable personality"I'm really happy being single after being here awhile and being deprogrammed. Sure if a unicorn walks into my life I'm not going to turn it away, but I can say with confidence that I'm perfectly okay. That's really where your power is. They provide nothing that I could ever need or desire. Men are the ones (well, including women who haven't woken up yet) who can't seem to live without a partner. I mean shit, they have a group where they are supposed to go their own way but they can't even do tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 05:43 AM |
| 4 | The comments advised her to "cOmmUnicAtE". I'm so proud of her for leaving that douche bag!! ❤️❤️Link her to this thread so she knows we've all got her back! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Discord server dedicated to sharing/creating deep-fake nudes of underaged girls 🤮 I’ve been reporting all the people sharing the link on reddit, yet nothing has been doneurgh the future is scary | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 06:42 PM |
| 20 | Dear male lurkers: FDS is coming for your girlfriends.I was here at 20k, I'm pleased to see it has reached six times that. My only worry as the sub gets bigger is that it is going to be harder and harder to moderate. I've also seen as subs get bigger the content gets worse because more people weigh in that don't get the point of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 03:47 AM |
| 2 | Woman explains how men ruined My Little Pony for children (mostly girls) by making it hypersexual and catered towards a masculine aestheticOoh the vampire diaries one was worth the investment, she had me rolling during some parts and it was more ridiculous than I expected it to be | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 09:08 AM |
| 14 | Discord server dedicated to sharing/creating deep-fake nudes of underaged girls 🤮 I’ve been reporting all the people sharing the link on reddit, yet nothing has been doneIt's scary how good deep faking has gotten. It should REALLY make women think twice about posting their beach photos. At least, I'm relieved I never cared about posting photos of myself anywhere. You don't even need to pay for like quality software, there are apps that do this shit convincingly enough already | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 02:45 AM |
| 10 | What do you think about guys who watch anime?Demon Slayer is so good, I love Tanjiro and Nezuko and Zenitsu 😭 such great characterization and none of the stupid cringey anime tropes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 02:41 AM |
| 24 | Men are more annoying than women.Most of the men I work with do the bare minimum, it irritates the shit out of us ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 02:19 AM |
| 27 | I don't understand the men that infiltrate this groupI mean I'm basically wgtow as the definition implies-- I am attracted to men but I don't want to deal with it. Happy being single. I'm here to support my fellow women and give my two cents wherever it counts. If I ever do find a unicorn that's great, but if not then that's also okay. I kind of hate men in a general sense because of all the vile shit they've done to women and the lack of accountability on their end. Yes nOT aLL mEn but the fact that all of us here in some way have dealt with abus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 04:15 AM |
| 120 | I don't understand the men that infiltrate this groupI was here when this place had 20k subs, now it has six times that amount. The hilarious thing is it's their own damn fault! Every time a scrote complains about FDS elsewhere on reddit, more women become aware of it and find that it's exactly what they needed. The irony will never not be funny to me. Their goal is to tarnish our reputation but they're just helping with recruitment 😂 They can die mad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:55 AM |
| 19 | I’m so sick of men interrupting me while I am running to give me advice or try to chat me up - I am WORKING OUT. I do not WANT your attention.He then asked me where I live Out of your league 💅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 12:05 AM |
| 23 | If I could show a newcomer to this sub any text post, it would be this one. FDS is really a mental transformation - it takes effort, but it's so worth it.Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. One favorite passage of mine. This is what I want. I will make no compromises and neither should you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 07:38 AM |
| 3 | mAyBe hE’s JUsT tOo dEpReSsEd tO wIpEWhen I was chronically depressed to the point of grief and wanting to end my life, I did have trouble keeping up with bathing but my ass has always been thoroughly wiped no matter the circumstances. If you're that depressed, you shouldn't be dating anyone anyway, you should be seeking help from a mental health professional/doctor | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 06:51 PM |
| 41 | If guys hate children and single moms so much why don't they just wear condoms?or better yet since they complain that it isn't pleasurable to them, if they REALLY felt that way, why not just get a vasectomy? My aunt had tubal ligation done because her husband 'passes out' when it comes to the doctor. How much of a fucking loser do you have to be to make your wife go through that much pain when it would be easier for you if you just had a vasectomy? Vasectomys are way easier and not even comparably painful and yet I still see women getting their tubes tied over their man. P… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 07:26 PM |
| 9 | Ashamed to say I’ve been there. Got the dummy prize of “wow he’s spending $60 on me so this can be more pleasurable” and the “I’m a dumb pick me tshirt” lol grateful for this message and FDS, merry Christmas.My first and last boyfriend tried everything he could to get me to have unprotected sex with him. Lied about being allergic to "condoms" (not latex of course, so I called him out). Then he lied about not ever precumming. Then he wanted me to be on birth control. I didn't end up having sex with him at all, fuck that guy. It's always about their peen and its happiness with LVM/NVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 07:16 PM |
| 5 | Looks like my search for a HVM is finally over, he even made a new account to message me, I feel so special!Did that a long time ago. Feels good man. They use all kinds of tactics to get attention, some show their true colors right off, while some act all nice and like they're open to conversation just to get you to reply and then they act like assholes. The only way to win is to not play the game, which I am happy to do because I literally do not give a single fuck about the opinions of whiny incels who have nothing better to do than harass women who express ideas they don't like. Men, there's a reas… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 08:27 PM |
| 12 | And that’s on periodtWhen we say we hate men, it comes from a place of being abused, lied, manipulated, used for our bodies, even in many cases abandoned when we get pregnant. But yeah go ahead and pretend anything you have experienced from a woman is near to the same level... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 10:19 PM |
| 6 | Don't EVER buy the lie that gaming is a 'cheap hobby'Confession: I have about 950 hours in Animal Crossing New Horizons 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 11:49 PM |
| 18 | Male doctors and making small talk about your truamaI was going through a series of nearly nonstop panic attacks (like, fear of death) for three days. I was on the maximum dose of Effexor/Venlafaxine (225mg) and I went to see a primary doctor because I couldn't get in with my normal doctor, and he told me my dose and the amount of time I've been taking it are probably contributing to my panic attacks. He switched me from Effexor to Paroxetine (an anti-anxiety), said nothing more on the matter. Well, I wasn't in my right mind, seriously I could ba… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 05:39 PM |
| 11 | Male doctors and making small talk about your truamaI also recommend searching any doctor on here to make sure they aren't in the pocket of a pharmaceutical company. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 05:24 PM |
| 1 | WHYYYY Are There So Many Female led Podcasts All About the Guys They Fuck? Can Women’s Entertainment Do Better please???https://i.imgur.com/p7QlL9m.jpg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 04:37 PM |
| 8 | Women in Poland are Rioting After Gov’t Bans Abortionin cases of rape or incest-- I imagine you'd need proof, which there isn't always proof right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 04:31 PM |
| 3 | Found this nugget in my inbox after my last post on here. If this is a woman I feel sorry she has such little self respect and worthiness that she actually believes this is true.The implication was there, and I find it funny because it's a hole they dug themselves into and cannot argue their way out of. Men argue for porn, but before porn there was... raping and pillaging villages. Now we have the exploitation of women in porn. So much better, guys, great job! Their argument is that they can't control it, basically, even to the extent of repressing how women dress in shittier countries. So... maybe the solution is for us to just build a giant wall and put the men on the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Found this nugget in my inbox after my last post on here. If this is a woman I feel sorry she has such little self respect and worthiness that she actually believes this is true.Considering how difficult male sexuality is to deal with for them, it amazes me how men survived for the entire history of humanity without access to porn. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 03:34 PM |
| 38 | If he doesn't make you cum he doesn't care about you or respect you!Yeah, seriously, whenever I read shit like this I just pray that karma will come with full force eventually and tear their assholes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 02:34 PM |
| 19 | If he doesn't make you cum he doesn't care about you or respect you!I feel so fucking angry for you. Goddamn. I'm so sorry that he did that to you, truly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 02:31 PM |
| 16 | If he doesn't make you cum he doesn't care about you or respect you!My ex tried to convince me that I don't need to cum 'every time' and it's just 'having fun' and I should enjoy the experience. Even at my most pickme, I thought WTF is fun about messing around and not having an orgasm? I thought, there is no point in doing anything if I'm not benefiting. Obviously he would cum, every time. Probably was baffled that I didn't just pretend to orgasm lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 02:24 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020I've been trying to get off Effexor/Venlafaxine, it's an antidepressant with super fun withdrawal symptoms. My god I have never felt so much like a druggie. Anybody else experience the 'joy' of attempting to leave this drug? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 08:44 PM |
| 8 | This is why we don't let men post on this subreddit. We don't want to clutter our feed with a bunch of sea lions DEMANDING that we drop everything to engage in "civil discussion"LOL I've had this exact thing on my mind for a while ever since the last idiot in my DMs did this and it was the deciding factor that made me turn off DMs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 06:50 AM |
| 23 | This is why we don't let men post on this subreddit. We don't want to clutter our feed with a bunch of sea lions DEMANDING that we drop everything to engage in "civil discussion"omg when we used to get posts here from men who 'changed' because of FDS, why do you have to post it here? Why do you need the attention for being a baseline decent human being?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 03:01 AM |
| 29 | This is why we don't let men post on this subreddit. We don't want to clutter our feed with a bunch of sea lions DEMANDING that we drop everything to engage in "civil discussion"Do you ever get dudes that try to invalidate your arguments by attempting to identify logical fallacies in what you're saying? I dunno if they're trying to be big brains or whatever but I just roll my eyes every damn time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 03:00 AM |
| 43 | This is why we don't let men post on this subreddit. We don't want to clutter our feed with a bunch of sea lions DEMANDING that we drop everything to engage in "civil discussion"I'm saving this, you have no clue how many people have tried this with me. I don't even engage with it now, it's infuriating and now I realize it is meant to be lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 01:44 AM |
| 5 | They wanna take all and give back nothingNo lies here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 02:55 AM |
| 13 | What would you do if a NVM took you to a grocery store and gave you $50 on your first date? I’d take the money and go straight home.OMG I loved Amelia Bedelia as a kid! I think I remember she was only really good at making pies, or something? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 03:15 AM |
| 2 | General discussion: how to not hate men after realizing the sobering truth?Most of the dudes at my work NEVER go the extra mile or have consideration for what their fellow co-workers need. Meanwhile the women are more willing to help out with things, work together, or like cover me when I get busy with stuff. Men can be so fuckin useless 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 03:31 PM |
| 2 | So he needed a daughter to figure out that men do not give us even basic respect. Dude, go outside and grow up.I work with this dude who is a radical feminist and has stated things I've seen on FDS. He said he woke up before his first daughter was born. It's lame that THAT is the sort of shit that motivates men, but it was still cool to meet someone actually trying to warn his daughters properly, and getting them self defense training and stuff. My own dad didn't give two shits about anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Today I saw a crackhead panhandling for over an hour and then using that money to buy his girlfriend a meal at A&W. Dear men: you have no excuse. If a literal beggar is happy to provide for his girlfriend then so can you.😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 04:11 PM |
| 2 | FDS fun fact: The posts that get reported the most on Female Dating Strategy are the ones that go something like "why are men so ugly?" Most of these reports are for "targeted harassment against me"I'm fucking rolling rn 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 03:32 PM |
| 16 | This guy I used to be friends with wanted to “catch up.”Hahaha... That was me... I was 19 dating a 27 year old. He was my first boyfriend and we never had penetrative sex (THANK YOU TO MY PAST SELF), but he was such a piece of shit. Tried to convince me he doesn't precum and that he was "allergic to condoms". Of course was sheepish when I called him out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 01:45 AM |
| 6 | They want to be seen as providers and protectors, yet seem to dislike girls who are attracted to and needful of their money. What exactly do they want?The dishwasher at my old job commissioned me for album art just to try to get in my pants. He was fat, neckbeard, and twice my age, I was in college. Like WTF do YOU have to offer, you gross little man? He was super butthurt I rejected him and tried to spread rumors that I led him on. They know better. I would be super ruthless now, but I was really really upset I got tricked into basically going on a date with him (met at a public coffee shop to discuss commission cause work was closed for a we… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 06:44 PM |
| 8 | My post FDS level up collage. Focusing on my family, studying, God and healthI feel like God led me to finding this place. I grew so much as a person and now I do my best to take no shit. Thanks big G 🙏 and FDS 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 10:19 PM |
