I used to be the worst pickmeisha yall could imagine 😩😷 I wanna go slap myself and make me realise I need to stop being a doormat for men, like wtf. I'm so glad I snapped out of being obsessed with getting male attention, it was so bad.

I was with this guy and he had every single red flag mentioned on this sub. Like big yikes. And I still stayed with him. And my dumbass got played lool. But I'm glad, in a way, cause I badly needed the lesson.

But even after that ended, for a few months after it just heightened my pickmeisha behaviour and I just cringe remembering all the shit I used to do before I found some self respect 🙏

I've learnt some invaluable advice here on this sub, and yall are like the big sisters I never had. I'm so glad I found this.