| 10 | big SIGH.. i swear they’re madly flipping through the thesaurus when they get triggeredI LOVE Jenny, she cracks me up, she has such a dry sense of humor. I found her through her youtube. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 08:59 PM |
| 6 | "FDS is so JUDGEMENTAL" Yes, and we are proud of it! Mate selection is among the most important decisions you will ever make, it is a crucial time to be choosy!But MUH penis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 03:35 AM |
| 12 | Dear Men: Your Opinion Holds No Value Here. Did We Fucking Stutter?This is also why we turn off DMs and chat, because there are scrotes that are creepy and can't help but message us to share their "unique" opinions. Nope, they never brought anything new to the table. Also super rude as a bonus! As if we're really going to just sit here and let you shit into our open mouths. I actually enjoy my life too much to have time to get into internet arguments with people I could not give less of a shit about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 02:19 PM |
| 5 | This sub ruined my marriage!!! 🤣I give you permission to tweet this to your heart's content! (: | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 04:54 AM |
| 304 | This sub ruined my marriage!!! 🤣I wanted to level up to be a better individual, so I could be a better mother to my daughter and a better partner to my husband. It's always the women that I see wanting to be better and do better in a relationship when it really needs to be the dude that should step up. It's crazy how much sway guys have on a lot of womens' self-esteems, when those same dudes still dress like college students and can't even cook or properly care for themselves.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 06:41 PM |
| 14 | That frustration when you realize how most men interpret your interestTBH I prefer that they were weirded out rather than take advantage of the situation, but now I also know better so I won't make that mistake again loool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 02:42 AM |
| 26 | That frustration when you realize how most men interpret your interestBoth guys I showed interest in acted super awkward like I was creeping them out... Maybe men just don't know what they want lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:51 AM |
| 10 | 😘'Tis a silly place | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:47 AM |
| 13 | I buy myself flowers for no reason & any time I feel like because I am the most important person in my life.Saved that one of course | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 07:45 AM |
| 60 | Nobody said following FDS would be easy.I didn't realize how destroyed my self-esteem as a woman was until FDS deprogrammed me. I've decided to stay single for the foreseeable future; honestly I've never imagined I'd feel this okay with myself and feel content where I am in life. I owe that all to finding this place, which I'm very grateful for. I feel like I'm able to ascertain the truth of things with my own eyes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 03:59 AM |
| 31 | Man Up, Or Shut The Hell Up.I want to just make sure I understand it right. So we want to be sure that we can provide for ourselves (not be trapped to a man's income) but he also needs to show that he is willing and able to provide for us (generous + loving)? That makes sense, I don't want to date a brokeass with no car. Never again loll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 03:42 AM |
| 39 | Why Do They Keep Repeating This Stupid Lie?Basically I'm allowed to reject anybody I fuckin want to sis 💅 Them being ugly is likely only one of many other reasons I'd reject them anyway lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 08:27 AM |
| 17 | and feel attacked when you ask for anything more😂 That's a good one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 10:01 PM |
| 5 | Men lack everything but the audacity.I went to check cause I had a feeling... He deleted his account 😂😂 couldn't take what he dished out I guess | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 11:26 PM |
| 13 | Scrote wants his girlfriend to fulfill his perverted fantasy but gets upset at the thought of her wanting him to change 🤦🏻♀️I do wear cute bows in my hair (Lolita style) but it is for myself because I love pastel cute things, not to fulfill some gross pervert's fetish. Glad she dumped him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 11:19 PM |
| 49 | A dad correcting a pickme auntieand we're also supposed to know who is going to hurt us or not and avoid that, but still give all those other nice guys a chance 🙄 Oh and dad in a sitcom is always balding and with a beer belly or displaying some other LVM behavior | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 04:58 AM |
| 7 | Couldn’t have said it ANY better.I'm lucky that my birth control has no discernible side effects and makes my periods actually tolerable. Other women can't say the same unfortunately, I hear time and time again just how bad of an experience that birth control can be. Our gender has the unfortunate responsibility of bearing your children, just shut the fuck up and get us some good chocolate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 10:04 PM |
| 3 | Here is the follow up to my post from last nightHahaaaaa this was deserved, what a dick He'll totally turn it into a sob story and leave out the crucial details, of course | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 08:44 PM |
| 8 | When you send your best friend the FDS Handbook & 1 week later she dumps LVM and texts you thisGoddamn I just noticed we're at 85k subscribers, scrotes be mad 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 10:25 PM |
| 5 | Solidarity is for men only. #RedditHatesWomenThis is so annoying. Only care about the issues you wanna care about, I guess... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 10:16 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 23 2020I can't seem to gain membership to the website, I submitted my reddit account twice this month and my Twitter account even sending a picture of myself with my accounts written on it. And I messaged the mods on here days ago with no reply. Not sure what to do.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 07:57 PM |
| 6 | He stuffed so much audacity into one little space, I just had to share it with y'all!Ah, this is a variation of Schrodinger's Woman I think should be called Schrodinger's Hangout: the solicitation is presented simultaneously as both for sex and "playing Mario Party" until a mans online mediocre come-on is either accepted or rejected. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 02:14 AM |
| 15 | Someone made a male version of the "Ladies: What is a dead giveaway that a guy watches too much porn when you sleep with him?" It's like you just can't bring up problems with men without them bringing it back around to women somehow like it's a joke(Here's the original thread asking ladies from earlier) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 05:00 AM |
| 1 | “It’s normal to feel attracted to others in a relationship.”Oh, a difference between sexual and aesthetic attraction-- that's a perfect way to put it. I can be aesthetically attracted to people, but want nothing sexual from them. I hope I'm a demi but wouldn't be too put out if I'm not, since being single isn't so bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 09:51 PM |
| 1 | “It’s normal to feel attracted to others in a relationship.”When I was in middle/hs I never understood why tons of girls either went crazy for boy bands or had at least one actor that they could name off the top of their head that they were attracted to. Not looking down on them, I just didn't get it. Didn't start to make sense until I started dating and did more research online about it. Thought I was just asexual, but I suspect I'm demi. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 11:09 PM |
| 1 | “It’s normal to feel attracted to others in a relationship.”I don't think most people do, otherwise sex wouldn't sell, right? I'm not sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 11:06 PM |
| 16 | “It’s normal to feel attracted to others in a relationship.”I'm asexual so I get it, specifically demisexual. It's where you're only attracted to people you have formed a deep connection and relationship with. Maybe some of you are the same as well? I'm able to recognize attractive people but feel nothing in that regard. I still do have preferences, but it's... my attraction feels incomplete, in a way. I'm not sure how to describe it. I can recognize that there is something absent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 10:02 PM |
| 19 | Toxic ex sent me a “friendly” email to try to get in touch with me again. Don’t fall for it!Imagine contacting a woman after she blocks you on her phone Talk about creepy and desperate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 09:58 PM |
| 24 | Seeing how marriage is such a joke nowadays how many of you guys think you will still get married?The only lasting marriage I've seen has been my grandparents. I think marriage is a joke, and I don't know that mine could succeed where others fail all the time. It's always sounded completely stifling to me. Furthermore, I'm not really someone who is very dependable with other people. I kinda just care about myself and cats most of the time. So like it's kind of weird I'd be here, right? I guess for the daily reminder that men are shitty, to help other women if I can with any advice, to chime … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 09:10 AM |
| 1 | I’m honestly Speechless. Madam please call the police.Why was her account suspended? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 06:49 PM |
| 19 | Men don’t see beyond their own pleasureMale depravity is one of the few things that makes my blood boil anymore-- I've met so many amazing and caring women compared to men. Imagining women like them being disrespected by worthless garbage men just pisses me off so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 06:02 PM |
| 48 | Scrote violates his tenant and his wife by masturbating to his tenant without her knowledge. My soul has literally left my body. Again.Men: You're going to be an old maid someday FDS: k * raises standards, enjoys life without men * Men: wait thats illegal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 03:24 AM |
| 11 | Shower thought: men tell us we’re stupid for not vetting chumps hard enough & blame our pOoR cHoIcEs & not men’s behaviour....but once we start getting wiser to men’s lies & vetting them harder they call us stuck up, superficial & paranoid.My family member was drugged and raped on the 4th by a 'friend'. There are dudes who care more about their dogs than about women, it's fucked up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 11:29 PM |
| 13 | Shower thought: men tell us we’re stupid for not vetting chumps hard enough & blame our pOoR cHoIcEs & not men’s behaviour....but once we start getting wiser to men’s lies & vetting them harder they call us stuck up, superficial & paranoid.Or "MEN GET RAPED TOO"/"wHat AbOut fALse AccuSATioNs?" I've had it with these morons. Like get the fuck out of my face with that bullshit. Women expressing the fact that they are victims is just so bothersome to them because they don't want to admit things need to change. Instead it's shifting or deflecting the issue. Call that shit out for what it is when you see it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 11:26 PM |
| 2 | UPDATE on our WEBSITE TheRealFemaleDatingStrategy.com! SIGN UP TODAY in case WE'RE BANNED! PLUS Tips and Tricks for SUCCESSFUL SIGN UP and FAQs!I signed up! Waiting on my code now. I've been thinking we needed a website <: | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 09:57 PM |
| 1 | My cousin in law who I just met last week at her birthday party, was drugged and raped on the 4th.It's gotta be first degree because of the drugging right? This was clearly planned. God. I hope he gets a jury full of people who gun for the maximum possible sentence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 09:11 PM |
| 1 | My cousin in law who I just met last week at her birthday party, was drugged and raped on the 4th.It's so fucked up! Just how many dudes are actually sociopaths pretending to be friends with women? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 08:13 PM |
| 17 | My cousin in law who I just met last week at her birthday party, was drugged and raped on the 4th.She seems to have a wonderful family support thankfully (I met all of them at her birthday, they were super nice people), but I will talk to my stepdad and see what they are going to do, and push the topic in that direction. Thank you, and I am so sorry for what you experienced. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 02:34 AM |
| 17 | My cousin in law who I just met last week at her birthday party, was drugged and raped on the 4th.She has really high ambitions for herself, got a career and college in mind and everything. I really hope that she can heal with time and achieve those dreams. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 02:21 AM |
| 30 | My cousin in law who I just met last week at her birthday party, was drugged and raped on the 4th.Fortunately this fucker was caught, I hope he gets some good prison time. The rape kit backlogs are so discouraging though, I hope that doesn't happen here.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 02:14 AM |
| 41 | The males are falling apart because COVID19 is forcing them to actually parent their kids nowThat is 100 percent truth, you don't want to be stuck with a guy who can't take care of himself and things around the house. 🤢 Otherwise you're basically his mommy. Asking for competence is like the bare minimum but there are tons of guys out there still living like they're in college... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 04:46 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/gw24nr/women_who_dated_older_men_as_teenagers_that_now/ This thread made it to front page somehow, these experiences are so fucked up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Tired fuccbois during covid-19 too?Oh okay that's good!! phew | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 02:33 AM |
| 6 | Tired fuccbois during covid-19 too?I'd maybe have crossed out the location?? it might make it easy for someone to identify you or something else about you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 12:59 AM |
| 3 | Rip singlesI don't wear makeup or dress in a way that accentuates my appearance, and I rarely get hit on (even pre-quarantine). I don't think men actually care about 'natural' looking women as much as they think they do lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 04:16 PM |
| 3 | I came across this “birthday card” my ex had written for me while I was deep cleaning my bedroom this morning. It was written with my lip liner. I still stayed with him for a year after this. You literally can’t make this shit up.dude what the fuuuuuck I'd think this was from an 8 year old from glancing at this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 11:53 PM |
| 3 | STOP RESPONDING TO ABUSIVE DMSLol I disabled DMs a while ago, I never got DMs from anyone except scrotes whining | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 12:12 AM |
| 8 | Anyone else have a pickmeisha for a mother, and therefore learned no female dating/life skills at all?All of the women in my life are pickmeishas. It's good fortune my mom ended up with my stepdad, he's a great guy. I had to learn how men really are the hard way, and even then I didn't get it until I came here, and then everything I experienced made sense. That's my theory for why this place is exploding in subscriber growth. I don't really have any desire to be in a relationship anymore, I feel happy being single. I can honestly say that without feeling like I'm just lying to myself, and I feel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 03:53 AM |
| 17 | Why do they always think our world revolves around pleasing them? Dang it Bobby, back at it again with complaints about not getting some 🤣Also they seem to think we're all from the US. I've seen women from many different countries on here. Turns out women worldwide are done with bullshit from men, who knew? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 07:57 PM |
| 32 | Some stuff I’ve changed since reading a lot of FDS. What are your standards?Can a lot of men honestly care for themselves without a woman's help? Laundry, cooking, grocery shopping, cleaning, bathing, and keeping themselves well-kept and dressed? That's like the bare minimum and I honestly think most don't check all of those boxes... No, I'm not saying he needs to do all of the work around the house, that's not my point. Ideally you'd help each other out or split duties (marriage scenario, of course). What I'm saying is, CAN he do it? In a realistic scenario where any o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 03:43 AM |
| 26 | Am I going crazy or are men starting to look worse and worse?Hahaha they're whining in the dms 😂 women are so well put together compared to most men and we still get shit on by men, but they cannot take their own medicine. It's such a fuckin laugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 09:08 PM |
| 22 | The comments were like “he did what she asked, what’s the problem?” 🙄🙄🙄Men think they're being so smart when they do this shit because then the woman wont ask him to do it again, but really she's just lost more respect for her partner. Men, don't be surprised when you end up with a dead bedroom when you pull this crap! Who wants to be with a fucking manchild? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 08:29 PM |
| 31 | Gigi Engle: "Sex on the first date is the only way to live" and "the main reason you're not banging someone on the first date is that you're afraid of being slut-shamed & not getting a 2nd date." Nah sis, I just have more respect for my body then to let randoms in it. Keep your shit sex and HPV."Sex on the first date is the only way to live" Imagine being this much of a pickme | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 02:28 AM |
| 27 | Scrotes act like spaces for widows is a good place to pick women upSomehow I'm continually surprised by how opportunistic and low these scrotes will go, like WTF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 09:14 PM |
| 13 | Our expectations aren’t unreasonableBruh I even got a 15 dollar nightstand from Goodwill. It's really nice actually, it's mostly wood but has glass in the center of the top. You can even find inexpensive furniture on craigslist. Not that I'm advocating to date someone broke as fuck (I don't even want anything to do with men), but these same dudes will sleep on a mattress on the floor but drop like 60 dollars for a new game lmao. Look at where his money is going, that's where you'll likely see his priorities. My ex didn't have a fu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 09:44 PM |
| 22 | Dude...Dude, in what universe are you NOT the asshole in this situation? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 06:23 AM |
| 14 | This sub is about a specific way of dating, if you disagree with it make your own dating sub.Definitely report those, I try to report any that I come across because it undermines the goal here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 03:47 AM |
| 7 | Shit like this makes me SO MAD 😡The comments there are making me crack up though, they are incinerating him haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 08:08 PM |
| 45 | He cheated on her, she's divorcing him"till death do us part" how about "don't stick your dick in other women", eh? Pretty sure that's what a MARRIAGE entails. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/20/2020Oh yeah I forgot that's a thing! I mean I do therapy over webcam with my therapist at the moment because of quarantine, and I'm comfy with it cause I've been seeing her for 8 years, but I wonder if the same would be effective with someone new? I will have to think this over | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/20/2020( : thank you, I will explore my options | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 12:02 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/20/2020Oof, after some research, the only one in my area is a dude. I mean, I'm sure there are a lot of great male therapists, I just am not comfortable with men. I might have to wait until I move out of the area I live in in that case. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/20/2020Yeah I have been in therapy, I guess I've just never mentioned it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 05:46 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/20/2020Is there... any way I can 'rewire' my brain to undo the damage that porn has done? I'm not a porn addict, rather I have a disturbing fetish which I don't want to have anymore. It came about because I was exposed to content that I shouldn't have been exposed to at a developing age. For months now I have been trying to push it away whenever I think about it, but it still has a hold on me physiologically. Any hope for me in fixing this? Or just something I have to shove down forever and try not to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 05:06 AM |
| -1 | I hate this channelIt just seems so... dirty. I mean, I wanna visit but not live there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered April 12 2020Reddit: DoN't CaLL tHEm FuRBaBIeS Me: STFU who asked you? My kitties basically are my babies, all of them, I love them. ( : | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 10:35 PM |
| 3 | Men remain in possession of the absolute audacityWhat a gross person. The best thing you can do is continue to live your life blossoming! And... this maybe doesn't need to be said, I just try to bring it up in every thread about split parents. But make sure you don't say bad things about the dad in front of your daughter. My parents did that to me and it twisted me all up inside because I didn't understand it, and it ruined my relationship with them (they realized they fucked up, we're trying to mend now). Sooner or later, your daughter will r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 06:46 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered April 12 2020That will be me but with cats! Muh itty bitty widdle kitties c: Can't yet because I don't own my own place. I feel more and more down with accomplishing my own goals. Of course I am depressed at the moment because of quarantine, but my depression won't be like that forever (I try to hope). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 12:09 AM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered April 12 2020Same!! Women are amazing, my god. I won't even pretend that I compare with the top 5 women I know (being depressed and unmotivated and all, I have a lot to work on) but I've always felt that my feelings about love and such were innocent. And then I see the depraved shit from men, and a ton of men watch and defend porn, and I'm just... disgusted. The more I mature and learn, the more I realize that I'm totally down for accomplishing my own goals without a partner. I'm afraid of being hurt again t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 12:06 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered April 12 2020Yeah, after thinking about it, I don't think I hate men. I do know some good guys. But I am afraid to let anyone come closer than platonic. And I'm disgusted with certain mainstream attitudes men have toward dating or women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 12:01 AM |
| 18 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered April 12 2020Huh. You know, I think I'm done. I genuinely hate men. I don't see a reason to come here anymore. No need for dating strategy, I am completely devoid of desire for men after the shit I've observed over the course of this year. Maybe hate isn't the right word. I feel... afraid, and disgusted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 09:06 AM |
| 2 | DON'T DATE SIGNIFICANTLY OLDER MEN.Link to this post for anyone who says we're basically femcels | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 07:37 PM |
| 4 | FDS on the front page... as a hate group!For real though I hate mansplaining so much, in pre-quarantine times I've experienced it in face to face interactions... there exist many men who really do think we're stupid or something. It's 100 percent the other way around, the stupid ones never shut the fuck up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 12:25 AM |
| 10 | FDS on the front page... as a hate group!And of course a bunch of comments whining about how men aren't allowed to comment here. One little space on this majority male site that is only for women, the horror. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 05:45 PM |
| 2 | I didn’t know there was a place where women criticise both the mainstream “sex is empowering” rhetoric and the “tradcon” rhetoric. Thank you FDS ❤️I'm here for the exact same reason you are, and being around like-minded women. I look forward to seeing what will happen as the sub just keeps growing... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 06:52 PM |
| 11 | If lying to women is normal to you there’s something seriously wrong with you. If you brag about tricking women, you’re a disgusting excuse for a ‘man.’ You males need a life outside of porn and penis (LOPP).He waited two years? Jesus fucking christ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 07:47 AM |
| 79 | Being a Kinkmeisha traumatized me, but now I’m recovering!It's so prevalent that women are the ones who are choked, and forced into anal or other degrading acts, but "DoN't KiNk shAMe mE" Fuckin degenerates, they can take their 'kink' and shove it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 10:41 PM |
| 35 | I didn’t know there was a place where women criticise both the mainstream “sex is empowering” rhetoric and the “tradcon” rhetoric. Thank you FDS ❤️It explains why this sub has exploded. Women are sick and fucking tired of the bullshit, that's what I said when I joined this sub when it was at 20k, and look where we are now! And look, we're still not banned! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 10:35 PM |
| 22 | Tiger KingI think all of them suck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 10:56 PM |
| 1 | One Christian guy (I'm also a Christian) with whom I texted for 2 weeks called me a whore after I stopped replying to his messagesReading the comments here (not just in this thread, but other threads in this sub when Christianity comes up) makes me sad... a lot of Christians are great and do great things for their communities, but the bad eggs unfortunately speak louder to people's impressions and make it difficult for others to see us in a good light. I guess that's just the way the cookie crumbles. You are right though, identifying as a 'Christian' doesn't necessarily make someone good. It's up to the individual to grow … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 02:41 AM |
| 12 | Fuck RIGHT offBy that logic I guess he's on clearance 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 02:34 AM |
| 3 | I’m surprised this made it to the front page of redditGod dammit. God fucking dammit, I hate this. I feel so powerless to put a stop to any of this and it's frustrating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 02:20 AM |
| 12 | I’m surprised this made it to the front page of redditWhat losers lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Could you call him if you were in the hospital? If not, DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM.I hated the taste I'd get in my mouth, and having to remove them... euuughhh!!! I can tell when someone has tonsil stones now by the smell of their breath. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 11:11 PM |
| 3 | Could you call him if you were in the hospital? If not, DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM.Was it bad breath like not brushing, or the smell of tonsil stones? I had my tonsils REMOVED because of tonsil stones. They were downright foul! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 09:14 PM |
| 44 | Decline unofficial Reddit chat invitesThe one time I talked to one of these guys who was polite at first turned nasty really quick. They're not worth the effort. Funny how we don't give a fuck about them but they're sending us PMs and trying to brigade, who is the emotional gender again? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 04:36 AM |
| 28 | Decline unofficial Reddit chat invitesYeah downvotes here don't even phase me anymore because I know it's probably just some loser LVM lurker whose opinion literally doesn't even matter to me 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 04:32 AM |
| 2 | Thanks to FDS, i perceive my Boyfriend as LVMI experienced this but with my dad. I really just... don't respect him much anymore. He's so low effort all the time outside of work. Has been, for almost as long as I can remember. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 09:44 PM |
| 61 | Age that women first noticed men were looking at them sexually in graph form. Comments are full of the usual male denial that this ever happens. Gotta wonder why they feel so personally offended at this graph that they’d issue kneejerk rebuttals🤔You know, that's a good point. Women learn a lot of survival skills, we even learn from the experiences of women who were killed. Stuff like not walking with headphones in anywhere that isn't public outside the home, and not getting rides from men you don't know on dates. I can't know for sure because I'm not a man, but I don't think men are alert when out like women are. I've been followed before, multiple times. Once when I was like 10. Another time when I was around 21. I had a stalker when I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 04:01 AM |
| 3 | My (22F) bf is not taking COVID-19 seriously and it’s making me not want to be with him.My dad is a conspiracy theorist, it sucks. He's not as bad as this dude but sometimes he will just go off on some stupid shit he heard on coast to coast or a youtube video, and my attention to the conversation just jumps off a cliff. He's a lot better now... it used to be it was all he would ever talk about. Not sure if he was having the drug problem at the time, but it was just... tiring. Now I get fucking irritated if anyone goes on conspiracy theory rants, it just brings me back to wanting to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 09:16 AM |
| 41 | Over two-thirds of men under 40 have slapped, choked, gagged or spat on partner during sex, BBC Scotland doc findsGod I'm so glad this sub exists, scrotes can die mad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 02:51 AM |
| 5 | Male Dismisses Claims that PornHub is knowingly facilitating Sex Trafficking and Child Pornography because one of the sources links to Fox News. It’s better to potentially be supporting child rape than take a risk defending a conservative!Also www.traffickinghub.com, this is being backed by educated and informed people | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 06:19 PM |
| 3 | More kneejerk defenses of porn and threats we’re all going to die alone unless we accept it. “Nice Guys” don’t make overt threats, they wrap it up in some concern trolling.Oh look, ANOTHER dude mansplaining (unwanted) in the pms. No thank you, not picking up what you're putting down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 09:53 AM |
| 11 | This is horrible!!! let's try to help her!Ohhh honey... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 03:18 AM |
| 76 | Found this on wholesomememes and I think it fits here tooOnce I started looking at the positives of being single, now I don't really even want to be in a relationship! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 10:08 PM |
| 3 | He offered the password to his streaming service?Oh nooo, I have to pirate ONE episode... Haha that's not even really that inconveniencing on his part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 11:32 PM |
| 3 | LOSER LVM WHINING ABOUT MUHHHDICCKKKKK IN R/DATINGOVERFORTYI literally don't understand why they can't just rub one out-- oh wait, probably porn sick. I bet masturbating just doesn't do it anymore for them. What a shame, huh? But "porn isn't the problem".... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 11:31 PM |
| 25 | Just one of the hate messages I’ve gotten from my last post. Pot Belly Paul / No Hair Harry is MADDDDD 🤡🤡I don't get it, I mean I really don't care about what they have to say in my inbox. Most of us don't. Do they know that? I could not possibly give less of a fuck. My pms are disabled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 07:10 AM |
| 3 | Why do people think it’s so sad when a woman says she may never want a relationship again?I'm going with the trope and the goal is to foster cats eventually when I have my own stable residence (: | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 06:34 PM |
| 40 | "My husband is chronically unreliable and it's worsening my depression"I don't think clothes in the dishwasher is being 'stupid' at all. Men purposely do stupid shit so that their partner ends up doing it for them (it sounds like maybe that's what you were getting at?) They think they're being smart, but in reality their partner loses complete respect for them. I had a guy try this on me, I am lucky I have low patience for literal children, because I found it annoying and was one of the reasons I peaced out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 04:04 AM |
| 15 | And here we have a typical LVM getting butthurt because you have standards...BLOCKED.'Schrodinger's woman' haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Husband of 12 years hits wife, she posts to relationship advice, read the male replies below. JESUS.Oh no, OP deleted their account. Hope they didn't get harassed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 04:06 PM |
| 4 | Husband of 12 years hits wife, she posts to relationship advice, read the male replies below. JESUS.I reported all those comments that justified physical abuse, glad to see the mods there take action against that at least. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 02:51 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020Well, I no longer have work right now. Kinda wanna die ngl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 07:27 PM |
| 11 | Anime Pick Me CultureI really like Demon Slayer, it doesn't have the embarrassing tropes a lot of anime has, and it genuinely hooked me in. I love Tanjiro and Nezuko <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 07:12 AM |
| 3 | It's messed up that I learned from here what my parents should have taught meI found a book called reparenting yourself, is that what you mean? TBH I'm really worried for my sisters, I hope that I can give them advice that will actually reach them. Our dad is LV and so is their mom (my ex stepmom), I mean she's doing WAY better now, used to be a drug addict. I never would have thought she would surpass my dad in being a better parent, but she's not like... great or anything. She lives with her boyfriend who cheats on her constantly. But most of the time my sisters live h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 07:59 PM |
| 48 | Sounds like even your wife is bored of you mate.I think you can report married men on tinder, which you should haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 04:46 PM |
| 6 | A response to a thread asking why should women sleep with LVM, when they could sleep with HVM. Apparently men don’t have unattainable standards for women.I'm cool with being single the rest of my life rather than settle, can these dudes say the same? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 01:45 AM |
| 8 | FDS isn’t new or fringe, that’s why it’s growing so quicklyI have never heard of an aesthetician, I'll have to google that when I get home | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 01:35 AM |
| 1 | This came through on r/AskFDS and was just TOO good not to repost. He thinks he’s in the “top 20% of males” and wonders what “we have to offer him” that he can’t get from younger women. 😐 Yes he’s serious. 😐 Check the comments for the OP.🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 01:51 AM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020That's a good thought! F I didn't think about it that way. I hope she finds her way eventually though, at least for the kid's sake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 10:23 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020I wondered today, 'huh, wonder how my stepsister is doing', she's like a couple years younger than me. Oh, she's married? Who's the dude? I wanted to 🤮 when I saw his pic, he looks like a toe. But hey, appearances aren't everything right? I check his facebook profile... A post from him about ragequitting in pubg, a meme admitting his nonsense and how his wife doesn't put up with it, a post complaining about feminism, and a picture of him and my stepsister with a caption about supporting the seco… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 10:02 PM |
| 10 | Republicans Are Sneaking Abortion Restrictions into the Coronavirus Bill. Anti-choice lawmakers are stalling emergency legislation.why the fuck are politicians allowed to do this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 09:48 AM |
| 5 | nOIs this the final boss in pickmeisha hell?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 03:10 AM |
| 13 | Never going to date a broke man ever again.Huh... if money isn't so important and something you shouldn't focus on then, why do you need mine? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 09:12 PM |
| 35 | I feel ill after reading this, especially with all these children involved.I wondered for a second, why wouldn't he just try for more kids with his own wife? But then I realized... he wants the satisfaction of fulfilling his fetish without being shackled with the responsibility 🤮🤮🤮 What a gross human being. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 04:44 AM |
| 37 | Some quotes to practice, memorize, and repeat. Don't bow to the patriarchy, queens.Finally had the courage to tell a male friend/acquaintance that he was making me uncomfy when he told me "Love you, bye!" ,"You're so cute!" and wanting to hug me, and he kissed me on top the head when my cat died (He's not strictly gay but bi). Just waaaaay too into my boundaries. I tried pointedly ignoring his I love yous and hugs but he just wouldn't get it??? So I had to tell him straight up. He took it very well, but I still feel disgusted around him because he eroded any respect I had for … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 04:07 PM |
| 67 | He didn't even read itHonestly I think there is something to this. When I worked in my college's cafeteria, I served food. Here's how some of those interactions went between me and braindeads: Me: Hi!-- BD: Meatloaf. points No smile, nothing. Like for fucks sake at least acknowledge I'm a person? I've NEVER had this happen with a girl. And these guys weren't all unattractive either, just so socially inept that they talked to me like I was a voice activated vending machine or something. I wasn't offended, it was just.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 3/7/2020Venlafaxine, it's a generic Effexor I think. Incidentally my mom said she took it for years and it helped her, not sure if my good reaction to it is related genetically in some way but it's real good for me! Feels like reprieve after years of being kicked on the ground lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 08:33 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 3/7/2020I'm so happy! I started on a new antidepressant in December, and I noticed my appetite went down. It did go back up a bit so I thought I would just be maintaining my weight. Well I just went to the doctor, and they checked my weights over time, and I'VE LOST 10 LBS SINCE DECEMBER! And actually 4 lbs since my last visit a month and a half ago! (Also the antidepressant is working AS intended, I'm much happier and things seem like they have color again!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Bumble match’s response to me saying I don’t believe in sex work and I think it’s bad for women. He knows more about feminism than me!My god I hate mansplaining. Seriously, shut the fuuuuuck up. You ever have a dude explaining something to you and they don't know what the fuck they're talking about, but they're completely confident in what they're spewing at you? Or they do it in a way that feels insulting or patronizing, like they act kinda superior for it? I hate that shit, fuck ooooff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 09:56 AM |
| 2 | For all the single ladies.. what's your favorite part about being single?Cats are awesome, I have one old boy rn, he's a sweetie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 01:10 AM |
| 9 | For all the single ladies.. what's your favorite part about being single?I can go home after work/class and smoke weed and play video games Not very high value behavior, I know, but I really enjoy it. I love my alone time. I'm not at a point in my life where I desire or even could be a person that can be dependable in a relationship. I don't know that I even want a relationship ever. I can focus on myself instead, and I'm happy with that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 06:02 PM |
| 70 | Men: You don’t need constant positive reinforcement or attention for doing minor chores. Just do them and shut up like every other adult woman has to do without flattery or compliment. Stop being man-children, step up and do your share.I dont even get it, it's like so easy to clean up while dinner is cooking? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 02:48 AM |
| 27 | A Security PSA - How to not get DoxxedNot even if they're polite out of the gate, I made that mistake once. Dont do it, just ignore. I turned off chat and PMs altogether lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 02:44 AM |
| 15 | [Ultimate Pickmeisha] Would it be insane to hire someone to give my boyfriend blowjobs because I can't do it?I think you're doing good so far! What happened with me was once I realized I don't have to be 'good enough' for anybody, that I'm happy being able to do what I want to do (perk of not having kids or a man to think about), it lifted a ton of weight off my shoulders. I've grown more confident, and it's showing results. People want to interact with me more, including men funnily enough, though low value. I used to be invisible, and now I seem to attract interaction from people more. I haven't chan… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 01:16 AM |
| 43 | [Ultimate Pickmeisha] Would it be insane to hire someone to give my boyfriend blowjobs because I can't do it?Whenever I see stuff like this it makes me feel so happy that I made the right choice to stay single. And I used to be a huge pickme so I get what she's thinking. She feels inadequate that she can't do the thing that makes him sexually satisfied, when she should really be focusing on the fact that he wants to keep doing the thing that obviously gives her great discomfort. And only gets off from blowjobs? Proby porn sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 11:43 PM |
| 19 | We are really expected to be work mules from birthI think she just wanted a reason to punish me. She was very unreasonable toward the end of my time living with them. I moved out around 13-14 end of year to live with my grandparents because of the emotional/psychological abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 09:39 AM |
| 16 | To all my lovely cat ladies out there!I've decided my goal is to eventually get a house (big dream for a millennial) and foster cats. Don't want a man 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 06:30 PM |
| 4 | So this fella struggled to understandSame, those guys message members on here and I had to disable PMS because I don't give a FUCK about what they have to say. I don't go into their subs and message them about how they're wrong. They just don't like looking at the truth of themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 03:01 AM |
| 15 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020I didn't want to make a post about it since it isn't really FDS related but more just misogyny. I found this video today: I Was the Fastest Girl in America, Until I Joined Nike https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qBwtCf2X5jw HORRIFYING, and so disheartening. These men in charge didn't know shit and put the health of so many young women at risk. It feels like they just saw her as an object to use. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 01:08 AM |
| 16 | This is why FDS exists. Carefully vetting our partners is imperative!The topic of relationships came up in class and I mentioned how I've seen that study about how women tend to be on average happier overall when single while men tend to be happier overall in a relationship. My professor said it's because women can get that need for companionship from other women, while men don't get that close with their male friends. I said, I figured it was because women tend to be the ones stuck with the house work and holding down a job, so they are happier when they dont ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 02:58 AM |
| 62 | Don’t ever breed anyone who will blatantly undermine your contributions like this or who thinks $1300 a month is a significant amount 🤡Idk, men tend to be okay living in filth so I think he'd just see it as a victory in doing the bare minimum | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 07:26 PM |
| 15 | While my Mother was alive my father behaved like a HVM.I'm sorry... I can honestly say my experiences with my dad line up familiarly with yours. Dad was a good dad until my mom divorced his ass. Then he got together with my ex stepmom and everything went to shit. He stopped giving a shit about me. I moved out to live with my grandparents at 13 years old because my stepmom drove me out of my own home (which she and her son caused thousands of dollars of damage to somehow btw) from abuse. Dad? Didnt do a damn thing. Not a damn thing. And my mom moved … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 03:50 PM |
| 8 | I’ve never related more to a tweet in my life 🤣Also a virgin in the technical sense, I've not gone beyond messing around. Took me a while to figure out I'm asexual but not aromantic. Secks icky lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 02:49 AM |
| 4 | China Doesn't Like That I'm a Single Woman (These guys can't even dress themselves properly for a date?!)The government inadvertently encouraged getting rid of all their women with the one child policy and now they're backpedaling with more misogynistic bs to get their few women to marry and have children. It's so shameful, I can't imagine what it must feel to grow up feeling like the lesser gender because of society's bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 10:04 PM |
| 30 | China Doesn't Like That I'm a Single Woman (These guys can't even dress themselves properly for a date?!)I hate that a country with so few women can convince them that they are valueless after a certain age. It's shameful. I think she's intelligent and knows what she wants, shes a catch to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 02:13 AM |
| 19 | Why men Visiting FDS Get So UpsetThis is why I disabled pms and chat. I literally do not give a flying fuck about the opinions of men on Reddit. I don't go into men's subreddits and message men about why they're wrong, because I don't give a shit. Meanwhile, they won't stop bothering us, as if they think their opinions are so important that they must intrude and attempt to force us to listen to them. God, I hate mansplaining, they are so full of themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 12:04 AM |
| 31 | the last level of pickme hellWhen I worked at my college cafeteria I had a group of guys come up to my serving station and ask me for a lemon. Cafeteria policy is as long as we have it on hand, we're always happy to cater. They were laughing amongst themselves. So I went and got them a lemon (cut in half) and gave it to them, they were walking away still laughing and I asked them "so what are you going to do with the lemon anyway?" and they acted weird about it and told me ah not to worry and stuff. My point is, it made me … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 10:56 PM |
| 12 | You’ve heard of Big Tech and Big Pharma, now we gotta worry about BIG CONDOM.My ex still tried to get me to do it condomless knowing I was not on birth control. Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 08:43 PM |
| 28 | You’ve heard of Big Tech and Big Pharma, now we gotta worry about BIG CONDOM.My ex tried to lie and say he was allergic to condoms... not latex, but condoms. Called him out, he admitted they don't feel good. Then he tried to convince me he doesn't precum so it's ok. And he did it unprotected with all his other exes. And I should get on birth control. I did not have sex with him lol. Beware youngins, they have every fucking excuse in the book to make their pee pee feel better while putting you at risk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Getting a plant helped me focus on myself and change old habitsI'm going to try lucky bamboo. Maybe someday, succulents... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 07:59 AM |
| 3 | Getting a plant helped me focus on myself and change old habitsOh really?! Bamboo is so cool! That's a great idea (: thank you. Hopefully I can find some locally | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 07:58 AM |
| 8 | When Porn in Life: Driver Was Watching Porn Before Fatal Crash that Killed AnotherI would have said I am no longer surprised by the depravity of men, but you sure proved me wrong 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 02:59 AM |
| 12 | Getting a plant helped me focus on myself and change old habitsBruh I got a succulent and its fuckin deeeeeead I've accepted I am not a plant person, rip | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 02:52 AM |
| 32 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: VALENTINE'S DAY 2020 EDITION 💜First valentines day where I dont feel bad for not having a bf. Thanks FDS for boosting my self esteem this last year! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 02:40 AM |
| 16 | They really lack self awareness....at my (male dominated) jobI think this might fall under sexual harassment. At least, from what I studied in class, it does not have to be specifically about sexual behavior or directed at a specific person. If they're making gross comments about women and it makes you uncomfortable because you're overhearing it, it's technically blanketed under sexual harassment, even though it isn't happening TO you. Anybody who is more knowledgeable can feel free to chime in and tell me I'm an idiot if I'm wrong, but I think this could… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 12:47 AM |
| 12 | 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄But... there wasnt anything bad in there? It all seems like.. basic respect rules for dating. The hell? Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 08:51 PM |
| 22 | 15 daughter notices her dad is a LVM, encourages Mom to leave him...dad finds out and blows up at daughterI pmd her some support, she seems like a good kid. Some of those comments to her made me shake my head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 08:09 PM |
| 5 | REPORT THEIR ASSES: Do not allow negging, porn sick, MARRIED, perverse LVM to dominate the online dating scene. Get them banned!Jesus christ. I'm so glad you're okay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 08:01 PM |
| 19 | Ugh... horrible.I'd report his ass if it's on an app that doesn't allow married people to be on there. Idk I've never used a dating app. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 05:59 PM |
| 93 | When you post about dumping a guy for his porn use and it becomes "one of the most controversial posts of the day on all of Reddit." This speaks volumes. Not only about our pornsick culture...but "Similar numbers of *upvotes* to downvotes." I see you, sisters & lurkers 👀They're proby mad because "Everyone was fine with it before, why aren't they now?" Like... things that people do can't be reevaluated, or something. It's been happening for forever now. People realize something in society is fucked up, a movement happens, and majority attitude shifts. I don't know how people don't see constant access to porn as being a problem. I mean, hello?? porn has not been easily accessible as this for most of humanity's existence. It makes sense that there would only now b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 06:24 AM |
| 33 | I genuinely don’t believe in love anymoreAm asexual but not aromantic. Once I realized the dating market is shit anyway I felt... freed. My life could go any direction, I dont know, but it wont be the 2 kids/husband/cat/dog package and that's ok. I'm free to do basically whatever I want with my life, and I feel happy at that thought. Didnt have any good examples of relationships growing up, except my grandparents. I am pessimistic of relationships as a result. I thought what if.... I just throw out the whole man altogether 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 02:46 AM |
| 2 | If you saw an “ex” in public, what would you do?The last time I saw him I was getting a pair of shorts at the place I used to work, where I met him. I would've just called it quits but these shorts were super cute and were very comfortable, so I got in line (he was the only cashier working). He says "Hey! Long time no see!" and I replied, "...Who are you?" In that tone that you'd use if you're talking to literal trash. Truthfully I just said it to shut down the conversation because I was uncomfortable, but I probably seemed pretty queenlike h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 09:04 PM |
| 8 | I'm not wrongI always wondered who actually used these. I never really liked the scents in these much, and none of the things that come with them are ever really used in my normal shower routine. I don't even use body wash except for under my armpits, and these gift sets weren't exactly made with skin sensitivity in mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 08:23 PM |
| 20 | My (22F) boyfriend (43M) doesn't want to introduce me to his daughters (10 and 8) and ignores our baby (I'm 26 weeks pregnant)He was a grown ass adult when she was born, and she's barely an adult even now. That's just... so gross. He's a gross person. I feel so bad for this woman. I want to give her a hug. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 04:51 AM |
| 29 | To the men that call us ‘entitled princesses’ 👸Got a dude once in my dms convinced that I just want to suck men dry of their money. That's what they think of this sub. It's like... not anyone's job to explain what is already reasonably explained here? Like why we don't pay for dinners? It's been explained countless times why we shouldn't, the psychology behind it and such. But like a moth to a light, they see 'don't pay for dinners on dates' and read 'lets suck men dry of their money' and swarm on that. It honestly makes me think these peopl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 04:59 AM |
| 7 | The truth about pickmeishasMy pickme problems stemmed from the males in my life. As a little girl, I wasnt really supported in girly hobbies, my mom didnt spend much time with me. I remember wondering why I couldnt have been born a boy. I was shamed by my brother for being a girl and having girly hobbies or interests and being weak, and to me my bro hung the moon and the stars. I came to see girly things as being 'weak'. I despised the damsel in distress trope in movies and shows. I only wanted to play with boys because b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 02:41 AM |
| 9 | A demisexual is defined as “a person who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone.” Thanks to Porn, the description of a normal healthy sexual bond is now a fringe sexual orientation instead of a given.I suspect I am either asexual or demisexual, probably demisexual. I've never fantasized about having sex with a stranger even if they are physically attractive. Not interested. I'm glad it's becoming more known, cause for a while I thought something was wrong with me lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 01:48 AM |
| 4 | In response to MGTOW being quarantinedI wasn't commenting on whether it should exist or not, I was evaluating the OP's statement about maintaining ethical and moral standards as a community on this sub. Does the line for ethical/moral standards get drawn before or after advocating for a subreddit where (quoting from the post): in DTW, you act in your best interest even if that means emotionally and psychologically manipulating men to do what you want | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 09:12 PM |
| 5 | In response to MGTOW being quarantinedIf we're talking about maintaining strong ethical and moral standards and the message we send to the community, I don't think /r/darktriadwomen should have been stickied here. MAYBE as a normal post, but having it distinguished by a mod was a mistake. I still see misogynistic subs mention that post/that sub occasionally as if it's representative of us, as if that's our true nature, even though there was a disclaimer that not all FDS women are darktriads. I have to wonder the benefit of having po… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 05:52 PM |
| 18 | MGTOW has been quarantined!!!Probably not. As I suspected, Reddit admins only take action when they have negative press. A user in subreddit drama posted this exerpt from the article below... published yesterday: https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/939kmv/us-coast-guard-officer-facing-gun-charges-researched-how-to-rid-us-of-the-jews-court-docs-reveal his most frequently visited website was the subreddit “Men Going Their Own Way” (MGTOW), an online misogynistic hub, which he visited “tens of thousands of times” between 2017 a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 01:59 AM |
| 13 | Be cautious of “religious” menThis was a topic I explored as part of developing my faith. You have to actually feel remorse and understand the extent of what you've done to be forgiven by God. My point is these guys are assholes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 07:57 AM |
| 6 | Share your LVM older man story here.I was 19, he was 27 or 28 at the time. We met while I was working retail. Relationship lasted 8 months. -Threw mini tantrums easily, like when we had to walk around to avoid the 'exit only' door at a convenience store. He got snippy with an employee about it. -Said he was like a year off cigarettes. He didn't smell, so I thought great! But then he started up again and was hiding his cigarettes in the drawer by his computer. I started suspecting and found them, he tried to lie again before finall… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 05:32 PM |
| 14 | Watching porn is NOT normal. Dont allow a man to subject you like that.I grew up around people who normalized porn. I didn't like it, but I thought that that is just how things are (that EVERY GUY watches porn and it's laughable to think otherwise) and I just had to deal with it in a relationship. It didn't even cross my mind until I came to this sub and heard the arguments that I realized I had a right to feel uncomfortable. I was super pickme tho, not anymore. Done with that nonsense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 01:07 AM |
| 6 | Woman gets plastic surgery after boyfriend’s constant negging. He then tells her he thought he’d fall in love if she looked prettier but he hasn’t.That is just... such a gross thing to do to someone. What the fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 02:57 AM |
| 45 | DAE just cringe at their past behaviourBruh I wanna die when I think about it, and then I get ANGRY for being such a pussy in so many other situations too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 06:18 AM |
| 9 | As a woman who has really benefited from the this sub, I have some advice I've been nervous to ask at the fear of sounding overly materialistic.I read 'philosophy' and had a flashback to this thread But it seems like he's not what the people in that thread describe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 06:01 AM |
| 83 | "I'm looking for a woman who will clean my house, cook for me, and pay the bills. No gold diggers."I can somehow respect a man exuding that much confidence in his expression while wearing a onesie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 05:50 AM |
| 9 | Sex isn’t worth it for womenI suddenly feel better about being asexual, maybe that pasture aint so green after all.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 05:47 AM |
| 11 | Check out this giant piece of shit who enjoys making women cry and thinks he’s “teaching them a lesson”I disabled pms altogether. That orange envelope makes me nervous as fuck anyway, I hate this site lol. You never know if you're going to be looking at a nice message or if some angry person is just flinging shit because he didn't like a comment you made. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 05:09 AM |
| 8 | Check out this giant piece of shit who enjoys making women cry and thinks he’s “teaching them a lesson”We only have like ~50,000 subbed here? Actually probably way less since I've seen people say they're subbed here for the lolz. Unless there are other FDS communities, this is the only one I know of. I feel like FDS isn't well known enough for an entire group of friends to automatically know what it is and demonize it enough that now, "no one wants to date her". Just a badly thought out revenge fantasy lol, at least make it believable. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 05:05 AM |
| 6 | Are most older women suffering from internal misogyny?My grandma isn't as terrible as this but it's obvious she prefers the boys. Growing up, my brother always got really cool gifts catered to what he was interested in. I always got stereotypical stuff that girls like, even though I'm a lot like my brother. I asked my mom one day, does she prefer the boys? "YES", turns out my mom is also well aware. EDIT: Also just remembered. She's also very friendly with my mom's exes, like crossing the line friendly that pisses off my mom. Couple years ago my br… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 07:30 PM |
| 39 | Advice to get rid of PUA types! Out weird them! Make them want to avoid you!Had a guy come up to talk with me while I was wearing headphones on the treadmill. It's discouraging that even headphones do not ward away some men. It's socially obvious that 'headphones = don't bother me unless we're friends'. They don't care that we are uncomfortable. This same dude caused the female employees to change the wall clocks 5 minutes forward because he liked to come in right before closing to hit on the ladies working there. I literally witnessed them changing the clocks and asked… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 01:22 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 20th 2020)You're right, I should just focus on me. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 07:09 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 20th 2020)I didn't want to make a separate post about it, but... I'm finding myself becoming more and more distrustful, anxious, and disgusted of men, something my therapist is becoming worried of. I don't want to say 'misandrist', because I still am perfectly okay interacting with men on a platonic or casual level, in fact I quite enjoy the conversations I have with my professor, or my two dear friends. But, now I have no desire to date. I thought I might be asexual, but I honestly don't know if trauma i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 05:38 AM |
| 60 | Single by choice-know your value and never settle!If I ever get a "why are you single?" My go to response will be "I'm just lucky, I guess" haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 02:47 AM |
| 2 | My HVM has an interest in my teenage sister, is this a cause for concern or am I being paranoid?Based on the information you gave, it creeps me out. He's asking such weird questions, especially during foreplay? Nooooooooooo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 05:47 PM |
| 1 | You are my people! I feel like I can finally tell my fucked up reddit storynot sure about an app since I'm on desktop but I just used Nuke Reddit History | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 04:22 PM |
| 36 | Scrote wants girlfriend to dress 'sexier' and be a free cocktail waitress for him and his friendsMy first and only relationship was with an older man, I was 19 when he was 27. He tried to pull so much shit with me, but I'm thankful for being hardheaded where it counted. I'm glad I never actually had full on penetrative sex with him, I would have regretted it. It took ONE guy for me to be forever guarded against men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 02:34 AM |
| 23 | You are my people! I feel like I can finally tell my fucked up reddit storyTHIS is why I overwrote/deleted my old reddit comments. I do not want to be doxxed by these psychos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 02:23 AM |
| 98 | Scrote wants girlfriend to dress 'sexier' and be a free cocktail waitress for him and his friendsShe also mentioned in the thread how she changed her mind and tried to say no to a thing he likes in bed one time and he lectured her about changing her mind, so she did it anyway and still does sometimes when he asks. wtf, I feel so bad for this girl, her self esteem is in the fucking gutter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 02:01 AM |
| 3 | What FOO (family of origin) issue created your current and/or former pickmeisha behavior?My dad was distant after mom divorced him (when I was like 6), I was no longer daddy's little girl. He basically went from being involved with my life to almost nothing after getting together with my now ex stepmom. Got worse when he got addicted to opiates, my stepmom was supplying him. Mom left town when I was 13. I moved into my grandparents at 13 where I remain today, and am still working out trauma and feeling worthless. Former pick me, I'm DONE being a door mat. Something in me snapped aft… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 08:16 PM |
| 49 | "but I love him..." is never an excuse to settle for garbage"But I love him" AAAAAAAAAAHHH these women make me want to SCREAM sometimes, come ON girl!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 07:36 PM |
| 2 | So this has been playing out over r/AITA. Cheapskate man fights fiancée over her buying herself a decent wedding dress, tells her to get it from Wish, posts on Reddit about it, gets roasted and found out. Turns out he’s lying, and she’s caught him ankle-deep in it.What a manbaby, yeeeuuughh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 04:48 PM |
| 4 | Want to block pesky LVMs from PM'ing you on Reddit? Here's how!Yeah don't answer back, even if they're polite out the gate. Made that mistake once and the dude was like casually insulting throughout the entire interaction. It's an utter and complete waste of time, just don't engage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 02:59 AM |
| 13 | Well, well, well..Had someone try to argue in my dms about how FDS is just as bad as being an incel. I asked him if any violent acts have been committed against women because of incels, he said yes. Then I asked if he could say the same of FDS and he was like you know emotional abuse is a thing?? As if that, if it were true of FDS, is even close to being on par with beating/raping/killing people?? I know I'm not the only woman who pays close attention to her surroundings and worries about how to navigate and stay… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 06:30 AM |
| 28 | How to Join /r/DarkTriadWomenbut in DTW, you act in your best interest even if that means emotionally and psychologically manipulating men to do what you want Reading that made me feel a bit sick, but does that mean the purpose of that sub is to keep morally questionable methods off this sub? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 05:13 PM |
| 42 | FDS-strategy helps women support eachother, while pickmeishas will put eachother downI saw a post from someone in another sub claiming that if we were all in the same geographical area we would practically kill each other for HVM since they are so hard to come by. Uh no if someone isn't interested you just... stop engaging lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 04:35 PM |
| 20 | Wife tells her side of "Deadbedroom". She suffers from PTSD & several health complications from childbirth and is stressed out by 2 kids & pregnancy. No romance, husband doesn't try to take her out, pressures her into sex. Husband worries about his dick... while she nearly dies from complications.Update: he got butthurt and deleted his post/account, and is withholding affection from his wife. The male ego is so, so fragile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 09:02 PM |
| 38 | The most hilarious allegation about FDS is that we are celibate & not by choiceI know I could install a dating app and find someone to hook up with in a short time. Do I want to? No, because sex repulses me. I'm here for the self-esteem boost and because I want to learn more to keep me and my heart safe. Women are the reason men don't have as much sex as they want, not vice versa. It'd be laughable to think otherwise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 11:16 AM |
| 4 | Hope this hasn’t been posted!I feel as though God led me here because of my prayers to become a stronger person. This sub has opened my eyes to my own worth as a human being. I don't need to chase men. I have a lot to work on still, and a lot of trauma to sort through, but I am leaps and bounds better off now than when I defined my worth by how men thought of me. 2020 is going to be a good year for us! I'm proclaiming that now (: | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 12:43 PM |
| 7 | Save your motherly instincts for your family, friends, or children, NOT MEN.Those snuggles from my cat are what get me through the day sometimes. I love my little dude so much! :3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 06:16 AM |
| 46 | Save your motherly instincts for your family, friends, or children, NOT MEN.I was feeling really depressed yesterday and I went to my cat and he snuggled with me, and purred and held his cheek out for kisses. He's my little dude :3 I love him so much. Some days I feel like I can't do it without those snuggles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 06:14 AM |
| 15 | Save your motherly instincts for your family, friends, or children, NOT MEN.My stepdad is a great cook, my mom is too but my stepdad does most of the cooking. They seem to juggle chores just fine without one being overworked over the other (my stepdad has a severe disability with his immune system, he feels frustrated he can't DO MORE). TBH I wish my stepdad was my actual dad, I'd never tell my dad that but my mom picked out a good one the second try. (: | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 06:08 AM |
| 4 | On men willing to work harder for what they can’t have or is not on offer to them. Men will attempt to turn any woman into a sex worker given the right circumstances. But won’t go to an actual sex worker.It seems like they're looking for a porn scenario. Yuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Seriously tho, how is it that MGTOW, redpill etc haven't been banned?My understanding is Reddit admins only shit their pants when a subreddit ends up on the news for some controversy, like r/jailbait, and then they ban that and similar subs. Can't remember how it was with fatpeoplehate and others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 02:40 PM |
| 34 | Nearly 30 year old man mad as hell his 19 year old girlfriend he scooped up from a local high school when she was 16 and he was 26 might be cheating on him. The entitlement of creepy predatory men never ceases to amaze me.Real convenient edit there, 'I meant to write her age as 21.' 19 and 21 are just so close, easily mistaken numbers /s Very convenient that he oopsied her age and bumped that up to 18, which is still predatory and disgusting mind you, even if I did believe that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 11:19 AM |
| 2 | Guys they officially hate us on reddit, but why?!All these fellas are so nice to give us free advertising, aren't they? This sub has more than doubled in size since I've joined. It's kind of hilarious. Maybe they should take a deeper look at themselves as to why thousands of women are flocking here. Men don't want women to talk because we've all shared the same pain. When I came here and started reading, the bad things that had happened to me throughout my life suddenly made sense. I saw the same experiences in other women. I would for sure be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 03:49 AM |
| 4 | LVM traps 25 y/o with baby. Gets mad when she resists motherhood.Why are a ton of mods on here so immature? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 03:16 AM |
| 27 | Sometimes I wonder how the hell some men are so confident hitting on HVW while being low value af.There was this guy at my work that commissioned me to create some album art for his band. Every interaction with him he framed as being in a professional capacity. I met him at Starbucks to talk about what he wanted and price. He kept me conversationally hostage longer than I wanted, but I put up with it cause I wanted the money. He invited me to a show later that night to meet more band members and possibly do commissions for them too, and I declined because it didn't feel professional. The nex… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 10:36 AM |
| 3 | I don’t want to, but I am really starting to hate men.Mr. Rogers is someone I look up to just in general. He was an incredible man. It's just disheartening that there seems to be no end to the garbage dump fire of male depravity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 09:37 AM |
| 0 | Men who string women along for sex are a special kind of evil.I dunno, isn't that kind of wrong? Shouldn't we have higher standards than to deceive men the same way they do to us? Not that I'm thinking "oh, those poor men," it's just... the principle of the thing, I guess? Makes it a lot easier for people to pick out examples from this sub and be like 'SEE THEY ARE TERRIBLE'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 06:44 PM |
| 30 | Divorce is final on the 15th:Hitting a woman and her ten month old? God, what a loser. Congrats and good luck on the start to a wonderful life from now on (the kind where you don't have to deal with a LVM!!!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 01:00 PM |
| 16 | I find it really disappointing that this sub is so hated on Reddit👋 Don't let the door hit ya where the good lord split ya | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 10:08 AM |
| 11 | Another Man lying on the internet that he “accidentally” found out about his girlfriend being an FDS member. These revenge fantasies about dumping a girl after “discovering” her FDS usage are getting less creative.The thread was removed, and there is now a stickied comment from a mod telling the OP to message them about why the post was removed and before posting any future updates. Wonder what that is all about? Also I legitimately do not understand the hate for this subreddit, I feel like I'm in crazy town over there. A ton of stuff here is really reasonable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 11:23 PM |
| 18 | Your male friends aren't your friendsMale friends are possible, you just have to be honest with them up front that there is nothing more there, and have and MAINTAIN boundaries. If anything makes you uncomfortable, listen to your gut. Avoid sexual topics of conversation. A HVM friend appreciates conversing with a woman without sexualizing her, typically these are men that don't watch porn and thus don't see women as purely objects to fuck. I met both of mine when I was single, neither made a move, one is a HVM getting married soon,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 03:36 AM |
| 51 | They have no problem paying cam girls, twitch girls or other women onlineMan my ex admitted to watching cam girls and was surprised that I was upset, what a dumbass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 03:20 AM |
| 22 | This is the state of dating in 2020.At least he put his actual age so you can filter him out lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 03:19 AM |
| 4 | How do you answer "why are you single?"I haven't found a man worthy of my attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 11:19 AM |
| 7 | What are the last words your ex said to you?"Let's hang out sometime?" with a stupid dumb hopeful look on his face and, "Actually I still haven't told my mom" about the fact that I broke up with him like a month prior. I was only over to his place to pick up my PS Vita, and we hadn't talked for like weeks. God I just want to scream at how stupid I was for being in that relationship, I wish I could wipe it from my memoryyyyy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 08:39 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 2nd 2020)I'm keeping a close eye on my friend, who has been dating an ex addict for five years, and is now engaged. She's a good momma to their son. He relapsed I think a couple months ago, and she told him on no uncertain terms that she doesn't need him to survive and she'll kick him out if he does again, for the sake of her son, she doesn't want him to be around an addict like she was with her dad. She said he's on some new antidepressants and seems to be doing better, but admits she does wonder if it'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 02:51 AM |
| 3 | Beware your male friendsI do have two close male friends, been friends for years, neither have tried anything with me, one of them is single, the other is getting married soon. I'd take a bullet for either of them. They're the reason I don't believe all men are shitty (Thanks for nothing, Dad). All I have to say is, "it depends" and "I'm asexual so my opinion might be worthless, (disclaimer)". I am kind of a mix of tomboy and kawaii girlish, so I appreciate the friendship of both genders. What I do is I stop contact wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 02:27 AM |
| 3 | Let's talk about the hypocrisy.Please I'd love to hear your tips. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 12:33 AM |
| 5 | Sometimes you just have to laugh at the blatent AUDACITYMy ex lied to me about not smoking until I found them in his drawer and called him out on his shit. I wasnt upset about the smoking, I was upset at the blatant fucking lying to my face. I still wont date another smoker, reminds me too much of my parents. Yuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 10:21 AM |
| 7 | Do men see women as human?I think many men will put on the front of being respectful to women who they work with and such, but will only show their true colors with an SO or online behind anonymity. I do have a couple guy friends who are my best friends in the world, platonically, and I'd take a bullet for them. One of them is getting married in a couple months to a kind and beautiful woman, and I'm so happy for them. So I do feel distrustful of men, especially dating, but I have hope that there are good ones out there b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 02:57 AM |
| 7 | “Is he nice to you?”My friend's mom puts up with severe verbal abuse from her husband (my friend's step dad). Turns out he has testicular cancer again, and has decided that eating healthy is the way to cure it this time instead of treatment. My friend said she doesn't wish him the worst, but if it does happen... well, you won't see her crying. We both agreed her mom might even wake up finally if he does pass from that decision. She won't let her parents babysit her son/visit him unsupervised because she doesn't wan… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 02:16 AM |
| 14 | Reading Ali Wong's new book "Dear Girls". She gets it.We don't live for them Exactly :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 02:01 AM |
| 5 | Reading Ali Wong's new book "Dear Girls". She gets it.I cut my own long hair by making a ponytail in the front near my hairline and sliding the band down to the length I want to cut and cut in a straight line below that. Makes a beautiful haircut. I got tired of paying to go to the hairdresser!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 12:36 AM |
| 16 | Reading Ali Wong's new book "Dear Girls". She gets it.Don't wear makeup (just not interested in it), so I can confirm I get almost zero male attention. I'm cool with that though lmao, I'm comfy just being me. I like being able to rub my eyes without accidentally turning myself into a raccoon haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 12:32 AM |
| 22 | Reading Ali Wong's new book "Dear Girls". She gets it.Oh man I'm gonna use "You can't afford to speak to me" the next time another broke loser tries to slide into my life lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 12:28 AM |
| 3 | Raise your daughter rightNo I haven't, that sounds very interesting, I'll check it out. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 12:19 AM |
| 11 | Piece of shit boyfriend shares his girlfriend's nudes with his FATHER - father comments on how "hot and wet" she isWhat the fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 11:56 PM |
| 3 | Raise your daughter rightidk I just don't think it's fair to judge a kid for being a kid, even if he is a boy. I was a way different person (and frankly more terrible) as a kid, I think it's the same for lots of people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 11:27 PM |
| 11 | Raise your daughter rightHe's like only 7 though 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 07:36 AM |
| 6 | What is the point of marriage? / Should we just marry our best friends?I am asexual and I hope to marry a best friend eventually. There are people who think that's stupid-- "why would you get married if you're not gonna have sex?" I dunno, maybe because of all of the other emotional/practical benefits? Can you really not fathom that some people don't like or want sex? Is your porn-addled brain that far gone? I might fall more into the lines of demisexual (only able to be sexually attracted to someone I have come to trust and love), not entirely sure. But even then … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 02:13 AM |
| 3 | NEVER allow a man around you when you are in a weakened state.I am so sorry, you must be suffering greatly right now. Take care of yourself, find support from the people who care for you. I will pray for your recovery, physical and mental. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 01:47 AM |
| 3 | Her BF is addicted to porn and now he has erectile dysfunction. Girl, please dump his ass.Watching porn at work? Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 12:18 AM |
| 19 | LVM won’t even SHOWER when his gf begs him to. Can we send some self esteem for this poor girl?I am depressed, and I frequently go without showering, washing my clothes, various other things... It's hard to function. I'm switching medications right now. So that literally is one reason for not showering, but honestly I think the last thing a depressed person needs is to be in a relationship. I couldn't fathom putting my best forward for a partner when I am as broken as I am at the moment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 12:16 AM |
| 51 | Ladies, If you "overfunction" in your interactions with men, you never find out if he's a LVMNot to mention (doesn't really apply to your situation but) some guys act purposefully like a clueless manchild so that you end up doing things for them. My last ex tried this (I was a pickme and this was before fds) but fortunately I hate blatant incompetence so I just got annoyed with him for it instead of mommying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 11:47 PM |
| 5 | When he says "you deserve better than me", believe him, and RUN.I wonder if they do this because it absolves them of some guilt they feel for being the weak link, like "well, I warned her". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 11:43 PM |
| 4 | Is it possible for me to be considered high value?I'm in the same situation as you. I am asexual but not aromantic. Actually, I haven't really mentioned it here because I was unsure of what kind of answers I'd receive. I think being here and taking the time to change my mindset to self improvement and living for myself has helped to make my restlessness go away. I'm not at a good place in my life right now anyway. I worry about being a misshapen cog that can't fit in anywhere. I don't love myself yet. But, I have managed to gain some self confi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 06:16 AM |
| 2 | Lessons from “The Golden Girls”: What are your favorite character examples of FDS vs “Pick Me-isha” behavior?Hehe yeah, I'm only a couple seasons in so I'll probably find more examples | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 06:35 AM |
| 16 | Lessons from “The Golden Girls”: What are your favorite character examples of FDS vs “Pick Me-isha” behavior?I like how they addressed Dorothy dating a married man who wanted to stay married to the other woman, and having her come to realize through the help of her friends and especially her mom that she deserves better than being a side piece. The bad decision was made, but the way they addressed it was really good. She really needed a lot of help lol. I think Blanche was a great example of FDS for the most part, she has a lot of confidence and doesn't take any shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 12:23 AM |
| 6 | LVM like this are so exhausting. I don’t care if you have a ‘high sex drive’, if you don’t respect my boundaries then you can go."Hobbies? What are those?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 03:10 AM |
| 3 | WEAR A CONDOM OR STFU. Birth Control is NOT 100% effective and comes with INSANE side effects that SIGNIFICANTLY impact our quality of life.My birth control works really well for me, I actually feel really bad for y'all reading these side effects. They sound like a nightmare. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 11:20 PM |
| 9 | LVH gets caught watching porn, skims over the fact that his wife has had a history of being uncomfortable with it. "But that was at least 10 years ago," says he, moronically.A lot of guys wanna have their cake and eat it too, even if it hurts their SO. It's pure selfishness. Someone in that thread referred to what I was saying as 'toxic insecurity'. People are seriously that deluded. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 09:56 PM |
| 36 | ''Sexual compatibility'' - for the purposes of early dating, he has ENOUGH information!I remember asking as a teenager, probably over in Relationships or some similar subreddit, about if sex is necessary while dating. I was asexual (demisexual) at the time and didn't know it. Every answer was pretty much insistent that sex while dating is necessary and its pretty much a dealbreaker if they don't, because you have to check for 'sexual compatability'. That left me feeling super confused for a long time. Reddit is gross sometimes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 04:23 AM |
| 6 | Does reddit hate you?I haven't gotten DM'd yet fortunately but when it does happen I'm just gonna ignore them lol, they hate that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 10:30 PM |
| 20 | Remember ladies, he can genuinely be in love with you, but still treat you like shit. They’re not mutually exclusive concepts.Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. This is from the bible. Regardless of belief, this has always been a very apt description of true love. I won't accept anything less from a man I choose to let into my life. There… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 10:25 PM |
| 15 | men age like wine is a fantasy onlineMy stepmom WAS a horrible person and a gold digging cheater among other things (we seriously almost lost our house), but my dad allowed this to happen. He put the relationship before us kids. I just don't think someone can be a gold digger unless the other person like... allows it to happen. It doesn't make my stepmom NOT a horrible person (I mean I am not mentioning a bunch of stuff she's done), but like, my dad had a lot of blame in there for making us kids suffer. I'm still trying to recover … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 02:22 AM |
| 9 | Brace yourself ladies... "I miss you" season is fast approachingIt's like he thinks he can bother his way into your bed 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 01:52 AM |
| 4 | Seeing stuff like this a lot more on Twitter. Women are waking up. 👀If you don't mind me asking, what made you decide to keep the one breast you had left? Does it feel like more weight on one side of your body that you had to get used to? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 01:49 AM |
| 1 | 3 of my IRL friends adopted FDS in the last 2 weeks - why we should be talking to our friends, sisters & mothers about FDSOh my, the sub has reached 40k followers now, I came here when it was at 19,000. How very exciting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 11:32 PM |
| 13 | What do you do when you’re already in a long term relationship with a LVM?I think men are only capable of positive change after you've dumped them-- for good. They will never change for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 09:33 AM |
| 3 | Letter reporting a loser to his churchI am a Christian, please send this letter. It disgusts me when people who claim to be Christian are in reality terrible people. But honestly, I'd say the same thing even if it wasn't a Christian event, like if he did this representing his job or something. You're doing the right thing, thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 12:04 AM |
| 8 | JUST👏🏼SAY👏🏼NO👏🏼TO👏🏼TACO👏🏼BELL👏🏼 😂Daaaamn. That's some queen shit right there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 01:22 AM |
| 2 | oofYeah! I never want my mental illness to like, effect other people if I can help it. It is very hard to manage depression, since part of managing anything takes will and determination, two key traits that many people with depression just don't have. But I'm trying to find my way, slowly but surely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 12:51 AM |
| 12 | [RECAP] What I Learned From Asking Men About Their Value: THEY HAVE NO FUCKING CLUE.I saw like a tooon of roundabout bullshit answers. Just answer the question dudes, lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/19 11:28 PM |
| 9 | oofDunno how it is for men but for me I am 100% depressed and that is why constant gaming is appealing to me. I actually have an appointment next week to switch my antidepressant because complete apathy is a side effect of a not working med. The difference between me and men is I know I'm not in a good mental space to date at the moment, where as men seem to not really care about that if they're dealing with it themselves. They'd rather make their gf play therapist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/19 08:45 PM |
| 1 | PASS IT ON: Practical Ways to Legally Crack Down On The Porn Epidemic without Infringing On 1st Amendment RightsI'm not trying to be cynical, but my view is it will probably be just as successful as companies attempting to remove pirated content. Which is to say, a giant game of whack-a-mole. I feel like there are always going to be people enabling the system as it is now unless some major studies about porn addiction and problems associated with it are published that actually get widespread attention in the media. But, I dunno, take that with a grain of salt, I'm just some person on reddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/19 02:16 AM |
| 10 | Men on reddit like to constantly bring up this graph to show that men are attracted only to young women, while blatantly ignoring the fact that these women are attracted to men THEIR OWN AGEIt's tempting to knock creepy men down a few pegs but probably not worth it. LVM tend to just do whatever they want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 04:44 AM |
| 21 | Thought bumble would be a better alternative than tinder but never mind"Why?" What do you mean why, are you mentally deficient? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 04:34 AM |
| 46 | Hey, talk about a red flag paradeMore like cringe at, jeez louise. I could barely read through this thing lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 04:23 AM |
| 16 | 😂Or all of those things! What a treat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 04:11 AM |
| 12 | r/unpopularopinion: The sub-reddits 'Female Dating Strategy' & 'Gender Critical' make legitimate points & their members come closer to understanding males than any other group of women I've ever seen haveOh, I do so hope it continues to be unpopular. Nothing spreads faster than something people hate. I discovered FDS in a hate thread. LVM see us as a threat and are vocal about it, but this also spreads the message more to women who read our sidebar and realize, "Hey... They're onto something here." This sub has grown by like 20,000 since I've been here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 07:40 AM |
| 15 | r/unpopularopinion: The sub-reddits 'Female Dating Strategy' & 'Gender Critical' make legitimate points & their members come closer to understanding males than any other group of women I've ever seen haveI had a male coworker try to convince me that my other creepy coworker isn't actually creepy and "really nice when you get to know him". Uh pal, you're a dude. Leave it to a man to tell a woman she doesn't know what she's talking about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 07:36 AM |
| 10 | Man (36) mad woman wants to stay friends instead of stepping into his ex wife's shoes. Let's discuss?The idea that women and men can't be just friends is complete bullshit. I'm asexual, but specifically demisexual, meaning I'm only sexually attracted to men who I have a deep connection with. I became friends with and fell in love with a guy who is in every sense of the word a HVM, buuuut he was and is in a committed relationship with a woman he is now engaged to and will be marrying in September. It was hard, I'm not going to lie. But if you could just see his face when he talks about her to me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 08:07 PM |
| 4 | My Husband is Abusive to our BabyI'm going to do my best to continue to keep LVM out with my high standards! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 06:36 AM |
| 5 | My Husband is Abusive to our BabyIt CAN'T have been without warning, right? There had to have been some red flags along the way. Not saying it was the woman's fault, in fact, I just don't want to believe that something like that is possible because that's scary. Can someone really keep up a facade for 5 years without showing any cracks? We weed out terrible men, but are there men that simply can't be weeded out? That's what scares me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 01:18 AM |
| 48 | Say it louder sister!Scrotes to the idea of putting in extra work and consideration when interacting with women: wut | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 02:59 PM |
| 28 | Reading this book made me realize the horrors some women have to face all their lives. "A thousand splendid suns" for anyone who wants to cry their eyes out.I read it in high school. Khaled Hosseini wrote Kite Runner as well, a story from a male perspective. I actually liked Thousand Splendid Suns a lot more, it made me feel very emotional, but both are great. The thing I remember most vividly from TSS was the man comparing his two wives-- the new wife to a Mercedes Benz and the old wife to a Volga. Like they were just objects. I thought, 'there are people who really think that way about women'. That part of the book and that realization has stuck w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 07:46 PM |
| 8 | Sex Positivity has been an utter failure.My ex tried to tell me that messing around is for fun and an orgasm doesn't need to happen every time. I mean I feel like this is bullshit but it doesn't matter whether it is or not because functionally it is useless to me anyway since I'm asexual. It's like why would I have sex if I'm not being made to feel good? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 10:15 PM |
| 5 | Chicago college students ignores man's catcalls. Being the entitled male he is, he proceeds to sexually assault her and strangle her to death.I watch true crime on youtube and there are SO many cases of violence against innocent women, such as this girl who was shoved down the stairs and stabbed to death at school after turning down a prom date from her ex boyfriend: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YNlgsVKjLyM I feel people would think I'm paranoid because I always pay attention to my surroundings since I don't feel safe walking around in public. The fact of the matter is these women that experience violence might have thought at one … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 03:46 AM |
| 31 | We all make mistakes. Don't be so hard on yourself for not knowing better.Before I came to this sub I had really low self esteem as a woman because I've never really been around other women who advocate for boundaries. I was worried about ME being good enough for a man. Now I don't give a shit whether I am dating somebody or not, I'm really happy to be doing my own things on my own schedule. As a goal I'm going to foster cats when I have the place and money to do so. I won't let a man into my life unless he meets my high standards because I'm actually happy being as I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 01:15 AM |
| 6 | Old and no meetOne hour drive? Nah, unless he's the one driving to meet you he's not worth your time. And it seems like he's already shown his level of motivation for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 12:50 AM |
| 73 | Saw this text on FB: Major respect for guys like this!I mean Jesus, not even JUST accepting 'no' as a response. It's like these scrotes completely ignore the fact that these women are visibly uncomfortable. Men are not as stupid as they can act, many just don't care about women's boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/19 12:31 AM |
| 8 | When did you wake up & level up?I was directed here because someone linked this sub and were trash talking it. Reading the sidebar and the posts made me realize logically that I had it all wrong with how I thought of men and my role in a relationship (I am demisexual). It made me feel more hopeful and a lot less alone to know that there are other women out there that are tired of male depravity, that it's ok to wait for a good man, and especially to be single. That's not something I've really heard before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 10:30 AM |
| 5 | Married old scrote is butthurt that OP rejected his creepy advancesyeah she mentioned in the comments that a woman before her had an incident with someone at work and reported it and was let go 6 months later for performance issues even though she was doing fine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 04:38 AM |
| 20 | Married old scrote is butthurt that OP rejected his creepy advancesThen you say "You're still talking?" I wish God I wish, I wish with a fish that I could get away with being more aggressive toward creeps at work. Instead you have to be polite but firm and document if they don't stop. And sometimes, they don't cross the invisible line of 'sexual harassment'. They make their words and actions ambiguous in such a way that you're not even sure if you can report it even if it was obvious to you and it made you uncomfortable. It's fucked cowardace from baby bitch me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 09:15 PM |
| 14 | "Controlling" Wife Mystified by Husband Repeatedly Cutting His Own Hands Making Breakfast. (Spoiler Alert: Cut hands = no chores for scrote.)My ex fucked up making instant mac and cheese 'I couldnt see the line for the water!' I just cringed at him. He made dumb 'mistakes' like that a lot but I didnt take the bait. This was before I knew men do shit like this on purpose. His helplessness just pissed me off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 05:09 PM |
| 9 | Finally rejected him to his faceYou made it clear and blocked him on every platform but he still ignored your boundaries and sought you out in person... yike. I'm glad you are safe, cause that's not just desperate, its creepy. At the very least, he obviously didnt respect your boundaries. Nice job walking away! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 04:47 PM |
| 10 | Anyone here childfree?Hey, finally someone similar to me! For me, I dont feel anything toward having my own kids. Dont want to at all for multiple reasons. I feel compassion toward kids that already exist but dont have a stable home, just like I didnt have when I was a kid. THATS the thing that brings out my maternal feelings. Even then, that's a long way off and I dont know where life will lead me. I do for sure want to foster cats, so.. that's something I guess lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 09:24 AM |
| 6 | Multiple Subs on reddit are using unsolicited pictures of women for sexual comments. Sometimes their own SISTERS and MOTHERS.This is disturbing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 09:11 AM |
| 12 | What is your opinion on cheating?If commitment is established, then fucking other dudes without discussion is cheating, straight up. Theres nothing wrong with keeping your options open but theres a difference between that and being a cheater. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 08:31 PM |
| 22 | What is your opinion on cheating?Would you like being cheated on? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 08:27 PM |
| 11 | On my newsfeed this morning 😂I was a meek 19 year old with no relationship experience dating a 27 year old... recipe for disaster! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 07:51 PM |
| 27 | On my newsfeed this morning 😂My ex used 'being allergic to condoms' as an excuse. Not latex, condoms. Also, claimed he doesn't precum so it's ok. Admitted 'they don't feel good' when I called him out on his shit. Tried to get me on an iud/birth control instead, still insisting condoms don't feel good. Still took me two weeks to dump his ass, but I didn't fuck him. Guys have all kinds of excuses to pull out of their asses to gain maximum benefit from women, but to our detriment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 04:39 PM |
| 7 | MOID LURKERS: You better 👏🏼 shut 👏🏼 the 👏🏼 fuck 👏🏼 up until you PM at least 5 TRP PIECES OF SHIT that advocate literal violence against women before you address one more fucking FDS woman. YOU DON'T CARE ABOUT GENDER EQUALITY, YOU JUST HATE WOMEN.You care that it's a space you're not welcome in, and your wittle baby fee fees are hurt because mommy told you you were special and girls would love to play with your gross little pee pee Thank you for the laugh this morning, I love this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 04:25 PM |
| 5 | Grown Ass Man, 37, harasses 20 year old musician neighbor for a date. She turns him down, so naturally, he wants to know if it’s okay to call the cops on her when she practices now.THIS PISSES ME OFF SO MUCH. WHY do these fucking old losers think a 20 year old wants to hook up with them? It's so disgusting. They have zero fucking self awareness, they're just thinking with their worthless dick. I'm dealing with one of these stupid man babies, same age, at my work right now that got rejected by younger college aged female coworkers including me. Now he's salty and yesterday hid cleaning supplies under the guise that we do a shitty job (we don't), I'm pretty sure he's just be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 11:32 PM |
| 3 | Internet safety - protect yourselves ladiesI actually thought about this a couple days ago, especially since this sub has been getting a ton of negative attention. Thank you, I just went through and individually edited and then deleted some posts I thought were too identifying. I usually avoided being a member of any controversial subs so I considered myself mostly invisible before, but I guess I need to change my commenting habits. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/19 05:06 AM |
| 12 | There are guys out there who find it fair to bully, hurt, rape, even kill us because we don’t want to do the most intimate, invasive act in the universe with them.I think about stuff like this a lot, I should take classes. I have plans for certain scenarios as well. Like, if a guy with a gun tells you to get in the car, dont. Seen enough true crime to know getting in the car is usually a death sentence. Fight fight fight. Don't be an easy target if someone grabs you. Scratch, bite, go for the eyes and the balls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 01:59 AM |
| 5 | Never let him "talk you into" sex.This is good stuff for every girl to know, regardless of whether they agree with this sub. thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 10:33 PM |
| 4 | Incel Tears are saying we're transphobic and support false rape claims. they also think this is a FEMCEL sub.I used to be discouraged at all this new age thinking about relationships, and how I must be living in dinosaur times because I would rather wait until marriage to have sex with someone (not just for religious reasons, I just don't find sex enjoyable/don't want to get pregnant). Then I realized after finding this sub, fuck all I can do what I want. I shouldn't feel inadequate because I'm doing what makes me comfortable. And even if guy after guy leaves me because I'm not putting out, I'd still r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Females should not be 100% responsible for Birth Control.Jesus, really? I guess I got really lucky with my birth control having no symptoms. I got on mine just for the benefits of hormonal regulation and my periods being less painful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Females should not be 100% responsible for Birth Control.My shitty ex lied to me about being allergic to condoms (not latex), I called him out on his shit and he admitted he found them uncomfortable. Tried to also lie about how he doesn't precum, tried to push me into getting on birth control or getting an iud. Tried at every fucking turn to get me to have unprotected sex with him. Still took me two weeks to dump his worthless ass. I grimace just thinking about that worm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 08:16 PM |
| 12 | He follows a bunch of IG models, most of which are local (acceptable behavior?)Yike why are you putting up with this garbage, get outta there. Word of advice, older men who can't get with women their own age typically go after younger inexperienced women because they'll put up with more of their shit immaturity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 08:12 PM |
| 9 | Incel Tears are saying we're transphobic and support false rape claims. they also think this is a FEMCEL sub.They might be referring to the sidebar where it says transwomen aren't allowed here, but if they're talking about posts in general I haven't seen any. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 11:36 PM |
| 3 | The Truth About FDS Women: We aren’t similar to incels, nor are we "ugly" or mentally deranged. We are your everyday women.I dont have much experience with dating, just one terrible boyfriend. That's why I'm here though, I've already picked up a lot of great tips which I'm thankful for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 10:08 PM |
| 6 | Thank you for your wisdom. I am sorry.I read this and thought similarly, I don't really care much for his apology, if this guy is genuine then that's really cool, but I would like to see more men realize what they are doing is wrong and just decide to change rather than seeking out applause for realizing how to be a decent human being. It's the woman he did this to that deserves the apology. Actions speak louder than words. If he wants to change he should just do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 05:24 AM |
| 32 | Incel Tears are saying we're transphobic and support false rape claims. they also think this is a FEMCEL sub.Where are the posts here that endorse false rape accusations? So far I've seen a whole load of nothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 05:16 AM |
| 6 | The Truth About FDS Women: We aren’t similar to incels, nor are we "ugly" or mentally deranged. We are your everyday women.dine and dash--leaving the woman with the bill after having invited her to dinner Damn, that actually happens? Do they just like decide they don't like you and bail, or intend to do that in the first place for a free meal? That's so shitty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 05:10 AM |
| 6 | The Truth About FDS Women: We aren’t similar to incels, nor are we "ugly" or mentally deranged. We are your everyday women.Truth! This is exactly what I came to understand when I digested the sidebar and read perspectives from you ladies. I want to build up my self esteem and my life and stop worrying about what men think of ME. And, if chips fall in the right places, I want to make sure I find a good man for me. Nothing like the loser I dated 5 years ago who put in no effort and tried to manipulate me into unprotected sex. God it took me almost that long to stop being afraid and stop seeing all men as complete lech… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 05:04 AM |
| 8 | Found this sub through people mocking it. Fell in love with itThat's also exactly how I got here lol. Hope they keep at it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 11:43 PM |
| 3 | No, you don't actually have to be beautifulThank you for this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Doc Martens on a date?Oh wow, tunics look so cute! Are there any shoes that are also comfy? Preferably easy to slip on, maybe just something simple as flats? I seem to recall they make shoes for professional women that look good but are very comfy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 04:40 PM |
| 7 | FDS works, my mother has been doing it my entire life.The bright side of getting more attention in other subreddits is that I found out about this place and I'm glad I did, I'm sure others feel the same way too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 03:26 AM |
| 5 | New girl, excited to join you 😊New here too! Welcome! Building up my self esteem too, I'm not gonna be a doormat anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/19 07:54 PM |
| 3 | Most toxic sub on redditGood to know having self esteem is toxic lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/19 06:50 AM |
| 13 | Guy I was dating finally started to be honestGod it seems like a lot of guys think 'go on enough dates = rewarded with sex' Why is it so bad to just... want to be around us? I know it's possible for guys to value women as friends because I'm a woman who likes being friends with guys (I've always been pretty tomboyish). I have multiple guy friends who are either in a relationship or have been made clear I'm not interested, and yet they still want to be friends. I want a guy like that, who just likes to be around me because he likes me for m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/19 01:07 AM |
| 7 | What should happen next?I dated a 27 year old when I was 19. HUGE mistake. He was a total man child, even too childish for me, and lied about being "allergic to condoms" (his words, not LATEX but CONDOMS). When I called him out he backtracked like 'they don't feel comfortable' and 'I don't precum anyway', tried to get me to get an iud, and it still took me two weeks to dump that lying sack of trash. He just wanted to use me. Sure I messed around with him but I'm glad I never actually had full on sex with him. Ugh. Neve… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/19 12:47 AM |
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